1 00:00:01,520 --> 00:00:03,000 Speaker 1: Good news everyone. 2 00:00:03,560 --> 00:00:07,200 Speaker 2: I listened to The Black Guy Who Tips podcast because 3 00:00:07,360 --> 00:00:09,320 Speaker 2: Rod and Karen are hot. 4 00:00:09,600 --> 00:00:12,160 Speaker 1: Hey, welcome to another episode of The Black Guy to 5 00:00:12,200 --> 00:00:16,160 Speaker 1: his podcast. I am your host Rod, joined us always 6 00:00:16,160 --> 00:00:19,919 Speaker 1: by my co host Karen, and we're live on a Tuesday. 7 00:00:20,239 --> 00:00:20,439 Speaker 3: Yay. 8 00:00:21,200 --> 00:00:23,319 Speaker 1: You may be like, did y'all not do a show 9 00:00:23,360 --> 00:00:27,000 Speaker 1: Sunday and Monday? You are correct, Okay, it was not 10 00:00:27,080 --> 00:00:30,280 Speaker 1: a TYPEO. It wasn't an air and the feed washed 11 00:00:30,280 --> 00:00:33,080 Speaker 1: the life. Hashtag wash life is what they're calling it. 12 00:00:33,200 --> 00:00:35,400 Speaker 2: Hashtag old, hashtag old. 13 00:00:36,360 --> 00:00:39,440 Speaker 1: Karen worked out a couple of times and then she 14 00:00:39,760 --> 00:00:43,720 Speaker 1: h she just suddenly couldn't. She couldn't, she couldn't stay 15 00:00:43,800 --> 00:00:45,680 Speaker 1: up fast eight o'clock. 16 00:00:46,240 --> 00:00:47,920 Speaker 4: Who this mother was like, I don't know what you 17 00:00:48,000 --> 00:00:51,560 Speaker 4: think you doing. We ain't done this in a hot minute, 18 00:00:51,640 --> 00:00:53,800 Speaker 4: so you know what you need to do. Go wanna 19 00:00:53,840 --> 00:00:56,520 Speaker 4: sit your step down somewhere. I got a mini cold. 20 00:00:56,560 --> 00:00:58,920 Speaker 1: It was like, you know what, shout out to the 21 00:00:59,040 --> 00:01:04,319 Speaker 1: VR workout. We have the Oculus quest uh two and 22 00:01:04,640 --> 00:01:09,040 Speaker 1: we do the supernatural workout. And I did it yesterday 23 00:01:09,160 --> 00:01:11,720 Speaker 1: and I woke up this morning my back was was 24 00:01:11,720 --> 00:01:12,160 Speaker 1: was filling? 25 00:01:14,920 --> 00:01:19,280 Speaker 4: It works, Honey, your knees be hot, hot, everything be hot. 26 00:01:19,360 --> 00:01:23,320 Speaker 1: You'd be like, oh, but that's that's not that. That's 27 00:01:23,400 --> 00:01:25,680 Speaker 1: neither here nor there. Okay. We also have a very 28 00:01:25,720 --> 00:01:30,480 Speaker 1: special guest today, first time guest on the show. Today's 29 00:01:30,520 --> 00:01:36,680 Speaker 1: guest is covenor of the Black Women's Stitch uh pot No, 30 00:01:36,760 --> 00:01:40,039 Speaker 1: Black Women's Stitch Group, host and producer of the Stitch 31 00:01:40,080 --> 00:01:44,840 Speaker 1: Please podcast, and Game of Thrones professor Lisa Wolfork. What's 32 00:01:44,840 --> 00:01:46,600 Speaker 1: going Wolfork? What's going on? Lisa? 33 00:01:47,319 --> 00:01:50,160 Speaker 3: Hey, Hey, friends, Hey, thank you so much for having me. 34 00:01:50,280 --> 00:01:52,240 Speaker 3: I am so excited to be here. It is a 35 00:01:52,280 --> 00:01:52,919 Speaker 3: real honor. 36 00:01:53,000 --> 00:01:56,400 Speaker 5: Thank you, Thank you for coming on. 37 00:01:57,440 --> 00:01:59,040 Speaker 1: The First thing I want to ask you about, I mean, 38 00:01:59,040 --> 00:02:00,920 Speaker 1: we'll get to Game of throws, promise, I'm going to 39 00:02:01,000 --> 00:02:04,880 Speaker 1: ask you about that. But the stitching, I want to 40 00:02:04,880 --> 00:02:07,320 Speaker 1: ask you about that, Like, one, how'd you get into stitching? 41 00:02:07,760 --> 00:02:09,720 Speaker 1: I was listening to your podcast to do like some 42 00:02:09,760 --> 00:02:12,880 Speaker 1: research and stuff. I thought it was pretty informative. So, like, 43 00:02:13,280 --> 00:02:15,160 Speaker 1: what was the first thing that made you even like 44 00:02:15,200 --> 00:02:16,040 Speaker 1: get into stitching? 45 00:02:17,360 --> 00:02:18,240 Speaker 5: So it's funny. 46 00:02:18,480 --> 00:02:21,280 Speaker 3: When I grew up, my mother sold, my grandmother sold. 47 00:02:21,320 --> 00:02:23,000 Speaker 3: I wanted nothing to do with it. I spent my 48 00:02:23,080 --> 00:02:27,160 Speaker 3: days being poked by pins and you know. 49 00:02:27,280 --> 00:02:29,560 Speaker 5: Earth, would you, you know, come stand still? 50 00:02:29,720 --> 00:02:32,320 Speaker 3: Well, honestly, I would stand still if I wasn't being poked. 51 00:02:32,320 --> 00:02:34,880 Speaker 5: This is a human response. But there was a. 52 00:02:34,880 --> 00:02:36,960 Speaker 3: Lot of that and I didn't want anything to do 53 00:02:37,040 --> 00:02:39,359 Speaker 3: with it. I mean, I rejected a lot of it. 54 00:02:39,760 --> 00:02:43,160 Speaker 3: And then I started graduate school and I needed some 55 00:02:43,240 --> 00:02:46,240 Speaker 3: type of stress relief because typically graduate school is very solid, 56 00:02:46,280 --> 00:02:49,120 Speaker 3: it's very solitary, and so I wanted something that I 57 00:02:49,160 --> 00:02:51,280 Speaker 3: could do that could make me feel like, give me 58 00:02:51,320 --> 00:02:53,640 Speaker 3: a nice feeling of end success. So it's like, okay, 59 00:02:53,680 --> 00:02:56,040 Speaker 3: I will start with this whole, this piece of fabric 60 00:02:56,040 --> 00:02:57,040 Speaker 3: and end up with you. 61 00:02:57,000 --> 00:02:57,840 Speaker 5: Know, a jacket. 62 00:02:58,240 --> 00:03:01,280 Speaker 3: And that's what really became a real hobby for me, 63 00:03:01,680 --> 00:03:03,880 Speaker 3: and I absolutely loved it. So I kind of fell 64 00:03:03,880 --> 00:03:07,000 Speaker 3: in love with it. My mother is more amazed than anybody. 65 00:03:07,120 --> 00:03:07,880 Speaker 1: It's just like you. 66 00:03:09,520 --> 00:03:12,120 Speaker 3: You sewing something as much as all that complaining and 67 00:03:12,200 --> 00:03:13,760 Speaker 3: caring all we had to hear from you. 68 00:03:14,560 --> 00:03:16,360 Speaker 5: But I did end up falling in love with it. 69 00:03:16,440 --> 00:03:19,960 Speaker 3: And then now I do a lot of sewing and 70 00:03:20,080 --> 00:03:23,079 Speaker 3: a lot of advocacy around sewing, and I have theories 71 00:03:23,120 --> 00:03:28,240 Speaker 3: around sewing as connected to liberation and creative expression, and 72 00:03:28,280 --> 00:03:33,120 Speaker 3: so it's not just the sewing, but it's also sewing 73 00:03:33,200 --> 00:03:36,400 Speaker 3: as a life skill, sewing as a hobby, and sewing 74 00:03:36,440 --> 00:03:39,360 Speaker 3: as a pathway to the expression and liberation. 75 00:03:39,560 --> 00:03:43,000 Speaker 4: Yeah, I think sewing is something that people have gotten 76 00:03:43,040 --> 00:03:44,800 Speaker 4: away from for various reasons. 77 00:03:44,880 --> 00:03:46,560 Speaker 2: Ay, everything is. 78 00:03:46,560 --> 00:03:49,120 Speaker 4: Cheaper now by the time I'll joke sign like by 79 00:03:49,120 --> 00:03:50,840 Speaker 4: the time you bow that shit, you my as well 80 00:03:50,880 --> 00:03:52,760 Speaker 4: went on to Amazon and got a two for five 81 00:03:52,880 --> 00:03:56,640 Speaker 4: and went on about your business right because the stuff 82 00:03:56,680 --> 00:04:00,840 Speaker 4: like that. So I completely understand that. And as somebody 83 00:04:00,880 --> 00:04:03,520 Speaker 4: I haven't sold in a while, but as somebody who 84 00:04:05,640 --> 00:04:10,720 Speaker 4: loves to sew, I was so like, I still have 85 00:04:10,840 --> 00:04:13,400 Speaker 4: some quilts and my mother in law got me into sewing. 86 00:04:13,520 --> 00:04:17,080 Speaker 4: She got me a sewing machine when I graduated from college. 87 00:04:17,320 --> 00:04:21,080 Speaker 4: And so I've never gotten to clothes or anything like that, 88 00:04:21,400 --> 00:04:23,919 Speaker 4: but I would do small things. And the thing that 89 00:04:24,040 --> 00:04:26,800 Speaker 4: i've kind of I can't speak for anybody else, but 90 00:04:26,880 --> 00:04:30,480 Speaker 4: things that I kind of have always loved about sewing. 91 00:04:31,400 --> 00:04:32,520 Speaker 2: It is a free for all. 92 00:04:33,279 --> 00:04:39,160 Speaker 4: If you can imagine it, you can literally make it happen. 93 00:04:39,920 --> 00:04:44,320 Speaker 4: And that's something for adults. Our imagination is crushed from 94 00:04:44,360 --> 00:04:47,560 Speaker 4: our nine to five, from us putting it away from 95 00:04:47,560 --> 00:04:50,760 Speaker 4: our children. Putting away from our mates. You know a 96 00:04:50,800 --> 00:04:52,240 Speaker 4: lot of people I have a lot. 97 00:04:52,120 --> 00:04:53,760 Speaker 2: Of creativity within themselves. 98 00:04:53,800 --> 00:04:56,800 Speaker 4: But the world tells you don't waste your time in that, 99 00:04:57,040 --> 00:04:59,400 Speaker 4: or if you're not doing it to get paid, why 100 00:04:59,480 --> 00:05:01,320 Speaker 4: waste your time. But sometimes you can just do it 101 00:05:01,320 --> 00:05:04,479 Speaker 4: for a hobby. It's not always about making the making 102 00:05:04,480 --> 00:05:05,920 Speaker 4: a dollar out of it. 103 00:05:06,080 --> 00:05:08,680 Speaker 2: Like you say, it is very relaxing. I remember when 104 00:05:08,760 --> 00:05:12,039 Speaker 2: I was in college, before I got. 105 00:05:11,839 --> 00:05:13,680 Speaker 4: My sewing machine, I would hand so so I would 106 00:05:13,760 --> 00:05:17,599 Speaker 4: hands light a handstitch a lot of things and it 107 00:05:17,600 --> 00:05:20,279 Speaker 4: would take a long time. But I just it was 108 00:05:20,320 --> 00:05:23,159 Speaker 4: just that process that laying it out and putting it 109 00:05:23,240 --> 00:05:28,320 Speaker 4: together and all that type of stuff. And the technology 110 00:05:28,440 --> 00:05:29,320 Speaker 4: about sewing. 111 00:05:30,400 --> 00:05:32,360 Speaker 2: For those of you that I'm sorry, I know I'm 112 00:05:32,360 --> 00:05:35,760 Speaker 2: going on on the ramp, but this is my time, uh, 113 00:05:35,839 --> 00:05:38,960 Speaker 2: the sewing. For those of you that don't know sewing. 114 00:05:39,240 --> 00:05:44,240 Speaker 4: With technology, it's like it's like a brand new world. 115 00:05:44,720 --> 00:05:48,800 Speaker 4: They got sewing machines that are like the Lamborghini of 116 00:05:48,880 --> 00:05:54,200 Speaker 4: sewing machines. Them bitches called thousands of dollars. They they 117 00:05:54,240 --> 00:05:56,760 Speaker 4: top of the line. But what you can do, you 118 00:05:56,800 --> 00:06:00,120 Speaker 4: can go to your computer, you can download damage, you 119 00:06:00,200 --> 00:06:02,400 Speaker 4: could tell it to go and it will go. 120 00:06:03,400 --> 00:06:07,359 Speaker 2: And I for my for my mama, I made some 121 00:06:08,200 --> 00:06:11,320 Speaker 2: you can actually take images and actually. 122 00:06:10,920 --> 00:06:15,440 Speaker 4: Photocopy to fabric. And I've made her pillow that has 123 00:06:15,520 --> 00:06:17,960 Speaker 4: like all her brothers and sisters on them from their 124 00:06:18,200 --> 00:06:22,520 Speaker 4: military pictures, their high school graduation pictures. And I made 125 00:06:22,560 --> 00:06:25,599 Speaker 4: her a beautiful long pillow and she loves that thing. 126 00:06:25,720 --> 00:06:28,080 Speaker 4: She she's like, this is one of her favorite things. 127 00:06:28,120 --> 00:06:28,960 Speaker 2: I cut it up and. 128 00:06:28,880 --> 00:06:32,960 Speaker 4: I got it to be in color, and she absolutely 129 00:06:33,200 --> 00:06:37,800 Speaker 4: loves it. And so for me, I love just the 130 00:06:37,920 --> 00:06:41,640 Speaker 4: creativity piece of it. I think sometimes when it's sold, 131 00:06:41,760 --> 00:06:43,680 Speaker 4: I'm not trying, and maybe it's just me. 132 00:06:43,920 --> 00:06:45,880 Speaker 2: I'm just taking my perspective. A lot of times when it's 133 00:06:45,880 --> 00:06:48,480 Speaker 2: sold and pushed it's sold. Is that something that white 134 00:06:48,480 --> 00:06:48,960 Speaker 2: women do? 135 00:06:49,600 --> 00:06:52,039 Speaker 4: And so for a lot of black people, they have 136 00:06:52,080 --> 00:06:54,880 Speaker 4: a tendency to think that this is something my grandma, 137 00:06:54,960 --> 00:06:57,440 Speaker 4: my great grandma does, But this is not something that 138 00:06:57,560 --> 00:06:59,640 Speaker 4: kind of black people get into. But you will be 139 00:06:59,680 --> 00:07:03,080 Speaker 4: a maze ease how many people actually get into it, 140 00:07:03,360 --> 00:07:06,680 Speaker 4: like it yeah, and love it, you know, and particularly 141 00:07:06,760 --> 00:07:09,200 Speaker 4: if you are somebody where you're tired of shopping and 142 00:07:09,240 --> 00:07:11,960 Speaker 4: it don't fit right, it ain't long enough, it ain't 143 00:07:11,960 --> 00:07:12,520 Speaker 4: big enough. 144 00:07:12,840 --> 00:07:14,960 Speaker 5: You know, it can't fry. 145 00:07:14,520 --> 00:07:17,320 Speaker 4: Right, or it can't fetch your breast, you know, or 146 00:07:17,320 --> 00:07:20,240 Speaker 4: it can't fetch your hips or or or if you 147 00:07:20,440 --> 00:07:21,960 Speaker 4: like me, you going not try me fun. 148 00:07:22,080 --> 00:07:24,320 Speaker 2: You got a big butt. So when you put something. 149 00:07:24,040 --> 00:07:27,560 Speaker 4: On, the skirt jacks up three inches and you're like, okay, 150 00:07:27,800 --> 00:07:29,920 Speaker 4: now I'm jacked up in the front and I'm long. 151 00:07:30,000 --> 00:07:31,480 Speaker 2: I mean I'm jacked up in the back and I'm 152 00:07:31,520 --> 00:07:32,120 Speaker 2: long in the front. 153 00:07:32,160 --> 00:07:35,200 Speaker 4: Like you don't get an even circle around the bottom 154 00:07:35,400 --> 00:07:38,960 Speaker 4: hour skirt it is supposed to go. And you know, 155 00:07:39,080 --> 00:07:42,720 Speaker 4: little things like that, and particularly allok aside, once you 156 00:07:42,800 --> 00:07:45,920 Speaker 4: get over a certain size, dact like all you want 157 00:07:45,920 --> 00:07:49,160 Speaker 4: to wear is some goddamn flowers or your grandma quilket. 158 00:07:49,480 --> 00:07:52,360 Speaker 5: Like big people want to be prenny too. Yeah, y'all 159 00:07:52,400 --> 00:07:53,240 Speaker 5: want to be printed too. 160 00:07:53,320 --> 00:07:55,240 Speaker 2: Y'all want to want to pinks and the greens and 161 00:07:55,280 --> 00:07:55,760 Speaker 2: all that shit. 162 00:07:55,840 --> 00:07:57,560 Speaker 1: Y'all want to want that that stuff too. 163 00:07:57,600 --> 00:08:00,120 Speaker 4: And it's very frustrating when you go in there and 164 00:08:00,160 --> 00:08:02,000 Speaker 4: they act like it's nineteen twenty five. 165 00:08:02,120 --> 00:08:04,520 Speaker 2: If you over a size twelve and you like it, 166 00:08:04,720 --> 00:08:05,680 Speaker 2: you don't get out of here. 167 00:08:06,000 --> 00:08:07,720 Speaker 5: I want to be sex and two, I. 168 00:08:07,680 --> 00:08:10,080 Speaker 3: Mean like, and the thing that I love about what 169 00:08:10,120 --> 00:08:12,320 Speaker 3: you've said is that this is one of the ways 170 00:08:12,360 --> 00:08:15,360 Speaker 3: that sowing is a key to liberation. And and by 171 00:08:15,400 --> 00:08:17,560 Speaker 3: that I mean when you are making things that fit 172 00:08:17,720 --> 00:08:21,800 Speaker 3: your body, you have you have somehow given the lie 173 00:08:21,880 --> 00:08:24,440 Speaker 3: to this idea that people are standard sizes. People that 174 00:08:24,520 --> 00:08:28,000 Speaker 3: know standard people, people are standard sizes. It's really the 175 00:08:28,040 --> 00:08:31,520 Speaker 3: flaw of the world in which we live that wants 176 00:08:31,560 --> 00:08:35,360 Speaker 3: to determine conformity, right that this is this you know, 177 00:08:35,400 --> 00:08:37,880 Speaker 3: it's the same thing with BMI. You know, that same 178 00:08:37,920 --> 00:08:42,120 Speaker 3: white supremacist tree that gave us BMI as an index 179 00:08:42,200 --> 00:08:46,280 Speaker 3: for health is anti black. Similarly, you know, one of 180 00:08:46,320 --> 00:08:48,480 Speaker 3: the reasons that I created Black Women's Stitch was in 181 00:08:48,600 --> 00:08:52,040 Speaker 3: result to my own organizing and activism. But it was like, 182 00:08:52,600 --> 00:08:54,640 Speaker 3: at the end of the day, it turned out that 183 00:08:55,240 --> 00:08:58,319 Speaker 3: sewing with the whites, as I called it, going with 184 00:08:58,320 --> 00:09:00,600 Speaker 3: the whites is not as. 185 00:09:00,480 --> 00:09:01,800 Speaker 5: Fun as you would imagine. 186 00:09:01,840 --> 00:09:04,679 Speaker 3: And so I have this the backstories about my work 187 00:09:04,679 --> 00:09:07,120 Speaker 3: as a BLM organizer in Charlottesville and a lot of 188 00:09:07,160 --> 00:09:10,839 Speaker 3: active resistance against white supremacy and lots of like a 189 00:09:10,880 --> 00:09:13,599 Speaker 3: lot of writing and interviews and I co founded a 190 00:09:13,640 --> 00:09:16,600 Speaker 3: media collective and I sold a giant puppet. I mean, 191 00:09:16,960 --> 00:09:19,040 Speaker 3: I was trying to fight white supremacy all the way. 192 00:09:19,200 --> 00:09:22,840 Speaker 3: Right at the end of the day, after this terrible, 193 00:09:22,920 --> 00:09:25,320 Speaker 3: terrible thing happens in Charlottesville. And for those of YOUO 194 00:09:25,400 --> 00:09:28,520 Speaker 3: don't know about the white supremacist terror attacks in twenty seventeen, 195 00:09:28,559 --> 00:09:30,920 Speaker 3: here in Charlottesville, it was the nightmare. 196 00:09:31,000 --> 00:09:34,120 Speaker 5: It was white supremacist in the streets. It was brawls, and. 197 00:09:33,960 --> 00:09:37,520 Speaker 3: Then at the end there was the attack of Jamesville 198 00:09:38,000 --> 00:09:39,120 Speaker 3: plowing through the crowd and. 199 00:09:39,160 --> 00:09:41,880 Speaker 5: Murdering Heather Higher. And I was there. 200 00:09:42,000 --> 00:09:44,040 Speaker 3: I was there at the intersection when that car came 201 00:09:44,080 --> 00:09:47,960 Speaker 3: from Wow. And it was a nightmare. It was a nightmare. 202 00:09:48,040 --> 00:09:52,960 Speaker 3: It was a fucking nightmare. And what surprised me, well, 203 00:09:52,960 --> 00:09:57,760 Speaker 3: it didn't really surprise me. I was stunned, right of course, traumatized. 204 00:09:57,800 --> 00:10:01,079 Speaker 3: And then my stun traumatiz asked says, you know what, 205 00:10:01,080 --> 00:10:03,400 Speaker 3: I would like a break. I'm gonna go to this 206 00:10:03,400 --> 00:10:06,679 Speaker 3: little quilt retreat outside of town. It's the same one 207 00:10:06,720 --> 00:10:09,000 Speaker 3: I've been going to for the last fifteen years. Yes, 208 00:10:09,000 --> 00:10:11,680 Speaker 3: I've always I'm always the only black person. Yes, even 209 00:10:11,720 --> 00:10:14,600 Speaker 3: though I'm not young. I think I'm older than both 210 00:10:14,600 --> 00:10:16,720 Speaker 3: of y'all, and I'm still the youngest person at this event. 211 00:10:16,880 --> 00:10:20,080 Speaker 1: Well you look great, Okay, don't let nobody tell you different. Okay, 212 00:10:21,440 --> 00:10:24,720 Speaker 1: younger than us, my daughter, I knew, best friends. 213 00:10:25,000 --> 00:10:28,760 Speaker 5: I know fo skin, I got, I gotta, I gotta 214 00:10:28,760 --> 00:10:29,920 Speaker 5: call y'all every five minutes. 215 00:10:32,120 --> 00:10:34,199 Speaker 3: Please be sure to leave your phone number and expressed. 216 00:10:34,240 --> 00:10:36,880 Speaker 3: I also like to send text messages word by word. 217 00:10:36,800 --> 00:10:40,880 Speaker 5: Like you believe as well. 218 00:10:41,080 --> 00:10:42,559 Speaker 3: You don't have to wory about me harassing you on 219 00:10:42,600 --> 00:10:44,440 Speaker 3: Twitter because I don't do Twitter. I can't keep up. 220 00:10:44,440 --> 00:10:46,520 Speaker 5: I don't I can't figure it out. But I will 221 00:10:46,559 --> 00:10:47,439 Speaker 5: take the shit out of you. 222 00:10:48,200 --> 00:10:50,400 Speaker 3: And so I went to this event and it was 223 00:10:50,440 --> 00:10:53,240 Speaker 3: an all white event like normal, and people had heard 224 00:10:53,240 --> 00:10:54,960 Speaker 3: I was there. They were like, oh, Lisa, you know, 225 00:10:55,040 --> 00:10:57,280 Speaker 3: I know you do the organizing, and you know you 226 00:10:57,360 --> 00:10:59,600 Speaker 3: teach black studies, and you know what happened? 227 00:10:59,600 --> 00:11:00,840 Speaker 5: What was it? 228 00:11:00,920 --> 00:11:02,880 Speaker 3: And so people would ask me, and so I told them, 229 00:11:02,920 --> 00:11:05,160 Speaker 3: I said, oh it was it was terrible. 230 00:11:05,240 --> 00:11:07,640 Speaker 5: Like these This was a group of white women that 231 00:11:07,800 --> 00:11:09,800 Speaker 5: are Virginians. I'm in Virginia. 232 00:11:10,360 --> 00:11:13,319 Speaker 3: Many of them are hardcore Virginians in all the ways 233 00:11:13,320 --> 00:11:17,160 Speaker 3: you can imagine, if not actively pro Confederacy, then kind 234 00:11:17,160 --> 00:11:17,880 Speaker 3: of tacitly. 235 00:11:18,640 --> 00:11:24,440 Speaker 5: I guess black lives matter like it, and so this. 236 00:11:25,160 --> 00:11:25,960 Speaker 5: So it happened. 237 00:11:25,960 --> 00:11:29,040 Speaker 3: I went to the event, and then when I got home, 238 00:11:29,480 --> 00:11:32,240 Speaker 3: like a couple of weeks later, you know, I realized 239 00:11:32,240 --> 00:11:34,840 Speaker 3: I saw that the organizer that event was acting funny. 240 00:11:35,000 --> 00:11:37,200 Speaker 3: She wasn't talking to me, she was acting weird. At 241 00:11:37,200 --> 00:11:40,360 Speaker 3: the end, I said goodbye, she didn't speak back. Okay, 242 00:11:40,480 --> 00:11:43,520 Speaker 3: whatever's the problem. Two weeks later, when I got home 243 00:11:43,520 --> 00:11:47,240 Speaker 3: from this event, everything time has passed. I had paid money, 244 00:11:47,760 --> 00:11:52,600 Speaker 3: a deposit for the next event with that group. When 245 00:11:52,640 --> 00:11:56,480 Speaker 3: I got back, my check was returned to me in 246 00:11:56,559 --> 00:12:01,360 Speaker 3: an empty envelope. It was my address, my address, and 247 00:12:01,520 --> 00:12:07,360 Speaker 3: that check. Now, dumb ass me. I'm like, I wonder 248 00:12:07,360 --> 00:12:08,840 Speaker 3: if this event has been canceled. 249 00:12:10,760 --> 00:12:13,480 Speaker 5: I should see I know one person. 250 00:12:13,679 --> 00:12:15,680 Speaker 3: I know a person I've been knowing her for years, 251 00:12:15,720 --> 00:12:19,640 Speaker 3: you know, very conservative Baptist lady out in you know, 252 00:12:20,040 --> 00:12:22,000 Speaker 3: the western part of Virginia. Let me just check with 253 00:12:22,040 --> 00:12:27,240 Speaker 3: her and see. Well, Lisa, I don't know what to say. 254 00:12:27,400 --> 00:12:30,600 Speaker 3: I don't think the event's not being canceled, so I 255 00:12:30,600 --> 00:12:33,040 Speaker 3: don't know why your check is Then returned, you know what, 256 00:12:33,679 --> 00:12:37,640 Speaker 3: I think it's because you broke the rule. There was 257 00:12:37,679 --> 00:12:40,720 Speaker 3: a rule that Charlottesville was not to be discussed. 258 00:12:41,600 --> 00:12:45,320 Speaker 5: Wow, and you discussed. 259 00:12:44,840 --> 00:12:47,800 Speaker 1: It because you asked. 260 00:12:49,160 --> 00:12:53,160 Speaker 5: Duffy asked, hell, is this trus trust me? 261 00:12:53,400 --> 00:12:55,199 Speaker 3: I was like, you are not the people that I 262 00:12:55,240 --> 00:12:57,600 Speaker 3: would go in and open my heart to about these events. 263 00:12:57,679 --> 00:13:02,400 Speaker 3: Right for that right, And so listen y'all when I 264 00:13:02,440 --> 00:13:03,720 Speaker 3: tell you, I was so hurt. 265 00:13:04,360 --> 00:13:08,319 Speaker 5: I was so hurt. I was really hurt, right, and 266 00:13:09,080 --> 00:13:10,160 Speaker 5: then Ian, but these. 267 00:13:10,040 --> 00:13:11,720 Speaker 3: Are the people like when my father died, I was 268 00:13:11,760 --> 00:13:14,960 Speaker 3: at an event with them. My father died just suddenly, 269 00:13:15,080 --> 00:13:18,040 Speaker 3: like out of nowhere. These people made a quilt for me, 270 00:13:19,440 --> 00:13:22,760 Speaker 3: right with their signatures. Right, they gave me my money 271 00:13:22,800 --> 00:13:25,400 Speaker 3: back because I had to leave the event early because 272 00:13:25,400 --> 00:13:26,160 Speaker 3: of this tragedy. 273 00:13:26,880 --> 00:13:28,720 Speaker 5: So I thought that meant something. 274 00:13:29,320 --> 00:13:31,440 Speaker 3: But what it might have, but what it didn't mean 275 00:13:31,480 --> 00:13:33,760 Speaker 3: that they were not willing to trade their white supremacy 276 00:13:33,800 --> 00:13:36,280 Speaker 3: for me, right, They were not willing to give up 277 00:13:36,320 --> 00:13:40,599 Speaker 3: their comfort for me, and they were not willing to 278 00:13:40,640 --> 00:13:43,199 Speaker 3: stop saying things like if people don't want to get 279 00:13:43,240 --> 00:13:45,560 Speaker 3: hit by cars, they shouldn't protest in the streets. 280 00:13:45,640 --> 00:13:46,320 Speaker 1: Oh my god. 281 00:13:47,160 --> 00:13:48,680 Speaker 5: And so I was. 282 00:13:48,800 --> 00:13:51,440 Speaker 3: Then after I processed all that, and then I started 283 00:13:51,440 --> 00:13:54,400 Speaker 3: thinking about, like, you know what, I bet these people 284 00:13:54,480 --> 00:13:57,360 Speaker 3: have been going around saying I'm their black friends, yes, 285 00:13:58,880 --> 00:14:01,120 Speaker 3: and they're like, I know, I know a black lady, 286 00:14:01,280 --> 00:14:02,640 Speaker 3: she a professor. 287 00:14:02,200 --> 00:14:05,160 Speaker 5: And everything up at that school. I gott to racist. 288 00:14:05,440 --> 00:14:08,600 Speaker 3: I said, across from her all weekend, and don't mention her, 289 00:14:09,360 --> 00:14:11,760 Speaker 3: like I mean, honestly like that. 290 00:14:12,000 --> 00:14:14,400 Speaker 5: And then I and after I got embarrassed. 291 00:14:14,920 --> 00:14:17,880 Speaker 3: Then I got mad, right, and I was, I was, 292 00:14:17,920 --> 00:14:20,160 Speaker 3: I was embarrassed. I was embarrassed. I was like, who 293 00:14:20,160 --> 00:14:22,920 Speaker 3: did these people think I was all this time? 294 00:14:23,160 --> 00:14:23,680 Speaker 5: Right right? 295 00:14:24,240 --> 00:14:26,680 Speaker 3: Who did they think I was? And I'm like, I 296 00:14:27,480 --> 00:14:29,320 Speaker 3: just cannot. And so then I said, you know what, 297 00:14:29,520 --> 00:14:32,600 Speaker 3: I need something different. I need something else. I need something. 298 00:14:32,680 --> 00:14:36,480 Speaker 3: And that's when I turned back to my root. My 299 00:14:36,680 --> 00:14:40,440 Speaker 3: own mother and my mother sold, my grandmother sold, my 300 00:14:40,480 --> 00:14:43,080 Speaker 3: father's mother sold, like both grandmothers on both sides. So 301 00:14:43,720 --> 00:14:47,600 Speaker 3: like I come from, this belongs to us, this is 302 00:14:47,720 --> 00:14:49,320 Speaker 3: my ancestral craft. 303 00:14:49,880 --> 00:14:51,520 Speaker 5: And anytime I sold. 304 00:14:51,280 --> 00:14:54,120 Speaker 3: At home with my family, it was only black women 305 00:14:54,160 --> 00:14:56,600 Speaker 3: doing it, and they would they would hang out, they 306 00:14:56,600 --> 00:14:57,800 Speaker 3: would do so anyway. 307 00:14:57,840 --> 00:14:58,680 Speaker 5: All of that would say. 308 00:14:58,720 --> 00:15:00,920 Speaker 3: I took a very long path to get back to 309 00:15:01,000 --> 00:15:03,760 Speaker 3: the center, and I feel great about it. And like 310 00:15:03,800 --> 00:15:06,600 Speaker 3: they say, those things that break your heart can correct 311 00:15:06,640 --> 00:15:07,120 Speaker 3: your vision. 312 00:15:07,600 --> 00:15:08,880 Speaker 1: Yes, oh I love that. 313 00:15:08,880 --> 00:15:11,160 Speaker 3: That is what happened, and that's what happened to me, 314 00:15:11,320 --> 00:15:13,720 Speaker 3: and that's why, Like now, I'm like. 315 00:15:13,760 --> 00:15:16,000 Speaker 5: People are like black women's stitch. Shouldn't it be all 316 00:15:16,040 --> 00:15:18,600 Speaker 5: women stitch? No? 317 00:15:17,000 --> 00:15:22,360 Speaker 3: No, I don't even. I don't respond. I don't respond. 318 00:15:22,440 --> 00:15:24,920 Speaker 3: I have no tolerance for it. And it's so funny 319 00:15:24,920 --> 00:15:26,720 Speaker 3: because some other folks who are similar that they might 320 00:15:26,760 --> 00:15:29,840 Speaker 3: get like they get shady comments, they get like lectures 321 00:15:29,840 --> 00:15:31,040 Speaker 3: from white people or whatever. 322 00:15:31,560 --> 00:15:32,280 Speaker 5: I don't get it. 323 00:15:32,360 --> 00:15:32,680 Speaker 2: I don't. 324 00:15:32,680 --> 00:15:35,040 Speaker 3: I mean, I do not get those comments, not on Instagram, 325 00:15:35,080 --> 00:15:35,880 Speaker 3: not on socials. 326 00:15:35,920 --> 00:15:37,680 Speaker 5: Sometimes like some cracker will find me and. 327 00:15:37,600 --> 00:15:41,520 Speaker 3: Write me at work, you know, and like, please explain, professor, 328 00:15:41,600 --> 00:15:43,960 Speaker 3: why do you think that fascism misconnected to her? 329 00:15:44,080 --> 00:15:47,880 Speaker 5: I'm like, and I don't answer those either. Actually, I'm like, 330 00:15:48,520 --> 00:15:49,280 Speaker 5: I don't work for you. 331 00:15:49,920 --> 00:15:52,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, there seems to be like a very 332 00:15:52,320 --> 00:15:56,960 Speaker 1: organized attack. I feel like, obviously Charlottesville was a huge 333 00:15:56,960 --> 00:15:59,160 Speaker 1: part of this. Right you will not replace those as 334 00:15:59,200 --> 00:16:03,800 Speaker 1: literally the mantra of these white people marching with tiki torches, 335 00:16:05,120 --> 00:16:10,480 Speaker 1: but it definitely seems like a coordinated attack on academia 336 00:16:10,960 --> 00:16:17,760 Speaker 1: and on history and truth and unobjectable fact, you know. 337 00:16:17,920 --> 00:16:24,200 Speaker 1: So i'd imagine with you one being in Virginia where 338 00:16:24,280 --> 00:16:28,680 Speaker 1: y'all just had you know, like the goat governor governor blackface, 339 00:16:30,040 --> 00:16:37,400 Speaker 1: and then afterwards you have like an openly anti crt 340 00:16:37,640 --> 00:16:39,400 Speaker 1: is there calling it, but we all know that's just 341 00:16:39,480 --> 00:16:42,920 Speaker 1: them trying to keep any reality out of the school, 342 00:16:42,960 --> 00:16:45,320 Speaker 1: any racial history out of the school. You had, like 343 00:16:45,400 --> 00:16:48,040 Speaker 1: that's what followed that up, which you know is part 344 00:16:48,080 --> 00:16:50,320 Speaker 1: for the course for the backlash, right, And I think 345 00:16:51,040 --> 00:16:54,160 Speaker 1: we're currently in a time of backlash, you know, probably 346 00:16:54,240 --> 00:16:56,520 Speaker 1: since two thousand and eight. I don't know what happened 347 00:16:56,560 --> 00:16:58,760 Speaker 1: in two thousand and eight, but since two thousand and 348 00:16:58,800 --> 00:17:02,240 Speaker 1: eight we've been in a like a backlash. And it's 349 00:17:02,320 --> 00:17:04,840 Speaker 1: interesting that you could feel that in the group of 350 00:17:04,880 --> 00:17:08,480 Speaker 1: your peers with the Sewing But also you just alluded 351 00:17:08,520 --> 00:17:12,359 Speaker 1: to getting emails at your jobby job, which feels like 352 00:17:12,680 --> 00:17:16,040 Speaker 1: an extenuation or at least connection to that. To even 353 00:17:16,080 --> 00:17:18,479 Speaker 1: the whole we can't have you being all black up 354 00:17:18,520 --> 00:17:19,680 Speaker 1: in the sewing circle. 355 00:17:20,000 --> 00:17:22,600 Speaker 3: Not at all, not at all, And Like one of 356 00:17:22,680 --> 00:17:25,240 Speaker 3: my favorite letters that I got, I wrote this piece 357 00:17:25,280 --> 00:17:29,080 Speaker 3: for the Washington Post and it was called, Thomas Jefferson 358 00:17:29,200 --> 00:17:31,560 Speaker 3: is the R Kelly of the American Enlightenment. 359 00:17:32,000 --> 00:17:32,720 Speaker 2: Come on through. 360 00:17:33,800 --> 00:17:35,400 Speaker 5: It is because. 361 00:17:35,480 --> 00:17:39,719 Speaker 3: Because Thomas Jefferson, Like when Thomas Jefferson met Sally him 362 00:17:39,800 --> 00:17:42,679 Speaker 3: and she was a toddler, she was a baby, she 363 00:17:42,800 --> 00:17:45,760 Speaker 3: came in with her mother as part of Jefferson's inheritance. 364 00:17:46,480 --> 00:17:48,480 Speaker 5: She was pregnant the first time at fourteen. 365 00:17:49,320 --> 00:17:52,800 Speaker 3: So like this is this is not a metaphor, this 366 00:17:52,880 --> 00:17:55,520 Speaker 3: is an actual fact, right, and yet and what holds 367 00:17:55,560 --> 00:17:58,639 Speaker 3: them together is misogynire, this contempt for black women and 368 00:17:58,680 --> 00:18:00,119 Speaker 3: black women being debated, you. 369 00:18:00,160 --> 00:18:01,159 Speaker 5: Know, whatever, you know. 370 00:18:01,800 --> 00:18:04,560 Speaker 3: And so I get letters, you know, around things like 371 00:18:04,600 --> 00:18:08,159 Speaker 3: that and this idea that for some reason there is 372 00:18:08,160 --> 00:18:13,119 Speaker 3: this constant challenge to black authority, right, and and I 373 00:18:13,240 --> 00:18:16,040 Speaker 3: sometimes find that at all levels, even within my own 374 00:18:16,040 --> 00:18:18,600 Speaker 3: classes and among my own students, I have to often 375 00:18:18,680 --> 00:18:22,639 Speaker 3: like pause and say, I know they don't mean to 376 00:18:22,680 --> 00:18:25,960 Speaker 3: say this racist shit, and I have to say and 377 00:18:25,960 --> 00:18:27,879 Speaker 3: then I have to write to them and saying I 378 00:18:27,920 --> 00:18:29,520 Speaker 3: know you don't mean to say this racist shit. 379 00:18:30,520 --> 00:18:32,040 Speaker 5: I might or might not use the word ship. 380 00:18:33,280 --> 00:18:35,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, of course, but they don't. 381 00:18:35,720 --> 00:18:38,160 Speaker 4: They don't know, like they don't, you know, because that's 382 00:18:38,160 --> 00:18:40,479 Speaker 4: that's that's what they've been taught and and and and 383 00:18:40,520 --> 00:18:43,800 Speaker 4: that's what they've been fed. And it's honestly what they believe. 384 00:18:44,080 --> 00:18:47,119 Speaker 4: And anything that debunks what they believe, it becomes a problem. 385 00:18:47,160 --> 00:18:49,640 Speaker 4: Because the older I get, the more I realize, even 386 00:18:49,680 --> 00:18:52,880 Speaker 4: black people, anything that goes against the foundation of what 387 00:18:52,920 --> 00:18:53,560 Speaker 4: you've been taught. 388 00:18:53,640 --> 00:18:56,840 Speaker 2: People automatically rejected. Anything that tells. 389 00:18:56,560 --> 00:18:58,760 Speaker 4: You that what you've been taught is wrong, what you've 390 00:18:58,760 --> 00:19:01,160 Speaker 4: been taught as biased, what you've been taught as sexist, 391 00:19:01,400 --> 00:19:04,560 Speaker 4: what you've been taught is homophobic, like like anything that 392 00:19:04,640 --> 00:19:08,399 Speaker 4: teaches you that makes you question, Oh, my grandmama and 393 00:19:08,480 --> 00:19:11,000 Speaker 4: them might be wrong, my uncle of them might be wrong. 394 00:19:11,040 --> 00:19:13,000 Speaker 4: These people that took care of me and fed me, 395 00:19:13,320 --> 00:19:16,280 Speaker 4: they might be flawed human beings, Yes they are, because 396 00:19:16,280 --> 00:19:19,960 Speaker 4: they're human beings, and human beings are flawed, But nobody 397 00:19:19,960 --> 00:19:22,440 Speaker 4: wants to look at the people that raised them as 398 00:19:22,480 --> 00:19:25,320 Speaker 4: being flawed people. That's why we put parents on this pedestal, 399 00:19:25,359 --> 00:19:28,480 Speaker 4: and then we're hurt and we're disappointed, every crushed when 400 00:19:28,480 --> 00:19:30,840 Speaker 4: they don't meet our expectations. 401 00:19:31,040 --> 00:19:35,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, I think the thing that's interesting because someone said 402 00:19:35,680 --> 00:19:37,639 Speaker 1: giving them too much credit, But I don't think it 403 00:19:37,720 --> 00:19:41,639 Speaker 1: is giving them credit. I think not knowing is almost worse, 404 00:19:41,800 --> 00:19:43,560 Speaker 1: you know what I mean, because it's like such a 405 00:19:43,920 --> 00:19:47,520 Speaker 1: denial societally to make sure that these kids don't know. 406 00:19:47,800 --> 00:19:50,600 Speaker 1: Like if y'all think that all these school board means 407 00:19:50,640 --> 00:19:52,480 Speaker 1: that they fighting in, they're not fighting in it because 408 00:19:52,480 --> 00:19:55,040 Speaker 1: they want to give the kids a different education. They're 409 00:19:55,040 --> 00:19:57,520 Speaker 1: fighting it so that the kids never get educated. And 410 00:19:57,600 --> 00:20:00,119 Speaker 1: I think exactly that's what happens now. I might I'm 411 00:20:00,160 --> 00:20:02,640 Speaker 1: out in different ways, and maybe there are obviously there's 412 00:20:02,680 --> 00:20:05,560 Speaker 1: going to be some people that know better but decide 413 00:20:05,680 --> 00:20:10,679 Speaker 1: against knowing better. But I think if nothing else, the 414 00:20:10,720 --> 00:20:13,920 Speaker 1: older I get that one phrase that that I've heard 415 00:20:13,920 --> 00:20:15,639 Speaker 1: since I was a kid about how people don't know 416 00:20:15,760 --> 00:20:19,480 Speaker 1: history are doomed to repeat it. It just definitely becomes 417 00:20:19,600 --> 00:20:22,919 Speaker 1: like fact. And I think if you take out the 418 00:20:22,960 --> 00:20:26,400 Speaker 1: word doomed for the people who want to repeat the history, 419 00:20:26,680 --> 00:20:30,040 Speaker 1: it's not doomed. They're like, cool, open, we get yeah, 420 00:20:30,240 --> 00:20:33,560 Speaker 1: we get to repeat history. Let's make America great again, 421 00:20:34,640 --> 00:20:35,439 Speaker 1: you know what I mean? 422 00:20:36,359 --> 00:20:38,920 Speaker 3: And what I find so powerful about what you said 423 00:20:38,920 --> 00:20:41,120 Speaker 3: it reminds you of something I learned from a student recently. 424 00:20:41,200 --> 00:20:43,000 Speaker 3: Something I do with all my classes is or for 425 00:20:43,040 --> 00:20:46,359 Speaker 3: the undergraduates, we do we create a list of, like 426 00:20:46,359 --> 00:20:50,000 Speaker 3: in terms of engagement or community agreements, what's going to 427 00:20:50,040 --> 00:20:53,119 Speaker 3: make you feel safe and comfortable having these challenging conversations. 428 00:20:53,280 --> 00:20:55,240 Speaker 3: And some of the reports I get from black students 429 00:20:55,280 --> 00:20:58,439 Speaker 3: are just shocking, like don't say the N word in class, 430 00:20:58,480 --> 00:21:02,760 Speaker 3: And I'm like, who is doing I'm like what? 431 00:21:02,880 --> 00:21:04,520 Speaker 5: And I came from Florida. 432 00:21:04,800 --> 00:21:07,920 Speaker 3: Oh all right, I mean, and I'm from Florida born 433 00:21:07,920 --> 00:21:10,400 Speaker 3: and raised. But like, one of the things they said 434 00:21:10,440 --> 00:21:13,199 Speaker 3: that I found really concerning because it speaks to what 435 00:21:13,240 --> 00:21:15,639 Speaker 3: you were saying right about, like wanting people to like 436 00:21:16,080 --> 00:21:19,000 Speaker 3: to not know, to be deliberately ignorant is the way 437 00:21:19,080 --> 00:21:21,920 Speaker 3: that folks have been trained, I think, to weaponize they're ignorant. 438 00:21:22,359 --> 00:21:24,840 Speaker 3: So one of the things that a black student suggested, 439 00:21:25,000 --> 00:21:28,240 Speaker 3: she said, well, one of the things I think is 440 00:21:28,280 --> 00:21:36,879 Speaker 3: important is you know, don't don't attack, educate. Don't attack educate. 441 00:21:36,920 --> 00:21:39,400 Speaker 3: And I said, tell me more about that. And it says, well, 442 00:21:39,880 --> 00:21:43,480 Speaker 3: if something if someone says something harmful, or if someone 443 00:21:43,520 --> 00:21:45,720 Speaker 3: says something that hurts your feelings or some said something 444 00:21:45,760 --> 00:21:50,040 Speaker 3: that's racist or sexist and homophobic, you should correct you 445 00:21:50,080 --> 00:21:53,800 Speaker 3: should you should educate them. You should educate them because 446 00:21:53,840 --> 00:21:57,480 Speaker 3: they don't know, and rather than being upset and attacking them. 447 00:21:57,800 --> 00:22:01,760 Speaker 3: And I said, that's a terrible idea. I don't know 448 00:22:01,800 --> 00:22:04,760 Speaker 3: who told you. That's a young young person, that's. 449 00:22:04,560 --> 00:22:05,240 Speaker 5: A bad idea. 450 00:22:05,320 --> 00:22:07,200 Speaker 3: And I said, you know what, because I am from 451 00:22:07,240 --> 00:22:12,800 Speaker 3: the say shit, get hit school of diplombas. And what 452 00:22:13,000 --> 00:22:19,160 Speaker 3: happens when somebody is trained to educate and not attack 453 00:22:19,800 --> 00:22:24,600 Speaker 3: is that you get conditioned to accept your marginalization. 454 00:22:25,160 --> 00:22:27,680 Speaker 5: You get condition you get conditioned. 455 00:22:27,200 --> 00:22:31,480 Speaker 3: To say, oh, they don't know, so you're supposed to 456 00:22:31,480 --> 00:22:35,640 Speaker 3: what spend your entire life going around like teaching people 457 00:22:35,880 --> 00:22:40,040 Speaker 3: how not to be shitty to you one by one? 458 00:22:40,640 --> 00:22:41,240 Speaker 2: Are you kidding? 459 00:22:41,480 --> 00:22:46,359 Speaker 1: And we have much more access to education than ever before, 460 00:22:46,520 --> 00:22:49,880 Speaker 1: and information there is cool literally And then the other 461 00:22:49,960 --> 00:22:52,400 Speaker 1: thing that's interesting is like there's spaces for that, right, 462 00:22:52,560 --> 00:22:57,000 Speaker 1: Like there are places in outreach and education that is happening. 463 00:22:57,119 --> 00:22:59,480 Speaker 1: There's like you might be able to be in a 464 00:22:59,480 --> 00:23:01,960 Speaker 1: classroom to ask a question that you shouldn't ask a 465 00:23:02,080 --> 00:23:05,040 Speaker 1: random black person on the fucking street, Like it's like 466 00:23:05,119 --> 00:23:07,760 Speaker 1: we've all that's always been a thing that's not like 467 00:23:07,920 --> 00:23:12,840 Speaker 1: new or anything, but to constantly make like us the educators. 468 00:23:12,840 --> 00:23:14,960 Speaker 1: It reminds me of something that's happening in pop culture 469 00:23:15,000 --> 00:23:18,840 Speaker 1: right now, which is, you know, Kanye Wes mom died 470 00:23:18,960 --> 00:23:22,879 Speaker 1: years ago, Kanye West spars our control, Kanye West gets 471 00:23:22,880 --> 00:23:25,960 Speaker 1: married to Kim Kardashian and all this stuff, right, And 472 00:23:26,040 --> 00:23:28,439 Speaker 1: I remember people saying for years, I always thought it 473 00:23:28,480 --> 00:23:30,439 Speaker 1: was kind of stupid, but it was like, you know 474 00:23:30,520 --> 00:23:32,760 Speaker 1: what that brother needs, You just need a good black 475 00:23:32,800 --> 00:23:35,040 Speaker 1: woman to help him. And I was like, why would 476 00:23:35,080 --> 00:23:37,359 Speaker 1: you put that work on some random black lady? But 477 00:23:38,000 --> 00:23:42,119 Speaker 1: you know what, he did find it right, right, and 478 00:23:42,200 --> 00:23:45,440 Speaker 1: he did find him a black woman, and it's Candice Owens, 479 00:23:45,560 --> 00:23:49,040 Speaker 1: who is currently you know, like pulling his puppet strings. 480 00:23:49,080 --> 00:23:52,600 Speaker 1: And it's like, maybe, so when we say this, like 481 00:23:53,040 --> 00:23:57,040 Speaker 1: you should don't hate to educate or whatever, we're who 482 00:23:57,240 --> 00:24:00,400 Speaker 1: who's the person we'd actually don't know. I don't feel 483 00:24:00,480 --> 00:24:03,760 Speaker 1: comfortable with just everybody educating other people all the time 484 00:24:03,880 --> 00:24:05,919 Speaker 1: because maybe you put your hand through you rub your 485 00:24:05,920 --> 00:24:08,000 Speaker 1: hand through Canda his own's hair, and she's like, you 486 00:24:08,040 --> 00:24:10,240 Speaker 1: know what white lives matter? If you ask me, and 487 00:24:10,280 --> 00:24:12,280 Speaker 1: I don't want her speaking from me. So go to 488 00:24:12,320 --> 00:24:14,840 Speaker 1: a class, pick up a book, do something else. 489 00:24:15,680 --> 00:24:19,000 Speaker 5: Books are great. It's also amazing. Podcasts out there amazing. 490 00:24:19,119 --> 00:24:22,840 Speaker 3: They talk about like black issues from a variety of perspectives. 491 00:24:22,840 --> 00:24:27,240 Speaker 3: They even have games like. 492 00:24:26,119 --> 00:24:28,159 Speaker 1: I mean, don't go to us, but yeah, I hear you, 493 00:24:28,160 --> 00:24:30,320 Speaker 1: I hear you. I feel like we're a little irresponsible. 494 00:24:31,400 --> 00:24:33,879 Speaker 1: But back to the back to the stitching though. I 495 00:24:33,880 --> 00:24:38,080 Speaker 1: think another thing, and this happens with like gardening as 496 00:24:38,080 --> 00:24:42,840 Speaker 1: well and a lot of other stuff, is things that 497 00:24:42,960 --> 00:24:46,760 Speaker 1: used to be labor for black people. I think without 498 00:24:46,800 --> 00:24:50,400 Speaker 1: really like subconsciously, we run from them sometimes where it's 499 00:24:50,440 --> 00:24:55,040 Speaker 1: like outside, why would I ever not? They gonna keep me, 500 00:24:55,200 --> 00:24:55,840 Speaker 1: you know what I mean? 501 00:24:55,880 --> 00:24:59,160 Speaker 4: And I think, honey, you're talking about me, because honey, I. 502 00:25:00,119 --> 00:25:02,359 Speaker 1: Well, well hold up, you were just talking about stitching 503 00:25:02,400 --> 00:25:05,040 Speaker 1: and so, and that is labor that used to be 504 00:25:05,200 --> 00:25:08,080 Speaker 1: done a lot of times by black people, like black 505 00:25:08,119 --> 00:25:10,680 Speaker 1: women specifically to be like do this work for us? 506 00:25:11,200 --> 00:25:15,359 Speaker 1: And so there's something about reclaiming that for yourself, like nah, 507 00:25:15,440 --> 00:25:18,800 Speaker 1: I like, I garden for me and I won't. I'm 508 00:25:18,800 --> 00:25:22,040 Speaker 1: gonna eat these tomatoes I sow for me. I'm gonna 509 00:25:22,040 --> 00:25:24,320 Speaker 1: wear these clothes. I think there's something to it. 510 00:25:23,840 --> 00:25:27,520 Speaker 4: It is almost like a luxury, and it's one of 511 00:25:27,560 --> 00:25:30,280 Speaker 4: those things to piggyback on some of the things we're 512 00:25:30,320 --> 00:25:35,480 Speaker 4: talking about before. My personal opinion is that I think 513 00:25:35,640 --> 00:25:39,919 Speaker 4: a lot of Negroes have got relaxed and they have 514 00:25:40,119 --> 00:25:43,520 Speaker 4: actually let their guards down as far as fighting white supremacy. 515 00:25:44,280 --> 00:25:45,920 Speaker 2: They think that we have arrived. 516 00:25:47,000 --> 00:25:48,840 Speaker 4: They think it ain't gonna get no better than this, 517 00:25:49,880 --> 00:25:51,520 Speaker 4: And that's why a lot of them are like, I 518 00:25:51,520 --> 00:25:54,359 Speaker 4: don't care about voting, I'm just keeping it real, or 519 00:25:54,920 --> 00:25:58,359 Speaker 4: like they have a certain attitude because they actually didn't 520 00:25:58,359 --> 00:26:01,440 Speaker 4: have to go through the struggle, because your ancestors died 521 00:26:01,640 --> 00:26:03,760 Speaker 4: for you to have these look because their luxuries and 522 00:26:03,800 --> 00:26:06,560 Speaker 4: every generation wants the next generation to be better, and 523 00:26:06,560 --> 00:26:07,600 Speaker 4: that's nothing wrong with that. 524 00:26:08,119 --> 00:26:09,360 Speaker 2: But now we're at a place. 525 00:26:09,200 --> 00:26:11,160 Speaker 4: Where a lot of people have a lot of luxuries 526 00:26:11,160 --> 00:26:15,560 Speaker 4: that they assume will always be there. They never think 527 00:26:15,720 --> 00:26:18,919 Speaker 4: that there is a sub section of the populace that 528 00:26:19,040 --> 00:26:22,880 Speaker 4: has always been fighting and will be relentless and will 529 00:26:22,920 --> 00:26:28,200 Speaker 4: be dogmatic to take us back. And they're always shocked 530 00:26:28,600 --> 00:26:31,639 Speaker 4: and they always surprised, and they always take it for 531 00:26:31,680 --> 00:26:34,360 Speaker 4: a loop. And they always act like, oh my gosh, 532 00:26:34,600 --> 00:26:36,760 Speaker 4: I can't believe this, And then sometimes they be as 533 00:26:36,800 --> 00:26:39,000 Speaker 4: surprised as the white folks. This ain't my America. They 534 00:26:39,000 --> 00:26:42,320 Speaker 4: say shit like that, and and and they do. 535 00:26:42,400 --> 00:26:44,440 Speaker 5: They live. 536 00:26:46,800 --> 00:26:52,080 Speaker 4: Because they that the things that they have that somebody 537 00:26:52,080 --> 00:26:55,480 Speaker 4: else died for them to have. And we have lows 538 00:26:55,680 --> 00:26:58,720 Speaker 4: in place that somebody died to put in place so 539 00:26:58,760 --> 00:27:02,959 Speaker 4: that people couldn't come and make yo shit. Somebody is 540 00:27:03,000 --> 00:27:06,760 Speaker 4: trying to erode that so that all these things that 541 00:27:06,800 --> 00:27:09,920 Speaker 4: I'm saying we're doing for luxury, they're trying to put 542 00:27:09,920 --> 00:27:11,040 Speaker 4: it back where they're gonna. 543 00:27:10,800 --> 00:27:11,880 Speaker 2: Have to be necessity again. 544 00:27:11,920 --> 00:27:14,360 Speaker 4: All of a sudden, We're gonna have to farm. We're 545 00:27:14,400 --> 00:27:16,440 Speaker 4: gonna have to make her own clothes. Why because we 546 00:27:16,640 --> 00:27:20,359 Speaker 4: aren't gonna be in the working, working, working environment like 547 00:27:20,400 --> 00:27:23,960 Speaker 4: they're passing, particularly with the affirmative action. People don't know 548 00:27:24,000 --> 00:27:26,680 Speaker 4: how much that's gonna affect us more than any. 549 00:27:26,560 --> 00:27:27,760 Speaker 2: Other any group. 550 00:27:28,359 --> 00:27:31,280 Speaker 4: They're gonna they're like, we but like this, if we 551 00:27:31,400 --> 00:27:33,800 Speaker 4: do some foul shit, y'all can't sue us. 552 00:27:34,000 --> 00:27:35,440 Speaker 2: And we can't do this, We can't do that. 553 00:27:35,560 --> 00:27:37,600 Speaker 4: And it might sound silly, but I've been saying this 554 00:27:37,680 --> 00:27:40,560 Speaker 4: for years. I am thankful that I am able to 555 00:27:40,600 --> 00:27:42,040 Speaker 4: do the things that I can do. 556 00:27:42,080 --> 00:27:44,040 Speaker 2: Something is simple and people and people. 557 00:27:44,320 --> 00:27:47,240 Speaker 4: I think for a lot of people, like they have said, 558 00:27:47,320 --> 00:27:48,919 Speaker 4: I've washed enough eyes on the prize. 559 00:27:48,960 --> 00:27:49,960 Speaker 2: I heard about Martin. 560 00:27:49,800 --> 00:27:52,040 Speaker 4: Luther King like like like like, and I think a 561 00:27:52,080 --> 00:27:53,640 Speaker 4: lot of black mind paying a lot of Black people 562 00:27:53,640 --> 00:27:54,120 Speaker 4: that got there. 563 00:27:54,119 --> 00:27:56,480 Speaker 2: But what they fail to realize, for you to go through. 564 00:27:56,320 --> 00:27:58,320 Speaker 4: The front of the bus, somebody has somebody had to 565 00:27:58,560 --> 00:28:00,560 Speaker 4: sacrifice for that. For you to walk into the front 566 00:28:00,560 --> 00:28:03,000 Speaker 4: of the restaurant, somebody had to sacrifice for that, you know, 567 00:28:03,560 --> 00:28:06,159 Speaker 4: for just the small simple things, for you to have 568 00:28:06,200 --> 00:28:08,560 Speaker 4: the right to own a home and all these other things. 569 00:28:08,880 --> 00:28:10,639 Speaker 4: And I think for a lot of black people that 570 00:28:10,760 --> 00:28:13,840 Speaker 4: have got relaxed, and they think that the black people 571 00:28:14,200 --> 00:28:17,320 Speaker 4: my age or to the activists, they think. 572 00:28:17,160 --> 00:28:19,359 Speaker 2: We're like, no, get on these white folks. 573 00:28:19,480 --> 00:28:21,840 Speaker 4: Next they trying to take youall shit, Dad, Like, we're 574 00:28:21,880 --> 00:28:25,160 Speaker 4: crazy when we're going you're taking this for granted, You're 575 00:28:25,160 --> 00:28:27,440 Speaker 4: gonna turn around and all these rights that you thought 576 00:28:27,520 --> 00:28:28,240 Speaker 4: was always going. 577 00:28:28,160 --> 00:28:30,640 Speaker 5: To be there. Absolutely, they started with abortion. 578 00:28:30,800 --> 00:28:32,040 Speaker 1: Do you think they're gonna stop there? 579 00:28:32,160 --> 00:28:32,840 Speaker 2: No? 580 00:28:32,840 --> 00:28:34,159 Speaker 5: No, no, it's not. 581 00:28:34,280 --> 00:28:37,040 Speaker 3: And I think you are absolutely right about the all 582 00:28:37,160 --> 00:28:40,680 Speaker 3: of it that this, and I think that the apathy 583 00:28:40,800 --> 00:28:43,440 Speaker 3: might come from other places. I think it also reflects 584 00:28:43,440 --> 00:28:47,280 Speaker 3: a general apathy in the larger country as well, that 585 00:28:47,360 --> 00:28:50,520 Speaker 3: people don't believe that voting works. They feel like, you know, 586 00:28:50,560 --> 00:28:52,640 Speaker 3: these big machines are the one that kind of make 587 00:28:52,680 --> 00:28:55,560 Speaker 3: it happen, and so who cares when for us it 588 00:28:55,640 --> 00:28:59,000 Speaker 3: does become like that the things that are being somehow 589 00:28:59,040 --> 00:29:02,120 Speaker 3: voted on seem to managed to be our rights, you know. 590 00:29:02,680 --> 00:29:06,040 Speaker 3: And these are the things that are like that people 591 00:29:06,080 --> 00:29:09,720 Speaker 3: seem to somehow not notice or not want to complain about. 592 00:29:09,840 --> 00:29:13,000 Speaker 5: But you know, I mean, I think it is. 593 00:29:13,040 --> 00:29:16,920 Speaker 3: It is so frustrated and it can sometimes feel overwhelming. 594 00:29:17,360 --> 00:29:20,360 Speaker 3: But one of the things that I appreciate. And I'm 595 00:29:20,440 --> 00:29:23,960 Speaker 3: not an anarchist. I like anarchy. I like anarchists, the 596 00:29:23,960 --> 00:29:28,080 Speaker 3: theory the world. I'm too much of a capitalist too. 597 00:29:28,400 --> 00:29:31,120 Speaker 3: I'm not a capitalist. I hate capitalism, but I live 598 00:29:31,160 --> 00:29:34,880 Speaker 3: within a capitalist society where capitalism has benefited myself and my. 599 00:29:34,880 --> 00:29:38,680 Speaker 5: Family, and I work in a world where I receive 600 00:29:38,720 --> 00:29:41,479 Speaker 5: money from good blah blah blah. So that makes me, 601 00:29:41,520 --> 00:29:42,600 Speaker 5: I think a bad anarchist. 602 00:29:42,680 --> 00:29:45,760 Speaker 3: But what I love about anarchy is this idea that 603 00:29:45,800 --> 00:29:48,440 Speaker 3: things are flattened and level. I think that we have 604 00:29:48,520 --> 00:29:51,920 Speaker 3: fallen into this idea that anarchy equals chaos. 605 00:29:52,200 --> 00:29:53,240 Speaker 5: That is not the same. 606 00:29:53,360 --> 00:29:57,480 Speaker 3: Anarchy is an actual system of government that is completely lateral. 607 00:29:57,720 --> 00:30:00,280 Speaker 3: There's no hierarchy at all. And so what it means 608 00:30:00,360 --> 00:30:03,840 Speaker 3: is that it's about community. It's about we keep us safe. 609 00:30:04,240 --> 00:30:07,120 Speaker 3: We can work together to help each other. And I actually, 610 00:30:07,400 --> 00:30:09,800 Speaker 3: through the course of some of my organizing, I know 611 00:30:09,960 --> 00:30:12,760 Speaker 3: people who now have a farm, who are who do 612 00:30:12,960 --> 00:30:16,880 Speaker 3: foraging for food, who came to my class to teach 613 00:30:17,080 --> 00:30:20,600 Speaker 3: my students how to do that, you know, and so like, 614 00:30:20,720 --> 00:30:23,480 Speaker 3: there are ways we can pass these skills on. And 615 00:30:23,520 --> 00:30:26,360 Speaker 3: I think if we work both from both ends of 616 00:30:26,400 --> 00:30:29,520 Speaker 3: the problem, like the things that's closest to us, to 617 00:30:29,640 --> 00:30:33,360 Speaker 3: make sure that the people in your neighborhood, your community, 618 00:30:33,480 --> 00:30:36,320 Speaker 3: your sphere of influence, the people that are in your family, 619 00:30:36,440 --> 00:30:39,960 Speaker 3: your family's extended you know that. I feel like everybody 620 00:30:40,000 --> 00:30:43,480 Speaker 3: doing their part can really make a difference overall. It's 621 00:30:43,520 --> 00:30:46,360 Speaker 3: just that it's hard to encourage people to feel like 622 00:30:46,400 --> 00:30:46,959 Speaker 3: that's worth it. 623 00:30:47,080 --> 00:30:50,200 Speaker 1: I think it's just in America, the stumbling block is 624 00:30:50,200 --> 00:30:54,200 Speaker 1: always going to end up being race just historically, Like 625 00:30:54,280 --> 00:30:56,920 Speaker 1: it's like if you could convince white people they're not 626 00:30:58,040 --> 00:31:01,640 Speaker 1: separate and above all, this ship would be fixed in 627 00:31:01,680 --> 00:31:04,320 Speaker 1: like a week because it's like so like so much 628 00:31:04,320 --> 00:31:06,520 Speaker 1: shit is just so much shit is just like well, 629 00:31:06,560 --> 00:31:09,160 Speaker 1: at least on white and then like you know, when 630 00:31:09,160 --> 00:31:12,280 Speaker 1: we think of like I think in one of the 631 00:31:12,320 --> 00:31:15,880 Speaker 1: things that's interesting about America's governmental history, a lot of 632 00:31:15,880 --> 00:31:19,360 Speaker 1: the programs and things, the building blocks that made America America, 633 00:31:19,440 --> 00:31:22,280 Speaker 1: the things that make it great to people are all 634 00:31:22,320 --> 00:31:25,320 Speaker 1: shit that black people and women fought for. It's not 635 00:31:25,880 --> 00:31:28,560 Speaker 1: it's nothing, it's not the exception. It's like they white 636 00:31:28,560 --> 00:31:30,520 Speaker 1: people go back to the founding fathers. They didn't set 637 00:31:30,560 --> 00:31:32,240 Speaker 1: none of this ship up. All that shit was like 638 00:31:32,680 --> 00:31:35,120 Speaker 1: we're gonna be slave owners with bigger words and then 639 00:31:35,480 --> 00:31:39,240 Speaker 1: exactly for the but it's always like people that fought 640 00:31:39,240 --> 00:31:41,920 Speaker 1: for people's rights to vote, people that fight for people's 641 00:31:43,520 --> 00:31:47,920 Speaker 1: people that have fought for representation within the governmental structures, 642 00:31:47,920 --> 00:31:50,320 Speaker 1: people that got fought for affirmative action, people that fought 643 00:31:50,600 --> 00:31:51,880 Speaker 1: for free education. 644 00:31:52,040 --> 00:31:55,240 Speaker 4: People fail to realize free education wasn't always there. 645 00:31:55,600 --> 00:32:00,040 Speaker 2: Education free and reduced, Like. 646 00:32:00,920 --> 00:32:06,920 Speaker 3: How about the weekend, Yes, the weekend listen, y'all for real, Friday, Saturday, Sunday, 647 00:32:07,000 --> 00:32:07,920 Speaker 3: Saturday and Sunday. 648 00:32:08,280 --> 00:32:10,480 Speaker 5: There used to be not such a thing as a weekend. Yes, 649 00:32:10,680 --> 00:32:13,680 Speaker 5: and people every single day. And you go back and. 650 00:32:13,680 --> 00:32:16,440 Speaker 1: Look at you go back and look at who was 651 00:32:16,520 --> 00:32:19,800 Speaker 1: fighting against it, and it's people that didn't have a 652 00:32:19,840 --> 00:32:23,000 Speaker 1: weekend fighting against people on the weekend. Because that's how 653 00:32:23,040 --> 00:32:26,520 Speaker 1: fucked up America is, so like it would take like 654 00:32:26,560 --> 00:32:29,760 Speaker 1: a huge herculean effort. And I think that's one of 655 00:32:29,760 --> 00:32:33,280 Speaker 1: the reasons they don't want people being educated about race 656 00:32:33,320 --> 00:32:35,040 Speaker 1: and stuff, because then you start to see the cracks 657 00:32:35,080 --> 00:32:38,160 Speaker 1: in the fall. You start to see, you know, how 658 00:32:38,240 --> 00:32:40,920 Speaker 1: much of this stuff is like arbitrary, you know, like 659 00:32:41,160 --> 00:32:45,479 Speaker 1: uh uh oh, these these indentured servants ran away. Uh 660 00:32:45,520 --> 00:32:47,840 Speaker 1: the black ones are slave for life, the other two 661 00:32:48,280 --> 00:32:51,520 Speaker 1: y'all gonna get extra ten years of indigenous service to 662 00:32:51,840 --> 00:32:54,040 Speaker 1: stuff like that. That that is literally in our history 663 00:32:54,040 --> 00:32:55,560 Speaker 1: books where you can go back and be like, wait, 664 00:32:55,640 --> 00:32:59,400 Speaker 1: so y'all kind of invented that this race thing right there, 665 00:32:59,440 --> 00:33:02,000 Speaker 1: like suddenly black people didn't have rights. And I think 666 00:33:02,920 --> 00:33:05,720 Speaker 1: the less people know about that, the easier it is 667 00:33:05,760 --> 00:33:08,200 Speaker 1: to just go I'm white and these black people they 668 00:33:08,200 --> 00:33:10,920 Speaker 1: want too much, you know they I'm rooting for Tommy 669 00:33:10,920 --> 00:33:14,680 Speaker 1: Tuberville because he's saying that racism, I mean, the real 670 00:33:14,760 --> 00:33:17,760 Speaker 1: racism is Democrats want to give money to black people 671 00:33:17,760 --> 00:33:20,880 Speaker 1: who are criminals. And you're like, there's so many threads 672 00:33:20,920 --> 00:33:23,200 Speaker 1: back to history for those lies to get to you. 673 00:33:24,040 --> 00:33:27,400 Speaker 1: We would need to start undoing that in like grade school. 674 00:33:27,440 --> 00:33:29,960 Speaker 1: And they obviously see the game as afoot right there. 675 00:33:30,000 --> 00:33:31,920 Speaker 1: They don't want us to do that, and. 676 00:33:33,040 --> 00:33:34,600 Speaker 3: I agree and like, and this is one of the 677 00:33:34,640 --> 00:33:36,800 Speaker 3: things that it's and also the idea of the way 678 00:33:36,800 --> 00:33:40,120 Speaker 3: that they're starting in Virginia as well, starting to legislate 679 00:33:40,480 --> 00:33:45,400 Speaker 3: white comfort. Yes, that is legislated that white people in 680 00:33:45,480 --> 00:33:48,760 Speaker 3: particular not being made to be uncomfortable. So when you 681 00:33:48,800 --> 00:33:52,320 Speaker 3: look at some of these laws and these proposals, because 682 00:33:52,360 --> 00:33:54,880 Speaker 3: a lot of them look very much the same because 683 00:33:54,880 --> 00:33:56,800 Speaker 3: they come from this one think tank or instead of 684 00:33:56,840 --> 00:34:00,680 Speaker 3: think tanks, and they say things like no students should 685 00:34:00,760 --> 00:34:04,280 Speaker 3: make to feel uneasy or guilty or bad or things 686 00:34:04,280 --> 00:34:07,160 Speaker 3: that a race has done that they might be a 687 00:34:07,240 --> 00:34:11,200 Speaker 3: part of. And it's just the most convoluted language that 688 00:34:11,400 --> 00:34:15,040 Speaker 3: makes no sense. And and then and this idea that 689 00:34:15,120 --> 00:34:20,240 Speaker 3: somehow the priority of education has now become making sure 690 00:34:20,320 --> 00:34:24,560 Speaker 3: that white kids feel safe in school, not from guns, 691 00:34:25,440 --> 00:34:30,360 Speaker 3: not from dun ideas, but from ideas that they we 692 00:34:30,560 --> 00:34:33,759 Speaker 3: that America's history could be rooted. 693 00:34:33,440 --> 00:34:35,440 Speaker 5: In violence, or the idea that this is why. 694 00:34:35,320 --> 00:34:38,000 Speaker 3: Some folks get I know, some folks are like, what's 695 00:34:38,040 --> 00:34:39,719 Speaker 3: the difference between calling somebody. 696 00:34:39,440 --> 00:34:41,000 Speaker 5: A slave versus enslave? 697 00:34:41,440 --> 00:34:45,000 Speaker 3: The thing about calling someone enslaves versus calling them a slave. 698 00:34:45,760 --> 00:34:48,960 Speaker 5: We've got slaves from Africa. No, you've got Africans from Africa, 699 00:34:49,120 --> 00:34:51,960 Speaker 5: and then you enslaved them and turn them into slave. 700 00:34:52,239 --> 00:34:57,520 Speaker 3: But all of that little shortcut naturalizes everything and makes 701 00:34:57,560 --> 00:34:59,720 Speaker 3: this is just a natural thing that happened. 702 00:35:01,680 --> 00:35:04,920 Speaker 1: We had a dude that lost his job here and uh, 703 00:35:05,080 --> 00:35:07,960 Speaker 1: he was like, uh, one of the people that did 704 00:35:08,040 --> 00:35:11,799 Speaker 1: the tours for like this plantation and stuff, and his 705 00:35:12,280 --> 00:35:16,279 Speaker 1: job was to educate people about slavery and whatnot. And 706 00:35:16,800 --> 00:35:19,320 Speaker 1: he overstepped his bounds a little bit because he didn't 707 00:35:19,320 --> 00:35:22,719 Speaker 1: explain it to the community. But one of the things 708 00:35:22,719 --> 00:35:25,640 Speaker 1: he was gonna do. I'm sorry, it's funny to me 709 00:35:25,680 --> 00:35:27,359 Speaker 1: because it's the kind of stuff I love, but it's 710 00:35:27,440 --> 00:35:31,120 Speaker 1: obviously I get why it was bad. But he was 711 00:35:31,200 --> 00:35:34,440 Speaker 1: going to have for June teenth. It was gonna be 712 00:35:34,480 --> 00:35:38,160 Speaker 1: a white former master on the run from slaves that 713 00:35:38,239 --> 00:35:43,879 Speaker 1: were now coming after him because for some reason or whatever, right, 714 00:35:43,920 --> 00:35:45,799 Speaker 1: and it was supposed to be like this, stay with 715 00:35:45,840 --> 00:35:48,720 Speaker 1: his gud. But one of the things people cook an issue. 716 00:35:50,200 --> 00:35:52,040 Speaker 1: One of the things people took an issue with was 717 00:35:52,080 --> 00:35:53,960 Speaker 1: the fact that he used and I think it's because 718 00:35:54,000 --> 00:35:56,799 Speaker 1: everyone was so mad, and so they were mad at 719 00:35:56,840 --> 00:35:58,399 Speaker 1: the original I did then, and they got mad at 720 00:35:58,440 --> 00:36:00,399 Speaker 1: everything he was doing. Right, But one of the things 721 00:36:00,400 --> 00:36:02,520 Speaker 1: he did that I was like, but that kind of 722 00:36:02,560 --> 00:36:05,359 Speaker 1: makes sense is exactly what you said, which is and 723 00:36:05,600 --> 00:36:09,120 Speaker 1: he said enslaved person, and they were like, no, they 724 00:36:09,160 --> 00:36:12,520 Speaker 1: were slaves. He's trying to erase slavery. I was like, no, no, okay, 725 00:36:12,520 --> 00:36:14,680 Speaker 1: I see what y'all said. He should have explained, and 726 00:36:14,719 --> 00:36:18,319 Speaker 1: that's on him because community relations with the black people 727 00:36:18,360 --> 00:36:22,000 Speaker 1: in the community is above and above everything, Like even 728 00:36:22,040 --> 00:36:24,839 Speaker 1: if even if the idea is based at some level 729 00:36:24,840 --> 00:36:27,560 Speaker 1: of history or whatever, if the if the community don't 730 00:36:27,560 --> 00:36:29,279 Speaker 1: know who who the fuck is bringing their kids to 731 00:36:29,280 --> 00:36:31,560 Speaker 1: see this, it's gonna be us black people, So you 732 00:36:31,600 --> 00:36:34,200 Speaker 1: gotta connect to us. And he got like offended, and 733 00:36:34,480 --> 00:36:37,719 Speaker 1: black people got mad, he got fired, but I still. 734 00:36:37,480 --> 00:36:40,680 Speaker 3: Remember this was this a black person's idea. Yeah, it's 735 00:36:40,680 --> 00:36:42,520 Speaker 3: a black black person at the museum. 736 00:36:42,600 --> 00:36:45,319 Speaker 5: Yeah, he just didn't have the engagement he didn't make. Yeah. 737 00:36:45,360 --> 00:36:48,359 Speaker 1: I really think it was an engagement thing I read 738 00:36:48,520 --> 00:36:51,520 Speaker 1: into it. I don't think he meant bad. I don't 739 00:36:51,520 --> 00:36:53,880 Speaker 1: think he suddenly just like turned into a cone. Like 740 00:36:53,960 --> 00:36:56,080 Speaker 1: one day he just woke up. It was like, I'm 741 00:36:56,080 --> 00:37:01,960 Speaker 1: gonna lose my job, but you know, you got to 742 00:37:02,000 --> 00:37:06,440 Speaker 1: communicate with the community. It's just unfortunate. But it was 743 00:37:06,960 --> 00:37:09,560 Speaker 1: when he was questioned about it, he got very indignant 744 00:37:09,560 --> 00:37:12,160 Speaker 1: with people. And then now it's like you gotta go 745 00:37:12,239 --> 00:37:13,160 Speaker 1: at that point, you know. 746 00:37:14,120 --> 00:37:17,239 Speaker 3: And the question for me is it's about the revenge 747 00:37:17,280 --> 00:37:20,720 Speaker 3: fantasy that I think is a really interesting of really 748 00:37:20,760 --> 00:37:23,560 Speaker 3: interesting appress. This is something answer that Thomas Jefferson. 749 00:37:23,120 --> 00:37:23,880 Speaker 5: Did talk about. 750 00:37:24,680 --> 00:37:27,680 Speaker 3: Thomas Jefferson in his Racist as books. You know, it's 751 00:37:27,719 --> 00:37:31,040 Speaker 3: on the State of Virginia, talked about like this fear 752 00:37:31,480 --> 00:37:33,960 Speaker 3: of He says this thing that I think people forget, 753 00:37:34,520 --> 00:37:37,080 Speaker 3: but they want to give Jefferson credit for everything, being 754 00:37:37,120 --> 00:37:41,600 Speaker 3: an abolitionist lie who happened to own six hundred and 755 00:37:41,640 --> 00:37:46,839 Speaker 3: five black people true, and so when he says he says, 756 00:37:46,920 --> 00:37:51,160 Speaker 3: I tremble for my country when I remember that God 757 00:37:51,440 --> 00:37:57,000 Speaker 3: is just and that his justice cannot sleep forever. For 758 00:37:57,160 --> 00:38:02,040 Speaker 3: there is no aspects of the Mighty who can side 759 00:38:02,080 --> 00:38:08,359 Speaker 3: with white people in this conflict. So he's recognizing that 760 00:38:08,400 --> 00:38:10,200 Speaker 3: there could be. He's like, and this is one of 761 00:38:10,200 --> 00:38:13,480 Speaker 3: the reasons why he says, well, when black people are free, 762 00:38:13,640 --> 00:38:16,840 Speaker 3: they need to be relocated to Africa because there'll be 763 00:38:16,880 --> 00:38:20,960 Speaker 3: too many bad memories for blacks and whites to live together. 764 00:38:21,040 --> 00:38:24,200 Speaker 3: And then he lists all these horrible, racist ass reasons 765 00:38:24,640 --> 00:38:28,440 Speaker 3: for kicking black people out. But it has this idea 766 00:38:28,480 --> 00:38:33,560 Speaker 3: that somehow, deep down those folks who enslaved other people 767 00:38:33,640 --> 00:38:36,160 Speaker 3: knew what they were doing was wrong. And as Frederick 768 00:38:36,200 --> 00:38:39,600 Speaker 3: Douglass said, there is no man who does not know 769 00:38:39,680 --> 00:38:44,319 Speaker 3: that slavery is wrong for him, right, And so this 770 00:38:44,360 --> 00:38:46,680 Speaker 3: whole idea of like, oh, well, definitely it's going to 771 00:38:46,719 --> 00:38:48,239 Speaker 3: be a lot of revenge and this and that when 772 00:38:48,280 --> 00:38:49,600 Speaker 3: that's that's no, there's no like. 773 00:38:49,719 --> 00:38:51,719 Speaker 5: Juke Teenth is not a revenge story. 774 00:38:52,000 --> 00:38:54,960 Speaker 3: So it's a story about being scammed out of a 775 00:38:54,960 --> 00:38:57,920 Speaker 3: lot of your labor because white people are scammers. 776 00:39:00,880 --> 00:39:03,080 Speaker 1: Lincoln had come to the same conclusion too. It was like, 777 00:39:03,120 --> 00:39:04,759 Speaker 1: and then we send them back to Africa, right, like 778 00:39:04,800 --> 00:39:09,000 Speaker 1: everybody's everybody's freedom things. Was like, all right, so we 779 00:39:09,080 --> 00:39:11,960 Speaker 1: f I get slavery over and then they can't stay 780 00:39:12,000 --> 00:39:13,240 Speaker 1: here though, that's crazy. 781 00:39:13,920 --> 00:39:17,040 Speaker 4: Yeah, you're talking about generations that were born and raised 782 00:39:17,040 --> 00:39:20,320 Speaker 4: here know nothing about this. This is like we've lost 783 00:39:20,320 --> 00:39:23,319 Speaker 4: our native tongues and everything about us. 784 00:39:23,360 --> 00:39:25,600 Speaker 2: All we know is our history ends that boat. 785 00:39:26,080 --> 00:39:27,719 Speaker 4: And so you're gonna be like, go back where you 786 00:39:27,760 --> 00:39:31,480 Speaker 4: came from to a strange place, a strange country. 787 00:39:31,040 --> 00:39:32,400 Speaker 2: That I know absolutely possible. 788 00:39:32,400 --> 00:39:34,560 Speaker 4: I'm not trying to find me as an African American 789 00:39:34,600 --> 00:39:36,919 Speaker 4: I know nothing about. You're going to send me there 790 00:39:37,120 --> 00:39:39,400 Speaker 4: and that like it's going to be all good. 791 00:39:40,000 --> 00:39:44,200 Speaker 3: So just somebody said, somebody said was like, oh go 792 00:39:44,239 --> 00:39:44,880 Speaker 3: back to Africa. 793 00:39:44,920 --> 00:39:46,200 Speaker 5: It's like, but you is my ride. 794 00:39:46,440 --> 00:39:50,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, I never been there, by the way, like I 795 00:39:50,040 --> 00:39:50,840 Speaker 1: can't go back. 796 00:39:51,400 --> 00:39:53,279 Speaker 5: I always can't go back to the place I haven't been. 797 00:39:53,480 --> 00:39:54,399 Speaker 5: I used to that. 798 00:39:54,560 --> 00:39:57,560 Speaker 1: You always make this joke of like because like there's 799 00:39:57,600 --> 00:40:00,120 Speaker 1: a certain type of like hotel black person that's it 800 00:40:00,200 --> 00:40:02,480 Speaker 1: was like, we just we need to just go back 801 00:40:02,520 --> 00:40:04,359 Speaker 1: to Africa. And I always made this joke of like, 802 00:40:04,680 --> 00:40:07,440 Speaker 1: I would love to see a skit of us arriving 803 00:40:07,480 --> 00:40:10,239 Speaker 1: in Africa and African people being like what what, what 804 00:40:10,239 --> 00:40:12,480 Speaker 1: the fuck is this? Like they wouldn't just be like, oh, 805 00:40:12,560 --> 00:40:15,200 Speaker 1: here's your house over here, like that's the whole land 806 00:40:15,239 --> 00:40:21,239 Speaker 1: with economy people ownership. That's not just a concept exactly 807 00:40:21,680 --> 00:40:23,880 Speaker 1: like I'll take this house, Like that's not how this 808 00:40:24,000 --> 00:40:27,600 Speaker 1: works at all. And the June team, Dude, what he 809 00:40:27,640 --> 00:40:30,000 Speaker 1: did and this is where he fucked up, right, So 810 00:40:30,040 --> 00:40:32,759 Speaker 1: he wrote the promo as a like it was like 811 00:40:33,040 --> 00:40:36,080 Speaker 1: I can read it and see it's like a sarcastic take, 812 00:40:36,280 --> 00:40:39,880 Speaker 1: and it probably was gonna be very funny, which is 813 00:40:40,600 --> 00:40:42,960 Speaker 1: you can't. I don't know that we were ready for 814 00:40:43,000 --> 00:40:46,200 Speaker 1: fun funny around June tenth theater like it just got 815 00:40:46,440 --> 00:40:49,640 Speaker 1: it was just a ratified as a national holiday. And 816 00:40:49,760 --> 00:40:51,000 Speaker 1: so the first one out. 817 00:40:50,880 --> 00:40:53,239 Speaker 3: The gate were still we're still getting mad about white 818 00:40:53,280 --> 00:40:54,160 Speaker 3: folsts getting the day off. 819 00:40:54,160 --> 00:40:55,040 Speaker 5: Black people got. 820 00:40:54,880 --> 00:40:56,920 Speaker 1: To come up exactly he was, he was coming out 821 00:40:56,920 --> 00:40:59,319 Speaker 1: the he was coming out the box high, and his 822 00:40:59,440 --> 00:41:03,440 Speaker 1: thing was, uh, they were gonna have a former white 823 00:41:03,800 --> 00:41:07,399 Speaker 1: like owner like a master or something who had been 824 00:41:07,440 --> 00:41:11,200 Speaker 1: run out of his house by the uh, the not 825 00:41:11,280 --> 00:41:17,200 Speaker 1: the Confederate soldiers, the Unions. Yeah, the Union soldiers. And 826 00:41:17,239 --> 00:41:19,719 Speaker 1: then of course his slaves start cheering, and now he 827 00:41:19,719 --> 00:41:23,239 Speaker 1: ain't got no home and they don't fucked up his ship, 828 00:41:23,280 --> 00:41:25,160 Speaker 1: burned the ship. Need to kick them out, right, that 829 00:41:25,320 --> 00:41:27,560 Speaker 1: was his that was gonna be the conceit. And then 830 00:41:27,600 --> 00:41:30,520 Speaker 1: you get to watch this dude basically be sad about 831 00:41:30,600 --> 00:41:35,640 Speaker 1: the end of slavery. And of course I thought hilarious. Uh, 832 00:41:35,760 --> 00:41:39,839 Speaker 1: the community thought very inappropriate and probably both right, Like, 833 00:41:39,920 --> 00:41:42,719 Speaker 1: it's hilarious to me, but I also think a lot 834 00:41:42,760 --> 00:41:44,320 Speaker 1: of interpropriate things are hilarious. 835 00:41:45,000 --> 00:41:47,799 Speaker 3: But it's so funny because it goes against what the 836 00:41:47,880 --> 00:41:50,879 Speaker 3: actual declaration was in Galveston, because one of the things 837 00:41:50,880 --> 00:41:53,200 Speaker 3: that people don't know is that when it's like, yes, 838 00:41:53,320 --> 00:41:56,239 Speaker 3: finally and slave people are finally free in Texas, but 839 00:41:56,320 --> 00:42:00,800 Speaker 3: they were told specifically in that same order, you're free, 840 00:42:01,120 --> 00:42:04,560 Speaker 3: but don't stop working. You're free, but don't leave the 841 00:42:04,600 --> 00:42:06,279 Speaker 3: plantation you've always lived on. 842 00:42:06,640 --> 00:42:09,520 Speaker 5: You're free, but now they're supposed to pay you. 843 00:42:09,600 --> 00:42:12,759 Speaker 1: Like, and keeping keep in mind, June teenth is like 844 00:42:12,880 --> 00:42:16,120 Speaker 1: two years after, so we're not talking about like Civil 845 00:42:16,200 --> 00:42:19,000 Speaker 1: War where they like were like you know to come 846 00:42:19,160 --> 00:42:21,600 Speaker 1: to Sherman came through and stomp the buildings or it 847 00:42:21,640 --> 00:42:24,080 Speaker 1: was like we're taking y'all ship. Like no, this is 848 00:42:24,480 --> 00:42:28,759 Speaker 1: two years later people being like, hey, y'all free. Did 849 00:42:28,800 --> 00:42:29,560 Speaker 1: y'all get the memo? 850 00:42:29,960 --> 00:42:35,000 Speaker 3: No? And it's this small So this small band of soldiers, 851 00:42:35,040 --> 00:42:38,840 Speaker 3: it is a military operation. Military was involved because they 852 00:42:38,840 --> 00:42:41,600 Speaker 3: had to force people to do it. But it wasn't 853 00:42:41,640 --> 00:42:43,680 Speaker 3: like okay. 854 00:42:43,239 --> 00:42:47,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, no, it wasn't like my homie General Sherman coming through, 855 00:42:48,040 --> 00:42:52,960 Speaker 1: nor okay, lit'ten say grant cake. So we said listen, 856 00:42:53,080 --> 00:42:56,760 Speaker 1: we're not talking no more. Okay, we tried that anyway. 857 00:42:58,000 --> 00:43:02,319 Speaker 1: So but but I love I love this whole thing 858 00:43:02,360 --> 00:43:06,360 Speaker 1: where it's like black people intersecting with things that I 859 00:43:06,440 --> 00:43:11,120 Speaker 1: think in people's minds are considered like white taboo, off 860 00:43:11,160 --> 00:43:13,800 Speaker 1: limits whatever, you know, and it's without them thinking about it. 861 00:43:13,840 --> 00:43:17,320 Speaker 1: I was listening to your latest episode of Stitch Please, 862 00:43:17,920 --> 00:43:22,160 Speaker 1: and you were talking with this woman who was talking 863 00:43:22,200 --> 00:43:27,320 Speaker 1: about historical costume me versus like cosplay and stuff, and 864 00:43:27,680 --> 00:43:31,719 Speaker 1: in both spaces, it is so interesting the limits of 865 00:43:31,800 --> 00:43:37,520 Speaker 1: like white imagination to where in the historical context it's 866 00:43:38,160 --> 00:43:40,479 Speaker 1: they let y'all dress like that. You know that thing 867 00:43:43,000 --> 00:43:44,759 Speaker 1: which is all which is interesting, like, you know there 868 00:43:44,760 --> 00:43:50,479 Speaker 1: were black people around then, and yes, but let's say, yeah, 869 00:43:50,760 --> 00:43:53,080 Speaker 1: got like actually a lot of white women had to 870 00:43:53,080 --> 00:43:55,080 Speaker 1: sell their dresses if you want to get into it. 871 00:43:55,120 --> 00:43:58,319 Speaker 1: But what that's interesting. And then the other thing is 872 00:43:58,600 --> 00:44:01,880 Speaker 1: that's almost in a way more interesting is the limits 873 00:44:01,920 --> 00:44:07,719 Speaker 1: of their imaginations to see us in completely fictionalized spaces 874 00:44:07,760 --> 00:44:10,680 Speaker 1: such as mermaids such as the Black family on Game 875 00:44:10,680 --> 00:44:13,879 Speaker 1: of Thrones, where you're just like, how could you why 876 00:44:13,880 --> 00:44:17,040 Speaker 1: can't you even like why does that violate something in 877 00:44:17,080 --> 00:44:20,880 Speaker 1: your mind? The mere existence of something other than white 878 00:44:20,880 --> 00:44:24,239 Speaker 1: people in a space where there's you know, dragons and 879 00:44:24,360 --> 00:44:24,959 Speaker 1: orcs and shit. 880 00:44:25,440 --> 00:44:25,840 Speaker 5: Exactly. 881 00:44:25,840 --> 00:44:30,080 Speaker 3: They can imagine that somebody can sing underwater, yes, right, 882 00:44:30,560 --> 00:44:33,239 Speaker 3: and that's totally fine to have a singing mermaid, right 883 00:44:33,280 --> 00:44:34,839 Speaker 3: whose lungs don't fill with water. 884 00:44:34,960 --> 00:44:37,480 Speaker 5: When then when she's singing, like all that is happening. 885 00:44:37,560 --> 00:44:40,080 Speaker 5: But then they'll say something like, well a black mermaid 886 00:44:40,200 --> 00:44:41,839 Speaker 5: just as a scientific guys. 887 00:44:41,880 --> 00:44:47,719 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, it's crazy. 888 00:44:48,440 --> 00:44:51,400 Speaker 3: It's just appalling, like and that's the and it's the 889 00:44:51,400 --> 00:44:54,640 Speaker 3: same question, like you said, around the limit, the limited 890 00:44:54,680 --> 00:44:59,120 Speaker 3: imagination and the idea that for some people they just 891 00:44:59,200 --> 00:44:59,920 Speaker 3: want to find the. 892 00:45:00,200 --> 00:45:03,640 Speaker 5: Racism and keep it everywhere. That very much part of their. 893 00:45:03,480 --> 00:45:07,920 Speaker 3: Way of doing things is to always see themselves reflected, 894 00:45:08,360 --> 00:45:11,920 Speaker 3: and if they're not the prominent image reflecting back at themselves, 895 00:45:12,040 --> 00:45:15,400 Speaker 3: then something is wrong. So you know, you remember the 896 00:45:15,480 --> 00:45:16,920 Speaker 3: days when we used to you could go down the 897 00:45:16,960 --> 00:45:20,000 Speaker 3: cereal Island. You would never see a white a black face. 898 00:45:20,080 --> 00:45:22,480 Speaker 3: It was always white people, white kids on all the 899 00:45:22,520 --> 00:45:25,319 Speaker 3: cereal boxes, white kids and animals. And then when they 900 00:45:25,360 --> 00:45:27,759 Speaker 3: start putting maybe black kids on or one or two 901 00:45:27,800 --> 00:45:29,560 Speaker 3: black kids, people get upset. 902 00:45:29,600 --> 00:45:30,080 Speaker 5: White people. 903 00:45:30,280 --> 00:45:32,680 Speaker 3: And I'm saying people because even here I am slipping 904 00:45:32,680 --> 00:45:36,439 Speaker 3: from this idea that people means everybody, which also means 905 00:45:36,480 --> 00:45:37,040 Speaker 3: white people. 906 00:45:37,280 --> 00:45:39,280 Speaker 5: But it's really white people who are the ones upset. 907 00:45:39,840 --> 00:45:46,480 Speaker 3: People are upset, Yes exactly are the people? 908 00:45:47,280 --> 00:45:47,960 Speaker 5: Are the people? 909 00:45:49,800 --> 00:45:52,880 Speaker 1: Because one of the things I realized when I was 910 00:45:53,000 --> 00:45:57,480 Speaker 1: younger reading and being into science fiction, especially science fiction 911 00:45:57,600 --> 00:46:01,719 Speaker 1: involving like aliens or mind and stuff, so much of 912 00:46:01,760 --> 00:46:06,600 Speaker 1: it is really just white people imagining being us, Like, 913 00:46:06,640 --> 00:46:09,080 Speaker 1: it's just it's just them going like, but what if 914 00:46:09,520 --> 00:46:14,280 Speaker 1: another if another world came here, they would immediately colonize 915 00:46:14,280 --> 00:46:17,400 Speaker 1: and enslave us all. And I think in their minds 916 00:46:17,560 --> 00:46:22,879 Speaker 1: they're going and race wouldn't matter anymore because our divisions 917 00:46:22,920 --> 00:46:25,120 Speaker 1: would suddenly go away in the face this bigger fear. 918 00:46:25,160 --> 00:46:27,120 Speaker 1: And it's like, that's not how that works. Yeah, but 919 00:46:28,560 --> 00:46:30,440 Speaker 1: like whether it works or not, right, it's all fiction, 920 00:46:30,600 --> 00:46:32,880 Speaker 1: right that the aliens come here and we have to 921 00:46:33,000 --> 00:46:35,359 Speaker 1: you know, it's a fucking independence day. Like I didn't 922 00:46:35,360 --> 00:46:37,000 Speaker 1: care that Will Smith was black. I was like, we 923 00:46:37,040 --> 00:46:39,279 Speaker 1: gotta fight the aliens, right, let's go. But there's like 924 00:46:39,280 --> 00:46:42,480 Speaker 1: a romanticizing of that idea of like, if there was 925 00:46:42,520 --> 00:46:44,920 Speaker 1: a bigger threat, we'd all come together. In some ways, 926 00:46:44,920 --> 00:46:47,840 Speaker 1: we've seen it work in history, right, Like the Coalition 927 00:46:47,960 --> 00:46:51,239 Speaker 1: of Blackness felt more together when we had to share 928 00:46:51,239 --> 00:46:56,480 Speaker 1: a plight. As people become less press pressed individually, some 929 00:46:56,520 --> 00:46:58,759 Speaker 1: motherfuckers start being like, you know what, now think about it. 930 00:46:58,800 --> 00:47:01,839 Speaker 1: White lives matter, and you're like, when we could, when 931 00:47:01,880 --> 00:47:04,840 Speaker 1: none of us could leave the plantation, you aren't feeling 932 00:47:04,880 --> 00:47:08,680 Speaker 1: like that, but okay, But I think so much of 933 00:47:08,719 --> 00:47:12,600 Speaker 1: it is a recreat recreation of what has actually happened 934 00:47:12,600 --> 00:47:15,279 Speaker 1: to us. You don't need to look outside. But it 935 00:47:15,360 --> 00:47:18,280 Speaker 1: is like, what if Orcs were the white people of fantasy? 936 00:47:18,640 --> 00:47:19,040 Speaker 1: What if? 937 00:47:19,200 --> 00:47:19,560 Speaker 5: Uh? 938 00:47:19,719 --> 00:47:23,920 Speaker 1: What if aliens were the white people of the galaxy. 939 00:47:23,960 --> 00:47:26,840 Speaker 1: What is all this stuff, sot star wars, all this 940 00:47:26,920 --> 00:47:30,960 Speaker 1: stuff is just fascism of white people. That shit that 941 00:47:31,040 --> 00:47:33,960 Speaker 1: did happen? And then but what if it happened to us, 942 00:47:33,960 --> 00:47:36,080 Speaker 1: wouldn't we be the heroes? But they refuse to see 943 00:47:36,160 --> 00:47:38,360 Speaker 1: us as heroes because they don't even want to see 944 00:47:38,440 --> 00:47:40,000 Speaker 1: us in the fucking fiction. 945 00:47:40,080 --> 00:47:42,919 Speaker 4: Right, And so you know what that tells me, You 946 00:47:43,120 --> 00:47:47,640 Speaker 4: understand oppression. So this thing where it comes about teaching 947 00:47:47,680 --> 00:47:52,400 Speaker 4: and no, no, no, no, no, no, you understand they understand. 948 00:47:52,719 --> 00:47:55,200 Speaker 1: They don't want it to happen to them, right, Like 949 00:47:55,280 --> 00:47:57,640 Speaker 1: they like they might not notice specifics, they ain't gonna 950 00:47:57,680 --> 00:47:59,960 Speaker 1: do the reading, they don't they like it's one of 951 00:48:00,000 --> 00:48:01,960 Speaker 1: one of the reasons that's very important to keep people 952 00:48:01,960 --> 00:48:05,080 Speaker 1: from knowing shit that's happened already. But but it's like 953 00:48:05,560 --> 00:48:08,359 Speaker 1: they understand it's bad and they would not want it 954 00:48:08,400 --> 00:48:12,480 Speaker 1: to be them. And in any instance that we fictionalize it, 955 00:48:12,760 --> 00:48:15,239 Speaker 1: that's the good guy, right, it's the handmaid and tell 956 00:48:15,400 --> 00:48:17,800 Speaker 1: it's the Handmaidens that we're rooting for. We're not rooting 957 00:48:17,800 --> 00:48:20,560 Speaker 1: for fus. So, like they do know right from wrong, 958 00:48:20,600 --> 00:48:23,759 Speaker 1: which is one of the reasons that one of the 959 00:48:23,800 --> 00:48:28,239 Speaker 1: reasons that it's almost like it's not that you don't 960 00:48:28,320 --> 00:48:31,400 Speaker 1: need to know, yes you do, but it's it's almost 961 00:48:31,400 --> 00:48:33,920 Speaker 1: an excuse to be like, well, I just didn't know 962 00:48:34,440 --> 00:48:37,279 Speaker 1: you knew you wouldn't want to happen to you, right exactly. 963 00:48:37,400 --> 00:48:40,040 Speaker 5: And you know what's even more, I think an additional 964 00:48:40,120 --> 00:48:43,480 Speaker 5: level something that I find powerful about the racial allegory, 965 00:48:43,800 --> 00:48:45,640 Speaker 5: and that's something I think about a lot. We talk 966 00:48:45,680 --> 00:48:46,520 Speaker 5: about it in my class. 967 00:48:46,560 --> 00:48:49,319 Speaker 3: We look at the movie I Get to Spoil their childhoods, 968 00:48:49,360 --> 00:48:52,399 Speaker 3: We look at the movie z Utopia, and we look 969 00:48:52,440 --> 00:48:56,760 Speaker 3: at Disney's through the through the lens of like what 970 00:48:56,760 --> 00:49:01,439 Speaker 3: what Zutopia says it's doing about like deconstructing race, et cetera, 971 00:49:01,480 --> 00:49:06,200 Speaker 3: et cetera. It's actually reproducing by turning the predators into 972 00:49:06,280 --> 00:49:08,640 Speaker 3: these things that are prey based on biology. 973 00:49:09,040 --> 00:49:11,920 Speaker 5: So it valorizes law enforcement. 974 00:49:12,000 --> 00:49:15,080 Speaker 3: It just does a lot of things that are problematic 975 00:49:15,120 --> 00:49:18,040 Speaker 3: people might not realize. But what I find exciting about 976 00:49:18,080 --> 00:49:21,560 Speaker 3: looking at Zootopia, looking at unles y'all saw Carnival Row 977 00:49:22,200 --> 00:49:26,520 Speaker 3: on Amazon Prime. It's good, it's good looking, it's very steampunky, 978 00:49:26,600 --> 00:49:31,279 Speaker 3: but it is the exact allegory of a mix of 979 00:49:32,520 --> 00:49:37,560 Speaker 3: like mixed race desire plus a little bit of Nazi Germany, 980 00:49:37,640 --> 00:49:40,920 Speaker 3: and like the difference between the Faye versus the human 981 00:49:41,239 --> 00:49:44,480 Speaker 3: and the slurs that the Faye get called, and all 982 00:49:44,520 --> 00:49:49,080 Speaker 3: of that critch for a short word for creature, which 983 00:49:49,560 --> 00:49:51,320 Speaker 3: it has a very racist slur feeling. 984 00:49:51,640 --> 00:49:53,840 Speaker 5: All of that shows exactly what you said. 985 00:49:54,320 --> 00:49:57,839 Speaker 3: They know, they know, they know, and they're making so 986 00:49:58,200 --> 00:50:02,719 Speaker 3: much money on telling stories show. 987 00:50:02,560 --> 00:50:03,120 Speaker 5: That they know. 988 00:50:03,560 --> 00:50:09,359 Speaker 3: This is a lucrative processrative process that says, oh, yes, 989 00:50:09,520 --> 00:50:11,960 Speaker 3: racism is bad, well not racism. 990 00:50:13,120 --> 00:50:16,400 Speaker 5: That happens to bear and stuff. And I always find it. 991 00:50:18,040 --> 00:50:21,880 Speaker 1: I always find it interesting when like people are fans 992 00:50:21,920 --> 00:50:25,520 Speaker 1: of that stuff, but the messaging is beyond them. You know. 993 00:50:25,600 --> 00:50:29,040 Speaker 1: It's like when it's like, uh, it's happening now in 994 00:50:29,080 --> 00:50:31,839 Speaker 1: the live action universe. But in the comic books, they 995 00:50:31,880 --> 00:50:37,360 Speaker 1: had Sam Wilson, the Become Captain America, the Black Captain America, 996 00:50:37,960 --> 00:50:41,719 Speaker 1: and god, I forget my man's name, the white dude 997 00:50:42,040 --> 00:50:44,400 Speaker 1: Nick Spencer, Nick Spencer to god, I fuck with him. 998 00:50:45,520 --> 00:50:47,840 Speaker 1: But Nick Spencer wrote the fuck out of that book 999 00:50:47,880 --> 00:50:51,560 Speaker 1: because I know everybody was thinking it's a comic book, 1000 00:50:51,800 --> 00:50:55,319 Speaker 1: and yeah, switching but let's just kind of not talk 1001 00:50:55,360 --> 00:50:58,399 Speaker 1: about the racial aspect that just and the whole book 1002 00:50:58,480 --> 00:51:00,919 Speaker 1: was about race. It was just like a black man 1003 00:51:01,239 --> 00:51:05,880 Speaker 1: representing America would have very complicated feelings as would America, 1004 00:51:06,239 --> 00:51:09,480 Speaker 1: but not white people. They would have very uncomplicated feelings 1005 00:51:09,480 --> 00:51:12,440 Speaker 1: of racism. And it just it just was like that's 1006 00:51:12,480 --> 00:51:14,879 Speaker 1: what it's gonna be, you know, Like and I love 1007 00:51:14,960 --> 00:51:18,560 Speaker 1: that book because it didn't run from it, but it's 1008 00:51:18,640 --> 00:51:22,160 Speaker 1: just an example of like people watched that and there 1009 00:51:22,160 --> 00:51:25,200 Speaker 1: were people that were like, for the first time reading 1010 00:51:25,280 --> 00:51:28,520 Speaker 1: Captain America. Okay, so listen before Captain America is this 1011 00:51:28,560 --> 00:51:31,680 Speaker 1: black man? He was Steve Rodgers. God Frozen. The ice 1012 00:51:32,080 --> 00:51:34,920 Speaker 1: pops back up years later and it's like, what the 1013 00:51:34,920 --> 00:51:37,400 Speaker 1: fuck is going on with the country. But it's immediately 1014 00:51:37,440 --> 00:51:40,040 Speaker 1: on the side of like everything we love about the 1015 00:51:40,440 --> 00:51:43,360 Speaker 1: fiction we tell ourselves about America. You fight for the underdog, 1016 00:51:43,680 --> 00:51:46,880 Speaker 1: you look out for each other, it's about treating people fairly. 1017 00:51:47,480 --> 00:51:49,520 Speaker 1: So this dude pops up from like the forties and 1018 00:51:49,640 --> 00:51:52,239 Speaker 1: was like this is this is fucked up? Why are 1019 00:51:52,239 --> 00:51:54,600 Speaker 1: we doing all these stuff? And that's why he's a hero. 1020 00:51:54,800 --> 00:51:57,120 Speaker 1: There were people that read that book and were like, 1021 00:51:57,360 --> 00:51:59,200 Speaker 1: why are they putting race in it? I was like, bro, 1022 00:51:59,239 --> 00:52:02,640 Speaker 1: it's been in there the old time, like like Steve 1023 00:52:02,680 --> 00:52:05,239 Speaker 1: would be on this man's side. That is you know 1024 00:52:05,280 --> 00:52:09,160 Speaker 1: when you when you But you see this routinely, it's like, oh, 1025 00:52:09,239 --> 00:52:11,840 Speaker 1: I love Star Wars, but what's going on on this diversity? 1026 00:52:12,160 --> 00:52:15,280 Speaker 1: The good guys are gonna be diverse. That's what the book, 1027 00:52:15,320 --> 00:52:19,880 Speaker 1: that's what it should be. That's how you exactly. So 1028 00:52:20,120 --> 00:52:22,520 Speaker 1: I like to see that kind of stuff. But it's 1029 00:52:22,640 --> 00:52:25,600 Speaker 1: always interesting because like the imagination I made a joke 1030 00:52:25,640 --> 00:52:32,440 Speaker 1: about House of the Dragon, about about Corliss drinking wine 1031 00:52:32,480 --> 00:52:34,680 Speaker 1: about around white people and be like, nah, I'm good. 1032 00:52:35,160 --> 00:52:39,160 Speaker 1: It was an obvious joke. Yeah it's obvious. Yeah, thank you, 1033 00:52:39,239 --> 00:52:42,840 Speaker 1: it's obvious joke, obvious, like just a funny moment. But 1034 00:52:42,960 --> 00:52:44,960 Speaker 1: obviously us as black people can relate to it like 1035 00:52:45,000 --> 00:52:50,359 Speaker 1: m and man. I. So the response was so big 1036 00:52:50,400 --> 00:52:53,080 Speaker 1: on Twitter, I had to mute the thing because it 1037 00:52:53,160 --> 00:52:55,440 Speaker 1: was just so many people. It wasn't even like bad, 1038 00:52:55,480 --> 00:52:58,400 Speaker 1: it was just so so many people respond I was 1039 00:52:58,400 --> 00:53:02,040 Speaker 1: just like, I can't see all these crazy and but 1040 00:53:02,080 --> 00:53:04,680 Speaker 1: then people start taking screenshots and they would posted other 1041 00:53:05,000 --> 00:53:07,920 Speaker 1: forms of the places right, and people would tag me 1042 00:53:07,960 --> 00:53:10,200 Speaker 1: that knew me. They're like, oh, Rod, look at your tweet, 1043 00:53:10,400 --> 00:53:11,960 Speaker 1: And so I made the mistake a clicking on a 1044 00:53:12,000 --> 00:53:12,840 Speaker 1: couple of those places. 1045 00:53:13,400 --> 00:53:14,400 Speaker 2: White people were. 1046 00:53:14,320 --> 00:53:17,799 Speaker 1: In sense like how dare this black person in Jack 1047 00:53:17,920 --> 00:53:22,400 Speaker 1: race into this this this show that is not about race. 1048 00:53:22,800 --> 00:53:25,760 Speaker 1: This character doesn't he isn't he even supposed to be black. 1049 00:53:25,800 --> 00:53:26,840 Speaker 1: They don't even say what this. 1050 00:53:26,960 --> 00:53:27,680 Speaker 2: Race is. 1051 00:53:32,520 --> 00:53:36,120 Speaker 1: For those looking later for the professors has covered up 1052 00:53:36,200 --> 00:53:39,440 Speaker 1: Rose Green. But yeah, it was very like what like 1053 00:53:39,480 --> 00:53:41,920 Speaker 1: I had I don't know, broken some type of sacred 1054 00:53:42,120 --> 00:53:46,840 Speaker 1: unspoken rule or something that is so it's so weird. 1055 00:53:47,200 --> 00:53:50,320 Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean didn't. I'm so sorry. 1056 00:53:50,440 --> 00:53:55,240 Speaker 3: I just feel like it's so frustrating because I feel 1057 00:53:55,280 --> 00:53:58,200 Speaker 3: like you can lie to yourself, but you can't lie 1058 00:53:58,239 --> 00:53:58,440 Speaker 3: to me. 1059 00:53:58,840 --> 00:54:00,960 Speaker 5: Yeah, it's I don't allow. 1060 00:54:00,719 --> 00:54:05,640 Speaker 3: It, like because that's what's happening here, because this idea is. 1061 00:54:05,560 --> 00:54:06,480 Speaker 5: Somehow you are in. 1062 00:54:07,200 --> 00:54:10,000 Speaker 3: It's so frustrating that they don't they only see race 1063 00:54:10,560 --> 00:54:14,120 Speaker 3: when it's black people. They don't see themselves as having 1064 00:54:14,160 --> 00:54:18,840 Speaker 3: a race. You know, they don't see that it's only. 1065 00:54:19,080 --> 00:54:22,920 Speaker 5: Us the danger. That's the danger. 1066 00:54:23,160 --> 00:54:26,719 Speaker 3: It is also all but you have done that your podcast, 1067 00:54:27,200 --> 00:54:30,560 Speaker 3: that what you both have done like with them thrones 1068 00:54:30,640 --> 00:54:33,600 Speaker 3: and all the work, and then like, I love your 1069 00:54:33,640 --> 00:54:35,880 Speaker 3: podcast and I'm so glad that I found that and 1070 00:54:35,880 --> 00:54:38,480 Speaker 3: that y'all are doing the recaps for House of Dragon, 1071 00:54:38,840 --> 00:54:40,759 Speaker 3: and it makes me wish that I had done a 1072 00:54:40,760 --> 00:54:43,080 Speaker 3: better job following along when the show was live. 1073 00:54:43,200 --> 00:54:45,840 Speaker 5: I was teaching the class at that time. And the 1074 00:54:45,920 --> 00:54:47,439 Speaker 5: thing I love about. 1075 00:54:47,120 --> 00:54:50,120 Speaker 3: It is the way you all create a space of 1076 00:54:50,440 --> 00:54:51,760 Speaker 3: pure black joy. 1077 00:54:52,000 --> 00:54:53,560 Speaker 5: I wrote this in a five star. 1078 00:54:53,440 --> 00:54:56,359 Speaker 3: Review, but I ended the five star review with Rod 1079 00:54:56,400 --> 00:54:58,640 Speaker 3: and Karen are hot. And then I think that maybe 1080 00:54:58,640 --> 00:55:01,160 Speaker 3: they didn't like publish it. They thought it was harassing you. 1081 00:55:02,600 --> 00:55:07,279 Speaker 1: I could go back and rewrite it, they got, I 1082 00:55:07,280 --> 00:55:07,600 Speaker 1: can go. 1083 00:55:07,640 --> 00:55:08,520 Speaker 5: I can go rewrite it. 1084 00:55:08,600 --> 00:55:11,000 Speaker 3: But the thing I love about it is that it's 1085 00:55:11,040 --> 00:55:13,600 Speaker 3: that like I mean, Karen, for real, when you said 1086 00:55:14,280 --> 00:55:17,560 Speaker 3: this funeral was so black, I thought an outside of 1087 00:55:17,600 --> 00:55:18,879 Speaker 3: family was going to show up. 1088 00:55:19,239 --> 00:55:25,320 Speaker 4: I scream, are y'all know what I'm talking about? 1089 00:55:26,440 --> 00:55:28,440 Speaker 5: The ones I found out. 1090 00:55:28,280 --> 00:55:31,000 Speaker 4: I had an uncle younger than me at my grandpa's funeral. 1091 00:55:32,440 --> 00:55:37,200 Speaker 3: Listen, I am from the South as well. With everybody, 1092 00:55:37,239 --> 00:55:40,600 Speaker 3: it's just this, it's everybody, but I know of what 1093 00:55:40,640 --> 00:55:44,480 Speaker 3: you speak, and so this is like the way that 1094 00:55:44,520 --> 00:55:46,440 Speaker 3: y'all made it black and you made it beautiful and 1095 00:55:46,480 --> 00:55:49,400 Speaker 3: you made it better, And I would think that this 1096 00:55:49,600 --> 00:55:51,640 Speaker 3: is a great benefit, like I would say before it 1097 00:55:51,680 --> 00:55:53,880 Speaker 3: in my students, like talking about Game of Thrones is 1098 00:55:53,880 --> 00:55:58,160 Speaker 3: a way for people to develop attachments in a variety 1099 00:55:58,160 --> 00:56:00,520 Speaker 3: of ways, like if you're interested in family, if you're 1100 00:56:00,560 --> 00:56:03,200 Speaker 3: interested in sword and sorcery, if you're interested in dragons, 1101 00:56:03,200 --> 00:56:04,799 Speaker 3: if you're interested in political entry. 1102 00:56:04,920 --> 00:56:06,480 Speaker 5: It has all of these things. 1103 00:56:06,480 --> 00:56:09,479 Speaker 1: I'm always so surprised by the people I don't to think. 1104 00:56:09,560 --> 00:56:12,479 Speaker 1: To me that's interesting is like I'm not gonna stop 1105 00:56:12,480 --> 00:56:15,239 Speaker 1: being me. But it's so many white people that just 1106 00:56:15,239 --> 00:56:18,279 Speaker 1: miss out on the fun like like like that was 1107 00:56:18,320 --> 00:56:22,920 Speaker 1: a good joke, just obstensively, like regardless of anything. It 1108 00:56:22,920 --> 00:56:25,000 Speaker 1: could be in any show and it's like, oh, that's 1109 00:56:25,000 --> 00:56:28,440 Speaker 1: funny all these It went viral because everyone was laughing, 1110 00:56:29,160 --> 00:56:33,080 Speaker 1: and it's just weird to limit yourself to like or rumph. 1111 00:56:33,360 --> 00:56:37,120 Speaker 1: I would never it's like, dude, that's like, you know, 1112 00:56:37,160 --> 00:56:39,319 Speaker 1: I'm glad they don't come over and listen, but it 1113 00:56:39,360 --> 00:56:42,600 Speaker 1: was it's just funny to a Yeah, exactly, I don't 1114 00:56:42,600 --> 00:56:45,200 Speaker 1: want to listen. If we learned one thing from the 1115 00:56:45,239 --> 00:56:48,239 Speaker 1: first time we did these recaps. We gotta keep it 1116 00:56:48,280 --> 00:56:51,120 Speaker 1: positive and fun because like, once you bring in like 1117 00:56:51,160 --> 00:56:54,960 Speaker 1: the kind of like naysayer element, it gets overwhelming because 1118 00:56:55,000 --> 00:56:58,640 Speaker 1: everyone's watching it and I'm listen. I didn't write the 1119 00:56:58,680 --> 00:57:02,480 Speaker 1: damn show. I'm not. I don't like your book, right, 1120 00:57:02,560 --> 00:57:05,200 Speaker 1: I'm not here the foul complaints for them people, y'all 1121 00:57:05,200 --> 00:57:07,799 Speaker 1: need to write HBO dot com. But for me, I 1122 00:57:07,920 --> 00:57:10,880 Speaker 1: just came to laugh and have jokes with my wife 1123 00:57:10,920 --> 00:57:14,640 Speaker 1: and my friends. Please don't do that. How how'd you 1124 00:57:14,680 --> 00:57:19,040 Speaker 1: get into like teaching gamer thrones in your classroom? 1125 00:57:19,160 --> 00:57:19,240 Speaker 3: Like? 1126 00:57:19,320 --> 00:57:22,439 Speaker 5: How how that throws? Now? Can I get my crown? 1127 00:57:22,680 --> 00:57:27,640 Speaker 1: Yeah? Absolutely, put your crown off? Oh I like that? 1128 00:57:27,920 --> 00:57:29,800 Speaker 5: Oh snap? 1129 00:57:29,920 --> 00:57:34,600 Speaker 1: Now, oh y that has given me some. That's given 1130 00:57:34,640 --> 00:57:37,480 Speaker 1: me like some some like I have a dragon in 1131 00:57:37,480 --> 00:57:39,040 Speaker 1: the in the garage vibs? 1132 00:57:39,600 --> 00:57:42,400 Speaker 4: Are you you know you're about to set it a 1133 00:57:42,440 --> 00:57:44,840 Speaker 4: go unique and just spin around the circle? 1134 00:57:46,640 --> 00:57:48,720 Speaker 1: It is, y'all that horse crown mode. 1135 00:57:51,600 --> 00:57:54,800 Speaker 3: So I got into it from just being interested in 1136 00:57:54,840 --> 00:57:57,080 Speaker 3: the show. And one of the great things about being 1137 00:57:57,120 --> 00:57:59,440 Speaker 3: a professor, especially when you're tenured and you've been there 1138 00:57:59,440 --> 00:58:01,760 Speaker 3: for quite a while, it's you know, you can follow 1139 00:58:01,800 --> 00:58:04,480 Speaker 3: your interests. And so it was a summer session, and 1140 00:58:04,600 --> 00:58:08,040 Speaker 3: I have been teaching lots of different things in the 1141 00:58:08,040 --> 00:58:13,160 Speaker 3: summer because I am willfully underpaid, and so I taught 1142 00:58:13,160 --> 00:58:16,720 Speaker 3: this summer session and it was so successful. 1143 00:58:16,880 --> 00:58:19,000 Speaker 5: It was a lot of fun. 1144 00:58:19,200 --> 00:58:21,760 Speaker 3: The students really enjoyed the class so much so that 1145 00:58:21,800 --> 00:58:24,800 Speaker 3: I did it for like five years after that. And 1146 00:58:24,880 --> 00:58:26,840 Speaker 3: it was fun because George Martin, George R. R. 1147 00:58:26,960 --> 00:58:31,000 Speaker 5: Martin, someone from his office contacted me. Wow. Yeah, it 1148 00:58:31,080 --> 00:58:35,240 Speaker 5: was sent me some sign books and some like Lanister 1149 00:58:35,480 --> 00:58:37,880 Speaker 5: coins and wow things. 1150 00:58:38,320 --> 00:58:41,440 Speaker 3: It was very It was really great and I actually 1151 00:58:41,480 --> 00:58:44,000 Speaker 3: feel really wonderful to be like one of the first 1152 00:58:44,040 --> 00:58:46,400 Speaker 3: people to have a course in this and be a 1153 00:58:46,440 --> 00:58:46,959 Speaker 3: black woman. 1154 00:58:47,240 --> 00:58:49,880 Speaker 5: Yeah, because that just shows you that we do everything. 1155 00:58:50,320 --> 00:58:52,800 Speaker 5: We can do everything. It doesn't it don't matter. 1156 00:58:52,600 --> 00:58:59,240 Speaker 4: How obscure it is, you will find us there exactly 1157 00:58:59,400 --> 00:59:01,400 Speaker 4: exactly people that and this idea. 1158 00:59:01,440 --> 00:59:05,200 Speaker 3: I don't believe that anything is off limits to us. 1159 00:59:05,600 --> 00:59:08,560 Speaker 3: I think that those limits have been placed by structures 1160 00:59:08,600 --> 00:59:12,480 Speaker 3: anti black structures. But it's nothing that's like, oh, we 1161 00:59:12,600 --> 00:59:16,360 Speaker 3: are somehow unable or incapable of doing this. I don't 1162 00:59:16,360 --> 00:59:18,400 Speaker 3: think that's the case. And sometimes, like my students will 1163 00:59:18,440 --> 00:59:21,960 Speaker 3: say things like, oh, that's just acting white or that's 1164 00:59:21,960 --> 00:59:24,120 Speaker 3: white shit or whatever. And I always stop when I 1165 00:59:24,400 --> 00:59:27,200 Speaker 3: hear that phrase, and I say, tell me more, what 1166 00:59:27,240 --> 00:59:29,480 Speaker 3: you say about when you meet When you say acting white? 1167 00:59:29,520 --> 00:59:32,880 Speaker 5: What does that mean? Because I'm like, have you met 1168 00:59:32,880 --> 00:59:36,200 Speaker 5: white people? Because what white? What are white people doing? 1169 00:59:36,240 --> 00:59:37,600 Speaker 5: If people want to act like them? 1170 00:59:38,080 --> 00:59:42,920 Speaker 3: Like, oh, you know something that simulation like, because I 1171 00:59:43,880 --> 00:59:46,320 Speaker 3: don't know what that might be, you know. And so 1172 00:59:46,480 --> 00:59:49,640 Speaker 3: I teach a class on fictions of Black identity and 1173 00:59:49,680 --> 00:59:53,440 Speaker 3: it talks about this, you know, elastic sense of blackness, 1174 00:59:53,480 --> 00:59:56,960 Speaker 3: that blackness is a capacious, beautiful universe. 1175 00:59:57,040 --> 00:59:57,440 Speaker 5: Blackness. 1176 00:59:57,600 --> 00:59:59,960 Speaker 3: If people think the blackness is a street or a neighbor, 1177 01:00:00,720 --> 01:00:05,360 Speaker 3: it is a universe and it is constantly, infinitely self 1178 01:00:05,400 --> 01:00:09,800 Speaker 3: reproducing itself, doing different things, growing and innovating people, like 1179 01:00:10,440 --> 01:00:13,880 Speaker 3: all manner of things that you might not imagine once 1180 01:00:13,920 --> 01:00:14,520 Speaker 3: you see. 1181 01:00:14,760 --> 01:00:19,920 Speaker 1: Once you see like a black person doing something wildly 1182 01:00:20,040 --> 01:00:24,200 Speaker 1: airtile black, like the Blacks for Trump or something, at 1183 01:00:24,200 --> 01:00:26,840 Speaker 1: that point you have to say there's nothing off limits, 1184 01:00:26,960 --> 01:00:29,000 Speaker 1: because if you can even do that, then you can 1185 01:00:29,040 --> 01:00:33,120 Speaker 1: do anything, because apparently motherfucker is out here doing anything. 1186 01:00:33,240 --> 01:00:37,280 Speaker 5: Okay, Apparently apparently apparently. 1187 01:00:37,560 --> 01:00:40,080 Speaker 3: Can I tell you what shocked me the other day? 1188 01:00:40,200 --> 01:00:43,880 Speaker 3: This is news y'all probably knew. I did not know 1189 01:00:44,680 --> 01:00:47,120 Speaker 3: that Clarence Thomas was Gula. 1190 01:00:48,080 --> 01:00:49,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah. 1191 01:00:50,120 --> 01:00:55,640 Speaker 3: I when I was because I think about the Goula 1192 01:00:55,760 --> 01:00:59,320 Speaker 3: people as like the blackest of the black black people 1193 01:00:59,360 --> 01:01:04,000 Speaker 3: who are to retain more of their African lineage, people 1194 01:01:04,080 --> 01:01:08,160 Speaker 3: who were able to create this beautiful and powerful culture 1195 01:01:08,200 --> 01:01:11,560 Speaker 3: of remembrance. Like it's just like you know, you think 1196 01:01:11,560 --> 01:01:15,080 Speaker 3: about books like Mama Day and the film like Daughters 1197 01:01:15,120 --> 01:01:18,000 Speaker 3: of the Dust and like all of this beautiful stuff 1198 01:01:18,000 --> 01:01:21,920 Speaker 3: that comes from the Gula community in South Carolina, and 1199 01:01:22,000 --> 01:01:22,560 Speaker 3: oh yeah, like. 1200 01:01:22,640 --> 01:01:26,720 Speaker 5: Galla Gla Island, like you said, Galla Gala Island, and 1201 01:01:26,760 --> 01:01:28,160 Speaker 5: that's that's all I was. 1202 01:01:28,160 --> 01:01:31,880 Speaker 1: Like, Well, the thing about Clarence, the thing about Clarence 1203 01:01:31,920 --> 01:01:37,360 Speaker 1: Thomas that always kind of struck me was his hatred 1204 01:01:37,440 --> 01:01:43,200 Speaker 1: for us is so palpable that it's intimate, you know 1205 01:01:43,240 --> 01:01:45,440 Speaker 1: what I mean, where you're like, I don't know how 1206 01:01:45,600 --> 01:01:48,959 Speaker 1: or who hurt you, and you know us well enough 1207 01:01:49,000 --> 01:01:52,200 Speaker 1: to hurt us the hardest with the words that he says, 1208 01:01:52,840 --> 01:01:55,760 Speaker 1: Like there's an intimacy there that like I know he's 1209 01:01:55,840 --> 01:01:59,360 Speaker 1: in his childhood. They say he was picked on for now, 1210 01:01:59,360 --> 01:02:01,440 Speaker 1: of course it's come from him, so let's just go 1211 01:02:01,520 --> 01:02:05,880 Speaker 1: with unreliable narrator. Okay, But he says he was picked 1212 01:02:05,920 --> 01:02:10,080 Speaker 1: on for being dark skinned, even though his grandfather had 1213 01:02:10,080 --> 01:02:12,680 Speaker 1: all this money and stuff. He was like, the kids 1214 01:02:12,720 --> 01:02:14,800 Speaker 1: picked on me, and they called me like the blackest 1215 01:02:15,040 --> 01:02:17,800 Speaker 1: such and such in this area, and that stuck with 1216 01:02:17,880 --> 01:02:20,320 Speaker 1: him forever because there's always some childhood shit that these 1217 01:02:20,360 --> 01:02:21,920 Speaker 1: motherfuckers get to take out on the rest of us 1218 01:02:22,000 --> 01:02:24,400 Speaker 1: for the rest of their life. Nobody goes to therapy 1219 01:02:24,520 --> 01:02:27,000 Speaker 1: or any or grows out of it anything, Like you 1220 01:02:27,080 --> 01:02:29,120 Speaker 1: the only motherfucker got picked on, bro. We all got 1221 01:02:29,120 --> 01:02:33,040 Speaker 1: picked on. But still, I mean that's like, but there's 1222 01:02:33,080 --> 01:02:35,600 Speaker 1: something there where I was like, cause, you know, before 1223 01:02:35,640 --> 01:02:37,840 Speaker 1: I even looked into him, I was just like, there's 1224 01:02:37,840 --> 01:02:41,480 Speaker 1: something about him where it don't feel like sometimes there's 1225 01:02:41,520 --> 01:02:44,520 Speaker 1: like black people where they hate us, but you're like, oh, 1226 01:02:44,560 --> 01:02:46,760 Speaker 1: they don't know us, Like, oh, you grew up not 1227 01:02:46,880 --> 01:02:49,200 Speaker 1: around black people, maybe the only black people you know 1228 01:02:49,280 --> 01:02:52,200 Speaker 1: your family. This motherfucker feel like he know us and 1229 01:02:52,240 --> 01:02:56,360 Speaker 1: he hates us. More like, like, why do you hate 1230 01:02:56,440 --> 01:02:57,680 Speaker 1: us so much? Bro? When we do. 1231 01:02:57,840 --> 01:02:59,040 Speaker 2: Somebody done something. 1232 01:02:59,080 --> 01:03:04,680 Speaker 3: And he said, right, and this idea too, that somehow 1233 01:03:04,720 --> 01:03:08,120 Speaker 3: that this is somehow a fucking village of villain origin story. 1234 01:03:08,440 --> 01:03:10,360 Speaker 3: I got Look at me, I'm dark. I got picked 1235 01:03:10,400 --> 01:03:13,480 Speaker 3: on everybody. Both of my sisters were lighter than me. 1236 01:03:13,840 --> 01:03:16,720 Speaker 3: I grew up in a black neighborhood. My parents went 1237 01:03:16,760 --> 01:03:20,120 Speaker 3: to segregated schools. We were a small, tight knit community 1238 01:03:20,440 --> 01:03:24,720 Speaker 3: where my last name, people knew, my father, my uncles, 1239 01:03:24,880 --> 01:03:28,000 Speaker 3: my people. Oh your mama's a Riley, Yeah girl, blah 1240 01:03:28,040 --> 01:03:30,480 Speaker 3: blah blah, Like that was what that was our community, 1241 01:03:30,680 --> 01:03:32,120 Speaker 3: very tight knit. 1242 01:03:32,120 --> 01:03:32,680 Speaker 5: Very beautiful. 1243 01:03:32,720 --> 01:03:35,160 Speaker 3: And Laquisa Lakita is saying that I have beautiful you 1244 01:03:35,720 --> 01:03:36,360 Speaker 3: think it is? 1245 01:03:37,800 --> 01:03:38,919 Speaker 5: Thank you, that's very kind. 1246 01:03:39,040 --> 01:03:47,240 Speaker 3: Rihanna mix this really lovely moisturizing serum blood. Yes, fancy fancy, 1247 01:03:47,400 --> 01:03:49,240 Speaker 3: but like it took me forever to learn how to 1248 01:03:49,240 --> 01:03:55,280 Speaker 3: love my skin because having black black this you black 1249 01:03:55,360 --> 01:03:57,160 Speaker 3: is nice black. It is the inside of a pocket. 1250 01:03:57,200 --> 01:04:00,400 Speaker 3: I mean, like that's the thing you're gonna have to learn. 1251 01:04:00,880 --> 01:04:02,760 Speaker 3: Like that thing is you're gonna have to learn to 1252 01:04:02,840 --> 01:04:05,320 Speaker 3: love yourself. That right there has already a hurdle that 1253 01:04:05,360 --> 01:04:07,560 Speaker 3: a lot of people don't have, right, Like, there's a 1254 01:04:07,560 --> 01:04:09,560 Speaker 3: lot of people that this the world loves him from 1255 01:04:09,560 --> 01:04:12,400 Speaker 3: the time they born for whatever fucking reason. And then 1256 01:04:12,400 --> 01:04:15,480 Speaker 3: there's other people where it's like you're talking to him, 1257 01:04:15,560 --> 01:04:17,720 Speaker 3: like told me a while to learn to love myself. 1258 01:04:17,720 --> 01:04:20,520 Speaker 3: It is like yes, because the default in America is 1259 01:04:20,720 --> 01:04:23,920 Speaker 3: no love for you. So it is interesting to see 1260 01:04:24,200 --> 01:04:27,360 Speaker 3: like there's always somebody in blackness that just got it worse. 1261 01:04:27,400 --> 01:04:29,520 Speaker 1: Like Clarion Thomas talks to all this shit his sisters 1262 01:04:29,520 --> 01:04:32,640 Speaker 1: had it worse than him, Like it's like his sisters 1263 01:04:33,000 --> 01:04:35,320 Speaker 1: was down bad, and he hates his sisters and shit, 1264 01:04:35,440 --> 01:04:36,360 Speaker 1: it's crazy. 1265 01:04:36,000 --> 01:04:38,320 Speaker 5: Really does and he could he has a position to 1266 01:04:38,360 --> 01:04:39,840 Speaker 5: help her and won't, like. 1267 01:04:39,920 --> 01:04:42,680 Speaker 1: Right, like wild boy. He's a wild boy. 1268 01:04:42,880 --> 01:04:47,120 Speaker 3: So sad, Yeah, really sad. And now we're stuck with 1269 01:04:47,200 --> 01:04:47,720 Speaker 3: him forever. 1270 01:04:48,120 --> 01:04:54,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, well for a while. Nothing's forever. That motherfucker got 1271 01:04:54,520 --> 01:04:57,280 Speaker 1: the flu last month. I was like, is it true? 1272 01:05:00,480 --> 01:05:02,640 Speaker 1: I was like, release the balloons, hold on, it's just 1273 01:05:02,680 --> 01:05:04,240 Speaker 1: a flu. Everybody's just the flu. 1274 01:05:04,560 --> 01:05:05,920 Speaker 2: Calm down, too excited. 1275 01:05:06,840 --> 01:05:10,640 Speaker 1: But the one thing that's interesting about Gamer Thrones is 1276 01:05:11,280 --> 01:05:14,040 Speaker 1: it is something that I grew up as a kid 1277 01:05:14,080 --> 01:05:16,600 Speaker 1: reading some high fantasy stuff, not all of it, but 1278 01:05:16,680 --> 01:05:19,400 Speaker 1: just some stuff normally what my grandmama would buy me 1279 01:05:19,440 --> 01:05:25,040 Speaker 1: out of good will. And it is such an interesting 1280 01:05:25,080 --> 01:05:28,960 Speaker 1: world because high fantasy is you know, dungeons and dragons 1281 01:05:28,960 --> 01:05:32,200 Speaker 1: for a lot of people, it's a lot of you know, 1282 01:05:32,920 --> 01:05:35,880 Speaker 1: Lord of the Rings type stuff. It's all that. And 1283 01:05:36,120 --> 01:05:38,800 Speaker 1: it definitely had a distinction when I was growing up 1284 01:05:39,240 --> 01:05:41,560 Speaker 1: where it was like, oh, that's what white people do 1285 01:05:41,680 --> 01:05:44,200 Speaker 1: for fun, and we like, that's not our thing. It 1286 01:05:44,240 --> 01:05:46,280 Speaker 1: took until I got to college where I met people 1287 01:05:46,840 --> 01:05:50,280 Speaker 1: other black people that were into that shit, partially because 1288 01:05:50,280 --> 01:05:52,440 Speaker 1: we also didn't have an Internet growing up. I think 1289 01:05:52,440 --> 01:05:54,040 Speaker 1: if I grew up with the Internet, then you just 1290 01:05:54,080 --> 01:05:55,920 Speaker 1: go find a Facebook group and now you know, oh, 1291 01:05:56,000 --> 01:06:00,000 Speaker 1: black people do everything. At the time, it was black 1292 01:06:00,080 --> 01:06:03,400 Speaker 1: people do everything in your neighborhood. So like it's like, 1293 01:06:03,520 --> 01:06:06,320 Speaker 1: what are we into reading color books? We not, Okay, 1294 01:06:06,360 --> 01:06:08,400 Speaker 1: black people don't do that. You know, you don't know 1295 01:06:08,520 --> 01:06:12,160 Speaker 1: until later that people are into that. But one of 1296 01:06:12,200 --> 01:06:14,080 Speaker 1: the things that's funny is that people see fantasy as 1297 01:06:14,120 --> 01:06:17,840 Speaker 1: like escapism, and it is to a certain extent, but 1298 01:06:17,920 --> 01:06:22,200 Speaker 1: I think now people are less interested in like necessarily 1299 01:06:22,360 --> 01:06:28,040 Speaker 1: escaping through fantasy and more interested in like bringing our 1300 01:06:28,120 --> 01:06:31,840 Speaker 1: social issues to the fantasy and seeing how it handles them. Like, 1301 01:06:31,880 --> 01:06:34,200 Speaker 1: I don't know if you've seen that difference in your 1302 01:06:34,560 --> 01:06:36,760 Speaker 1: time period being a fan of the stuff. 1303 01:06:38,560 --> 01:06:41,600 Speaker 3: And I guess one of the things, and I was 1304 01:06:41,680 --> 01:06:45,040 Speaker 3: always I love Star Trek, I love Star Wars. I 1305 01:06:45,640 --> 01:06:50,280 Speaker 3: really enjoyed like the I like the escapism of it, 1306 01:06:50,400 --> 01:06:52,080 Speaker 3: just like everybody else, did, you know? 1307 01:06:52,280 --> 01:06:54,800 Speaker 5: And I think this idea that. 1308 01:06:56,600 --> 01:06:59,320 Speaker 3: The limitations that are placed on blackness should not be 1309 01:06:59,360 --> 01:07:02,760 Speaker 3: the ones that are placed on blackness by black people, right, Like, 1310 01:07:02,800 --> 01:07:05,200 Speaker 3: I think that there's one of the things about being black, 1311 01:07:05,800 --> 01:07:07,000 Speaker 3: one of the things, one of the ways that you 1312 01:07:07,040 --> 01:07:09,520 Speaker 3: know you're black. Like I was ostracized from the black 1313 01:07:09,520 --> 01:07:10,640 Speaker 3: community because I was picked on. 1314 01:07:10,720 --> 01:07:12,000 Speaker 5: I was like, this, that's initiation. 1315 01:07:12,240 --> 01:07:16,400 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's how we feel love, Okay, Like that's what 1316 01:07:16,520 --> 01:07:17,720 Speaker 3: it is being black. 1317 01:07:17,800 --> 01:07:21,120 Speaker 5: It is it is. It is the initiation. 1318 01:07:21,320 --> 01:07:24,320 Speaker 1: And in this white people don't even have a they 1319 01:07:24,360 --> 01:07:28,440 Speaker 1: don't even have the dozens, but like every every black 1320 01:07:28,480 --> 01:07:30,960 Speaker 1: community has the dozens. You gotta be able to do. 1321 01:07:31,360 --> 01:07:33,280 Speaker 1: I don't know, I'm like, I always feel a little 1322 01:07:33,280 --> 01:07:37,320 Speaker 1: bit of empathy. I feel overwhelming empathy obviously for my 1323 01:07:37,400 --> 01:07:41,280 Speaker 1: black folks who couldn't hack it. But at the same time, 1324 01:07:41,440 --> 01:07:43,960 Speaker 1: I always feel like the love was right on the 1325 01:07:44,000 --> 01:07:45,919 Speaker 1: other side of the door. You just gotta walk through 1326 01:07:45,960 --> 01:07:48,120 Speaker 1: and be like, all right, you clown me by having 1327 01:07:48,160 --> 01:07:52,000 Speaker 1: high water jeans, and now we move on and we're 1328 01:07:52,040 --> 01:07:54,200 Speaker 1: best friends. It's a little rough, but it's not the 1329 01:07:54,280 --> 01:07:54,920 Speaker 1: end of the world. 1330 01:07:56,000 --> 01:07:58,240 Speaker 3: And even if like for me, like I had this 1331 01:07:58,320 --> 01:08:01,320 Speaker 3: shitty squad of fourth grade girls, we're bullying and horrible 1332 01:08:01,400 --> 01:08:05,120 Speaker 3: or whatever, but I now got some really great insults 1333 01:08:05,160 --> 01:08:09,600 Speaker 3: and now I'm like, oh, like very very resilient. 1334 01:08:09,720 --> 01:08:12,280 Speaker 5: And it's like, so now people still do. 1335 01:08:12,280 --> 01:08:14,480 Speaker 3: This to me, like they're like, oh, well, like I'm 1336 01:08:14,520 --> 01:08:16,840 Speaker 3: always like I was always the person that was the 1337 01:08:17,560 --> 01:08:19,400 Speaker 3: darkest person anybody ever knew. 1338 01:08:19,800 --> 01:08:22,479 Speaker 5: So I mean like they're almost black, like Lisa, and 1339 01:08:22,479 --> 01:08:27,080 Speaker 5: it's like yeah, yeah, and I'm the end of the spectrum. 1340 01:08:27,280 --> 01:08:28,360 Speaker 2: And the thing that. 1341 01:08:29,840 --> 01:08:31,400 Speaker 5: Night time and like, oh no. 1342 01:08:31,680 --> 01:08:35,040 Speaker 1: The thing that that that's so interesting to me is that. 1343 01:08:35,640 --> 01:08:38,880 Speaker 1: And it's obviously a grass is greener situation. The assumption 1344 01:08:39,040 --> 01:08:40,800 Speaker 1: in our heads, and I think this is definitely because 1345 01:08:40,800 --> 01:08:44,120 Speaker 1: of white superency becomes well, if they were all white kids, 1346 01:08:44,200 --> 01:08:52,640 Speaker 1: I wouldn't be picked on at all. It's like, oh no, baby, right, like. 1347 01:08:52,720 --> 01:08:54,719 Speaker 5: Honestly, they won't pick it people. 1348 01:08:54,920 --> 01:08:58,439 Speaker 1: Honestly, if the white people aren't, if they're not picking 1349 01:08:58,439 --> 01:09:02,519 Speaker 1: on you, is even worse than anything. You know, like, 1350 01:09:02,760 --> 01:09:04,559 Speaker 1: you better hope that you got some that will just 1351 01:09:04,560 --> 01:09:06,439 Speaker 1: call you a nerd, because if not, they're just saying 1352 01:09:06,439 --> 01:09:08,880 Speaker 1: it behind your back, like, oh God, why did you 1353 01:09:08,920 --> 01:09:10,000 Speaker 1: invite Leon again? 1354 01:09:10,240 --> 01:09:15,080 Speaker 4: You know, yeah, because their language is different. And so, 1355 01:09:15,280 --> 01:09:17,400 Speaker 4: you know, as you get older, particularly as you're getting 1356 01:09:17,400 --> 01:09:20,559 Speaker 4: the workforce, you realize that our language is different. Because 1357 01:09:20,560 --> 01:09:23,400 Speaker 4: one thing I love about Negro is good battering difference. 1358 01:09:23,439 --> 01:09:25,240 Speaker 4: We'll tell you to your face if we like it, 1359 01:09:25,320 --> 01:09:27,559 Speaker 4: if we don't like you, like like like like, we 1360 01:09:27,600 --> 01:09:28,479 Speaker 4: don't bite our. 1361 01:09:28,400 --> 01:09:30,200 Speaker 2: Tongue on certain things. 1362 01:09:30,800 --> 01:09:32,760 Speaker 4: And so when I got to the workforce, I didn't 1363 01:09:32,840 --> 01:09:35,479 Speaker 4: understand that white people's language is completely different. And a 1364 01:09:35,560 --> 01:09:37,160 Speaker 4: lot of people, like I said, a lot of black 1365 01:09:37,160 --> 01:09:38,840 Speaker 4: people lose the job and don't even know why. 1366 01:09:38,880 --> 01:09:40,400 Speaker 5: They don't even know why the job. 1367 01:09:40,680 --> 01:09:43,439 Speaker 1: That documentary about the black woman who was born into 1368 01:09:43,439 --> 01:09:46,280 Speaker 1: the white family and they just let her think she 1369 01:09:46,360 --> 01:09:48,320 Speaker 1: was white, though that none of them thought she was 1370 01:09:48,320 --> 01:09:50,920 Speaker 1: white the whole time, and then like by the end, 1371 01:09:51,160 --> 01:09:53,760 Speaker 1: by the end she realized obviously she's black, because every 1372 01:09:53,800 --> 01:09:56,120 Speaker 1: time she means a black person, they're like, oh, what's 1373 01:09:56,120 --> 01:10:00,360 Speaker 1: the girl and she's like, oh, no, I'm white. They're like, ooh, 1374 01:10:00,479 --> 01:10:03,439 Speaker 1: someone's gonna have to come to a reconing or whatever 1375 01:10:03,560 --> 01:10:07,360 Speaker 1: and that. But to me, I always felt like they 1376 01:10:07,360 --> 01:10:10,760 Speaker 1: did her a great disservice as the white family to 1377 01:10:10,960 --> 01:10:14,120 Speaker 1: let that go on. And to me, it was like duplicitis, 1378 01:10:14,120 --> 01:10:17,519 Speaker 1: like y'all really was like comfortable being like, yeah, she 1379 01:10:17,640 --> 01:10:20,000 Speaker 1: looked like a fool, but you know that she ain't right, 1380 01:10:20,400 --> 01:10:20,960 Speaker 1: that's whack. 1381 01:10:22,040 --> 01:10:23,559 Speaker 5: It's also it's sinister. 1382 01:10:23,920 --> 01:10:26,920 Speaker 3: It is sinister, and it is a form of abusive 1383 01:10:27,080 --> 01:10:28,240 Speaker 3: against this child. 1384 01:10:28,000 --> 01:10:28,080 Speaker 4: Like. 1385 01:10:29,920 --> 01:10:30,160 Speaker 3: Hurt. 1386 01:10:30,640 --> 01:10:32,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, and that's your family member. 1387 01:10:33,000 --> 01:10:36,200 Speaker 3: And that this is the laziness though it's poitizing, like 1388 01:10:36,240 --> 01:10:39,800 Speaker 3: they pretty smart said, it's prioritizing their comfort as white 1389 01:10:39,880 --> 01:10:45,519 Speaker 3: people over the safety and health of their child. Right, 1390 01:10:45,560 --> 01:10:47,960 Speaker 3: if you've adopted this black child, and you love this 1391 01:10:48,040 --> 01:10:50,599 Speaker 3: black child, why can't you teach her to love her skin? 1392 01:10:51,040 --> 01:10:52,840 Speaker 5: And it reminds me of something that I sometimes tell 1393 01:10:52,880 --> 01:10:53,200 Speaker 5: my stuents. 1394 01:10:53,240 --> 01:10:56,519 Speaker 3: People say, oh, Lisa, when I look at you, I 1395 01:10:56,600 --> 01:10:57,479 Speaker 3: don't see black. 1396 01:10:57,760 --> 01:11:01,160 Speaker 5: I just see a person. And I say, here's the thing. 1397 01:11:01,240 --> 01:11:02,920 Speaker 3: Here's what's wrong with that because we look at this 1398 01:11:02,960 --> 01:11:06,120 Speaker 3: as a colorblind compliment, right, The thing that's wrong with 1399 01:11:06,160 --> 01:11:10,240 Speaker 3: it is this, you clearly do see that I am black. 1400 01:11:11,120 --> 01:11:11,800 Speaker 5: You see that? 1401 01:11:12,400 --> 01:11:17,240 Speaker 3: And what instead rather than saying, hey, I see Lisa, 1402 01:11:17,439 --> 01:11:20,600 Speaker 3: she is black. I must now unlearn all of the 1403 01:11:20,680 --> 01:11:24,320 Speaker 3: racist things I think about black people, you will say 1404 01:11:24,760 --> 01:11:28,439 Speaker 3: Lisa is not really black. Yes, so you can keep 1405 01:11:28,439 --> 01:11:31,599 Speaker 3: your racist ideas in place and let me be an 1406 01:11:31,640 --> 01:11:36,040 Speaker 3: exception exactly, you know, and so that there's nothing complimentary 1407 01:11:36,439 --> 01:11:37,679 Speaker 3: about I don't see. 1408 01:11:37,520 --> 01:11:38,160 Speaker 5: You as black. 1409 01:11:38,280 --> 01:11:41,400 Speaker 1: Also, I have experiences as a black person that I'm 1410 01:11:41,439 --> 01:11:46,080 Speaker 1: bringing to the table. And like I talked to Randolph Terrence, 1411 01:11:46,120 --> 01:11:49,240 Speaker 1: the comedian will talk sometimes, and I remember a long 1412 01:11:49,280 --> 01:11:51,439 Speaker 1: time ago we had a talk where he was talking 1413 01:11:51,479 --> 01:11:54,439 Speaker 1: about when people used to tell him not to be 1414 01:11:54,600 --> 01:11:56,799 Speaker 1: like like white people used to shit on deaf comedy 1415 01:11:56,840 --> 01:11:59,679 Speaker 1: jam and this is when he was younger and stuff. 1416 01:11:59,800 --> 01:12:01,400 Speaker 1: So you would kind of like taking them like, I 1417 01:12:01,439 --> 01:12:04,080 Speaker 1: don't want to be that kind of black comic because obviously, 1418 01:12:04,840 --> 01:12:07,599 Speaker 1: you know, white people are telling me not that's that's hack, 1419 01:12:07,720 --> 01:12:10,600 Speaker 1: that's just And I was like, the obvious point is 1420 01:12:10,880 --> 01:12:13,759 Speaker 1: they're jealous. They can't do that comedy. They can't access 1421 01:12:13,800 --> 01:12:18,040 Speaker 1: those rooms, in those spaces, those communal notes that exist 1422 01:12:18,040 --> 01:12:21,880 Speaker 1: within death comedy jail don't exist within for white people 1423 01:12:21,960 --> 01:12:23,559 Speaker 1: because they didn't learn them growing up. 1424 01:12:24,040 --> 01:12:25,920 Speaker 5: And exactly, mostly. 1425 01:12:25,600 --> 01:12:28,519 Speaker 1: The trick is to get you to limit yourself because 1426 01:12:28,560 --> 01:12:30,720 Speaker 1: if you go out there and you're killing, and you 1427 01:12:30,840 --> 01:12:33,479 Speaker 1: got that confidence and you're getting that gig and whatever's 1428 01:12:33,520 --> 01:12:36,200 Speaker 1: happening for you, that's a thing they didn't get and 1429 01:12:36,240 --> 01:12:38,240 Speaker 1: they never wanted you to get. So there's like a 1430 01:12:39,240 --> 01:12:42,320 Speaker 1: level where they want to have you real your own 1431 01:12:42,400 --> 01:12:44,639 Speaker 1: self in before before they can even do it. 1432 01:12:44,800 --> 01:12:48,760 Speaker 4: Yeah, And exactly a lot of the times truth and 1433 01:12:48,800 --> 01:12:51,040 Speaker 4: maybe it's just me on the outside looking in. If 1434 01:12:51,080 --> 01:12:53,920 Speaker 4: you could kill in a black room, most likely you 1435 01:12:53,920 --> 01:12:56,960 Speaker 4: can kill just about anywhere. Yeah, because we are the 1436 01:12:57,080 --> 01:13:00,200 Speaker 4: like the way we look at comedy. Sometimes it ain't right, 1437 01:13:00,240 --> 01:13:01,920 Speaker 4: but we'll come in with I found with I all's 1438 01:13:01,960 --> 01:13:04,000 Speaker 4: folded and look at you and like make need. 1439 01:13:04,479 --> 01:13:07,519 Speaker 1: It's the dozens, right, it's it's the you know, Like 1440 01:13:07,560 --> 01:13:09,599 Speaker 1: that's the other thing too. You can make it in 1441 01:13:09,920 --> 01:13:13,880 Speaker 1: like out of my neighborhood and talk that shit. I 1442 01:13:13,920 --> 01:13:15,879 Speaker 1: hope you don't think I'm going to the Harris YMCA 1443 01:13:15,880 --> 01:13:17,400 Speaker 1: and being like, I ain't gonna talk that shit in here. 1444 01:13:17,400 --> 01:13:20,160 Speaker 1: I'm talking that shit like that's that's what I live in. 1445 01:13:20,240 --> 01:13:22,080 Speaker 1: This is how I eat and breathe. At this point, 1446 01:13:22,120 --> 01:13:24,280 Speaker 1: I had to turn it down. I remember when I 1447 01:13:24,360 --> 01:13:27,320 Speaker 1: played basketball at the White YMCA. I remember when I 1448 01:13:27,360 --> 01:13:30,280 Speaker 1: first got in there. I was definitely a bit rough 1449 01:13:30,320 --> 01:13:32,800 Speaker 1: around the edges because I had just been playing basketball 1450 01:13:33,000 --> 01:13:35,479 Speaker 1: in the hood with nothing but black people in all life, 1451 01:13:35,960 --> 01:13:39,479 Speaker 1: and they I didn't realize how rough it was until 1452 01:13:40,400 --> 01:13:42,840 Speaker 1: like I would like, somebody's fighting a call or something, 1453 01:13:42,880 --> 01:13:44,800 Speaker 1: you know, you debate a call, and I just like 1454 01:13:44,840 --> 01:13:46,479 Speaker 1: take the ball and be like, man, fuck that, it's 1455 01:13:46,520 --> 01:13:49,920 Speaker 1: off ball. And they look like, oh god, what is this? 1456 01:13:49,960 --> 01:13:52,720 Speaker 1: And I was like, oh is this? Oh am I 1457 01:13:52,800 --> 01:13:54,200 Speaker 1: going to I'm sorry I turned it. 1458 01:13:54,200 --> 01:13:54,600 Speaker 5: Down for you. 1459 01:13:54,640 --> 01:13:57,479 Speaker 1: But the point being, my defaults at was ten, so 1460 01:13:57,720 --> 01:13:59,320 Speaker 1: like I can turn it down. I think the same 1461 01:13:59,360 --> 01:14:01,000 Speaker 1: thing with a lot of our stuff is like, you 1462 01:14:01,040 --> 01:14:03,599 Speaker 1: come from black culture, your default setting is ten. It's 1463 01:14:03,640 --> 01:14:06,720 Speaker 1: the hardest one to thrive in, but that means I 1464 01:14:06,720 --> 01:14:08,920 Speaker 1: can go anywhere else and kill It's like when people 1465 01:14:09,120 --> 01:14:12,040 Speaker 1: have us as guests on their shows and they're like okay, 1466 01:14:12,080 --> 01:14:14,400 Speaker 1: so no cussing, and I'm like, we're gonna kill this. 1467 01:14:14,439 --> 01:14:17,200 Speaker 1: I'm not worried about that. Like whatever your rules are, 1468 01:14:17,240 --> 01:14:20,160 Speaker 1: we're well, you know, we do things this way, I 1469 01:14:20,280 --> 01:14:23,080 Speaker 1: promise will be Okay, we've done it the hardest way 1470 01:14:23,439 --> 01:14:24,879 Speaker 1: twenty five hundred times. 1471 01:14:24,960 --> 01:14:28,960 Speaker 2: Yes, we can rein it in. I trust me. 1472 01:14:29,680 --> 01:14:32,479 Speaker 1: So let me ask you this, like, did you let's 1473 01:14:32,479 --> 01:14:35,080 Speaker 1: talk about Houses Dragon? How are you feeling about this 1474 01:14:35,240 --> 01:14:39,080 Speaker 1: season in general, like as somebody that you know, and 1475 01:14:39,439 --> 01:14:42,000 Speaker 1: how did you feel about, you know, the first series 1476 01:14:42,600 --> 01:14:44,840 Speaker 1: because I know a lot of people's enthusiasm had dipped 1477 01:14:44,880 --> 01:14:47,160 Speaker 1: because of the last two seasons to a lot of people, 1478 01:14:47,520 --> 01:14:51,360 Speaker 1: and then it's okay, we're gonna do it again prequel series. 1479 01:14:51,960 --> 01:14:54,439 Speaker 1: Were you like excited like yes? Or were you like, oh, 1480 01:14:54,479 --> 01:14:56,280 Speaker 1: here we go again. I hope it's good. 1481 01:14:57,160 --> 01:14:59,720 Speaker 3: I was excited like yes, And I feel like that 1482 01:15:00,000 --> 01:15:02,400 Speaker 3: sement has paid off. I really think Houses the Dragon 1483 01:15:02,479 --> 01:15:04,439 Speaker 3: is better than Game of Thrones. I think it's better 1484 01:15:04,479 --> 01:15:06,880 Speaker 3: than the first season. I think it has the benefit 1485 01:15:07,479 --> 01:15:13,519 Speaker 3: of new writers and more more accountability in some ways. 1486 01:15:13,520 --> 01:15:15,320 Speaker 3: I know some people call it fan service when they 1487 01:15:15,360 --> 01:15:20,000 Speaker 3: don't like it, but it's accountability and I really appreciated 1488 01:15:20,120 --> 01:15:23,400 Speaker 3: that the way that women so far have been better 1489 01:15:23,479 --> 01:15:28,840 Speaker 3: represented that that grewsome graphic first scene with Emma in 1490 01:15:28,920 --> 01:15:32,000 Speaker 3: the first one, y'all actually got me. I printed off 1491 01:15:32,840 --> 01:15:35,840 Speaker 3: a dog one genealogy so that I could. 1492 01:15:35,880 --> 01:15:37,240 Speaker 5: Keep all the people separate. 1493 01:15:37,920 --> 01:15:39,960 Speaker 3: A lot of people, it's a lot of names, it's 1494 01:15:40,000 --> 01:15:43,519 Speaker 3: a lot of people. But Emma when she when she 1495 01:15:43,760 --> 01:15:46,320 Speaker 3: was you know, completely violated and murdered so that the 1496 01:15:46,320 --> 01:15:49,559 Speaker 3: baby could come out. I thought that that that that 1497 01:15:49,680 --> 01:15:54,760 Speaker 3: they had women on the they consulted with women, and 1498 01:15:55,320 --> 01:15:55,760 Speaker 3: they did. 1499 01:15:55,760 --> 01:15:58,240 Speaker 1: You read that article where they so they talked to 1500 01:15:58,240 --> 01:16:00,600 Speaker 1: those women and women was like it wasn't gratien. 1501 01:16:02,439 --> 01:16:04,479 Speaker 5: They wanted it more. They wanted Yeah. 1502 01:16:04,520 --> 01:16:08,200 Speaker 3: And I also liked how they juxtaposed it against the 1503 01:16:08,400 --> 01:16:11,400 Speaker 3: jousting scene, you know, like that was clear. 1504 01:16:11,960 --> 01:16:14,759 Speaker 5: I also really like the sex in the series. 1505 01:16:14,960 --> 01:16:18,599 Speaker 3: I really like how it's so much better that they 1506 01:16:18,600 --> 01:16:23,200 Speaker 3: are investing in the pleasures of viewers beyond Cis had 1507 01:16:23,560 --> 01:16:27,599 Speaker 3: white men slash boys and before it would be like 1508 01:16:27,960 --> 01:16:31,679 Speaker 3: Teddy patrol, Teddy Teddy Teddy titty tik everywhere, and it's like, dang, 1509 01:16:31,720 --> 01:16:33,720 Speaker 3: I got some of those already. I'm not interested in 1510 01:16:33,760 --> 01:16:34,639 Speaker 3: seeing that yeah. 1511 01:16:34,439 --> 01:16:38,639 Speaker 1: The sex position. The sex position is gone, which I think, yes, 1512 01:16:39,200 --> 01:16:43,240 Speaker 1: it just serves the show a lot better. The way 1513 01:16:43,280 --> 01:16:46,280 Speaker 1: they filmed the the sex scenes and stuff, obviously like 1514 01:16:46,560 --> 01:16:49,040 Speaker 1: some sometimes through it from a feminine lens, but also 1515 01:16:49,120 --> 01:16:52,439 Speaker 1: through like I think so when the first show first 1516 01:16:52,439 --> 01:16:55,080 Speaker 1: came out the first time, I think their whole thing 1517 01:16:55,280 --> 01:16:58,600 Speaker 1: was bro is not gonna be no fucking like, we 1518 01:16:58,920 --> 01:17:00,840 Speaker 1: just ain't no token man, and we bought the fuck 1519 01:17:00,920 --> 01:17:04,439 Speaker 1: and I think everything that could be extreme they just did. 1520 01:17:04,560 --> 01:17:06,640 Speaker 1: It was like the most extreme because we want to 1521 01:17:06,680 --> 01:17:09,639 Speaker 1: shock people out of whatever. And then of course comes 1522 01:17:09,640 --> 01:17:12,400 Speaker 1: the backlash and the feedback and stuff, and I actually 1523 01:17:12,400 --> 01:17:14,840 Speaker 1: do think they got better with that stuff the last 1524 01:17:14,880 --> 01:17:17,719 Speaker 1: two seasons. Even though people didn't like the last two seasons, 1525 01:17:18,160 --> 01:17:21,120 Speaker 1: those are kind of the tamest seasons. It was like, 1526 01:17:21,360 --> 01:17:23,800 Speaker 1: all right, we can't show that anymore, Like we can't 1527 01:17:23,800 --> 01:17:26,640 Speaker 1: do that because they were starting to get feedback. This 1528 01:17:26,720 --> 01:17:30,360 Speaker 1: one there's obviously more women involved, but they also just 1529 01:17:30,680 --> 01:17:34,080 Speaker 1: have the lessons they learned from the first one. 1530 01:17:33,320 --> 01:17:36,440 Speaker 5: I thought people would be more. 1531 01:17:37,840 --> 01:17:42,200 Speaker 1: Disliking the pacing more than anything, because it's very fast 1532 01:17:42,920 --> 01:17:45,679 Speaker 1: and a lot of people a lot of people's complained 1533 01:17:45,680 --> 01:17:48,080 Speaker 1: the last two season was it was moving too fast, 1534 01:17:48,360 --> 01:17:50,040 Speaker 1: and I remember they were right in and be like, 1535 01:17:50,120 --> 01:17:52,880 Speaker 1: it's going too fast, And of course they were right 1536 01:17:52,960 --> 01:17:54,760 Speaker 1: into the wrong show, because I was like, I've been 1537 01:17:54,840 --> 01:17:58,200 Speaker 1: wanting this to go fast the whole time. 1538 01:17:58,600 --> 01:18:01,080 Speaker 4: You need to see this raven trap for eight episodes, 1539 01:18:01,160 --> 01:18:01,799 Speaker 4: let's go. 1540 01:18:01,840 --> 01:18:05,599 Speaker 1: Like, honestly, they could have skipped every sex scene if 1541 01:18:05,600 --> 01:18:07,639 Speaker 1: they would have just fast forwarded to the next one. 1542 01:18:07,720 --> 01:18:09,880 Speaker 1: For me, I didn't care about that stuff, Like I 1543 01:18:09,960 --> 01:18:13,160 Speaker 1: was like, uh, like I was. I was very much 1544 01:18:13,280 --> 01:18:16,160 Speaker 1: tired of like, We're sending a raven to such and such. 1545 01:18:16,760 --> 01:18:19,920 Speaker 1: Three weeks later the raven gets there. It's like, fag, 1546 01:18:20,560 --> 01:18:23,640 Speaker 1: It's a TV show, it's not a documentary. We not 1547 01:18:23,760 --> 01:18:27,479 Speaker 1: reliving this shit fast forward. It can't be that serious. 1548 01:18:27,920 --> 01:18:30,519 Speaker 1: And so this time though, I actually feel like they 1549 01:18:30,560 --> 01:18:33,280 Speaker 1: got it right, like and the stuff. I forgive them 1550 01:18:33,320 --> 01:18:35,880 Speaker 1: for the stuff that they gloss over, because I'm like, 1551 01:18:37,240 --> 01:18:39,400 Speaker 1: if it wasn't that important, and if it was that important, 1552 01:18:39,400 --> 01:18:41,160 Speaker 1: they would have stopped and explained it. It must not 1553 01:18:41,200 --> 01:18:43,040 Speaker 1: be that damn important, right, you. 1554 01:18:43,000 --> 01:18:45,120 Speaker 5: Know, exactly, exactly exactly. 1555 01:18:45,160 --> 01:18:47,439 Speaker 3: And I think that one of the things I also 1556 01:18:47,479 --> 01:18:51,920 Speaker 3: appreciate is that the way that they have invested themselves 1557 01:18:51,960 --> 01:18:54,880 Speaker 3: in agency of the women characters. I thought that was 1558 01:18:54,960 --> 01:18:58,000 Speaker 3: much much better than before. Like it's just it feels 1559 01:18:58,000 --> 01:18:59,439 Speaker 3: like they're making a lot more effen. 1560 01:19:00,040 --> 01:19:04,320 Speaker 1: Didn't every character men and women. They're writing them so 1561 01:19:04,479 --> 01:19:08,799 Speaker 1: much more complex in that they're none of them are perfect. 1562 01:19:08,840 --> 01:19:12,760 Speaker 1: Which as much as I love Aria and stuff, it 1563 01:19:12,800 --> 01:19:15,559 Speaker 1: was it was so much love for Aria, so much 1564 01:19:15,600 --> 01:19:18,120 Speaker 1: love for John Snow it was to the detriment of 1565 01:19:18,160 --> 01:19:21,479 Speaker 1: other characters. You know, we weren't supposed to hate sons 1566 01:19:21,479 --> 01:19:23,559 Speaker 1: of but people ended up hating her, And I was like, 1567 01:19:23,680 --> 01:19:27,000 Speaker 1: that's it's unfair. But it's also partially because they didn't 1568 01:19:27,040 --> 01:19:30,360 Speaker 1: do a good job laying that story out to people 1569 01:19:30,360 --> 01:19:34,120 Speaker 1: to see how sympathetic that character was and me exactly 1570 01:19:34,160 --> 01:19:37,120 Speaker 1: and making Aria too good, Like you literally needed to 1571 01:19:37,160 --> 01:19:40,120 Speaker 1: have Aria do something bad at some point so people 1572 01:19:40,120 --> 01:19:43,240 Speaker 1: would be like, oh, maybe her sister wasn't that bad 1573 01:19:43,320 --> 01:19:47,240 Speaker 1: to not do what she says, But this time they 1574 01:19:47,280 --> 01:19:51,280 Speaker 1: got it right. Like just thinking about Visara's and like 1575 01:19:51,400 --> 01:19:55,240 Speaker 1: the decision he makes with Ama in episode one, unforgivable, 1576 01:19:55,439 --> 01:19:56,520 Speaker 1: literally unforgivable. 1577 01:19:56,640 --> 01:19:57,800 Speaker 5: You're never gonna get over it. 1578 01:19:57,920 --> 01:20:00,360 Speaker 1: I'll never forget it, and then by the time this 1579 01:20:00,439 --> 01:20:04,200 Speaker 1: dude dies, I'm like, oh God, without him, the family 1580 01:20:04,280 --> 01:20:07,760 Speaker 1: is done, you know, like Mama's gone, like. 1581 01:20:10,960 --> 01:20:17,120 Speaker 3: Yeah, developer, yese be gone right. 1582 01:20:17,680 --> 01:20:20,559 Speaker 5: My cousin got problem with him, she got the sugar. Yes, 1583 01:20:20,680 --> 01:20:21,599 Speaker 5: that's what we're gonna do. 1584 01:20:21,920 --> 01:20:24,040 Speaker 2: The reunion. 1585 01:20:24,080 --> 01:20:27,000 Speaker 1: They already fighting over the will, you know, like it's 1586 01:20:27,240 --> 01:20:30,200 Speaker 1: it was, But it was like, that's great writing, because 1587 01:20:30,400 --> 01:20:32,840 Speaker 1: I never I don't go back to episode one and go, 1588 01:20:33,640 --> 01:20:36,160 Speaker 1: I forget, what a great decision. But but by the end, 1589 01:20:36,160 --> 01:20:39,000 Speaker 1: you're like, it bounces out that he made so many 1590 01:20:39,080 --> 01:20:42,320 Speaker 1: other he saw the big picture and tried to make 1591 01:20:42,360 --> 01:20:45,320 Speaker 1: peace so many other times that you're like, damn, he's 1592 01:20:45,320 --> 01:20:47,120 Speaker 1: not as bad as his worst day. He's not as 1593 01:20:47,160 --> 01:20:49,760 Speaker 1: great as his best day. Those are your favorite to me, 1594 01:20:49,920 --> 01:20:51,280 Speaker 1: those are my favorite characters. 1595 01:20:52,360 --> 01:20:54,400 Speaker 3: I do have to say one of the things I 1596 01:20:54,439 --> 01:20:56,519 Speaker 3: think that that I think I don't know if we 1597 01:20:56,600 --> 01:20:59,280 Speaker 3: agreed or disagreed on this, because I was the one 1598 01:20:59,320 --> 01:21:02,240 Speaker 3: in the comment during this episode, not this one, but 1599 01:21:02,320 --> 01:21:04,760 Speaker 3: from months from back to go talking about. 1600 01:21:04,560 --> 01:21:06,560 Speaker 5: Christian Christians, Sir, Christians. 1601 01:21:06,479 --> 01:21:10,240 Speaker 3: Christian is an in cell. And the reason I was 1602 01:21:10,280 --> 01:21:12,160 Speaker 3: calling him an in cell. If we think about an 1603 01:21:12,160 --> 01:21:15,760 Speaker 3: in cel is someone who was involuntarily celibate, right, someone 1604 01:21:15,760 --> 01:21:19,679 Speaker 3: who was forced into this position. I am convinced that 1605 01:21:19,720 --> 01:21:24,599 Speaker 3: when Danny when he calling her Danny, it's not true wheraette, 1606 01:21:24,600 --> 01:21:26,760 Speaker 3: when the blond lady when Ranera and him, when they 1607 01:21:26,760 --> 01:21:28,120 Speaker 3: had sex, this was her decision. 1608 01:21:28,560 --> 01:21:29,760 Speaker 5: She was in the lead. 1609 01:21:30,439 --> 01:21:33,120 Speaker 3: It was clearly it was a violation, It was abusive power. 1610 01:21:33,400 --> 01:21:36,000 Speaker 3: All of that is true. Right, he could not say no, 1611 01:21:36,240 --> 01:21:39,800 Speaker 3: and that was wrong. But he was hoping to regain 1612 01:21:40,040 --> 01:21:46,320 Speaker 3: mastery over her. But if she were to restore his honor, right, 1613 01:21:46,760 --> 01:21:49,439 Speaker 3: But I don't think he was concerned about his lost honor. 1614 01:21:49,439 --> 01:21:50,840 Speaker 3: I don't think that was the first time he'd ever 1615 01:21:50,880 --> 01:21:52,240 Speaker 3: had sex. I don't believe that. 1616 01:21:52,320 --> 01:21:54,639 Speaker 1: I oh, it definitely wasn't his first time having sex. 1617 01:21:54,680 --> 01:21:58,080 Speaker 1: He said so, like the week before when she asked 1618 01:21:58,160 --> 01:22:01,040 Speaker 1: him about being a knight, and neath said that, yeah, 1619 01:22:01,080 --> 01:22:03,000 Speaker 1: he could have had his pick of women. But once 1620 01:22:03,000 --> 01:22:05,559 Speaker 1: he became a knight, which actually should have been a 1621 01:22:05,640 --> 01:22:08,120 Speaker 1: huge fucking red flag for he says, once he became 1622 01:22:08,160 --> 01:22:11,599 Speaker 1: a knight, he didn't have sex with nobody anymore. So 1623 01:22:12,479 --> 01:22:15,880 Speaker 1: it was it sounded like he, like I guess to 1624 01:22:15,960 --> 01:22:19,719 Speaker 1: me in cell is involuntary, meaning you want to have sex. 1625 01:22:19,920 --> 01:22:23,160 Speaker 1: That's in these guys' minds. Let's just I'm about to 1626 01:22:23,160 --> 01:22:24,960 Speaker 1: step into the mind of an insuet. I am not 1627 01:22:25,080 --> 01:22:27,120 Speaker 1: agreeing with it. I just like to put a little 1628 01:22:27,360 --> 01:22:29,840 Speaker 1: let's just put that out there first. Their minds is 1629 01:22:29,920 --> 01:22:32,920 Speaker 1: they would like to have sex, women won't have sex 1630 01:22:32,960 --> 01:22:37,000 Speaker 1: with them, and so they hate women. This dude. Yet 1631 01:22:37,240 --> 01:22:40,519 Speaker 1: this dude is voluntarily like, I'm not having sex because 1632 01:22:40,520 --> 01:22:44,120 Speaker 1: my oath is so important to me. And he don't 1633 01:22:44,120 --> 01:22:44,719 Speaker 1: hate women. 1634 01:22:45,000 --> 01:22:49,639 Speaker 3: He hate that one, Okay, So I can see that. 1635 01:22:49,760 --> 01:22:54,040 Speaker 3: I think that, for the record, definitely a. 1636 01:22:54,000 --> 01:22:56,280 Speaker 5: Piece of shit. So I agree with that. I do 1637 01:22:56,400 --> 01:22:56,880 Speaker 5: understand that. 1638 01:22:56,920 --> 01:22:58,760 Speaker 3: I think what I was hanging on to in your 1639 01:22:58,800 --> 01:23:02,479 Speaker 3: definition of in cell was the contempt for women, and 1640 01:23:02,560 --> 01:23:06,160 Speaker 3: I think that that contempt even though that contempt, it 1641 01:23:06,200 --> 01:23:11,080 Speaker 3: feels like it's the same feeling, right, the the worship 1642 01:23:11,120 --> 01:23:16,600 Speaker 3: and adoration he has for Allison, Right, it's just an inversion. 1643 01:23:16,920 --> 01:23:19,800 Speaker 1: It could be because she is a pigmy, you know 1644 01:23:19,800 --> 01:23:25,680 Speaker 1: what I mean. Yes, but I'll say, like we'll see, like, 1645 01:23:25,800 --> 01:23:28,439 Speaker 1: let's we'll see if it's just women in general. He 1646 01:23:28,560 --> 01:23:31,599 Speaker 1: just hate women because like he seemed to be okay 1647 01:23:31,680 --> 01:23:35,639 Speaker 1: around the majority of women, but na name come up. 1648 01:23:35,920 --> 01:23:39,719 Speaker 5: This man loses it. Yeah, all all. 1649 01:23:39,680 --> 01:23:42,040 Speaker 1: Honor, valor everything. 1650 01:23:41,880 --> 01:23:43,240 Speaker 5: The kildren. 1651 01:23:44,640 --> 01:23:46,959 Speaker 3: How he beat up the kids in the playoff, Yes, 1652 01:23:47,479 --> 01:23:48,519 Speaker 3: beat up her children. 1653 01:23:48,600 --> 01:23:51,280 Speaker 2: Make like we'll talk about it. 1654 01:23:51,439 --> 01:23:54,320 Speaker 1: We'll talk about it tomorrow. But Lord Besbury took that 1655 01:23:54,560 --> 01:23:58,800 Speaker 1: l for advocating for Ranera, like that man hate that 1656 01:23:58,960 --> 01:24:03,839 Speaker 1: woman in a way that one like he took Apparently 1657 01:24:03,920 --> 01:24:07,200 Speaker 1: he took the vows very serious that and he did. 1658 01:24:07,280 --> 01:24:10,200 Speaker 1: There's always one Like in Game of Thrones, I felt 1659 01:24:10,200 --> 01:24:12,320 Speaker 1: like John Snow was kind of not hating women, but 1660 01:24:12,560 --> 01:24:14,920 Speaker 1: he was I take the vowel seriously, and everyone around 1661 01:24:14,960 --> 01:24:18,120 Speaker 1: him was like, bro, we are going to the strip 1662 01:24:18,160 --> 01:24:21,639 Speaker 1: club tonight. He's like, nah, I take my vowel seriously. 1663 01:24:21,680 --> 01:24:23,080 Speaker 1: You know we're not supposed to be doing that up 1664 01:24:23,080 --> 01:24:26,639 Speaker 1: here at the wall. Everybody else around him like as 1665 01:24:26,680 --> 01:24:28,800 Speaker 1: they turned on him and end up stabbing him. He 1666 01:24:28,880 --> 01:24:31,720 Speaker 1: dies for his vowels because he's the one person like, 1667 01:24:31,960 --> 01:24:33,760 Speaker 1: ain't this wrong? And they're like, you know what for 1668 01:24:33,800 --> 01:24:37,360 Speaker 1: the watch stab stas staff Sir Christien is like if 1669 01:24:37,439 --> 01:24:41,680 Speaker 1: John Snow turned bitter after getting snabbed, Like like if 1670 01:24:41,720 --> 01:24:43,360 Speaker 1: John Snow would have woke up and been like I'm 1671 01:24:43,400 --> 01:24:46,640 Speaker 1: taking the throne. Like that's Sir Christian is like so 1672 01:24:46,840 --> 01:24:51,120 Speaker 1: deranged about this woman and the violation he feels, and 1673 01:24:51,200 --> 01:24:53,000 Speaker 1: I do find him to be interested. 1674 01:24:53,160 --> 01:24:55,599 Speaker 5: Get laid and enjoyed it very much, very much. 1675 01:24:55,840 --> 01:24:59,280 Speaker 1: Yeah. Now he did end up killing that woman, but 1676 01:24:59,479 --> 01:25:02,560 Speaker 1: that was completely different circumstances. 1677 01:25:01,760 --> 01:25:03,360 Speaker 5: It was accident. 1678 01:25:03,600 --> 01:25:05,479 Speaker 1: He didn't want to, he didn't want to. 1679 01:25:06,280 --> 01:25:08,519 Speaker 5: A child killed her. She got killed by a child. 1680 01:25:08,760 --> 01:25:12,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, there you go. You know what, manslaughter at best, 1681 01:25:13,040 --> 01:25:14,000 Speaker 1: manslaughter at best. 1682 01:25:14,960 --> 01:25:18,920 Speaker 3: But yeah, after the facts, after the fact. 1683 01:25:18,400 --> 01:25:23,479 Speaker 1: Yeah, he wouldn't do the full time. All the thing 1684 01:25:23,479 --> 01:25:26,240 Speaker 1: about Sir Christen that I do find so interesting is 1685 01:25:26,840 --> 01:25:29,800 Speaker 1: if you flip the genders on it, I do think 1686 01:25:30,400 --> 01:25:33,439 Speaker 1: most people will feel the opposite, like whatever she wants 1687 01:25:33,479 --> 01:25:37,080 Speaker 1: to do whenever that man's name comes up, fuck that man. 1688 01:25:37,479 --> 01:25:41,880 Speaker 1: It's on site. But that's why I love the show. Yes, 1689 01:25:41,920 --> 01:25:43,760 Speaker 1: that's why I love the show because it's great. It's 1690 01:25:43,760 --> 01:25:48,080 Speaker 1: the great area of like, yeah, if this was reversing, 1691 01:25:48,160 --> 01:25:50,920 Speaker 1: some prince did this to some handmaid and I'd be like, yeah, 1692 01:25:51,240 --> 01:25:53,439 Speaker 1: if she want to kill this nigga or his kids 1693 01:25:53,520 --> 01:25:56,800 Speaker 1: or whatever, he shouldn't have did it with her. I'm like, hey, man, bro, 1694 01:25:56,880 --> 01:26:01,720 Speaker 1: you gotta get over it. It's really been twenty years. 1695 01:26:03,200 --> 01:26:05,479 Speaker 5: Money go let it go. And you know what I. 1696 01:26:08,840 --> 01:26:12,679 Speaker 3: Love about your show. I love how you teach people 1697 01:26:12,720 --> 01:26:16,240 Speaker 3: how to interact with you. And by that I mean 1698 01:26:16,520 --> 01:26:18,320 Speaker 3: the way you say things like don't write in what 1699 01:26:18,520 --> 01:26:22,479 Speaker 3: don't write in? I can tell you this was shocking 1700 01:26:22,520 --> 01:26:25,880 Speaker 3: to me at first when you all were like, we 1701 01:26:25,920 --> 01:26:27,639 Speaker 3: don't care about what happens in the books. And again, 1702 01:26:27,680 --> 01:26:28,879 Speaker 3: I'm a literature professor. 1703 01:26:28,920 --> 01:26:30,479 Speaker 5: That's what I do. I teach. I'm a professor of 1704 01:26:30,520 --> 01:26:32,160 Speaker 5: African American literature and culture. 1705 01:26:32,240 --> 01:26:34,439 Speaker 3: And when we do Game of Thrones, I've read all 1706 01:26:34,479 --> 01:26:36,240 Speaker 3: the books, and we read the first book and we 1707 01:26:36,280 --> 01:26:38,439 Speaker 3: compare that to the first season, et cetera, et cetera. 1708 01:26:39,280 --> 01:26:42,639 Speaker 3: But when I tell you, these book readers have been 1709 01:26:42,680 --> 01:26:46,800 Speaker 3: annoying as annoying and shit I mean, and I'm like, 1710 01:26:46,920 --> 01:26:49,160 Speaker 3: and I'm like, and I write for book readers. 1711 01:26:49,240 --> 01:26:51,360 Speaker 5: I'm a book reading as bitch. That's my job job, 1712 01:26:53,640 --> 01:26:55,000 Speaker 5: but they are ruining it. 1713 01:26:55,080 --> 01:26:57,040 Speaker 3: And I'm like, I'll go into different rooms on a 1714 01:26:57,120 --> 01:26:59,519 Speaker 3: clubhouse and then somebody will pop in and say, well, 1715 01:26:59,560 --> 01:27:02,120 Speaker 3: the mag king is to descended up and I'm like, cood. 1716 01:27:02,000 --> 01:27:07,920 Speaker 1: Right, And that's the thing, like, like we've learned that 1717 01:27:08,160 --> 01:27:11,080 Speaker 1: from years of trial and error doing enough other reviews 1718 01:27:11,720 --> 01:27:14,800 Speaker 1: and so you know, one there's just a certain type 1719 01:27:14,800 --> 01:27:17,400 Speaker 1: of negative feedback we want to avoid because too many 1720 01:27:17,920 --> 01:27:19,680 Speaker 1: even shows I used to listen to that with do 1721 01:27:19,800 --> 01:27:22,519 Speaker 1: Game of Throngs, it would eventually become the like, whatever 1722 01:27:22,560 --> 01:27:25,240 Speaker 1: your grievance is right in and it will go back, 1723 01:27:25,240 --> 01:27:26,320 Speaker 1: and I was like, I don't want to do that. 1724 01:27:27,600 --> 01:27:30,960 Speaker 1: Then the second part of it is the book reader people, 1725 01:27:31,200 --> 01:27:34,160 Speaker 1: even when they mean well, sometimes they slip up into 1726 01:27:34,320 --> 01:27:37,320 Speaker 1: cause they know certain things that gotta happen. I don't 1727 01:27:37,360 --> 01:27:40,120 Speaker 1: want to know. And for us to do the best 1728 01:27:40,160 --> 01:27:42,880 Speaker 1: type of recap, in my opinion, is we can't know. 1729 01:27:42,960 --> 01:27:45,559 Speaker 1: If we fuck around and start knowing shit, then it's 1730 01:27:45,600 --> 01:27:48,160 Speaker 1: like it becomes less of an honest reaction from us, 1731 01:27:49,760 --> 01:27:53,120 Speaker 1: and it becomes more about us being right rather than 1732 01:27:53,200 --> 01:27:56,320 Speaker 1: us being like whatever. And so we used to have 1733 01:27:56,520 --> 01:27:59,479 Speaker 1: trolls that were coming to chat room like Puppa's fall 1734 01:27:59,600 --> 01:28:01,720 Speaker 1: up there, or we have people that would email us 1735 01:28:01,760 --> 01:28:03,679 Speaker 1: and go, this isn't a spoiler. It'd be a definitely 1736 01:28:03,680 --> 01:28:06,679 Speaker 1: fucking spoiler, Like it's not a spoiler, but I think 1737 01:28:06,960 --> 01:28:09,479 Speaker 1: John Snow is gonna die come back in two episodes. 1738 01:28:09,520 --> 01:28:11,240 Speaker 1: You're like, well, why would you do that? And then 1739 01:28:11,360 --> 01:28:14,639 Speaker 1: I don't know if you're remembering this Game of Thrones, 1740 01:28:14,680 --> 01:28:19,559 Speaker 1: the show was having issues containing scripts and keeping, so 1741 01:28:19,640 --> 01:28:23,479 Speaker 1: people were like heavily they wouldn't know stuff from like 1742 01:28:23,760 --> 01:28:26,320 Speaker 1: conversations they had not based on our podcast. And then 1743 01:28:26,400 --> 01:28:29,120 Speaker 1: right in to feel smart, and we're like, it's not 1744 01:28:29,200 --> 01:28:31,519 Speaker 1: about feeling smart, it's about feeling good. Let's have a 1745 01:28:31,560 --> 01:28:32,160 Speaker 1: good time. 1746 01:28:32,320 --> 01:28:35,400 Speaker 5: You know, yes, yes, good time. And there's places for 1747 01:28:35,560 --> 01:28:37,559 Speaker 5: other If there's other podcasts. 1748 01:28:38,680 --> 01:28:43,360 Speaker 3: This place, and that's fine, go over there, that's fine. 1749 01:28:42,840 --> 01:28:45,519 Speaker 2: Go over there and have a great time. 1750 01:28:46,080 --> 01:28:46,320 Speaker 1: Uh. 1751 01:28:46,360 --> 01:28:49,000 Speaker 4: And also I think for us, like I said, me 1752 01:28:49,040 --> 01:28:52,599 Speaker 4: and Roger learn because I what people fad to realize. 1753 01:28:52,720 --> 01:28:54,519 Speaker 4: If we had to set these rules, we wouldn't have 1754 01:28:54,520 --> 01:28:57,280 Speaker 4: go we wouldn't go do recap like like we had to. 1755 01:28:57,439 --> 01:29:02,320 Speaker 4: We had to set these boundaries because we know us Yeah, 1756 01:29:02,360 --> 01:29:03,120 Speaker 4: and we. 1757 01:29:03,040 --> 01:29:05,240 Speaker 2: Know people don't mean no harm. Like we know people 1758 01:29:05,280 --> 01:29:06,000 Speaker 2: don't mean no harm. 1759 01:29:06,000 --> 01:29:08,760 Speaker 4: We know they're excited, they want to be here and 1760 01:29:08,800 --> 01:29:09,400 Speaker 4: they're happy. 1761 01:29:09,479 --> 01:29:10,840 Speaker 2: So so we understand this. 1762 01:29:11,240 --> 01:29:14,519 Speaker 4: But you have, guys, got to understand it's two of us, 1763 01:29:14,720 --> 01:29:18,280 Speaker 4: it's a lot of y'all, and so like them numbers 1764 01:29:18,280 --> 01:29:21,560 Speaker 4: ain't the same, and so like like y'all get a 1765 01:29:21,640 --> 01:29:24,600 Speaker 4: lot of input and a lot of yeah yeah, and 1766 01:29:24,720 --> 01:29:27,000 Speaker 4: and like I said, I know you're excited and you 1767 01:29:27,040 --> 01:29:28,160 Speaker 4: don't mean no harm. 1768 01:29:28,280 --> 01:29:30,360 Speaker 2: But when we get the same thing over and over 1769 01:29:30,520 --> 01:29:33,599 Speaker 2: and over and over and over again, you. 1770 01:29:33,600 --> 01:29:36,360 Speaker 4: Know, for us, it wears us down and we want 1771 01:29:36,400 --> 01:29:38,160 Speaker 4: to keep it fun and chaining. 1772 01:29:38,320 --> 01:29:40,439 Speaker 1: For you guys, I know I had to learn. This 1773 01:29:40,520 --> 01:29:43,040 Speaker 1: is just a thing I learned, uh, way too late 1774 01:29:43,080 --> 01:29:45,439 Speaker 1: in my life, but you know, better earlier than never, right, 1775 01:29:46,840 --> 01:29:48,759 Speaker 1: But it was like, you have to be honest about 1776 01:29:48,760 --> 01:29:51,679 Speaker 1: your boundaries because it helps people, It makes the relationships better. 1777 01:29:51,680 --> 01:29:54,040 Speaker 1: I feel like part of the reason is easier this 1778 01:29:54,120 --> 01:29:57,160 Speaker 1: year is because when we don't like something and the 1779 01:29:57,200 --> 01:30:00,439 Speaker 1: feedback or something, we can just immediately be like, hey, Like, 1780 01:30:00,479 --> 01:30:02,360 Speaker 1: one of the things we started getting was someone would 1781 01:30:02,400 --> 01:30:05,280 Speaker 1: watch the show and then they send us twelve paragraphs 1782 01:30:05,320 --> 01:30:06,280 Speaker 1: of something. 1783 01:30:06,320 --> 01:30:08,599 Speaker 5: I did see that we haven't even done our review yet. 1784 01:30:08,720 --> 01:30:11,760 Speaker 1: So like, this is really just your blog about Game 1785 01:30:11,800 --> 01:30:14,680 Speaker 1: of Thrones and I'm reading your blog, which you know 1786 01:30:14,800 --> 01:30:16,559 Speaker 1: you should write a blog. You know what I mean. 1787 01:30:16,840 --> 01:30:19,519 Speaker 1: It's like like I'm sure it's very talented and funny, 1788 01:30:19,560 --> 01:30:23,000 Speaker 1: but like it's becoming something that's not about the blackout tips. 1789 01:30:23,040 --> 01:30:27,360 Speaker 1: It's about you and your feelings in your journal. That's 1790 01:30:27,400 --> 01:30:31,000 Speaker 1: for you in your journal. But in the past, in 1791 01:30:31,040 --> 01:30:33,640 Speaker 1: the past, I would have just been like annoyed, but 1792 01:30:33,640 --> 01:30:35,320 Speaker 1: I would have read it anyway and I'll be like, 1793 01:30:35,360 --> 01:30:37,720 Speaker 1: this is kind of a little bit weird that they 1794 01:30:38,040 --> 01:30:40,200 Speaker 1: these people keep doing this. And then this year I 1795 01:30:40,200 --> 01:30:42,200 Speaker 1: was just like, can y'all not do that? And what 1796 01:30:42,360 --> 01:30:45,439 Speaker 1: was dope? And I mean it sincerely. People were like, 1797 01:30:45,640 --> 01:30:48,680 Speaker 1: thank you. I hadn't thought of it that way. I 1798 01:30:48,720 --> 01:30:51,439 Speaker 1: appreciate you. I'm gonna change how I write in and that, 1799 01:30:51,720 --> 01:30:54,360 Speaker 1: like we have those kind of fans, and I you know, 1800 01:30:54,439 --> 01:30:56,840 Speaker 1: we would never like take advantage of those fans, but 1801 01:30:56,880 --> 01:30:59,240 Speaker 1: it's like it's beautiful to have that relationship with people 1802 01:30:59,280 --> 01:31:02,120 Speaker 1: as opposed to people going your show if y'all got 1803 01:31:02,160 --> 01:31:05,160 Speaker 1: an attitude, you know. So I'm very. 1804 01:31:05,080 --> 01:31:08,000 Speaker 4: Happy because it's a love because this is something that 1805 01:31:08,040 --> 01:31:11,160 Speaker 4: we all love. And one thing that I really love 1806 01:31:11,240 --> 01:31:15,960 Speaker 4: about covering this show. We have people who write us 1807 01:31:16,360 --> 01:31:18,639 Speaker 4: about the show they only watched the show too, and we. 1808 01:31:18,640 --> 01:31:21,240 Speaker 2: Have people that write us that read the books, so 1809 01:31:21,280 --> 01:31:22,000 Speaker 2: we have these. 1810 01:31:21,840 --> 01:31:24,439 Speaker 4: People coming from different jamas. So we want all these 1811 01:31:24,479 --> 01:31:27,760 Speaker 4: different groups of people together and have a good time. 1812 01:31:27,840 --> 01:31:30,800 Speaker 1: One more thing to prom I move on. But I 1813 01:31:30,840 --> 01:31:33,040 Speaker 1: have to give the book readers a lot of credit 1814 01:31:33,400 --> 01:31:37,160 Speaker 1: for the feedback we've gotten this year. Like they've kept 1815 01:31:37,160 --> 01:31:39,120 Speaker 1: it like if it's some shit going on, they kept 1816 01:31:39,120 --> 01:31:41,439 Speaker 1: it to themselves in a way that I would never know, 1817 01:31:42,000 --> 01:31:44,000 Speaker 1: like maybe some other book reader would know. But the 1818 01:31:44,040 --> 01:31:46,320 Speaker 1: way they've written in I have not felt spoiled. I 1819 01:31:46,320 --> 01:31:48,320 Speaker 1: haven't felt like people are taking stuff from the book 1820 01:31:48,360 --> 01:31:51,000 Speaker 1: and like acting like they don't know what's going on 1821 01:31:51,200 --> 01:31:53,040 Speaker 1: just to get it on the show. Like everybody's been 1822 01:31:53,080 --> 01:31:57,960 Speaker 1: super respectful. Everybody's been very nice. We've gotten more listeners. 1823 01:31:58,000 --> 01:32:00,840 Speaker 1: People are spreading the word like it's a beautiful black 1824 01:32:00,880 --> 01:32:03,760 Speaker 1: ass time over here. And I'm just appreciating that we're 1825 01:32:03,800 --> 01:32:06,160 Speaker 1: able to do that, because it's a it's weird being 1826 01:32:06,160 --> 01:32:09,320 Speaker 1: a hub for something that's not ours, you know what 1827 01:32:09,360 --> 01:32:12,960 Speaker 1: I mean. But everyone's coming in being like, oh, i'll 1828 01:32:13,000 --> 01:32:17,120 Speaker 1: respect the rules, and so yeah, I definitely appreciate, appreciate that, 1829 01:32:17,200 --> 01:32:19,240 Speaker 1: and I'm glad that people listening can appreciate that. 1830 01:32:19,479 --> 01:32:21,759 Speaker 4: Yes, and that's a we want to have a good time, 1831 01:32:21,840 --> 01:32:23,559 Speaker 4: and so that's one thing I do love about it. 1832 01:32:23,560 --> 01:32:25,360 Speaker 4: It's about having a good time. And I'm glad we 1833 01:32:25,479 --> 01:32:27,439 Speaker 4: have a good time. I'm good audience have a good time, 1834 01:32:27,439 --> 01:32:30,320 Speaker 4: and I'm glad that people you know continue to write 1835 01:32:30,360 --> 01:32:32,120 Speaker 4: in and interact with us. 1836 01:32:32,360 --> 01:32:36,400 Speaker 1: Well, listen, this conversation's been great. But we are sponsored 1837 01:32:36,400 --> 01:32:38,160 Speaker 1: today and we have to pay bills because we are 1838 01:32:38,360 --> 01:32:43,720 Speaker 1: black capitalists as well, so black capitalism we got to 1839 01:32:43,720 --> 01:32:46,800 Speaker 1: cover some black capitalism. So I could do this ad read. 1840 01:32:48,160 --> 01:32:52,120 Speaker 1: Let me pull out this black capitalism song. Uh you 1841 01:32:52,160 --> 01:32:54,680 Speaker 1: know what, let's go with the short version. Here we go. 1842 01:32:57,080 --> 01:33:01,320 Speaker 1: Oh wait, that's the wrong one. I bet this'll talking. 1843 01:33:02,920 --> 01:33:04,559 Speaker 1: But the only things that. 1844 01:33:06,600 --> 01:33:13,240 Speaker 6: Every day we getting to that paper, I hit the 1845 01:33:13,360 --> 01:33:25,760 Speaker 6: money talk. Every day we get I. 1846 01:33:25,760 --> 01:33:34,760 Speaker 1: Hear the money talk. I see it later, still waiting 1847 01:33:34,760 --> 01:33:38,760 Speaker 1: on those Harry Tellings. Today's Black Capitalism segment is brought 1848 01:33:38,800 --> 01:33:42,679 Speaker 1: to you by Afro Grind Coffee. If you know anything 1849 01:33:42,720 --> 01:33:46,040 Speaker 1: about black people trying to get to the money is 1850 01:33:46,080 --> 01:33:49,439 Speaker 1: that we got to grind. Okay, And when I'm grinding, 1851 01:33:49,439 --> 01:33:51,960 Speaker 1: I love to take a sip of afro Grind coffee 1852 01:33:52,320 --> 01:33:55,400 Speaker 1: literally grinding, because I had to buy a grinder. 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Okay, 1864 01:34:24,120 --> 01:34:25,720 Speaker 1: we can't just go over there and pick up and 1865 01:34:25,760 --> 01:34:30,040 Speaker 1: take houses, but we can buy coffee. Okay, this is 1866 01:34:30,040 --> 01:34:32,639 Speaker 1: how I go back to Africa every morning. All right, 1867 01:34:33,760 --> 01:34:37,280 Speaker 1: Abe Lincoln would be proud. It's dedicated. Afragrind Coffee is 1868 01:34:37,320 --> 01:34:41,400 Speaker 1: dedicated to elevating your coffee experience with African single origin coffee. 1869 01:34:41,800 --> 01:34:45,600 Speaker 1: And right now they're giving our listeners ten percent off. 1870 01:34:45,800 --> 01:34:46,519 Speaker 5: Of your order. 1871 01:34:46,800 --> 01:34:50,400 Speaker 1: All you gotta do is put in cold TBGWT, go 1872 01:34:50,479 --> 01:34:53,520 Speaker 1: check out the beans. If I know, y'all, coffee conoisseurs 1873 01:34:53,560 --> 01:34:55,599 Speaker 1: probably laughing at me, like, oh you late, we been 1874 01:34:55,680 --> 01:34:58,320 Speaker 1: on this. Well, I am late, but I'm here now 1875 01:34:58,560 --> 01:35:00,320 Speaker 1: and I think you should join me. If if you're 1876 01:35:00,400 --> 01:35:04,200 Speaker 1: listening to the sound of my voice afro offelk Grindcoffee 1877 01:35:04,280 --> 01:35:09,519 Speaker 1: dot com co TBGWT. Now let's talk about these capitalists. Okay, Okay, 1878 01:35:10,880 --> 01:35:12,720 Speaker 1: We're gonna start at a low note and build our 1879 01:35:12,720 --> 01:35:17,640 Speaker 1: way up. It's just easier this way. Okay. Kanye West 1880 01:35:17,840 --> 01:35:22,640 Speaker 1: Okay is buying conservative social media platform Parlor with the 1881 01:35:22,720 --> 01:35:26,519 Speaker 1: hard R. I was about that. Yeah, very interesting because 1882 01:35:26,520 --> 01:35:29,519 Speaker 1: apparently Candace owns and him talking on the phone all 1883 01:35:29,560 --> 01:35:33,200 Speaker 1: the time. Uh, you want to know who owns parlor? 1884 01:35:33,520 --> 01:35:39,200 Speaker 1: Who Candas owns? Husband? Oh yeah, what a what an 1885 01:35:39,200 --> 01:35:45,600 Speaker 1: interesting It's like the griff don't stop. Yeah in a 1886 01:35:45,640 --> 01:35:48,400 Speaker 1: world work in several opinions I considered to be controversial. 1887 01:35:48,479 --> 01:35:50,360 Speaker 1: We have to make sure we have the right to 1888 01:35:50,439 --> 01:35:55,200 Speaker 1: freely express ourselves, he said in a statement released by Parlor. 1889 01:35:55,960 --> 01:35:58,519 Speaker 1: What I find interesting here too, in addition to the 1890 01:35:58,560 --> 01:36:06,320 Speaker 1: obviously the it from this woman husband he's getting sued 1891 01:36:06,360 --> 01:36:11,160 Speaker 1: by like George Floyd's mom, I believe right now for 1892 01:36:11,280 --> 01:36:14,080 Speaker 1: line about George Floyd, he went on several outlets and 1893 01:36:14,120 --> 01:36:20,040 Speaker 1: said like he went on definitely on Norri's podcast The 1894 01:36:20,560 --> 01:36:24,280 Speaker 1: Drink Champs and said that George Floyd the knee wasn't 1895 01:36:24,320 --> 01:36:26,960 Speaker 1: really on his neck. He died from finding out overdose, you. 1896 01:36:26,920 --> 01:36:29,640 Speaker 2: Know, provable false statements. 1897 01:36:29,880 --> 01:36:32,120 Speaker 4: Yes, Oh, and he've been saying about that other white 1898 01:36:32,160 --> 01:36:34,960 Speaker 4: dude they've been dragging across the country taking his money. 1899 01:36:34,680 --> 01:36:38,160 Speaker 1: Thank you, Karen. Yes, Alex Jones just lost that defamation 1900 01:36:38,280 --> 01:36:41,160 Speaker 1: lawsuit and so of course George Floyd's family and suing. 1901 01:36:41,520 --> 01:36:45,400 Speaker 1: Kanye would announced that today. But I'm like, get yes, 1902 01:36:45,479 --> 01:36:49,960 Speaker 1: get him. But these people that's platforming them and putting 1903 01:36:49,960 --> 01:36:50,479 Speaker 1: that shit out. 1904 01:36:51,360 --> 01:36:54,080 Speaker 5: Did they take Drink Champs off YouTube? They took they 1905 01:36:54,200 --> 01:36:55,320 Speaker 5: took the episode down. 1906 01:36:55,400 --> 01:36:57,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, they took the episode down. 1907 01:36:57,280 --> 01:37:00,120 Speaker 5: So not the whole series, just the episode from. 1908 01:37:00,080 --> 01:37:02,320 Speaker 1: My understanding, just the episode. That's what they were saying 1909 01:37:02,320 --> 01:37:03,880 Speaker 1: in the group chat. Y'all can fact check that in 1910 01:37:03,920 --> 01:37:09,480 Speaker 1: the chat. But yeah, which I mean after Alex Jones, Yeah, 1911 01:37:09,920 --> 01:37:12,080 Speaker 1: you better take it down. What the fucking y'all think? 1912 01:37:12,080 --> 01:37:15,280 Speaker 5: I couldn't I honestly couldn't even want that smoke. 1913 01:37:15,560 --> 01:37:19,040 Speaker 1: I couldn't believe Nori and them did that, not on 1914 01:37:19,120 --> 01:37:23,400 Speaker 1: the like uh not even on the level of like morally, 1915 01:37:23,600 --> 01:37:25,519 Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, Like you're a better person. 1916 01:37:25,520 --> 01:37:29,640 Speaker 1: I think that's already bad enough. Morally. Chasing ratings for 1917 01:37:29,720 --> 01:37:31,440 Speaker 1: any at any cost is ridiculous. 1918 01:37:31,800 --> 01:37:35,240 Speaker 5: But dog legally, y'all don't got. 1919 01:37:35,120 --> 01:37:38,360 Speaker 1: A legal department. What's going on over there? Because y'all 1920 01:37:38,360 --> 01:37:40,960 Speaker 1: work for Revoke, Like Revoke got a legal perpartment. I 1921 01:37:41,040 --> 01:37:43,680 Speaker 1: know when I was writing. When we write shit for 1922 01:37:43,720 --> 01:37:47,080 Speaker 1: Game Theory, and we do comedy, meaning where there's a 1923 01:37:47,160 --> 01:37:50,360 Speaker 1: license of humor and sarcasm, we're allowed to fuck with that. 1924 01:37:50,439 --> 01:37:52,800 Speaker 1: A lot of places aren't. It's hard as hell to 1925 01:37:52,800 --> 01:37:56,880 Speaker 1: get a joke through that's not factually correct, Like it 1926 01:37:56,960 --> 01:37:59,280 Speaker 1: gotta be based on some level of because the legal 1927 01:37:59,320 --> 01:38:02,320 Speaker 1: department just literally shows up, Like I can't say that. 1928 01:38:03,080 --> 01:38:05,360 Speaker 1: I'm super shocked that they put that ship out man, 1929 01:38:05,520 --> 01:38:09,040 Speaker 1: just for the views. That's anyway, that's crazy. But yeah, 1930 01:38:09,040 --> 01:38:12,480 Speaker 1: he's buying far. Now, let's get to some black capitalism 1931 01:38:12,520 --> 01:38:17,760 Speaker 1: that we can support. Wendy Williams is reportedly planning to 1932 01:38:17,800 --> 01:38:22,479 Speaker 1: open up a restaurant. I did not know she was 1933 01:38:22,479 --> 01:38:23,200 Speaker 1: in the food game. 1934 01:38:24,040 --> 01:38:25,400 Speaker 5: I was like, she can't. I'm like she. 1935 01:38:25,439 --> 01:38:28,639 Speaker 1: Cooked, Yeah, I don't you know what she don't. 1936 01:38:28,439 --> 01:38:29,400 Speaker 2: Look like she'd be cooking. 1937 01:38:29,439 --> 01:38:31,840 Speaker 1: If I would have took a bet on does Wendy 1938 01:38:31,840 --> 01:38:33,120 Speaker 1: Williams cook, I would have said no. 1939 01:38:33,320 --> 01:38:34,160 Speaker 2: I said no too. 1940 01:38:34,439 --> 01:38:36,439 Speaker 5: I said no too. I would I guess we would 1941 01:38:36,479 --> 01:38:37,080 Speaker 5: have all lost. 1942 01:38:37,240 --> 01:38:39,519 Speaker 2: She definitely got a I don't cook that was not 1943 01:38:39,640 --> 01:38:41,080 Speaker 2: on the Bingo car. She looked like that. 1944 01:38:41,160 --> 01:38:44,720 Speaker 5: Hunty be like to go, yeah, like I can. 1945 01:38:44,840 --> 01:38:47,920 Speaker 3: I can hire a cater I can hire That's what 1946 01:38:47,960 --> 01:38:50,439 Speaker 3: I just like, I'm not getting my clothes dirty getting 1947 01:38:50,439 --> 01:38:52,639 Speaker 3: food up under honey Back cam. 1948 01:38:52,800 --> 01:38:54,680 Speaker 5: They got a two for one special coming off from 1949 01:38:54,720 --> 01:38:55,400 Speaker 5: the honey Back cam. 1950 01:38:55,479 --> 01:38:58,439 Speaker 4: Come on, y'all, y'all gonna beat this Patty Pies do 1951 01:38:58,600 --> 01:39:00,040 Speaker 4: Amazon then be there in two. 1952 01:39:01,120 --> 01:39:04,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah. I honestly couldn't see her going to like 1953 01:39:04,200 --> 01:39:06,360 Speaker 1: like I can't see myself pulling up in a Walmart. 1954 01:39:06,880 --> 01:39:10,400 Speaker 1: And they got like the Wendy Williams whatever, Like Patty 1955 01:39:10,439 --> 01:39:12,240 Speaker 1: got the piles. I don't know what Wendy would have, 1956 01:39:12,280 --> 01:39:14,680 Speaker 1: but it looks like she can cook though, That's what 1957 01:39:14,680 --> 01:39:17,240 Speaker 1: I'm saying. Like Patty sold me the piles by just 1958 01:39:17,280 --> 01:39:18,720 Speaker 1: the fact she put her face on them. I'm like, 1959 01:39:18,760 --> 01:39:23,080 Speaker 1: I know these good, Wendy, I don't know I don't 1960 01:39:23,120 --> 01:39:25,479 Speaker 1: know Wendy, but you know what good for you sis? 1961 01:39:25,479 --> 01:39:27,720 Speaker 1: And I know they were saying she was having some 1962 01:39:27,760 --> 01:39:30,760 Speaker 1: financial issues with her banking stuff. So hopefully this is 1963 01:39:30,760 --> 01:39:34,840 Speaker 1: a sign of some good things on the way, you know, 1964 01:39:35,240 --> 01:39:40,960 Speaker 1: go and get that restaurant. Jay Z has fouled a 1965 01:39:41,120 --> 01:39:47,200 Speaker 1: lawsuit against Bacardi over I think it's duce how you 1966 01:39:47,240 --> 01:39:50,639 Speaker 1: pronounced it, do say? Partnership wants to find out how 1967 01:39:50,720 --> 01:39:53,040 Speaker 1: much the Cognac brand is actually making. 1968 01:39:54,680 --> 01:39:58,760 Speaker 4: Somebody somebody did some mathea mathematicians and mathematics and was like, 1969 01:40:00,000 --> 01:40:02,080 Speaker 4: you are root of this, don't equal sir him? 1970 01:40:02,160 --> 01:40:02,880 Speaker 2: Find the numbers. 1971 01:40:03,040 --> 01:40:07,639 Speaker 1: Yeah, apparently his company sc Liquor is a question financial 1972 01:40:07,640 --> 01:40:12,519 Speaker 1: transparency from Bricardy overdu say, with which he and Briccardy 1973 01:40:12,560 --> 01:40:14,800 Speaker 1: are fifty to fifty partners in. So this is that 1974 01:40:14,920 --> 01:40:17,679 Speaker 1: thing that people do sometimes and it's like I don't 1975 01:40:17,680 --> 01:40:20,559 Speaker 1: have transparency on how much y'all are selling. I get 1976 01:40:20,560 --> 01:40:22,120 Speaker 1: a check and I'm just supposed to be like, oh, 1977 01:40:22,160 --> 01:40:23,960 Speaker 1: this is all the check. I won't see all the 1978 01:40:24,000 --> 01:40:24,759 Speaker 1: numbers now. 1979 01:40:25,360 --> 01:40:28,280 Speaker 4: Yes, yes, yes, somebody's seen some units and was like 1980 01:40:28,320 --> 01:40:29,400 Speaker 4: these numbers don't add. 1981 01:40:29,280 --> 01:40:31,000 Speaker 1: Up, yep as outlining It's like. 1982 01:40:32,479 --> 01:40:34,599 Speaker 3: It's like the same like people love this. I've been 1983 01:40:34,600 --> 01:40:36,360 Speaker 3: singing about this shit people people buying this. 1984 01:40:36,560 --> 01:40:37,800 Speaker 5: And the numbers, the. 1985 01:40:37,760 --> 01:40:40,479 Speaker 3: Math ain't math, And friends say, and I did not 1986 01:40:40,520 --> 01:40:44,160 Speaker 3: get to be a billionaire letting people unmath my math. 1987 01:40:44,520 --> 01:40:46,880 Speaker 1: This is one thing about Sean Corey Carter. He know 1988 01:40:46,960 --> 01:40:47,479 Speaker 1: the math. 1989 01:40:47,640 --> 01:40:50,040 Speaker 4: Okay, you know what they was doing one, two, three, 1990 01:40:50,080 --> 01:40:53,920 Speaker 4: four five. I'm not gonna count six, not gonna count seven, eight, nine, ten, 1991 01:40:54,520 --> 01:40:57,280 Speaker 4: like like somebody been like dropping one to two when 1992 01:40:57,320 --> 01:41:00,320 Speaker 4: you get to a few billions, them them few hundred 1993 01:41:00,360 --> 01:41:02,200 Speaker 4: thousands that y'all left out at up. 1994 01:41:02,520 --> 01:41:05,240 Speaker 1: He wants the records to the all the He wants 1995 01:41:05,280 --> 01:41:08,679 Speaker 1: all the records, warehouse locations that are storing the barrels, 1996 01:41:08,800 --> 01:41:11,240 Speaker 1: bottles and accessory, as well as the information about their 1997 01:41:11,280 --> 01:41:16,640 Speaker 1: physical inventory and the process. So he want to make 1998 01:41:16,640 --> 01:41:18,000 Speaker 1: sure they're getting all his money. 1999 01:41:18,120 --> 01:41:22,120 Speaker 4: Ain't that the true all of it too? Because guess what, 2000 01:41:22,200 --> 01:41:23,920 Speaker 4: if you take a loss, I'll take a loss too. 2001 01:41:24,000 --> 01:41:26,040 Speaker 4: So when you take a game, I want my fucking 2002 01:41:26,080 --> 01:41:26,679 Speaker 4: game too. 2003 01:41:27,160 --> 01:41:29,160 Speaker 3: And all of it, the whole game, not just a 2004 01:41:29,200 --> 01:41:30,520 Speaker 3: little bit you think I should. 2005 01:41:30,280 --> 01:41:35,080 Speaker 1: Have, right. Uh. Former NBA star Charles Barkley donates a 2006 01:41:35,120 --> 01:41:39,240 Speaker 1: million dollars to spell them in college good yay. And 2007 01:41:39,400 --> 01:41:42,120 Speaker 1: the reason, yeah, the reason is something. 2008 01:41:42,840 --> 01:41:43,960 Speaker 5: Uh you say that. 2009 01:41:44,120 --> 01:41:44,679 Speaker 1: I'm sorry. 2010 01:41:44,960 --> 01:41:47,000 Speaker 5: I was like, did he do something or is. 2011 01:41:47,000 --> 01:41:49,120 Speaker 1: He just doing it? 2012 01:41:49,200 --> 01:41:51,840 Speaker 5: I'm a generous person. That's wonderful. I think that's great. 2013 01:41:52,320 --> 01:41:55,000 Speaker 1: And like he got the money. 2014 01:41:55,160 --> 01:41:58,880 Speaker 3: Okay, because wait, a million dollars is not that much 2015 01:41:58,920 --> 01:42:02,400 Speaker 3: for him, I wouldn't say no. And because according to 2016 01:42:03,200 --> 01:42:06,240 Speaker 3: the news today, he just signed an extension with T 2017 01:42:06,400 --> 01:42:06,680 Speaker 3: n T. 2018 01:42:07,400 --> 01:42:09,640 Speaker 1: Worth one hundred million dollars. 2019 01:42:10,720 --> 01:42:14,479 Speaker 5: To talk about given one mm hmm to talk about? 2020 01:42:14,520 --> 01:42:18,960 Speaker 1: What to talk about basketball? He got a hundred which 2021 01:42:19,000 --> 01:42:19,519 Speaker 1: is his lane. 2022 01:42:19,560 --> 01:42:20,280 Speaker 5: I could talk about. 2023 01:42:21,120 --> 01:42:23,439 Speaker 1: No, no, no, we just need listen. This man has 2024 01:42:23,479 --> 01:42:27,280 Speaker 1: a very specific lane and if he stays in it, 2025 01:42:27,400 --> 01:42:29,479 Speaker 1: one of the greatest of all times. He just stay 2026 01:42:30,000 --> 01:42:34,360 Speaker 1: just just right, just right here. We stay right. We 2027 01:42:34,400 --> 01:42:38,599 Speaker 1: don't need nothing over here, nothing just right here talking 2028 01:42:38,600 --> 01:42:43,080 Speaker 1: about basketball. Yeah, you promised not to be one. 2029 01:42:42,960 --> 01:42:43,799 Speaker 5: You promise. 2030 01:42:44,479 --> 01:42:49,320 Speaker 1: We just just keep telling us how sorry the NBA 2031 01:42:49,439 --> 01:42:53,120 Speaker 1: basketball is and apologizing to America and making fun of 2032 01:42:53,160 --> 01:42:56,400 Speaker 1: the players, and we'll be fun. And I love that 2033 01:42:56,439 --> 01:42:58,720 Speaker 1: for him and the whole T and T team got 2034 01:42:58,760 --> 01:43:02,200 Speaker 1: signed for many years to come, oh, let's go Shaq, Kenny, 2035 01:43:02,720 --> 01:43:03,560 Speaker 1: Ernie Johnson. 2036 01:43:03,720 --> 01:43:05,320 Speaker 2: They all good at that job. I don't care what 2037 01:43:05,439 --> 01:43:06,200 Speaker 2: nobody says. 2038 01:43:06,240 --> 01:43:09,599 Speaker 5: They are the great News. Yeah, that's great news. 2039 01:43:09,600 --> 01:43:11,720 Speaker 1: They would have been fools to let them go anywhay, Like. 2040 01:43:12,240 --> 01:43:15,120 Speaker 5: I know it good for them and the whole team. 2041 01:43:15,240 --> 01:43:19,160 Speaker 1: That's great. Yeah. My favorite thing about them is, like 2042 01:43:19,640 --> 01:43:25,360 Speaker 1: other TV shows clearly see that they're you can't copy 2043 01:43:25,400 --> 01:43:27,160 Speaker 1: it because it's unprofessional what they're doing. 2044 01:43:27,200 --> 01:43:28,240 Speaker 2: Like they're very and they. 2045 01:43:28,160 --> 01:43:31,960 Speaker 1: Have so much professionally unprofessional. They're just there to have 2046 01:43:32,000 --> 01:43:34,600 Speaker 1: fun and pick on people and all that stuff. I 2047 01:43:34,720 --> 01:43:38,040 Speaker 1: love to watch the other channels try a version of it. 2048 01:43:38,040 --> 01:43:42,040 Speaker 4: It's impossible because they have certain personalities that you can't mimic. 2049 01:43:42,240 --> 01:43:43,720 Speaker 5: Yeah, and like their chemistry. 2050 01:43:43,720 --> 01:43:46,880 Speaker 3: They have Yes Chemistry team, and you can't replicate that. 2051 01:43:47,120 --> 01:43:47,400 Speaker 5: Yeah. 2052 01:43:47,600 --> 01:43:50,400 Speaker 1: Like they say like they're able to laugh off stuff 2053 01:43:50,400 --> 01:43:53,200 Speaker 1: that I think would be a fist fight somewhere else, 2054 01:43:53,360 --> 01:43:56,519 Speaker 1: Like yes, like Shackle look at Charles Barkley and talk 2055 01:43:56,560 --> 01:43:59,400 Speaker 1: about how he's never won a championship and just like 2056 01:44:00,160 --> 01:44:02,880 Speaker 1: it's such a mean thing to say, but like they'll 2057 01:44:02,920 --> 01:44:04,519 Speaker 1: laugh it off and yuck it up and be back 2058 01:44:04,560 --> 01:44:07,320 Speaker 1: next break and I'm like, yeah, if Steven ain't Smith, 2059 01:44:07,360 --> 01:44:09,080 Speaker 1: if you make a joke about that man, he gonna 2060 01:44:09,080 --> 01:44:11,479 Speaker 1: goanna fight you. So just leave it at that. He 2061 01:44:11,600 --> 01:44:13,280 Speaker 1: gonna try to make sure you don't get to come 2062 01:44:13,320 --> 01:44:16,320 Speaker 1: back on the air if you say something about his hairline. 2063 01:44:16,400 --> 01:44:18,280 Speaker 1: So you just gotta eat it, you know what I mean. 2064 01:44:18,400 --> 01:44:22,200 Speaker 1: So I think you can't duplicated? Good for them, last 2065 01:44:22,439 --> 01:44:26,040 Speaker 1: Black Capitalism. Oh actually I got two more. I'm sorry. 2066 01:44:27,040 --> 01:44:32,599 Speaker 1: The chosen Son Bronni James, who is Lebron james son? Okay, okay. 2067 01:44:33,479 --> 01:44:36,720 Speaker 1: He signs a name and license deal, which is what 2068 01:44:36,800 --> 01:44:39,519 Speaker 1: the college kids college a's kids can sign. Now they 2069 01:44:39,560 --> 01:44:42,800 Speaker 1: can't get paid to play basketball, but they can't sign 2070 01:44:42,880 --> 01:44:46,680 Speaker 1: name of license deal and stuff with Beasts by Dre 2071 01:44:48,320 --> 01:44:52,080 Speaker 1: And they have a new campaign where they play basketball 2072 01:44:52,120 --> 01:44:54,200 Speaker 1: each other with each other and go toe to toe 2073 01:44:55,040 --> 01:45:01,559 Speaker 1: like versus, like Lebron versus his own son means Lebron James. 2074 01:45:01,600 --> 01:45:04,160 Speaker 1: It's oh, Joe, this man, yes, oh. 2075 01:45:04,120 --> 01:45:06,960 Speaker 5: Yes, long enough did he's chashed playing? 2076 01:45:08,160 --> 01:45:12,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, and it's still good enough. It's still good enough 2077 01:45:12,600 --> 01:45:15,240 Speaker 1: that we're like I would watch this man play against 2078 01:45:15,240 --> 01:45:18,280 Speaker 1: his son, like this is crazy wow. 2079 01:45:19,120 --> 01:45:21,040 Speaker 3: Saying that there was there was some kind of fantasy 2080 01:45:21,120 --> 01:45:23,080 Speaker 3: deal where the two of them would go to a 2081 01:45:23,120 --> 01:45:26,040 Speaker 3: team together, that they would play together. 2082 01:45:26,439 --> 01:45:30,639 Speaker 1: That's Lebron's like promise that he now he just kind 2083 01:45:30,640 --> 01:45:32,280 Speaker 1: of set it off handily, So I don't know how 2084 01:45:32,320 --> 01:45:35,760 Speaker 1: sure like is like a he will fulfill this, but 2085 01:45:35,800 --> 01:45:40,160 Speaker 1: he said his dream is to play for wherever team 2086 01:45:40,479 --> 01:45:43,160 Speaker 1: drafts his son, so he wants his deal to be 2087 01:45:43,400 --> 01:45:46,400 Speaker 1: like up at the time that his son is eligible 2088 01:45:46,439 --> 01:45:48,640 Speaker 1: to be drafted. He wants to go play be the 2089 01:45:48,680 --> 01:45:53,439 Speaker 1: first ever father son duo on the NBA team, which 2090 01:45:53,520 --> 01:45:55,880 Speaker 1: I don't you know, no idea if that works out 2091 01:45:55,920 --> 01:45:57,639 Speaker 1: or any stuff. I think he's just out of EXTENTI 2092 01:45:57,680 --> 01:46:01,280 Speaker 1: with the Lakers, but it is a cool like concept 2093 01:46:02,120 --> 01:46:05,479 Speaker 1: to think that someone could play in the league that long. 2094 01:46:05,560 --> 01:46:10,160 Speaker 1: That's oh wow, what a that's my that's my guy. Okay, 2095 01:46:11,080 --> 01:46:16,320 Speaker 1: all right. Last one Jennifer Lewis. Yes, I knew Carol 2096 01:46:16,280 --> 01:46:19,680 Speaker 1: will say that Jennifer Lewis officially has her star on 2097 01:46:19,720 --> 01:46:22,360 Speaker 1: the Hollywood Walker Fame. Oh let's go yep. 2098 01:46:22,439 --> 01:46:24,960 Speaker 2: Oh, she just came out with a new book too. 2099 01:46:25,520 --> 01:46:28,960 Speaker 2: I'm listening to the word first. 2100 01:46:28,960 --> 01:46:32,440 Speaker 4: The first one I listened to was old, but these 2101 01:46:32,680 --> 01:46:34,000 Speaker 4: and it was it was new to me, but it 2102 01:46:34,040 --> 01:46:34,880 Speaker 4: was an older book. 2103 01:46:35,160 --> 01:46:37,519 Speaker 2: But she just came out with one that's like brand new, 2104 01:46:37,680 --> 01:46:38,240 Speaker 2: like this year. 2105 01:46:38,360 --> 01:46:41,320 Speaker 1: Well, I I have footage of her getting her her 2106 01:46:41,360 --> 01:46:44,400 Speaker 1: star and this I love this footage so much. H 2107 01:46:44,560 --> 01:46:46,240 Speaker 1: First of all, let me make sure you can hear it. 2108 01:46:46,240 --> 01:46:48,799 Speaker 1: So I'm gonna play a couple of seconds, and Lisa, 2109 01:46:48,880 --> 01:46:53,840 Speaker 1: just let me know if you can hear this. So 2110 01:46:53,920 --> 01:46:56,400 Speaker 1: can you hear like the noise from the video? Okay, cool, 2111 01:46:56,479 --> 01:46:58,080 Speaker 1: all right, I'm playing the whole thing now. It's only 2112 01:46:58,080 --> 01:46:59,040 Speaker 1: about fifty seconds, so. 2113 01:47:02,360 --> 01:47:03,120 Speaker 2: Don't walk up. 2114 01:47:04,920 --> 01:47:08,280 Speaker 1: She's she's there's captures, but she's telling the people watching 2115 01:47:08,280 --> 01:47:12,280 Speaker 1: her sign her uh autograph. She said, vote, don't fuck up? 2116 01:47:14,960 --> 01:47:17,519 Speaker 2: Yeah away. 2117 01:47:17,240 --> 01:47:21,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, they're taking away your rights, They're taking your whites 2118 01:47:21,080 --> 01:47:25,639 Speaker 1: away as you sleep. They are the motherfuckers. Don't care 2119 01:47:25,640 --> 01:47:28,200 Speaker 1: about you. You understand me. This is the black Just 2120 01:47:28,400 --> 01:47:31,760 Speaker 1: like my mom getting a star of Walker fame. She 2121 01:47:31,920 --> 01:47:33,360 Speaker 1: was like, and while I got you. 2122 01:47:33,360 --> 01:47:36,000 Speaker 5: All attention, yes, and another thing. 2123 01:47:36,160 --> 01:47:38,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, I loved it. I just I love her and 2124 01:47:38,840 --> 01:47:41,280 Speaker 1: I love this. That is the blackest use of a 2125 01:47:41,640 --> 01:47:44,400 Speaker 1: of a Walk of fame. That Walker, the star of 2126 01:47:44,439 --> 01:47:46,640 Speaker 1: the Walker Fame of anybody. 2127 01:47:46,320 --> 01:47:47,400 Speaker 5: About using a platform. 2128 01:47:47,479 --> 01:47:50,679 Speaker 3: Remember when she's that beautiful song she was had, you know, yes, 2129 01:47:51,120 --> 01:47:52,960 Speaker 3: it was her with Brandy and I forgot the other 2130 01:47:53,000 --> 01:47:56,040 Speaker 3: women's they were singing, don't fuck with Me in these streets. Yes, 2131 01:47:57,360 --> 01:48:01,360 Speaker 3: and she did another one about get yours out and votes. 2132 01:48:01,640 --> 01:48:03,360 Speaker 5: Remember, like that was also. 2133 01:48:03,320 --> 01:48:06,080 Speaker 3: So like I think I really love how we are 2134 01:48:06,120 --> 01:48:11,879 Speaker 3: seeing black women fifty plus, you know, like doing things 2135 01:48:12,040 --> 01:48:16,160 Speaker 3: beautifully and amazingly. Like I think between with writing and 2136 01:48:16,320 --> 01:48:19,960 Speaker 3: Jennifer Lewis is flourishing. Actually K can set and can't 2137 01:48:20,000 --> 01:48:22,680 Speaker 3: K set my work like the flourishing that is what 2138 01:48:22,760 --> 01:48:23,800 Speaker 3: I'm loving. Now. 2139 01:48:23,880 --> 01:48:26,800 Speaker 5: There's no timeline, no time limit, you know. 2140 01:48:27,280 --> 01:48:29,800 Speaker 3: Yeah, get raw she was raws from Amen that that 2141 01:48:29,880 --> 01:48:32,639 Speaker 3: third Woman and yeah, I just feel like this. 2142 01:48:32,720 --> 01:48:35,920 Speaker 5: Is just I don't know's it's our time. 2143 01:48:36,080 --> 01:48:39,200 Speaker 3: It's our time, and that we need to be able 2144 01:48:39,360 --> 01:48:44,600 Speaker 3: and willing to extend the full reach of our black aliveness, 2145 01:48:45,120 --> 01:48:47,840 Speaker 3: you know, like that is where we need and that's 2146 01:48:47,840 --> 01:48:50,640 Speaker 3: where all that's that and that is okay, that is 2147 01:48:50,680 --> 01:48:52,439 Speaker 3: what we need to do. That's what we can do, 2148 01:48:52,479 --> 01:48:55,560 Speaker 3: we should do, and we can do that without apology, 2149 01:48:55,640 --> 01:48:59,000 Speaker 3: without auditioning by that and that's why even like things 2150 01:48:59,080 --> 01:49:02,840 Speaker 3: like marginalized person or whatever. It's like the margins, the 2151 01:49:02,880 --> 01:49:05,640 Speaker 3: mainstream is the one you are standing in. 2152 01:49:06,280 --> 01:49:10,519 Speaker 5: Get to occupy the fullness of our lives at all times. 2153 01:49:10,720 --> 01:49:14,599 Speaker 3: That is undebatable. That is a cardinal truth of just 2154 01:49:14,640 --> 01:49:17,400 Speaker 3: being a human person. And so we just have to 2155 01:49:17,479 --> 01:49:19,960 Speaker 3: keep reminding ourselves and each other of that and that, 2156 01:49:20,240 --> 01:49:22,840 Speaker 3: you know, I just really love to see this as 2157 01:49:22,840 --> 01:49:25,160 Speaker 3: well as I'm forgetting her name. 2158 01:49:25,200 --> 01:49:26,320 Speaker 5: But she sang when. 2159 01:49:26,200 --> 01:49:29,840 Speaker 3: She she works on Abbed Elementary, and she sang that song. 2160 01:49:31,320 --> 01:49:33,160 Speaker 5: The Diane Reeves, you know what I mean. She won 2161 01:49:33,280 --> 01:49:34,840 Speaker 5: She she plays the teacher. 2162 01:49:37,840 --> 01:49:44,559 Speaker 3: Ralph Yes, Shirley Ralph Yes, and her role in you know, 2163 01:49:44,600 --> 01:49:48,679 Speaker 3: getting this Emmy or Quintin you know, through Quinta's work 2164 01:49:48,800 --> 01:49:52,599 Speaker 3: at Elementary. I don't know, it just feels so you know, 2165 01:49:52,720 --> 01:49:55,800 Speaker 3: it's it's basically it's never too late and always it's 2166 01:49:55,840 --> 01:49:59,320 Speaker 3: always now, it's always the right time, it's always the 2167 01:49:59,400 --> 01:49:59,760 Speaker 3: right time. 2168 01:50:00,120 --> 01:50:03,080 Speaker 1: We're not gonna be able to top that for the 2169 01:50:03,160 --> 01:50:07,280 Speaker 1: last word or the show. I really feel like that's it, guys. 2170 01:50:07,320 --> 01:50:10,720 Speaker 1: That was Professor Wolford. Thank you for coming through. Tell 2171 01:50:10,720 --> 01:50:13,599 Speaker 1: everybody what to find so much. Thank you all, Thank 2172 01:50:13,640 --> 01:50:14,120 Speaker 1: you so much. 2173 01:50:14,160 --> 01:50:17,680 Speaker 3: You can find me at Black Women's Stitch on Instagram. 2174 01:50:18,040 --> 01:50:20,519 Speaker 3: I'm also on Twitter, but I'm never there. I'm also 2175 01:50:20,560 --> 01:50:23,679 Speaker 3: on TikTok, but also never there or basically also never there. 2176 01:50:24,080 --> 01:50:27,400 Speaker 3: I am mostly on Instagram and not the name of 2177 01:50:27,439 --> 01:50:30,519 Speaker 3: our podcast. My podcast is called Stitch Please, and we 2178 01:50:30,640 --> 01:50:34,679 Speaker 3: center black women, girls and fems and sewing. We work weekly, 2179 01:50:34,840 --> 01:50:37,360 Speaker 3: so a weekly show. I've been going every week without 2180 01:50:37,400 --> 01:50:42,840 Speaker 3: stop since September of twenty nineteen. Shout out to Tea 2181 01:50:42,960 --> 01:50:45,040 Speaker 3: with Queen and Jay, which was like the first podcast 2182 01:50:45,120 --> 01:50:45,719 Speaker 3: I think I had. 2183 01:50:45,640 --> 01:50:48,680 Speaker 5: Ever heard, and they have been my podcast. 2184 01:50:48,360 --> 01:50:51,120 Speaker 3: Mentors and models, and I've been able to talk to 2185 01:50:51,160 --> 01:50:53,919 Speaker 3: them in real life and had them talk to my students, 2186 01:50:54,000 --> 01:50:56,080 Speaker 3: and so I just always give them a shout out 2187 01:50:56,120 --> 01:51:00,639 Speaker 3: for letting me know what the podcast possibility is. Thank you. 2188 01:51:01,000 --> 01:51:03,680 Speaker 3: I thank you both, and you both I thank you 2189 01:51:03,800 --> 01:51:05,599 Speaker 3: both for being possibility models. 2190 01:51:05,640 --> 01:51:08,280 Speaker 5: I really appreciate your energy. 2191 01:51:08,439 --> 01:51:12,920 Speaker 3: I appreciate like the the robustness of your platform, and 2192 01:51:13,000 --> 01:51:15,720 Speaker 3: I really do appreciate how you teach people how to 2193 01:51:15,760 --> 01:51:19,640 Speaker 3: treat you. Because boundaries are not for other people. Boundaries 2194 01:51:19,640 --> 01:51:23,240 Speaker 3: are for us, up to us to maintain them. And 2195 01:51:23,320 --> 01:51:26,080 Speaker 3: so when you when you tell people, do not send 2196 01:51:26,120 --> 01:51:30,600 Speaker 3: me a twelve paragraph email. I love that and for 2197 01:51:30,680 --> 01:51:32,000 Speaker 3: real Rock, because Rock I can. 2198 01:51:31,960 --> 01:51:32,599 Speaker 5: Be long winded. 2199 01:51:32,600 --> 01:51:38,040 Speaker 3: And I was like, Lisa, don't send this man, this person. 2200 01:51:38,040 --> 01:51:41,559 Speaker 5: He is not your student. I'm a lot interested, like 2201 01:51:42,040 --> 01:51:44,280 Speaker 5: just just say you know. And y'all should have seen me. 2202 01:51:44,360 --> 01:51:46,320 Speaker 3: Y'all should have seen my big and asked email I sent, 2203 01:51:47,000 --> 01:51:48,720 Speaker 3: please please, I. 2204 01:51:49,000 --> 01:51:50,599 Speaker 5: Want to be on you does your does your? 2205 01:51:50,640 --> 01:51:51,000 Speaker 2: Does your? 2206 01:51:51,080 --> 01:51:53,360 Speaker 3: Does the Game of Thrones episode? Y'all gonna have guests, 2207 01:51:53,640 --> 01:51:54,839 Speaker 3: I volunteers tribute. 2208 01:51:54,840 --> 01:51:55,519 Speaker 2: I want to be on. 2209 01:51:55,560 --> 01:51:58,080 Speaker 5: I want to be And they were so they were 2210 01:51:58,240 --> 01:51:59,080 Speaker 5: so gracious. 2211 01:52:00,080 --> 01:52:01,840 Speaker 3: This is a real honor and I can't wait to 2212 01:52:01,880 --> 01:52:04,479 Speaker 3: tell everybody and I have that I've been on your podcast. 2213 01:52:05,040 --> 01:52:08,680 Speaker 1: Thank you man, this is so fun. Definitely appreciate you 2214 01:52:08,720 --> 01:52:11,680 Speaker 1: coming on. Obviously, we love TV with Queen and j 2215 01:52:13,200 --> 01:52:16,160 Speaker 1: and uh yeah. I saw the consistency with your podcast 2216 01:52:16,240 --> 01:52:18,680 Speaker 1: at like clockwork every week. I was like, that's dedication, 2217 01:52:18,880 --> 01:52:21,799 Speaker 1: that's uh like, that's the hardest part of all this stuff, 2218 01:52:22,000 --> 01:52:25,479 Speaker 1: like to be consistent, yeah, and like to be able 2219 01:52:25,520 --> 01:52:27,479 Speaker 1: to tackle one topic but to take it so many 2220 01:52:27,520 --> 01:52:30,040 Speaker 1: different places. So make sure y'all check her out. I 2221 01:52:30,080 --> 01:52:32,160 Speaker 1: see people already chat room like you got a fan. 2222 01:52:32,920 --> 01:52:36,080 Speaker 1: Uh and I see. Also, you're not really on social 2223 01:52:36,120 --> 01:52:41,160 Speaker 1: media like that, which explains the skin so recognized games. See, 2224 01:52:41,200 --> 01:52:45,080 Speaker 1: you're not all stressed out because you be seeing what 2225 01:52:45,120 --> 01:52:46,320 Speaker 1: the people saying. 2226 01:52:47,920 --> 01:52:48,719 Speaker 2: In the real world. 2227 01:52:48,960 --> 01:52:52,960 Speaker 1: Listen, okay, okay, Twitter had them, I'm starting to get them. Okay, 2228 01:52:53,400 --> 01:52:56,880 Speaker 1: all right, we'll be back tomorrow with our Game of 2229 01:52:56,920 --> 01:52:59,280 Speaker 1: Thrones recap, and until then, I love you. I love 2230 01:52:59,280 --> 01:52:59,479 Speaker 1: you to