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Speaker 2: I think if you can't spell, you should be allowed.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that's true. No, c A L L you gotta

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Speaker 2: I gotta tell you no.

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Speaker 3: I just think that.

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Speaker 2: Again, just like.

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Speaker 5: Dudes dressing up like that, fucking you know, other ships

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Speaker 5: are like same sex people adopting kids, like we should

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Speaker 5: look into that. That's gonna affect the kids at some point.

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Speaker 5: It is, I don't know in which what way, but

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Speaker 3: First of all.

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Speaker 5: First of all, anybody that's adopted should have therapy anyway. Okay,

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Speaker 5: I think anybody that's adopted, whether you.

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Speaker 3: Some abandonment issues and you're doing a.

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Speaker 5: But I think, but now when you start saying, Okay,

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Speaker 5: so I think that you definitely need because you don't

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Speaker 3: When I was growing up, yes, now, that kid's probably

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Speaker 4: I don't think that kid is getting picked on. What

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Speaker 2: Are the fuck out of here.

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Speaker 5: You don't think a kid with the same sex parents

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Speaker 4: Possibly, but not as often.

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Speaker 3: My little cousins are the most social justice fucking warriors

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Speaker 4: These kids do not play. These kids don't use the word.

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Speaker 4: They don't like. These kids are growing up on the internet.

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Speaker 3: I think I think people like you would bully the kids.

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Speaker 3: I think their peers would like them.

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Speaker 2: I was never a bully.

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Speaker 3: I'm saying like right now, no, I'm not a bully.

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Speaker 2: Somebody like me.

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Speaker 2: I don't me personally. I don't give a fuck about it.

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Speaker 3: I just know how kids are wherein different Where are.

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Speaker 4: The kids you went to school with? They different from

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Speaker 3: Yeah they are.

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Speaker 1: We're I think we were probably the last batch of that,

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Speaker 3: No way, we see it. We still see it.

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Speaker 4: These kids, man, the kids I talk every once in

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Speaker 5: I just think that, like I said, heterosexual, even if

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't. I don't disagree with that at all.

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Speaker 5: I just think the optic of it, like if going

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Speaker 5: And it's not that they're not trying to be mean,

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Speaker 2: Will find a way to poke fund at either one

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Speaker 3: An only fans.

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Speaker 5: I believe that like you probably get expelled for having

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Speaker 3: Or kids are gonna find and kids are mean, but

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Speaker 2: That's what I'm trying to say.

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Speaker 3: If it's two supportive gay parents, I mean that kids, No,

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Speaker 4: But why do they have to get therapy because kids

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Speaker 4: Kids get picked down for being poor, kids get being

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Speaker 5: When I was getting picked on and you had to

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Speaker 2: You'll stop.

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Speaker 5: Once his nose is bleeding. I bet you gonna fuck

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Speaker 5: they're you know, they're they're more coddle. They're like, nah, okay,

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Speaker 2: It was like, all right, like what you want to

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Speaker 1: As soon as the classes over now get like mental

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Speaker 1: the way that they're coddled is drastically different.

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Speaker 5: But you see that they get older though, yeah, I mean,

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Speaker 5: but the cause I'm with Themaras, I believe that that's

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Speaker 5: part of growing up picked on. Like I said all

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Speaker 2: A way to shit on you. So it's like, yo,

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Speaker 4: But there's different, there's different.

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Speaker 5: Now, oh my god, they go crazy, they start fucking

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Speaker 4: It's like, but there's different. There's different kinds of bullying

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Speaker 4: I don't give what his outfit looks like, or you know,

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Speaker 3: Gotta give that kid some gum.

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Speaker 1: Let them know, give them some I see you can

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Speaker 1: gum changes every time said that we had My school

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Speaker 1: had so many potential schools. You my high five in

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Speaker 3: Let him know, I see you.

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Speaker 1: So when they bring that thing in, you're just like.

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Speaker 3: Remember me, I'm the gum man.

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Speaker 2: I gave you that.

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Speaker 1: I can run because I'm pussy, but I fuck with you.

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Speaker 3: Though, wasn't that.

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Speaker 2: Part of the column ship. Wasn't those kids like bullied

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Speaker 2: the trench Coat mafia kids. Wasn't that like their thing?

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Speaker 3: It was like ten of them, Yeah, but wasn't they

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Speaker 1: There's ten friends they were kids were lucky.

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Speaker 5: They were bullied, right, is that when they started.

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Speaker 3: It wasn't no normal, It was no different than.

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Speaker 5: Like, isn't that why they started that whole that whole

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Speaker 3: Like culture hard though Yeah, I mean like as far

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Speaker 3: Morpheus coats, very black panther esque. Not doing that.

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Speaker 2: See how you tried to do that.

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Speaker 3: Don't do that, but you just tried. Don't try it? Right.

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Speaker 3: When I was in elementary school, we had indoor recess,

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Speaker 3: Like remember when with rain or whatever you can go outside.

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Speaker 3: Do you just have a recess in the classroom? This kid,

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Speaker 3: so naturally everyone picked on him. Of course, real reftable

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Speaker 5: This person has looked that different because they're yo, he'll

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Speaker 1: It to what you were saying earlier, Ma about how

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Speaker 5: Like sometimes you cause, again, you want people to feel

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Speaker 3: Like those are the outcasts. It's like, yo, these people

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Speaker 5: But now if I say, oh, something wrong with this person,

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Speaker 3: Well, I mean some people would say they've become that

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Speaker 3: But even then that's I agree, but that has become

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Speaker 5: I mean, yeah, I see what you're saying, But I

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Speaker 5: Yeah, but that's what I'm saying, Like, but some people

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Speaker 5: Yeah, let's take that brain in that mindset, and let's

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Speaker 5: No, but that's if you're a we know if you're

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Speaker 5: There's a lot of violence that comes from there. You

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Speaker 3: Do we think do we think Freeway Director Ross needed

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Speaker 3: I just need to sell heroin. No, No, I have

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Speaker 5: Though, yes, and because of who he is maybe yes,

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Speaker 3: Again, they come home and it's still no other option.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, So it's like, that's why they need rehabilitation, because

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Speaker 3: But what's what's so fucked up about that is the

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Speaker 2: Genet come from those situations.

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Speaker 3: It's very tough for felons, of course, Preme being a

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Speaker 5: want to sp for Damerica because she's watching the snowfall.

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00:20:03,800 --> 00:20:09,000
Speaker 5: You know, Franklin became It's like how Hope said, we

443
00:20:09,080 --> 00:20:12,000
Speaker 5: become accustomed to the money. It's kind of like the

444
00:20:12,000 --> 00:20:14,760
Speaker 5: fiends were accustomed to serving. It's like we become addicts

445
00:20:14,800 --> 00:20:17,480
Speaker 5: now because we're addicted to this fast money, the lifestyle,

446
00:20:17,560 --> 00:20:21,159
Speaker 5: the cause, the jewelry to women, things like that. So

447
00:20:21,280 --> 00:20:24,520
Speaker 5: now if you have that mindset and you know you

448
00:20:24,560 --> 00:20:27,000
Speaker 5: were used to making hundreds of millions of dollars on

449
00:20:27,040 --> 00:20:29,080
Speaker 5: the streets illegally, and you come home and they're like.

450
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Speaker 3: Okay, here's this nice job.

451
00:20:30,720 --> 00:20:32,679
Speaker 2: You're gonna get paid the first very month, and this

452
00:20:32,680 --> 00:20:35,399
Speaker 2: that and the third, and it's like okay, cool. But

453
00:20:35,440 --> 00:20:38,200
Speaker 2: then you're gonna look up and be like, man, I

454
00:20:38,240 --> 00:20:39,200
Speaker 2: ain't used to this shit.

455
00:20:39,320 --> 00:20:40,120
Speaker 3: Yeah this ain't.

456
00:20:40,280 --> 00:20:42,280
Speaker 5: You know, you're giving me five thousand dollars a month.

457
00:20:43,040 --> 00:20:45,000
Speaker 5: I was making that in an hour on the streets,

458
00:20:45,440 --> 00:20:47,200
Speaker 5: you know what I'm saying. So they need to rehab

459
00:20:47,200 --> 00:20:49,520
Speaker 5: because they're addicted to that lifestyle. They need a lot

460
00:20:49,560 --> 00:20:50,600
Speaker 5: to have that lifestyle.

461
00:20:50,880 --> 00:20:51,560
Speaker 2: So that's where the.

462
00:20:51,480 --> 00:20:54,560
Speaker 3: Rehabilitation comes in. For men that were in that position.

463
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Speaker 5: It's like you have to change their way of thinking

464
00:20:57,560 --> 00:20:59,800
Speaker 5: the things that they're accustomed to, they're used to because

465
00:21:00,240 --> 00:21:02,440
Speaker 5: it's a whole different life now. It's not the same

466
00:21:02,480 --> 00:21:04,639
Speaker 5: lifestyle that you have before. The money is not fast,

467
00:21:05,400 --> 00:21:07,320
Speaker 5: it's not coming in as much as quick as you

468
00:21:07,359 --> 00:21:09,679
Speaker 5: thought it was. This is more of work, This is

469
00:21:09,680 --> 00:21:11,960
Speaker 5: more of a process. This is more of time. And

470
00:21:12,200 --> 00:21:14,680
Speaker 5: you know, you you're on the streets. Everything is right now.

471
00:21:15,000 --> 00:21:18,280
Speaker 5: It's just like instant like instantaneous. I need this money now.

472
00:21:18,480 --> 00:21:22,320
Speaker 3: Well, let me let me play a Republican advocate, so

473
00:21:22,440 --> 00:21:27,280
Speaker 3: Devil's advocate. Yeah, see the face. What if I'm a

474
00:21:27,359 --> 00:21:30,399
Speaker 3: tax paying citizen, My taxes are now going to have

475
00:21:30,440 --> 00:21:33,600
Speaker 3: to pay for someone that was destroying the community to

476
00:21:33,680 --> 00:21:36,639
Speaker 3: be rehabilitated, and now I have to take care of

477
00:21:36,680 --> 00:21:39,159
Speaker 3: the person that was harming this neighborhood.

478
00:21:39,600 --> 00:21:40,040
Speaker 2: Well, we know.

479
00:21:40,160 --> 00:21:42,680
Speaker 5: The taxes is a fucking joke. I was just talking

480
00:21:42,680 --> 00:21:45,160
Speaker 5: to somebody the other day. I saw cops like, I'm

481
00:21:45,160 --> 00:21:46,840
Speaker 5: telling you, I'm doing this thing that way. I just

482
00:21:46,880 --> 00:21:49,560
Speaker 5: watch cops now, now, okay, it's so much in taxes.

483
00:21:49,760 --> 00:21:52,520
Speaker 5: I just watched police. I'm like, so they standing by

484
00:21:52,600 --> 00:21:55,320
Speaker 5: the by the subway on their phone.

485
00:21:55,800 --> 00:21:57,760
Speaker 3: They always do the same with the leg up posts.

486
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Speaker 3: They just they just don't even pretend to look like

487
00:22:00,040 --> 00:22:00,440
Speaker 3: they're working.

488
00:22:00,520 --> 00:22:01,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm in the car.

489
00:22:01,280 --> 00:22:04,600
Speaker 3: I just yelled out, I said, do something.

490
00:22:05,080 --> 00:22:06,439
Speaker 4: What if they arrested your asses?

491
00:22:06,560 --> 00:22:09,399
Speaker 5: Okay, they're yelling do something, like yo, do something, And

492
00:22:09,400 --> 00:22:11,600
Speaker 5: they looked at me like so my whole life like

493
00:22:11,600 --> 00:22:14,560
Speaker 5: it was wrong. I'm like, I'm like, bro, taxpayers are

494
00:22:14,640 --> 00:22:18,159
Speaker 5: paying their salary. Yeah, they're literally standing on the corner

495
00:22:18,600 --> 00:22:20,400
Speaker 5: not doing anything, and they're on the clock.

496
00:22:20,400 --> 00:22:21,160
Speaker 2: They're getting paid.

497
00:22:21,359 --> 00:22:23,880
Speaker 3: Now, you understand our white Karen outbursts.

498
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Speaker 5: No, no, I just a lot of it. Listen a

499
00:22:28,200 --> 00:22:32,520
Speaker 5: lot of the times. Now I understand it. I totally understand.

500
00:22:32,560 --> 00:22:34,720
Speaker 5: It's like when you when you work hard and you

501
00:22:35,080 --> 00:22:37,200
Speaker 5: are living in a certain neighborhood, you move your family

502
00:22:37,240 --> 00:22:39,160
Speaker 5: to a certain neighborhood and you're paying all this money

503
00:22:39,200 --> 00:22:41,800
Speaker 5: and taxes and you know, things like that mortgages and

504
00:22:41,800 --> 00:22:44,720
Speaker 5: all of that. You do want your neighborhood to be

505
00:22:44,800 --> 00:22:47,639
Speaker 5: to a certain standard, Like you don't want the person

506
00:22:47,680 --> 00:22:48,680
Speaker 5: that lives across from you.

507
00:22:48,640 --> 00:22:50,879
Speaker 3: To have shit all in there in their yard and

508
00:22:50,960 --> 00:22:51,640
Speaker 3: on their lawn.

509
00:22:51,480 --> 00:22:53,480
Speaker 2: And shit like that. You like, like, bro, what is

510
00:22:53,520 --> 00:22:53,960
Speaker 2: y'all doing?

511
00:22:54,040 --> 00:22:55,919
Speaker 5: Like you don't want that, Like you don't want somebody

512
00:22:55,960 --> 00:22:58,159
Speaker 5: selling dope right next to you. It's like, you know,

513
00:22:58,280 --> 00:23:01,520
Speaker 5: I don't care, Like I'm from this the hood, And

514
00:23:01,560 --> 00:23:03,360
Speaker 5: I understand that. When you're in it, it's like, yo,

515
00:23:03,400 --> 00:23:04,960
Speaker 5: it's nothing you could do. You're in it, like you

516
00:23:05,080 --> 00:23:07,880
Speaker 5: just got to navigate and and and and and kind

517
00:23:07,880 --> 00:23:09,280
Speaker 5: of try to get out of it the best way,

518
00:23:09,320 --> 00:23:11,440
Speaker 5: you know how. And I feel for people in that.

519
00:23:11,680 --> 00:23:13,320
Speaker 5: But when you're able to get to a certain level

520
00:23:13,359 --> 00:23:16,679
Speaker 5: where you're like Okay, I'm out of that environment. You

521
00:23:16,680 --> 00:23:19,560
Speaker 5: don't want that shit seeping back into your into your space.

522
00:23:19,840 --> 00:23:21,560
Speaker 5: You're like, bro, I bust my ass. I went to school,

523
00:23:21,560 --> 00:23:23,000
Speaker 5: I did what I had to do. I save money,

524
00:23:23,080 --> 00:23:25,840
Speaker 5: I slept on the fucking floor for years, stacked my

525
00:23:25,880 --> 00:23:27,040
Speaker 5: bread to get to a certain.

526
00:23:26,840 --> 00:23:29,000
Speaker 2: Level, Like I don't want none of that shit around

527
00:23:29,000 --> 00:23:29,440
Speaker 2: me no more.

528
00:23:29,560 --> 00:23:31,399
Speaker 5: Because a lot of the times in the hood, people

529
00:23:31,600 --> 00:23:33,160
Speaker 5: when they say we don't have a way out, it's

530
00:23:33,160 --> 00:23:35,359
Speaker 5: not that people don't have a way out. It's a

531
00:23:35,359 --> 00:23:38,480
Speaker 5: lot of times people just are not shown the way out. Sure,

532
00:23:38,760 --> 00:23:40,240
Speaker 5: so they just be like, yo, fuck it, I guess

533
00:23:40,240 --> 00:23:42,119
Speaker 5: this is it. It's like, nah, this ain't it, Like

534
00:23:42,160 --> 00:23:43,919
Speaker 5: you know, you gotta want That's why the ones that

535
00:23:43,960 --> 00:23:46,359
Speaker 5: make it are the ones that want more for themselves

536
00:23:46,359 --> 00:23:48,640
Speaker 5: than they actively go and pursue that, like there has

537
00:23:48,680 --> 00:23:49,680
Speaker 5: to be a way out of this shit.

538
00:23:50,280 --> 00:23:52,199
Speaker 3: I mean, but that could even go to a deeper

539
00:23:52,600 --> 00:23:57,520
Speaker 3: mentality of not owning anything in your neighborhood, Like, oh,

540
00:23:57,520 --> 00:24:01,360
Speaker 3: for sure, it's a little different when you're paying rent.

541
00:24:01,640 --> 00:24:04,119
Speaker 3: It's a very low income neighborhood. So the taxes that

542
00:24:04,160 --> 00:24:05,960
Speaker 3: the city are even going to put in to keeping

543
00:24:06,080 --> 00:24:08,400
Speaker 3: roads together, or even clean up shit that the city

544
00:24:08,400 --> 00:24:10,880
Speaker 3: should do with your tax dollars isn't happening at all, or.

545
00:24:10,840 --> 00:24:14,880
Speaker 5: Taking tax dollars and putting opportunities into the hood.

546
00:24:14,680 --> 00:24:18,040
Speaker 3: Because when you're in more like middle class or affluent neighborhoods,

547
00:24:18,040 --> 00:24:19,959
Speaker 3: for the most part, everyone owns their house, so you're

548
00:24:20,040 --> 00:24:22,920
Speaker 3: kind of all in it together because your property value

549
00:24:23,359 --> 00:24:25,320
Speaker 3: is based off your neighbors as well and how things

550
00:24:25,400 --> 00:24:27,720
Speaker 3: appear and how much it's taken care of. Even the

551
00:24:27,720 --> 00:24:31,480
Speaker 3: school system, like you're all kind of on the same team,

552
00:24:31,600 --> 00:24:34,120
Speaker 3: rather than someone that's living in a building that they're

553
00:24:34,160 --> 00:24:37,240
Speaker 3: paying rent for their landlord's not doing the upkeep in

554
00:24:37,280 --> 00:24:39,240
Speaker 3: the hallways because that's not the responsibility of they're paying

555
00:24:39,280 --> 00:24:42,360
Speaker 3: rent and everything is just shitty, So it's like, why

556
00:24:42,400 --> 00:24:45,760
Speaker 3: even take care of anything. It's not ours. The city's

557
00:24:45,800 --> 00:24:48,560
Speaker 3: not taking care of what they own. Landlord is living

558
00:24:48,560 --> 00:24:51,560
Speaker 3: in Long Islands, some fucking slumlord never comes, doesn't do shit.

559
00:24:52,440 --> 00:24:53,919
Speaker 3: Everything is gonna look terrible.

560
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Speaker 1: Systemic real estate and housing racism has just been the

561
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Speaker 1: biggest cat for the discrepancy between I mean, just to

562
00:25:03,880 --> 00:25:07,560
Speaker 1: put it lightly, blacks and whites in America, in any city,

563
00:25:07,640 --> 00:25:11,359
Speaker 1: in any suburb. I mean it's you seldom see any

564
00:25:11,440 --> 00:25:14,480
Speaker 1: black people own property, and then now we're seeing when

565
00:25:14,480 --> 00:25:16,919
Speaker 1: they do own property, what they're willing to do to

566
00:25:17,080 --> 00:25:19,880
Speaker 1: make sure that they have Like their homies barbershop gets

567
00:25:19,920 --> 00:25:22,160
Speaker 1: of space. He can now make money on that property

568
00:25:22,400 --> 00:25:24,280
Speaker 1: and make money on the business instead of just putting

569
00:25:24,280 --> 00:25:26,440
Speaker 1: all the money from the business back into the property

570
00:25:26,440 --> 00:25:28,399
Speaker 1: for something that he doesn't even own. And it's like,

571
00:25:28,440 --> 00:25:30,679
Speaker 1: it's nice to see these things happen in pockets. But

572
00:25:31,359 --> 00:25:33,840
Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, for fifty sixty some ideas, whatever the

573
00:25:33,840 --> 00:25:35,960
Speaker 1: case may be. Shit, my parents couldn't get a home

574
00:25:36,000 --> 00:25:39,760
Speaker 1: together in upstate New York for seven eight years because

575
00:25:39,800 --> 00:25:41,760
Speaker 1: they were a mixed couple and my dad worked in

576
00:25:41,800 --> 00:25:45,040
Speaker 1: real estate and they were just kept getting denied homes

577
00:25:45,119 --> 00:25:48,600
Speaker 1: because they nobody wanted a mixed couple in the neighborhood.

578
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Speaker 2: That's insane.

579
00:25:49,640 --> 00:25:52,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, it happens. No, it definitely has. Red liney.

580
00:25:53,000 --> 00:25:57,320
Speaker 4: Redlining is still happening, like still happening when people go

581
00:25:57,359 --> 00:25:59,560
Speaker 4: to purchase houses, when black people go to purchase houses,

582
00:25:59,560 --> 00:26:01,080
Speaker 4: and it's it, it's crazy.

583
00:26:01,200 --> 00:26:03,680
Speaker 5: I just see the thing that I don't understand a

584
00:26:03,800 --> 00:26:06,160
Speaker 5: stand about that. Like in twenty twenty three.

585
00:26:06,960 --> 00:26:07,560
Speaker 2: I think that.

586
00:26:07,480 --> 00:26:15,159
Speaker 5: There's so many examples of just like information is so

587
00:26:15,280 --> 00:26:17,159
Speaker 5: available to where it's like, how do you still have

588
00:26:17,200 --> 00:26:20,879
Speaker 5: that mindset of like not lett want the interracial couple

589
00:26:21,560 --> 00:26:22,840
Speaker 5: to live in your neighborhood.

590
00:26:22,840 --> 00:26:24,520
Speaker 1: You know what it can lead to if you let

591
00:26:24,760 --> 00:26:27,560
Speaker 1: someone into that neighborhood and then they eventually can purchase

592
00:26:27,600 --> 00:26:31,879
Speaker 1: the home that gives them a black man and whoever

593
00:26:31,960 --> 00:26:35,120
Speaker 1: with their family, the potential to grow generational wealth.

594
00:26:35,119 --> 00:26:37,399
Speaker 3: The whole point of this is just to keep them down.

595
00:26:37,520 --> 00:26:40,159
Speaker 5: Yeah, but that's again I understand what you're saying, but

596
00:26:40,240 --> 00:26:42,639
Speaker 5: it's it's still strange to me that people try to

597
00:26:42,680 --> 00:26:47,960
Speaker 5: operate in that way because it's like we have we

598
00:26:48,040 --> 00:26:53,600
Speaker 5: have so many examples of outstanding black men and women

599
00:26:53,840 --> 00:26:57,200
Speaker 5: and interracial couples that are doing great things, like.

600
00:26:57,440 --> 00:26:59,720
Speaker 4: How they're the good ones though they don't.

601
00:26:59,520 --> 00:27:02,840
Speaker 5: Think that's that's crazy to me that people still operate

602
00:27:02,880 --> 00:27:05,760
Speaker 5: like that. Like if you if you don't have information

603
00:27:06,320 --> 00:27:09,840
Speaker 5: about certain things, then it's like, I can't be too

604
00:27:09,880 --> 00:27:11,480
Speaker 5: mad at your ignorance because it's like, Okay, you just

605
00:27:11,520 --> 00:27:14,720
Speaker 5: don't have the information on that. But there's plenty of

606
00:27:14,840 --> 00:27:18,600
Speaker 5: information out here that shows that that mentality is wrong.

607
00:27:19,080 --> 00:27:22,000
Speaker 3: But so many people are just raised in those households,

608
00:27:22,040 --> 00:27:25,439
Speaker 3: so it's like in their makeup as they're growing up,

609
00:27:25,480 --> 00:27:28,520
Speaker 3: it's embedded in them. Yeah. And then so many people

610
00:27:29,240 --> 00:27:31,919
Speaker 3: don't live in diverse places. They only see people that

611
00:27:31,960 --> 00:27:34,840
Speaker 3: look like them, so they're not even going to naturally

612
00:27:34,880 --> 00:27:38,440
Speaker 3: seek out any information about anyone else. And we obviously

613
00:27:38,520 --> 00:27:41,760
Speaker 3: know how the perception of black people is pushed to

614
00:27:41,800 --> 00:27:44,239
Speaker 3: people that would not go research, and that's it's it's

615
00:27:44,320 --> 00:27:46,400
Speaker 3: going to be Middle America that's only going to get

616
00:27:46,440 --> 00:27:52,040
Speaker 3: this created perception of black people from whatever one news

617
00:27:52,080 --> 00:27:54,600
Speaker 3: source they watch, or whatever conversation they see on Facebook.

618
00:27:54,640 --> 00:27:57,840
Speaker 3: It's all one bubble, so they actually think they're informed.

619
00:27:57,920 --> 00:28:02,639
Speaker 4: Yeah, conversations confirmation confirmation bias, like when you see something

620
00:28:02,720 --> 00:28:05,399
Speaker 4: to support your beliefs, so what you already thought, and

621
00:28:05,440 --> 00:28:07,880
Speaker 4: then like you see, oh a black man was convicted

622
00:28:07,880 --> 00:28:09,960
Speaker 4: of rape. See I knew they were all rapists. They're

623
00:28:10,000 --> 00:28:12,760
Speaker 4: gonna ignore every other good news story they hear about

624
00:28:12,760 --> 00:28:15,439
Speaker 4: black people because of confirmation bias, because I believe that

625
00:28:15,480 --> 00:28:18,280
Speaker 4: these people are villains or I believe that they are

626
00:28:18,280 --> 00:28:20,800
Speaker 4: trying to take over our country that we already took over.

627
00:28:21,720 --> 00:28:24,880
Speaker 4: This is what automatically when I see something that supports that, Ah,

628
00:28:24,960 --> 00:28:26,080
Speaker 4: this is the proof that I needed.

629
00:28:26,160 --> 00:28:28,400
Speaker 5: No Listen, we know that some people are just gonna

630
00:28:28,440 --> 00:28:30,879
Speaker 5: be ignorant until the day they die. Like there's no

631
00:28:31,080 --> 00:28:34,600
Speaker 5: there's no changing you know, you can't save everybody, you

632
00:28:34,640 --> 00:28:35,800
Speaker 5: can't change everybody.

633
00:28:35,800 --> 00:28:36,240
Speaker 2: We know that.

634
00:28:36,320 --> 00:28:39,040
Speaker 5: But I just think that in twenty twenty three, with

635
00:28:39,240 --> 00:28:41,920
Speaker 5: as how progressive the world is, it's just still so

636
00:28:42,200 --> 00:28:45,000
Speaker 5: wild to me that it's still so many people that

637
00:28:45,040 --> 00:28:47,600
Speaker 5: are just like operating on a dial up.

638
00:28:47,640 --> 00:28:49,800
Speaker 3: Still it's like some people, of course, there's gonna be

639
00:28:49,800 --> 00:28:52,360
Speaker 3: stuck in their ways forever, and that's just the world

640
00:28:52,600 --> 00:28:56,360
Speaker 3: that we live in. They are also pro creating. That's

641
00:28:56,440 --> 00:28:59,400
Speaker 3: also the issue. Like we know plenty of people. I

642
00:28:59,440 --> 00:29:02,520
Speaker 3: even have family members that are sixty years old, stuck

643
00:29:02,520 --> 00:29:05,240
Speaker 3: in their ways forever, no matter what the situation is.

644
00:29:05,280 --> 00:29:08,080
Speaker 3: That's how they think. There's no changing them, and everyone's

645
00:29:08,120 --> 00:29:10,520
Speaker 3: given up on trying to change them. Is what it is.

646
00:29:10,680 --> 00:29:14,040
Speaker 3: They have children and they put that exact mind state

647
00:29:14,440 --> 00:29:17,600
Speaker 3: from when the kid is fucking one years old into

648
00:29:17,600 --> 00:29:20,120
Speaker 3: their brains, so that kid is now thinking that's law,

649
00:29:20,480 --> 00:29:23,160
Speaker 3: Like that's just how they grow up. For the most part,

650
00:29:24,040 --> 00:29:27,680
Speaker 3: you have similar ideologies to your parents. When it comes

651
00:29:27,720 --> 00:29:33,360
Speaker 3: to anything racially, politically, etc. That does, for the most part,

652
00:29:33,440 --> 00:29:35,880
Speaker 3: come from your parents. It may change now because there's

653
00:29:35,880 --> 00:29:38,720
Speaker 3: the Internet, but that's scary too, because you'll have a

654
00:29:38,800 --> 00:29:41,680
Speaker 3: kid that has good parents but will go on fucking

655
00:29:42,520 --> 00:29:45,920
Speaker 3: Reddit and do a deep dive on QAnon and is

656
00:29:45,960 --> 00:29:48,080
Speaker 3: already trying to revolt against their parents and now they're

657
00:29:48,240 --> 00:29:50,320
Speaker 3: fucking shooting up schools in the name of Trump.

658
00:29:50,720 --> 00:29:54,080
Speaker 5: But you know what, though, like, because there's been instances

659
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Speaker 5: where we've seen like people do wild shit and it's

660
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Speaker 5: like oldest person's with the and then you see their

661
00:30:03,680 --> 00:30:06,840
Speaker 5: parents and you like, they came from like a.

662
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Speaker 2: Good household.

663
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Speaker 5: Parents seem to be you know, we don't know. Again,

664
00:30:12,800 --> 00:30:14,360
Speaker 5: we don't know what goes on behind shops doors. But

665
00:30:14,400 --> 00:30:17,760
Speaker 5: for the most part, parents have you know, a good

666
00:30:17,800 --> 00:30:19,800
Speaker 5: head on their shoulders, They have good morals.

667
00:30:19,840 --> 00:30:22,280
Speaker 2: They you know, made a.

668
00:30:22,240 --> 00:30:26,920
Speaker 5: Good living, created a plethora of opportunities for their kids

669
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Speaker 5: to succeed, and kids still find a way to And

670
00:30:31,160 --> 00:30:34,960
Speaker 5: it's like, so when you say the parents are it's like, yeah,

671
00:30:34,960 --> 00:30:37,800
Speaker 5: but it happens in instance where the parents aren't fucked up.

672
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Speaker 3: It's both the nature and nurture.

673
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Speaker 1: I mean that's I think they're equally affect how someone

674
00:30:43,480 --> 00:30:46,880
Speaker 1: turns out. Yeah, Like, but think about it when when

675
00:30:47,160 --> 00:30:50,239
Speaker 1: I when you're a kid and you're in school, and

676
00:30:50,280 --> 00:30:52,000
Speaker 1: this clicked for me when I was like teacher, I

677
00:30:52,280 --> 00:30:54,440
Speaker 1: see these kids more than their parents did during the week,

678
00:30:54,520 --> 00:30:58,360
Speaker 1: Like they're here with me six hours whatever the case

679
00:30:58,400 --> 00:31:00,400
Speaker 1: may be, like a full school's day, and then after

680
00:31:00,400 --> 00:31:02,440
Speaker 1: school programs all those other things that come with that.

681
00:31:02,880 --> 00:31:07,040
Speaker 1: So in essence, I am there, like in every adult

682
00:31:07,120 --> 00:31:10,400
Speaker 1: that's in this building is there, there were really raising

683
00:31:10,440 --> 00:31:12,680
Speaker 1: them to the extent of like who they become, how

684
00:31:12,680 --> 00:31:15,480
Speaker 1: they should you know, think learn not just outside of

685
00:31:15,560 --> 00:31:19,160
Speaker 1: learning academically, I just mean socially. It's like the nature

686
00:31:19,240 --> 00:31:21,400
Speaker 1: part of it is a big aspect we've seen, and

687
00:31:21,400 --> 00:31:25,360
Speaker 1: like unders underserved communities, the schooling system is trash, so

688
00:31:25,400 --> 00:31:28,080
Speaker 1: they're not getting a good education, and then they're coming

689
00:31:28,080 --> 00:31:30,240
Speaker 1: home to parents that more often than not in underserved

690
00:31:30,280 --> 00:31:32,880
Speaker 1: communities are working more than one job, so they're running

691
00:31:32,880 --> 00:31:34,960
Speaker 1: in and out of the house. Maybe there's not even

692
00:31:34,960 --> 00:31:37,200
Speaker 1: someone to cook them food. You're like eating fast food,

693
00:31:37,280 --> 00:31:39,400
Speaker 1: going to sleep. Mom's got like a night shift or

694
00:31:39,440 --> 00:31:41,760
Speaker 1: dad's got a night shift. If both parents are around, like,

695
00:31:41,800 --> 00:31:45,840
Speaker 1: it's just not stable, and that's what causes like where

696
00:31:45,840 --> 00:31:48,320
Speaker 1: do I go? And now kids with the internet. At

697
00:31:48,520 --> 00:31:51,160
Speaker 1: Tory's point, that's just a terrific place to turn to me.

698
00:31:51,160 --> 00:31:54,600
Speaker 4: And the kids, the kids that they're around are affecting

699
00:31:54,640 --> 00:31:56,880
Speaker 4: them as well. Because my parents raised me will all

700
00:31:56,960 --> 00:31:59,680
Speaker 4: kinds of ideologies. But once I got in school and

701
00:31:59,680 --> 00:32:01,680
Speaker 4: I'm a around these kids, I'm in school all day

702
00:32:01,720 --> 00:32:03,520
Speaker 4: and then I'm in track or I'm in dance practice.

703
00:32:03,600 --> 00:32:05,840
Speaker 4: I am with my peers all the time. So now

704
00:32:05,880 --> 00:32:09,400
Speaker 4: whatever their parents taught them is now rubbing off on me.

705
00:32:09,840 --> 00:32:11,479
Speaker 3: I just explained that of me picking on a kid,

706
00:32:11,520 --> 00:32:13,160
Speaker 3: I didn't want to pick on because I was following

707
00:32:13,200 --> 00:32:15,880
Speaker 3: what my peers were doing, Like that's embedded with you.

708
00:32:16,160 --> 00:32:20,200
Speaker 3: And I had great parents, so I could only imagine

709
00:32:20,240 --> 00:32:23,680
Speaker 3: the kid that doesn't have great parents, yeah, following his

710
00:32:23,800 --> 00:32:25,960
Speaker 3: peers in that regard to Joant, can I ask you

711
00:32:25,960 --> 00:32:28,600
Speaker 3: a question though, to the point you're making because you

712
00:32:28,680 --> 00:32:31,960
Speaker 3: got your degree in teaching, right, like my master's in education. Yeah,

713
00:32:32,000 --> 00:32:38,040
Speaker 3: so when in those courses, Because I agree, teachers definitely

714
00:32:38,360 --> 00:32:40,640
Speaker 3: raise your kids to some degree. It's not just teaching

715
00:32:40,760 --> 00:32:43,520
Speaker 3: math English. Whatever. Is that part of the course in

716
00:32:43,600 --> 00:32:46,040
Speaker 3: training as a teacher or are they teaching you just

717
00:32:46,080 --> 00:32:49,480
Speaker 3: how to teach the lesson plan? Are they teaching you

718
00:32:49,520 --> 00:32:53,959
Speaker 3: how to socially teach children? Yeah, and I think that's something.

719
00:32:54,400 --> 00:32:56,320
Speaker 3: Of course, there's gotdance counselors and that's their job. But

720
00:32:57,760 --> 00:33:00,160
Speaker 3: to your point, yeah, they spend so much time with

721
00:33:00,200 --> 00:33:03,000
Speaker 3: their teachers, there should be some social training when it

722
00:33:03,000 --> 00:33:05,400
Speaker 3: comes to kids as well, not just hey, this is

723
00:33:05,440 --> 00:33:07,920
Speaker 3: how you teach a long division. I'm really good at

724
00:33:07,920 --> 00:33:08,960
Speaker 3: teaching kids long division.

725
00:33:09,000 --> 00:33:11,240
Speaker 1: I had a non traditional route to teaching because I

726
00:33:11,240 --> 00:33:14,720
Speaker 1: did teach for America this program where I would say

727
00:33:14,760 --> 00:33:17,960
Speaker 1: the training was more intense than the actual program itself.

728
00:33:19,680 --> 00:33:23,080
Speaker 1: But I don't want to knock like a proper programmer

729
00:33:23,160 --> 00:33:26,080
Speaker 1: degree in education because I'm sure that it's more thorough

730
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Speaker 1: than the process I went through because I was getting

731
00:33:28,120 --> 00:33:30,680
Speaker 1: my Masters while I was teaching, so it was like,

732
00:33:30,840 --> 00:33:33,280
Speaker 1: I'm learning this shit as I'm doing it, and it's like,

733
00:33:33,320 --> 00:33:36,160
Speaker 1: that's not fair to the kid. But I was like,

734
00:33:36,360 --> 00:33:38,920
Speaker 1: I would just use former experience. I was a cam counselor.

735
00:33:38,960 --> 00:33:40,880
Speaker 1: I have a couple of nephews and a niece that

736
00:33:40,920 --> 00:33:42,520
Speaker 1: were around the age of the students. I tost so

737
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Speaker 1: like I was able to employ those.

738
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Speaker 3: Type of skills with them.

739
00:33:47,200 --> 00:33:51,800
Speaker 1: Socially, I was way more concerned about the like relearning

740
00:33:51,840 --> 00:33:53,560
Speaker 1: how to teach a kid how to use a comma

741
00:33:53,840 --> 00:33:54,960
Speaker 1: and like semi calls and shit.

742
00:33:55,240 --> 00:33:58,680
Speaker 3: I might say, a condom, you should teach kids how

743
00:33:58,720 --> 00:34:00,920
Speaker 3: to use them, though you should not. That's what health classes.

744
00:34:01,640 --> 00:34:04,120
Speaker 2: You know what happened to health class? You know how

745
00:34:04,160 --> 00:34:05,360
Speaker 2: many kids got pregnant?

746
00:34:06,240 --> 00:34:10,319
Speaker 3: What's funny? He on the already walking to their first

747
00:34:10,320 --> 00:34:13,200
Speaker 3: health class? Like that fucked me up.

748
00:34:13,239 --> 00:34:15,000
Speaker 5: The first time I saw a girl pregnant in high

749
00:34:15,000 --> 00:34:18,040
Speaker 5: school fucked me up like that, I'm talking my full

750
00:34:18,040 --> 00:34:19,080
Speaker 5: stomach fucked me up.

751
00:34:19,080 --> 00:34:21,480
Speaker 2: I looked at her like she's pregnant?

752
00:34:21,480 --> 00:34:21,799
Speaker 4: How old?

753
00:34:21,880 --> 00:34:22,040
Speaker 7: Real?

754
00:34:22,080 --> 00:34:24,600
Speaker 4: Because when I was I was thirteen. Yeah, when I

755
00:34:24,600 --> 00:34:26,360
Speaker 4: was a sixth grade I want to say.

756
00:34:26,360 --> 00:34:28,520
Speaker 2: Had they had a nursery in my school?

757
00:34:28,640 --> 00:34:31,279
Speaker 3: Saying my high school one? That was crazy to me?

758
00:34:31,320 --> 00:34:33,920
Speaker 5: I was like yo, what like like oh so y'all

759
00:34:33,920 --> 00:34:37,360
Speaker 5: fucking fucking like yeah, I got kid like that was crazy,

760
00:34:37,440 --> 00:34:39,560
Speaker 5: Like we don't we don't think about that enough? Like

761
00:34:39,600 --> 00:34:42,759
Speaker 5: I'm a thirteen year old kid. I went to for

762
00:34:42,800 --> 00:34:44,720
Speaker 5: the most part. Growing up, I went to private school,

763
00:34:45,440 --> 00:34:47,800
Speaker 5: so my schools were a lot smaller, which means, you

764
00:34:47,840 --> 00:34:49,640
Speaker 5: know how there's doing just more attention to detail with

765
00:34:49,640 --> 00:34:51,960
Speaker 5: the kids. You get more a personal relationships teachers because

766
00:34:52,280 --> 00:34:56,200
Speaker 5: classes are smaller. So my freshman year, it was the

767
00:34:56,239 --> 00:34:58,440
Speaker 5: first time I ever went to a public school.

768
00:35:00,160 --> 00:35:01,160
Speaker 3: And this is in the Bronx.

769
00:35:01,200 --> 00:35:03,480
Speaker 5: This is like Clinton High School in the Bronx, like

770
00:35:03,640 --> 00:35:06,480
Speaker 5: big ass fucking school. Beautiful school though, Like the architecture

771
00:35:06,520 --> 00:35:09,640
Speaker 5: was nice, like beautiful school, but that was like a

772
00:35:09,680 --> 00:35:13,239
Speaker 5: culture shock to me to see like four thousand kids

773
00:35:13,320 --> 00:35:15,279
Speaker 5: inside of like going walking inside.

774
00:35:14,960 --> 00:35:17,160
Speaker 3: Of one building. Yeah, I was like, what the fuck.

775
00:35:17,200 --> 00:35:19,480
Speaker 5: Then it's kids from all different sides of the burrow

776
00:35:19,520 --> 00:35:20,600
Speaker 5: that you don't even fuck it.

777
00:35:20,600 --> 00:35:21,920
Speaker 3: So we're all in the same building.

778
00:35:22,280 --> 00:35:24,640
Speaker 5: And now you're talking about kids that probably never had

779
00:35:24,680 --> 00:35:27,919
Speaker 5: sex yet, like much of freshmans probably never had sex.

780
00:35:28,800 --> 00:35:31,440
Speaker 5: You're putting them in a building with girls that are pregnant,

781
00:35:32,360 --> 00:35:34,200
Speaker 5: like and then she's pregnant by this kid that has

782
00:35:34,239 --> 00:35:37,120
Speaker 5: class with you. Like, that's a lot to kind of

783
00:35:37,160 --> 00:35:39,160
Speaker 5: like navigate with because you probably didn't even have that

784
00:35:39,239 --> 00:35:41,160
Speaker 5: conversation at home yet.

785
00:35:41,200 --> 00:35:42,959
Speaker 2: Really, at thirteen fourteen years old.

786
00:35:43,040 --> 00:35:45,439
Speaker 4: Did your parents give you guys birds and the beast talk?

787
00:35:46,400 --> 00:35:50,080
Speaker 3: No birds in the beat? Hell? Nah, I just watched

788
00:35:50,400 --> 00:35:53,520
Speaker 3: at the time that conversation could have had birds. Did

789
00:35:53,520 --> 00:35:54,520
Speaker 3: you get one, Julian.

790
00:35:54,320 --> 00:35:55,680
Speaker 4: Like you have like a healthy household?

791
00:35:56,040 --> 00:35:56,279
Speaker 7: Uh.

792
00:35:56,320 --> 00:35:58,560
Speaker 1: My parents are always open. It wasn't like we have

793
00:35:58,640 --> 00:36:00,400
Speaker 1: to sit you down and do something serious. They were

794
00:36:00,440 --> 00:36:03,879
Speaker 1: always just like if stuff came up, we just talk

795
00:36:04,000 --> 00:36:05,719
Speaker 1: about it. But I don't remember that being like one

796
00:36:05,760 --> 00:36:07,680
Speaker 1: definitive conversation or moment.

797
00:36:08,239 --> 00:36:11,440
Speaker 5: I think my mom just knew when I was having sex.

798
00:36:11,480 --> 00:36:13,680
Speaker 5: I think she kind of just knew, like because we

799
00:36:13,719 --> 00:36:16,520
Speaker 5: had such a relationship, like we didn't necessarily talk about it,

800
00:36:16,800 --> 00:36:17,760
Speaker 5: but she could start.

801
00:36:17,560 --> 00:36:19,439
Speaker 2: Seeing, like where you going.

802
00:36:20,239 --> 00:36:22,640
Speaker 5: I'm like, no, I'm gonna go see she were about

803
00:36:22,640 --> 00:36:24,520
Speaker 5: to go see a girl. We're going, like, all right,

804
00:36:24,719 --> 00:36:26,799
Speaker 5: just make sure you're back at a certain time. If

805
00:36:26,840 --> 00:36:29,239
Speaker 5: I had a girl that come to the house, like

806
00:36:29,280 --> 00:36:31,200
Speaker 5: I couldn't close the door until I was probably like

807
00:36:31,680 --> 00:36:33,920
Speaker 5: sixteen seventeen, like you know, shit like that.

808
00:36:33,960 --> 00:36:35,920
Speaker 2: But my mom's knew when I was fucking.

809
00:36:35,640 --> 00:36:38,880
Speaker 4: Like wow, I can't even imagine that something like that. Wow.

810
00:36:39,280 --> 00:36:42,759
Speaker 4: But having somebody over period and different for.

811
00:36:43,120 --> 00:36:44,759
Speaker 2: The door I think it's different for boy.

812
00:36:45,239 --> 00:36:47,760
Speaker 1: I was also like kind of a square. I didn't

813
00:36:47,840 --> 00:36:49,560
Speaker 1: I mean that's actually went to college. Like I didn't

814
00:36:49,560 --> 00:36:49,919
Speaker 1: do anything.

815
00:36:50,080 --> 00:36:53,320
Speaker 3: You just held your first gun two weeks ago though, right,

816
00:36:53,960 --> 00:36:54,640
Speaker 3: I'm gangang.

817
00:36:55,560 --> 00:36:57,600
Speaker 2: Now that's how it starts. Now you gd I like

818
00:36:57,600 --> 00:36:59,839
Speaker 2: to go back to the school with it. Now you're

819
00:37:00,080 --> 00:37:01,560
Speaker 2: for drill. You're about to be a drill rapper.

820
00:37:09,080 --> 00:37:10,680
Speaker 4: Wait, so the health class scare you?

821
00:37:10,680 --> 00:37:12,400
Speaker 2: Guys scared the funk out of me.

822
00:37:13,160 --> 00:37:15,560
Speaker 5: Well, the health class didn't scared me seeing pregnant girls

823
00:37:15,600 --> 00:37:16,040
Speaker 5: walking through.

824
00:37:16,120 --> 00:37:20,560
Speaker 3: They show you the birthing video. Who in health class? Yeah,

825
00:37:20,760 --> 00:37:24,200
Speaker 3: we had the puberty movie in like fifth or sixth grade. Yeah,

826
00:37:24,280 --> 00:37:26,759
Speaker 3: health class in high school. I think I don't know

827
00:37:26,760 --> 00:37:29,239
Speaker 3: if I had health class in junior high. I think

828
00:37:29,239 --> 00:37:30,040
Speaker 3: we just had gym.

829
00:37:30,120 --> 00:37:32,200
Speaker 4: I had I had health class. I had health class

830
00:37:32,239 --> 00:37:34,800
Speaker 4: in junior high. But it wasn't sex a health to

831
00:37:35,080 --> 00:37:37,760
Speaker 4: was sex ad and we got that in tenth grade

832
00:37:38,160 --> 00:37:41,640
Speaker 4: when we were around fifteen. But they showed once they

833
00:37:41,640 --> 00:37:44,840
Speaker 4: showed pictures of like they started showing STI pictures. That

834
00:37:45,520 --> 00:37:46,200
Speaker 4: shook a bit chup.

835
00:37:46,239 --> 00:37:48,239
Speaker 3: Yeah, they show you all that shit. You started like, oh,

836
00:37:48,360 --> 00:37:49,000
Speaker 3: I don't want that.

837
00:37:49,400 --> 00:37:52,600
Speaker 4: Yeah, that shook me up for what was it waffle

838
00:37:53,160 --> 00:37:55,399
Speaker 4: that fake that ship. I didn't have sex for a year.

839
00:37:55,440 --> 00:37:56,319
Speaker 4: I didn't have sex for a year.

840
00:37:56,320 --> 00:37:58,000
Speaker 3: When I said that lit, my virginity might have been

841
00:37:58,000 --> 00:38:02,080
Speaker 3: worth the bumps yo ed and I don't know what, Julian,

842
00:38:02,080 --> 00:38:02,759
Speaker 3: you could pull us up.

843
00:38:02,800 --> 00:38:05,080
Speaker 2: What was the name of the kid? It was a

844
00:38:05,080 --> 00:38:05,759
Speaker 2: movie about him.

845
00:38:05,840 --> 00:38:07,360
Speaker 5: He was from the Bronx and they that was the

846
00:38:07,360 --> 00:38:09,000
Speaker 5: movie they showed you when they told you don't don't

847
00:38:09,040 --> 00:38:10,839
Speaker 5: sell drugs and he ended up.

848
00:38:10,719 --> 00:38:13,520
Speaker 3: In a wheelchair? Fuck, I know exactly what was the

849
00:38:13,600 --> 00:38:14,799
Speaker 3: name of that bro?

850
00:38:14,920 --> 00:38:17,680
Speaker 5: That was the crazy thinking back, It wasn't that we

851
00:38:17,680 --> 00:38:20,160
Speaker 5: were scared of like guns and shit like that. We

852
00:38:20,200 --> 00:38:21,319
Speaker 5: was just like, yo, I ain't trying to end up

853
00:38:21,320 --> 00:38:24,480
Speaker 5: in a wheel chair. That's what scarned the I remember

854
00:38:24,480 --> 00:38:26,680
Speaker 5: that because I was like, Yo, he in a wheelchair.

855
00:38:26,440 --> 00:38:28,319
Speaker 3: As a kid. I know exactly what you're talking about

856
00:38:28,360 --> 00:38:29,040
Speaker 3: as a kid, Like.

857
00:38:29,000 --> 00:38:31,200
Speaker 5: Being paralyzed in the wheelchair was the scary, like some

858
00:38:31,280 --> 00:38:33,759
Speaker 5: of the scariest. It was like, forget all the shootouts

859
00:38:33,760 --> 00:38:35,400
Speaker 5: told me was in like and all of that. That

860
00:38:35,400 --> 00:38:37,520
Speaker 5: didn't that was kind of like whatever. The fact that

861
00:38:37,560 --> 00:38:40,560
Speaker 5: he ended up in a wheelchair, and I remember that

862
00:38:40,640 --> 00:38:42,759
Speaker 5: was the one, the one video they used to show

863
00:38:42,840 --> 00:38:45,320
Speaker 5: us all the time. I was like, yo, I forgot

864
00:38:45,320 --> 00:38:45,960
Speaker 5: the dude's name.

865
00:38:46,360 --> 00:38:50,000
Speaker 3: Yo, you just saying something earlier. I guess I never

866
00:38:50,040 --> 00:38:54,719
Speaker 3: realized the crazy age gap of fourteen and eighteen in

867
00:38:54,760 --> 00:38:56,840
Speaker 3: those years and being in high school of you just

868
00:38:56,880 --> 00:39:01,440
Speaker 3: saying freshmen going in with seeing people when you're like

869
00:39:01,480 --> 00:39:05,239
Speaker 3: a fourteen year old boy going through puberty, damn, near

870
00:39:05,560 --> 00:39:09,640
Speaker 3: the start peak of crazy puberty. And then you see

871
00:39:09,640 --> 00:39:12,399
Speaker 3: an eighteen year old girl. There's a drastic difference there,

872
00:39:12,640 --> 00:39:16,680
Speaker 3: because eighteen year old girls, some of them, can look

873
00:39:16,760 --> 00:39:20,719
Speaker 3: like grown women, and fourteen year old boys look like children.

874
00:39:21,080 --> 00:39:23,640
Speaker 3: And that four year gap of how so much your

875
00:39:23,680 --> 00:39:26,279
Speaker 3: mind and your body changes and sex being introduced to

876
00:39:26,320 --> 00:39:28,759
Speaker 3: your life, that's a crazy four year gap to put

877
00:39:29,120 --> 00:39:33,840
Speaker 3: everyone in the same place. She's like, I remember getting

878
00:39:33,840 --> 00:39:36,040
Speaker 3: off the bus my first day or second day of

879
00:39:36,080 --> 00:39:38,960
Speaker 3: high school and just like, no, there's ditties everywhere. It's

880
00:39:39,000 --> 00:39:43,600
Speaker 3: a coach of cities everywhere, and you're just already naturally

881
00:39:43,680 --> 00:39:45,839
Speaker 3: horny as fuck, like not in a predatory way, but yeah,

882
00:39:45,880 --> 00:39:48,320
Speaker 3: it's like figuring out what your sexual urges.

883
00:39:48,080 --> 00:39:50,839
Speaker 5: Are now, see what you're saying, now, take that right,

884
00:39:51,360 --> 00:39:54,680
Speaker 5: Like he's so imagine kids that are in high school now.

885
00:39:54,680 --> 00:39:57,719
Speaker 3: I mean, like the way girls dress terrifying, and the

886
00:39:57,760 --> 00:40:00,040
Speaker 3: way the chicks I'm talking about was intertal Next it

887
00:40:00,120 --> 00:40:00,640
Speaker 3: was like, oh.

888
00:40:00,520 --> 00:40:01,960
Speaker 2: My gosh, that's what I'm saying.

889
00:40:02,000 --> 00:40:02,520
Speaker 3: I went to school.

890
00:40:02,520 --> 00:40:06,200
Speaker 5: Girls had on baggy Tommy Yill figure jeans, big gap hoodies.

891
00:40:06,600 --> 00:40:09,640
Speaker 5: Like it wasn't like now, it's like they went fashion

892
00:40:09,719 --> 00:40:10,480
Speaker 5: over the school.

893
00:40:10,520 --> 00:40:12,560
Speaker 2: And I'm like, yo, as a fourteen.

894
00:40:12,320 --> 00:40:14,279
Speaker 5: Year old kid, if you're in class with a girl

895
00:40:14,360 --> 00:40:18,399
Speaker 5: that's seventeen shaped like this girl is on Instagram, how

896
00:40:18,440 --> 00:40:21,440
Speaker 5: does this kid focus in class as a fourteen year

897
00:40:21,440 --> 00:40:23,200
Speaker 5: old kid going through fucking puberty?

898
00:40:23,280 --> 00:40:24,680
Speaker 2: Like how this is like?

899
00:40:25,440 --> 00:40:27,719
Speaker 5: You have girls on your fucking wall that look like

900
00:40:27,719 --> 00:40:31,040
Speaker 5: this girl and it's like it's like that movie Weird Science,

901
00:40:31,080 --> 00:40:34,160
Speaker 5: Like imagine the girl of your dreams walking in your

902
00:40:34,200 --> 00:40:36,760
Speaker 5: classroom and you like, y'all expect me to focus in here.

903
00:40:37,239 --> 00:40:39,160
Speaker 3: Y'all trying this to solve for X. When you're trying

904
00:40:39,160 --> 00:40:40,799
Speaker 3: to hide a boner, you don't know how it got there.

905
00:40:41,440 --> 00:40:44,839
Speaker 3: What I will fuckings terrifying twelve o'clock tuck.

906
00:40:45,920 --> 00:40:47,840
Speaker 4: What I will say is. I know, we see like

907
00:40:47,880 --> 00:40:49,799
Speaker 4: a lot of like these young girls who are like

908
00:40:49,840 --> 00:40:52,480
Speaker 4: wearing the weaves now and stuff like that, but a

909
00:40:52,480 --> 00:40:54,920
Speaker 4: lot of the like teenage girls I'm around, they look

910
00:40:55,000 --> 00:40:57,799
Speaker 4: like teenage girls. We might say like, oh, they looked

911
00:40:57,800 --> 00:40:59,680
Speaker 4: older than we did when we were younger, but when

912
00:40:59,680 --> 00:41:02,480
Speaker 4: you look got a teenage girl, she still like looks

913
00:41:02,520 --> 00:41:05,520
Speaker 4: like a teenage girl, if that makes sense. Cool.

914
00:41:05,680 --> 00:41:08,080
Speaker 3: No, it's some teenage girls that don't look like teenage.

915
00:41:07,840 --> 00:41:10,680
Speaker 4: Yeah, some, but I'm talking about the vast majority they

916
00:41:10,719 --> 00:41:13,440
Speaker 4: look like they even with make they look like.

917
00:41:13,440 --> 00:41:13,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, but no.

918
00:41:13,920 --> 00:41:15,560
Speaker 5: But what I'm saying is it's a lot of just

919
00:41:16,920 --> 00:41:21,840
Speaker 5: aesthetically seventeen eighteen year girls, the way they dress, the

920
00:41:21,960 --> 00:41:23,080
Speaker 5: way they make themselves up.

921
00:41:23,200 --> 00:41:24,520
Speaker 2: Has she I remember we was in school. It was

922
00:41:24,560 --> 00:41:24,759
Speaker 2: a girl.

923
00:41:24,760 --> 00:41:28,239
Speaker 5: They used to come to school with a briefcase, and

924
00:41:28,280 --> 00:41:31,200
Speaker 5: I would never was beautiful, like she never spoke to nobody,

925
00:41:31,239 --> 00:41:35,239
Speaker 5: never talked to nobody. But just because the way she

926
00:41:35,320 --> 00:41:39,000
Speaker 5: was carrying herself was so different aesthetically, it was kind

927
00:41:39,040 --> 00:41:42,320
Speaker 5: of like, wow, like you wanted to know more about

928
00:41:42,320 --> 00:41:44,000
Speaker 5: this girl, but then she never talked. But then it

929
00:41:44,080 --> 00:41:48,240
Speaker 5: fucked everybody up. When after school this dude that's nineteen

930
00:41:48,360 --> 00:41:51,640
Speaker 5: is picking up in the fucking Honda fucking Civic. You're like, oh,

931
00:41:51,640 --> 00:41:53,400
Speaker 5: I see why she ain't talking to nobody. A boyfriend

932
00:41:53,480 --> 00:41:55,600
Speaker 5: drops a fucking car, which was a big deal if

933
00:41:55,640 --> 00:41:58,240
Speaker 5: you're thirteen fourteen years old in high school.

934
00:41:58,239 --> 00:41:59,120
Speaker 4: They live in New York City.

935
00:41:59,120 --> 00:42:00,319
Speaker 2: I understand. I'm saying.

936
00:42:00,320 --> 00:42:01,839
Speaker 5: It's like, Oh, I get why she don't give us

937
00:42:01,880 --> 00:42:04,600
Speaker 5: no conversation. A boyfriend has a fucking car he's picking

938
00:42:04,640 --> 00:42:06,560
Speaker 5: up from school, which is weird.

939
00:42:06,760 --> 00:42:09,759
Speaker 3: But I think the briefcase is weird to begin with.

940
00:42:09,920 --> 00:42:12,719
Speaker 5: But but again, that was just how she wanted to

941
00:42:12,760 --> 00:42:13,240
Speaker 5: be different.

942
00:42:13,280 --> 00:42:15,720
Speaker 3: I used to do that a briefcase to school school.

943
00:42:15,800 --> 00:42:17,440
Speaker 3: It was like my grandfather is old.

944
00:42:17,560 --> 00:42:20,000
Speaker 1: My grandfather was waiting as a teacher as a student

945
00:42:20,920 --> 00:42:22,160
Speaker 1: when I was not in high school.

946
00:42:22,160 --> 00:42:24,920
Speaker 3: When I was in college, I would use it. It's

947
00:42:25,400 --> 00:42:26,080
Speaker 3: when I taught out.

948
00:42:26,120 --> 00:42:27,760
Speaker 5: But if you was in high school walking the class

949
00:42:27,800 --> 00:42:30,640
Speaker 5: with a briefcase, I know they fucking you up every day.

950
00:42:30,680 --> 00:42:36,160
Speaker 3: And roly backpack. I definitely didn't. You had backpack.

951
00:42:36,320 --> 00:42:38,239
Speaker 4: You probably had like the messenger we had the back

952
00:42:38,239 --> 00:42:40,000
Speaker 4: when I was I definitely had a messenger back.

953
00:42:40,880 --> 00:42:43,200
Speaker 2: Julie Ever rode on the back of a bus, Julian

954
00:42:43,280 --> 00:42:43,560
Speaker 2: or I.

955
00:42:43,600 --> 00:42:44,920
Speaker 3: Mean, ed you ever rode on the back of a

956
00:42:45,120 --> 00:42:45,760
Speaker 3: city bus?

957
00:42:46,040 --> 00:42:48,799
Speaker 8: No, I was always too pussy, Like hold on the

958
00:42:48,800 --> 00:42:50,520
Speaker 8: back of the.

959
00:42:49,920 --> 00:42:51,799
Speaker 3: I thought about it a few signs, but I backed up.

960
00:42:52,640 --> 00:42:54,799
Speaker 4: Oh you mean like outside the bus, like.

961
00:42:54,760 --> 00:42:57,120
Speaker 3: On the back of that was the thinking online. That

962
00:42:57,200 --> 00:42:58,000
Speaker 3: was a thing, A thing.

963
00:42:58,719 --> 00:42:59,960
Speaker 5: I haven't seen that he is, but that was a

964
00:43:00,120 --> 00:43:02,120
Speaker 5: thing like in New York, like you on the back

965
00:43:02,120 --> 00:43:03,919
Speaker 5: of the city bus because the bumper is kind of big,

966
00:43:04,120 --> 00:43:05,520
Speaker 5: so you can stand on it and you just hold

967
00:43:05,520 --> 00:43:06,520
Speaker 5: the fucking.

968
00:43:06,560 --> 00:43:08,120
Speaker 4: Oh, y'all were living a danger.

969
00:43:08,280 --> 00:43:10,719
Speaker 3: No, the wild ship was now they ride on top

970
00:43:10,719 --> 00:43:14,279
Speaker 3: of the trains. Now the car the train kids used

971
00:43:14,280 --> 00:43:16,839
Speaker 3: to go out that last door and hang on the back.

972
00:43:17,320 --> 00:43:18,160
Speaker 3: We ain't do that.

973
00:43:19,440 --> 00:43:20,359
Speaker 4: I wouldn't even do the bus.

974
00:43:20,360 --> 00:43:21,759
Speaker 3: I'm looking at y'all, like, you.

975
00:43:21,719 --> 00:43:23,160
Speaker 2: Know how long it took me to walk through the

976
00:43:23,200 --> 00:43:24,080
Speaker 2: subway cars?

977
00:43:24,640 --> 00:43:25,799
Speaker 3: Oh, I mean you pussy them?

978
00:43:25,960 --> 00:43:28,040
Speaker 5: No, I mean I was not in high school yet,

979
00:43:28,040 --> 00:43:29,840
Speaker 5: but I was like, I think eleven or twelve the

980
00:43:29,840 --> 00:43:32,160
Speaker 5: first time I did that, And to me, that was

981
00:43:32,160 --> 00:43:34,919
Speaker 5: the scary shitting world, Like you're walking through the fucking

982
00:43:35,000 --> 00:43:36,520
Speaker 5: because you just think like anything could happened.

983
00:43:36,520 --> 00:43:39,760
Speaker 3: When I'm walking, I could fucking fall and slip, Yeah.

984
00:43:39,719 --> 00:43:42,000
Speaker 2: Like the train might shake. It's like you don't know.

985
00:43:42,480 --> 00:43:44,040
Speaker 4: When I was in high school, we did stupid shit,

986
00:43:44,080 --> 00:43:45,800
Speaker 4: Like we used to get on top of each other's

987
00:43:45,880 --> 00:43:48,200
Speaker 4: cars and like drop because like my high school was

988
00:43:48,200 --> 00:43:50,279
Speaker 4: on a really big hill and like usually a lot

989
00:43:50,320 --> 00:43:52,239
Speaker 4: of kids would like walk down. Everybody walked out the

990
00:43:52,239 --> 00:43:53,560
Speaker 4: same time and all walk down the hill, and the

991
00:43:53,600 --> 00:43:55,480
Speaker 4: people who had cars, we would like get on the

992
00:43:55,560 --> 00:43:57,600
Speaker 4: roof of their cars and like they would really drive

993
00:43:57,719 --> 00:43:59,839
Speaker 4: really fast down the hill. We did stupid shit.

994
00:44:00,160 --> 00:44:00,919
Speaker 3: Do any dumb shit?

995
00:44:00,960 --> 00:44:02,759
Speaker 4: Like we did stupid shit like that, but I played

996
00:44:02,800 --> 00:44:03,279
Speaker 4: video game?

997
00:44:03,320 --> 00:44:03,759
Speaker 3: What is that?

998
00:44:05,000 --> 00:44:06,920
Speaker 2: The dumbest shit we did and I understand as an.

999
00:44:06,880 --> 00:44:09,880
Speaker 3: Adult now is sitting on people's cars. What it was

1000
00:44:09,880 --> 00:44:13,120
Speaker 3: parked on the block. That's dangerous, that's so annoying.

1001
00:44:13,440 --> 00:44:16,479
Speaker 2: Like I can understan as an adult, I can understand now, like.

1002
00:44:16,760 --> 00:44:18,600
Speaker 5: Why are you if you come out of your house

1003
00:44:21,040 --> 00:44:23,680
Speaker 5: and it's the kids on the block are sitting on

1004
00:44:23,719 --> 00:44:27,560
Speaker 5: your car playing spades, eating Chinese food? All kind of

1005
00:44:27,560 --> 00:44:30,279
Speaker 5: shit we used to do in people calls, like I

1006
00:44:30,320 --> 00:44:32,880
Speaker 5: can as an adult now, I understand, Like yo, I

1007
00:44:33,200 --> 00:44:34,880
Speaker 5: see why some people hated kids growing up.

1008
00:44:35,680 --> 00:44:36,719
Speaker 3: I get it. I get it now.

1009
00:44:36,800 --> 00:44:37,279
Speaker 4: I get it now.

1010
00:44:37,400 --> 00:44:39,400
Speaker 2: I try to understand it. I understand it.

1011
00:44:39,480 --> 00:44:42,080
Speaker 5: Just imagine you go outside right now and this kids

1012
00:44:42,120 --> 00:44:43,440
Speaker 5: sitting on the hood.

1013
00:44:43,200 --> 00:44:48,359
Speaker 3: Of your car. Like most people do their travel by

1014
00:44:48,520 --> 00:44:51,080
Speaker 3: rush hour, Like you don't do the morning evening type shit.

1015
00:44:51,600 --> 00:44:55,760
Speaker 3: I two pm to three thirty four. I don't go outside.

1016
00:44:56,719 --> 00:45:00,400
Speaker 3: Especially in Jersey City, all those fucking kids outside almost annoying,

1017
00:45:00,440 --> 00:45:05,560
Speaker 3: obnoxious assholes. Streets are flooded with menaces. It's crazy.

1018
00:45:05,560 --> 00:45:08,480
Speaker 5: It's crazy how that ship like it changes, Like you

1019
00:45:08,640 --> 00:45:10,920
Speaker 5: was that kid at one point and then now like

1020
00:45:10,920 --> 00:45:13,120
Speaker 5: you're an adult and you're like, when you walk up someone,

1021
00:45:13,160 --> 00:45:14,120
Speaker 5: it's a bunch of high schoolkid.

1022
00:45:14,160 --> 00:45:15,319
Speaker 2: You like, let me get the fuck out of here.

1023
00:45:15,440 --> 00:45:17,480
Speaker 3: Oh oh, I crossed the street immediately.

1024
00:45:17,960 --> 00:45:21,000
Speaker 1: They're so annoying and they just like they don't there's

1025
00:45:21,040 --> 00:45:22,239
Speaker 1: no spatial awareness.

1026
00:45:22,239 --> 00:45:23,879
Speaker 3: They just eat up the whole block.

1027
00:45:24,000 --> 00:45:26,279
Speaker 2: Yeah, bring back six feet apart, bring that I want

1028
00:45:26,320 --> 00:45:28,080
Speaker 2: that move. We need to bring that back.

1029
00:45:28,160 --> 00:45:31,360
Speaker 4: Kids ages from like eight to like sixteen are like

1030
00:45:31,400 --> 00:45:36,520
Speaker 4: awful people. They're awful. Preteen kids are They're awful human being.

1031
00:45:36,640 --> 00:45:38,480
Speaker 3: Yo. So much shit we used to do this, dude,

1032
00:45:38,520 --> 00:45:40,040
Speaker 3: mister Scott that was at the end of the block.

1033
00:45:40,480 --> 00:45:44,759
Speaker 3: We used to fucking grass and like Sudy just do

1034
00:45:44,920 --> 00:45:47,520
Speaker 3: so much fucked up stuff to that guy's house because

1035
00:45:47,520 --> 00:45:51,439
Speaker 3: he always reacted, and like I think back, I still

1036
00:45:51,440 --> 00:45:53,399
Speaker 3: see him, like when I go to my mom's every

1037
00:45:53,440 --> 00:45:55,560
Speaker 3: now and then. He's older now, but when he is

1038
00:45:55,640 --> 00:45:57,960
Speaker 3: outside a few times I cross the street because I'm

1039
00:45:57,960 --> 00:46:02,959
Speaker 3: so ashamed of how much I harassed that guy's house

1040
00:46:03,040 --> 00:46:05,440
Speaker 3: for no reason when we were kids, like and it

1041
00:46:05,520 --> 00:46:07,319
Speaker 3: was our favorite thing and he was hilarious. We did

1042
00:46:07,360 --> 00:46:10,680
Speaker 3: everything to that guy's house. We even put rocks in

1043
00:46:10,719 --> 00:46:13,279
Speaker 3: snowballs and ended up breaking windows before.

1044
00:46:13,239 --> 00:46:17,600
Speaker 4: Oh y'all, did y'all ask what that's bad?

1045
00:46:17,640 --> 00:46:19,600
Speaker 3: Though? I know, but like now I can't even look

1046
00:46:19,600 --> 00:46:21,600
Speaker 3: at him in the face and he's still like, is

1047
00:46:21,640 --> 00:46:22,359
Speaker 3: the nicest guy.

1048
00:46:22,520 --> 00:46:24,640
Speaker 5: I remember the time we found out the neighbor in

1049
00:46:24,680 --> 00:46:27,160
Speaker 5: my building he had one leg longer than.

1050
00:46:27,120 --> 00:46:30,359
Speaker 3: The other, Like was it was it a fake leg

1051
00:46:30,440 --> 00:46:30,880
Speaker 3: or was no?

1052
00:46:30,920 --> 00:46:32,480
Speaker 5: It was like a he had he would put he

1053
00:46:32,520 --> 00:46:35,040
Speaker 5: would put he would no. It was like it was

1054
00:46:35,040 --> 00:46:36,799
Speaker 5: like it was like a disability like he had it

1055
00:46:36,840 --> 00:46:37,640
Speaker 5: was like a baby leg.

1056
00:46:37,680 --> 00:46:38,960
Speaker 2: One leg was like really little.

1057
00:46:38,960 --> 00:46:40,120
Speaker 3: Did you call him Biggie Smalls?

1058
00:46:41,600 --> 00:46:45,359
Speaker 2: Though we didn't call him. But it's funny because I remember.

1059
00:46:47,000 --> 00:46:49,280
Speaker 5: I remember as a kid being scared of him naturally,

1060
00:46:49,360 --> 00:46:51,960
Speaker 5: like a guy comes out of your fucking building.

1061
00:46:52,760 --> 00:46:54,440
Speaker 2: He has one little leg, one little.

1062
00:46:54,200 --> 00:46:57,360
Speaker 5: And then it's like sometimes he wouldn't put the prosthetic

1063
00:46:57,360 --> 00:46:59,400
Speaker 5: piece on, so when he had the prosthetic piece on,

1064
00:46:59,440 --> 00:47:00,440
Speaker 5: it was just like a him.

1065
00:47:00,760 --> 00:47:02,240
Speaker 2: But sometimes he would come out.

1066
00:47:02,200 --> 00:47:03,120
Speaker 3: He's like a wopply table.

1067
00:47:03,160 --> 00:47:04,839
Speaker 5: He was straight get on like just me hopping on

1068
00:47:04,840 --> 00:47:07,880
Speaker 5: my legs. So it was like and this calf was

1069
00:47:07,920 --> 00:47:08,560
Speaker 5: I remember his.

1070
00:47:08,440 --> 00:47:09,680
Speaker 2: Cat the first time I saw him was short.

1071
00:47:09,760 --> 00:47:11,840
Speaker 5: This calf muscle was the biggest ship because he was

1072
00:47:11,960 --> 00:47:13,799
Speaker 5: that was the you know, the one normal leg he had,

1073
00:47:15,239 --> 00:47:17,080
Speaker 5: so we were scared of him. So I remember when

1074
00:47:17,080 --> 00:47:20,920
Speaker 5: we first started like like having conversations with him, like

1075
00:47:20,920 --> 00:47:22,240
Speaker 5: like kicking because he spoke Spanish.

1076
00:47:22,280 --> 00:47:24,160
Speaker 2: I think he was Cuban. I think he was a

1077
00:47:24,200 --> 00:47:25,200
Speaker 2: Cuban Cuban guy.

1078
00:47:25,440 --> 00:47:27,839
Speaker 3: Meanwhile, Castra blew his leg off, and you assholes are.

1079
00:47:28,640 --> 00:47:30,600
Speaker 2: No So I'm like, you know, as kids, you just

1080
00:47:30,640 --> 00:47:31,239
Speaker 2: see like.

1081
00:47:31,160 --> 00:47:33,680
Speaker 3: What the Jacavera just chopped that shit over. But you

1082
00:47:33,680 --> 00:47:35,160
Speaker 3: know it's kids again. You see shit like that and

1083
00:47:35,160 --> 00:47:37,520
Speaker 3: you're just scared, like what the fuck? Like it's a disability,

1084
00:47:37,600 --> 00:47:38,680
Speaker 3: Like yo, get this guy because the.

1085
00:47:38,600 --> 00:47:39,560
Speaker 2: Creepy guy in the building.

1086
00:47:40,239 --> 00:47:44,080
Speaker 5: So I remember one time, probably like sixteen seventeen, I

1087
00:47:44,120 --> 00:47:47,080
Speaker 5: saw one of my homeboys talking to him.

1088
00:47:47,080 --> 00:47:49,800
Speaker 2: So I'm like, like, yo, when you got cool with you?

1089
00:47:49,840 --> 00:47:52,120
Speaker 3: Know what I mean? Like he was, No, you used

1090
00:47:52,120 --> 00:47:52,399
Speaker 3: the name?

1091
00:47:52,400 --> 00:47:56,000
Speaker 2: What names you we used to call him? Damn what

1092
00:47:56,000 --> 00:47:58,120
Speaker 2: we used to call him?

1093
00:47:59,120 --> 00:47:59,720
Speaker 3: That's nubs?

1094
00:48:00,080 --> 00:48:03,279
Speaker 2: No, I forgot the name we used to call him.

1095
00:48:03,280 --> 00:48:04,879
Speaker 3: But I asked him. I said, your wife, I said,

1096
00:48:05,160 --> 00:48:06,920
Speaker 3: Kevin Morgan said when you.

1097
00:48:06,840 --> 00:48:07,680
Speaker 2: Start kicking with him?

1098
00:48:08,200 --> 00:48:11,279
Speaker 3: Of course you said that. Come to find come to

1099
00:48:11,320 --> 00:48:13,720
Speaker 3: find out you called him what.

1100
00:48:13,760 --> 00:48:16,880
Speaker 4: He said when you start kicking it with him? Rory's childish?

1101
00:48:17,360 --> 00:48:18,160
Speaker 4: He mos said it.

1102
00:48:18,200 --> 00:48:18,880
Speaker 3: I didn't say it.

1103
00:48:19,000 --> 00:48:19,319
Speaker 2: No, I.

1104
00:48:21,520 --> 00:48:22,040
Speaker 4: Wasn't there.

1105
00:48:22,400 --> 00:48:24,680
Speaker 3: No, I wasn't born. I wasn't trying to say it

1106
00:48:24,680 --> 00:48:28,000
Speaker 3: like that. But come to find out, this dude was

1107
00:48:28,040 --> 00:48:29,160
Speaker 3: the major coke connect.

1108
00:48:30,320 --> 00:48:35,359
Speaker 2: Yeah that's why he lost. No, but I'm talking about like, yo, Yo,

1109
00:48:35,440 --> 00:48:37,160
Speaker 2: this story is the crazy shit ever.

1110
00:48:37,239 --> 00:48:39,840
Speaker 5: Like because I was asking my whole sit you you

1111
00:48:39,960 --> 00:48:42,040
Speaker 5: start because he came out of his apartment.

1112
00:48:42,480 --> 00:48:44,759
Speaker 3: So I'm like, I'm like, what you was doing? He

1113
00:48:44,800 --> 00:48:47,160
Speaker 3: was like, yo, he the plug.

1114
00:48:47,960 --> 00:48:48,879
Speaker 2: I was like, no way.

1115
00:48:49,280 --> 00:48:51,319
Speaker 5: He was like dog, I'm telling you, man, he's like, yo,

1116
00:48:51,400 --> 00:48:54,080
Speaker 5: he's the plug. And every time I see paid him

1117
00:48:54,080 --> 00:48:56,560
Speaker 5: full not LOUI exactly.

1118
00:48:56,960 --> 00:49:00,120
Speaker 2: That's why I laugh. I'm like, that's real, ship, that's

1119
00:49:00,160 --> 00:49:00,680
Speaker 2: how it happened.

1120
00:49:00,680 --> 00:49:03,400
Speaker 5: You in the building, living in the building. Somebody you

1121
00:49:03,440 --> 00:49:05,319
Speaker 5: don't speak to them because you know, just like, oh

1122
00:49:05,800 --> 00:49:08,160
Speaker 5: you guys one leg like I'm staying away from stupid reason,

1123
00:49:08,200 --> 00:49:11,800
Speaker 5: but whatever, this is the fucking dude that could have

1124
00:49:11,880 --> 00:49:12,799
Speaker 5: got you out the hood.

1125
00:49:12,920 --> 00:49:14,320
Speaker 4: I should appear used cocaine.

1126
00:49:14,640 --> 00:49:16,680
Speaker 5: And I'm telling you it's the crazy because I'm like, damn,

1127
00:49:16,719 --> 00:49:19,080
Speaker 5: Like now, granted, I'm.

1128
00:49:18,760 --> 00:49:20,160
Speaker 2: Glad I didn't know that. As a kid, I didn't

1129
00:49:20,160 --> 00:49:22,879
Speaker 2: need to know that, But as you get older, it's crazy.

1130
00:49:23,040 --> 00:49:24,399
Speaker 2: You're yo, we used to be scared of this dude.

1131
00:49:24,400 --> 00:49:26,160
Speaker 5: Now it's like we see him, like, Yo, what's good,

1132
00:49:26,480 --> 00:49:30,280
Speaker 5: what's going on up? And he's cool as shiit coolest

1133
00:49:30,719 --> 00:49:33,560
Speaker 5: keep a bunch of fucking pretty girls in his apartment.

1134
00:49:33,800 --> 00:49:35,960
Speaker 5: First time I went his apartment, his apartment was I'm

1135
00:49:35,960 --> 00:49:40,400
Speaker 5: talking about my mom's had a nice apartment. His apartment

1136
00:49:40,520 --> 00:49:44,640
Speaker 5: was insane, like the ship he had, bro But you

1137
00:49:44,680 --> 00:49:46,800
Speaker 5: would never know because we're so busy being scared of

1138
00:49:46,800 --> 00:49:47,879
Speaker 5: this dude, to making fun of him.

1139
00:49:47,760 --> 00:49:50,160
Speaker 2: Because he got one leg. And it's like, this is

1140
00:49:50,320 --> 00:49:52,120
Speaker 2: you could have went down crazy money path of.

1141
00:49:52,160 --> 00:49:53,279
Speaker 3: Destruction as a drug dealer.

1142
00:49:55,160 --> 00:49:56,800
Speaker 2: I should I should have kicked it. I should have

1143
00:49:56,880 --> 00:49:58,640
Speaker 2: learned Spanish earlier, man, I should have just you know

1144
00:49:58,640 --> 00:49:58,880
Speaker 2: what I mean.

1145
00:49:59,000 --> 00:50:01,040
Speaker 4: I think about stuff like that, like when, because now

1146
00:50:01,080 --> 00:50:03,240
Speaker 4: when I go home and visit, you know, my parents,

1147
00:50:03,480 --> 00:50:05,759
Speaker 4: there's all these new kids that their families just moved

1148
00:50:05,760 --> 00:50:07,480
Speaker 4: in or whatever, and they're young, like how we used

1149
00:50:07,520 --> 00:50:10,400
Speaker 4: to be young outside running around, and I'm thinking about, like,

1150
00:50:10,840 --> 00:50:12,200
Speaker 4: you know, when I was a kid, all the things

1151
00:50:12,239 --> 00:50:14,719
Speaker 4: I thought about my adult neighbors, like the fucked up

1152
00:50:14,800 --> 00:50:16,680
Speaker 4: nicknames we had for them, the ship we used to

1153
00:50:16,680 --> 00:50:18,359
Speaker 4: pick on them about. And I'm like, damn, I wonder

1154
00:50:18,440 --> 00:50:21,160
Speaker 4: what these kids like are thinking of like me now

1155
00:50:21,239 --> 00:50:23,520
Speaker 4: that I'm like the old adult telling them to get

1156
00:50:23,560 --> 00:50:26,399
Speaker 4: their ship off my lawn and get keep your ball

1157
00:50:26,440 --> 00:50:28,520
Speaker 4: out the yard, don't touch my fucking dogs, get off

1158
00:50:28,600 --> 00:50:30,719
Speaker 4: my gate. Like I'm like, damn, they probably talking about

1159
00:50:30,719 --> 00:50:30,840
Speaker 4: me like.

1160
00:50:30,920 --> 00:50:32,759
Speaker 3: Yo, life tho us that's how it should go.

1161
00:50:33,000 --> 00:50:33,120
Speaker 7: Yo.

1162
00:50:33,239 --> 00:50:36,279
Speaker 3: What was you're mister Scott now random mess though?

1163
00:50:36,400 --> 00:50:37,560
Speaker 7: What? Why was? Why was?

1164
00:50:37,640 --> 00:50:38,920
Speaker 2: Why was t I mad at new now?

1165
00:50:38,960 --> 00:50:39,400
Speaker 3: And ato?

1166
00:50:41,960 --> 00:50:43,760
Speaker 4: Me and Roy just watched this movie?

1167
00:50:44,000 --> 00:50:47,200
Speaker 3: And what and what did I say? When she pulled

1168
00:50:47,280 --> 00:50:49,640
Speaker 3: up in at BMW and they was all arranged on

1169
00:50:49,760 --> 00:50:53,160
Speaker 3: his porch? I said, what is he I so mad about?

1170
00:50:53,880 --> 00:50:57,400
Speaker 3: I swear to yo, I'm really really just said that, literally,

1171
00:50:57,480 --> 00:50:59,200
Speaker 3: like to know. I was like, all right, I get it.

1172
00:50:59,480 --> 00:51:02,640
Speaker 3: You were like to to some degree cool. You knew

1173
00:51:02,680 --> 00:51:05,359
Speaker 3: his chick a week? This is mad forgivable cool cool?

1174
00:51:06,440 --> 00:51:08,279
Speaker 3: Never for longer he knew her for longer.

1175
00:51:08,360 --> 00:51:08,960
Speaker 4: He just died.

1176
00:51:10,080 --> 00:51:13,680
Speaker 5: This nigga was heated. He snatched his chain back. She

1177
00:51:13,880 --> 00:51:15,759
Speaker 5: pulled up in the BMW. She living a night?

1178
00:51:16,080 --> 00:51:16,920
Speaker 2: What was he mad?

1179
00:51:17,160 --> 00:51:19,640
Speaker 4: Because he was poor? He felt like a fool because

1180
00:51:19,680 --> 00:51:21,719
Speaker 4: he was poor, So he did he bought her that

1181
00:51:21,880 --> 00:51:25,600
Speaker 4: necklace really splurs on his necklace. His friend's like, yo,

1182
00:51:25,680 --> 00:51:27,520
Speaker 4: that ship fake as fuck. And then knowing that this

1183
00:51:27,640 --> 00:51:30,320
Speaker 4: girl is like coming from a diamond family, like she probably.

1184
00:51:30,120 --> 00:51:32,640
Speaker 5: You know that to me, okay, but to me that

1185
00:51:32,840 --> 00:51:35,280
Speaker 5: even shows how how much she really liked the nigga

1186
00:51:35,600 --> 00:51:38,160
Speaker 5: because it's like, I could really buy this if I

1187
00:51:38,200 --> 00:51:40,080
Speaker 5: wanted to myself, but you bought it for me.

1188
00:51:40,200 --> 00:51:41,200
Speaker 3: I like it because I like you.

1189
00:51:41,280 --> 00:51:44,399
Speaker 2: I'm appreciative, but it's like what you really mad at?

1190
00:51:44,480 --> 00:51:48,239
Speaker 3: Though? The whole dynamic of this scene in general, what's

1191
00:51:48,280 --> 00:51:50,520
Speaker 3: what's t man's name is best friend? The one that's

1192
00:51:50,560 --> 00:51:54,000
Speaker 3: smart I forgot fuck? But I know he's with his friend,

1193
00:51:54,239 --> 00:51:56,319
Speaker 3: the one that worked at the golf course. Yeah, yes,

1194
00:51:57,200 --> 00:51:59,160
Speaker 3: first of all, that's how I know that's Squire. That's

1195
00:51:59,160 --> 00:52:00,719
Speaker 3: how I know they wasn't really friends, not y T.

1196
00:52:00,840 --> 00:52:01,719
Speaker 2: I was mad.

1197
00:52:02,200 --> 00:52:06,640
Speaker 3: But if I go to a crib and I walk

1198
00:52:06,719 --> 00:52:10,880
Speaker 3: in and your girl lives there, I'm hitting you on me, like, bro,

1199
00:52:11,719 --> 00:52:13,319
Speaker 3: your girl is in this mansion right now.

1200
00:52:13,760 --> 00:52:16,000
Speaker 4: Yeah, like I know she told him. She told Esquire.

1201
00:52:16,040 --> 00:52:17,680
Speaker 4: She was like, I'm gonna tell you, my daddy who

1202
00:52:17,719 --> 00:52:18,160
Speaker 4: you really are?

1203
00:52:18,800 --> 00:52:20,520
Speaker 3: Him? Who I really And that's the other part that

1204
00:52:20,560 --> 00:52:23,040
Speaker 3: I want to say, makes no sense. Why was this

1205
00:52:23,160 --> 00:52:26,399
Speaker 3: guy so upset that Esquire was from the hood. I don't.

1206
00:52:26,480 --> 00:52:29,400
Speaker 2: I just thought and he was from the tha. Now

1207
00:52:29,480 --> 00:52:31,919
Speaker 2: this is a classic movie, classic movie.

1208
00:52:31,960 --> 00:52:32,680
Speaker 3: We love this movie.

1209
00:52:33,960 --> 00:52:35,440
Speaker 5: It's just as far as I look at and I'm

1210
00:52:35,520 --> 00:52:39,560
Speaker 5: just like, as a writer, I just don't know how

1211
00:52:39,560 --> 00:52:43,920
Speaker 5: I write that, Like he's upset that, Like I think.

1212
00:52:44,040 --> 00:52:46,200
Speaker 5: I think At would have been such a better movie

1213
00:52:46,320 --> 00:52:47,920
Speaker 5: if t I would have been like, yo, you from

1214
00:52:48,000 --> 00:52:51,520
Speaker 5: over there, you're dropping a big yo, like it's lit.

1215
00:52:51,760 --> 00:52:52,759
Speaker 4: Now, let's rob your dad.

1216
00:52:52,840 --> 00:52:55,279
Speaker 3: Let's do the takers all that, Let's rob your dad

1217
00:52:55,440 --> 00:52:58,080
Speaker 3: something like hold on, while we're having this atl conversation,

1218
00:52:59,280 --> 00:53:02,000
Speaker 3: I have to get my I'll be on the phone.

1219
00:53:02,040 --> 00:53:06,360
Speaker 3: Who played Brooklyn and the ato Ali were talking that

1220
00:53:06,480 --> 00:53:10,319
Speaker 3: it's one of our favorite movies ever. But I gotta ask,

1221
00:53:10,360 --> 00:53:13,080
Speaker 3: when you read that script, did you think to yourself,

1222
00:53:13,280 --> 00:53:15,600
Speaker 3: why is t I so mad that this girl is rich?

1223
00:53:20,800 --> 00:53:22,879
Speaker 3: It's a class It's one of our favorite movies ever.

1224
00:53:22,960 --> 00:53:25,680
Speaker 3: It's a staple in the culture. But that one scene

1225
00:53:26,000 --> 00:53:28,359
Speaker 3: when y'all are just sitting on the porch like holding

1226
00:53:28,400 --> 00:53:30,120
Speaker 3: your man's down and she shows up in the beamer,

1227
00:53:32,120 --> 00:53:32,680
Speaker 3: why was he in that?

1228
00:53:34,239 --> 00:53:37,000
Speaker 7: Well? First of all, I just want to say, what's up?

1229
00:53:37,120 --> 00:53:37,279
Speaker 3: Mom?

1230
00:53:37,800 --> 00:53:42,480
Speaker 7: You know what I'm saying, what's up? What's up? Everybody?

1231
00:53:42,880 --> 00:53:43,920
Speaker 7: Rory usually does this.

1232
00:53:44,080 --> 00:53:46,200
Speaker 9: He calls me and then he just goes right into

1233
00:53:46,239 --> 00:53:49,200
Speaker 9: a question there's no I don't know if you guys

1234
00:53:49,280 --> 00:53:52,640
Speaker 9: noticed about Rory, but you know, but that's him, that's

1235
00:53:52,680 --> 00:53:58,680
Speaker 9: my guy. Yeah so, uh, I think it's the line,

1236
00:53:58,920 --> 00:54:00,680
Speaker 9: and I think we gotta we got it. It was

1237
00:54:00,719 --> 00:54:05,400
Speaker 9: something that we could address that, you know, when somebody's

1238
00:54:05,440 --> 00:54:08,480
Speaker 9: being when somebody isn't being real with you. Even if

1239
00:54:08,520 --> 00:54:12,480
Speaker 9: you could get past that that initial first line, you'll

1240
00:54:12,800 --> 00:54:14,719
Speaker 9: you'll wonder if they're always lying to you.

1241
00:54:15,640 --> 00:54:17,080
Speaker 3: I mean, he knew that girl for a week. I

1242
00:54:17,120 --> 00:54:18,400
Speaker 3: feel like that was kind of forgivable.

1243
00:54:19,880 --> 00:54:20,080
Speaker 7: Yeah.

1244
00:54:20,600 --> 00:54:23,000
Speaker 9: Yeah, but we also but also if you see, the

1245
00:54:23,160 --> 00:54:25,680
Speaker 9: character had lost a mom and a dad at the

1246
00:54:25,719 --> 00:54:26,239
Speaker 9: same time.

1247
00:54:26,800 --> 00:54:32,640
Speaker 7: Yeah, so, and some people that have fathers something, some

1248
00:54:32,680 --> 00:54:34,399
Speaker 7: people that have mothers and fathers at the same time.

1249
00:54:34,480 --> 00:54:37,239
Speaker 9: They believe, they believe in love at first sec they

1250
00:54:37,280 --> 00:54:39,640
Speaker 9: believe in in longevity and in marriage.

1251
00:54:39,680 --> 00:54:41,600
Speaker 7: They believe that that person I could have this is

1252
00:54:41,680 --> 00:54:44,960
Speaker 7: mine one. You know what I'm saying, you my friend

1253
00:54:45,120 --> 00:54:47,560
Speaker 7: with your body count maybe you.

1254
00:54:52,000 --> 00:54:55,960
Speaker 3: Switching gears? Was your arm actually broken? All being a

1255
00:54:56,040 --> 00:54:58,680
Speaker 3: Bronx representative, he said this. I didn't say this. He said,

1256
00:54:58,680 --> 00:55:01,040
Speaker 3: it's crazy that you let someone Brooklyn, but you're from

1257
00:55:01,040 --> 00:55:04,040
Speaker 3: the Bronx Mall said that, well.

1258
00:55:05,440 --> 00:55:08,480
Speaker 9: Well, first of all, well, first of all, you said, Mall,

1259
00:55:08,760 --> 00:55:11,800
Speaker 9: being a Bronx representative, I need you to put the

1260
00:55:12,200 --> 00:55:14,520
Speaker 9: every time you say of course, right, So it's it's

1261
00:55:14,600 --> 00:55:17,160
Speaker 9: the Bronx because it's not the Manhattan or the Queens.

1262
00:55:17,600 --> 00:55:21,439
Speaker 9: But I think, no, it's Oh. I got a little

1263
00:55:21,440 --> 00:55:26,320
Speaker 9: pot moment. My my, My, my name wasn't Brooklyn. My

1264
00:55:26,440 --> 00:55:27,440
Speaker 9: name was Patches.

1265
00:55:30,360 --> 00:55:32,440
Speaker 7: Yeah. I was like, what the what is that? Right?

1266
00:55:32,880 --> 00:55:35,040
Speaker 9: And for some reason they thought that was cool and

1267
00:55:35,480 --> 00:55:37,680
Speaker 9: and he was like a poet, He's like his Patches

1268
00:55:37,760 --> 00:55:38,400
Speaker 9: in Apache.

1269
00:55:38,560 --> 00:55:42,600
Speaker 7: And I was like, nah, like Brooklyn can be.

1270
00:55:42,960 --> 00:55:44,800
Speaker 9: If you in any place in the world and go

1271
00:55:44,880 --> 00:55:47,440
Speaker 9: where Brooklyn at somebody there, you'll.

1272
00:55:47,239 --> 00:55:50,480
Speaker 7: Say, whoa, you know what became.

1273
00:55:50,880 --> 00:55:55,000
Speaker 9: So when you go to another city, no one's gonna say, yo,

1274
00:55:55,080 --> 00:55:56,719
Speaker 9: that's my man Bronx. They'll be like, yo, that's my

1275
00:55:56,840 --> 00:55:59,640
Speaker 9: man Brooklyn from Brooklyn. And you know, but I thought

1276
00:55:59,640 --> 00:56:00,840
Speaker 9: that I deal was dope.

1277
00:56:00,880 --> 00:56:02,600
Speaker 7: And then the name tag.

1278
00:56:02,400 --> 00:56:04,880
Speaker 9: If you watch at the end of it, the name tag,

1279
00:56:05,120 --> 00:56:07,120
Speaker 9: I put my last name being Bridges.

1280
00:56:08,640 --> 00:56:09,560
Speaker 3: Oh the job.

1281
00:56:10,520 --> 00:56:13,320
Speaker 7: Yeah, so my name is my name is officially Brooklyn Bridges.

1282
00:56:14,040 --> 00:56:14,640
Speaker 3: That's crazy.

1283
00:56:15,320 --> 00:56:17,120
Speaker 9: And I couldn't do that. I couldn't do that with

1284
00:56:17,200 --> 00:56:20,560
Speaker 9: the Bronx. It would be like the Bronx Jakobe Hospital

1285
00:56:20,640 --> 00:56:21,719
Speaker 9: or something like that. I don't know, it would be

1286
00:56:21,760 --> 00:56:22,200
Speaker 9: the Bronx.

1287
00:56:22,640 --> 00:56:24,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, whenever somebody from the Bronx move out of town,

1288
00:56:24,640 --> 00:56:25,600
Speaker 2: they just call us New York.

1289
00:56:25,880 --> 00:56:28,000
Speaker 3: And I mean, what's so funny, right, how ahead of

1290
00:56:28,840 --> 00:56:31,359
Speaker 3: the time it was with that character because we see

1291
00:56:31,480 --> 00:56:35,960
Speaker 3: now how many New York transplants are in Atlanta, Like

1292
00:56:36,600 --> 00:56:39,640
Speaker 3: that's a whole thing now. Yeah, So it was crazy

1293
00:56:39,719 --> 00:56:42,640
Speaker 3: that that that that character kind of represented exactly what

1294
00:56:43,040 --> 00:56:46,720
Speaker 3: was about to happen in the next decade in Atlanta.

1295
00:56:47,960 --> 00:56:50,280
Speaker 3: Everyone I know from New York moved down to Atlanta.

1296
00:56:51,560 --> 00:56:53,400
Speaker 7: Yeah, you're welcome. I feel like.

1297
00:56:57,520 --> 00:56:59,839
Speaker 9: I've done I've done that with the Graduation album. I've

1298
00:56:59,840 --> 00:57:01,640
Speaker 9: done that with this last Donda album.

1299
00:57:01,760 --> 00:57:02,239
Speaker 7: I've done that.

1300
00:57:02,480 --> 00:57:04,960
Speaker 9: Like I mean, I'm a part of like these classic

1301
00:57:05,080 --> 00:57:08,960
Speaker 9: and great moments because I stepped behind, I step aside

1302
00:57:09,120 --> 00:57:11,799
Speaker 9: and go it's not about the Bronx, you know, It's

1303
00:57:11,840 --> 00:57:15,480
Speaker 9: about what can resonate when someone calls it out the window.

1304
00:57:15,960 --> 00:57:19,200
Speaker 9: So we name our children based off of like the

1305
00:57:19,320 --> 00:57:24,240
Speaker 9: window of Tupacing Juice where he goes Yo, cute, like

1306
00:57:24,360 --> 00:57:28,120
Speaker 9: could you could you call yo moll Now he has

1307
00:57:28,160 --> 00:57:32,080
Speaker 9: a good call name outside the window, So Brooklyn, that

1308
00:57:32,240 --> 00:57:35,160
Speaker 9: made way more sense than the Bronx or b X or.

1309
00:57:36,040 --> 00:57:45,600
Speaker 3: I'll the Bronx that would be terrified. But yeah, we

1310
00:57:45,880 --> 00:57:48,040
Speaker 3: appreciate you for real. We look forward to a t

1311
00:57:48,160 --> 00:57:50,520
Speaker 3: O U two. Also, you know you and I have

1312
00:57:50,880 --> 00:57:53,280
Speaker 3: talked off Mike a bunch of times. Definitely need you

1313
00:57:53,320 --> 00:57:55,480
Speaker 3: to come up here one day and like really can't

1314
00:57:55,680 --> 00:57:57,440
Speaker 3: do a proper episode. You know, you and I have

1315
00:57:58,120 --> 00:58:00,200
Speaker 3: talked about a lot of ship that I think world

1316
00:58:00,280 --> 00:58:04,120
Speaker 3: needs to hear. So I appreciate you and we'll talk

1317
00:58:04,240 --> 00:58:05,080
Speaker 3: next time you're in New York.

1318
00:58:05,160 --> 00:58:08,720
Speaker 7: Yeah, you got to you know VOTAW four.

1319
00:58:15,560 --> 00:58:18,120
Speaker 2: If my girl lived in a neighborhood like she was

1320
00:58:18,200 --> 00:58:21,320
Speaker 2: coming from, had to BMW. Okay, yeah she lied. She

1321
00:58:21,360 --> 00:58:24,240
Speaker 2: didn't tell me her dad had money. We understand that.

1322
00:58:24,600 --> 00:58:26,240
Speaker 4: But it had everything to do with how he felt

1323
00:58:26,240 --> 00:58:29,680
Speaker 4: about himself. He was poor and that incurity. He hated

1324
00:58:29,840 --> 00:58:34,040
Speaker 4: being poor. Andrea care about it. But but you I

1325
00:58:34,120 --> 00:58:36,760
Speaker 4: get what you're saying. But insecurities come from within. Nobody

1326
00:58:36,800 --> 00:58:40,200
Speaker 4: else can make you insecure. She insecurities come from within.

1327
00:58:40,320 --> 00:58:42,080
Speaker 4: He was always gonna feel that way. And it's so

1328
00:58:42,120 --> 00:58:44,600
Speaker 4: funny that you were just talking about people who grew

1329
00:58:44,680 --> 00:58:47,880
Speaker 4: up in nice homes and they like seek out this struggle,

1330
00:58:48,480 --> 00:58:50,160
Speaker 4: especially like a lot of times black people, a lot

1331
00:58:50,200 --> 00:58:54,800
Speaker 4: of people I went to like school with, because like

1332
00:58:54,920 --> 00:58:57,320
Speaker 4: they had both parents and they were raised well, but

1333
00:58:57,680 --> 00:58:59,880
Speaker 4: they wanted to like get into gangshit and stuff like that.

1334
00:59:00,000 --> 00:59:01,840
Speaker 4: And I think a lot of it is because when

1335
00:59:01,880 --> 00:59:05,320
Speaker 4: you are in certain when you have a social a

1336
00:59:05,400 --> 00:59:08,080
Speaker 4: certain socio economic status, and you're around certain people, a

1337
00:59:08,120 --> 00:59:10,320
Speaker 4: lot of those people are white people, and you don't

1338
00:59:10,400 --> 00:59:13,160
Speaker 4: feel like you fit in right, So like now you

1339
00:59:13,280 --> 00:59:15,880
Speaker 4: go searching for like like, yes, I have money and

1340
00:59:15,920 --> 00:59:17,920
Speaker 4: all of this, I'm rich, but I'm still black, and

1341
00:59:17,920 --> 00:59:19,840
Speaker 4: I'm now surrounded by a bunch of white people. My

1342
00:59:19,920 --> 00:59:22,080
Speaker 4: parents have all white friends, so yeah, we have the

1343
00:59:22,160 --> 00:59:24,800
Speaker 4: same status when it comes to money, but these people

1344
00:59:24,840 --> 00:59:27,960
Speaker 4: don't relate to me culturally. So you go out and

1345
00:59:28,120 --> 00:59:30,920
Speaker 4: seek that that kind of connection, and sometimes it gets

1346
00:59:30,960 --> 00:59:33,200
Speaker 4: you around some people you don't have no business being around,

1347
00:59:33,240 --> 00:59:34,600
Speaker 4: and get you and shit, you don't have no business.

1348
00:59:34,680 --> 00:59:36,240
Speaker 3: I want to see like the I think what's it

1349
00:59:36,280 --> 00:59:39,840
Speaker 3: called the prelude or whatever. When they do the movie before,

1350
00:59:41,560 --> 00:59:44,920
Speaker 3: Like how did NEWNW get over there? Like how did

1351
00:59:44,960 --> 00:59:45,680
Speaker 3: she meet all these people?

1352
00:59:46,440 --> 00:59:47,440
Speaker 2: She went to the school, didn't she?

1353
00:59:47,720 --> 00:59:50,040
Speaker 3: No, no school with them, only only Tay went to

1354
00:59:50,080 --> 00:59:50,440
Speaker 3: that school.

1355
00:59:50,800 --> 00:59:53,760
Speaker 4: No, No, she didn't go to school with them. Tay

1356
00:59:53,800 --> 00:59:55,640
Speaker 4: went to that school. Sit tayble to whooped her ass?

1357
00:59:56,080 --> 00:59:59,120
Speaker 4: She go to that school? You sure a positive? We

1358
00:59:59,280 --> 00:59:59,800
Speaker 4: just watched it.

1359
01:00:01,800 --> 01:00:04,760
Speaker 3: And they literally say in the dinner, like she don't

1360
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Speaker 3: go to school.

1361
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Speaker 4: That's like how, Like, I don't even she didn't even

1362
01:00:07,760 --> 01:00:08,360
Speaker 4: go to their school.

1363
01:00:08,600 --> 01:00:10,240
Speaker 2: Oh I thought the twins went to the school.

1364
01:00:10,480 --> 01:00:12,920
Speaker 4: No, I think, yeah, No, the twins didn't even go

1365
01:00:12,960 --> 01:00:13,480
Speaker 4: to that school.

1366
01:00:14,280 --> 01:00:15,360
Speaker 2: So they just was all in the same.

1367
01:00:15,440 --> 01:00:17,160
Speaker 4: It was all in kind of in different schools. I

1368
01:00:17,200 --> 01:00:18,920
Speaker 4: don't know how she became friends with the twins.

1369
01:00:19,120 --> 01:00:20,800
Speaker 5: You remember the first time you went to somebody house

1370
01:00:20,840 --> 01:00:25,640
Speaker 5: and you realize your house wasn't ship Yeah, yep, that

1371
01:00:25,800 --> 01:00:28,840
Speaker 5: she changed everything. You don't sleep, You don't never sleep

1372
01:00:28,880 --> 01:00:30,560
Speaker 5: the same after that. Like you go to one of

1373
01:00:30,600 --> 01:00:33,160
Speaker 5: your classmate's house with like you having a party or something.

1374
01:00:33,600 --> 01:00:35,320
Speaker 5: You're like, I'm about to go to his crib. You

1375
01:00:35,400 --> 01:00:37,480
Speaker 5: go to this like where you live here, like this.

1376
01:00:37,600 --> 01:00:39,720
Speaker 3: Is this is your house, like their basement actually has

1377
01:00:39,760 --> 01:00:42,560
Speaker 3: the installed carpet. Yeah, like it's not. It's not like

1378
01:00:42,600 --> 01:00:45,320
Speaker 3: a rug that in a fully functioning bathroom.

1379
01:00:45,640 --> 01:00:46,480
Speaker 2: It's it's insane.

1380
01:00:46,760 --> 01:00:49,080
Speaker 3: Damn. I mean I had plumbing her Yeah no, no, no,

1381
01:00:49,160 --> 01:00:50,880
Speaker 3: like finished.

1382
01:00:52,400 --> 01:00:54,000
Speaker 1: I remember the first time I saw a finish at

1383
01:00:54,000 --> 01:00:57,880
Speaker 1: the ouse. Our house is so funny, sh in the bucket.

1384
01:00:58,440 --> 01:00:59,880
Speaker 1: I remember the first time I sa I finished base,

1385
01:01:00,040 --> 01:01:04,840
Speaker 1: and I was just like, I remember, I was terrified

1386
01:01:04,880 --> 01:01:06,280
Speaker 1: of going in our base because it was like the

1387
01:01:06,400 --> 01:01:07,720
Speaker 1: cold concrete floor.

1388
01:01:07,840 --> 01:01:08,800
Speaker 3: It's always dark.

1389
01:01:08,960 --> 01:01:10,760
Speaker 2: He's one of those kids that saw homes creaky.

1390
01:01:11,040 --> 01:01:11,240
Speaker 3: That was.

1391
01:01:11,320 --> 01:01:14,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, I was pussy, So I just hated being down there.

1392
01:01:14,760 --> 01:01:16,800
Speaker 1: All we would do down our basement was laundry. Yeah,

1393
01:01:17,120 --> 01:01:19,000
Speaker 1: do it, run it, get up, come out. You don't,

1394
01:01:19,040 --> 01:01:21,480
Speaker 1: there's no reason to hang out, yo. I would go

1395
01:01:21,520 --> 01:01:24,360
Speaker 1: into Like the was when we started playing lacrosse. These

1396
01:01:24,440 --> 01:01:25,640
Speaker 1: fucking lacrosse kids.

1397
01:01:26,120 --> 01:01:28,520
Speaker 3: Going to going to the home and they lead like

1398
01:01:28,640 --> 01:01:31,080
Speaker 3: the the first move is to go to the basement.

1399
01:01:31,720 --> 01:01:34,320
Speaker 1: Like you you can go left and go into the

1400
01:01:34,760 --> 01:01:38,200
Speaker 1: main home, or take the right and go down to

1401
01:01:38,240 --> 01:01:38,680
Speaker 1: the basement.

1402
01:01:39,040 --> 01:01:42,000
Speaker 3: And that was like the ship control. Their the fucking

1403
01:01:42,080 --> 01:01:45,800
Speaker 3: flat screen on the wall surround so like apartment. Yeah,

1404
01:01:45,800 --> 01:01:48,840
Speaker 3: And I was like, the hell is this? I was sick.

1405
01:01:48,880 --> 01:01:50,680
Speaker 5: You go back home, you start picking it all like

1406
01:01:50,760 --> 01:01:54,120
Speaker 5: these walls is trash, This bathroom small as fuck.

1407
01:01:54,680 --> 01:01:54,960
Speaker 7: I had.

1408
01:01:55,400 --> 01:01:59,720
Speaker 4: I had a classmate. I did that.

1409
01:02:00,240 --> 01:02:03,480
Speaker 3: How are the more affluent friends you had growing up

1410
01:02:03,520 --> 01:02:03,920
Speaker 3: doing now?

1411
01:02:04,760 --> 01:02:08,640
Speaker 5: They're doing pretty h It's funny. It's something that's fucked

1412
01:02:08,720 --> 01:02:10,240
Speaker 5: up now that I think about it. I saw one

1413
01:02:10,280 --> 01:02:12,480
Speaker 5: of my friends that his mom had a really good job.

1414
01:02:12,520 --> 01:02:16,280
Speaker 5: They had a nice apartment in Queen's And I saw

1415
01:02:16,400 --> 01:02:16,920
Speaker 5: him recently.

1416
01:02:17,920 --> 01:02:18,520
Speaker 3: He looked bad.

1417
01:02:18,560 --> 01:02:21,160
Speaker 5: Life hit him, knocked the shit out of him. Yeah,

1418
01:02:21,160 --> 01:02:23,600
Speaker 5: I'm talking about look bad. That's when I start thinking

1419
01:02:23,640 --> 01:02:26,400
Speaker 5: that drugs is like in play not.

1420
01:02:26,440 --> 01:02:28,880
Speaker 2: Seriously all right. I was like I wasn't just because

1421
01:02:28,920 --> 01:02:29,320
Speaker 2: think about it.

1422
01:02:29,360 --> 01:02:31,760
Speaker 5: When you know, when you see like when you see

1423
01:02:31,800 --> 01:02:34,040
Speaker 5: homeless people, right, you don't think at one time, yo,

1424
01:02:34,200 --> 01:02:37,000
Speaker 5: this person was like in high school, this person probably

1425
01:02:37,040 --> 01:02:42,680
Speaker 5: was like really popular again Snowfall perfect example. It's people

1426
01:02:42,920 --> 01:02:44,920
Speaker 5: like that that are like homeless now on the streets

1427
01:02:45,160 --> 01:02:46,800
Speaker 5: that had a lot of money and was doing this

1428
01:02:46,880 --> 01:02:49,720
Speaker 5: and doing that, and a bunch of cars and extremely

1429
01:02:49,800 --> 01:02:52,720
Speaker 5: popular things happen life goes a different way.

1430
01:02:53,440 --> 01:02:55,880
Speaker 2: And then now you at an age where you start

1431
01:02:56,000 --> 01:02:58,720
Speaker 2: seeing people that you were in high school with. And

1432
01:02:58,800 --> 01:03:01,000
Speaker 2: he was like, yo, like saw homie on the train,

1433
01:03:01,200 --> 01:03:03,919
Speaker 2: like he was asking for me. I remember the first

1434
01:03:03,920 --> 01:03:04,920
Speaker 2: time I seen the dude.

1435
01:03:04,760 --> 01:03:06,720
Speaker 3: That you said, damn homie in high school. He was

1436
01:03:06,760 --> 01:03:09,040
Speaker 3: the man home. Not what the I tried.

1437
01:03:09,160 --> 01:03:10,880
Speaker 5: The first time I saw a dude that you have

1438
01:03:10,960 --> 01:03:14,560
Speaker 5: the sick. The first time I saw dude about begging

1439
01:03:14,600 --> 01:03:19,680
Speaker 5: for money, I was like, I didn't want him to

1440
01:03:19,680 --> 01:03:22,720
Speaker 5: see me, m m, because I didn't know how I

1441
01:03:22,840 --> 01:03:24,600
Speaker 5: was gonna you know what I'm saying, and.

1442
01:03:25,240 --> 01:03:26,520
Speaker 3: You don't want to tell him it could be worse.

1443
01:03:28,160 --> 01:03:30,040
Speaker 5: I don't know what I would have told him, honestly,

1444
01:03:30,240 --> 01:03:32,920
Speaker 5: because this is somebody that I know, not somebody that

1445
01:03:32,960 --> 01:03:35,000
Speaker 5: i've seen. I'm talking about, Yo, this is my I

1446
01:03:35,080 --> 01:03:37,080
Speaker 5: haven't seen him in like five years, but this is

1447
01:03:37,120 --> 01:03:40,560
Speaker 5: my this is my dude growing up. And you start

1448
01:03:40,600 --> 01:03:45,440
Speaker 5: seeing them just stinking and it's like, oh, man, I

1449
01:03:45,520 --> 01:03:46,280
Speaker 5: had a girl I was.

1450
01:03:46,320 --> 01:03:51,280
Speaker 4: Really cool with in high school, get on crack in

1451
01:03:51,560 --> 01:03:54,240
Speaker 4: twenty twenty two, Crack crack.

1452
01:03:54,440 --> 01:03:58,000
Speaker 3: She was an old soul twenty twenty, you know, getting

1453
01:03:58,240 --> 01:04:01,400
Speaker 3: getting He's an old soul the hipster move.

1454
01:04:02,280 --> 01:04:04,560
Speaker 2: Wait, where does she find she likes.

1455
01:04:04,480 --> 01:04:05,400
Speaker 3: Vinyl and correct?

1456
01:04:05,440 --> 01:04:08,240
Speaker 4: I have no idea. Like she was like hitting me

1457
01:04:08,480 --> 01:04:12,440
Speaker 4: up for like crack, twenty dollars on like a Tuesday

1458
01:04:13,040 --> 01:04:13,640
Speaker 4: for crack.

1459
01:04:14,440 --> 01:04:16,760
Speaker 3: Wait, she was an honest crackhead. She was like, can

1460
01:04:16,800 --> 01:04:20,160
Speaker 3: I have twenty dollars for that's for the rest found.

1461
01:04:19,920 --> 01:04:23,560
Speaker 4: Out through I found out through other channels that that

1462
01:04:23,680 --> 01:04:26,040
Speaker 4: what was going on. But if somebody paying for your cbody,

1463
01:04:27,160 --> 01:04:30,200
Speaker 4: if somebody asked you for twenty dollars, But.

1464
01:04:30,280 --> 01:04:32,920
Speaker 1: Like, the subject line is the subject The subject line

1465
01:04:33,000 --> 01:04:34,320
Speaker 1: is just a three needle of that.

1466
01:04:34,480 --> 01:04:37,880
Speaker 5: Is twenty twenty three in a nutshell, Yo, not homiees

1467
01:04:37,880 --> 01:04:39,320
Speaker 5: sell crack, But you could pay him on Vemo.

1468
01:04:40,480 --> 01:04:44,040
Speaker 3: What just make the subject line crack. Make sure you

1469
01:04:44,080 --> 01:04:45,760
Speaker 3: put reimbursements so he doesn't get taxed.

1470
01:04:46,880 --> 01:04:49,760
Speaker 2: He selling crack, andre you paying him? You selling him

1471
01:04:49,760 --> 01:04:50,200
Speaker 2: to twenty.

1472
01:04:50,920 --> 01:04:55,040
Speaker 3: That's why a kid's kids' perspectives are just weird in

1473
01:04:55,120 --> 01:04:57,560
Speaker 3: the environment that they're in. Because I had a friend

1474
01:04:57,680 --> 01:05:01,480
Speaker 3: my summer of my fresh year. I was at the

1475
01:05:01,520 --> 01:05:03,760
Speaker 3: park training because I was still running track, and my

1476
01:05:04,440 --> 01:05:06,080
Speaker 3: close friend from high school, Jamar, was one of the

1477
01:05:06,160 --> 01:05:08,479
Speaker 3: most talented fucking athletes I've ever met in my life

1478
01:05:09,280 --> 01:05:10,960
Speaker 3: just decided in high school he wanted to become a

1479
01:05:10,960 --> 01:05:14,600
Speaker 3: blood instead, didn't need to none of that shit. And

1480
01:05:15,120 --> 01:05:16,520
Speaker 3: he pulled up with his friend in the car when

1481
01:05:16,560 --> 01:05:18,760
Speaker 3: I was running, and he was like, damn man, happy

1482
01:05:18,840 --> 01:05:20,880
Speaker 3: for you. You know you made it out like, Bro,

1483
01:05:21,000 --> 01:05:24,520
Speaker 3: we're not, like, we're right, Like you didn't need to

1484
01:05:24,600 --> 01:05:26,200
Speaker 3: do this. What are you doing?

1485
01:05:27,680 --> 01:05:27,800
Speaker 7: Bro?

1486
01:05:28,000 --> 01:05:30,240
Speaker 3: This was fine, We're we're right now, Like you were

1487
01:05:30,320 --> 01:05:32,360
Speaker 3: even a better athlete, Like you didn't need to become

1488
01:05:32,360 --> 01:05:34,120
Speaker 3: a gang member. I don't know, you're not about to

1489
01:05:34,160 --> 01:05:38,520
Speaker 3: give me that fucking uh boys in the hood speech

1490
01:05:39,360 --> 01:05:40,480
Speaker 3: of like going to Georgetown.

1491
01:05:40,520 --> 01:05:42,560
Speaker 5: Bro, we was fine, Like you didn't need to become

1492
01:05:42,600 --> 01:05:44,560
Speaker 5: a blood where That's where I just think that that

1493
01:05:44,640 --> 01:05:46,560
Speaker 5: shit is just something that's in you. That's why I

1494
01:05:46,600 --> 01:05:51,479
Speaker 5: can't really blame parents, because growing up on the block

1495
01:05:51,520 --> 01:05:53,400
Speaker 5: that I grew up on, it was easy for me

1496
01:05:53,480 --> 01:05:56,520
Speaker 5: to get into certain shit, easy to get into a gang,

1497
01:05:56,560 --> 01:05:58,800
Speaker 5: easier for me to start selling drugs and doing wild shit.

1498
01:05:58,880 --> 01:05:59,880
Speaker 4: Yeah my Moti whip show.

1499
01:06:00,840 --> 01:06:03,840
Speaker 5: But not only that, it's it's just I never really

1500
01:06:03,960 --> 01:06:06,720
Speaker 5: wanted that, Like it was just never that was never

1501
01:06:06,840 --> 01:06:08,440
Speaker 5: something that was just in me to do that. Like

1502
01:06:08,480 --> 01:06:09,520
Speaker 5: I never wanted to be in a gang.

1503
01:06:10,600 --> 01:06:13,920
Speaker 3: All of my cousins are gang bangers, and my friends

1504
01:06:13,960 --> 01:06:15,160
Speaker 3: were in gangs and all that.

1505
01:06:15,360 --> 01:06:17,160
Speaker 2: Like, and I grew up on a block.

1506
01:06:17,160 --> 01:06:19,000
Speaker 5: Like I said, it's a bunch of Puerto Ricans Dominicans.

1507
01:06:19,080 --> 01:06:21,560
Speaker 5: I was one of the few blacks, like full black.

1508
01:06:21,560 --> 01:06:24,160
Speaker 5: I mean, my dad is half Puerto Rican, but I

1509
01:06:24,360 --> 01:06:25,440
Speaker 5: identify as a black man.

1510
01:06:25,800 --> 01:06:26,160
Speaker 3: I wasn't.

1511
01:06:26,960 --> 01:06:32,120
Speaker 5: I wasn't like the environment was everything was there for

1512
01:06:32,240 --> 01:06:35,480
Speaker 5: me to go the wrong way, But I never wanted that.

1513
01:06:35,920 --> 01:06:37,720
Speaker 5: I was just like, no, I don't don't want to

1514
01:06:37,760 --> 01:06:41,240
Speaker 5: be no gang. To me, honestly, that gang banging shit

1515
01:06:41,320 --> 01:06:42,800
Speaker 5: is corny to me because it's a bunch.

1516
01:06:42,640 --> 01:06:45,280
Speaker 2: Of older dudes manipulating young dudes to do dumb shit.

1517
01:06:45,400 --> 01:06:48,680
Speaker 4: But the young and they want to feel included, you know,

1518
01:06:48,760 --> 01:06:49,920
Speaker 4: how to feel a part of something.

1519
01:06:50,040 --> 01:06:52,080
Speaker 5: I understand it because a lot of the times you're

1520
01:06:52,120 --> 01:06:54,680
Speaker 5: coming from, you know, they know the type of kids

1521
01:06:54,760 --> 01:07:01,080
Speaker 5: that don't have no adult figures, fathers, uncles, brothers, whatever,

1522
01:07:01,560 --> 01:07:02,560
Speaker 5: you know, just.

1523
01:07:02,600 --> 01:07:03,920
Speaker 4: A family structure preer they don't have.

1524
01:07:04,120 --> 01:07:06,200
Speaker 5: They don't have that, so they recognize that and they

1525
01:07:07,240 --> 01:07:10,040
Speaker 5: I always had that, even if it wasn't directly in

1526
01:07:10,200 --> 01:07:10,560
Speaker 5: my home.

1527
01:07:10,760 --> 01:07:11,600
Speaker 3: I always had I had.

1528
01:07:11,760 --> 01:07:14,200
Speaker 5: I come from a large family, and it was just

1529
01:07:14,280 --> 01:07:15,640
Speaker 5: and even my family, like I said, my fam, I

1530
01:07:15,680 --> 01:07:17,560
Speaker 5: have family member was that's gang members. And I'm just like,

1531
01:07:18,400 --> 01:07:20,800
Speaker 5: how did you what made you want to get into that?

1532
01:07:21,080 --> 01:07:23,960
Speaker 5: Because for me, I don't understand it because I never

1533
01:07:24,440 --> 01:07:28,520
Speaker 5: that never crossed my mind to join a gang, just

1534
01:07:28,640 --> 01:07:29,400
Speaker 5: never crossed my mind.

1535
01:07:29,440 --> 01:07:32,880
Speaker 3: Well, also, you were in a different era in New York.

1536
01:07:33,800 --> 01:07:35,960
Speaker 2: I was in a crazy, wild era in New York.

1537
01:07:36,000 --> 01:07:39,280
Speaker 3: I know that. But I'm saying the gang shit is

1538
01:07:39,440 --> 01:07:43,800
Speaker 3: almost like trendy now it's so common where it wasn't

1539
01:07:44,920 --> 01:07:47,880
Speaker 3: for us. I mean around when I was in high

1540
01:07:47,920 --> 01:07:49,760
Speaker 3: school was when I think that the blood shit started

1541
01:07:49,760 --> 01:07:52,240
Speaker 3: to hit New York. But it's a it's a really

1542
01:07:52,280 --> 01:07:55,680
Speaker 3: common thing now. It wasn't a really common thing when

1543
01:07:55,720 --> 01:07:56,640
Speaker 3: you were growing up in New York.

1544
01:07:56,680 --> 01:08:00,600
Speaker 4: Our blessing crips like common now, I mean they in common,

1545
01:08:01,000 --> 01:08:01,320
Speaker 4: but I know.

1546
01:08:01,360 --> 01:08:01,840
Speaker 2: What he made.

1547
01:08:02,080 --> 01:08:05,280
Speaker 3: But it's an influx where like it's you really got

1548
01:08:05,440 --> 01:08:08,480
Speaker 3: to be it, like everybody is something now that was

1549
01:08:08,560 --> 01:08:10,440
Speaker 3: never a thing. Like there was clicks in gangs, but

1550
01:08:10,560 --> 01:08:14,320
Speaker 3: not blood cripshit. Yeah. Now it's like very very common

1551
01:08:14,360 --> 01:08:17,120
Speaker 3: that people that would never be gang members ever are

1552
01:08:17,240 --> 01:08:20,800
Speaker 3: now crips. And it's like with the crypt affiliated I'd like,

1553
01:08:21,080 --> 01:08:22,880
Speaker 3: like even my friend Jamar, who did not need to

1554
01:08:22,960 --> 01:08:27,000
Speaker 3: do that, at least he committed like he blooded out

1555
01:08:27,080 --> 01:08:30,000
Speaker 3: at that time. Now it's like you could just go

1556
01:08:30,240 --> 01:08:33,880
Speaker 3: be to Rowing sixty, Like you could.

1557
01:08:33,760 --> 01:08:34,200
Speaker 7: Just go be it.

1558
01:08:34,880 --> 01:08:36,439
Speaker 3: When I was in high school, and I'm not saying

1559
01:08:36,439 --> 01:08:38,600
Speaker 3: where the sixties actually are, but like I feel like

1560
01:08:38,760 --> 01:08:41,760
Speaker 3: in Atlanta, New York, like I've seen kids I know

1561
01:08:41,920 --> 01:08:42,720
Speaker 3: that are not like that.

1562
01:08:43,160 --> 01:08:45,120
Speaker 4: We drew up a lot of gang signs when I

1563
01:08:45,280 --> 01:08:47,760
Speaker 4: was in high school, like a lot of it. We

1564
01:08:47,800 --> 01:08:50,200
Speaker 4: thought it was the coolest shit in the world. I

1565
01:08:50,280 --> 01:08:52,800
Speaker 4: don't know why we thought that. Like I swear I

1566
01:08:52,880 --> 01:08:55,280
Speaker 4: was a crip when I was like fourteen fifteen, I.

1567
01:08:55,640 --> 01:08:57,719
Speaker 3: Was like mal I thought all that shit was dumb

1568
01:08:57,760 --> 01:08:58,080
Speaker 3: as hell.

1569
01:08:58,600 --> 01:08:59,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, I just never.

1570
01:08:59,400 --> 01:09:03,479
Speaker 3: I I just never sort of I guess the allure

1571
01:09:03,560 --> 01:09:04,639
Speaker 3: of it. I guess I just never.

1572
01:09:05,040 --> 01:09:07,080
Speaker 2: It just never struck me like my friends was my

1573
01:09:07,160 --> 01:09:08,920
Speaker 2: friends if they was gang bang cool, I'm not.

1574
01:09:09,479 --> 01:09:10,160
Speaker 3: That's the other thing.

1575
01:09:10,240 --> 01:09:13,200
Speaker 1: I had friends that were heavily involved and friends that

1576
01:09:13,600 --> 01:09:15,280
Speaker 1: asked me if I wanted to join her be in

1577
01:09:15,320 --> 01:09:17,840
Speaker 1: this shit, and I would politely be like, I'm okay,

1578
01:09:17,880 --> 01:09:18,439
Speaker 1: and they had no.

1579
01:09:18,520 --> 01:09:20,559
Speaker 3: Issue with that. This is this is one hundred, one

1580
01:09:20,600 --> 01:09:23,160
Speaker 3: hundred percent. They'd never made the true story. When I

1581
01:09:23,240 --> 01:09:26,320
Speaker 3: was like nineteen or something, my one of my closest friends, Jerome,

1582
01:09:26,360 --> 01:09:27,920
Speaker 3: that was that I grew up with. I hadn't seen

1583
01:09:28,040 --> 01:09:30,360
Speaker 3: a really long time since we were like kids, and

1584
01:09:30,520 --> 01:09:32,559
Speaker 3: we ran to each other like you know, reprotect people's

1585
01:09:32,600 --> 01:09:35,479
Speaker 3: good type ship. And we went out one night and

1586
01:09:35,560 --> 01:09:37,920
Speaker 3: he was like, Yo, I could bless you into this

1587
01:09:38,080 --> 01:09:41,439
Speaker 3: this cript ship, and I swear, I swear, I swear

1588
01:09:41,479 --> 01:09:43,559
Speaker 3: on everything I love let you in. He said, Actually,

1589
01:09:43,680 --> 01:09:46,639
Speaker 3: I could bless you in if like you want I'm good.

1590
01:09:48,640 --> 01:09:50,040
Speaker 2: Nah, I'm cool.

1591
01:09:50,160 --> 01:09:52,280
Speaker 3: No, I don't want to be Snow. I'm cool.

1592
01:09:52,720 --> 01:09:55,400
Speaker 2: Snow that was name, that was your gang name.

1593
01:09:56,360 --> 01:09:59,519
Speaker 3: No, there's there's Tuenser's Bluzz and Chris the Snow Ship.

1594
01:09:59,560 --> 01:10:01,760
Speaker 2: Like, oh, I thought you meant like your name in

1595
01:10:01,840 --> 01:10:02,240
Speaker 2: the gang with.

1596
01:10:02,360 --> 01:10:06,200
Speaker 3: No like the set probably Ginger Snow Snow call hey,

1597
01:10:06,280 --> 01:10:08,840
Speaker 3: snow Cone. Now you definitely would have been snow Cone.

1598
01:10:10,360 --> 01:10:13,679
Speaker 3: Definitely definitely would have been snow cone one hundred blue

1599
01:10:13,800 --> 01:10:17,479
Speaker 3: rass snow. Imagine being on America, so Yo, snow cone coming, run,

1600
01:10:18,640 --> 01:10:20,679
Speaker 3: run blizzard.

1601
01:10:20,760 --> 01:10:22,559
Speaker 5: Somebody gonn pull out money like it was snow blizzard.

1602
01:10:22,880 --> 01:10:24,720
Speaker 5: Might somebody cana pull thet money like the snow cone

1603
01:10:24,760 --> 01:10:28,880
Speaker 5: lady coming, Like you used to stand in front of

1604
01:10:28,880 --> 01:10:29,719
Speaker 5: the snow cone lady.

1605
01:10:29,520 --> 01:10:30,160
Speaker 2: And open your mouth.

1606
01:10:30,439 --> 01:10:32,720
Speaker 3: Hey yeah, yeah, what you know?

1607
01:10:32,840 --> 01:10:34,800
Speaker 2: You know when they scraping the ice, So kids used

1608
01:10:34,800 --> 01:10:35,559
Speaker 2: to stand in the front.

1609
01:10:35,840 --> 01:10:38,439
Speaker 3: No, that sounds like something that happened in the thirties.

1610
01:10:38,479 --> 01:10:40,960
Speaker 2: When did they scraped the thirties you never had a

1611
01:10:40,960 --> 01:10:41,479
Speaker 2: snow cone.

1612
01:10:42,360 --> 01:10:45,360
Speaker 3: I've never like had a woman scrape the ice like that.

1613
01:10:45,520 --> 01:10:48,360
Speaker 3: Now it's just they have the machines, no know, like

1614
01:10:48,400 --> 01:10:51,200
Speaker 3: you talked the thing. Yeah, they still have it, like

1615
01:10:51,400 --> 01:10:51,760
Speaker 3: like she.

1616
01:10:51,880 --> 01:10:53,320
Speaker 5: Used to stay in front of the car when she

1617
01:10:53,439 --> 01:10:55,400
Speaker 5: was doing it, like in the summers. Actually, did you

1618
01:10:55,479 --> 01:10:57,280
Speaker 5: do that raping the ice? It's like kids used to

1619
01:10:57,320 --> 01:10:58,320
Speaker 5: stand in the front and like, just.

1620
01:10:58,360 --> 01:11:01,160
Speaker 3: You know, did you do that? No? Yeah, yeah he

1621
01:11:01,200 --> 01:11:01,759
Speaker 3: did he definitely.

1622
01:11:01,800 --> 01:11:03,439
Speaker 5: I didn't really like snow comes. I like the other ones,

1623
01:11:04,120 --> 01:11:07,320
Speaker 5: the flavored icy better. I didn't really like snoke the

1624
01:11:07,360 --> 01:11:08,560
Speaker 5: be doglars. Yeah, I was more with that.

1625
01:11:08,640 --> 01:11:11,320
Speaker 2: I didn't never really like snow cones or should have been.

1626
01:11:11,240 --> 01:11:15,040
Speaker 4: Crypt speak of speaking of gangs. Okay, here, how do

1627
01:11:15,120 --> 01:11:20,200
Speaker 4: you feel about the influx of people pledging sororities of

1628
01:11:20,280 --> 01:11:23,719
Speaker 4: fraternities in their late twenties or early.

1629
01:11:23,680 --> 01:11:26,280
Speaker 3: Thirties, Like alumni chapters.

1630
01:11:27,920 --> 01:11:32,040
Speaker 4: They just decided to become part of chapter twenty eight

1631
01:11:32,120 --> 01:11:32,559
Speaker 4: years old?

1632
01:11:32,840 --> 01:11:35,960
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean that's that's an alumni chapter, like you

1633
01:11:36,040 --> 01:11:39,840
Speaker 3: can go join. There's people that like, I'm undergrad, I'm

1634
01:11:40,520 --> 01:11:43,439
Speaker 3: ro Alpha is my chapter, but I'm also Jersey City alumni.

1635
01:11:43,520 --> 01:11:46,320
Speaker 3: There's some people that are just Jersey City alumni. That's it.

1636
01:11:46,520 --> 01:11:50,479
Speaker 3: They pledged after college and just became that.

1637
01:11:50,720 --> 01:11:51,920
Speaker 4: Okay, how do you feel about that?

1638
01:11:54,080 --> 01:11:56,280
Speaker 3: I don't judge it because a lot of people wanted to, like,

1639
01:11:56,840 --> 01:11:58,840
Speaker 3: because that shit is illegal that there's a lot of

1640
01:11:59,720 --> 01:12:01,760
Speaker 3: things that happen. So I know a lot of people

1641
01:12:01,800 --> 01:12:06,040
Speaker 3: that pledged for six months and never got their letters

1642
01:12:06,320 --> 01:12:09,679
Speaker 3: because some illegal shit happened, or or just the college

1643
01:12:09,680 --> 01:12:12,439
Speaker 3: shut it down. So that was something they worked for

1644
01:12:12,560 --> 01:12:14,720
Speaker 3: and wanted to do, so once they graduated, they went

1645
01:12:14,760 --> 01:12:15,040
Speaker 3: and do that.

1646
01:12:15,160 --> 01:12:17,880
Speaker 4: Now I'm talking about people who didn't pledge and didn't

1647
01:12:17,880 --> 01:12:20,280
Speaker 4: even attempt to pledge in college and they are now

1648
01:12:20,320 --> 01:12:23,480
Speaker 4: twenty eight, twenty nine with children and they want to become.

1649
01:12:23,400 --> 01:12:25,680
Speaker 3: Are they actually pledging or are they just signing the

1650
01:12:25,680 --> 01:12:29,080
Speaker 3: paperwork and paying the juice. That's a drastic difference for

1651
01:12:29,160 --> 01:12:30,680
Speaker 3: those that don't know about Greek life, it is. It

1652
01:12:30,760 --> 01:12:33,920
Speaker 3: is very much split with people that I'm all pazing

1653
01:12:33,960 --> 01:12:35,479
Speaker 3: is illegal and no one pledges. I want to make

1654
01:12:35,520 --> 01:12:39,320
Speaker 3: that clear. But there is this like allure of storytelling

1655
01:12:39,439 --> 01:12:43,160
Speaker 3: that there's the group of people that pledged and that's

1656
01:12:43,200 --> 01:12:45,519
Speaker 3: who we fuck with, and then there's the people that

1657
01:12:45,560 --> 01:12:48,920
Speaker 3: are paper you have to pledge those shit does not count.

1658
01:12:50,400 --> 01:12:52,000
Speaker 3: So either way, which is it?

1659
01:12:52,560 --> 01:12:53,400
Speaker 4: Either either way?

1660
01:12:53,840 --> 01:12:57,160
Speaker 3: Just I think it's fucking nuts for people to be

1661
01:12:57,400 --> 01:13:00,519
Speaker 3: in their big age and go really pledge. I've seen it.

1662
01:13:01,600 --> 01:13:05,320
Speaker 3: I pledged allegedly with an alumni chapter for a few

1663
01:13:05,439 --> 01:13:08,200
Speaker 3: nights with somebody that was forty something. I'm like, bro,

1664
01:13:08,280 --> 01:13:10,200
Speaker 3: you got like a twenty year old yelling issue.

1665
01:13:11,560 --> 01:13:13,720
Speaker 2: No, that's mental that's a mental health issues.

1666
01:13:13,760 --> 01:13:17,320
Speaker 4: That's I'm sorry. I Greek people, Please don't kill me.

1667
01:13:17,400 --> 01:13:19,920
Speaker 4: I respect Greek life out of respect all of that

1668
01:13:20,600 --> 01:13:25,960
Speaker 4: pledging at fucking or at twenty eight twenty nine, thirty

1669
01:13:26,040 --> 01:13:29,679
Speaker 4: thirty one, thirty two years old is fucking insane.

1670
01:13:29,760 --> 01:13:32,800
Speaker 3: And I'm talking from an alleged standpoint because Capa Avasafraternity

1671
01:13:32,800 --> 01:13:35,920
Speaker 3: Incorporated is a non hazing organization. But oh, thank you,

1672
01:13:36,840 --> 01:13:39,640
Speaker 3: but that's the legal line. Yeah, that's teach you that

1673
01:13:39,640 --> 01:13:42,120
Speaker 3: when you're pledged, say this, that snow cone right there,

1674
01:13:43,520 --> 01:13:45,400
Speaker 3: that's okay, you're They definitely tell you all.

1675
01:13:45,439 --> 01:13:45,960
Speaker 7: I say this.

1676
01:13:46,040 --> 01:13:47,479
Speaker 2: If they ask you, you say this.

1677
01:13:47,800 --> 01:13:50,320
Speaker 3: Yeah, hazing is only something you put on donuts. Yeah,

1678
01:13:50,360 --> 01:13:50,720
Speaker 3: I get it.

1679
01:13:51,160 --> 01:13:52,479
Speaker 4: I don't know that's it. I don't know.

1680
01:13:52,680 --> 01:13:54,320
Speaker 3: I didn't come up with that bar to make that clear.

1681
01:13:54,680 --> 01:13:55,000
Speaker 2: I get it.

1682
01:13:55,080 --> 01:13:59,000
Speaker 3: Did you have a safe word? Snow Cone's snow cone?

1683
01:14:01,080 --> 01:14:02,920
Speaker 3: But I don't know if people want to do that

1684
01:14:03,120 --> 01:14:05,679
Speaker 3: and they're late saying, they may be trying to fill

1685
01:14:06,479 --> 01:14:09,240
Speaker 3: a gap somewhere. It's just so many different circumstances. I've

1686
01:14:09,280 --> 01:14:13,080
Speaker 3: seen where people worked so hard when they were undergrads

1687
01:14:13,080 --> 01:14:17,479
Speaker 3: and never achieved becoming a member because of things that

1688
01:14:17,520 --> 01:14:19,240
Speaker 3: were out of their control. So when they go do

1689
01:14:19,320 --> 01:14:21,680
Speaker 3: it when they're older, I respect it, like I get it.

1690
01:14:22,479 --> 01:14:24,320
Speaker 3: It didn't happen for you and it should have. So

1691
01:14:24,600 --> 01:14:28,040
Speaker 3: here you go Nah, nah, I'm not with it should

1692
01:14:28,040 --> 01:14:31,600
Speaker 3: have if it didn't happen, It just didn't happen, not

1693
01:14:31,720 --> 01:14:33,800
Speaker 3: that it should have like we mean it should have. Like, well,

1694
01:14:33,840 --> 01:14:35,600
Speaker 3: there's plenty of things that you work really hard for

1695
01:14:35,720 --> 01:14:37,439
Speaker 3: and don't get It doesn't mean you should just completely

1696
01:14:37,520 --> 01:14:39,080
Speaker 3: give up on it if it's something that you really want.

1697
01:14:39,160 --> 01:14:40,720
Speaker 5: Okay, what I think on the list of things you

1698
01:14:40,760 --> 01:14:43,200
Speaker 5: should give up on is pledging to a fraternity or

1699
01:14:43,240 --> 01:14:44,920
Speaker 5: sorority in your forty somethings.

1700
01:14:46,080 --> 01:14:48,880
Speaker 3: I mean, if they find value within it, like.

1701
01:14:48,960 --> 01:14:51,080
Speaker 2: Just go home, watch school Days on repeat.

1702
01:14:50,720 --> 01:14:54,479
Speaker 3: And just but the Divine nine is much different than

1703
01:14:54,640 --> 01:14:57,599
Speaker 3: like other just regular frats. I won't even just say

1704
01:14:57,600 --> 01:15:00,840
Speaker 3: white frats are just frats and stories. Period. It's a

1705
01:15:01,160 --> 01:15:04,640
Speaker 3: very much a lifelong thing. So someone even starting in

1706
01:15:04,760 --> 01:15:07,479
Speaker 3: their late twenties, it's early if they're going to live

1707
01:15:08,280 --> 01:15:10,519
Speaker 3: till they're seventy eighty years old. The lifelong thing.

1708
01:15:10,680 --> 01:15:12,040
Speaker 2: What made you want to go to college? Like, what

1709
01:15:12,200 --> 01:15:13,280
Speaker 2: was the thing that made you want to go?

1710
01:15:13,360 --> 01:15:15,720
Speaker 3: My mom made me though I didn't really want to

1711
01:15:15,720 --> 01:15:17,920
Speaker 3: go to college and I didn't think I was going

1712
01:15:18,000 --> 01:15:22,840
Speaker 3: to go. Then Saint Peter sent me a track scholarship offer,

1713
01:15:23,040 --> 01:15:25,120
Speaker 3: and my mom was like, yeah, this is where that's

1714
01:15:25,160 --> 01:15:27,960
Speaker 3: what you're doing. So I said, yeah, that was it.

1715
01:15:28,760 --> 01:15:31,160
Speaker 2: I think when I first saw that movie High Learning,

1716
01:15:32,320 --> 01:15:33,080
Speaker 2: that made me want to go to.

1717
01:15:33,120 --> 01:15:34,479
Speaker 4: College in Tyre die in a movie.

1718
01:15:35,000 --> 01:15:37,800
Speaker 3: Wait did you go to college? Okay, so it wasn't

1719
01:15:37,840 --> 01:15:38,519
Speaker 3: that good of a movie.

1720
01:15:38,680 --> 01:15:39,400
Speaker 7: It was a great movie.

1721
01:15:39,479 --> 01:15:41,439
Speaker 4: I think I saw that company.

1722
01:15:41,680 --> 01:15:44,000
Speaker 3: But I'm trying to think, like the college movies I watched.

1723
01:15:44,200 --> 01:15:47,640
Speaker 2: I regret not going to college. I regret that just

1724
01:15:47,680 --> 01:15:49,280
Speaker 2: for the social experience.

1725
01:15:50,400 --> 01:15:52,439
Speaker 3: I regret not going well. I don't know if I

1726
01:15:52,479 --> 01:15:54,400
Speaker 3: want to say I regret because I think my life

1727
01:15:54,640 --> 01:15:58,679
Speaker 3: would have been drastically different. But I regret not going

1728
01:15:59,200 --> 01:16:02,439
Speaker 3: to like a real college, like to a college with

1729
01:16:02,560 --> 01:16:06,439
Speaker 3: a campus, and like in a different state, like in

1730
01:16:06,560 --> 01:16:09,599
Speaker 3: the South. There's somewhere else, I had tweeted. I don't

1731
01:16:09,680 --> 01:16:13,120
Speaker 3: know if I would have even like went to class.

1732
01:16:13,479 --> 01:16:15,080
Speaker 3: I tweeted a couple of weeks ago, I was like, Yo,

1733
01:16:15,160 --> 01:16:17,320
Speaker 3: what's too late to go to college?

1734
01:16:17,360 --> 01:16:17,400
Speaker 8: Like?

1735
01:16:17,439 --> 01:16:18,960
Speaker 3: How old is too late to go to college? I

1736
01:16:19,000 --> 01:16:21,639
Speaker 3: don't think that that exists. It's never never too old

1737
01:16:21,640 --> 01:16:23,800
Speaker 3: for eyesight, so let me let me but you could

1738
01:16:23,800 --> 01:16:28,120
Speaker 3: be too old for things.

1739
01:16:29,200 --> 01:16:31,760
Speaker 4: I'm sorry, if you're trying to join a sorority at SETS,

1740
01:16:31,880 --> 01:16:34,400
Speaker 4: or for fraternity at twenty nine, thirty thirty one years old, you're.

1741
01:16:34,320 --> 01:16:36,559
Speaker 3: Paying for yeah, student life and higher education or too.

1742
01:16:36,880 --> 01:16:41,200
Speaker 3: Why do people view fraternitys and sororities as paying for friends?

1743
01:16:41,360 --> 01:16:42,479
Speaker 3: I do find that very odd.

1744
01:16:42,680 --> 01:16:42,920
Speaker 7: I don't.

1745
01:16:43,120 --> 01:16:44,680
Speaker 5: I don't view it as paying for friends, but I

1746
01:16:44,760 --> 01:16:48,599
Speaker 5: definitely view it as people that probably were not accepted

1747
01:16:49,240 --> 01:16:52,320
Speaker 5: in certain circles and they feel like this this allows

1748
01:16:52,360 --> 01:16:54,040
Speaker 5: them to be accepted into those circles.

1749
01:16:54,080 --> 01:16:56,680
Speaker 3: I think there's absolutely cases where that is a thing.

1750
01:16:57,000 --> 01:17:00,120
Speaker 3: But you would be so surprised how that is so

1751
01:17:00,240 --> 01:17:01,679
Speaker 3: uncommon when it comes to that type of stuff.

1752
01:17:01,720 --> 01:17:02,400
Speaker 4: Yeah, I know.

1753
01:17:03,600 --> 01:17:05,760
Speaker 3: Matter of fact, the coolest shit that I loved once

1754
01:17:05,840 --> 01:17:08,320
Speaker 3: I crossed was I had all my friends kicking it

1755
01:17:08,400 --> 01:17:09,160
Speaker 3: with all the kappas.

1756
01:17:09,200 --> 01:17:10,479
Speaker 4: We was all like it was cool.

1757
01:17:11,360 --> 01:17:15,000
Speaker 3: Like it's just people that are like minded and have

1758
01:17:15,080 --> 01:17:18,960
Speaker 3: the same goals interests want a better network of like

1759
01:17:19,040 --> 01:17:23,120
Speaker 3: minded people. Yeah, you go do that. That doesn't mean

1760
01:17:23,160 --> 01:17:25,800
Speaker 3: you're looking for friends. Like, what's what's funny is I

1761
01:17:27,120 --> 01:17:29,160
Speaker 3: don't hang out. I hang out with my friends more

1762
01:17:29,200 --> 01:17:32,240
Speaker 3: than I hang out with quote unquote cappas like it's

1763
01:17:32,280 --> 01:17:34,040
Speaker 3: not like I even even when I crossed, it was like,

1764
01:17:34,080 --> 01:17:36,519
Speaker 3: of course I was with my LB's and was running

1765
01:17:36,520 --> 01:17:40,200
Speaker 3: around Jersey Long Island, the city Delaware, everywhere, because it

1766
01:17:40,280 --> 01:17:42,559
Speaker 3: was fun to be able to know that I could

1767
01:17:42,640 --> 01:17:45,040
Speaker 3: hit the turnpike and I could make one text and

1768
01:17:45,120 --> 01:17:46,559
Speaker 3: go to Dell State and be good for the weekend

1769
01:17:46,640 --> 01:17:48,400
Speaker 3: with the snoops down there. But I was bringing my

1770
01:17:49,120 --> 01:17:50,840
Speaker 3: non Greek friends like Yo Roll with me to del

1771
01:17:50,880 --> 01:17:53,160
Speaker 3: State homecoming. But it was it was never like a

1772
01:17:53,280 --> 01:17:56,599
Speaker 3: which I was chasing younger. What we were chasing achievement,

1773
01:17:56,680 --> 01:18:00,800
Speaker 3: may achievement in every field of human She's I know

1774
01:18:00,880 --> 01:18:02,040
Speaker 3: what was going on in numb campuses.

1775
01:18:02,040 --> 01:18:03,439
Speaker 5: That's why I used to always call my system when

1776
01:18:03,439 --> 01:18:05,519
Speaker 5: she went to Virginia State and I'm coming down there

1777
01:18:05,560 --> 01:18:05,960
Speaker 5: next week.

1778
01:18:06,200 --> 01:18:08,040
Speaker 2: But if you know your Jay State, she was let

1779
01:18:08,160 --> 01:18:09,680
Speaker 2: Oh my god, I was down there so much. They

1780
01:18:09,720 --> 01:18:11,160
Speaker 2: thought I went to school there. I'm telling you, they

1781
01:18:11,240 --> 01:18:12,280
Speaker 2: really thought I went to class.

1782
01:18:12,520 --> 01:18:15,120
Speaker 3: And it's not even so much like just within your

1783
01:18:15,200 --> 01:18:19,120
Speaker 3: fraternity authority. Like when I was interning at Death Jam,

1784
01:18:19,600 --> 01:18:21,360
Speaker 3: there was a Q, there was an AKA, there was

1785
01:18:21,400 --> 01:18:25,360
Speaker 3: a delta in that building on they looked out for

1786
01:18:25,520 --> 01:18:30,520
Speaker 3: me like you would not fucking believe Dana. You know Dana, Yeah, Dana's.

1787
01:18:30,200 --> 01:18:33,040
Speaker 2: AKA, shouted Dan. She's at Netflix now.

1788
01:18:34,160 --> 01:18:38,200
Speaker 3: Dana was AKA. I was interning for the person that

1789
01:18:39,360 --> 01:18:41,840
Speaker 3: ended up leaving, and Dana took her job. And when

1790
01:18:41,880 --> 01:18:43,760
Speaker 3: I say, Dana came in and even though I was

1791
01:18:43,800 --> 01:18:47,040
Speaker 3: fucking nineteen and like just a child, the fact that

1792
01:18:47,120 --> 01:18:48,640
Speaker 3: she was an aka and I was a Kappa, we

1793
01:18:48,760 --> 01:18:53,040
Speaker 3: had an immediate common ground on certain things and she

1794
01:18:53,200 --> 01:18:55,920
Speaker 3: was like, yo, just be my intern and helped me

1795
01:18:55,960 --> 01:18:58,920
Speaker 3: out like you would not believe. Same thing with the

1796
01:18:59,000 --> 01:19:01,240
Speaker 3: Deltas on there, same thing with the Cues, like we

1797
01:19:01,400 --> 01:19:03,160
Speaker 3: look out for each other in that regard, like that

1798
01:19:03,240 --> 01:19:06,040
Speaker 3: whole there is fraternity beef like an undergrad, but like

1799
01:19:06,160 --> 01:19:10,200
Speaker 3: not real ship. When I see anyone in the Divine

1800
01:19:10,240 --> 01:19:12,640
Speaker 3: nine down to iotas, I will always look out for

1801
01:19:12,760 --> 01:19:15,760
Speaker 3: anybody within that circle. And it's not because I want

1802
01:19:15,840 --> 01:19:17,200
Speaker 3: to even be their front. I may not even want

1803
01:19:17,240 --> 01:19:20,320
Speaker 3: to talk to them, but we have something that's unspoken

1804
01:19:20,560 --> 01:19:22,600
Speaker 3: that I will always look out for you no matter what.

1805
01:19:22,760 --> 01:19:24,840
Speaker 3: I don't want your friendship. I'm cool, don't talk to me.

1806
01:19:25,360 --> 01:19:29,880
Speaker 3: I'd like the n y PD yes, that's true. I

1807
01:19:29,920 --> 01:19:32,479
Speaker 3: don't mean to backtrack, but I did want to pose

1808
01:19:32,520 --> 01:19:35,200
Speaker 3: a question to an earlier conversation we were having about

1809
01:19:35,280 --> 01:19:37,760
Speaker 3: high school and puberty. Mm hm, And I'm here to

1810
01:19:37,800 --> 01:19:41,400
Speaker 3: fight for men's rights, well, boys rights? Pause? What that's

1811
01:19:41,640 --> 01:19:43,040
Speaker 3: I feel like fighting for boys rights might be a

1812
01:19:43,080 --> 01:19:46,240
Speaker 3: pause somewhere. Why it felt a little pausish. Yeah, wow,

1813
01:19:46,600 --> 01:19:51,639
Speaker 3: predatory sounds priesty, Come on, don't I didn't say altered

1814
01:19:51,680 --> 01:19:54,240
Speaker 3: boy rights. Yeah, and as an altar boy, we didn't

1815
01:19:54,240 --> 01:20:02,400
Speaker 3: have any rights if we just ranging the bell. I

1816
01:20:02,439 --> 01:20:05,120
Speaker 3: went crazy with that bill, your bill.

1817
01:20:05,320 --> 01:20:09,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's up.

1818
01:20:12,680 --> 01:20:15,160
Speaker 3: It's okay when boys are sexually abusing, that's it's fun,

1819
01:20:15,840 --> 01:20:18,360
Speaker 3: which goes into my next point of I feel like

1820
01:20:18,520 --> 01:20:23,000
Speaker 3: in high school and puberty is happening, only women's puberty

1821
01:20:23,160 --> 01:20:27,200
Speaker 3: is respected. If a girl has a period in class,

1822
01:20:27,439 --> 01:20:29,519
Speaker 3: she can quietly go to the teacher and say something

1823
01:20:29,520 --> 01:20:31,559
Speaker 3: and they will stop and make sure everything is okay.

1824
01:20:32,320 --> 01:20:34,720
Speaker 3: If I have this boner that I don't even know

1825
01:20:34,760 --> 01:20:38,960
Speaker 3: how I got and it's all new to me, I

1826
01:20:39,040 --> 01:20:41,760
Speaker 3: can't go up to my teacher and go, hey, like

1827
01:20:41,880 --> 01:20:43,960
Speaker 3: I have I have like a raging boner right now,

1828
01:20:44,160 --> 01:20:46,280
Speaker 3: and I don't know like I can't right on the

1829
01:20:46,320 --> 01:20:51,559
Speaker 3: jap board. I mean I would be I'd be suspended. Yeah. Probably.

1830
01:20:51,720 --> 01:20:54,080
Speaker 3: How often did you have raging boners in high school?

1831
01:20:54,200 --> 01:20:54,479
Speaker 4: A lot?

1832
01:20:54,760 --> 01:20:55,120
Speaker 3: Every day?

1833
01:20:55,360 --> 01:20:55,840
Speaker 2: What are you talking?

1834
01:20:55,960 --> 01:20:58,240
Speaker 4: What I'm just asking?

1835
01:20:58,400 --> 01:20:58,920
Speaker 3: High school?

1836
01:20:59,120 --> 01:21:02,360
Speaker 2: You guys weren't like a raging boner every day raging.

1837
01:21:02,520 --> 01:21:05,439
Speaker 1: Around the course of the school day was like six Yes,

1838
01:21:05,479 --> 01:21:07,439
Speaker 1: you would probably you had a boner as a fourteen,

1839
01:21:07,520 --> 01:21:08,880
Speaker 1: fifteen year old boy, for sure.

1840
01:21:08,960 --> 01:21:10,560
Speaker 3: God, I went to high school in the era of

1841
01:21:10,600 --> 01:21:15,439
Speaker 3: baggy clothes, Thank fucking god. No, at least my shirt covered. No,

1842
01:21:15,560 --> 01:21:18,240
Speaker 3: that's fine, But it's the related enfranchise boy. It's the

1843
01:21:18,360 --> 01:21:22,760
Speaker 3: round that's like throw a raging, a raging boner. Yeah,

1844
01:21:22,760 --> 01:21:24,640
Speaker 3: you could have, like the blood could be flowing and

1845
01:21:24,680 --> 01:21:28,000
Speaker 3: you get a little roused, a raging We're gonna throw

1846
01:21:28,040 --> 01:21:30,639
Speaker 3: a little hyperbole in it. It's a podcast.

1847
01:21:30,760 --> 01:21:36,680
Speaker 2: No raging, but it was like it was raging, a

1848
01:21:36,840 --> 01:21:37,679
Speaker 2: raging boner.

1849
01:21:37,760 --> 01:21:39,599
Speaker 3: Yes, but the blood flow was crazy.

1850
01:21:39,880 --> 01:21:45,320
Speaker 5: No, yeah, yes, I identify, I understand, and you're absolutely right, Like,

1851
01:21:45,400 --> 01:21:47,519
Speaker 5: we don't. There was no way you can walk up

1852
01:21:47,520 --> 01:21:50,519
Speaker 5: to your teacher and say, yo, can I like walk

1853
01:21:50,560 --> 01:21:52,639
Speaker 5: around the cafeteria for a while?

1854
01:21:52,760 --> 01:21:55,400
Speaker 2: Can walk it off, go to the gym full of

1855
01:21:55,560 --> 01:21:55,960
Speaker 2: going out.

1856
01:21:56,280 --> 01:21:59,000
Speaker 3: Yeah no, not no, not that reject off in high school,

1857
01:21:59,479 --> 01:22:01,360
Speaker 3: like I had the school like at my home. Yes,

1858
01:22:03,560 --> 01:22:06,240
Speaker 3: in my high school. In the school, I've known people

1859
01:22:06,280 --> 01:22:08,120
Speaker 3: who actually like jerked off inside the school.

1860
01:22:08,120 --> 01:22:09,920
Speaker 2: No, I think you are the one that you know that.

1861
01:22:10,360 --> 01:22:11,719
Speaker 2: I promise you you should be arrested.

1862
01:22:12,040 --> 01:22:14,960
Speaker 3: Yeah, the front of him. Yeah, I know, guy, you

1863
01:22:15,040 --> 01:22:16,639
Speaker 3: know guy, it was a gang initiation.

1864
01:22:20,600 --> 01:22:22,880
Speaker 4: You guys can't tell your male teachers brothers.

1865
01:22:23,439 --> 01:22:26,120
Speaker 3: No, I would not tell my teacher. I had a boner. No,

1866
01:22:26,479 --> 01:22:28,600
Speaker 3: I went to Catholic high school. Way, we're not men

1867
01:22:28,680 --> 01:22:31,920
Speaker 3: are not allowed to say anything because if I have

1868
01:22:31,960 --> 01:22:34,040
Speaker 3: a male doctor, no, what's more?

1869
01:22:34,280 --> 01:22:35,799
Speaker 4: No, No, that's a doctor.

1870
01:22:36,160 --> 01:22:39,439
Speaker 1: You say pause when your doctor. You men are at

1871
01:22:39,479 --> 01:22:44,040
Speaker 1: most Yeah, he's like when you come doctors like pause

1872
01:22:44,040 --> 01:22:44,240
Speaker 1: from me?

1873
01:22:44,880 --> 01:22:46,280
Speaker 2: You wouldn't rather have a female doctor?

1874
01:22:47,560 --> 01:22:49,400
Speaker 3: She was. I never really thought about it. I'm indifferent.

1875
01:22:49,439 --> 01:22:52,719
Speaker 4: I feel like wanting a female doctor for like intimate

1876
01:22:52,760 --> 01:22:54,080
Speaker 4: stuff like that when you're a male, I feel like

1877
01:22:54,120 --> 01:22:57,640
Speaker 4: that's creepy. How wanting a female doctor. If you come

1878
01:22:57,640 --> 01:22:59,519
Speaker 4: across a female doctor and that's your doctor.

1879
01:22:59,360 --> 01:23:00,400
Speaker 3: What if she's a really a doctor?

1880
01:23:00,560 --> 01:23:02,080
Speaker 4: Like now I don't want no male doctors. I want

1881
01:23:02,120 --> 01:23:04,000
Speaker 4: all female doctor. What if she's a really good doctor,

1882
01:23:04,520 --> 01:23:05,000
Speaker 4: But what if you.

1883
01:23:05,040 --> 01:23:08,080
Speaker 5: Still want a man like touching your putting fingers in

1884
01:23:08,120 --> 01:23:09,200
Speaker 5: your ass and touching your balls.

1885
01:23:09,280 --> 01:23:10,560
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's all professional, you know what.

1886
01:23:10,640 --> 01:23:13,760
Speaker 3: I feel kind of bad for semi famous people that

1887
01:23:13,920 --> 01:23:17,400
Speaker 3: can't get like the crazy Hollywood private doctors like still

1888
01:23:17,439 --> 01:23:20,040
Speaker 3: have to go with general healthcare, but they are very famous.

1889
01:23:20,800 --> 01:23:23,320
Speaker 3: Like you walking in with a clap or you walking

1890
01:23:23,360 --> 01:23:25,800
Speaker 3: in with the bumps? You know that doctor about tell

1891
01:23:25,840 --> 01:23:28,240
Speaker 3: the group chet like, Yo, guess who came into the

1892
01:23:28,280 --> 01:23:29,599
Speaker 3: office today. I guess what they got?

1893
01:23:29,640 --> 01:23:31,800
Speaker 4: The co professionals who'll be breaking hippa for sure?

1894
01:23:32,600 --> 01:23:35,519
Speaker 3: What about male male guy to collogists?

1895
01:23:36,320 --> 01:23:37,040
Speaker 4: Oh that's interesting.

1896
01:23:37,400 --> 01:23:42,400
Speaker 3: Yeah, I've had this conversation a lot with with a

1897
01:23:42,560 --> 01:23:46,240
Speaker 3: girl who has one, and maybe I'm image. I think

1898
01:23:46,280 --> 01:23:47,320
Speaker 3: that's fucking weird.

1899
01:23:48,040 --> 01:23:50,479
Speaker 4: He's a professor, he's a medical profession I wanting that

1900
01:23:50,600 --> 01:23:52,599
Speaker 4: to be your profession going, yeah, school for a body

1901
01:23:52,640 --> 01:23:53,720
Speaker 4: part that you don't even have.

1902
01:23:54,240 --> 01:23:57,439
Speaker 3: It's a really it's very odd, like why do why

1903
01:23:57,479 --> 01:23:58,720
Speaker 3: do you want to really do that?

1904
01:23:58,840 --> 01:24:01,840
Speaker 5: If he's really good, it's a medical profession and you're

1905
01:24:01,880 --> 01:24:04,519
Speaker 5: not for Like, if I'm a male doctor and I'm

1906
01:24:04,640 --> 01:24:06,680
Speaker 5: going to be a kind of coologist or study like

1907
01:24:06,720 --> 01:24:08,200
Speaker 5: women's anatomy, that's weird out.

1908
01:24:08,080 --> 01:24:13,240
Speaker 4: Of all, out of all the subsciences of fucking health,

1909
01:24:13,840 --> 01:24:16,479
Speaker 4: you chose to focus on the one body.

1910
01:24:16,360 --> 01:24:16,880
Speaker 2: I wanted to be.

1911
01:24:17,080 --> 01:24:18,920
Speaker 5: I wanted to be an obstetricianist when I was I

1912
01:24:18,960 --> 01:24:21,200
Speaker 5: wanted to deliver babies, like, but that wasn't like a.

1913
01:24:21,240 --> 01:24:21,800
Speaker 2: Weird del.

1914
01:24:24,040 --> 01:24:27,280
Speaker 3: I get what you were getting at you in life

1915
01:24:27,680 --> 01:24:30,720
Speaker 3: and spending your day just inside women's vaginas is way,

1916
01:24:30,880 --> 01:24:32,320
Speaker 3: But he's on a baby being.

1917
01:24:33,600 --> 01:24:35,880
Speaker 2: I'm gonna be handling a woman's vagina.

1918
01:24:35,800 --> 01:24:39,080
Speaker 3: Anyway, different delivering life. I could see someone wanting to

1919
01:24:39,160 --> 01:24:40,720
Speaker 3: do that. I could be.

1920
01:24:40,840 --> 01:24:43,280
Speaker 5: I could be saving her life if I'm a gynecologist

1921
01:24:43,280 --> 01:24:45,479
Speaker 5: and I find out she has cancer or something like.

1922
01:24:45,920 --> 01:24:46,840
Speaker 2: It's the same ship.

1923
01:24:47,160 --> 01:24:49,799
Speaker 4: I wanted to be an ol be and deliver its completely.

1924
01:24:50,320 --> 01:24:52,320
Speaker 4: I just want to be a guynecologist and do pap

1925
01:24:52,400 --> 01:24:54,360
Speaker 4: smears all day. That's I think.

1926
01:24:54,400 --> 01:24:58,479
Speaker 1: Its still dealing with the vagina under the vagina under

1927
01:24:58,760 --> 01:25:00,000
Speaker 1: drastically different circumstances.

1928
01:25:00,080 --> 01:25:01,920
Speaker 4: That's fair, fair curious.

1929
01:25:02,560 --> 01:25:04,080
Speaker 2: No matter what color it is, man, what the are

1930
01:25:04,080 --> 01:25:06,720
Speaker 2: you talking about? God?

1931
01:25:07,160 --> 01:25:07,960
Speaker 4: I don't understand.

1932
01:25:08,640 --> 01:25:10,600
Speaker 3: It depends your definition of what is is.

1933
01:25:11,960 --> 01:25:13,960
Speaker 5: If a woman is pregnant, she's not. If I'm dealing

1934
01:25:14,000 --> 01:25:15,679
Speaker 5: with her her body, it's the same ship.

1935
01:25:15,720 --> 01:25:17,679
Speaker 4: What are you talking about the same ship?

1936
01:25:17,760 --> 01:25:18,360
Speaker 3: You are crazy?

1937
01:25:18,439 --> 01:25:18,599
Speaker 7: Man?

1938
01:25:18,880 --> 01:25:19,240
Speaker 4: How are we?

1939
01:25:20,280 --> 01:25:20,439
Speaker 7: You know?

1940
01:25:20,479 --> 01:25:23,639
Speaker 3: What's so funny? Say there was just straight up penis doctors.

1941
01:25:23,760 --> 01:25:26,000
Speaker 3: There's just penis doctors. Say there is kind of colleges

1942
01:25:26,400 --> 01:25:28,519
Speaker 3: and a girl went to go be a penis doctor.

1943
01:25:28,560 --> 01:25:30,600
Speaker 3: Maull be like, no, I can't wife that. She Oh

1944
01:25:30,680 --> 01:25:32,439
Speaker 3: why she want to be around penises all day?

1945
01:25:32,840 --> 01:25:36,280
Speaker 2: I can believe that. You know, you know what you

1946
01:25:36,479 --> 01:25:39,320
Speaker 2: know you're talking about, And you would.

1947
01:25:39,080 --> 01:25:41,320
Speaker 3: Look crazy, like you know what's on that girl's mind?

1948
01:25:41,360 --> 01:25:42,680
Speaker 3: What do you want to be around dicks? Like?

1949
01:25:43,880 --> 01:25:45,800
Speaker 2: That's not what I would say. I wouldn't say, would

1950
01:25:45,920 --> 01:25:48,080
Speaker 2: say that. I wouldn't if she's a doctor, my girl

1951
01:25:48,160 --> 01:25:49,640
Speaker 2: is a doctor, that's like kind of let me being mad.

1952
01:25:50,320 --> 01:25:52,479
Speaker 2: It has money. It's stupid that she's a doctor. I

1953
01:25:52,479 --> 01:25:53,600
Speaker 2: wouldn't give a fuck what.

1954
01:25:54,000 --> 01:25:54,920
Speaker 3: I didn't see the cornlation.

1955
01:25:55,080 --> 01:25:57,320
Speaker 5: But if my girl is a doctor, you think I

1956
01:25:57,320 --> 01:25:59,519
Speaker 5: would care if she's looking at she has male patients?

1957
01:25:59,600 --> 01:26:03,120
Speaker 4: No, No, no, no, no, no, I'm saying specialized and

1958
01:26:03,400 --> 01:26:06,080
Speaker 4: only like she only saw Dick's all day.

1959
01:26:06,160 --> 01:26:09,360
Speaker 3: Now she's a doctor, I wouldn't she's a doctor.

1960
01:26:09,400 --> 01:26:13,439
Speaker 5: That wouldn't like I wish she's just she's she's still

1961
01:26:13,479 --> 01:26:16,040
Speaker 5: a doctor though she still studies. She's still studying health.

1962
01:26:16,600 --> 01:26:19,800
Speaker 3: The only just this hammers she's a doctor that she

1963
01:26:20,320 --> 01:26:22,599
Speaker 3: spends all day grabbing penises.

1964
01:26:22,840 --> 01:26:25,800
Speaker 5: She's a doctor man dick like that wouldn't she's once

1965
01:26:25,840 --> 01:26:27,720
Speaker 5: she's a doctor that that covers all of I don't care.

1966
01:26:27,840 --> 01:26:29,519
Speaker 3: Okay, So why can't the girl and only fans to

1967
01:26:29,520 --> 01:26:31,759
Speaker 3: be an entrepreneur because that's.

1968
01:26:31,600 --> 01:26:32,559
Speaker 4: Way two different things.

1969
01:26:34,680 --> 01:26:36,000
Speaker 2: You don't want to say you up there.

1970
01:26:37,560 --> 01:26:37,720
Speaker 3: Or not?

1971
01:26:40,760 --> 01:26:45,880
Speaker 4: Because I just I just feel I just feel like

1972
01:26:47,080 --> 01:26:49,439
Speaker 4: when you're going to become a doctor, what is your

1973
01:26:49,520 --> 01:26:54,120
Speaker 4: purpose in going to become a doctor, Like to help people?

1974
01:26:54,320 --> 01:26:54,519
Speaker 3: Would?

1975
01:26:54,560 --> 01:26:56,920
Speaker 4: Okay? To help people? Sure, there's plenty of ways to

1976
01:26:57,000 --> 01:26:58,360
Speaker 4: help people, There's plenty.

1977
01:26:58,120 --> 01:26:59,960
Speaker 5: Of Yeah, but that's what that person wanted to be.

1978
01:27:00,160 --> 01:27:01,400
Speaker 5: That person wanted to be a guy to college. That

1979
01:27:01,479 --> 01:27:03,120
Speaker 5: person wanted to be a obstitution, that person wanted.

1980
01:27:02,920 --> 01:27:05,040
Speaker 4: To be well, no, no, I'm talking specifically about not

1981
01:27:05,560 --> 01:27:11,240
Speaker 4: not obgyons not obstetricians, just gynecologists. Why did you just

1982
01:27:11,360 --> 01:27:13,800
Speaker 4: want to go into if you think you'd have.

1983
01:27:13,760 --> 01:27:14,760
Speaker 2: To actually gonecologists.

1984
01:27:15,640 --> 01:27:17,280
Speaker 1: I had some friends I would teacher America with that

1985
01:27:17,360 --> 01:27:19,240
Speaker 1: are like three of them were in medical school and

1986
01:27:19,400 --> 01:27:21,680
Speaker 1: they would like to like jokingly say they wanted to

1987
01:27:21,760 --> 01:27:23,439
Speaker 1: do GUYO and I like get it.

1988
01:27:23,520 --> 01:27:24,400
Speaker 3: It's like haha, mail hero.

1989
01:27:24,560 --> 01:27:26,240
Speaker 1: But I was like, that is weird though if they

1990
01:27:26,320 --> 01:27:28,519
Speaker 1: both went down that path and just were like looking

1991
01:27:28,560 --> 01:27:29,719
Speaker 1: at that all day.

1992
01:27:29,640 --> 01:27:31,200
Speaker 2: So why don't they just make it to where men

1993
01:27:31,280 --> 01:27:32,280
Speaker 2: can't be gynic coologists?

1994
01:27:32,640 --> 01:27:36,160
Speaker 1: That's I think that's a debate that's happening. Probably is

1995
01:27:36,200 --> 01:27:38,719
Speaker 1: where's it happening that where I mean, there are.

1996
01:27:38,720 --> 01:27:41,479
Speaker 4: Men indical, But.

1997
01:27:43,760 --> 01:27:44,600
Speaker 3: That's what donald.

1998
01:27:45,840 --> 01:27:51,720
Speaker 4: And I'm not condemned. I'm not condemning male college a weird. No,

1999
01:27:52,000 --> 01:27:56,080
Speaker 4: I'm not doing that. But it is cause for like

2000
01:27:56,280 --> 01:27:58,479
Speaker 4: pause the same way that they have like that, we

2001
01:27:58,600 --> 01:28:00,840
Speaker 4: had the conversation where well, why do you like this

2002
01:28:00,920 --> 01:28:03,280
Speaker 4: person who's a conjoint chilling or why are you attracted

2003
01:28:03,360 --> 01:28:06,120
Speaker 4: to It's like, out of all the things that you

2004
01:28:06,160 --> 01:28:09,240
Speaker 4: could accomplish with your life, why this body part is

2005
01:28:09,320 --> 01:28:11,000
Speaker 4: what you wanted to go into. Why there has to

2006
01:28:11,040 --> 01:28:12,599
Speaker 4: be a reason why why.

2007
01:28:14,400 --> 01:28:17,360
Speaker 3: I'm with you de mas, why you're being even more

2008
01:28:17,400 --> 01:28:19,240
Speaker 3: political than me, because I think that ship is weird,

2009
01:28:19,320 --> 01:28:21,559
Speaker 3: and I'm condemning all of them I think are weird.

2010
01:28:22,000 --> 01:28:23,800
Speaker 3: You think so you think male gud in colleges are weird?

2011
01:28:23,880 --> 01:28:26,639
Speaker 4: Yeahs? Do you think male guy in colleges are weird?

2012
01:28:27,040 --> 01:28:29,560
Speaker 4: I think that's a large majority of them are. I

2013
01:28:29,640 --> 01:28:31,519
Speaker 4: won't generally how many male god.

2014
01:28:31,400 --> 01:28:34,280
Speaker 3: In colleges do you know? I don't hang on, We're

2015
01:28:34,280 --> 01:28:35,560
Speaker 3: gonna have We're gonna have a We're gonna have a

2016
01:28:35,600 --> 01:28:36,719
Speaker 3: male gan in colleges.

2017
01:28:36,880 --> 01:28:41,719
Speaker 4: But I've had a male I've had a male my doctor.

2018
01:28:41,760 --> 01:28:44,800
Speaker 4: But I've had a male check me out before, and

2019
01:28:44,920 --> 01:28:49,479
Speaker 4: it was a little it was awkward for sure. My

2020
01:28:49,720 --> 01:28:52,120
Speaker 4: thing is, if I describe a pain to you that

2021
01:28:52,240 --> 01:28:57,479
Speaker 4: I feel right here, you don't know how serious my

2022
01:28:57,640 --> 01:28:59,120
Speaker 4: pain is. I can't describe it on a one to

2023
01:28:59,200 --> 01:28:59,880
Speaker 4: ten because you don't know.

2024
01:29:00,080 --> 01:29:02,360
Speaker 3: It feels like he specializes a guest in the culture.

2025
01:29:02,840 --> 01:29:03,760
Speaker 3: He doesn't really know, but.

2026
01:29:03,840 --> 01:29:06,720
Speaker 4: He's especially but it doesn't but you don't. You can't

2027
01:29:06,840 --> 01:29:08,800
Speaker 4: feel it, feel it.

2028
01:29:08,960 --> 01:29:10,400
Speaker 3: But he knows that he's a bit of a culture.

2029
01:29:10,439 --> 01:29:10,759
Speaker 4: Culture.

2030
01:29:10,840 --> 01:29:13,719
Speaker 3: He doesn't really understand the culture. He just likes the culture.

2031
01:29:13,880 --> 01:29:16,320
Speaker 4: But if I say I have a headache, you could

2032
01:29:16,360 --> 01:29:17,519
Speaker 4: be like, damn, on a scale of one to ten,

2033
01:29:17,560 --> 01:29:19,320
Speaker 4: what's your headache like? Or I can't, but I can

2034
01:29:19,400 --> 01:29:21,920
Speaker 4: describe to you, Oh, this is how my headache. I

2035
01:29:22,040 --> 01:29:25,040
Speaker 4: feel this headache behind my eye and immediately you can

2036
01:29:25,160 --> 01:29:27,200
Speaker 4: know how that headache feels because you have a fucking

2037
01:29:27,240 --> 01:29:28,880
Speaker 4: head and you have an eye head.

2038
01:29:29,000 --> 01:29:31,160
Speaker 3: Just because he can't assess the intensity of the symptom

2039
01:29:31,200 --> 01:29:33,439
Speaker 3: doesn't mean that he doesn't understand that there's other symptoms

2040
01:29:33,479 --> 01:29:35,680
Speaker 3: that could be correlating to what's wrong with you. Of

2041
01:29:35,800 --> 01:29:37,000
Speaker 3: course he's a specialist.

2042
01:29:37,040 --> 01:29:40,639
Speaker 4: But that's fine, But you don't know me personally. I'm

2043
01:29:40,720 --> 01:29:44,120
Speaker 4: not comfortable talking. Well, that's about something that they have.

2044
01:29:44,280 --> 01:29:46,320
Speaker 4: They have no idea how it feels. You can only

2045
01:29:46,360 --> 01:29:48,320
Speaker 4: go off of oh, I heard this hurts, and I

2046
01:29:48,439 --> 01:29:50,599
Speaker 4: heard this hurts, and I read that if this, if

2047
01:29:50,640 --> 01:29:52,840
Speaker 4: somebody says this hurts like that, then it hurts like that.

2048
01:29:53,160 --> 01:29:57,639
Speaker 4: But literally, it's known that black people, especially black women,

2049
01:29:57,680 --> 01:30:00,200
Speaker 4: are not listening to by doctors. It's like scientific fact, right,

2050
01:30:00,560 --> 01:30:03,280
Speaker 4: That's why the maternal mortality rate is so high in

2051
01:30:03,320 --> 01:30:06,760
Speaker 4: black women. So when I'm telling you that something hurts

2052
01:30:06,800 --> 01:30:09,680
Speaker 4: and you can't understand how it hurts outside of what

2053
01:30:09,800 --> 01:30:11,240
Speaker 4: you've heard, I can't.

2054
01:30:11,040 --> 01:30:13,760
Speaker 10: Right what you've heard or what you've studied. Okay, this

2055
01:30:13,960 --> 01:30:16,080
Speaker 10: is not just a person who's just giving you random advice.

2056
01:30:16,160 --> 01:30:18,759
Speaker 10: Is a person who literally went into school, medical school

2057
01:30:18,880 --> 01:30:20,840
Speaker 10: in fact, to go and specialize.

2058
01:30:20,840 --> 01:30:23,160
Speaker 4: And and my question is why if you read about two,

2059
01:30:26,560 --> 01:30:28,720
Speaker 4: if you read about an orgasm, somebody can write that

2060
01:30:28,840 --> 01:30:31,800
Speaker 4: ship in the most craziest detail to you, but until

2061
01:30:31,880 --> 01:30:35,080
Speaker 4: you feel that, you don't know what the fuck? It

2062
01:30:35,160 --> 01:30:37,680
Speaker 4: feels like? Am I crazy for saying it?

2063
01:30:38,080 --> 01:30:38,280
Speaker 2: Yes?

2064
01:30:38,560 --> 01:30:39,439
Speaker 3: We are you talking about coming?

2065
01:30:39,520 --> 01:30:39,640
Speaker 7: Now?

2066
01:30:39,720 --> 01:30:39,760
Speaker 3: What?

2067
01:30:39,920 --> 01:30:40,120
Speaker 7: Yeah?

2068
01:30:40,200 --> 01:30:42,400
Speaker 10: Like that's like talking about coming and I don't know

2069
01:30:42,479 --> 01:30:44,360
Speaker 10: acts feels.

2070
01:30:44,120 --> 01:30:46,400
Speaker 4: Like talking about that was just an example of me

2071
01:30:46,600 --> 01:30:47,360
Speaker 4: just drawing us.

2072
01:30:47,280 --> 01:30:49,120
Speaker 3: Similar being read I understand.

2073
01:30:49,240 --> 01:30:51,680
Speaker 4: Yeah, Like if you can't, I can describe something to

2074
01:30:51,800 --> 01:30:54,400
Speaker 4: you in detail, and sure you can study it all day,

2075
01:30:54,479 --> 01:30:56,600
Speaker 4: but if you've never felt it, you've never felt it.

2076
01:30:56,640 --> 01:30:58,840
Speaker 10: It's a completely different experience. About the doctors who've treated

2077
01:30:58,880 --> 01:31:01,160
Speaker 10: broken bones and they've never had a broken bone.

2078
01:31:02,439 --> 01:31:04,800
Speaker 4: A broken a broken But.

2079
01:31:05,080 --> 01:31:07,320
Speaker 3: That's not a good example example.

2080
01:31:07,680 --> 01:31:10,680
Speaker 10: He's dealt with that pain, but he knows how to

2081
01:31:10,720 --> 01:31:12,960
Speaker 10: treat that pain because he studied about how to make

2082
01:31:13,000 --> 01:31:13,639
Speaker 10: that happen.

2083
01:31:15,200 --> 01:31:18,479
Speaker 3: With broken bones. There's just the science of the bone

2084
01:31:18,560 --> 01:31:20,720
Speaker 3: is broken, put the fucking cast on. And I'm a

2085
01:31:20,760 --> 01:31:22,800
Speaker 3: medical doctor, so I know exactly. You know exactly what

2086
01:31:22,800 --> 01:31:25,160
Speaker 3: you're talking about. They come in name one time you

2087
01:31:25,280 --> 01:31:27,200
Speaker 3: ever went to the hospital anywhere and they did that

2088
01:31:27,400 --> 01:31:30,320
Speaker 3: bullshit of pain scaler. What do you think it is?

2089
01:31:30,479 --> 01:31:31,880
Speaker 3: And that ever changed anything?

2090
01:31:31,920 --> 01:31:33,519
Speaker 4: So are we talking about that's only to give you

2091
01:31:33,920 --> 01:31:34,560
Speaker 4: medication or not.

2092
01:31:34,760 --> 01:31:36,280
Speaker 3: But they put a cast on, They look at an

2093
01:31:36,400 --> 01:31:38,840
Speaker 3: X ray and they go, all right, bet it's broken there,

2094
01:31:39,080 --> 01:31:42,120
Speaker 3: let's put a cast here. That's a little different than

2095
01:31:43,040 --> 01:31:45,679
Speaker 3: vaginal health in my hen cities and symptoms.

2096
01:31:45,720 --> 01:31:48,479
Speaker 5: And you can you can be somebody that walks into

2097
01:31:48,520 --> 01:31:50,400
Speaker 5: the office and say, hey, doctor, I'm feeling this, I'm

2098
01:31:50,400 --> 01:31:53,080
Speaker 5: feeling that, and the doctor can be a woman walks

2099
01:31:53,120 --> 01:31:55,880
Speaker 5: in male doctor doc, hum, having these pains Da da

2100
01:31:55,920 --> 01:31:58,560
Speaker 5: da Okay. I'm pretty sure he's heard women in the

2101
01:31:58,600 --> 01:32:01,200
Speaker 5: past describe that type of pain in that region. But

2102
01:32:01,320 --> 01:32:03,280
Speaker 5: then you do things like you run tests, you do

2103
01:32:03,520 --> 01:32:06,519
Speaker 5: give X ray assessments, scans, you give things like that

2104
01:32:06,640 --> 01:32:08,880
Speaker 5: to try to locate and see what it is like.

2105
01:32:09,120 --> 01:32:10,840
Speaker 5: Just because he's not a woman and he doesn't know

2106
01:32:10,880 --> 01:32:14,000
Speaker 5: what that pain is doesn't mean he can't effectively diagnose

2107
01:32:14,080 --> 01:32:15,960
Speaker 5: it and treat that pain. Because he's not a woman,

2108
01:32:16,720 --> 01:32:17,760
Speaker 5: like he'll run to hell.

2109
01:32:18,000 --> 01:32:21,160
Speaker 3: I'm they're medical doctors that are doing that. But to

2110
01:32:21,280 --> 01:32:26,120
Speaker 3: Demarus's point, in describing certain things someone that also has

2111
01:32:26,160 --> 01:32:29,720
Speaker 3: a vagina, it's easier to communicate that because Demerius is

2112
01:32:29,760 --> 01:32:33,519
Speaker 3: not a doctor intensitive talking to me, easy to describe

2113
01:32:33,560 --> 01:32:36,040
Speaker 3: exactly what was going on in her vagina. She's not

2114
01:32:36,080 --> 01:32:38,280
Speaker 3: a doctor, so there's some things that's hard to explain

2115
01:32:38,439 --> 01:32:40,800
Speaker 3: to someone that doesn't have a vagina and doesn't have

2116
01:32:40,920 --> 01:32:44,000
Speaker 3: the language or explain it to me.

2117
01:32:44,920 --> 01:32:47,240
Speaker 5: Explaining it to me, I'm gonna be absolutely fucking I

2118
01:32:47,280 --> 01:32:50,200
Speaker 5: don't know. To a doctor that went to school and

2119
01:32:50,320 --> 01:32:54,000
Speaker 5: studied the woman's anatomy and woman's health, he's I'm pretty

2120
01:32:54,000 --> 01:32:55,560
Speaker 5: sure he can tell you exactly what's going on.

2121
01:32:55,800 --> 01:32:59,000
Speaker 3: I'll agree that I understand that I feel explaining things

2122
01:32:59,040 --> 01:33:01,320
Speaker 3: to doctors about how I felt with certain stuff because

2123
01:33:01,320 --> 01:33:02,760
Speaker 3: I don't know medical terminology.

2124
01:33:03,120 --> 01:33:03,559
Speaker 4: That's fine.

2125
01:33:03,600 --> 01:33:06,040
Speaker 3: He runs us, and I'm saying it comes down to

2126
01:33:06,320 --> 01:33:08,479
Speaker 3: the actually want to tell you that I don't have.

2127
01:33:08,800 --> 01:33:11,640
Speaker 3: But that's I'm making sense how to swear in.

2128
01:33:11,680 --> 01:33:13,880
Speaker 4: Your head vagina, So you don't understand this, there are

2129
01:33:13,920 --> 01:33:15,040
Speaker 4: some things that you don't do that.

2130
01:33:15,439 --> 01:33:17,800
Speaker 2: Don't do that because you said and showed us about

2131
01:33:18,280 --> 01:33:19,439
Speaker 2: and you don't have a dick, don't do that.

2132
01:33:19,560 --> 01:33:22,400
Speaker 4: Explain what part I'm talking about. Well, he's saying, well,

2133
01:33:22,439 --> 01:33:25,880
Speaker 4: they can just run test some pain. It won't show

2134
01:33:25,960 --> 01:33:27,960
Speaker 4: up on a test, like some pain I could be

2135
01:33:28,040 --> 01:33:30,360
Speaker 4: having won't show up on a test. True, I'm having that.

2136
01:33:30,560 --> 01:33:35,000
Speaker 1: No, Absolutely, the medical professional will figure out because that's

2137
01:33:35,080 --> 01:33:39,280
Speaker 1: the professional. They'll figure out to conduct what needs to

2138
01:33:39,360 --> 01:33:41,000
Speaker 1: be done to get to the root of the problem.

2139
01:33:41,080 --> 01:33:42,880
Speaker 5: Again, you think doctors have never dealt with that, Like

2140
01:33:43,080 --> 01:33:46,120
Speaker 5: they run tests on everything and they're like, we don't

2141
01:33:46,200 --> 01:33:48,200
Speaker 5: know what's causings, but they're going to keep running to.

2142
01:33:48,920 --> 01:33:52,960
Speaker 1: The education is to learn and ultimately specialize in something

2143
01:33:53,000 --> 01:33:54,320
Speaker 1: that you initially knew nothing about.

2144
01:33:54,360 --> 01:33:58,600
Speaker 3: We're also talking about learning it as well. That's what

2145
01:33:59,400 --> 01:34:03,519
Speaker 3: saying's ten minutes. Intensity and symptoms are two completely different things,

2146
01:34:03,840 --> 01:34:08,000
Speaker 3: and talking to somebody about a feeling that has the

2147
01:34:08,160 --> 01:34:11,280
Speaker 3: same thing is a bit easier than someone that's read

2148
01:34:11,400 --> 01:34:14,760
Speaker 3: a fucking book off the scientific shit for you. Don't

2149
01:34:14,800 --> 01:34:18,760
Speaker 3: simplify simple. I think men can deliver babies, you know.

2150
01:34:18,920 --> 01:34:21,280
Speaker 3: I think a woman should talk to when she is

2151
01:34:21,360 --> 01:34:25,320
Speaker 3: delivering a baby. The best one would be a woman

2152
01:34:25,800 --> 01:34:30,560
Speaker 3: that has had a fucking baby. If a woman that

2153
01:34:30,640 --> 01:34:33,519
Speaker 3: hasn't had a baby, right doctor knows everything, I still

2154
01:34:33,520 --> 01:34:35,080
Speaker 3: would say the woman that had the baby would be

2155
01:34:35,080 --> 01:34:35,960
Speaker 3: the best person to talk to.

2156
01:34:36,400 --> 01:34:38,160
Speaker 5: But that's but that's I understand what you're saying. But

2157
01:34:38,320 --> 01:34:41,360
Speaker 5: what I'm saying is just because that person. Because as

2158
01:34:41,439 --> 01:34:44,840
Speaker 5: a woman, you having a baby, your experience is different

2159
01:34:44,880 --> 01:34:47,400
Speaker 5: from another woman that had a baby. So it's just

2160
01:34:47,479 --> 01:34:49,040
Speaker 5: because you're a woman and you had a kid, doesn't

2161
01:34:49,080 --> 01:34:50,840
Speaker 5: mean you can identify with the pain that this one

2162
01:34:50,920 --> 01:34:54,400
Speaker 5: because maybe your pregnancy wasn't that hard, maybe your pain wasn't.

2163
01:34:54,160 --> 01:34:56,280
Speaker 3: That intense, But you don't think there is some type

2164
01:34:56,320 --> 01:34:59,400
Speaker 3: of relatable conversation. And for sure a bit of talking

2165
01:34:59,479 --> 01:35:01,800
Speaker 3: to someone that has been through the same experience as

2166
01:35:01,840 --> 01:35:04,640
Speaker 3: you is a bit easier, especially when it comes to

2167
01:35:04,760 --> 01:35:08,000
Speaker 3: health and especially vagina's I don't know, but then talking

2168
01:35:08,080 --> 01:35:10,639
Speaker 3: to some dude that read a book and just looks

2169
01:35:10,640 --> 01:35:11,880
Speaker 3: at vagina's so you're simple.

2170
01:35:11,920 --> 01:35:13,320
Speaker 2: You're simplifying.

2171
01:35:14,640 --> 01:35:23,040
Speaker 5: Subject in the same school that this woman while you

2172
01:35:23,080 --> 01:35:24,200
Speaker 5: guys were going back and forth.

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Speaker 4: So hold on, Let's add in the fact that women's

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Speaker 4: health and the way that they teach it, they they

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Speaker 4: need to up I'm trying to think of the best

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Speaker 4: way to say this. They need to update their books.

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Speaker 4: They don't have the best thing when it comes to like,

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Speaker 4: they don't have the best educational system when it comes

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Speaker 4: to women's health. And doctors will tell you that. My

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Speaker 4: own doctor has told me that they are still learning

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Speaker 4: different things. So just for example, women who suffer from PCOS,

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Speaker 4: or if I go to a doctor, I've gone to

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Speaker 4: a male doctor that wasn't my doctor, but I was

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Speaker 4: probably at like a clinic or something because I was

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Speaker 4: going to school in the city back when my doctor

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01:36:00,479 --> 01:36:03,160
Speaker 4: was in Syracuse. And I'm trying to describe a UTI

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Speaker 4: to him, right, obviously he knows what a uti is,

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Speaker 4: but I'm telling him, Hey, when I pee, it feels

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Speaker 4: like somebody has a hook around my belly button and

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Speaker 4: it's pulling. And He's like, Okay, I don't know exactly

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Speaker 4: what that means. When I go to a female doctor

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Speaker 4: and say that she knows exactly what the fuck I'm

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Speaker 4: talking about because she's felt that exact feeling. That sounds

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Speaker 4: like something crazy to say. If I say it to

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Speaker 4: a man, he has no idea what the fuck I'm

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Speaker 4: talking about. When I said it to a male doctor,

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Speaker 4: he had no idea what the fuck I'm talking about,

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Speaker 4: because I'm not describing my symptoms in a way that

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Speaker 4: scientifically makes sense. It's just the feeling. But the woman,

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Speaker 4: the moment I said that, she says, I know you're

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Speaker 4: talking about you have a UTI.

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Speaker 3: And she just articulated the point I was trying to

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01:36:42,479 --> 01:36:45,280
Speaker 3: make so well, because guess what, she has a vagina.

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Speaker 7: I don't know.

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Speaker 3: Cool, but that was my point. But the bottom line

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Speaker 3: is too different.

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Speaker 5: She could have said that to the male doctor and

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Speaker 5: he's gonna give it the same antibiotics or whatever to fucking.

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Speaker 3: Treat the same shit.

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Speaker 4: But he didn't know what was going on there is

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01:36:58,479 --> 01:36:59,960
Speaker 4: he's gonna run test a clinic.

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Speaker 3: I play both side. He ran tests on you, didn't

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01:37:01,560 --> 01:37:04,720
Speaker 3: he There's value in experience. Ye, yeah, I shouldn't be

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Speaker 3: running tests.

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Speaker 1: There's value experience, But it also doesn't discredit the knowledge

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Speaker 1: and educational level of the doctor that can't physically, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: of course no.

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Speaker 4: And I'm never discussed why.

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Speaker 5: All I was saying was just because a woman is

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Speaker 5: going to a woman doctor doesn't mean that the woman

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Speaker 5: is gonna know and identify with the same pains that

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Speaker 5: woman has had, So she may not have had that.

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Speaker 5: The likelihood is bigger though, because she has the same anatomy,

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Speaker 5: so she can kind of like yeah, like just like

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Speaker 5: if it's a male doctor, it's on to a male doctor.

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Speaker 2: Like doctor, you know when I'm saying you feeling you

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01:37:36,760 --> 01:37:39,080
Speaker 2: should get erected on? Oh yeah, yeah, let it be.

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Speaker 3: I'll take it to the next level. What if she

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01:37:42,080 --> 01:37:47,360
Speaker 3: has fucking the worst healthcare okay metroplus in the city,

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Speaker 3: and can only go to three fucking uh spots in

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01:37:50,560 --> 01:37:52,840
Speaker 3: her network and they have seventy five people a day,

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01:37:52,880 --> 01:37:55,519
Speaker 3: That doctor has one fucking second to look and you

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01:37:55,680 --> 01:37:59,120
Speaker 3: have literally just a small window to explain what's going on.

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01:37:59,400 --> 01:38:01,120
Speaker 3: They can't really run a bunch of tests. If they

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01:38:01,160 --> 01:38:03,559
Speaker 3: want one test that's not in your plan, so you'll

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01:38:03,560 --> 01:38:06,080
Speaker 3: have to pay out of pocket for that. Yes, give

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01:38:06,120 --> 01:38:08,120
Speaker 3: me the woman that can know that the hook in

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01:38:08,200 --> 01:38:10,479
Speaker 3: my belly button? What the fuck that means? Sure, that's cool.

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Speaker 7: I'm not.

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Speaker 2: Knocking that.

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Speaker 10: I'm not knocking the relatability, but discrediting somebody's special like

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01:38:17,560 --> 01:38:19,280
Speaker 10: specialty is two different things.

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Speaker 4: But we were never trying to discredit them that they

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01:38:22,040 --> 01:38:22,439
Speaker 4: were weird.

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Speaker 3: He'd standing, no, of course, they are medical doctors that are.

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01:38:27,240 --> 01:38:29,639
Speaker 3: But you also, I'm saying it's easier for a woman

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01:38:30,360 --> 01:38:33,160
Speaker 3: to just go in to talk to a woman about

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01:38:33,160 --> 01:38:34,920
Speaker 3: a vagina, which is not very simple.

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Speaker 4: That's also not near.

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Speaker 3: That's not true entirely because you're a woman with a vagina.

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Speaker 1: No, because while you two were not we were all

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01:38:42,560 --> 01:38:45,800
Speaker 1: arguing and bickering, I was doing my googles, and I

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01:38:46,000 --> 01:38:49,400
Speaker 1: was googling why we'll do. Women in some cases prefer

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01:38:49,560 --> 01:38:52,800
Speaker 1: having male gynecologists, And there are plenty of articles about

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Speaker 1: women from their experiences that prefer to talk about this.

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Speaker 3: Stuff with men. I just speak for all women. Oh yeah, okay,

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01:39:00,160 --> 01:39:01,200
Speaker 3: I forgot your transitioning.

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01:39:01,960 --> 01:39:04,320
Speaker 4: No, for sure, And that's why that's why Rory said

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Speaker 4: that forgot.

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Speaker 3: That's offensive that you forgot.

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01:39:10,320 --> 01:39:12,200
Speaker 4: I said they're all weird. I'm like, no, that's not true.

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01:39:12,240 --> 01:39:15,120
Speaker 4: We do need we need some and some of them

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01:39:15,240 --> 01:39:17,760
Speaker 4: probably do have good reasoning, because, like I've met women

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01:39:17,800 --> 01:39:20,559
Speaker 4: who don't want to have a female guy collegist because

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01:39:20,560 --> 01:39:23,240
Speaker 4: of their relationship with women or because they were molested

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01:39:23,320 --> 01:39:27,200
Speaker 4: by women. So we need male gynocologists. But I'm still

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01:39:27,520 --> 01:39:29,840
Speaker 4: going to look at you for at a side eye.

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01:39:29,960 --> 01:39:31,400
Speaker 4: Why you chose this professional at all.

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Speaker 1: One of the top reasons why women prefer malelogists is

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Speaker 1: because the men are funny.

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Speaker 4: Jo on Newsweek.

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Speaker 3: Complex proves that BuzzFeed women aren't funny.

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Speaker 4: Jesus, you really think women?

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Speaker 3: Do you remember?

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01:39:51,040 --> 01:39:51,840
Speaker 2: That's that's not true.

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01:39:51,840 --> 01:39:53,880
Speaker 3: I know a lot of there's a lot of funny women, remember,

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01:39:53,920 --> 01:39:56,240
Speaker 3: and knocked up When she's at the Guano and she

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01:39:56,320 --> 01:39:57,920
Speaker 3: spreads her legs and he goes, oh, you do look

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01:39:58,000 --> 01:40:01,360
Speaker 3: like your sister. That's hard, that's sick. But this is

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01:40:01,400 --> 01:40:03,280
Speaker 3: where I understand where that ship is mad creepy. And

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Speaker 3: then she lied about her age and he was like,

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Speaker 3: I can I know your age by counting the rings

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01:40:07,760 --> 01:40:12,479
Speaker 3: in your vagina. It's like a tree. And this is

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01:40:12,520 --> 01:40:15,080
Speaker 3: why men should not be kind of colleges. You know,

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01:40:15,200 --> 01:40:17,080
Speaker 3: this is why you should be a kind of collegious.

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01:40:17,400 --> 01:40:19,759
Speaker 3: I would have failed to test a meeting.

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01:40:19,560 --> 01:40:22,640
Speaker 4: Spelled guy of cologist, or it would be a good dynacologist.

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01:40:22,960 --> 01:40:24,479
Speaker 3: That's a crazy kind of college.

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Speaker 2: I think if you can't spell, you shouldn't be allowed

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Speaker 2: to talk.

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Speaker 3: Go ahead, do it? Uh g Okay, that's a good star.

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01:40:34,720 --> 01:40:36,559
Speaker 3: Can you can you use it as a sentence?

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01:40:37,439 --> 01:40:38,519
Speaker 7: Uh? He's a woman's place.

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01:40:38,600 --> 01:40:40,600
Speaker 5: The woman went to a guyn of collogist because she

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01:40:40,800 --> 01:40:42,480
Speaker 5: slept with Dawskin Jermaine.

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01:40:42,120 --> 01:40:44,400
Speaker 4: Who had darkskin Jamaine.

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01:40:44,080 --> 01:40:46,080
Speaker 2: Also darkin Jermaine as burning damn.

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01:40:46,960 --> 01:40:53,600
Speaker 3: Country of origin, Uh, DYNACOLOGYA uh, Georgia. There you go.

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01:40:54,520 --> 01:40:58,439
Speaker 3: It's Greek, hey, meaning these science of women?

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01:40:59,120 --> 01:40:59,360
Speaker 4: Cool?

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01:41:00,040 --> 01:41:01,160
Speaker 3: Can I buy a vowel? No?

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01:41:02,920 --> 01:41:04,040
Speaker 2: The word find a vowel?

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01:41:04,200 --> 01:41:06,800
Speaker 3: You try to spell the word for the second letters

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01:41:06,800 --> 01:41:07,200
Speaker 3: a vowel.

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01:41:07,680 --> 01:41:11,680
Speaker 2: Buying a vowel is crazy? H g U y.

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01:41:13,400 --> 01:41:17,920
Speaker 4: Purpose guy, Yeah, that's true.

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01:41:20,040 --> 01:41:26,040
Speaker 3: No, C A L L you gotta callege college?

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01:41:26,160 --> 01:41:27,880
Speaker 7: G I S T.

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01:41:29,520 --> 01:41:32,200
Speaker 3: Sounded are? Do you want to try?

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01:41:32,280 --> 01:41:32,479
Speaker 7: Mall?

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01:41:33,040 --> 01:41:34,360
Speaker 3: Was there silent letters?

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01:41:34,479 --> 01:41:34,840
Speaker 7: Is that? Why?

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01:41:37,080 --> 01:41:38,519
Speaker 3: Is there one little accents above the U?

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01:41:39,600 --> 01:41:44,640
Speaker 2: U G y N E C O L O G

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Speaker 2: I S T S d N N No, mall, mall?

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01:41:49,200 --> 01:41:50,559
Speaker 2: I love pussy. I gotta tell you.

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01:41:53,000 --> 01:42:01,640
Speaker 8: Pussy s S C pussy, Oh my I got the

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01:42:01,720 --> 01:42:04,360
Speaker 8: fun is that about to say about spelling bees?

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01:42:05,680 --> 01:42:06,960
Speaker 3: About so funny?

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Speaker 5: All right, well, listen, man, this was a great conversation.

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Speaker 5: I feel like, uh, the pussies were seen and the

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01:42:12,920 --> 01:42:16,120
Speaker 5: pussies were heard. We've seen and we felt pussies.

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01:42:16,160 --> 01:42:18,280
Speaker 3: Today, we know you can be a gynecologist because you

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01:42:18,320 --> 01:42:20,800
Speaker 3: know how to spell it the first It's the first step.

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01:42:20,880 --> 01:42:24,240
Speaker 3: It's the first step. But yeah, man, hopefully we we

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01:42:24,360 --> 01:42:26,840
Speaker 3: all found out something different about each other today, and

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01:42:26,880 --> 01:42:28,880
Speaker 3: hopefully our listeners are learned how to spell gun. In

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01:42:28,920 --> 01:42:34,400
Speaker 3: colleges today, there is there a pediatrician gone colleges. They're

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01:42:34,479 --> 01:42:35,400
Speaker 3: just pediatricians.

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01:42:35,760 --> 01:42:38,439
Speaker 4: I think they're just got to cologists like when you're

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01:42:38,520 --> 01:42:39,400
Speaker 4: like a young.

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01:42:39,360 --> 01:42:43,840
Speaker 3: Kids and doctors and pediatricians. So there's pedatrician pedatricans you

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01:42:43,880 --> 01:42:44,439
Speaker 3: forel like kids.

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01:42:45,439 --> 01:42:50,120
Speaker 4: Pediatricians are not looking at vagina children's doctor.

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Speaker 3: Larry Nasser was that's is that the olympian?

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01:42:53,520 --> 01:42:53,720
Speaker 7: Yeah?

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01:42:53,760 --> 01:42:54,240
Speaker 3: He was sick?

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01:42:55,120 --> 01:42:57,839
Speaker 2: All right, all right, well we're gonna finish this conversation,

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01:42:57,920 --> 01:42:58,799
Speaker 2: I guess on Patreon.

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01:42:59,840 --> 01:43:02,479
Speaker 3: I hopefully we can spell some more words. Worry.

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01:43:02,720 --> 01:43:05,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, we're gonna tackle We going to tackle these words

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01:43:05,040 --> 01:43:05,559
Speaker 2: one by one.

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01:43:06,280 --> 01:43:07,000
Speaker 3: Boy, scout.

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01:43:08,240 --> 01:43:08,599
Speaker 2: Spelling.

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01:43:09,240 --> 01:43:13,080
Speaker 3: That'd be funny. Spelling me. We can use the buzzer. Yeah,

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01:43:13,080 --> 01:43:13,439
Speaker 3: we can do that.

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01:43:13,439 --> 01:43:14,439
Speaker 2: We'll do spelling your Patreon.

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01:43:14,479 --> 01:43:19,160
Speaker 5: Subscribe to Patreon now, subscribe to our YouTube and download

2349
01:43:19,200 --> 01:43:21,320
Speaker 5: each and for episode of the New Rory Mal Podcast.

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01:43:21,400 --> 01:43:24,040
Speaker 5: We appreciate y'all for supporting and listening. We'll talk to

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Speaker 5: y'all soon. Everybody, be safe, be blessed. I'm that nigga.

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Speaker 2: He's just Ginger peace, no worry, eno