Speaker 1: This is the most traumatic podcast ever and iHeartRadio podcast.
Speaker 1: Chris Harrison and Lauren Zema coming to you from the
Speaker 1: home office in Austin, Texas. If we sound just a
Speaker 1: little bit under the weather today, well we'll explain why
Speaker 1: in just a minute. It has to do with where
Speaker 1: we just were, and that was Napa Baby, we were
Speaker 1: in Napa Valley, but for a very very beautiful reason.
Speaker 1: We were at the wedding of Colton Underwood. Coulton and
Speaker 1: Jordan got married this weekend in Napa Valley. We were
Speaker 1: honored to be there to support them and celebrate and dance.
Speaker 2: Baby, you danced so much, so much. That's one thing
Speaker 2: I love about you. I don't care if you're a
Speaker 2: bad dancer, but you got to dance at a wedding,
Speaker 2: and I can't be with someone who doesn't dance, and
Speaker 2: you do. By the way, I wasn't saying you're a
Speaker 2: bad dancer.
Speaker 1: Oh you can.
Speaker 2: You can tell us say that you're a good dancer.
Speaker 2: You actually in the past, his daughter Taylor, who was
Speaker 2: a dancer in school. Sometimes for projects she would have
Speaker 2: to like choreograph and rehearse, and Chris would rehearse with
Speaker 2: Taylor and you crushed it. You can memorize your routine.
Speaker 1: Dance like nobody's watching. Actually I dance like everybody's watching.
Speaker 1: Bring it on. And it was a phenomenal wedding. We
Speaker 1: were really really honored to be there just to celebrate
Speaker 1: Colton and his love with Jordan, who we had never met.
Speaker 2: I think one of my favorite parts of the wedding
Speaker 2: was feeling like we got to see this window into
Speaker 2: Colton and Jordan's relationship. We'd heard such great things about Jordan,
Speaker 2: but to be able to hear their vows, to see
Speaker 2: friends and family give toasts about them, we learned a
Speaker 2: lot more. And that's one thing I love about going
Speaker 2: to a wedding, especially when, like the toasts are really
Speaker 2: heartfelt and emotional, and you know you can't go to
Speaker 2: inside jokey with a toast because then you lose your crowd.
Speaker 1: That's a tip one guy did. We'll explain later.
Speaker 3: No we won't rat him out, No, he did his best.
Speaker 2: But when you can share a little bit, it makes
Speaker 2: the guests feel like, Okay, I know them better now.
Speaker 3: And I walked away from the weekend feeling that way.
Speaker 1: It was important for me to be there to support Coulton.
Speaker 1: This is something a journey I hate to say from
Speaker 1: the show, this journey that he and I had been
Speaker 1: on and gotten to know each other and become friends
Speaker 1: obviously when he was the Bachelor, and then so much
Speaker 1: has been talked about made of everything that happened subsequently
Speaker 1: and his coming out. I'll never forget, you know, him
Speaker 1: taking me to breakfast and us sitting down, him coming
Speaker 1: out to me, going through this journey with him which
Speaker 1: was not perfect and incredibly painful and difficult for him,
Speaker 1: difficult for a lot of people, and to watch him
Speaker 1: grow and own who he was and is, and then
Speaker 1: to find joy and love and to be embraced by
Speaker 1: his family and friends. When he asked us to be there,
Speaker 1: it was important for me to be there and support
Speaker 1: him and show him that love and that I have
Speaker 1: been on this full circle journey with him and it's
Speaker 1: amazing that he got to this point where he is.
Speaker 2: I was very touched to have been invited, especially when
Speaker 2: I found out we were the only ones from Bachelor
Speaker 2: Nation there. What really made my heart happy over the
Speaker 2: weekend was and I was surprised to how many people
Speaker 2: came up to You just guessed at the wedding or
Speaker 2: you know, friends and family and talked about like the season.
Speaker 2: You know, they kind of went back to Colton's season
Speaker 2: on the show, and what several people said was, well,
Speaker 2: Colton always talked about how you Chris were there for
Speaker 2: him during that season when nobody else was, and that
Speaker 2: is your partner. Just made me so happy to hear
Speaker 2: because you know, like anybody you love in your life,
Speaker 2: when when you hear other people talk them up, it
Speaker 2: makes you feel good. And so everybody kept saying that
Speaker 2: to you, and I don't think I really realized that
Speaker 2: the depth of how much that was felt that they
Speaker 2: said you were the one, like through the fence jumping
Speaker 2: all that. Colton said, well, Chris was there for me
Speaker 2: when maybe producers or other people weren't.
Speaker 1: I didn't talk about this with you. I was a
Speaker 1: little nervous entering that arena, going to the wedding. Yeah.
Speaker 1: So we got to NAPA and the first night, Friday night,
Speaker 1: there was this kind of get together at the Carneros
Speaker 1: spawn resort where we were.
Speaker 3: Yes, a welcome party. Carnerosen beautiful property and.
Speaker 1: So everybody was kind of together at this resort. They
Speaker 1: had the entire resort in lockdown. It was wonderful that
Speaker 1: we had the whole place to ourselves, and so they
Speaker 1: had this kind of yard barbecue festival thing and wine
Speaker 1: and drinks and all that little get together. I was
Speaker 1: a little nervous when I walked in. I wasn't sure
Speaker 1: how I would be accepted. I was a little worried
Speaker 1: that people might have a negative connotation associated with me
Speaker 1: and the show and Coulton's time on the show, and
Speaker 1: that was a very difficult part of his life, and
Speaker 1: I thought, am I an example of that? And I
Speaker 1: was a little worried that people would be a little
Speaker 1: stand offish or maybe even make some snide com instead,
Speaker 1: as you just said, it was the opposite. And we
Speaker 1: walked in and we got really lucky because we walked
Speaker 1: in and Colton and Jordan happened to be standing right there.
Speaker 3: Well, I think they were greeting everyone.
Speaker 1: Well, they've been walking around, I saw, and then when
Speaker 1: we walked in, they just kind of walked up and
Speaker 1: Colton saw us, and I just I saw the look
Speaker 1: on his face and he kind of melted and got
Speaker 1: emotional that we were there, and he just gave me
Speaker 1: a huge hug, and he looked fantastic, as he always does,
Speaker 1: ridiculously handsome and fit, and he immediately grabbed his fiance
Speaker 1: Jordan and brought Jordan over. Because I had never met Jordan.
Speaker 1: I've heard so much about him, and Colton's talked about him,
Speaker 1: but until you meet him, and he is just this warm, charismatic,
Speaker 1: just loving, caring person. And we'll talk more about him.
Speaker 1: But it was fantastic, and he just gave me a
Speaker 1: big hug, and I could tell this is going to
Speaker 1: be a great event.
Speaker 2: It's funny you say that, because a little part of
Speaker 2: me was wondering about that too. I think it's always
Speaker 2: weird for anybody when you don't know anyone else at
Speaker 2: a wedding. I mean, we didn't know anybody.
Speaker 1: Nobody we knew.
Speaker 2: We had met Colton's mom once years ago, Lovely Donna,
Speaker 2: big shout out. She and I did take a shot
Speaker 2: together with his uncle as will. I love her, but
Speaker 2: we'd met her once, you know. I think she and
Speaker 2: I follow each other on Instagram, but we hadn't. We
Speaker 2: didn't know anybody else, but I mean everyone was so
Speaker 2: warm and so loving. Colton's whole family is from Illinois,
Speaker 2: so am I. So you know, Midwest is the best.
Speaker 2: Connecting with the people was.
Speaker 3: A lot of Chicago energy.
Speaker 2: But yeah, I was a little I didn't know that
Speaker 2: either because mostly because I didn't know Jordan's whole crowd
Speaker 2: and you know how they might feel about the show
Speaker 2: and its whole energy.
Speaker 3: But everybody was so excited to meet you.
Speaker 2: I have to applaud everybody was so excited to meet you.
Speaker 3: I just had the best things.
Speaker 2: Jordan was like, Colton raves about you guys, and I'm
Speaker 2: so happy to meet you.
Speaker 3: So everybody was really laid the groundwork.
Speaker 1: As you said, Colton definitely laid the groundwork of the
Speaker 1: way he has spoken about me to all his family.
Speaker 1: So it was just open arms. And then there was
Speaker 1: Jordan's friends, who again very rare that Elsie and I
Speaker 1: walk into a wedding, or you'll even go to a
Speaker 1: wedding where you know nobody. We knew the groom, one
Speaker 1: of the grooms, we didn't even know the other groom,
Speaker 1: but we showed up to support him, and quickly we
Speaker 1: realized that Jordan is a collector of people. He has
Speaker 1: a fierce loyal group of friends. He's one of those
Speaker 1: people that everybody at the wedding feels like they are
Speaker 1: Jordan's best friend and have known him the best and
Speaker 1: the longest. And I love that about people, when you
Speaker 1: meet humans like that. And so everybody we talked to,
Speaker 1: and predominantly, probably the majority of people just knew Jordan
Speaker 1: and Colton's family traveled in and all that, but I
Speaker 1: think Jordan probably had more people at the wedding, and
Speaker 1: they all just loved and adored him.
Speaker 2: Every single person was like, I'm Jordan's friend from high school.
Speaker 2: I owned him for ten years, I was his roommate,
Speaker 2: I lived with him in college. And that's such a
Speaker 2: reflection of someone when they have long friendships in their lives,
Speaker 2: like you said, when they are just somebody who you
Speaker 2: can tell that's a good person because people stick with them.
Speaker 1: We also quickly realized he is the chandler being of
Speaker 1: this relationship. Nobody really knows what he does for a living.
Speaker 1: It was great.
Speaker 2: A trans political monster, No, I think what we're defining
Speaker 2: it as. I actually asked a few people and we
Speaker 2: were all kind of lovingly laughing and saying, it's hard
Speaker 2: to describe. I would say political strategist, yes, because there
Speaker 2: was even a joke about that by the officiant in
Speaker 2: the ceremony.
Speaker 1: Did not officiate this winning I got asked that by
Speaker 1: a lot of people. I did not.
Speaker 3: Are you officiating?
Speaker 1: Yes? And when I was there like, oh, you're officiating,
Speaker 1: and I did not. Coulton just wanted us to be
Speaker 1: there to enjoy, which I really respected. I would have
Speaker 1: totally stood before them. But they had a friend, kind
Speaker 1: of a mutual friend of Jordan's and Coulton's who did
Speaker 1: the ceremony, and it was he did a phenomenal job.
Speaker 2: Yes, And he came up to you afterwards. I know
Speaker 2: you guys had this cute conversation. He was so sweet,
Speaker 2: but I loved the one of his opening lines was
Speaker 2: he was so honored to be asked to officiate. And
Speaker 2: again going back to the political Stris had a strategist thing,
Speaker 2: he said, because Jordan could have asked Barack Obama and Colton.
Speaker 3: Could have asked Chris Harrison. So it was a funny
Speaker 3: opening line.
Speaker 1: Absolutely, the only time that I'll ever be in the
Speaker 1: same sentence with Barack Obama was at Colton and Jordan's wedding.
Speaker 3: Are you not running for president?
Speaker 1: I thought? The only one that's not. I think I
Speaker 1: would probably do a better job than both of them.
Speaker 1: But it was it really was funny, and it got
Speaker 1: a good laugh and it kind of took the tension
Speaker 1: out of the room. And it was funny, and he
Speaker 1: did a phenomenal job. And this is someone who had
Speaker 1: known Jordan for quite some time and had gone through
Speaker 1: the coming out process with Jordan and then subsequently met
Speaker 1: Colton and went through the process with him. So this
Speaker 1: person who officiated really shared this journey and fit the
Speaker 1: mold perfectly and kind of told this arcing story and
Speaker 1: it was really beautiful. But we go back to the
Speaker 1: welcome party on Friday night, yes, and we've gotten to
Speaker 1: know everybody. We're having a blast. It's really a good time.
Speaker 1: Everybody's relaxed. And then come the speeches. So the kind
Speaker 1: of informal toasts, if you will, the gentleman hosting kind
Speaker 1: of m seeing the toast. If he's not if he's
Speaker 1: not a stand up guy or a professional writer, he
Speaker 1: should be. The guy was magnificent.
Speaker 2: And so I mean, look, I think it's hard also
Speaker 2: to not go to a wedding and think about our
Speaker 2: own and think.
Speaker 3: Okay, let's do this.
Speaker 2: But they did something that I told my sister to
Speaker 2: do at her wedding last year, and it was awesome.
Speaker 2: And I love when people do this, which is have
Speaker 2: a couple fun toasts at your welcome party or rehearsal
Speaker 2: dinner on the night before.
Speaker 3: I think it makes people feel together right away. Again.
Speaker 2: It gives you that window into the couple and kind
Speaker 2: of helps you know some of the other people in
Speaker 2: the room instead of just kind of mingling and making
Speaker 2: small talk. And it gives you, honestly something to talk about,
Speaker 2: because if you don't know someone, you can at least say,
Speaker 2: how about that toast?
Speaker 3: What a great toast?
Speaker 1: Or what a horrible toast? But the lead hitter just
Speaker 1: crushed it, and I mean on a professional level. He
Speaker 1: made jokes that were so poignant, so perfect. He didn't
Speaker 1: get too personal, he didn't go too inside baseball.
Speaker 3: He was a little Hollywood too, which was funny.
Speaker 2: I think one of his funniest jokes was he said, so,
Speaker 2: I'm not going to quote him properly, but I'm paraphrasing
Speaker 2: something like, well, you know, we're all going to take
Speaker 2: some shots tonight, and by shots I mean of ozempic
Speaker 2: Well and that.
Speaker 1: The Megan Markle line was fantastic, he.
Speaker 2: Did say at the end, and I think I have
Speaker 2: this memorized. His closing line was, in the words a
Speaker 2: future Nobel Prize winner Megan Markle, if we can all
Speaker 2: treat each other like our best friends, like can you
Speaker 2: even imagine?
Speaker 1: It was so good. So the next guy that steps
Speaker 1: up to the mic his Coulton's old foot coach Spence.
Speaker 2: Coach Spence, we were not disappointed.
Speaker 3: There was no need to worry.
Speaker 1: There was a second of trepidation, a second of fear
Speaker 1: of oh no, and he crushed.
Speaker 2: I mean, I will say, you know, I am about sports,
Speaker 2: but a coach, I'm thinking, has got to be a
Speaker 2: good public speaker. He's talking to the team every night.
Speaker 2: I know that much. You know, I might say, it's
Speaker 2: like a director of a play. Okay, So coach Spence
Speaker 2: crushes it. And again, I'm a Chicago girl. The second
Speaker 2: he got up there, he's kind of talking like this.
Speaker 3: And I'm like, oh, this is a Chicago guy. This
Speaker 3: is an Illinois guy. And he was so genuine.
Speaker 2: And what I loved was that there was no there
Speaker 2: was so much love around the fact that everybody kind
Speaker 2: of knows Colton was had not come out for a
Speaker 2: while people knew him, you know, before he'd come out,
Speaker 2: and so there we was sort of these loving jokes
Speaker 2: about those times, like the coach said, well, you know, Colton,
Speaker 2: he's like, these girls are texting him to hang out,
Speaker 2: and he wouldn't go out with the girls. He'd like,
Speaker 2: just come to practice and I'd be like, man, I
Speaker 2: love your focus.
Speaker 1: He's like, you did, did Coulton? Did you go out
Speaker 1: last night? He's like, no, Coach, I stayed in. He's like,
Speaker 1: I love this kid, this kid, And so obviously there
Speaker 1: was a reason Colton was not going out with the ladies,
Speaker 1: and there he made a few jokes like that. It
Speaker 1: just he was so endearing because it was so raw
Speaker 1: just to hear this ultra apex like male, hetero male
Speaker 1: giving this speech about Colton.
Speaker 2: Every just it was so beautiful and I really think
Speaker 2: those again, those toasts that night of Colton and Jordan
Speaker 2: picked the perfect people and they made everybody feel like
Speaker 2: one group for the wedding ahead of the actual wedding day.
Speaker 1: So that was Friday night, Saturday's wedding day. It kicked
Speaker 1: off with a kind of afternoon disco theme pool party,
Speaker 1: which everybody went to had a good time, got way
Speaker 1: too much sun, and then there was the ceremony, which
Speaker 1: was it was warm. I will say this, it was
Speaker 1: warm in Napa.
Speaker 2: Once again we run into this problem where I am
Speaker 2: a sweater and Chris Harrison is not.
Speaker 1: Ladies I did this day though, to the ladies.
Speaker 2: Who are with a man out there, if you or anybody,
Speaker 2: anybody with your partner, it is so embarrassing if you
Speaker 2: are a sweaty person and they are not. I'm sitting there,
Speaker 2: I'm trying to look cute and I've gotten all dressed up.
Speaker 3: Does it next to Christmas?
Speaker 1: You looks beautiful. By the way, thank you. And by
Speaker 1: the way, our outfits matched.
Speaker 2: You did crush it on the matching. You always crush
Speaker 2: it on the matching. I just don't agree with your
Speaker 2: assessment of the colors of clothing. I mean, honestly, even
Speaker 2: this time, he's telling me, I have this great pink
Speaker 2: shirt that's going to go with your outfit, and I'm like, babe,
Speaker 2: that is purple. But it did match. You get there
Speaker 2: in the end, and that's what it's about. You land
Speaker 2: the plane.
Speaker 1: And so it was unseasonably warm, just for some reason
Speaker 1: in Napa it was ninety plus degrees. It was just
Speaker 1: a warm afternoon. So we spend a little time outside
Speaker 1: and I'm going to suit your in your dress, and
Speaker 1: everybody was it was warm. It was warm. We got
Speaker 1: a little sweaty. The other thing is there was a
Speaker 1: little bit of sniffling and sneezing, which is why we
Speaker 1: sound probably like we do on the podcast. Today. They're
Speaker 1: going through what's called a super bloom in Napa Valley.
Speaker 1: There was so much rain this year in Napa in
Speaker 1: California that everything is blooming like never before. And they
Speaker 1: literally said, hey, just beware, it's rough up here. And
Speaker 1: so there was a little sniffling and sneezing and some
Speaker 1: red eyes.
Speaker 2: I now, I'll just say again, I can't keep up
Speaker 2: with you. Listen to how I how I sound, no
Speaker 2: versus how Chris sounds. I don't Is it just more
Speaker 2: years of broadcast experience. Your voice sounds perfect. I sound
Speaker 2: like my throat.
Speaker 1: Got to bring the voice down into your chest.
Speaker 2: Okay, I just tried to lower it. Now I just
Speaker 2: sound like I'm trying.
Speaker 1: To be like you're smoking.
Speaker 3: So I want to talk about the seramon.
Speaker 1: Yeah, let's get to the Sarah.
Speaker 3: Todd Hawkins, As we said, their friend.
Speaker 1: About two hundred people it this way. It was a
Speaker 1: very big wedding.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 2: I think they took over the whole resort, which again
Speaker 2: made it fun. If you're going to do a destination wedding,
Speaker 2: everybody's on the property together. But so their friend Todd
Speaker 2: Hawkins does the ceremony. He was adorable, he was funny,
Speaker 2: he was heartfelt, he was great. And I love when
Speaker 2: someone who the couple knows officiates. I don't mean to
Speaker 2: be shady, do what you want to do, but I
Speaker 2: just this memes you go when you see clearly they've
Speaker 2: you know, I don't know even honestly, if it's like
Speaker 2: a pastor of a church but they don't really know them,
Speaker 2: You don't. It doesn't feel I want to feel emotional,
Speaker 2: I want to feel connected.
Speaker 3: I want to cry on a wedding day.
Speaker 2: I do.
Speaker 1: You did cry.
Speaker 3: I did cry.
Speaker 2: I said to Colton afterwards, I don't think I've ever
Speaker 2: both laughed and cried so much at a ceremony because
Speaker 2: there was a beautiful roller coaster of emotion.
Speaker 3: They would.
Speaker 2: I mean, at one point, I think Colton was tearing
Speaker 2: up a little bit, which was great. But they also
Speaker 2: had these really funny moments. They had a gospel choir,
Speaker 2: and this choir was sort of I don't know if
Speaker 2: it was pre planned or improvising with the vows.
Speaker 3: So Colton might say.
Speaker 2: I vow to always let you drive, and this incredibly
Speaker 2: talented choir would go.
Speaker 4: Don't crash.
Speaker 1: It was reminded me of kind of like think of
Speaker 1: the Doctor Pepper commercials with Live like where they kind
Speaker 1: of sing the girl with.
Speaker 3: The guy who used to be on American Idol. Yeah, yes,
Speaker 3: Justine that. It was very much that humor.
Speaker 1: And it was so funny, spectacular. So and Colton had
Speaker 1: prepared this with the choir, obviously Jordan didn't know. And
Speaker 1: then Jordan has his his own version of it too, which.
Speaker 3: But Jordan kicked off the vocals.
Speaker 1: Yeah, he started his vows by singing Angel of.
Speaker 3: Mine by Monica. What a choice.
Speaker 2: The millennial inside of me was a lit He sang
Speaker 2: a little bit. Who knew Jordan could sing?
Speaker 3: It was incredible, and then he went into the vowel.
Speaker 1: Two things I loved about it He sang just enough
Speaker 1: like of the chorus. He didn't make it awkward by
Speaker 1: singing the whole three and a half minute song. Correct,
Speaker 1: it was perfect. So it's like he he showed his race,
Speaker 1: his skills, his love of Coulton, and then he went
Speaker 1: into his vows and it was again an expert this
Speaker 1: guy is. You can tell why he's such a good
Speaker 1: political strategist because he was so eloquent, so well spoken.
Speaker 1: He has a great voice for radio.
Speaker 2: By the way, the entire wedding, I said to Colton,
Speaker 2: it planned to a tea. I don't know if anybody
Speaker 2: could have planned a wedding like this better. I mean,
Speaker 2: to get everybody on one property, the welcome party, the toasts,
Speaker 2: the wedding itself, the timing of it all.
Speaker 3: They crushed it.
Speaker 1: And is there anything else that stuck out to you
Speaker 1: about the ceremony.
Speaker 3: I mean no, I loved it.
Speaker 2: I was very I also loved that they told everybody
Speaker 2: please don't take your phones out. Yeah, because I know
Speaker 2: everybody's aunt wants their picture of the ceremony to put
Speaker 2: on their Instagram. But when people are pulling their phones
Speaker 2: out and taking pictures during Todd started it by saying,
Speaker 2: professional photographers here, they're going to get great pictures.
Speaker 3: Please just be in the moment.
Speaker 1: And I loved that and everybody followed yeah and did
Speaker 1: not do that, which was cool.
Speaker 3: Which is impressive with two hundred people.
Speaker 1: It was And but I'll leave.
Speaker 3: The rest of the you know, the vows and all
Speaker 3: that to I don't want to.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, no, they the vows were just they were
Speaker 1: both funny, irreverent at times and then poignant and beautiful
Speaker 1: and personal. And the people who got up and spoke,
Speaker 1: including Colton's dad, it was just they were some really funny,
Speaker 1: lighthearted moments. But it just it really made you connect
Speaker 1: with everybody, the family, Colton and Jordan. You just it
Speaker 1: felt very personal, which was wonderful.
Speaker 2: So we go into the wedding party. We're rocking and rolling.
Speaker 2: I'm doing a shot with Donna.
Speaker 1: Well, we got to back up. I mean, we walked
Speaker 1: in and there's the Stanford I don't know if it's
Speaker 1: the Synchronized Swim team the Creative Swim team. They're in
Speaker 1: the pool performing as we all walk in.
Speaker 3: Yes, because I think Jordan went to stand he did.
Speaker 1: Yes, that's true. There was a lot of Stanford there.
Speaker 3: Smarty that man.
Speaker 1: A lot of Cardinal were in the house.
Speaker 3: I don't know that is it the team?
Speaker 1: Yes, Sanford card one of the rare teams where the
Speaker 1: mascot is an s. It's the Stanford Cardinal.
Speaker 3: Okay, you lost me there, but anyways.
Speaker 1: So yeah, we get to the party and there is
Speaker 1: this beautiful, beautifully set up reception at the top. They
Speaker 1: call it the Hilltop. Actually they're at Carneros the Pool
Speaker 1: and you just have a view, kind of one hundred
Speaker 1: and eighty degree view of all the vineyards in Carneros Valley.
Speaker 1: It is just spectacular the whole night.
Speaker 3: I mean, we had.
Speaker 2: Drinks flowing and great food and again some incredible toasts,
Speaker 2: one coming from Miss Olivia Wilde.
Speaker 1: Actress Miss Olivia Wilde was there.
Speaker 3: Longtime friend of Jordan's, crushed it with her toast, very funny.
Speaker 1: Told a really funny story of her and Jordan.
Speaker 3: It was just a very la story.
Speaker 2: And again I don't want to reveal, you know, all
Speaker 2: the details of their event, but it was like she
Speaker 2: talked about a day when they went to the grove together,
Speaker 2: and that was so la to me of like, you're
Speaker 2: younger and you don't have any money yet, like you're
Speaker 2: not successful yet, and you're just kind of walking around
Speaker 2: at an outdoor mall in Los Angeles and she was really.
Speaker 1: Funny, great and yeah again it's obviously close to Jordan
Speaker 1: and now you could tell is very good friends with Coulton.
Speaker 1: And there were a few Hollywood like writers and people
Speaker 1: like that were there that we didn't know and got
Speaker 1: to know.
Speaker 2: Very I think one of the creators of Jury Duty
Speaker 2: was in the house. If everybody hasn't watched Jury Duty
Speaker 2: on Amazon free v yet, hilarious, wonderful, just watch it.
Speaker 2: So I actually wanted to meet that guy to tell
Speaker 2: him his show was great.
Speaker 1: But if you're not a James Marsin and Van, you
Speaker 1: will be after you watched Jerry Duty. It was. It
Speaker 1: was a beautiful reception and not to like pick favorites.
Speaker 1: Table seven definitely crushed it.
Speaker 2: Okay, I have to ask Coulton later how he put
Speaker 2: us at that table. I am so fascinated to know,
Speaker 2: because the seating charts important, right, I mean another thing.
Speaker 1: This was a fully plated dinner and had beautiful tables displayed,
Speaker 1: and so it was a sit down dinner.
Speaker 2: So as we're thinking about our wedding, I liked norma chairs.
Speaker 2: Some people do open seating at a wedding. That makes
Speaker 2: me a little nervous as a guest. I like to
Speaker 2: be to go, put my purse down and know where
Speaker 2: I'm sitting.
Speaker 1: You know how I feel about Southwest Airline.
Speaker 3: You we don't want our wedding to south I don't.
Speaker 1: Want the angst of am I sitting in the right place?
Speaker 1: Do I have a good chair? Oh, someone's purse is
Speaker 1: already in this chair, so there's only one chair. I
Speaker 1: don't like it.
Speaker 3: Starts you're picking teams at Jim again. Who Oh, who
Speaker 3: are you going to sit with?
Speaker 1: Oh?
Speaker 3: Will you please sit with me? Oh? I can't sit here.
Speaker 3: Your table's taken. I don't like that.
Speaker 1: As with everything at this wedding, clearly a lot of
Speaker 1: thought was put into the table seating.
Speaker 3: So we are.
Speaker 2: Sitting next to just a hilarious couple. Polly and Rob
Speaker 2: and her sister and her husband are also there. They're
Speaker 2: Jordan's friends, I believe from college. We had an incredible
Speaker 2: couple across from us. We just had really fun people
Speaker 2: and I think we were the rowdy table.
Speaker 1: The woman across from us from Mumbai, Yes, came in
Speaker 1: from India. They came the furthest Her and her husband
Speaker 1: came from Mumbai and she is this amazing She kind
Speaker 1: of creates this comedic content over there. I started diving
Speaker 1: into her stuff. She was fascinating. So it was everybody
Speaker 1: was just so open and you met everybody at our table, and.
Speaker 2: It was I was starting to be like, are we
Speaker 2: are we laughing too loud during the toasts?
Speaker 3: Are we that table?
Speaker 1: We definitely were that table a little.
Speaker 2: Bit, But I like to give people supportive laughter. I
Speaker 2: think I think so much about how nerve wrecking it
Speaker 2: is to make a toast, and so I'm like whooping
Speaker 2: and cheering loudly, and maybe I needed to do in
Speaker 2: the book.
Speaker 1: So when we got through dinner, we and plenty of
Speaker 1: cocktails and wine, and then there was the well, there
Speaker 1: was the first dance that this their friend of theirs
Speaker 1: saying and it was beautiful, and Colton and Jordan had
Speaker 1: their first dance together, and then the moms were there.
Speaker 2: I was getting emotional during that first dance. It was
Speaker 2: really nice to see Colton so happy.
Speaker 1: By the way, we got to spend a lot of
Speaker 1: time with Colton's mom and dad, oh, his and his
Speaker 1: bonus mom as Colton Calture his whole family.
Speaker 2: I mean, they were so welcoming, so lovely, and I
Speaker 2: mean again, I think a lot of them were excited
Speaker 2: to meet you, but they were just so much fun.
Speaker 1: I just really enjoyed because I had heard about Colton's dad,
Speaker 1: obviously football player and the guy that got Colton into football,
Speaker 1: and he, by the way, I see where Coulton gets
Speaker 1: his build. His dad is as big and as jacked
Speaker 1: as Colton is. I'm like, okay, that apple didn't fall
Speaker 1: far from the genetic tree. But I just really enjoyed
Speaker 1: talking to him one on one for quite some time.
Speaker 1: Of how much he loves Colton, how much he supports him,
Speaker 1: how much he was He's just all in on Colton's
Speaker 1: journey and where he is and where he came from.
Speaker 1: And I don't know, I was just this blue collar
Speaker 1: dad from the Midwest. I love that he has embraced
Speaker 1: all that Colton is and who his son really is.
Speaker 1: It just warmed my heart.
Speaker 3: There was a lot of love in the room.
Speaker 2: There was so dancing and again Chris Harrison hittim the
Speaker 2: dance floor hard.
Speaker 3: Did you oh? The band? The band was great? Do
Speaker 3: we call it a band?
Speaker 1: It was a mix between a DJ, so he was
Speaker 1: playing songs as a DJ would these great mixes. But
Speaker 1: they had brass, there was a trumpet, there was a saxon,
Speaker 1: there was a drummer. Kind of a jazz band. So
Speaker 1: each member of this kind of DJ group also played
Speaker 1: an instrument, and so they would sometimes jump in on
Speaker 1: the mix and go for a solo. It was awesome.
Speaker 3: So we danced all night.
Speaker 1: We danced into the wee hours of the morning.
Speaker 3: And what more do you want out of a wedding?
Speaker 1: Truly?
Speaker 2: To me, at the end of the day, if you
Speaker 2: feel the love in the room, like emotional good fun toasts,
Speaker 2: if you feel like you had a great cocktail and
Speaker 2: you're feeling good, and then if you dance all night,
Speaker 2: that's a wedding.
Speaker 3: To me, that's all you need.
Speaker 1: And everybody woke up Sunday morning a little horse ready
Speaker 1: to head home.
Speaker 2: So let me ask you, because one thing Colton did
Speaker 2: mention in his vows was getting through.
Speaker 3: Like he talked a little bit about what a wild.
Speaker 2: Ride it had been with him and Jordan, even just
Speaker 2: what an up and down at sometimes tough time the
Speaker 2: last couple of years had been for him.
Speaker 3: What was it like for you to be there?
Speaker 2: Because you always say the bachelor's and bachelorettes specifically you
Speaker 2: get closer with them and they feel a little bit
Speaker 2: like your kids.
Speaker 3: And Colton has maybe.
Speaker 2: I mean, he's definitely up there in terms of the.
Speaker 3: The highs and lows of his ride as the lead.
Speaker 1: And controversy obviously surrounded it. And I do it's like,
Speaker 1: you know, that was one thing I always prided myself on,
Speaker 1: and it wasn't for everybody. You know, I got closer
Speaker 1: with some than others. That's just human nature, but many
Speaker 1: of them I did. I felt very protective of them
Speaker 1: as they went through this and then afterwards as they
Speaker 1: went on this journey, and you know, you look at
Speaker 1: like a Caitlin Bristow who ended up with Jason Tartick.
Speaker 1: You know, that's a little different than what Coulton went
Speaker 1: through and ending up with Jordan and how it all
Speaker 1: came to be and how controversial it was. But I'm
Speaker 1: a big believer that you stand by people through thick
Speaker 1: and thin, through the good times, through the bad, and
Speaker 1: it's not always perfect. But knowing what Coulton struggled with,
Speaker 1: and having had very deep personal conversations with him about
Speaker 1: his journey and the things he fought all his life
Speaker 1: to see him get to a point where he can
Speaker 1: stand in front of hundreds of people, his family and
Speaker 1: look so at ease as to who he is now.
Speaker 1: To me, that my heart was just swelling with pride.
Speaker 1: And that's when I got emotional at the wedding. That's
Speaker 1: what I got emotional about was just these moments where
Speaker 1: I would be watching Colton. I could just see him.
Speaker 1: His shoulders are down, he's not scared, he's not hiding,
Speaker 1: kind of like I felt like when he was on
Speaker 1: The Bachelor, there was this defense up. There was this
Speaker 1: wallup At the time. Obviously we didn't know exactly what
Speaker 1: it was. Now you can see it clearly, and I
Speaker 1: can see that that's gone, and I can see that
Speaker 1: this man Jordan, has helped him take that down and
Speaker 1: helped him find out who he was and is and
Speaker 1: be free. And so I don't know, just there we
Speaker 1: was so much emotions just swelling up in me seeing
Speaker 1: who this man is now and this friend, this guy
Speaker 1: who I consider a friend, and also selfishly what it
Speaker 1: meant to him to see me there supporting him, that approval,
Speaker 1: maybe that love. When he gave me a hug and
Speaker 1: you could just see it in his eyes when he
Speaker 1: grabbed me and just said thank you for being here.
Speaker 1: It means the world to me. It just it felt
Speaker 1: so good.
Speaker 2: I was very touched to have been invited, for sure. Yeah,
Speaker 2: and as you just you know, I mean if you
Speaker 2: mentioned controversy. One thing about being at the wedding is look,
Speaker 2: the stuff that doesn't make headlines are for anybody who's
Speaker 2: in the spotlight, your friends and family who aren't you know.
Speaker 2: I mean you looked around that room and there were
Speaker 2: two hundred people there supporting and loving these people, and
Speaker 2: so many people. I mean, Jordan was standing up there saying, Colton,
Speaker 2: you are like my champion, you are my teammate. That's
Speaker 2: the type of person Colton is. Colton's family talking about,
Speaker 2: you know, how much they love him, what a great
Speaker 2: person he is. People talking about the way Colton's smile
Speaker 2: lights up a room. He had a long time friend
Speaker 2: of his, I think her name was Cassie give a
Speaker 2: toast about him and speak to the type of person
Speaker 2: he is. So that stuff doesn't make headlines, but you
Speaker 2: see all these human beings vouching for and supporting this person,
Speaker 2: and that's so important. So I just wanted to say
Speaker 2: that because it was beautiful.
Speaker 1: You can't be around Coulton and not know that his
Speaker 1: heart is as broad as his shoulders are. He definitely
Speaker 1: has a big heart and he leads with that, and
Speaker 1: so yeah, it meant a lot. And it was something that,
Speaker 1: you know, for us again to go to a wedding
Speaker 1: where we knew we weren't going to know anybody and
Speaker 1: it was probably going to be a little uncomfortable at first,
Speaker 1: and it turned out it wasn't. But that was how
Speaker 1: much it meant for us to be there to show
Speaker 1: that support. And I'm glad we did. And it was
Speaker 1: a great weekend. And I'm glad we're home because we
Speaker 1: need to repack because we're off on another adventure this week.
Speaker 3: Yes, so congrats to Colton and Jordan.
Speaker 1: Yeah, all my love guys, all my love go have
Speaker 1: an amazing life together. Before we go today, there's a
Speaker 1: couple of things I did want to touch on. Can
Speaker 1: I do one quick sports thing?
Speaker 3: Make it quick?
Speaker 1: This is going to be a sweet sports thing. So
Speaker 1: the NBA Playoffs are going on, that's basketball. Miami Heat
Speaker 1: are playing the New York Knicks. So the Heat win,
Speaker 1: they wrap up the series. This is a huge moment.
Speaker 1: There is a player for the Heat bam out of
Speaker 1: bio and he's in a postgame press conference. His phone rings.
Speaker 1: It's his mom. He stops in the middle of his
Speaker 1: press conference and picks up the phone.
Speaker 4: Here it is I have a lot of respect for
Speaker 4: and it's nogic. Hello, Hi mommy. Yes, no, I'm a media.
Speaker 4: I'm a media. No, I wasn't in it. Nah, it's
Speaker 4: all good.
Speaker 1: Come on. I know this is a sports thing, but
Speaker 1: how adorable in the middle of a press conference. First
Speaker 1: of all, he picks up the phone. The first thing
Speaker 1: he says is Mommy.
Speaker 2: It's very situationally dependent. I've noticed that if my mom
Speaker 2: calls when I'm with you, I say hey mom. But
Speaker 2: if my mom calls and I'm alone, I'm like, hi
Speaker 2: mommy or something.
Speaker 3: You kind of go back into kid modes.
Speaker 2: So I kind of love that he was confident enough
Speaker 2: to say Hi mommy in front of an entire room
Speaker 2: of the press, and now in a clip that's gone.
Speaker 1: Everywhere, and I love the press was totally silent. It's
Speaker 1: like he's going to take this call from his mom.
Speaker 3: You take the call from mom, and so he always
Speaker 3: answer from mom.
Speaker 1: He totally did. And the best part is, obviously you
Speaker 1: can't hear in that clip what mom was saying, but
Speaker 1: she was clearly concerned about something he was possibly involved with,
Speaker 1: or maybe something had happened. He says, no, Mom, I'm good.
Speaker 1: You know I wasn't a part of that. It's all good.
Speaker 1: So clearly she was concerned about something. And I just
Speaker 1: love that we had talked about this in our Mother's
Speaker 1: Day episode, and obviously we just celebrated Mother's Day, so
Speaker 1: I love that this happened right as we were celebrating
Speaker 1: all of our moms.
Speaker 3: When was the press conference?
Speaker 1: It was the other day.
Speaker 2: So don't you think you got especially if it's Mother's
Speaker 2: Day weekend, you got it.
Speaker 1: Mother's Day weekend. But I just loved how he answered
Speaker 1: to her. And we talked about with our moms, you
Speaker 1: have to feel responsible to someone other than yourself. Clearly,
Speaker 1: this mom has done an amazing job because he was
Speaker 1: answering to her and it was just so sweet. I
Speaker 1: just thought it was a beautiful moment.
Speaker 2: I remember reading a study that you will instantly any
Speaker 2: human being, you will feel instantly more calm if you
Speaker 2: hear your mother's voice. It's just something biological. Now, maybe
Speaker 2: it depends on the tone and the volume of your
Speaker 2: voice and what it's about.
Speaker 1: But if they use your full name, yes, Laura Nashley Zema,
Speaker 1: You're like, oh, I'm in trouble, Donna.
Speaker 2: I've noticed that if I'm feeling stressed about something, I
Speaker 2: actually I've worked on clearly communicating it over the years.
Speaker 2: I will call my mom and right off the bat,
Speaker 2: I make the conversation clear and I say, I'm kind
Speaker 2: of stressed and I just need to hear your voice,
Speaker 2: and then we kind of just have a nice, like
Speaker 2: easy conversation and she makes me laugh and doesn't criticize
Speaker 2: me on that.
Speaker 1: Well. And to say again, when you have a mom
Speaker 1: like you do, like I do, clearly like Bam out
Speaker 1: of Bio does from the heat, they just immediately make
Speaker 1: you feel like you're twelve years old again. I don't
Speaker 1: care if you're the best basketball player in the world
Speaker 1: and you just beat the Nicks and you're heading off
Speaker 1: to the Eastern Conference Finals, you are twelve years old
Speaker 1: and you're answering to your mommy. I love that.
Speaker 2: Next time your mom calls, because I've never heard you
Speaker 2: say it, I want you to say, hi, mommy.
Speaker 1: I've never called my mom mommy.
Speaker 3: Never you never use a kid.
Speaker 1: Even as a kid, I never use the word what
Speaker 1: did you say? Mom?
Speaker 3: Just mom?
Speaker 1: To this day I'm like, hey mom, love you Mom. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I've never called her mommy.
Speaker 3: All right, well let me bring you to a different mother.
Speaker 1: Okay.
Speaker 2: A couple fabulous elders making the news this week for
Speaker 2: very different reasons. Martha Stewart at eighty one cover of
Speaker 2: Sports Illustrated Swimsuit Edition, the oldest woman person whoever to
Speaker 2: ever be on the cover of SI's Swimsuit edition.
Speaker 1: Maybe SI ever it is no, there was a seventy
Speaker 1: seven year old woman last year in twenty twenty two.
Speaker 1: So Martha Stewart the oldest ever grace the cover. Now
Speaker 1: there are the cover is changed in Sports Illustrated time
Speaker 1: because it used to be what's called a magazine, and
Speaker 1: there was one magazine that would be on newsstands. Google
Speaker 1: that kids, and now there are kind of online. There's
Speaker 1: four online covers. But still Martha Stewart, who looks fantastic
Speaker 1: on the cover.
Speaker 3: Fabulous, she's kind of you, Jane Fonda share.
Speaker 2: I mean, some of these, you know, women have kind
Speaker 2: of been the gold standards of like aging.
Speaker 1: But March step so Christian there.
Speaker 2: Okay, I know your crush, but Martha Stewart is now
Speaker 2: up there. Martha Stewart is setting Martha Stewart is becoming
Speaker 2: a oh my gosh, how does she look that way
Speaker 2: at that age person? Looking stunning? So obviously sports illustrated.
Speaker 2: Changing from the way the swimsuit as she used to be.
Speaker 2: It has for the past couple of years, they've had
Speaker 2: more natural you know, just real bodies on it, athletic.
Speaker 3: Women, that kind of thing.
Speaker 2: One thing that this made me think about, will we
Speaker 2: see over the next few years a shift in a
Speaker 2: prevalence of older women dating younger men. Like I brought
Speaker 2: up share Share was dating someone much younger. Recently Madonna
Speaker 2: has and it's obviously much more common for men to
Speaker 2: date younger women, I think than for women to date
Speaker 2: younger men. Like I like that we're making a shift
Speaker 2: as a culture into we need to change our mindset
Speaker 2: about women and their level of sexiness and beauty as
Speaker 2: they get older. Men are seen as better looking as
Speaker 2: they get older. Women it's like we have an expiration day.
Speaker 1: I think there's much more of that in general. I
Speaker 1: just see it in our own lives. I think there
Speaker 1: is more it's more prevalent now than obviously in the
Speaker 1: past of young men dating marrying older women.
Speaker 3: Which I love.
Speaker 2: Now, I will say, I wonder if it's going to
Speaker 2: happen as much because I do think I'm just speaking
Speaker 2: from my friends and I I think for a lot
Speaker 2: of women, the idea of dating a younger man, it's like,
Speaker 2: you don't want to do it.
Speaker 1: No, God, I think I need to get to a
Speaker 1: certain age so that he is a man. You're not
Speaker 1: dating a broken boy, right.
Speaker 2: Probably if I was an older woman, I would not
Speaker 2: date a younger man who.
Speaker 3: Wasn't at least in his mid thirties.
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay.
Speaker 2: I will share a story before you and I started dating.
Speaker 2: So I was single dating a guy fairly briefly, and
Speaker 2: he lied to me about his age. He told me
Speaker 2: that he was twenty nine and he was in fact
Speaker 2: twenty three.
Speaker 1: Oh gosh.
Speaker 2: And I will say it made sense because I was
Speaker 2: kind of thinking to myself, Oh, we would we'd have
Speaker 2: a little conflict or something, and I would think he's
Speaker 2: a little immature.
Speaker 3: I don't know, it might be a little immature for me.
Speaker 2: And then he eventually revealed he had lied about his age,
Speaker 2: and he said I was worried you wouldn't date me
Speaker 2: because I was so young, And the answer is no,
Speaker 2: I wouldn't have.
Speaker 1: Well, what's funny is that that's a big lie. By
Speaker 1: the way, six years, but it doesn't sound like that much.
Speaker 2: It's so interesting how I think in your twenties six
Speaker 2: years can be so significant.
Speaker 1: It is, I mean, the difference between when I was
Speaker 1: twenty three and twenty.
Speaker 3: Nine big life place.
Speaker 1: I mean that was six years of marriage and a kid,
Speaker 1: the difference.
Speaker 2: But then let me ask you how big of a difference,
Speaker 2: And maybe there is one between when you're forty three
Speaker 2: and forty nine.
Speaker 1: Not a huge difference. I think you get to a
Speaker 1: certain point in your life in age really doesn't matter
Speaker 1: that much anymore. You get more life experiences and things
Speaker 1: happen clearly, and so you continue to learn and evolve.
Speaker 1: But once you become the man you are, I would
Speaker 1: say after forty years old, there's not a big change.
Speaker 2: Well, I would be interested. Please hit me up in
Speaker 2: the DMS. I want to have a conversation about this. Ladies,
Speaker 2: if you are someone who dates men, would you date
Speaker 2: a younger man and how young would you go? And
Speaker 2: how big of an age gap would you do yeah?
Speaker 1: Or or I would love to see if anybody is
Speaker 1: dating a younger man. Give me the pluses and minuses
Speaker 1: of this.
Speaker 2: Yes, And I would love to see Martha Stewart come out,
Speaker 2: you know, at eighty one, come out with something like
Speaker 2: hot fifty year old.
Speaker 1: It's amazing to think that she was in jail.
Speaker 3: I was also thinking about that, what a comeback? I mean,
Speaker 3: I mean.
Speaker 1: Was there a bigger comeback?
Speaker 3: It was so controversial at the time too.
Speaker 2: Today well, today, I do think that would still be
Speaker 2: controversial because it was like insider trading and you're so
Speaker 2: wealthy and you're doing that. It would still be a
Speaker 2: controversial thing today. But it's funny the lens the other day,
Speaker 2: you and I kind of gone on this random rewatch
Speaker 2: or for me, the first time watch of the show
Speaker 2: The West Wing, and so then I'm googling it and
Speaker 2: looking into it, and I did not realize The West
Speaker 2: Wing Aaron Sorkin, the creator of the show, was removed
Speaker 2: from the show because he got in major trouble for
Speaker 2: being arrested at an airport with some mushrooms, right, And
Speaker 2: I thought, today, oh my god, that's not that big.
Speaker 1: Of that's a blip on the radar for me. Nobody's
Speaker 1: getting canceled for mushrooms or weed.
Speaker 2: No, some times have change. But speaking of age, I
Speaker 2: have one more to throw at you. Yes, Robert de Niro,
Speaker 2: we've gone from mother to daddy literally having a baby
Speaker 2: at age seventy nine. He's welcomed a new baby and
Speaker 2: he's seventy nine years old.
Speaker 3: Your thoughts.
Speaker 1: One of those stories is wonderful and empowering. One of
Speaker 1: these stories is selfish. I think Martha is an amazing story.
Speaker 1: It's wonderful, great. I think having a child at seventy
Speaker 1: nine years old is unbelievably selfish as a dad. And again,
Speaker 1: God bless them. Congratulations Mazeltov. I hope is a healthy,
Speaker 1: happy baby and they have a wonderful life. They will
Speaker 1: not have their dad around for very long.
Speaker 3: Wow, you're like, God bless them. But also that's selfish.
Speaker 1: It is God bless them now. I mean, I wish
Speaker 1: them well. There's a human being now on this earth.
Speaker 1: I wish them well. But that child will not have
Speaker 1: a father as they grow up, because your dad is
Speaker 1: going to die. Your dad is seventy nine. I'm just
Speaker 1: going to go out on a limb. Odds are and
Speaker 1: even if he's not dead in ten years or eleven years,
Speaker 1: he won't be in the capacity to raise this child
Speaker 1: and enjoy all the great things and so the active
Speaker 1: it's just when you have a child that okay, when
Speaker 1: he's ten or she's ten. He's eighty nine, ninety years old?
Speaker 3: Really okay, So what's the cutoff for you? How old
Speaker 3: can people have children?
Speaker 1: I don't I don't know. I'm not going to set
Speaker 1: the age limit. But seventy nine's it? I know that.
Speaker 1: I know that doesn't pass the smell test. One is
Speaker 1: I'm really it's remarkable he had a child at seventy nine.
Speaker 1: I'm interested to know how that happened.
Speaker 3: But didn't they didn't? Isn't the famous thing that Picasso
Speaker 3: had kids into his seventies, is it? He's not the
Speaker 3: de Niro's not the first.
Speaker 1: He's not. No, And I don't know. I just for
Speaker 1: me having kids. None of us are promised tomorrow. Look,
Speaker 1: I'm only fifty one. I could be gone tomorrow too.
Speaker 1: None of us are promised that. You know that as
Speaker 1: well as anybody. But I do know this that de
Speaker 1: Niro's not going to live all that much longer, and
Speaker 1: he's definitely not gonna be able to be active. And
Speaker 1: he's not going to watch that child graduate from high school.
Speaker 1: He's not gonna watch that child get married. He's not
Speaker 1: going to watch that child walk across the stage and
Speaker 1: graduate college, play and all whatever. There are major life
Speaker 1: moments where that child will not have their father. Look, well,
Speaker 1: they have money. Yeah, they're gonna have DeNiro money. But
Speaker 1: as you know, that doesn't.
Speaker 2: Well, maybe he's thinking, I'm having a kid and I'm
Speaker 2: setting them up financially for life in a way a
Speaker 2: lot of other parents can't. So I'm giving them that gift.
Speaker 1: Sorry to poopoo on de Niro, I don't love I
Speaker 1: just didn't love it.
Speaker 2: You love his acting, maybe you're not loving his parenting. Yeah,
Speaker 2: that's I mean, I totally see your point. I think
Speaker 2: there are obviously a lot worse things a parent can do.
Speaker 3: To a child.
Speaker 2: But okay, I guess there's part of me that wonders,
Speaker 2: and I got to look up who we had this
Speaker 2: child with. But if your partner is telling you, I mean,
Speaker 2: I really want to have another.
Speaker 3: Child, that's a tough. It's tough to look.
Speaker 2: Somebody in the face and say I'm denying you that
Speaker 2: that's hard.
Speaker 1: It was with his partner Tiffany Chen and I believe,
Speaker 1: if I'm not mistaken, this is his seventh child.
Speaker 3: I think so.
Speaker 1: So that's the other thing. You got enough. You don't
Speaker 1: need a starting basketball team. I mean, come on, man,
Speaker 1: come on de Niro, and look, it hurts me to
Speaker 1: talk about my costar like this. You know, we spend
Speaker 1: a lot of quality time together on the movie Showtime.
Speaker 2: Oh my god, I forgot about your cameo in the
Speaker 2: film Showtime.
Speaker 3: Is that Eddie Murphy?
Speaker 1: Eddie Murphy and Robert Genio and Renee Russo one of
Speaker 1: your favorites.
Speaker 3: I love Renee.
Speaker 1: I did not get to meet her or see her
Speaker 1: because I was in the scene with Eddie and Bobby
Speaker 1: de Niro.
Speaker 3: Well, I can't believe you're talking about your friend, Bobby,
Speaker 3: I know.
Speaker 1: See, And that's why I feel so passionately about this. Wow.
Speaker 2: Well, mother's father's age, gaps and babies at elder ages,
Speaker 2: A lot to discuss, a lot discussed today.
Speaker 3: Please everybody slide into the DMS.
Speaker 2: I would love to hear from you guys on what
Speaker 2: you think about these things. And again, a big Congrats
Speaker 2: to Colton and Jordan, and thank you for including us
Speaker 2: in what was a very loving and fun weekend.
Speaker 1: All my love to Colton Jordan, congratulations. Thank you for
Speaker 1: joining us today. We always love talking to you. We'll
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