Speaker 1: All right, secrets revealed today. That's what we're doing.
Speaker 2: Hey, it's brooking Jeffrey in the morning and this is
Speaker 2: the Second Date podcast. And one of our listeners says
Speaker 2: she found the sweet spot that.
Speaker 1: Is crawling with high quality men. Yep, I gotta wait
Speaker 1: test it out after this. I mean, honestly, you were interested.
Speaker 1: I am to I still am.
Speaker 2: Okay, she's willing to reveal it in exchange for our help,
Speaker 2: and we'd love to know you know where you're meeting people.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, give us the secret places.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's not fun in the comments. Yeah, and we
Speaker 2: love the comments. Alexis, what do you see today that
Speaker 2: you like?
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 2: Cassidy Stewart said, you guys need to add a segment
Speaker 2: where y'all talk and give advice to teens.
Speaker 1: Talk about messy drama. I need my drama fixed. During summer,
Speaker 1: teens don't listen very well, they don't listen.
Speaker 2: But I have to say, coaching the high schoolers, I
Speaker 2: do hear some good drama.
Speaker 1: Oh you know, maybe Alexis is intering some of.
Speaker 3: Them on here.
Speaker 1: Yeah. All right, listen, let's start your brand new Second
Speaker 1: Date right now.
Speaker 4: Second Date Update.
Speaker 5: We've been talking about it a lot this summers Broken
Speaker 5: Jeffrey in the morning, how people are moving away from
Speaker 5: the dating apps and trying to meet more in person
Speaker 5: now well.
Speaker 2: And sometimes such a time for it. You know you're
Speaker 2: feeling good.
Speaker 5: Yeah, but if you're a female, where do you go?
Speaker 5: Basically anywhere outside of your own houses?
Speaker 4: And even that's probably a reach.
Speaker 5: There's a few guys who are probably living in your
Speaker 5: walls waiting for you to say no.
Speaker 4: It's okay, you can come out now. I'm ready to
Speaker 4: be seduced.
Speaker 1: Hey man, I've been wanting to date.
Speaker 4: Oh, finally got here for five months.
Speaker 5: But one of our listeners, Denise, says she decided a
Speaker 5: few months ago to switch up her strategy to get
Speaker 5: offline and hoping to meet a high profile man. So
Speaker 5: I'm very curious to hear where she ended up going
Speaker 5: to do that, and I think a lot of our
Speaker 5: female listeners are going to want to know too. So Denise,
Speaker 5: welcome to the show and tell us where'd you go
Speaker 5: to meet this guy?
Speaker 6: Hey? So I met this guy at the golf course.
Speaker 1: Okay, do you do you like golf? Or is this
Speaker 1: like you are learning just.
Speaker 4: For the dudes?
Speaker 6: You know, I'm just doing it just to meet the guys.
Speaker 4: Okay, and the.
Speaker 1: Worst thing that happens is you pick up a new hobby.
Speaker 6: Yeah, you know exactly, all.
Speaker 4: Right, Okay, how did this even happen?
Speaker 5: How did you come with the idea to start going
Speaker 5: to the golf courses?
Speaker 6: I was watching a video on Instagram, I believe, and
Speaker 6: one of the influencers said that businessmen and executives like
Speaker 6: to golf.
Speaker 2: I've been told as a woman, if you want to
Speaker 2: succeed in business, you need to learn how to play
Speaker 2: golf so that you don't miss out on those meetings
Speaker 2: golf course?
Speaker 5: And did you tell whoever told you that I don't
Speaker 5: need to be told how to live my life as
Speaker 5: a woman. I'm an independent person and I can do
Speaker 5: what I want and hang out with who I want.
Speaker 1: No. I thought it was a good piece of advice.
Speaker 4: I'll I want all right.
Speaker 5: So you saw the video and you decided I want that.
Speaker 6: Yep. I need a man who is very well paid,
Speaker 6: high class, he takes his career seriously.
Speaker 1: Okay, So who did you find on the golf course?
Speaker 6: Well, I actually met a guy named Franklin.
Speaker 1: Okay, okay, sounds like a rich name.
Speaker 4: How did you meet him, did he come up and
Speaker 4: help you with your swing?
Speaker 1: Or I mean it is a good easy thing to do.
Speaker 1: I don't know how to or hit him with a
Speaker 1: golf ball in accident, light hit?
Speaker 4: How did it happen?
Speaker 6: Funny enough, golf courses you don't just have to play golf.
Speaker 6: They have awesome clubhouses and bars. And that's where I
Speaker 6: met him.
Speaker 2: Okay, were you ever actually playing the game or were
Speaker 2: you just hanging out.
Speaker 6: In the bar? I was on the putting green for
Speaker 6: at least an hour.
Speaker 2: Okay, that's every part I think that you don't have
Speaker 2: to pay for.
Speaker 1: I like it.
Speaker 2: That's sort and if you bring your own cans on
Speaker 2: that okay.
Speaker 5: Tell us about how the interaction between you and Franklin
Speaker 5: went well.
Speaker 6: Over a couple of drinks, he told me that he
Speaker 6: owns a string of car washes, and I think that's
Speaker 6: pretty cool. Yeah it is, and he pretty much asked
Speaker 6: me out. So I must say. The golf course strategy
Speaker 6: works nice.
Speaker 1: In one.
Speaker 5: Eagle, we got, we got, We can do five minutes
Speaker 5: of golf puns, or we can learn more about what actually,
Speaker 5: let's learn more about what happened. So after this, Denise,
Speaker 5: did you and Franklin go out.
Speaker 4: On a date.
Speaker 6: Yeah. Well, he took me to a really nice restaurant.
Speaker 6: The date was great, the vibes were super awesome. And
Speaker 6: I've been thinking why I haven't heard from him since,
Speaker 6: and I think the ones thing that may have turned
Speaker 6: him off because you know, I'm sort of specific on
Speaker 6: how I eat. I like to bring my own.
Speaker 1: Silverware interesting to the restaurant.
Speaker 4: Yes, why like chopsticks? Because I can see that. I
Speaker 4: know people that bring chopsticks with them, like if they want.
Speaker 6: Know like my fourth you know, my knife?
Speaker 1: Why do you do that?
Speaker 6: Sometimes you can see that it's not washed properly, and
Speaker 6: people are putting the silverware in their mouth.
Speaker 1: Okay, it's a sanitary thing for you.
Speaker 4: I could see that.
Speaker 6: For me, I'd rather be safe than sorry.
Speaker 7: So I just bring my own silverware.
Speaker 1: Okay.
Speaker 2: So in a nice restaurant, you pull out silverware from your.
Speaker 4: Purse, which is obviously a clean place to keep it.
Speaker 4: So that's good.
Speaker 6: Well, I protect my silverware. I wrap it up really nice.
Speaker 4: Okay.
Speaker 1: Wait, so what was his reaction when you did this?
Speaker 3: Uh?
Speaker 6: It wasn't all that great, But after I explained myself,
Speaker 6: it seemed like he was okay with it.
Speaker 4: Yeah, kind of like like we were like weird, and.
Speaker 1: Then I was like, okay, I guess you got a thing.
Speaker 4: Did you bring a fork in a knife for Franklin to.
Speaker 5: Use or was it just for a kind of selfish It.
Speaker 6: Was just myself. I didn't want to see them out
Speaker 6: too much.
Speaker 5: Yeah, so it sounds like Franklin was able to understand
Speaker 5: why you do it and you were able to move
Speaker 5: past it.
Speaker 4: How did the rest of the date go?
Speaker 6: It went pretty well. I mean, at the end, I
Speaker 6: thank them for the date. We hugged, and we said
Speaker 6: we'll talk to each other soon.
Speaker 1: It's so funny.
Speaker 2: I imagine you're wrapping up your utensils as you're doing
Speaker 2: your pleasure.
Speaker 1: I mean, honestly, do the wait staff. It probably looks
Speaker 1: like you're stealing, you know.
Speaker 6: I didn't even think of that.
Speaker 4: Okay, well, that could be something that's happening.
Speaker 5: But clearly he's not calling you back, and I'm sure
Speaker 5: he's going to be thrilled when he learns that a
Speaker 5: radio station is reaching out to him trying to get
Speaker 5: in contact.
Speaker 1: People love that, especially high class people.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 6: Yeah, I'm not ready to let him go yet.
Speaker 1: Okay, I don't do whatever it takes.
Speaker 6: Or if it doesn't work with you guys, I'm just
Speaker 6: gonna have to go back to the golf course.
Speaker 4: Okay, and Alexus might want to go with you.
Speaker 2: So I want to hit every one of his car
Speaker 2: washes till we.
Speaker 1: Find him a right in the middle one.
Speaker 6: Yeah, I like you.
Speaker 5: We'll get some stuff done when we call him and
Speaker 5: get your second date update.
Speaker 4: Right after this second date update, it's Brooke and.
Speaker 5: Jeffrey in the morning, and right after part one ended,
Speaker 5: we got reports that thousands of single women have been
Speaker 5: flocking to the local golf courses attempting to meet high
Speaker 5: profile men. Right, that was the strategy our listener, Denise used.
Speaker 5: She heard a lot of businessmen and executives go there
Speaker 5: to hang out.
Speaker 4: It's a good place to meet guys.
Speaker 5: And that's where she met the car wash king, a
Speaker 5: guy named Franklin, and they hit it off, went out
Speaker 5: to dinner.
Speaker 4: The weird part of dinner was she brought her own
Speaker 4: silverware to the restaurant.
Speaker 2: Yeah, but she knows it's weird and it's still high
Speaker 2: class because it's not a plastic fork and night like
Speaker 2: I would have pulled for my.
Speaker 4: Person and she has a decent excuse. Yes, it's a
Speaker 4: cleanliness thing for her.
Speaker 5: She explained it to Franklin, and even though he seems
Speaker 5: cool about it, he still may have thought this is
Speaker 5: a little bit too much of a high maintenance situation,
Speaker 5: and that could be the reason he's not calling her back, which.
Speaker 2: Is silly because it's not like you asked him to
Speaker 2: bring the silverware for you.
Speaker 6: That would be the part, right exactly.
Speaker 5: Okay, any last thoughts before we give Franklin a call here, Denise, No.
Speaker 6: I'm ready when you're ready.
Speaker 4: Okay, all right, lets the room ready, I'm ready, We're
Speaker 4: all ready.
Speaker 6: Okay.
Speaker 1: She's confident because she knows she can just go back
Speaker 1: to the golf course. Yeah, likes this guy. Yeah, that's true.
Speaker 4: So let's just dial Franklin. Here we go. I'm calling
Speaker 4: him right now. Hello, Hey, is this Franklin?
Speaker 7: Yes it is.
Speaker 8: How can I help you?
Speaker 4: Hey?
Speaker 5: Thanks for answering. We're a radio show. We're called Brook
Speaker 5: and Jeffrey in the Morning.
Speaker 1: Franklin, Good morning, Franklin.
Speaker 4: Are you busy right now?
Speaker 7: A little bit? How'd you get my number?
Speaker 5: We actually got it from one of our listeners who
Speaker 5: asked us to reach out to you. It's kind of
Speaker 5: the point of this segment. We're trying to see if
Speaker 5: you can get the two of you back together. A
Speaker 5: girl named Denise.
Speaker 7: What is this all about.
Speaker 5: This is a segment that we do. It's called a
Speaker 5: second date update. And Denise reached out to us. She
Speaker 5: told us to get a hold of you because she
Speaker 5: isn't sure why the two of you aren't hanging out
Speaker 5: again a second time.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it sounds like you had a great date.
Speaker 3: Yeah, what does she tell you?
Speaker 5: I just want to get right down to business. But
Speaker 5: that makes sense about you. We heard your business guy, true.
Speaker 7: I am time is money.
Speaker 4: Oh okay, well.
Speaker 1: Cliches hard times.
Speaker 4: We won't keep you too long then.
Speaker 5: But the gist of what we heard is that you
Speaker 5: two met at a golf course. You ended up going
Speaker 5: out to dinner a few days later.
Speaker 1: It sounds like you took me to a really nice spot,
Speaker 1: which she loved.
Speaker 3: It's funny she told you all this.
Speaker 5: Yeah, well, we're just trying to figure out, like the idea,
Speaker 5: the general vibe of the date. And she did mention
Speaker 5: a weird thing that happened that maybe could have freaked
Speaker 5: you out a little bit, where she brought her own
Speaker 5: silverware to the restaurant.
Speaker 7: Yes, that wasn't usual.
Speaker 1: What did you think when she pulled it out of
Speaker 1: her purse?
Speaker 7: I didn't really know what to say when that happened.
Speaker 5: Hold us, she didn't pull the knife out first, because
Speaker 5: that'd be weird, I do.
Speaker 1: We're a steakhouse, right.
Speaker 3: She did take out a fourth first, and I said
Speaker 3: something along them. I don't remember exactly what I said
Speaker 3: because I was so surprised.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean if I was in your same situation,
Speaker 5: I wouldn't know what to say either.
Speaker 3: Honestly, he explained it, and it did make a certain
Speaker 3: kind of sense.
Speaker 7: I mean on a certain level.
Speaker 3: I'm a neat freak as well, so I kind of
Speaker 3: get it.
Speaker 2: I mean, it is funny that she doesn't care about
Speaker 2: the plate or the glass or anything, but.
Speaker 1: But I get it.
Speaker 5: But she was worried that maybe that was the reason
Speaker 5: that you're not calling her for a second hangout?
Speaker 4: Is that true?
Speaker 7: His thing? I just don't know if it's a good match.
Speaker 1: Because of the silver She.
Speaker 3: Came across as the silver war is one thing, but
Speaker 3: she did come across as like, I guess the term.
Speaker 7: I'm looking for is a little high maintenance. I guess
Speaker 7: that's different.
Speaker 5: What made you say like she's high maintenance? What's specifically
Speaker 5: stuck out to you?
Speaker 8: The thing that really stuck out was sh ordered potstickers,
Speaker 8: I guess for the appetizer. When they arrived to the table,
Speaker 8: she asked the waiter if if the potstickers were made
Speaker 8: from land meat land meat?
Speaker 1: What does that mean?
Speaker 3: Land meat like seafood land food?
Speaker 1: That doesn't sound high maintenance. That's just is a weird question.
Speaker 3: Explain to me that a land meat is meat from
Speaker 3: an animal that has never touched water, which was confusing
Speaker 3: to me because she didn't elaborate. So I'm thinking, like,
Speaker 3: does that mean it's not fish or is this specifically
Speaker 3: something where the animal has never like it's a pig
Speaker 3: that's only been in the slop. Is it a chicken
Speaker 3: that's never been bathed? You know, like I did.
Speaker 8: A duck.
Speaker 7: And then she seemed a.
Speaker 3: Little frustrated with the waiter because he didn't know. I
Speaker 3: guess he didn't know the answer to her question. I
Speaker 3: don't think fair.
Speaker 7: I don't think he understood the question.
Speaker 4: Truthfully.
Speaker 5: The guy understands still, So the only way to clear
Speaker 5: this up is by actually talking to Denise about it,
Speaker 5: and that's going to be really easy because she's on
Speaker 5: the other line already.
Speaker 7: What do you mean she's here.
Speaker 5: Yeah, that's how the segment works, is we have the
Speaker 5: other person waiting to jump in and talk to you.
Speaker 7: Yeah. Okay, that's a little surprising, but I'm sorry.
Speaker 4: So Denise, are you there?
Speaker 6: Yes, I'm here. Okay, Hi, Franklin. I so we had something.
Speaker 6: I thought we could have something together the date, so.
Speaker 7: Well, yeah, no, I liked it.
Speaker 3: It was great chemistry. But it's eight days and I'm
Speaker 3: still I still really.
Speaker 7: I'm not sure what land meat is.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I think we all want to know. Could you
Speaker 4: clear it up?
Speaker 6: Okay? So I know it doesn't make any sense to
Speaker 6: you guys, but it makes sense to me. And that's
Speaker 6: okay because listen, the second you bite into sea meat.
Speaker 2: I mean, that's the same as seafood, right, that's fine.
Speaker 1: You call seafood seed meat.
Speaker 6: No no, no, no, no, no, no, no, you're not getting.
Speaker 5: It, Okay, seafood and sea meat are different, broke, Yeah, explain.
Speaker 6: So for land meat, that is any animal that's not
Speaker 6: touching water. So like any cow that's near a lake,
Speaker 6: that's a definite, No, ANKI narrow river.
Speaker 5: She needs a Middle American cow like a piece of
Speaker 5: beef jerky.
Speaker 4: Totally dry would be her absolute ideal.
Speaker 1: Means, why does that matter to you?
Speaker 2: Why does it matter if the cow lives by a
Speaker 2: body of water or not?
Speaker 6: Because you can taste the difference in the meat.
Speaker 1: It's like, I don't think.
Speaker 2: The cows live by a river or happier cows.
Speaker 6: Those are deaf cows.
Speaker 1: There is no science.
Speaker 3: To back up.
Speaker 6: I can't tell you about the science. I can just
Speaker 6: tell you what I taste, and it's completely different taste.
Speaker 1: This is a fishy steak.
Speaker 2: Franklin.
Speaker 6: You calling me high maintenance just because of that? Is
Speaker 6: this so ridiculous?
Speaker 5: Yeah, Franklin, I mean quirky Franklin. You may have crossed
Speaker 5: the line there, So I.
Speaker 7: Really don't see the point of apologizing for not understanding.
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, do you still feel that way? After hearing
Speaker 1: her explanation of like me to.
Speaker 3: Be honest with you, I'm more confused than ever before,
Speaker 3: and so many questions. I mean, if a lamb can't
Speaker 3: take a bath, what does that even mean?
Speaker 6: What it means that it's sea meat?
Speaker 5: If it's coming to contact with water. It is officially
Speaker 5: a sea animal.
Speaker 4: I'm going to order the sea lamb next time I
Speaker 4: go to a steakhouse.
Speaker 2: There is a real way for you to know this
Speaker 2: information about the meat exactly.
Speaker 6: I shouldn't know because it's a restaurant's responsibility.
Speaker 4: That is. That's a good point.
Speaker 6: Actually, they prepare the food, they must know if it's
Speaker 6: sea meat or land meat.
Speaker 7: They do.
Speaker 5: They should have bios next to every piece of meat
Speaker 5: that you order, so that you can understand what you're
Speaker 5: putting into your body.
Speaker 8: Yeah, I think now you guys can see why I
Speaker 8: think Denise is high maintenance.
Speaker 1: Okay, it is.
Speaker 6: Not high maintenance. It's high knowledge, okay, of knowing what
Speaker 6: I'm putting in my body. And quite frankly, Franklin, you
Speaker 6: should do the.
Speaker 5: Same, yes, especially with how much time he spends around
Speaker 5: water with all those car washes.
Speaker 4: You need to be careful. You're basically sea meat at
Speaker 4: this point, Franklin.
Speaker 5: So, actually, I don't even know if Denise would want
Speaker 5: to hang out with you a second time.
Speaker 6: It sounds like he's not that interested in me, So
Speaker 6: I'll just exit first.
Speaker 5: Miss your chance, Franklin. I'm sorry, not even going to
Speaker 5: offer you a secondary.
Speaker 3: I'm going to try to find a meat eating cow
Speaker 3: for lunch.
Speaker 4: That's just cannibal is that's weird? What are you doing?
Speaker 1: Chickens are kind of into it.
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, at least.
Speaker 7: I got to chuckle out of this, I guess, and
Speaker 7: I dodged a bullet because you're probably going to.
Speaker 3: Be bullet talking.
Speaker 6: Why are you still talking?
Speaker 4: Let's just hang up on.
Speaker 3: This guy, to be honest, I'm a little dehydrated.
Speaker 4: Sea boyokie Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 5: And do you ever feel like maybe we're going to
Speaker 5: be on the wrong side of history for this one meat?
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 5: For a long time people laughed and scoffed at the
Speaker 5: idea of gluten free bread or vegan bone broth or
Speaker 5: mushroom laced coffee.
Speaker 4: Now look at it.
Speaker 1: Vegan bone broth.
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's a thing I've been in a few years.
Speaker 5: Land meat and sea meat are gonna be common terms
Speaker 5: popping up on restaurant menus all over the country.
Speaker 4: We're gonna be so confused, like kind of get of
Speaker 4: ice water?
Speaker 2: No ice?
Speaker 4: No water?
Speaker 1: Thank you.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm just calling it now.
Speaker 5: I'm gonna say we were wrong, just to protect us
Speaker 5: in the future.
Speaker 4: When we come back.
Speaker 5: We can't get canceled. Land meat is cool, So there
Speaker 5: you go.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna risk it, jeff.
Speaker 5: Dark Side, But if you ever want help with your
Speaker 5: dating life, we'll do our best not to judge you
Speaker 5: and all your quirks.
Speaker 4: Just email us.
Speaker 5: We'll call that person who's not calling you back, and
Speaker 5: go check out all of our Second Date podcasts.
Speaker 4: They're up online wherever you get yours. That Brooke and
Speaker 4: Jeffrey