Speaker 1: Good morning, good afternoon, good evening. You are tuned into
Speaker 1: the Vitamin D with Dawn Day podcast and I am
Speaker 1: your host, Dawn Day, here to get you excited about
Speaker 1: your life so that you can live life on purpose
Speaker 1: and for a purpose. And this is your first time
Speaker 1: tuning in and welcome Vitamin D. It's upon off my name.
Speaker 1: My name is Dawn and you get Vitamin D from
Speaker 1: the sun. So I'm here to shed light into your life.
Speaker 1: And I do this with inspirational insights and conversations with
Speaker 1: celebrities and everyday people like you and me, Because if
Speaker 1: you want to be better and you want to do better,
Speaker 1: then you're going to have to be able to see better.
Speaker 1: So join me on this journey of living our best
Speaker 1: lives and understanding and realizing how you are your greatest
Speaker 1: stassat Are you single? Are you dating or in a relationship?
Speaker 1: What's your status? They say, dating is that stage of
Speaker 1: where you're collecting data about who you're talking to. You know,
Speaker 1: it's an interesting stage, right meeting someone sitting up there
Speaker 1: trying to figure out their likes dislikes, assessing whether or
Speaker 1: not you can see yourself in a relationship with them,
Speaker 1: or you just want to see yourself in the sheets
Speaker 1: with them, or perhaps see that they're just going to
Speaker 1: be a friend, but after the day they use this
Speaker 1: like the relationship part. And depending on where you're located
Speaker 1: across the world, dating perhaps could be a little bit interesting.
Speaker 1: Like if you're a woman seeking a man, are you
Speaker 1: okay with asking somebody out? And men that are seeking women?
Speaker 1: Are you okay with a female asking you out? And
Speaker 1: what does it go for the same sex couples, Like
Speaker 1: how are you meeting each other? How are you interacting?
Speaker 1: Are you using dating sites? Are you opposed to dating science?
Speaker 1: What's up? It's a conversation that goes on and on,
Speaker 1: because I feel like dating doesn't always are only contributor
Speaker 1: romantic relationships, but just any type of relationship, And it's
Speaker 1: a space where you have to take time. And I
Speaker 1: think it also and I think I feel like vulnerability
Speaker 1: is so key when establishing a relationship. You gotta be
Speaker 1: open and dealing with past traumas because nothing's worse than
Speaker 1: past traumas coming up in a relationship you can't even
Speaker 1: see what's in front of you. And then thinking about
Speaker 1: relationships overall, are you ready to be in a relationship
Speaker 1: what has datum been like for you, m hm. Has
Speaker 1: your experience been well? And if you are single and
Speaker 1: currently dating, how long have you been single for? And
Speaker 1: if you're dating pursuing a relationship, what's your longest relationship
Speaker 1: and how long should you be dating before you get
Speaker 1: into a relationship. Dating has been an interesting process for me,
Speaker 1: and I can say myself, I probably haven't been the
Speaker 1: best of dating because I'm working on my level of
Speaker 1: vulnerability um and I think it's a requirement of any
Speaker 1: type of relationship, opening you up and sharing who you are,
Speaker 1: because if you can't share a piece of yourself, then
Speaker 1: what are you doing on trying to connect with someone else?
Speaker 1: Get right right with me? I get excited about all right? Okay,
Speaker 1: so I'm excited about this episode. I have this beautiful
Speaker 1: young lady in the studio with me. Her name is
Speaker 1: Crystal Frankly jern Mark. Can I get some applause? Welcome
Speaker 1: to Vitamin D with down day. Come on, give me
Speaker 1: somebody d dande. Hey, I'm sharing like all the time.
Speaker 1: Thank you so much for having me, thank you, thank you,
Speaker 1: thank you for making time. Of course, no, I like you,
Speaker 1: and when I like somebody, I like you. So I mean,
Speaker 1: I like, I like you online, so our first time eating,
Speaker 1: you know, because we gotta be were like I like
Speaker 1: you online, I would want to I hope, I would
Speaker 1: always hope that people that I meet online are just
Speaker 1: like they are in real life, and that is not
Speaker 1: always the truth. So yeah, but I feel I felt good.
Speaker 1: I feel good about this. I feel good about you,
Speaker 1: so of course, whatever you need. I think the first
Speaker 1: time I saw you, I met Daniel young Um invited
Speaker 1: me out to the Black Accents brunch and I saw you.
Speaker 1: I didn't know you, but I saw you. You just
Speaker 1: see somebody was like a kay, and then I guess,
Speaker 1: I mean, I would say it went viral for a minute.
Speaker 1: It was a photo you Lita and Daniel and I
Speaker 1: don't know the other young lady mar Hey, mar girl,
Speaker 1: and you know T and I worked back into New
Speaker 1: York together and idea yeah yeah, me and Danny the
Speaker 1: other danielle okay y yeah yeah yeah. So and then
Speaker 1: I ran into you at French She's workout and that's
Speaker 1: when it was like, okay, we're doing can I curse
Speaker 1: when I damn thing? But trying to beat you because
Speaker 1: it was a boy. Listen, she came in. There is
Speaker 1: this girl. First of all, the class had to start
Speaker 1: about forty five minutes ye arrived, but she came in
Speaker 1: her her God is like study with the glasses on
Speaker 1: everything to look for a boy that was there. That's
Speaker 1: literally and I'm glad we're gonna talk about this with
Speaker 1: the boy in a lot of good story. But okay,
Speaker 1: we're talking, We're talking, But I need you to tell
Speaker 1: people who you are. Yeah, that's such a loaded question. Um.
Speaker 1: I'm Crystal, Crystal Franklin from Dallas, Texas Cowboys Cowboys Nation,
Speaker 1: proud graduate of Graham Blink State University in Graham, Louisiana.
Speaker 1: I professionally am the senior Producer of Digital at Warner
Speaker 1: Brothers for the Real. Personally, I'm a childer guy, Janis
Speaker 1: and Charles's daughter. I'm a cancer. I love hot cheets
Speaker 1: and Dr Pepper, Larifa, a lot of tequila done. I mean,
Speaker 1: you know there's I mean, I don't know how to
Speaker 1: really answer that. I think I'm just I'm just I'm
Speaker 1: a lot of I'm a lot of color. I'm very
Speaker 1: colorful and I can feeling. I think that's what attracted
Speaker 1: me to to hit you up on because I was like,
Speaker 1: who is this girl? I was telling Jeremiah. I said,
Speaker 1: there's so much life in her and I was like,
Speaker 1: I didn't even know what the real story was. But
Speaker 1: I came across with this with the Boys series and
Speaker 1: I was like, she's so open, she's so candid. All right, So,
Speaker 1: uh what really got me tingling up in here? Because
Speaker 1: you know this episod as of right now? You know
Speaker 1: Valentine's stager. Um, you're with a boy series with the
Speaker 1: boy hashtag with a boy. It's so fun, it's like
Speaker 1: your dating series. Let me say, because I don't even know,
Speaker 1: you know, it started out real fun and simple. I
Speaker 1: came again. People have to remember, I am a producer
Speaker 1: by nature. I tell stories for a living. I've been
Speaker 1: doing that my entire life, literally, even writing books and
Speaker 1: things since I was small. Um, so I naturally like
Speaker 1: to tell stories. So I remember it was November, girl,
Speaker 1: you on these days? It was November November, Yes, honey,
Speaker 1: I had reconnected with an old friend. We met when
Speaker 1: he was in d C for pressing. I worked at
Speaker 1: TV Ones. Of course they would come by, um the show,
Speaker 1: the studio and we did interviews whatever whatever. So we
Speaker 1: reconnected when I moved here because he lived here and
Speaker 1: I just got my apartment November. You know, I was
Speaker 1: still trying to get together and you know, making me
Speaker 1: cute or whatever. But it was a pandemic, and so
Speaker 1: you can't go nowhere. It came do nothing. This is
Speaker 1: the early pandemic. No now now pandemic like a little different,
Speaker 1: but this is early pandemic. And so he was like,
Speaker 1: you live here, now, let's let's hang out. And I'm like, well,
Speaker 1: where are we gonna hang out? It everything is closed,
Speaker 1: and so he was like, well, my place in your place,
Speaker 1: it doesn't matter. And so I was like, okay, cool.
Speaker 1: So I challenged myself to find really really fun cool
Speaker 1: things to do it in the house. So we started
Speaker 1: hanging out. Maybe I think it was like once a week,
Speaker 1: every Thursday. Then he came twice a week, so we
Speaker 1: were coloring. We you know, I ordered games from Amazon,
Speaker 1: so we was jingering, jinging, playing Jinger Checkers, Giant Oh
Speaker 1: no bacon cookies. And so the second, maybe the second
Speaker 1: or third time we hung out, we were making popcorn
Speaker 1: on the stove. First of all, making popcorn on the stove,
Speaker 1: it's so sexy, right, that's all on the on the stove.
Speaker 1: It's different. It's a different situation. Then you're just putting
Speaker 1: it chucoling all with some damn pop. I'm telling you,
Speaker 1: I'm telling you, I'm not even watching the story right now,
Speaker 1: and I feel like I'm sexy. It's different. You know
Speaker 1: that that bag and then pushed a button on the Microway,
Speaker 1: ain't that. Ain't you be with some on that stove
Speaker 1: butter oil in there and you swirl it around, put
Speaker 1: them little popcorn season that thing swell around. He don't
Speaker 1: don't get popped. That set it up. Love that Love
Speaker 1: that go ahead, Jeremiah. Yes. And so I literally was
Speaker 1: on the stove, We're making a popcorn and I was
Speaker 1: like this should be something. I was like, I gotta
Speaker 1: I have to chronicle this, and he was like, chronicle it.
Speaker 1: I was like, I wanna you know again, I don't
Speaker 1: be walking around putting the phone in people's faces. It's
Speaker 1: when I knew him, we were old friends, and I
Speaker 1: was like, I want to capture this and he was like, okay, cool.
Speaker 1: And I was like, I don't know what I want
Speaker 1: to call it, but it has to be something. And
Speaker 1: literally five minutes that I was like with a boy.
Speaker 1: I was like, you're you're with a boy, and he
Speaker 1: was like, I like that. And so from then on
Speaker 1: that was November. Any time that I was hanging out
Speaker 1: with a guy on a consistent basis, I was just
Speaker 1: kind of do some look cute stuff in my phone,
Speaker 1: capture a little moment, put the phone down, and it
Speaker 1: became a thing. I posted about it. I posted about
Speaker 1: it one time on Instagram and the next thing I know,
Speaker 1: people were like, we need more with the boy, and
Speaker 1: I was like, oh no, this is y'all for real,
Speaker 1: Like I was just jokingly saying it on Instagram. And
Speaker 1: so now two years later, almost two years later, it
Speaker 1: has become like you said, I've just kind of captured
Speaker 1: my dating life online and I you know, it's all
Speaker 1: hashtag under with a boy, and uh, it's fun, it's
Speaker 1: cute as easy, it ain't nothing serious, and when it
Speaker 1: is serious that's cool too. But um, the whole idea
Speaker 1: was just to be honest. I had never dated in
Speaker 1: my life. Don ever. I was gonna ask you that,
Speaker 1: you know, because people talk about I was a relationship
Speaker 1: girl back to back didn't matter if I was no
Speaker 1: back to back. I was like, oh you you we
Speaker 1: were done, I'm done with you. Cool, let me go
Speaker 1: find other nicolon under and just you know, move on
Speaker 1: emotionally like that not healthy at all? How do you
Speaker 1: how do you charge your feelings like that? How did you? Girl? Mentalized?
Speaker 1: I wasn't dealing I wasn't dealing with my hurt. I
Speaker 1: didn't give myself permission to feel anything anything. It was
Speaker 1: just like, Okay, you're done, I'm over you. Does that hurt? Because? Like,
Speaker 1: hell yeah, because I feel like why? Probably because I
Speaker 1: think dating, you know, requires you to be a level
Speaker 1: of vulnerability, which is something like in my career, completely vulnerable.
Speaker 1: I will risk everything dating emotions, that part and areas
Speaker 1: I'm vinge upon the artists of my life. I am
Speaker 1: when I love I said, you love hard? I do
Speaker 1: when he gets friendships? Then how you'll say, okay, now,
Speaker 1: I'm not saying that you're the same crystal that was
Speaker 1: able to jump from the next place when you said
Speaker 1: you've always loved hard and always okay. So, but when
Speaker 1: I was done and you heard mew, can you cut
Speaker 1: your love off? How was that possible? It was easy?
Speaker 1: I don't know, Jill, And when it probably wouldn't he
Speaker 1: love like I mean it was in my twenties, and
Speaker 1: those experiences weren't really love. It was just infatuation. It
Speaker 1: was lust, and so I had to quickly learn the
Speaker 1: difference between that. So when you learn the difference between it,
Speaker 1: it's like, okay, even if I'm not over you by
Speaker 1: and for me, you know that my men said like,
Speaker 1: ain't no new COUCHI like new COUCHI I don't know.
Speaker 1: I could say a P word, but it's like that's
Speaker 1: how it was. I was like, all right, bye, And
Speaker 1: it was horrible and it was unhealthy and it was
Speaker 1: not the best route to go at all. Don't recommend it,
Speaker 1: but you're know what happen when you have daddy issues,
Speaker 1: Honey a longer, get a longer to get through some
Speaker 1: things and learn some things. So you started dating that
Speaker 1: Like when I first moved out to other I came
Speaker 1: out here and um September wow. Yeah. So and everybody
Speaker 1: kept saying like, oh, dating is gonna be awful day.
Speaker 1: That's all I heard. I started an experience that I
Speaker 1: didn't experience that because I never bought into it. Never body,
Speaker 1: where do you remain your So literally I go outside,
Speaker 1: people asked up like you don't go outside like I do.
Speaker 1: Under and again I understand people are moving how and yes,
Speaker 1: yes people are. They want people to be safe, and
Speaker 1: you move how you want to move. Some people don't
Speaker 1: feel comfortable being in spaces with a lot of people.
Speaker 1: I'm not that person. I vaccinated and boosted and before
Speaker 1: I let out the blood of Lord Jesus Christ on
Speaker 1: my side. So it's like, look, if he gonna kill
Speaker 1: me from the pandemic, he gonna take me out. This
Speaker 1: is I'm okay with din like this. If he said
Speaker 1: no, no no more and we gotta, we gotta let you
Speaker 1: go because of the COVID. I did what I did
Speaker 1: when I was here. I had a good time, you
Speaker 1: know what I mean. So I go outside. I am
Speaker 1: also open, I think so much so women. So many
Speaker 1: women are closed minded. I send men a drink. Also,
Speaker 1: there are no traditional like general like smack, you're coming
Speaker 1: up to get it? Tiice like, hey, what's up? Let's
Speaker 1: really let me. I walk up and of course you
Speaker 1: know from a couple of you know, a couple of
Speaker 1: feet away. First I'm looking, do you have a ring? Gun? Bam? Okay,
Speaker 1: no ring? Cool? That looks good, okay, face mouth, eyes, lips, teeth, Okay,
Speaker 1: probably it depends on what. If it's he's from the back.
Speaker 1: I noticed arms that little that that if he if
Speaker 1: he has a nice muscular back, I like like I
Speaker 1: like legs. I love legs. But if I'm noticing him
Speaker 1: from the runtch, it's always the face, always eyes. It's
Speaker 1: probably eyes and eyes and mouth because I'm looking like oh,
Speaker 1: because I'm it's all gonna be right here. But then
Speaker 1: I listen to me, look at this finger, you know,
Speaker 1: because chat they'd be walking around here, married, engaged and
Speaker 1: have fourteen boys. Right, So I look at all that,
Speaker 1: I'm like, okay, okay, cool. And if there's a mutual attraction,
Speaker 1: and how you know if they're checking because they realize
Speaker 1: they look. But I realized with myself because people were like, oh,
Speaker 1: don somebody was checking for you. And women, I don't
Speaker 1: think we give off. We don't give the green signal.
Speaker 1: Not we look mean and probably we're not trying to
Speaker 1: be not trying. That's why I say you come in.
Speaker 1: I s make sure I smell extra good wherever I go.
Speaker 1: It could just be to the grocery, still, to the
Speaker 1: gas station. I always spill listening. You never know where
Speaker 1: you're gonna be somebody, And even if it's not my man,
Speaker 1: it could be my new home girl, it could be
Speaker 1: a potential business opportunity. Oh my god, he's still amazing.
Speaker 1: What's that? Yes, so that's another thing that you smell good.
Speaker 1: I make sure that I look my best. Push it up,
Speaker 1: hold it down, poke it out, whatever I got. I mean,
Speaker 1: I want to look now every time, no matter if
Speaker 1: you're going to the store now, no, no, not the store,
Speaker 1: I'd probably be looking like a little a little hood right,
Speaker 1: not a hood a little boy because I had throw
Speaker 1: a cap on in the hoodie. But when you naturally cute,
Speaker 1: you know, so it just but I really always make
Speaker 1: sure that whenever I leave my house, I look good.
Speaker 1: I smell good, and I got something to say. And
Speaker 1: I always got something to say, just because I like
Speaker 1: to talk. But um, yeah, So if he's sitting at
Speaker 1: the bar and he's you know, he looks over. We
Speaker 1: catch each other's eyes and if you know, hey, how
Speaker 1: you doing die? You know, get not that big goofy
Speaker 1: smell I just gave you. But you know I give
Speaker 1: a little eye you know, do a little no work
Speaker 1: your eyes down is bad. You have to give because
Speaker 1: they do that to us. But so why not you know,
Speaker 1: let him know that you're interested as well. And if
Speaker 1: he's not moving, then I just kind of no, no,
Speaker 1: I I oh, I send a drink so whatever he's drinking,
Speaker 1: and just said, hey, can you send him another one
Speaker 1: for me? And I'll take care of that. So you
Speaker 1: don't think he should be comment, I don't think it's so.
Speaker 1: I don't think we should do anything. I think. I mean,
Speaker 1: of course that you should do now hold on now,
Speaker 1: but I just mean when it comes to traditional like,
Speaker 1: I don't believe in any of that. I don't believe
Speaker 1: in any of those rules that society has made us
Speaker 1: believe that. I absolutely not now hold on. As progressive
Speaker 1: as I am, I don't believe in that. I mean,
Speaker 1: if you see something that you like, you're gonna put
Speaker 1: a ring on it? No, No, I'm gonna say, sir,
Speaker 1: I see something I like, put a ring on me. Okay,
Speaker 1: I'm just I just put a ring on me. No,
Speaker 1: So I send a drink. And I've done that before
Speaker 1: and it's so liberating and it's so freeing. It's and
Speaker 1: it's sexy. It's like it's so you're Okay with rejection,
Speaker 1: do you get reject it? I know that songs. That's
Speaker 1: a ridiculous question, but do you Damn, I've never been rejected.
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, I don't really know what they no. No.
Speaker 1: And then there are times that I send drinks and
Speaker 1: it's not romantic. It's just like, call that's a fly,
Speaker 1: it's black man over there. I sent a drink and
Speaker 1: go get in my car and drive home. Yeah, it's
Speaker 1: just I just like to I just I do. I
Speaker 1: honestly believe that men, especially black men, don't get celebrated
Speaker 1: nearly enough. You know, we talked ship. It's easy to
Speaker 1: talk shit, or it's easy to you know, celebrate them
Speaker 1: when they got a new job, a new house, a
Speaker 1: new car, promotion. What about just because it's Tuesday, Just
Speaker 1: because just because it's Tuesday here, black man, you you're
Speaker 1: fine man, And just send him a drink or just
Speaker 1: walk past something like that's a beautiful sun. I love
Speaker 1: that that suit fits you. Just keep walking like I don't.
Speaker 1: Everything is not a romantic exchange. Sometimes it's just me
Speaker 1: just celebrating you. And so I believe in all of that.
Speaker 1: So what is dating that? What is Yeah? And how
Speaker 1: do you know, if you're dating someone, you know, I'm
Speaker 1: very clear. I'm very clear. So I don't bring every
Speaker 1: everybody's not with the boy. And nowadays man, so guinnyhead.
Speaker 1: I love that nowadays, Like when I meet guys that
Speaker 1: follow me on Instagram, they're like, oh can I can
Speaker 1: I be with the boy, And I'll be like WHOA
Speaker 1: Like people are invested in to find men that are
Speaker 1: truly like I like that. I I want to be
Speaker 1: a part of it. I'd be like, well, hold on,
Speaker 1: I'm dating looks very for me. For Crystal, have to
Speaker 1: preface this because yes, dating for me is I meet
Speaker 1: a guy and there's mutual interest, mutual attraction. We've exchanged
Speaker 1: phone numbers, we've hung out. I don't even put a
Speaker 1: number on it because I don't Again, I don't believe,
Speaker 1: and I'll like quantifying everything. We hung out at least
Speaker 1: three too. I guess maybe I'll do put a number
Speaker 1: on it. Um. But we hang out a couple of
Speaker 1: times and we're talking every day. The the intention is
Speaker 1: to hang out more and see each other and do
Speaker 1: whatever else we want to do together. Then, yeah, we're dating,
Speaker 1: doesn't mean that you're my man. It doesn't mean that
Speaker 1: you can't date other people. It doesn't mean that I
Speaker 1: can't date a like, which is difference. We're dating and
Speaker 1: my friend and us dating well with friends, there's a
Speaker 1: there's a romantic and sexual disconnected. I'm not sexually or
Speaker 1: romantically attracted to my homeboys. That's a difference. That's the
Speaker 1: only thing that makes us romantic or not. Like I'm
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, like, I'm not. I don't.
Speaker 1: I'm not there with my male friends with the with
Speaker 1: the niggas I like, and the niggas don't want to
Speaker 1: get booty with. That's that's that's why they're over here
Speaker 1: in this category. If you want to go over there.
Speaker 1: And then we got to cut everything yourself. So we
Speaker 1: dated more than one persons. That's the whole premise of
Speaker 1: with the boys to stage. They say dating is collecting data, right,
Speaker 1: That's sure. We're collecting data in whatever ways we want
Speaker 1: to collect data. So that means that if I want
Speaker 1: to hang out with thirteen guys, come let me be realistic,
Speaker 1: because I do be being sarcastic because he would be like,
Speaker 1: So that means you're having sex with all of about me?
Speaker 1: Like ye all forty five of them, because one, if
Speaker 1: I was, who cares? If I was, who cares too?
Speaker 1: It's not I'm not, But if I was, why does
Speaker 1: it even matter. We should approach it like, whatever she's doing,
Speaker 1: let's hope that they're doing it safely and you leave
Speaker 1: it at that, whether if it's going out for cow fee,
Speaker 1: because that could be a dangerous situation because it's crazy.
Speaker 1: Women are crazy. People are crazy now days, you know
Speaker 1: what I mean. So it doesn't always have to be
Speaker 1: a sexual situation. But um, yeah, for me, it's dating
Speaker 1: most people at one time. I mean, and I'm very honest.
Speaker 1: Do you take women as well? Or just no? And
Speaker 1: there's so many there are so many women are like
Speaker 1: can we do with a girl? And I'd be like,
Speaker 1: are y'all serious? Like literally no, Like Penis, I could,
Speaker 1: I could. I could emotionally, I could be a lesbian
Speaker 1: for sure. Difference, Well, I know what I'm saying. Well,
Speaker 1: what I'm just saying it is women, we're emotionally. There's
Speaker 1: a lot of things, but you can you can purchase
Speaker 1: parts from the bot honey, the way that I like me.
Speaker 1: I just wanted to be clear. You said that I
Speaker 1: love me. I'm saying, how I think for me, one
Speaker 1: of the most important things is next with somebody, right,
Speaker 1: I want to be my party, got to connect to
Speaker 1: And that's why I have to be clear, because I said, well,
Speaker 1: you can go to the store and you get some
Speaker 1: other parts to the party. Yes, that pulse, that vein
Speaker 1: that comes to okay, yeah, okay, So what your lot
Speaker 1: of knees once they get into good want to die? Yeah,
Speaker 1: so I can. But yeah, I've had I've had a
Speaker 1: lot of lesbians asked me if I can, can I
Speaker 1: can I take you on a day? And I'd be like, no,
Speaker 1: what did you say? Yes? Because it's so open because
Speaker 1: I don't want it to ever because I want I
Speaker 1: don't want to disrespect that community. And I'm not gonna
Speaker 1: play with y'all, like if I don't want to play
Speaker 1: with nobody's feelings, and I'm not gonna be all the
Speaker 1: way in Because as much as I am attracted to
Speaker 1: women and I think they're beautiful, I'm also not really
Speaker 1: sexually attracted to women. Not really. I mean, you know,
Speaker 1: I might look good and I'm like, okay, let's go on,
Speaker 1: but I still like penis and I still like a man.
Speaker 1: And so it's like we could do outlet, we can
Speaker 1: do all this all day. Do you know what you
Speaker 1: just said? Yeah, we're sissor and I'm scissoring. If y'all
Speaker 1: can't see me, what's over there? So you're saying you
Speaker 1: can't do that with a female, meaning like, sure, we
Speaker 1: can do that, But then what we done? Holds and
Speaker 1: I'm saying, what's we done? I'm looking around for jam
Speaker 1: looking for jam. What do you call this? Hold on?
Speaker 1: Looking for jamal looking no, no, no, no no, no, no me. Hey,
Speaker 1: this is your girl, girly Strawberry. How are you doing? Hi? Everybody,
Speaker 1: this is Jasmineberg coming to you from the fighting indeed
Speaker 1: with don jayat you call her don Jay her love
Speaker 1: keep shining down, keep shining. So you said, Dawn, yeah,
Speaker 1: I can emotionally be a lesbian. Yes, it sounds horrible.
Speaker 1: I'm sure she's doing this thing with her hand. I said,
Speaker 1: first off, she clasping and she prays that. You heard
Speaker 1: me say, do you know what she's doing? Yeah, so
Speaker 1: you're gonna I ain't gonna do that emotionally be this,
Speaker 1: But I'm saying, I understand it. You can't even get
Speaker 1: with it. But then there's something that's like Naw, you
Speaker 1: just said that, Christie. I know I don't. It wouldn't
Speaker 1: It wouldn't satisfy me, wouldn't sustain Did you try it
Speaker 1: with a grand phone? Okay, yes, yes, but it just
Speaker 1: it wouldn't sustain me sexually. So that changes the whole
Speaker 1: thing you were saying, like, oh this happened. It's like no, no, no,
Speaker 1: it just doesn't doesn't. It doesn't don't sustain me. Like emotionally,
Speaker 1: I could, I could, I could fall in love with
Speaker 1: the woman. I think that's very easy for me. But
Speaker 1: anything outside of the emotional stuff I just wouldn't sustain
Speaker 1: me for very long. And I don't want to. No, no, honey, No,
Speaker 1: I still still like monogamy. I still believe in monogamy.
Speaker 1: I still think it's necessary. But the caveats that is,
Speaker 1: I do understand the desire to be with more than
Speaker 1: one person while you're in a relationship. I do understand that.
Speaker 1: I do think it's a little unnatural for us. I
Speaker 1: know it sounds problem. It's probably um contradiction. Yes, thank you,
Speaker 1: I do under I believe in monogamy. I think it's necessary.
Speaker 1: I love it. I'm for that champion. I want it However,
Speaker 1: there are some portions of monogamy that I do think
Speaker 1: are a natural. I do think that it is okay
Speaker 1: to desire more than one person in your monogamous relationship,
Speaker 1: and how you go about that between you and your part,
Speaker 1: what you may desire that. Yeah, I have friends that
Speaker 1: are in open relationships and in open marriages, um, And
Speaker 1: while that won't likely work for me, I do understand
Speaker 1: um their position on it, and I even can admit that,
Speaker 1: you know, like, okay, I get that. Now look here.
Speaker 1: Now that's why I think it's important to do chickens.
Speaker 1: You like rules, not not really. I don't like a
Speaker 1: lot of rules. There are some rules that have to
Speaker 1: be in place. He rob somebody, you go to jail
Speaker 1: your kids. Yes, so there are some social some societal
Speaker 1: rules that I do believe in. But when it comes
Speaker 1: to matters of the heart, I just think it's so
Speaker 1: it's so tricky. Everything it's tricky. Like you know, I
Speaker 1: had a friend that would always say, Dawn, everything's not
Speaker 1: black and white. It's really not. And I was like,
Speaker 1: I never really could understand or appreciate the gray. And
Speaker 1: maybe because I didn't give space open up for that,
Speaker 1: because we're scared. We're scared of judgment, We're scared of ridicule.
Speaker 1: All we know is what our mamas and our grandmamas
Speaker 1: and grandmama was. How do us black another thing to
Speaker 1: talk about it? So as you were so open, did
Speaker 1: your did your mom talk to you about sex? My
Speaker 1: mother didn't tell me about anything when it comes to me,
Speaker 1: my mother, my mother wouldn't even say in fact, so
Speaker 1: my dad died when I was three months okay, my
Speaker 1: sister's three years old. I've never seen my mom with
Speaker 1: any other man. I think that was the love of
Speaker 1: her life for whatever reason. So the whole idea of
Speaker 1: just seeing that romanticize of a man and a woman
Speaker 1: of that was on television. Yeah whatever Black Story, Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: whatever you were. I mean, I don't know if I
Speaker 1: even paid that. I don't know if I invested in that.
Speaker 1: And I even wonder, like you know, talking about day,
Speaker 1: like how that probably has affected how I manuversedsolutely, which
Speaker 1: is why I'm still open, because I want to be
Speaker 1: the woman that I still need today. How did you
Speaker 1: know that she existed? I don't. I think I just grew.
Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, I mean and not really create because
Speaker 1: it's me it's still very much so me. But I
Speaker 1: just decided that I didn't have all these things on up.
Speaker 1: I still don't have a lot of stuff at the
Speaker 1: age that I am, so if I can't find it,
Speaker 1: it's not really easily accessible. So why not just be that?
Speaker 1: Be what I need, be the girl and the woman
Speaker 1: that I needed to see? When we're talking about being
Speaker 1: the girl and the woman that I need, do you
Speaker 1: think that gets in the way of us dating? Because
Speaker 1: sometimes being all of that, how can we welcome somebody else?
Speaker 1: I'm just saying, as two career Origans women, we can
Speaker 1: have a tendency to intimidate people. So we're constantly building
Speaker 1: and becoming this but then also powerful. I gotta know
Speaker 1: how we do we make room for that. I don't
Speaker 1: make room for people that are intimidated by me, not romantically,
Speaker 1: chet Clip, just because you said that, Oh, I was
Speaker 1: checking out this enterview with Nicki Minaj. She did it
Speaker 1: with Master Flex and it talks about, you know, being
Speaker 1: a woman of a certain stature and confidence. Go ahead
Speaker 1: and play this, Jeremiah. You all the sense of attention
Speaker 1: when you walk into the I need a very secure
Speaker 1: man and and and it's not only for Nicki Minaj.
Speaker 1: I'm just saying that's that's not the easiest thing for
Speaker 1: any successful, beautiful woman. If you're don't have a secure man, run,
Speaker 1: you're in trouble. Because this man needs to be secure
Speaker 1: in the house and out the house. He needs to
Speaker 1: be able to he needs to know. I got a
Speaker 1: good woman by my side. I don't care how many
Speaker 1: men want her. I know she's gonna hold me down.
Speaker 1: And he shouldn't have to belittle you hel so that
Speaker 1: you can have a low self esteem so that he
Speaker 1: can feel better. Ona, I agree. I am honest. When
Speaker 1: I'm dating. I do eat a man that is not
Speaker 1: intimidated by me. I don't even entertain you, like if
Speaker 1: you oh, I wasn't gonna speak because you look like okay, well,
Speaker 1: so don't speak. Then let me just keep walking. You
Speaker 1: ain't gonna say that because that's just I'm not attracted
Speaker 1: to that. I need to stand up, dude, I need
Speaker 1: to do that in a relationship with you, like he
Speaker 1: I mean, I probably would like I'm really big on
Speaker 1: let's talk about it. Let's talk about everything. Hey, I'm
Speaker 1: feeling you done, Hi, I'm feeling you spent a couple
Speaker 1: of months. And um, I know we have said that
Speaker 1: we were just dating and we were possibly dating other people,
Speaker 1: But what do you think about the idea of im
Speaker 1: just so bald? Y'all? I would what do you think
Speaker 1: about the idea maybe that's just sing each other just me?
Speaker 1: You were always this bald. I hadn't been, but I
Speaker 1: just learned that. I learned thirty. Something happened at thirty.
Speaker 1: At some point you gotta choose. I chose me. And
Speaker 1: it's like, yo, if you don't sunk with it, you
Speaker 1: don't like it. That's also how we get your attention?
Speaker 1: How how does a man get your attention? Like, what's
Speaker 1: the best compliment you ever got? Like, like, um, I
Speaker 1: think the best compliment I ever got It was from
Speaker 1: a guy that said, I forget that you're every time.
Speaker 1: I said, it's not like game every single time? But
Speaker 1: what just okay, I think some game is necessary to
Speaker 1: get to get this, to get us need a little
Speaker 1: a little bit of gain. Yeah, let me a little.
Speaker 1: I love clever and I love Weddy activity. I mean
Speaker 1: we're creatives, like exactly right, Like that's such a turn on.
Speaker 1: This guy was like, you know, I forget how fine
Speaker 1: you are sometimes and I was like forget. He was like, right,
Speaker 1: I don't like forget, like my little ego, what do
Speaker 1: you forget? Like how you need to remind the daily reminded.
Speaker 1: He was like no, he's like you're so smart. And
Speaker 1: he was just like, your brain covers up a lot
Speaker 1: of your sexy and I was like my brain. He
Speaker 1: was like, actually, he's like, I'm more attracted to your brain,
Speaker 1: Like what like? Because that I had never heard that
Speaker 1: people will compliment the surface stuff. Again, and I understand,
Speaker 1: I give and make it easy for people to compliment me.
Speaker 1: I do. I'm not again, I am not naive. You know,
Speaker 1: I'm not naive. So I understand that if I walk
Speaker 1: in the room somewhere with something moment, I understand you
Speaker 1: might say something. But again, that stuff, it's nice, but
Speaker 1: it doesn't hold any weight. It doesn't hold anyway. It's
Speaker 1: the niggat that told me that he likes my brain
Speaker 1: almost whether he likes her that. I look, now I
Speaker 1: want to give him some brain, you know what I mean?
Speaker 1: Like it's just right, like I just I genuinely love
Speaker 1: compliments that make me think and make me say huh.
Speaker 1: My favorite this like most recently guys have been saying,
Speaker 1: you have such a warm energy, and that's to me,
Speaker 1: got me because I'm from Texas. I've always said I'm
Speaker 1: I feel like I'm very girl next or probably a
Speaker 1: little more provocative than girl next door, but like I
Speaker 1: just I still have those down home, southern kind of
Speaker 1: values even through all the progressiveness, and literally the last
Speaker 1: few weeks, I've been getting You're so warm, you feel
Speaker 1: like home, and I was like, okay, let's move in together,
Speaker 1: come on, let's have somebody's like I mean, it just
Speaker 1: was so sweet and so kind and mostly can just
Speaker 1: talk about assent TITTI. So if Nigga can say some
Speaker 1: kind stuff like a a kind man, A kind man
Speaker 1: is different. But see sometimes I feel like a car man.
Speaker 1: You know. It can be like a park. They can
Speaker 1: walk over like, oh yeah, that's my said, have some
Speaker 1: no not again, your confidence, some question, everything is okay
Speaker 1: yeah yeah, And that takes a really self aware man.
Speaker 1: I'm very self aware, so I can call my ship out.
Speaker 1: I know what I like, what I don't like, what
Speaker 1: turned me on, would turned me off? What I hate,
Speaker 1: what I love? What what I be being jealous over?
Speaker 1: What makes me envyes like I know myself so well.
Speaker 1: I need a man in that same vein, like, hey,
Speaker 1: I don't like what you have on ba, it's really
Speaker 1: not you, it's really my own and cure. I think
Speaker 1: another that can gonna come in here and take you
Speaker 1: and you'll be and I I'd love when men are honest,
Speaker 1: and men were barely honest. So but I love when
Speaker 1: a man is self aware. That's what turns me on.
Speaker 1: That's what that's how you can get my attention. Okay,
Speaker 1: so now they got your attention. Take on the day.
Speaker 1: What's the best date you've ever been on? Oh? I
Speaker 1: think the best day I've ever been on. That's not it,
Speaker 1: so hopefully jail. I almost let the next day I did. Um.
Speaker 1: The best date was so simple. I am an advocate
Speaker 1: for a plan. I love plans. I think plans are sexy.
Speaker 1: If you ask me out. I don't want to plan
Speaker 1: my own date. I don't. All right, So what you
Speaker 1: like to eat, what you like to do? Where you
Speaker 1: want to go, sir, I don't know. I can do
Speaker 1: that for me. I can take myself all these places
Speaker 1: you asked me. So you figure it out, and I'm
Speaker 1: not hard to get. I'm on the Internet. Even if
Speaker 1: you're not on the Instagram. I'm on the Instagram. Do
Speaker 1: a couple of these, scroll a little bit. You can
Speaker 1: figure you can figure it out. Make it your job, seriously,
Speaker 1: if you if I'm serious about something, I stalk it.
Speaker 1: I researched it every day. I check on it every
Speaker 1: morning to check me in and take a little stalk.
Speaker 1: You want somebody to be resolutely, I want you to know.
Speaker 1: I want you to know me. And because I'm so
Speaker 1: public on the Internet, I make it so easy. I
Speaker 1: have a podcast, I'm on five different platforms. Everything is public.
Speaker 1: Go on Twitter and see the last ten tweets I
Speaker 1: tweeted about. And then if I was talking about a book,
Speaker 1: guess what. Takes me to the library and we're gonna
Speaker 1: get that book. I'll take me to Barns and Nobles
Speaker 1: and we're gonna get that book. Like that's what I like.
Speaker 1: I like niggas that really really treat dating like it's
Speaker 1: a job. Like, are you listening seriously taking notes right now?
Speaker 1: Because she's dropping it. Okay, I'm just saying, So my
Speaker 1: perfect date was this guy my ex this guy in
Speaker 1: my ex um he said, uh, first aid, He's like,
Speaker 1: I know I noticed on Instagram you wear a lot
Speaker 1: of hills. He was like, so, I want to take
Speaker 1: you your dinner, but I need you to bring some
Speaker 1: comfortable shoes. And that's okay. I don't know what kind
Speaker 1: of comfortable like give me cause you know, get tell
Speaker 1: me what I'm doing. You're talking about a work flat
Speaker 1: on at a tennis shoe like a sandal, Like, what
Speaker 1: are we talking about? He's like, like some like some
Speaker 1: some jays, some some Vans, some chucks, like a tennis shoe. Bad?
Speaker 1: Got you? I can do that. So he comes and
Speaker 1: picks me up. He lives in Virginia and lives in Woodbridge, Virginia. Hey, John,
Speaker 1: Uh lives in Woodbridge, Virginia. Came to Silver Spring, Maryland,
Speaker 1: picked me up. He went back to Woodbridge, went to
Speaker 1: one of his favorite restaurants. Uh. I don't like Svoo
Speaker 1: for real, but there was there were options there that
Speaker 1: I didn't mind. And so we have that had all
Speaker 1: the shots drive back to Silver Spring to go to
Speaker 1: the what's the concert? What's the venue? The fill? More
Speaker 1: the film? More? So we go back to the we
Speaker 1: and I work across the street from the film more
Speaker 1: TV one is right there right So he was like, hey,
Speaker 1: I'm a parking to s garage. He's like, lets go
Speaker 1: ahead and change shoes. And I was like, well, what
Speaker 1: we what were we doing? It's nighttime. I don't know.
Speaker 1: I'm like, we just I'm just changing shoes and he
Speaker 1: was like, yeah, I just put your shoes on. Take
Speaker 1: my little had grit and I had on some so kates,
Speaker 1: some Christian Lubatan so case. So if this man would
Speaker 1: have had me in them five in shields, I would
Speaker 1: have been pissed the rest of the night. So I
Speaker 1: changed my shoes. We get out and we're walking and
Speaker 1: he's like, you know this area? Like, yeah, I worked
Speaker 1: right there. I was like, where we going? It was
Speaker 1: like the film Moor. He's yeah, we're gonna see Nipsey Hustle.
Speaker 1: Have you ever heard of Nipsey Hustle? So two guys
Speaker 1: in seventeen and I was like, all I know is
Speaker 1: that he's Lauren London's baby daddy. I don't know anything
Speaker 1: else about it. And he was like, okay, cool, you
Speaker 1: we're gonna see him. That's so cool. Girl. We went
Speaker 1: to see Nipsey Hustle and I had on some Chucks
Speaker 1: and it was so fun. Like I was in the
Speaker 1: only and again very very simple. But he asked me
Speaker 1: to bring shoes. That's what did it for me. And
Speaker 1: I'm just like he hecause and he said, I see
Speaker 1: you on Instagram and how you do it? Are you
Speaker 1: wear his hiss? That was so simple. You thought of me,
Speaker 1: You considered me. That's all I want. It was just
Speaker 1: to be considered. And we stayed and it wasn't packed
Speaker 1: because back you know, on the East Coast, Nipsey wasn't
Speaker 1: huge back then, so it was mad walking room and
Speaker 1: so we were just there laughing in the bag, drinking,
Speaker 1: taking shots, watching Nipsey and it was such a beautiful night,
Speaker 1: so simple. But and only because he considered me. M
Speaker 1: I was like, sir, you because people they don't. People
Speaker 1: do not truly consider you when they not everybody not
Speaker 1: really And I think that's how you know when someone cares.
Speaker 1: And that's how you know what dating like people are
Speaker 1: a question like are they interested? You'll know, like you
Speaker 1: think that people should ask like what are we or
Speaker 1: what's going on? Dumb? No? Or is it ever safe
Speaker 1: to say? Or what are your intentions? Or what are
Speaker 1: you looking for? Is it a thing that you should
Speaker 1: be like, yes, what I'm looking for is what i'm
Speaker 1: in right now if I'm rocking, which not necessarily because
Speaker 1: I have Do you think that some people get scares people?
Speaker 1: Because okay, absolutely, but again, I don't want to be
Speaker 1: with you if you if you're scared, I'm okay. If
Speaker 1: if it makes you fearful, if it makes you uncomfortable,
Speaker 1: that's okay. Do you driving pressure on it? Because if
Speaker 1: we're hanging out, if we're chilling and we're relaxing, why
Speaker 1: do you have to ask me? Because I want to
Speaker 1: make sure that you're being intentional with my time. That's all.
Speaker 1: It is, like you're talking to somebody asking me. I said, hey,
Speaker 1: you know, what are your intention or what are you
Speaker 1: looking for? Whoa? Whoa? I'm not ready for things like
Speaker 1: I'm not and I'm thinking I was like, well maybe
Speaker 1: I wasn't in the moment, and I'm just trying to
Speaker 1: figure out because even that I will be turned off,
Speaker 1: like I don't like, whoa, what do you mean? What
Speaker 1: you I'm just asking a question of money? Can calm
Speaker 1: down because it's not I'm literally just asking because if
Speaker 1: your intention is to get married tomorrow, mine isn't. That's true.
Speaker 1: That's that's the honestly, god, honest to goodness truth. It's
Speaker 1: not I don't want to get married tomorrow said, like
Speaker 1: anybody is saying they jump in a relationship. So she's
Speaker 1: taking up a lot of my side, especially telling people
Speaker 1: what the hell Okay, that's a different layer, you know,
Speaker 1: especially because we spend time with each other. So I
Speaker 1: think it's so important. It's so important to just first
Speaker 1: conversation if you need to second conversation, Yo, what you want? Like,
Speaker 1: y'all know you asked me out. Excuse me, I know
Speaker 1: you asked me out. Um, you want to have sex,
Speaker 1: you want to date and have sex, going to be
Speaker 1: friends with benefits, movie by Man probably maybe sex and
Speaker 1: friends with I don't know. A few people just be like,
Speaker 1: well he's not really, but I have no idea what
Speaker 1: People some stuff and catch some things and it's like,
Speaker 1: but I thought we were this. I think it is
Speaker 1: incredibly important to be honest up front. They don't have
Speaker 1: to have it on the first conversation, you know. But
Speaker 1: I do think if we were spending time with someone,
Speaker 1: consents to time, whether that's on the phone or email, Uh,
Speaker 1: fly in picking up, going over there, he's coming over
Speaker 1: your house. If we invest in time and energy, Moniga,
Speaker 1: let's we can talk. And it shouldn't be a you know,
Speaker 1: crazy like what what do you mean? What's happening? Why
Speaker 1: would you ask that? That's too much, Like, let's grow up.
Speaker 1: We're spending. We don't ask questions you should. We don't
Speaker 1: get time back. It's the one thing we don't ever
Speaker 1: get back. So if I'm spending with you, I'm sending
Speaker 1: three days out of the week with you, my niggading. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I want to know, and any answer is okay, anyone
Speaker 1: you want to give me. It's like the love of
Speaker 1: comfortability to have with themselves self awareness. It's like, what
Speaker 1: the what is it us? It's okay because at the
Speaker 1: moment that I don't like the answer, and I'm like,
Speaker 1: we know, I really was only wanting this. And I
Speaker 1: also think that we always think that men always get weirder,
Speaker 1: that women get weirded out too, And it's like, I
Speaker 1: want everybody just to be honest. That's what makes dating.
Speaker 1: But this has to be a love of vulnerability. So
Speaker 1: for sure, and let's let's let's see. Um, you know
Speaker 1: you've been talking about dating. You've been saying, but how honest,
Speaker 1: do you feel that you're showing up with dating? And
Speaker 1: what I mean by that is because I was checking
Speaker 1: out your episode Somebody Somebody. Oh yeah, do you remember
Speaker 1: that episode? Like that damn favorite episode? And that's I
Speaker 1: was like, I know we've been talking for a minute,
Speaker 1: but I mean, you've got so much jews. Um here
Speaker 1: it's saying it's like you know your response, yeah, And
Speaker 1: that's where I feel like. You know, you say like, um,
Speaker 1: talk about dating. You know, you said like before, you know,
Speaker 1: jumping a relationship. So as far, it's like connecting with
Speaker 1: a man has nothing that you have not done. But
Speaker 1: you said, every man in your life growing up has left,
Speaker 1: has left that has loved you, has left you. Every
Speaker 1: man in my life growing up that I loved has
Speaker 1: left me. So what is it like dating your father
Speaker 1: less daughter. It's hard. It's hard as fuck. I always
Speaker 1: wonder like how that's going to affect, you know, whether
Speaker 1: if I decide if I end up with a man
Speaker 1: or if I end up with a woman, because I
Speaker 1: feel like it's still that kind of connection that I
Speaker 1: don't I don't know, you know, I don't know what
Speaker 1: I would expect, I guess from me growing up without
Speaker 1: a father. I didn't know the place that a father
Speaker 1: was to take or a man to take in the household,
Speaker 1: and so I feel get some way of overcompensating. So
Speaker 1: that's what I'm saying with my controlling allowing a man
Speaker 1: to have a place I have to have a place,
Speaker 1: so controlling, I know. Yeah, Oh my god, we're talking
Speaker 1: so much because I guess you gotta come back onside.
Speaker 1: We gotta talk to come back whatever you want to Fine,
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