WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Sea Meat Surprise

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<v Speaker 1>All right, secrets revealed today. That's what we're doing.

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<v Speaker 2>Hey, it's brooking Jeffrey in the morning and this is

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<v Speaker 2>the Second Date podcast. And one of our listeners says

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<v Speaker 2>she found the sweet spot that.

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<v Speaker 1>Is crawling with high quality men. Yep, I gotta wait

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<v Speaker 1>test it out after this. I mean, honestly, you were interested.

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<v Speaker 1>I am to I still am.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, she's willing to reveal it in exchange for our help,

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<v Speaker 2>and we'd love to know you know where you're meeting people.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, give us the secret places.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it's not fun in the comments. Yeah, and we

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<v Speaker 2>love the comments. Alexis, what do you see today that

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<v Speaker 2>you like?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Cassidy Stewart said, you guys need to add a segment

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<v Speaker 2>where y'all talk and give advice to teens.

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<v Speaker 1>Talk about messy drama. I need my drama fixed. During summer,

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<v Speaker 1>teens don't listen very well, they don't listen.

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<v Speaker 2>But I have to say, coaching the high schoolers, I

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<v Speaker 2>do hear some good drama.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh you know, maybe Alexis is intering some of.

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<v Speaker 3>Them on here.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. All right, listen, let's start your brand new Second

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<v Speaker 1>Date right now.

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<v Speaker 4>Second Date Update.

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<v Speaker 5>We've been talking about it a lot this summers Broken

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<v Speaker 5>Jeffrey in the morning, how people are moving away from

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<v Speaker 5>the dating apps and trying to meet more in person

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<v Speaker 5>now well.

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<v Speaker 2>And sometimes such a time for it. You know you're

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<v Speaker 2>feeling good.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, but if you're a female, where do you go?

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<v Speaker 5>Basically anywhere outside of your own houses?

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<v Speaker 4>And even that's probably a reach.

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<v Speaker 5>There's a few guys who are probably living in your

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<v Speaker 5>walls waiting for you to say no.

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<v Speaker 4>It's okay, you can come out now. I'm ready to

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<v Speaker 4>be seduced.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey man, I've been wanting to date.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh, finally got here for five months.

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<v Speaker 5>But one of our listeners, Denise, says she decided a

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<v Speaker 5>few months ago to switch up her strategy to get

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<v Speaker 5>offline and hoping to meet a high profile man. So

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<v Speaker 5>I'm very curious to hear where she ended up going

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<v Speaker 5>to do that, and I think a lot of our

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<v Speaker 5>female listeners are going to want to know too. So Denise,

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<v Speaker 5>welcome to the show and tell us where'd you go

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<v Speaker 5>to meet this guy?

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<v Speaker 6>Hey? So I met this guy at the golf course.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, do you do you like golf? Or is this

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<v Speaker 1>like you are learning just.

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<v Speaker 4>For the dudes?

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<v Speaker 6>You know, I'm just doing it just to meet the guys.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, and the.

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<v Speaker 1>Worst thing that happens is you pick up a new hobby.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, you know exactly, all.

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<v Speaker 4>Right, Okay, how did this even happen?

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<v Speaker 5>How did you come with the idea to start going

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<v Speaker 5>to the golf courses?

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<v Speaker 6>I was watching a video on Instagram, I believe, and

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<v Speaker 6>one of the influencers said that businessmen and executives like

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<v Speaker 6>to golf.

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<v Speaker 2>I've been told as a woman, if you want to

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<v Speaker 2>succeed in business, you need to learn how to play

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<v Speaker 2>golf so that you don't miss out on those meetings

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<v Speaker 2>golf course?

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<v Speaker 5>And did you tell whoever told you that I don't

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<v Speaker 5>need to be told how to live my life as

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<v Speaker 5>a woman. I'm an independent person and I can do

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<v Speaker 5>what I want and hang out with who I want.

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<v Speaker 1>No. I thought it was a good piece of advice.

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<v Speaker 4>I'll I want all right.

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<v Speaker 5>So you saw the video and you decided I want that.

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<v Speaker 6>Yep. I need a man who is very well paid,

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<v Speaker 6>high class, he takes his career seriously.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, So who did you find on the golf course?

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<v Speaker 6>Well, I actually met a guy named Franklin.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, okay, sounds like a rich name.

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<v Speaker 4>How did you meet him, did he come up and

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<v Speaker 4>help you with your swing?

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<v Speaker 1>Or I mean it is a good easy thing to do.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know how to or hit him with a

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<v Speaker 1>golf ball in accident, light hit?

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<v Speaker 4>How did it happen?

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<v Speaker 6>Funny enough, golf courses you don't just have to play golf.

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<v Speaker 6>They have awesome clubhouses and bars. And that's where I

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<v Speaker 6>met him.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, were you ever actually playing the game or were

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<v Speaker 2>you just hanging out.

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<v Speaker 6>In the bar? I was on the putting green for

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<v Speaker 6>at least an hour.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, that's every part I think that you don't have

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<v Speaker 2>to pay for.

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<v Speaker 1>I like it.

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<v Speaker 2>That's sort and if you bring your own cans on

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<v Speaker 2>that okay.

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<v Speaker 5>Tell us about how the interaction between you and Franklin

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<v Speaker 5>went well.

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<v Speaker 6>Over a couple of drinks, he told me that he

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<v Speaker 6>owns a string of car washes, and I think that's

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<v Speaker 6>pretty cool. Yeah it is, and he pretty much asked

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<v Speaker 6>me out. So I must say. The golf course strategy

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<v Speaker 6>works nice.

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<v Speaker 1>In one.

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<v Speaker 5>Eagle, we got, we got, We can do five minutes

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<v Speaker 5>of golf puns, or we can learn more about what actually,

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<v Speaker 5>let's learn more about what happened. So after this, Denise,

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<v Speaker 5>did you and Franklin go out.

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<v Speaker 4>On a date.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah. Well, he took me to a really nice restaurant.

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<v Speaker 6>The date was great, the vibes were super awesome. And

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<v Speaker 6>I've been thinking why I haven't heard from him since,

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<v Speaker 6>and I think the ones thing that may have turned

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<v Speaker 6>him off because you know, I'm sort of specific on

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<v Speaker 6>how I eat. I like to bring my own.

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<v Speaker 1>Silverware interesting to the restaurant.

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, why like chopsticks? Because I can see that. I

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<v Speaker 4>know people that bring chopsticks with them, like if they want.

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<v Speaker 6>Know like my fourth you know, my knife?

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<v Speaker 1>Why do you do that?

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<v Speaker 6>Sometimes you can see that it's not washed properly, and

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<v Speaker 6>people are putting the silverware in their mouth.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, it's a sanitary thing for you.

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<v Speaker 4>I could see that.

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<v Speaker 6>For me, I'd rather be safe than sorry.

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<v Speaker 7>So I just bring my own silverware.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>So in a nice restaurant, you pull out silverware from your.

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<v Speaker 4>Purse, which is obviously a clean place to keep it.

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<v Speaker 4>So that's good.

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<v Speaker 6>Well, I protect my silverware. I wrap it up really nice.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>Wait, so what was his reaction when you did this?

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<v Speaker 3>Uh?

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<v Speaker 6>It wasn't all that great, But after I explained myself,

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<v Speaker 6>it seemed like he was okay with it.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, kind of like like we were like weird, and.

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<v Speaker 1>Then I was like, okay, I guess you got a thing.

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<v Speaker 4>Did you bring a fork in a knife for Franklin to.

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<v Speaker 5>Use or was it just for a kind of selfish It.

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<v Speaker 6>Was just myself. I didn't want to see them out

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<v Speaker 6>too much.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, so it sounds like Franklin was able to understand

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<v Speaker 5>why you do it and you were able to move

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<v Speaker 5>past it.

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<v Speaker 4>How did the rest of the date go?

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<v Speaker 6>It went pretty well. I mean, at the end, I

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<v Speaker 6>thank them for the date. We hugged, and we said

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<v Speaker 6>we'll talk to each other soon.

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<v Speaker 1>It's so funny.

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<v Speaker 2>I imagine you're wrapping up your utensils as you're doing

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<v Speaker 2>your pleasure.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, honestly, do the wait staff. It probably looks

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<v Speaker 1>like you're stealing, you know.

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<v Speaker 6>I didn't even think of that.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, well, that could be something that's happening.

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<v Speaker 5>But clearly he's not calling you back, and I'm sure

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<v Speaker 5>he's going to be thrilled when he learns that a

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<v Speaker 5>radio station is reaching out to him trying to get

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<v Speaker 5>in contact.

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<v Speaker 1>People love that, especially high class people.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, I'm not ready to let him go yet.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, I don't do whatever it takes.

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<v Speaker 6>Or if it doesn't work with you guys, I'm just

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<v Speaker 6>gonna have to go back to the golf course.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, and Alexus might want to go with you.

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<v Speaker 2>So I want to hit every one of his car

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<v Speaker 2>washes till we.

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<v Speaker 1>Find him a right in the middle one.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, I like you.

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<v Speaker 5>We'll get some stuff done when we call him and

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<v Speaker 5>get your second date update.

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<v Speaker 4>Right after this second date update, it's Brooke and.

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<v Speaker 5>Jeffrey in the morning, and right after part one ended,

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<v Speaker 5>we got reports that thousands of single women have been

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<v Speaker 5>flocking to the local golf courses attempting to meet high

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<v Speaker 5>profile men. Right, that was the strategy our listener, Denise used.

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<v Speaker 5>She heard a lot of businessmen and executives go there

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<v Speaker 5>to hang out.

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<v Speaker 4>It's a good place to meet guys.

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<v Speaker 5>And that's where she met the car wash king, a

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<v Speaker 5>guy named Franklin, and they hit it off, went out

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<v Speaker 5>to dinner.

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<v Speaker 4>The weird part of dinner was she brought her own

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<v Speaker 4>silverware to the restaurant.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, but she knows it's weird and it's still high

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<v Speaker 2>class because it's not a plastic fork and night like

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<v Speaker 2>I would have pulled for my.

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<v Speaker 4>Person and she has a decent excuse. Yes, it's a

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<v Speaker 4>cleanliness thing for her.

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<v Speaker 5>She explained it to Franklin, and even though he seems

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<v Speaker 5>cool about it, he still may have thought this is

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<v Speaker 5>a little bit too much of a high maintenance situation,

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<v Speaker 5>and that could be the reason he's not calling her back, which.

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<v Speaker 2>Is silly because it's not like you asked him to

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<v Speaker 2>bring the silverware for you.

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<v Speaker 6>That would be the part, right exactly.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, any last thoughts before we give Franklin a call here, Denise, No.

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<v Speaker 6>I'm ready when you're ready.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, all right, lets the room ready, I'm ready, We're

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<v Speaker 4>all ready.

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<v Speaker 6>Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>She's confident because she knows she can just go back

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<v Speaker 1>to the golf course. Yeah, likes this guy. Yeah, that's true.

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<v Speaker 4>So let's just dial Franklin. Here we go. I'm calling

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<v Speaker 4>him right now. Hello, Hey, is this Franklin?

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<v Speaker 7>Yes it is.

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<v Speaker 8>How can I help you?

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<v Speaker 4>Hey?

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<v Speaker 5>Thanks for answering. We're a radio show. We're called Brook

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<v Speaker 5>and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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<v Speaker 1>Franklin, Good morning, Franklin.

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<v Speaker 4>Are you busy right now?

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<v Speaker 7>A little bit? How'd you get my number?

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<v Speaker 5>We actually got it from one of our listeners who

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<v Speaker 5>asked us to reach out to you. It's kind of

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<v Speaker 5>the point of this segment. We're trying to see if

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<v Speaker 5>you can get the two of you back together. A

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<v Speaker 5>girl named Denise.

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<v Speaker 7>What is this all about.

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<v Speaker 5>This is a segment that we do. It's called a

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<v Speaker 5>second date update. And Denise reached out to us. She

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<v Speaker 5>told us to get a hold of you because she

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<v Speaker 5>isn't sure why the two of you aren't hanging out

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<v Speaker 5>again a second time.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it sounds like you had a great date.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, what does she tell you?

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<v Speaker 5>I just want to get right down to business. But

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<v Speaker 5>that makes sense about you. We heard your business guy, true.

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<v Speaker 7>I am time is money.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh okay, well.

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<v Speaker 1>Cliches hard times.

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<v Speaker 4>We won't keep you too long then.

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<v Speaker 5>But the gist of what we heard is that you

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<v Speaker 5>two met at a golf course. You ended up going

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<v Speaker 5>out to dinner a few days later.

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<v Speaker 1>It sounds like you took me to a really nice spot,

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<v Speaker 1>which she loved.

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<v Speaker 3>It's funny she told you all this.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, well, we're just trying to figure out, like the idea,

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<v Speaker 5>the general vibe of the date. And she did mention

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<v Speaker 5>a weird thing that happened that maybe could have freaked

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<v Speaker 5>you out a little bit, where she brought her own

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<v Speaker 5>silverware to the restaurant.

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<v Speaker 7>Yes, that wasn't usual.

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<v Speaker 1>What did you think when she pulled it out of

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<v Speaker 1>her purse?

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<v Speaker 7>I didn't really know what to say when that happened.

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<v Speaker 5>Hold us, she didn't pull the knife out first, because

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<v Speaker 5>that'd be weird, I do.

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<v Speaker 1>We're a steakhouse, right.

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<v Speaker 3>She did take out a fourth first, and I said

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<v Speaker 3>something along them. I don't remember exactly what I said

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<v Speaker 3>because I was so surprised.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I mean if I was in your same situation,

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<v Speaker 5>I wouldn't know what to say either.

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<v Speaker 3>Honestly, he explained it, and it did make a certain

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<v Speaker 3>kind of sense.

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<v Speaker 7>I mean on a certain level.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm a neat freak as well, so I kind of

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<v Speaker 3>get it.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, it is funny that she doesn't care about

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<v Speaker 2>the plate or the glass or anything, but.

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<v Speaker 1>But I get it.

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<v Speaker 5>But she was worried that maybe that was the reason

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<v Speaker 5>that you're not calling her for a second hangout?

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<v Speaker 4>Is that true?

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<v Speaker 7>His thing? I just don't know if it's a good match.

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<v Speaker 1>Because of the silver She.

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<v Speaker 3>Came across as the silver war is one thing, but

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<v Speaker 3>she did come across as like, I guess the term.

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<v Speaker 7>I'm looking for is a little high maintenance. I guess

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<v Speaker 7>that's different.

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<v Speaker 5>What made you say like she's high maintenance? What's specifically

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<v Speaker 5>stuck out to you?

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<v Speaker 8>The thing that really stuck out was sh ordered potstickers,

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<v Speaker 8>I guess for the appetizer. When they arrived to the table,

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<v Speaker 8>she asked the waiter if if the potstickers were made

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<v Speaker 8>from land meat land meat?

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<v Speaker 1>What does that mean?

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<v Speaker 3>Land meat like seafood land food?

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<v Speaker 1>That doesn't sound high maintenance. That's just is a weird question.

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<v Speaker 3>Explain to me that a land meat is meat from

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<v Speaker 3>an animal that has never touched water, which was confusing

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<v Speaker 3>to me because she didn't elaborate. So I'm thinking, like,

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<v Speaker 3>does that mean it's not fish or is this specifically

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<v Speaker 3>something where the animal has never like it's a pig

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<v Speaker 3>that's only been in the slop. Is it a chicken

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<v Speaker 3>that's never been bathed? You know, like I did.

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<v Speaker 8>A duck.

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<v Speaker 7>And then she seemed a.

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<v Speaker 3>Little frustrated with the waiter because he didn't know. I

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<v Speaker 3>guess he didn't know the answer to her question. I

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<v Speaker 3>don't think fair.

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<v Speaker 7>I don't think he understood the question.

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<v Speaker 4>Truthfully.

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<v Speaker 5>The guy understands still, So the only way to clear

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<v Speaker 5>this up is by actually talking to Denise about it,

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<v Speaker 5>and that's going to be really easy because she's on

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<v Speaker 5>the other line already.

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<v Speaker 7>What do you mean she's here.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, that's how the segment works, is we have the

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<v Speaker 5>other person waiting to jump in and talk to you.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah. Okay, that's a little surprising, but I'm sorry.

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<v Speaker 4>So Denise, are you there?

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<v Speaker 6>Yes, I'm here. Okay, Hi, Franklin. I so we had something.

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<v Speaker 6>I thought we could have something together the date, so.

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<v Speaker 7>Well, yeah, no, I liked it.

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<v Speaker 3>It was great chemistry. But it's eight days and I'm

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<v Speaker 3>still I still really.

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<v Speaker 7>I'm not sure what land meat is.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I think we all want to know. Could you

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<v Speaker 4>clear it up?

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<v Speaker 6>Okay? So I know it doesn't make any sense to

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<v Speaker 6>you guys, but it makes sense to me. And that's

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<v Speaker 6>okay because listen, the second you bite into sea meat.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, that's the same as seafood, right, that's fine.

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<v Speaker 1>You call seafood seed meat.

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<v Speaker 6>No no, no, no, no, no, no, no, you're not getting.

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<v Speaker 5>It, Okay, seafood and sea meat are different, broke, Yeah, explain.

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<v Speaker 6>So for land meat, that is any animal that's not

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<v Speaker 6>touching water. So like any cow that's near a lake,

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<v Speaker 6>that's a definite, No, ANKI narrow river.

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<v Speaker 5>She needs a Middle American cow like a piece of

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<v Speaker 5>beef jerky.

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<v Speaker 4>Totally dry would be her absolute ideal.

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<v Speaker 1>Means, why does that matter to you?

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<v Speaker 2>Why does it matter if the cow lives by a

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<v Speaker 2>body of water or not?

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<v Speaker 6>Because you can taste the difference in the meat.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like, I don't think.

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<v Speaker 2>The cows live by a river or happier cows.

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<v Speaker 6>Those are deaf cows.

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<v Speaker 1>There is no science.

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<v Speaker 3>To back up.

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<v Speaker 6>I can't tell you about the science. I can just

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<v Speaker 6>tell you what I taste, and it's completely different taste.

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<v Speaker 1>This is a fishy steak.

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<v Speaker 2>Franklin.

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<v Speaker 6>You calling me high maintenance just because of that? Is

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<v Speaker 6>this so ridiculous?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, Franklin, I mean quirky Franklin. You may have crossed

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<v Speaker 5>the line there, So I.

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<v Speaker 7>Really don't see the point of apologizing for not understanding.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, okay, do you still feel that way? After hearing

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<v Speaker 1>her explanation of like me to.

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<v Speaker 3>Be honest with you, I'm more confused than ever before,

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<v Speaker 3>and so many questions. I mean, if a lamb can't

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<v Speaker 3>take a bath, what does that even mean?

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<v Speaker 6>What it means that it's sea meat?

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<v Speaker 5>If it's coming to contact with water. It is officially

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<v Speaker 5>a sea animal.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm going to order the sea lamb next time I

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<v Speaker 4>go to a steakhouse.

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<v Speaker 2>There is a real way for you to know this

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<v Speaker 2>information about the meat exactly.

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<v Speaker 6>I shouldn't know because it's a restaurant's responsibility.

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<v Speaker 4>That is. That's a good point.

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<v Speaker 6>Actually, they prepare the food, they must know if it's

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<v Speaker 6>sea meat or land meat.

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<v Speaker 7>They do.

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<v Speaker 5>They should have bios next to every piece of meat

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<v Speaker 5>that you order, so that you can understand what you're

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<v Speaker 5>putting into your body.

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<v Speaker 8>Yeah, I think now you guys can see why I

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<v Speaker 8>think Denise is high maintenance.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, it is.

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<v Speaker 6>Not high maintenance. It's high knowledge, okay, of knowing what

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<v Speaker 6>I'm putting in my body. And quite frankly, Franklin, you

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<v Speaker 6>should do the.

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<v Speaker 5>Same, yes, especially with how much time he spends around

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<v Speaker 5>water with all those car washes.

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<v Speaker 4>You need to be careful. You're basically sea meat at

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<v Speaker 4>this point, Franklin.

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<v Speaker 5>So, actually, I don't even know if Denise would want

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<v Speaker 5>to hang out with you a second time.

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<v Speaker 6>It sounds like he's not that interested in me, So

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<v Speaker 6>I'll just exit first.

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<v Speaker 5>Miss your chance, Franklin. I'm sorry, not even going to

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<v Speaker 5>offer you a secondary.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm going to try to find a meat eating cow

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<v Speaker 3>for lunch.

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<v Speaker 4>That's just cannibal is that's weird? What are you doing?

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<v Speaker 1>Chickens are kind of into it.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh yeah, at least.

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<v Speaker 7>I got to chuckle out of this, I guess, and

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<v Speaker 7>I dodged a bullet because you're probably going to.

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<v Speaker 3>Be bullet talking.

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<v Speaker 6>Why are you still talking?

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<v Speaker 4>Let's just hang up on.

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<v Speaker 3>This guy, to be honest, I'm a little dehydrated.

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<v Speaker 4>Sea boyokie Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 5>And do you ever feel like maybe we're going to

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<v Speaker 5>be on the wrong side of history for this one meat?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>For a long time people laughed and scoffed at the

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<v Speaker 5>idea of gluten free bread or vegan bone broth or

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<v Speaker 5>mushroom laced coffee.

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<v Speaker 4>Now look at it.

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<v Speaker 1>Vegan bone broth.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, that's a thing I've been in a few years.

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<v Speaker 5>Land meat and sea meat are gonna be common terms

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<v Speaker 5>popping up on restaurant menus all over the country.

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<v Speaker 4>We're gonna be so confused, like kind of get of

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<v Speaker 4>ice water?

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<v Speaker 2>No ice?

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<v Speaker 4>No water?

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I'm just calling it now.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm gonna say we were wrong, just to protect us

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<v Speaker 5>in the future.

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<v Speaker 4>When we come back.

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<v Speaker 5>We can't get canceled. Land meat is cool, So there

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<v Speaker 5>you go.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna risk it, jeff.

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