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Speaker 6: Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning Second Date update.
Speaker 7: You may remember a few months back a listener we
Speaker 7: had on the show named Trey and met his date
Speaker 7: at a singles mixer where the host was accidentally rude,
Speaker 7: telling him, Oh, you're lucky that you're here tonight because
Speaker 7: you're not that attractive.
Speaker 2: Oh I do remember that.
Speaker 7: I felt so bad for him, right, and he was
Speaker 7: able to shake that off. It was incredible himself a date,
Speaker 7: took her out to a wine bar and then come
Speaker 7: to find out that woman was actually paid to be.
Speaker 4: There that night.
Speaker 2: It wasn't cute the whole thing.
Speaker 7: So again Trey is getting roasted, being called ugly, then
Speaker 7: learning that the women at the event didn't even really
Speaker 7: want to be there in the first place.
Speaker 1: That he needs recap Jeff, Well, this is where our listeners,
Speaker 1: it's not Trey remembers he lived it.
Speaker 4: Our listeners may not remember but feel for him.
Speaker 7: Trey came on her show, he made his case to
Speaker 7: that woman, and it came down to this moment, So will.
Speaker 8: You alout with me again?
Speaker 5: Can we try running it back and doing it again?
Speaker 9: Yeah?
Speaker 5: I mean I think I'm gonna say yes.
Speaker 10: It's not like a pity yes or anything like I
Speaker 10: really would like to.
Speaker 5: See you.
Speaker 2: Remember, ended really well?
Speaker 4: Yeah, and then she ghosted him. What really.
Speaker 7: When she said yeah, I really mean it, that means.
Speaker 4: She doesn't mean absolutely. We do not want to say
Speaker 4: yes to this, but I will to save my image.
Speaker 2: Trey, you are better than that.
Speaker 5: Thanks, guys, I really appreciate that and.
Speaker 4: Totally meant it when she said it, Yeah, I really do.
Speaker 7: He's a good guy, has already suffered through the trifecta
Speaker 7: of humiliation.
Speaker 4: He's been through it all. But he's back. That's what's important.
Speaker 4: He's back again.
Speaker 7: So Trey, thank you for trusting in the only people
Speaker 7: in this world who don't care how unattractive you are.
Speaker 4: Oh my god, you don't care.
Speaker 11: He is attractive, but we don't care.
Speaker 4: About your physical looks. And also or Tray, we are
Speaker 4: getting paid to be here with you. Yeah, but we
Speaker 4: want to.
Speaker 2: Yeah, Trey, I'm not going to let you talk to
Speaker 2: them anymore. How are you doing.
Speaker 5: I've been pretty good, y'all. I really appreciate it. Again,
Speaker 5: I'm giving love a chance. I'm hopeful. Weird, weird situation.
Speaker 5: But I was driving home from work one day and
Speaker 5: there was this bus that was like broken down. It
Speaker 5: was kind of like blocking part of the road. So
Speaker 5: I go over because I want to check to make
Speaker 5: sure everybody you know is everybody?
Speaker 1: Okay, how potentially nobody stops anymore.
Speaker 2: If I see a car on the side of the road,
Speaker 2: you do not stop for it. I'm not for sure.
Speaker 3: You say you re ended the bus on accident.
Speaker 4: Wow, okay, yeah, that is true.
Speaker 7: Not a lot of people would slow down at all,
Speaker 7: let alone stop to try and like assist.
Speaker 2: That's amazing.
Speaker 6: Yeah.
Speaker 5: So I go chat with them and they're waiting for
Speaker 5: like another bus come there, Like it was kind of
Speaker 5: they were really sure what was going to happen, next
Speaker 5: to the drivers having some issues getting a hold of anyone.
Speaker 5: So he's like, I think I'm gonna run to this
Speaker 5: gas stahoe to see if they have like a tow truck.
Speaker 8: And I suggested.
Speaker 5: I was like, wow, I just go run to the
Speaker 5: gas station. Like you stay with your bus. You're responsible
Speaker 5: for everybody.
Speaker 7: So okay, you've really volunteered to like be the superhero
Speaker 7: and swoop in to save the day for these people.
Speaker 4: I don't even know them.
Speaker 5: It wasn't that big of a deal. I mean, the
Speaker 5: gast shoe was down the block. I could see it
Speaker 5: from where the bus was, and.
Speaker 7: I guess the bus is blocking the road, so you
Speaker 7: needed to move so you could drive home.
Speaker 4: So it's kind of selfish.
Speaker 5: Yeah, And like, as I was walking, some of the
Speaker 5: other folks from the bus were like, listen, we're just
Speaker 5: going to bail on the bus. We're just gonna find
Speaker 5: someone to come pick us up. We don't know how
Speaker 5: long this is going to take.
Speaker 2: Totally I'd go and call it uber as well.
Speaker 5: But while we're walking in this group, I started chatting
Speaker 5: with one of the riders, this girl named Julie. Okay,
Speaker 5: and she's telling me like she was really bummed this.
Speaker 4: You had a long day at work.
Speaker 5: She just wanted to get home to her dog. Which
Speaker 5: was crazy because we're like, I have a dog, you
Speaker 5: have a dog.
Speaker 11: That's how cool we talked to about her dogs.
Speaker 1: That's cute, though meant to be it sounds I mean,
Speaker 1: that's your opening to offer a.
Speaker 4: Ride, right exactly exactly?
Speaker 2: Okay. I saw the.
Speaker 3: Moment you suddenly care less about the rest of the busy.
Speaker 7: Yeah, I know we met five minutes ago, but tell
Speaker 7: me where you live.
Speaker 5: Well I didn't say like that, but I did offer.
Speaker 5: She said he I had someone coming to pick her up,
Speaker 5: a big deal. But I asked her for her number.
Speaker 8: I was like, wow, drink.
Speaker 2: Sometime, okay, and did that happen?
Speaker 5: We did go on a date a few days later? Yeah?
Speaker 5: We did?
Speaker 4: You did? Okay?
Speaker 2: Yeah, we have any time to talk about it at
Speaker 2: this point, I know it was.
Speaker 7: A long walk together here like literally infiguratively, so quickly
Speaker 7: tell us about your date.
Speaker 5: The date was great, Like what was nice was we
Speaker 5: were texting a bunch leading up to it, like we
Speaker 5: had tons of bust jokes and all that, you know, haha,
Speaker 5: don't don't take the bus to our day.
Speaker 4: You know, Okay, it's funny.
Speaker 5: But when we got there, it really was just a drink,
Speaker 5: like really hung out for like less than an hour.
Speaker 8: We were just it was.
Speaker 5: Great to get to know her. She was really shy,
Speaker 5: and honestly I understand. You know, how often do you
Speaker 5: just meet random people that came to your bus that
Speaker 5: broke down?
Speaker 7: And we should probably just get this question out of
Speaker 7: the way. Do you know if she found you attractive
Speaker 7: or if she was paid to ride the.
Speaker 4: Bus that day? The paid bus driver? Yeah, I don't know.
Speaker 5: I have yet to confirm or deny that information. Of all.
Speaker 2: Well, of course she found him attractive.
Speaker 1: You don't agree to a drink and give a guy
Speaker 1: your number that you don't find cute.
Speaker 7: But this is a little bit of a different scenario
Speaker 7: because it sounds like, Trey, you were the hero that moment.
Speaker 7: You stepped up and tried to save the day for her.
Speaker 7: So I don't know, maybe if she felt obligated to
Speaker 7: go on that date with you and kind of be like.
Speaker 2: Well, but you got her own ride, what did he
Speaker 2: do walk her to the gas station? You know, it's
Speaker 2: not like he wasn't.
Speaker 7: Okay, we don't know.
Speaker 9: What part of the neighborhood tangerous area of town.
Speaker 4: So we're about to call Julie here.
Speaker 7: The good news is you've already been humiliated on this
Speaker 7: show so many times. How could it possibly get any worse? Right,
Speaker 7: That's exactly what I said, just in a different way.
Speaker 2: The way matters.
Speaker 7: Okay, you feel good about this, right, Trey?
Speaker 5: I trust you.
Speaker 9: Guys famous before we make that tragic call for your
Speaker 9: second date update and hopefully gets you another meetup, we'll
Speaker 9: do it right after this.
Speaker 6: Hold on Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning. Second date updates.
Speaker 7: If you missed it earlier, it's the glorious return of
Speaker 7: our listener, Trey. I don't care what the rest of
Speaker 7: the room says. I am not afraid to call him the.
Speaker 4: H word right to his face. Hero true story because he.
Speaker 2: Is a good guy.
Speaker 4: For see Brooks hesitant to use it.
Speaker 7: I'm not afraid because he unselfishly pulled over while driving
Speaker 7: to help a broken down city bus full of random people,
Speaker 7: one of whom was Julie. Yeah, if you could believe
Speaker 7: it owns a dog, what are the odds? Ended up
Speaker 7: getting her number, taking her out to drinks, where, even
Speaker 7: though she was a little shy, he says, they did
Speaker 7: have a really nice time together.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 2: I mean maybe that's just why she's not calling you
Speaker 2: back right now.
Speaker 4: Just being a shy girl.
Speaker 2: Yes, possible, some people have a hard time with that.
Speaker 4: It is true.
Speaker 7: No second date has material eyed, so that's why he's
Speaker 7: come to us.
Speaker 4: But try.
Speaker 7: I don't think we really got the full picture of
Speaker 7: what's going on with her right now.
Speaker 4: Is she texting you? Have you called her or snapped
Speaker 4: her or DM?
Speaker 5: Like?
Speaker 4: What are we working with?
Speaker 5: So I I same f you texts weren't responded. I
Speaker 5: you know, I'm smart enough to know not to completely
Speaker 5: double texture. And then I also I also called her
Speaker 5: like left the voicemail and I haven't hear back really backfire.
Speaker 2: It was a short voicemail.
Speaker 5: Right, Yeah, I was sweetened to the point.
Speaker 1: Okay, see I try. This guy's got emotional intelligence. He
Speaker 1: knows what's up.
Speaker 4: All Right, I'm gonna dial Julie here.
Speaker 7: We'll see if she picks up the phone, and hopefully
Speaker 7: we can hook you two up for we.
Speaker 2: Don't scare her. Is really what it is, she's a
Speaker 2: shy girl.
Speaker 4: Okay, we'll be very delicate with.
Speaker 5: Hello.
Speaker 8: Hi.
Speaker 4: Is this Julie.
Speaker 8: Hi, Julie Hi, Yeah, this is Julie.
Speaker 4: Sorry for yelling.
Speaker 7: Thank you for picking up on the radio right now
Speaker 7: with a show called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.
Speaker 7: What we're doing is a dating segment that we have
Speaker 7: on our show. It's called the second Date Update.
Speaker 4: Okay, okay, it's a good thing.
Speaker 7: You means means you met somebody recently who had a
Speaker 7: really nice time with you, thought very highly of you,
Speaker 7: and wants to see you again.
Speaker 2: D God, just we joke a lot, Julie, just so
Speaker 2: you know.
Speaker 7: Okay, but this is a guy named Trey that you
Speaker 7: met right after your bus broke down on the side
Speaker 7: of the road.
Speaker 8: Yes, I know exactly what you're talking about.
Speaker 4: Okay.
Speaker 7: I mean he told us that he's been texting you
Speaker 7: and calling you and trying to meet up and for
Speaker 7: some reason that's not happening.
Speaker 4: He's a little bit confused.
Speaker 5: Why listen.
Speaker 8: As far as tred Go's, he's fantastic.
Speaker 10: And I would almost say.
Speaker 12: From what I could tell from the day we had,
Speaker 12: like he's consistent. He's a very what you see is
Speaker 12: what you gets.
Speaker 2: What a wonderful thing to find out.
Speaker 4: That feels like if that's a good thing, that you
Speaker 4: would want to see him again.
Speaker 12: Yes, But the thing is it's complicated, Like he's very uncomplicated.
Speaker 12: I'm in a little bit of a complicated situation.
Speaker 2: What you what situation complicated? It always means you're not single.
Speaker 12: Yeah, well I so I'm not in a relationship, but
Speaker 12: I am in a situationship.
Speaker 4: Okay, okay, okay.
Speaker 12: So I felt a little curious, like, oh, go on
Speaker 12: the date, you know, like, how's it going to be?
Speaker 8: And to be honest, I.
Speaker 12: Expected it not to go as well as it did,
Speaker 12: so when it did, I kind of, yeah, I cut
Speaker 12: it short a little bit.
Speaker 8: Because I was just starting to feel guilty because here's
Speaker 8: this person who's.
Speaker 12: Really great, open, ready, and I know we would like
Speaker 12: those things, love those things, But I have this situationship
Speaker 12: kind of in the background.
Speaker 4: Just break it off.
Speaker 1: Why can't you just break off the situationship? Who cares
Speaker 1: about those.
Speaker 7: I thought that's the beauty of a situationship is that
Speaker 7: there's less strings attached.
Speaker 4: It's easier to move on to the next.
Speaker 12: Well, this has been going on for several months now,
Speaker 12: and it's just kind of and it's I think the
Speaker 12: biggest thing is that it's long distance girl.
Speaker 7: Everything's working against you with that other guy. I mean,
Speaker 7: Trey's right here, like right in front of you.
Speaker 2: You are standing in your own way right now.
Speaker 7: I know he's even listening to this phone call quietly
Speaker 7: right now, waiting to jump in and speak to you.
Speaker 8: Wait, you're kidding, right, No.
Speaker 7: No, No, that that's part I'm actually not kidding about
Speaker 7: because he's.
Speaker 4: On the other line.
Speaker 5: Oh goss, Hey, how's it going, Trey?
Speaker 8: Hey? You heard all of that.
Speaker 5: I did, Yeah, and listen, like I appreciate, Like, if
Speaker 5: you just be honest, I'm not gonna my feelings never
Speaker 5: hurt knowing information.
Speaker 8: I think. I just it's not that I didn't want to.
Speaker 12: I think under all different types of circumstances, you're definitely
Speaker 12: someone that I would consider.
Speaker 8: It's just I don't know. I feel like you deserve to.
Speaker 12: Be with someone who's on your level of openness and uncomplicatedness,
Speaker 12: and like that's just not me right now.
Speaker 5: Well, I understand sometimes things get complicated and they get uncomplicated.
Speaker 5: Life is messy, I get it. What a guy, If
Speaker 5: there's any chance that you might be interested, I'd love
Speaker 5: to go out again and show you really that maybe
Speaker 5: I'm better than the other situation.
Speaker 2: But maybe you are, Trey. There's no way that you're not.
Speaker 12: So that's what I mean. Like you're such a sweet guy,
Speaker 12: like just that response, and there's just something else, and
Speaker 12: it it just makes it really difficult, that's all.
Speaker 4: Something else.
Speaker 5: I mean, lay it on me.
Speaker 4: I don't mind.
Speaker 5: I like being open and honest and I like you,
Speaker 5: so I'm sure we all have our flaws.
Speaker 12: So my situationship is actually long distance because he is
Speaker 12: locked up.
Speaker 4: He's locked up, locked up?
Speaker 10: Yeah, how does this get?
Speaker 4: She likes a bad boy? Actually he does sound kind
Speaker 4: of sexy.
Speaker 12: Now that she's described not for anything like super like
Speaker 12: unmurder or anything like.
Speaker 8: No, I would never.
Speaker 2: Oh that's your life.
Speaker 4: It's good to have a bar.
Speaker 5: I guess I'm a will confused. I mean, how does
Speaker 5: a situation ship happen while someone's in prison?
Speaker 12: Well, I mean, to be fair, we had met like
Speaker 12: the week before he got locked up and kind of
Speaker 12: hit it off, and we kept talking. But I get
Speaker 12: to go visit him every three months, and we get
Speaker 12: to have like those visits that.
Speaker 8: We get to be intimate, you know.
Speaker 1: Okay, details, you kept talking to a guy and you
Speaker 1: only knew him a week before we went to prison.
Speaker 10: Well, we kept talking and it just developed over time
Speaker 10: and then the three months, but he was in there
Speaker 10: and I got to go then see him, and we
Speaker 10: kind of deal physically, and I can't unfortunately, I feel
Speaker 10: like I can't emotionally untangle myself from it.
Speaker 7: Okay, I mean it sounds like a real Romeo and
Speaker 7: Juliette sort of situation there.
Speaker 4: They knew each other for one night and look what
Speaker 4: happened that.
Speaker 7: Store like fourteen right, Yeah, Trey, Well, this is a
Speaker 7: lot of information coming at you.
Speaker 4: Now, where's your head at?
Speaker 5: I wasn't expecting that. Honestly, I mean, I really enjoyed
Speaker 5: our time together. I think it'd be crazy not to
Speaker 5: at least maybe try to hang out again, because again
Speaker 5: I think I'm not going to say can I know
Speaker 5: I will there it is for you?
Speaker 4: Statement is okay?
Speaker 7: So despite what Julie is telling you, you're willing to
Speaker 7: give her another chance?
Speaker 1: I mean, think about it, Julie, how long is this
Speaker 1: other guy locked up for.
Speaker 8: Years?
Speaker 2: Do not waste all your pretty on the one situation.
Speaker 7: Are you willing to fight this guy after three years
Speaker 7: when he's released and prove that you're the one for Julie?
Speaker 5: If I can see a mugshot before it so I
Speaker 5: can better assess it, but.
Speaker 2: See emotional intelligence.
Speaker 7: That's look at this, Julie. This man is willing to
Speaker 7: literally fight a criminal for.
Speaker 2: You, depending on the tax.
Speaker 8: Yeah.
Speaker 7: So, with all of that said and everything you've just heard,
Speaker 7: would you be willing to meet up with Tray one
Speaker 7: more time?
Speaker 4: And if you are, we would pay for that date.
Speaker 2: Do yourself a favored Julian say yes?
Speaker 12: I mean if Keith Okay, knowing all of this and
Speaker 12: that this is still happening in the background, while figure
Speaker 12: this out.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean, you won't even be thinking about jail guy. Okay,
Speaker 5: we're not even we won't even think about chocolate bars.
Speaker 5: That's how much.
Speaker 4: Yes, jail cells, I get it. Okay.
Speaker 7: Yeah, well that means Trey, congratulations, man, you got another
Speaker 7: second date. Yay.
Speaker 5: You guys are the best.
Speaker 7: Okay, this time with a woman who's in a situationship
Speaker 7: with a different man who's serving a prison sentence for
Speaker 7: three more years. But still pretty good.
Speaker 6: Bok and Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 7: I'm not sure if Trey fully realizes what he's saying
Speaker 7: yes to here, because I know that he's a positive guy,
Speaker 7: but he just agreed to go out with a woman
Speaker 7: who is actively hooking up with a guy in prison
Speaker 7: every three months. Anne says she's not quite ready to stop. Yeah,
Speaker 7: and Trey was like, you know what, it's fine, let
Speaker 7: her have her conjuggles.
Speaker 11: I'm up for it, it on the whole way because
Speaker 11: I want her to come out of it like I'm sorry,
Speaker 11: but every female has a friend just like this woman,
Speaker 11: despite all proper logic, will choose the worst possible.
Speaker 2: Choice for herself, even though she deserves more.
Speaker 4: Well, but she could change him. Brook and that's the
Speaker 4: happily ever after. Every woman wants.
Speaker 2: Think she wants that. I think she just wants him
Speaker 2: to like her. I mean, honestly, I think that's all
Speaker 2: she wants.
Speaker 4: She'll take him felonies in all think.
Speaker 7: But you know, blessed Trey's heart for being willing to
Speaker 7: like give it a shot and try to win her
Speaker 7: over for the next three years.
Speaker 2: Good luck, And we better get an.
Speaker 4: Update if she actually goes out, or just.
Speaker 1: A letter from prison from whoever she's dating. Now for
Speaker 1: us too, we have a lot of prison listeners.
Speaker 7: I need to think about that. What if he hears
Speaker 7: this while listening to our show behind ours.
Speaker 1: Well, I mean it's a situationship, he's got it, no
Speaker 1: right a visitor, and we need each other a week
Speaker 1: before that guy got in.
Speaker 4: Oh my god, I'm nervous.
Speaker 7: But I do hope we hear from Trey again, whether
Speaker 7: it's an update on this situation or if he needs
Speaker 7: help with the future, you know, girl down the road.
Speaker 7: We'll always be here for Trey and for all of
Speaker 7: our listeners reach out to us.
Speaker 4: Email the show. We can call that person who's not
Speaker 4: calling you back.