WEBVTT - Telling All From Colton’s Wedding

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<v Speaker 1>This is the most traumatic podcast ever and iHeartRadio podcast.

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<v Speaker 1>Chris Harrison and Lauren Zema coming to you from the

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<v Speaker 1>home office in Austin, Texas. If we sound just a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit under the weather today, well we'll explain why

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<v Speaker 1>in just a minute. It has to do with where

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<v Speaker 1>we just were, and that was Napa Baby, we were

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<v Speaker 1>in Napa Valley, but for a very very beautiful reason.

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<v Speaker 1>We were at the wedding of Colton Underwood. Coulton and

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<v Speaker 1>Jordan got married this weekend in Napa Valley. We were

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<v Speaker 1>honored to be there to support them and celebrate and dance.

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<v Speaker 2>Baby, you danced so much, so much. That's one thing

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<v Speaker 2>I love about you. I don't care if you're a

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<v Speaker 2>bad dancer, but you got to dance at a wedding,

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<v Speaker 2>and I can't be with someone who doesn't dance, and

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<v Speaker 2>you do. By the way, I wasn't saying you're a

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<v Speaker 2>bad dancer.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh you can.

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<v Speaker 2>You can tell us say that you're a good dancer.

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<v Speaker 2>You actually in the past, his daughter Taylor, who was

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<v Speaker 2>a dancer in school. Sometimes for projects she would have

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<v Speaker 2>to like choreograph and rehearse, and Chris would rehearse with

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<v Speaker 2>Taylor and you crushed it. You can memorize your routine.

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<v Speaker 1>Dance like nobody's watching. Actually I dance like everybody's watching.

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<v Speaker 1>Bring it on. And it was a phenomenal wedding. We

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<v Speaker 1>were really really honored to be there just to celebrate

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<v Speaker 1>Colton and his love with Jordan, who we had never met.

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<v Speaker 2>I think one of my favorite parts of the wedding

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<v Speaker 2>was feeling like we got to see this window into

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<v Speaker 2>Colton and Jordan's relationship. We'd heard such great things about Jordan,

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<v Speaker 2>but to be able to hear their vows, to see

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<v Speaker 2>friends and family give toasts about them, we learned a

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<v Speaker 2>lot more. And that's one thing I love about going

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<v Speaker 2>to a wedding, especially when, like the toasts are really

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<v Speaker 2>heartfelt and emotional, and you know you can't go to

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<v Speaker 2>inside jokey with a toast because then you lose your crowd.

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<v Speaker 1>That's a tip one guy did. We'll explain later.

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<v Speaker 3>No we won't rat him out, No, he did his best.

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<v Speaker 2>But when you can share a little bit, it makes

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<v Speaker 2>the guests feel like, Okay, I know them better now.

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<v Speaker 3>And I walked away from the weekend feeling that way.

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<v Speaker 1>It was important for me to be there to support Coulton.

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<v Speaker 1>This is something a journey I hate to say from

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<v Speaker 1>the show, this journey that he and I had been

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<v Speaker 1>on and gotten to know each other and become friends

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<v Speaker 1>obviously when he was the Bachelor, and then so much

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<v Speaker 1>has been talked about made of everything that happened subsequently

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<v Speaker 1>and his coming out. I'll never forget, you know, him

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<v Speaker 1>taking me to breakfast and us sitting down, him coming

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<v Speaker 1>out to me, going through this journey with him which

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<v Speaker 1>was not perfect and incredibly painful and difficult for him,

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<v Speaker 1>difficult for a lot of people, and to watch him

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<v Speaker 1>grow and own who he was and is, and then

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<v Speaker 1>to find joy and love and to be embraced by

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<v Speaker 1>his family and friends. When he asked us to be there,

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<v Speaker 1>it was important for me to be there and support

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<v Speaker 1>him and show him that love and that I have

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<v Speaker 1>been on this full circle journey with him and it's

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<v Speaker 1>amazing that he got to this point where he is.

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<v Speaker 2>I was very touched to have been invited, especially when

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<v Speaker 2>I found out we were the only ones from Bachelor

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<v Speaker 2>Nation there. What really made my heart happy over the

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<v Speaker 2>weekend was and I was surprised to how many people

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<v Speaker 2>came up to You just guessed at the wedding or

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<v Speaker 2>you know, friends and family and talked about like the season.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, they kind of went back to Colton's season

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<v Speaker 2>on the show, and what several people said was, well,

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<v Speaker 2>Colton always talked about how you Chris were there for

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<v Speaker 2>him during that season when nobody else was, and that

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<v Speaker 2>is your partner. Just made me so happy to hear

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<v Speaker 2>because you know, like anybody you love in your life,

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<v Speaker 2>when when you hear other people talk them up, it

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<v Speaker 2>makes you feel good. And so everybody kept saying that

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<v Speaker 2>to you, and I don't think I really realized that

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<v Speaker 2>the depth of how much that was felt that they

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<v Speaker 2>said you were the one, like through the fence jumping

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<v Speaker 2>all that. Colton said, well, Chris was there for me

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<v Speaker 2>when maybe producers or other people weren't.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't talk about this with you. I was a

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<v Speaker 1>little nervous entering that arena, going to the wedding. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>So we got to NAPA and the first night, Friday night,

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<v Speaker 1>there was this kind of get together at the Carneros

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<v Speaker 1>spawn resort where we were.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, a welcome party. Carnerosen beautiful property and.

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<v Speaker 1>So everybody was kind of together at this resort. They

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<v Speaker 1>had the entire resort in lockdown. It was wonderful that

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<v Speaker 1>we had the whole place to ourselves, and so they

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<v Speaker 1>had this kind of yard barbecue festival thing and wine

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<v Speaker 1>and drinks and all that little get together. I was

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<v Speaker 1>a little nervous when I walked in. I wasn't sure

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<v Speaker 1>how I would be accepted. I was a little worried

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<v Speaker 1>that people might have a negative connotation associated with me

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<v Speaker 1>and the show and Coulton's time on the show, and

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<v Speaker 1>that was a very difficult part of his life, and

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<v Speaker 1>I thought, am I an example of that? And I

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<v Speaker 1>was a little worried that people would be a little

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<v Speaker 1>stand offish or maybe even make some snide com instead,

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<v Speaker 1>as you just said, it was the opposite. And we

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<v Speaker 1>walked in and we got really lucky because we walked

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<v Speaker 1>in and Colton and Jordan happened to be standing right there.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, I think they were greeting everyone.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, they've been walking around, I saw, and then when

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<v Speaker 1>we walked in, they just kind of walked up and

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<v Speaker 1>Colton saw us, and I just I saw the look

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<v Speaker 1>on his face and he kind of melted and got

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<v Speaker 1>emotional that we were there, and he just gave me

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<v Speaker 1>a huge hug, and he looked fantastic, as he always does,

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<v Speaker 1>ridiculously handsome and fit, and he immediately grabbed his fiance

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<v Speaker 1>Jordan and brought Jordan over. Because I had never met Jordan.

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<v Speaker 1>I've heard so much about him, and Colton's talked about him,

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<v Speaker 1>but until you meet him, and he is just this warm, charismatic,

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<v Speaker 1>just loving, caring person. And we'll talk more about him.

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<v Speaker 1>But it was fantastic, and he just gave me a

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<v Speaker 1>big hug, and I could tell this is going to

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<v Speaker 1>be a great event.

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<v Speaker 2>It's funny you say that, because a little part of

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<v Speaker 2>me was wondering about that too. I think it's always

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<v Speaker 2>weird for anybody when you don't know anyone else at

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<v Speaker 2>a wedding. I mean, we didn't know anybody.

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<v Speaker 1>Nobody we knew.

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<v Speaker 2>We had met Colton's mom once years ago, Lovely Donna,

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<v Speaker 2>big shout out. She and I did take a shot

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<v Speaker 2>together with his uncle as will. I love her, but

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<v Speaker 2>we'd met her once, you know. I think she and

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<v Speaker 2>I follow each other on Instagram, but we hadn't. We

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<v Speaker 2>didn't know anybody else, but I mean everyone was so

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<v Speaker 2>warm and so loving. Colton's whole family is from Illinois,

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<v Speaker 2>so am I. So you know, Midwest is the best.

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<v Speaker 2>Connecting with the people was.

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<v Speaker 3>A lot of Chicago energy.

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<v Speaker 2>But yeah, I was a little I didn't know that

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<v Speaker 2>either because mostly because I didn't know Jordan's whole crowd

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<v Speaker 2>and you know how they might feel about the show

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<v Speaker 2>and its whole energy.

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<v Speaker 3>But everybody was so excited to meet you.

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<v Speaker 2>I have to applaud everybody was so excited to meet you.

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<v Speaker 3>I just had the best things.

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<v Speaker 2>Jordan was like, Colton raves about you guys, and I'm

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<v Speaker 2>so happy to meet you.

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<v Speaker 3>So everybody was really laid the groundwork.

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<v Speaker 1>As you said, Colton definitely laid the groundwork of the

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<v Speaker 1>way he has spoken about me to all his family.

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<v Speaker 1>So it was just open arms. And then there was

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<v Speaker 1>Jordan's friends, who again very rare that Elsie and I

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<v Speaker 1>walk into a wedding, or you'll even go to a

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<v Speaker 1>wedding where you know nobody. We knew the groom, one

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<v Speaker 1>of the grooms, we didn't even know the other groom,

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<v Speaker 1>but we showed up to support him, and quickly we

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<v Speaker 1>realized that Jordan is a collector of people. He has

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<v Speaker 1>a fierce loyal group of friends. He's one of those

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<v Speaker 1>people that everybody at the wedding feels like they are

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<v Speaker 1>Jordan's best friend and have known him the best and

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<v Speaker 1>the longest. And I love that about people, when you

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<v Speaker 1>meet humans like that. And so everybody we talked to,

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<v Speaker 1>and predominantly, probably the majority of people just knew Jordan

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<v Speaker 1>and Colton's family traveled in and all that, but I

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<v Speaker 1>think Jordan probably had more people at the wedding, and

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<v Speaker 1>they all just loved and adored him.

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<v Speaker 2>Every single person was like, I'm Jordan's friend from high school.

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<v Speaker 2>I owned him for ten years, I was his roommate,

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<v Speaker 2>I lived with him in college. And that's such a

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<v Speaker 2>reflection of someone when they have long friendships in their lives,

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<v Speaker 2>like you said, when they are just somebody who you

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<v Speaker 2>can tell that's a good person because people stick with them.

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<v Speaker 1>We also quickly realized he is the chandler being of

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<v Speaker 1>this relationship. Nobody really knows what he does for a living.

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<v Speaker 1>It was great.

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<v Speaker 2>A trans political monster, No, I think what we're defining

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<v Speaker 2>it as. I actually asked a few people and we

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<v Speaker 2>were all kind of lovingly laughing and saying, it's hard

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<v Speaker 2>to describe. I would say political strategist, yes, because there

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<v Speaker 2>was even a joke about that by the officiant in

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<v Speaker 2>the ceremony.

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<v Speaker 1>Did not officiate this winning I got asked that by

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of people. I did not.

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<v Speaker 3>Are you officiating?

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<v Speaker 1>Yes? And when I was there like, oh, you're officiating,

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<v Speaker 1>and I did not. Coulton just wanted us to be

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<v Speaker 1>there to enjoy, which I really respected. I would have

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<v Speaker 1>totally stood before them. But they had a friend, kind

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<v Speaker 1>of a mutual friend of Jordan's and Coulton's who did

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<v Speaker 1>the ceremony, and it was he did a phenomenal job.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, And he came up to you afterwards. I know

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<v Speaker 2>you guys had this cute conversation. He was so sweet,

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<v Speaker 2>but I loved the one of his opening lines was

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<v Speaker 2>he was so honored to be asked to officiate. And

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<v Speaker 2>again going back to the political Stris had a strategist thing,

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<v Speaker 2>he said, because Jordan could have asked Barack Obama and Colton.

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<v Speaker 3>Could have asked Chris Harrison. So it was a funny

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<v Speaker 3>opening line.

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<v Speaker 1>Absolutely, the only time that I'll ever be in the

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<v Speaker 1>same sentence with Barack Obama was at Colton and Jordan's wedding.

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<v Speaker 3>Are you not running for president?

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<v Speaker 1>I thought? The only one that's not. I think I

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<v Speaker 1>would probably do a better job than both of them.

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<v Speaker 1>But it was it really was funny, and it got

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<v Speaker 1>a good laugh and it kind of took the tension

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<v Speaker 1>out of the room. And it was funny, and he

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<v Speaker 1>did a phenomenal job. And this is someone who had

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<v Speaker 1>known Jordan for quite some time and had gone through

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<v Speaker 1>the coming out process with Jordan and then subsequently met

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<v Speaker 1>Colton and went through the process with him. So this

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<v Speaker 1>person who officiated really shared this journey and fit the

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<v Speaker 1>mold perfectly and kind of told this arcing story and

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<v Speaker 1>it was really beautiful. But we go back to the

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<v Speaker 1>welcome party on Friday night, yes, and we've gotten to

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<v Speaker 1>know everybody. We're having a blast. It's really a good time.

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<v Speaker 1>Everybody's relaxed. And then come the speeches. So the kind

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<v Speaker 1>of informal toasts, if you will, the gentleman hosting kind

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<v Speaker 1>of m seeing the toast. If he's not if he's

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<v Speaker 1>not a stand up guy or a professional writer, he

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<v Speaker 1>should be. The guy was magnificent.

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<v Speaker 2>And so I mean, look, I think it's hard also

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<v Speaker 2>to not go to a wedding and think about our

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<v Speaker 2>own and think.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, let's do this.

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<v Speaker 2>But they did something that I told my sister to

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<v Speaker 2>do at her wedding last year, and it was awesome.

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<v Speaker 2>And I love when people do this, which is have

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<v Speaker 2>a couple fun toasts at your welcome party or rehearsal

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<v Speaker 2>dinner on the night before.

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<v Speaker 3>I think it makes people feel together right away. Again.

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<v Speaker 2>It gives you that window into the couple and kind

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<v Speaker 2>of helps you know some of the other people in

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<v Speaker 2>the room instead of just kind of mingling and making

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<v Speaker 2>small talk. And it gives you, honestly something to talk about,

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<v Speaker 2>because if you don't know someone, you can at least say,

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<v Speaker 2>how about that toast?

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<v Speaker 3>What a great toast?

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<v Speaker 1>Or what a horrible toast? But the lead hitter just

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<v Speaker 1>crushed it, and I mean on a professional level. He

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<v Speaker 1>made jokes that were so poignant, so perfect. He didn't

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<v Speaker 1>get too personal, he didn't go too inside baseball.

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<v Speaker 3>He was a little Hollywood too, which was funny.

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<v Speaker 2>I think one of his funniest jokes was he said, so,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not going to quote him properly, but I'm paraphrasing

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<v Speaker 2>something like, well, you know, we're all going to take

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<v Speaker 2>some shots tonight, and by shots I mean of ozempic

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<v Speaker 2>Well and that.

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<v Speaker 1>The Megan Markle line was fantastic, he.

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<v Speaker 2>Did say at the end, and I think I have

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<v Speaker 2>this memorized. His closing line was, in the words a

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<v Speaker 2>future Nobel Prize winner Megan Markle, if we can all

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<v Speaker 2>treat each other like our best friends, like can you

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<v Speaker 2>even imagine?

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<v Speaker 1>It was so good. So the next guy that steps

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<v Speaker 1>up to the mic his Coulton's old foot coach Spence.

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<v Speaker 2>Coach Spence, we were not disappointed.

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<v Speaker 3>There was no need to worry.

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<v Speaker 1>There was a second of trepidation, a second of fear

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<v Speaker 1>of oh no, and he crushed.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, I will say, you know, I am about sports,

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<v Speaker 2>but a coach, I'm thinking, has got to be a

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<v Speaker 2>good public speaker. He's talking to the team every night.

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<v Speaker 2>I know that much. You know, I might say, it's

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<v Speaker 2>like a director of a play. Okay, So coach Spence

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<v Speaker 2>crushes it. And again, I'm a Chicago girl. The second

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<v Speaker 2>he got up there, he's kind of talking like this.

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<v Speaker 3>And I'm like, oh, this is a Chicago guy. This

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<v Speaker 3>is an Illinois guy. And he was so genuine.

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<v Speaker 2>And what I loved was that there was no there

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<v Speaker 2>was so much love around the fact that everybody kind

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<v Speaker 2>of knows Colton was had not come out for a

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<v Speaker 2>while people knew him, you know, before he'd come out,

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<v Speaker 2>and so there we was sort of these loving jokes

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<v Speaker 2>about those times, like the coach said, well, you know, Colton,

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<v Speaker 2>he's like, these girls are texting him to hang out,

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<v Speaker 2>and he wouldn't go out with the girls. He'd like,

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<v Speaker 2>just come to practice and I'd be like, man, I

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<v Speaker 2>love your focus.

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<v Speaker 1>He's like, you did, did Coulton? Did you go out

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<v Speaker 1>last night? He's like, no, Coach, I stayed in. He's like,

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<v Speaker 1>I love this kid, this kid, And so obviously there

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<v Speaker 1>was a reason Colton was not going out with the ladies,

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<v Speaker 1>and there he made a few jokes like that. It

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<v Speaker 1>just he was so endearing because it was so raw

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<v Speaker 1>just to hear this ultra apex like male, hetero male

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<v Speaker 1>giving this speech about Colton.

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<v Speaker 2>Every just it was so beautiful and I really think

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<v Speaker 2>those again, those toasts that night of Colton and Jordan

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<v Speaker 2>picked the perfect people and they made everybody feel like

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<v Speaker 2>one group for the wedding ahead of the actual wedding day.

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<v Speaker 1>So that was Friday night, Saturday's wedding day. It kicked

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<v Speaker 1>off with a kind of afternoon disco theme pool party,

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<v Speaker 1>which everybody went to had a good time, got way

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<v Speaker 1>too much sun, and then there was the ceremony, which

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<v Speaker 1>was it was warm. I will say this, it was

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<v Speaker 1>warm in Napa.

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<v Speaker 2>Once again we run into this problem where I am

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<v Speaker 2>a sweater and Chris Harrison is not.

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<v Speaker 1>Ladies I did this day though, to the ladies.

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<v Speaker 2>Who are with a man out there, if you or anybody,

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<v Speaker 2>anybody with your partner, it is so embarrassing if you

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<v Speaker 2>are a sweaty person and they are not. I'm sitting there,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm trying to look cute and I've gotten all dressed up.

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<v Speaker 3>Does it next to Christmas?

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<v Speaker 1>You looks beautiful. By the way, thank you. And by

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<v Speaker 1>the way, our outfits matched.

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<v Speaker 2>You did crush it on the matching. You always crush

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<v Speaker 2>it on the matching. I just don't agree with your

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<v Speaker 2>assessment of the colors of clothing. I mean, honestly, even

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<v Speaker 2>this time, he's telling me, I have this great pink

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<v Speaker 2>shirt that's going to go with your outfit, and I'm like, babe,

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<v Speaker 2>that is purple. But it did match. You get there

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<v Speaker 2>in the end, and that's what it's about. You land

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<v Speaker 2>the plane.

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<v Speaker 1>And so it was unseasonably warm, just for some reason

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<v Speaker 1>in Napa it was ninety plus degrees. It was just

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<v Speaker 1>a warm afternoon. So we spend a little time outside

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm going to suit your in your dress, and

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<v Speaker 1>everybody was it was warm. It was warm. We got

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<v Speaker 1>a little sweaty. The other thing is there was a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit of sniffling and sneezing, which is why we

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<v Speaker 1>sound probably like we do on the podcast. Today. They're

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<v Speaker 1>going through what's called a super bloom in Napa Valley.

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<v Speaker 1>There was so much rain this year in Napa in

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<v Speaker 1>California that everything is blooming like never before. And they

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<v Speaker 1>literally said, hey, just beware, it's rough up here. And

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<v Speaker 1>so there was a little sniffling and sneezing and some

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<v Speaker 1>red eyes.

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<v Speaker 2>I now, I'll just say again, I can't keep up

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<v Speaker 2>with you. Listen to how I how I sound, no

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<v Speaker 2>versus how Chris sounds. I don't Is it just more

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<v Speaker 2>years of broadcast experience. Your voice sounds perfect. I sound

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<v Speaker 2>like my throat.

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<v Speaker 1>Got to bring the voice down into your chest.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, I just tried to lower it. Now I just

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<v Speaker 2>sound like I'm trying.

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<v Speaker 1>To be like you're smoking.

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<v Speaker 3>So I want to talk about the seramon.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, let's get to the Sarah.

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<v Speaker 3>Todd Hawkins, As we said, their friend.

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<v Speaker 1>About two hundred people it this way. It was a

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<v Speaker 1>very big wedding.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>I think they took over the whole resort, which again

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<v Speaker 2>made it fun. If you're going to do a destination wedding,

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<v Speaker 2>everybody's on the property together. But so their friend Todd

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<v Speaker 2>Hawkins does the ceremony. He was adorable, he was funny,

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<v Speaker 2>he was heartfelt, he was great. And I love when

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<v Speaker 2>someone who the couple knows officiates. I don't mean to

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<v Speaker 2>be shady, do what you want to do, but I

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<v Speaker 2>just this memes you go when you see clearly they've

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<v Speaker 2>you know, I don't know even honestly, if it's like

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<v Speaker 2>a pastor of a church but they don't really know them,

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<v Speaker 2>You don't. It doesn't feel I want to feel emotional,

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<v Speaker 2>I want to feel connected.

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<v Speaker 3>I want to cry on a wedding day.

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<v Speaker 2>I do.

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<v Speaker 1>You did cry.

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<v Speaker 3>I did cry.

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<v Speaker 2>I said to Colton afterwards, I don't think I've ever

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<v Speaker 2>both laughed and cried so much at a ceremony because

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<v Speaker 2>there was a beautiful roller coaster of emotion.

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<v Speaker 3>They would.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, at one point, I think Colton was tearing

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<v Speaker 2>up a little bit, which was great. But they also

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<v Speaker 2>had these really funny moments. They had a gospel choir,

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<v Speaker 2>and this choir was sort of I don't know if

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<v Speaker 2>it was pre planned or improvising with the vows.

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<v Speaker 3>So Colton might say.

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<v Speaker 2>I vow to always let you drive, and this incredibly

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<v Speaker 2>talented choir would go.

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<v Speaker 4>Don't crash.

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<v Speaker 1>It was reminded me of kind of like think of

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<v Speaker 1>the Doctor Pepper commercials with Live like where they kind

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<v Speaker 1>of sing the girl with.

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<v Speaker 3>The guy who used to be on American Idol. Yeah, yes,

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<v Speaker 3>Justine that. It was very much that humor.

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<v Speaker 1>And it was so funny, spectacular. So and Colton had

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<v Speaker 1>prepared this with the choir, obviously Jordan didn't know. And

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<v Speaker 1>then Jordan has his his own version of it too, which.

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<v Speaker 3>But Jordan kicked off the vocals.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, he started his vows by singing Angel of.

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<v Speaker 3>Mine by Monica. What a choice.

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<v Speaker 2>The millennial inside of me was a lit He sang

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<v Speaker 2>a little bit. Who knew Jordan could sing?

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<v Speaker 3>It was incredible, and then he went into the vowel.

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<v Speaker 1>Two things I loved about it He sang just enough

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<v Speaker 1>like of the chorus. He didn't make it awkward by

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<v Speaker 1>singing the whole three and a half minute song. Correct,

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<v Speaker 1>it was perfect. So it's like he he showed his race,

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<v Speaker 1>his skills, his love of Coulton, and then he went

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<v Speaker 1>into his vows and it was again an expert this

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<v Speaker 1>guy is. You can tell why he's such a good

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<v Speaker 1>political strategist because he was so eloquent, so well spoken.

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<v Speaker 1>He has a great voice for radio.

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<v Speaker 2>By the way, the entire wedding, I said to Colton,

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<v Speaker 2>it planned to a tea. I don't know if anybody

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<v Speaker 2>could have planned a wedding like this better. I mean,

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<v Speaker 2>to get everybody on one property, the welcome party, the toasts,

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<v Speaker 2>the wedding itself, the timing of it all.

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<v Speaker 3>They crushed it.

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<v Speaker 1>And is there anything else that stuck out to you

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<v Speaker 1>about the ceremony.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean no, I loved it.

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<v Speaker 2>I was very I also loved that they told everybody

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<v Speaker 2>please don't take your phones out. Yeah, because I know

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<v Speaker 2>everybody's aunt wants their picture of the ceremony to put

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<v Speaker 2>on their Instagram. But when people are pulling their phones

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<v Speaker 2>out and taking pictures during Todd started it by saying,

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<v Speaker 2>professional photographers here, they're going to get great pictures.

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<v Speaker 3>Please just be in the moment.

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<v Speaker 1>And I loved that and everybody followed yeah and did

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<v Speaker 1>not do that, which was cool.

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<v Speaker 3>Which is impressive with two hundred people.

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<v Speaker 1>It was And but I'll leave.

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<v Speaker 3>The rest of the you know, the vows and all

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<v Speaker 3>that to I don't want to.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, no, they the vows were just they were

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<v Speaker 1>both funny, irreverent at times and then poignant and beautiful

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<v Speaker 1>and personal. And the people who got up and spoke,

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<v Speaker 1>including Colton's dad, it was just they were some really funny,

0:19:24.960 --> 0:19:27.720
<v Speaker 1>lighthearted moments. But it just it really made you connect

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<v Speaker 1>with everybody, the family, Colton and Jordan. You just it

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<v Speaker 1>felt very personal, which was wonderful.

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<v Speaker 2>So we go into the wedding party. We're rocking and rolling.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm doing a shot with Donna.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, we got to back up. I mean, we walked

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<v Speaker 1>in and there's the Stanford I don't know if it's

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<v Speaker 1>the Synchronized Swim team the Creative Swim team. They're in

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<v Speaker 1>the pool performing as we all walk in.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, because I think Jordan went to stand he did.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, that's true. There was a lot of Stanford there.

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<v Speaker 3>Smarty that man.

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<v Speaker 1>A lot of Cardinal were in the house.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know that is it the team?

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, Sanford card one of the rare teams where the

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<v Speaker 1>mascot is an s. It's the Stanford Cardinal.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, you lost me there, but anyways.

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<v Speaker 1>So yeah, we get to the party and there is

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<v Speaker 1>this beautiful, beautifully set up reception at the top. They

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<v Speaker 1>call it the Hilltop. Actually they're at Carneros the Pool

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<v Speaker 1>and you just have a view, kind of one hundred

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<v Speaker 1>and eighty degree view of all the vineyards in Carneros Valley.

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<v Speaker 1>It is just spectacular the whole night.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, we had.

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<v Speaker 2>Drinks flowing and great food and again some incredible toasts,

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<v Speaker 2>one coming from Miss Olivia Wilde.

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<v Speaker 1>Actress Miss Olivia Wilde was there.

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<v Speaker 3>Longtime friend of Jordan's, crushed it with her toast, very funny.

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<v Speaker 1>Told a really funny story of her and Jordan.

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<v Speaker 3>It was just a very la story.

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<v Speaker 2>And again I don't want to reveal, you know, all

0:20:46.119 --> 0:20:48.240
<v Speaker 2>the details of their event, but it was like she

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<v Speaker 2>talked about a day when they went to the grove together,

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<v Speaker 2>and that was so la to me of like, you're

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<v Speaker 2>younger and you don't have any money yet, like you're

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<v Speaker 2>not successful yet, and you're just kind of walking around

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<v Speaker 2>at an outdoor mall in Los Angeles and she was really.

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<v Speaker 1>Funny, great and yeah again it's obviously close to Jordan

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<v Speaker 1>and now you could tell is very good friends with Coulton.

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<v Speaker 1>And there were a few Hollywood like writers and people

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<v Speaker 1>like that were there that we didn't know and got

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<v Speaker 1>to know.

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<v Speaker 2>Very I think one of the creators of Jury Duty

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<v Speaker 2>was in the house. If everybody hasn't watched Jury Duty

0:21:15.840 --> 0:21:20.000
<v Speaker 2>on Amazon free v yet, hilarious, wonderful, just watch it.

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<v Speaker 2>So I actually wanted to meet that guy to tell

0:21:22.080 --> 0:21:22.880
<v Speaker 2>him his show was great.

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<v Speaker 1>But if you're not a James Marsin and Van, you

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<v Speaker 1>will be after you watched Jerry Duty. It was. It

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<v Speaker 1>was a beautiful reception and not to like pick favorites.

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<v Speaker 1>Table seven definitely crushed it.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, I have to ask Coulton later how he put

0:21:37.480 --> 0:21:39.919
<v Speaker 2>us at that table. I am so fascinated to know,

0:21:39.920 --> 0:21:43.760
<v Speaker 2>because the seating charts important, right, I mean another thing.

0:21:43.800 --> 0:21:48.080
<v Speaker 1>This was a fully plated dinner and had beautiful tables displayed,

0:21:48.119 --> 0:21:49.679
<v Speaker 1>and so it was a sit down dinner.

0:21:49.840 --> 0:21:55.359
<v Speaker 2>So as we're thinking about our wedding, I liked norma chairs.

0:21:55.600 --> 0:21:58.040
<v Speaker 2>Some people do open seating at a wedding. That makes

0:21:58.040 --> 0:21:59.800
<v Speaker 2>me a little nervous as a guest. I like to

0:21:59.800 --> 0:22:01.480
<v Speaker 2>be to go, put my purse down and know where

0:22:01.480 --> 0:22:01.960
<v Speaker 2>I'm sitting.

0:22:02.040 --> 0:22:04.280
<v Speaker 1>You know how I feel about Southwest Airline.

0:22:04.600 --> 0:22:07.520
<v Speaker 3>You we don't want our wedding to south I don't.

0:22:07.359 --> 0:22:09.640
<v Speaker 1>Want the angst of am I sitting in the right place?

0:22:09.640 --> 0:22:11.320
<v Speaker 1>Do I have a good chair? Oh, someone's purse is

0:22:11.359 --> 0:22:13.280
<v Speaker 1>already in this chair, so there's only one chair. I

0:22:13.320 --> 0:22:13.800
<v Speaker 1>don't like it.

0:22:14.080 --> 0:22:17.879
<v Speaker 3>Starts you're picking teams at Jim again. Who Oh, who

0:22:17.920 --> 0:22:18.639
<v Speaker 3>are you going to sit with?

0:22:18.680 --> 0:22:18.760
<v Speaker 1>Oh?

0:22:18.840 --> 0:22:20.840
<v Speaker 3>Will you please sit with me? Oh? I can't sit here.

0:22:20.840 --> 0:22:22.159
<v Speaker 3>Your table's taken. I don't like that.

0:22:22.320 --> 0:22:24.560
<v Speaker 1>As with everything at this wedding, clearly a lot of

0:22:24.600 --> 0:22:27.080
<v Speaker 1>thought was put into the table seating.

0:22:27.400 --> 0:22:28.160
<v Speaker 3>So we are.

0:22:28.119 --> 0:22:31.800
<v Speaker 2>Sitting next to just a hilarious couple. Polly and Rob

0:22:32.440 --> 0:22:35.879
<v Speaker 2>and her sister and her husband are also there. They're

0:22:35.920 --> 0:22:39.400
<v Speaker 2>Jordan's friends, I believe from college. We had an incredible

0:22:39.440 --> 0:22:43.880
<v Speaker 2>couple across from us. We just had really fun people

0:22:44.720 --> 0:22:46.520
<v Speaker 2>and I think we were the rowdy table.

0:22:46.600 --> 0:22:49.600
<v Speaker 1>The woman across from us from Mumbai, Yes, came in

0:22:49.640 --> 0:22:51.879
<v Speaker 1>from India. They came the furthest Her and her husband

0:22:51.880 --> 0:22:54.320
<v Speaker 1>came from Mumbai and she is this amazing She kind

0:22:54.320 --> 0:22:57.280
<v Speaker 1>of creates this comedic content over there. I started diving

0:22:57.280 --> 0:23:00.800
<v Speaker 1>into her stuff. She was fascinating. So it was everybody

0:23:00.880 --> 0:23:04.359
<v Speaker 1>was just so open and you met everybody at our table, and.

0:23:04.480 --> 0:23:06.560
<v Speaker 2>It was I was starting to be like, are we

0:23:07.080 --> 0:23:08.680
<v Speaker 2>are we laughing too loud during the toasts?

0:23:08.680 --> 0:23:09.399
<v Speaker 3>Are we that table?

0:23:09.560 --> 0:23:11.320
<v Speaker 1>We definitely were that table a little.

0:23:11.119 --> 0:23:12.920
<v Speaker 2>Bit, But I like to give people supportive laughter. I

0:23:12.960 --> 0:23:14.760
<v Speaker 2>think I think so much about how nerve wrecking it

0:23:14.800 --> 0:23:16.960
<v Speaker 2>is to make a toast, and so I'm like whooping

0:23:17.040 --> 0:23:19.119
<v Speaker 2>and cheering loudly, and maybe I needed to do in

0:23:19.119 --> 0:23:19.480
<v Speaker 2>the book.

0:23:19.560 --> 0:23:22.600
<v Speaker 1>So when we got through dinner, we and plenty of

0:23:22.640 --> 0:23:26.959
<v Speaker 1>cocktails and wine, and then there was the well, there

0:23:27.000 --> 0:23:31.840
<v Speaker 1>was the first dance that this their friend of theirs

0:23:31.840 --> 0:23:35.040
<v Speaker 1>saying and it was beautiful, and Colton and Jordan had

0:23:35.080 --> 0:23:37.399
<v Speaker 1>their first dance together, and then the moms were there.

0:23:38.119 --> 0:23:40.320
<v Speaker 2>I was getting emotional during that first dance. It was

0:23:40.440 --> 0:23:42.959
<v Speaker 2>really nice to see Colton so happy.

0:23:43.119 --> 0:23:44.639
<v Speaker 1>By the way, we got to spend a lot of

0:23:44.640 --> 0:23:48.080
<v Speaker 1>time with Colton's mom and dad, oh, his and his

0:23:48.320 --> 0:23:50.960
<v Speaker 1>bonus mom as Colton Calture his whole family.

0:23:51.200 --> 0:23:56.600
<v Speaker 2>I mean, they were so welcoming, so lovely, and I

0:23:56.640 --> 0:23:58.160
<v Speaker 2>mean again, I think a lot of them were excited

0:23:58.160 --> 0:24:01.600
<v Speaker 2>to meet you, but they were just so much fun.

0:24:01.800 --> 0:24:04.280
<v Speaker 1>I just really enjoyed because I had heard about Colton's dad,

0:24:04.359 --> 0:24:08.360
<v Speaker 1>obviously football player and the guy that got Colton into football,

0:24:08.400 --> 0:24:10.600
<v Speaker 1>and he, by the way, I see where Coulton gets

0:24:10.640 --> 0:24:13.520
<v Speaker 1>his build. His dad is as big and as jacked

0:24:13.560 --> 0:24:15.800
<v Speaker 1>as Colton is. I'm like, okay, that apple didn't fall

0:24:15.840 --> 0:24:19.880
<v Speaker 1>far from the genetic tree. But I just really enjoyed

0:24:20.000 --> 0:24:22.440
<v Speaker 1>talking to him one on one for quite some time.

0:24:22.960 --> 0:24:25.600
<v Speaker 1>Of how much he loves Colton, how much he supports him,

0:24:25.880 --> 0:24:29.040
<v Speaker 1>how much he was He's just all in on Colton's

0:24:29.080 --> 0:24:31.359
<v Speaker 1>journey and where he is and where he came from.

0:24:31.400 --> 0:24:33.679
<v Speaker 1>And I don't know, I was just this blue collar

0:24:34.160 --> 0:24:37.040
<v Speaker 1>dad from the Midwest. I love that he has embraced

0:24:37.440 --> 0:24:39.760
<v Speaker 1>all that Colton is and who his son really is.

0:24:39.880 --> 0:24:41.240
<v Speaker 1>It just warmed my heart.

0:24:41.359 --> 0:24:42.560
<v Speaker 3>There was a lot of love in the room.

0:24:42.600 --> 0:24:48.800
<v Speaker 2>There was so dancing and again Chris Harrison hittim the

0:24:48.840 --> 0:24:49.480
<v Speaker 2>dance floor hard.

0:24:50.640 --> 0:24:54.600
<v Speaker 3>Did you oh? The band? The band was great? Do

0:24:54.680 --> 0:24:55.639
<v Speaker 3>we call it a band?

0:24:55.760 --> 0:24:57.800
<v Speaker 1>It was a mix between a DJ, so he was

0:24:57.880 --> 0:25:01.560
<v Speaker 1>playing songs as a DJ would these great mixes. But

0:25:01.600 --> 0:25:04.040
<v Speaker 1>they had brass, there was a trumpet, there was a saxon,

0:25:04.080 --> 0:25:06.680
<v Speaker 1>there was a drummer. Kind of a jazz band. So

0:25:06.760 --> 0:25:09.760
<v Speaker 1>each member of this kind of DJ group also played

0:25:10.040 --> 0:25:13.320
<v Speaker 1>an instrument, and so they would sometimes jump in on

0:25:13.359 --> 0:25:16.520
<v Speaker 1>the mix and go for a solo. It was awesome.

0:25:16.600 --> 0:25:17.600
<v Speaker 3>So we danced all night.

0:25:17.720 --> 0:25:19.399
<v Speaker 1>We danced into the wee hours of the morning.

0:25:19.640 --> 0:25:21.480
<v Speaker 3>And what more do you want out of a wedding?

0:25:21.720 --> 0:25:22.040
<v Speaker 1>Truly?

0:25:22.080 --> 0:25:23.439
<v Speaker 2>To me, at the end of the day, if you

0:25:23.640 --> 0:25:27.600
<v Speaker 2>feel the love in the room, like emotional good fun toasts,

0:25:27.840 --> 0:25:30.639
<v Speaker 2>if you feel like you had a great cocktail and

0:25:30.680 --> 0:25:32.560
<v Speaker 2>you're feeling good, and then if you dance all night,

0:25:32.600 --> 0:25:33.080
<v Speaker 2>that's a wedding.

0:25:33.160 --> 0:25:34.080
<v Speaker 3>To me, that's all you need.

0:25:34.119 --> 0:25:39.040
<v Speaker 1>And everybody woke up Sunday morning a little horse ready

0:25:39.080 --> 0:25:39.600
<v Speaker 1>to head home.

0:25:39.960 --> 0:25:43.760
<v Speaker 2>So let me ask you, because one thing Colton did

0:25:43.840 --> 0:25:45.680
<v Speaker 2>mention in his vows was getting through.

0:25:46.119 --> 0:25:48.440
<v Speaker 3>Like he talked a little bit about what a wild.

0:25:48.280 --> 0:25:51.320
<v Speaker 2>Ride it had been with him and Jordan, even just

0:25:52.200 --> 0:25:55.320
<v Speaker 2>what an up and down at sometimes tough time the

0:25:55.440 --> 0:25:57.040
<v Speaker 2>last couple of years had been for him.

0:25:57.640 --> 0:25:59.119
<v Speaker 3>What was it like for you to be there?

0:25:59.160 --> 0:26:02.439
<v Speaker 2>Because you always say the bachelor's and bachelorettes specifically you

0:26:02.480 --> 0:26:04.080
<v Speaker 2>get closer with them and they feel a little bit

0:26:04.119 --> 0:26:04.760
<v Speaker 2>like your kids.

0:26:05.280 --> 0:26:06.520
<v Speaker 3>And Colton has maybe.

0:26:07.040 --> 0:26:13.040
<v Speaker 2>I mean, he's definitely up there in terms of the.

0:26:10.960 --> 0:26:13.800
<v Speaker 3>The highs and lows of his ride as the lead.

0:26:13.840 --> 0:26:17.480
<v Speaker 1>And controversy obviously surrounded it. And I do it's like,

0:26:17.560 --> 0:26:20.760
<v Speaker 1>you know, that was one thing I always prided myself on,

0:26:21.000 --> 0:26:23.360
<v Speaker 1>and it wasn't for everybody. You know, I got closer

0:26:23.440 --> 0:26:27.160
<v Speaker 1>with some than others. That's just human nature, but many

0:26:27.200 --> 0:26:29.440
<v Speaker 1>of them I did. I felt very protective of them

0:26:29.440 --> 0:26:32.320
<v Speaker 1>as they went through this and then afterwards as they

0:26:32.800 --> 0:26:35.280
<v Speaker 1>went on this journey, and you know, you look at

0:26:35.280 --> 0:26:37.919
<v Speaker 1>like a Caitlin Bristow who ended up with Jason Tartick.

0:26:38.760 --> 0:26:40.919
<v Speaker 1>You know, that's a little different than what Coulton went

0:26:40.960 --> 0:26:43.200
<v Speaker 1>through and ending up with Jordan and how it all

0:26:43.560 --> 0:26:47.400
<v Speaker 1>came to be and how controversial it was. But I'm

0:26:47.400 --> 0:26:50.280
<v Speaker 1>a big believer that you stand by people through thick

0:26:50.280 --> 0:26:53.200
<v Speaker 1>and thin, through the good times, through the bad, and

0:26:54.520 --> 0:26:58.960
<v Speaker 1>it's not always perfect. But knowing what Coulton struggled with,

0:26:59.000 --> 0:27:03.000
<v Speaker 1>and having had very deep personal conversations with him about

0:27:03.000 --> 0:27:07.360
<v Speaker 1>his journey and the things he fought all his life

0:27:07.640 --> 0:27:10.840
<v Speaker 1>to see him get to a point where he can

0:27:11.080 --> 0:27:15.879
<v Speaker 1>stand in front of hundreds of people, his family and

0:27:17.280 --> 0:27:21.120
<v Speaker 1>look so at ease as to who he is now.

0:27:21.880 --> 0:27:25.200
<v Speaker 1>To me, that my heart was just swelling with pride.

0:27:25.240 --> 0:27:27.640
<v Speaker 1>And that's when I got emotional at the wedding. That's

0:27:27.640 --> 0:27:30.000
<v Speaker 1>what I got emotional about was just these moments where

0:27:30.000 --> 0:27:33.080
<v Speaker 1>I would be watching Colton. I could just see him.

0:27:33.160 --> 0:27:36.800
<v Speaker 1>His shoulders are down, he's not scared, he's not hiding,

0:27:36.920 --> 0:27:39.159
<v Speaker 1>kind of like I felt like when he was on

0:27:39.200 --> 0:27:42.199
<v Speaker 1>The Bachelor, there was this defense up. There was this

0:27:42.320 --> 0:27:44.800
<v Speaker 1>wallup At the time. Obviously we didn't know exactly what

0:27:44.880 --> 0:27:48.280
<v Speaker 1>it was. Now you can see it clearly, and I

0:27:48.280 --> 0:27:50.399
<v Speaker 1>can see that that's gone, and I can see that

0:27:50.480 --> 0:27:54.159
<v Speaker 1>this man Jordan, has helped him take that down and

0:27:54.280 --> 0:27:57.639
<v Speaker 1>helped him find out who he was and is and

0:27:57.720 --> 0:28:00.760
<v Speaker 1>be free. And so I don't know, just there we

0:28:00.760 --> 0:28:05.479
<v Speaker 1>was so much emotions just swelling up in me seeing

0:28:05.520 --> 0:28:08.520
<v Speaker 1>who this man is now and this friend, this guy

0:28:08.560 --> 0:28:13.919
<v Speaker 1>who I consider a friend, and also selfishly what it

0:28:14.000 --> 0:28:18.919
<v Speaker 1>meant to him to see me there supporting him, that approval,

0:28:19.080 --> 0:28:22.840
<v Speaker 1>maybe that love. When he gave me a hug and

0:28:22.880 --> 0:28:24.280
<v Speaker 1>you could just see it in his eyes when he

0:28:24.320 --> 0:28:26.399
<v Speaker 1>grabbed me and just said thank you for being here.

0:28:26.640 --> 0:28:30.280
<v Speaker 1>It means the world to me. It just it felt

0:28:30.320 --> 0:28:30.840
<v Speaker 1>so good.

0:28:31.280 --> 0:28:33.800
<v Speaker 2>I was very touched to have been invited, for sure. Yeah,

0:28:33.800 --> 0:28:36.399
<v Speaker 2>and as you just you know, I mean if you

0:28:36.480 --> 0:28:40.920
<v Speaker 2>mentioned controversy. One thing about being at the wedding is look,

0:28:42.520 --> 0:28:46.680
<v Speaker 2>the stuff that doesn't make headlines are for anybody who's

0:28:46.680 --> 0:28:50.040
<v Speaker 2>in the spotlight, your friends and family who aren't you know.

0:28:50.320 --> 0:28:52.040
<v Speaker 2>I mean you looked around that room and there were

0:28:52.080 --> 0:28:55.760
<v Speaker 2>two hundred people there supporting and loving these people, and

0:28:55.840 --> 0:28:59.240
<v Speaker 2>so many people. I mean, Jordan was standing up there saying, Colton,

0:28:59.280 --> 0:29:02.120
<v Speaker 2>you are like my champion, you are my teammate. That's

0:29:02.160 --> 0:29:05.280
<v Speaker 2>the type of person Colton is. Colton's family talking about,

0:29:05.360 --> 0:29:07.920
<v Speaker 2>you know, how much they love him, what a great

0:29:07.960 --> 0:29:10.840
<v Speaker 2>person he is. People talking about the way Colton's smile

0:29:10.960 --> 0:29:14.280
<v Speaker 2>lights up a room. He had a long time friend

0:29:14.280 --> 0:29:16.400
<v Speaker 2>of his, I think her name was Cassie give a

0:29:16.440 --> 0:29:19.000
<v Speaker 2>toast about him and speak to the type of person

0:29:19.040 --> 0:29:22.400
<v Speaker 2>he is. So that stuff doesn't make headlines, but you

0:29:22.480 --> 0:29:28.000
<v Speaker 2>see all these human beings vouching for and supporting this person,

0:29:28.040 --> 0:29:31.280
<v Speaker 2>and that's so important. So I just wanted to say

0:29:31.280 --> 0:29:32.480
<v Speaker 2>that because it was beautiful.

0:29:32.600 --> 0:29:34.959
<v Speaker 1>You can't be around Coulton and not know that his

0:29:35.040 --> 0:29:38.840
<v Speaker 1>heart is as broad as his shoulders are. He definitely

0:29:38.840 --> 0:29:41.240
<v Speaker 1>has a big heart and he leads with that, and

0:29:41.280 --> 0:29:43.920
<v Speaker 1>so yeah, it meant a lot. And it was something that,

0:29:44.280 --> 0:29:46.040
<v Speaker 1>you know, for us again to go to a wedding

0:29:46.040 --> 0:29:47.680
<v Speaker 1>where we knew we weren't going to know anybody and

0:29:47.720 --> 0:29:49.800
<v Speaker 1>it was probably going to be a little uncomfortable at first,

0:29:49.800 --> 0:29:52.680
<v Speaker 1>and it turned out it wasn't. But that was how

0:29:52.760 --> 0:29:54.760
<v Speaker 1>much it meant for us to be there to show

0:29:54.800 --> 0:29:57.200
<v Speaker 1>that support. And I'm glad we did. And it was

0:29:57.240 --> 0:30:00.320
<v Speaker 1>a great weekend. And I'm glad we're home because we

0:30:00.360 --> 0:30:03.200
<v Speaker 1>need to repack because we're off on another adventure this week.

0:30:03.600 --> 0:30:06.320
<v Speaker 3>Yes, so congrats to Colton and Jordan.

0:30:06.600 --> 0:30:09.600
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, all my love guys, all my love go have

0:30:09.640 --> 0:30:24.440
<v Speaker 1>an amazing life together. Before we go today, there's a

0:30:24.480 --> 0:30:26.360
<v Speaker 1>couple of things I did want to touch on. Can

0:30:26.400 --> 0:30:27.640
<v Speaker 1>I do one quick sports thing?

0:30:27.920 --> 0:30:28.520
<v Speaker 3>Make it quick?

0:30:28.640 --> 0:30:31.760
<v Speaker 1>This is going to be a sweet sports thing. So

0:30:31.880 --> 0:30:35.840
<v Speaker 1>the NBA Playoffs are going on, that's basketball. Miami Heat

0:30:35.880 --> 0:30:39.680
<v Speaker 1>are playing the New York Knicks. So the Heat win,

0:30:40.200 --> 0:30:42.440
<v Speaker 1>they wrap up the series. This is a huge moment.

0:30:42.800 --> 0:30:45.000
<v Speaker 1>There is a player for the Heat bam out of

0:30:45.040 --> 0:30:49.800
<v Speaker 1>bio and he's in a postgame press conference. His phone rings.

0:30:51.160 --> 0:30:54.080
<v Speaker 1>It's his mom. He stops in the middle of his

0:30:54.240 --> 0:30:56.320
<v Speaker 1>press conference and picks up the phone.

0:30:56.920 --> 0:30:58.880
<v Speaker 4>Here it is I have a lot of respect for

0:31:01.080 --> 0:31:13.240
<v Speaker 4>and it's nogic. Hello, Hi mommy. Yes, no, I'm a media.

0:31:13.400 --> 0:31:24.440
<v Speaker 4>I'm a media. No, I wasn't in it. Nah, it's

0:31:24.440 --> 0:31:24.880
<v Speaker 4>all good.

0:31:25.320 --> 0:31:27.240
<v Speaker 1>Come on. I know this is a sports thing, but

0:31:27.280 --> 0:31:29.960
<v Speaker 1>how adorable in the middle of a press conference. First

0:31:29.960 --> 0:31:31.480
<v Speaker 1>of all, he picks up the phone. The first thing

0:31:31.480 --> 0:31:33.720
<v Speaker 1>he says is Mommy.

0:31:34.840 --> 0:31:37.720
<v Speaker 2>It's very situationally dependent. I've noticed that if my mom

0:31:37.800 --> 0:31:40.080
<v Speaker 2>calls when I'm with you, I say hey mom. But

0:31:40.280 --> 0:31:42.800
<v Speaker 2>if my mom calls and I'm alone, I'm like, hi

0:31:42.840 --> 0:31:43.800
<v Speaker 2>mommy or something.

0:31:43.800 --> 0:31:45.160
<v Speaker 3>You kind of go back into kid modes.

0:31:45.240 --> 0:31:47.960
<v Speaker 2>So I kind of love that he was confident enough

0:31:48.000 --> 0:31:50.640
<v Speaker 2>to say Hi mommy in front of an entire room

0:31:50.680 --> 0:31:52.520
<v Speaker 2>of the press, and now in a clip that's gone.

0:31:52.360 --> 0:31:54.560
<v Speaker 1>Everywhere, and I love the press was totally silent. It's

0:31:54.600 --> 0:31:56.440
<v Speaker 1>like he's going to take this call from his mom.

0:31:56.560 --> 0:31:58.640
<v Speaker 3>You take the call from mom, and so he always

0:31:58.640 --> 0:31:59.239
<v Speaker 3>answer from mom.

0:31:59.360 --> 0:32:02.560
<v Speaker 1>He totally did. And the best part is, obviously you

0:32:02.600 --> 0:32:05.479
<v Speaker 1>can't hear in that clip what mom was saying, but

0:32:05.520 --> 0:32:09.640
<v Speaker 1>she was clearly concerned about something he was possibly involved with,

0:32:09.760 --> 0:32:11.960
<v Speaker 1>or maybe something had happened. He says, no, Mom, I'm good.

0:32:12.440 --> 0:32:14.280
<v Speaker 1>You know I wasn't a part of that. It's all good.

0:32:14.520 --> 0:32:16.800
<v Speaker 1>So clearly she was concerned about something. And I just

0:32:16.920 --> 0:32:20.200
<v Speaker 1>love that we had talked about this in our Mother's

0:32:20.280 --> 0:32:22.960
<v Speaker 1>Day episode, and obviously we just celebrated Mother's Day, so

0:32:23.000 --> 0:32:25.880
<v Speaker 1>I love that this happened right as we were celebrating

0:32:25.920 --> 0:32:26.680
<v Speaker 1>all of our moms.

0:32:26.760 --> 0:32:27.960
<v Speaker 3>When was the press conference?

0:32:28.440 --> 0:32:29.160
<v Speaker 1>It was the other day.

0:32:29.880 --> 0:32:31.640
<v Speaker 2>So don't you think you got especially if it's Mother's

0:32:31.680 --> 0:32:32.760
<v Speaker 2>Day weekend, you got it.

0:32:33.080 --> 0:32:36.680
<v Speaker 1>Mother's Day weekend. But I just loved how he answered

0:32:36.720 --> 0:32:39.080
<v Speaker 1>to her. And we talked about with our moms, you

0:32:39.200 --> 0:32:43.840
<v Speaker 1>have to feel responsible to someone other than yourself. Clearly,

0:32:44.280 --> 0:32:47.000
<v Speaker 1>this mom has done an amazing job because he was

0:32:47.200 --> 0:32:49.520
<v Speaker 1>answering to her and it was just so sweet. I

0:32:49.720 --> 0:32:51.000
<v Speaker 1>just thought it was a beautiful moment.

0:32:51.120 --> 0:32:55.160
<v Speaker 2>I remember reading a study that you will instantly any

0:32:55.240 --> 0:32:59.160
<v Speaker 2>human being, you will feel instantly more calm if you

0:32:59.240 --> 0:33:02.880
<v Speaker 2>hear your mother's voice. It's just something biological. Now, maybe

0:33:02.960 --> 0:33:05.000
<v Speaker 2>it depends on the tone and the volume of your

0:33:05.040 --> 0:33:05.880
<v Speaker 2>voice and what it's about.

0:33:05.920 --> 0:33:09.440
<v Speaker 1>But if they use your full name, yes, Laura Nashley Zema,

0:33:09.480 --> 0:33:12.160
<v Speaker 1>You're like, oh, I'm in trouble, Donna.

0:33:12.560 --> 0:33:15.360
<v Speaker 2>I've noticed that if I'm feeling stressed about something, I

0:33:15.440 --> 0:33:18.360
<v Speaker 2>actually I've worked on clearly communicating it over the years.

0:33:18.600 --> 0:33:20.560
<v Speaker 2>I will call my mom and right off the bat,

0:33:20.600 --> 0:33:23.080
<v Speaker 2>I make the conversation clear and I say, I'm kind

0:33:23.080 --> 0:33:24.760
<v Speaker 2>of stressed and I just need to hear your voice,

0:33:24.800 --> 0:33:26.240
<v Speaker 2>and then we kind of just have a nice, like

0:33:26.280 --> 0:33:29.400
<v Speaker 2>easy conversation and she makes me laugh and doesn't criticize

0:33:29.400 --> 0:33:29.680
<v Speaker 2>me on that.

0:33:29.760 --> 0:33:32.600
<v Speaker 1>Well. And to say again, when you have a mom

0:33:32.760 --> 0:33:36.240
<v Speaker 1>like you do, like I do, clearly like Bam out

0:33:36.240 --> 0:33:39.320
<v Speaker 1>of Bio does from the heat, they just immediately make

0:33:39.360 --> 0:33:41.480
<v Speaker 1>you feel like you're twelve years old again. I don't

0:33:41.520 --> 0:33:43.280
<v Speaker 1>care if you're the best basketball player in the world

0:33:43.320 --> 0:33:45.239
<v Speaker 1>and you just beat the Nicks and you're heading off

0:33:45.280 --> 0:33:48.719
<v Speaker 1>to the Eastern Conference Finals, you are twelve years old

0:33:48.880 --> 0:33:51.560
<v Speaker 1>and you're answering to your mommy. I love that.

0:33:51.600 --> 0:33:53.480
<v Speaker 2>Next time your mom calls, because I've never heard you

0:33:53.520 --> 0:33:55.160
<v Speaker 2>say it, I want you to say, hi, mommy.

0:33:55.400 --> 0:33:57.080
<v Speaker 1>I've never called my mom mommy.

0:33:57.200 --> 0:33:58.400
<v Speaker 3>Never you never use a kid.

0:33:58.480 --> 0:34:00.400
<v Speaker 1>Even as a kid, I never use the word what

0:34:00.440 --> 0:34:01.560
<v Speaker 1>did you say? Mom?

0:34:01.840 --> 0:34:02.240
<v Speaker 3>Just mom?

0:34:02.280 --> 0:34:04.800
<v Speaker 1>To this day I'm like, hey mom, love you Mom. Yeah,

0:34:05.040 --> 0:34:06.280
<v Speaker 1>I've never called her mommy.

0:34:06.440 --> 0:34:09.479
<v Speaker 3>All right, well let me bring you to a different mother.

0:34:09.680 --> 0:34:10.040
<v Speaker 1>Okay.

0:34:11.080 --> 0:34:14.880
<v Speaker 2>A couple fabulous elders making the news this week for

0:34:14.960 --> 0:34:19.880
<v Speaker 2>very different reasons. Martha Stewart at eighty one cover of

0:34:20.000 --> 0:34:26.480
<v Speaker 2>Sports Illustrated Swimsuit Edition, the oldest woman person whoever to

0:34:26.600 --> 0:34:29.520
<v Speaker 2>ever be on the cover of SI's Swimsuit edition.

0:34:29.560 --> 0:34:32.080
<v Speaker 1>Maybe SI ever it is no, there was a seventy

0:34:32.080 --> 0:34:34.440
<v Speaker 1>seven year old woman last year in twenty twenty two.

0:34:35.320 --> 0:34:38.520
<v Speaker 1>So Martha Stewart the oldest ever grace the cover. Now

0:34:38.719 --> 0:34:42.000
<v Speaker 1>there are the cover is changed in Sports Illustrated time

0:34:42.000 --> 0:34:44.400
<v Speaker 1>because it used to be what's called a magazine, and

0:34:44.440 --> 0:34:47.120
<v Speaker 1>there was one magazine that would be on newsstands. Google

0:34:47.200 --> 0:34:50.520
<v Speaker 1>that kids, and now there are kind of online. There's

0:34:50.560 --> 0:34:55.399
<v Speaker 1>four online covers. But still Martha Stewart, who looks fantastic

0:34:55.440 --> 0:34:55.839
<v Speaker 1>on the cover.

0:34:56.000 --> 0:34:59.680
<v Speaker 3>Fabulous, she's kind of you, Jane Fonda share.

0:35:00.719 --> 0:35:02.480
<v Speaker 2>I mean, some of these, you know, women have kind

0:35:02.520 --> 0:35:05.080
<v Speaker 2>of been the gold standards of like aging.

0:35:05.160 --> 0:35:07.239
<v Speaker 1>But March step so Christian there.

0:35:07.360 --> 0:35:10.560
<v Speaker 2>Okay, I know your crush, but Martha Stewart is now

0:35:11.480 --> 0:35:16.360
<v Speaker 2>up there. Martha Stewart is setting Martha Stewart is becoming

0:35:16.400 --> 0:35:18.319
<v Speaker 2>a oh my gosh, how does she look that way

0:35:18.400 --> 0:35:23.440
<v Speaker 2>at that age person? Looking stunning? So obviously sports illustrated.

0:35:23.520 --> 0:35:25.880
<v Speaker 2>Changing from the way the swimsuit as she used to be.

0:35:25.920 --> 0:35:27.480
<v Speaker 2>It has for the past couple of years, they've had

0:35:27.480 --> 0:35:31.840
<v Speaker 2>more natural you know, just real bodies on it, athletic.

0:35:31.480 --> 0:35:32.319
<v Speaker 3>Women, that kind of thing.

0:35:33.160 --> 0:35:36.440
<v Speaker 2>One thing that this made me think about, will we

0:35:36.560 --> 0:35:40.160
<v Speaker 2>see over the next few years a shift in a

0:35:40.440 --> 0:35:45.319
<v Speaker 2>prevalence of older women dating younger men. Like I brought

0:35:45.360 --> 0:35:48.800
<v Speaker 2>up share Share was dating someone much younger. Recently Madonna

0:35:48.920 --> 0:35:53.520
<v Speaker 2>has and it's obviously much more common for men to

0:35:53.640 --> 0:35:56.600
<v Speaker 2>date younger women, I think than for women to date

0:35:56.680 --> 0:35:59.759
<v Speaker 2>younger men. Like I like that we're making a shift

0:35:59.760 --> 0:36:02.920
<v Speaker 2>as a culture into we need to change our mindset

0:36:03.040 --> 0:36:07.000
<v Speaker 2>about women and their level of sexiness and beauty as

0:36:07.000 --> 0:36:09.400
<v Speaker 2>they get older. Men are seen as better looking as

0:36:09.400 --> 0:36:12.640
<v Speaker 2>they get older. Women it's like we have an expiration day.

0:36:12.680 --> 0:36:14.279
<v Speaker 1>I think there's much more of that in general. I

0:36:14.320 --> 0:36:16.520
<v Speaker 1>just see it in our own lives. I think there

0:36:17.280 --> 0:36:20.200
<v Speaker 1>is more it's more prevalent now than obviously in the

0:36:20.200 --> 0:36:23.960
<v Speaker 1>past of young men dating marrying older women.

0:36:24.120 --> 0:36:24.759
<v Speaker 3>Which I love.

0:36:25.440 --> 0:36:27.920
<v Speaker 2>Now, I will say, I wonder if it's going to

0:36:27.960 --> 0:36:30.480
<v Speaker 2>happen as much because I do think I'm just speaking

0:36:30.480 --> 0:36:33.319
<v Speaker 2>from my friends and I I think for a lot

0:36:33.360 --> 0:36:35.640
<v Speaker 2>of women, the idea of dating a younger man, it's like,

0:36:36.400 --> 0:36:37.480
<v Speaker 2>you don't want to do it.

0:36:37.920 --> 0:36:40.360
<v Speaker 1>No, God, I think I need to get to a

0:36:40.360 --> 0:36:42.520
<v Speaker 1>certain age so that he is a man. You're not

0:36:42.600 --> 0:36:45.320
<v Speaker 1>dating a broken boy, right.

0:36:45.440 --> 0:36:49.480
<v Speaker 2>Probably if I was an older woman, I would not

0:36:49.680 --> 0:36:51.120
<v Speaker 2>date a younger man who.

0:36:51.000 --> 0:36:52.720
<v Speaker 3>Wasn't at least in his mid thirties.

0:36:53.600 --> 0:36:54.440
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, okay.

0:36:54.480 --> 0:36:58.920
<v Speaker 2>I will share a story before you and I started dating.

0:36:58.960 --> 0:37:06.640
<v Speaker 2>So I was single dating a guy fairly briefly, and

0:37:07.080 --> 0:37:10.640
<v Speaker 2>he lied to me about his age. He told me

0:37:10.800 --> 0:37:13.640
<v Speaker 2>that he was twenty nine and he was in fact

0:37:13.640 --> 0:37:14.200
<v Speaker 2>twenty three.

0:37:14.320 --> 0:37:14.880
<v Speaker 1>Oh gosh.

0:37:15.680 --> 0:37:18.120
<v Speaker 2>And I will say it made sense because I was

0:37:18.200 --> 0:37:22.120
<v Speaker 2>kind of thinking to myself, Oh, we would we'd have

0:37:22.160 --> 0:37:23.920
<v Speaker 2>a little conflict or something, and I would think he's

0:37:23.960 --> 0:37:24.640
<v Speaker 2>a little immature.

0:37:24.640 --> 0:37:26.239
<v Speaker 3>I don't know, it might be a little immature for me.

0:37:26.440 --> 0:37:28.640
<v Speaker 2>And then he eventually revealed he had lied about his age,

0:37:28.920 --> 0:37:30.880
<v Speaker 2>and he said I was worried you wouldn't date me

0:37:31.600 --> 0:37:33.360
<v Speaker 2>because I was so young, And the answer is no,

0:37:33.400 --> 0:37:34.040
<v Speaker 2>I wouldn't have.

0:37:34.120 --> 0:37:36.359
<v Speaker 1>Well, what's funny is that that's a big lie. By

0:37:36.400 --> 0:37:39.120
<v Speaker 1>the way, six years, but it doesn't sound like that much.

0:37:39.160 --> 0:37:41.239
<v Speaker 2>It's so interesting how I think in your twenties six

0:37:41.320 --> 0:37:42.480
<v Speaker 2>years can be so significant.

0:37:42.600 --> 0:37:44.360
<v Speaker 1>It is, I mean, the difference between when I was

0:37:44.360 --> 0:37:45.680
<v Speaker 1>twenty three and twenty.

0:37:45.480 --> 0:37:46.600
<v Speaker 3>Nine big life place.

0:37:46.880 --> 0:37:49.040
<v Speaker 1>I mean that was six years of marriage and a kid,

0:37:49.480 --> 0:37:50.040
<v Speaker 1>the difference.

0:37:50.080 --> 0:37:52.520
<v Speaker 2>But then let me ask you how big of a difference,

0:37:52.520 --> 0:37:54.799
<v Speaker 2>And maybe there is one between when you're forty three

0:37:54.840 --> 0:37:55.640
<v Speaker 2>and forty nine.

0:37:56.480 --> 0:37:58.440
<v Speaker 1>Not a huge difference. I think you get to a

0:37:58.440 --> 0:38:00.839
<v Speaker 1>certain point in your life in age really doesn't matter

0:38:00.880 --> 0:38:03.239
<v Speaker 1>that much anymore. You get more life experiences and things

0:38:03.239 --> 0:38:06.520
<v Speaker 1>happen clearly, and so you continue to learn and evolve.

0:38:07.000 --> 0:38:10.319
<v Speaker 1>But once you become the man you are, I would

0:38:10.360 --> 0:38:14.040
<v Speaker 1>say after forty years old, there's not a big change.

0:38:14.480 --> 0:38:17.040
<v Speaker 2>Well, I would be interested. Please hit me up in

0:38:17.080 --> 0:38:20.000
<v Speaker 2>the DMS. I want to have a conversation about this. Ladies,

0:38:20.080 --> 0:38:23.600
<v Speaker 2>if you are someone who dates men, would you date

0:38:23.640 --> 0:38:25.400
<v Speaker 2>a younger man and how young would you go? And

0:38:25.440 --> 0:38:27.600
<v Speaker 2>how big of an age gap would you do yeah?

0:38:28.000 --> 0:38:30.000
<v Speaker 1>Or or I would love to see if anybody is

0:38:30.080 --> 0:38:32.920
<v Speaker 1>dating a younger man. Give me the pluses and minuses

0:38:32.960 --> 0:38:33.120
<v Speaker 1>of this.

0:38:33.400 --> 0:38:35.759
<v Speaker 2>Yes, And I would love to see Martha Stewart come out,

0:38:35.800 --> 0:38:37.279
<v Speaker 2>you know, at eighty one, come out with something like

0:38:37.320 --> 0:38:38.560
<v Speaker 2>hot fifty year old.

0:38:38.840 --> 0:38:40.600
<v Speaker 1>It's amazing to think that she was in jail.

0:38:41.520 --> 0:38:44.640
<v Speaker 3>I was also thinking about that, what a comeback? I mean,

0:38:44.360 --> 0:38:44.719
<v Speaker 3>I mean.

0:38:44.960 --> 0:38:46.080
<v Speaker 1>Was there a bigger comeback?

0:38:46.200 --> 0:38:48.120
<v Speaker 3>It was so controversial at the time too.

0:38:48.280 --> 0:38:51.480
<v Speaker 2>Today well, today, I do think that would still be

0:38:51.520 --> 0:38:54.080
<v Speaker 2>controversial because it was like insider trading and you're so

0:38:54.200 --> 0:38:55.759
<v Speaker 2>wealthy and you're doing that. It would still be a

0:38:55.800 --> 0:38:59.560
<v Speaker 2>controversial thing today. But it's funny the lens the other day,

0:38:59.640 --> 0:39:02.160
<v Speaker 2>you and I kind of gone on this random rewatch

0:39:02.320 --> 0:39:04.439
<v Speaker 2>or for me, the first time watch of the show

0:39:04.560 --> 0:39:06.640
<v Speaker 2>The West Wing, and so then I'm googling it and

0:39:06.640 --> 0:39:08.960
<v Speaker 2>looking into it, and I did not realize The West

0:39:09.000 --> 0:39:12.160
<v Speaker 2>Wing Aaron Sorkin, the creator of the show, was removed

0:39:12.200 --> 0:39:15.120
<v Speaker 2>from the show because he got in major trouble for

0:39:15.200 --> 0:39:18.640
<v Speaker 2>being arrested at an airport with some mushrooms, right, And

0:39:18.680 --> 0:39:21.040
<v Speaker 2>I thought, today, oh my god, that's not that big.

0:39:20.840 --> 0:39:22.760
<v Speaker 1>Of that's a blip on the radar for me. Nobody's

0:39:22.800 --> 0:39:25.560
<v Speaker 1>getting canceled for mushrooms or weed.

0:39:25.800 --> 0:39:29.279
<v Speaker 2>No, some times have change. But speaking of age, I

0:39:29.280 --> 0:39:32.480
<v Speaker 2>have one more to throw at you. Yes, Robert de Niro,

0:39:33.080 --> 0:39:37.200
<v Speaker 2>we've gone from mother to daddy literally having a baby

0:39:38.040 --> 0:39:40.600
<v Speaker 2>at age seventy nine. He's welcomed a new baby and

0:39:40.640 --> 0:39:42.000
<v Speaker 2>he's seventy nine years old.

0:39:42.960 --> 0:39:44.120
<v Speaker 3>Your thoughts.

0:39:44.560 --> 0:39:49.640
<v Speaker 1>One of those stories is wonderful and empowering. One of

0:39:49.719 --> 0:39:55.120
<v Speaker 1>these stories is selfish. I think Martha is an amazing story.

0:39:55.160 --> 0:39:59.200
<v Speaker 1>It's wonderful, great. I think having a child at seventy

0:39:59.280 --> 0:40:04.840
<v Speaker 1>nine years old is unbelievably selfish as a dad. And again,

0:40:05.160 --> 0:40:09.200
<v Speaker 1>God bless them. Congratulations Mazeltov. I hope is a healthy,

0:40:09.239 --> 0:40:11.799
<v Speaker 1>happy baby and they have a wonderful life. They will

0:40:11.800 --> 0:40:13.480
<v Speaker 1>not have their dad around for very long.

0:40:13.640 --> 0:40:17.239
<v Speaker 3>Wow, you're like, God bless them. But also that's selfish.

0:40:17.400 --> 0:40:19.120
<v Speaker 1>It is God bless them now. I mean, I wish

0:40:19.160 --> 0:40:21.600
<v Speaker 1>them well. There's a human being now on this earth.

0:40:21.600 --> 0:40:24.400
<v Speaker 1>I wish them well. But that child will not have

0:40:24.440 --> 0:40:26.920
<v Speaker 1>a father as they grow up, because your dad is

0:40:26.920 --> 0:40:30.799
<v Speaker 1>going to die. Your dad is seventy nine. I'm just

0:40:30.800 --> 0:40:33.279
<v Speaker 1>going to go out on a limb. Odds are and

0:40:33.320 --> 0:40:36.440
<v Speaker 1>even if he's not dead in ten years or eleven years,

0:40:36.960 --> 0:40:40.560
<v Speaker 1>he won't be in the capacity to raise this child

0:40:40.719 --> 0:40:43.280
<v Speaker 1>and enjoy all the great things and so the active

0:40:43.520 --> 0:40:48.000
<v Speaker 1>it's just when you have a child that okay, when

0:40:48.040 --> 0:40:52.759
<v Speaker 1>he's ten or she's ten. He's eighty nine, ninety years old?

0:40:53.160 --> 0:40:55.560
<v Speaker 3>Really okay, So what's the cutoff for you? How old

0:40:55.640 --> 0:40:56.480
<v Speaker 3>can people have children?

0:40:56.680 --> 0:40:59.520
<v Speaker 1>I don't I don't know. I'm not going to set

0:40:59.560 --> 0:41:03.640
<v Speaker 1>the age limit. But seventy nine's it? I know that.

0:41:03.960 --> 0:41:07.799
<v Speaker 1>I know that doesn't pass the smell test. One is

0:41:08.239 --> 0:41:11.239
<v Speaker 1>I'm really it's remarkable he had a child at seventy nine.

0:41:11.280 --> 0:41:12.720
<v Speaker 1>I'm interested to know how that happened.

0:41:12.960 --> 0:41:15.520
<v Speaker 3>But didn't they didn't? Isn't the famous thing that Picasso

0:41:15.560 --> 0:41:18.560
<v Speaker 3>had kids into his seventies, is it? He's not the

0:41:18.640 --> 0:41:19.640
<v Speaker 3>de Niro's not the first.

0:41:19.719 --> 0:41:23.840
<v Speaker 1>He's not. No, And I don't know. I just for

0:41:23.960 --> 0:41:28.359
<v Speaker 1>me having kids. None of us are promised tomorrow. Look,

0:41:28.400 --> 0:41:30.680
<v Speaker 1>I'm only fifty one. I could be gone tomorrow too.

0:41:30.760 --> 0:41:32.880
<v Speaker 1>None of us are promised that. You know that as

0:41:32.880 --> 0:41:37.160
<v Speaker 1>well as anybody. But I do know this that de

0:41:37.239 --> 0:41:39.600
<v Speaker 1>Niro's not going to live all that much longer, and

0:41:39.640 --> 0:41:41.239
<v Speaker 1>he's definitely not gonna be able to be active. And

0:41:41.880 --> 0:41:44.520
<v Speaker 1>he's not going to watch that child graduate from high school.

0:41:44.560 --> 0:41:47.040
<v Speaker 1>He's not gonna watch that child get married. He's not

0:41:47.080 --> 0:41:49.000
<v Speaker 1>going to watch that child walk across the stage and

0:41:49.000 --> 0:41:52.839
<v Speaker 1>graduate college, play and all whatever. There are major life

0:41:52.880 --> 0:41:56.040
<v Speaker 1>moments where that child will not have their father. Look, well,

0:41:56.080 --> 0:41:58.279
<v Speaker 1>they have money. Yeah, they're gonna have DeNiro money. But

0:41:58.440 --> 0:42:00.080
<v Speaker 1>as you know, that doesn't.

0:42:01.160 --> 0:42:03.839
<v Speaker 2>Well, maybe he's thinking, I'm having a kid and I'm

0:42:03.960 --> 0:42:06.440
<v Speaker 2>setting them up financially for life in a way a

0:42:06.440 --> 0:42:08.880
<v Speaker 2>lot of other parents can't. So I'm giving them that gift.

0:42:10.640 --> 0:42:12.400
<v Speaker 1>Sorry to poopoo on de Niro, I don't love I

0:42:12.440 --> 0:42:13.080
<v Speaker 1>just didn't love it.

0:42:13.239 --> 0:42:15.399
<v Speaker 2>You love his acting, maybe you're not loving his parenting. Yeah,

0:42:15.400 --> 0:42:19.200
<v Speaker 2>that's I mean, I totally see your point. I think

0:42:19.200 --> 0:42:21.319
<v Speaker 2>there are obviously a lot worse things a parent can do.

0:42:21.320 --> 0:42:21.880
<v Speaker 3>To a child.

0:42:22.760 --> 0:42:26.240
<v Speaker 2>But okay, I guess there's part of me that wonders,

0:42:26.360 --> 0:42:27.520
<v Speaker 2>and I got to look up who we had this

0:42:27.600 --> 0:42:31.040
<v Speaker 2>child with. But if your partner is telling you, I mean,

0:42:31.080 --> 0:42:32.840
<v Speaker 2>I really want to have another.

0:42:32.680 --> 0:42:35.840
<v Speaker 3>Child, that's a tough. It's tough to look.

0:42:35.760 --> 0:42:38.400
<v Speaker 2>Somebody in the face and say I'm denying you that

0:42:38.400 --> 0:42:38.919
<v Speaker 2>that's hard.

0:42:39.239 --> 0:42:41.640
<v Speaker 1>It was with his partner Tiffany Chen and I believe,

0:42:41.719 --> 0:42:44.000
<v Speaker 1>if I'm not mistaken, this is his seventh child.

0:42:44.719 --> 0:42:45.640
<v Speaker 3>I think so.

0:42:45.640 --> 0:42:48.120
<v Speaker 1>So that's the other thing. You got enough. You don't

0:42:48.120 --> 0:42:51.279
<v Speaker 1>need a starting basketball team. I mean, come on, man,

0:42:51.440 --> 0:42:54.880
<v Speaker 1>come on de Niro, and look, it hurts me to

0:42:54.920 --> 0:42:58.359
<v Speaker 1>talk about my costar like this. You know, we spend

0:42:58.400 --> 0:43:01.000
<v Speaker 1>a lot of quality time together on the movie Showtime.

0:43:01.239 --> 0:43:04.920
<v Speaker 2>Oh my god, I forgot about your cameo in the

0:43:04.920 --> 0:43:05.719
<v Speaker 2>film Showtime.

0:43:06.480 --> 0:43:07.360
<v Speaker 3>Is that Eddie Murphy?

0:43:07.600 --> 0:43:09.680
<v Speaker 1>Eddie Murphy and Robert Genio and Renee Russo one of

0:43:09.719 --> 0:43:10.320
<v Speaker 1>your favorites.

0:43:10.400 --> 0:43:11.480
<v Speaker 3>I love Renee.

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<v Speaker 1>I did not get to meet her or see her

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<v Speaker 1>because I was in the scene with Eddie and Bobby

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<v Speaker 1>de Niro.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, I can't believe you're talking about your friend, Bobby,

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<v Speaker 3>I know.

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<v Speaker 1>See, And that's why I feel so passionately about this. Wow.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, mother's father's age, gaps and babies at elder ages,

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<v Speaker 2>A lot to discuss, a lot discussed today.

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<v Speaker 3>Please everybody slide into the DMS.

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<v Speaker 2>I would love to hear from you guys on what

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<v Speaker 2>you think about these things. And again, a big Congrats

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<v Speaker 2>to Colton and Jordan, and thank you for including us

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<v Speaker 2>in what was a very loving and fun weekend.

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<v Speaker 1>All my love to Colton Jordan, congratulations. Thank you for

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<v Speaker 1>joining us today. We always love talking to you. We'll

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<v Speaker 1>see you next time because we have a lot more

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