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Speaker 1: Hello, Hello, Hello, Hello, Welcome to the Unofficial Expert Podcast

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Speaker 1: with Sydney and Marie. Wow, that was a real radio announcment.

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Speaker 1: Oh my goodness, I was so excited. And Marie very

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Speaker 1: morning radio show FM style. Yuck'm sock 'em, sock em,

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Speaker 1: knock em, jock em. What's going on, Marie? How you feeling?

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Speaker 1: You're looking glorious and glistening and whatnot? Oh that means

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Speaker 1: up sweating. I'm doing really well. I feel I feel good.

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Speaker 1: You know what, you feel good? You look good? Good?

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Speaker 1: You feel good? Yes, I feel like you know, we

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Speaker 1: had an awesome show on Saturday. We sure did, thanks

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Speaker 1: to everybody who came through. Oh it was Bob. We're

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Speaker 1: so freaking spoiled. Yeah, the audience was, they looked good,

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Speaker 1: they were laughing. I feel like when we say this,

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Speaker 1: some of y'all don't believe us, but we have the

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Speaker 1: sexiest audience in all of New York City comedy. I know.

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Speaker 1: I asked. I was like, how did you guys hear

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Speaker 1: about the show. This is not a meetup, this is

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Speaker 1: not cupid dot com. Like, people were dressed, people had

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Speaker 1: their people got shape ups. People make sure that their

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Speaker 1: edges were laid with baby toothbrushes. People had their best

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Speaker 1: church shoes on. It was crazy. Their best eyebrow stencils

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Speaker 1: out for us. It was a good show. It was awesome.

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Speaker 1: I'm so happy. Don't forget to come to our last

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Speaker 1: show August twelfth at Carmel Lounge at seven point thirty.

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Speaker 1: It's gonna be packed. Make sure you have your best

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Speaker 1: ramp them on. Oh, make sure that ramp him is laid.

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Speaker 1: Make sure them edges is laid as well. Make sure

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Speaker 1: you got deodoran on also, because hot damn, it'd be dank.

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Speaker 1: Are you talking about me right now? Because I have

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Speaker 1: a deodoran on? How do you not have fyodoring on?

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Speaker 1: It's eighty something degrees outside. Well, I was a victim

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Speaker 1: to someone stealing my deodorant. Okay, if you're stealing deodorant,

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Speaker 1: you are going through thoroughly it. Boo. You could go

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Speaker 1: to the ninety nine cent store and get you some Dove.

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Speaker 1: You could get the travel size for like fifty cents. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I could do that. I've been without deodoran for three

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Speaker 1: I was like, until my deodorant turns up, I'm not

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Speaker 1: buying it. So you're holding all of our noses. You

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Speaker 1: can go to the ninety nine cent store and get

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Speaker 1: a fifty cents deodorant. I said, I'm waiting for it

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Speaker 1: to show up because it was kind of new. Akaa

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Speaker 1: was old. It literally was at the end of it

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Speaker 1: was like the p you know how when you get

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Speaker 1: to the end and it like the whole thing crumbles,

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Speaker 1: oh yo, and half of it was gone. So whoever

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Speaker 1: took it, I was like, bitch, you're going true it crumbs,

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Speaker 1: just just dropping the deodorant crumbs in there, yo, and

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Speaker 1: then the like half of it fell out, so I

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Speaker 1: packed it back in and then I scraped some of

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Speaker 1: it off so I could look brand new of it

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Speaker 1: so I wouldn't look dirty. Woo that the order was

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Speaker 1: great as fuck you, Michaelangelo. I sure did. I forgot

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Speaker 1: the fuck out of that dome and it was the

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Speaker 1: cucumber cool like the green top. Whoever stole my deorder,

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Speaker 1: and I hope you fall down one flight of stain

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Speaker 1: one stip twisting ankle. Speaking of twisting ankles, what were

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Speaker 1: you an expert in this week? I was not an

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Speaker 1: expert at twisting ankles. How about how about I twist

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Speaker 1: that around and ask you what you were an expert

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Speaker 1: in this week. Oh my god, I was an expert

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Speaker 1: in karma? What an expert in karma? I feel, I

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Speaker 1: really do believe if you put good energy out there,

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Speaker 1: you're gonna get good energy back. I tried to be

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Speaker 1: a good person eighty eight point eight eight seven percent

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Speaker 1: of the time. Okay, so that's a lot of time. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: So sometimes like there'll be tip buckets going around and

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Speaker 1: I'll throw money in even though I'm on the show.

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Speaker 1: So I'm pretty much getting my money back. So I

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Speaker 1: was on this show on Sunday and it was packed

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Speaker 1: and it was like a backyard like barbecue. Well it

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Speaker 1: was white people, so it wasn't really a barbecue, but

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Speaker 1: it was a storytelling show and there was food or

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Speaker 1: whatever potato. What kind of food was there. I'm not

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Speaker 1: gonna say. It was cucumbers and corner. Yeah, it was

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Speaker 1: a lot of vegetable. It wasn't dry, but costco plates. No, No,

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Speaker 1: it wasn't. Everybody brought. It was like a potlok kind

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Speaker 1: of thing. People were bringing random stuff, a lot of

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Speaker 1: cultural food. There was like some Greek stuff, like a

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Speaker 1: Greek like a no Greek dessert. I don't know what

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Speaker 1: it's called yogurt no bitch or something else. It's like

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Speaker 1: at nuts in it or something. I'll look it up later.

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Speaker 1: But there was like mixed peace. It was it was great.

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Speaker 1: It was awesome. I had a good time. So there

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Speaker 1: was a tip bucket up top before the show was started.

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Speaker 1: They like the money goes to the comedians, blah blah blah.

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Speaker 1: So people were putting money in, but I wasn't even

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Speaker 1: I didn't even look in. I just put ten dollars

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Speaker 1: because this is nice. She spent money on food. You

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Speaker 1: make any of the food. I did not. Oh okay,

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Speaker 1: I just threw it is my richest food. I threw

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Speaker 1: it in there, you know, just just giving just passing

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Speaker 1: you know, the show was great. I did well well,

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Speaker 1: you know, and but I had to leave. I left,

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Speaker 1: like maybe right before it ended, and I emailed her like,

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Speaker 1: thank you, the show was great. This was so much fun.

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Speaker 1: You know, keep keep whatever money I have that you

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Speaker 1: were gonna give me, because you know, you put together

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Speaker 1: And it looked like you paid for them brand new

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Speaker 1: new lights. She rates me back She's like, you did great,

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Speaker 1: I'm so glad that you came. Blah blah blah. It's

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Speaker 1: way too much money for me to keep. And then

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Speaker 1: I don't want people knowing that I have money like that,

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Speaker 1: that they know you have money because you threw ten

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Speaker 1: your It was like the most money I've made from

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Speaker 1: like just a stand up comedy show, well, a storytelling show.

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Speaker 1: It was really I was like, oh my gosh. She's like,

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Speaker 1: that cash. I don't need that. I like that show.

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Speaker 1: I've done that show before. That lady doesn't live that

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Speaker 1: far from here. No, and it's really nice. First time

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Speaker 1: I did the show, I put the dress in my

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Speaker 1: and she's got this huge living room was packed. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: it was Oh. She did in her little bit in

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Speaker 1: the house. Her backyard was beauty. It almost felt like

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Speaker 1: I wasn't in New York. It was really really nice. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: it was like you know it was. It was nice.

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Speaker 1: It was very nice. I'm trying to also learn how

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Speaker 1: to not say too much on his podcast because I've

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Speaker 1: been I've been getting in trouble on the podcast. So

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Speaker 1: no more of that. I'm gonna be nice, nice, nice,

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Speaker 1: nice nice. I'm saying nothing but good. Oh that's I'm

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Speaker 1: glad that you said that, because we did so we

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Speaker 1: wanted to say that. Even though I'm still gonna be me, me, me,

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Speaker 1: me me. I'm still gonna steal stuff from the store,

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Speaker 1: and I'm still not gonna get up when pregnant ladies

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Speaker 1: get on the train. I'm gonna pretend to be sleeping anyway.

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Speaker 1: So I I'm happy that you got I mean, is

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Speaker 1: it karma, though, I feel like it's karma if you

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Speaker 1: put money in the book it and you got money back.

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Speaker 1: You had ten dollars less if you hadn't put money

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Speaker 1: in the bloody yo. But I FORTI I feel like

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Speaker 1: it was like a bank, Like I put it in

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Speaker 1: and then like over two hours, I made more than that.

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Speaker 1: What's the what's the Bible song? The church song? Like

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Speaker 1: if you tithe, it'll come back pressed down, Yeah, you

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Speaker 1: don't shaking together? Know what that is? You put it

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Speaker 1: and then God will give it back to you overflowing?

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Speaker 1: Uh huh, pressed down, shaking together? Okay, thank you, have

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Speaker 1: you found your expertise since we have so much for

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Speaker 1: letting me figure out what it is this week. I

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Speaker 1: was an expert at doing comedy shows. Not saying that

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Speaker 1: I'm killing comedy shows. I'm just doing a variety of

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Speaker 1: different types of shows. Okay, right, So I did a

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Speaker 1: show on the Roosevelt Island Trump Tram. I don't know

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Speaker 1: how you say that word, my mom, Trump Tram, which

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Speaker 1: I have, Yes, I did a tram that would have

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Speaker 1: did not. I did not know about the tram that

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Speaker 1: would have been perfect. How did you get there, y'all? Swam?

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Speaker 1: Oh listen, somebody had an SCV. We got over there, classy.

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Speaker 1: But the way I left man so many transfers. I

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Speaker 1: felt like I said, swim back. It was messy dude

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Speaker 1: tram to a threesome. That's that's something that I would watch.

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Speaker 1: So we did a show, two girls, one tram. I

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Speaker 1: mean it was two girls, one dude in a trail.

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Speaker 1: Oh okay, yeah was the dude who was driving the trail.

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Speaker 1: Oh my gosh. So really it's an orgy floating in

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Speaker 1: the sky. So we did this show. It was in

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Speaker 1: was like, yeah, yeah, I'll take that money. I did

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Speaker 1: and left. But I you're performing for all these tourists.

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Speaker 1: People had their phones in my face. This lady was

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Speaker 1: watching a video on her snap like. It was a

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Speaker 1: So I bombed four times. Oh oh. I talked to

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Speaker 1: that money though. Was cash. They gave us straight up cash.

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Speaker 1: And then I did a comedy show, like a variety show.

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Speaker 1: I was the comic that would first, and it was

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Speaker 1: I was like, oh, they should like me. Fine, you know,

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Speaker 1: I check a couple of boxes. I'm black and a

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Speaker 1: You know you dusty ass white people. I went, That's

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Speaker 1: basically how I started. The show was about rebranding, and

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Speaker 1: I didn't know we were supposed to come back as characters.

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Speaker 1: I feel like I'm perfect the way I am, So

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Speaker 1: And they were like, no, no, But honestly, if you

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Speaker 1: going on, they could have thought that was a character. No,

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Speaker 1: they were like this, this Negress is too confident for us.

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Speaker 1: Were the sad black girl. That's the one that we

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Speaker 2: What's sexy to me? Doesn't matter? Woman, man, trance, whoever.

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Speaker 2: think my mom spent money on breast and plants for

425
00:22:57,400 --> 00:23:01,240
Speaker 2: me instead of books? Anyway, Yeah, so.

426
00:23:01,440 --> 00:23:03,560
Speaker 1: It is crazy though, because I feel like every high

427
00:23:03,600 --> 00:23:07,000
Speaker 1: school or junior high school has that rumor, like you

428
00:23:07,040 --> 00:23:09,280
Speaker 1: go like the chick be flatterested and then we all

429
00:23:09,320 --> 00:23:11,639
Speaker 1: come back after the summer and you just got boobs

430
00:23:11,640 --> 00:23:14,399
Speaker 1: and people like she'd be stuffing bra like everything is

431
00:23:14,480 --> 00:23:17,919
Speaker 1: true a rumor like that. I used to peet people hard,

432
00:23:18,080 --> 00:23:22,080
Speaker 1: like I would be tracking them, like watching a bra like, okay,

433
00:23:22,119 --> 00:23:26,240
Speaker 1: it looked fuller today. Period going on. It wasn't teachers,

434
00:23:26,400 --> 00:23:28,720
Speaker 1: there were teachers. There were students. The teachers were talking

435
00:23:28,720 --> 00:23:31,000
Speaker 1: about your boot. They were talking they should have got

436
00:23:31,000 --> 00:23:32,040
Speaker 1: fired on the spot.

437
00:23:32,160 --> 00:23:34,919
Speaker 2: Oh my gosh. It was just it was pretty hellish.

438
00:23:35,000 --> 00:23:39,439
Speaker 2: So I wasn't as comfortable. I obviously wasn't comfortable in

439
00:23:39,520 --> 00:23:42,480
Speaker 2: my body because I had all of this negativity around it.

440
00:23:42,800 --> 00:23:46,360
Speaker 2: So anyway, long story short, went off to college, had

441
00:23:46,440 --> 00:23:50,960
Speaker 2: my four years to like do me.

442
00:23:51,760 --> 00:23:53,760
Speaker 1: Or you're in that dorm room, you're in that quad

443
00:23:53,880 --> 00:23:59,120
Speaker 1: giving it up. You were throwing it the machine condoms,

444
00:23:59,240 --> 00:24:01,359
Speaker 1: showing people you're new boots. I lived at the all

445
00:24:01,520 --> 00:24:12,040
Speaker 1: girls doors, so you was still a lavender oil. None

446
00:24:12,119 --> 00:24:14,760
Speaker 1: of that is happening. So you didn't have any sex

447
00:24:14,800 --> 00:24:20,040
Speaker 1: in college I did. I eventually had sex eventually. What

448
00:24:20,200 --> 00:24:25,639
Speaker 1: I was nineteen, okay, okay, that's that's definitely an age

449
00:24:26,320 --> 00:24:30,640
Speaker 1: that's later than me. But you were like twelve. Everybody

450
00:24:30,720 --> 00:24:33,360
Speaker 1: was later. Yes, I felt like it was Florida.

451
00:24:33,440 --> 00:24:35,040
Speaker 2: We didn't have a dress code like a lot of

452
00:24:35,080 --> 00:24:37,600
Speaker 2: other colleges have dress codes. I went to the Liberal

453
00:24:37,680 --> 00:24:42,720
Speaker 2: Arts private university and I was like, hey, I'm gonna

454
00:24:43,119 --> 00:24:45,919
Speaker 2: cut slits in all my jeans in the back and

455
00:24:46,000 --> 00:24:48,160
Speaker 2: so they all looked like chaps and I wore.

456
00:24:52,880 --> 00:24:56,440
Speaker 1: No just like right under the butt cheek. Girl, where

457
00:24:56,440 --> 00:24:59,280
Speaker 1: were you going on? I was just like I was

458
00:24:59,320 --> 00:25:02,760
Speaker 1: feeling myself. I had abs for the first time, Like

459
00:25:05,000 --> 00:25:08,160
Speaker 1: I don't know, I was just like really into into

460
00:25:08,240 --> 00:25:11,679
Speaker 1: the look. I feel like whatever, I don't know how

461
00:25:11,720 --> 00:25:13,440
Speaker 1: old you are, so, but I'm going to assume whatever

462
00:25:13,520 --> 00:25:16,080
Speaker 1: time you were in people were experimenting and doing them

463
00:25:16,119 --> 00:25:20,879
Speaker 1: and they you know, they had like cross colors so rude.

464
00:25:21,840 --> 00:25:24,480
Speaker 1: You know, back back in the sixties everybody was they

465
00:25:24,600 --> 00:25:29,119
Speaker 1: was tormented with race, race and stuff up back in

466
00:25:29,160 --> 00:25:33,399
Speaker 1: the seventies and the eighties, everybody was doing cracks so

467
00:25:33,280 --> 00:25:39,680
Speaker 1: so stupid Starring Ship, Sweet Lorraine, Lot of youth got

468
00:25:39,680 --> 00:25:43,399
Speaker 1: of youth you love like a youth though. Okay, so

469
00:25:43,400 --> 00:25:50,080
Speaker 1: so finally, finally, uh, I was pretty comfortable with with

470
00:25:50,840 --> 00:25:58,720
Speaker 1: being sensual, like with people acknowledging it and admiring it,

471
00:25:58,800 --> 00:26:00,359
Speaker 1: admiring it and whatnot.

472
00:26:00,400 --> 00:26:02,359
Speaker 2: And I was like, Okay, sometimes it would still make

473
00:26:02,400 --> 00:26:06,560
Speaker 2: me feel uncomfortable then and then when I finally officially

474
00:26:06,680 --> 00:26:10,200
Speaker 2: officially stepped into the sexy was uh.

475
00:26:10,560 --> 00:26:12,760
Speaker 1: After I moved to New York, came.

476
00:26:12,680 --> 00:26:16,880
Speaker 2: To Brooklyn, I saw the beautiful black and brown people,

477
00:26:17,280 --> 00:26:19,399
Speaker 2: and I was like, oh, my gosh, is where I

478
00:26:19,440 --> 00:26:23,320
Speaker 2: want to be. And then of course I stumbled upon

479
00:26:23,400 --> 00:26:33,200
Speaker 2: the poetry scene, because who doesn't, and oh my gosh.

480
00:26:33,240 --> 00:26:37,679
Speaker 2: And then the entire like a huge, huge community, a

481
00:26:37,760 --> 00:26:41,520
Speaker 2: huge group of the women on the poetry scene, not

482
00:26:41,760 --> 00:26:44,080
Speaker 2: knowing that I'm as gay as the day as long,

483
00:26:44,640 --> 00:26:48,159
Speaker 2: thought that I was coming to the poetry scene to

484
00:26:48,200 --> 00:26:51,639
Speaker 2: steal their men, and so they all started writing all

485
00:26:51,720 --> 00:26:53,720
Speaker 2: these poems about me, and I was like, well.

486
00:26:55,520 --> 00:27:00,760
Speaker 1: The poems, yes, better, we gotta do better. The poem

487
00:27:00,880 --> 00:27:08,800
Speaker 1: A slitherin snake Black Queen, I think not she want

488
00:27:08,840 --> 00:27:09,440
Speaker 1: what I got?

489
00:27:11,000 --> 00:27:13,719
Speaker 2: Pretty much, That's all. That's how it was. And I

490
00:27:13,760 --> 00:27:16,080
Speaker 2: was like, you know, what this This is terrible. You

491
00:27:16,119 --> 00:27:19,920
Speaker 2: all talk about how you want to empower women, empower

492
00:27:19,960 --> 00:27:24,800
Speaker 2: each other, and then the one moment you see somebody

493
00:27:24,840 --> 00:27:26,520
Speaker 2: that you're obviously.

494
00:27:26,840 --> 00:27:31,960
Speaker 1: Threatened by, you were new you have body also, yours

495
00:27:32,040 --> 00:27:37,320
Speaker 1: was out in them jeans. Shut up. They were like, no,

496
00:27:37,480 --> 00:27:40,760
Speaker 1: I don't understand how you can like talk about uh

497
00:27:40,960 --> 00:27:44,399
Speaker 1: women being strong and you have on pumbum shorts. And

498
00:27:44,480 --> 00:27:46,960
Speaker 1: I was just like, well, I don't know that term

499
00:27:47,119 --> 00:27:50,360
Speaker 1: because I just came from Jacksonville, Florida. Yeah, yeah, yeah,

500
00:27:50,480 --> 00:27:52,600
Speaker 1: I was like the daisy dukes I have on, Like

501
00:27:52,960 --> 00:27:56,159
Speaker 1: what does that have to do with what I'm saying? Like,

502
00:27:56,440 --> 00:27:59,760
Speaker 1: you have on no bra and a sheer shirt exactly,

503
00:28:00,160 --> 00:28:03,520
Speaker 1: not calling you out on that, because that's how you felt.

504
00:28:03,560 --> 00:28:05,840
Speaker 1: You felt like I look good in this. I want

505
00:28:05,880 --> 00:28:13,160
Speaker 1: to come in. Shout out, yes, no bra, Shout out

506
00:28:13,200 --> 00:28:15,840
Speaker 1: to all the ladies with big boobs not wearing a

507
00:28:15,920 --> 00:28:22,639
Speaker 1: bra like doing that dangerous woman with her boots were

508
00:28:22,680 --> 00:28:24,800
Speaker 1: so big it was her entire torso and she had

509
00:28:24,800 --> 00:28:28,480
Speaker 1: no bra on yesterday, like her boobs were like she said,

510
00:28:28,560 --> 00:28:29,280
Speaker 1: I am doing me.

511
00:28:32,000 --> 00:28:34,200
Speaker 2: But yeah, So after that, I was like, you know what,

512
00:28:34,800 --> 00:28:39,240
Speaker 2: every single scene that I'm getting into is preaching this

513
00:28:39,320 --> 00:28:43,840
Speaker 2: message about how inclusive they are, except if you have

514
00:28:44,160 --> 00:28:49,600
Speaker 2: any ounce of sensuality to you. Because, like I said,

515
00:28:49,640 --> 00:28:53,040
Speaker 2: at that point, I still wasn't as comfortable.

516
00:28:56,640 --> 00:28:57,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, I was.

517
00:28:57,160 --> 00:28:59,040
Speaker 2: Working my way towards it, and I was like, you

518
00:28:59,080 --> 00:29:01,920
Speaker 2: know what, people are going this crazy.

519
00:29:02,040 --> 00:29:04,440
Speaker 1: Oh they can't wait, wait, they can't take you and

520
00:29:04,560 --> 00:29:05,640
Speaker 1: you really know who you are.

521
00:29:05,800 --> 00:29:08,400
Speaker 2: I was like, when they're going this crazy over just

522
00:29:08,480 --> 00:29:10,800
Speaker 2: how I am just walking into a room right now

523
00:29:10,880 --> 00:29:15,760
Speaker 2: and some casual shit. How about I really tap into this? Like,

524
00:29:15,840 --> 00:29:18,400
Speaker 2: how about I really tap into the power that is

525
00:29:18,840 --> 00:29:19,440
Speaker 2: my sexuals.

526
00:29:19,640 --> 00:29:22,080
Speaker 1: There's the scariest thing for some people for somebody to

527
00:29:22,160 --> 00:29:24,440
Speaker 1: walk in and know who they are and they're confident,

528
00:29:24,600 --> 00:29:28,040
Speaker 1: Like that is scary a woman who doesn't know her worth.

529
00:29:28,440 --> 00:29:31,160
Speaker 1: Like people pray on that. They hope that they can

530
00:29:31,200 --> 00:29:34,560
Speaker 1: catch somebody that knows nothing about them because then they're like, oh,

531
00:29:34,640 --> 00:29:36,600
Speaker 1: I can break you down. But you comment and they're like,

532
00:29:36,680 --> 00:29:38,720
Speaker 1: I know what I'm doing, I know what I have. Well,

533
00:29:38,760 --> 00:29:41,880
Speaker 1: the same way, confidence is attractive to us and to

534
00:29:42,000 --> 00:29:46,120
Speaker 1: most people people who aren't confident. Other people find that attractive,

535
00:29:46,200 --> 00:29:47,920
Speaker 1: you know what I mean? They because they can pray

536
00:29:47,920 --> 00:29:52,160
Speaker 1: on that exactly, and they can use that like their advantage.

537
00:29:52,480 --> 00:29:55,240
Speaker 1: But like you were like, nah, I'm gonna do it.

538
00:29:55,240 --> 00:29:57,000
Speaker 1: I'm gonna be sexy as I can be. Is that

539
00:29:57,080 --> 00:30:00,320
Speaker 1: when you started doing burlesque? Oh sorry, strip what would

540
00:30:00,320 --> 00:30:10,200
Speaker 1: you do? Well? Stripping came Yes, We're gonna like tell

541
00:30:10,280 --> 00:30:13,960
Speaker 1: us the difference between stripping and burless right away. Okay, okay,

542
00:30:14,760 --> 00:30:15,360
Speaker 1: let's define this.

543
00:30:15,560 --> 00:30:19,440
Speaker 2: Burlesque is the art of the strip tea. So any

544
00:30:19,480 --> 00:30:22,800
Speaker 2: burlesque answer who's like, I'm not a stripper, you haven't

545
00:30:22,840 --> 00:30:27,200
Speaker 2: done one ounce of history or reading or research at all.

546
00:30:27,320 --> 00:30:31,440
Speaker 2: Because all of the legends, all the burlesque legends were strippers.

547
00:30:31,600 --> 00:30:34,920
Speaker 2: We are stripping. You are taking off articles of clothing.

548
00:30:35,240 --> 00:30:40,160
Speaker 1: So wait, is burless college for strippers? No, burlesque is

549
00:30:40,960 --> 00:30:45,440
Speaker 1: so stripping and storytelling okay at the same time. And then.

550
00:30:47,240 --> 00:30:49,720
Speaker 2: Or it could just be like bumping, grind, stripped teas

551
00:30:49,760 --> 00:30:53,320
Speaker 2: sensual acts. It can be uh, lots of things.

552
00:30:53,360 --> 00:30:56,600
Speaker 1: And then whereas stripping, they are different strip club stripping

553
00:30:57,040 --> 00:31:00,480
Speaker 1: that we know is absolutely it's differ friend in the

554
00:31:00,760 --> 00:31:05,320
Speaker 1: in terms of you give lap dances. You are there

555
00:31:05,360 --> 00:31:08,920
Speaker 1: to create some sort of fantasy. The costumes are different,

556
00:31:11,360 --> 00:31:14,400
Speaker 1: the boundaries that you set up are different. Like when

557
00:31:14,400 --> 00:31:17,880
Speaker 1: you're doing Burless, there's a stage, audience comes to pay

558
00:31:18,000 --> 00:31:20,719
Speaker 1: to see you. When you're at a strip club, they

559
00:31:20,800 --> 00:31:26,080
Speaker 1: throw at you, you're Susan. You're hoping that you are

560
00:31:26,240 --> 00:31:30,520
Speaker 1: alluring enough or that you have put on the mystique

561
00:31:30,640 --> 00:31:34,680
Speaker 1: enough to pull some people to get to you all

562
00:31:34,720 --> 00:31:39,080
Speaker 1: the coins. Yes, so that's I don't know. That's as

563
00:31:39,160 --> 00:31:41,560
Speaker 1: much as I can. I feel like that's it's a

564
00:31:41,560 --> 00:31:45,760
Speaker 1: loose exploitation. It's hard because there's that debate. Like people,

565
00:31:45,960 --> 00:31:49,080
Speaker 1: it's always put I mean, I feel like burless and

566
00:31:49,160 --> 00:31:52,160
Speaker 1: strippers are put down all the time, but it's like

567
00:31:52,280 --> 00:31:53,720
Speaker 1: a different level of put down.

568
00:31:53,760 --> 00:31:57,320
Speaker 2: Like, yes, the whole archy, it's a whole hierarchy. That's

569
00:31:57,320 --> 00:32:01,120
Speaker 2: what I think of when I think of burlesque and

570
00:32:01,440 --> 00:32:06,040
Speaker 2: strippers and prostitutes. Listen, the only people who are arguing

571
00:32:06,160 --> 00:32:08,440
Speaker 2: about like you're a ho, no, you're more of a

572
00:32:08,480 --> 00:32:10,680
Speaker 2: hoe than I am are the people who are in

573
00:32:10,760 --> 00:32:14,000
Speaker 2: the whole hierarchy, Like the whole hierarchy.

574
00:32:14,080 --> 00:32:17,880
Speaker 1: Do you hear me? Do you hear whole hierarchy? People

575
00:32:17,880 --> 00:32:20,640
Speaker 1: who aren't doing these jobs, who aren't in the sex

576
00:32:20,720 --> 00:32:24,960
Speaker 1: worker world or communities, they're just like y'all are all

577
00:32:25,080 --> 00:32:30,400
Speaker 1: hose like burless you ho strippers, like they're not making

578
00:32:30,440 --> 00:32:39,480
Speaker 1: these distinctions, like hey, hosts morning, like there's a tap hole,

579
00:32:39,520 --> 00:32:42,239
Speaker 1: there's a blow. Yeah, I mean, just like they are

580
00:32:42,320 --> 00:32:47,400
Speaker 1: classy strippers and trashy strippers, y'all, Like there's really a difference.

581
00:32:48,520 --> 00:32:50,719
Speaker 1: I mean some strip clubs you don't even be all

582
00:32:50,760 --> 00:32:53,400
Speaker 1: the way nude, right, and in some of them you

583
00:32:53,520 --> 00:32:57,400
Speaker 1: just bust it wide open, see the whole. Remember we

584
00:32:57,440 --> 00:32:59,280
Speaker 1: went to the other strip club who we were in Miami,

585
00:32:59,360 --> 00:33:01,120
Speaker 1: and we were trying to eat chicken wings and people

586
00:33:01,160 --> 00:33:05,840
Speaker 1: have like I could see her serves, her servex was

587
00:33:05,960 --> 00:33:10,320
Speaker 1: legit in my garlic promisendre. Yeah, they were. They were

588
00:33:10,600 --> 00:33:14,400
Speaker 1: wiping their coach on the poles and we were like,

589
00:33:14,120 --> 00:33:15,920
Speaker 1: we can we get some more wipes for these wings?

590
00:33:15,960 --> 00:33:20,760
Speaker 1: Ye say, I was, I was wiping down the wings

591
00:33:20,800 --> 00:33:23,520
Speaker 1: with the damn antiseptic or something. I was like, yo,

592
00:33:24,560 --> 00:33:27,840
Speaker 1: these wings got something, these wings got chamenia. They were

593
00:33:27,840 --> 00:33:34,760
Speaker 1: good though. So yeah, burlesque, how do you like if

594
00:33:34,880 --> 00:33:36,040
Speaker 1: somebody listen to me, it is like I want to

595
00:33:36,040 --> 00:33:39,000
Speaker 1: be a burlesque dancer. How does one like like get

596
00:33:39,000 --> 00:33:40,160
Speaker 1: into that? I say, one.

597
00:33:40,320 --> 00:33:44,160
Speaker 2: Just first of all, do the research, go see some shows.

598
00:33:44,240 --> 00:33:47,480
Speaker 2: Do the research about the burlesque legends.

599
00:33:47,720 --> 00:33:49,000
Speaker 1: Is that what you did? Who are some of the

600
00:33:49,000 --> 00:33:52,920
Speaker 1: burlesque legends that you admire? Who are you like? You

601
00:33:53,000 --> 00:33:54,520
Speaker 1: got to see such and such and such and such

602
00:33:54,560 --> 00:33:58,480
Speaker 1: and such and such. Right, Well, there's name the black

603
00:33:58,520 --> 00:34:03,240
Speaker 1: people first? Yeah, yeah, yeah, I'm only nabingk. So there's

604
00:34:03,360 --> 00:34:08,320
Speaker 1: miss Ginadel. So she was actually considered the Sepia Sally Rant.

605
00:34:08,320 --> 00:34:13,839
Speaker 1: So she had the huge feather fans eleven and her

606
00:34:13,880 --> 00:34:16,920
Speaker 1: fans were like six feet tall. What's your name? Ginadal?

607
00:34:19,480 --> 00:34:27,400
Speaker 2: Okay, there's uh, oh gosh, there's so many people like that.

608
00:34:27,520 --> 00:34:30,200
Speaker 2: I'm obviously blanking on right now. It'll come to you,

609
00:34:30,400 --> 00:34:33,799
Speaker 2: it'll come to me. Just shout them out in the middle. Yeah,

610
00:34:33,840 --> 00:34:36,080
Speaker 2: I mean, when they come to you, just shout them out.

611
00:34:36,200 --> 00:34:40,719
Speaker 1: We have the living legend right now. Pearl Noir, she's

612
00:34:40,760 --> 00:34:44,280
Speaker 1: oh my gosh, she is at the stage the time

613
00:34:44,520 --> 00:34:47,759
Speaker 1: did for Black Lives Matter, and she is outstanding. I

614
00:34:48,000 --> 00:34:52,040
Speaker 1: follow her with Instagram and she's really all about the art.

615
00:34:52,160 --> 00:34:53,399
Speaker 1: She's like the mother the.

616
00:34:53,680 --> 00:34:57,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, she says, mother Pearl Earl Like, if you want

617
00:34:57,200 --> 00:35:00,879
Speaker 2: to learn burlesque and learn about the history. Go take

618
00:35:00,880 --> 00:35:04,640
Speaker 2: your classes, because not only is she a phenomenal performer

619
00:35:04,800 --> 00:35:09,920
Speaker 2: on stage, off stage, she's really about letting and reminding

620
00:35:09,960 --> 00:35:13,600
Speaker 2: people to tap into who they are. Like, my sexy

621
00:35:13,640 --> 00:35:15,799
Speaker 2: is not gonna look like you're sexy, so don't try

622
00:35:15,840 --> 00:35:19,840
Speaker 2: to bring my sexy on stage.

623
00:35:19,920 --> 00:35:20,719
Speaker 1: Let's try it first.

624
00:35:22,600 --> 00:35:25,880
Speaker 2: Oh, right, now, she actually has a July or summer special,

625
00:35:26,800 --> 00:35:30,239
Speaker 2: so I think it's like, don't misquote me, but go

626
00:35:30,320 --> 00:35:32,280
Speaker 2: to the Black Queen.

627
00:35:34,120 --> 00:35:38,759
Speaker 1: You guys got to your website. I'm about to say, yeah, okay,

628
00:35:38,760 --> 00:35:40,640
Speaker 1: I think it's like forty or something, right, Okay, maybe

629
00:35:41,040 --> 00:35:42,480
Speaker 1: would do a little class for the summer.

630
00:35:42,640 --> 00:35:44,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, because usually she's like one hundred and fifty dollars.

631
00:35:45,080 --> 00:35:47,799
Speaker 1: Yeah, let's get to hour that per hour. It's forty

632
00:35:47,840 --> 00:35:50,880
Speaker 1: dollars an hour for the sum the entire summer. Like

633
00:35:51,239 --> 00:35:54,560
Speaker 1: I don't know for July for sure, Marie, Let's take

634
00:35:54,600 --> 00:35:56,600
Speaker 1: one class and see how this goes. Okay, or we

635
00:35:56,640 --> 00:35:58,920
Speaker 1: can do you can teach us as well. Yeah, I

636
00:35:58,920 --> 00:36:01,440
Speaker 1: can teach you. See how she stuttered, she was like,

637
00:36:05,160 --> 00:36:10,280
Speaker 1: poor fee as well. It can be a private class,

638
00:36:11,760 --> 00:36:14,760
Speaker 1: a private class, private class. You should do an unofficial

639
00:36:14,800 --> 00:36:18,480
Speaker 1: expert meet up and have people people who listen. Yes, wait,

640
00:36:18,680 --> 00:36:21,160
Speaker 1: that would be amazing, and then you know they can

641
00:36:21,200 --> 00:36:27,520
Speaker 1: pay it. Yes, we'll just be there selecting free money.

642
00:36:27,800 --> 00:36:32,160
Speaker 1: And then you wait, So, what's the common mistake that

643
00:36:32,200 --> 00:36:35,279
Speaker 1: people make in burlesque, Like what's the thing that like

644
00:36:35,360 --> 00:36:38,920
Speaker 1: people who maybe just start out don't know or something

645
00:36:38,960 --> 00:36:41,239
Speaker 1: that people go to like they like run it up

646
00:36:41,280 --> 00:36:43,839
Speaker 1: and trying to like motor boat chiall, like what is that? Oh?

647
00:36:43,960 --> 00:36:50,600
Speaker 2: Okay, So audience members, Uh, here's the thing. Don't don't

648
00:36:50,600 --> 00:36:54,280
Speaker 2: come to everlass show if you don't want to see titties.

649
00:36:54,360 --> 00:36:56,920
Speaker 1: Like these are the main people who sit in the

650
00:36:56,960 --> 00:36:57,640
Speaker 1: front row.

651
00:36:57,719 --> 00:37:01,120
Speaker 2: They get the VIP tickets and then with their partners

652
00:37:01,320 --> 00:37:07,480
Speaker 2: and and they're just really really uncomfortable. They're really uncomfortable,

653
00:37:07,560 --> 00:37:11,479
Speaker 2: and they get pretty mean, Like some women get really mean.

654
00:37:12,480 --> 00:37:14,120
Speaker 1: What is it? I don't get it?

655
00:37:14,480 --> 00:37:16,880
Speaker 2: And so many of us are weird. So it's just,

656
00:37:17,360 --> 00:37:19,920
Speaker 2: you know, we try to interact with the woman first,

657
00:37:20,000 --> 00:37:21,319
Speaker 2: which is what most of us do.

658
00:37:22,960 --> 00:37:25,319
Speaker 1: But sometimes I'm just not feeling it. And in the

659
00:37:25,360 --> 00:37:26,560
Speaker 1: beginning that used to bother me.

660
00:37:26,600 --> 00:37:28,759
Speaker 2: I'm like, oh, you know, I just I wish that

661
00:37:28,880 --> 00:37:32,360
Speaker 2: these women would understand that, like we're just trying to connect.

662
00:37:32,600 --> 00:37:37,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's a show and you're a performer, but anything

663
00:37:37,440 --> 00:37:42,560
Speaker 1: with sexuality makes it makes people uncomfortable. That is just

664
00:37:42,920 --> 00:37:45,120
Speaker 1: the society we live in. Some people are going through

665
00:37:45,120 --> 00:37:47,040
Speaker 1: their own thing. You know, they man probably cheat on

666
00:37:47,080 --> 00:37:49,120
Speaker 1: them with their sisters. So they going through a lot.

667
00:37:50,560 --> 00:37:53,800
Speaker 1: Video of the girl at the fashion show or something,

668
00:37:53,840 --> 00:37:59,319
Speaker 1: and she was walking up to some dude. Babe, she

669
00:37:59,360 --> 00:38:02,120
Speaker 1: put her foot on the girl's chair. Yes, she was

670
00:38:02,160 --> 00:38:07,239
Speaker 1: like nope, yes, And that woman handle it so beautifully.

671
00:38:07,360 --> 00:38:09,960
Speaker 1: She was just like, okay, she's very classic about it,

672
00:38:10,000 --> 00:38:11,920
Speaker 1: and she walked away with her baby. I would have

673
00:38:11,960 --> 00:38:15,399
Speaker 1: took them fashion Nova boots and threw them right back

674
00:38:15,440 --> 00:38:17,759
Speaker 1: at her. I would have took that boot off and

675
00:38:18,000 --> 00:38:21,120
Speaker 1: booted her. I'll put the fucking boot back on. I'm like,

676
00:38:21,160 --> 00:38:25,239
Speaker 1: let me put on some Charlotte Ru's boots on my chair.

677
00:38:25,280 --> 00:38:29,359
Speaker 1: How dare you with these wet sealed boots touched my

678
00:38:29,520 --> 00:38:36,319
Speaker 1: skins from these GSW Saundrack clearance boots. You gotta take

679
00:38:36,400 --> 00:38:43,600
Speaker 1: these shootdazzles. I cannot. So women who have some steam

680
00:38:43,600 --> 00:38:46,040
Speaker 1: is shoes don't like it, but they come to burlesque

681
00:38:46,040 --> 00:38:48,799
Speaker 1: shows that they don't know what they're walking into Well,

682
00:38:49,400 --> 00:38:49,960
Speaker 1: here's the thing.

683
00:38:50,000 --> 00:38:52,680
Speaker 2: I think that some people think that they are going

684
00:38:52,800 --> 00:38:56,560
Speaker 2: to come to see like Burlesque the movie like show

685
00:38:56,600 --> 00:39:00,920
Speaker 2: Girls dancing and nobody stripping, and that was Burless the

686
00:39:01,480 --> 00:39:05,280
Speaker 2: movie with Christina because we didn't want to.

687
00:39:06,719 --> 00:39:08,680
Speaker 1: Was she still well she's still a little chunky in

688
00:39:08,719 --> 00:39:11,040
Speaker 1: that movie? No, no, no, she was cue. I just but

689
00:39:11,080 --> 00:39:13,480
Speaker 1: they wasn't showing no, like they didn't have enough budget,

690
00:39:13,520 --> 00:39:17,320
Speaker 1: so you didn't go for them. They saw the music costumes,

691
00:39:17,400 --> 00:39:20,160
Speaker 1: but there wasn't. That wasn't That was jazz dance. I

692
00:39:20,239 --> 00:39:23,920
Speaker 1: wasn't Burless. Okay, okay, but y'all have costumes. You. I mean,

693
00:39:23,960 --> 00:39:28,560
Speaker 1: I've seen you in some yo you come together. You

694
00:39:28,600 --> 00:39:31,200
Speaker 1: got the corsets. Do you put the corset on you

695
00:39:31,280 --> 00:39:35,960
Speaker 1: by yourself? I do, now, Okay, I couldn't working it

696
00:39:36,000 --> 00:39:38,560
Speaker 1: was It's definitely an art form to put that course

697
00:39:38,600 --> 00:39:41,600
Speaker 1: at on with all the steel boning. Oh my gosh,

698
00:39:41,680 --> 00:39:44,880
Speaker 1: that's why you're so snatched. I'm trying to get snatched.

699
00:39:44,920 --> 00:39:48,839
Speaker 1: I'm trying to feel likes are like new corsets. They are,

700
00:39:49,239 --> 00:39:52,399
Speaker 1: they are, but they changed like your actual bodies. Yeah,

701
00:39:52,480 --> 00:39:55,360
Speaker 1: but corsets they actually have like some kind of appearance

702
00:39:55,440 --> 00:39:59,120
Speaker 1: like people's waist trainers be looking dirty and just raggedy,

703
00:39:59,360 --> 00:40:00,680
Speaker 1: and they look like they go to the gym and

704
00:40:00,719 --> 00:40:02,600
Speaker 1: them things they sleep in them things. I feel like

705
00:40:02,880 --> 00:40:05,120
Speaker 1: you can put a racker lamb in it, like it's

706
00:40:05,160 --> 00:40:07,080
Speaker 1: just like you supposed to hold wood and needs to

707
00:40:07,600 --> 00:40:11,279
Speaker 1: it don't look like cute, like get your game up.

708
00:40:11,520 --> 00:40:13,400
Speaker 1: It looks like your corset, mooove. It looks like a

709
00:40:13,400 --> 00:40:15,720
Speaker 1: back brace. Get you a corset that can do both.

710
00:40:15,880 --> 00:40:20,799
Speaker 1: Like why you got the waist trainer looking so dingy? Yeah,

711
00:40:20,840 --> 00:40:23,080
Speaker 1: but you nothing that you wear it looks dingy. I

712
00:40:23,080 --> 00:40:25,719
Speaker 1: feel like so beautiful. I met you. You had on

713
00:40:26,360 --> 00:40:29,680
Speaker 1: red lipstick with the Sparkles glitter glitter on it, and

714
00:40:29,719 --> 00:40:32,640
Speaker 1: I ran to Michaels and got me some red glitter

715
00:40:32,800 --> 00:40:37,160
Speaker 1: and then I tried to do it, and I is superad.

716
00:40:38,600 --> 00:40:40,480
Speaker 1: I have the red glitter here and I've never worn it.

717
00:40:40,520 --> 00:40:43,799
Speaker 1: Can you help us? Yes, we should definitely do that. Yo.

718
00:40:43,880 --> 00:40:47,040
Speaker 1: Can we do this one event? Yo? It will be popping. Yes,

719
00:40:47,200 --> 00:40:49,000
Speaker 1: we need to do this. I think it will be

720
00:40:49,040 --> 00:40:51,160
Speaker 1: the look yo. Yeah, I feel we went to it.

721
00:40:51,160 --> 00:40:52,360
Speaker 1: Maybe that's what we should do with you, like a

722
00:40:52,360 --> 00:40:55,439
Speaker 1: different live event with a different expert. Yes, And first

723
00:40:55,480 --> 00:40:58,120
Speaker 1: of all, I mean not only is your body set,

724
00:40:58,200 --> 00:41:01,040
Speaker 1: but your whole performance, like you really give it to

725
00:41:01,120 --> 00:41:02,960
Speaker 1: the audience, Like I really feel like I should be

726
00:41:03,000 --> 00:41:05,520
Speaker 1: paying more. I'm like, wow, I'm just sitting you all

727
00:41:05,560 --> 00:41:09,000
Speaker 1: about paying more because you're so good and you only

728
00:41:09,040 --> 00:41:12,560
Speaker 1: do have money. We get it, Lorraine. I will sneak

729
00:41:12,600 --> 00:41:16,120
Speaker 1: into a ship and send in the back and be

730
00:41:16,239 --> 00:41:22,800
Speaker 1: like yes, and I won't have paid and I'm sneaking

731
00:41:22,800 --> 00:41:24,760
Speaker 1: in a drink. You give like a pin up girl,

732
00:41:24,840 --> 00:41:27,920
Speaker 1: like Grace Jones, like you you have like so many

733
00:41:27,920 --> 00:41:32,280
Speaker 1: different hairstyles. Yes, yes, well I love you know, nipple tassels.

734
00:41:32,480 --> 00:41:36,520
Speaker 1: I like switching it up. But that's the chameleon aspect.

735
00:41:36,680 --> 00:41:40,000
Speaker 1: You do it right. And also when I'm on stage

736
00:41:41,200 --> 00:41:46,200
Speaker 1: because when I first started burlesque, so many people in

737
00:41:46,239 --> 00:41:49,080
Speaker 1: the burlesque community were telling me that I wasn't doing

738
00:41:49,120 --> 00:41:54,760
Speaker 1: burlesque because I was bringing something that was sensual. Wait

739
00:41:54,840 --> 00:41:58,520
Speaker 1: what yes, okay, I speak on it because there's some

740
00:41:58,680 --> 00:42:01,960
Speaker 1: people who do these care in burless and they're like

741
00:42:02,160 --> 00:42:06,040
Speaker 1: very wacky and it's not sexual at all. And then

742
00:42:06,560 --> 00:42:08,480
Speaker 1: you know, the body be a little different, but like

743
00:42:09,680 --> 00:42:12,319
Speaker 1: there's everybody is different. In Burless, you don't have to

744
00:42:12,360 --> 00:42:14,360
Speaker 1: all be the same. That's why when you do a

745
00:42:14,360 --> 00:42:16,080
Speaker 1: Burless show, you want to see the same thing over

746
00:42:16,120 --> 00:42:17,360
Speaker 1: and over again. But I don't want to see a

747
00:42:17,480 --> 00:42:20,880
Speaker 1: comedian take their clothes off to music, you know what

748
00:42:20,960 --> 00:42:23,359
Speaker 1: I mean? If I wanted to do that, I would

749
00:42:23,360 --> 00:42:25,799
Speaker 1: go to a naked comedy show, Like I don't you

750
00:42:25,800 --> 00:42:27,080
Speaker 1: know what? I shout out to the creak in the

751
00:42:27,120 --> 00:42:31,600
Speaker 1: cave promoting naked. They get a naked roast a couple

752
00:42:31,640 --> 00:42:34,000
Speaker 1: of weeks, but I make out the stage and battled

753
00:42:34,200 --> 00:42:38,239
Speaker 1: but ass naked. I was like that, not only are

754
00:42:38,280 --> 00:42:44,120
Speaker 1: your jokes bombing, but so is your dick? Wow? Like probably,

755
00:42:44,120 --> 00:42:45,719
Speaker 1: I don't know. We didn't go because we are not

756
00:42:46,000 --> 00:42:48,279
Speaker 1: the best. I want to say that, have you seen

757
00:42:48,280 --> 00:42:51,120
Speaker 1: some of these comedians botes? I will come to terrible?

758
00:42:51,280 --> 00:42:53,880
Speaker 1: I will not go to a naked roast bat They

759
00:42:53,880 --> 00:42:56,560
Speaker 1: eat terrible, they don't work out, and they sleep all day.

760
00:42:56,600 --> 00:42:58,000
Speaker 1: I don't even go to the roast battles when they

761
00:42:58,040 --> 00:43:00,120
Speaker 1: got all they clothes on, So why the fuck? But

762
00:43:00,239 --> 00:43:03,719
Speaker 1: I want to see them but as naked? Were they

763
00:43:03,840 --> 00:43:04,680
Speaker 1: ashy ankles?

764
00:43:04,760 --> 00:43:04,840
Speaker 2: No?

765
00:43:04,920 --> 00:43:06,879
Speaker 1: Thank you? So I'm not here for all these pean

766
00:43:07,320 --> 00:43:09,920
Speaker 1: pink penises. Bob oh, yeah, no, thank you. They got

767
00:43:10,000 --> 00:43:12,400
Speaker 1: little hats on the damn penis. No thank you, little

768
00:43:12,400 --> 00:43:12,919
Speaker 1: turtle nets.

769
00:43:14,360 --> 00:43:19,719
Speaker 2: I tried not to get the hiccup turtle lit for blast.

770
00:43:19,880 --> 00:43:22,640
Speaker 1: Isn't it like ninja turtles? I don't they look like

771
00:43:22,719 --> 00:43:25,200
Speaker 1: ninja turtles? The penis? Yeah, city, I don't know what

772
00:43:25,239 --> 00:43:28,400
Speaker 1: last night so I did? I not seen one. I

773
00:43:28,400 --> 00:43:30,239
Speaker 1: guess it's been a while for me too, because I'm like,

774
00:43:30,360 --> 00:43:35,799
Speaker 1: do they look like sweet Lorrain? Get us back on track. Yes,

775
00:43:35,960 --> 00:43:37,520
Speaker 1: I don't even know what we were talking about, but

776
00:43:38,560 --> 00:43:40,399
Speaker 1: oh well, okay, we were talking about the different types

777
00:43:40,440 --> 00:43:42,680
Speaker 1: of burlests because they say you weren't doing burless, right.

778
00:43:42,719 --> 00:43:45,600
Speaker 2: They were saying that I wasn't doing burlest because it

779
00:43:45,800 --> 00:43:49,680
Speaker 2: was sensual and it was sexy, and I feel like

780
00:43:50,600 --> 00:43:55,279
Speaker 2: people were uncomfortable with that. People who are in the

781
00:43:55,280 --> 00:43:58,040
Speaker 2: burlesque community weren't comfortable.

782
00:43:57,800 --> 00:44:00,880
Speaker 1: With sexy and is it weird?

783
00:44:01,080 --> 00:44:03,600
Speaker 2: And they were like, well, they were saying, oh, well,

784
00:44:03,960 --> 00:44:07,120
Speaker 2: there wasn't a concept or you didn't put implying that

785
00:44:07,200 --> 00:44:09,399
Speaker 2: I didn't have a concept, or implying that I didn't

786
00:44:09,600 --> 00:44:11,279
Speaker 2: put as much work into it.

787
00:44:11,360 --> 00:44:13,600
Speaker 1: Your concept was that you're sexier than everybody in the room.

788
00:44:14,520 --> 00:44:15,239
Speaker 1: That's what it is.

789
00:44:16,040 --> 00:44:21,000
Speaker 2: Put as much work into it because this element of

790
00:44:21,080 --> 00:44:25,400
Speaker 2: sexy that their acts didn't usually have.

791
00:44:27,400 --> 00:44:30,440
Speaker 1: Right seach his own. Though. I'm glad that you stayed

792
00:44:30,440 --> 00:44:32,200
Speaker 1: in it and you can't let that get you down,

793
00:44:32,239 --> 00:44:35,000
Speaker 1: and like you hold your own and you're definitely you

794
00:44:35,040 --> 00:44:40,600
Speaker 1: definitely stand out the Blessed community. When you perform, you

795
00:44:40,640 --> 00:44:43,239
Speaker 1: put on a show that I feel like people want

796
00:44:43,320 --> 00:44:45,360
Speaker 1: to see or expect to see when they go to burlesque.

797
00:44:45,480 --> 00:44:49,880
Speaker 1: The dancers, the other Burlessed performers might not think what

798
00:44:49,920 --> 00:44:51,600
Speaker 1: you're doing or might not have thought what you were

799
00:44:51,640 --> 00:44:55,719
Speaker 1: doing was burlesque, but that's what people when I go

800
00:44:55,800 --> 00:44:58,520
Speaker 1: see burless, I go to see people like you. Thank you.

801
00:45:00,040 --> 00:45:04,319
Speaker 1: I hit for it. Outside the box, No, this is

802
00:45:04,360 --> 00:45:06,600
Speaker 1: the box that I want. I mean, not the box,

803
00:45:06,640 --> 00:45:10,280
Speaker 1: but you know what I mean. Girl, well sweeler speaking

804
00:45:10,320 --> 00:45:12,759
Speaker 1: of sexy, like everybody has to be comfortable in their

805
00:45:12,800 --> 00:45:15,760
Speaker 1: own skin, and I think that's weird that like people

806
00:45:15,800 --> 00:45:18,800
Speaker 1: would be saying, like, like the aspect that you're showing

807
00:45:18,880 --> 00:45:21,960
Speaker 1: is not bor less when it takes so much balls

808
00:45:22,040 --> 00:45:25,239
Speaker 1: just to do what the fuck you're doing and expensive

809
00:45:25,320 --> 00:45:27,680
Speaker 1: on top of that, how much is each gick? Like

810
00:45:27,760 --> 00:45:30,319
Speaker 1: what's the rating? Like what? Like you don't have to

811
00:45:30,320 --> 00:45:32,399
Speaker 1: give me exact numbers, were.

812
00:45:32,080 --> 00:45:35,640
Speaker 2: To give you exactly because we really make dozens of

813
00:45:35,719 --> 00:45:37,080
Speaker 2: dollars a day of.

814
00:45:39,600 --> 00:45:42,960
Speaker 1: You know, girl, there is so much tea to be

815
00:45:43,040 --> 00:45:46,360
Speaker 1: spilled costumes or expensive the hair, the makeup.

816
00:45:46,120 --> 00:45:49,520
Speaker 2: Exactly, which is why I meant to wig rejuvenation. I

817
00:45:49,560 --> 00:45:54,440
Speaker 2: mean some glasses on that soon, Okay, yeah, because you

818
00:45:54,560 --> 00:45:58,320
Speaker 2: just you can put out a ton of money on

819
00:45:58,320 --> 00:46:02,160
Speaker 2: one costume. And that's what we kind of learned for

820
00:46:02,239 --> 00:46:05,160
Speaker 2: people who want to get into burlesque. Get that one

821
00:46:05,280 --> 00:46:08,920
Speaker 2: costume together, make sure it's polished, make sure it looks good,

822
00:46:09,480 --> 00:46:12,920
Speaker 2: and keep doing that number over and over again. You know,

823
00:46:13,280 --> 00:46:15,440
Speaker 2: I think in the beginning we think, oh I need

824
00:46:15,480 --> 00:46:16,840
Speaker 2: to keep creating all these pieces.

825
00:46:16,880 --> 00:46:20,360
Speaker 1: No, you will go broke. You will start costume.

826
00:46:21,160 --> 00:46:25,480
Speaker 2: It depends on like one of my most expensive costumes

827
00:46:25,520 --> 00:46:32,239
Speaker 2: I would say is maybe like three hundred and I

828
00:46:32,280 --> 00:46:35,800
Speaker 2: worked on that, Like you built that, Yes, and I

829
00:46:35,960 --> 00:46:36,480
Speaker 2: made that.

830
00:46:36,920 --> 00:46:39,560
Speaker 1: I'm like, I stitched it. You didn't go buy it

831
00:46:39,600 --> 00:46:41,840
Speaker 1: in the story, go buy it because in the store

832
00:46:41,880 --> 00:46:44,839
Speaker 1: they'll they'll literally rape you. They like they know that

833
00:46:44,880 --> 00:46:47,520
Speaker 1: you guys want to look great, so the prices will

834
00:46:47,520 --> 00:46:48,360
Speaker 1: go with the rod.

835
00:46:48,239 --> 00:46:51,440
Speaker 2: Stones alone, Like, don't even I don't know. I know

836
00:46:51,680 --> 00:46:54,760
Speaker 2: a few a handful of people who buy Swarovski crystals,

837
00:46:54,800 --> 00:47:01,160
Speaker 2: which is what Didavante's where costumes when we you know,

838
00:47:01,239 --> 00:47:03,640
Speaker 2: unless you have another nine to five and you're not

839
00:47:03,920 --> 00:47:07,799
Speaker 2: and you're you don't care about the money and you

840
00:47:07,840 --> 00:47:11,480
Speaker 2: can afford to buy Swarpski crystals. That's like if I

841
00:47:11,520 --> 00:47:17,400
Speaker 2: buy like thirty crystals, SWAPSI Crystals has like thirty dollars.

842
00:47:18,120 --> 00:47:22,480
Speaker 1: So how much men can't tell the difference. No one

843
00:47:22,520 --> 00:47:26,760
Speaker 1: can tell. The lights hit. They like, Oh, she's real shiny,

844
00:47:26,960 --> 00:47:30,000
Speaker 1: How shiny she look? She looks like a disco balls. Yeah,

845
00:47:30,600 --> 00:47:31,040
Speaker 1: so you.

846
00:47:30,960 --> 00:47:35,040
Speaker 2: Find little tricks and tips and tools along the way

847
00:47:35,160 --> 00:47:36,800
Speaker 2: to like bring those prices down.

848
00:47:37,200 --> 00:47:39,399
Speaker 1: But what's the rate for uh a show?

849
00:47:39,800 --> 00:47:45,440
Speaker 2: Most of the burlesque shows are paying fifty dollars fifty

850
00:47:45,480 --> 00:47:47,000
Speaker 2: dollars for one act?

851
00:47:47,160 --> 00:47:53,600
Speaker 1: Bitch, what well, I'm sorry plus fifty there is he

852
00:47:53,719 --> 00:47:56,280
Speaker 1: has no essence revealed revealed. She's great.

853
00:47:56,480 --> 00:47:58,920
Speaker 2: She's great in so many ways, and she also is

854
00:47:58,960 --> 00:48:06,200
Speaker 2: not afraid to negotiate with these venue and she was

855
00:48:06,239 --> 00:48:10,880
Speaker 2: able to negotiate one hundred dollars for one act, oh beautiful,

856
00:48:11,920 --> 00:48:16,080
Speaker 2: plus tips, plus tips and the tips, Like you could

857
00:48:16,200 --> 00:48:19,959
Speaker 2: leave there with one hundred and fifty dollars for one act,

858
00:48:20,280 --> 00:48:22,520
Speaker 2: which is what we should be doing now when we

859
00:48:22,560 --> 00:48:24,600
Speaker 2: do private gigs. That's completely different.

860
00:48:24,680 --> 00:48:27,040
Speaker 1: Like I'm you clean up private gigs that they have

861
00:48:27,080 --> 00:48:29,600
Speaker 1: the budget for it. But I'm saying for your daily base,

862
00:48:29,760 --> 00:48:32,040
Speaker 1: like you go to these shows on a weekly thing

863
00:48:32,080 --> 00:48:35,759
Speaker 1: where you pay your rent. They're fifty dollars. That's to

864
00:48:35,840 --> 00:48:38,839
Speaker 1: see a titty, right, But that's how comedy is. Yeah, oh,

865
00:48:38,880 --> 00:48:39,560
Speaker 1: we get nothing.

866
00:48:39,640 --> 00:48:42,640
Speaker 2: So you can probably sometimes with the tips, you can

867
00:48:42,840 --> 00:48:45,640
Speaker 2: leave out of there with maybe the high end of

868
00:48:45,719 --> 00:48:47,480
Speaker 2: seventy five eighty dollars.

869
00:48:47,120 --> 00:48:48,759
Speaker 1: For one act.

870
00:48:49,400 --> 00:48:53,520
Speaker 2: But you know, if people producers mainly, if they don't

871
00:48:53,640 --> 00:48:55,279
Speaker 2: promote their shows.

872
00:48:54,960 --> 00:48:58,240
Speaker 1: They will be there. You don't get those extra tips.

873
00:48:58,360 --> 00:49:01,239
Speaker 1: So there are so many We're not that different, you

874
00:49:01,320 --> 00:49:05,640
Speaker 1: and I yeah, I mean yeah, I mean it costs

875
00:49:05,640 --> 00:49:07,480
Speaker 1: me a lot of money to you know, get my

876
00:49:07,560 --> 00:49:13,080
Speaker 1: act together right here. You know, costumes and whatnot. Have you?

877
00:49:13,160 --> 00:49:16,560
Speaker 1: I mean you talked a lot about sexiness, your your

878
00:49:16,560 --> 00:49:20,320
Speaker 1: sensuality getting you into trouble. Has your sexiness ever helped you? Like,

879
00:49:20,400 --> 00:49:22,799
Speaker 1: have you ever like gotten out of a ticket or

880
00:49:22,840 --> 00:49:25,040
Speaker 1: like you just kip the line at the d m

881
00:49:25,200 --> 00:49:29,439
Speaker 1: V or anybody ever paid your fucking rent for a month. Yeah,

882
00:49:29,560 --> 00:49:33,840
Speaker 1: talk to us about that. Get into it super positive

883
00:49:33,880 --> 00:49:41,040
Speaker 1: you has it been positive? You know what I think? Listen,

884
00:49:42,719 --> 00:49:45,480
Speaker 1: I'm sure I've gotten a free drink or no, no, no, no, no,

885
00:49:46,040 --> 00:49:48,319
Speaker 1: don't count because we get free drinks all a time.

886
00:49:48,400 --> 00:49:51,279
Speaker 1: I ain't gotes. I got dungrees on it. I'll be

887
00:49:51,280 --> 00:49:55,080
Speaker 1: getting a free drinks. So I anyone legging people buy

888
00:49:55,080 --> 00:49:57,960
Speaker 1: in the PJ. Somebody's given me. But I do get

889
00:49:57,960 --> 00:50:02,680
Speaker 1: a lot of free desserts brought over at a restaurant.

890
00:50:02,800 --> 00:50:06,279
Speaker 1: People be sending yourself to the team. What else? Tell

891
00:50:06,360 --> 00:50:10,440
Speaker 1: us give us the real? Yeah, you are holding back, right,

892
00:50:10,520 --> 00:50:14,280
Speaker 1: you really are? I feel like you. Yeah, I feel

893
00:50:14,280 --> 00:50:17,640
Speaker 1: like you are. Boom. Listen, whatever you got going on?

894
00:50:17,960 --> 00:50:19,960
Speaker 1: You know what? Let me you know what I really

895
00:50:20,000 --> 00:50:22,919
Speaker 1: I'm trying hard to think about. Let's get some things

896
00:50:22,920 --> 00:50:25,360
Speaker 1: out and if you want something, just go ahead and

897
00:50:25,400 --> 00:50:31,520
Speaker 1: say here, just say present, okay, plane to get to somewhere, trips, travel,

898
00:50:32,600 --> 00:50:34,120
Speaker 1: Oh okay, that's what we're talking about.

899
00:50:34,200 --> 00:50:36,960
Speaker 2: This Okay, yeah. So uh but here's the thing. I

900
00:50:37,000 --> 00:50:39,200
Speaker 2: get really freaked out by that.

901
00:50:39,920 --> 00:50:44,440
Speaker 1: So you need signs to come with you exactly. And

902
00:50:44,960 --> 00:50:46,680
Speaker 1: you're like, oh, if you want, and you gotta get

903
00:50:47,320 --> 00:50:51,799
Speaker 1: you got to get experts of yes to help block

904
00:50:51,880 --> 00:50:52,480
Speaker 1: that crass.

905
00:50:52,640 --> 00:50:56,560
Speaker 2: Oh I'm a who okay, Okay, Yeah, I've definitely had

906
00:50:56,680 --> 00:51:00,799
Speaker 2: offers to be flown places, but you don't go. I

907
00:51:00,920 --> 00:51:03,480
Speaker 2: don't go because I'm like, are you gonna chop me up?

908
00:51:03,480 --> 00:51:05,160
Speaker 1: It's a little That's why you got to bring up

909
00:51:05,200 --> 00:51:08,640
Speaker 1: friends fird have brought me with them because they're like,

910
00:51:08,719 --> 00:51:12,000
Speaker 1: she's got personality. This is when I didn't even have titties.

911
00:51:12,040 --> 00:51:13,839
Speaker 1: So they're like, she's gonna talk a lot, and she's

912
00:51:13,920 --> 00:51:16,960
Speaker 1: going to do a lot of interference, and she's going

913
00:51:17,040 --> 00:51:19,720
Speaker 1: to drink and get turned up, do all the drugs

914
00:51:19,760 --> 00:51:21,680
Speaker 1: and it's gonna be like no, she's gonna get sick

915
00:51:21,960 --> 00:51:23,840
Speaker 1: and then the night's gonna be over. So see, you

916
00:51:23,880 --> 00:51:27,279
Speaker 1: need that in your life. Yeah. So I guess I've

917
00:51:27,320 --> 00:51:40,719
Speaker 1: had those experiences where people offered you out to Anguilla Jacksonville. No, okay,

918
00:51:40,920 --> 00:51:43,440
Speaker 1: this uh, this actually happened in college.

919
00:51:45,000 --> 00:51:47,319
Speaker 2: He was like, I have what first of all, what

920
00:51:47,400 --> 00:51:50,560
Speaker 2: type of car would you like me to drive you

921
00:51:50,640 --> 00:51:53,000
Speaker 2: around in? And he was like, there's I can get

922
00:51:53,000 --> 00:51:55,920
Speaker 2: a Ferrari for us right now, or I could get this,

923
00:51:56,040 --> 00:51:57,319
Speaker 2: that and the other. And I was like, I don't

924
00:51:57,360 --> 00:52:01,800
Speaker 2: care about cars. I was is not in that before

925
00:52:01,960 --> 00:52:04,720
Speaker 2: Instagram because you would have cared. I would have cared.

926
00:52:05,080 --> 00:52:08,160
Speaker 1: Now this damage, I'm like, I don't care about any car.

927
00:52:08,280 --> 00:52:11,160
Speaker 1: Just put whatever you're going to buy in my account. Yeah,

928
00:52:11,239 --> 00:52:14,359
Speaker 1: that's I just want them. So he offered to pick

929
00:52:14,400 --> 00:52:15,919
Speaker 1: you up and drive you around. Yeah.

930
00:52:15,920 --> 00:52:19,640
Speaker 2: He was visiting one of my friends who's who was

931
00:52:20,120 --> 00:52:20,919
Speaker 2: very well off.

932
00:52:20,960 --> 00:52:24,000
Speaker 1: Her father was in oil. Did you hear that? Well,

933
00:52:24,360 --> 00:52:26,959
Speaker 1: I'm gonna start using that. I'm gonna stop saying rich,

934
00:52:27,040 --> 00:52:28,840
Speaker 1: and I'm just gonna say well off. Yeah, but you

935
00:52:29,000 --> 00:52:32,200
Speaker 1: say rich because you don't know nobody who's well off.

936
00:52:31,800 --> 00:52:37,000
Speaker 2: Well yeah, so so yeah, So her father was an

937
00:52:37,000 --> 00:52:40,000
Speaker 2: oil and I'm sure his father was also in oils, and.

938
00:52:39,920 --> 00:52:45,279
Speaker 1: Then his father was in slaves. Deaf had a plantation, so,

939
00:52:45,719 --> 00:52:46,880
Speaker 1: oh my gosh.

940
00:52:47,000 --> 00:52:50,120
Speaker 2: I was like, no, you're trying a little too hard,

941
00:52:50,760 --> 00:52:51,440
Speaker 2: too much money.

942
00:52:51,480 --> 00:52:53,279
Speaker 1: He was killed me and covering it, and he was

943
00:52:53,400 --> 00:52:55,959
Speaker 1: trying to definitely make you a maid feard, I'm glad

944
00:52:56,000 --> 00:52:57,719
Speaker 1: you didn't do that. You could have got a meal

945
00:52:57,719 --> 00:52:59,359
Speaker 1: out of that. But like, what about people do you have,

946
00:52:59,440 --> 00:53:02,279
Speaker 1: like ooh, do you have like stalkers creepy people at

947
00:53:02,280 --> 00:53:05,120
Speaker 1: your shows? Yeah, we saw the Players Club, anybody who

948
00:53:05,120 --> 00:53:06,640
Speaker 1: follows you home and says, I was just trying to

949
00:53:06,640 --> 00:53:12,640
Speaker 1: make sure the US have Remember, I've had a few people.

950
00:53:12,760 --> 00:53:15,400
Speaker 1: I've had a few people that I just had to

951
00:53:15,760 --> 00:53:20,040
Speaker 1: block officially, Like Theye guy would just come to Well,

952
00:53:20,080 --> 00:53:21,799
Speaker 1: first of all, I didn't even think that I was

953
00:53:21,800 --> 00:53:24,800
Speaker 1: on his radar because he has an Asian woman fetish

954
00:53:24,840 --> 00:53:30,640
Speaker 1: and anybody who knows burlesque and well, your eyes are slanted, cat,

955
00:53:30,719 --> 00:53:36,520
Speaker 1: I a little plaish if you smoke some weed, girl

956
00:53:38,600 --> 00:53:41,480
Speaker 1: duty skin Geisha, I see it is your hair Asian?

957
00:53:41,560 --> 00:53:47,000
Speaker 1: What kind of hair is mad Malaysian? That vision hair.

958
00:53:47,680 --> 00:53:50,160
Speaker 2: So he would show up to all my shows for

959
00:53:50,280 --> 00:53:56,200
Speaker 2: about two weeks straight, every single show he knew, he

960
00:53:56,320 --> 00:53:58,520
Speaker 2: just knew my schedule. And then he show up with

961
00:53:58,560 --> 00:54:01,760
Speaker 2: like giant bouquet. He was like, what type of flowers

962
00:54:01,760 --> 00:54:03,560
Speaker 2: do you like? And I was just like, you know,

963
00:54:03,719 --> 00:54:04,879
Speaker 2: just trying to talk and.

964
00:54:05,000 --> 00:54:07,279
Speaker 1: Yeah, you want to be polite, like cordial. You don't

965
00:54:07,280 --> 00:54:09,560
Speaker 1: want to be mean. We're making pit stop to the cemetery,

966
00:54:09,760 --> 00:54:11,520
Speaker 1: pick up some of them flowers, and then come to

967
00:54:11,560 --> 00:54:11,960
Speaker 1: your shlf.

968
00:54:12,120 --> 00:54:16,120
Speaker 2: And he brought me these huge bouquets of like roses

969
00:54:16,160 --> 00:54:17,919
Speaker 2: and sunflowers, which I love.

970
00:54:18,680 --> 00:54:21,759
Speaker 1: O sunflowers. He won't chop you up. So I just

971
00:54:21,760 --> 00:54:25,560
Speaker 1: need one sunflower. That buy me a bouquet huge, And

972
00:54:26,239 --> 00:54:28,520
Speaker 1: I was just like, why is this guy still here?

973
00:54:28,960 --> 00:54:32,520
Speaker 1: M hm? And then he wanted to like walk me

974
00:54:32,600 --> 00:54:35,880
Speaker 1: to the trade and I was just like, no, no,

975
00:54:35,880 --> 00:54:37,520
Speaker 1: you're getting me a huge bouquet. You need to get

976
00:54:37,520 --> 00:54:40,760
Speaker 1: me an uber home and you need to take the Yeah.

977
00:54:40,840 --> 00:54:45,640
Speaker 2: So when he did that, nothing, well, I just I

978
00:54:45,680 --> 00:54:48,920
Speaker 2: had to tell him to just back off officially because

979
00:54:48,960 --> 00:54:52,640
Speaker 2: he waited around because we were waiting for him to leave,

980
00:54:52,719 --> 00:54:56,160
Speaker 2: like the restaurant was about to shut down everything, and

981
00:54:56,200 --> 00:54:59,239
Speaker 2: he's just sitting there in the corner sweating with another bouquet.

982
00:55:01,200 --> 00:55:04,920
Speaker 1: And it's like two thirty in the morning. I'm chilling

983
00:55:04,960 --> 00:55:07,439
Speaker 1: with my friends who are still hanging out and we're

984
00:55:07,480 --> 00:55:12,560
Speaker 1: in the show and he's there, and he's there, and

985
00:55:12,600 --> 00:55:15,080
Speaker 1: I was like, you know what, No, I don't owe

986
00:55:15,120 --> 00:55:17,160
Speaker 1: you anything. I don't owe you any of my time,

987
00:55:17,800 --> 00:55:21,120
Speaker 1: any of that. Please stop. Do you have security guards

988
00:55:21,160 --> 00:55:24,880
Speaker 1: next to you, like holding you down? I don't. Do

989
00:55:24,920 --> 00:55:26,680
Speaker 1: you have a boo? You have a boo? I do

990
00:55:26,840 --> 00:55:30,160
Speaker 1: have a boo, and your boo like is like runs interference.

991
00:55:30,960 --> 00:55:34,680
Speaker 1: Well she knows, like like if I could. She's so sweet.

992
00:55:35,000 --> 00:55:39,360
Speaker 1: I really love Chavon. She's she's not like overbearing. She

993
00:55:39,480 --> 00:55:42,200
Speaker 1: lets you do you. She sits there so like when

994
00:55:42,200 --> 00:55:43,719
Speaker 1: I first met you, I didn't even know that was

995
00:55:43,719 --> 00:55:46,560
Speaker 1: your boot because she wasn't like and she was acting

996
00:55:46,600 --> 00:55:50,880
Speaker 1: crazy and like drooling and like blocking you from your shine. Shy,

997
00:55:51,239 --> 00:55:53,720
Speaker 1: So she kind of likes to be. She's shy.

998
00:55:53,880 --> 00:55:57,120
Speaker 2: She got something to say to me, teks me at

999
00:55:57,160 --> 00:55:59,920
Speaker 2: the back. I have to like course her to go

1000
00:56:00,120 --> 00:56:00,520
Speaker 2: to the show.

1001
00:56:00,719 --> 00:56:03,400
Speaker 1: Is it hard to have to be in a relationship

1002
00:56:03,400 --> 00:56:06,800
Speaker 1: and do what you do? No? Absolutely not. She seems

1003
00:56:06,840 --> 00:56:10,399
Speaker 1: so understanding. Well yeah, and also like who doesn't love

1004
00:56:10,400 --> 00:56:13,360
Speaker 1: a stripper? Who doesn't want to see like booty be

1005
00:56:13,640 --> 00:56:20,080
Speaker 1: and thal coming out? Let me wear clothes when I'm

1006
00:56:20,120 --> 00:56:22,840
Speaker 1: at the house, like and my new wig flowing? Like

1007
00:56:22,880 --> 00:56:25,319
Speaker 1: who doesn't want to see? Wait? But do you do that? Now?

1008
00:56:26,200 --> 00:56:27,759
Speaker 1: Do you do that? All the time, but like on

1009
00:56:27,800 --> 00:56:31,480
Speaker 1: a regular basis or what I feel like you.

1010
00:56:31,640 --> 00:56:35,319
Speaker 2: But yeah, yeah, I'm literally and I get she tells me,

1011
00:56:35,360 --> 00:56:37,520
Speaker 2: I get dressed the wrong way because I am in

1012
00:56:37,680 --> 00:56:39,719
Speaker 2: heels first and nothing else.

1013
00:56:44,000 --> 00:56:46,320
Speaker 1: Where. Are the rest of you? Well there you're having folks,

1014
00:56:46,360 --> 00:56:50,399
Speaker 1: Thank you so much because I got it. I got

1015
00:56:50,440 --> 00:56:55,799
Speaker 1: like a visual. Now I'm like damning, But I'm not

1016
00:56:56,120 --> 00:56:59,759
Speaker 1: like she enjoys all of me. Oh that's what she.

1017
00:57:00,280 --> 00:57:02,319
Speaker 1: You want to be with somebody who enjoys all of you.

1018
00:57:02,400 --> 00:57:04,200
Speaker 1: But you see, I feel like I'm a little bit different.

1019
00:57:04,200 --> 00:57:06,239
Speaker 1: I don't want anybody who enjoys all of me too

1020
00:57:06,360 --> 00:57:08,799
Speaker 1: much because I'd be like this nigga crazy, Like I

1021
00:57:08,840 --> 00:57:11,200
Speaker 1: feel like if the dude is too into me, which

1022
00:57:11,200 --> 00:57:13,239
Speaker 1: I feel like is what keeps happening to me, like

1023
00:57:13,360 --> 00:57:16,280
Speaker 1: people like me more than I like them? Is I

1024
00:57:16,280 --> 00:57:19,080
Speaker 1: don't like that? No, this is this is balance. It's

1025
00:57:19,200 --> 00:57:22,840
Speaker 1: very balanced. I've been together for years, so long, like

1026
00:57:23,240 --> 00:57:27,400
Speaker 1: nine years, nine years, and I know her when I

1027
00:57:27,480 --> 00:57:35,600
Speaker 1: was engaged to a man. Hold. Hold, you were engaged

1028
00:57:35,600 --> 00:57:37,120
Speaker 1: to a man and you had a girlfriend and then

1029
00:57:37,120 --> 00:57:40,600
Speaker 1: you met her. Yes, yo, sweet Luayne, you are in

1030
00:57:40,680 --> 00:57:44,720
Speaker 1: the streets. You are hurting hearts and taking you in

1031
00:57:44,760 --> 00:57:48,840
Speaker 1: these sheets too? Boo, wow, I was polyamorous? How did

1032
00:57:48,880 --> 00:57:52,600
Speaker 1: you have all that time? Like you had to work too? Yeah? People,

1033
00:57:53,680 --> 00:57:54,000
Speaker 1: I don't know.

1034
00:57:54,040 --> 00:57:57,160
Speaker 2: I just felt like I was. I was in the moment.

1035
00:57:57,160 --> 00:58:00,000
Speaker 2: I was like, I am ready to explore my sexuality.

1036
00:58:00,120 --> 00:58:03,120
Speaker 2: I feel like I am I have the ability to

1037
00:58:03,400 --> 00:58:05,040
Speaker 2: love more than one.

1038
00:58:04,960 --> 00:58:09,600
Speaker 1: Spread the booty meet girl, Waite, How do you can?

1039
00:58:09,640 --> 00:58:13,480
Speaker 1: You said polyamorous? How does that work? You've been with this,

1040
00:58:13,560 --> 00:58:17,160
Speaker 1: You've been with your for nine years and you're still polyamorous.

1041
00:58:17,200 --> 00:58:20,160
Speaker 1: And I'm still polyamorous right now? How many girlfriends you got?

1042
00:58:20,560 --> 00:58:23,600
Speaker 1: I don't have. Shavan is my it is number one,

1043
00:58:23,760 --> 00:58:26,479
Speaker 1: She's number one, she is, But how many other numbers

1044
00:58:26,520 --> 00:58:27,320
Speaker 1: are there?

1045
00:58:28,520 --> 00:58:30,840
Speaker 2: Because I don't really actually like to date. If I

1046
00:58:30,880 --> 00:58:33,040
Speaker 2: feel somebody, if I meet.

1047
00:58:32,880 --> 00:58:35,920
Speaker 1: So you can go out have a show. You might

1048
00:58:36,000 --> 00:58:39,200
Speaker 1: meet somebody that looks like Sydney Washington, but then just

1049
00:58:39,640 --> 00:58:45,200
Speaker 1: off her. No no, no, no, no, they're they're rules rules,

1050
00:58:45,280 --> 00:58:50,320
Speaker 1: regulations for me. The rules are like for me? What

1051
00:58:50,440 --> 00:58:53,400
Speaker 1: the rules for me? Adriana ain't coming down? But what's

1052
00:58:53,440 --> 00:58:58,920
Speaker 1: your rules? Girl? Are you when you feel like you

1053
00:58:58,960 --> 00:59:03,320
Speaker 1: have a let me know? I don't want to know.

1054
00:59:03,360 --> 00:59:05,880
Speaker 1: When you are in love and y'all are going.

1055
00:59:05,680 --> 00:59:09,560
Speaker 2: On dates and you want to take trips, then I

1056
00:59:09,600 --> 00:59:12,600
Speaker 2: feel like the jealousy will come in. But if you're like, oh,

1057
00:59:12,680 --> 00:59:17,280
Speaker 2: I like find this person attracted, like I would like

1058
00:59:17,320 --> 00:59:19,360
Speaker 2: to go on a date with him, to watch him

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Speaker 2: or whatever, I'm like, oh, let me know that sounds cute?

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Speaker 1: Like when are y'all going out polyamorous? She's also so

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Speaker 1: she comes with you? Or like, well, how does that work? Y'all?

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00:59:33,560 --> 00:59:37,080
Speaker 1: A bunch of sexy assholds? Okay? And when y'all go

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Speaker 1: out in this polyamorous date, who the fuck paying y'all?

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Speaker 1: Splitting checks and splitting legs? What to do with the

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Speaker 1: big bouquet? He is not there? You should let him

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Speaker 1: he's not there. He should let him be in the

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Speaker 1: corner and drop that card for all of y'all, for

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Speaker 1: the whole crew running the coup. And this has been amazing.

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Speaker 1: We're really gonna do the event. Yes, I think that

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Speaker 1: that's what we should do. We should do, matter of fact,

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Speaker 1: leave us a comment. Tweet us and I miss rez

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Speaker 1: on Twitter, M S R E E e Z. Why

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Speaker 1: tweet us and let us know how many people would

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Speaker 1: be interested in doing something like this because I feel

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Speaker 1: like it would be an actual, like an actual really

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Speaker 1: great yes. And I'm just said j U s T

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Speaker 1: s y d n y C on Twitter. Tweet us

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Speaker 1: please so we can get this together and you know,

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Speaker 1: we'll do a slide and scale for the people, the

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Speaker 1: people who can afford more, other people who can do

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Speaker 1: you know a little discount. You're not gonna You're gonna

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Speaker 1: be in the back, though, you're not gonna get all

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Speaker 1: the ass. You can be in the back with my

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Speaker 1: broke ass extra in the front, sweet and the rain,

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Speaker 1: my sweet, sweet friend. If there's anything that you could

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Speaker 1: leave people with about burlesque or polyamorous love or whatever,

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Speaker 1: what would you want them to take away from this podcast?

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Speaker 1: What would that be?

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Speaker 2: I would just say, do you don't try to emulate

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Speaker 2: anyone else in terms of another burlesque performer, Like we

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Speaker 2: all have something special and magical about us to share.

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Speaker 2: I know it sounds corny, but like when I finally

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Speaker 2: said yes, I'm tapping into my sexy and I'm going

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Speaker 2: to be uninhibited and like just unapologetically sexy on stage, please,

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Speaker 2: I feel like that's when I've started to feel the

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Speaker 2: most comfortable, the most accepting of myself. So do that

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Speaker 2: and and I felt like that applied. It just permeated

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Speaker 2: through the rest of my.

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Speaker 1: Life, permeated city, permeated. Find your true self and let

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Speaker 1: that permeate booth Where can people catch you who are

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Speaker 1: listening to Yes? Please all your information? Instagram, Twitter, got

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Speaker 1: so Shades of Burlesque you can find me at at

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Speaker 1: Shades of Burlesque on Instagram. Uh, Shades bour Lesque on Twitter,

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Speaker 1: at Sweet Lorraine in y on Twitter and Instagram. And

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Speaker 1: my shows, like we said before, shadesebur Lesque is the

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Speaker 1: only all black burless show in New York City. Safe

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Speaker 1: Word NYC is Kinky BDSM Burlesque Spectacles. So all this

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Speaker 1: stuff happens. Wow, we just.

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Speaker 2: Had King Noir and Jet Setting Jasmine, those delicious porn

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Speaker 2: stars that showed up and showed all the way out.

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Speaker 2: And that's also all those shows that I come on everybody.

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Speaker 2: And then I have a show for the novice burless

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Speaker 2: performer called Sweet Fantasy Burlesque, which is every other month,

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Speaker 2: and all those shows will be coming back in September

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Speaker 2: because it gets to take a break and enjoy myself.

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Speaker 2: So uh, I'm gonna go put.

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Speaker 1: On some ass list chaps. Yeah, thank you. So I'm

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Speaker 1: going to change mind changing my clothes right now. So

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Speaker 1: you need to put a panty linery in uhst and

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna go put on some panties. Thank you guys

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Speaker 1: so much. This was in so fun. Rate subscribe comments,

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Speaker 1: bye bye