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Speaker 1: this was not on my vision board, Carlos.

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Speaker 3: We'll get into the conversation right after these quick asss.

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Speaker 2: Hey, rain Drops, Happy New Year.

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Speaker 2: Carlos. We want the visual to your podcast.

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Speaker 3: On today's episode of Reality with the King, I am

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Speaker 3: I am from Detroit, Michigan, as you all know, and

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Speaker 1: I remember that Cynthius event you Year's eve, Oh my god,

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Speaker 3: That's how that's what we call Detroiters Michiganders, right, Toya.

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Speaker 2: You never ever do this again.

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Speaker 1: I never signed up for this life.

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Speaker 1: I think he put me here to help the people,

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Speaker 1: When Mariah met me, when j just Sinda, they all

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Speaker 3: Boy, okay, okay, that's growth, Toya.

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Speaker 1: You have not seen her without that makeup.

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Speaker 2: No, that hairline starts at the ear. Baby, No, that's

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Speaker 3: So let's talk about you at I don't know what

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Speaker 3: Some seasons, y'all good, Some seasons y'all bad. This past season,

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Speaker 1: the innocent bystanders like my husband, I think that you

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00:24:45,440 --> 00:24:51,119
Speaker 1: poke the bear and I'm the bear, you know. And

438
00:24:51,520 --> 00:24:53,679
Speaker 1: I think it's getting to a point where, you know,

439
00:24:54,800 --> 00:24:56,960
Speaker 1: I told her, I said, you know, I was very clear.

440
00:24:57,040 --> 00:24:59,000
Speaker 1: I said, either get a man to talk to my man,

441
00:24:59,280 --> 00:25:02,359
Speaker 1: or you know, it really is going to be quiet

442
00:25:02,400 --> 00:25:04,760
Speaker 1: and I and we're just at that place now.

443
00:25:07,320 --> 00:25:13,440
Speaker 3: Is there any backstory that we the audience may not

444
00:25:13,600 --> 00:25:18,119
Speaker 3: know about because we like seeing it when you guys

445
00:25:18,119 --> 00:25:20,400
Speaker 3: get along because it's fun and listen, we know that

446
00:25:20,520 --> 00:25:22,560
Speaker 3: on reality TV you have ups and downs.

447
00:25:22,680 --> 00:25:23,200
Speaker 2: We get that.

448
00:25:24,200 --> 00:25:26,960
Speaker 3: However, when it comes to the two of you, it

449
00:25:27,119 --> 00:25:32,159
Speaker 3: seems to constantly resurface. Is there anything that has happened

450
00:25:32,160 --> 00:25:36,359
Speaker 3: behind the scenes that they may not just air as

451
00:25:36,400 --> 00:25:40,080
Speaker 3: it relates to you in Quad's friendship always being that way, I.

452
00:25:40,000 --> 00:25:42,359
Speaker 1: Think for me, you know, and I could be wrong,

453
00:25:42,760 --> 00:25:45,600
Speaker 1: you know, but I think for me when it comes

454
00:25:45,600 --> 00:25:49,639
Speaker 1: to Quad, it's always been and this is just my

455
00:25:49,920 --> 00:25:50,640
Speaker 1: This is just my.

456
00:25:50,720 --> 00:25:53,359
Speaker 2: View on things. You know, Quad could have her own view,

457
00:25:54,119 --> 00:25:54,760
Speaker 2: but with me.

458
00:25:55,320 --> 00:26:00,399
Speaker 1: It started first season, you know, Quad and I we

459
00:26:00,520 --> 00:26:04,840
Speaker 1: differed because she said I came for her when it

460
00:26:04,880 --> 00:26:07,280
Speaker 1: was her and Grant's wedding, and I made a comment

461
00:26:08,040 --> 00:26:11,159
Speaker 1: on television saying that I wasn't going to go that

462
00:26:11,200 --> 00:26:12,080
Speaker 1: I didn't go to her wedding.

463
00:26:12,119 --> 00:26:13,680
Speaker 2: Her wedding was called off.

464
00:26:14,920 --> 00:26:15,159
Speaker 1: To me.

465
00:26:15,280 --> 00:26:18,320
Speaker 2: That was very Vinyl, you know, your wedding was called off.

466
00:26:20,520 --> 00:26:22,280
Speaker 2: But it was like right after that.

467
00:26:22,760 --> 00:26:28,000
Speaker 1: She then announced on national television a lie that she

468
00:26:28,280 --> 00:26:32,120
Speaker 1: said Mariah told her. She said that Mariah told her

469
00:26:32,119 --> 00:26:35,520
Speaker 1: that me and Eugene were drinking and driving with.

470
00:26:35,520 --> 00:26:37,840
Speaker 2: Our children in the car.

471
00:26:38,520 --> 00:26:46,080
Speaker 1: That was a very horrible insinuation and thing to say

472
00:26:46,200 --> 00:26:51,960
Speaker 1: on national television. And she had said it on TV

473
00:26:52,240 --> 00:26:56,840
Speaker 1: first season and we were in a coffee shop. I

474
00:26:56,960 --> 00:27:01,400
Speaker 1: was shaking, literally, I wanted to throw that hop tea

475
00:27:01,640 --> 00:27:06,119
Speaker 1: on her. And I went outside and I was screaming

476
00:27:06,160 --> 00:27:09,000
Speaker 1: on the phone with Eugene because I was like, and

477
00:27:09,040 --> 00:27:11,240
Speaker 1: I wanted to put the show is so bad? After that,

478
00:27:12,119 --> 00:27:15,800
Speaker 1: and I went into a state of depression after first season,

479
00:27:16,680 --> 00:27:20,240
Speaker 1: what yes? And I wouldn't talk to anyone. I wouldn't

480
00:27:20,280 --> 00:27:24,560
Speaker 1: go outside in my home. Eugene was like, you got

481
00:27:24,600 --> 00:27:28,359
Speaker 1: to leave. I would He was like, I wouldn't come back.

482
00:27:28,440 --> 00:27:31,120
Speaker 1: I was like, I will not do television.

483
00:27:31,359 --> 00:27:33,000
Speaker 2: I was done.

484
00:27:33,080 --> 00:27:37,400
Speaker 1: And he was like, you cannot leave the world seeing

485
00:27:37,440 --> 00:27:42,200
Speaker 1: you as this person. And that was the only thing

486
00:27:43,080 --> 00:27:48,800
Speaker 1: that stuck with me. But it was just the fighting,

487
00:27:49,000 --> 00:27:51,880
Speaker 1: the lies and every and she was like, well when

488
00:27:51,920 --> 00:27:56,760
Speaker 1: we had saw something about me, it was just like, girl,

489
00:27:56,840 --> 00:27:59,560
Speaker 1: but you did not even know anything.

490
00:28:00,160 --> 00:28:03,920
Speaker 2: Is put that out there having nothing?

491
00:28:05,560 --> 00:28:09,720
Speaker 1: And this man was a respected physician, you know, he

492
00:28:09,880 --> 00:28:11,919
Speaker 1: was just starting to screen. It was just like really,

493
00:28:13,560 --> 00:28:16,280
Speaker 1: And from that point on, it just changed the way.

494
00:28:16,119 --> 00:28:18,160
Speaker 2: I looked at her.

495
00:28:18,720 --> 00:28:21,520
Speaker 1: And because she became that person who I was like,

496
00:28:21,560 --> 00:28:26,120
Speaker 1: would say anything on TV to hurt somebody.

497
00:28:27,240 --> 00:28:29,960
Speaker 2: And from that point it was just like it was constant.

498
00:28:30,000 --> 00:28:33,160
Speaker 1: It was then it was Lisa, Oh, your husband's cheating,

499
00:28:33,320 --> 00:28:35,679
Speaker 1: you know with some boy. You know. It was like

500
00:28:36,600 --> 00:28:38,920
Speaker 1: and then it went from that to you know, the

501
00:28:39,040 --> 00:28:42,800
Speaker 1: Mariah thing. It was just and it was like this girl,

502
00:28:42,960 --> 00:28:45,880
Speaker 1: I don't know her she was it was always something

503
00:28:45,920 --> 00:28:48,840
Speaker 1: and then and it just it made me feel as

504
00:28:48,880 --> 00:28:49,640
Speaker 1: though she.

505
00:28:51,120 --> 00:28:54,520
Speaker 2: It was like, I just I don't know.

506
00:28:55,360 --> 00:28:59,040
Speaker 1: And then this season with the you know, okay, with

507
00:28:59,160 --> 00:29:02,840
Speaker 1: Toya's she I think and then I'm sorry I heard,

508
00:29:04,480 --> 00:29:07,000
Speaker 1: you know. And then the season before that, well you

509
00:29:07,120 --> 00:29:11,200
Speaker 1: big borrow and stole from your house. There's always some

510
00:29:11,560 --> 00:29:16,760
Speaker 1: random lie that she would hear about and.

511
00:29:16,680 --> 00:29:20,200
Speaker 2: Then say I'm sorry.

512
00:29:20,880 --> 00:29:23,960
Speaker 1: And so that's when people say things like, well, well,

513
00:29:23,960 --> 00:29:28,600
Speaker 1: she's the face of the show, is she? Because I

514
00:29:28,600 --> 00:29:31,440
Speaker 1: don't know if that's what Married to Medicine really was

515
00:29:31,480 --> 00:29:34,360
Speaker 1: supposed to be about. You know, I know that we

516
00:29:34,440 --> 00:29:38,520
Speaker 1: need drama to make reality TV, but I don't know

517
00:29:38,720 --> 00:29:43,120
Speaker 1: if that's the kind of drama that we want or

518
00:29:43,160 --> 00:29:46,560
Speaker 1: if that's the kind of drama that we perpetuate.

519
00:29:49,360 --> 00:29:52,360
Speaker 3: Who I hate to interrupt, but stay tuned for more.

520
00:29:52,800 --> 00:30:02,720
Speaker 3: We'll be right back after these quick asss. This is

521
00:30:02,840 --> 00:30:06,120
Speaker 3: reality with the King and I'm Carlos King. Let's get

522
00:30:06,160 --> 00:30:10,840
Speaker 3: back into the show. Who do you think is the

523
00:30:10,880 --> 00:30:12,240
Speaker 3: face of maritime Medicine?

524
00:30:13,360 --> 00:30:16,400
Speaker 1: I you know I'm not gonna lie. I enjoyed it

525
00:30:16,440 --> 00:30:17,760
Speaker 1: when Mariah was on our show.

526
00:30:18,600 --> 00:30:20,160
Speaker 2: You know I ain't gonna lie.

527
00:30:20,680 --> 00:30:25,000
Speaker 3: Not to cut you off. You are the only Married

528
00:30:25,080 --> 00:30:28,880
Speaker 3: to Medicine cast member that I've spoken to that has

529
00:30:28,960 --> 00:30:31,720
Speaker 3: said that. And listen, I get that things happen behind

530
00:30:31,720 --> 00:30:33,360
Speaker 3: the scenes that I don't know about. I get it,

531
00:30:33,400 --> 00:30:37,600
Speaker 3: I understand it. I get it. However, dot Org, when

532
00:30:37,640 --> 00:30:41,000
Speaker 3: it comes to these two eyeballs and my brain cells

533
00:30:41,760 --> 00:30:47,760
Speaker 3: and my affection for this show, I feel like no

534
00:30:47,800 --> 00:30:51,200
Speaker 3: one wants to give Mariah her flowers again. I know

535
00:30:51,400 --> 00:30:53,600
Speaker 3: things happen behind the scenes. I'm not here to confirm

536
00:30:53,680 --> 00:30:55,920
Speaker 3: or did not because I don't know. But if we

537
00:30:56,000 --> 00:30:57,120
Speaker 3: stick to the.

538
00:30:56,880 --> 00:30:59,560
Speaker 2: Show, if we stick to the show, if we just

539
00:30:59,600 --> 00:31:01,760
Speaker 2: stick to the motherfucking show, I'm not.

540
00:31:01,680 --> 00:31:04,960
Speaker 1: Saying and I'm not saying she she don't did not

541
00:31:05,040 --> 00:31:06,720
Speaker 1: do ship behind the scenes because.

542
00:31:06,520 --> 00:31:08,480
Speaker 3: She Let's just stick to the show.

543
00:31:13,080 --> 00:31:17,480
Speaker 2: Girl is some good tv. She's great television.

544
00:31:17,560 --> 00:31:23,000
Speaker 1: She had some one liners, she was dramatic as up fat,

545
00:31:24,040 --> 00:31:28,160
Speaker 1: and she knew how to stir up ship and and

546
00:31:28,200 --> 00:31:30,440
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. And let's be clear, we

547
00:31:30,480 --> 00:31:33,800
Speaker 1: didn't look. I was pissed as hell when she left

548
00:31:33,960 --> 00:31:38,480
Speaker 1: because she she she was paranoying. She was paranoy I

549
00:31:38,520 --> 00:31:42,280
Speaker 1: mean we you know when we fell out because because

550
00:31:42,280 --> 00:31:49,360
Speaker 1: she was, like, you knew about putting your your closet

551
00:31:50,280 --> 00:31:54,360
Speaker 1: as the reunion set. I did.

552
00:31:55,880 --> 00:32:05,800
Speaker 2: Why was she mad at that? Mariah? I love you,

553
00:32:07,800 --> 00:32:08,480
Speaker 2: not be true?

554
00:32:08,680 --> 00:32:11,040
Speaker 1: Trust me, I'm sure it was more than that.

555
00:32:11,360 --> 00:32:13,800
Speaker 2: You know, because she's a producer.

556
00:32:14,720 --> 00:32:18,800
Speaker 3: All right, I forget Mariah created the show. She gets

557
00:32:18,800 --> 00:32:22,680
Speaker 3: an exacutive producer credit. Here comes Toya Bush Harris with

558
00:32:22,880 --> 00:32:25,400
Speaker 3: her two story closet as a set.

559
00:32:25,560 --> 00:32:36,280
Speaker 2: Okay, right, so but let's be clear, I was like, whatever, whatever.

560
00:32:37,600 --> 00:32:41,640
Speaker 3: So you would say, girl, we can talk about that bullshit.

561
00:32:41,720 --> 00:32:44,520
Speaker 2: We we had the word no. That's true too.

562
00:32:45,280 --> 00:32:49,040
Speaker 3: So you would say, Mariah will always be the face

563
00:32:49,040 --> 00:32:49,960
Speaker 3: of Maritime medicine.

564
00:32:50,000 --> 00:32:59,600
Speaker 4: I would say she and I, yes, do you want

565
00:32:59,640 --> 00:33:00,720
Speaker 4: Mariah to come back?

566
00:33:01,320 --> 00:33:03,680
Speaker 1: I think Mariah needs to come check that Indian bitch

567
00:33:03,760 --> 00:33:10,120
Speaker 1: down the street fummy real quick and that bitchy real quick,

568
00:33:10,320 --> 00:33:12,800
Speaker 1: get some get them all away together, get if.

569
00:33:12,800 --> 00:33:13,360
Speaker 2: They just do.

570
00:33:14,840 --> 00:33:17,360
Speaker 3: So you want Quad to check Quad and then leilah,

571
00:33:17,520 --> 00:33:18,960
Speaker 3: so I won't to.

572
00:33:18,960 --> 00:33:22,560
Speaker 1: Check why at the DELA real quick and get them together, fummy,

573
00:33:22,760 --> 00:33:23,080
Speaker 1: I have.

574
00:33:23,280 --> 00:33:24,000
Speaker 2: The rest.

575
00:33:28,000 --> 00:33:31,960
Speaker 3: Before off a Quad. You said earlier that obviously you

576
00:33:32,000 --> 00:33:37,360
Speaker 3: feel like QUA allegedly just lies on you. Qua, okay,

577
00:33:37,440 --> 00:33:41,640
Speaker 3: lies on everybody allegedly. But Quad also brought a live

578
00:33:41,720 --> 00:33:45,880
Speaker 3: detective test results polygraph results to the reunion. You said

579
00:33:45,920 --> 00:33:48,200
Speaker 3: it wasn't a missable in the.

580
00:33:48,120 --> 00:33:52,440
Speaker 2: Catch Did y'all not catch this? The questions were the same,

581
00:33:52,880 --> 00:33:54,800
Speaker 2: and quas.

582
00:33:57,640 --> 00:34:02,680
Speaker 1: First of all, the dude asked, saying questions, Okay, so

583
00:34:05,000 --> 00:34:08,120
Speaker 1: number one, number two, they're not adviscible in court, they're

584
00:34:08,160 --> 00:34:12,759
Speaker 1: only adviscible and Jerry Springer's court. And isn't he right

585
00:34:12,840 --> 00:34:18,480
Speaker 1: now asking God for forgiveness for ruining the black community?

586
00:34:20,960 --> 00:34:21,720
Speaker 2: Why are you planning?

587
00:34:23,239 --> 00:34:23,479
Speaker 4: Now?

588
00:34:24,360 --> 00:34:30,320
Speaker 2: Let's start with these shenanigans on ain't nobody using them tests?

589
00:34:31,560 --> 00:34:35,759
Speaker 3: Would you take a polygraph test to prove whether or

590
00:34:35,840 --> 00:34:39,080
Speaker 3: not QUAD this lead with the contractor?

591
00:34:40,239 --> 00:34:42,880
Speaker 2: You know, honestly, I don't know anything about this contractor.

592
00:34:42,920 --> 00:34:45,440
Speaker 2: Is is he suing her right now? Is?

593
00:34:45,960 --> 00:34:46,120
Speaker 1: Why?

594
00:34:48,320 --> 00:34:50,960
Speaker 2: Why? Why is he allegedly doing that?

595
00:34:51,880 --> 00:34:53,680
Speaker 1: No? He said, did I tell you don't be mentioned

596
00:34:53,680 --> 00:34:54,080
Speaker 1: in my name?

597
00:34:54,160 --> 00:34:58,160
Speaker 3: Bitch? Is there a lawsuit happening?

598
00:34:59,120 --> 00:35:02,920
Speaker 2: That's the text I'll who text you. I can't tell

599
00:35:02,960 --> 00:35:17,359
Speaker 2: you all that is this. This is our court tell

600
00:35:17,400 --> 00:35:23,240
Speaker 2: no lies TV lies. Oh my goshoy.

601
00:35:23,400 --> 00:35:27,239
Speaker 3: Okay, so we will circle back on that at a

602
00:35:27,440 --> 00:35:33,959
Speaker 3: future date. Let's let's talk about Anila. Look, I said

603
00:35:34,000 --> 00:35:37,080
Speaker 3: this publicly. I don't know Anila. I'm not a mean

604
00:35:37,239 --> 00:35:39,279
Speaker 3: spirited person. I don't though she that people don't know.

605
00:35:39,280 --> 00:35:43,680
Speaker 2: I think that's just people saw no followers were going.

606
00:35:47,120 --> 00:35:50,239
Speaker 3: I could have hold that laugh in Okay, Anila.

607
00:35:50,640 --> 00:35:52,080
Speaker 1: A lot of people felt like.

608
00:35:52,200 --> 00:35:59,200
Speaker 3: Aneila was replacing Mariah with the Indian culture that she's

609
00:35:59,400 --> 00:36:04,879
Speaker 3: bringing on the show. However, the difference is we love

610
00:36:04,960 --> 00:36:08,080
Speaker 3: Mayor to medicine because you ladies are real friends and

611
00:36:08,160 --> 00:36:12,080
Speaker 3: have a real friendship group, albeit you know ups and downs,

612
00:36:12,120 --> 00:36:15,040
Speaker 3: but you guys hang out off camera. You guys actually

613
00:36:15,120 --> 00:36:19,640
Speaker 3: talk to each other. She feels like a sore thumb.

614
00:36:20,480 --> 00:36:25,120
Speaker 3: And I know you brought her on as your friend

615
00:36:25,120 --> 00:36:27,879
Speaker 3: because you guys were neighbors. But I also know as

616
00:36:27,920 --> 00:36:33,560
Speaker 3: the king of reality TV. Sometimes producers cast somebody and say, okay, hey,

617
00:36:33,600 --> 00:36:36,040
Speaker 3: cast member, you're going to bring her into be your friend.

618
00:36:36,480 --> 00:36:39,359
Speaker 3: Were you and a Leila real life friends? Or did

619
00:36:39,360 --> 00:36:42,680
Speaker 3: the casting producers find her and say, oh, you guys

620
00:36:42,719 --> 00:36:45,279
Speaker 3: have but to live in the same neighborhood. How about toy,

621
00:36:45,360 --> 00:36:46,920
Speaker 3: you bring her on this show as your friend.

622
00:36:47,120 --> 00:36:50,120
Speaker 2: Okay, So they did not find her. Okay, So I

623
00:36:51,040 --> 00:36:51,719
Speaker 2: and the king of.

624
00:36:51,760 --> 00:36:53,879
Speaker 3: What reality TV?

625
00:36:54,880 --> 00:36:56,160
Speaker 2: So I would have to say.

626
00:36:55,960 --> 00:36:59,600
Speaker 1: I'm the king of the queen of finding people for

627
00:36:59,640 --> 00:37:08,160
Speaker 1: the show. Okay, a record, So you know, really and

628
00:37:08,200 --> 00:37:10,520
Speaker 1: truly I do, you know?

629
00:37:10,719 --> 00:37:13,879
Speaker 2: And and I am friendly. I'm friendly as hell.

630
00:37:14,560 --> 00:37:18,960
Speaker 1: And so what happened was I moved into the neighborhood,

631
00:37:19,760 --> 00:37:24,520
Speaker 1: and really and truly you know, Aniela was building down

632
00:37:24,520 --> 00:37:28,759
Speaker 1: the street. She asked to see my house. Neil was

633
00:37:28,800 --> 00:37:33,719
Speaker 1: her builder. She was nice. She invited me to her

634
00:37:33,760 --> 00:37:36,800
Speaker 1: fortieth birthday or I think it was a fortieth birthday party,

635
00:37:37,680 --> 00:37:39,920
Speaker 1: and I was the only black girl up in the house.

636
00:37:40,360 --> 00:37:45,280
Speaker 2: So I should have known something then, but she claimed even.

637
00:37:45,080 --> 00:37:52,400
Speaker 3: Then, girl, now you enjoyed and pails get out movie

638
00:37:52,400 --> 00:37:54,200
Speaker 3: girl go ahead, says exactly.

639
00:37:55,200 --> 00:37:58,400
Speaker 1: And you know we hit it off there and she

640
00:37:58,600 --> 00:38:01,560
Speaker 1: was cool and we in touch. So every time she

641
00:38:01,600 --> 00:38:03,200
Speaker 1: would come to the neighborhood, to see her a lot

642
00:38:03,360 --> 00:38:06,520
Speaker 1: in her house and everything we stopped bubbling boom, and.

643
00:38:06,480 --> 00:38:07,920
Speaker 2: We would just keep usay to be cool.

644
00:38:08,040 --> 00:38:08,239
Speaker 1: You know.

645
00:38:09,120 --> 00:38:11,640
Speaker 2: And you know, whenever the.

646
00:38:11,640 --> 00:38:14,040
Speaker 1: Show cast, they always ask do you know anybody? And

647
00:38:14,040 --> 00:38:15,959
Speaker 1: I was like, oh yeah, nice little girl down street,

648
00:38:17,360 --> 00:38:20,080
Speaker 1: no biggie, just like right now, girl moves next door.

649
00:38:20,200 --> 00:38:22,879
Speaker 1: I think she'd be greatful though. She's sweet cool right

650
00:38:22,920 --> 00:38:25,680
Speaker 1: now's the boom, you know. So I'm that girl. I'm

651
00:38:25,719 --> 00:38:28,680
Speaker 1: always like, you know, whatever is good for the brand,

652
00:38:29,280 --> 00:38:33,040
Speaker 1: you know, a new face, and I'm always trying to grow,

653
00:38:33,840 --> 00:38:35,239
Speaker 1: you know, married to medicine.

654
00:38:35,239 --> 00:38:36,560
Speaker 2: Why not you know what I'm saying.

655
00:38:36,719 --> 00:38:38,719
Speaker 1: If you got somebody on the show as quiet as

656
00:38:38,719 --> 00:38:40,759
Speaker 1: a mouse, we have a whole reunion and only three

657
00:38:40,800 --> 00:38:43,120
Speaker 1: of us talking, you know what I'm saying, who else?

658
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Speaker 2: Y'all want some other people? What you need? You know

659
00:38:47,200 --> 00:38:50,120
Speaker 2: what I'm saying. We shoot, let's dippy up the pop.

660
00:38:50,400 --> 00:38:56,319
Speaker 1: You know, maybe we can get a spin off in Atlanta, a.

661
00:38:56,400 --> 00:39:00,800
Speaker 2: Very bested to Atlanta. I don't know what ever it takes,

662
00:39:01,080 --> 00:39:08,239
Speaker 2: you know, at this point, but I'll just say, you know,

663
00:39:09,080 --> 00:39:11,600
Speaker 2: we know a lot of people, so you know I

664
00:39:11,680 --> 00:39:12,720
Speaker 2: always refer to people.

665
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Speaker 3: It is do you think at this point she is,

666
00:39:16,719 --> 00:39:18,080
Speaker 3: she's still good for the show.

667
00:39:18,560 --> 00:39:19,279
Speaker 2: I don't, you know.

668
00:39:19,440 --> 00:39:22,400
Speaker 1: I don't like to I don't like to have anyone

669
00:39:22,480 --> 00:39:25,400
Speaker 1: lose their position or their you know, their job. But

670
00:39:25,440 --> 00:39:28,520
Speaker 1: I will say, does she fit? I don't know who

671
00:39:28,560 --> 00:39:31,160
Speaker 1: she's a friend of anymore. I mean I don't speak

672
00:39:31,160 --> 00:39:34,280
Speaker 1: to her at all, you know, in that way anymore,

673
00:39:34,320 --> 00:39:36,480
Speaker 1: because I just don't feel like, like I told her,

674
00:39:36,560 --> 00:39:40,000
Speaker 1: I said, you know, what you've shown me is you

675
00:39:40,040 --> 00:39:42,839
Speaker 1: know when I tried, which I did two seasons ago,

676
00:39:42,880 --> 00:39:44,240
Speaker 1: I said, I'll give you another opportunity.

677
00:39:44,280 --> 00:39:45,359
Speaker 2: Let's let's figure this out.

678
00:39:45,840 --> 00:39:48,760
Speaker 1: Then she came back the next season with lies and

679
00:39:49,000 --> 00:39:51,239
Speaker 1: you know you and you just showed me that basically,

680
00:39:51,400 --> 00:39:55,239
Speaker 1: and she said it herself. We weren't cool, and so

681
00:39:55,320 --> 00:39:57,600
Speaker 1: I said that that that meant, because we weren't talking,

682
00:39:58,560 --> 00:40:01,959
Speaker 1: you would perpetuate a life about me, you know, I said.

683
00:40:01,960 --> 00:40:04,080
Speaker 1: So that shows me and everybody on this cast, as

684
00:40:04,120 --> 00:40:05,840
Speaker 1: long as they're not cool with you, you you have

685
00:40:05,920 --> 00:40:09,080
Speaker 1: no problem with stabbing them in the back and creating lies,

686
00:40:09,200 --> 00:40:10,560
Speaker 1: throwing lives around.

687
00:40:10,200 --> 00:40:12,680
Speaker 2: Here and there. So you're really not here for us.

688
00:40:12,760 --> 00:40:13,760
Speaker 2: You're here for a check.

689
00:40:14,560 --> 00:40:17,239
Speaker 1: And the thing about us is that or some of

690
00:40:17,320 --> 00:40:21,440
Speaker 1: us is that we actually do have relationships and so

691
00:40:21,480 --> 00:40:23,479
Speaker 1: we're not here just for a check.

692
00:40:24,080 --> 00:40:24,319
Speaker 2: You know.

693
00:40:24,480 --> 00:40:27,279
Speaker 1: Now, let's be clear, maybe some of us, some of

694
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Speaker 1: us are you know what I'm saying, Because you know,

695
00:40:31,200 --> 00:40:33,280
Speaker 1: some of us are there, we don't know much about

696
00:40:33,440 --> 00:40:35,640
Speaker 1: what's going on in their life. They'll they'll talk about

697
00:40:35,680 --> 00:40:38,680
Speaker 1: other people's lives on this show, you know what I'm saying,

698
00:40:38,680 --> 00:40:40,919
Speaker 1: But they don't want to show you anything that's really

699
00:40:40,920 --> 00:40:42,000
Speaker 1: going on in their life.

700
00:40:42,360 --> 00:40:44,240
Speaker 2: You know, they don't want to show you they're dating.

701
00:40:44,400 --> 00:40:46,880
Speaker 1: They don't want to show you anything except of what's

702
00:40:46,920 --> 00:40:51,520
Speaker 1: going on in other parts of other people's lives, that's it.

703
00:40:52,160 --> 00:40:55,279
Speaker 2: But what's going on really in their own personal.

704
00:40:56,440 --> 00:41:02,840
Speaker 1: So I would say that for her, I don't really

705
00:41:02,960 --> 00:41:08,320
Speaker 1: see where she fits in the dynamics of the group.

706
00:41:08,800 --> 00:41:10,360
Speaker 2: No, I don't.

707
00:41:12,239 --> 00:41:15,560
Speaker 3: Now, I can't let you go without asking you the

708
00:41:15,600 --> 00:41:20,920
Speaker 3: status of your home, because as the Michigander, we love

709
00:41:21,640 --> 00:41:24,760
Speaker 3: love a nice house, and you literally have the best

710
00:41:24,760 --> 00:41:28,319
Speaker 3: house on Bravo, Like you and charae Chatau to me

711
00:41:28,360 --> 00:41:30,760
Speaker 3: were neck and neck in terms of the most beautiful

712
00:41:30,760 --> 00:41:32,799
Speaker 3: homes on Bravo. I mean, you had a two story

713
00:41:32,840 --> 00:41:36,279
Speaker 3: apartment obviously you sold it made a profit and then

714
00:41:36,320 --> 00:41:42,680
Speaker 3: your girl, my bad, I don't me an apartment.

715
00:41:45,239 --> 00:41:48,440
Speaker 2: Got But you know why you say an apartment because

716
00:41:48,640 --> 00:41:53,959
Speaker 2: in Michigan in an apartment it's not a big deal.

717
00:41:55,840 --> 00:41:57,239
Speaker 2: People say apartment all the time.

718
00:41:58,480 --> 00:42:00,640
Speaker 3: No, I know that's all about you know, by bad,

719
00:42:00,640 --> 00:42:03,200
Speaker 3: I don't want to like you know, basically got a

720
00:42:03,200 --> 00:42:05,879
Speaker 3: part of job. But you you had a house and

721
00:42:06,320 --> 00:42:09,839
Speaker 3: they kept showing that toyas rental home, toyas rental home.

722
00:42:11,280 --> 00:42:18,320
Speaker 3: What you said, what, honey, it's fabulous, You're you're you're fabulous.

723
00:42:18,440 --> 00:42:27,240
Speaker 3: So what's the what's this? What's the status of your home?

724
00:42:27,320 --> 00:42:27,440
Speaker 2: Now?

725
00:42:27,520 --> 00:42:32,360
Speaker 3: Are you in a home that is your dream home

726
00:42:32,719 --> 00:42:35,360
Speaker 3: that you're not renting or are you building?

727
00:42:35,440 --> 00:42:35,680
Speaker 2: What?

728
00:42:35,680 --> 00:42:36,799
Speaker 3: What's the latest with that?

729
00:42:37,040 --> 00:42:39,680
Speaker 1: So we're in a home that most people would die for,

730
00:42:42,120 --> 00:42:46,719
Speaker 1: let's be clear. But we built a lot that most

731
00:42:46,760 --> 00:42:55,040
Speaker 1: people would love to buy but can't afford. And it's beautiful.

732
00:42:55,120 --> 00:42:58,080
Speaker 1: It has a lake view, golf view, gated community.

733
00:42:58,719 --> 00:43:00,080
Speaker 2: Love it.

734
00:43:00,160 --> 00:43:06,320
Speaker 1: But the problem is right now, building is so hard because.

735
00:43:06,080 --> 00:43:07,480
Speaker 2: Everything's on the back quarter.

736
00:43:11,200 --> 00:43:15,200
Speaker 1: When I say it's it's a so you pick out

737
00:43:15,239 --> 00:43:20,719
Speaker 1: everything and literally it has been on back order for.

738
00:43:20,640 --> 00:43:22,760
Speaker 2: Eight years, you can't get anything.

739
00:43:24,040 --> 00:43:28,560
Speaker 1: And so the banks are like, you're telling them that

740
00:43:28,600 --> 00:43:29,920
Speaker 1: you're gonna be done in a year and a half,

741
00:43:29,960 --> 00:43:31,960
Speaker 1: but your stuff on.

742
00:43:31,920 --> 00:43:33,400
Speaker 2: Back order for a year and a half.

743
00:43:36,040 --> 00:43:42,160
Speaker 3: Lies you tell us, lie, So how long do you

744
00:43:42,200 --> 00:43:45,640
Speaker 3: think it'll take until your dream home is built?

745
00:43:45,920 --> 00:43:49,120
Speaker 1: So they're like, you know, right now it's taking most

746
00:43:49,200 --> 00:43:52,040
Speaker 1: people what normally would take a year and a half

747
00:43:52,080 --> 00:43:54,680
Speaker 1: to two years to build, it is taking almost two

748
00:43:54,719 --> 00:43:56,120
Speaker 1: and a half to three years to build.

749
00:43:56,480 --> 00:44:00,400
Speaker 2: And maybe my kids will be in height school.

750
00:44:01,440 --> 00:44:03,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, my babies would be in high school.

751
00:44:03,360 --> 00:44:07,319
Speaker 2: Oh God, to say that, it's crazy. So I was

752
00:44:07,360 --> 00:44:09,600
Speaker 2: talking to Eugene. I was like, we could do one

753
00:44:09,680 --> 00:44:10,320
Speaker 2: or two things.

754
00:44:10,360 --> 00:44:14,080
Speaker 1: We could just go ahead and buy a house, you know,

755
00:44:14,840 --> 00:44:19,560
Speaker 1: and rehab it real quick, you know, but even then

756
00:44:19,600 --> 00:44:21,200
Speaker 1: that's gonna take a minute. I was like, or we

757
00:44:21,239 --> 00:44:23,839
Speaker 1: could just buy something that we really, really like. So

758
00:44:23,880 --> 00:44:26,239
Speaker 1: we're kind of at that phase that right now, we're

759
00:44:26,320 --> 00:44:27,840
Speaker 1: looking to see because the market.

760
00:44:27,640 --> 00:44:29,440
Speaker 2: Is about to change. I do know that you're not

761
00:44:29,480 --> 00:44:31,239
Speaker 2: following the market. That's what I do.

762
00:44:31,719 --> 00:44:34,560
Speaker 1: So you know, I know as of January some things

763
00:44:34,600 --> 00:44:37,200
Speaker 1: are gonna change. So we'll see, you know, we'll see

764
00:44:37,239 --> 00:44:39,680
Speaker 1: what's out there. We're comfortable, you know, right now, So

765
00:44:39,719 --> 00:44:41,680
Speaker 1: I'm not tripping. I just know I got to get

766
00:44:41,719 --> 00:44:44,720
Speaker 1: closer to my son's school, baby, because honey.

767
00:44:44,800 --> 00:44:46,080
Speaker 2: My son is on the swim team.

768
00:44:46,520 --> 00:44:49,000
Speaker 1: So I've been driving back from his school.

769
00:44:50,680 --> 00:44:51,640
Speaker 2: Eight thirty at night.

770
00:44:54,000 --> 00:44:58,560
Speaker 1: That that drive has been like mm hmm when I say,

771
00:44:58,640 --> 00:45:02,680
Speaker 1: I've been coming home talking about I need to go outside,

772
00:45:02,840 --> 00:45:03,600
Speaker 1: spend some time.

773
00:45:04,160 --> 00:45:06,359
Speaker 3: Me or your Jean come in here and stick that

774
00:45:06,400 --> 00:45:08,640
Speaker 3: thing and me. Honey, Yeah, the.

775
00:45:08,760 --> 00:45:12,040
Speaker 2: Lady down need him, Me and the rth.

776
00:45:15,800 --> 00:45:19,160
Speaker 3: Toya, I you know, listen, you know I love you.

777
00:45:19,239 --> 00:45:22,200
Speaker 3: I'm a big fan of yours. I'm so happy that

778
00:45:22,320 --> 00:45:25,399
Speaker 3: you finally bless your presence on Reality with the King.

779
00:45:25,800 --> 00:45:29,239
Speaker 3: I have been waiting months to get you on the podcast,

780
00:45:29,719 --> 00:45:34,400
Speaker 3: and I'm so happy that my Detroit's sister decided to

781
00:45:34,520 --> 00:45:37,319
Speaker 3: join me. Let the girls know Toy where they can

782
00:45:37,360 --> 00:45:39,279
Speaker 3: follow you, support you all those great things.

783
00:45:39,280 --> 00:45:41,719
Speaker 1: Okay, First of all, I need y'all support on my

784
00:45:41,920 --> 00:45:45,759
Speaker 1: wine club. Yes, so y'all know I have joined forces

785
00:45:45,800 --> 00:45:50,240
Speaker 1: with your wine store and need your wine store. Kendall Jackson,

786
00:45:50,280 --> 00:45:52,920
Speaker 1: we are doing the thing. So hopefully this season, not

787
00:45:53,000 --> 00:45:56,919
Speaker 1: hopefully this season on Mary to medicine. I mean, y'all

788
00:45:56,920 --> 00:46:00,120
Speaker 1: are going to see so many big things happening for Toy.

789
00:46:00,320 --> 00:46:03,040
Speaker 1: I mean with a lirium, the skincare line y'all have,

790
00:46:03,480 --> 00:46:06,400
Speaker 1: that's already been out there, but that's growing as well.

791
00:46:06,440 --> 00:46:09,359
Speaker 1: But your wine store and me, we are doing the thing.

792
00:46:09,560 --> 00:46:12,319
Speaker 1: So y'all going to see this huge development. As far

793
00:46:12,360 --> 00:46:14,920
Speaker 1: as the wine club, so check me out. That's on

794
00:46:15,040 --> 00:46:18,400
Speaker 1: all of my pages from my Twitter Toya bush Shairs,

795
00:46:18,719 --> 00:46:21,560
Speaker 1: as well as my Instagram Toya bush Hares, as well

796
00:46:21,600 --> 00:46:24,560
Speaker 1: as my Facebook page. You can definitely go on there

797
00:46:24,560 --> 00:46:26,920
Speaker 1: and check that out. But the wine club is amazing.

798
00:46:27,000 --> 00:46:30,600
Speaker 1: It comes and this amazing box that has so much

799
00:46:30,800 --> 00:46:31,680
Speaker 1: y'all got to look at it.

800
00:46:32,239 --> 00:46:34,239
Speaker 2: I'm to send it to you. I'm going to gift you.

801
00:46:34,800 --> 00:46:37,160
Speaker 3: Send it to me so I can show it and

802
00:46:37,200 --> 00:46:39,200
Speaker 3: bring it on my late night talk show, The night Cap,

803
00:46:39,239 --> 00:46:41,440
Speaker 3: and have it as part of my sad Huntie.

804
00:46:41,480 --> 00:46:43,080
Speaker 2: Okay, I'm going to givet you. I'm going to give you.

805
00:46:43,160 --> 00:46:47,200
Speaker 3: Okay, well, thank you and this was a gift. So

806
00:46:47,320 --> 00:46:53,600
Speaker 3: thank you, Toya. I love you. Come all, ray Drop.

807
00:46:53,760 --> 00:46:57,200
Speaker 3: I really hope y'all enjoyed this conversation with Toya. What

808
00:46:57,320 --> 00:47:00,600
Speaker 3: a fun, shady way to start off the year twenty

809
00:47:00,880 --> 00:47:07,759
Speaker 3: twenty three with Miss Toya and her reads. I love

810
00:47:07,760 --> 00:47:14,520
Speaker 3: her so much, Yes, Yes, and more Yes. Thank you

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