WEBVTT - Which Part Of You Feels Most Misunderstood By Others?

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<v Speaker 1>Get your hands.

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<v Speaker 2>Together, and we're gonna stop and part I'm ready to party.

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<v Speaker 1>The Elvis Duran after party.

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<v Speaker 2>Hello. Fun fact, before we get started, I learned something

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<v Speaker 2>about Scott today. You can scare that guy with the

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<v Speaker 2>door shut. You don't even have to be in the

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<v Speaker 2>same room as him. You can be in a separate

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<v Speaker 2>room and he will still jump InTouch.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean a scream as a scream, as a scream,

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<v Speaker 3>it don't matter where it's coming from.

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<v Speaker 2>There's a door between us.

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<v Speaker 3>Like there's no sound for me here. It's like you're

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<v Speaker 3>standing right there.

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<v Speaker 2>Please. It was very funny. And then he you know,

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<v Speaker 2>holds his chest. I'm gonna die.

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<v Speaker 4>When I die.

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<v Speaker 5>I was gonna scare him in the bathroom the other

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<v Speaker 5>day because I looked under the stall and I thought

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<v Speaker 5>I saw your shoe, but I wasn't one hundred percent certain.

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<v Speaker 5>But what I was gonna do is just slam my

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<v Speaker 5>body against the metal divider.

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<v Speaker 3>You know at one time, you know, be down the hall.

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<v Speaker 3>He literally scared the ship out of me. I was

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<v Speaker 3>sitting in the bathroom and he scared me so hard

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<v Speaker 3>that I shit more.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, that's your body reflex, all right.

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<v Speaker 6>Toilet time.

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<v Speaker 4>It squeezes it up.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my gosh, what were you going to say?

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<v Speaker 2>No, that was I just Scott Scott something else man,

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<v Speaker 2>this guy and then he tried to scare me back

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<v Speaker 2>and it didn't work and he was like, what he's

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<v Speaker 2>not a good sca.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, you didn't even flinch nothing.

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<v Speaker 2>It's very difficult, and I'm not saying this as a challenge.

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<v Speaker 2>It's very difficult to scare me where you actually see

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<v Speaker 2>something happen.

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<v Speaker 3>Have you ever been frightened of anything?

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<v Speaker 2>I'm scared of everything all the time. I have the

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<v Speaker 2>crazy imagination I hear my ice maker at night. I'm like.

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<v Speaker 5>Ever in the middle of the night, you wake up

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<v Speaker 5>and I don't know if it's in my dream or

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<v Speaker 5>if it actually happened, but you hear allowed bang or

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<v Speaker 5>something that happened to me last night. I heard some

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<v Speaker 5>I could have sworn I heard a bang and I

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<v Speaker 5>woke up, you know, ready to take my clothes off

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<v Speaker 5>and a cost of whoever's in my bedroom.

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<v Speaker 6>Now, one's in a bangle, you dreaming about a bag?

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<v Speaker 5>That's what I don't know, But I could have sworn

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<v Speaker 5>it happened in real life.

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<v Speaker 1>You know what's so funny, that's in the OJ documentary,

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<v Speaker 1>Cato kaelin who is like staying in the guest house

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<v Speaker 1>when OJ, apparently I guess, came home. He heard a

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<v Speaker 1>and then the picture on the wall went to the side.

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<v Speaker 1>He thought they had an earthquake. He was going around

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<v Speaker 1>asking everybody if they had an earthquake.

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<v Speaker 2>But I don't think it was an.

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<v Speaker 3>Earthquake when we first when we first moved into the house.

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<v Speaker 3>That happened to me and I heard something in the basement.

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<v Speaker 3>I jumped out of bed in my tidy whities and

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<v Speaker 3>no shirt, just underwear, and I with a stun gun

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<v Speaker 3>and a flashlight.

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<v Speaker 4>And I was a stun gun's footage of this. Please

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<v Speaker 4>you film everything.

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<v Speaker 3>No, but I went into the basement with a flashlight

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<v Speaker 3>and a stun gun in my underwear.

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<v Speaker 4>It was.

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<v Speaker 3>It was the weirdest.

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<v Speaker 2>I can't even imagine Scott being like the dude who

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<v Speaker 2>has to go investigate this out.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh my god, He's the last person I'd want with me. Gosh,

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<v Speaker 5>did you have a question for the podcast? Oh?

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<v Speaker 2>I do? Okay, So I found this page and I

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<v Speaker 2>love it because it just helps you get to know

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<v Speaker 2>people a lot better and it asks you all kinds

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<v Speaker 2>of interesting questions. So I thought I could ask some

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<v Speaker 2>of you guys some of these questions, and they're actually

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<v Speaker 2>not only me getting to know you, but us getting

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<v Speaker 2>into ourselves. Because I thought about some of these, I

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<v Speaker 2>was like, hmm, so I'll start with this, which part

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<v Speaker 2>of you, for everyone here feels most misunderstood by others?

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<v Speaker 4>Part of our body or no.

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<v Speaker 2>Personality, your body? What part of your body is misunderstood? Me?

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, the question I got one.

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<v Speaker 2>Which part of you, which part of your identity? Will

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<v Speaker 2>say is most misunderstood by others?

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<v Speaker 6>Okay, mag go first, because it just came right to me.

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<v Speaker 6>My intelligence. People think I'm stupid, people think I'm uneducated

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<v Speaker 6>just because sometimes my mannerism is in the way I act.

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<v Speaker 6>But actually I was a straight A student. I'm more

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<v Speaker 6>educated than you know. My vocabulary isn't as big as

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<v Speaker 6>some of yours, but big thank you, thank you or epistopical.

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<v Speaker 6>Sometimes every mispronounce things because you know I have. I

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<v Speaker 6>am a font of knowledge in a lot of different areas.

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<v Speaker 6>And I've never flexed on you guys ever, So.

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<v Speaker 5>I think that's because I kind of deal with deal

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<v Speaker 5>with it as well. That's the character you and I

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<v Speaker 5>play there is Thenate on the show versus the Nate

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<v Speaker 5>at home on the show versus the Anthony at home.

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<v Speaker 6>Don't get it twisted. Yeah, Now that doesn't mean I'm

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<v Speaker 6>being fake or we're being fake, but like you.

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<v Speaker 4>Know, I like to play around. I'm goofing around with everybody.

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<v Speaker 6>And because I'm always goofing, you know, you know, people

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<v Speaker 6>could mistake that for oh, he's not the sharpest tool

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<v Speaker 6>in the shed in okay.

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<v Speaker 2>I also think if you were truly an idiot, you

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<v Speaker 2>wouldn't have been able to keep this job for as

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<v Speaker 2>long as you have. Fair Enough, I don't wait, let

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<v Speaker 2>me think, not you, I'm just thinking of other people, Danielle,

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<v Speaker 2>Do you have an answer. I think it's how loud

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<v Speaker 2>I am.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like sometimes people are like, oh my gosh, because

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<v Speaker 1>you will. But that's it's where I grew up, that's

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<v Speaker 1>you know, the area I'm from. We were all loud.

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<v Speaker 1>That's how we communicated. It's how we communicated our love

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<v Speaker 1>to each other.

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<v Speaker 4>Like I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>So I think a lot of people are like, oh

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<v Speaker 1>my god, it just needs to control it. But that's me.

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<v Speaker 1>So I think a lot of times it's missed understood

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<v Speaker 1>for maybe me being brash or me just being like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, like in your face, and that's really not

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<v Speaker 1>what it is all the well.

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<v Speaker 4>As somebody that sits right next to you.

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<v Speaker 2>You do have a lot of volume, you know what

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<v Speaker 2>on that topic. So you know, I do my podcast

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<v Speaker 2>in this studio. I don't let people sit at your mic.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh you don't for multiple reasons. But the engineers have

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<v Speaker 2>turned it down. Oh yeah, they have to. So when

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<v Speaker 2>somebody comes in at a regular level, you can't hear them.

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<v Speaker 2>I have to adjust all them. Like I'm louder than everyone.

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<v Speaker 5>Yea, mine is turned up because sometimes the guests speak

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<v Speaker 5>softly and Daniells.

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<v Speaker 4>Is turned.

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<v Speaker 2>It's so funny. And that one we're scary sitting that's

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<v Speaker 2>the loudest one. Something hot, yeah, coming in hot, coming

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<v Speaker 2>in hot, baby, all right.

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<v Speaker 4>Ask the question to Scotty Bee.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, Scottie Bee, which part of your identity is most

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<v Speaker 2>misunderstood by others?

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<v Speaker 3>I think it has to be my sarcasm. I think

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<v Speaker 3>it makes me come across as a big giant dick

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<v Speaker 3>with people that don't know me, you know, because I'm

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<v Speaker 3>I'm incredibly sarcastic, and I try to make a joke

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<v Speaker 3>out of everything, sometimes in the wrong situations.

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<v Speaker 2>He used to really emphasize the try there.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, yes, but I just I think that's what it is.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, I'm a I think that I'm a genuinely jovial,

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<v Speaker 3>nice person for the most part. But I think, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>if I try to make a joke out of something

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<v Speaker 3>or my sarcasm, it makes me look a dick. So

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<v Speaker 3>I think that's what's most misunderstood. And if you for

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<v Speaker 3>people that I meet right away, I shouldn't be like that,

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<v Speaker 3>but it's hard for me to not.

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<v Speaker 2>I remember when I first met you, I did think

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<v Speaker 2>you were an asshole.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, most people do.

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<v Speaker 6>Nohole.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my god. He was so mean to me, so

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<v Speaker 2>I was. It was when I first met all of

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<v Speaker 2>you guys and I was hanging out in his studio,

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<v Speaker 2>just the two of us. He would not to me

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<v Speaker 2>at all. I tried to talk to him a couple

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<v Speaker 2>of times and he was like, I'm busy, like totally

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<v Speaker 2>blew it off. Really, Yeah, he didn't care at all,

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<v Speaker 2>you told me later. I figured you were just one

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<v Speaker 2>of like a million people coming through, so I didn't

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<v Speaker 2>really give a shit to get to know you.

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<v Speaker 3>I was like, Wow, that's just not me though that

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<v Speaker 3>was probably a bad point in my life.

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<v Speaker 2>No, it wasn't. Well, what do want to know about

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<v Speaker 2>bad points in life?

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<v Speaker 4>Scott, He's always in a bad point.

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<v Speaker 3>Not right now?

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<v Speaker 4>Yay, one rare exception.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm happy or not?

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<v Speaker 4>That's great, thank you, Neat Okay, the question being.

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<v Speaker 2>Which part of your identity is most misunderstood by other people?

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<v Speaker 5>So it's changed, I think recently. I mean it used

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<v Speaker 5>to be the joke. I was so into myself, my

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<v Speaker 5>parents and stuff. I really don't care anymore.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 5>You guys have noticed. I don't care about what I wear.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't care what my hair looks like. I don't

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<v Speaker 5>care what people think of you.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't real And.

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<v Speaker 5>Honestly, it was after the strokes, because you know, once

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<v Speaker 5>you almost don't have a life, you really don't care

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<v Speaker 5>about some things that used to be. So as you

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<v Speaker 5>look back, you know, superficial and thinking back, why didn't

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<v Speaker 5>I waste so much time thinking about that and putting

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<v Speaker 5>so much effort into it because it really doesn't matter

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<v Speaker 5>in the grand scheme of things. So yeah, so I'm

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<v Speaker 5>not as into myself as some people might be.

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<v Speaker 2>Led to believe, led to believe by you. Yes, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I totally I see everybody's point. Yo, yeah, oh what

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<v Speaker 2>about you? I think everything about me is misunderstand Danielle No.

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<v Speaker 2>I think that so. Growing up with immigrant parents, they

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<v Speaker 2>always would say to us, the one commodity you never

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<v Speaker 2>get back is time. Don't waste people's time, and sugarcoating

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<v Speaker 2>gives you cavities. So if you have something to say,

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<v Speaker 2>just say the thing. It's actually kinder in the long run.

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<v Speaker 2>If you don't like something, to end that thing, whether

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<v Speaker 2>it's a relationship or you're working on an idea and

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<v Speaker 2>that doesn't work for you. I think sometimes what I

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<v Speaker 2>believe in my head is saving people time and effort

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<v Speaker 2>and all kinds of whatever it is. I think people

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<v Speaker 2>interpret it as me being an asshole, where in my

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<v Speaker 2>head I'm like, I was actually trying to be really nice.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't when I write emails to people, I don't

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<v Speaker 2>fluff it up with a whole paragraph of Hey, I

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<v Speaker 2>hope this email finds you well and you had a

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<v Speaker 2>great weekend and blah bah blah. I'll just write whatever

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<v Speaker 2>the sentence is because I don't want to waste your

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<v Speaker 2>time with fluff because we'll never get time back. But

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<v Speaker 2>I know that there's definitely this notion that I'm an asshole,

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<v Speaker 2>and I think that a lot of times what I

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<v Speaker 2>perceive to be me being nice or considerate of somebody

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<v Speaker 2>and their time, other people take as me.

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<v Speaker 5>I think once you explain it, it makes total sense. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 5>but without that explanation, of course you're going to be

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<v Speaker 5>an asshole.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>But with the explanation, my god, you're doing everybody a hat.

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<v Speaker 2>That's what I thought. People don't take it that way.

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<v Speaker 4>I think you need to have the disclaimer.

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<v Speaker 2>By explaining to you. And even if it's you know,

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<v Speaker 2>for the most part, if it comes to dating somebody

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<v Speaker 2>and you realize pretty early on I don't really feel this,

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<v Speaker 2>don't streng someone along.

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<v Speaker 5>Tell them you said, you've had deep conversations with everybody,

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<v Speaker 5>and you've said some things to me where it's blunt,

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<v Speaker 5>but then you realize, Wow, I needed to hear that,

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<v Speaker 5>because when you sugarcoat something, you don't get the point.

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<v Speaker 6>I can always come to you for a dose reality,

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<v Speaker 6>for sure.

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<v Speaker 5>Say the opposite here, like when you sugarcoat something and

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<v Speaker 5>you dance around it, people don't get the message. But

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<v Speaker 5>when you say something matter of factly, sometimes people need

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<v Speaker 5>to hear that. And I know you've said some things

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<v Speaker 5>to me. Wow, I needed to hear that. Well.

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<v Speaker 2>I hope it was it wasn't interpreted as being a dick,

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<v Speaker 2>because I at the moment, whatever it was, at the moment,

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<v Speaker 2>even if you needed to hear it, I hope that

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<v Speaker 2>you weren't like, damn.

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<v Speaker 5>That's the point I'm trying to make is God, sometimes

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<v Speaker 5>you need to hear it like that because so many

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<v Speaker 5>other people sugarcoat ship, they dance around it. You don't

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<v Speaker 5>know what they're trying to say, and then so you're

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<v Speaker 5>left in this limbo.

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<v Speaker 2>You do a ship sandwich Nate.

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<v Speaker 6>And know it, don't ever apologize. We've had these talks

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<v Speaker 6>before too. And then as you're getting out of my car,

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<v Speaker 6>you're like, I don't mean.

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<v Speaker 4>To be a dick. No, don't do that, don't say

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<v Speaker 4>that the whole thing. Totally get it. Every person in

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<v Speaker 4>their life needs that friend that just like it is.

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<v Speaker 1>That's that's how I feel about Lisa Froggy's wife, Lisa.

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<v Speaker 1>I know she's the friend that if I she's not

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<v Speaker 1>gonna coddle me ship to me, I'll call our and

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<v Speaker 1>I'll go, Lisa, put on.

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<v Speaker 4>Your big girl pants.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, oh shit, all right, but I need that.

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<v Speaker 1>She's the person of my life that does that the most.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, and you know in turn, I will say

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<v Speaker 2>I because we all see the world through our lens.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't interpret people being assholes to me that probably

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<v Speaker 2>are trying because I'm like, oh cool, you just gave

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<v Speaker 2>me an answer and move right on, and I want

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<v Speaker 2>feedback that is honest. I don't need you to sugarcoat it.

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<v Speaker 2>If you don't want me to go somewhere, tell me

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<v Speaker 2>you don't want me to go and tell me why,

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<v Speaker 2>But don't waste my time with oh, you know, we'll

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<v Speaker 2>think about it, or maybe let me let me reach

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<v Speaker 2>out and get back. Just tell me no, please, it's fine.

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<v Speaker 2>I hate that, but yeah, interesting, I love that question.

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<v Speaker 4>I hope everybody today answers that to themselves.

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<v Speaker 2>Or at least thinks about it.

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<v Speaker 6>Yes, yeah, was that our sign off? There?

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<v Speaker 3>That's it?

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe this is it the lines?

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, scary we are.

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<v Speaker 6>I'm telling you, I'm not that stupid.

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<v Speaker 3>You just don't pay attention.

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<v Speaker 6>But but you went me that didn't seem like that

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<v Speaker 6>was the end of the podcast, right, in the podcast Gotcha, No,

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<v Speaker 6>I didn't know what it was done.

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<v Speaker 1>The Elvis Ran after party