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Speaker 1: Ever been left waiting by the phone.

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Speaker 2: It's the Fred Show.

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Speaker 1: Hey Christopher, good morning, welcome to the show.

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Speaker 2: How are you.

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Speaker 3: I'm doing good? How are you doing?

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Speaker 1: We're great? What's going on with this woman, Carly? Why

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Speaker 1: don't you fit us in? I gotta know how you

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Speaker 1: guys met? About any dates that you've been on? And

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Speaker 1: then obviously you think you're being ghosted, So why that is?

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Speaker 2: Explain? Please?

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Speaker 3: Definitely being ghosted.

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Speaker 4: We met up on a date nap on the Many

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Speaker 4: Minute apps and I asked her out to dinner and

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Speaker 4: she said, yeah, so we had a good date. We

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Speaker 4: had we had a blast. Actually it was a great time.

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Speaker 4: And she has been flirted with me. I was being

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Speaker 4: flirted with her, and I thought that was a good sign.

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Speaker 4: And you know, maybe I meant I read things wrong,

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Speaker 4: but I haven't heard from her and forever. You know,

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Speaker 4: I tried calling textans, So okay, ghost to me. I

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Speaker 4: don't know what's up.

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Speaker 1: It's a one date where you think it was a blast,

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Speaker 1: and you think she was happy last except all kind

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Speaker 1: of flirtation, all this stuff, but for some reason, no

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Speaker 1: response at all when you reach out for another date

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Speaker 1: to have another blast.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't get it. I don't get it.

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Speaker 2: Huh. Okay, all right, you hear this kick it ahead

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Speaker 2: of blast though.

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Speaker 5: I know, but maybe she didn't blast it all.

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Speaker 1: She out with those with those aliens in the UFO.

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Speaker 1: They go and talk to her at the cos Congress.

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Speaker 1: All right, I'm sorry, Christopher Digress. Let's call Carly in

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Speaker 1: just a second to play a song.

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Speaker 2: We'll come back.

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Speaker 1: We'll call her see if we can get her on

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Speaker 1: the phone and ask some questions and hopefully we can

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Speaker 1: straighten things out and then get you guys going for

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Speaker 1: another blast second date that we pay for.

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Speaker 3: Okay, I would love that, specially to pay for a part.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we're gonna find out what's going on next after Miguel.

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Speaker 1: Back in two minutes with Part two of Waiting by

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Speaker 1: the Phone on the Fred Show. Mcgalleia's on the Commercial

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Speaker 1: Free Frend Show. It's Friday. Good morning, hey, Christopher, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: all right, welcome back, man. Let's call Carly. You guys

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Speaker 1: met out one of the apps, you went out, had

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Speaker 1: a great time. You've reached out to her for another

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Speaker 1: other date and it's been days and days and no

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Speaker 1: response whatsoever. And you want to know why she appears

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Speaker 1: to be ghosting you. Yes, we'll call her now.

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Speaker 2: Good luck. Christopher. Hi is this Carly?

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Speaker 6: Yeh?

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Speaker 2: I was kind of assertive him.

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Speaker 1: Hey, I don't know where that like big Anyway, Hi Carly,

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Speaker 1: I'm started by this is random. My name is Fred

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Speaker 1: calling from the Fred's Show, the Morning Radio Show, and

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Speaker 1: I have to tell you that we are on the

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Speaker 1: air right now and I would need your permission to

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Speaker 1: continue with the call. Can we chat for just a

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Speaker 1: couple of minutes. I'll fill you in? Sure, Okay, thank

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Speaker 1: you very much. We're calling on behalf of a guy

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Speaker 1: named Christopher who he reached out to us. I guess

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Speaker 1: you guys met on one of the apps and recently

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Speaker 1: went on a date. Do you remember this guy?

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Speaker 6: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: I do.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Well, he filled us in on what he thought

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Speaker 1: was a really successful date, said that, in fact, that

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Speaker 1: you guys both had a blast, in his opinion, But

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Speaker 1: then he reached out tried to get a hold of you.

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Speaker 1: You're not responding, so what's going on?

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Speaker 6: Yeah, So toward the end of the date, he asked

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Speaker 6: me if I wanted to go back to his place

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Speaker 6: to hang out, and I was completely on board at first,

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Speaker 6: but he said he just needed to grab and stop

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Speaker 6: and grab some condoms first, and honestly, it really shocked me.

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Speaker 6: It was really presumptuous, and it made things really awkward.

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Speaker 6: And I wasn't even planning when I'm sex with him,

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Speaker 6: so I suddenly felt pressure and then I didn't want

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Speaker 6: to speak to him again after that.

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Speaker 1: Oh okay, so it's like, you know, everything's going well,

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Speaker 1: and then he said, hey, let's go back to my place,

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Speaker 1: and you agree as you just said, like, yeah, let's

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Speaker 1: do that. And then what is it like, let's just

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Speaker 1: swing into the Walgreens real quick so I can pick

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Speaker 1: some stuff up?

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Speaker 7: Me?

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Speaker 2: Like, how did that happen?

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Speaker 6: I mean basically yeah, right before we were going back

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Speaker 5: But he toldally threw me off what it was for.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, he was explicit about why he was stopping. I mean,

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Speaker 1: not that you wouldn't have maybe seen what he bought,

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Speaker 1: but like, I guess there is a sly way to do.

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Speaker 5: That, but yeah, there's a swagger you could do.

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Speaker 2: Oh what does that look for? Rufel?

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Speaker 5: What's wrong with?

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Speaker 8: I mean, he's I understand where you're coming from, but

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Speaker 8: he is if something were to happen, he's being safe.

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Speaker 8: You know what I'm saying, it's not like he's like, Oh,

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Speaker 8: we're gonna, we're gonna do it.

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Speaker 5: Yes, he is.

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Speaker 6: On his own time. You know, he shouldn't need my

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Speaker 6: time to do that and also assume that we're gonna

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Speaker 6: have said I.

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Speaker 1: Feel like that's the uber driver that makes me sit

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Speaker 1: there while they stop for gas.

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Speaker 2: Weird to drive through. I'm like, what do you doing?

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Speaker 1: You like, no, you need to be prepared for this, okay,

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Speaker 1: like you know, And the thing is, I don't. I

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Speaker 1: don't know, like you're going on a date. I guess

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Speaker 1: you don't expect to go home with someone the first night.

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Speaker 1: But I guess it's one of those things that you

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Speaker 1: just sort of keep on hand, and then if you

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Speaker 1: don't have it, then maybe you don't do it, you

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Speaker 1: know what I mean?

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Speaker 2: Like, wouldn't that would be the end of the world.

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Speaker 5: You need gum?

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Speaker 6: Right?

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Speaker 5: Are you supposed to go buy some snacks? You know,

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Speaker 5: I'm gonna get the snacks to take back to the house.

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Speaker 5: You stay in the car and then you just go

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Speaker 5: on the gas station and do what you gotta do.

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Speaker 5: I agree, not that I've done it before.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, yeah, listen, I had a guy to Honestly, if

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Speaker 7: you did it like that, maybe I wouldn't have.

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Speaker 1: Minded right, well, maybe you wouldn't have even known, you know,

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Speaker 1: So I think it was the announcement that was yeah, Christopher, hey, man, Like,

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry, I forgot to mention that Christopher is here.

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Speaker 2: I feel like, oh, I feel like I don't know.

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Speaker 1: It's one of those things where when you're running low

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Speaker 1: on trash bags, you get on Amazon. And that was

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Speaker 1: a weird comparison, but you know, when you're running low

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Speaker 1: on a household item, you get on Amazon your order

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Speaker 1: before you run out. I kind of feel like, you know,

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Speaker 1: you want to have that on hand anyway, and if

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Speaker 3: But that's why you're not calling me back.

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Speaker 1: Have you Have you been here for the last five minutes. Yes,

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Speaker 1: that's why she's not calling you back. Are you shocked,

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Speaker 1: like you have a Probably you're surprised. Yeah, why, I

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Speaker 1: just wanted to be safe. Yeah, but that's not the point.

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Speaker 1: And that's nice that you wanted to be safe. But

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Speaker 1: the point is that by saying that, it's you're basically

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Speaker 1: announcing that you're intent in taking her home. Is to

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Speaker 1: sleep with her, and that may or may not have

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Speaker 1: been on the table, but I think it's when you're

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Speaker 1: that explicit that it sort of it seems presumptuous.

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Speaker 5: I would feel pressured as a woman, honestly.

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Speaker 4: Thank you as flirty as you were, and then you're

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Speaker 4: going back to my place.

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Speaker 3: Okay, that seems like a big sign.

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Speaker 2: Chris.

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Speaker 1: I'm not getting on board with this because you don't

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Speaker 1: get to do that. You don't get to say to

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Speaker 1: sending you a message nobody has to do anything, and

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Speaker 1: and the two.

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Speaker 4: Things to do anything. But she's not obligated. But she

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Speaker 4: was certainly on board. It seemed like.

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Speaker 1: It seemed like but you didn't have that conversation, did you,

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Speaker 1: Like you didn't say let's go home to my house

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Speaker 1: and sleep together, to which she said yes.

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Speaker 3: It just seemed like it was about to happen to you.

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Speaker 3: You know, I'm just trying to be safe.

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Speaker 1: I mean you're making yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, when you

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Speaker 1: do the whole thing like well, she was sending me

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Speaker 1: the message like no, I mean, you're allowed to flirt

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Speaker 1: with somebody without the expectation of sex and I don't.

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Speaker 2: I don't like that. I don't like that.

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Speaker 4: They feel like a very life is too short kind

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Speaker 4: of person. It's not like a modern woman, her profile

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Speaker 4: and everything.

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Speaker 3: So I thought, I.

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Speaker 2: Think you could be a modern woman.

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Speaker 7: And a modern woman. Yeah, what centry do you live

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Speaker 7: on with? I'm glad that we're not going on a

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Speaker 7: second date. Okay, it's in a different centry here.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, player, man, everybody here was kind of like, okay,

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Speaker 1: you were trying. I was trying to see the other

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Speaker 1: side of this until you you tell me this thing

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Speaker 1: about the vibe.

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Speaker 2: And who knows. I don't know.

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Speaker 1: Maybe in the course of the date, you know, things

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Speaker 1: got really sexual in nature. Maybe I don't know. It

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Speaker 1: could have been different if she's like, let's go home,

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Speaker 1: and you know what, and and then you're okay, well

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Speaker 1: I need to prepare myself. But this is all your assumption,

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Speaker 1: and that's the problem.

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Speaker 3: You're sorry, she came in my place. It was pretty

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Speaker 3: easy to serve. You can't not hearing him?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it is no, Yeah, there's no point.

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Speaker 6: I don't think this is going to get through the head.

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Speaker 2: Well you can go to that just some thing. Why

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Speaker 2: am I even arguing?

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Speaker 6: Right?

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Speaker 2: Return them condoms home. You're not gonna need them.

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Speaker 5: Right, Yeah, that's why anyway.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, they're all expire before the twenty second century.

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Speaker 5: When you figure out.

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Speaker 3: I'll use them with someone else about your.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, all right, Carl, thank you so much for answering

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Speaker 1: and I I don't have to ask the question. There

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Speaker 1: won't be a second date, but but I appreciate you

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Speaker 1: and and Christopher good luck out there.

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Speaker 3: Thank you whatever,