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Speaker 1: Should you plan for a divorce before you even get married?

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Speaker 1: It's the Jewel Show And that is a question that

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Speaker 1: was asked on the internet because somebody asked people to

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Speaker 1: share their unpopular opinions about marriage that most people probably

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Speaker 1: don't agree with. And we'll go over the list right now.

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Speaker 1: Do you think each of these are good or bad

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Speaker 1: advice for people getting married? I'm gonna say mostly bad.

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Speaker 1: And that was one of the things. An unpopular opinion

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Speaker 1: about marriage is plan for a divorce before you tie

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Speaker 1: the knof people say this all the time. I mean, like,

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Speaker 1: because divorce rate's way high, right, Yeah, I mean there's

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Speaker 1: a difference doom being realistic. Right, Something could happen, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: at some point and you guys could get a divorce,

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Speaker 1: but like to plan for it. This kind of seems

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Speaker 1: like you're doing the whole situation. I know that. I mean,

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Speaker 1: what does that mean? I mean it's a prenup. Oh yo,

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Speaker 1: I don't really know what a prenup is. That's agreement, agreement. No,

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Speaker 1: it's just basically like before you get married, you just say, okay,

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Speaker 1: like if we get divorced, I'm gonna keep this, You're

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Speaker 1: gonna keep this. I'm going to have this. I'm going

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Speaker 1: to have this much amount of like whatever you guys

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Speaker 1: have together, and I gonna have this, like if it's

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Speaker 1: a business or whatever deal. Yeah, it's like you keep.

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Speaker 1: It's like stuff you had before you were married. You

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Speaker 1: get to keep and then you split up the stuff

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Speaker 1: that you get why you're married, whatever, whatever your agreement is,

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Speaker 1: it can be whatever you want, right, it's lawyers and

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Speaker 1: all of it. Another thing from unpopular opinions about marriage

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Speaker 1: that most people probably don't agree with. Another unpopular opinion,

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Speaker 1: this one I don't agree with, but maybe you will.

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Speaker 1: Married couples should have separate bank accounts and separate homes.

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Speaker 1: Separate homes, complete, separate houses. I think the psychotic. Isn't

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Speaker 1: that called dating? Yeah? Or not knowing? Even married? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: well you're married. If you guys are living in separate

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Speaker 1: houses with separate bank accounts, it doesn't even make sense single.

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Speaker 1: I could at a stretch, you understand the bank accounts, right.

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Speaker 1: But the only time that I think a separate bank

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Speaker 1: account is good is if you're trying to buy a present.

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Speaker 1: Because anytime I have to buy a present for Alex's birthday, whatever,

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Speaker 1: Alex and I are married, if you don't have to

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Speaker 1: say it. By the way, uh, if I'm like, I

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Speaker 1: want to buy a present, I'd be like, hey, don't

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Speaker 1: because Alex is always on top of everything. So I'm like,

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Speaker 1: don't check the credit card for like a week if

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Speaker 1: you could. And if you see a charge on there,

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Speaker 1: like that seems like higher than normal from weird place,

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Speaker 1: just like, don't look at where it's from. That's the

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Speaker 1: only hard part about having car trying to bake account.

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Speaker 1: Another unpopular opinion about marriage families shouldn't be too involved

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Speaker 1: in a marriage. Yes, I do agree with that. Parents

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Speaker 1: really shouldn't be involved at all. I mean unless it's

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Speaker 1: like in a supportive way, right, if it's like in

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Speaker 1: a negative whatever, I don't know if it's warranted. That's

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Speaker 1: one thing. But a lot of parents just or family

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Speaker 1: just gets involved because they want to. Because they want to, yeah,

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Speaker 1: and they want to tell you how to live your life,

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Speaker 1: because you usually you should living your life like they

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Speaker 1: live their life. Like if there's a situation where you're

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Speaker 1: one of your family has to help you out, that's

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Speaker 1: one thing. But just being like I don't like your

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Speaker 1: husband facial hair and I think he needs to shave

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Speaker 1: it or else he should divorce him. Then that's kind

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Speaker 1: of weird. Yeahoo. And then another unpopular opinion about marriage

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Speaker 1: that most people probably don't agree with. They say, nobody

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Speaker 1: should propose out of the blue, out of it. So

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Speaker 1: I don't just so what so let them know your mom?

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Speaker 1: I think that like people do have a conversation like, hey,

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Speaker 1: do you want to get married too? We get married

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Speaker 1: like at some point and then plant like you should

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Speaker 1: have brought it up in the past. You should know

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Speaker 1: that they want to go down that right, Like if

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Speaker 1: you guys have been dating and like what if it's

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Speaker 1: just like the dude just wants to get married and

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Speaker 1: like the girl's not feeling it's like a new relationship

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Speaker 1: and he's just like gets done one knee. She's like,

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Speaker 1: you should be clear about that, like know that she

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Speaker 1: wants to marry you, or know that he wants to

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Speaker 1: marry you before you ask the question. Yeah, otherwise you

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Speaker 1: just send yourself up for a very awkward experience and

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Speaker 1: everybody at the Olive Garden is gonna laugh at you

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Speaker 1: because that's where you get engaged at. Jebel actually was

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Speaker 1: supposed to help somebody propose on stage the other day

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Speaker 1: and yeah, and then he did it. He like was like,

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Speaker 1: all right, come on up, you know, and like the

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Speaker 1: girl obviously didn't know, and the guy was like, nah, nah,

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Speaker 1: it was so awkward. I had a comedy show. I

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Speaker 1: had a comedy show, and I'm literally okay, oh I

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Speaker 1: forgot to do the proposal thing because I was ending

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Speaker 1: the show. I was like, oh, yeah, that's right. I

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Speaker 1: was supposed to help this guy propose. I'm like, this

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Speaker 1: is a perfect opportunity. Actually, it's a very uplifting message

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Speaker 1: that I'm trying to say. So I'm like, actually, hey,

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Speaker 1: blah blah blah, are you hearing? They're like, yeah, come

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Speaker 1: on up, man. So I was all excited. I'm like, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I get to help this d propose. Are you kidding me? This?

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Speaker 1: It's great. Heart's gonna explode, might cry. And then he's

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Speaker 1: just like yeah maybe next time. Yeah, maybe next he said,

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Speaker 1: maybe next time, And I'm like, your girlfriend's city right

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Speaker 1: in front of you. She doesn't know what's going on

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Speaker 1: right now. I'm like I don't okay, yeah, And then

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Speaker 1: I'm like how would he play that off? Like actually,

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Speaker 1: never mind, he didn't even bring the ring, said our friend.

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Speaker 1: He was planning on it, and then he's like chicken

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Speaker 1: Dob before he even like out there apparently all right,

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Speaker 1: text in four or six one and have you ever

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