1 00:00:00,560 --> 00:00:07,600 Speaker 1: From Hollywood. Thank you for listening to us with Ryan Seacrest. 2 00:00:09,800 --> 00:00:15,440 Speaker 1: Ryan Seacrest with you, Tony. Good morning, Good morning, Patty. 3 00:00:15,960 --> 00:00:19,919 Speaker 1: I don't see her yet, Patty, good morning. Zoom in. 4 00:00:20,040 --> 00:00:22,200 Speaker 1: Did you know the path? Does Patty know the password? 5 00:00:22,200 --> 00:00:24,680 Speaker 1: Did we change the password again? No, we didn't because 6 00:00:24,720 --> 00:00:26,560 Speaker 1: I have it on a little sticky note tubs gave me, 7 00:00:26,600 --> 00:00:28,320 Speaker 1: so I have a right here? What is the password? 8 00:00:29,200 --> 00:00:30,440 Speaker 1: Should I say it on the air. It's just a 9 00:00:30,440 --> 00:00:33,880 Speaker 1: bunch of numbers. Absolutely, say the numbers in the order 10 00:00:33,880 --> 00:00:39,560 Speaker 1: that they are on your notepad? Zero. Do dog really 11 00:00:41,560 --> 00:00:44,480 Speaker 1: know what'll happen? People can? Then everybody in the world 12 00:00:44,479 --> 00:00:48,519 Speaker 1: can zoom in with us. That's fine, everybody in the world. Everybody. 13 00:00:48,520 --> 00:00:50,720 Speaker 1: The two people that might actually want to join, I 14 00:00:50,720 --> 00:00:53,320 Speaker 1: don't know, Patty, I just want you to know, uh 15 00:00:53,520 --> 00:00:57,760 Speaker 1: handing my stack of papers over their tubs from earlier. Yep, 16 00:00:57,880 --> 00:00:59,800 Speaker 1: there we go. Thank you, Patty. Just want you to 17 00:00:59,800 --> 00:01:03,279 Speaker 1: know it. You're gonna be featured in a direct from 18 00:01:03,360 --> 00:01:07,440 Speaker 1: Hollywood report that will air nationwide later about your new 19 00:01:07,680 --> 00:01:13,880 Speaker 1: CBS television commitment. Patty Rodriguez, who coast and produces on 20 00:01:13,959 --> 00:01:16,679 Speaker 1: air with Ryan Seacrest's got a new scripted TV show 21 00:01:16,920 --> 00:01:25,759 Speaker 1: into development at CBS. Crazy Wilma Invoved de Rama will 22 00:01:25,800 --> 00:01:30,319 Speaker 1: be executive producing. It's called Mexican Beverly Hills. Yeah, what's 23 00:01:30,319 --> 00:01:35,200 Speaker 1: it about. It is about, uh, Downey, the city of Downey. 24 00:01:35,360 --> 00:01:40,280 Speaker 1: It's about a family, h first generation Mexican American family 25 00:01:40,360 --> 00:01:45,200 Speaker 1: that moves into Downey and it has to you know, 26 00:01:46,440 --> 00:01:52,080 Speaker 1: become Latino, even more Latino. The city of Downey. It's 27 00:01:52,120 --> 00:01:56,400 Speaker 1: a big Latino city, Latino and the majority of the 28 00:01:56,400 --> 00:01:59,440 Speaker 1: people that live in down here are affluent Latinos, which 29 00:01:59,480 --> 00:02:02,040 Speaker 1: is something that you know, you don't really see on television, 30 00:02:02,640 --> 00:02:05,200 Speaker 1: and we want to be able to bring that onto 31 00:02:05,240 --> 00:02:09,280 Speaker 1: the show. If Patty's partner, Eric Galindo created and sold 32 00:02:09,320 --> 00:02:14,480 Speaker 1: the show through their production company, Yeah, their product. She's 33 00:02:14,480 --> 00:02:17,400 Speaker 1: got an entity. I know, she's got a couple of 34 00:02:17,520 --> 00:02:22,320 Speaker 1: LLC entities, uh, which means what without spear, That's what 35 00:02:22,360 --> 00:02:26,240 Speaker 1: it means exactly. But this story goes on. It's all 36 00:02:26,240 --> 00:02:28,720 Speaker 1: gonna be featured and direct from Hollywood tuney hot on 37 00:02:28,760 --> 00:02:31,200 Speaker 1: the heels of two podcasts they've already managed to sell. 38 00:02:33,040 --> 00:02:35,920 Speaker 1: I know, I read this article. I think it's so awesome, 39 00:02:36,040 --> 00:02:39,440 Speaker 1: it's so major. Patty is like the epitome of a 40 00:02:39,480 --> 00:02:42,600 Speaker 1: modern woman just doing her thing. Sounds great too, show 41 00:02:42,639 --> 00:02:46,480 Speaker 1: sounds great. It's a great idea. Patty, get ready because 42 00:02:46,960 --> 00:02:50,600 Speaker 1: actually on the air Live, I am going to record 43 00:02:50,960 --> 00:02:53,839 Speaker 1: the direct from Hollywood Report that will be shipped nationwide 44 00:02:53,880 --> 00:02:56,440 Speaker 1: for a later broadcast. We'll just do it in the show. 45 00:02:56,480 --> 00:02:58,160 Speaker 1: We'll do it within the show on the show for 46 00:02:58,280 --> 00:03:01,800 Speaker 1: that segment that goes to other states. So think about 47 00:03:01,800 --> 00:03:04,480 Speaker 1: what you're gonna say, because this is Patty insert here. 48 00:03:05,080 --> 00:03:07,080 Speaker 1: Oh oh, I did not know that. Okay, Yeah, so 49 00:03:07,160 --> 00:03:08,760 Speaker 1: you need like a one liner on it because he 50 00:03:08,800 --> 00:03:11,919 Speaker 1: thinks it to time. Okay, so about like two seconds, 51 00:03:11,919 --> 00:03:17,639 Speaker 1: three seconds, twelve seconds. You give me twelve seconds, great, 52 00:03:19,000 --> 00:03:22,280 Speaker 1: I may give you fourteen less of me more of 53 00:03:22,320 --> 00:03:26,040 Speaker 1: you is fine. Let me grab and Patty get ready. 54 00:03:26,040 --> 00:03:29,720 Speaker 1: We're gonna record our direct from Hollywood Live. Sophia, Good morning? 55 00:03:29,720 --> 00:03:34,160 Speaker 1: How you doing him? Morning? So, Sophie, I understand you 56 00:03:34,240 --> 00:03:36,120 Speaker 1: used to be married to a narcissist. That's what they 57 00:03:36,160 --> 00:03:42,400 Speaker 1: just told me. I was unfortunately. Yeah. Well, now I 58 00:03:42,400 --> 00:03:45,080 Speaker 1: don't want to confuse this, but Patty and Tanya find 59 00:03:45,400 --> 00:03:51,160 Speaker 1: narcissists attractive. Well, I mean that is definitely why I 60 00:03:51,200 --> 00:03:53,160 Speaker 1: got into it in the first place. I mean, they 61 00:03:53,320 --> 00:03:56,800 Speaker 1: really when they first meet you there unbelievably charming. Everyone 62 00:03:56,880 --> 00:04:00,200 Speaker 1: loves them. They make you feel instantly cooler when or 63 00:04:00,240 --> 00:04:02,840 Speaker 1: with them. So do you feel like if you're attached 64 00:04:02,880 --> 00:04:04,880 Speaker 1: to them, you're just like at the top of the world, 65 00:04:04,920 --> 00:04:07,560 Speaker 1: everyone's gonna love you too. But once you find out 66 00:04:07,600 --> 00:04:10,320 Speaker 1: they are indeed by definition and narcissists, doesn't that make 67 00:04:10,360 --> 00:04:14,480 Speaker 1: them unattractive? Well? The thing is, you know what with 68 00:04:14,560 --> 00:04:16,920 Speaker 1: the narcissist, they really get into that gas lighting, and 69 00:04:16,960 --> 00:04:19,520 Speaker 1: so they convince you that if you were to ever 70 00:04:19,680 --> 00:04:22,440 Speaker 1: leave that you no one's ever gonna want you. You're 71 00:04:22,920 --> 00:04:25,960 Speaker 1: you're not pretty, you're dumb. You know, he made me 72 00:04:26,200 --> 00:04:29,039 Speaker 1: feel in the beginning great, But then once you know, 73 00:04:29,080 --> 00:04:32,159 Speaker 1: that kind of fades off, after the whole honeymoon period, 74 00:04:32,320 --> 00:04:35,840 Speaker 1: then they start making you stay because a narcissist, honestly, 75 00:04:35,880 --> 00:04:38,760 Speaker 1: at the bottom of it, is actually someone who's incredibly insecure. 76 00:04:39,560 --> 00:04:43,640 Speaker 1: So they keep you there because they make you feel 77 00:04:43,680 --> 00:04:45,880 Speaker 1: just as insecure as they do, and you get really 78 00:04:45,880 --> 00:04:52,080 Speaker 1: hooked into it. So it's not a good idea. No, no, 79 00:04:52,360 --> 00:04:55,680 Speaker 1: are you free of all of this now? I am? 80 00:04:55,720 --> 00:04:58,960 Speaker 1: I have happily married to someone new who's amazing. I 81 00:04:58,960 --> 00:05:01,760 Speaker 1: have a six year old little boy, and like my 82 00:05:01,760 --> 00:05:03,600 Speaker 1: whole chain of my careers, I mean I kind of 83 00:05:03,680 --> 00:05:07,080 Speaker 1: he got pretty dark, and I will say, like, be 84 00:05:07,200 --> 00:05:09,800 Speaker 1: careful with them. There they go beyond just you know, 85 00:05:09,880 --> 00:05:16,400 Speaker 1: emotional abuse. I'd say, I'm looking at amazing. I mean, 86 00:05:16,720 --> 00:05:18,599 Speaker 1: it was the best thing I ever did to get away, 87 00:05:18,640 --> 00:05:21,120 Speaker 1: and I'm ten times better of a person I am 88 00:05:21,120 --> 00:05:23,960 Speaker 1: than I was when I was with him. I'm glad 89 00:05:24,000 --> 00:05:25,719 Speaker 1: that you were in a safe place and a happy place. 90 00:05:25,800 --> 00:05:28,200 Speaker 1: Tany is a question, Well, I just wanted to because 91 00:05:28,279 --> 00:05:30,320 Speaker 1: you know a lot of people that are in relationships 92 00:05:30,320 --> 00:05:33,120 Speaker 1: with narcissists they just don't know how to get out. 93 00:05:33,160 --> 00:05:36,719 Speaker 1: How did you do it? Honestly? And I'm not to 94 00:05:36,800 --> 00:05:40,760 Speaker 1: say that I recommend this for everybody because obviously cheating bad. 95 00:05:40,880 --> 00:05:44,000 Speaker 1: But I was on a separation period. I'll just say that, Um, 96 00:05:44,040 --> 00:05:47,520 Speaker 1: but I had was going to nursing school and I 97 00:05:47,520 --> 00:05:50,919 Speaker 1: met some guy who honestly started showing me like what 98 00:05:51,000 --> 00:05:52,720 Speaker 1: I should be treated with. It's a way I had 99 00:05:52,800 --> 00:05:56,080 Speaker 1: never been treated and I was kind of confused at first, 100 00:05:56,160 --> 00:05:59,000 Speaker 1: like wait, I thought where I was in was perfect, 101 00:05:59,000 --> 00:06:02,200 Speaker 1: but this souther that I gave me like, treated me 102 00:06:02,480 --> 00:06:06,160 Speaker 1: so nicely, you know, helped me, and he actually gave 103 00:06:06,200 --> 00:06:08,120 Speaker 1: me a safe space to go, and you know that 104 00:06:08,240 --> 00:06:11,000 Speaker 1: kind of started our relationship and that's who I'm married 105 00:06:11,040 --> 00:06:13,680 Speaker 1: to now and have my little boy with. Well, you 106 00:06:13,760 --> 00:06:15,720 Speaker 1: sound great. You sound like you're really fulfilled. So so so 107 00:06:15,760 --> 00:06:17,279 Speaker 1: if you thank you for calling and sharing that you 108 00:06:17,360 --> 00:06:21,000 Speaker 1: take care. Thank you you guys to have a great day. Okay, 109 00:06:21,000 --> 00:06:24,240 Speaker 1: you too. All right, go to all of the technical 110 00:06:24,279 --> 00:06:26,719 Speaker 1: producers somewhere they're listening to the show. Here we go. 111 00:06:26,760 --> 00:06:30,599 Speaker 1: I'm gonna give you our Patty Rodriguez direct from Hollywood. 112 00:06:30,960 --> 00:06:34,640 Speaker 1: We're gonna record it live Patty, no pressure here. It 113 00:06:34,640 --> 00:06:36,920 Speaker 1: comes right and these things are a little segments today 114 00:06:36,960 --> 00:06:38,760 Speaker 1: around the country and it's all about Patty. So I 115 00:06:38,800 --> 00:06:42,680 Speaker 1: thought we'd do it here. Well, we're very excited to 116 00:06:42,680 --> 00:06:45,279 Speaker 1: and they write down what kind of the notes. So 117 00:06:45,360 --> 00:06:48,880 Speaker 1: if I sound funny, sorry excited to annouce that are 118 00:06:48,920 --> 00:06:51,400 Speaker 1: very on. Patti Rodriguez, who co host and produces on 119 00:06:51,440 --> 00:06:54,000 Speaker 1: air Thry and Seacrest, just got a new TV show 120 00:06:54,520 --> 00:06:57,680 Speaker 1: into development we CBS. It's a scripted ship. Yes, Tona, 121 00:06:58,320 --> 00:07:00,680 Speaker 1: Oh sorry, I was just going whoa like, yeah, no, no, 122 00:07:00,760 --> 00:07:03,640 Speaker 1: but we're recording three arms up like we said something wrong. 123 00:07:05,440 --> 00:07:12,320 Speaker 1: All right, let's come back and doing a second time 124 00:07:12,400 --> 00:07:14,760 Speaker 1: for your morning hack on one or two point seven. Kim. Here, 125 00:07:17,920 --> 00:07:22,160 Speaker 1: I like a good quote. Love got the court of 126 00:07:22,200 --> 00:07:25,960 Speaker 1: the day. Here it is. If everyone in your office 127 00:07:26,000 --> 00:07:29,040 Speaker 1: is fighting over the right temperature, what do you do? 128 00:07:29,640 --> 00:07:34,320 Speaker 1: It's common, but the proper temperature can actually affect productivity. 129 00:07:34,360 --> 00:07:36,840 Speaker 1: So they say it's different for what men and women want. 130 00:07:36,880 --> 00:07:38,760 Speaker 1: They say women like it to be seventy six degrees. 131 00:07:38,800 --> 00:07:41,800 Speaker 1: Men like it at seventy two. So this article and 132 00:07:41,840 --> 00:07:44,679 Speaker 1: the research says if you split the difference at seventy four, 133 00:07:45,240 --> 00:07:49,280 Speaker 1: it should be the right temperature to appease everybody. Now, 134 00:07:49,280 --> 00:07:53,240 Speaker 1: what do you sleep at, Tanya? I sleep at seventy 135 00:07:54,000 --> 00:07:58,600 Speaker 1: They say sixty. I think is what doctors recommend to 136 00:07:58,640 --> 00:08:07,880 Speaker 1: get the best sleep. Patty, do you sleep at st cold? 137 00:08:08,000 --> 00:08:11,640 Speaker 1: It's just weird? Well start, yeah, start if you can 138 00:08:11,720 --> 00:08:15,840 Speaker 1: warmer and then cut it off. Mm hmm. It's very interesting. 139 00:08:15,960 --> 00:08:17,280 Speaker 1: I don't want to get into the science of how 140 00:08:17,320 --> 00:08:21,800 Speaker 1: I sleep. But my vent is over my head where 141 00:08:21,840 --> 00:08:29,040 Speaker 1: I play. Oh no exactly, so my shoulders are always free. Well, 142 00:08:29,040 --> 00:08:32,520 Speaker 1: it's very crowded that way. How many people are in that, 143 00:08:32,559 --> 00:08:34,640 Speaker 1: Betty or no, no, no no, I have six some pillows 144 00:08:34,640 --> 00:08:38,440 Speaker 1: over there. Oh in Georgia. All right, Well I've put 145 00:08:38,480 --> 00:08:41,240 Speaker 1: her in her bed. She's been she was getting too comfortable, 146 00:08:41,280 --> 00:08:44,199 Speaker 1: sleep between my legs. And Daddy doesn't want her there, 147 00:08:44,760 --> 00:08:46,959 Speaker 1: not all night because you know you rolled over. It's 148 00:08:47,000 --> 00:08:50,040 Speaker 1: like a thing, not her. Daddy doesn't want her there. 149 00:08:50,600 --> 00:08:54,199 Speaker 1: George is my little girl, I know today. Sometimes the 150 00:08:54,240 --> 00:08:57,040 Speaker 1: easiest way to solve a problem is to stop participating 151 00:08:57,040 --> 00:09:02,240 Speaker 1: in the problem. Stop participating the problem, just get out 152 00:09:03,280 --> 00:09:08,360 Speaker 1: on air with Ryan Seacrest, Tanya, this is a final 153 00:09:08,559 --> 00:09:11,559 Speaker 1: few newscasts you're gonna do, so let's get it and 154 00:09:11,600 --> 00:09:14,920 Speaker 1: then scans returning very soon but tany filling in. A 155 00:09:15,000 --> 00:09:17,360 Speaker 1: power bump was reported at l A X last night, 156 00:09:17,400 --> 00:09:20,800 Speaker 1: delaying some flights. Many systems at the airport came back 157 00:09:20,880 --> 00:09:24,000 Speaker 1: online after the issue was reported, but some terminals were 158 00:09:24,000 --> 00:09:28,200 Speaker 1: on backup power from seven thirty until almost nine. In 159 00:09:28,240 --> 00:09:31,120 Speaker 1: an effort to ease an unprecedented backlog, the ports of 160 00:09:31,240 --> 00:09:33,679 Speaker 1: l A and Long Beach will now start finding shipping 161 00:09:33,679 --> 00:09:37,960 Speaker 1: companies that slow down the unloading process starting Monday. Arriving 162 00:09:37,960 --> 00:09:40,640 Speaker 1: containers will be allowed to stay for nine days before 163 00:09:40,720 --> 00:09:45,160 Speaker 1: fine start accumulating and immunity from COVID nineteen. Vaccines and 164 00:09:45,240 --> 00:09:48,640 Speaker 1: infections both last at least six months, according to a 165 00:09:48,679 --> 00:09:52,600 Speaker 1: new science brief from the CDC. The CDC has urged everyone, 166 00:09:52,720 --> 00:09:55,720 Speaker 1: regardless of whether they have been infected, to be vaccinated 167 00:09:55,760 --> 00:10:06,680 Speaker 1: because it was unclear how long natural immunity lasts. Uh, 168 00:10:06,760 --> 00:10:09,800 Speaker 1: Ryan Seacrest, Tanya, Patty Syne's back soon. And I've got 169 00:10:09,880 --> 00:10:12,920 Speaker 1: disney Land tickets for you again this morning. In just 170 00:10:12,960 --> 00:10:15,840 Speaker 1: a second. Then jingle Ball tickets. It's sold out every 171 00:10:15,840 --> 00:10:19,000 Speaker 1: hour starting early. We've got your jingle Ball tickets presented 172 00:10:19,000 --> 00:10:22,080 Speaker 1: by Capital One that at seven thirty five. That's your 173 00:10:22,160 --> 00:10:27,320 Speaker 1: next shot. Okay, let's grab Joe. Hey, Joe, thank you 174 00:10:27,360 --> 00:10:31,760 Speaker 1: for listening to. How you doing, Joe, Hi, I'm doing great. 175 00:10:31,760 --> 00:10:34,959 Speaker 1: How about you? Super good? Thank you for asking. We 176 00:10:35,040 --> 00:10:39,560 Speaker 1: had gotten into this conversation this week about Halloween being over, Thanksgiving, 177 00:10:39,720 --> 00:10:44,600 Speaker 1: great fantastic celebration coming Christmas, Hanuka all on the way. 178 00:10:44,640 --> 00:10:48,840 Speaker 1: Are you four or against getting the decorations up sooner 179 00:10:48,880 --> 00:10:51,640 Speaker 1: than later? Well, I don't know if I want to 180 00:10:51,720 --> 00:10:54,400 Speaker 1: use the word against, because that's such a strong word 181 00:10:54,440 --> 00:10:56,840 Speaker 1: for the holidays, and holidays are supposed to be you know, 182 00:10:56,960 --> 00:11:01,280 Speaker 1: cheerful and um giving, you know, and sell libration however 183 00:11:01,320 --> 00:11:03,920 Speaker 1: that means to people. And if that means putting it 184 00:11:04,000 --> 00:11:06,800 Speaker 1: up early, then great. But me uh, as far as 185 00:11:06,840 --> 00:11:08,839 Speaker 1: my opinion goes, I feel like it should be put 186 00:11:08,920 --> 00:11:13,000 Speaker 1: up maybe the week before Thanksgiving or something, or maybe 187 00:11:13,040 --> 00:11:17,600 Speaker 1: a little more. I'm willing to negotiate with you. That's 188 00:11:17,880 --> 00:11:21,760 Speaker 1: I like that idea. Look here's the thing. I feel 189 00:11:21,760 --> 00:11:25,480 Speaker 1: like the world's in a different place, whatever it is 190 00:11:25,559 --> 00:11:30,320 Speaker 1: that you observe or celebrate this holiday season, why not 191 00:11:30,520 --> 00:11:36,440 Speaker 1: start the thematics early? You know, like it's just because look, 192 00:11:36,440 --> 00:11:38,520 Speaker 1: why do you get to January and January February and 193 00:11:38,600 --> 00:11:43,040 Speaker 1: soil Valentine's Day is kind of books come down and 194 00:11:43,800 --> 00:11:47,760 Speaker 1: it's everything so naked when the lights come down. So 195 00:11:48,360 --> 00:11:53,760 Speaker 1: I'm sure I'm that I have I have a feeling 196 00:11:54,160 --> 00:11:56,679 Speaker 1: they've already been crafting. You know, Michael has already been 197 00:11:56,800 --> 00:11:59,280 Speaker 1: and I don't mean Michael, I mean the crafting store Michael. 198 00:11:59,520 --> 00:12:03,959 Speaker 1: Michael's already been by with his magic Michael wand oh wow, 199 00:12:05,480 --> 00:12:08,480 Speaker 1: all right, thank you for listen. Joe. You take care 200 00:12:08,520 --> 00:12:12,200 Speaker 1: you too, alright, bye bye, buddy. We're gonna start springing 201 00:12:12,240 --> 00:12:15,320 Speaker 1: a few Christmas songs here were there, but my wreaths 202 00:12:15,400 --> 00:12:17,800 Speaker 1: and any of my stuff can't get the trip. And 203 00:12:17,880 --> 00:12:21,199 Speaker 1: I wreathe this will probably start going up before Thanksgiving 204 00:12:22,400 --> 00:12:24,960 Speaker 1: for sure. All right, Patty, you're ready to do this? 205 00:12:25,040 --> 00:12:28,760 Speaker 1: Because Patty's got some big news and it happened to 206 00:12:29,120 --> 00:12:32,760 Speaker 1: be on my agenda today to turn in as a 207 00:12:32,800 --> 00:12:36,040 Speaker 1: report called Direct from Hollywood, which goes nationwide and runs later. 208 00:12:36,559 --> 00:12:38,960 Speaker 1: I thought, instead of doing this later, let's just do 209 00:12:39,000 --> 00:12:40,719 Speaker 1: it live now, Patty, and then this will ship out 210 00:12:40,720 --> 00:12:43,800 Speaker 1: around the country. Ready, let's do it. All excited to 211 00:12:43,840 --> 00:12:45,960 Speaker 1: announce at our very on Patti Rodriguez, who co host 212 00:12:46,000 --> 00:12:48,480 Speaker 1: and produces on airth Ryan Seacrest, has just gotten a 213 00:12:48,520 --> 00:12:51,200 Speaker 1: new scripted TV show into development with CBS that Wilmore 214 00:12:51,280 --> 00:12:54,880 Speaker 1: vould Rama will be executive producing, called Mexican Beverly Hills. 215 00:12:54,920 --> 00:12:58,120 Speaker 1: Patting her partner Erica Lindo created and sold the show 216 00:12:58,160 --> 00:13:00,960 Speaker 1: through the production company See Mie. Though Hot on the 217 00:13:01,040 --> 00:13:03,240 Speaker 1: Hills of two podcasts they've also managed to sell, and 218 00:13:03,240 --> 00:13:07,480 Speaker 1: the stories very personal to Patty, Patty says, Mexican Beverly 219 00:13:07,559 --> 00:13:10,200 Speaker 1: Hills is inspired by Eric's Life tells the story of 220 00:13:10,200 --> 00:13:13,120 Speaker 1: a working class Mexican American family that moves to the 221 00:13:13,120 --> 00:13:16,840 Speaker 1: wealthy Latinic city of Downey. This show is going to 222 00:13:16,880 --> 00:13:20,240 Speaker 1: be aspirational, fund and celebrate Latinos in a beautiful light 223 00:13:20,720 --> 00:13:24,200 Speaker 1: and a huge shout out your agent Valerie at eight three. 224 00:13:24,559 --> 00:13:27,120 Speaker 1: All right, thank you, Patty. It sounds very good. And 225 00:13:27,160 --> 00:13:30,680 Speaker 1: thank you Vowery, and congratulations Patty. We're all super proud 226 00:13:30,720 --> 00:13:33,520 Speaker 1: of our Patty Rodriguez, Mexican Beverly Hills on CBS, look 227 00:13:33,559 --> 00:13:39,760 Speaker 1: for it. Alright, great, that's good job, Patty. Thank you. Crazy, 228 00:13:39,800 --> 00:13:42,160 Speaker 1: it's crazy. My favorite part is when you're doing the reports. 229 00:13:42,320 --> 00:13:46,320 Speaker 1: Wait there's more. Let me tell you. Listen, thank you. 230 00:13:46,920 --> 00:13:48,800 Speaker 1: You know, just when I have faith, I lose faith. 231 00:13:48,800 --> 00:13:50,720 Speaker 1: Here we go with a second date update on one 232 00:13:50,800 --> 00:13:54,720 Speaker 1: or two point seven, kiss them, so follow along here, 233 00:13:57,600 --> 00:14:01,600 Speaker 1: Brandon meats somebody on Humble, and Brandon's gonna be on 234 00:14:01,600 --> 00:14:03,959 Speaker 1: the phone in a second. So Brandon meet somebody on Bubble. 235 00:14:04,000 --> 00:14:07,600 Speaker 1: They go out three times. All right, they go ax throwing. Apparently, 236 00:14:07,640 --> 00:14:10,680 Speaker 1: he says each date was better than the last, but 237 00:14:10,800 --> 00:14:13,080 Speaker 1: now she doesn't want to have a fourth date, and 238 00:14:13,120 --> 00:14:15,640 Speaker 1: he can't figure out, why now, how do you want? 239 00:14:15,840 --> 00:14:18,559 Speaker 1: Three times? And then blow off number four? Brandon, thanks 240 00:14:18,600 --> 00:14:21,720 Speaker 1: for coming on. So I don't understand people. Bro how 241 00:14:21,880 --> 00:14:25,080 Speaker 1: what So she says, yeah, three times and then the 242 00:14:25,160 --> 00:14:28,000 Speaker 1: fourth should be like a gimme right, the fourth should 243 00:14:28,000 --> 00:14:31,920 Speaker 1: be kind of a fatal, complete and automatic. That's what 244 00:14:31,960 --> 00:14:34,720 Speaker 1: I'm saying. It was. It's so confusing to me because 245 00:14:34,720 --> 00:14:36,720 Speaker 1: they kept getting better and better. We met on bumble 246 00:14:37,360 --> 00:14:41,600 Speaker 1: and then on the third date we kissed, and I thought, 247 00:14:41,640 --> 00:14:44,360 Speaker 1: oh my gosh, this is going great. And I've heard 248 00:14:44,440 --> 00:14:48,360 Speaker 1: nothing ever since. So I have no idea why what 249 00:14:48,400 --> 00:14:51,640 Speaker 1: happened to kiss is bad? No, I'm asking. I know, 250 00:14:51,680 --> 00:14:54,480 Speaker 1: I'm not asking. I'm I'm reading Tanya's mind. What am 251 00:14:54,480 --> 00:14:58,320 Speaker 1: I doing? Yeah? So, but hold on, Brandon. Three dates 252 00:14:58,360 --> 00:15:02,680 Speaker 1: to wait to kiss, In fact, that's a long time. Yeah, 253 00:15:02,720 --> 00:15:05,480 Speaker 1: but you know I I seat us going somewhere, So 254 00:15:05,520 --> 00:15:08,720 Speaker 1: I didn't want to rush it. I don't want to 255 00:15:08,800 --> 00:15:11,480 Speaker 1: put words in anybody's mouth. So Tony, why do you 256 00:15:11,560 --> 00:15:15,560 Speaker 1: say what you're thinking? Ah, If you kissed on the 257 00:15:15,600 --> 00:15:17,000 Speaker 1: third day and she doesn't want to come back for 258 00:15:17,040 --> 00:15:19,680 Speaker 1: a fourth, I feel like maybe the kiss wasn't I 259 00:15:19,720 --> 00:15:26,000 Speaker 1: didn't give her Goosey's I mean that's fair. But we kissed, 260 00:15:26,320 --> 00:15:29,440 Speaker 1: and then we kissed and then we kept kissing. Right, 261 00:15:29,480 --> 00:15:32,600 Speaker 1: that might be the problems what Tony saying. Uh, but 262 00:15:32,720 --> 00:15:34,880 Speaker 1: we don't know. Let's not jump to conclusions here, Brandon. 263 00:15:34,920 --> 00:15:39,520 Speaker 1: We're gonna mean what I knew exactly what you were 264 00:15:39,520 --> 00:15:42,880 Speaker 1: thinking when you said they go out three times and 265 00:15:42,960 --> 00:15:44,480 Speaker 1: on the fourth day she didn't want to come because 266 00:15:44,480 --> 00:15:48,960 Speaker 1: they kissed on the third day. Yeah, I please, please, 267 00:15:49,040 --> 00:15:52,120 Speaker 1: dating the universe, don't let this be that he's a 268 00:15:52,120 --> 00:15:53,680 Speaker 1: bad kisser and that's why I staying out with him 269 00:15:53,680 --> 00:15:56,360 Speaker 1: on the fourth time. I don't want to A bad 270 00:15:56,440 --> 00:16:00,200 Speaker 1: kisser just means they don't have chemistry, Okay, but also 271 00:16:00,240 --> 00:16:03,880 Speaker 1: convence that kids. Huhm Right. You always tell me that 272 00:16:03,920 --> 00:16:05,360 Speaker 1: if you're not a good kisser, you don't get a 273 00:16:05,360 --> 00:16:07,920 Speaker 1: call from Tania rat. Yeah, but I don't think it 274 00:16:07,960 --> 00:16:09,440 Speaker 1: means that the other person is a bad kiss are 275 00:16:09,480 --> 00:16:13,720 Speaker 1: necessarily just means like that he and I don't have chemistry. Brandon, 276 00:16:14,160 --> 00:16:17,920 Speaker 1: We have tracked down Mia, and Mia is going to 277 00:16:18,000 --> 00:16:20,560 Speaker 1: come on the air with us now. So here's the thing. 278 00:16:20,680 --> 00:16:22,760 Speaker 1: Just be quiet, let us ask some questions. See we 279 00:16:22,760 --> 00:16:26,480 Speaker 1: can find out okay, okay, great, all right. They met 280 00:16:26,960 --> 00:16:29,840 Speaker 1: on Bumble, they go out one, two, three times. On 281 00:16:29,880 --> 00:16:33,520 Speaker 1: the third time they kiss and then he she doesn't 282 00:16:33,520 --> 00:16:36,080 Speaker 1: want to go out on the fourth time. So what happened? 283 00:16:37,680 --> 00:16:52,760 Speaker 1: Any any thoughts? Solid? Wow? Okay, keep it down down, Mia, Hi, 284 00:16:53,560 --> 00:16:56,320 Speaker 1: hey me? How are you? I'm you doing well? How 285 00:16:56,320 --> 00:17:00,880 Speaker 1: are you? I'm nervous? Uh? We have I have you 286 00:17:00,960 --> 00:17:03,640 Speaker 1: on the errand we have Patty and Tanya also with 287 00:17:03,720 --> 00:17:05,879 Speaker 1: me on kissing And thank you for agreeing to go on. 288 00:17:06,440 --> 00:17:09,120 Speaker 1: We're calling you about Brandon, a guy that you met 289 00:17:09,240 --> 00:17:11,200 Speaker 1: on Bumble and went out with a few times. Does 290 00:17:11,240 --> 00:17:15,280 Speaker 1: that ring a bell? Yeah? I definitely went out with 291 00:17:15,280 --> 00:17:19,760 Speaker 1: Brandon a few times. And tell me how did that go? Um? 292 00:17:19,800 --> 00:17:23,320 Speaker 1: It was weird, I will be very honest. Um. He 293 00:17:23,960 --> 00:17:26,400 Speaker 1: ended he like seems like he had an end time 294 00:17:26,480 --> 00:17:30,000 Speaker 1: to every date. It was very strange and like you know, 295 00:17:30,040 --> 00:17:32,280 Speaker 1: the first time we got drinks and he was like 296 00:17:32,320 --> 00:17:35,760 Speaker 1: I need to leave an eight, and I was like okay. 297 00:17:35,800 --> 00:17:37,280 Speaker 1: And then the second time we went out, it was 298 00:17:37,320 --> 00:17:39,600 Speaker 1: like the same thing happened where he's like he's like 299 00:17:39,600 --> 00:17:42,160 Speaker 1: looking at his watch and like he's like at nine. 300 00:17:42,160 --> 00:17:43,679 Speaker 1: He's like, okay, I need to go, and I'm like, 301 00:17:44,440 --> 00:17:47,200 Speaker 1: why it? And then it happened again the next time, 302 00:17:47,440 --> 00:17:50,040 Speaker 1: and I'm just like, I don't like, is he meeting 303 00:17:50,119 --> 00:17:56,600 Speaker 1: somebody else? Like, is what's going on here? Now you 304 00:17:56,680 --> 00:18:00,800 Speaker 1: get to this third date? How did it end? Well? 305 00:18:00,840 --> 00:18:03,040 Speaker 1: He was again looking at his watch and like right 306 00:18:03,080 --> 00:18:04,760 Speaker 1: at nine he was like, I'm really sorry, like I 307 00:18:04,760 --> 00:18:08,440 Speaker 1: gotta go, and like I felt like we were still 308 00:18:08,480 --> 00:18:10,600 Speaker 1: like I could have stayed there. It was a Friday night, dude. 309 00:18:10,640 --> 00:18:14,879 Speaker 1: I'm like, what like I'm getting at is did he 310 00:18:15,000 --> 00:18:20,199 Speaker 1: kiss you? Then? Well? Yes, but I mean how was 311 00:18:20,240 --> 00:18:27,080 Speaker 1: that rushed? Rushed? Not not what you want to hear? No? 312 00:18:28,560 --> 00:18:33,160 Speaker 1: Otherwise fine, fair good. I mean our conversation was great, 313 00:18:33,200 --> 00:18:35,879 Speaker 1: except for the fact that I I feel like, you know, 314 00:18:36,040 --> 00:18:41,479 Speaker 1: he definitely kept checking the time, and yeah, did you 315 00:18:41,560 --> 00:18:43,240 Speaker 1: like him? Otherwise? Did you want to go out with 316 00:18:43,280 --> 00:18:46,320 Speaker 1: him again? Otherwise? Before all that, you know, as long 317 00:18:46,320 --> 00:18:49,119 Speaker 1: as I feel like he's not being sneaky and like, 318 00:18:49,320 --> 00:18:51,440 Speaker 1: you know, if he's seeing other people, like that's fine, 319 00:18:51,440 --> 00:18:54,200 Speaker 1: but just say that. But you know, but I did 320 00:18:54,240 --> 00:18:57,119 Speaker 1: like him overall, I mean me, had a great conversation. 321 00:18:57,200 --> 00:19:00,440 Speaker 1: I thought we had fun or would have had fun. Okay, 322 00:19:00,480 --> 00:19:04,000 Speaker 1: so me, I have Brandon now here on the line. 323 00:19:05,040 --> 00:19:08,800 Speaker 1: Brandon joined this conversation. Please Mia, don't hang up, Brandon. 324 00:19:09,280 --> 00:19:13,440 Speaker 1: What were you checking on? What were you doing? Hey? So, 325 00:19:14,119 --> 00:19:17,520 Speaker 1: hey ma, I wasn't like, like, no, I wasn't going 326 00:19:17,600 --> 00:19:21,320 Speaker 1: to meet anybody else. I just I'm a very regimented guy. 327 00:19:21,400 --> 00:19:23,360 Speaker 1: You know. I like to work out at a certain time. 328 00:19:23,400 --> 00:19:25,159 Speaker 1: I like to get the bed. But nine o'clock on 329 00:19:25,160 --> 00:19:27,520 Speaker 1: a Friday, what are you checking on? Bro? Well, I 330 00:19:27,880 --> 00:19:29,679 Speaker 1: mean I had to get up actually the next day, 331 00:19:29,880 --> 00:19:32,320 Speaker 1: like five thirty to go on on the long bike ride. 332 00:19:32,320 --> 00:19:35,159 Speaker 1: But but, but, but but Brandon, why would't you say, hey, maah, 333 00:19:35,840 --> 00:19:38,080 Speaker 1: let's get together or hey ma, I mean I gotta 334 00:19:38,080 --> 00:19:39,840 Speaker 1: bail early because I'm up at the crack, you know 335 00:19:39,840 --> 00:19:46,000 Speaker 1: what I mean, that kind of thing. Yeah, But I just, 336 00:19:46,400 --> 00:19:50,080 Speaker 1: you know, I kinda again, I just very regimented, and 337 00:19:50,560 --> 00:19:54,520 Speaker 1: I like to have my starting end times. And and 338 00:19:54,720 --> 00:19:56,800 Speaker 1: maybe I got a little carried away with that. Me. 339 00:19:57,000 --> 00:19:59,800 Speaker 1: I don't know about dating, someone has to have starting 340 00:20:00,320 --> 00:20:02,920 Speaker 1: things are going organically. Well, I mean, look, I'm all 341 00:20:02,960 --> 00:20:06,879 Speaker 1: for starting it. I know, at the pot call the kettle. Yeah, 342 00:20:07,119 --> 00:20:09,719 Speaker 1: but I don't know, it's like if things are going, well, 343 00:20:09,800 --> 00:20:14,960 Speaker 1: you're vibing, like push your work out. Yeah, i'd agree 344 00:20:14,960 --> 00:20:20,400 Speaker 1: with that, I mean, like live a little. I'm not 345 00:20:20,440 --> 00:20:23,600 Speaker 1: I'm not for you. No, it's a great character qualities. 346 00:20:23,600 --> 00:20:27,000 Speaker 1: In fact, the comments he's biking with somebody at thirty 347 00:20:27,080 --> 00:20:29,639 Speaker 1: he's gonna do but but but say that to me, 348 00:20:29,880 --> 00:20:32,960 Speaker 1: uh at the top of the evening or when you mean, hey, 349 00:20:33,000 --> 00:20:35,920 Speaker 1: I don't want to be rude when it comes nine. 350 00:20:36,119 --> 00:20:38,760 Speaker 1: I got a bail because I committed to a buddy 351 00:20:38,760 --> 00:20:41,480 Speaker 1: of mine to do something. Don't make because I don't 352 00:20:41,480 --> 00:20:43,240 Speaker 1: even know. Did Brandon go biking? What do we know? 353 00:20:43,440 --> 00:20:47,320 Speaker 1: Maybe it didn't true, I definitely did, but I think 354 00:20:47,400 --> 00:20:50,359 Speaker 1: I think you're right, Like I didn't even think about that. Ya, 355 00:20:50,840 --> 00:20:53,480 Speaker 1: I just again, I didn't even think about it, and 356 00:20:53,520 --> 00:20:57,720 Speaker 1: I'm sorry. And maybe just don't make plans on those nights, 357 00:20:57,720 --> 00:20:59,840 Speaker 1: like maybe go out Saturday night instead, give you some 358 00:21:00,080 --> 00:21:02,760 Speaker 1: do what tiny does she when she's the date, she 359 00:21:02,800 --> 00:21:06,120 Speaker 1: would definitely have an out. But if it went well, 360 00:21:06,160 --> 00:21:09,359 Speaker 1: it wasn't a real out, you know. Yeah, she's totally 361 00:21:09,400 --> 00:21:14,240 Speaker 1: dishonest from the get go. Yea perfect Yeah, I'm all right, 362 00:21:14,280 --> 00:21:16,120 Speaker 1: I'm not for it, But Mia, what do you think 363 00:21:17,680 --> 00:21:19,840 Speaker 1: I mean, if we can like not have an end 364 00:21:19,880 --> 00:21:24,800 Speaker 1: time and you can like like just enjoy the night 365 00:21:25,040 --> 00:21:27,760 Speaker 1: and not like worry about doing anything else the next day, 366 00:21:27,760 --> 00:21:30,400 Speaker 1: like I I would, I would go out with you again, 367 00:21:30,440 --> 00:21:34,920 Speaker 1: and we can see I would. I would. That'd be great. 368 00:21:35,080 --> 00:21:38,200 Speaker 1: I would love that, and I'll make sure to not 369 00:21:38,280 --> 00:21:43,880 Speaker 1: have any kind of hard d night and time for us. Okay, 370 00:21:44,160 --> 00:21:48,840 Speaker 1: that sounds good. All right, guys, over to you, Thank 371 00:21:48,880 --> 00:21:52,800 Speaker 1: you very much. I mean, I'm not I'd like to 372 00:21:52,800 --> 00:21:57,320 Speaker 1: break up with him. I don't think he's being that thoughtful. 373 00:21:57,520 --> 00:21:59,040 Speaker 1: And I'm not so sure I believe he had to 374 00:21:59,040 --> 00:22:01,600 Speaker 1: go biking. Know why would he lie? He's the one 375 00:22:01,680 --> 00:22:06,200 Speaker 1: calling us saying I liked her. I don't know what happened, right, Okay, 376 00:22:06,200 --> 00:22:10,720 Speaker 1: so spend that for a second. How about he doesn't say, hey, 377 00:22:11,200 --> 00:22:12,800 Speaker 1: first of all, taking her out and you've got to 378 00:22:12,800 --> 00:22:14,000 Speaker 1: get up at four in the morning to go for 379 00:22:14,040 --> 00:22:16,760 Speaker 1: a bike ride. I'm not so sure that's good programming anyway. 380 00:22:17,160 --> 00:22:20,080 Speaker 1: Second of all, when things are going well, you should 381 00:22:20,160 --> 00:22:21,920 Speaker 1: say if he thought that and she thought that, you 382 00:22:21,960 --> 00:22:25,760 Speaker 1: should say, oh, I'm so bummed that I made this commitment, 383 00:22:25,760 --> 00:22:27,359 Speaker 1: but I've got to honor it because I'm having a 384 00:22:27,359 --> 00:22:32,359 Speaker 1: great time. Not just look you're watching leave, which flat 385 00:22:32,440 --> 00:22:39,760 Speaker 1: to me for later in life. No, sure, it's not 386 00:22:39,800 --> 00:22:42,720 Speaker 1: so considerate. He's not thinking it through. He's nothing on 387 00:22:42,800 --> 00:22:46,000 Speaker 1: the other person feels he's not in the moment, he's 388 00:22:46,040 --> 00:22:48,640 Speaker 1: not present. Like, just because you and Robbie have your 389 00:22:48,640 --> 00:22:53,040 Speaker 1: perfect Travis Barker Courtney relationship doesn't mean that everything we 390 00:22:53,080 --> 00:22:55,280 Speaker 1: say Patty and ire is wrong. Now you know, I'm 391 00:22:55,280 --> 00:22:56,879 Speaker 1: not saying that it's wrong. I just don't think that 392 00:22:56,960 --> 00:22:59,440 Speaker 1: it's a huge red flag. This isn't like a guy 393 00:22:59,480 --> 00:23:02,720 Speaker 1: that's lie. This isn't the guy that's like some crazy narcissist. 394 00:23:02,800 --> 00:23:05,280 Speaker 1: This is just a guy who we just met. The 395 00:23:05,280 --> 00:23:09,080 Speaker 1: guy honors his count. We don't we have to just 396 00:23:09,200 --> 00:23:11,560 Speaker 1: we can go round and round. You spind me, but 397 00:23:11,600 --> 00:23:16,840 Speaker 1: we gotta take one. A dipping on air with Ryan 398 00:23:16,960 --> 00:23:21,240 Speaker 1: Secret all right, Austin, thank you for having on there 399 00:23:21,280 --> 00:23:25,920 Speaker 1: for a second. So you're calling about your fiance, Yeah, 400 00:23:26,200 --> 00:23:29,680 Speaker 1: what's happening. I'm getting married in a few weeks, and 401 00:23:29,960 --> 00:23:32,360 Speaker 1: I'm a little nervous because my kisance she just dyed 402 00:23:32,359 --> 00:23:37,400 Speaker 1: her hair and she's always had this beautiful blonde hair 403 00:23:37,840 --> 00:23:41,280 Speaker 1: and now it's jet black, like he looks completely different. 404 00:23:42,080 --> 00:23:45,679 Speaker 1: And I mean, her parents are pretty upset, but I 405 00:23:45,720 --> 00:23:48,240 Speaker 1: think she looks great. You know, she can lock them both. 406 00:23:48,600 --> 00:23:52,200 Speaker 1: What are you concerned about? Well, I guess what I'm 407 00:23:52,240 --> 00:23:54,760 Speaker 1: really concerned about is that I just feel like this 408 00:23:54,800 --> 00:23:57,400 Speaker 1: could be a sign she's getting cold feet, like she's 409 00:23:57,440 --> 00:24:00,320 Speaker 1: doing something kind of radical. And I definitely to think 410 00:24:00,320 --> 00:24:03,520 Speaker 1: there's some kind of psychological reason for this that maybe 411 00:24:03,560 --> 00:24:06,800 Speaker 1: she doesn't realize and she's just telling me she did 412 00:24:06,800 --> 00:24:08,920 Speaker 1: it because she wanted to. But I feel like there's 413 00:24:08,960 --> 00:24:13,760 Speaker 1: got to be more than that. So I'm a little 414 00:24:13,800 --> 00:24:18,520 Speaker 1: bit unworried. Worried. So I'm unworried because probably just trying 415 00:24:18,560 --> 00:24:20,119 Speaker 1: to come up with a fun look for the wedding 416 00:24:20,200 --> 00:24:21,920 Speaker 1: or whatever it is you're going to do to celebrate. 417 00:24:22,400 --> 00:24:24,679 Speaker 1: But I'm a little worried because if you don't believe 418 00:24:24,720 --> 00:24:27,880 Speaker 1: her now and she says something and think around it, 419 00:24:28,280 --> 00:24:30,280 Speaker 1: what's gonna happen throughout this whole marriage When she says 420 00:24:30,320 --> 00:24:32,880 Speaker 1: something she feels, you're always gonna not think it's right 421 00:24:32,960 --> 00:24:37,159 Speaker 1: or true or for real. So I'm worried, unworried. You 422 00:24:37,200 --> 00:24:40,200 Speaker 1: see what I'm saying. Yeah, it sounds like you're saying 423 00:24:40,240 --> 00:24:43,040 Speaker 1: I'm the problem. I didn't say those words at all. 424 00:24:43,040 --> 00:24:45,600 Speaker 1: I'm just saying I'm worried, unworried, Like I'm not worried 425 00:24:45,600 --> 00:24:47,520 Speaker 1: because it's just a hair color and it could be fun. 426 00:24:47,880 --> 00:24:50,520 Speaker 1: Like I changed mine up. You can't really do much 427 00:24:50,520 --> 00:24:52,199 Speaker 1: to mine, but I have changed it up before for 428 00:24:52,240 --> 00:24:57,560 Speaker 1: no reason, and look at this now it's different. It's yea, yeah, 429 00:24:57,560 --> 00:25:00,119 Speaker 1: I believe. I believe her. I mean, I trust her. Well, 430 00:25:00,160 --> 00:25:01,879 Speaker 1: that's the thing. You can't. You can't go into this 431 00:25:01,920 --> 00:25:04,560 Speaker 1: marriage second guessing what she's telling you. If she's telling you, 432 00:25:05,200 --> 00:25:08,840 Speaker 1: I have to disagree. I kind of think that you're 433 00:25:08,960 --> 00:25:10,960 Speaker 1: right on the money with this. I think when you 434 00:25:11,040 --> 00:25:13,959 Speaker 1: make a big hair change, you either want to, you know, 435 00:25:14,400 --> 00:25:17,800 Speaker 1: start over again, have a fresh start. There's something that 436 00:25:18,080 --> 00:25:20,720 Speaker 1: triggers you wanting to have a physical change like that. 437 00:25:21,119 --> 00:25:23,760 Speaker 1: I don't necessarily has to do with your marriage, though. 438 00:25:23,800 --> 00:25:25,960 Speaker 1: Has something big happened in her life or she wants 439 00:25:26,000 --> 00:25:30,000 Speaker 1: to begin again and start a new Well, she did 440 00:25:30,080 --> 00:25:32,600 Speaker 1: just get a new job, so I didn't even think 441 00:25:32,600 --> 00:25:35,160 Speaker 1: it could be that. But yeah, maybe it's not the wedding. 442 00:25:35,160 --> 00:25:37,400 Speaker 1: Maybe I'm just being a little self conscious, or are 443 00:25:37,440 --> 00:25:42,840 Speaker 1: you worried about getting married. Oh, I mean just the 444 00:25:42,960 --> 00:25:46,920 Speaker 1: normal jitters, but nothing I want to do it for sure. Okay, 445 00:25:47,000 --> 00:25:50,159 Speaker 1: well this could be nothing. This could really be nothing. 446 00:25:50,160 --> 00:25:53,800 Speaker 1: All right, Austin, good luck. Okay, all right, thanks for calling. 447 00:25:54,000 --> 00:25:56,399 Speaker 1: Or it could be something. It could be something. But 448 00:25:56,440 --> 00:25:59,720 Speaker 1: I think if you're thinking it's something I worry about, 449 00:25:59,760 --> 00:26:01,520 Speaker 1: it's been in the rest of your life. In that 450 00:26:01,680 --> 00:26:03,399 Speaker 1: something you don't say that should be the quote of 451 00:26:03,440 --> 00:26:06,720 Speaker 1: the day tomorrow. It could be nothing, or it could 452 00:26:06,720 --> 00:26:12,119 Speaker 1: be something you follow. It could be nothing or it 453 00:26:12,160 --> 00:26:13,800 Speaker 1: could be something. But if I don't think it's I 454 00:26:13,800 --> 00:26:16,040 Speaker 1: don't think it's not. It's not not something. So if 455 00:26:16,080 --> 00:26:23,280 Speaker 1: he thinks it's something, I worry a little bit. Oh alright, 456 00:26:23,320 --> 00:26:27,200 Speaker 1: So I think I healed my shoulder. Uh. I just 457 00:26:27,720 --> 00:26:29,679 Speaker 1: know that we always talk about what it is that 458 00:26:29,720 --> 00:26:33,840 Speaker 1: we're into these days, certainly for fitness, and we're eating 459 00:26:33,840 --> 00:26:36,400 Speaker 1: and all that. I think I'm gonna start boxing again. 460 00:26:36,400 --> 00:26:38,560 Speaker 1: I feel like I was at one of my better 461 00:26:38,560 --> 00:26:42,280 Speaker 1: fitness chapters when I was boxing, So I'm not I'm 462 00:26:42,320 --> 00:26:46,640 Speaker 1: not doing competitively. I'm doing for fitness. Yes. Uh and 463 00:26:47,080 --> 00:26:50,280 Speaker 1: did you ever do it? Yeah? I used to go 464 00:26:50,320 --> 00:26:54,919 Speaker 1: to boxing. Jim very often. Actually I don't because the 465 00:26:54,960 --> 00:26:57,440 Speaker 1: pandemic came. Like a lot of us stopped doing things 466 00:26:57,480 --> 00:27:01,160 Speaker 1: because the pandemic. Ye, I missed at my knee too, 467 00:27:01,280 --> 00:27:04,760 Speaker 1: and my shoulder and my elbow and my ankle. So 468 00:27:05,760 --> 00:27:10,800 Speaker 1: what do you do next? Like water sports? No, that's terrible. 469 00:27:11,200 --> 00:27:15,800 Speaker 1: Imagine if oh if illom and I hit the water wrong, 470 00:27:15,880 --> 00:27:19,240 Speaker 1: I just torked my ankle or my knee. No, I 471 00:27:19,280 --> 00:27:25,080 Speaker 1: feel like swimming and sports water skiing every day. No 472 00:27:25,720 --> 00:27:28,520 Speaker 1: new new, Well, listen, let me one one step at 473 00:27:28,520 --> 00:27:30,639 Speaker 1: a time. I'll think. You know, the boxing goes. But 474 00:27:31,200 --> 00:27:34,640 Speaker 1: let's again into your chinning report. So would you ever 475 00:27:34,680 --> 00:27:38,080 Speaker 1: go to an ex's wedding? Is the question? Go ahead? Yeah? Okay? 476 00:27:38,119 --> 00:27:40,560 Speaker 1: So Drew Barrymore and Tom Green they were married for 477 00:27:40,600 --> 00:27:43,000 Speaker 1: a year before they called it quits in two thousand two. 478 00:27:44,000 --> 00:27:46,720 Speaker 1: Tom was a guest on Drew Barrymore show and was 479 00:27:46,760 --> 00:27:49,639 Speaker 1: asked this question during the Drew's News segment, and he said, 480 00:27:49,920 --> 00:27:52,439 Speaker 1: would you ever go to an ex's wedding? And so 481 00:27:52,520 --> 00:27:54,840 Speaker 1: Tom responded, he said, I've never been invited to an 482 00:27:54,840 --> 00:27:56,560 Speaker 1: ex's wedding, And he kind of like looked over at 483 00:27:56,640 --> 00:27:59,000 Speaker 1: Drew with one of those like looks, you know, like 484 00:27:59,040 --> 00:28:01,440 Speaker 1: you didn't invite me to your idding. So Drew Barrymore 485 00:28:01,520 --> 00:28:03,720 Speaker 1: was married to will Copeleman back in two thousand twelve 486 00:28:03,760 --> 00:28:06,359 Speaker 1: before they split in I know, it's a lot of dates, 487 00:28:06,440 --> 00:28:09,359 Speaker 1: but uh, it could have been a really awkward moment, 488 00:28:09,440 --> 00:28:11,040 Speaker 1: but it seemed like the two of them are really 489 00:28:11,040 --> 00:28:13,520 Speaker 1: friendly now and they're past it. But I feel like 490 00:28:13,600 --> 00:28:16,240 Speaker 1: Tom makes a good point. I think it's good that 491 00:28:16,280 --> 00:28:18,320 Speaker 1: he wasn't invited to Drew Barrymore's winning because I do 492 00:28:18,359 --> 00:28:21,679 Speaker 1: think that's so awkward as her ex husband to go 493 00:28:21,840 --> 00:28:29,680 Speaker 1: to her wedding. Do you guys agree? Well? I liked 494 00:28:29,760 --> 00:28:34,000 Speaker 1: the notion that one would be on such good terms 495 00:28:34,080 --> 00:28:37,479 Speaker 1: with their ex that they would be considered a friend 496 00:28:37,760 --> 00:28:40,400 Speaker 1: who could be invited on paper. I like the thought 497 00:28:40,400 --> 00:28:43,560 Speaker 1: of it. The question then is could you actually go 498 00:28:43,760 --> 00:28:46,880 Speaker 1: do it and not have your heart hurt in reality? Right? Yeah? 499 00:28:46,920 --> 00:28:49,360 Speaker 1: Because I think there's huge to me. There's like two 500 00:28:49,440 --> 00:28:52,160 Speaker 1: tracks of this. Hey, you're a big part of my life. 501 00:28:52,440 --> 00:28:56,160 Speaker 1: I'll always appreciate that. Thank you, and you're my friend. 502 00:28:56,680 --> 00:29:00,160 Speaker 1: I'm getting married. Heads up or is it heads up? 503 00:29:00,240 --> 00:29:04,200 Speaker 1: Join us? The join us is just a line that 504 00:29:04,240 --> 00:29:07,040 Speaker 1: I don't think needs to be cross. I understand not 505 00:29:07,160 --> 00:29:10,520 Speaker 1: having bad feelings, but the inviting I don't know that. 506 00:29:10,960 --> 00:29:13,000 Speaker 1: I think I think you may be right. It could 507 00:29:13,040 --> 00:29:15,400 Speaker 1: be heart hurting to do that, and it could also 508 00:29:15,560 --> 00:29:19,880 Speaker 1: just do want any of those thoughts. But what is it? 509 00:29:19,920 --> 00:29:24,120 Speaker 1: Is it okay? You're friendly with your ex and you say, 510 00:29:24,360 --> 00:29:28,320 Speaker 1: just want to let you know I'm getting married. Thank 511 00:29:28,400 --> 00:29:31,760 Speaker 1: you for being a part of my life. I just 512 00:29:31,800 --> 00:29:36,840 Speaker 1: feel like it's unnecessary. Why so just don't tell them. Yeah, 513 00:29:37,000 --> 00:29:39,560 Speaker 1: that's your ex that's your past. Remember you actually look 514 00:29:39,600 --> 00:29:41,720 Speaker 1: at you and I look at Excess differently. I know. 515 00:29:41,800 --> 00:29:43,719 Speaker 1: But you just gave this quote last week, and I'm 516 00:29:43,720 --> 00:29:45,480 Speaker 1: gonna not say it correctly, but it was such a 517 00:29:45,480 --> 00:29:48,000 Speaker 1: good quote. It was like, stop living in the past. 518 00:29:48,080 --> 00:29:51,240 Speaker 1: Your past doesn't need you anymore. Your future needs you. 519 00:29:53,200 --> 00:29:55,280 Speaker 1: It's kind of cold for somebody to hear you get married. 520 00:29:55,600 --> 00:29:59,880 Speaker 1: You don't give heads up. But why though, we don't 521 00:30:00,080 --> 00:30:05,680 Speaker 1: anyone anything. You live, You live your life, and I'll 522 00:30:05,720 --> 00:30:09,200 Speaker 1: be over here on my side live in mine. I 523 00:30:09,040 --> 00:30:12,240 Speaker 1: mean it's different with you because you you know, you 524 00:30:12,320 --> 00:30:18,200 Speaker 1: still have a relations dealing with your excess. So is 525 00:30:18,200 --> 00:30:22,240 Speaker 1: it okay? Yeah? I mean it's okay. That's okay to 526 00:30:22,240 --> 00:30:23,479 Speaker 1: reach out to them and say, hey, by the way, 527 00:30:23,480 --> 00:30:25,320 Speaker 1: I'm getting it before you hear from someone else. Just 528 00:30:25,320 --> 00:30:28,080 Speaker 1: want to let you know that if my exes listening now, 529 00:30:28,120 --> 00:30:32,840 Speaker 1: she's like, yeah, that that call will come. I don't 530 00:30:32,920 --> 00:30:38,480 Speaker 1: even believe it. Hey, my heads up and getting married. Okay, 531 00:30:38,480 --> 00:30:44,960 Speaker 1: call me all right? Do you bonfire excess notes and 532 00:30:45,000 --> 00:30:48,120 Speaker 1: stuff like. That's a whole different like our plants are 533 00:30:48,120 --> 00:30:50,120 Speaker 1: in different solars. Oh yeah, I shut the door, baby. 534 00:30:50,160 --> 00:30:52,480 Speaker 1: I like a shut door, like a locked sign seal 535 00:30:52,560 --> 00:30:57,720 Speaker 1: delivered by one five to one or two seven. Taylors 536 00:30:57,720 --> 00:31:00,840 Speaker 1: in north It's Taylor. How are you. I'm doing well. 537 00:31:00,880 --> 00:31:04,480 Speaker 1: How are you? I'm doing well? Also, thank you so 538 00:31:04,880 --> 00:31:06,520 Speaker 1: out of north Ridge. Tell me what we can do 539 00:31:06,600 --> 00:31:11,800 Speaker 1: for you. Okay, just have a slight dilemma question ponderer 540 00:31:12,040 --> 00:31:17,160 Speaker 1: of the day. I am getting married, which is very exciting. Congratulations, 541 00:31:17,640 --> 00:31:19,840 Speaker 1: thank you so much. And this isn't a big but 542 00:31:20,080 --> 00:31:24,280 Speaker 1: it is just a wondering of the walking down the aisle. 543 00:31:24,720 --> 00:31:28,160 Speaker 1: I have seen so many people walk themselves down the aisle, 544 00:31:28,360 --> 00:31:30,520 Speaker 1: or you know, more typical, your father walks you down 545 00:31:30,520 --> 00:31:32,360 Speaker 1: the aisle. And I have a great relationship with both 546 00:31:32,360 --> 00:31:34,880 Speaker 1: my parents, And I'm just thinking, maybe I want to 547 00:31:34,920 --> 00:31:37,080 Speaker 1: ask both my parents to walk me down the aisle 548 00:31:37,200 --> 00:31:40,680 Speaker 1: because they both raised me. But I don't know if 549 00:31:40,720 --> 00:31:44,680 Speaker 1: that means my dad, how are they, what's their relationship? 550 00:31:44,760 --> 00:31:50,360 Speaker 1: Like they're still married and loving and great, then I 551 00:31:50,400 --> 00:31:52,680 Speaker 1: think that's a fine thing to ask for. I'm not 552 00:31:52,760 --> 00:31:54,320 Speaker 1: a traditionalist in the sense that you've got to do 553 00:31:54,360 --> 00:31:58,160 Speaker 1: what everybody else does. Yeah, I just didn't know. I mean, 554 00:31:58,200 --> 00:31:59,880 Speaker 1: I know you're not a father, but imagine you have 555 00:31:59,880 --> 00:32:02,240 Speaker 1: a him today and in twenty five years. She's like, 556 00:32:02,880 --> 00:32:04,400 Speaker 1: I don't know if I just want you to walk 557 00:32:04,440 --> 00:32:06,080 Speaker 1: me down the aisle, like maybe I want to. Is 558 00:32:06,080 --> 00:32:10,280 Speaker 1: that something you'd like dream about? Like one day chess 559 00:32:10,320 --> 00:32:13,120 Speaker 1: just went up when you said that. I mean, it 560 00:32:13,200 --> 00:32:19,320 Speaker 1: did take me and the person kid's mother to be there, 561 00:32:19,440 --> 00:32:23,240 Speaker 1: so why not share the honor? Okay, I like that 562 00:32:23,240 --> 00:32:25,640 Speaker 1: thought position. I just think so many people were like, 563 00:32:25,680 --> 00:32:28,640 Speaker 1: this is like the moment they dream about. Well, I 564 00:32:28,680 --> 00:32:31,640 Speaker 1: don't worry for you. I don't want you to worry 565 00:32:31,640 --> 00:32:33,719 Speaker 1: about so many people. I think if your parents are 566 00:32:33,720 --> 00:32:35,840 Speaker 1: in a loving, great relationship and this is what you want, 567 00:32:35,880 --> 00:32:37,440 Speaker 1: how what a beautiful thing to be able to do 568 00:32:37,840 --> 00:32:39,920 Speaker 1: the three of you coming down the aisle, Johnny, do 569 00:32:39,920 --> 00:32:41,720 Speaker 1: you disagree because you have these looks on your face, 570 00:32:41,760 --> 00:32:43,440 Speaker 1: like Ryan, how could you dare? Oh no, no no, no, 571 00:32:43,640 --> 00:32:46,320 Speaker 1: My look is like yes because you know what your 572 00:32:46,360 --> 00:32:48,720 Speaker 1: box your wedding. We don't have to do what everybody 573 00:32:48,720 --> 00:32:51,280 Speaker 1: else does. You can do your own thing unboxed. We 574 00:32:51,320 --> 00:32:53,920 Speaker 1: are not just check boxes. Right. So see that's why 575 00:32:53,960 --> 00:32:56,200 Speaker 1: I thought you were no into it because of the 576 00:32:56,200 --> 00:32:59,680 Speaker 1: expressions you're making. You're saying that. It was like, are 577 00:32:59,680 --> 00:33:01,520 Speaker 1: you it's to me? Are you with me on this? 578 00:33:02,200 --> 00:33:06,360 Speaker 1: With you? Taylor? Yeah, this is something you want. It's 579 00:33:06,400 --> 00:33:10,320 Speaker 1: your day. It's a beautiful thought. I say, go for it. Okay, cool, 580 00:33:10,400 --> 00:33:13,360 Speaker 1: I love Tanya, I'm box it. I like that. I'm 581 00:33:13,400 --> 00:33:16,000 Speaker 1: going to move on with that in my head and 582 00:33:16,120 --> 00:33:23,480 Speaker 1: dad wedding. Yeah, yeah, great, thank you. We're not a 583 00:33:23,520 --> 00:33:29,680 Speaker 1: box at the doctor's office, Mrs Miss single married. No, 584 00:33:30,360 --> 00:33:34,160 Speaker 1: that's the first time I was asked to picture myself 585 00:33:34,160 --> 00:33:36,680 Speaker 1: walking my child down the aisle. I was like, what 586 00:33:37,600 --> 00:33:40,760 Speaker 1: you're like, I can't even picture me? What right? She want? 587 00:33:40,800 --> 00:33:46,960 Speaker 1: Generation ahead? No? She jumped the generation like chest popped 588 00:33:46,960 --> 00:33:55,200 Speaker 1: out of now with Ryan's secrets. Good morning, Amy, how 589 00:33:55,200 --> 00:33:59,000 Speaker 1: are you doing. Good morning. I'm doing wow. How are you? 590 00:33:59,320 --> 00:34:01,880 Speaker 1: I'm doing well too, that's great too. It's a well, well, well, 591 00:34:01,880 --> 00:34:06,080 Speaker 1: how can we help you? So I overheard um when 592 00:34:06,080 --> 00:34:07,720 Speaker 1: I was listening to the radio a couple of days ago, 593 00:34:07,840 --> 00:34:10,200 Speaker 1: the scam that you and Tanya were talking about, as 594 00:34:10,200 --> 00:34:14,759 Speaker 1: far as the text, but someone said you were we 595 00:34:14,920 --> 00:34:19,520 Speaker 1: both got one. Basically, they say, well what did yours say? 596 00:34:19,800 --> 00:34:24,840 Speaker 1: Mine said like, hey, Brixton, I'm back in town wanting 597 00:34:24,840 --> 00:34:26,719 Speaker 1: basically wanting to meet up like you met with them 598 00:34:26,719 --> 00:34:29,080 Speaker 1: on a dating Appy thought your name was Brixton. Yes, 599 00:34:29,640 --> 00:34:36,080 Speaker 1: m hm huh. So they put my boyfriend's name on 600 00:34:36,080 --> 00:34:39,520 Speaker 1: on it, but it came to my phone, so I 601 00:34:39,640 --> 00:34:44,320 Speaker 1: completely thought he was cheating or doing something behind my back. 602 00:34:44,440 --> 00:34:49,239 Speaker 1: So I was freaking out and I detective mode, and 603 00:34:50,440 --> 00:34:53,040 Speaker 1: I found out that a bunch of people were getting 604 00:34:53,080 --> 00:34:56,800 Speaker 1: the exact same thing, almost verbatim, and then they also 605 00:34:56,840 --> 00:35:02,439 Speaker 1: got the same picture, and their goal is to get 606 00:35:02,480 --> 00:35:05,960 Speaker 1: you to send them a provocative picture back and then 607 00:35:06,000 --> 00:35:09,879 Speaker 1: they blackmail you with it. So I think the net 608 00:35:10,000 --> 00:35:12,320 Speaker 1: here is there's a lot of these scams coming into phones, 609 00:35:12,360 --> 00:35:14,640 Speaker 1: and if something looks strange or you don't recognize the 610 00:35:14,719 --> 00:35:18,600 Speaker 1: number or the photo whatever, don't certainly don't send something back, 611 00:35:19,200 --> 00:35:26,120 Speaker 1: but also provocative photo back. Well, they get some back 612 00:35:26,160 --> 00:35:29,080 Speaker 1: and forth going because she's very flirtatious or the body 613 00:35:29,120 --> 00:35:31,600 Speaker 1: whoever it is, and a lot of the verbiage doesn't 614 00:35:31,600 --> 00:35:34,360 Speaker 1: make sense going back and forth. You to do a 615 00:35:34,400 --> 00:35:39,400 Speaker 1: certain number of replies and then they then they flip 616 00:35:39,400 --> 00:35:41,520 Speaker 1: it over to a live person. So I think they're 617 00:35:41,560 --> 00:35:43,920 Speaker 1: just sending it out in math. Well, Amy, this is 618 00:35:44,000 --> 00:35:47,279 Speaker 1: a very good public service. Thank you very much. I 619 00:35:47,360 --> 00:35:49,160 Speaker 1: panic when it asked me on my some of my 620 00:35:49,200 --> 00:35:50,920 Speaker 1: apps if I'm the body or not, like, look at 621 00:35:50,920 --> 00:35:53,480 Speaker 1: this intersection, where do you see a like how many 622 00:35:53,480 --> 00:35:55,960 Speaker 1: cross the crosswalks? What if I miss it? I'm like, 623 00:35:56,040 --> 00:35:58,200 Speaker 1: I'm going to miss this. Okay, wait do you mean 624 00:35:58,680 --> 00:36:01,200 Speaker 1: it's a good picture once right close by? I don't know. 625 00:36:01,239 --> 00:36:02,640 Speaker 1: I don't want to screw this up. Don't call me 626 00:36:02,680 --> 00:36:11,799 Speaker 1: about you bought with Ryan Seacrest. It's Ryan Seacrest with you. 627 00:36:11,800 --> 00:36:14,839 Speaker 1: You know, we often talk about our exercise, what to eat, 628 00:36:14,880 --> 00:36:17,520 Speaker 1: and how we you know, we start something, we stopped something. 629 00:36:17,800 --> 00:36:20,120 Speaker 1: There's a really interesting Ted talk given by Dan Mutnor 630 00:36:20,160 --> 00:36:22,040 Speaker 1: that I saw and Patty, you're all over the Ted app. 631 00:36:22,040 --> 00:36:24,560 Speaker 1: You're watching those talks all the time. Um. And he's 632 00:36:24,600 --> 00:36:26,880 Speaker 1: also an author has written a new book called The 633 00:36:26,880 --> 00:36:29,640 Speaker 1: Blue Zones Challenge before Week Plan for a Longer, Better Life. 634 00:36:29,719 --> 00:36:32,279 Speaker 1: I was actually the grocery store and I saw the 635 00:36:32,320 --> 00:36:34,799 Speaker 1: National Geographic and on the cover it said Blue Zone, 636 00:36:35,120 --> 00:36:37,719 Speaker 1: and I picked it up and he authored the piece 637 00:36:37,760 --> 00:36:39,279 Speaker 1: that I read, and he joins us, Now, Dan, how 638 00:36:39,280 --> 00:36:43,040 Speaker 1: are you man? Never better? Ryan? Good to connect Hey, 639 00:36:43,120 --> 00:36:45,240 Speaker 1: it's great to connect with you. I've been very excited 640 00:36:45,360 --> 00:36:48,600 Speaker 1: that you're coming on today because if anybody wants to 641 00:36:48,600 --> 00:36:53,360 Speaker 1: see a great talk about life and happiness and longevity, 642 00:36:53,480 --> 00:36:56,800 Speaker 1: Dan Mutner gives a fantastic Ted talk on the topic. 643 00:36:56,880 --> 00:36:58,759 Speaker 1: And I'm also impressed with I don't know, you're a 644 00:36:58,800 --> 00:37:00,960 Speaker 1: great speaker. I don't know how you studied what you do, 645 00:37:01,000 --> 00:37:04,680 Speaker 1: but you're great on stage. That's a big compliment coming 646 00:37:04,719 --> 00:37:09,479 Speaker 1: from Ryan Seacrests himself. I could never have that many 647 00:37:09,719 --> 00:37:14,799 Speaker 1: logical thoughts in order, my friend. Um, but the Blue 648 00:37:14,840 --> 00:37:16,880 Speaker 1: Zone to sum it up, how how would you just 649 00:37:17,040 --> 00:37:18,880 Speaker 1: for people never heard of it? Because I talked to 650 00:37:18,920 --> 00:37:22,400 Speaker 1: friends that haven't haven't what's the headline? So instead of 651 00:37:22,440 --> 00:37:24,839 Speaker 1: trying to find the secret, to longevity and a test 652 00:37:24,840 --> 00:37:30,400 Speaker 1: tuber Petri dish Uh. We reversed engineered longevity by finding 653 00:37:30,640 --> 00:37:33,360 Speaker 1: the areas in the world where people are actually making 654 00:37:33,360 --> 00:37:36,520 Speaker 1: it to age one hundred without the diseases that are 655 00:37:36,560 --> 00:37:40,680 Speaker 1: foreshorten our lives. And then, working with National Geographic I 656 00:37:40,760 --> 00:37:44,000 Speaker 1: brought teams of scientists each of these five Blue Zones 657 00:37:44,080 --> 00:37:48,160 Speaker 1: around the world and teased out the common denominators or 658 00:37:48,400 --> 00:37:53,040 Speaker 1: or the characteristics that explain longevity. And remarkably, Ryan no 659 00:37:53,040 --> 00:37:56,000 Speaker 1: matter where you go in the world and find long 660 00:37:56,040 --> 00:37:58,879 Speaker 1: lived people, they're doing the same things over and over 661 00:37:58,880 --> 00:38:01,840 Speaker 1: and over again. So we just distilled that into a 662 00:38:01,920 --> 00:38:04,239 Speaker 1: number of books and and put it to work in 663 00:38:04,280 --> 00:38:07,719 Speaker 1: this Blue Zone Challenge book, which is coming out in December. Now. 664 00:38:07,760 --> 00:38:10,560 Speaker 1: One of those areas he is talking about is here 665 00:38:10,600 --> 00:38:15,640 Speaker 1: in southern California off the ten between Colton and Redlands. Uh, Loma, Linda, 666 00:38:15,800 --> 00:38:18,000 Speaker 1: What what is Loman? I've seen it? But for those 667 00:38:18,040 --> 00:38:20,200 Speaker 1: who haven't, what what did you get out of seeing 668 00:38:20,239 --> 00:38:23,360 Speaker 1: what's happening in Loma Linda? Dan, There you have the 669 00:38:23,440 --> 00:38:26,680 Speaker 1: highest concentration of Seventh day Adventists in the world, and 670 00:38:26,719 --> 00:38:30,640 Speaker 1: they're conservative Christians who distinguished themselves from other Christians in 671 00:38:30,719 --> 00:38:34,120 Speaker 1: that they evangelize with health and they celebrate their Sabbath 672 00:38:34,239 --> 00:38:37,640 Speaker 1: on Saturday, so they really take one day a week. 673 00:38:37,719 --> 00:38:39,640 Speaker 1: You know, the rest of us tend to, you know, 674 00:38:39,719 --> 00:38:43,960 Speaker 1: get busy. Seven. They carve out twenty four hours from 675 00:38:43,960 --> 00:38:46,640 Speaker 1: Friday night until Saturday night and focus on their God, 676 00:38:46,800 --> 00:38:49,680 Speaker 1: They focus on their family, and they take a nature walk. 677 00:38:50,200 --> 00:38:53,600 Speaker 1: And we're finding that when it comes to longevity, there's 678 00:38:53,719 --> 00:38:56,440 Speaker 1: no short term fixed So if you want to live 679 00:38:56,480 --> 00:38:59,040 Speaker 1: a long time, you need to set up your life. 680 00:38:59,160 --> 00:39:02,480 Speaker 1: So the healthy choice is the easy choice every day, 681 00:39:02,520 --> 00:39:06,640 Speaker 1: and that's what seems to really work. And Dan, how 682 00:39:07,320 --> 00:39:09,960 Speaker 1: what are some easy ways you can suggest here in 683 00:39:10,000 --> 00:39:13,680 Speaker 1: this forum for people to subscribe to some of the 684 00:39:13,719 --> 00:39:16,440 Speaker 1: most common denominators when it comes to these blue zones 685 00:39:16,760 --> 00:39:20,560 Speaker 1: and the way people are looking at life, socializing, eating, 686 00:39:20,719 --> 00:39:25,160 Speaker 1: and exercising. So I guarantee most people listening right now, 687 00:39:25,360 --> 00:39:27,960 Speaker 1: come January one, are gonna make New Year's resolution to 688 00:39:28,040 --> 00:39:33,600 Speaker 1: change their diet, and by January nineteen, statistically that will fail. Uh. 689 00:39:33,640 --> 00:39:36,279 Speaker 1: The easiest way to lose weight and years to your 690 00:39:36,320 --> 00:39:39,640 Speaker 1: life is turned to a whole food, plant based diet. 691 00:39:40,040 --> 00:39:42,600 Speaker 1: I wrote another book called The Blue Zone solution and 692 00:39:42,640 --> 00:39:45,759 Speaker 1: Blue Zone Kitchen where I distilled down the diets of 693 00:39:45,760 --> 00:39:49,960 Speaker 1: longevity and the five tillers of every blue zone diet 694 00:39:50,000 --> 00:39:56,640 Speaker 1: in the world is whole grains, greens, tubers like sweet potatoes, nuts, 695 00:39:56,640 --> 00:40:00,480 Speaker 1: and beans. If you're eating a cup of beans a day, uh, 696 00:40:00,520 --> 00:40:03,839 Speaker 1: that's probably adding for four to six years to your 697 00:40:03,840 --> 00:40:08,400 Speaker 1: life expectancy. And also if your go to snack is nuts, 698 00:40:09,000 --> 00:40:12,200 Speaker 1: that's adding about two years to your life expectancy. So 699 00:40:12,280 --> 00:40:15,600 Speaker 1: there are some easy food food tweaks or food hacks 700 00:40:15,640 --> 00:40:18,640 Speaker 1: to live longer in shape. Pounds, Hey, not a not 701 00:40:18,760 --> 00:40:21,720 Speaker 1: a night goes by, or I don't have to mind 702 00:40:22,160 --> 00:40:24,560 Speaker 1: nut skin out of my teeth, So I'm very happy 703 00:40:24,600 --> 00:40:28,600 Speaker 1: to hear that. Not really where the other thing that 704 00:40:28,640 --> 00:40:31,560 Speaker 1: really works. You know when you I spend twenty years 705 00:40:31,560 --> 00:40:35,200 Speaker 1: study the longest of people and then the secret formula 706 00:40:35,800 --> 00:40:39,080 Speaker 1: in blue zones. People don't have better discipline than we do, 707 00:40:39,400 --> 00:40:42,960 Speaker 1: they don't have better diets, they don't have better individual responsibility, 708 00:40:43,480 --> 00:40:46,919 Speaker 1: but they just live in environments where the healthy choice 709 00:40:47,000 --> 00:40:49,960 Speaker 1: is the easy choice. So one of the best things 710 00:40:50,000 --> 00:40:53,480 Speaker 1: you can do is to optimize your social environment. We 711 00:40:53,600 --> 00:40:57,120 Speaker 1: know that if your three best friends are obese and unhealthy, 712 00:40:57,160 --> 00:40:59,680 Speaker 1: there's a hundred and fifty better chance that you'll be 713 00:40:59,719 --> 00:41:04,719 Speaker 1: over way. So building a social circle of three to 714 00:41:04,920 --> 00:41:09,239 Speaker 1: five friends whose idea of recreation is playing tennis or 715 00:41:09,320 --> 00:41:16,280 Speaker 1: walking or surfing. Who's who's UH interested and and new ideas, 716 00:41:16,600 --> 00:41:20,680 Speaker 1: who can have a meaningful conversation with you, and ideally 717 00:41:20,719 --> 00:41:24,880 Speaker 1: a friend it too, who's eating being or vegetarian because 718 00:41:25,280 --> 00:41:29,000 Speaker 1: food habits are also contagious. And if you're hanging out 719 00:41:29,040 --> 00:41:32,239 Speaker 1: with friends who sit around and you know, grill hot 720 00:41:32,280 --> 00:41:34,600 Speaker 1: dogs and broad sass, which you're gonna eat. Whereas if 721 00:41:34,640 --> 00:41:37,799 Speaker 1: you're with people or vegetarian, you're gonna learn how to 722 00:41:38,520 --> 00:41:42,120 Speaker 1: find delicious, whole food plant based uh meals, which will 723 00:41:42,160 --> 00:41:45,440 Speaker 1: add about six years to your life expected. I wanted 724 00:41:45,440 --> 00:41:48,439 Speaker 1: to ask you in closing here and Dan Mutner's book 725 00:41:48,520 --> 00:41:51,000 Speaker 1: The New One, The Blue Zones Challenge, a four week 726 00:41:51,040 --> 00:41:53,399 Speaker 1: plan for a longer, better life. It's out this summer seven. 727 00:41:53,440 --> 00:41:55,080 Speaker 1: You can see you just go to Amazon or any 728 00:41:55,080 --> 00:41:56,279 Speaker 1: place you get your books. You can see all his 729 00:41:56,360 --> 00:42:00,400 Speaker 1: books there. But before you go, I and we on 730 00:42:00,440 --> 00:42:03,120 Speaker 1: this staff, we work a lot. I certainly have many 731 00:42:03,120 --> 00:42:06,879 Speaker 1: many nights where I find myself watching the news while 732 00:42:06,920 --> 00:42:09,560 Speaker 1: I'm eating and I hear you say don't watch TV 733 00:42:09,640 --> 00:42:14,399 Speaker 1: while you eat. Is that because you mindlessly just eat more? 734 00:42:14,600 --> 00:42:17,239 Speaker 1: Or is there something happening with the body when you're 735 00:42:17,239 --> 00:42:21,120 Speaker 1: looking at TV and eating. No, it's mostly we tend 736 00:42:21,200 --> 00:42:24,960 Speaker 1: to eat to our favorite TV show. So one of 737 00:42:25,000 --> 00:42:27,239 Speaker 1: the tweaks you can do is take the TV out 738 00:42:27,239 --> 00:42:30,440 Speaker 1: of your kitchen put in your living room. Um. We 739 00:42:30,440 --> 00:42:33,960 Speaker 1: we can easily shave about a hundred and fifty mindless 740 00:42:34,080 --> 00:42:37,160 Speaker 1: calories out of our day by setting up our kitchen 741 00:42:37,200 --> 00:42:39,560 Speaker 1: the right way. That's what the Blue Zone challenges the way. 742 00:42:39,719 --> 00:42:41,920 Speaker 1: And two other tweaks you can do to your kitchen 743 00:42:42,280 --> 00:42:45,720 Speaker 1: take the toaster off your counter that'll shave six pounds 744 00:42:45,760 --> 00:42:49,719 Speaker 1: in two years. And establish a junk food drawer that's 745 00:42:49,760 --> 00:42:51,879 Speaker 1: out of the way or in a pantry that will 746 00:42:51,920 --> 00:42:55,160 Speaker 1: shave another four pounds off your weight in two years. 747 00:42:55,200 --> 00:42:57,759 Speaker 1: So rather than having to be disciplined every day, just 748 00:42:57,880 --> 00:43:01,080 Speaker 1: do the right things to your home and you'll mindlessly 749 00:43:01,160 --> 00:43:03,799 Speaker 1: eat better. Well, it's great, man, it's so nice to 750 00:43:03,800 --> 00:43:06,120 Speaker 1: connect with you here. I really appreciate you coming on 751 00:43:06,160 --> 00:43:09,520 Speaker 1: and keep talking. It's good stuff. Thanks, Ryan, I do 752 00:43:09,600 --> 00:43:11,360 Speaker 1: I to talk to you all right, Dan, take a 753 00:43:11,360 --> 00:43:16,000 Speaker 1: care of b bye this. I'm just reading up on 754 00:43:16,080 --> 00:43:19,000 Speaker 1: him and the Ted talk is great. It's so much 755 00:43:19,000 --> 00:43:22,000 Speaker 1: better at speaking than I am. Public Um. He holds 756 00:43:22,000 --> 00:43:28,200 Speaker 1: three Guennis records for endurance cycling. Right, exactly what do 757 00:43:28,280 --> 00:43:32,360 Speaker 1: we do? Like? I'm not even I'm not even making 758 00:43:32,360 --> 00:43:36,000 Speaker 1: it through a full anyone of my YouTube workouts. It's 759 00:43:36,040 --> 00:43:40,719 Speaker 1: so simple, the whole foods from the ground boom, yeah, 760 00:43:40,760 --> 00:43:43,839 Speaker 1: and obviously say bye bye by saying cow chow, You'll 761 00:43:43,880 --> 00:43:54,920 Speaker 1: live another day Tomorrow Disney a Land tickets. I got 762 00:43:55,000 --> 00:43:58,000 Speaker 1: him again every hour start at six, and we are 763 00:43:58,040 --> 00:43:59,759 Speaker 1: going to check in with Michael. I think it's the 764 00:44:00,000 --> 00:44:02,640 Speaker 1: an addition of hands full with Michael. Because Sissany is 765 00:44:02,719 --> 00:44:09,720 Speaker 1: back next week. Crazy maybe would fast so fast. Maybe 766 00:44:09,719 --> 00:44:12,560 Speaker 1: we should offer him a different role because I know 767 00:44:12,640 --> 00:44:14,920 Speaker 1: he is a little bummed out. Well, why don't we 768 00:44:15,000 --> 00:44:17,680 Speaker 1: talk to Sissany about it to see if she wants 769 00:44:17,760 --> 00:44:21,680 Speaker 1: him to continue to show up every week? Something small 770 00:44:22,000 --> 00:44:28,120 Speaker 1: maybe like part the weather, just weather, but he might 771 00:44:28,120 --> 00:44:30,040 Speaker 1: be great at the weather, Tony don't Yeah, he maybe 772 00:44:30,160 --> 00:44:33,560 Speaker 1: don't marginalize his weather skills. He wants to come and 773 00:44:33,640 --> 00:44:36,359 Speaker 1: chat and chat, hang with the gang. Well, why don't 774 00:44:36,360 --> 00:44:41,880 Speaker 1: we run it by his wife. There's something there, there's something. 775 00:44:42,040 --> 00:44:44,000 Speaker 1: You guys have a going This is Kids a Fat Doctor. 776 00:44:44,560 --> 00:44:47,359 Speaker 1: Thanks for listening So on Air with Ryan Seacrest. Make 777 00:44:47,360 --> 00:44:49,200 Speaker 1: sure to subscribe it and we'll talk to you again 778 00:44:49,239 --> 00:44:49,640 Speaker 1: tomorrow