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Speaker 1: Get your hands.

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Speaker 2: Together, and we're gonna stop and part I'm ready to party.

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Speaker 1: The Elvis Duran after party.

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Speaker 2: Hello. Fun fact, before we get started, I learned something

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Speaker 2: about Scott today. You can scare that guy with the

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Speaker 2: door shut. You don't even have to be in the

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Speaker 2: same room as him. You can be in a separate

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Speaker 3: I mean a scream as a scream, as a scream,

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Speaker 3: it don't matter where it's coming from.

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Speaker 2: There's a door between us.

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Speaker 3: Like there's no sound for me here. It's like you're

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Speaker 3: standing right there.

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Speaker 2: Please. It was very funny. And then he you know,

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Speaker 2: holds his chest. I'm gonna die.

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Speaker 4: When I die.

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Speaker 5: I was gonna scare him in the bathroom the other

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Speaker 5: day because I looked under the stall and I thought

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Speaker 5: I saw your shoe, but I wasn't one hundred percent certain.

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Speaker 5: But what I was gonna do is just slam my

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Speaker 3: You know at one time, you know, be down the hall.

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Speaker 3: He literally scared the ship out of me. I was

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Speaker 3: that I shit more.

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Speaker 4: Well, that's your body reflex, all right.

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Speaker 6: Toilet time.

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Speaker 4: It squeezes it up.

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Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, what were you going to say?

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Speaker 2: No, that was I just Scott Scott something else man,

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Speaker 2: this guy and then he tried to scare me back

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Speaker 2: and it didn't work and he was like, what he's

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Speaker 2: not a good sca.

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Speaker 3: Well, you didn't even flinch nothing.

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Speaker 2: It's very difficult, and I'm not saying this as a challenge.

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Speaker 2: It's very difficult to scare me where you actually see

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Speaker 3: Have you ever been frightened of anything?

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Speaker 2: I'm scared of everything all the time. I have the

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Speaker 2: crazy imagination I hear my ice maker at night. I'm like.

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Speaker 5: Ever in the middle of the night, you wake up

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Speaker 5: something that happened to me last night. I heard some

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Speaker 5: I could have sworn I heard a bang and I

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Speaker 5: and a cost of whoever's in my bedroom.

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Speaker 6: Now, one's in a bangle, you dreaming about a bag?

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Speaker 5: That's what I don't know, But I could have sworn

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Speaker 1: You know what's so funny, that's in the OJ documentary,

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Speaker 1: Cato kaelin who is like staying in the guest house

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Speaker 1: when OJ, apparently I guess, came home. He heard a

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Speaker 1: He thought they had an earthquake. He was going around

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Speaker 2: But I don't think it was an.

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Speaker 3: Earthquake when we first when we first moved into the house.

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Speaker 3: That happened to me and I heard something in the basement.

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Speaker 3: I jumped out of bed in my tidy whities and

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Speaker 3: and a flashlight.

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Speaker 4: And I was a stun gun's footage of this. Please

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Speaker 4: you film everything.

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Speaker 3: No, but I went into the basement with a flashlight

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Speaker 4: It was.

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Speaker 3: It was the weirdest.

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Speaker 2: I can't even imagine Scott being like the dude who

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Speaker 5: Oh my god, He's the last person I'd want with me. Gosh,

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Speaker 5: did you have a question for the podcast? Oh?

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Speaker 2: I do? Okay, So I found this page and I

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Speaker 2: love it because it just helps you get to know

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Speaker 2: into ourselves. Because I thought about some of these, I

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Speaker 2: was like, hmm, so I'll start with this, which part

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Speaker 4: Part of our body or no.

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Speaker 2: Personality, your body? What part of your body is misunderstood? Me?

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Speaker 3: Okay, the question I got one.

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Speaker 2: Which part of you, which part of your identity? Will

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Speaker 6: Okay, mag go first, because it just came right to me.

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Speaker 6: My intelligence. People think I'm stupid, people think I'm uneducated

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Speaker 6: just because sometimes my mannerism is in the way I act.

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Speaker 6: But actually I was a straight A student. I'm more

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Speaker 6: educated than you know. My vocabulary isn't as big as

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Speaker 6: some of yours, but big thank you, thank you or epistopical.

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Speaker 6: Sometimes every mispronounce things because you know I have. I

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Speaker 6: And I've never flexed on you guys ever, So.

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Speaker 5: I think that's because I kind of deal with deal

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Speaker 5: play there is Thenate on the show versus the Nate

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Speaker 6: Don't get it twisted. Yeah, Now that doesn't mean I'm

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Speaker 6: being fake or we're being fake, but like you.

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Speaker 4: Know, I like to play around. I'm goofing around with everybody.

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Speaker 6: And because I'm always goofing, you know, you know, people

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Speaker 2: I also think if you were truly an idiot, you

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Speaker 2: long as you have. Fair Enough, I don't wait, let

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Speaker 2: me think, not you, I'm just thinking of other people, Danielle,

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Speaker 2: Do you have an answer. I think it's how loud

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Speaker 2: I am.

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Speaker 1: It's like sometimes people are like, oh my gosh, because

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Speaker 1: you will. But that's it's where I grew up, that's

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Speaker 1: That's how we communicated. It's how we communicated our love

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Speaker 1: So I think a lot of people are like, oh

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Speaker 1: So I think a lot of times it's missed understood

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Speaker 4: As somebody that sits right next to you.

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Speaker 2: You do have a lot of volume, you know what

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Speaker 2: on that topic. So you know, I do my podcast

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Speaker 2: I have to adjust all them. Like I'm louder than everyone.

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Speaker 5: Yea, mine is turned up because sometimes the guests speak

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Speaker 4: Is turned.

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Speaker 2: It's so funny. And that one we're scary sitting that's

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Speaker 4: Ask the question to Scotty Bee.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Scottie Bee, which part of your identity is most

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Speaker 3: I think it has to be my sarcasm. I think

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Speaker 3: I'm incredibly sarcastic, and I try to make a joke

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Speaker 2: He used to really emphasize the try there.

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Speaker 3: Well, yes, but I just I think that's what it is.

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Speaker 3: I mean, I'm a I think that I'm a genuinely jovial,

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Speaker 3: I think that's what's most misunderstood. And if you for

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Speaker 2: I remember when I first met you, I did think

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Speaker 3: Yeah, most people do.

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Speaker 6: Nohole.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god. He was so mean to me, so

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Speaker 2: I was. It was when I first met all of

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Speaker 2: blew it off. Really, Yeah, he didn't care at all,

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Speaker 3: I was like, Wow, that's just not me though that

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Speaker 2: No, it wasn't. Well, what do want to know about

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Speaker 4: Scott, He's always in a bad point.

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Speaker 3: Not right now?

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Speaker 4: Yay, one rare exception.

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Speaker 4: That's great, thank you, Neat Okay, the question being.

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Speaker 2: Which part of your identity is most misunderstood by other people?

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Speaker 5: So it's changed, I think recently. I mean it used

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Speaker 5: You guys have noticed. I don't care about what I wear.

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Speaker 5: I don't care what my hair looks like. I don't

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Speaker 4: I don't real And.

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Speaker 5: Honestly, it was after the strokes, because you know, once

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Speaker 2: Led to believe, led to believe by you. Yes, yeah,

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Speaker 2: I totally I see everybody's point. Yo, yeah, oh what

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Speaker 2: about you? I think everything about me is misunderstand Danielle No.

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Speaker 2: I think that so. Growing up with immigrant parents, they

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Speaker 2: If you don't like something, to end that thing, whether

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Speaker 2: it's a relationship or you're working on an idea and

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Speaker 2: that doesn't work for you. I think sometimes what I

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Speaker 2: believe in my head is saving people time and effort

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Speaker 2: and all kinds of whatever it is. I think people

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Speaker 2: interpret it as me being an asshole, where in my

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Speaker 2: head I'm like, I was actually trying to be really nice.

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Speaker 2: I don't when I write emails to people, I don't

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Speaker 2: hope this email finds you well and you had a

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Speaker 2: great weekend and blah bah blah. I'll just write whatever

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Speaker 2: the sentence is because I don't want to waste your

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Speaker 2: time with fluff because we'll never get time back. But

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Speaker 2: I know that there's definitely this notion that I'm an asshole,

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Speaker 5: I think once you explain it, it makes total sense. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: But with the explanation, my god, you're doing everybody a hat.

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Speaker 2: That's what I thought. People don't take it that way.

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Speaker 4: I think you need to have the disclaimer.

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Speaker 2: By explaining to you. And even if it's you know,

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Speaker 5: Tell them you said, you've had deep conversations with everybody,

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Speaker 5: and you've said some things to me where it's blunt,

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Speaker 6: I can always come to you for a dose reality,

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Speaker 5: Say the opposite here, like when you sugarcoat something and

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Speaker 2: I hope it was it wasn't interpreted as being a dick,

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Speaker 5: That's the point I'm trying to make is God, sometimes

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Speaker 2: You do a ship sandwich Nate.

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Speaker 6: And know it, don't ever apologize. We've had these talks

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Speaker 4: To be a dick. No, don't do that, don't say

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Speaker 1: That's that's how I feel about Lisa Froggy's wife, Lisa.

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Speaker 1: I know she's the friend that if I she's not

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Speaker 1: I'll go, Lisa, put on.

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Speaker 4: Your big girl pants.

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Speaker 2: I'm like, oh shit, all right, but I need that.

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Speaker 1: She's the person of my life that does that the most.

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Speaker 2: You know, and you know in turn, I will say

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Speaker 2: I don't interpret people being assholes to me that probably

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Speaker 2: If you don't want me to go somewhere, tell me

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Speaker 2: But don't waste my time with oh, you know, we'll

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Speaker 2: out and get back. Just tell me no, please, it's fine.

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Speaker 2: I hate that, but yeah, interesting, I love that question.

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Speaker 4: I hope everybody today answers that to themselves.

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Speaker 2: Or at least thinks about it.

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Speaker 6: Yes, yeah, was that our sign off? There?

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Speaker 3: That's it?

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Speaker 2: Maybe this is it the lines?

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Speaker 4: Yes, scary we are.

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Speaker 6: I'm telling you, I'm not that stupid.

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Speaker 3: You just don't pay attention.

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