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Speaker 1: Oh, here we go, brand new episode on a Friday,

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Speaker 1: Welcome to your Second Day podcast.

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Speaker 2: And I've been.

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Speaker 1: Warned by Alexis that she has a long comment that

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Speaker 1: she really wants to read.

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Speaker 3: It is a long comment, but it's a nice one.

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Speaker 3: So it was on an episode in December. Okay, okay,

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Speaker 3: So they said, oh my gosh, Alexis, I didn't know

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Speaker 3: you listened to comments past. Yes, I thought I was

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Speaker 3: a lone traveler in the abyss of comments long gone.

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Speaker 3: We're only travelers like myself would see comments and gain

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Speaker 3: encouragement from the fact that we're not behind on the

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Speaker 3: show alone.

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Speaker 4: I'm catching up into those behind. Onward to those ahead.

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Speaker 3: I'm on your six and the time is coming where

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Speaker 3: I'm beside you as we anxiously await the next episode.

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Speaker 2: Keep it gangsta.

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Speaker 3: Oh and you know what, in a month, she'll hear, Yeah,

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Speaker 3: get closer.

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Speaker 5: You're getting here.

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Speaker 2: Here. When you hear this, let us know when you're

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Speaker 2: on your next novel. As jokes, I'll buy it. Yes,

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Speaker 2: Onward on word. Brand new episode starts right now.

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Speaker 6: Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning Second Date update.

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Speaker 7: You may remember a few months back a listener we

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Speaker 7: had on the show named Trey and met his date

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Speaker 7: at a singles mixer where the host was accidentally rude,

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Speaker 7: telling him, Oh, you're lucky that you're here tonight because

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Speaker 7: you're not that attractive.

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Speaker 2: Oh I do remember that.

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Speaker 7: I felt so bad for him, right, and he was

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Speaker 7: able to shake that off. It was incredible himself a date,

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Speaker 7: took her out to a wine bar and then come

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Speaker 7: to find out that woman was actually paid to be.

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Speaker 4: There that night.

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Speaker 2: It wasn't cute the whole thing.

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Speaker 7: So again Trey is getting roasted, being called ugly, then

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Speaker 7: learning that the women at the event didn't even really

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Speaker 7: want to be there in the first place.

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Speaker 1: That he needs recap Jeff, Well, this is where our listeners,

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Speaker 1: it's not Trey remembers he lived it.

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Speaker 4: Our listeners may not remember but feel for him.

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Speaker 7: Trey came on her show, he made his case to

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Speaker 7: that woman, and it came down to this moment, So will.

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Speaker 8: You alout with me again?

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Speaker 5: Can we try running it back and doing it again?

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Speaker 9: Yeah?

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Speaker 5: I mean I think I'm gonna say yes.

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Speaker 10: It's not like a pity yes or anything like I

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Speaker 10: really would like to.

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Speaker 5: See you.

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Speaker 2: Remember, ended really well?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, and then she ghosted him. What really.

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Speaker 7: When she said yeah, I really mean it, that means.

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Speaker 4: She doesn't mean absolutely. We do not want to say

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Speaker 4: yes to this, but I will to save my image.

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Speaker 2: Trey, you are better than that.

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Speaker 5: Thanks, guys, I really appreciate that and.

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Speaker 4: Totally meant it when she said it, Yeah, I really do.

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Speaker 7: He's a good guy, has already suffered through the trifecta

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Speaker 7: of humiliation.

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Speaker 4: He's been through it all. But he's back. That's what's important.

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Speaker 4: He's back again.

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Speaker 7: So Trey, thank you for trusting in the only people

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Speaker 7: in this world who don't care how unattractive you are.

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Speaker 4: Oh my god, you don't care.

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Speaker 11: He is attractive, but we don't care.

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Speaker 4: About your physical looks. And also or Tray, we are

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Speaker 4: getting paid to be here with you. Yeah, but we

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Trey, I'm not going to let you talk to

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Speaker 2: them anymore. How are you doing.

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Speaker 5: I've been pretty good, y'all. I really appreciate it. Again,

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Speaker 5: I'm giving love a chance. I'm hopeful. Weird, weird situation.

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Speaker 5: But I was driving home from work one day and

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Speaker 5: there was this bus that was like broken down. It

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Speaker 5: was kind of like blocking part of the road. So

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Speaker 5: I go over because I want to check to make

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Speaker 5: sure everybody you know is everybody?

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Speaker 1: Okay, how potentially nobody stops anymore.

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Speaker 2: If I see a car on the side of the road,

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Speaker 2: you do not stop for it. I'm not for sure.

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Speaker 3: You say you re ended the bus on accident.

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Speaker 4: Wow, okay, yeah, that is true.

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Speaker 7: Not a lot of people would slow down at all,

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Speaker 2: That's amazing.

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Speaker 5: So I go chat with them and they're waiting for

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Speaker 5: like another bus come there, Like it was kind of

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Speaker 5: to the drivers having some issues getting a hold of anyone.

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Speaker 5: So he's like, I think I'm gonna run to this

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Speaker 8: And I suggested.

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Speaker 5: I was like, wow, I just go run to the

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Speaker 7: So okay, you've really volunteered to like be the superhero

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Speaker 4: I don't even know them.

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Speaker 5: It wasn't that big of a deal. I mean, the

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Speaker 7: I guess the bus is blocking the road, so you

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Speaker 4: So it's kind of selfish.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, And like, as I was walking, some of the

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Speaker 5: other folks from the bus were like, listen, we're just

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Speaker 5: going to bail on the bus. We're just gonna find

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Speaker 5: someone to come pick us up. We don't know how

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Speaker 5: long this is going to take.

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Speaker 2: Totally I'd go and call it uber as well.

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Speaker 5: But while we're walking in this group, I started chatting

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Speaker 5: with one of the riders, this girl named Julie. Okay,

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Speaker 5: and she's telling me like she was really bummed this.

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Speaker 4: You had a long day at work.

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Speaker 5: She just wanted to get home to her dog. Which

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Speaker 5: was crazy because we're like, I have a dog, you

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Speaker 5: have a dog.

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Speaker 11: That's how cool we talked to about her dogs.

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Speaker 1: That's cute, though meant to be it sounds I mean,

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Speaker 1: that's your opening to offer a.

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Speaker 4: Ride, right exactly exactly?

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Speaker 2: Okay. I saw the.

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Speaker 3: Moment you suddenly care less about the rest of the busy.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, I know we met five minutes ago, but tell

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Speaker 5: Well I didn't say like that, but I did offer.

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Speaker 5: She said he I had someone coming to pick her up,

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Speaker 5: a big deal. But I asked her for her number.

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Speaker 8: I was like, wow, drink.

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Speaker 2: Sometime, okay, and did that happen?

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Speaker 5: We did go on a date a few days later? Yeah?

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Speaker 5: We did?

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Speaker 4: You did? Okay?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we have any time to talk about it at

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Speaker 2: this point, I know it was.

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Speaker 7: A long walk together here like literally infiguratively, so quickly

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Speaker 7: tell us about your date.

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Speaker 5: The date was great, Like what was nice was we

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Speaker 5: were texting a bunch leading up to it, like we

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Speaker 5: had tons of bust jokes and all that, you know, haha,

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Speaker 5: don't don't take the bus to our day.

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Speaker 4: You know, Okay, it's funny.

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Speaker 5: But when we got there, it really was just a drink,

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Speaker 5: like really hung out for like less than an hour.

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Speaker 8: We were just it was.

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Speaker 5: Great to get to know her. She was really shy,

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Speaker 5: and honestly I understand. You know, how often do you

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Speaker 5: just meet random people that came to your bus that

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Speaker 7: And we should probably just get this question out of

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Speaker 7: the way. Do you know if she found you attractive

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Speaker 7: or if she was paid to ride the.

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Speaker 4: Bus that day? The paid bus driver? Yeah, I don't know.

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Speaker 5: I have yet to confirm or deny that information. Of all.

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Speaker 2: Well, of course she found him attractive.

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Speaker 1: You don't agree to a drink and give a guy

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Speaker 7: But this is a little bit of a different scenario

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Speaker 7: because it sounds like, Trey, you were the hero that moment.

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Speaker 7: You stepped up and tried to save the day for her.

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Speaker 7: So I don't know, maybe if she felt obligated to

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Speaker 7: go on that date with you and kind of be like.

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Speaker 2: Well, but you got her own ride, what did he

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Speaker 2: do walk her to the gas station? You know, it's

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Speaker 2: not like he wasn't.

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Speaker 7: Okay, we don't know.

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Speaker 9: What part of the neighborhood tangerous area of town.

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Speaker 4: So we're about to call Julie here.

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Speaker 7: The good news is you've already been humiliated on this

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Speaker 7: show so many times. How could it possibly get any worse? Right,

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Speaker 7: That's exactly what I said, just in a different way.

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Speaker 2: The way matters.

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Speaker 7: Okay, you feel good about this, right, Trey?

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Speaker 5: I trust you.

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Speaker 9: Guys famous before we make that tragic call for your

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Speaker 9: second date update and hopefully gets you another meetup, we'll

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Speaker 9: do it right after this.

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Speaker 6: Hold on Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning. Second date updates.

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Speaker 7: If you missed it earlier, it's the glorious return of

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Speaker 7: our listener, Trey. I don't care what the rest of

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Speaker 7: the room says. I am not afraid to call him the.

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Speaker 4: H word right to his face. Hero true story because he.

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Speaker 2: Is a good guy.

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Speaker 4: For see Brooks hesitant to use it.

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Speaker 7: I'm not afraid because he unselfishly pulled over while driving

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Speaker 7: to help a broken down city bus full of random people,

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Speaker 7: one of whom was Julie. Yeah, if you could believe

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Speaker 7: it owns a dog, what are the odds? Ended up

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Speaker 7: getting her number, taking her out to drinks, where, even

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Speaker 7: though she was a little shy, he says, they did

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Speaker 7: have a really nice time together.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I mean maybe that's just why she's not calling you

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Speaker 4: Just being a shy girl.

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Speaker 2: Yes, possible, some people have a hard time with that.

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Speaker 4: It is true.

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Speaker 7: No second date has material eyed, so that's why he's

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Speaker 7: come to us.

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Speaker 4: But try.

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Speaker 7: I don't think we really got the full picture of

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Speaker 7: what's going on with her right now.

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Speaker 4: Is she texting you? Have you called her or snapped

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Speaker 4: her or DM?

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Speaker 5: Like?

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Speaker 4: What are we working with?

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Speaker 5: So I I same f you texts weren't responded. I

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Speaker 5: you know, I'm smart enough to know not to completely

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Speaker 5: double texture. And then I also I also called her

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Speaker 5: like left the voicemail and I haven't hear back really backfire.

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Speaker 2: It was a short voicemail.

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Speaker 5: Right, Yeah, I was sweetened to the point.

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Speaker 1: Okay, see I try. This guy's got emotional intelligence. He

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Speaker 1: knows what's up.

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Speaker 4: All Right, I'm gonna dial Julie here.

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Speaker 7: We'll see if she picks up the phone, and hopefully

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Speaker 7: we can hook you two up for we.

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Speaker 2: Don't scare her. Is really what it is, she's a

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Speaker 2: shy girl.

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Speaker 4: Okay, we'll be very delicate with.

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Speaker 5: Hello.

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Speaker 8: Hi.

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Speaker 4: Is this Julie.

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Speaker 8: Hi, Julie Hi, Yeah, this is Julie.

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Speaker 4: Sorry for yelling.

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Speaker 7: Thank you for picking up on the radio right now

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Speaker 7: with a show called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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Speaker 7: What we're doing is a dating segment that we have

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Speaker 7: on our show. It's called the second Date Update.

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Speaker 4: Okay, okay, it's a good thing.

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Speaker 7: You means means you met somebody recently who had a

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Speaker 7: really nice time with you, thought very highly of you,

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Speaker 7: and wants to see you again.

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Speaker 2: D God, just we joke a lot, Julie, just so

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Speaker 7: Okay, but this is a guy named Trey that you

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Speaker 7: met right after your bus broke down on the side

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Speaker 8: Yes, I know exactly what you're talking about.

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Speaker 4: Okay.

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Speaker 7: I mean he told us that he's been texting you

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Speaker 4: He's a little bit confused.

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Speaker 5: Why listen.

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Speaker 8: As far as tred Go's, he's fantastic.

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Speaker 10: And I would almost say.

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Speaker 12: From what I could tell from the day we had,

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Speaker 2: What a wonderful thing to find out.

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Speaker 4: That feels like if that's a good thing, that you

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Speaker 12: Yes, But the thing is it's complicated, Like he's very uncomplicated.

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Speaker 12: I'm in a little bit of a complicated situation.

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Speaker 2: What you what situation complicated? It always means you're not single.

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Speaker 12: Yeah, well I so I'm not in a relationship, but

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Speaker 4: Okay, okay, okay.

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Speaker 12: So I felt a little curious, like, oh, go on

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Speaker 8: And to be honest, I.

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Speaker 12: Expected it not to go as well as it did,

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Speaker 8: Because I was just starting to feel guilty because here's

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Speaker 12: Really great, open, ready, and I know we would like

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Speaker 12: those things, love those things, But I have this situationship

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Speaker 4: Just break it off.

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Speaker 1: Why can't you just break off the situationship? Who cares

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Speaker 7: I thought that's the beauty of a situationship is that

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Speaker 4: It's easier to move on to the next.

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Speaker 12: Well, this has been going on for several months now,

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Speaker 12: and it's just kind of and it's I think the

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Speaker 7: Everything's working against you with that other guy. I mean,

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Speaker 7: Trey's right here, like right in front of you.

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Speaker 2: You are standing in your own way right now.

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Speaker 7: I know he's even listening to this phone call quietly

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Speaker 8: Wait, you're kidding, right, No.

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Speaker 7: No, No, that that's part I'm actually not kidding about

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Speaker 4: On the other line.

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Speaker 5: Oh goss, Hey, how's it going, Trey?

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Speaker 8: Hey? You heard all of that.

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Speaker 5: I did, Yeah, and listen, like I appreciate, Like, if

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Speaker 5: you just be honest, I'm not gonna my feelings never

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Speaker 8: I think. I just it's not that I didn't want to.

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Speaker 12: I think under all different types of circumstances, you're definitely

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Speaker 8: It's just I don't know. I feel like you deserve to.

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Speaker 12: Be with someone who's on your level of openness and uncomplicatedness,

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Speaker 12: and like that's just not me right now.

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Speaker 5: Well, I understand sometimes things get complicated and they get uncomplicated.

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Speaker 5: Life is messy, I get it. What a guy, If

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Speaker 5: there's any chance that you might be interested, I'd love

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Speaker 2: But maybe you are, Trey. There's no way that you're not.

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Speaker 12: So that's what I mean. Like you're such a sweet guy,

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Speaker 12: like just that response, and there's just something else, and

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Speaker 4: Something else.

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Speaker 5: I mean, lay it on me.

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Speaker 4: I don't mind.

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Speaker 5: I like being open and honest and I like you,

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Speaker 5: so I'm sure we all have our flaws.

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Speaker 12: So my situationship is actually long distance because he is

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Speaker 4: He's locked up, locked up?

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Speaker 10: Yeah, how does this get?

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Speaker 4: She likes a bad boy? Actually he does sound kind

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Speaker 12: Now that she's described not for anything like super like

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Speaker 8: No, I would never.

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Speaker 2: Oh that's your life.

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Speaker 4: It's good to have a bar.

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Speaker 5: I guess I'm a will confused. I mean, how does

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Speaker 12: Well, I mean, to be fair, we had met like

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Speaker 12: to go visit him every three months, and we get

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Speaker 8: We get to be intimate, you know.

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Speaker 1: Okay, details, you kept talking to a guy and you

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Speaker 10: Well, we kept talking and it just developed over time

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Speaker 7: Okay, I mean it sounds like a real Romeo and

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Speaker 4: They knew each other for one night and look what

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Speaker 7: Store like fourteen right, Yeah, Trey, Well, this is a

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Speaker 4: Now, where's your head at?

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Speaker 5: I wasn't expecting that. Honestly, I mean, I really enjoyed

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Speaker 5: I think I'm not going to say can I know

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Speaker 5: I will there it is for you?

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Speaker 4: Statement is okay?

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Speaker 7: So despite what Julie is telling you, you're willing to

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Speaker 1: I mean, think about it, Julie, how long is this

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Speaker 8: Years?

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Speaker 2: Do not waste all your pretty on the one situation.

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Speaker 7: Are you willing to fight this guy after three years

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Speaker 7: when he's released and prove that you're the one for Julie?

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Speaker 5: If I can see a mugshot before it so I

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Speaker 2: See emotional intelligence.

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Speaker 7: That's look at this, Julie. This man is willing to

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Speaker 2: You, depending on the tax.

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Speaker 8: Yeah.

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Speaker 7: So, with all of that said and everything you've just heard,

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Speaker 7: would you be willing to meet up with Tray one

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Speaker 4: And if you are, we would pay for that date.

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Speaker 2: Do yourself a favored Julian say yes?

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Speaker 12: I mean if Keith Okay, knowing all of this and

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean, you won't even be thinking about jail guy. Okay,

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Speaker 5: we're not even we won't even think about chocolate bars.

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Speaker 5: That's how much.

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Speaker 4: Yes, jail cells, I get it. Okay.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, well that means Trey, congratulations, man, you got another

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Speaker 5: You guys are the best.

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Speaker 7: Okay, this time with a woman who's in a situationship

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Speaker 6: Bok and Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 7: I'm not sure if Trey fully realizes what he's saying

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Speaker 7: every three months. Anne says she's not quite ready to stop. Yeah,

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Speaker 7: and Trey was like, you know what, it's fine, let

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Speaker 2: Choice for herself, even though she deserves more.

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Speaker 4: Well, but she could change him. Brook and that's the

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Speaker 4: happily ever after. Every woman wants.

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Speaker 2: Think she wants that. I think she just wants him

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Speaker 4: She'll take him felonies in all think.

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Speaker 7: But you know, blessed Trey's heart for being willing to

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Speaker 2: Good luck, And we better get an.

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Speaker 4: Update if she actually goes out, or just.

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Speaker 1: A letter from prison from whoever she's dating. Now for

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Speaker 7: I need to think about that. What if he hears

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Speaker 1: Well, I mean it's a situationship, he's got it, no

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Speaker 4: Oh my god, I'm nervous.

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Speaker 7: But I do hope we hear from Trey again, whether

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Speaker 7: We'll always be here for Trey and for all of

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Speaker 7: our listeners reach out to us.

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Speaker 4: Email the show. We can call that person who's not

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Speaker 4: calling you back.