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Speaker 1: This is the most traumatic podcast ever and iHeartRadio podcast.

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Speaker 1: Chris Harrison and Lauren Zema coming to you from the

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Speaker 1: home office in Austin, Texas. If we sound just a

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Speaker 1: little bit under the weather today, well we'll explain why

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Speaker 1: in just a minute. It has to do with where

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Speaker 1: we just were, and that was Napa Baby, we were

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Speaker 1: in Napa Valley, but for a very very beautiful reason.

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Speaker 1: We were at the wedding of Colton Underwood. Coulton and

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Speaker 1: Jordan got married this weekend in Napa Valley. We were

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Speaker 1: honored to be there to support them and celebrate and dance.

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Speaker 2: Baby, you danced so much, so much. That's one thing

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Speaker 2: I love about you. I don't care if you're a

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Speaker 2: bad dancer, but you got to dance at a wedding,

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Speaker 2: and I can't be with someone who doesn't dance, and

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Speaker 2: you do. By the way, I wasn't saying you're a

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Speaker 2: bad dancer.

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Speaker 1: Oh you can.

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Speaker 2: You can tell us say that you're a good dancer.

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Speaker 2: You actually in the past, his daughter Taylor, who was

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Speaker 2: a dancer in school. Sometimes for projects she would have

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Speaker 2: to like choreograph and rehearse, and Chris would rehearse with

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Speaker 2: Taylor and you crushed it. You can memorize your routine.

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Speaker 1: Dance like nobody's watching. Actually I dance like everybody's watching.

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Speaker 1: Bring it on. And it was a phenomenal wedding. We

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Speaker 1: were really really honored to be there just to celebrate

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Speaker 1: Colton and his love with Jordan, who we had never met.

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Speaker 2: I think one of my favorite parts of the wedding

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Speaker 2: was feeling like we got to see this window into

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Speaker 2: Colton and Jordan's relationship. We'd heard such great things about Jordan,

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Speaker 2: but to be able to hear their vows, to see

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Speaker 2: friends and family give toasts about them, we learned a

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Speaker 2: lot more. And that's one thing I love about going

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Speaker 2: to a wedding, especially when, like the toasts are really

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Speaker 2: heartfelt and emotional, and you know you can't go to

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Speaker 2: inside jokey with a toast because then you lose your crowd.

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Speaker 1: That's a tip one guy did. We'll explain later.

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Speaker 3: No we won't rat him out, No, he did his best.

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Speaker 2: But when you can share a little bit, it makes

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Speaker 2: the guests feel like, Okay, I know them better now.

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Speaker 3: And I walked away from the weekend feeling that way.

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Speaker 1: It was important for me to be there to support Coulton.

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Speaker 1: This is something a journey I hate to say from

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Speaker 1: the show, this journey that he and I had been

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Speaker 1: on and gotten to know each other and become friends

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Speaker 1: obviously when he was the Bachelor, and then so much

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Speaker 1: has been talked about made of everything that happened subsequently

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Speaker 1: and his coming out. I'll never forget, you know, him

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Speaker 1: taking me to breakfast and us sitting down, him coming

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Speaker 1: out to me, going through this journey with him which

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Speaker 1: was not perfect and incredibly painful and difficult for him,

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Speaker 1: difficult for a lot of people, and to watch him

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Speaker 1: grow and own who he was and is, and then

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Speaker 1: to find joy and love and to be embraced by

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Speaker 1: his family and friends. When he asked us to be there,

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Speaker 1: it was important for me to be there and support

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Speaker 1: him and show him that love and that I have

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Speaker 1: been on this full circle journey with him and it's

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Speaker 1: amazing that he got to this point where he is.

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Speaker 2: I was very touched to have been invited, especially when

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Speaker 2: I found out we were the only ones from Bachelor

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Speaker 2: Nation there. What really made my heart happy over the

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Speaker 2: weekend was and I was surprised to how many people

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Speaker 2: came up to You just guessed at the wedding or

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Speaker 2: you know, friends and family and talked about like the season.

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Speaker 2: You know, they kind of went back to Colton's season

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Speaker 2: on the show, and what several people said was, well,

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Speaker 2: Colton always talked about how you Chris were there for

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Speaker 2: him during that season when nobody else was, and that

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Speaker 2: is your partner. Just made me so happy to hear

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Speaker 2: because you know, like anybody you love in your life,

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Speaker 2: when when you hear other people talk them up, it

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Speaker 2: makes you feel good. And so everybody kept saying that

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Speaker 2: to you, and I don't think I really realized that

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Speaker 2: the depth of how much that was felt that they

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Speaker 2: said you were the one, like through the fence jumping

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Speaker 2: all that. Colton said, well, Chris was there for me

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Speaker 2: when maybe producers or other people weren't.

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Speaker 1: I didn't talk about this with you. I was a

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Speaker 1: little nervous entering that arena, going to the wedding. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: So we got to NAPA and the first night, Friday night,

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Speaker 1: there was this kind of get together at the Carneros

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Speaker 3: Yes, a welcome party. Carnerosen beautiful property and.

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Speaker 1: So everybody was kind of together at this resort. They

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Speaker 1: a little nervous when I walked in. I wasn't sure

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Speaker 1: that people might have a negative connotation associated with me

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Speaker 1: and the show and Coulton's time on the show, and

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Speaker 1: that was a very difficult part of his life, and

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Speaker 1: I thought, am I an example of that? And I

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Speaker 1: as you just said, it was the opposite. And we

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Speaker 3: Well, I think they were greeting everyone.

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Speaker 1: Well, they've been walking around, I saw, and then when

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Speaker 1: we walked in, they just kind of walked up and

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Speaker 1: Colton saw us, and I just I saw the look

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Speaker 1: a huge hug, and he looked fantastic, as he always does,

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Speaker 1: ridiculously handsome and fit, and he immediately grabbed his fiance

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Speaker 1: Jordan and brought Jordan over. Because I had never met Jordan.

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Speaker 1: I've heard so much about him, and Colton's talked about him,

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Speaker 1: but until you meet him, and he is just this warm, charismatic,

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Speaker 1: just loving, caring person. And we'll talk more about him.

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Speaker 1: But it was fantastic, and he just gave me a

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Speaker 2: It's funny you say that, because a little part of

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Speaker 2: me was wondering about that too. I think it's always

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Speaker 2: weird for anybody when you don't know anyone else at

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Speaker 2: a wedding. I mean, we didn't know anybody.

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Speaker 2: We had met Colton's mom once years ago, Lovely Donna,

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Speaker 2: big shout out. She and I did take a shot

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Speaker 2: together with his uncle as will. I love her, but

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Speaker 2: we'd met her once, you know. I think she and

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Speaker 2: I follow each other on Instagram, but we hadn't. We

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Speaker 2: warm and so loving. Colton's whole family is from Illinois,

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Speaker 2: Connecting with the people was.

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Speaker 3: A lot of Chicago energy.

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Speaker 2: But yeah, I was a little I didn't know that

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Speaker 3: But everybody was so excited to meet you.

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Speaker 2: I have to applaud everybody was so excited to meet you.

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Speaker 3: I just had the best things.

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Speaker 2: Jordan was like, Colton raves about you guys, and I'm

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Speaker 3: So everybody was really laid the groundwork.

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Speaker 1: As you said, Colton definitely laid the groundwork of the

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Speaker 1: way he has spoken about me to all his family.

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Speaker 1: So it was just open arms. And then there was

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Speaker 1: meet humans like that. And so everybody we talked to,

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Speaker 1: and predominantly, probably the majority of people just knew Jordan

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Speaker 1: and Colton's family traveled in and all that, but I

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Speaker 1: think Jordan probably had more people at the wedding, and

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Speaker 2: Every single person was like, I'm Jordan's friend from high school.

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Speaker 2: I owned him for ten years, I was his roommate,

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Speaker 2: I lived with him in college. And that's such a

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Speaker 2: reflection of someone when they have long friendships in their lives,

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Speaker 2: like you said, when they are just somebody who you

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Speaker 1: We also quickly realized he is the chandler being of

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Speaker 1: this relationship. Nobody really knows what he does for a living.

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Speaker 1: It was great.

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Speaker 2: A trans political monster, No, I think what we're defining

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Speaker 2: was even a joke about that by the officiant in

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Speaker 1: Did not officiate this winning I got asked that by

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Speaker 3: Are you officiating?

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Speaker 1: totally stood before them. But they had a friend, kind

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Speaker 1: of a mutual friend of Jordan's and Coulton's who did

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Speaker 1: the ceremony, and it was he did a phenomenal job.

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Speaker 2: Yes, And he came up to you afterwards. I know

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Speaker 2: you guys had this cute conversation. He was so sweet,

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Speaker 2: he said, because Jordan could have asked Barack Obama and Colton.

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Speaker 3: Could have asked Chris Harrison. So it was a funny

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Speaker 1: Absolutely, the only time that I'll ever be in the

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Speaker 1: same sentence with Barack Obama was at Colton and Jordan's wedding.

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Speaker 3: Are you not running for president?

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Speaker 1: I thought? The only one that's not. I think I

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Speaker 1: But it was it really was funny, and it got

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Speaker 1: Colton and went through the process with him. So this

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Speaker 1: it was really beautiful. But we go back to the

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Speaker 1: welcome party on Friday night, yes, and we've gotten to

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Speaker 1: know everybody. We're having a blast. It's really a good time.

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Speaker 1: Everybody's relaxed. And then come the speeches. So the kind

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Speaker 1: of informal toasts, if you will, the gentleman hosting kind

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Speaker 1: not a stand up guy or a professional writer, he

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Speaker 1: should be. The guy was magnificent.

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Speaker 2: And so I mean, look, I think it's hard also

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Speaker 3: Okay, let's do this.

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Speaker 2: But they did something that I told my sister to

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Speaker 2: And I love when people do this, which is have

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Speaker 1: Actress Miss Olivia Wilde was there.

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00:20:36,760 --> 00:20:41,160
Speaker 3: Longtime friend of Jordan's, crushed it with her toast, very funny.

441
00:20:40,920 --> 00:20:42,680
Speaker 1: Told a really funny story of her and Jordan.

442
00:20:42,840 --> 00:20:44,320
Speaker 3: It was just a very la story.

443
00:20:44,320 --> 00:20:46,120
Speaker 2: And again I don't want to reveal, you know, all

444
00:20:46,119 --> 00:20:48,240
Speaker 2: the details of their event, but it was like she

445
00:20:48,280 --> 00:20:50,199
Speaker 2: talked about a day when they went to the grove together,

446
00:20:50,320 --> 00:20:52,440
Speaker 2: and that was so la to me of like, you're

447
00:20:52,560 --> 00:20:54,200
Speaker 2: younger and you don't have any money yet, like you're

448
00:20:54,200 --> 00:20:56,080
Speaker 2: not successful yet, and you're just kind of walking around

449
00:20:56,080 --> 00:20:59,439
Speaker 2: at an outdoor mall in Los Angeles and she was really.

450
00:20:59,359 --> 00:21:03,040
Speaker 1: Funny, great and yeah again it's obviously close to Jordan

451
00:21:03,119 --> 00:21:06,000
Speaker 1: and now you could tell is very good friends with Coulton.

452
00:21:06,240 --> 00:21:08,280
Speaker 1: And there were a few Hollywood like writers and people

453
00:21:08,320 --> 00:21:11,240
Speaker 1: like that were there that we didn't know and got

454
00:21:11,240 --> 00:21:11,520
Speaker 1: to know.

455
00:21:11,640 --> 00:21:13,480
Speaker 2: Very I think one of the creators of Jury Duty

456
00:21:13,520 --> 00:21:15,679
Speaker 2: was in the house. If everybody hasn't watched Jury Duty

457
00:21:15,840 --> 00:21:20,000
Speaker 2: on Amazon free v yet, hilarious, wonderful, just watch it.

458
00:21:20,040 --> 00:21:22,000
Speaker 2: So I actually wanted to meet that guy to tell

459
00:21:22,080 --> 00:21:22,880
Speaker 2: him his show was great.

460
00:21:22,920 --> 00:21:24,480
Speaker 1: But if you're not a James Marsin and Van, you

461
00:21:24,520 --> 00:21:27,640
Speaker 1: will be after you watched Jerry Duty. It was. It

462
00:21:27,680 --> 00:21:32,480
Speaker 1: was a beautiful reception and not to like pick favorites.

463
00:21:32,560 --> 00:21:34,320
Speaker 1: Table seven definitely crushed it.

464
00:21:34,680 --> 00:21:37,440
Speaker 2: Okay, I have to ask Coulton later how he put

465
00:21:37,480 --> 00:21:39,919
Speaker 2: us at that table. I am so fascinated to know,

466
00:21:39,920 --> 00:21:43,760
Speaker 2: because the seating charts important, right, I mean another thing.

467
00:21:43,800 --> 00:21:48,080
Speaker 1: This was a fully plated dinner and had beautiful tables displayed,

468
00:21:48,119 --> 00:21:49,679
Speaker 1: and so it was a sit down dinner.

469
00:21:49,840 --> 00:21:55,359
Speaker 2: So as we're thinking about our wedding, I liked norma chairs.

470
00:21:55,600 --> 00:21:58,040
Speaker 2: Some people do open seating at a wedding. That makes

471
00:21:58,040 --> 00:21:59,800
Speaker 2: me a little nervous as a guest. I like to

472
00:21:59,800 --> 00:22:01,480
Speaker 2: be to go, put my purse down and know where

473
00:22:01,480 --> 00:22:01,960
Speaker 2: I'm sitting.

474
00:22:02,040 --> 00:22:04,280
Speaker 1: You know how I feel about Southwest Airline.

475
00:22:04,600 --> 00:22:07,520
Speaker 3: You we don't want our wedding to south I don't.

476
00:22:07,359 --> 00:22:09,640
Speaker 1: Want the angst of am I sitting in the right place?

477
00:22:09,640 --> 00:22:11,320
Speaker 1: Do I have a good chair? Oh, someone's purse is

478
00:22:11,359 --> 00:22:13,280
Speaker 1: already in this chair, so there's only one chair. I

479
00:22:13,320 --> 00:22:13,800
Speaker 1: don't like it.

480
00:22:14,080 --> 00:22:17,879
Speaker 3: Starts you're picking teams at Jim again. Who Oh, who

481
00:22:17,920 --> 00:22:18,639
Speaker 3: are you going to sit with?

482
00:22:18,680 --> 00:22:18,760
Speaker 1: Oh?

483
00:22:18,840 --> 00:22:20,840
Speaker 3: Will you please sit with me? Oh? I can't sit here.

484
00:22:20,840 --> 00:22:22,159
Speaker 3: Your table's taken. I don't like that.

485
00:22:22,320 --> 00:22:24,560
Speaker 1: As with everything at this wedding, clearly a lot of

486
00:22:24,600 --> 00:22:27,080
Speaker 1: thought was put into the table seating.

487
00:22:27,400 --> 00:22:28,160
Speaker 3: So we are.

488
00:22:28,119 --> 00:22:31,800
Speaker 2: Sitting next to just a hilarious couple. Polly and Rob

489
00:22:32,440 --> 00:22:35,879
Speaker 2: and her sister and her husband are also there. They're

490
00:22:35,920 --> 00:22:39,400
Speaker 2: Jordan's friends, I believe from college. We had an incredible

491
00:22:39,440 --> 00:22:43,880
Speaker 2: couple across from us. We just had really fun people

492
00:22:44,720 --> 00:22:46,520
Speaker 2: and I think we were the rowdy table.

493
00:22:46,600 --> 00:22:49,600
Speaker 1: The woman across from us from Mumbai, Yes, came in

494
00:22:49,640 --> 00:22:51,879
Speaker 1: from India. They came the furthest Her and her husband

495
00:22:51,880 --> 00:22:54,320
Speaker 1: came from Mumbai and she is this amazing She kind

496
00:22:54,320 --> 00:22:57,280
Speaker 1: of creates this comedic content over there. I started diving

497
00:22:57,280 --> 00:23:00,800
Speaker 1: into her stuff. She was fascinating. So it was everybody

498
00:23:00,880 --> 00:23:04,359
Speaker 1: was just so open and you met everybody at our table, and.

499
00:23:04,480 --> 00:23:06,560
Speaker 2: It was I was starting to be like, are we

500
00:23:07,080 --> 00:23:08,680
Speaker 2: are we laughing too loud during the toasts?

501
00:23:08,680 --> 00:23:09,399
Speaker 3: Are we that table?

502
00:23:09,560 --> 00:23:11,320
Speaker 1: We definitely were that table a little.

503
00:23:11,119 --> 00:23:12,920
Speaker 2: Bit, But I like to give people supportive laughter. I

504
00:23:12,960 --> 00:23:14,760
Speaker 2: think I think so much about how nerve wrecking it

505
00:23:14,800 --> 00:23:16,960
Speaker 2: is to make a toast, and so I'm like whooping

506
00:23:17,040 --> 00:23:19,119
Speaker 2: and cheering loudly, and maybe I needed to do in

507
00:23:19,119 --> 00:23:19,480
Speaker 2: the book.

508
00:23:19,560 --> 00:23:22,600
Speaker 1: So when we got through dinner, we and plenty of

509
00:23:22,640 --> 00:23:26,959
Speaker 1: cocktails and wine, and then there was the well, there

510
00:23:27,000 --> 00:23:31,840
Speaker 1: was the first dance that this their friend of theirs

511
00:23:31,840 --> 00:23:35,040
Speaker 1: saying and it was beautiful, and Colton and Jordan had

512
00:23:35,080 --> 00:23:37,399
Speaker 1: their first dance together, and then the moms were there.

513
00:23:38,119 --> 00:23:40,320
Speaker 2: I was getting emotional during that first dance. It was

514
00:23:40,440 --> 00:23:42,959
Speaker 2: really nice to see Colton so happy.

515
00:23:43,119 --> 00:23:44,639
Speaker 1: By the way, we got to spend a lot of

516
00:23:44,640 --> 00:23:48,080
Speaker 1: time with Colton's mom and dad, oh, his and his

517
00:23:48,320 --> 00:23:50,960
Speaker 1: bonus mom as Colton Calture his whole family.

518
00:23:51,200 --> 00:23:56,600
Speaker 2: I mean, they were so welcoming, so lovely, and I

519
00:23:56,640 --> 00:23:58,160
Speaker 2: mean again, I think a lot of them were excited

520
00:23:58,160 --> 00:24:01,600
Speaker 2: to meet you, but they were just so much fun.

521
00:24:01,800 --> 00:24:04,280
Speaker 1: I just really enjoyed because I had heard about Colton's dad,

522
00:24:04,359 --> 00:24:08,360
Speaker 1: obviously football player and the guy that got Colton into football,

523
00:24:08,400 --> 00:24:10,600
Speaker 1: and he, by the way, I see where Coulton gets

524
00:24:10,640 --> 00:24:13,520
Speaker 1: his build. His dad is as big and as jacked

525
00:24:13,560 --> 00:24:15,800
Speaker 1: as Colton is. I'm like, okay, that apple didn't fall

526
00:24:15,840 --> 00:24:19,880
Speaker 1: far from the genetic tree. But I just really enjoyed

527
00:24:20,000 --> 00:24:22,440
Speaker 1: talking to him one on one for quite some time.

528
00:24:22,960 --> 00:24:25,600
Speaker 1: Of how much he loves Colton, how much he supports him,

529
00:24:25,880 --> 00:24:29,040
Speaker 1: how much he was He's just all in on Colton's

530
00:24:29,080 --> 00:24:31,359
Speaker 1: journey and where he is and where he came from.

531
00:24:31,400 --> 00:24:33,679
Speaker 1: And I don't know, I was just this blue collar

532
00:24:34,160 --> 00:24:37,040
Speaker 1: dad from the Midwest. I love that he has embraced

533
00:24:37,440 --> 00:24:39,760
Speaker 1: all that Colton is and who his son really is.

534
00:24:39,880 --> 00:24:41,240
Speaker 1: It just warmed my heart.

535
00:24:41,359 --> 00:24:42,560
Speaker 3: There was a lot of love in the room.

536
00:24:42,600 --> 00:24:48,800
Speaker 2: There was so dancing and again Chris Harrison hittim the

537
00:24:48,840 --> 00:24:49,480
Speaker 2: dance floor hard.

538
00:24:50,640 --> 00:24:54,600
Speaker 3: Did you oh? The band? The band was great? Do

539
00:24:54,680 --> 00:24:55,639
Speaker 3: we call it a band?

540
00:24:55,760 --> 00:24:57,800
Speaker 1: It was a mix between a DJ, so he was

541
00:24:57,880 --> 00:25:01,560
Speaker 1: playing songs as a DJ would these great mixes. But

542
00:25:01,600 --> 00:25:04,040
Speaker 1: they had brass, there was a trumpet, there was a saxon,

543
00:25:04,080 --> 00:25:06,680
Speaker 1: there was a drummer. Kind of a jazz band. So

544
00:25:06,760 --> 00:25:09,760
Speaker 1: each member of this kind of DJ group also played

545
00:25:10,040 --> 00:25:13,320
Speaker 1: an instrument, and so they would sometimes jump in on

546
00:25:13,359 --> 00:25:16,520
Speaker 1: the mix and go for a solo. It was awesome.

547
00:25:16,600 --> 00:25:17,600
Speaker 3: So we danced all night.

548
00:25:17,720 --> 00:25:19,399
Speaker 1: We danced into the wee hours of the morning.

549
00:25:19,640 --> 00:25:21,480
Speaker 3: And what more do you want out of a wedding?

550
00:25:21,720 --> 00:25:22,040
Speaker 1: Truly?

551
00:25:22,080 --> 00:25:23,439
Speaker 2: To me, at the end of the day, if you

552
00:25:23,640 --> 00:25:27,600
Speaker 2: feel the love in the room, like emotional good fun toasts,

553
00:25:27,840 --> 00:25:30,639
Speaker 2: if you feel like you had a great cocktail and

554
00:25:30,680 --> 00:25:32,560
Speaker 2: you're feeling good, and then if you dance all night,

555
00:25:32,600 --> 00:25:33,080
Speaker 2: that's a wedding.

556
00:25:33,160 --> 00:25:34,080
Speaker 3: To me, that's all you need.

557
00:25:34,119 --> 00:25:39,040
Speaker 1: And everybody woke up Sunday morning a little horse ready

558
00:25:39,080 --> 00:25:39,600
Speaker 1: to head home.

559
00:25:39,960 --> 00:25:43,760
Speaker 2: So let me ask you, because one thing Colton did

560
00:25:43,840 --> 00:25:45,680
Speaker 2: mention in his vows was getting through.

561
00:25:46,119 --> 00:25:48,440
Speaker 3: Like he talked a little bit about what a wild.

562
00:25:48,280 --> 00:25:51,320
Speaker 2: Ride it had been with him and Jordan, even just

563
00:25:52,200 --> 00:25:55,320
Speaker 2: what an up and down at sometimes tough time the

564
00:25:55,440 --> 00:25:57,040
Speaker 2: last couple of years had been for him.

565
00:25:57,640 --> 00:25:59,119
Speaker 3: What was it like for you to be there?

566
00:25:59,160 --> 00:26:02,439
Speaker 2: Because you always say the bachelor's and bachelorettes specifically you

567
00:26:02,480 --> 00:26:04,080
Speaker 2: get closer with them and they feel a little bit

568
00:26:04,119 --> 00:26:04,760
Speaker 2: like your kids.

569
00:26:05,280 --> 00:26:06,520
Speaker 3: And Colton has maybe.

570
00:26:07,040 --> 00:26:13,040
Speaker 2: I mean, he's definitely up there in terms of the.

571
00:26:10,960 --> 00:26:13,800
Speaker 3: The highs and lows of his ride as the lead.

572
00:26:13,840 --> 00:26:17,480
Speaker 1: And controversy obviously surrounded it. And I do it's like,

573
00:26:17,560 --> 00:26:20,760
Speaker 1: you know, that was one thing I always prided myself on,

574
00:26:21,000 --> 00:26:23,360
Speaker 1: and it wasn't for everybody. You know, I got closer

575
00:26:23,440 --> 00:26:27,160
Speaker 1: with some than others. That's just human nature, but many

576
00:26:27,200 --> 00:26:29,440
Speaker 1: of them I did. I felt very protective of them

577
00:26:29,440 --> 00:26:32,320
Speaker 1: as they went through this and then afterwards as they

578
00:26:32,800 --> 00:26:35,280
Speaker 1: went on this journey, and you know, you look at

579
00:26:35,280 --> 00:26:37,919
Speaker 1: like a Caitlin Bristow who ended up with Jason Tartick.

580
00:26:38,760 --> 00:26:40,919
Speaker 1: You know, that's a little different than what Coulton went

581
00:26:40,960 --> 00:26:43,200
Speaker 1: through and ending up with Jordan and how it all

582
00:26:43,560 --> 00:26:47,400
Speaker 1: came to be and how controversial it was. But I'm

583
00:26:47,400 --> 00:26:50,280
Speaker 1: a big believer that you stand by people through thick

584
00:26:50,280 --> 00:26:53,200
Speaker 1: and thin, through the good times, through the bad, and

585
00:26:54,520 --> 00:26:58,960
Speaker 1: it's not always perfect. But knowing what Coulton struggled with,

586
00:26:59,000 --> 00:27:03,000
Speaker 1: and having had very deep personal conversations with him about

587
00:27:03,000 --> 00:27:07,360
Speaker 1: his journey and the things he fought all his life

588
00:27:07,640 --> 00:27:10,840
Speaker 1: to see him get to a point where he can

589
00:27:11,080 --> 00:27:15,879
Speaker 1: stand in front of hundreds of people, his family and

590
00:27:17,280 --> 00:27:21,120
Speaker 1: look so at ease as to who he is now.

591
00:27:21,880 --> 00:27:25,200
Speaker 1: To me, that my heart was just swelling with pride.

592
00:27:25,240 --> 00:27:27,640
Speaker 1: And that's when I got emotional at the wedding. That's

593
00:27:27,640 --> 00:27:30,000
Speaker 1: what I got emotional about was just these moments where

594
00:27:30,000 --> 00:27:33,080
Speaker 1: I would be watching Colton. I could just see him.

595
00:27:33,160 --> 00:27:36,800
Speaker 1: His shoulders are down, he's not scared, he's not hiding,

596
00:27:36,920 --> 00:27:39,159
Speaker 1: kind of like I felt like when he was on

597
00:27:39,200 --> 00:27:42,199
Speaker 1: The Bachelor, there was this defense up. There was this

598
00:27:42,320 --> 00:27:44,800
Speaker 1: wallup At the time. Obviously we didn't know exactly what

599
00:27:44,880 --> 00:27:48,280
Speaker 1: it was. Now you can see it clearly, and I

600
00:27:48,280 --> 00:27:50,399
Speaker 1: can see that that's gone, and I can see that

601
00:27:50,480 --> 00:27:54,159
Speaker 1: this man Jordan, has helped him take that down and

602
00:27:54,280 --> 00:27:57,639
Speaker 1: helped him find out who he was and is and

603
00:27:57,720 --> 00:28:00,760
Speaker 1: be free. And so I don't know, just there we

604
00:28:00,760 --> 00:28:05,479
Speaker 1: was so much emotions just swelling up in me seeing

605
00:28:05,520 --> 00:28:08,520
Speaker 1: who this man is now and this friend, this guy

606
00:28:08,560 --> 00:28:13,919
Speaker 1: who I consider a friend, and also selfishly what it

607
00:28:14,000 --> 00:28:18,919
Speaker 1: meant to him to see me there supporting him, that approval,

608
00:28:19,080 --> 00:28:22,840
Speaker 1: maybe that love. When he gave me a hug and

609
00:28:22,880 --> 00:28:24,280
Speaker 1: you could just see it in his eyes when he

610
00:28:24,320 --> 00:28:26,399
Speaker 1: grabbed me and just said thank you for being here.

611
00:28:26,640 --> 00:28:30,280
Speaker 1: It means the world to me. It just it felt

612
00:28:30,320 --> 00:28:30,840
Speaker 1: so good.

613
00:28:31,280 --> 00:28:33,800
Speaker 2: I was very touched to have been invited, for sure. Yeah,

614
00:28:33,800 --> 00:28:36,399
Speaker 2: and as you just you know, I mean if you

615
00:28:36,480 --> 00:28:40,920
Speaker 2: mentioned controversy. One thing about being at the wedding is look,

616
00:28:42,520 --> 00:28:46,680
Speaker 2: the stuff that doesn't make headlines are for anybody who's

617
00:28:46,680 --> 00:28:50,040
Speaker 2: in the spotlight, your friends and family who aren't you know.

618
00:28:50,320 --> 00:28:52,040
Speaker 2: I mean you looked around that room and there were

619
00:28:52,080 --> 00:28:55,760
Speaker 2: two hundred people there supporting and loving these people, and

620
00:28:55,840 --> 00:28:59,240
Speaker 2: so many people. I mean, Jordan was standing up there saying, Colton,

621
00:28:59,280 --> 00:29:02,120
Speaker 2: you are like my champion, you are my teammate. That's

622
00:29:02,160 --> 00:29:05,280
Speaker 2: the type of person Colton is. Colton's family talking about,

623
00:29:05,360 --> 00:29:07,920
Speaker 2: you know, how much they love him, what a great

624
00:29:07,960 --> 00:29:10,840
Speaker 2: person he is. People talking about the way Colton's smile

625
00:29:10,960 --> 00:29:14,280
Speaker 2: lights up a room. He had a long time friend

626
00:29:14,280 --> 00:29:16,400
Speaker 2: of his, I think her name was Cassie give a

627
00:29:16,440 --> 00:29:19,000
Speaker 2: toast about him and speak to the type of person

628
00:29:19,040 --> 00:29:22,400
Speaker 2: he is. So that stuff doesn't make headlines, but you

629
00:29:22,480 --> 00:29:28,000
Speaker 2: see all these human beings vouching for and supporting this person,

630
00:29:28,040 --> 00:29:31,280
Speaker 2: and that's so important. So I just wanted to say

631
00:29:31,280 --> 00:29:32,480
Speaker 2: that because it was beautiful.

632
00:29:32,600 --> 00:29:34,959
Speaker 1: You can't be around Coulton and not know that his

633
00:29:35,040 --> 00:29:38,840
Speaker 1: heart is as broad as his shoulders are. He definitely

634
00:29:38,840 --> 00:29:41,240
Speaker 1: has a big heart and he leads with that, and

635
00:29:41,280 --> 00:29:43,920
Speaker 1: so yeah, it meant a lot. And it was something that,

636
00:29:44,280 --> 00:29:46,040
Speaker 1: you know, for us again to go to a wedding

637
00:29:46,040 --> 00:29:47,680
Speaker 1: where we knew we weren't going to know anybody and

638
00:29:47,720 --> 00:29:49,800
Speaker 1: it was probably going to be a little uncomfortable at first,

639
00:29:49,800 --> 00:29:52,680
Speaker 1: and it turned out it wasn't. But that was how

640
00:29:52,760 --> 00:29:54,760
Speaker 1: much it meant for us to be there to show

641
00:29:54,800 --> 00:29:57,200
Speaker 1: that support. And I'm glad we did. And it was

642
00:29:57,240 --> 00:30:00,320
Speaker 1: a great weekend. And I'm glad we're home because we

643
00:30:00,360 --> 00:30:03,200
Speaker 1: need to repack because we're off on another adventure this week.

644
00:30:03,600 --> 00:30:06,320
Speaker 3: Yes, so congrats to Colton and Jordan.

645
00:30:06,600 --> 00:30:09,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, all my love guys, all my love go have

646
00:30:09,640 --> 00:30:24,440
Speaker 1: an amazing life together. Before we go today, there's a

647
00:30:24,480 --> 00:30:26,360
Speaker 1: couple of things I did want to touch on. Can

648
00:30:26,400 --> 00:30:27,640
Speaker 1: I do one quick sports thing?

649
00:30:27,920 --> 00:30:28,520
Speaker 3: Make it quick?

650
00:30:28,640 --> 00:30:31,760
Speaker 1: This is going to be a sweet sports thing. So

651
00:30:31,880 --> 00:30:35,840
Speaker 1: the NBA Playoffs are going on, that's basketball. Miami Heat

652
00:30:35,880 --> 00:30:39,680
Speaker 1: are playing the New York Knicks. So the Heat win,

653
00:30:40,200 --> 00:30:42,440
Speaker 1: they wrap up the series. This is a huge moment.

654
00:30:42,800 --> 00:30:45,000
Speaker 1: There is a player for the Heat bam out of

655
00:30:45,040 --> 00:30:49,800
Speaker 1: bio and he's in a postgame press conference. His phone rings.

656
00:30:51,160 --> 00:30:54,080
Speaker 1: It's his mom. He stops in the middle of his

657
00:30:54,240 --> 00:30:56,320
Speaker 1: press conference and picks up the phone.

658
00:30:56,920 --> 00:30:58,880
Speaker 4: Here it is I have a lot of respect for

659
00:31:01,080 --> 00:31:13,240
Speaker 4: and it's nogic. Hello, Hi mommy. Yes, no, I'm a media.

660
00:31:13,400 --> 00:31:24,440
Speaker 4: I'm a media. No, I wasn't in it. Nah, it's

661
00:31:24,440 --> 00:31:24,880
Speaker 4: all good.

662
00:31:25,320 --> 00:31:27,240
Speaker 1: Come on. I know this is a sports thing, but

663
00:31:27,280 --> 00:31:29,960
Speaker 1: how adorable in the middle of a press conference. First

664
00:31:29,960 --> 00:31:31,480
Speaker 1: of all, he picks up the phone. The first thing

665
00:31:31,480 --> 00:31:33,720
Speaker 1: he says is Mommy.

666
00:31:34,840 --> 00:31:37,720
Speaker 2: It's very situationally dependent. I've noticed that if my mom

667
00:31:37,800 --> 00:31:40,080
Speaker 2: calls when I'm with you, I say hey mom. But

668
00:31:40,280 --> 00:31:42,800
Speaker 2: if my mom calls and I'm alone, I'm like, hi

669
00:31:42,840 --> 00:31:43,800
Speaker 2: mommy or something.

670
00:31:43,800 --> 00:31:45,160
Speaker 3: You kind of go back into kid modes.

671
00:31:45,240 --> 00:31:47,960
Speaker 2: So I kind of love that he was confident enough

672
00:31:48,000 --> 00:31:50,640
Speaker 2: to say Hi mommy in front of an entire room

673
00:31:50,680 --> 00:31:52,520
Speaker 2: of the press, and now in a clip that's gone.

674
00:31:52,360 --> 00:31:54,560
Speaker 1: Everywhere, and I love the press was totally silent. It's

675
00:31:54,600 --> 00:31:56,440
Speaker 1: like he's going to take this call from his mom.

676
00:31:56,560 --> 00:31:58,640
Speaker 3: You take the call from mom, and so he always

677
00:31:58,640 --> 00:31:59,239
Speaker 3: answer from mom.

678
00:31:59,360 --> 00:32:02,560
Speaker 1: He totally did. And the best part is, obviously you

679
00:32:02,600 --> 00:32:05,479
Speaker 1: can't hear in that clip what mom was saying, but

680
00:32:05,520 --> 00:32:09,640
Speaker 1: she was clearly concerned about something he was possibly involved with,

681
00:32:09,760 --> 00:32:11,960
Speaker 1: or maybe something had happened. He says, no, Mom, I'm good.

682
00:32:12,440 --> 00:32:14,280
Speaker 1: You know I wasn't a part of that. It's all good.

683
00:32:14,520 --> 00:32:16,800
Speaker 1: So clearly she was concerned about something. And I just

684
00:32:16,920 --> 00:32:20,200
Speaker 1: love that we had talked about this in our Mother's

685
00:32:20,280 --> 00:32:22,960
Speaker 1: Day episode, and obviously we just celebrated Mother's Day, so

686
00:32:23,000 --> 00:32:25,880
Speaker 1: I love that this happened right as we were celebrating

687
00:32:25,920 --> 00:32:26,680
Speaker 1: all of our moms.

688
00:32:26,760 --> 00:32:27,960
Speaker 3: When was the press conference?

689
00:32:28,440 --> 00:32:29,160
Speaker 1: It was the other day.

690
00:32:29,880 --> 00:32:31,640
Speaker 2: So don't you think you got especially if it's Mother's

691
00:32:31,680 --> 00:32:32,760
Speaker 2: Day weekend, you got it.

692
00:32:33,080 --> 00:32:36,680
Speaker 1: Mother's Day weekend. But I just loved how he answered

693
00:32:36,720 --> 00:32:39,080
Speaker 1: to her. And we talked about with our moms, you

694
00:32:39,200 --> 00:32:43,840
Speaker 1: have to feel responsible to someone other than yourself. Clearly,

695
00:32:44,280 --> 00:32:47,000
Speaker 1: this mom has done an amazing job because he was

696
00:32:47,200 --> 00:32:49,520
Speaker 1: answering to her and it was just so sweet. I

697
00:32:49,720 --> 00:32:51,000
Speaker 1: just thought it was a beautiful moment.

698
00:32:51,120 --> 00:32:55,160
Speaker 2: I remember reading a study that you will instantly any

699
00:32:55,240 --> 00:32:59,160
Speaker 2: human being, you will feel instantly more calm if you

700
00:32:59,240 --> 00:33:02,880
Speaker 2: hear your mother's voice. It's just something biological. Now, maybe

701
00:33:02,960 --> 00:33:05,000
Speaker 2: it depends on the tone and the volume of your

702
00:33:05,040 --> 00:33:05,880
Speaker 2: voice and what it's about.

703
00:33:05,920 --> 00:33:09,440
Speaker 1: But if they use your full name, yes, Laura Nashley Zema,

704
00:33:09,480 --> 00:33:12,160
Speaker 1: You're like, oh, I'm in trouble, Donna.

705
00:33:12,560 --> 00:33:15,360
Speaker 2: I've noticed that if I'm feeling stressed about something, I

706
00:33:15,440 --> 00:33:18,360
Speaker 2: actually I've worked on clearly communicating it over the years.

707
00:33:18,600 --> 00:33:20,560
Speaker 2: I will call my mom and right off the bat,

708
00:33:20,600 --> 00:33:23,080
Speaker 2: I make the conversation clear and I say, I'm kind

709
00:33:23,080 --> 00:33:24,760
Speaker 2: of stressed and I just need to hear your voice,

710
00:33:24,800 --> 00:33:26,240
Speaker 2: and then we kind of just have a nice, like

711
00:33:26,280 --> 00:33:29,400
Speaker 2: easy conversation and she makes me laugh and doesn't criticize

712
00:33:29,400 --> 00:33:29,680
Speaker 2: me on that.

713
00:33:29,760 --> 00:33:32,600
Speaker 1: Well. And to say again, when you have a mom

714
00:33:32,760 --> 00:33:36,240
Speaker 1: like you do, like I do, clearly like Bam out

715
00:33:36,240 --> 00:33:39,320
Speaker 1: of Bio does from the heat, they just immediately make

716
00:33:39,360 --> 00:33:41,480
Speaker 1: you feel like you're twelve years old again. I don't

717
00:33:41,520 --> 00:33:43,280
Speaker 1: care if you're the best basketball player in the world

718
00:33:43,320 --> 00:33:45,239
Speaker 1: and you just beat the Nicks and you're heading off

719
00:33:45,280 --> 00:33:48,719
Speaker 1: to the Eastern Conference Finals, you are twelve years old

720
00:33:48,880 --> 00:33:51,560
Speaker 1: and you're answering to your mommy. I love that.

721
00:33:51,600 --> 00:33:53,480
Speaker 2: Next time your mom calls, because I've never heard you

722
00:33:53,520 --> 00:33:55,160
Speaker 2: say it, I want you to say, hi, mommy.

723
00:33:55,400 --> 00:33:57,080
Speaker 1: I've never called my mom mommy.

724
00:33:57,200 --> 00:33:58,400
Speaker 3: Never you never use a kid.

725
00:33:58,480 --> 00:34:00,400
Speaker 1: Even as a kid, I never use the word what

726
00:34:00,440 --> 00:34:01,560
Speaker 1: did you say? Mom?

727
00:34:01,840 --> 00:34:02,240
Speaker 3: Just mom?

728
00:34:02,280 --> 00:34:04,800
Speaker 1: To this day I'm like, hey mom, love you Mom. Yeah,

729
00:34:05,040 --> 00:34:06,280
Speaker 1: I've never called her mommy.

730
00:34:06,440 --> 00:34:09,479
Speaker 3: All right, well let me bring you to a different mother.

731
00:34:09,680 --> 00:34:10,040
Speaker 1: Okay.

732
00:34:11,080 --> 00:34:14,880
Speaker 2: A couple fabulous elders making the news this week for

733
00:34:14,960 --> 00:34:19,880
Speaker 2: very different reasons. Martha Stewart at eighty one cover of

734
00:34:20,000 --> 00:34:26,480
Speaker 2: Sports Illustrated Swimsuit Edition, the oldest woman person whoever to

735
00:34:26,600 --> 00:34:29,520
Speaker 2: ever be on the cover of SI's Swimsuit edition.

736
00:34:29,560 --> 00:34:32,080
Speaker 1: Maybe SI ever it is no, there was a seventy

737
00:34:32,080 --> 00:34:34,440
Speaker 1: seven year old woman last year in twenty twenty two.

738
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Speaker 1: So Martha Stewart the oldest ever grace the cover. Now

739
00:34:38,719 --> 00:34:42,000
Speaker 1: there are the cover is changed in Sports Illustrated time

740
00:34:42,000 --> 00:34:44,400
Speaker 1: because it used to be what's called a magazine, and

741
00:34:44,440 --> 00:34:47,120
Speaker 1: there was one magazine that would be on newsstands. Google

742
00:34:47,200 --> 00:34:50,520
Speaker 1: that kids, and now there are kind of online. There's

743
00:34:50,560 --> 00:34:55,399
Speaker 1: four online covers. But still Martha Stewart, who looks fantastic

744
00:34:55,440 --> 00:34:55,839
Speaker 1: on the cover.

745
00:34:56,000 --> 00:34:59,680
Speaker 3: Fabulous, she's kind of you, Jane Fonda share.

746
00:35:00,719 --> 00:35:02,480
Speaker 2: I mean, some of these, you know, women have kind

747
00:35:02,520 --> 00:35:05,080
Speaker 2: of been the gold standards of like aging.

748
00:35:05,160 --> 00:35:07,239
Speaker 1: But March step so Christian there.

749
00:35:07,360 --> 00:35:10,560
Speaker 2: Okay, I know your crush, but Martha Stewart is now

750
00:35:11,480 --> 00:35:16,360
Speaker 2: up there. Martha Stewart is setting Martha Stewart is becoming

751
00:35:16,400 --> 00:35:18,319
Speaker 2: a oh my gosh, how does she look that way

752
00:35:18,400 --> 00:35:23,440
Speaker 2: at that age person? Looking stunning? So obviously sports illustrated.

753
00:35:23,520 --> 00:35:25,880
Speaker 2: Changing from the way the swimsuit as she used to be.

754
00:35:25,920 --> 00:35:27,480
Speaker 2: It has for the past couple of years, they've had

755
00:35:27,480 --> 00:35:31,840
Speaker 2: more natural you know, just real bodies on it, athletic.

756
00:35:31,480 --> 00:35:32,319
Speaker 3: Women, that kind of thing.

757
00:35:33,160 --> 00:35:36,440
Speaker 2: One thing that this made me think about, will we

758
00:35:36,560 --> 00:35:40,160
Speaker 2: see over the next few years a shift in a

759
00:35:40,440 --> 00:35:45,319
Speaker 2: prevalence of older women dating younger men. Like I brought

760
00:35:45,360 --> 00:35:48,800
Speaker 2: up share Share was dating someone much younger. Recently Madonna

761
00:35:48,920 --> 00:35:53,520
Speaker 2: has and it's obviously much more common for men to

762
00:35:53,640 --> 00:35:56,600
Speaker 2: date younger women, I think than for women to date

763
00:35:56,680 --> 00:35:59,759
Speaker 2: younger men. Like I like that we're making a shift

764
00:35:59,760 --> 00:36:02,920
Speaker 2: as a culture into we need to change our mindset

765
00:36:03,040 --> 00:36:07,000
Speaker 2: about women and their level of sexiness and beauty as

766
00:36:07,000 --> 00:36:09,400
Speaker 2: they get older. Men are seen as better looking as

767
00:36:09,400 --> 00:36:12,640
Speaker 2: they get older. Women it's like we have an expiration day.

768
00:36:12,680 --> 00:36:14,279
Speaker 1: I think there's much more of that in general. I

769
00:36:14,320 --> 00:36:16,520
Speaker 1: just see it in our own lives. I think there

770
00:36:17,280 --> 00:36:20,200
Speaker 1: is more it's more prevalent now than obviously in the

771
00:36:20,200 --> 00:36:23,960
Speaker 1: past of young men dating marrying older women.

772
00:36:24,120 --> 00:36:24,759
Speaker 3: Which I love.

773
00:36:25,440 --> 00:36:27,920
Speaker 2: Now, I will say, I wonder if it's going to

774
00:36:27,960 --> 00:36:30,480
Speaker 2: happen as much because I do think I'm just speaking

775
00:36:30,480 --> 00:36:33,319
Speaker 2: from my friends and I I think for a lot

776
00:36:33,360 --> 00:36:35,640
Speaker 2: of women, the idea of dating a younger man, it's like,

777
00:36:36,400 --> 00:36:37,480
Speaker 2: you don't want to do it.

778
00:36:37,920 --> 00:36:40,360
Speaker 1: No, God, I think I need to get to a

779
00:36:40,360 --> 00:36:42,520
Speaker 1: certain age so that he is a man. You're not

780
00:36:42,600 --> 00:36:45,320
Speaker 1: dating a broken boy, right.

781
00:36:45,440 --> 00:36:49,480
Speaker 2: Probably if I was an older woman, I would not

782
00:36:49,680 --> 00:36:51,120
Speaker 2: date a younger man who.

783
00:36:51,000 --> 00:36:52,720
Speaker 3: Wasn't at least in his mid thirties.

784
00:36:53,600 --> 00:36:54,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay.

785
00:36:54,480 --> 00:36:58,920
Speaker 2: I will share a story before you and I started dating.

786
00:36:58,960 --> 00:37:06,640
Speaker 2: So I was single dating a guy fairly briefly, and

787
00:37:07,080 --> 00:37:10,640
Speaker 2: he lied to me about his age. He told me

788
00:37:10,800 --> 00:37:13,640
Speaker 2: that he was twenty nine and he was in fact

789
00:37:13,640 --> 00:37:14,200
Speaker 2: twenty three.

790
00:37:14,320 --> 00:37:14,880
Speaker 1: Oh gosh.

791
00:37:15,680 --> 00:37:18,120
Speaker 2: And I will say it made sense because I was

792
00:37:18,200 --> 00:37:22,120
Speaker 2: kind of thinking to myself, Oh, we would we'd have

793
00:37:22,160 --> 00:37:23,920
Speaker 2: a little conflict or something, and I would think he's

794
00:37:23,960 --> 00:37:24,640
Speaker 2: a little immature.

795
00:37:24,640 --> 00:37:26,239
Speaker 3: I don't know, it might be a little immature for me.

796
00:37:26,440 --> 00:37:28,640
Speaker 2: And then he eventually revealed he had lied about his age,

797
00:37:28,920 --> 00:37:30,880
Speaker 2: and he said I was worried you wouldn't date me

798
00:37:31,600 --> 00:37:33,360
Speaker 2: because I was so young, And the answer is no,

799
00:37:33,400 --> 00:37:34,040
Speaker 2: I wouldn't have.

800
00:37:34,120 --> 00:37:36,359
Speaker 1: Well, what's funny is that that's a big lie. By

801
00:37:36,400 --> 00:37:39,120
Speaker 1: the way, six years, but it doesn't sound like that much.

802
00:37:39,160 --> 00:37:41,239
Speaker 2: It's so interesting how I think in your twenties six

803
00:37:41,320 --> 00:37:42,480
Speaker 2: years can be so significant.

804
00:37:42,600 --> 00:37:44,360
Speaker 1: It is, I mean, the difference between when I was

805
00:37:44,360 --> 00:37:45,680
Speaker 1: twenty three and twenty.

806
00:37:45,480 --> 00:37:46,600
Speaker 3: Nine big life place.

807
00:37:46,880 --> 00:37:49,040
Speaker 1: I mean that was six years of marriage and a kid,

808
00:37:49,480 --> 00:37:50,040
Speaker 1: the difference.

809
00:37:50,080 --> 00:37:52,520
Speaker 2: But then let me ask you how big of a difference,

810
00:37:52,520 --> 00:37:54,799
Speaker 2: And maybe there is one between when you're forty three

811
00:37:54,840 --> 00:37:55,640
Speaker 2: and forty nine.

812
00:37:56,480 --> 00:37:58,440
Speaker 1: Not a huge difference. I think you get to a

813
00:37:58,440 --> 00:38:00,839
Speaker 1: certain point in your life in age really doesn't matter

814
00:38:00,880 --> 00:38:03,239
Speaker 1: that much anymore. You get more life experiences and things

815
00:38:03,239 --> 00:38:06,520
Speaker 1: happen clearly, and so you continue to learn and evolve.

816
00:38:07,000 --> 00:38:10,319
Speaker 1: But once you become the man you are, I would

817
00:38:10,360 --> 00:38:14,040
Speaker 1: say after forty years old, there's not a big change.

818
00:38:14,480 --> 00:38:17,040
Speaker 2: Well, I would be interested. Please hit me up in

819
00:38:17,080 --> 00:38:20,000
Speaker 2: the DMS. I want to have a conversation about this. Ladies,

820
00:38:20,080 --> 00:38:23,600
Speaker 2: if you are someone who dates men, would you date

821
00:38:23,640 --> 00:38:25,400
Speaker 2: a younger man and how young would you go? And

822
00:38:25,440 --> 00:38:27,600
Speaker 2: how big of an age gap would you do yeah?

823
00:38:28,000 --> 00:38:30,000
Speaker 1: Or or I would love to see if anybody is

824
00:38:30,080 --> 00:38:32,920
Speaker 1: dating a younger man. Give me the pluses and minuses

825
00:38:32,960 --> 00:38:33,120
Speaker 1: of this.

826
00:38:33,400 --> 00:38:35,759
Speaker 2: Yes, And I would love to see Martha Stewart come out,

827
00:38:35,800 --> 00:38:37,279
Speaker 2: you know, at eighty one, come out with something like

828
00:38:37,320 --> 00:38:38,560
Speaker 2: hot fifty year old.

829
00:38:38,840 --> 00:38:40,600
Speaker 1: It's amazing to think that she was in jail.

830
00:38:41,520 --> 00:38:44,640
Speaker 3: I was also thinking about that, what a comeback? I mean,

831
00:38:44,360 --> 00:38:44,719
Speaker 3: I mean.

832
00:38:44,960 --> 00:38:46,080
Speaker 1: Was there a bigger comeback?

833
00:38:46,200 --> 00:38:48,120
Speaker 3: It was so controversial at the time too.

834
00:38:48,280 --> 00:38:51,480
Speaker 2: Today well, today, I do think that would still be

835
00:38:51,520 --> 00:38:54,080
Speaker 2: controversial because it was like insider trading and you're so

836
00:38:54,200 --> 00:38:55,759
Speaker 2: wealthy and you're doing that. It would still be a

837
00:38:55,800 --> 00:38:59,560
Speaker 2: controversial thing today. But it's funny the lens the other day,

838
00:38:59,640 --> 00:39:02,160
Speaker 2: you and I kind of gone on this random rewatch

839
00:39:02,320 --> 00:39:04,439
Speaker 2: or for me, the first time watch of the show

840
00:39:04,560 --> 00:39:06,640
Speaker 2: The West Wing, and so then I'm googling it and

841
00:39:06,640 --> 00:39:08,960
Speaker 2: looking into it, and I did not realize The West

842
00:39:09,000 --> 00:39:12,160
Speaker 2: Wing Aaron Sorkin, the creator of the show, was removed

843
00:39:12,200 --> 00:39:15,120
Speaker 2: from the show because he got in major trouble for

844
00:39:15,200 --> 00:39:18,640
Speaker 2: being arrested at an airport with some mushrooms, right, And

845
00:39:18,680 --> 00:39:21,040
Speaker 2: I thought, today, oh my god, that's not that big.

846
00:39:20,840 --> 00:39:22,760
Speaker 1: Of that's a blip on the radar for me. Nobody's

847
00:39:22,800 --> 00:39:25,560
Speaker 1: getting canceled for mushrooms or weed.

848
00:39:25,800 --> 00:39:29,279
Speaker 2: No, some times have change. But speaking of age, I

849
00:39:29,280 --> 00:39:32,480
Speaker 2: have one more to throw at you. Yes, Robert de Niro,

850
00:39:33,080 --> 00:39:37,200
Speaker 2: we've gone from mother to daddy literally having a baby

851
00:39:38,040 --> 00:39:40,600
Speaker 2: at age seventy nine. He's welcomed a new baby and

852
00:39:40,640 --> 00:39:42,000
Speaker 2: he's seventy nine years old.

853
00:39:42,960 --> 00:39:44,120
Speaker 3: Your thoughts.

854
00:39:44,560 --> 00:39:49,640
Speaker 1: One of those stories is wonderful and empowering. One of

855
00:39:49,719 --> 00:39:55,120
Speaker 1: these stories is selfish. I think Martha is an amazing story.

856
00:39:55,160 --> 00:39:59,200
Speaker 1: It's wonderful, great. I think having a child at seventy

857
00:39:59,280 --> 00:40:04,840
Speaker 1: nine years old is unbelievably selfish as a dad. And again,

858
00:40:05,160 --> 00:40:09,200
Speaker 1: God bless them. Congratulations Mazeltov. I hope is a healthy,

859
00:40:09,239 --> 00:40:11,799
Speaker 1: happy baby and they have a wonderful life. They will

860
00:40:11,800 --> 00:40:13,480
Speaker 1: not have their dad around for very long.

861
00:40:13,640 --> 00:40:17,239
Speaker 3: Wow, you're like, God bless them. But also that's selfish.

862
00:40:17,400 --> 00:40:19,120
Speaker 1: It is God bless them now. I mean, I wish

863
00:40:19,160 --> 00:40:21,600
Speaker 1: them well. There's a human being now on this earth.

864
00:40:21,600 --> 00:40:24,400
Speaker 1: I wish them well. But that child will not have

865
00:40:24,440 --> 00:40:26,920
Speaker 1: a father as they grow up, because your dad is

866
00:40:26,920 --> 00:40:30,799
Speaker 1: going to die. Your dad is seventy nine. I'm just

867
00:40:30,800 --> 00:40:33,279
Speaker 1: going to go out on a limb. Odds are and

868
00:40:33,320 --> 00:40:36,440
Speaker 1: even if he's not dead in ten years or eleven years,

869
00:40:36,960 --> 00:40:40,560
Speaker 1: he won't be in the capacity to raise this child

870
00:40:40,719 --> 00:40:43,280
Speaker 1: and enjoy all the great things and so the active

871
00:40:43,520 --> 00:40:48,000
Speaker 1: it's just when you have a child that okay, when

872
00:40:48,040 --> 00:40:52,759
Speaker 1: he's ten or she's ten. He's eighty nine, ninety years old?

873
00:40:53,160 --> 00:40:55,560
Speaker 3: Really okay, So what's the cutoff for you? How old

874
00:40:55,640 --> 00:40:56,480
Speaker 3: can people have children?

875
00:40:56,680 --> 00:40:59,520
Speaker 1: I don't I don't know. I'm not going to set

876
00:40:59,560 --> 00:41:03,640
Speaker 1: the age limit. But seventy nine's it? I know that.

877
00:41:03,960 --> 00:41:07,799
Speaker 1: I know that doesn't pass the smell test. One is

878
00:41:08,239 --> 00:41:11,239
Speaker 1: I'm really it's remarkable he had a child at seventy nine.

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Speaker 1: I'm interested to know how that happened.

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Speaker 3: But didn't they didn't? Isn't the famous thing that Picasso

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Speaker 3: had kids into his seventies, is it? He's not the

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Speaker 3: de Niro's not the first.

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Speaker 1: He's not. No, And I don't know. I just for

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Speaker 1: me having kids. None of us are promised tomorrow. Look,

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Speaker 1: I'm only fifty one. I could be gone tomorrow too.

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00:41:30,760 --> 00:41:32,880
Speaker 1: None of us are promised that. You know that as

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Speaker 1: well as anybody. But I do know this that de

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Speaker 1: Niro's not going to live all that much longer, and

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Speaker 1: he's definitely not gonna be able to be active. And

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Speaker 1: he's not going to watch that child graduate from high school.

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00:41:44,560 --> 00:41:47,040
Speaker 1: He's not gonna watch that child get married. He's not

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Speaker 1: going to watch that child walk across the stage and

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Speaker 1: graduate college, play and all whatever. There are major life

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Speaker 1: moments where that child will not have their father. Look, well,

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Speaker 1: they have money. Yeah, they're gonna have DeNiro money. But

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Speaker 1: as you know, that doesn't.

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Speaker 2: Well, maybe he's thinking, I'm having a kid and I'm

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Speaker 2: setting them up financially for life in a way a

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Speaker 2: lot of other parents can't. So I'm giving them that gift.

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Speaker 1: Sorry to poopoo on de Niro, I don't love I

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Speaker 1: just didn't love it.

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Speaker 2: You love his acting, maybe you're not loving his parenting. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: that's I mean, I totally see your point. I think

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Speaker 2: there are obviously a lot worse things a parent can do.

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Speaker 3: To a child.

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Speaker 2: But okay, I guess there's part of me that wonders,

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Speaker 2: and I got to look up who we had this

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Speaker 2: child with. But if your partner is telling you, I mean,

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Speaker 2: I really want to have another.

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Speaker 3: Child, that's a tough. It's tough to look.

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00:42:35,760 --> 00:42:38,400
Speaker 2: Somebody in the face and say I'm denying you that

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Speaker 2: that's hard.

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Speaker 1: It was with his partner Tiffany Chen and I believe,

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Speaker 1: if I'm not mistaken, this is his seventh child.

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Speaker 3: I think so.

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Speaker 1: So that's the other thing. You got enough. You don't

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Speaker 1: need a starting basketball team. I mean, come on, man,

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Speaker 1: come on de Niro, and look, it hurts me to

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00:42:54,920 --> 00:42:58,359
Speaker 1: talk about my costar like this. You know, we spend

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00:42:58,400 --> 00:43:01,000
Speaker 1: a lot of quality time together on the movie Showtime.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, I forgot about your cameo in the

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Speaker 2: film Showtime.

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Speaker 3: Is that Eddie Murphy?

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Speaker 1: Eddie Murphy and Robert Genio and Renee Russo one of

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Speaker 1: your favorites.

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Speaker 3: I love Renee.

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Speaker 1: I did not get to meet her or see her

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Speaker 1: because I was in the scene with Eddie and Bobby

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Speaker 1: de Niro.

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Speaker 3: Well, I can't believe you're talking about your friend, Bobby,

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Speaker 3: I know.

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Speaker 1: See, And that's why I feel so passionately about this. Wow.

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Speaker 2: Well, mother's father's age, gaps and babies at elder ages,

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Speaker 2: A lot to discuss, a lot discussed today.

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Speaker 3: Please everybody slide into the DMS.

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Speaker 2: I would love to hear from you guys on what

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Speaker 2: you think about these things. And again, a big Congrats

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Speaker 2: to Colton and Jordan, and thank you for including us

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Speaker 2: in what was a very loving and fun weekend.

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Speaker 1: All my love to Colton Jordan, congratulations. Thank you for

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Speaker 1: joining us today. We always love talking to you. We'll

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Speaker 1: see you next time because we have a lot more

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