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Speaker 1: Daniels here too, and we have all the ladies here today,

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Speaker 1: but we are turning the show over today to Dr

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Speaker 1: Joe Park. Now we call you Joe because I'm the bachelor.

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Speaker 1: You were Joe, but your zoom, says Joseph, So what

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Speaker 1: I go by Dr Park, So none of the above.

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Speaker 1: But you called whatever you want, Joe, Dr Joe. What

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Speaker 1: did Tisha call you? What did call you? She called

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Speaker 1: me Joe. You know, we're there. We got there. It

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Speaker 1: was fine. So how many of your patients now are like, uh, Houstasia.

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Speaker 1: the Bachelorette? Or you'll get did we go to high

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Speaker 1: So Dr Joe Park started on Claire's season, right, you

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Speaker 1: were one of the men that was originally there for Claire.

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Speaker 1: So tell everybody why, Like you're a hot doctor, which

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Speaker 1: much related to that same same topic. So Danny, if

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Speaker 1: you can come in. Hi. So, Danny, Hi, I was

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Speaker 1: just wondering, once you are all vaccinated, would we still

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Speaker 1: need to be wearing masks and social distance? Um, just

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Speaker 1: what are your thoughts on that. That's a really really

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Speaker 1: good question, and I'm glad you you asked that. Um.

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Speaker 1: So the answer is yes, and the reasons are one,

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Speaker 1: the vaccines we have the maderna and the fires of

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Speaker 1: vaccines are about effective as far as we know. That

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Speaker 1: means one in twenty people will still be able to

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Speaker 1: potentially get moderate or severe COVID you might develop that disease.

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Speaker 1: And so because we don't know obviously who that one

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Speaker 1: and twenty is gonna be, you still should wear that

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Speaker 1: mask because again you don't want to potentially contract it

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Speaker 1: and you don't. And again the second reason is because

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Speaker 1: we're not sure that even if you are vaccinated and

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Speaker 1: you are UM you do have the antibodies, if you

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Speaker 1: can't spread it. Because it's still possible if you have

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Speaker 1: the antibodies that while you're finding the infection, you might

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Speaker 1: still be able to spread to other people. That's something

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Speaker 1: I do. You know how long you think or medical

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Speaker 1: community thinks it will be before we start to realize

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Speaker 1: if that is in fact true that you can still

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Speaker 1: spread it. I did a deep dive on the Google

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Speaker 1: the other night to try to figure that out, and

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Speaker 1: I saw that they've been testing it in rats and

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Speaker 1: some sort of other primate and they still don't have

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Speaker 1: definitive answers. So what are you hearing on that? How

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Speaker 1: long will that take? UM? So that's also good question

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Speaker 1: that definitely deserves more investigation, And unfortunately that question will

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Speaker 1: only be answered with time, and that's gonna be unfortunately,

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Speaker 1: more people to get vaccinated, and the time frame with

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Speaker 1: the people who aren't evactually have to be much longer. Um,

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Speaker 1: so it's hard to say, to be honest when and

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Speaker 1: join me on that deep dive on the Google, there's

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Speaker 1: a lot of episode like I did, Yeah, I did,

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Speaker 1: and I because I was searching like how long does

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Speaker 1: the actual vaccine like how you know how long is

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Speaker 1: it effective for in your body? Is a yearly? Is

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Speaker 1: it like a yearly flu shot or anything like that?

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Speaker 1: And it's the same thing. It's one of those things

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Speaker 1: that time will tell you, don't you can't really put

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Speaker 1: an answer on it right now from what I googled.

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Speaker 1: That's another good point. So right now, there are a

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Speaker 1: couple of things that are percolating in the news also

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Speaker 1: percolating with the disease. There these variants that are coming

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Speaker 1: um kind of light. There's a there's a the UK variant,

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Speaker 1: which is the most prominent right now. Um. There's a

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Speaker 1: variant which just means a mutated form of the virus,

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Speaker 1: a variant from South Africa. There's a there's a rescila

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Speaker 1: varian I believe, And so a lot of these little

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Speaker 1: variants that may also affect even that number that was

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Speaker 1: quoted in the studies, that's a little lower than that.

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Speaker 1: And again, you know, as far as what the nail

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Speaker 1: was saying, um, if you may need it, you know,

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Speaker 1: a booster kind of like a flu shot every year

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Speaker 1: that is also to be determined. Like remember a year

483
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Speaker 1: chasing you're chasing your tail. Because imagine so some people

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Speaker 1: started getting the vaccine. Let's say whatever it was December.

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Speaker 1: It takes us eight months a year to get everybody vaccinated,

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Speaker 1: and then you're just starting over again. It's like, although

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Speaker 1: I will say, I'm not a doctor, you can answer this,

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Speaker 1: but as we get it down in the communities, it'll

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Speaker 1: get easier. I assume I'm not a scientist. But no,

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Speaker 1: but that I think honestly is true. Right now we

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Speaker 1: have the like the production is the issue, and the

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Speaker 1: distribution too, and that's just growing paint. That's like when

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Speaker 1: this campaign to vaccinate every American like and also not

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Speaker 1: it's not like people Amazon, It's nothing like Amazon. This

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Speaker 1: is a medical treatment. Still you still need a monitor people,

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Speaker 1: you still need to know about the medical history, um

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Speaker 1: and any reactions they've had to Like, it's a medical

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Speaker 1: thing that we're doing, and it's not like dropping up

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Speaker 1: a pack. So there's gonna be some growing pains and

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Speaker 1: that's just normal. And we have to vaccinate the rest

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Speaker 1: of the world, and it is our responsibility to help

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Speaker 1: do that. Um, it's coming upon all of us because

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Speaker 1: this is one of those things where if you don't

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Speaker 1: get vaccinated, you could harm your mom, your dad, your grandma,

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Speaker 1: your grandpa, you know, your teacher, you know fellow student

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Speaker 1: who might be me. No compromise, Like, this is a

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Speaker 1: responsibility that we all have. And this may be a

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Speaker 1: this might be a dumb question, but it's just actually

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Speaker 1: one that I have and I think about often. Where

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Speaker 1: do these variants come from? Like how do they just

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Speaker 1: like pop out of nowhere? You know, Like how is

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Speaker 1: there the South African variant? And then also you know

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Speaker 1: one in the UK, Like where do they come from?

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Speaker 1: Like I don't understand how that works. Sure, that's some

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Speaker 1: that's a good question. Um that you do a little

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Speaker 1: deeper into virology, but not that much. Cheaper viruses replicate

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Speaker 1: very very rapidly and in very high numbers. And UM,

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Speaker 1: a lot of times with these vocations, there's gonna be

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Speaker 1: mistakes that are made. And these mistakes are our mutations

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Speaker 1: are varyings. The vast vast majority. I can't give a number,

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Speaker 1: but a vast majority of variants are are go unnoticed

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Speaker 1: because they do nothing to affect the effect the virus itself.

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Speaker 1: So there's been lots and lots and lots of variants

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Speaker 1: thus far, the ones that we know of now in

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Speaker 1: the UK um in South Africa, these variants made changes

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Speaker 1: that were significant. They made the spike protein a little different.

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Speaker 1: And thus the ones, unfortunately that survived, the ones that

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Speaker 1: become prominent, like the ones in the UK, are the

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Speaker 1: ones that tap the immune systems. Unfortunately, the more viry

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Speaker 1: forms of these mutations are the ones that survived. Because

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Speaker 1: so I have I have a terrifying and on that.

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Speaker 1: I have a terrifying question on that, and then Danielle

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Speaker 1: and Crystal, we want to know if you guys have

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Speaker 1: any follow up questions too. But I had this like

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Speaker 1: dark thought today. So as they say the virus is

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Speaker 1: getting more virulent, virulent, virulent, as thank you. Okay, So

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Speaker 1: I finally have calmed myself down a little bit, not

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Speaker 1: completely on my like door handle and my cell phone

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Speaker 1: and my like all that that like I'm not gonna

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Speaker 1: get it as likely from surface. So and we're kind

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Speaker 1: of like, if it's a respiratory it's passed from person person.

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Speaker 1: If it gets more virulent, am I gonna get it

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Speaker 1: off my grocery car? Like could that change it? And

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Speaker 1: I know that's like might be a tough question. We

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Speaker 1: don't mean maybe don't know, but what are you what

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Speaker 1: do you think on that? Like? Now do I need

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Speaker 1: to be like stressed out about my wife's again? Sorry

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Speaker 1: diarrhea diarrhea, gosh, darning diarrhea. Um. So, that is a

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Speaker 1: good question, and it to to put it to make

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Speaker 1: an answer short. The answer is, you need less virus

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Speaker 1: to infect when it becomes with these variants. And when

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Speaker 1: you say that it's coming more vari it's the same thing.

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Speaker 1: It's a variant of it that are more virulent. That again,

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Speaker 1: they just stick to our cells a little bit stronger,

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Speaker 1: um to our receptors that introduce the cells into our

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Speaker 1: body a little stronger. And because of that, less is

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Speaker 1: needed to infect us, which which is what it means

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Speaker 1: to be more virulent. And because of that, um, we

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Speaker 1: still need to be fastidious with our social distancing, with

560
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Speaker 1: wearing masks and our hand hygiene for those reasons, because

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Speaker 1: less is needed with these variances to effect well diarrhea.

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Speaker 1: That's great diarrhea. We have some non actually related question

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Speaker 1: before we do that, Danielle Crystal, we can jump in there.

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Speaker 1: Do you guys have any follow up questions based on

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Speaker 1: what Dr Joe I'm just gonna call you. Dr Joe

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Speaker 1: just just explained there not a question, but just I

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Speaker 1: love the kind of metaphors you gave and I think,

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Speaker 1: unfortunately we may have to done this down just because

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Speaker 1: it is so, you know, based in medicine. Not everyone

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Speaker 1: understands that. So I would love to hear more of

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Speaker 1: those metaphors if you have any, just on your Instagram

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Speaker 1: in the future. I've got a couple of videos that

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Speaker 1: made about the vaccine that has a couple of easy

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Speaker 1: metaphors with like I used Bob the building in there.

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Speaker 1: So that's just to give you an idea of how

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Speaker 1: how simple UM it is and then UM with a variant.

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Speaker 1: They also made a quick video also because I do

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Speaker 1: think a lot of people are curious and UM I appreciate.

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Speaker 1: I appreciate that. So thanks, Danielle Crystal, thanks for your questions.

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Speaker 1: So we're gonna switch gears a little bit and have

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Speaker 1: a little bit of fun. So I'm gonna bring no

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Speaker 1: but like a little more lighthearted, not so much. We're

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Speaker 1: in a pandemic. Everyone scared, um from the mutating virus. Okay,

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Speaker 1: let's breaking nia Nia. Where are you at? Hi? Hi? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I have a question for you. This is a little juicy.

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Speaker 1: So I'm not sure if you tuned into the most

587
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Speaker 1: recent season of the Bachelor with Matt James. But if

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Speaker 1: you have seen, you know a few of the episodes.

589
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Speaker 1: Are there any of the girls that caught your odd

590
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Speaker 1: you think are cute? We want to know we were

591
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Speaker 1: really Swiss gears. We went from like trying to save

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Speaker 1: the world to like just yeah, reality television. I mean, um,

593
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Speaker 1: but that's a good question. I'll be honest with you.

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Speaker 1: I I I've never watched the show before, and um,

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Speaker 1: I think it's a long show. It's I can't believe

596
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Speaker 1: people watched this thing for two hours of a week.

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Speaker 1: I mean, listen, it's it's it's great programming and producers

598
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Speaker 1: are great and film the filming. Everyone works really hard.

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Speaker 1: But the answers, I don't really know them well enough.

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Speaker 1: Two parts one, Um, I don't know that the people

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Speaker 1: well enough to answer unfortunately know the people will not

602
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Speaker 1: only watched part of the first episode, really, and I

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Speaker 1: know who gets eliminated because I'm curious, like who lasts

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Speaker 1: based on that first episode, so I just google like

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Speaker 1: who who's out? Um? And two I also know the

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Speaker 1: process kind of and how you know there's no script,

607
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Speaker 1: No one makes you say anything, but there is you know,

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Speaker 1: like you just see fasts of people you don't see

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Speaker 1: you know, you see It's it's like you have a

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Speaker 1: big painting. Are you just trying to light on the

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Speaker 1: more interesting parts, more colorful parts? So, UM, there's more

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Speaker 1: to people than um what's shown on TV. Like for

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Speaker 1: me example, for example, you know, you know, people seem

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Speaker 1: to really like, um, some of the things they saw

615
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Speaker 1: from the show, but they cut up the part where

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Speaker 1: I punched been in the face. And if people have

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Speaker 1: seen that, they would have thought of a completely different

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Speaker 1: idea of what was Um. I'm still trying to make

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Speaker 1: it up to him. Um. Yeah, okay, so Dr Joe,

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Speaker 1: I don't I'm not a hundred percent sure you're gonna

621
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Speaker 1: like Nandy's question next because it is another bottom of

622
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Speaker 1: the barrel, But we're gonna go this is amazing And um,

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Speaker 1: I love it. I loved it and I love to

624
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Speaker 1: answer a question because it's it is fun and the

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Speaker 1: whole thing is doctors been on The Bachelor? Dr Joe,

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Speaker 1: Dr Travis dork Or Yeah. I met a friend A

627
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Speaker 1: friend of mine mentioned it was another emergency room doctor

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Speaker 1: on there is like Nick and Carroll was a nurse?

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Speaker 1: Was Andy Baldwin a doctor? He's like, I'm going way back, Well,

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Speaker 1: he was like a marine or a maybe something. I

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Speaker 1: have to google that, Okay, Mandy, Hi, thanks good. I'm

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Speaker 1: gonna stick with the name here, Dr Joe. I have

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Speaker 1: a question for you, Dr Joe. I was looking at

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Speaker 1: your Thanksgiving post and when you're saying how grateful you

635
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Speaker 1: were for the show, and I was super heart warmed. Um.

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Speaker 1: So my question is, having had what seems to have

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Speaker 1: been such a great and positive experience on the Bachelor,

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Speaker 1: would you ever be interested in continuing your journey and

639
00:37:55,520 --> 00:37:58,840
Speaker 1: maybe going on the Bachelor in Paradise And do you

640
00:37:58,840 --> 00:38:01,640
Speaker 1: think that would be something you could even get time

641
00:38:01,719 --> 00:38:05,880
Speaker 1: away from work for? Um. First of all, I'm surprised

642
00:38:05,920 --> 00:38:10,840
Speaker 1: anybody read that thing. It's about a thousand pages, so, um,

643
00:38:10,840 --> 00:38:14,000
Speaker 1: thank you for that. Mandy did take time to write it,

644
00:38:14,440 --> 00:38:16,480
Speaker 1: so you're the one person who read it, so thank

645
00:38:16,480 --> 00:38:24,080
Speaker 1: you for that. As far as b I p um

646
00:38:24,239 --> 00:38:33,160
Speaker 1: I I that's what car I p that's what the

647
00:38:33,200 --> 00:38:36,760
Speaker 1: kids are calling these days. Um. I would say again,

648
00:38:36,840 --> 00:38:40,000
Speaker 1: I'm still out there trying to you know, to find

649
00:38:40,080 --> 00:38:44,600
Speaker 1: Mrs Park but if if there's nothing out there trying

650
00:38:45,800 --> 00:38:48,720
Speaker 1: m R Jo Basler, and that means yes, he wants

651
00:38:48,760 --> 00:38:51,239
Speaker 1: to go, but they haven't officially asked him yet, but

652
00:38:51,320 --> 00:38:56,080
Speaker 1: if they do, he'll say yes, it's like partly it's flat.

653
00:38:56,160 --> 00:39:00,040
Speaker 1: It's like partly flat because the Bachelor All Star like

654
00:39:00,200 --> 00:39:11,440
Speaker 1: hard act like I might do it, maybe dangle it. Um,

655
00:39:11,480 --> 00:39:13,000
Speaker 1: But I don't know the answer to that question. If

656
00:39:13,040 --> 00:39:14,160
Speaker 1: we don't know, I don't know if it's happened, but

657
00:39:14,200 --> 00:39:16,680
Speaker 1: no one knows if it's happening. But I will say

658
00:39:17,040 --> 00:39:19,799
Speaker 1: it was an amazing experience. And while I was there,

659
00:39:20,080 --> 00:39:22,840
Speaker 1: it's it's kind of a deep dive. But while you're there,

660
00:39:22,960 --> 00:39:25,839
Speaker 1: it's kind of like, um, I've had this conversation with people.

661
00:39:26,000 --> 00:39:31,879
Speaker 1: It's almost like interrogated, Yes, yes it is. You don't

662
00:39:31,920 --> 00:39:34,600
Speaker 1: have your your removed from all your contacts, don't have

663
00:39:34,680 --> 00:39:38,560
Speaker 1: your phone, no TV, no internet. Um, you're staying in

664
00:39:38,600 --> 00:39:43,040
Speaker 1: this one confined area. Um, you stay, they make you

665
00:39:43,080 --> 00:39:45,319
Speaker 1: stay up pretty late doing these fun things, but late

666
00:39:45,360 --> 00:39:47,359
Speaker 1: at night, and then when you're done with it, they're

667
00:39:47,360 --> 00:39:49,040
Speaker 1: trying to really bright light in your face and ask

668
00:39:49,040 --> 00:39:51,160
Speaker 1: you a bunch of questions like do you love her?

669
00:39:51,400 --> 00:39:56,320
Speaker 1: And I'm like yeah, I Like it's like, really, do

670
00:39:56,480 --> 00:39:59,920
Speaker 1: you think did you think Dale and Claire wouldn't make

671
00:40:00,160 --> 00:40:05,120
Speaker 1: it longer than they did? Man? That is so hard.

672
00:40:05,160 --> 00:40:09,640
Speaker 1: I mean they really. I mean, listen, we've all been there.

673
00:40:09,719 --> 00:40:11,640
Speaker 1: You know, we we know what that honeymoon phases, like,

674
00:40:11,719 --> 00:40:15,160
Speaker 1: we know what it's like to like fall head over

675
00:40:15,320 --> 00:40:21,919
Speaker 1: heels for somebody. Um, I just you know, when you're

676
00:40:22,080 --> 00:40:27,000
Speaker 1: going to a commitment like engaging, engagement and getting married somebody,

677
00:40:27,920 --> 00:40:31,600
Speaker 1: I think twelve days and however many hours I've spoken

678
00:40:31,640 --> 00:40:33,719
Speaker 1: that day, can you really hash out, Hey, what do

679
00:40:33,800 --> 00:40:35,279
Speaker 1: you do with your career? Where do you what do

680
00:40:35,320 --> 00:40:37,200
Speaker 1: you want to do when you move? And how many

681
00:40:37,280 --> 00:40:38,799
Speaker 1: kids do you want? And do you want to raise

682
00:40:38,840 --> 00:40:41,960
Speaker 1: your kids? And you know, like all these important questions,

683
00:40:42,200 --> 00:40:44,480
Speaker 1: these minor details that kind of fall but felt might

684
00:40:44,480 --> 00:40:47,640
Speaker 1: have fallen by the wayside and their short time they

685
00:40:47,680 --> 00:40:53,200
Speaker 1: had together, so you know, it's well. I appreciate how

686
00:40:54,360 --> 00:40:57,439
Speaker 1: fair you're being with that question, Dr Joe, But let's

687
00:40:57,480 --> 00:41:00,239
Speaker 1: try it one more time. Were you shocked if they

688
00:41:00,320 --> 00:41:04,000
Speaker 1: broke up? I was not shocked that they broke up.

689
00:41:04,000 --> 00:41:06,120
Speaker 1: I mean I was hoping that they did. They wouldn't um,

690
00:41:06,200 --> 00:41:08,600
Speaker 1: and I was rooting for them as as as America was,

691
00:41:08,719 --> 00:41:11,279
Speaker 1: you know, all vascination was. But I'm not shocked that

692
00:41:11,320 --> 00:41:15,120
Speaker 1: they broke up. So I agree with you. Do you

693
00:41:15,440 --> 00:41:20,160
Speaker 1: think Claire messed up? I don't know the right words. Uh,

694
00:41:20,920 --> 00:41:24,960
Speaker 1: sort of sabotaged herself by not being open to the

695
00:41:25,120 --> 00:41:28,359
Speaker 1: process and all the other men, because the odds were

696
00:41:28,480 --> 00:41:30,319
Speaker 1: not with her that this was going to work out

697
00:41:30,480 --> 00:41:33,719
Speaker 1: with the one guy she met three times? Did she

698
00:41:33,920 --> 00:41:36,960
Speaker 1: blow it? Should she have gone through the process even

699
00:41:37,000 --> 00:41:39,279
Speaker 1: if she was in the und ultimately going to end

700
00:41:39,360 --> 00:41:42,480
Speaker 1: up with Dale. I felt like she screwed herself by

701
00:41:42,920 --> 00:41:45,080
Speaker 1: just being like I like that guy from the second

702
00:41:45,120 --> 00:41:48,279
Speaker 1: he got out of her limo. UM. I will say

703
00:41:50,280 --> 00:41:53,200
Speaker 1: this is easy to say now that that they've broken up.

704
00:41:53,719 --> 00:41:55,759
Speaker 1: What if she had gone through the process and ended

705
00:41:55,880 --> 00:41:59,960
Speaker 1: up with Blake, Let's say Blake Moyn's and they said

706
00:42:00,000 --> 00:42:01,719
Speaker 1: together for three months. You know he lived in Canada, Like,

707
00:42:01,760 --> 00:42:03,759
Speaker 1: who knows what could have happened, So it's easy to

708
00:42:03,840 --> 00:42:08,560
Speaker 1: say now that's looking back and playing Monday morning quarterback saying, oh, yeah,

709
00:42:08,640 --> 00:42:11,439
Speaker 1: you know, it could have been somebody else. But I don't,

710
00:42:11,520 --> 00:42:14,279
Speaker 1: you know, with these things, you never like there like

711
00:42:14,560 --> 00:42:17,080
Speaker 1: another version, like my parents dated for six months before

712
00:42:17,080 --> 00:42:19,000
Speaker 1: they got engaged, and you know, not in nine months.

713
00:42:19,000 --> 00:42:20,600
Speaker 1: They were married from the time they met each other.

714
00:42:20,840 --> 00:42:22,200
Speaker 1: And then there are couples who know each other for

715
00:42:22,280 --> 00:42:24,120
Speaker 1: eight years, they get married and then they divorced after

716
00:42:24,239 --> 00:42:25,879
Speaker 1: Like you know, my parents still have been married after

717
00:42:26,360 --> 00:42:29,040
Speaker 1: four years, right, And there are people who go out

718
00:42:29,040 --> 00:42:30,640
Speaker 1: for eight years and then they divorced after a year marriter,

719
00:42:30,760 --> 00:42:36,600
Speaker 1: So it's so hard to say, like what would have happened? Crap.

720
00:42:37,480 --> 00:42:41,359
Speaker 1: But I still think she kind of blew it because look,

721
00:42:41,400 --> 00:42:44,120
Speaker 1: this is just my opinion. If you're gonna buy into

722
00:42:44,239 --> 00:42:47,480
Speaker 1: it doing it, you gotta buy into it and kind

723
00:42:47,480 --> 00:42:50,080
Speaker 1: of do it right. And she really like turned it

724
00:42:50,160 --> 00:42:52,960
Speaker 1: on its side. Although I loved Tasia, so I was

725
00:42:53,040 --> 00:42:57,560
Speaker 1: super stoked that we got Tasia. Yeah, here's my perspective

726
00:42:57,640 --> 00:43:00,279
Speaker 1: on it. So I agree. I feel like she should

727
00:43:00,280 --> 00:43:03,520
Speaker 1: have given a little bit of more time, and you know,

728
00:43:04,080 --> 00:43:05,719
Speaker 1: I don't know how long that was, but it was

729
00:43:05,760 --> 00:43:10,200
Speaker 1: probably just a few weeks um. And but then I

730
00:43:10,280 --> 00:43:12,800
Speaker 1: look back on it, and I'm like, if she just

731
00:43:13,120 --> 00:43:15,600
Speaker 1: kept going with it, it would have been almost like

732
00:43:15,640 --> 00:43:18,160
Speaker 1: a loser situation because she would have been that girl

733
00:43:18,320 --> 00:43:20,680
Speaker 1: that would have disrespected the rest of the guys because

734
00:43:20,719 --> 00:43:22,960
Speaker 1: she only had her eye on one of them. And

735
00:43:23,080 --> 00:43:25,839
Speaker 1: so it was kind of like I thought she might

736
00:43:25,920 --> 00:43:29,239
Speaker 1: have been in a losing situation either way. Does that

737
00:43:29,320 --> 00:43:33,040
Speaker 1: make sense? I think that's fair. Yeah, And not only that,

738
00:43:33,120 --> 00:43:36,600
Speaker 1: looking it the other way, I mean, for her she

739
00:43:36,840 --> 00:43:40,040
Speaker 1: felt so strongly for somebody, you know, for whatever reason,

740
00:43:40,880 --> 00:43:44,760
Speaker 1: it would be almost like, you know, it's it's almost

741
00:43:44,800 --> 00:43:47,160
Speaker 1: like she's like cheating on him by like kissing these

742
00:43:47,239 --> 00:43:50,239
Speaker 1: guys continuously and holding their hands and go through that

743
00:43:50,320 --> 00:43:52,719
Speaker 1: process too. So I don't blame her for making that

744
00:43:52,800 --> 00:43:54,440
Speaker 1: decisions if she felt that what she did, Like, once

745
00:43:54,520 --> 00:43:57,080
Speaker 1: you feel it, can we control how we feel? You know?

746
00:43:57,360 --> 00:44:00,480
Speaker 1: We can't unfeel, you know, That's how we work. I mean,

747
00:44:00,520 --> 00:44:02,840
Speaker 1: I agree with you all, but still a smart person

748
00:44:03,000 --> 00:44:07,000
Speaker 1: knows it was not the odds were not with her.

749
00:44:07,600 --> 00:44:13,920
Speaker 1: It was so chancey. And then she's sort of I

750
00:44:14,040 --> 00:44:16,120
Speaker 1: don't know. I mean, we could do a whole episode

751
00:44:16,160 --> 00:44:21,960
Speaker 1: on that. Well, we'll move on alright, so many other things.

752
00:44:22,080 --> 00:44:26,200
Speaker 1: We'll have to dive on Claire because I think she

753
00:44:27,239 --> 00:44:30,400
Speaker 1: screwed up, but that's all right. Now she's and then

754
00:44:30,480 --> 00:44:35,320
Speaker 1: now she's all heartbroken and it sucks. Whereas like maybe

755
00:44:36,200 --> 00:44:38,080
Speaker 1: I don't know, one of those other dudes was really

756
00:44:38,160 --> 00:44:41,840
Speaker 1: her soul mate. We've all screwed up. She went to

757
00:44:41,920 --> 00:44:44,520
Speaker 1: the shiny object. That's what it is. Okay, let's talk

758
00:44:44,520 --> 00:44:47,640
Speaker 1: about this really fast. She went for the shiny object,

759
00:44:47,760 --> 00:44:50,440
Speaker 1: which I've been told I go for the shiny object,

760
00:44:51,400 --> 00:44:53,800
Speaker 1: and sometimes you're not supposed to go for the shiny object.

761
00:44:53,880 --> 00:44:58,360
Speaker 1: So Joe, why do ladies go for the shiny object

762
00:44:58,560 --> 00:45:04,800
Speaker 1: instead of like, I don't know, the the metaphor the

763
00:45:04,920 --> 00:45:08,840
Speaker 1: night at that or like right, the solid piece of

764
00:45:08,920 --> 00:45:12,400
Speaker 1: metal if I'm going with the metaphor, Like, why are women,

765
00:45:12,680 --> 00:45:15,440
Speaker 1: in your opinion as a man, so attracted to the

766
00:45:16,080 --> 00:45:22,080
Speaker 1: shiny object? The male model? Dale? You know whatever, um

767
00:45:22,360 --> 00:45:25,920
Speaker 1: I would say in fairness and Dale, he's not just

768
00:45:26,000 --> 00:45:29,719
Speaker 1: a tiny Dale was actually very well spoken, very intelligent.

769
00:45:30,040 --> 00:45:33,760
Speaker 1: You know, he's like he's like I've said this before,

770
00:45:33,800 --> 00:45:35,640
Speaker 1: and I said on the show multiple times interviews, like

771
00:45:35,760 --> 00:45:38,560
Speaker 1: when we're going that through that transition phase on a

772
00:45:38,640 --> 00:45:41,320
Speaker 1: first date or like in three dates, which is what

773
00:45:41,760 --> 00:45:46,560
Speaker 1: the Bachelor is. If I went on the same date,

774
00:45:47,239 --> 00:45:50,160
Speaker 1: the same amount of time with the girl and like

775
00:45:50,320 --> 00:45:52,120
Speaker 1: Dale and I had like three hours with there at

776
00:45:52,120 --> 00:45:54,799
Speaker 1: the same restaurant, you know, the same food, same drinks,

777
00:45:54,800 --> 00:45:58,759
Speaker 1: the same everything. The girl Big Dale like under times

778
00:45:58,800 --> 00:46:00,560
Speaker 1: and that's just a fact. And that okay with me,

779
00:46:00,719 --> 00:46:03,239
Speaker 1: Like he's he's a stud, like and that's like but

780
00:46:03,400 --> 00:46:07,920
Speaker 1: you know, you know, but that's why we're so dumb,

781
00:46:08,400 --> 00:46:16,359
Speaker 1: because yes, Joe, yes, because I think that's like you're

782
00:46:16,480 --> 00:46:19,439
Speaker 1: you're only like thinking about the thing right in front

783
00:46:19,440 --> 00:46:21,040
Speaker 1: of your face. But if you're thinking about like a

784
00:46:21,160 --> 00:46:25,520
Speaker 1: happy life and like true love, like Dr Joe could

785
00:46:25,560 --> 00:46:29,800
Speaker 1: be your man. I don't know. I've got like just

786
00:46:29,840 --> 00:46:35,440
Speaker 1: probably trash behind me too, kidding. Were talked about a donation,

787
00:46:35,680 --> 00:46:38,520
Speaker 1: So yes, tell everybody, Tell everybody what you're doing with

788
00:46:38,600 --> 00:46:42,439
Speaker 1: your which if people see this on our social that's

789
00:46:42,480 --> 00:46:46,960
Speaker 1: not garbage. Behind Dr Joe, what are you doing? Yeah,

790
00:46:46,960 --> 00:46:49,360
Speaker 1: I'm just gonna co drive And um I just was

791
00:46:49,440 --> 00:46:53,239
Speaker 1: saying how um I posted on Instagram, I would love

792
00:46:53,320 --> 00:46:57,279
Speaker 1: if people donate the coats. They recorded themselves and then

793
00:46:57,440 --> 00:47:00,160
Speaker 1: just posted it this Sunday, you know, January. So I

794
00:47:00,200 --> 00:47:02,560
Speaker 1: just you know, it's getting really cold right now New

795
00:47:02,640 --> 00:47:04,080
Speaker 1: York and a lot of parts of the US, and

796
00:47:04,120 --> 00:47:06,680
Speaker 1: I figured I had some extra coats that I was

797
00:47:06,680 --> 00:47:08,040
Speaker 1: gonna donate, and I asked my friends, and they have

798
00:47:08,120 --> 00:47:10,520
Speaker 1: some extra coats there that they could donate. I figured

799
00:47:10,800 --> 00:47:14,840
Speaker 1: fascination is such a loving community that maybe they would

800
00:47:14,840 --> 00:47:17,680
Speaker 1: have coats too, So I just made a post saying,

801
00:47:18,040 --> 00:47:21,120
Speaker 1: if you have any coasts to donate, donate it, record

802
00:47:21,160 --> 00:47:26,160
Speaker 1: yourself donating it, and on Sunday, January one, post a

803
00:47:26,200 --> 00:47:28,160
Speaker 1: story of be donating it, you know, show people like, yeah,

804
00:47:28,200 --> 00:47:29,640
Speaker 1: you're like, I don't need this anymore. I hope somebody

805
00:47:29,719 --> 00:47:31,600
Speaker 1: get used out of it and just tag me, And

806
00:47:31,640 --> 00:47:33,440
Speaker 1: I would love to just repost it and be like yo,

807
00:47:33,680 --> 00:47:36,120
Speaker 1: like we all did this together as a community, um,

808
00:47:36,239 --> 00:47:40,360
Speaker 1: and just help, like just to show other people, you know,

809
00:47:40,640 --> 00:47:43,120
Speaker 1: show ourselves and other people like which she brings us

810
00:47:43,280 --> 00:47:45,880
Speaker 1: right back to being at the dinner table with you

811
00:47:46,239 --> 00:47:49,840
Speaker 1: and Dale and God bless Dale. But ladies, stop with

812
00:47:49,920 --> 00:47:54,839
Speaker 1: the shiny objects or he's very shiny though he's very

813
00:47:54,920 --> 00:47:58,600
Speaker 1: I mean he like he's like very burned. My eyes

814
00:47:58,640 --> 00:48:01,080
Speaker 1: when I looked at him. Dart to Joe, Amy is

815
00:48:01,200 --> 00:48:04,239
Speaker 1: hyping you up to a new level. And I'm here

816
00:48:05,440 --> 00:48:13,480
Speaker 1: because doctor doctors are the brad Pitt. I don't get

817
00:48:13,600 --> 00:48:16,239
Speaker 1: near you, but doctors are the new brad Pitt because

818
00:48:16,280 --> 00:48:19,480
Speaker 1: it's like, holy crap, Like if you're like, yeah, this

819
00:48:19,640 --> 00:48:22,840
Speaker 1: is my dude and he's a doctor, everybody's like what

820
00:48:23,760 --> 00:48:29,120
Speaker 1: so okay before but yes, but I need to know

821
00:48:29,239 --> 00:48:31,440
Speaker 1: what is happening with Dr Joe and his I know

822
00:48:31,520 --> 00:48:33,440
Speaker 1: it's hard dating in a pandemic. I don't really like

823
00:48:34,040 --> 00:48:37,320
Speaker 1: advocate for it. It's a little, but it's hard. Like

824
00:48:37,920 --> 00:48:40,680
Speaker 1: what are the ladies d M ing you? Like? What's happening?

825
00:48:41,680 --> 00:48:47,279
Speaker 1: Obviously they're m a lot of inappropriate things. Please save

826
00:48:47,360 --> 00:48:50,080
Speaker 1: that the inappropriate. I'm just kidding. No, it's actually very

827
00:48:50,160 --> 00:48:54,160
Speaker 1: nice and uh there's some thirsty ladies, but then there's

828
00:48:54,200 --> 00:48:58,879
Speaker 1: also some quality. There's some quality. Yeah, I honestly don't

829
00:48:58,920 --> 00:49:02,520
Speaker 1: really respond to DM. I I don't know. I'm like

830
00:49:02,680 --> 00:49:12,080
Speaker 1: I'm a millennial but just barely and I just quite understanding. Yeah,

831
00:49:15,000 --> 00:49:17,440
Speaker 1: I'm gonna set you up very sick, very six? Yes,

832
00:49:17,600 --> 00:49:22,719
Speaker 1: and what's your ideal ad? Rings like thirty to forty? Um? Yeah,

833
00:49:22,760 --> 00:49:26,200
Speaker 1: I think thirty to forty is great. You know, someone

834
00:49:26,280 --> 00:49:28,239
Speaker 1: more like mature. It was kind of like, you know,

835
00:49:28,400 --> 00:49:31,719
Speaker 1: knows himself. I think that's what everyone wants to some degree. Right,

836
00:49:32,040 --> 00:49:34,719
Speaker 1: So I need to think this through, but we'll make

837
00:49:34,760 --> 00:49:40,080
Speaker 1: it happen. Anybody you need to be in New York?

838
00:49:40,160 --> 00:49:45,200
Speaker 1: Are you open to like long distance? Um? I think

839
00:49:45,520 --> 00:49:49,040
Speaker 1: you know relationships are so hard as as it is

840
00:49:49,120 --> 00:49:52,000
Speaker 1: to make something work really meaningful. One. I was just

841
00:49:52,360 --> 00:49:56,680
Speaker 1: looking for. Um, I think you know distance is important.

842
00:49:56,719 --> 00:49:59,279
Speaker 1: You know proximity is pretty pretty. Can't we take into

843
00:49:59,320 --> 00:50:02,399
Speaker 1: Connecticut or do they need to be like I think

844
00:50:02,400 --> 00:50:06,719
Speaker 1: we could think it to try state? No? Maybe is good?

845
00:50:07,040 --> 00:50:13,120
Speaker 1: All right? All right, um, Becky, let's go to Becky.

846
00:50:13,480 --> 00:50:18,120
Speaker 1: Hi Joe, how are you, Becky? How are you good? Okay?

847
00:50:18,280 --> 00:50:22,080
Speaker 1: So you are obviously very busy. Um, so I wanted

848
00:50:22,120 --> 00:50:24,840
Speaker 1: to know, especially right now it's so stressful. What do

849
00:50:24,960 --> 00:50:28,520
Speaker 1: you one doing for fun outside of work? In two?

850
00:50:29,200 --> 00:50:33,960
Speaker 1: How are you staying healthy during these times? Um? Yeah,

851
00:50:34,040 --> 00:50:37,839
Speaker 1: good question. Um, definitely have had to improvise with the fun.

852
00:50:38,920 --> 00:50:41,600
Speaker 1: I'll see what I'm not doing. I'm not eating in

853
00:50:41,680 --> 00:50:44,920
Speaker 1: big groups and restaurants. I'm not traveling to you know,

854
00:50:45,040 --> 00:50:48,880
Speaker 1: like Central America. I'm not going to big concerts with

855
00:50:49,040 --> 00:50:51,120
Speaker 1: groups of friends. All things that I would love to do,

856
00:50:51,440 --> 00:50:56,200
Speaker 1: you know during normal times. Um. But you know, really

857
00:50:57,040 --> 00:50:59,800
Speaker 1: for fun, I just I like to I do like running,

858
00:51:00,239 --> 00:51:03,640
Speaker 1: um when you like working out. I do like reading. Um,

859
00:51:03,840 --> 00:51:08,200
Speaker 1: I do like watching like nature documentaries and um my

860
00:51:08,239 --> 00:51:09,960
Speaker 1: Active Teacher is actually great when I just watch, it's

861
00:51:09,960 --> 00:51:13,719
Speaker 1: really good, really fun. Um. I like, you know, I'm

862
00:51:13,760 --> 00:51:15,160
Speaker 1: just going to the internet, going on a weird like

863
00:51:15,280 --> 00:51:20,279
Speaker 1: Wikipedia YouTube kind of loops. Um. And yeah, and and

864
00:51:20,480 --> 00:51:24,239
Speaker 1: most of all, I just it's such a gift now,

865
00:51:24,360 --> 00:51:25,879
Speaker 1: you know. So we do have some outdoor dining. It's

866
00:51:25,920 --> 00:51:29,640
Speaker 1: really cool. But there's outdoor dining and maybe once a week,

867
00:51:30,640 --> 00:51:33,000
Speaker 1: you know, with appropriate distance. And again in the outdoor setting,

868
00:51:33,400 --> 00:51:37,440
Speaker 1: it's still worth meeting um somebody um and just talking

869
00:51:37,520 --> 00:51:40,880
Speaker 1: with somebody um. And this thing that we took for granted,

870
00:51:41,400 --> 00:51:44,560
Speaker 1: you know, seeing a loved one, a friend, just sharing

871
00:51:44,880 --> 00:51:47,799
Speaker 1: a meal and experience with this person and spending time

872
00:51:47,840 --> 00:51:52,479
Speaker 1: with them. Ah, it's such a it's such an event.

873
00:51:52,600 --> 00:51:55,239
Speaker 1: It's such a beautiful thing now And I think that's

874
00:51:55,239 --> 00:51:58,000
Speaker 1: something we can all take away that all the things

875
00:51:58,080 --> 00:52:00,880
Speaker 1: that we had that were surrounded by, like for twenty

876
00:52:00,880 --> 00:52:02,239
Speaker 1: four hours a day, you know, working from home and

877
00:52:02,280 --> 00:52:04,000
Speaker 1: just being at home all the time, like none of

878
00:52:04,080 --> 00:52:07,160
Speaker 1: it made us happy. Like it's all. It's all yes,

879
00:52:07,239 --> 00:52:09,960
Speaker 1: you know, like that watch that ring, you know, the

880
00:52:10,040 --> 00:52:13,320
Speaker 1: TV maybe we needed, but you know, all the things

881
00:52:13,600 --> 00:52:16,719
Speaker 1: just were meant nothing. I mean nothing. And the most

882
00:52:16,760 --> 00:52:21,520
Speaker 1: important things, obviously are you know, sharing time, shared experiences

883
00:52:21,600 --> 00:52:25,160
Speaker 1: with your loved ones um and obviously UM, doing the

884
00:52:25,239 --> 00:52:29,000
Speaker 1: things that makes us happy UM and traveling and just

885
00:52:29,080 --> 00:52:33,880
Speaker 1: experiencing things, experiences and people, things that I think obviously

886
00:52:34,040 --> 00:52:35,279
Speaker 1: more important. And I try to do that as much

887
00:52:35,280 --> 00:52:38,200
Speaker 1: as I can. So you're obviously not watching Bachelor, But

888
00:52:38,239 --> 00:52:40,279
Speaker 1: are you watching any other TV shows? Like what do

889
00:52:40,400 --> 00:52:42,840
Speaker 1: you do at night to relax? Is that the bubble bath?

890
00:52:43,120 --> 00:52:54,720
Speaker 1: Is it? Oh? Jeez? Nothing, I don't want. I barely

891
00:52:54,760 --> 00:52:57,760
Speaker 1: watched TV. I mean that, like the like I watched

892
00:52:57,760 --> 00:53:02,799
Speaker 1: sports sometimes, um, because it's dramatic and we all need

893
00:53:02,920 --> 00:53:05,280
Speaker 1: some drama in our lives. And that's what I realized,

894
00:53:05,360 --> 00:53:08,719
Speaker 1: Like humans are Like I don't watch The Bachelor or

895
00:53:08,800 --> 00:53:11,400
Speaker 1: the Bachelor, Um, even though they are great shows Monday

896
00:53:11,480 --> 00:53:18,759
Speaker 1: Monday MS, I don't care, but um and an institution.

897
00:53:19,120 --> 00:53:22,640
Speaker 1: Some would consider the Bachelor Bach institution of television. But um,

898
00:53:23,840 --> 00:53:26,239
Speaker 1: that is like a relationship drama, and that's something I

899
00:53:26,360 --> 00:53:28,960
Speaker 1: really just don't care for in the real sense. So

900
00:53:28,960 --> 00:53:30,719
Speaker 1: I don't know. I wouldn't go and seek it out

901
00:53:30,719 --> 00:53:34,439
Speaker 1: on TV. But what I realized is as a man,

902
00:53:35,000 --> 00:53:36,920
Speaker 1: a lot of men like drama too. They just get

903
00:53:36,960 --> 00:53:38,560
Speaker 1: a de form. It's like drama is a drug that

904
00:53:38,640 --> 00:53:41,279
Speaker 1: we all crave, and I just before my life is

905
00:53:41,360 --> 00:53:44,800
Speaker 1: last minute shots and game any touchdowns and some and

906
00:53:44,960 --> 00:53:46,880
Speaker 1: and maybe some people love it in the form of

907
00:53:47,560 --> 00:53:52,120
Speaker 1: relationship like where she won't she? That's somehow men think

908
00:53:52,280 --> 00:53:56,720
Speaker 1: Intel Ladies like, yeah, listen up, that's how many things intel.

909
00:53:56,800 --> 00:53:59,440
Speaker 1: They like it too, but they just get it from sports. Yeah,

910
00:53:59,480 --> 00:54:04,160
Speaker 1: do you go or play tennis or pickle ball, which

911
00:54:04,200 --> 00:54:06,680
Speaker 1: is the fastest growing sport in America. I just learned,

912
00:54:07,120 --> 00:54:10,319
Speaker 1: what's what do you got going? I pickle I gotta

913
00:54:10,360 --> 00:54:14,839
Speaker 1: get onto the pickle ball ground. Huh jeez. I heard

914
00:54:14,880 --> 00:54:19,760
Speaker 1: pickle ball is very hot, hot hot. I ordered the cattles.

915
00:54:19,840 --> 00:54:23,399
Speaker 1: I haven't used them, But what what's your sports, Joe,

916
00:54:23,560 --> 00:54:27,080
Speaker 1: or is it just I love surfing. I've got a

917
00:54:27,120 --> 00:54:28,719
Speaker 1: couple of I got two boards right here, like looking

918
00:54:28,760 --> 00:54:31,000
Speaker 1: at me in the face right here. Unfortunately they stayed

919
00:54:31,000 --> 00:54:33,480
Speaker 1: pretty dry. Um. I have surved in the winter, but

920
00:54:33,760 --> 00:54:36,240
Speaker 1: it's a little hard. Um, it's not the most enjoyable.

921
00:54:36,440 --> 00:54:38,440
Speaker 1: And normally I will travel, but obviously that's not of thing,

922
00:54:38,560 --> 00:54:41,480
Speaker 1: so surfing would be the other thing. Um. I do

923
00:54:41,600 --> 00:54:44,880
Speaker 1: like to run, um and just again just go to gym. Um.

924
00:54:44,920 --> 00:54:47,319
Speaker 1: I do like basketball when it's available. I don't play

925
00:54:47,360 --> 00:54:50,000
Speaker 1: as much, um, but yeah, I just I think movement

926
00:54:50,520 --> 00:54:53,920
Speaker 1: in any form it gets those en doorphins out and

927
00:54:55,320 --> 00:54:56,960
Speaker 1: I really think it is a key. One of the

928
00:54:57,040 --> 00:55:00,080
Speaker 1: keys to promote people from to happiness is just we

929
00:55:00,160 --> 00:55:06,440
Speaker 1: cannot set up Dr Joe like either. I am going

930
00:55:06,480 --> 00:55:08,400
Speaker 1: to find you your girl. I'm really good at it,

931
00:55:08,880 --> 00:55:20,200
Speaker 1: really good. So we have one more question um that

932
00:55:20,360 --> 00:55:22,560
Speaker 1: I think a lot of people really relate to you

933
00:55:22,719 --> 00:55:25,680
Speaker 1: right now. UM. So I'm gonna bring in Riley um

934
00:55:25,840 --> 00:55:32,440
Speaker 1: to ask her question. Hi, Dr Joe. Um. So, I

935
00:55:33,160 --> 00:55:35,080
Speaker 1: don't know what's been going on, but I am at

936
00:55:35,120 --> 00:55:38,000
Speaker 1: a peak high anxiety right now and I just want

937
00:55:38,040 --> 00:55:39,320
Speaker 1: to know if you had any tips to help me

938
00:55:39,360 --> 00:55:44,719
Speaker 1: out anything I can do? Oh man, Um, first, sorry

939
00:55:44,760 --> 00:55:48,480
Speaker 1: to hear that, Riley. Um, but I think I think

940
00:55:48,520 --> 00:55:53,080
Speaker 1: we all have anxiety right now. Mine right mine is

941
00:55:53,800 --> 00:55:56,719
Speaker 1: I don't know what's going on besides the world. I

942
00:55:56,800 --> 00:56:04,720
Speaker 1: don't you know anything I can control. Um. I Again,

943
00:56:04,880 --> 00:56:06,920
Speaker 1: I don't think there's a good answer to that. To

944
00:56:07,000 --> 00:56:11,000
Speaker 1: be honest, Um, I think it's really natural and normal

945
00:56:11,360 --> 00:56:14,920
Speaker 1: at this time in life to have some anxiety. I

946
00:56:14,920 --> 00:56:17,120
Speaker 1: think it'd be weird not to have anxiety. So I think, well,

947
00:56:17,160 --> 00:56:20,880
Speaker 1: I'm just recognizing that, you know, it's okay. You know,

948
00:56:21,040 --> 00:56:26,640
Speaker 1: like you how feeling how you're feeling is is justified

949
00:56:26,800 --> 00:56:29,680
Speaker 1: and honor that feeling. You know, it's it's normal. Like

950
00:56:29,840 --> 00:56:32,200
Speaker 1: as a as a female, Like what I like to

951
00:56:32,320 --> 00:56:35,800
Speaker 1: do to do that or like to kind of settle

952
00:56:35,960 --> 00:56:40,880
Speaker 1: my anxiety is a hot bath or working out or

953
00:56:41,360 --> 00:56:45,560
Speaker 1: Um I've recently got into see the d um like

954
00:56:45,800 --> 00:56:48,400
Speaker 1: what do guys do? Like what what are guys? You know?

955
00:56:48,520 --> 00:56:50,880
Speaker 1: Like what do guys do to kind of relieve some

956
00:56:51,040 --> 00:56:55,560
Speaker 1: of their anxiety? Yeah, that's a good question. So I think, um,

957
00:56:57,000 --> 00:57:00,400
Speaker 1: like a lot of guys and again in different forms

958
00:57:00,920 --> 00:57:04,320
Speaker 1: will just like to really exert themselves, like like you

959
00:57:04,440 --> 00:57:06,960
Speaker 1: gotta like get out that pent up And I think

960
00:57:07,000 --> 00:57:10,440
Speaker 1: anxiety is this part of it is. And again this

961
00:57:10,520 --> 00:57:13,640
Speaker 1: is just you know, one man's opinion, but it's this nervousness,

962
00:57:13,680 --> 00:57:15,879
Speaker 1: this energy that you have pent up that's towards something

963
00:57:15,920 --> 00:57:18,320
Speaker 1: that you can't control, like depending on like the situation

964
00:57:18,360 --> 00:57:20,760
Speaker 1: that's going around us. And and so it's just this

965
00:57:20,920 --> 00:57:23,080
Speaker 1: nervous part of this is the nervous energy, as almost

966
00:57:23,080 --> 00:57:27,720
Speaker 1: some anxiety is. And so two one you expanded energy. Men.

967
00:57:27,760 --> 00:57:29,600
Speaker 1: I think I love to lift weights and to run

968
00:57:29,840 --> 00:57:32,280
Speaker 1: and to you know, play sports because this thing, again,

969
00:57:32,400 --> 00:57:34,880
Speaker 1: it's all of this just using that some of that

970
00:57:35,040 --> 00:57:37,120
Speaker 1: energy that we all have that kind of when we

971
00:57:37,200 --> 00:57:41,080
Speaker 1: sit still could just have these outlets where you know,

972
00:57:41,160 --> 00:57:43,560
Speaker 1: we create tension. If we don't create tension by moving,

973
00:57:43,960 --> 00:57:46,840
Speaker 1: by by like running faster or or straining our muscles,

974
00:57:47,240 --> 00:57:49,440
Speaker 1: then that tension kind of goes somewhere and maybe that

975
00:57:49,520 --> 00:57:52,440
Speaker 1: goes to our psyche. And so I think movement is

976
00:57:52,480 --> 00:57:55,600
Speaker 1: a big thing. And and again doubly good is that

977
00:57:55,760 --> 00:57:59,320
Speaker 1: movement not only releases that pent up energy that I

978
00:57:59,360 --> 00:58:02,480
Speaker 1: think could feed some anxiety, you also also obviously release

979
00:58:02,880 --> 00:58:06,960
Speaker 1: releases endorphins, so it's like it's doubly good. So, um,

980
00:58:07,160 --> 00:58:11,640
Speaker 1: I do think it. It approaches that anxiety in multiple ways.

981
00:58:11,680 --> 00:58:16,600
Speaker 1: And I just think for men, movement and physical activity

982
00:58:16,760 --> 00:58:20,800
Speaker 1: in whatever form that may be, is a good Why

983
00:58:20,960 --> 00:58:25,560
Speaker 1: you men? And I'm being general because I think there's exceptions,

984
00:58:25,640 --> 00:58:28,960
Speaker 1: but as a rule, men do not enjoy a bath,

985
00:58:30,120 --> 00:58:37,160
Speaker 1: not a guy move That's a really good question. And

986
00:58:37,480 --> 00:58:39,520
Speaker 1: uh and and and obviously Danny said that's one of

987
00:58:39,520 --> 00:58:40,960
Speaker 1: the things, like one of our go choose. And I

988
00:58:41,080 --> 00:58:44,240
Speaker 1: was just thinking, like I don't know the answer to

989
00:58:44,320 --> 00:58:47,160
Speaker 1: that question, because it seems great, you know, just to

990
00:58:47,240 --> 00:58:51,720
Speaker 1: soak in something and smell good so you run hot

991
00:58:52,120 --> 00:58:55,840
Speaker 1: and it's too sweaty in there or something. I don't

992
00:58:55,920 --> 00:58:58,080
Speaker 1: think that's it. Let me give it a second to think.

993
00:58:58,320 --> 00:59:03,240
Speaker 1: Why don't Could it just be the connotation like what

994
00:59:03,360 --> 00:59:05,920
Speaker 1: if they made like they could be a market here

995
00:59:06,040 --> 00:59:13,920
Speaker 1: like bubble bath it feels too soft, feels girly. There

996
00:59:13,960 --> 00:59:16,800
Speaker 1: could be something to that again just by association, like

997
00:59:16,880 --> 00:59:19,040
Speaker 1: why do you why do you women like um not women?

998
00:59:19,080 --> 00:59:23,280
Speaker 1: Why why is pink associated with women? Like don't I

999
00:59:23,320 --> 00:59:26,000
Speaker 1: don't know, It's like it's just society kind of decided

1000
00:59:26,040 --> 00:59:29,280
Speaker 1: at some point movies, it was Julia Roberts in the

1001
00:59:29,360 --> 00:59:33,240
Speaker 1: bubble bath, not Richard Richard gear. Did she pull him

1002
00:59:33,240 --> 00:59:35,640
Speaker 1: in at some point though? Wasn't he kind of in there? Yeah,

1003
00:59:35,840 --> 00:59:39,040
Speaker 1: kind of like she's going to make all that money

1004
00:59:39,240 --> 00:59:41,520
Speaker 1: and she's like cut her headphones on and she's like

1005
00:59:44,200 --> 00:59:48,200
Speaker 1: classic movie. But yeah, I don't know this bubble. I'm

1006
00:59:48,200 --> 00:59:50,200
Speaker 1: gonna I'm gonna do a deep dive int the bubble baths.

1007
00:59:50,240 --> 00:59:53,920
Speaker 1: And because I'm curious about that too, because it does

1008
00:59:54,000 --> 00:59:57,040
Speaker 1: sound great. It does sound very relaxing the muscles and

1009
00:59:57,200 --> 01:00:02,840
Speaker 1: kind of chill a bath in that New York apartment. Um,

1010
01:00:02,920 --> 01:00:06,720
Speaker 1: I do, but again as a man, it's gone unused. Unfortunately,

1011
01:00:07,120 --> 01:00:09,320
Speaker 1: we need to send Dr Joe a little thank you

1012
01:00:09,440 --> 01:00:13,160
Speaker 1: basket for hosting how many things that has some bath bombs,

1013
01:00:13,760 --> 01:00:17,600
Speaker 1: some candles, like a whole little thing. You're pretty much

1014
01:00:17,600 --> 01:00:21,280
Speaker 1: sending me a big paperweight then, because they will never

1015
01:00:21,360 --> 01:00:25,920
Speaker 1: do Riley, I'm not sure if that answered your question,

1016
01:00:26,120 --> 01:00:30,320
Speaker 1: but but hanging there, and I do hope that's you know,

1017
01:00:30,520 --> 01:00:33,320
Speaker 1: as society gets back to normal, that I hope and

1018
01:00:33,960 --> 01:00:39,280
Speaker 1: I think that anxiety, Um, we'll get better. And again

1019
01:00:39,320 --> 01:00:42,280
Speaker 1: you're not alone. We're all feeling it and uh yeah,

1020
01:00:42,640 --> 01:00:46,280
Speaker 1: good luck and you're gonna it's gonna be okay, I promised.

1021
01:00:46,440 --> 01:00:50,040
Speaker 1: Thank you all hanging there. I think Dr Joe needs

1022
01:00:50,160 --> 01:00:53,080
Speaker 1: his and I think you're doing great already seriously, like

1023
01:00:53,800 --> 01:01:02,400
Speaker 1: Dr So yeah, Doctor, I can't think of like the

1024
01:01:03,440 --> 01:01:06,200
Speaker 1: if I say Dr Doug Ross, it's too it's too

1025
01:01:06,440 --> 01:01:10,080
Speaker 1: archaic of a reference for our young ladies listening, because

1026
01:01:10,120 --> 01:01:12,560
Speaker 1: that's George Clooney from e R. But like you're like

1027
01:01:12,680 --> 01:01:16,120
Speaker 1: the TV doctor, like you're pretty smooth. Would you ever

1028
01:01:16,320 --> 01:01:21,600
Speaker 1: like be the Doctor Gupta or the Doctor Oz or

1029
01:01:21,720 --> 01:01:27,439
Speaker 1: the I think you're doing it now? No, I don't

1030
01:01:27,520 --> 01:01:30,440
Speaker 1: think so not not in there for him um and

1031
01:01:30,760 --> 01:01:34,280
Speaker 1: not because they don't well, I think those three are different,

1032
01:01:34,680 --> 01:01:37,880
Speaker 1: um in what they their their mission is as a

1033
01:01:37,960 --> 01:01:40,320
Speaker 1: doctor on TV Dr Gupta, I have a lot of

1034
01:01:40,320 --> 01:01:44,520
Speaker 1: respect for um just semate great information, very fact based information,

1035
01:01:45,360 --> 01:01:50,320
Speaker 1: and I'll leave it that um. But I really like this.

1036
01:01:51,120 --> 01:01:53,920
Speaker 1: I like talking to individuals. I like seeing patients. I

1037
01:01:54,000 --> 01:01:56,520
Speaker 1: like talking to them, and uh, I don't think I

1038
01:01:56,560 --> 01:01:59,720
Speaker 1: would ever want to not do that because it is

1039
01:01:59,760 --> 01:02:02,280
Speaker 1: such a sacred bond that you form and it's such

1040
01:02:02,320 --> 01:02:06,520
Speaker 1: a so weird. It's just it's interesting to me and

1041
01:02:09,560 --> 01:02:11,680
Speaker 1: play on the surgeries or are you ever in the

1042
01:02:11,760 --> 01:02:14,520
Speaker 1: e er where suddenly they're like, I don't know, some

1043
01:02:14,720 --> 01:02:17,240
Speaker 1: dramas happening and you have to like put somebody under

1044
01:02:17,280 --> 01:02:21,760
Speaker 1: a real fast dat like that. Yeah, there's definitely some

1045
01:02:21,920 --> 01:02:25,080
Speaker 1: of that, especially during COVID there's a lot of that.

1046
01:02:25,200 --> 01:02:27,440
Speaker 1: You know, we we were putting in the breathing tubes,

1047
01:02:27,840 --> 01:02:32,720
Speaker 1: which I was gonna say, yeah, yeah, we did all

1048
01:02:32,720 --> 01:02:36,400
Speaker 1: these in debasions the majority of divisions, and so it

1049
01:02:36,520 --> 01:02:39,720
Speaker 1: was it was pretty it's pretty hairy, um and it

1050
01:02:39,840 --> 01:02:45,360
Speaker 1: was pretty scary. And yeah, there's definitely times where there's

1051
01:02:45,400 --> 01:02:48,520
Speaker 1: scheduled surgeries, for sure, but there's definitely times where even

1052
01:02:48,560 --> 01:02:52,520
Speaker 1: the scheduled surgeries, a lot of weird things happen. And

1053
01:02:53,280 --> 01:02:55,520
Speaker 1: and then my set my hospital work as a trauma centers,

1054
01:02:55,520 --> 01:02:59,120
Speaker 1: there's always somebody rolling in, who if my car felt?

1055
01:02:59,320 --> 01:03:02,520
Speaker 1: Our story is so, yeah, you're speaking a little bit

1056
01:03:02,520 --> 01:03:06,120
Speaker 1: of crazy here and there are either are either mom

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Speaker 1: or Dad park a doctor? No, No, you're just you

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Speaker 1: have older brothers are radiologists. Oh no, okay, so that's

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Speaker 1: interesting to your older brother is also a doctor. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: he's a really elogist. Yeah, in New York. Also in

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Speaker 1: New York. Also, Yeah, he works out on the Alloland.

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Speaker 1: Do I have to find him a wife or does

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Speaker 1: he have a wife? Yeah? I know he's good. He

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Speaker 1: asked one. He's fine. Yeah, So we'll focus on you guys.

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Speaker 1: Thanks so much for having me. There's a lot of fun,

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Speaker 1: and thanks to everyone who called in and asked the question. Um,

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Speaker 1: they're a really good questions. That's super informative, and uh,

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Speaker 1: I hope everyone learned something. Um, you know, we're all

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Speaker 1: going through a really tough time right now. Um, it's

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Speaker 1: been hard. There isn't a single person that hasn't been

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Speaker 1: affected by the pandemic personally, economically, you know, like psychologically, socially,

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Speaker 1: and so in every way we could possibly think of.

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Speaker 1: But this vaccine does offer hope, and it is going

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Speaker 1: to save millions of lives. And the sooner we can

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Speaker 1: all get it, you know, part of that's not a

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Speaker 1: lot of that's not not control. But the sooner we

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Speaker 1: can all get it, the sooner we'll all go back

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Speaker 1: to life as we knew it before. But that path there,

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Speaker 1: you know, we see that light at the end of

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Speaker 1: the tunnel. But the way they're still you know, right now,

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Speaker 1: we're in very dark times that that that tunnel is

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Speaker 1: still very dark and scary before we reached that light.

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Speaker 1: So it's important to keep social distancing, keep wearing the mask,

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Speaker 1: keep washing the hands, and and stay strong. And we're

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Speaker 1: all gonna get through this together. We just gotta stay

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Speaker 1: strong for the time being and and yeah, and then

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Speaker 1: we'll appreciate it even more once once it's over, and

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Speaker 1: it will end