WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Unattractive Trey Is Back 0:00:00.080 --> 0:00:02.840 Oh, here we go, brand new episode on a Friday, 0:00:02.880 --> 0:00:04.480 Welcome to your Second Day podcast. 0:00:05.240 --> 0:00:06.080 And I've been. 0:00:05.960 --> 0:00:08.640 Warned by Alexis that she has a long comment that 0:00:08.680 --> 0:00:09.639 she really wants to read. 0:00:09.720 --> 0:00:11.560 It is a long comment, but it's a nice one. 0:00:11.800 --> 0:00:14.040 So it was on an episode in December. Okay, okay, 0:00:14.520 --> 0:00:17.159 So they said, oh my gosh, Alexis, I didn't know 0:00:17.200 --> 0:00:19.959 you listened to comments past. Yes, I thought I was 0:00:20.000 --> 0:00:22.960 a lone traveler in the abyss of comments long gone. 0:00:23.160 --> 0:00:26.360 We're only travelers like myself would see comments and gain 0:00:26.480 --> 0:00:28.920 encouragement from the fact that we're not behind on the 0:00:28.920 --> 0:00:29.800 show alone. 0:00:30.000 --> 0:00:34.000 I'm catching up into those behind. Onward to those ahead. 0:00:34.440 --> 0:00:36.680 I'm on your six and the time is coming where 0:00:36.680 --> 0:00:39.960 I'm beside you as we anxiously await the next episode. 0:00:40.080 --> 0:00:41.000 Keep it gangsta. 0:00:41.479 --> 0:00:45.760 Oh and you know what, in a month, she'll hear, Yeah, 0:00:46.200 --> 0:00:46.960 get closer. 0:00:47.080 --> 0:00:47.880 You're getting here. 0:00:48.800 --> 0:00:51.559 Here. When you hear this, let us know when you're 0:00:51.560 --> 0:00:54.520 on your next novel. As jokes, I'll buy it. Yes, 0:00:54.680 --> 0:00:57.880 Onward on word. Brand new episode starts right now. 0:00:58.480 --> 0:01:01.320 Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning Second Date update. 0:01:02.440 --> 0:01:05.280 You may remember a few months back a listener we 0:01:05.319 --> 0:01:08.120 had on the show named Trey and met his date 0:01:08.200 --> 0:01:12.880 at a singles mixer where the host was accidentally rude, 0:01:13.160 --> 0:01:16.360 telling him, Oh, you're lucky that you're here tonight because 0:01:16.360 --> 0:01:17.600 you're not that attractive. 0:01:17.760 --> 0:01:19.800 Oh I do remember that. 0:01:19.880 --> 0:01:22.080 I felt so bad for him, right, and he was 0:01:22.120 --> 0:01:25.479 able to shake that off. It was incredible himself a date, 0:01:25.840 --> 0:01:28.200 took her out to a wine bar and then come 0:01:28.240 --> 0:01:32.160 to find out that woman was actually paid to be. 0:01:32.240 --> 0:01:32.960 There that night. 0:01:33.120 --> 0:01:34.440 It wasn't cute the whole thing. 0:01:35.000 --> 0:01:39.080 So again Trey is getting roasted, being called ugly, then 0:01:39.160 --> 0:01:41.560 learning that the women at the event didn't even really 0:01:41.640 --> 0:01:43.320 want to be there in the first place. 0:01:43.920 --> 0:01:47.080 That he needs recap Jeff, Well, this is where our listeners, 0:01:47.120 --> 0:01:49.000 it's not Trey remembers he lived it. 0:01:49.160 --> 0:01:51.840 Our listeners may not remember but feel for him. 0:01:52.240 --> 0:01:54.680 Trey came on her show, he made his case to 0:01:54.720 --> 0:01:59.800 that woman, and it came down to this moment, So will. 0:01:59.640 --> 0:02:00.760 You alout with me again? 0:02:00.800 --> 0:02:02.800 Can we try running it back and doing it again? 0:02:06.800 --> 0:02:07.040 Yeah? 0:02:07.080 --> 0:02:08.640 I mean I think I'm gonna say yes. 0:02:08.800 --> 0:02:11.120 It's not like a pity yes or anything like I 0:02:11.160 --> 0:02:11.960 really would like to. 0:02:11.880 --> 0:02:12.160 See you. 0:02:14.120 --> 0:02:15.320 Remember, ended really well? 0:02:15.440 --> 0:02:19.000 Yeah, and then she ghosted him. What really. 0:02:19.880 --> 0:02:22.840 When she said yeah, I really mean it, that means. 0:02:22.639 --> 0:02:24.880 She doesn't mean absolutely. We do not want to say 0:02:24.919 --> 0:02:27.040 yes to this, but I will to save my image. 0:02:27.639 --> 0:02:29.079 Trey, you are better than that. 0:02:30.000 --> 0:02:32.680 Thanks, guys, I really appreciate that and. 0:02:32.919 --> 0:02:36.000 Totally meant it when she said it, Yeah, I really do. 0:02:36.280 --> 0:02:40.000 He's a good guy, has already suffered through the trifecta 0:02:40.080 --> 0:02:40.880 of humiliation. 0:02:41.040 --> 0:02:44.800 He's been through it all. But he's back. That's what's important. 0:02:44.840 --> 0:02:45.560 He's back again. 0:02:45.639 --> 0:02:49.400 So Trey, thank you for trusting in the only people 0:02:49.400 --> 0:02:52.280 in this world who don't care how unattractive you are. 0:02:52.400 --> 0:02:54.240 Oh my god, you don't care. 0:02:54.840 --> 0:02:58.320 He is attractive, but we don't care. 0:02:58.160 --> 0:03:00.560 About your physical looks. And also or Tray, we are 0:03:00.639 --> 0:03:03.640 getting paid to be here with you. Yeah, but we 0:03:03.680 --> 0:03:04.120 want to. 0:03:04.320 --> 0:03:05.840 Yeah, Trey, I'm not going to let you talk to 0:03:05.919 --> 0:03:07.200 them anymore. How are you doing. 0:03:08.280 --> 0:03:10.919 I've been pretty good, y'all. I really appreciate it. Again, 0:03:12.040 --> 0:03:17.639 I'm giving love a chance. I'm hopeful. Weird, weird situation. 0:03:17.720 --> 0:03:20.000 But I was driving home from work one day and 0:03:20.440 --> 0:03:22.840 there was this bus that was like broken down. It 0:03:22.880 --> 0:03:26.120 was kind of like blocking part of the road. So 0:03:26.480 --> 0:03:27.960 I go over because I want to check to make 0:03:27.960 --> 0:03:29.560 sure everybody you know is everybody? 0:03:29.560 --> 0:03:33.680 Okay, how potentially nobody stops anymore. 0:03:33.919 --> 0:03:35.640 If I see a car on the side of the road, 0:03:35.680 --> 0:03:37.240 you do not stop for it. I'm not for sure. 0:03:37.280 --> 0:03:38.880 You say you re ended the bus on accident. 0:03:44.680 --> 0:03:46.200 Wow, okay, yeah, that is true. 0:03:46.240 --> 0:03:48.400 Not a lot of people would slow down at all, 0:03:48.480 --> 0:03:50.240 let alone stop to try and like assist. 0:03:50.360 --> 0:03:51.080 That's amazing. 0:03:52.000 --> 0:03:52.320 Yeah. 0:03:52.480 --> 0:03:54.840 So I go chat with them and they're waiting for 0:03:54.880 --> 0:03:58.360 like another bus come there, Like it was kind of 0:03:58.360 --> 0:04:00.200 they were really sure what was going to happen, next 0:04:00.240 --> 0:04:02.440 to the drivers having some issues getting a hold of anyone. 0:04:02.840 --> 0:04:04.160 So he's like, I think I'm gonna run to this 0:04:04.240 --> 0:04:06.360 gas stahoe to see if they have like a tow truck. 0:04:06.680 --> 0:04:07.600 And I suggested. 0:04:07.600 --> 0:04:09.400 I was like, wow, I just go run to the 0:04:09.440 --> 0:04:12.040 gas station. Like you stay with your bus. You're responsible 0:04:12.080 --> 0:04:12.680 for everybody. 0:04:12.800 --> 0:04:17.760 So okay, you've really volunteered to like be the superhero 0:04:17.839 --> 0:04:19.719 and swoop in to save the day for these people. 0:04:19.800 --> 0:04:20.640 I don't even know them. 0:04:20.800 --> 0:04:22.279 It wasn't that big of a deal. I mean, the 0:04:22.279 --> 0:04:24.400 gast shoe was down the block. I could see it 0:04:24.440 --> 0:04:26.040 from where the bus was, and. 0:04:26.000 --> 0:04:28.120 I guess the bus is blocking the road, so you 0:04:28.120 --> 0:04:29.400 needed to move so you could drive home. 0:04:29.520 --> 0:04:32.039 So it's kind of selfish. 0:04:32.200 --> 0:04:34.200 Yeah, And like, as I was walking, some of the 0:04:34.240 --> 0:04:36.480 other folks from the bus were like, listen, we're just 0:04:36.520 --> 0:04:38.279 going to bail on the bus. We're just gonna find 0:04:38.279 --> 0:04:39.720 someone to come pick us up. We don't know how 0:04:39.720 --> 0:04:40.600 long this is going to take. 0:04:40.720 --> 0:04:42.600 Totally I'd go and call it uber as well. 0:04:43.200 --> 0:04:46.400 But while we're walking in this group, I started chatting 0:04:46.440 --> 0:04:50.520 with one of the riders, this girl named Julie. Okay, 0:04:50.560 --> 0:04:53.080 and she's telling me like she was really bummed this. 0:04:53.200 --> 0:04:54.200 You had a long day at work. 0:04:54.320 --> 0:04:56.200 She just wanted to get home to her dog. Which 0:04:56.240 --> 0:04:58.440 was crazy because we're like, I have a dog, you 0:04:58.480 --> 0:04:58.960 have a dog. 0:04:59.040 --> 0:05:03.680 That's how cool we talked to about her dogs. 0:05:03.680 --> 0:05:06.560 That's cute, though meant to be it sounds I mean, 0:05:06.600 --> 0:05:08.000 that's your opening to offer a. 0:05:08.040 --> 0:05:10.680 Ride, right exactly exactly? 0:05:10.920 --> 0:05:13.560 Okay. I saw the. 0:05:13.520 --> 0:05:17.640 Moment you suddenly care less about the rest of the busy. 0:05:17.600 --> 0:05:19.479 Yeah, I know we met five minutes ago, but tell 0:05:19.480 --> 0:05:20.159 me where you live. 0:05:23.200 --> 0:05:25.359 Well I didn't say like that, but I did offer. 0:05:25.760 --> 0:05:27.640 She said he I had someone coming to pick her up, 0:05:28.080 --> 0:05:30.799 a big deal. But I asked her for her number. 0:05:30.839 --> 0:05:32.799 I was like, wow, drink. 0:05:32.640 --> 0:05:35.680 Sometime, okay, and did that happen? 0:05:36.440 --> 0:05:38.479 We did go on a date a few days later? Yeah? 0:05:38.600 --> 0:05:38.920 We did? 0:05:39.080 --> 0:05:42.160 You did? Okay? 0:05:42.320 --> 0:05:44.680 Yeah, we have any time to talk about it at 0:05:44.720 --> 0:05:45.960 this point, I know it was. 0:05:45.960 --> 0:05:49.320 A long walk together here like literally infiguratively, so quickly 0:05:49.360 --> 0:05:50.240 tell us about your date. 0:05:50.640 --> 0:05:52.560 The date was great, Like what was nice was we 0:05:52.560 --> 0:05:54.520 were texting a bunch leading up to it, like we 0:05:54.560 --> 0:05:57.240 had tons of bust jokes and all that, you know, haha, 0:05:57.440 --> 0:05:59.320 don't don't take the bus to our day. 0:05:59.640 --> 0:06:01.880 You know, Okay, it's funny. 0:06:02.040 --> 0:06:04.960 But when we got there, it really was just a drink, 0:06:05.120 --> 0:06:07.480 like really hung out for like less than an hour. 0:06:07.600 --> 0:06:08.520 We were just it was. 0:06:08.520 --> 0:06:10.559 Great to get to know her. She was really shy, 0:06:10.640 --> 0:06:13.720 and honestly I understand. You know, how often do you 0:06:13.760 --> 0:06:16.680 just meet random people that came to your bus that 0:06:16.720 --> 0:06:17.160 broke down? 0:06:17.360 --> 0:06:18.960 And we should probably just get this question out of 0:06:18.960 --> 0:06:21.120 the way. Do you know if she found you attractive 0:06:21.440 --> 0:06:22.880 or if she was paid to ride the. 0:06:22.800 --> 0:06:26.680 Bus that day? The paid bus driver? Yeah, I don't know. 0:06:27.120 --> 0:06:30.000 I have yet to confirm or deny that information. Of all. 0:06:30.360 --> 0:06:31.719 Well, of course she found him attractive. 0:06:31.760 --> 0:06:33.760 You don't agree to a drink and give a guy 0:06:33.800 --> 0:06:35.520 your number that you don't find cute. 0:06:35.560 --> 0:06:37.719 But this is a little bit of a different scenario 0:06:37.920 --> 0:06:41.479 because it sounds like, Trey, you were the hero that moment. 0:06:41.520 --> 0:06:43.400 You stepped up and tried to save the day for her. 0:06:43.520 --> 0:06:46.080 So I don't know, maybe if she felt obligated to 0:06:46.200 --> 0:06:48.480 go on that date with you and kind of be like. 0:06:48.800 --> 0:06:50.760 Well, but you got her own ride, what did he 0:06:50.839 --> 0:06:52.920 do walk her to the gas station? You know, it's 0:06:52.960 --> 0:06:53.839 not like he wasn't. 0:06:54.080 --> 0:06:54.920 Okay, we don't know. 0:06:54.880 --> 0:06:58.520 What part of the neighborhood tangerous area of town. 0:06:59.240 --> 0:07:01.159 So we're about to call Julie here. 0:07:01.560 --> 0:07:04.520 The good news is you've already been humiliated on this 0:07:04.560 --> 0:07:07.279 show so many times. How could it possibly get any worse? Right, 0:07:10.560 --> 0:07:12.680 That's exactly what I said, just in a different way. 0:07:13.200 --> 0:07:14.160 The way matters. 0:07:14.480 --> 0:07:17.720 Okay, you feel good about this, right, Trey? 0:07:18.120 --> 0:07:18.720 I trust you. 0:07:18.720 --> 0:07:26.120 Guys famous before we make that tragic call for your 0:07:26.200 --> 0:07:29.080 second date update and hopefully gets you another meetup, we'll 0:07:29.120 --> 0:07:29.880 do it right after this. 0:07:29.960 --> 0:07:34.240 Hold on Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning. Second date updates. 0:07:34.800 --> 0:07:37.920 If you missed it earlier, it's the glorious return of 0:07:37.960 --> 0:07:42.680 our listener, Trey. I don't care what the rest of 0:07:42.720 --> 0:07:45.840 the room says. I am not afraid to call him the. 0:07:46.080 --> 0:07:53.040 H word right to his face. Hero true story because he. 0:07:52.800 --> 0:07:53.600 Is a good guy. 0:07:53.760 --> 0:07:55.720 For see Brooks hesitant to use it. 0:07:55.760 --> 0:07:59.560 I'm not afraid because he unselfishly pulled over while driving 0:07:59.560 --> 0:08:02.640 to help a broken down city bus full of random people, 0:08:03.160 --> 0:08:07.040 one of whom was Julie. Yeah, if you could believe 0:08:07.080 --> 0:08:11.560 it owns a dog, what are the odds? Ended up 0:08:11.600 --> 0:08:14.520 getting her number, taking her out to drinks, where, even 0:08:14.560 --> 0:08:16.840 though she was a little shy, he says, they did 0:08:16.880 --> 0:08:18.240 have a really nice time together. 0:08:18.520 --> 0:08:19.080 Yeah. 0:08:19.120 --> 0:08:21.200 I mean maybe that's just why she's not calling you 0:08:21.240 --> 0:08:21.960 back right now. 0:08:21.920 --> 0:08:22.920 Just being a shy girl. 0:08:23.080 --> 0:08:25.760 Yes, possible, some people have a hard time with that. 0:08:26.000 --> 0:08:26.440 It is true. 0:08:26.480 --> 0:08:29.360 No second date has material eyed, so that's why he's 0:08:29.400 --> 0:08:30.000 come to us. 0:08:30.240 --> 0:08:30.600 But try. 0:08:30.680 --> 0:08:32.720 I don't think we really got the full picture of 0:08:32.760 --> 0:08:34.320 what's going on with her right now. 0:08:34.400 --> 0:08:38.000 Is she texting you? Have you called her or snapped 0:08:38.000 --> 0:08:38.840 her or DM? 0:08:38.920 --> 0:08:39.000 Like? 0:08:39.040 --> 0:08:39.760 What are we working with? 0:08:40.720 --> 0:08:43.640 So I I same f you texts weren't responded. I 0:08:43.720 --> 0:08:45.920 you know, I'm smart enough to know not to completely 0:08:45.960 --> 0:08:49.040 double texture. And then I also I also called her 0:08:49.320 --> 0:08:53.520 like left the voicemail and I haven't hear back really backfire. 0:08:53.920 --> 0:08:55.679 It was a short voicemail. 0:08:55.240 --> 0:08:58.360 Right, Yeah, I was sweetened to the point. 0:08:58.520 --> 0:09:04.160 Okay, see I try. This guy's got emotional intelligence. He 0:09:04.240 --> 0:09:04.840 knows what's up. 0:09:04.920 --> 0:09:06.400 All Right, I'm gonna dial Julie here. 0:09:06.400 --> 0:09:08.280 We'll see if she picks up the phone, and hopefully 0:09:08.280 --> 0:09:10.400 we can hook you two up for we. 0:09:10.360 --> 0:09:12.920 Don't scare her. Is really what it is, she's a 0:09:12.960 --> 0:09:13.679 shy girl. 0:09:13.960 --> 0:09:15.480 Okay, we'll be very delicate with. 0:09:22.800 --> 0:09:23.040 Hello. 0:09:24.200 --> 0:09:24.280 Hi. 0:09:24.440 --> 0:09:25.680 Is this Julie. 0:09:27.559 --> 0:09:30.960 Hi, Julie Hi, Yeah, this is Julie. 0:09:31.000 --> 0:09:31.720 Sorry for yelling. 0:09:33.520 --> 0:09:35.839 Thank you for picking up on the radio right now 0:09:35.880 --> 0:09:37.520 with a show called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning. 0:09:40.080 --> 0:09:42.800 What we're doing is a dating segment that we have 0:09:42.880 --> 0:09:45.760 on our show. It's called the second Date Update. 0:09:47.040 --> 0:09:49.720 Okay, okay, it's a good thing. 0:09:50.320 --> 0:09:54.200 You means means you met somebody recently who had a 0:09:54.280 --> 0:09:56.920 really nice time with you, thought very highly of you, 0:09:57.040 --> 0:09:58.240 and wants to see you again. 0:10:01.320 --> 0:10:07.800 D God, just we joke a lot, Julie, just so 0:10:07.880 --> 0:10:08.160 you know. 0:10:08.520 --> 0:10:12.080 Okay, but this is a guy named Trey that you 0:10:12.160 --> 0:10:14.439 met right after your bus broke down on the side 0:10:14.480 --> 0:10:14.880 of the road. 0:10:16.559 --> 0:10:19.559 Yes, I know exactly what you're talking about. 0:10:19.800 --> 0:10:20.160 Okay. 0:10:20.559 --> 0:10:22.480 I mean he told us that he's been texting you 0:10:22.559 --> 0:10:25.719 and calling you and trying to meet up and for 0:10:25.760 --> 0:10:27.160 some reason that's not happening. 0:10:27.200 --> 0:10:28.439 He's a little bit confused. 0:10:28.679 --> 0:10:33.120 Why listen. 0:10:33.200 --> 0:10:36.080 As far as tred Go's, he's fantastic. 0:10:36.320 --> 0:10:40.319 And I would almost say. 0:10:39.320 --> 0:10:42.000 From what I could tell from the day we had, 0:10:42.160 --> 0:10:44.600 like he's consistent. He's a very what you see is 0:10:44.640 --> 0:10:46.320 what you gets. 0:10:47.880 --> 0:10:49.959 What a wonderful thing to find out. 0:10:50.080 --> 0:10:51.800 That feels like if that's a good thing, that you 0:10:51.800 --> 0:10:52.800 would want to see him again. 0:10:53.559 --> 0:10:59.240 Yes, But the thing is it's complicated, Like he's very uncomplicated. 0:10:59.320 --> 0:11:01.600 I'm in a little bit of a complicated situation. 0:11:02.840 --> 0:11:07.360 What you what situation complicated? It always means you're not single. 0:11:07.520 --> 0:11:12.600 Yeah, well I so I'm not in a relationship, but 0:11:12.720 --> 0:11:14.719 I am in a situationship. 0:11:15.160 --> 0:11:16.680 Okay, okay, okay. 0:11:16.720 --> 0:11:19.560 So I felt a little curious, like, oh, go on 0:11:19.559 --> 0:11:21.760 the date, you know, like, how's it going to be? 0:11:21.880 --> 0:11:22.959 And to be honest, I. 0:11:22.880 --> 0:11:24.520 Expected it not to go as well as it did, 0:11:24.840 --> 0:11:27.400 so when it did, I kind of, yeah, I cut 0:11:27.400 --> 0:11:28.160 it short a little bit. 0:11:28.160 --> 0:11:31.000 Because I was just starting to feel guilty because here's 0:11:31.000 --> 0:11:32.000 this person who's. 0:11:31.760 --> 0:11:35.920 Really great, open, ready, and I know we would like 0:11:36.000 --> 0:11:39.640 those things, love those things, But I have this situationship 0:11:39.720 --> 0:11:40.520 kind of in the background. 0:11:40.920 --> 0:11:41.680 Just break it off. 0:11:41.920 --> 0:11:44.560 Why can't you just break off the situationship? Who cares 0:11:44.559 --> 0:11:45.199 about those. 0:11:45.000 --> 0:11:47.480 I thought that's the beauty of a situationship is that 0:11:47.520 --> 0:11:49.000 there's less strings attached. 0:11:49.040 --> 0:11:51.359 It's easier to move on to the next. 0:11:51.559 --> 0:11:54.280 Well, this has been going on for several months now, 0:11:54.320 --> 0:11:57.400 and it's just kind of and it's I think the 0:11:57.440 --> 0:11:59.319 biggest thing is that it's long distance girl. 0:12:00.400 --> 0:12:02.840 Everything's working against you with that other guy. I mean, 0:12:03.240 --> 0:12:06.160 Trey's right here, like right in front of you. 0:12:06.160 --> 0:12:08.520 You are standing in your own way right now. 0:12:08.600 --> 0:12:12.040 I know he's even listening to this phone call quietly 0:12:12.200 --> 0:12:14.360 right now, waiting to jump in and speak to you. 0:12:15.120 --> 0:12:17.000 Wait, you're kidding, right, No. 0:12:16.240 --> 0:12:18.959 No, No, that that's part I'm actually not kidding about 0:12:19.240 --> 0:12:20.280 because he's. 0:12:20.120 --> 0:12:20.839 On the other line. 0:12:21.400 --> 0:12:25.240 Oh goss, Hey, how's it going, Trey? 0:12:27.559 --> 0:12:30.760 Hey? You heard all of that. 0:12:31.320 --> 0:12:35.360 I did, Yeah, and listen, like I appreciate, Like, if 0:12:35.400 --> 0:12:38.280 you just be honest, I'm not gonna my feelings never 0:12:38.360 --> 0:12:39.559 hurt knowing information. 0:12:40.520 --> 0:12:43.000 I think. I just it's not that I didn't want to. 0:12:43.120 --> 0:12:46.280 I think under all different types of circumstances, you're definitely 0:12:46.280 --> 0:12:48.600 someone that I would consider. 0:12:48.760 --> 0:12:53.160 It's just I don't know. I feel like you deserve to. 0:12:53.080 --> 0:12:57.400 Be with someone who's on your level of openness and uncomplicatedness, 0:12:57.480 --> 0:12:59.800 and like that's just not me right now. 0:13:00.880 --> 0:13:04.679 Well, I understand sometimes things get complicated and they get uncomplicated. 0:13:04.760 --> 0:13:08.120 Life is messy, I get it. What a guy, If 0:13:08.160 --> 0:13:11.800 there's any chance that you might be interested, I'd love 0:13:11.840 --> 0:13:14.760 to go out again and show you really that maybe 0:13:14.760 --> 0:13:16.240 I'm better than the other situation. 0:13:16.440 --> 0:13:19.400 But maybe you are, Trey. There's no way that you're not. 0:13:20.280 --> 0:13:22.640 So that's what I mean. Like you're such a sweet guy, 0:13:22.880 --> 0:13:26.240 like just that response, and there's just something else, and 0:13:26.559 --> 0:13:28.920 it it just makes it really difficult, that's all. 0:13:30.400 --> 0:13:31.000 Something else. 0:13:32.040 --> 0:13:32.920 I mean, lay it on me. 0:13:32.960 --> 0:13:33.680 I don't mind. 0:13:33.720 --> 0:13:36.160 I like being open and honest and I like you, 0:13:36.400 --> 0:13:39.120 so I'm sure we all have our flaws. 0:13:44.520 --> 0:13:48.040 So my situationship is actually long distance because he is 0:13:48.520 --> 0:13:49.000 locked up. 0:13:50.400 --> 0:13:52.360 He's locked up, locked up? 0:13:53.440 --> 0:13:55.079 Yeah, how does this get? 0:13:55.960 --> 0:13:58.360 She likes a bad boy? Actually he does sound kind 0:13:58.360 --> 0:13:59.000 of sexy. 0:13:59.040 --> 0:14:02.400 Now that she's described not for anything like super like 0:14:02.559 --> 0:14:03.520 unmurder or anything like. 0:14:03.520 --> 0:14:04.160 No, I would never. 0:14:04.559 --> 0:14:05.440 Oh that's your life. 0:14:05.520 --> 0:14:06.400 It's good to have a bar. 0:14:07.440 --> 0:14:10.040 I guess I'm a will confused. I mean, how does 0:14:10.040 --> 0:14:13.200 a situation ship happen while someone's in prison? 0:14:14.960 --> 0:14:17.240 Well, I mean, to be fair, we had met like 0:14:17.559 --> 0:14:20.440 the week before he got locked up and kind of 0:14:20.480 --> 0:14:24.280 hit it off, and we kept talking. But I get 0:14:24.320 --> 0:14:28.720 to go visit him every three months, and we get 0:14:28.760 --> 0:14:30.040 to have like those visits that. 0:14:31.560 --> 0:14:32.800 We get to be intimate, you know. 0:14:33.000 --> 0:14:40.160 Okay, details, you kept talking to a guy and you 0:14:40.200 --> 0:14:42.160 only knew him a week before we went to prison. 0:14:42.520 --> 0:14:44.840 Well, we kept talking and it just developed over time 0:14:44.920 --> 0:14:46.680 and then the three months, but he was in there 0:14:46.720 --> 0:14:47.960 and I got to go then see him, and we 0:14:48.040 --> 0:14:51.160 kind of deal physically, and I can't unfortunately, I feel 0:14:51.160 --> 0:14:53.000 like I can't emotionally untangle myself from it. 0:14:53.120 --> 0:14:55.000 Okay, I mean it sounds like a real Romeo and 0:14:55.080 --> 0:14:56.640 Juliette sort of situation there. 0:14:56.680 --> 0:14:58.480 They knew each other for one night and look what 0:14:58.520 --> 0:14:59.000 happened that. 0:14:59.120 --> 0:15:04.680 Store like fourteen right, Yeah, Trey, Well, this is a 0:15:04.680 --> 0:15:06.000 lot of information coming at you. 0:15:06.080 --> 0:15:07.440 Now, where's your head at? 0:15:07.560 --> 0:15:11.280 I wasn't expecting that. Honestly, I mean, I really enjoyed 0:15:11.280 --> 0:15:14.360 our time together. I think it'd be crazy not to 0:15:14.400 --> 0:15:17.080 at least maybe try to hang out again, because again 0:15:17.280 --> 0:15:19.640 I think I'm not going to say can I know 0:15:19.800 --> 0:15:23.040 I will there it is for you? 0:15:24.720 --> 0:15:26.640 Statement is okay? 0:15:27.000 --> 0:15:31.120 So despite what Julie is telling you, you're willing to 0:15:31.160 --> 0:15:32.440 give her another chance? 0:15:32.720 --> 0:15:34.480 I mean, think about it, Julie, how long is this 0:15:34.520 --> 0:15:36.080 other guy locked up for. 0:15:37.680 --> 0:15:38.080 Years? 0:15:39.720 --> 0:15:42.400 Do not waste all your pretty on the one situation. 0:15:43.720 --> 0:15:46.280 Are you willing to fight this guy after three years 0:15:46.280 --> 0:15:49.320 when he's released and prove that you're the one for Julie? 0:15:50.120 --> 0:15:52.040 If I can see a mugshot before it so I 0:15:52.040 --> 0:15:53.280 can better assess it, but. 0:15:54.840 --> 0:15:56.320 See emotional intelligence. 0:15:56.360 --> 0:15:59.040 That's look at this, Julie. This man is willing to 0:15:59.200 --> 0:16:01.240 literally fight a criminal for. 0:16:01.240 --> 0:16:02.720 You, depending on the tax. 0:16:02.960 --> 0:16:03.160 Yeah. 0:16:03.760 --> 0:16:07.120 So, with all of that said and everything you've just heard, 0:16:07.120 --> 0:16:09.040 would you be willing to meet up with Tray one 0:16:09.040 --> 0:16:09.480 more time? 0:16:09.520 --> 0:16:11.520 And if you are, we would pay for that date. 0:16:11.880 --> 0:16:13.880 Do yourself a favored Julian say yes? 0:16:15.480 --> 0:16:18.640 I mean if Keith Okay, knowing all of this and 0:16:18.720 --> 0:16:22.920 that this is still happening in the background, while figure 0:16:22.960 --> 0:16:23.360 this out. 0:16:24.200 --> 0:16:29.520 Yeah, I mean, you won't even be thinking about jail guy. Okay, 0:16:29.560 --> 0:16:32.160 we're not even we won't even think about chocolate bars. 0:16:32.280 --> 0:16:33.040 That's how much. 0:16:35.440 --> 0:16:37.840 Yes, jail cells, I get it. Okay. 0:16:37.920 --> 0:16:42.080 Yeah, well that means Trey, congratulations, man, you got another 0:16:42.600 --> 0:16:43.640 second date. Yay. 0:16:44.600 --> 0:16:45.520 You guys are the best. 0:16:45.640 --> 0:16:49.360 Okay, this time with a woman who's in a situationship 0:16:49.480 --> 0:16:52.360 with a different man who's serving a prison sentence for 0:16:52.400 --> 0:16:58.600 three more years. But still pretty good. 0:17:00.720 --> 0:17:02.720 Bok and Jeffrey in the morning. 0:17:03.640 --> 0:17:07.359 I'm not sure if Trey fully realizes what he's saying 0:17:07.440 --> 0:17:10.960 yes to here, because I know that he's a positive guy, 0:17:11.320 --> 0:17:13.800 but he just agreed to go out with a woman 0:17:14.000 --> 0:17:17.080 who is actively hooking up with a guy in prison 0:17:17.600 --> 0:17:23.240 every three months. Anne says she's not quite ready to stop. Yeah, 0:17:23.280 --> 0:17:26.119 and Trey was like, you know what, it's fine, let 0:17:26.160 --> 0:17:27.240 her have her conjuggles. 0:17:27.280 --> 0:17:30.960 I'm up for it, it on the whole way because 0:17:31.040 --> 0:17:33.479 I want her to come out of it like I'm sorry, 0:17:33.520 --> 0:17:36.840 but every female has a friend just like this woman, 0:17:37.760 --> 0:17:42.720 despite all proper logic, will choose the worst possible. 0:17:42.359 --> 0:17:44.960