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Speaker 2: Dave is on the phone today for a first date
Speaker 2: follow up and he's getting ghosted by a woman named Carissa,
Speaker 2: So we'll see if we can hel him out. Dave
Speaker 2: was a man, how are you?
Speaker 3: Hey?
Speaker 4: Hey, what's up? Yeah?
Speaker 2: How long has it been since you saw Chrissa?
Speaker 4: Like a week?
Speaker 5: So what was your last interaction with her? Was it
Speaker 5: a text? Was it a call?
Speaker 4: No, she just left the event that she invited me to. Oh,
Speaker 4: she invited me to this art gallery for her friend.
Speaker 4: She says she doesn't even like art, but like I'm like,
Speaker 4: hell yeah, free booze.
Speaker 3: Free napos, you know, and like and the kind.
Speaker 4: Of people that show up with those, you know, it's
Speaker 4: just they're just fun to make fun of, you know,
Speaker 4: like manybsters you're watching. Is great and she was able
Speaker 4: to like throw them out, just like like the hard balls,
Speaker 4: you know, like the curveballs. And I'm thinking she's great.
Speaker 4: We're going back and forth making fun of people feeding
Speaker 4: each other, and I'm like, this is We're having a
Speaker 4: great time. Thinking why would I not want to go
Speaker 4: out on a second date? With this person, and long
Speaker 4: story short, now I have to explain this. If I
Speaker 4: have my own radio show, I'd probably be canceled, like immediately.
Speaker 4: I am just not very woke. I say what I think.
Speaker 4: I think I'm funny. A lot of people might not
Speaker 4: think I'm funny, but Chris seemed to think that I
Speaker 4: was funny, okay, And we'd just go around the party
Speaker 4: and I just happened to just start clowning on one person,
Speaker 4: don't know who it was, and just shortly after she.
Speaker 3: She just left.
Speaker 4: And I'm just wondering if I was too much for her,
Speaker 4: you know, like if my jokes were just hitting too
Speaker 4: hard on people.
Speaker 2: I mean, that could be it.
Speaker 6: Do you know who the person was that like you
Speaker 6: were kind of attacking.
Speaker 4: I mean, she's just kind of had some funny pigtails
Speaker 4: and I made some kind of blow the belt joke
Speaker 4: that it seemed like it didn't go over well when
Speaker 4: everything else was you know, Yeah, it's just a random person,
Speaker 4: just another random person at this bougie get together.
Speaker 2: You're starting to reach out to her, yeah, a couple
Speaker 2: of times.
Speaker 3: Yeah, No, it's just this silence, dead silence.
Speaker 6: It's definitely ghosting.
Speaker 2: The only thing you can think of is maybe she
Speaker 2: got offended.
Speaker 4: Possibly that could make sense. It's just so strange because
Speaker 4: she was throwing some out there that like my you know,
Speaker 4: my friends could be offended at and something can This
Speaker 4: just didn't make sense. It's just it was out of
Speaker 4: left field.
Speaker 6: So how did she leave you, Dave? You're saying that
Speaker 6: she just disappeared on you.
Speaker 5: Like you turned around and she was gone, or she
Speaker 5: was like, okay, thanks.
Speaker 4: I wanted to get a few more free drinks, you know,
Speaker 4: I mean, come on in with bar.
Speaker 2: Yeah, who doesn't you know?
Speaker 4: And I told her I'm going to go get a
Speaker 4: drink and just as soon as like I'm there and back,
Speaker 4: you know, with ties, She's gone.
Speaker 6: Wow wow. So she really just like left.
Speaker 4: She wants so strange because we were having so much fun.
Speaker 4: I couldn't get enough of.
Speaker 3: Her that night.
Speaker 4: It was great.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that is really weird. Interesting.
Speaker 6: Okay, have you ever just pieced out on something in
Speaker 6: the middle of a date.
Speaker 2: Jubil I have only one time, but it was a
Speaker 2: double date where my friend's girlfriend had set me up
Speaker 2: and the girl that she had set me up with
Speaker 2: she was not a fan of me, and then started
Speaker 2: arguing with me. So then I started arguing back a
Speaker 2: little bit, and then I was like, I'm just going
Speaker 2: to go home. But that was very obvious what the
Speaker 2: problem was. Yeah, yeah, I mean on my end, the
Speaker 2: problem was she's arguing with me. I don't know what
Speaker 2: her problem with me was, but I have things that
Speaker 2: it could be problems for people. So but I understood that,
Speaker 2: and I also didn't want her.
Speaker 4: To call me.
Speaker 2: So but other than that, no, I have not really
Speaker 2: left in the middle of a date before, you know, Yeah, I'm.
Speaker 6: Just kind of curious, like what the reason would be.
Speaker 2: Well, let's figure it out. We will play a song,
Speaker 2: come back and then call her and see if she'll
Speaker 2: tell us why you're getting ghosted and maybe get you
Speaker 2: another day if you want.
Speaker 3: On all right, man, please, yeah, that would be great.
Speaker 2: Pleas I'll come back. Get your first day follow up.
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Speaker 2: Drave is on the phone for a first date follow up.
Speaker 2: If you missed us talking to him just a few
Speaker 2: minutes ago, he went out with a woman named Carissa,
Speaker 2: and he's getting ghosted. And now we're about to call
Speaker 2: her and see if we can figure out why and
Speaker 2: maybe get him another day before we call her, Dave,
Speaker 2: why don't you refresh everybody's memory about your date with Carissa.
Speaker 4: Chrisa inviting me to an art gallery. We were having
Speaker 4: a great time, free drinks, beating each other, you know,
Speaker 4: cracking jokes and really just like roasting everyone we saw there.
Speaker 4: And I just noticed that after, you know, I was
Speaker 4: poking fun at somebody, she sort of left as I
Speaker 4: wanted to grab more drinks for us, she just disappeared
Speaker 4: from the party.
Speaker 2: Okay, so all right, well here we go. Hello, Hi, man,
Speaker 2: I speak to Chrissa. Please, yes, Chrisa, how are you?
Speaker 2: My name is Jewbel and I host a radio show
Speaker 2: called the Jubil Show.
Speaker 6: Oh, hi, Chrisa. My name is Nina. I'm also on
Speaker 6: the Jubil Show. Hi, I'm Victorian.
Speaker 2: So there's three people on the phone with you right now.
Speaker 2: How are you okay?
Speaker 3: Good out? How are you?
Speaker 2: How did you get my that's a good question.
Speaker 7: I'm sorry, I'm sorry. Is this catching me? Catching me
Speaker 7: a little bit off?
Speaker 4: Start?
Speaker 7: I hope I want something?
Speaker 2: Well you might have. I'll tell you how we got
Speaker 2: your numbers, though, first, and then we can figure out
Speaker 2: if you want something or not. So we do a
Speaker 2: segment on the show and it's called the first Date
Speaker 2: follow up. That's where if you go out on a
Speaker 2: date with somebody and then you end up ghosting them,
Speaker 2: that person can have us call you and ask why
Speaker 2: so you're currently ghosting someone. They wanted us to get
Speaker 2: a hold of you. Oh boy, his name is Dave.
Speaker 6: You know Dave?
Speaker 2: Yes, yes, he do, all right, Oh, Dave wants to
Speaker 2: know while you're ghosting. He said he really he really
Speaker 2: liked meeting you. He thought you were amazing and nothing.
Speaker 3: My apologies, this is a little weird.
Speaker 7: I wasn't expecting anything like this, but that night has
Speaker 7: been on my mind, so I quite strange. So okay,
Speaker 7: I'll just tell you what happened. It's kind of like karma.
Speaker 7: I should explain myself.
Speaker 2: Okay.
Speaker 7: So I went out on the state with Dave, and
Speaker 7: Dave was a great guy. I took him to this
Speaker 7: art gallery thing that I had an invite to and
Speaker 7: I didn't really want to go, but I figured it out.
Speaker 7: Perfect first date. At least I have somebody there with me.
Speaker 7: Free food, free booze, you know, whatever. We can have
Speaker 7: fun no matter what. So Dave was really funny, you know,
Speaker 7: like we got along really well. We both had like
Speaker 7: we're all kind of like offensive sense of humor with
Speaker 7: each other that we were both able to appreciate. And
Speaker 7: that's like kind of hard for me to find. So
Speaker 7: I thought, wow, you know the this is cool.
Speaker 2: Okay, so you liked Dave's jokes and stuff.
Speaker 7: Yeah, Dave was cool, man, David. Dave was really cool.
Speaker 7: So so what I really I'm sorry. What I'm trying
Speaker 7: to get to is it wasn't date. This was all
Speaker 7: me so and it's been haunting my brain and I
Speaker 7: should just clear the air.
Speaker 2: Okay.
Speaker 7: What I should have done was okay, So I don't
Speaker 7: know how much you know, I have no idea, but I.
Speaker 2: Just left tell us that.
Speaker 7: Yeah, and I should have lied instead, like you know,
Speaker 7: I had you know, this or something like I should
Speaker 7: have thought and said like someone died, you know, like
Speaker 7: I should have just like done something.
Speaker 5: I'm just really confused how lying would have been better then?
Speaker 5: So what actually happened?
Speaker 6: Though?
Speaker 7: I don't know. I'm not good a confrontation, like I'm
Speaker 7: not good with with things like this, So I just left.
Speaker 7: But what happened was is we were making fun of
Speaker 7: a lot of people there because it's an art gallery
Speaker 7: and you know, there's a bunch of you know where
Speaker 7: I was there. We were making fun of people, and
Speaker 7: all of the sudden I noticed that one of them
Speaker 7: happened to be my ex. Oh yes, and okay, so
Speaker 7: I mean it was all funny. But rather than feel
Speaker 7: bad about it, when I saw my ex, it kind
Speaker 7: of like ignited something else inside of me. How should
Speaker 7: I put this in nice terms? Urges came over me.
Speaker 7: So I ended up leaving to hook up with my
Speaker 7: ex in their car. Oh okay, I know, I never
Speaker 7: I don't even do stuff like this, Like I don't
Speaker 7: even know what happened, Like maybe it was just the
Speaker 7: booze of the spiders, I don't know, but I went
Speaker 7: and I hooked up with my ex in the car,
Speaker 7: and then what made me feel really even Like I
Speaker 7: didn't feel bad because I was like, I only no
Speaker 7: day for like five minutes. So maybe we'll just never
Speaker 7: see each other again. I mean that's what I thought,
Speaker 7: Like I'll never see him again, and this would be
Speaker 7: a really great story about how me and my ex
Speaker 7: got back together, but instead they ended up ghosting me.
Speaker 2: After that, what oh what?
Speaker 6: So you go, said Dave? And then your ex ghosted
Speaker 6: you this art gallery?
Speaker 2: Really, do I know what I like? Art galleries and
Speaker 2: everything else you just described? I like to so God,
Speaker 2: and you know which one was?
Speaker 4: WHOA, Yeah, I'm hearing.
Speaker 2: Who Yes it is he's on the phone.
Speaker 4: Who was.
Speaker 2: Sorry, Chris, I should have told you that Dave is
Speaker 2: on the phone listening and wants to talk to you.
Speaker 7: It's okay, It's okay, you know what. I needed to
Speaker 7: clear this this, This was on my mind. I felt bad,
Speaker 7: I think, I said, I don't It was the one
Speaker 7: that I called that you were calling an ooper loop
Speaker 7: with the green.
Speaker 4: Hair talking about a woman.
Speaker 3: Yes, I'm really I mean I thought that she looked
Speaker 3: like but she kind of like looks like she's kind
Speaker 3: of like like.
Speaker 4: That hot like you're saying that.
Speaker 2: It was wait a.
Speaker 3: Second, in the women too. That's kind of to do.
Speaker 7: With me being attracted to women. I left you to
Speaker 7: go hook up with somebody.
Speaker 4: Out look, in the amount of time that we had
Speaker 4: to get to know each other, in our sense of humor,
Speaker 4: in our openness, you don't think he could have told
Speaker 4: me that and that I wouldn't have been like, hey,
Speaker 4: this is.
Speaker 3: Cool, let's, you know, talk more seriously.
Speaker 6: Who with somebody going hey, pause, I'm gonna go hook
Speaker 6: up on my ex real quick call Tomorrow's okay.
Speaker 7: It's just easier to just just just leave. But he
Speaker 7: sort of doesn't disappear in bed.
Speaker 3: I'm just pulling your sad. It's okay, it's kinda hot.
Speaker 2: If her X was a guy, would you feel the
Speaker 2: same way?
Speaker 7: Right? I don't know how to take it.
Speaker 3: Do I sound like I feel the same way?
Speaker 4: No?
Speaker 7: I don't know. Okay, thanks for not like hitting my guys.
Speaker 7: I mean I was pretty tracting.
Speaker 3: I mean a little maybe a little bit. I know
Speaker 3: that you didn't want to tell me.
Speaker 4: I can understand why.
Speaker 7: I just sorry for leaving your art exhibit.
Speaker 6: I know they're pretty terrible.
Speaker 4: Maybe maybe we can go people watch at you know,
Speaker 4: the beach or something sometime, you know, just the boardwalk.
Speaker 7: Are we really doing this on the radio?
Speaker 4: This is weird?
Speaker 7: But are you? Are you asking me out again?
Speaker 2: Carissa? Would you like to go on another date with Dave?
Speaker 2: We'll pay for it. He obviously doesn't mind that you
Speaker 2: hooked up with the X and the car on the
Speaker 2: same day you are on.
Speaker 7: Wait, you're you're gonna pay You're gonna pay for it?
Speaker 2: Yes? Yes, yeah, all right.
Speaker 7: I will go back out with Dave. You're paying the bill.
Speaker 7: Maybe I was gonna say that I owe him a drink?
Speaker 3: Do I owe you an ex? If I see one
Speaker 3: of my exes, you'll know what happened.
Speaker 5: Okay, you guys are a TV show?
Speaker 3: Yeah, all right, deal.
Speaker 2: You guys sound like you're made for each other. Honestly,
Speaker 2: I think this is a match made for sure.
Speaker 7: Yeah, two crappy human beings.
Speaker 3: I I just can't give up.
Speaker 2: Well, congratulations Dave you got the date, and Chrissa you
Speaker 2: also got a date. Yes, thanks guys.
Speaker 7: For your meal.
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