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Speaker 2: I think you donned in it with this one again

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Speaker 2: on the sheet this morning. The first thing I see

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Speaker 2: is that you're annoyed when you go to I want

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Speaker 2: to know how this came up, But you're annoyed when

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Speaker 2: you go to a restaurant and when what happened?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't like it when I go to restaurants

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Speaker 3: to go you with somebody and they feel like they

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Speaker 3: need to ask and bother our waiter or waitress and

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Speaker 3: ask them what's good here?

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Speaker 4: Or like what do you like?

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Speaker 1: What is wrong with you?

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Speaker 2: You?

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Speaker 1: I love you deeply, but like what what is wrong

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Speaker 1: with you?

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Speaker 2: Like? Why what is the problem with asking people who

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Speaker 2: work at the place what they're known for or what

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Speaker 2: the best singing you?

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Speaker 4: No, like knocking off, just like what do you want

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Speaker 4: to eat?

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Speaker 3: Because I can recommend like beef to you, Kaylen, and

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Speaker 3: you're gonna look at me and be like, okay, but

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Speaker 3: I don't eat beef.

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Speaker 5: But I tell the server like, here's what I'm into,

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Speaker 5: Like what are your highlights on the menu?

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Speaker 4: What do you work there? That's true?

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Speaker 1: What do you like?

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Speaker 3: A taste for something very specific? And I'm over here

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Speaker 3: telling you like about you.

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Speaker 2: If I have a taste for something very specific, I'm

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Speaker 2: gonna order that thing. But if I don't know what

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Speaker 2: I want, then I might ask the person and I

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Speaker 2: know this before I asked the person, and then they

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Speaker 2: tell me stuff and none of that really sounds good

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Speaker 2: to me, so I don't order any of it, and

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Speaker 2: I usually joke about it like all right, well thanks

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Speaker 2: for that, but I'm ordering this instead, ha ha whatever.

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Speaker 2: But like, what what is what is the problem these

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Speaker 2: people see all day? Lord, they've eaten most of the

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Speaker 2: food there. Yes, damn, you have to assume and if

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Speaker 2: they're lying to you, then they're liars.

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Speaker 1: But whatever, that's that.

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Speaker 2: They can deal with that, you know, the next time

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Speaker 2: the rapture comes around, they can deal with that.

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Speaker 1: But what is that? I do it all the time.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I go to a place it never gone, and

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Speaker 2: I'll be like, what, what?

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Speaker 1: What do you like on the menu? What's good?

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Speaker 3: I am you so annoyed if I was your waitress

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Speaker 3: and you asked me that, because I'd be like, yes,

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Speaker 3: because you.

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Speaker 2: Are you also annoyed if you're the waitress and I

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Speaker 2: ask you for water and like that annoying to you

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Speaker 2: as well?

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Speaker 4: That is universal.

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Speaker 3: We all need to live, like we needed to drink

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Speaker 3: your water. I'm more concerned about if you don't like scallops,

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Speaker 3: I'm not going to give you a presentation about it

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Speaker 3: and like waste your time.

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Speaker 4: And like you said, what if I.

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Speaker 3: Turn around and go, actually, I'm gonna try the other

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Speaker 3: thing that I thought of first, like do your reputation.

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Speaker 5: They're not still a paying customer and everything's okay.

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Speaker 4: Well, I don't like it.

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Speaker 1: I do it all the time.

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Speaker 4: Even worse.

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Speaker 5: Sometimes I'll give them two options and ask them to

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Speaker 5: choose for me. Now, how triggered would you be for that?

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Speaker 3: I like that because I'm I'm not putting out of

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Speaker 3: work into that. You're like, hey, what's a beoutter, the

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Speaker 3: beef barley or the whatever?

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Speaker 2: Right?

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Speaker 3: The other soup plat a tomato basil. Then I'll say,

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Speaker 3: I like tomato basil. But see, my.

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Speaker 4: Taste buds are very different other people's, right, we're when.

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Speaker 5: I'm going into the question, So I take that into

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Speaker 5: considerracy than you.

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Speaker 2: I shouldn't ask that question, but other people who have

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Speaker 2: a less particular taste could very easily ask that question.

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Speaker 2: And then you might say that the best thing on

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Speaker 2: the menu is something that I wasn't even looking at

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Speaker 2: or wouldn't normally order. But if it's like, no, no,

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Speaker 2: this is what we're known for, you know, then I

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Speaker 2: might try it because you suggest it. Also might not

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Speaker 2: because it's not a contract, because I didn't agree to

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Speaker 2: a contract with the waitress.

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Speaker 1: We didn't sign anything.

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Speaker 4: Okay, yes, some with her?

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Speaker 1: Why little bit?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, thank you?

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Speaker 6: Now I am the person I will do this, probably

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Speaker 6: the soule. Let me just be honest there. I do

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Speaker 6: this all the time. But you know I hate a

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Speaker 6: skit at dinner, Like, let's get this over with. You know,

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Speaker 6: I looked at the menu before we got here. You

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Speaker 6: looked at the menu before we got here.

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Speaker 1: No, I didn't.

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Speaker 4: We know what we want.

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Speaker 1: So no, I didn't just done. I didn't look at.

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Speaker 4: Them guessing on what you want.

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Speaker 1: You, Yes, I am. I went to the restaurant.

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Speaker 2: I look at the menu for the first time, and

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Speaker 2: I'm going to I'm going to assess my mood at

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Speaker 2: the time, because what I want right now might be

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Speaker 2: different than what I want at six pm or seven pm.

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Speaker 4: When I go to them telling you that you don't do.

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Speaker 6: That myself the waitress or a waiter, You're like, bro,

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Speaker 6: I don't want to do this, like I don't want

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Speaker 6: to play this.

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Speaker 4: Game with you.

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Speaker 1: Tell but this is there a different.

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Speaker 2: I know you don't like the presentation, like the meat presentation.

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Speaker 2: You don't like that, like when we go to a

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Speaker 2: steakhouse or something with the suits and then they come

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Speaker 2: out and they show you like, you know, the whole cow,

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Speaker 2: the cat.

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Speaker 1: I know you don't like that.

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Speaker 4: No, I don't need that.

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Speaker 1: Fine, But that's different.

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Speaker 2: I think that's very different than me going like, well,

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Speaker 2: I don't know, I mean, what's no, But.

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Speaker 6: I feel Paulina on the waitress side, like if I'm

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Speaker 6: the waiter, bro, I have seven of the tables I

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Speaker 6: gotta work on. I don't have time to play this

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Speaker 6: game with you. What do you want off this menu?

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Speaker 6: You want to ask me all these questions?

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Speaker 1: What do I think?

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Speaker 5: You don't care what I see for they work in

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Speaker 5: the service industry, like they work there, they're ambassadors of

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Speaker 5: the place.

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Speaker 3: But if I bed this whole like lamb, you know

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Speaker 3: whatever poor chops to you and you get something the

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Speaker 3: bletely different, I'm going to be so bothered.

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Speaker 4: You are bothered.

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Speaker 1: I ask you what's the best thing is?

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Speaker 2: And if it's not, if it's not what I want,

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Speaker 2: then I'm not going to order an end of story,

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Speaker 2: we move on.

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Speaker 1: But maybe you'll inspire me to order something.

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Speaker 4: No what Okay, stop the Shenanigans.

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Speaker 6: Take something off this paper. I just gave you a

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Speaker 6: paper with seven options.

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Speaker 4: Pick one.

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Speaker 5: Some of us go out to dinner to like relax

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Speaker 5: and enjoy, have a glass of wine, like enjoy your company.

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Speaker 4: You want to get something you like?

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Speaker 5: You want to chat like why why are we going out.

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Speaker 4: To dinner with such anger? Who make?

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Speaker 2: And then like sometimes if I'm choosing between two things,

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Speaker 2: I'll be like what about these? And then sometimes if

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Speaker 2: the person like is really nice and honest, that the

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Speaker 2: server will be like, yeah, I definitely would go with

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Speaker 2: the other thing, because they've had it and they don't

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Speaker 2: like the thing, right book. I mean, if you're an

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Speaker 2: honest server, not everything on the mat, on every menu

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Speaker 2: is going to be like you know, Michelin Star. Not

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Speaker 2: everything is the best thing. You know, there are things

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Speaker 2: that are better. Hey, a lot of people like this, right, Okay? Good, Well,

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Speaker 2: then I might order that because if you sell a

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Speaker 2: lot of them, then they must be pretty good. I mean,

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Speaker 2: but how would I know that. I don't get their

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Speaker 2: p and L. They don't little POS system doesn't print

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Speaker 2: out for me and send to my email before I arrive.

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Speaker 2: You know, the most popular things at the restaurant.

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Speaker 1: I don't know.

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Speaker 3: I've been betrayed by waiters and waitresses because they gave

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Speaker 3: me what their recommendation is and I didn't like it.

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Speaker 5: So like, that's why I don't, like, why are we

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Speaker 5: business for trusting them if you already know.

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Speaker 4: What you're wanting?

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Speaker 1: A room pulled?

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Speaker 3: So I don't want to give my trust to Mike

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Speaker 3: do that, but other people.

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Speaker 4: Okay, what I'm waitressing on the weekend. I won't do it.

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Speaker 1: No, I don't.

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Speaker 5: I just feel like, well, you don't ask someone who

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Speaker 5: knows what you want. You don't ask the waiter. But

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Speaker 5: like other people might not know.

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Speaker 2: Wild for this, Like why would I not ask the

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Speaker 2: person who's there all the time if I'm not sure about.

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Speaker 4: Something, the waitress. I ask the questions.

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Speaker 1: All they do all day is this food?

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Speaker 2: Right? And then and then you also have to again

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Speaker 2: you have to assume they've tried a lot of this stuff.

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Speaker 2: And some people will be like I have never heard that.

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Speaker 1: I don't know.

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Speaker 5: On the flip side, I love when the winter will

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Speaker 5: be like, don't get that.

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Speaker 4: That's not good.

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Speaker 2: That's what That's what I'm just That's what I just said, Yeah,

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Speaker 2: exactly the same thing. It's like, well these you think,

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Speaker 2: oh no.

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Speaker 5: Not that yeah, or when they point, don't pick the

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Speaker 5: most expensive thing, like they're honest, sparkling.

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Speaker 4: I don't have to. I asked the questions. I'm the waitress.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's not a fun restaurant. Y, what's wrong with

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Speaker 2: these people?

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Speaker 7: Like?

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Speaker 1: What is wrong with you? I guess I'm supposed to

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Speaker 1: go to the restaurant.

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Speaker 2: I'm supposed to go to the restaurant, and I'm not

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Speaker 2: supposed to ask any questions. I'm supposed to have the

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Speaker 2: menu memorized, yes, and then I'm supposed.

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Speaker 4: To just know.

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Speaker 2: And if I don't get it right, if I don't

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Speaker 2: order everything properly the first time, right, Oh boy, Paulia

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Speaker 2: is gonna be mad. You're gonna get up and leave

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Speaker 2: after she eats the food I'm about to buy her.

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Speaker 4: That's portrayed before I have.

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Speaker 2: You know, it's no problem for you because you show

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Speaker 2: forty five minutes late, so you never saw me do that,

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Speaker 2: so it doesn't matter.

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Speaker 4: That's true.

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Speaker 1: But Jed, what did you want to say? Please?

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Speaker 8: So I'm with Kiki. I definitely review every menu before

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Speaker 8: I go to any restaurants to make sure I like

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Speaker 3: Not going to Chili's or Applebee's like and asking the

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Speaker 2: Like also holding a selfie camera stick up to.

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Speaker 1: Myself on a chain.

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Speaker 4: It can't be a change, can't.

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Speaker 2: Monzarelli sticks, right, Like, what if they're disappointing? You know,

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Speaker 2: I don't know, And honest server would tell you, yeah,

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Speaker 4: TikTok would have told you that a day ago.

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Speaker 2: But you've already spent four hours on TikTok on the

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Speaker 4: Exactly.

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Speaker 2: I have a life. Okay, I don't have a life,

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Speaker 2: so I probably have plenty of time for this. But hey, Nancy,

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Speaker 2: this is one of the wildest takes I've ever heard.

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Speaker 2: We are not supposed to ask people who work at

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Speaker 1: According to Paulina, well.

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Speaker 9: What I usually do, especially if I'm on vacation, I

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Speaker 4: I love that?

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Speaker 1: See, I don't see a problem with this.

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Speaker 2: And then if they tell you something that you don't

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Speaker 2: frog legs are great, Well I don't. I don't really

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Speaker 2: want them, and so then you order something else. No

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Speaker 2: big deal, No big deal.

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Speaker 4: Exactly exactly. I agree, Okay, we can got Nancy.

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Speaker 1: Thank you. Yeah, yeah, you're welcome.

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Speaker 9: To have a wonderful day.

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Speaker 1: You too, And Nancy, I love you, appreciate you.

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Speaker 6: Now I want to tell you with Nancy, I told

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Speaker 4: I'm really wasting these people time on both sides. I

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Speaker 2: Okay, but even if I look at the menu ahead

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Speaker 2: what if it's not good and what if the server

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Speaker 1: What I don't like.

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Speaker 2: What I don't like is when a server tells everyone

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Speaker 2: if it's like in the same category, like oh you

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Speaker 2: like great, and then I have a choice. Then I'm educated.

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Speaker 2: I have knowledge that I cannot have. And the other

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Speaker 2: thing is one more time about reviews. God, you got

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Speaker 2: me going already. Reviews or bs, reviews, or bs. Almost

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Speaker 2: nobody takes the time to go say I had the

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Speaker 2: best club sandwich today at this place. It was the

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Speaker 2: best I've ever had. No, you said it was there

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Speaker 2: was a hair in my club sandwich today, you know,

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Speaker 2: and it was it your hair was someone else's hair.

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Speaker 2: We don't really know, okay, but no one takes the

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Speaker 2: time to go. I would say it's not eighty percent

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Speaker 4: Yes, you can't.

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Speaker 2: And don't you know that I go to TikTok. Don't

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Speaker 2: you know that pretty well? What about reviews?

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Speaker 6: Oh yeah, I make good reviews. I make TikTok videos.

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Speaker 6: If I really love you, okay, and if I hate you,

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Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying.

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Speaker 2: I see a lot of reviews from Veronica, not nearly

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Speaker 2: as many from what.

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Speaker 1: The negative reviews, whatever her name, you can't even keep

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Speaker 1: us trade.

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Speaker 2: Hey, Bridget, hi, Bridget, this is a crazy thing, Paulina

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Speaker 2: and Kiki.

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Speaker 1: Now apparently who does it?

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Speaker 2: You're not allowed to ask the server at the restaurant

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Speaker 2: what's good there?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I don't believe in that.

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Speaker 7: I actually think that going to restaurants, you're supposed to

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Speaker 7: you know, enjoying each other's company, peruves the menu. Yeah,

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Speaker 7: I don't believe, And like, all right, listen, I want

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Speaker 4: I want to get in, I want to get out.

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Speaker 7: I want to like, what is the point of enjoying

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Speaker 2: Is what I'm talking about. So apparently, Bridget, we're supposed

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Speaker 2: dig up any TikTok about the place he's.

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Speaker 1: Ever been made.

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Speaker 2: I got to take three or four hours before I

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Speaker 2: I better not say anything. I better not ask anybody

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Speaker 2: That's what I've learned this morning, bridget I want you

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Speaker 2: to have a great day. No way.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, that's crazy, right, this is my life.

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Speaker 7: Like honestly, that's what happens when social media and Google

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Speaker 7: takes over the world. There's no such thing as just

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Speaker 7: there is something that's to be sad about old school

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Speaker 1: That you can. You better have your order memorized.

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Speaker 2: You better have it memory, and you better not change

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Speaker 2: dare ask if it is not you bridge it, No,

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Speaker 7: I do ask servers what's good on the menu bought?

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Speaker 7: In my defense, I'm gonna tell you I was in

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Speaker 4: That's interesting.

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Speaker 1: How about that? Thank you? Bridge?

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Speaker 4: Very nice?

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Speaker 1: She's better okay, one at a time.

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Speaker 4: No, she's good. She's a good one.

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Speaker 3: I don't think you could take your time like you

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Speaker 10: And all that.

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Speaker 4: Feel like it. But just like, don't be bugging your

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Speaker 2: There she is, Hi Whitney. Wow, welcome to the program.

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Speaker 2: What's going on with this guy? You've been dating him

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Speaker 2: so you've been dating this guy for two months. You

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Speaker 2: define the relationship after two months. But where's the issue?

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Speaker 10: to be, you know, quote unquote going dark for two

447
00:17:27,040 --> 00:17:29,119
Speaker 10: weeks because he's going on a trip to Europe with

448
00:17:29,160 --> 00:17:32,919
Speaker 10: his sister. And you know, he's had this trip planned

449
00:17:32,920 --> 00:17:35,200
Speaker 10: for like months before we even met.

450
00:17:35,760 --> 00:17:39,280
Speaker 1: Okay, and you know they're.

451
00:17:39,080 --> 00:17:42,600
Speaker 10: Thing in hostels and you know, obviously he doesn't know

452
00:17:42,960 --> 00:17:47,400
Speaker 10: if or when I'll have service, and I get that, and.

453
00:17:47,359 --> 00:17:50,960
Speaker 2: He really, where is he going? Is he going to

454
00:17:51,000 --> 00:17:53,399
Speaker 2: like war torn Russia? Like where where is he going?

455
00:17:54,560 --> 00:17:55,080
Speaker 3: No, they're going.

456
00:17:55,280 --> 00:17:56,000
Speaker 10: I think they're going.

457
00:17:56,080 --> 00:18:00,680
Speaker 2: I'm like, like Paris, and you know, progue understanding is

458
00:18:00,680 --> 00:18:03,440
Speaker 2: that there's Wi Fi and the and the interwebs and

459
00:18:03,880 --> 00:18:07,520
Speaker 2: phone and you know, cellular service.

460
00:18:07,600 --> 00:18:09,840
Speaker 1: So I don't know. Okay, I'm sorry. Continue.

461
00:18:09,880 --> 00:18:12,879
Speaker 2: So he's going on a trip with his sister for

462
00:18:12,920 --> 00:18:14,960
Speaker 2: two weeks, and he's telling you ahead of time, I'm

463
00:18:15,000 --> 00:18:16,720
Speaker 2: not going to be in communication with you.

464
00:18:17,920 --> 00:18:19,440
Speaker 10: Yeah, I mean he wants to go off the grid

465
00:18:19,480 --> 00:18:23,280
Speaker 10: and like really enjoy it and decompress, which, honestly, like

466
00:18:23,280 --> 00:18:24,480
Speaker 10: I really appreciate.

467
00:18:24,520 --> 00:18:25,480
Speaker 4: Him telling me that way.

468
00:18:25,520 --> 00:18:28,560
Speaker 10: I'm not like, oh no, did I do something wrong?

469
00:18:28,560 --> 00:18:31,639
Speaker 4: Where'd he go? You know, like I'd much rather have

470
00:18:31,720 --> 00:18:32,399
Speaker 4: you met his sister?

471
00:18:32,480 --> 00:18:32,640
Speaker 2: Now?

472
00:18:33,080 --> 00:18:33,600
Speaker 1: Is this legit?

473
00:18:33,680 --> 00:18:33,720
Speaker 2: Is?

474
00:18:33,760 --> 00:18:34,960
Speaker 1: He definitely going with his sister.

475
00:18:36,520 --> 00:18:38,840
Speaker 10: I haven't met her yet, but you know, they facetimed.

476
00:18:38,880 --> 00:18:40,879
Speaker 10: They talk about this trip all the time.

477
00:18:41,119 --> 00:18:46,680
Speaker 4: So like, I know that I believe that part, okay.

478
00:18:46,200 --> 00:18:49,800
Speaker 10: And honestly, like I believe the whole thing until you know,

479
00:18:50,119 --> 00:18:52,880
Speaker 10: I talk to my friends about it and they think

480
00:18:52,920 --> 00:18:55,840
Speaker 10: it's kind of bs and they don't really buy the story.

481
00:18:56,200 --> 00:18:57,240
Speaker 10: They're like, we don't buy it.

482
00:18:59,040 --> 00:19:00,000
Speaker 1: I could see this two ways.

483
00:19:00,359 --> 00:19:02,280
Speaker 2: I mean, if he's if he's taking some other woman

484
00:19:02,320 --> 00:19:05,320
Speaker 2: on this trip to uh wherever he's going. I mean,

485
00:19:05,440 --> 00:19:09,080
Speaker 2: trust me, people who are people who are very much

486
00:19:09,119 --> 00:19:11,680
Speaker 2: in relationships have managed to pull off a whole lot

487
00:19:11,720 --> 00:19:14,639
Speaker 2: more in the same city, in the same country, in

488
00:19:14,680 --> 00:19:17,320
Speaker 2: the same zip code. So I don't know why he

489
00:19:17,359 --> 00:19:19,800
Speaker 2: would be unable to text with you or communicate with

490
00:19:19,840 --> 00:19:22,880
Speaker 2: you if this was some sort of you know, trip

491
00:19:22,920 --> 00:19:28,120
Speaker 2: he was going on with that had some sinister issued,

492
00:19:28,400 --> 00:19:30,360
Speaker 2: some sinister layer to it, Like if he was going

493
00:19:30,359 --> 00:19:32,520
Speaker 2: with an ex or another woman or something, he would

494
00:19:32,560 --> 00:19:36,320
Speaker 2: very easily be able to text you or keep something going,

495
00:19:36,359 --> 00:19:39,320
Speaker 2: like he wouldn't have to call his shot in this way,

496
00:19:39,440 --> 00:19:40,560
Speaker 2: you know what I mean? Like, Hey, I'm not going

497
00:19:40,640 --> 00:19:42,040
Speaker 2: to be able to talk to you for two weeks

498
00:19:42,359 --> 00:19:45,320
Speaker 2: because I'm, you know, off doing something with someone else,

499
00:19:45,359 --> 00:19:47,439
Speaker 2: you know what I mean? Like that, that's too obvious.

500
00:19:47,440 --> 00:19:52,120
Speaker 2: It's too obvious to me. What like, how many people

501
00:19:52,119 --> 00:19:54,480
Speaker 2: do you know? The cheap married people do this? Married

502
00:19:54,520 --> 00:19:57,199
Speaker 2: people have full on relationship with other people using the

503
00:19:57,359 --> 00:20:00,399
Speaker 2: very same phone and the very same hand that they

504
00:20:01,200 --> 00:20:03,639
Speaker 2: do things with their husband with or wife, you know

505
00:20:03,680 --> 00:20:06,960
Speaker 2: what I mean? So, like what I'm saying is stuff

506
00:20:06,960 --> 00:20:09,119
Speaker 2: happens right under people's nose. He doesn't have to go

507
00:20:09,160 --> 00:20:11,720
Speaker 2: out of the country and say he's unavailable. So it's

508
00:20:11,840 --> 00:20:14,720
Speaker 2: very possible. And you know me, I'm not I'm a skeptic.

509
00:20:15,040 --> 00:20:17,600
Speaker 2: I'm a pessimist. I tended to go to the plate

510
00:20:17,680 --> 00:20:20,640
Speaker 2: the worst place that he's up to something. But I mean,

511
00:20:20,760 --> 00:20:22,840
Speaker 2: this could be. But I also don't know why in

512
00:20:22,880 --> 00:20:25,679
Speaker 2: twenty twenty five, we're not just like shooting someone that

513
00:20:25,720 --> 00:20:28,400
Speaker 2: we care about. A text every now and again to say, hey,

514
00:20:28,920 --> 00:20:32,040
Speaker 2: I'm okay, I'm here having a good time. You know

515
00:20:32,080 --> 00:20:34,399
Speaker 2: what about social media? Is he active on social media?

516
00:20:34,600 --> 00:20:35,040
Speaker 1: Usually?

517
00:20:36,560 --> 00:20:38,959
Speaker 10: No, he's not a big coaster. You really not.

518
00:20:39,480 --> 00:20:42,359
Speaker 2: So I think this is your little friends meddling. I

519
00:20:42,359 --> 00:20:44,639
Speaker 2: think this is your little friends during this up because

520
00:20:44,880 --> 00:20:47,320
Speaker 2: it's very possible that this guy wants to be present

521
00:20:47,359 --> 00:20:48,119
Speaker 2: on his trip.

522
00:20:48,680 --> 00:20:52,959
Speaker 1: As sister, I mean, hello, like it.

523
00:20:53,480 --> 00:20:56,000
Speaker 2: I don't know if my sister when I was younger,

524
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Speaker 2: if my sister had been you know, not in a

525
00:20:58,480 --> 00:21:00,280
Speaker 2: relationship and didn't have kids, I don't know.

526
00:21:00,280 --> 00:21:02,000
Speaker 1: I could see a world we would travel.

527
00:21:02,040 --> 00:21:04,119
Speaker 5: Yes, but you you could also talk to other people

528
00:21:04,320 --> 00:21:05,760
Speaker 5: like why do you need to like go off the

529
00:21:05,800 --> 00:21:06,600
Speaker 5: grid with your sister.

530
00:21:06,680 --> 00:21:09,720
Speaker 1: I don't know, do you guys communicate regularly? Like is

531
00:21:09,760 --> 00:21:12,399
Speaker 1: it you? Are you always in communication with me? With

532
00:21:12,600 --> 00:21:13,160
Speaker 1: with this guy.

533
00:21:14,280 --> 00:21:15,840
Speaker 4: I mean it's not every day.

534
00:21:16,400 --> 00:21:21,320
Speaker 2: Oh it's not no coffee bless you, whatever that was.

535
00:21:21,720 --> 00:21:22,280
Speaker 1: I don't know.

536
00:21:22,680 --> 00:21:24,040
Speaker 2: It would be one thing if it were like you

537
00:21:24,040 --> 00:21:26,439
Speaker 2: guys were constantly communicating all day every day and this

538
00:21:26,440 --> 00:21:28,200
Speaker 2: guy's going like, hey, look, just a head's up, Like

539
00:21:28,240 --> 00:21:30,439
Speaker 2: I'm gonna be on planes and I'm gonna be, you know,

540
00:21:30,720 --> 00:21:33,480
Speaker 2: less reachable. So we're not going to have, you know,

541
00:21:33,880 --> 00:21:36,280
Speaker 2: hourly communication in a way that we typically do. And

542
00:21:36,400 --> 00:21:39,600
Speaker 2: just just know that that that's because we're doing stuff.

543
00:21:39,760 --> 00:21:42,520
Speaker 2: Because if I'm on vacation and I am just ripping

544
00:21:42,520 --> 00:21:44,560
Speaker 2: out text messages to someone else, I'll me that's not

545
00:21:44,720 --> 00:21:47,359
Speaker 2: I'm not present. I'm not enjoying what I'm doing, you

546
00:21:47,440 --> 00:21:49,320
Speaker 2: know what I mean the way that I might if

547
00:21:49,320 --> 00:21:52,560
Speaker 2: id me just in everyday life, doing the same routine

548
00:21:52,600 --> 00:21:54,880
Speaker 2: every day. But I want to know from everyone else

549
00:21:54,880 --> 00:21:56,920
Speaker 2: eight five, five, five, nine, one one oh three five.

550
00:21:57,560 --> 00:21:59,639
Speaker 2: You know, just what do you think when you hear

551
00:21:59,680 --> 00:22:02,640
Speaker 2: Whitney talking about this guy two months no red flags,

552
00:22:03,040 --> 00:22:04,720
Speaker 2: he's going out of town with his sister, and he's

553
00:22:04,720 --> 00:22:06,800
Speaker 2: basically saying he's going to go dark for two weeks.

554
00:22:07,160 --> 00:22:09,240
Speaker 2: I think if he were cheating, he could still pull

555
00:22:09,240 --> 00:22:10,000
Speaker 2: off communication.

556
00:22:11,440 --> 00:22:14,080
Speaker 1: What well, I don't think you're just staring at me.

557
00:22:14,200 --> 00:22:15,160
Speaker 1: But I don't what does that mean.

558
00:22:15,680 --> 00:22:18,199
Speaker 6: I don't feel like being called insecure today. So I

559
00:22:18,240 --> 00:22:21,000
Speaker 6: was actually just gonna let the people speak. But you're

560
00:22:21,040 --> 00:22:22,520
Speaker 6: not going to nowhere for two weeks, they me, and

561
00:22:22,560 --> 00:22:24,840
Speaker 6: I can't talk to you unless you're going to say

562
00:22:24,920 --> 00:22:27,360
Speaker 6: the country is your name military Mike?

563
00:22:27,520 --> 00:22:31,239
Speaker 1: If not you, that's true. I mean, Shelley's husband does

564
00:22:31,240 --> 00:22:31,720
Speaker 1: this all the time.

565
00:22:31,720 --> 00:22:33,480
Speaker 2: Now. Granted this because he's like it has top secret

566
00:22:33,480 --> 00:22:35,200
Speaker 2: clearances and we're not supposed to know where he is.

567
00:22:37,280 --> 00:22:39,480
Speaker 1: I guess I just don't know that this is the

568
00:22:39,520 --> 00:22:40,239
Speaker 1: second day in a row.

569
00:22:40,320 --> 00:22:44,320
Speaker 2: We're automatically going to the worst possible outcome, and I

570
00:22:44,400 --> 00:22:48,119
Speaker 2: don't I think it's a little weird, but I think that,

571
00:22:49,080 --> 00:22:51,800
Speaker 2: you know, twenty years ago or fifteen years ago, this

572
00:22:51,840 --> 00:22:54,199
Speaker 2: would have been the norm. You know, you wouldn't have

573
00:22:54,240 --> 00:22:57,280
Speaker 2: necessarily had communication in your pocket twenty four to seven,

574
00:22:57,560 --> 00:23:00,480
Speaker 2: and you would have had to use a phone payaul.

575
00:23:00,480 --> 00:23:04,400
Speaker 2: We've been expensive, like we use the horses too. We've

576
00:23:04,400 --> 00:23:07,240
Speaker 2: evolved to a new standard where you're supposed to be

577
00:23:07,280 --> 00:23:10,520
Speaker 2: in constant communication with everyone whenever they want. And I

578
00:23:10,560 --> 00:23:13,440
Speaker 2: don't necessarily think it's unfair to say, hey, I'm stepping

579
00:23:13,520 --> 00:23:15,639
Speaker 2: back for a minute because I'm I'm going on this

580
00:23:15,720 --> 00:23:18,400
Speaker 2: trip and it's it's a special thing and I want

581
00:23:18,400 --> 00:23:19,320
Speaker 2: to be present for it.

582
00:23:20,640 --> 00:23:23,119
Speaker 1: None of you are buying that. No, no, none of you.

583
00:23:23,320 --> 00:23:25,280
Speaker 4: Two weeks you cannot speak to me.

584
00:23:25,600 --> 00:23:26,440
Speaker 1: Did he say that?

585
00:23:26,440 --> 00:23:27,879
Speaker 2: Did he say you will not hear from me for

586
00:23:27,880 --> 00:23:29,320
Speaker 2: two weeks, or did he say that it's going to

587
00:23:29,359 --> 00:23:31,720
Speaker 2: be just a whole lot lass No.

588
00:23:31,760 --> 00:23:34,600
Speaker 10: He just wanted to, like, definitely let me know that's

589
00:23:34,600 --> 00:23:35,720
Speaker 10: gonna be a lot less.

590
00:23:35,960 --> 00:23:37,800
Speaker 1: He's gone and you don't even talk every day?

591
00:23:39,400 --> 00:23:40,000
Speaker 4: What does that mean?

592
00:23:40,200 --> 00:23:41,720
Speaker 1: But you don't even talk every day and you're in

593
00:23:41,760 --> 00:23:43,000
Speaker 1: a relationship for two months?

594
00:23:43,080 --> 00:23:44,879
Speaker 2: I mean again, Like, so, I guess I don't know

595
00:23:44,920 --> 00:23:47,080
Speaker 2: why it's a big deal if it's a few more days.

596
00:23:48,119 --> 00:23:49,560
Speaker 4: Yeah, but I mean like two weeks.

597
00:23:49,880 --> 00:23:52,879
Speaker 10: Okay, we talk like almost every day and we always

598
00:23:52,920 --> 00:23:55,600
Speaker 10: text good night to each other. Okay, so yes, there

599
00:23:55,680 --> 00:23:58,040
Speaker 10: is some kind of communication every day. I guess it's

600
00:23:58,080 --> 00:23:59,639
Speaker 10: just not constant.

601
00:24:00,160 --> 00:24:02,159
Speaker 2: I mean, is there any way I don't know how

602
00:24:02,200 --> 00:24:03,840
Speaker 2: to do this and people are texting about I don't

603
00:24:03,840 --> 00:24:07,119
Speaker 2: know how to do this without looking paranoid or like

604
00:24:07,160 --> 00:24:08,679
Speaker 2: you don't trust him, But is there a way to

605
00:24:08,720 --> 00:24:10,800
Speaker 2: meet his sister before he goes, like just so that

606
00:24:10,880 --> 00:24:15,760
Speaker 2: you can verify it casually, not like an interrogation.

607
00:24:15,440 --> 00:24:20,439
Speaker 10: Local And I've like said hi on FaceTime, like when

608
00:24:20,480 --> 00:24:23,080
Speaker 10: I'm over his house like a he going on.

609
00:24:23,119 --> 00:24:24,160
Speaker 4: Vacation would another woman?

610
00:24:24,280 --> 00:24:24,679
Speaker 1: No, he's not.

611
00:24:25,000 --> 00:24:27,320
Speaker 4: Just you go get you another man, girl, and then

612
00:24:27,400 --> 00:24:28,560
Speaker 4: y'all link up when you get back.

613
00:24:29,119 --> 00:24:34,680
Speaker 2: He's not doing that like again, I know because because

614
00:24:34,920 --> 00:24:40,080
Speaker 2: cheaters cheaters. I mean it's people have had multiple concurrent

615
00:24:40,160 --> 00:24:42,760
Speaker 2: relationships right under people's nose.

616
00:24:42,960 --> 00:24:45,560
Speaker 5: You're better at it. I've seen really dumb, obvious crimes

617
00:24:45,920 --> 00:24:46,520
Speaker 5: from sure.

618
00:24:46,640 --> 00:24:48,720
Speaker 2: But what I mean is he doesn't have to go, hey,

619
00:24:48,960 --> 00:24:51,600
Speaker 2: heads up, I'm going on a trip with my sister

620
00:24:51,680 --> 00:24:54,119
Speaker 2: and you can't meet her, nor can you communicate with

621
00:24:54,160 --> 00:24:57,520
Speaker 2: me fortune right, I don't. I don't think I would

622
00:24:57,560 --> 00:24:59,680
Speaker 2: go that far. I think I would just have one

623
00:24:59,680 --> 00:25:02,399
Speaker 2: on a tree and then if you got mad at

624
00:25:02,400 --> 00:25:04,840
Speaker 2: me because I wasn't as responsive because I'm doing some

625
00:25:04,920 --> 00:25:07,440
Speaker 2: other girl. Then I would be like, well, I don't know, sorry,

626
00:25:07,480 --> 00:25:08,840
Speaker 2: I didn't have Wi Fi, like I'm in the middle

627
00:25:08,840 --> 00:25:10,320
Speaker 2: of nowhere. Yeah, I mean, I just I think there's

628
00:25:10,359 --> 00:25:12,280
Speaker 2: a way to do this without calling your shot.

629
00:25:12,480 --> 00:25:14,960
Speaker 3: Well, they also don't really talk a lot, it sounds like,

630
00:25:15,000 --> 00:25:16,040
Speaker 3: which is another red flag.

631
00:25:16,119 --> 00:25:19,120
Speaker 4: She says. We know him time, We almost talk every day.

632
00:25:19,200 --> 00:25:21,520
Speaker 3: The man that you lie with, you almost talk every

633
00:25:21,600 --> 00:25:22,679
Speaker 3: day for two months.

634
00:25:22,680 --> 00:25:24,880
Speaker 2: And maybe By the way, Whitney, have you had any

635
00:25:24,920 --> 00:25:27,320
Speaker 2: issue with the fact, I mean, are you upset about

636
00:25:27,320 --> 00:25:29,640
Speaker 2: the fact that your communication patterns?

637
00:25:29,840 --> 00:25:32,840
Speaker 1: Is it not enough for you? See? So she's it's.

638
00:25:32,680 --> 00:25:33,280
Speaker 4: The perfect thing.

639
00:25:33,800 --> 00:25:37,640
Speaker 10: We've been like growing like a healthy, wonderful pace. I'm

640
00:25:38,160 --> 00:25:42,399
Speaker 10: if this trick didn't what wasn't like in existence, I

641
00:25:42,400 --> 00:25:43,960
Speaker 10: would feel great about where we were.

642
00:25:44,240 --> 00:25:46,000
Speaker 2: Okay, well, let me take some phone calls on this,

643
00:25:46,000 --> 00:25:47,639
Speaker 2: because you've heard our perspectives. But let me let me

644
00:25:47,680 --> 00:25:49,439
Speaker 2: see what people at home have to say. And I

645
00:25:49,480 --> 00:25:51,800
Speaker 2: wish you the best, Whitny. I don't this doesn't jump

646
00:25:51,800 --> 00:25:55,520
Speaker 2: out at me as necessarily a break up able offense.

647
00:25:56,040 --> 00:25:57,960
Speaker 2: And I think you'll know pretty quickly when he gets back.

648
00:25:58,040 --> 00:26:00,159
Speaker 2: By the way, I think you'll read it on his face,

649
00:26:00,200 --> 00:26:01,879
Speaker 2: if he was up to something, or if he's guilty

650
00:26:01,920 --> 00:26:05,600
Speaker 2: about something, or something develop while you were away from

651
00:26:05,640 --> 00:26:07,880
Speaker 2: each other, then I think I feel like you'll sense that.

652
00:26:08,520 --> 00:26:11,400
Speaker 2: But I don't think we're we're breaking up with someone.

653
00:26:11,160 --> 00:26:14,720
Speaker 6: Now Friday breakup. I would just date. Oh God, do

654
00:26:14,800 --> 00:26:15,320
Speaker 6: you say hello?

655
00:26:15,359 --> 00:26:17,000
Speaker 1: All right? Thank you? Whitney, have a good day?

656
00:26:17,160 --> 00:26:17,920
Speaker 4: Where you go dark?

657
00:26:19,320 --> 00:26:20,960
Speaker 1: Your advice is all over the place.

658
00:26:21,880 --> 00:26:23,400
Speaker 5: Is it not a red flag that they don't talk

659
00:26:23,480 --> 00:26:23,880
Speaker 5: every day?

660
00:26:23,920 --> 00:26:24,560
Speaker 4: Though I do?

661
00:26:24,680 --> 00:26:24,920
Speaker 1: Yeah?

662
00:26:24,960 --> 00:26:27,120
Speaker 2: But see, you could say that except I just asked

663
00:26:27,119 --> 00:26:28,159
Speaker 2: her if she's okay with them?

664
00:26:28,200 --> 00:26:30,600
Speaker 4: She says yeah, because she's just covering her feelings.

665
00:26:30,840 --> 00:26:32,960
Speaker 2: No, you have to, so let's not take people their

666
00:26:32,960 --> 00:26:35,280
Speaker 2: face value because you don't agree the person.

667
00:26:36,520 --> 00:26:39,840
Speaker 3: You're dating like like boyfriend girlfriend, not like casual like hookups,

668
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Speaker 3: not casual dinners.

669
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Speaker 4: I'm talking about dating boyfriend girlfriend. You don't talk to

670
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Speaker 4: me just to say hey, what's up?

671
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Speaker 2: But again, that's what you need. I just asked her,

672
00:26:50,000 --> 00:26:51,879
Speaker 2: are you okay with it? And she said yes? And

673
00:26:51,880 --> 00:26:54,800
Speaker 2: then your response is, well, she's lying to us. Maybe

674
00:26:54,840 --> 00:27:05,560
Speaker 2: she's maybe she's not, Maybe maybe that's not what she requires. Hey, Jessica, Hi, Jessica, there.

675
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Speaker 4: Go, Oh, definitely go.

676
00:27:08,119 --> 00:27:10,879
Speaker 7: I feel like she's in the stage where ignorance is

677
00:27:10,960 --> 00:27:14,320
Speaker 7: bliss and she wants so desperately to hold one day.

678
00:27:14,560 --> 00:27:16,080
Speaker 4: Is actually what you say is that he is even

679
00:27:16,080 --> 00:27:17,840
Speaker 4: though she knows it's not. I feel like she's the

680
00:27:17,880 --> 00:27:19,280
Speaker 4: other woman, I.

681
00:27:19,240 --> 00:27:19,920
Speaker 1: Will say, Jessica.

682
00:27:20,040 --> 00:27:21,639
Speaker 2: The part of this that we and someone texted this

683
00:27:21,720 --> 00:27:23,040
Speaker 2: just now, the part of this that we didn't really

684
00:27:23,040 --> 00:27:24,680
Speaker 2: hone in on, is that they have not defined the

685
00:27:24,760 --> 00:27:26,000
Speaker 2: relationship after two months.

686
00:27:26,000 --> 00:27:26,200
Speaker 1: Now.

687
00:27:26,880 --> 00:27:29,160
Speaker 2: For some people that would be normal, but I mean,

688
00:27:29,320 --> 00:27:33,320
Speaker 2: technically they are not in a relationship, so he could

689
00:27:33,359 --> 00:27:35,760
Speaker 2: be going with someone else and getting with her, So

690
00:27:35,840 --> 00:27:38,239
Speaker 2: I guess I don't know what the purpose of lying is.

691
00:27:38,400 --> 00:27:41,480
Speaker 2: He could be omitting because he doesn't want he doesn't

692
00:27:41,480 --> 00:27:43,840
Speaker 2: want her to go anywhere but two months and they

693
00:27:43,840 --> 00:27:46,840
Speaker 2: are not technically in a relationship, which means that technically

694
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Speaker 2: he wouldn't be cheating on her.

695
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Speaker 1: He has every right to do what he wants.

696
00:27:49,520 --> 00:27:51,479
Speaker 4: He's on vacation with his wife and kids.

697
00:27:51,600 --> 00:27:53,960
Speaker 3: Oh god, that means.

698
00:27:53,760 --> 00:27:55,640
Speaker 4: He's definitely going with another woman.

699
00:27:55,680 --> 00:27:58,520
Speaker 9: I kind of went through a situation, like say, they say,

700
00:27:58,640 --> 00:28:00,040
Speaker 9: people go through things, but you don't.

701
00:27:59,840 --> 00:28:00,159
Speaker 2: Have to.

702
00:28:02,520 --> 00:28:12,480
Speaker 1: You know he is going with another woman. Yeah, Jessica,

703
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Speaker 1: you have a good day.

704
00:28:14,560 --> 00:28:16,680
Speaker 2: I love you, guys. I do, I just I don't.

705
00:28:16,800 --> 00:28:22,520
Speaker 2: I don't know, Amber high, I don't Amber a stair go.

706
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Speaker 4: Awing. Why it's only two weeks. If it's really a

707
00:28:30,400 --> 00:28:34,000
Speaker 4: big issue, they could both get what'sapp and communicate through there.

708
00:28:34,359 --> 00:28:36,399
Speaker 4: But I don't think it's that big of issue, especially

709
00:28:36,440 --> 00:28:37,800
Speaker 4: if he's only going with his sister.

710
00:28:39,120 --> 00:28:39,800
Speaker 1: I do think.

711
00:28:40,000 --> 00:28:42,360
Speaker 2: I do think it's interesting that the whole not defined

712
00:28:42,400 --> 00:28:43,200
Speaker 2: the relationship thing.

713
00:28:43,240 --> 00:28:46,400
Speaker 1: But I mean, what is the appropriates?

714
00:28:46,400 --> 00:28:48,320
Speaker 2: I mean, they don't talk every day, so is it

715
00:28:48,360 --> 00:28:50,920
Speaker 2: I mean, is this is it a slow burn? Is this?

716
00:28:51,000 --> 00:28:53,280
Speaker 1: I mean, I don't know what it is.

717
00:28:54,000 --> 00:28:55,600
Speaker 2: It is strange, But then again, he wouldn't have to

718
00:28:55,600 --> 00:28:58,280
Speaker 2: lie to her, you know, he wouldn't have to say anything.

719
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Speaker 1: They're not together.

720
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Speaker 6: Me and lots today sad chicks all the time. You

721
00:29:02,920 --> 00:29:04,640
Speaker 6: don't let you, you don't let your satchigk know she is

722
00:29:04,720 --> 00:29:07,640
Speaker 6: sad cheek Okay, ever, thank you, you're right, have a

723
00:29:07,680 --> 00:29:08,080
Speaker 6: good day.

724
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Speaker 4: Two weeks.

725
00:29:10,040 --> 00:29:12,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's a little.

726
00:29:12,160 --> 00:29:15,600
Speaker 2: Strange, but I'm.

727
00:29:14,200 --> 00:29:17,600
Speaker 1: Not jumping to immediately. You know this other stuff.

728
00:29:17,200 --> 00:29:20,280
Speaker 5: You're courting me like write letters, get what's app send

729
00:29:20,280 --> 00:29:22,320
Speaker 5: a carrier pigeon, let me know you miss me.

730
00:29:23,040 --> 00:29:24,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, that's fair, and it's.

731
00:29:24,760 --> 00:29:25,320
Speaker 4: Too he would.

732
00:29:25,720 --> 00:29:27,560
Speaker 3: And honestly, if you were dating a girl and she

733
00:29:27,600 --> 00:29:29,200
Speaker 3: told you I'm going to Europe with my brother for

734
00:29:29,200 --> 00:29:30,680
Speaker 3: two weeks, you probably won't hear from me.

735
00:29:31,000 --> 00:29:32,280
Speaker 4: You would be okay with that.

736
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Speaker 1: I wouldn't love it.

737
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Speaker 2: But I guess I'm not necessarily going to all of

738
00:29:37,280 --> 00:29:43,680
Speaker 2: this these other things. Hey, Crystal, good morning, So I

739
00:29:43,680 --> 00:29:47,400
Speaker 2: gotta wake up now, you say, okay, I'm await, So

740
00:29:47,440 --> 00:29:48,400
Speaker 2: go right ahead.

741
00:29:48,160 --> 00:29:54,760
Speaker 4: Tell them this morning. You congress on your engagement. Thank

742
00:29:54,800 --> 00:29:57,960
Speaker 4: you hard. You can play this too way, Honey.

743
00:29:58,360 --> 00:30:01,000
Speaker 6: You need to find out for him if something happens

744
00:30:01,040 --> 00:30:02,560
Speaker 6: on the trip, who does he contact?

745
00:30:04,480 --> 00:30:06,000
Speaker 2: I mean, what do you mean it his mom? I

746
00:30:06,000 --> 00:30:08,120
Speaker 2: don't know? You mean, who's these emergency contact? They're not

747
00:30:08,160 --> 00:30:09,440
Speaker 2: in a relationship, Crystal.

748
00:30:10,760 --> 00:30:13,000
Speaker 4: She said they've been dating too much, but they haven't.

749
00:30:13,040 --> 00:30:14,760
Speaker 2: Then she did say that, but they have not defined

750
00:30:14,760 --> 00:30:17,640
Speaker 2: the relationship, which I think if any of this is suspect,

751
00:30:17,680 --> 00:30:19,640
Speaker 2: it's that part of it. I guess I wonder what's

752
00:30:19,720 --> 00:30:20,160
Speaker 2: up with that.

753
00:30:20,640 --> 00:30:23,800
Speaker 7: Yeah, Fred, once you get the good of this, so no, no, no,

754
00:30:24,160 --> 00:30:24,719
Speaker 7: two weeks.

755
00:30:25,120 --> 00:30:27,320
Speaker 2: So what would you expect every day he needs to

756
00:30:27,320 --> 00:30:28,840
Speaker 2: contact you every day he's gone.

757
00:30:29,080 --> 00:30:30,480
Speaker 4: No, he doesn't need to every day.

758
00:30:30,520 --> 00:30:30,719
Speaker 3: I know.

759
00:30:30,840 --> 00:30:33,280
Speaker 9: I get your own vacation, have fun on your vacation,

760
00:30:33,320 --> 00:30:34,200
Speaker 9: but you're not going to see him.

761
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Speaker 4: You're going dark. Two weeks?

762
00:30:35,240 --> 00:30:37,680
Speaker 2: Okay, fair enough, thank you, Crystal. Hey, I hear you

763
00:30:37,800 --> 00:30:40,440
Speaker 2: have a good day. You asked me if I would

764
00:30:40,480 --> 00:30:44,360
Speaker 2: like it. I wouldn't like it. But I again, how

765
00:30:44,400 --> 00:30:46,840
Speaker 2: do we know, based on what little information we have,

766
00:30:46,960 --> 00:30:50,640
Speaker 2: that he's absolutely lying and he's cheating and all these things. This,

767
00:30:50,920 --> 00:30:53,680
Speaker 2: this is how this happens is we're the little friends

768
00:30:53,680 --> 00:30:56,320
Speaker 2: here and we're in We have no idea what we're

769
00:30:56,320 --> 00:30:59,760
Speaker 2: talking about it. We're injecting all of our own insecurities

770
00:30:59,800 --> 00:31:01,360
Speaker 2: in to this, Pauline.

771
00:31:01,240 --> 00:31:02,280
Speaker 4: No, we're saving her.

772
00:31:02,760 --> 00:31:04,800
Speaker 3: Listen, we live in twenty twenty five, Like we said,

773
00:31:04,960 --> 00:31:07,600
Speaker 3: what's app this that there's wine down time when you're

774
00:31:07,640 --> 00:31:10,120
Speaker 3: on vacation, you're in your room, you're on the toilet,

775
00:31:10,120 --> 00:31:11,640
Speaker 3: you're doing your own thing.

776
00:31:11,640 --> 00:31:12,600
Speaker 4: Like you can call her.

777
00:31:12,840 --> 00:31:15,080
Speaker 2: It would be easy enough to drop a text every

778
00:31:15,120 --> 00:31:18,720
Speaker 2: now and again. I agree, I agree, I do you agree?

779
00:31:18,800 --> 00:31:21,320
Speaker 4: Leaning Tower Pieza you know they're riding here.

780
00:31:21,320 --> 00:31:22,520
Speaker 1: It is leaning still.

781
00:31:22,640 --> 00:31:23,120
Speaker 4: I'm in the vet.

782
00:31:23,400 --> 00:31:30,760
Speaker 2: Yes, absolutely, I'm praying for you with my mistress. Yeah, Carolina, Hi, Hi, Hi,

783
00:31:30,840 --> 00:31:33,240
Speaker 2: good morning. Just to recap here, this woman's been dating

784
00:31:33,280 --> 00:31:34,840
Speaker 2: a guy for a couple of months. They haven't to

785
00:31:34,880 --> 00:31:38,280
Speaker 2: define the relationship she has. She indicated on her own,

786
00:31:38,320 --> 00:31:40,040
Speaker 2: no red flags about this guy. But he's going on

787
00:31:40,040 --> 00:31:42,080
Speaker 2: a trip for two weeks with his sister, he says,

788
00:31:42,320 --> 00:31:44,960
Speaker 2: and let her know that he wouldn't really be communicative

789
00:31:45,040 --> 00:31:45,760
Speaker 2: during that time.

790
00:31:45,800 --> 00:31:46,520
Speaker 1: What are your thoughts?

791
00:31:47,920 --> 00:31:48,800
Speaker 4: Definitely stay.

792
00:31:49,240 --> 00:31:52,080
Speaker 9: I think that unless she sees other red flags, no

793
00:31:52,160 --> 00:31:55,720
Speaker 9: reason to be alarmed. Once It's something similar many years ago,

794
00:31:56,320 --> 00:31:59,680
Speaker 9: three week three trips for three weeks for someone I

795
00:31:59,760 --> 00:32:02,320
Speaker 9: was just talking to here and there, getting to know

796
00:32:03,360 --> 00:32:05,760
Speaker 9: and we're married now, and it was all fine. He

797
00:32:05,840 --> 00:32:08,360
Speaker 9: actually did reach out throughout the trip here and there,

798
00:32:08,480 --> 00:32:10,840
Speaker 9: not as often as you typically spoke to each other,

799
00:32:11,000 --> 00:32:14,520
Speaker 9: but you know, knew where he was at here and

800
00:32:14,560 --> 00:32:19,840
Speaker 9: there every few days and gotten nice souvenirs. Ended up

801
00:32:19,840 --> 00:32:21,880
Speaker 9: picking him up from the airport. So I think that

802
00:32:22,000 --> 00:32:24,040
Speaker 9: might be something she can try, picking him and the

803
00:32:24,080 --> 00:32:26,600
Speaker 9: sister up from the airport, getting to know her after.

804
00:32:26,400 --> 00:32:28,040
Speaker 4: The trip, maybe trust a little bit.

805
00:32:28,640 --> 00:32:32,240
Speaker 6: Yeah, or booking a flight and imagine, you know, ended

806
00:32:32,320 --> 00:32:33,200
Speaker 6: up at the same resort.

807
00:32:35,840 --> 00:32:38,480
Speaker 9: I've only been dating for two months. I would say

808
00:32:38,560 --> 00:32:41,680
Speaker 9: that's also a little I don't want to go on

809
00:32:41,720 --> 00:32:43,720
Speaker 9: a trip with someone I've just stated for two months

810
00:32:43,760 --> 00:32:44,320
Speaker 9: and their sister.

811
00:32:45,120 --> 00:32:48,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, why I get that too, wife, Yeah, Carolina, thank you,

812
00:32:48,600 --> 00:32:49,240
Speaker 2: have a good day.

813
00:32:50,640 --> 00:32:50,800
Speaker 1: Yeah.

814
00:32:50,840 --> 00:32:53,440
Speaker 2: There are definitely holes in this and it definitely is

815
00:32:53,480 --> 00:32:57,280
Speaker 2: a little strange. But I guess I don't know. I mean,

816
00:32:57,320 --> 00:32:58,400
Speaker 2: why is he You're a.

817
00:32:58,360 --> 00:33:00,360
Speaker 6: Good person and you give the benefit of the doubt

818
00:33:00,640 --> 00:33:04,280
Speaker 6: not always although you would not go for this, I

819
00:33:04,280 --> 00:33:05,000
Speaker 6: wouldn't like it.

820
00:33:05,080 --> 00:33:06,840
Speaker 2: No, I wouldn't like it, But I mean, I guess

821
00:33:06,840 --> 00:33:08,120
Speaker 2: after two months it's like, well,