1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:01,960 Speaker 1: Buggle up, hold on tight, we got it for you 2 00:00:02,640 --> 00:00:08,640 Speaker 1: is the Strawberry letter subject the Internet Blues. Good morning, 3 00:00:08,720 --> 00:00:11,119 Speaker 1: Steve and the cruise straight to the issue, Steve. I 4 00:00:11,200 --> 00:00:13,760 Speaker 1: have been living with this man, whom I referred to 5 00:00:13,920 --> 00:00:19,040 Speaker 1: as Mr. Our problem is he's into the Internet and 6 00:00:19,360 --> 00:00:22,480 Speaker 1: thinks that it is harmless. I find it to be harmful. 7 00:00:22,880 --> 00:00:25,560 Speaker 1: Recently I found out that he has sent some new 8 00:00:25,600 --> 00:00:28,960 Speaker 1: pictures of me to a few different men that he 9 00:00:29,040 --> 00:00:33,200 Speaker 1: claims are off of Nude Africa. It's a nude website 10 00:00:33,760 --> 00:00:36,640 Speaker 1: any who. I feel very disrespected. He has made me 11 00:00:36,680 --> 00:00:39,720 Speaker 1: feel less than a woman. I'm not into this internet thing, 12 00:00:40,080 --> 00:00:43,479 Speaker 1: and he is the very first and only man that 13 00:00:43,560 --> 00:00:45,959 Speaker 1: I have ever allowed to take new pictures of me, 14 00:00:46,200 --> 00:00:49,000 Speaker 1: and he promised that he would never disrespect me like that. 15 00:00:49,280 --> 00:00:54,240 Speaker 1: He has not sent Nude Africa Crazy. He has not 16 00:00:54,400 --> 00:00:58,320 Speaker 1: sent once but three times. I have tried time after 17 00:00:58,400 --> 00:01:01,320 Speaker 1: time to let him know that, uh, this has pushed 18 00:01:01,360 --> 00:01:03,880 Speaker 1: me to the edge. Not to mention that while he 19 00:01:03,920 --> 00:01:07,160 Speaker 1: goes online, he posts profiles of himself and states that 20 00:01:07,240 --> 00:01:09,920 Speaker 1: he is single and looking. He gives out a cell 21 00:01:10,040 --> 00:01:13,959 Speaker 1: number and email address so that these internet freaks can 22 00:01:14,000 --> 00:01:16,840 Speaker 1: contact him when he is not online, and yet he 23 00:01:16,920 --> 00:01:19,880 Speaker 1: still insists that this is harmless and that it doesn't 24 00:01:19,920 --> 00:01:23,440 Speaker 1: mean anything. It does because I can't get any of 25 00:01:23,520 --> 00:01:25,600 Speaker 1: his time now due to the fact that he is 26 00:01:25,720 --> 00:01:28,960 Speaker 1: always online and lies about it or tries to get 27 00:01:29,000 --> 00:01:32,279 Speaker 1: off when I come into the room. This man knows 28 00:01:32,319 --> 00:01:35,520 Speaker 1: that I don't play, and it doesn't matter what he does, 29 00:01:35,720 --> 00:01:39,039 Speaker 1: I always find out. I love him and wanted to work, 30 00:01:39,400 --> 00:01:42,360 Speaker 1: but I'm very sick of drama. Will you please tell 31 00:01:42,440 --> 00:01:45,200 Speaker 1: him from a real man's point of view, the effect 32 00:01:45,240 --> 00:01:48,440 Speaker 1: and heartache the internet can bring to a relationship. I 33 00:01:48,520 --> 00:01:51,000 Speaker 1: know he's listening. He's a very loyal fan to your 34 00:01:51,080 --> 00:01:53,720 Speaker 1: radio show. I wish I could talk to you and 35 00:01:53,840 --> 00:01:55,840 Speaker 1: fill you in on some more of this drama so 36 00:01:55,920 --> 00:01:59,440 Speaker 1: that we can both hear what you have to say. Sweetie, 37 00:01:59,480 --> 00:02:01,840 Speaker 1: I know you would get a thrill out of it, 38 00:02:02,080 --> 00:02:04,680 Speaker 1: But until then, help me get a point across to 39 00:02:04,760 --> 00:02:08,640 Speaker 1: him before I catch a case. Alright, ps all show, 40 00:02:08,760 --> 00:02:12,000 Speaker 1: do you think that I am overreacting when it's my body? 41 00:02:12,080 --> 00:02:14,320 Speaker 1: And by the way, no, he didn't show my face, 42 00:02:14,680 --> 00:02:17,800 Speaker 1: just everything below the next But still I know it's me. 43 00:02:18,200 --> 00:02:21,320 Speaker 1: I know it's me. Also, I found out when um 44 00:02:21,360 --> 00:02:23,920 Speaker 1: he sent the email to this other guy. Somehow it 45 00:02:24,000 --> 00:02:26,640 Speaker 1: was sent to my email too, and he claims it 46 00:02:26,680 --> 00:02:33,079 Speaker 1: was a mistake. Yeah right, Wow, Nude Africa never heard 47 00:02:33,080 --> 00:02:36,880 Speaker 1: of it. Nude Africa. You're you're looking it up right now, 48 00:02:36,919 --> 00:02:39,320 Speaker 1: aren't you. Uh? You know what, girl, You may love 49 00:02:39,440 --> 00:02:41,959 Speaker 1: him like you say in the letter, but he certainly 50 00:02:42,000 --> 00:02:45,000 Speaker 1: does not love you. He does not respect you. No 51 00:02:45,120 --> 00:02:47,720 Speaker 1: man who loves and respects a woman would would do 52 00:02:47,800 --> 00:02:50,800 Speaker 1: something so despicable to her. You know, I don't care 53 00:02:50,919 --> 00:02:54,160 Speaker 1: that he didn't show your face. It matters not to me. Uh, 54 00:02:54,200 --> 00:02:56,840 Speaker 1: this man doesn't care anything for your feelings because you 55 00:02:56,880 --> 00:02:59,400 Speaker 1: have asked him to stop. You have told them, told 56 00:02:59,480 --> 00:03:01,880 Speaker 1: him how he makes this makes you feel, you know, 57 00:03:02,000 --> 00:03:04,639 Speaker 1: him giving a cell number out and posting that he's 58 00:03:04,680 --> 00:03:08,160 Speaker 1: single and looking what you know. This man is no 59 00:03:08,360 --> 00:03:10,680 Speaker 1: good for you. He's no good you know. Let him 60 00:03:10,720 --> 00:03:13,720 Speaker 1: go on and be a Nude Africa with the freaks 61 00:03:13,760 --> 00:03:16,040 Speaker 1: and you need to get a real man who cares 62 00:03:16,080 --> 00:03:20,080 Speaker 1: about you and loves you. Twelve after we'll come back 63 00:03:20,120 --> 00:03:25,720 Speaker 1: with the code Cracker. This is crazy, Nude Africa. You're 64 00:03:25,760 --> 00:03:29,640 Speaker 1: listening to morning show, all right, Come on, Steve, let's 65 00:03:29,639 --> 00:03:34,680 Speaker 1: get to part two of Today's Strawberry Letter, the Internet Blues. 66 00:03:34,800 --> 00:03:37,480 Speaker 1: Good morning, Steve and the crew. Straight to the issue. Steve, 67 00:03:37,520 --> 00:03:40,360 Speaker 1: I've been living with this man, whom I refer to 68 00:03:40,400 --> 00:03:43,480 Speaker 1: as Mr. Our problem is he's into the Internet and 69 00:03:43,520 --> 00:03:46,080 Speaker 1: thinks that it's harmless, and I find it to be harmful. 70 00:03:46,760 --> 00:03:48,960 Speaker 1: Region I found out that he has sent some nude 71 00:03:48,960 --> 00:03:52,840 Speaker 1: pictures of me to a few different men that he 72 00:03:52,880 --> 00:03:58,200 Speaker 1: claims are off of Nude Africa. It's a nude website 73 00:03:58,560 --> 00:04:02,120 Speaker 1: any who. I've feel very disrespected. He's made me feel 74 00:04:02,240 --> 00:04:04,880 Speaker 1: less than a woman. I'm not into this internet thing, 75 00:04:04,920 --> 00:04:07,080 Speaker 1: and he's very first and only man that I've ever 76 00:04:07,120 --> 00:04:10,200 Speaker 1: allowed to take new pictures of me, and he promised 77 00:04:10,240 --> 00:04:12,880 Speaker 1: that he would never disrespect me like that. He has 78 00:04:12,960 --> 00:04:17,120 Speaker 1: not sent once but three times. I've tried time and 79 00:04:17,160 --> 00:04:19,560 Speaker 1: time to let him know that this has pushed me 80 00:04:19,600 --> 00:04:23,040 Speaker 1: to the edge, not to mention that while he goes online, 81 00:04:23,080 --> 00:04:26,120 Speaker 1: he post profiles of himself and states that he's singling looking. 82 00:04:26,800 --> 00:04:29,279 Speaker 1: He gives out his seale number the email address so 83 00:04:29,320 --> 00:04:32,560 Speaker 1: that these internet freaks can contact him when he's not online. 84 00:04:32,560 --> 00:04:35,640 Speaker 1: And yet he's still insists that this is harmless and 85 00:04:35,680 --> 00:04:38,840 Speaker 1: that it doesn't mean anything it does because I can't 86 00:04:38,839 --> 00:04:41,039 Speaker 1: get any of his time now due to the fact 87 00:04:41,040 --> 00:04:44,080 Speaker 1: that he's always online and he lies about it or 88 00:04:44,120 --> 00:04:46,960 Speaker 1: he tries to get off when I come into the room. 89 00:04:47,080 --> 00:04:51,760 Speaker 1: This man knows that I don't play, that I don't play, 90 00:04:51,800 --> 00:04:55,400 Speaker 1: and it doesn't matter what he does, I always find out. 91 00:04:57,520 --> 00:04:59,440 Speaker 1: I love him and I wanted to work, but I'm 92 00:04:59,520 --> 00:05:03,200 Speaker 1: very sick of drama. Will you please tell him from 93 00:05:03,200 --> 00:05:06,560 Speaker 1: a real man's point of view, the effect and heart 94 00:05:06,640 --> 00:05:09,839 Speaker 1: and heart ache the internet can bring to a relationship. 95 00:05:10,120 --> 00:05:12,200 Speaker 1: I know he's listening. He's a very lower fan of 96 00:05:12,240 --> 00:05:15,320 Speaker 1: your radio show. I wish I could talk to you 97 00:05:15,400 --> 00:05:17,480 Speaker 1: and fill you in on some more of this drama 98 00:05:17,680 --> 00:05:20,640 Speaker 1: so we can both hear what you have to say. Sweetie, 99 00:05:20,720 --> 00:05:23,039 Speaker 1: I know you would get a thrill out of it, 100 00:05:23,360 --> 00:05:25,919 Speaker 1: But until then, help me get a point across to 101 00:05:26,000 --> 00:05:28,640 Speaker 1: him before I catch a case. Ps. Also, do you 102 00:05:28,680 --> 00:05:31,080 Speaker 1: think that I'm overreacting when it's my body? And by 103 00:05:31,120 --> 00:05:33,960 Speaker 1: the way, he didn't show my face, just everything below 104 00:05:34,000 --> 00:05:36,880 Speaker 1: the neck, but still I know it's me. Also, I 105 00:05:36,920 --> 00:05:40,040 Speaker 1: found out when he sent the email to this other 106 00:05:40,080 --> 00:05:42,919 Speaker 1: guy somehow I was sent to my email too, and 107 00:05:42,960 --> 00:05:47,760 Speaker 1: he claims it was a mistake. Yeah right, exhausted. Yeah, 108 00:05:47,880 --> 00:05:51,000 Speaker 1: I don't I don't even know where to begin what 109 00:05:51,080 --> 00:05:59,120 Speaker 1: you want me to say? Let yeah, let's let's start 110 00:05:59,279 --> 00:06:04,560 Speaker 1: right here. M hm. Your man insists that this is 111 00:06:04,680 --> 00:06:09,080 Speaker 1: harmless and that it doesn't mean anything. See when a 112 00:06:09,120 --> 00:06:12,240 Speaker 1: man makes this statement to you, lady, it doesn't mean anything. 113 00:06:12,960 --> 00:06:15,320 Speaker 1: All your next response has to be is if it 114 00:06:15,360 --> 00:06:18,840 Speaker 1: don't mean anything, what you're doing it for? Mm hmm 115 00:06:19,560 --> 00:06:25,440 Speaker 1: that's all. Men don't do anything and that don't mean nothing. 116 00:06:27,640 --> 00:06:34,240 Speaker 1: We're very purpose driven people. He's on Nude Africa because 117 00:06:34,480 --> 00:06:40,640 Speaker 1: he likes Nude Africa because this website does something for him. 118 00:06:40,680 --> 00:06:44,120 Speaker 1: Now what that is I don't know. But let's just 119 00:06:44,200 --> 00:06:46,560 Speaker 1: take a guess me and you lady, since you wrote it, 120 00:06:46,760 --> 00:06:49,240 Speaker 1: let's just say what is it that he could be 121 00:06:49,279 --> 00:06:53,480 Speaker 1: getting out of this website? Uh? Some monecked girls is 122 00:06:53,520 --> 00:06:59,240 Speaker 1: on now? Now his your crazy part. He's giving them 123 00:06:59,320 --> 00:07:05,680 Speaker 1: his say held number and his personal email address. Now, 124 00:07:07,080 --> 00:07:09,840 Speaker 1: what do you think is happening with these when they 125 00:07:09,880 --> 00:07:12,520 Speaker 1: call him? And what do you think is happening when 126 00:07:12,520 --> 00:07:15,160 Speaker 1: they email each other? What do you think is happening? 127 00:07:16,320 --> 00:07:19,160 Speaker 1: You don't think nuns happened? His people who are willing 128 00:07:19,200 --> 00:07:25,760 Speaker 1: to put theirselves on the internet naked MH and exchange 129 00:07:25,880 --> 00:07:29,880 Speaker 1: numbers and personal information so they can contact each other 130 00:07:30,040 --> 00:07:36,000 Speaker 1: to do what they already got the naked picture. See 131 00:07:36,400 --> 00:07:39,800 Speaker 1: I'm just a regular guy. But let me put it 132 00:07:39,800 --> 00:07:44,960 Speaker 1: to you this way. After we get naked, I personally 133 00:07:45,000 --> 00:07:48,640 Speaker 1: can only think a one most step after that. I mean, 134 00:07:50,000 --> 00:07:52,440 Speaker 1: I mean we nack it. Were the cards is too late. 135 00:07:52,480 --> 00:07:56,160 Speaker 1: We've already played trip poker. That's how I got your naked. No, 136 00:07:56,480 --> 00:07:59,960 Speaker 1: I won the game. That's why we nack it. Maybe 137 00:08:00,000 --> 00:08:02,680 Speaker 1: you can talk. We was talking with our clothes on. 138 00:08:04,160 --> 00:08:08,400 Speaker 1: See see see once we get naked, all the talking 139 00:08:08,520 --> 00:08:13,360 Speaker 1: over with all the card playing in domino shuffling is done. 140 00:08:13,560 --> 00:08:17,320 Speaker 1: See we naked. Now let me ask you to come 141 00:08:17,320 --> 00:08:20,240 Speaker 1: on tom to say it again. Time to groan and 142 00:08:20,520 --> 00:08:25,960 Speaker 1: see that's all that's left. It's grown in time. When 143 00:08:26,120 --> 00:08:29,640 Speaker 1: people get naked, ain't nothing left to do. It's said, 144 00:08:29,680 --> 00:08:33,839 Speaker 1: work it out. If it was sweating up in here, 145 00:08:36,800 --> 00:08:40,040 Speaker 1: you know, it's lamps and stuff get started getting kicked off. 146 00:08:40,160 --> 00:08:43,120 Speaker 1: Nice thing, you know. And when you find out the 147 00:08:43,160 --> 00:08:46,800 Speaker 1: bed make noise. Yeah, all that stuff started. Never you 148 00:08:46,840 --> 00:08:50,400 Speaker 1: get starting and fitted sheets up off the corner. A 149 00:08:50,400 --> 00:08:52,880 Speaker 1: lot of stuff. You've had your fingernails go across the sheeting, 150 00:08:52,960 --> 00:08:55,959 Speaker 1: sparks be flying and stuff. I'm just asking what did 151 00:08:56,040 --> 00:08:59,959 Speaker 1: you normally do when you get naked? That's what you're 152 00:09:00,040 --> 00:09:05,120 Speaker 1: man is doing. Wake up, lady, he naked at the 153 00:09:05,240 --> 00:09:09,319 Speaker 1: next level, this man that you've been living with. You 154 00:09:10,400 --> 00:09:12,760 Speaker 1: you've been living with this man when y'all get naked, 155 00:09:13,000 --> 00:09:17,960 Speaker 1: what do you with him? Do? So, lady, what do 156 00:09:18,040 --> 00:09:21,360 Speaker 1: you want us to tell you about your man? And 157 00:09:21,360 --> 00:09:23,920 Speaker 1: why I got to tell this to your man? No, no, no, 158 00:09:24,000 --> 00:09:27,760 Speaker 1: sherl I disagree. It's her man, but her man doing 159 00:09:27,800 --> 00:09:31,360 Speaker 1: this freaky mess. Right, he steal your man. See. The 160 00:09:31,400 --> 00:09:33,600 Speaker 1: only way for you to stop this is issue an 161 00:09:33,640 --> 00:09:37,960 Speaker 1: all tomato man, respond to all tomatoes. It's the internet 162 00:09:38,040 --> 00:09:40,800 Speaker 1: or it's me. All right, Steve, you know we gotta go. 163 00:09:41,160 --> 00:09:43,640 Speaker 1: You can email us or instagram us your thoughts on 164 00:09:43,679 --> 00:09:45,959 Speaker 1: today's Strawberry letter at My Girls, Shirley