1 00:00:10,240 --> 00:00:13,400 Speaker 1: Hello, guys, welcome back to the second part, Part two 2 00:00:13,640 --> 00:00:16,759 Speaker 1: of my conversation with Immdio Sanchez, who happens to be 3 00:00:16,840 --> 00:00:20,760 Speaker 1: my husband. Hi, babe, Hi, welcome back, Thank you. Okay, 4 00:00:20,800 --> 00:00:24,120 Speaker 1: So this part we're going to talk about how life 5 00:00:24,120 --> 00:00:26,560 Speaker 1: has been as a married couple. A lot of people 6 00:00:26,600 --> 00:00:29,560 Speaker 1: always ask me, do you feel different? Does it feel different? 7 00:00:29,600 --> 00:00:32,280 Speaker 1: Is he different? Are you different? So we're going to 8 00:00:32,360 --> 00:00:34,920 Speaker 1: answer all those questions here. You want to talk about 9 00:00:34,960 --> 00:00:36,159 Speaker 1: all of it, all of it? Are you open to 10 00:00:36,200 --> 00:00:37,240 Speaker 1: be one hundred percent honest? 11 00:00:37,440 --> 00:00:37,800 Speaker 2: Sure? 12 00:00:37,960 --> 00:00:40,200 Speaker 1: All right, because he's more of a reserved person, which 13 00:00:40,240 --> 00:00:42,479 Speaker 1: I like, and I'm an open book. As you guys know. 14 00:00:43,159 --> 00:00:45,720 Speaker 1: These are questions that my producers put together from questions 15 00:00:45,720 --> 00:00:48,800 Speaker 1: that you guys have asked. So we're going to start 16 00:00:48,840 --> 00:00:51,120 Speaker 1: off with, all right, Yeah, we got married in July 17 00:00:51,320 --> 00:00:54,120 Speaker 1: July fifth, So how many months is that? 18 00:00:55,640 --> 00:00:55,920 Speaker 2: Four? 19 00:00:56,080 --> 00:00:58,080 Speaker 1: Four? Okay? I don't even know. And then we were 20 00:00:58,120 --> 00:01:00,480 Speaker 1: talking about last night how long I would have been, 21 00:01:00,520 --> 00:01:02,279 Speaker 1: like how pregnant I would have been right now? 22 00:01:02,560 --> 00:01:03,520 Speaker 2: I think like six months? 23 00:01:03,600 --> 00:01:07,440 Speaker 1: Six months? Yeah, So AnyWho, how do you feel about 24 00:01:07,480 --> 00:01:08,440 Speaker 1: that situation? Actually? 25 00:01:08,480 --> 00:01:10,680 Speaker 2: Now about the miscourage? 26 00:01:10,800 --> 00:01:12,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, you haven't really talked about it. 27 00:01:12,840 --> 00:01:18,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, we haven't. To me, I really see it more 28 00:01:18,040 --> 00:01:21,720 Speaker 2: as like a learning experience. Obviously, in the moment, it 29 00:01:21,720 --> 00:01:25,760 Speaker 2: felt super tragic, but I think that we handled it, 30 00:01:25,880 --> 00:01:29,360 Speaker 2: handled it very well together. Yeah, so like it. I 31 00:01:29,400 --> 00:01:31,760 Speaker 2: don't feel that it's like something that's like draining or 32 00:01:31,760 --> 00:01:34,400 Speaker 2: like weighing me down in any sort of way, because 33 00:01:34,680 --> 00:01:36,320 Speaker 2: it kind of gave me a little bit more hope 34 00:01:37,160 --> 00:01:41,000 Speaker 2: for our future rather than it being like a negative thing. 35 00:01:41,040 --> 00:01:43,720 Speaker 2: Obviously it was sad, but I think we worked through 36 00:01:43,720 --> 00:01:44,759 Speaker 2: it pretty well. 37 00:01:45,280 --> 00:01:48,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, and I think now I just and you know, 38 00:01:49,360 --> 00:01:51,960 Speaker 1: I feel like my body was saying that we can 39 00:01:52,080 --> 00:01:54,640 Speaker 1: and you know, it just it really gave us a 40 00:01:54,680 --> 00:01:58,720 Speaker 1: glimpse of how it will be, you know. I don't know. 41 00:01:59,000 --> 00:02:01,800 Speaker 1: I think everything happened and the way it was supposed 42 00:02:01,800 --> 00:02:04,400 Speaker 1: to happen, although again it was tragic and very painful, 43 00:02:04,440 --> 00:02:07,560 Speaker 1: as you guys know because I shared it. But yeah, 44 00:02:07,680 --> 00:02:09,080 Speaker 1: I wanted to check in with you because I haven't 45 00:02:09,120 --> 00:02:10,400 Speaker 1: really talked to you about it. 46 00:02:10,440 --> 00:02:13,280 Speaker 2: But honestly, when I think of it, I think of 47 00:02:13,400 --> 00:02:16,639 Speaker 2: like how happy you were when when we were, and 48 00:02:16,680 --> 00:02:18,920 Speaker 2: like how happy we were. I don't know, it felt 49 00:02:19,520 --> 00:02:22,440 Speaker 2: it felt very exciting, like driving to the doctor going 50 00:02:22,639 --> 00:02:25,640 Speaker 2: and just spending time together and like think planning things, 51 00:02:25,680 --> 00:02:29,120 Speaker 2: buying things, like it just felt it felt fun. 52 00:02:29,200 --> 00:02:30,320 Speaker 1: I was a different person for you. 53 00:02:30,280 --> 00:02:32,440 Speaker 2: You were you were you to me, you seemed like 54 00:02:32,440 --> 00:02:33,000 Speaker 2: a little girl. 55 00:02:33,720 --> 00:02:37,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's crazy. Yeah, for sure, I was calm. I 56 00:02:37,680 --> 00:02:39,760 Speaker 1: didn't if I'm upset me. I didn't want anything to like. 57 00:02:39,960 --> 00:02:41,639 Speaker 1: It was just I was a really good pregnant player. 58 00:02:41,639 --> 00:02:42,280 Speaker 2: It was great. 59 00:02:43,919 --> 00:02:49,800 Speaker 1: Whatever. Okay, So anyways, okay, so yeah, it does marriage 60 00:02:49,800 --> 00:02:51,079 Speaker 1: feel different for you? 61 00:02:52,600 --> 00:02:52,760 Speaker 2: Oh? 62 00:02:52,800 --> 00:02:54,400 Speaker 1: Wow? Okay, well I'm curious. 63 00:02:54,440 --> 00:02:59,720 Speaker 2: Wow, it's weird because like before you're marriage, you're just like, oh, 64 00:02:59,720 --> 00:03:02,560 Speaker 2: it's a legal thing and a piece of paper and 65 00:03:02,600 --> 00:03:05,720 Speaker 2: it's like and it's it's not like that. I don't 66 00:03:05,760 --> 00:03:09,920 Speaker 2: even think of that part of it. Obviously, the ceremony 67 00:03:10,000 --> 00:03:15,280 Speaker 2: and the actual you know, our wedding day was very magical. 68 00:03:15,320 --> 00:03:19,320 Speaker 2: We had you know, our famili's there. Yeah, even though 69 00:03:19,320 --> 00:03:22,440 Speaker 2: I kind of like blacked them out and just focused 70 00:03:22,480 --> 00:03:25,400 Speaker 2: on you. It like it was so fun. It was 71 00:03:25,440 --> 00:03:28,000 Speaker 2: so fun that like looking into your eyes, like seeing 72 00:03:28,000 --> 00:03:31,680 Speaker 2: that part, like that was the most amazing day ever. 73 00:03:31,720 --> 00:03:34,680 Speaker 2: And so I think of that and that was the 74 00:03:34,680 --> 00:03:36,960 Speaker 2: beginning of it. You know, we we started off our 75 00:03:36,960 --> 00:03:40,720 Speaker 2: marriage with a wonderful day and and then these like 76 00:03:40,760 --> 00:03:46,000 Speaker 2: feelings come that are just different, Like I when I'm like, 77 00:03:46,200 --> 00:03:50,440 Speaker 2: you're my wife, like that just sinks into my body 78 00:03:50,480 --> 00:03:54,360 Speaker 2: a lot different now than when we were just engaged. 79 00:03:55,800 --> 00:04:04,120 Speaker 2: I definitely feel more secure with our relationship, with feeling 80 00:04:05,400 --> 00:04:09,240 Speaker 2: like I have a big responsibility now Where'm like, this 81 00:04:09,320 --> 00:04:10,800 Speaker 2: is our this is our marriage. I need to take 82 00:04:10,800 --> 00:04:12,840 Speaker 2: care of it. It's the it's the number one priority 83 00:04:12,880 --> 00:04:17,560 Speaker 2: in my life. And I feel like you're my wife. 84 00:04:17,560 --> 00:04:19,080 Speaker 2: I have to protect you, I have to take care 85 00:04:19,120 --> 00:04:23,919 Speaker 2: of you. And it's just that that feeling just grew 86 00:04:25,240 --> 00:04:26,039 Speaker 2: to another level. 87 00:04:26,640 --> 00:04:29,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's when people ask me like is it different. 88 00:04:30,200 --> 00:04:33,280 Speaker 1: I was explained to my friend Brianna. She's like, is 89 00:04:33,279 --> 00:04:35,559 Speaker 1: it different? How do you feel? I'm like, it doesn't 90 00:04:35,600 --> 00:04:38,960 Speaker 1: feel different, like in a negative way. If anything, I've 91 00:04:39,160 --> 00:04:46,840 Speaker 1: noticed that you feel more like you've been more vocal 92 00:04:47,040 --> 00:04:50,160 Speaker 1: about protecting me, like on tour or with things like 93 00:04:50,400 --> 00:04:52,520 Speaker 1: and I like that, like it's amplified where it's like 94 00:04:52,560 --> 00:04:54,279 Speaker 1: I need to take care of her, this is the 95 00:04:54,320 --> 00:04:57,479 Speaker 1: person I need to protect and you have been like 96 00:04:57,520 --> 00:05:00,120 Speaker 1: I've also seen that now that you're my husband, and 97 00:05:00,560 --> 00:05:04,279 Speaker 1: the respect is different outside like people on the team 98 00:05:04,520 --> 00:05:06,760 Speaker 1: or you know what I mean, like, and I like that, 99 00:05:06,839 --> 00:05:09,680 Speaker 1: but also with you, I feel like you're more like 100 00:05:09,720 --> 00:05:12,080 Speaker 1: I'm a husband. No, like this is not going to happen, 101 00:05:12,480 --> 00:05:14,400 Speaker 1: And I do need someone like that in my life 102 00:05:14,440 --> 00:05:18,039 Speaker 1: because sometimes I'll protect myself, but I'm so busy and 103 00:05:18,080 --> 00:05:22,479 Speaker 1: focused and like like honed in that I don't protect 104 00:05:22,480 --> 00:05:24,680 Speaker 1: myself in certain situations and you do. 105 00:05:25,000 --> 00:05:27,320 Speaker 2: Yes, I think there's a lot of things that are 106 00:05:28,560 --> 00:05:30,760 Speaker 2: there's a lot of moving parts in your life that 107 00:05:31,360 --> 00:05:33,880 Speaker 2: I feel like sometimes it's different. It would be difficult 108 00:05:33,880 --> 00:05:36,680 Speaker 2: for anybody, but for you to like kind of keep 109 00:05:36,720 --> 00:05:41,120 Speaker 2: tabs on everything without things getting you know, passing by 110 00:05:41,160 --> 00:05:43,719 Speaker 2: without without you catching them, and so like I feel 111 00:05:43,720 --> 00:05:46,039 Speaker 2: like I'm like your second pair of eyes sometimes for 112 00:05:46,080 --> 00:05:50,160 Speaker 2: surecause yeah, it is my responsibility to take care of 113 00:05:50,240 --> 00:05:53,200 Speaker 2: you and to like catch things. And I expect the 114 00:05:53,279 --> 00:05:55,679 Speaker 2: same thing on your end, you know, like if if 115 00:05:55,839 --> 00:05:58,680 Speaker 2: I'm doing something like I would, I would, I would 116 00:05:58,720 --> 00:06:01,000 Speaker 2: expect for you to be like, hey, like did you 117 00:06:01,080 --> 00:06:03,640 Speaker 2: notice this or how do you feel about this? You know, 118 00:06:03,760 --> 00:06:07,360 Speaker 2: and it's the yeah. And with everyone else too, I 119 00:06:07,400 --> 00:06:10,920 Speaker 2: feel like they're not like nothing's changed attitude wise from 120 00:06:10,920 --> 00:06:13,719 Speaker 2: other people in a bad way and not even in 121 00:06:13,760 --> 00:06:16,039 Speaker 2: a drastic way. There's kind of subtle, but like you 122 00:06:16,120 --> 00:06:20,039 Speaker 2: do feel the sense of like people giving you our 123 00:06:20,120 --> 00:06:23,400 Speaker 2: places as a married couple, for sure, I can feel. 124 00:06:23,120 --> 00:06:26,440 Speaker 1: That absolutely because I think it's you know, they're still 125 00:06:26,440 --> 00:06:29,520 Speaker 1: there dating or they're they're engaged, but then like marriage 126 00:06:29,760 --> 00:06:33,200 Speaker 1: like solidifies things, yeah, you know in every way. And 127 00:06:33,320 --> 00:06:36,560 Speaker 1: I was very scared. I was afraid of you changing. 128 00:06:37,440 --> 00:06:39,200 Speaker 1: I was like, oh, is he going to feel more 129 00:06:40,400 --> 00:06:42,599 Speaker 1: confident and that in the good way? Like is it 130 00:06:42,720 --> 00:06:44,880 Speaker 1: you know what I mean? It's you know, I would 131 00:06:44,960 --> 00:06:48,040 Speaker 1: like that that you feel more confident in that way 132 00:06:48,040 --> 00:06:51,560 Speaker 1: that we just talked about. But like sometimes people or 133 00:06:52,000 --> 00:06:55,560 Speaker 1: past experiences, people were like, oh, you're my wife, you 134 00:06:55,600 --> 00:06:57,920 Speaker 1: need to do this, like this is your obligation, this 135 00:06:58,000 --> 00:06:59,800 Speaker 1: is your duty as my wife, and it's like way 136 00:06:59,839 --> 00:07:02,440 Speaker 1: to second. And that's one thing that we talked about 137 00:07:02,480 --> 00:07:05,039 Speaker 1: early on that I'm like, I don't want to feel 138 00:07:05,640 --> 00:07:07,680 Speaker 1: that way. I want it to come out of I 139 00:07:07,720 --> 00:07:10,119 Speaker 1: want to do things because I'm your wife and because 140 00:07:10,240 --> 00:07:12,120 Speaker 1: I'm monastic, because I want to do it out of 141 00:07:12,120 --> 00:07:14,560 Speaker 1: my heart, not because oh that's your obligation and I 142 00:07:14,560 --> 00:07:15,840 Speaker 1: don't feel that way towards you either. 143 00:07:16,440 --> 00:07:20,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, and I'll be you know I've told you this 144 00:07:20,600 --> 00:07:25,160 Speaker 2: in private before, but like I'm pretty honest, like in 145 00:07:25,200 --> 00:07:29,920 Speaker 2: your lifetime, you know you've you've lost your mother, you've 146 00:07:31,120 --> 00:07:36,640 Speaker 2: done this before marriage, and you know in your life 147 00:07:36,640 --> 00:07:39,160 Speaker 2: you've lost both of those things. And so for me, 148 00:07:41,040 --> 00:07:45,040 Speaker 2: I think of that as like, if she's lost these 149 00:07:45,080 --> 00:07:48,880 Speaker 2: two big things in her life, why am I so permanent? 150 00:07:48,960 --> 00:07:51,160 Speaker 2: Or why why would I Why can't I get away 151 00:07:51,160 --> 00:07:54,680 Speaker 2: with anything? And I don't believe that I'm not going 152 00:07:54,760 --> 00:07:59,760 Speaker 2: to change after we get married, because I know that 153 00:08:00,400 --> 00:08:05,000 Speaker 2: if i'm if I become someone that doesn't deserve you, 154 00:08:05,000 --> 00:08:07,880 Speaker 2: you have no problem with letting that piece go in 155 00:08:07,920 --> 00:08:11,640 Speaker 2: your life. And so for me, you know, not that 156 00:08:11,720 --> 00:08:14,040 Speaker 2: I needed that, but it holds me accountable. It'll be 157 00:08:14,120 --> 00:08:16,840 Speaker 2: like I just I need to be the best man 158 00:08:17,040 --> 00:08:20,840 Speaker 2: to you, married or not. So it's it's what I'm 159 00:08:20,840 --> 00:08:23,960 Speaker 2: going to do and I'm not. You're fully capable of 160 00:08:24,760 --> 00:08:26,440 Speaker 2: walking away from anything in your life that you need 161 00:08:26,480 --> 00:08:30,040 Speaker 2: to walk away from, and I'm no exception. So it's 162 00:08:31,280 --> 00:08:33,240 Speaker 2: it's something that I just I need to be a 163 00:08:33,280 --> 00:08:36,040 Speaker 2: man of my word. And you've helped me do that 164 00:08:36,080 --> 00:08:37,560 Speaker 2: in my life a lot. 165 00:08:37,679 --> 00:08:39,920 Speaker 1: So I love you and that's why I said, like 166 00:08:40,480 --> 00:08:43,800 Speaker 1: the song Casia passando, for it to continue to happen, 167 00:08:43,920 --> 00:08:48,760 Speaker 1: because you know, because I have been married before, I 168 00:08:48,840 --> 00:08:51,320 Speaker 1: learned a lot from that situation. I learned what I want, 169 00:08:51,400 --> 00:08:53,480 Speaker 1: what I don't want, and what I have to change 170 00:08:53,480 --> 00:08:55,040 Speaker 1: and how I have to be different to make this 171 00:08:55,120 --> 00:08:56,880 Speaker 1: marriage work, because I don't want to do this over 172 00:08:56,920 --> 00:08:59,560 Speaker 1: and over, like you know what I mean, Like I 173 00:08:59,600 --> 00:09:01,240 Speaker 1: don't even like to say the D word. You know 174 00:09:01,240 --> 00:09:03,480 Speaker 1: what I mean, And I don't mean you know, dick, 175 00:09:03,679 --> 00:09:05,160 Speaker 1: I mean like you know the other word. We don't 176 00:09:05,200 --> 00:09:08,000 Speaker 1: even like to say that. We've told ourselves that we're 177 00:09:08,000 --> 00:09:09,480 Speaker 1: not going to bring it up even if we have 178 00:09:09,559 --> 00:09:12,280 Speaker 1: the worst argument. We both decided if that were to 179 00:09:12,280 --> 00:09:15,800 Speaker 1: ever happen, God forbid, it would be a certain situation 180 00:09:16,200 --> 00:09:17,480 Speaker 1: that we talked about that I don't even want to 181 00:09:17,480 --> 00:09:22,280 Speaker 1: bring that into into the space. But I think on 182 00:09:22,320 --> 00:09:24,319 Speaker 1: the other side of that token, like what you said 183 00:09:24,360 --> 00:09:26,240 Speaker 1: that because I have been through this, like you feel, 184 00:09:26,280 --> 00:09:28,280 Speaker 1: like you know, I have been through a lot of things, 185 00:09:28,440 --> 00:09:31,640 Speaker 1: and I do feel that God will give me the 186 00:09:31,679 --> 00:09:35,479 Speaker 1: strength if I need to walk away from anything or anyone, 187 00:09:35,600 --> 00:09:38,320 Speaker 1: and on my end as a wife, it makes me 188 00:09:38,440 --> 00:09:40,400 Speaker 1: feel like I have to. I want to take care 189 00:09:40,440 --> 00:09:42,360 Speaker 1: of him because he's a great guy, and I want 190 00:09:42,360 --> 00:09:44,520 Speaker 1: to be a good wife and make sure that I 191 00:09:44,600 --> 00:09:47,600 Speaker 1: please him and that I don't disappoint him, because I 192 00:09:47,600 --> 00:09:50,840 Speaker 1: also don't want anyone else to have him. Ever. I 193 00:09:50,920 --> 00:09:53,720 Speaker 1: want to be your first and only wife forever. 194 00:09:54,040 --> 00:09:55,360 Speaker 2: That's it, that's the plan. 195 00:09:55,600 --> 00:09:57,080 Speaker 1: So what do I have to do as a woman 196 00:09:57,120 --> 00:09:59,520 Speaker 1: because I don't want anyone to have you? So he's 197 00:09:59,559 --> 00:10:08,280 Speaker 1: completely Flament's girls, don't even try me. You are good 198 00:10:08,280 --> 00:10:09,800 Speaker 1: to me, and I am good to you. I feel 199 00:10:09,840 --> 00:10:11,480 Speaker 1: like I'm a great wife, am. 200 00:10:11,320 --> 00:10:13,160 Speaker 2: I Yeah, that was going to be the next thing 201 00:10:13,160 --> 00:10:13,520 Speaker 2: I was going to. 202 00:10:13,520 --> 00:10:18,240 Speaker 1: Tell you, tell me what I'm so. 203 00:10:19,960 --> 00:10:22,440 Speaker 2: Honestly, Like I think about it every day, Like you 204 00:10:22,960 --> 00:10:26,079 Speaker 2: are such an amazing wife. Like yes, you're a great partner, 205 00:10:26,160 --> 00:10:29,360 Speaker 2: you're a great you're a great girlfriend, great fiance, but 206 00:10:29,480 --> 00:10:33,080 Speaker 2: like you've stepped into this role and like like it's 207 00:10:33,120 --> 00:10:35,240 Speaker 2: just another feeling when you do something for me. Now, 208 00:10:35,280 --> 00:10:37,720 Speaker 2: if you make me breakfast or you do this or anything, 209 00:10:38,640 --> 00:10:40,880 Speaker 2: it just feels way different now that you're my wife. 210 00:10:40,920 --> 00:10:43,160 Speaker 2: I don't know how to explain it sometimes, but you're 211 00:10:43,240 --> 00:10:48,720 Speaker 2: just I think the intentions behind it is what I 212 00:10:48,760 --> 00:10:52,320 Speaker 2: feel because you do things to truly like make my 213 00:10:52,360 --> 00:10:55,199 Speaker 2: baby my day better, or make me feel good, or 214 00:10:55,280 --> 00:10:58,080 Speaker 2: just because you want to show me love, and it's 215 00:10:58,400 --> 00:11:01,680 Speaker 2: the intentions are I feel are or when you do something, 216 00:11:01,720 --> 00:11:03,439 Speaker 2: it's because you absolutely want to do it. 217 00:11:03,800 --> 00:11:05,640 Speaker 1: I have to feel it in my heart for sure. 218 00:11:05,520 --> 00:11:09,320 Speaker 2: And that love transfers over to me and it feels amazing. Honestly, 219 00:11:10,320 --> 00:11:10,800 Speaker 2: I think it. 220 00:11:11,440 --> 00:11:14,240 Speaker 1: I always say this, and again it might sound cliche 221 00:11:14,240 --> 00:11:16,679 Speaker 1: blah blah blah blah, but I really, really really feel 222 00:11:16,679 --> 00:11:18,600 Speaker 1: that everything happens for a reason. And I think that 223 00:11:18,640 --> 00:11:22,959 Speaker 1: I had to go through that situation to learn to grow, 224 00:11:23,160 --> 00:11:27,839 Speaker 1: to prepare me for this for us, because we have arguments. 225 00:11:27,920 --> 00:11:32,319 Speaker 1: Of course, like every relationship, we have arguments, we have disagreements, 226 00:11:32,320 --> 00:11:35,600 Speaker 1: we're not always on the same page. I've learned that 227 00:11:35,679 --> 00:11:39,680 Speaker 1: it's okay. He has his own mind, his own feelings. 228 00:11:39,720 --> 00:11:42,240 Speaker 1: I can't expect him to be like me. I have 229 00:11:42,320 --> 00:11:46,520 Speaker 1: to respect how he is and he respects how I am. 230 00:11:46,640 --> 00:11:49,319 Speaker 1: It's like I don't own this person, and I used 231 00:11:49,320 --> 00:11:51,320 Speaker 1: to think that I owned the person that this is, 232 00:11:51,640 --> 00:11:54,920 Speaker 1: and that's not okay in any circumstance, in any situation. 233 00:11:55,440 --> 00:11:58,240 Speaker 1: So it's like he's his own individual. I am too, 234 00:11:58,360 --> 00:12:00,320 Speaker 1: and we've come together to love each other and to 235 00:12:00,360 --> 00:12:03,360 Speaker 1: respect each other and every day try our best. And 236 00:12:03,520 --> 00:12:05,720 Speaker 1: all I can do is pray that it continues to 237 00:12:05,760 --> 00:12:10,000 Speaker 1: get better and that we both continue vice versa, not 238 00:12:10,160 --> 00:12:13,800 Speaker 1: just one side. I can't expect him to court me 239 00:12:13,960 --> 00:12:17,480 Speaker 1: and to make me fall in love and romance me. 240 00:12:17,640 --> 00:12:20,000 Speaker 1: I also have to romance him, you know, Like I 241 00:12:20,080 --> 00:12:22,560 Speaker 1: planned our last date night. I was like, I said, hey, 242 00:12:22,640 --> 00:12:24,960 Speaker 1: let's go on date night, and I want to go here, 243 00:12:25,280 --> 00:12:28,320 Speaker 1: and we'll go there, and he paid. But but I 244 00:12:28,480 --> 00:12:31,960 Speaker 1: planned it. But it was really fun. Yes it was, 245 00:12:32,040 --> 00:12:34,400 Speaker 1: and we really needed it. And I think that's important 246 00:12:34,440 --> 00:12:36,640 Speaker 1: to keep doing that stuff, like leaving each other little 247 00:12:36,679 --> 00:12:40,280 Speaker 1: notes randomly, like you know, just doing the things that 248 00:12:40,360 --> 00:12:43,280 Speaker 1: made us fall in love. And it's yes, it's young, guys, 249 00:12:43,360 --> 00:12:46,600 Speaker 1: it's a young relationship. It's we're newlyweds, I mean a 250 00:12:46,640 --> 00:12:50,560 Speaker 1: young marriage or newly eds. But it's keeping that in mind, right. 251 00:12:50,679 --> 00:12:52,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, But I also feel that a lot of the 252 00:12:52,840 --> 00:12:55,600 Speaker 2: things that we do have been a part of our 253 00:12:55,600 --> 00:13:00,560 Speaker 2: relationship since day one, and so I think just everything 254 00:13:00,559 --> 00:13:02,760 Speaker 2: that we already built, the foundation that we built, is 255 00:13:02,800 --> 00:13:05,440 Speaker 2: just being enhanced now by marriage. Yeah, and so it's 256 00:13:05,440 --> 00:13:08,559 Speaker 2: not like it's anything new. It's not like we haven't 257 00:13:08,600 --> 00:13:11,800 Speaker 2: done these things for each other before. Now they just 258 00:13:12,679 --> 00:13:14,400 Speaker 2: we just have to continue to do it. You know, 259 00:13:15,360 --> 00:13:16,880 Speaker 2: the date night was beautiful the other day. 260 00:13:17,320 --> 00:13:17,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, it was nice. 261 00:13:18,000 --> 00:13:22,120 Speaker 2: We really needed that. You cried the entire time tears 262 00:13:22,120 --> 00:13:23,520 Speaker 2: of joy. But you cried tears of joy. 263 00:13:23,559 --> 00:13:25,720 Speaker 1: I was just I was I was so like last 264 00:13:25,720 --> 00:13:28,440 Speaker 1: week was I don't know, I was going through a lot, 265 00:13:28,800 --> 00:13:31,120 Speaker 1: but yeah, it was nice. 266 00:13:31,400 --> 00:13:37,000 Speaker 2: Yeah. I mean it's just confirmation that you know, we're 267 00:13:37,040 --> 00:13:40,080 Speaker 2: each other's best friends and we're I mean, you're my 268 00:13:40,120 --> 00:13:45,840 Speaker 2: favorite person to be with every day and yeah, and 269 00:13:45,920 --> 00:13:47,560 Speaker 2: like sitting at that date night, I'm just like, it's 270 00:13:47,600 --> 00:13:49,560 Speaker 2: just us talking. We're worth each other every day. Like 271 00:13:49,559 --> 00:13:51,480 Speaker 2: how deep of a conversation can we really have all 272 00:13:51,520 --> 00:13:54,440 Speaker 2: the time? But it just happens. It happens naturally. 273 00:13:54,720 --> 00:13:57,480 Speaker 1: It was tight. It's tight. Yeah. Do you like calling 274 00:13:57,520 --> 00:13:59,480 Speaker 1: me your wife like say I love my wife? Yeah? 275 00:13:59,559 --> 00:14:03,240 Speaker 2: Absolutely, me too. I remember doing it like the first 276 00:14:03,320 --> 00:14:05,080 Speaker 2: week and I was and people are like, oh, I'm 277 00:14:05,080 --> 00:14:07,880 Speaker 2: like yeah, yeah, that's why that's my one. 278 00:14:08,840 --> 00:14:10,600 Speaker 1: I remember I used to say that, like I cannot 279 00:14:10,840 --> 00:14:13,000 Speaker 1: wait to call you my wife. Yeah, and now I'm like, oh, 280 00:14:13,040 --> 00:14:15,480 Speaker 1: it's my husband. You supposal like this and it feels 281 00:14:15,520 --> 00:14:18,240 Speaker 1: it feels good. It feels it doesn't feel forced, it 282 00:14:18,320 --> 00:14:20,640 Speaker 1: doesn't feel it just it just feels good. Yeah. Just 283 00:14:20,720 --> 00:14:23,680 Speaker 1: And I really really pray that all of you get 284 00:14:23,680 --> 00:14:27,200 Speaker 1: to experience real love and someone that values you and 285 00:14:28,320 --> 00:14:33,320 Speaker 1: you know equally though, because there's nothing like being in 286 00:14:33,360 --> 00:14:36,840 Speaker 1: a relationship where the two people really value and appreciate 287 00:14:36,880 --> 00:14:41,240 Speaker 1: each other and do nice things for each other. And yeah, 288 00:14:41,280 --> 00:14:43,480 Speaker 1: and I think that's another thing. Like I we were 289 00:14:43,480 --> 00:14:46,120 Speaker 1: hanging out with your mom yesterday, your mom and your grandma. 290 00:14:46,560 --> 00:14:48,560 Speaker 1: It's like a like a thing that's like our thing. 291 00:14:48,680 --> 00:14:50,280 Speaker 1: Our favorite thing to do is that at least once 292 00:14:50,280 --> 00:14:53,200 Speaker 1: a week every two weeks, like really go out and 293 00:14:53,480 --> 00:14:56,320 Speaker 1: take them to lunch and hang out. And it's like 294 00:14:56,480 --> 00:14:59,760 Speaker 1: nice to be able to have that to have Like, cause, dude, 295 00:14:59,800 --> 00:15:03,160 Speaker 1: we're watching this show. We're like like it's really we 296 00:15:03,200 --> 00:15:05,320 Speaker 1: need to finish it. By the way, but is I 297 00:15:05,400 --> 00:15:08,320 Speaker 1: love what is it called I Love a Mama's Boy? Yeah, dude, 298 00:15:09,440 --> 00:15:11,800 Speaker 1: I was like, thank god, I don't have a mother 299 00:15:11,800 --> 00:15:13,480 Speaker 1: in law like that. Dude, this show if you guys 300 00:15:13,480 --> 00:15:17,960 Speaker 1: have not watched it, it's on Netflix, crazy y'all. Like, 301 00:15:18,400 --> 00:15:21,120 Speaker 1: and I love his mom, and I was thinking about 302 00:15:21,160 --> 00:15:24,680 Speaker 1: I was like, dude, it's great. I don't have to 303 00:15:24,680 --> 00:15:27,120 Speaker 1: worry about siblings. My siblings are cool though, yes they 304 00:15:27,200 --> 00:15:29,080 Speaker 1: love you, but I don't have to worry about sisters. 305 00:15:29,120 --> 00:15:31,960 Speaker 1: Imagine if like his sisters were like b words and like, 306 00:15:33,160 --> 00:15:35,800 Speaker 1: his mom is great. Her and I get along perfectly. 307 00:15:35,840 --> 00:15:37,200 Speaker 1: I asked her to call off work, and she did, 308 00:15:37,280 --> 00:15:39,120 Speaker 1: but she was kind of feeling sick, you know, so 309 00:15:39,160 --> 00:15:43,240 Speaker 1: she calls just in case someone watches from work. But 310 00:15:43,240 --> 00:15:44,440 Speaker 1: but we hung out and it was nice. 311 00:15:44,720 --> 00:15:48,480 Speaker 2: Yeah. I it feels good that I feel like I 312 00:15:48,480 --> 00:15:50,720 Speaker 2: get to like share my mom with you, and like 313 00:15:51,360 --> 00:15:56,400 Speaker 2: she she she watches over both of us as as 314 00:15:56,440 --> 00:16:01,040 Speaker 2: we're both her kids obviously, and like, so awesome. Yeah, 315 00:16:01,080 --> 00:16:03,200 Speaker 2: it brings me joy to like to be able you 316 00:16:03,200 --> 00:16:05,520 Speaker 2: get to experience that and have you know that you 317 00:16:05,600 --> 00:16:08,440 Speaker 2: know that you have someone genuine and who really loves you, 318 00:16:08,480 --> 00:16:10,680 Speaker 2: who really cares about you, because. 319 00:16:10,440 --> 00:16:12,320 Speaker 1: That would be super difficult if your mom didn't like me. 320 00:16:12,400 --> 00:16:16,120 Speaker 2: Huh, Yeah, no, for sure, likes are so close. She 321 00:16:16,200 --> 00:16:19,680 Speaker 2: always asked for, you know, our our flight number so 322 00:16:19,720 --> 00:16:22,160 Speaker 2: she could track our flights access even if you fo 323 00:16:22,360 --> 00:16:23,160 Speaker 2: my location out. 324 00:16:23,240 --> 00:16:25,400 Speaker 1: Uh huh. She's like, Jenny, I need your fight, your 325 00:16:25,440 --> 00:16:27,360 Speaker 1: fighting phone, even if not flying with you, dude. And 326 00:16:27,400 --> 00:16:29,880 Speaker 1: I turn on my phone and right away, oh good 327 00:16:29,880 --> 00:16:30,440 Speaker 1: you landed. 328 00:16:30,560 --> 00:16:30,960 Speaker 2: Thank god. 329 00:16:31,000 --> 00:16:31,560 Speaker 1: I'm like, damn. 330 00:16:31,600 --> 00:16:32,280 Speaker 2: She's like really. 331 00:16:33,240 --> 00:16:35,560 Speaker 1: So she's like, she's it's really cool. It's really cool 332 00:16:35,600 --> 00:16:36,680 Speaker 1: because now she has a daughter. 333 00:16:37,000 --> 00:16:39,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, it's it's pretty dope, the daughter that 334 00:16:39,360 --> 00:16:39,880 Speaker 2: she never had. 335 00:16:39,960 --> 00:16:45,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, exactly. So do we fight less or more 336 00:16:45,280 --> 00:16:50,160 Speaker 1: now that we're married. We really I don't feel like 337 00:16:50,160 --> 00:16:51,359 Speaker 1: we've had a lot of arguments. 338 00:16:51,680 --> 00:16:56,320 Speaker 2: Yeah. I think A really big thing that I feel 339 00:16:56,320 --> 00:17:00,800 Speaker 2: that helped us, that everyone should do is is pre 340 00:17:00,880 --> 00:17:04,359 Speaker 2: marital counseling. I think we chop down a lot of 341 00:17:04,400 --> 00:17:08,120 Speaker 2: the really big things in marriages that that people need 342 00:17:08,160 --> 00:17:11,080 Speaker 2: to focus on, that they don't think of until they're 343 00:17:11,080 --> 00:17:15,320 Speaker 2: already in the marriage. And you know, we watch a 344 00:17:15,359 --> 00:17:16,760 Speaker 2: lot of shows. We watched a lot of a lot 345 00:17:16,800 --> 00:17:18,879 Speaker 2: of dating shows and things like that, and people just 346 00:17:18,960 --> 00:17:21,520 Speaker 2: start getting married. I'm like, we sit there and we 347 00:17:21,560 --> 00:17:24,280 Speaker 2: watch this and I'm like guys, go do the ground work, 348 00:17:24,359 --> 00:17:26,320 Speaker 2: go to counseling, go figure that stuff out. And I 349 00:17:26,359 --> 00:17:28,600 Speaker 2: see so many people do this and they don't do it. 350 00:17:30,359 --> 00:17:34,639 Speaker 2: Of course that doesn't cover everything, but I feel a 351 00:17:34,680 --> 00:17:36,560 Speaker 2: reason why I feel like it's kind of been a 352 00:17:36,600 --> 00:17:40,639 Speaker 2: little more calm than than before was because we we 353 00:17:40,680 --> 00:17:43,080 Speaker 2: did go do that work. And of course it's not 354 00:17:43,200 --> 00:17:46,040 Speaker 2: it's not done and over, but there's a lot of 355 00:17:47,240 --> 00:17:49,280 Speaker 2: there's a lot of big pillars in that that you 356 00:17:49,400 --> 00:17:51,720 Speaker 2: need to that you need to cover. I at least 357 00:17:51,760 --> 00:17:55,440 Speaker 2: know what your partner expects and wants in the marriage 358 00:17:56,200 --> 00:17:58,760 Speaker 2: so that there's no surprises later, you know. 359 00:17:59,080 --> 00:18:07,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't even remember our last fight to you. Yeah. 360 00:18:07,320 --> 00:18:09,239 Speaker 2: Honestly, I think a lot of the things that we 361 00:18:09,280 --> 00:18:11,639 Speaker 2: do or sometimes that we fight about are just like 362 00:18:14,200 --> 00:18:17,280 Speaker 2: it comes from I feel like they really come from stress. 363 00:18:17,800 --> 00:18:19,920 Speaker 2: And like if if if you're really stressed out or 364 00:18:19,960 --> 00:18:22,680 Speaker 2: I'm really stressed out, and we're yeah, and we might 365 00:18:22,800 --> 00:18:26,040 Speaker 2: just say something respond in a certain way. I'm not 366 00:18:26,119 --> 00:18:30,320 Speaker 2: gonna hide it. But we're both very sensitive and I 367 00:18:30,320 --> 00:18:32,919 Speaker 2: think we're so in tune. Our frequencies are so in 368 00:18:32,960 --> 00:18:37,120 Speaker 2: tune that I can I can be half asleep and 369 00:18:37,280 --> 00:18:39,240 Speaker 2: just the and not even open my eyes. And the 370 00:18:39,280 --> 00:18:41,439 Speaker 2: way you get up, I can I can tell if 371 00:18:41,480 --> 00:18:44,800 Speaker 2: you're in a good mood or not, and like and 372 00:18:44,800 --> 00:18:46,640 Speaker 2: that's just the truth. That's just how connected I feel 373 00:18:46,640 --> 00:18:48,120 Speaker 2: to you. So I know when you're in a bad mood. 374 00:18:48,240 --> 00:18:50,800 Speaker 1: How my mom was like how I yeah, I know, 375 00:18:52,240 --> 00:18:53,800 Speaker 1: I know, yeah yeah, And. 376 00:18:53,920 --> 00:18:54,879 Speaker 2: Not a bad thing, I know. 377 00:18:54,960 --> 00:18:58,000 Speaker 1: But it's something that I want to work on because 378 00:18:59,280 --> 00:19:00,960 Speaker 1: I'm really good with Like if I'm in a bad 379 00:19:00,960 --> 00:19:02,560 Speaker 1: mood or I'm upset with someone, I don't take it 380 00:19:02,600 --> 00:19:05,359 Speaker 1: on anyone else. But I think because you are the 381 00:19:05,359 --> 00:19:09,200 Speaker 1: closest person to me, i'm stressed out and I'm feeling 382 00:19:09,240 --> 00:19:11,200 Speaker 1: a certain way, I might be a little bit more 383 00:19:11,400 --> 00:19:14,680 Speaker 1: like crabby, you know, and like I'll snap at you 384 00:19:15,080 --> 00:19:17,080 Speaker 1: and I'm like fuck, Like he's like, don't talk to 385 00:19:17,119 --> 00:19:19,199 Speaker 1: me like that. Like I'm like, damn, you're right. But 386 00:19:19,280 --> 00:19:22,600 Speaker 1: I'm not like that with anyone else. Really, like I 387 00:19:22,720 --> 00:19:24,399 Speaker 1: just and I don't feel like that's fair and I 388 00:19:24,400 --> 00:19:26,439 Speaker 1: could admit that, and it's something I have to work on. 389 00:19:26,480 --> 00:19:28,120 Speaker 1: And I think it's just because not that I'm taking 390 00:19:28,160 --> 00:19:30,879 Speaker 1: advantage of you, but it's just you're the closest person 391 00:19:30,880 --> 00:19:33,639 Speaker 1: to me, so I share everything with you, yes, of course, 392 00:19:34,160 --> 00:19:35,919 Speaker 1: and it's like I do want to work on that 393 00:19:36,000 --> 00:19:36,640 Speaker 1: I think I needed. 394 00:19:37,040 --> 00:19:38,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, And I didn't bring that up and be like, oh, 395 00:19:38,840 --> 00:19:39,480 Speaker 2: that's the reason why. 396 00:19:39,520 --> 00:19:40,880 Speaker 1: I don't know if I know, but it's true. 397 00:19:41,040 --> 00:19:44,320 Speaker 2: But it's I was more explaining of just like how 398 00:19:45,040 --> 00:19:47,040 Speaker 2: connected we are, and I just we can tell and 399 00:19:47,080 --> 00:19:48,560 Speaker 2: I think a lot of a lot of the times 400 00:19:48,600 --> 00:19:53,040 Speaker 2: it's just just like daily annoying things that annoy us, 401 00:19:53,880 --> 00:19:56,959 Speaker 2: that might just tick us off or be like, oh, well, 402 00:19:57,040 --> 00:19:59,440 Speaker 2: well now we're in a bad mood and yeah, sometimes 403 00:19:59,480 --> 00:20:02,240 Speaker 2: just like I don't know if she's a bad mood 404 00:20:02,359 --> 00:20:03,879 Speaker 2: or maybe, and then I get a bad mood and 405 00:20:03,920 --> 00:20:05,320 Speaker 2: then we just kind of go back and forth. But 406 00:20:07,280 --> 00:20:10,560 Speaker 2: that's mostly but that's expected and and that's why I 407 00:20:10,600 --> 00:20:13,159 Speaker 2: don't even like hold that over I don't want to 408 00:20:13,280 --> 00:20:15,760 Speaker 2: hold that over each other's heads. We spend a lot 409 00:20:15,760 --> 00:20:19,879 Speaker 2: of time together. We're obviously married, and we're gonna spend 410 00:20:20,119 --> 00:20:23,280 Speaker 2: the rest of our lives together, so it's just something 411 00:20:23,320 --> 00:20:26,560 Speaker 2: that we have to Like, I would just like the 412 00:20:27,640 --> 00:20:31,439 Speaker 2: response time to be cut down short of of us 413 00:20:31,520 --> 00:20:35,840 Speaker 2: realizing like okay, we don't yeah, yeah, what do you 414 00:20:35,880 --> 00:20:36,440 Speaker 2: want for dinner. 415 00:20:36,520 --> 00:20:45,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, now it's he's been he went with me to 416 00:20:45,720 --> 00:20:49,760 Speaker 1: La I'm except for those two days that he needed 417 00:20:49,760 --> 00:20:52,280 Speaker 1: to work. But you know, now he's gonna start going 418 00:20:52,280 --> 00:20:54,320 Speaker 1: on tour. He's gonna go on tour with Becky. So 419 00:20:55,400 --> 00:20:57,920 Speaker 1: we've been together a lot. So now it's like, I 420 00:20:57,960 --> 00:21:01,200 Speaker 1: don't know, we'll see. Yeah, you know, it's an be fine. 421 00:21:01,040 --> 00:21:03,280 Speaker 2: And you see, like that's like another thing that I 422 00:21:03,320 --> 00:21:05,679 Speaker 2: feel right now. I've done these while I've been with 423 00:21:05,720 --> 00:21:09,560 Speaker 2: you before, and they feel a lot bigger before. Not 424 00:21:09,640 --> 00:21:11,760 Speaker 2: that this doesn't feel big or important, because it is. 425 00:21:11,800 --> 00:21:16,080 Speaker 2: It's it's it's a great opportunity and great work, but 426 00:21:16,160 --> 00:21:20,040 Speaker 2: I feel very secure, Like I feel like I can 427 00:21:20,119 --> 00:21:24,600 Speaker 2: go away for a weekend and that's good everything. You know, 428 00:21:24,760 --> 00:21:26,399 Speaker 2: it's just a feeling of like, Okay, I don't have 429 00:21:26,440 --> 00:21:28,320 Speaker 2: to worry about things. I don't have to. Of course 430 00:21:28,320 --> 00:21:30,040 Speaker 2: I worry about your safety and stuff like that, but 431 00:21:31,960 --> 00:21:35,800 Speaker 2: it's a it's a better feeling of being connected to 432 00:21:35,800 --> 00:21:37,119 Speaker 2: each other for sure. 433 00:21:37,359 --> 00:21:39,320 Speaker 1: It just feels, yeah, I'm more solidified. I don't know 434 00:21:39,359 --> 00:21:42,480 Speaker 1: what other word, you know, but like it's it's also okay, 435 00:21:42,560 --> 00:21:44,480 Speaker 1: like we need I feel like that space is going 436 00:21:44,560 --> 00:21:46,960 Speaker 1: to allow us to miss each other and to make 437 00:21:47,040 --> 00:21:50,280 Speaker 1: us stronger. So it's like finding that balance between our 438 00:21:50,320 --> 00:21:53,440 Speaker 1: careers and our personal life, our marriage. And I think 439 00:21:53,760 --> 00:21:55,840 Speaker 1: as long as you communicate, I think we'll be fine. 440 00:21:56,119 --> 00:22:00,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, and just something that you know that going with that, 441 00:22:00,720 --> 00:22:07,000 Speaker 2: with traveling apart from each other. And I really use 442 00:22:07,119 --> 00:22:09,879 Speaker 2: you as like my support through all that, like when 443 00:22:09,880 --> 00:22:12,520 Speaker 2: I'm gone and traveling without you and you know, being 444 00:22:12,560 --> 00:22:17,000 Speaker 2: on the road, like our daily communication is what helps 445 00:22:17,040 --> 00:22:19,400 Speaker 2: me like get through the days, get through the long hours, 446 00:22:19,400 --> 00:22:22,320 Speaker 2: get through the traveling. People don't really understand like how 447 00:22:23,000 --> 00:22:27,200 Speaker 2: draining traveling is. Yeah, and sleeping in a different hotel 448 00:22:27,240 --> 00:22:31,040 Speaker 2: room every night, and so I really depend on your 449 00:22:31,160 --> 00:22:35,359 Speaker 2: energy to like, Okay, we're good, we're communicating, we're setting 450 00:22:35,359 --> 00:22:37,720 Speaker 2: each other love. That gets me through those long weekends, 451 00:22:37,760 --> 00:22:40,679 Speaker 2: through those long flights. And yeah, just. 452 00:22:40,720 --> 00:22:43,160 Speaker 1: Imagine if I wasn't answering or something like that would 453 00:22:43,160 --> 00:22:45,920 Speaker 1: stress you out. That's not fair. He's working and vice versa. 454 00:22:46,040 --> 00:22:50,600 Speaker 1: You know. But but yeah, I mean, how's the sex. 455 00:22:51,280 --> 00:22:53,639 Speaker 1: What how's the sex? You know, we're not going to 456 00:22:53,760 --> 00:22:56,560 Speaker 1: not talk about it, Like I think it's gotten better. 457 00:22:56,960 --> 00:22:58,600 Speaker 1: I mean it's always been good, but it's been like 458 00:22:58,640 --> 00:23:00,199 Speaker 1: you know what it is. I was thinking about this 459 00:23:00,320 --> 00:23:02,280 Speaker 1: last night, no, the night the other night that it 460 00:23:02,400 --> 00:23:06,680 Speaker 1: was great anyways, I was, I was, you know, oh 461 00:23:06,680 --> 00:23:08,680 Speaker 1: my gosh, I don't want to be just cleaning up whatever. 462 00:23:09,200 --> 00:23:12,400 Speaker 1: And I was like, thank you God, Like I seriously 463 00:23:12,400 --> 00:23:14,920 Speaker 1: felt like I was like, it's my husband. I'm not fornicating, 464 00:23:15,320 --> 00:23:17,199 Speaker 1: Like I really really felt like that. I was like, 465 00:23:17,520 --> 00:23:21,000 Speaker 1: this is awesome, do you know what I mean? Like 466 00:23:21,040 --> 00:23:22,840 Speaker 1: I was like I don't have to worry about God 467 00:23:22,880 --> 00:23:27,520 Speaker 1: being upset with me, like it felt. It just feels better. 468 00:23:28,119 --> 00:23:30,360 Speaker 1: It just it feels cool and like I don't. 469 00:23:30,119 --> 00:23:32,720 Speaker 2: Know, yeah, no for sure. And also I. 470 00:23:32,880 --> 00:23:35,000 Speaker 1: Noticed that I've been putting on cute like cute things. 471 00:23:34,920 --> 00:23:37,720 Speaker 2: Yeah okay, yeah, sometimes you fall asleep, but it's okay. 472 00:23:38,240 --> 00:23:40,240 Speaker 1: Last night I put it on. I was like, yeah, 473 00:23:41,119 --> 00:23:42,080 Speaker 1: I was like I'm tired. 474 00:23:44,359 --> 00:23:47,840 Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, I think uh. I think we can both 475 00:23:47,880 --> 00:23:55,919 Speaker 2: agree that we probably had probably the best night, craziest 476 00:23:56,040 --> 00:24:00,760 Speaker 2: like intimate intimacy connection that we ever had on one 477 00:24:00,760 --> 00:24:06,040 Speaker 2: of these nights after after our marriage. Like yes, and 478 00:24:06,080 --> 00:24:07,640 Speaker 2: again it's not after. 479 00:24:07,520 --> 00:24:09,960 Speaker 1: A forty day cleanse. Yeah, crazy, and. 480 00:24:09,880 --> 00:24:11,960 Speaker 2: It's not even like it's not even just like a 481 00:24:11,960 --> 00:24:17,480 Speaker 2: dirty sexual thing. The the level of intimacy and connection 482 00:24:17,760 --> 00:24:21,960 Speaker 2: and energy that we had that one time blew my 483 00:24:22,240 --> 00:24:25,960 Speaker 2: blew my mind. I couldn't believe it, like it. 484 00:24:25,960 --> 00:24:29,080 Speaker 1: Was awesome and we were both like, whoa. 485 00:24:28,880 --> 00:24:32,240 Speaker 2: It was crazy. It was just crazy, and I I 486 00:24:32,280 --> 00:24:35,440 Speaker 2: don't know that was it was after a cleanse, a 487 00:24:35,640 --> 00:24:38,280 Speaker 2: forty day cleanse of you know, giving up things that 488 00:24:38,320 --> 00:24:42,800 Speaker 2: we want, and I don't know the energy, it's the 489 00:24:42,920 --> 00:24:45,240 Speaker 2: energy for me for for that time, that just it 490 00:24:45,280 --> 00:24:47,639 Speaker 2: blew me away for sure, Like I thought I was 491 00:24:47,680 --> 00:24:50,320 Speaker 2: going to die. For like an hour after, I'm like, yeah, 492 00:24:50,520 --> 00:24:51,639 Speaker 2: what the hell just happened? 493 00:24:52,160 --> 00:24:55,320 Speaker 1: This is crazy. In the middle of it, though we 494 00:24:56,040 --> 00:24:59,520 Speaker 1: hadn't spoken obviously because we we're not gonna have a conversation, 495 00:25:00,160 --> 00:25:02,360 Speaker 1: I was thinking, I said, oh my god, I can 496 00:25:02,440 --> 00:25:06,800 Speaker 1: literally like this is feeling so crazy right now and 497 00:25:06,840 --> 00:25:08,960 Speaker 1: all of my body I feel like I'm going to die. 498 00:25:09,119 --> 00:25:11,560 Speaker 1: And I didn't say it, but I was like, oh 499 00:25:11,600 --> 00:25:13,680 Speaker 1: my it was. I felt like it was a reward, 500 00:25:14,080 --> 00:25:17,119 Speaker 1: like God was rewarding us for being married and for 501 00:25:17,200 --> 00:25:20,600 Speaker 1: doing a forty day cleanse together. And then he felt 502 00:25:20,640 --> 00:25:22,399 Speaker 1: the same way, but we didn't know until after. I 503 00:25:22,400 --> 00:25:23,560 Speaker 1: was like, dude, I thought I was gonna die. I 504 00:25:23,560 --> 00:25:27,000 Speaker 1: was like, dude, me too. It was insane. Yeah, it 505 00:25:27,000 --> 00:25:31,480 Speaker 1: was mind blowing. Yeah yeah, and it's great. So yeah, guys, I. 506 00:25:31,359 --> 00:25:33,600 Speaker 2: Mean yeah, so yeah, definitely, the answer is yes, the 507 00:25:33,600 --> 00:25:34,240 Speaker 2: sex is better. 508 00:25:34,280 --> 00:25:38,439 Speaker 1: Now look at him your mom watching, Oh dude. I 509 00:25:38,480 --> 00:25:40,800 Speaker 1: talked to his mom about this all the time, like 510 00:25:40,960 --> 00:25:42,959 Speaker 1: she's like, you know, handle my son better, to take 511 00:25:43,000 --> 00:25:44,479 Speaker 1: care of my son, Jeanney, I'm like, I got him, 512 00:25:44,480 --> 00:25:46,280 Speaker 1: don't even worry. I'm into some RoadHead right now. We 513 00:25:46,400 --> 00:25:51,280 Speaker 1: got this. Okay, guys, I think we got to go 514 00:25:51,720 --> 00:25:54,399 Speaker 1: so before we end this episode that I thought, you know, 515 00:25:54,440 --> 00:25:56,680 Speaker 1: I think it's a very good one. People have been 516 00:25:56,720 --> 00:26:02,080 Speaker 1: asking about our marriage. I I want to say what 517 00:26:02,160 --> 00:26:04,720 Speaker 1: I think makes you a good husband? 518 00:26:05,119 --> 00:26:06,440 Speaker 2: That's okay, sure, okay. 519 00:26:07,280 --> 00:26:10,280 Speaker 1: There are a lot of things, but I think one 520 00:26:10,359 --> 00:26:17,640 Speaker 1: thing that really like stands out for me is when 521 00:26:17,640 --> 00:26:22,040 Speaker 1: we had the conversation about our finances, about hey, babe, 522 00:26:22,240 --> 00:26:25,920 Speaker 1: like can you take care of this? And you didn't 523 00:26:25,920 --> 00:26:28,639 Speaker 1: even think about it, like you're like, yes, I got it. 524 00:26:28,720 --> 00:26:30,359 Speaker 1: Like the water bill. I was like, okay, like let's 525 00:26:30,359 --> 00:26:32,080 Speaker 1: talk about the utilities, like what are we going to 526 00:26:32,160 --> 00:26:36,439 Speaker 1: do here? And I did not feel uncomfortable, like you 527 00:26:36,480 --> 00:26:38,240 Speaker 1: made me feel very comfortable. And you're like, yeah, babe, 528 00:26:38,240 --> 00:26:40,359 Speaker 1: don't even worry, like we'll do this, we'll do that 529 00:26:40,400 --> 00:26:42,400 Speaker 1: with our like we'll start because once you get married, 530 00:26:42,440 --> 00:26:44,240 Speaker 1: you're like, okay, we have a household, like what are 531 00:26:44,240 --> 00:26:46,000 Speaker 1: we gonna do? How are we going to handle this? 532 00:26:46,359 --> 00:26:49,000 Speaker 1: What do you like? And you're always really good at 533 00:26:49,040 --> 00:26:51,080 Speaker 1: like okay, I'll order this this month, like the wipe 534 00:26:51,119 --> 00:26:54,640 Speaker 1: Beest because we love baby wipes. We can't we both can't, 535 00:26:55,320 --> 00:26:58,280 Speaker 1: you know, without baby wipes, so anything without baby wipes. 536 00:26:58,640 --> 00:27:02,280 Speaker 1: So anyways, Like it's just I love that about you, 537 00:27:02,359 --> 00:27:04,679 Speaker 1: and I think that like you want to provide, you 538 00:27:04,720 --> 00:27:07,040 Speaker 1: want to protect. I need that as a wife, as 539 00:27:07,040 --> 00:27:11,080 Speaker 1: a woman, I think all women really want is to 540 00:27:11,080 --> 00:27:15,399 Speaker 1: feel secure, to feel protected, to feel safe, and I 541 00:27:15,440 --> 00:27:17,800 Speaker 1: feel all of those things with you. So thank you 542 00:27:17,880 --> 00:27:19,440 Speaker 1: that that's what makes you a good husband. 543 00:27:19,680 --> 00:27:25,879 Speaker 2: So my turn, I uh, this is this is something 544 00:27:25,880 --> 00:27:31,240 Speaker 2: that that you've always done that hasn't changed. I think 545 00:27:31,280 --> 00:27:34,200 Speaker 2: again with marriage, I think it just has been enhanced. 546 00:27:34,200 --> 00:27:38,920 Speaker 2: But also before I say it, the way I accept 547 00:27:38,960 --> 00:27:43,840 Speaker 2: it now is a lot different because it just it 548 00:27:43,960 --> 00:27:47,800 Speaker 2: feels so much more real now, but your support and 549 00:27:47,840 --> 00:27:52,240 Speaker 2: the way you believe in me. You know, it's different 550 00:27:52,240 --> 00:27:55,320 Speaker 2: coming from a girlfriend, but now coming from my wife. 551 00:27:55,560 --> 00:27:58,320 Speaker 2: You're you are my big our number You're my number 552 00:27:58,320 --> 00:28:00,080 Speaker 2: one fan, and you're the person who believes in me 553 00:28:00,160 --> 00:28:03,679 Speaker 2: more than anyone. And I feel that a lot. I 554 00:28:03,720 --> 00:28:06,439 Speaker 2: feel that so much more now, where I feel like 555 00:28:06,440 --> 00:28:09,040 Speaker 2: I'm like anything I want to do, I know I 556 00:28:09,040 --> 00:28:12,880 Speaker 2: can do it, and I have your moral support and 557 00:28:13,200 --> 00:28:16,480 Speaker 2: you help me become a better person, a better man. 558 00:28:16,560 --> 00:28:21,080 Speaker 2: And it comes from I can feel that you truly 559 00:28:21,119 --> 00:28:23,359 Speaker 2: believe in me, and it makes me feel like I 560 00:28:23,359 --> 00:28:26,920 Speaker 2: can do anything. And you've shown that in so many 561 00:28:26,960 --> 00:28:30,760 Speaker 2: different ways over the past three and a half years. 562 00:28:30,800 --> 00:28:33,840 Speaker 2: And it's such an amazing feeling. And I think that 563 00:28:33,880 --> 00:28:36,199 Speaker 2: goes hand in hand with like a woman wants to 564 00:28:36,240 --> 00:28:40,200 Speaker 2: feel taken care of and secure, and the way I 565 00:28:40,200 --> 00:28:42,479 Speaker 2: want to provide and take care of you, like I 566 00:28:42,600 --> 00:28:44,760 Speaker 2: know that you have my back with anything. So it's 567 00:28:44,760 --> 00:28:47,160 Speaker 2: like it gives me the confidence to go do anything 568 00:28:47,480 --> 00:28:51,120 Speaker 2: that I need to go do, and that feels great. 569 00:28:52,080 --> 00:28:54,000 Speaker 1: I'm glad, my love, because that's one thing I did 570 00:28:54,560 --> 00:28:58,400 Speaker 1: learn from couple's therapy, you know, was to feed into 571 00:28:58,440 --> 00:29:00,280 Speaker 1: the king and you you know what I mean. Like 572 00:29:00,320 --> 00:29:02,480 Speaker 1: a lot of women will be like, oh, you're this, 573 00:29:02,640 --> 00:29:05,520 Speaker 1: you're that, You're messy, you're whatever the heck your man 574 00:29:05,560 --> 00:29:12,280 Speaker 1: may be. Instead of building them and like you push 575 00:29:12,320 --> 00:29:15,520 Speaker 1: them down more, you know. And it's like really speaking 576 00:29:15,560 --> 00:29:18,640 Speaker 1: life into them and speaking and speaking to the king 577 00:29:18,920 --> 00:29:22,040 Speaker 1: in your man. And that's something I learned and I 578 00:29:22,080 --> 00:29:24,800 Speaker 1: didn't always know that. So now it's like I'm very 579 00:29:24,840 --> 00:29:28,400 Speaker 1: intentional about doing that and knowing that, yeah, you have 580 00:29:28,720 --> 00:29:30,720 Speaker 1: I have your back, Like, you know, even if he 581 00:29:30,720 --> 00:29:32,040 Speaker 1: has to go to work and he was supposed to 582 00:29:32,040 --> 00:29:33,800 Speaker 1: be with me, He's like, what do you think. I'm like, no, baby, 583 00:29:33,800 --> 00:29:35,600 Speaker 1: do your thing. You have to, Like, it's a great 584 00:29:35,600 --> 00:29:38,240 Speaker 1: opportunity for you. I'm gonna miss you. Part of me 585 00:29:38,320 --> 00:29:40,280 Speaker 1: is like, oh, but I'm like, do your thing, like 586 00:29:40,520 --> 00:29:41,280 Speaker 1: you gotta do it. 587 00:29:41,400 --> 00:29:41,480 Speaker 2: Go. 588 00:29:41,800 --> 00:29:45,040 Speaker 1: It's fine, like supporting each other because you support me 589 00:29:45,120 --> 00:29:47,200 Speaker 1: very much in my career, you know, and I'm grateful 590 00:29:47,240 --> 00:29:50,120 Speaker 1: for that. You're always there for me and you always 591 00:29:50,120 --> 00:29:52,120 Speaker 1: help me, and your opinion means a lot to me. 592 00:29:52,960 --> 00:29:55,480 Speaker 1: So yeah, And I do have a very important question though. 593 00:29:56,240 --> 00:30:00,000 Speaker 1: I need to know if and when we have a baby, 594 00:30:00,080 --> 00:30:02,080 Speaker 1: and I gained eighty pounds. Are you still gonna love 595 00:30:02,120 --> 00:30:02,920 Speaker 1: me the same way? 596 00:30:03,680 --> 00:30:06,440 Speaker 2: I've already loved you at that point, So we're okay. 597 00:30:07,320 --> 00:30:10,080 Speaker 1: Love to do when I was seven seventy pounds heavier. Actually, yeah, 598 00:30:10,080 --> 00:30:13,040 Speaker 1: you're right six All right, We're good. I have some room, 599 00:30:13,440 --> 00:30:16,720 Speaker 1: have some room to like, you know. But anyways, whatever, 600 00:30:17,120 --> 00:30:21,160 Speaker 1: you don't ever have to worry, are you sure? Yes? Right? Fine? 601 00:30:21,560 --> 00:30:23,600 Speaker 1: But babe, thank you so much for being on, of course, 602 00:30:23,640 --> 00:30:27,440 Speaker 1: on these two episodes of Cheeky's and Chill. Everyone loves 603 00:30:27,480 --> 00:30:29,400 Speaker 1: to hear from us, so I appreciate you coming on. 604 00:30:29,760 --> 00:30:31,120 Speaker 1: I think it was a very good conversation. 605 00:30:31,720 --> 00:30:34,080 Speaker 2: Let's do our little a very great update. 606 00:30:34,840 --> 00:30:39,400 Speaker 1: No, it's our little handshake. Anyways, thanks guys, a little update, 607 00:30:39,640 --> 00:30:40,480 Speaker 1: say bye to everyone. 608 00:30:40,840 --> 00:30:41,400 Speaker 2: Thank you guys. 609 00:30:41,480 --> 00:30:43,040 Speaker 1: Yes, thank you guys, and we'll see you on the 610 00:30:43,120 --> 00:30:50,080 Speaker 1: next episode of Cheeks and Chill. This is a production 611 00:30:50,200 --> 00:30:54,200 Speaker 1: of iHeartRadio and Mike witha Podcast Network. Follow us on 612 00:30:54,280 --> 00:30:58,800 Speaker 1: Instagram at Mike Podcasts and follow me Cheeky's That's s 613 00:30:59,200 --> 00:31:03,320 Speaker 1: h I u s. 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