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Speaker 1: It is time to ask the CLO Chief Love Officer,

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Speaker 1: Steve Harvey. All Right, Gena and Philly writes, my uncle

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Speaker 1: brought his much younger wife over to meet me and

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Speaker 1: my husband. She was cute, but her lashes were too

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Speaker 1: long and her dress was too tight. I caught my

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Speaker 1: husband staring at her a few times. He talks bad

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Speaker 1: about women like this, but he didn't have one bad

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Speaker 1: thing to say about her. Is this really what he likes?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? Quit looking at her. Yeah, that's answer that question.

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Speaker 1: Next question, show you don't want to elaborate.

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Speaker 2: That's what he liked, that's what he likes, and that

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Speaker 2: ain't what you do.

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Speaker 3: And always remember this to he talk about women who

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Speaker 3: do that, that's a deflection. Sitting here with all them

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Speaker 3: tight clothes on them, long eyelashes.

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Speaker 2: I like eye lashes, Uh huh.

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Speaker 1: But I mean there's a point where they can be

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Speaker 1: too long, though.

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Speaker 2: Me. But long as it ain't on Margine, I don't care.

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Speaker 1: Ah. Moving on to Tanya in New Mexico. Tanya, right,

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Speaker 1: seven years ago, I was dating a man that sold drugs,

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Speaker 1: and now he's changed his life and is a preacher.

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Speaker 1: He's wanting me back in his life. But I'm still

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Speaker 1: a dancer, and I make great money and I get

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Speaker 1: paid for appearances. I'm sure he hasn't changed all of

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Speaker 1: his ways, So why is he trying to change me

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Speaker 1: all of a sudden?

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Speaker 3: Because he a preacher trying to say they're the sole

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Speaker 3: conversion business. So why is he trying to change you?

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Speaker 3: How long you think you're gonna be able to get

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Speaker 3: up on that pole?

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Speaker 2: Hello? Hello, she said, a dancer. It's the pole, she said,

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Speaker 2: a dancer. Sure, he didn't say the stripper.

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Speaker 3: She ain't nobody paying no money to come see you

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Speaker 3: do Alving Haley, And.

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Speaker 2: It's Ailee, Ailee. Ain't nobody going out here and see

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Speaker 2: you do the nut Cracker?

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Speaker 1: Well?

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Speaker 2: Crazy?

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Speaker 3: Well now so Shirley, Yeah, that's why. And uh, you

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Speaker 3: know he wants you back in his life. But you're

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Speaker 3: still a dancer, now you know. Why is he trying

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Speaker 3: to change you? But that's it, skip it gone, keep dancing.

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Speaker 3: If you keep doing what you've been doing, you're gonna

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Speaker 3: keep getting what you've been getting. So keep on dancing,

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Speaker 3: get that money, and your life won't go forward anywhere.

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Speaker 2: But are you working to night? Though? Here's here's the

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Speaker 2: other problem too. When people change.

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Speaker 3: Don't expect everybody to go along with the change, because

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Speaker 3: the majority of the people will always reference you to

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Speaker 3: where you were when they knew you. And so her

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Speaker 3: reference point is you out in them streets. Now you're

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Speaker 3: a preacher trying to talk to her differently, and all

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Speaker 3: she sees is you are selling drugs. Now, I'm the baddie.

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Speaker 3: So you gotta be careful when you make your change

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Speaker 3: and you approach people with the new youth.

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Speaker 1: Be very careful, that's right. Yeah, no judgments, Yeah, because

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Speaker 1: we all have a past, all right. Moving on to

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Speaker 1: Florida and Tuskegee, Florida says, I have a question. If

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Speaker 1: I'm dating a man and he tells me that he's

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Speaker 1: had orgies and threesomes a lot in the past, well,

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Speaker 1: he eventually want me to do this sort of thing too.

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Speaker 1: The dating pool is so terrible. Now what am I

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Speaker 1: getting myself into with him?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? Some orgies are some threesome that's what I know.

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Speaker 3: That's you're dating a man, and that's what he keeps

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Speaker 3: telling you.

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Speaker 2: So he's throwing that out there. That's bait.

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Speaker 3: And if you cool with it, you want to see

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Speaker 3: him anyway, and you gonna have to see him and

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Speaker 3: rested in people.

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Speaker 1: Well, she's saying the dating pool is so terrible now,

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Speaker 1: so it sounds like she is gonna keep saying him because.

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Speaker 2: Well you're stupid.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, because the dating pool just because it's terrible now,

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Speaker 3: don't mean you have to be in it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you don't have to date him.

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Speaker 2: You have to just yeah, upgrade your standards.

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Speaker 3: See, in order to not be treated badly, you must

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Speaker 3: first start with not accepting bad treatment.

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Speaker 1: Amen.

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Speaker 3: That's just the beginning of it all. But if you're

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Speaker 3: willing to even entertain it, did he it come? If

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Speaker 3: I think for one minute you're gonna go along with

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Speaker 3: this here, then along with it we go.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, what you know, threesome ain't bad treatment though, I mean,

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Speaker 1: it ain't.

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Speaker 2: Why you're looking at it like that. You tell you

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Speaker 2: to do equal treatments in a threesome.

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Speaker 3: You know you can't figure out how they work?

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Speaker 2: Two difficult balance des out Why are you rubbing your

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Speaker 2: fore heads.

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Speaker 3: One two three four past stop and kiss one two

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Speaker 3: and rub one circles stop, turn and rub.

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Speaker 2: Exercise.

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Speaker 3: And bounce one two thief and turn bounce one two

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Speaker 3: three four five. I was trying to distribute that to you,

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Speaker 3: and I said, man, I stop this hell right here,

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Speaker 3: I'm wearing myself. I'm losing count. This ain't going good

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Speaker 3: at all.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, don't get involved, Florida, Please, We'll all right. Vanya

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Speaker 1: in Ohio says, this is the last one.

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Speaker 2: Steve.

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Speaker 1: There's a part of town where couples go to have

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Speaker 1: sex in the car. My cousin joked about, saying, my

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Speaker 1: car parked there last week. I've never been up there,

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Speaker 1: but I let my boyfriend use my car. My cousin

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Speaker 1: has no reason to lie. So should I confront my

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Speaker 1: man with a rumor or wait to catch him slipping

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Speaker 1: and bust him myself?

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Speaker 3: You really think that he finish? Say he was up

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Speaker 3: there with your card confronting him right now. I'm telling you,

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Speaker 3: right now, he is going to din to lie.

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Speaker 2: Now. On the other hand, you ain't the only one

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Speaker 2: with that kind of car.

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Speaker 1: Oh that's first, that's out the gate. That's a lie

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Speaker 1: out the gate.

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Speaker 2: Thank you. Yeah, you're the only one. What you think,

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Speaker 2: I'm the only one.

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Speaker 3: I love how you flip.

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna tell you right now. You go right on

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Speaker 2: here to.

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Speaker 3: The blue he stationed and run the track and you'll

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Speaker 3: find out how many he calls it.

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Speaker 2: I see him all the time. You know how many

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Speaker 2: times I thought that was you? Oh help it God.

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Speaker 3: Was in that parking lot over there by the Walmart.

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Speaker 3: I thought I saw your car got out with a

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Speaker 3: baby seat in the bag.

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Speaker 2: Wasn't even you?

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Speaker 3: And then you have my all time. I thought I

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Speaker 3: saw you down that CBS some day. That wasn't you.

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Speaker 2: I pull up on you to drive through down there

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Speaker 2: that windy That wasn't you. Now your cousin's seeing your

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Speaker 2: car there? Did he see me? Did he see me?

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Speaker 2: He saw the car? Did he see me? All right?

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