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Speaker 2: So op, the sister evicted the brother.

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Speaker 3: Okay, but the brother did something way worse apparently Okay,

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Speaker 3: So I think the brother probably evicted her in retaliation

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Speaker 1: Honestly, like you would really have to do something like

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Speaker 1: I'm twenty six, am I now ex fiance, Hunter is twenty.

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Speaker 3: snooped through his phone and found out that he was gay. Hmmm, God,

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Speaker 3: but if you're looking at his gay stuff, does that

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Speaker 1: I mean they say, they say that a lot of

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Speaker 3: Not only are they gay because of that, but they

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Speaker 3: This is they say, if we watch gay porn twice,

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Speaker 2: Hey there's a reason you're coming back, and it's probably

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Speaker 3: Yeah that's why. Yeah, that's why. That's why.

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Speaker 3: We should get like back chairs sweaking like this. Also

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Speaker 1: The one thing that does is it we rock around

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Speaker 1: well kind of games. The games were you drank naked Twister,

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Speaker 1: I said, I love naked Twister, and now I am

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Speaker 2: Yeah, because do you love naked Twister?

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Speaker 3: You liar?

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Speaker 1: Ten bro ten of Sam's Sweaty Friends. I'm like, I'm

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Speaker 3: He's joking.

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Speaker 2: I'm just just a joke, babe, Just a joke, babe.

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Speaker 1: I've only watched My fiance Hunter and I were about

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Speaker 3: I mean, I think most people should be against cheating.

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Speaker 1: And unfortunately, as a lot of dumb, immature seventeen year

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Speaker 2: You know, men need four hugs a day.

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Speaker 2: That's a lot of hugs, dude, three of which need

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Speaker 2: Done, it's over. Engaged.

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Speaker 1: I mean it's pretty it's pretty rough. He begged me

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Speaker 2: Oh, I'm not gonna think about him not a viction.

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Speaker 2: Oh yes, back to the episode.

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Speaker 1: Now I can understand that Op's like brain is like

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Speaker 1: Brain is clouded. It's absolutely completely ft. But I truly

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Speaker 2: No brothers. It's not his thought that she kept this

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Speaker 3: Th I mean, I think it is a lot to

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Speaker 2: Ideally you're not living a double life.

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Speaker 3: Yeah. Ever, and even in small ways like my for

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Speaker 3: I should have like like just listened for more context. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Like it's like like do you really like, are

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Speaker 2: That quick over something like that and you know what

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Speaker 3: Actually there was the story we did with the girl

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Speaker 3: People are crazy also really quick. Back to the patient story, Yes,

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Speaker 2: Yes, I know the people you're talking about.

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Speaker 3: The dad was like her dad was like, I'm gonna

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Speaker 2: It wasn't even a tent. It was outside the tent.

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Speaker 3: but that was crazy. The main thing was that we're camping,

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Speaker 1: So though I was, wow, what what what an elaborate

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Speaker 2: Just display what an evil mastermind?

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Speaker 3: But no, it was so I can only imagine if

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Speaker 3: why I have honest to you guys. Wow, anyone's still

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Speaker 3: listening to this god forsaken tale, I appreciate you. And

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Speaker 3: if you see me in the street, keep the ship

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Speaker 3: to yourself. Don't yell, don't yell, say say hi. Don't

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Speaker 3: be a connor. Don't be a connor. Don't be a connor.

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Speaker 3: Because this is the little family can now, a little

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Speaker 3: keep it in the family. Arianna recently found out that

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Speaker 2: Other people's lives. Yeah, I didn't know you.

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Speaker 1: That's right, Yes, it's all a secret plot. Yeah, we

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Speaker 1: burned years year zero. One more sentence for lessen. My

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Speaker 1: Now she's dying and wants me to adopt the kid. Okay, op,

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Speaker 1: Wow, thank you so much, welcome. My girlfriend broke up

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Speaker 3: That is a roller coaster, but I want to strap

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Speaker 2: Not a situation I would want to be in.

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Speaker 3: No, but I want to hear about it and live

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Speaker 3: vicariously through others pain.

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Speaker 1: I thirty one m met my ex girlfriend twenty nine

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Speaker 1: female on a dating app around seven years ago. She

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Speaker 1: had a son just six months. All the time she

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Speaker 1: was with multiple guys and ended up pregnant, still not

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Speaker 1: knowing who the biological father is.

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Speaker 2: Ooh big oo ouch.

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Speaker 1: But it wasn't that much of an issue to me

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Speaker 1: because she seemed like a great person and we had

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Speaker 1: a lot in common. After a few weeks of chatting

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Speaker 1: and talking online, we went on a first date and

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Speaker 1: had a great time. After that, we just started hanging

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Speaker 1: out whenever she could, and shortly after she introduced me

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Speaker 1: to her son. A few months into our relationship, we

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Speaker 1: moved in together to save money.

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Speaker 3: Dude, you shoul it move in with someone to save

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Speaker 3: money if it's a romantic partner, because that's when things

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Speaker 3: can go.

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Speaker 2: Buy it and a few months like that's not a

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Speaker 2: lot of time.

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Speaker 1: I started helping take care of her child whenever I could,

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Speaker 1: and we really grew fond of each other, and he

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Speaker 1: even started calling me Papa, and we just went along

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Speaker 1: with it since my girlfriend didn't mind. Now, almost five

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Speaker 1: years into our relationship, she told me that she wants

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Speaker 1: to break up with me because I became boring and

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Speaker 1: not an active person like I used to be.

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Speaker 3: That hurts man, not even like, yeah, you know, I

469
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Speaker 3: think our lives are just going in different directions, like

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Speaker 3: you're boring and you're fat and ugly, and I at too.

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Speaker 1: We used to go on hikes and travel around the

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Speaker 1: country on weekends, so I obviously don't do that much anymore.

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Speaker 1: And she also said I work too much, you know,

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Speaker 1: the cherry on.

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Speaker 2: The cake, damn, trying to provide for the family.

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Speaker 1: It was a rough time after that, and I had

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Speaker 1: a hard time accepting it, although not as hard as

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Speaker 1: explaining to a five year old that he'll no longer

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Speaker 1: be his popble oh bro. But I managed to get

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Speaker 1: over it in a few months. I found a better

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Speaker 1: job that allowed me to work remotely, and I had

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Speaker 1: a lot of free time, so I actually ended up

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Speaker 1: exploring a few other countries.

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Speaker 3: Sick, Sometimes you gotta drop the baggage to become a

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Speaker 3: free man.

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Speaker 2: Don't check it in, just put it on. Carry on.

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Speaker 3: Now.

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Speaker 1: A few days ago, I got a call from my ex.

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Speaker 1: So you know time is passed, okay. She said that

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Speaker 1: she is sick and in the hospital. She removed one

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Speaker 1: of the tumors in her breast, but recently found another

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Speaker 1: tumor in her other breast and she will need that

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Speaker 1: removed as well. So like this is this is serious,

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Speaker 1: serious stuff right here. Yeah, she is scared.

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Speaker 2: That she might die if it doesn't work out.

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Speaker 1: Oh no, asked me if i'd be willing to become

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Speaker 1: her son's legal guardian and adopt him, since she has

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Speaker 1: no one else to ask.

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Speaker 2: Frick dude, that is such a tough ask.

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Speaker 1: Now, as mentioned, I live a different lifestyle now, he's

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Speaker 1: no longer boring because of her.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, he ain't got the time.

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Speaker 1: I travel a lot, I invest in myself, So I

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Speaker 1: told her that I can't do that. She told me

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Speaker 1: that her son misses me and would love to see me,

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Speaker 1: but I said no again, And after I said no again,

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Speaker 1: she started crying, calling me names before just ending the call. Now,

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Speaker 1: I talked to my sister and my parents about this,

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Speaker 1: and they told me that it's an effed up thing

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Speaker 1: to refuse after all those years that we spent together.

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Speaker 2: I feel like trash now.

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Speaker 1: So the question is, am I the a hole for

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Speaker 1: not wanting to adopt my dying ex girlfriend's child?

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Speaker 3: Oh dude, frick like, dude, this is so tough. I

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Speaker 3: don't think he's an a hole for saying no. I mean,

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Speaker 3: it's like it's not his problem necessarily. It's definitely not

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Speaker 3: the nicest thing he could do. Like the nicest thing

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Speaker 3: he could do would be to adopt his ex girlfriend.

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Speaker 3: He's dying ex girlfriend's kid, but like it's not his responsibility, right,

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Speaker 3: Like he's not related by blood. He dated this girl

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Speaker 3: for a couple of years, and you know, the girl

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Speaker 3: had a kid, but that doesn't mean that it's suddenly

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Speaker 3: his kid.

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Speaker 2: And also the girl broke up with him exactly.

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Speaker 1: Actually, there, there was an interesting comment that I pulled

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Speaker 1: in that in that regard. So this is from unpopular Kryptonite.

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Speaker 1: Great handle there.

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Speaker 3: Oh I actually got some kryptonite right here. Uh oh bye,

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Speaker 3: yeah that is right there. I've been crystaled. I'm a

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Speaker 3: crystal boy.

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Speaker 1: Now you do Crystal saying sports sports Crystal, sport boys.

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Speaker 3: So on.

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Speaker 1: Popular Kryptonite says not the ahole, don't do it. The

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Speaker 1: kid doesn't remember you, it's been two years. She can

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Speaker 1: ask one of the more interesting excess to adopt her.

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Speaker 4: Since you were so boring, baby, Yeah, yeah, I totally

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Speaker 4: forgot how mean she was when she broke up with her.

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Speaker 3: Exactly. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: That's the thing is like she's like, you're so boring.

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Speaker 1: Like I ask one if your more savage super savage?

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I mean in the end, although really quick.

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Speaker 3: I don't like, if you want an empathetic answer, the

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Speaker 3: reddit comments are the worst place.

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Speaker 2: If you want to go there for the empathy.

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Speaker 3: Like you're you're not Like, if you want to become

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Speaker 3: a better person, just just don't take the advice of

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Speaker 3: reddit comments. Reddit comments are like that that girl is

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Speaker 3: you know, crazy or she's a complete b. But you know,

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Speaker 3: we were out here trying to be mother Teresa. We're

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Speaker 3: so you know, we're trying to be better humans. I

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Speaker 3: have a little sugar to your side, you know what

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Speaker 3: I mean? Like I had an ex girlfriend of like

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Speaker 3: three years. She has a couple of sisters, or like

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Speaker 3: like what no I have a four or five years ago.

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Speaker 2: Like you dated her for four or five years.

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Speaker 3: I did her for two years and it ended like

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Speaker 3: four or five years ago. It if she suddenly said, Sam,

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Speaker 3: I'm dying, can you adopt my sister?

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Speaker 2: I would be like, bro, you broke up with me?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's I don't. I don't think I'm like, uh no,

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Speaker 3: I you know that I've moved on. I'm living my life.

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Speaker 3: I got other things to worry about. I think.

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Speaker 1: I think that's like basically, if you break up with someone,

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Speaker 1: it's an opt out for their family essentially, Like you're

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Speaker 1: basically saying like I don't want you in my life, Like, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I don't want you. I don't want you in my

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Speaker 1: life or go in my family's life.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, And you can't just like say like hey, you know,

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Speaker 3: like whenever you when you need something for someone else,

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00:27:32,960 --> 00:27:34,560
Speaker 3: you're in your family, just like hey, like I need

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Speaker 3: your help. Like that's not how it works. No, No,

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Speaker 3: if like Op really wanted to, that's fine. But yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 3: Like I think it's okay for her to ask, that's

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Speaker 3: a fair yeah, But I don't think it's Op's responsibility.

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Speaker 2: To say yes yes or to guilt trip him.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, but you know what, it is okay to

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Speaker 3: guilt trip you.

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