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Speaker 1: We're just two unapologetically black women with an opinion. Who

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Speaker 1: talks back? What game? Hey? This is Tam Bown and

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Speaker 1: this is a J and we talk back on the

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Speaker 1: Black Effect Podcast Network. It's our very first episode. And

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Speaker 1: I'm so excited. Like how you feel a J girl?

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Speaker 1: I feel great on this custom, Ea goes. So I'm

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Speaker 1: a J and I'm originally from Chucktown, Charleston, South Carolina.

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Speaker 1: Box your knife, that's invitation boy? You know boy? Hey

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Speaker 1: box you a night boy. I am a serial entrepreneur.

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Speaker 1: I dibbling dab and a little bit of this and

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Speaker 1: a little bit of that. Scammer it up, whatever, bitch.

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Speaker 1: I am into white collar crimes. I do like mortgage. Listen,

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Speaker 1: she's just playing law enforcement. If you're listening, just keep talking.

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Speaker 1: But actually I do own and operate a commercial furniture

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Speaker 1: installation company. And I do have a food truck coming

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Speaker 1: in spring to Charlotte, North Carolina, trapped Veggie, so look

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Speaker 1: out for that. And I'm a struggle meal connoisseur. And

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Speaker 1: I'm just happy to be here as I am excited

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Speaker 1: to be doing this podcast. One of my very very

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Speaker 1: good friends. I wouldn't want to be doing this ship

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Speaker 1: with anybody else. So I just want to tell you

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Speaker 1: a little bit about myself. Girl. Buy, I do not

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Speaker 1: like oysters, I mean on humans. Oh I'm like what

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Speaker 1: you're trying to say about my vagina, bitch. I don't

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Speaker 1: like nothing slimy. Okay, that's how I know I can

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Speaker 1: never be a lesbian. But why you shocking the moisters

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Speaker 1: at your house? I can't believe that. But I stopped

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Speaker 1: eating when I saw a warm and one those same

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Speaker 1: ones we were get word. Okay, everybody, it's me tam Bam,

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Speaker 1: and I'm that bitch that you don't want to miss

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Speaker 1: every Thursday. Okay. I'm a hair stylust by day and

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Speaker 1: I'm a fucking superhero at night. I wear a smock

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Speaker 1: in a cape. Bitch. I'm originally from the Metro, which

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Speaker 1: is Columbia, South Carolina. Stand up South Carolina. I love

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Speaker 1: y'all so much. I live in Charlotte, North Carolina now

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Speaker 1: where I have my hair salon. It's Tamla Bow and

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Speaker 1: Vanity Studio. So check it out, y'all. You gotta pay

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Speaker 1: for the hair, but the entertainment is free. And honestly,

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Speaker 1: I'm just so grateful because not everybody has the opportunity

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Speaker 1: or the confidence to just be their authentic, true self

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Speaker 1: because the world around you will stifle you and make

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Speaker 1: you afraid to be yourself. But let me tell you

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Speaker 1: who ain't Tam bam and a j and So we're

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Speaker 1: gonna say this ship. You're probably thinking they can't say so.

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Speaker 1: The main complaint black men have with black women is

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Speaker 1: that we just don't shut the funk up. So while

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Speaker 1: we're doing why are you doing your dirt? We're just

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Speaker 1: talking all ship, while some ethnicities probably be a little

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Speaker 1: bit more like not submissive, but what's the word I'm

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Speaker 1: looking for, white bit? What like, uh, what's the word passive? Okay,

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Speaker 1: so we don't shut up, Thus we talked back. Overall,

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Speaker 1: the premise for this show is to create a safe

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Speaker 1: space where black women and women of color can come

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Speaker 1: together and talk shit and be empowered and feel loved

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Speaker 1: and have joy. That's all this is. So we have a

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Speaker 1: a lot of great uh segments for the show. Um

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Speaker 1: one of them we want to introduce right now is

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Speaker 1: our random sex facts. So apparently humans are just a

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Speaker 1: sophisticated animal, and the only thing that separates us from animals,

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Speaker 1: essentially our laws and religion. So I'm a little slew footed.

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Speaker 1: So apparently I'm related to penguins because the Random Sex

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Speaker 1: Fact today it says that female penguins engage in a

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Speaker 1: form of prostitution. Not to say I'm a prostitute, but

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Speaker 1: Researchers have repeatedly observed female penguins exchanging sexual favors with

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Speaker 1: exchange for pebbles they will use to build nests for

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Speaker 1: be the same as money. Penguins need stones to build

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Speaker 1: And if I need to get money from Joe smoke

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Speaker 1: before we get into anything else, let's pay some bills

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Speaker 1: real quick. So today we gotta real good episode lined up. Yes,

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Speaker 1: it's so much fun. You're going to hear from some

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Speaker 1: is women need a reason. Men literally only needed time

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Speaker 1: So our first guest is your certified hood nigga quintessential

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Speaker 1: hood nigga for sure listening. Thank you so much for

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Speaker 1: joining us today. How are you app good? Just getting

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Speaker 1: up that breath smell like, No, I don't brush my

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Speaker 1: teeth for whatever that make sure. I gotta make sure

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Speaker 1: I keep my diamonds. Wi wait, you have diamonds in

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Speaker 1: your mouth? Yeah, I gotta father's diamonds, tennant tin you know. Okay,

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Speaker 1: You could see you on your on your local. You know,

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Speaker 1: I ain't gonna put all that out. I ain'tna say

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Speaker 1: see you, Mr marcel Is Brown, so ye okay, So

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Speaker 1: tell us a little bit about yourself for Charlotte, North Carolina,

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Speaker 1: um born and raised, you know, the East Side. Currently

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Speaker 1: at this time, I do a little bit of everything.

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Speaker 1: When they come out to the freelancing entrepreneurs beat this

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Speaker 1: out too easy. But yeah, I'm hot to man. I

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Speaker 1: could definitely sham somebody. Okay, after it's called, maybe we

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Speaker 1: could talk about some other things. Ship ship, Mr Brown.

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Speaker 1: All right, So the conversation at hand is, you know

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Speaker 1: so if the woman thinks that y'all in relationship, y'all

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Speaker 1: So you know I'm in a relationship. But in the situationship. Wait,

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Speaker 1: so you have one main relationship and then you have

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Speaker 1: pillow talk with these women? No, they just need to

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Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. And the biggest thing, yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: How did these women are? They range? You know my

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Speaker 1: And she she knows what's going on, but we don't

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Speaker 1: we just to maintain hold hot hope. But a lot

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Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. And she's a lot of things,

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Speaker 1: My old lady that she she went to school, you

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Speaker 1: better herself. But at the same time, she's born conservative,

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Speaker 1: so you get you have the fun girl, it's twenty

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Speaker 1: my girl, I fun, we have fun, we laughed, you

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Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. We're gonna little pick nicks and

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Speaker 1: it's not secret. No, the seed is involved, nobody's sneaking around.

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Speaker 1: That's it. So sorry, guys, No frivulous fucking this year.

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Speaker 1: How are you doing? Good? Good? Thank you for participating

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Speaker 1: today in our conversation about keeping your dick to yourself.

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Speaker 1: I want to look at so you don't keep all right,

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Speaker 1: bit about yourself, Nathan, Who are you like? Who are you?

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Speaker 1: What do you do? I'm a four year old guy,

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Speaker 1: um black, well to do a guy in the middle

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Speaker 1: Are you currently in a relationship? No? No, So I

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Speaker 1: But when I'm in a relationship, in general, I don't cheat.

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Speaker 1: I towards the end of my marriage, she became, uh,

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Speaker 1: I like that. I meantime, people will cheat because of right,

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Speaker 1: just you know, they're they're okay. But I just I

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00:25:24,920 --> 00:25:28,199
Speaker 1: think that that that I's not gonna gonna be, you know,

423
00:25:28,280 --> 00:25:31,600
Speaker 1: waking up to when I'm sixty. Um, probably not. So

424
00:25:31,800 --> 00:25:34,080
Speaker 1: she doesn't quite understand the struggles. She doesn't understand what

425
00:25:34,160 --> 00:25:35,960
Speaker 1: we go through. She doesn't quite get it. And so

426
00:25:36,080 --> 00:25:38,040
Speaker 1: while it could be a lot of fun, it's just

427
00:25:38,440 --> 00:25:44,679
Speaker 1: I it's a cultural difference, and and you know that's

428
00:25:44,680 --> 00:25:47,199
Speaker 1: gonna just kind of limit me from from reaching what

429
00:25:47,240 --> 00:25:49,840
Speaker 1: I want to do. So, UM, when you said, because

430
00:25:49,840 --> 00:25:53,439
Speaker 1: you said you have cheated, but generally you are exclusive.

431
00:25:53,760 --> 00:25:56,760
Speaker 1: When you made that decision to cheat, what what was

432
00:25:56,800 --> 00:25:59,600
Speaker 1: the thought process that allowed you to give yourself permission

433
00:25:59,640 --> 00:26:06,439
Speaker 1: to do Um? It was maker's market. No, I was

434
00:26:06,520 --> 00:26:09,080
Speaker 1: by the time that I started, like honestly cheating, I

435
00:26:09,119 --> 00:26:12,320
Speaker 1: had already moved out of my home. I was sleeping

436
00:26:12,359 --> 00:26:15,360
Speaker 1: in a hotel room. Um, because I was already separated

437
00:26:15,400 --> 00:26:17,679
Speaker 1: from my from my ex wife. I was like on

438
00:26:18,200 --> 00:26:21,679
Speaker 1: months to be living in a hotel and basically a

439
00:26:21,720 --> 00:26:23,840
Speaker 1: girl from work wanted to come over and have drinks

440
00:26:23,840 --> 00:26:25,960
Speaker 1: after work and and just hang out, and we ended

441
00:26:26,040 --> 00:26:29,440
Speaker 1: up taking too much. And so cheating wasn't the reason

442
00:26:29,560 --> 00:26:33,000
Speaker 1: you got divorced. It wasn't because of infidelity. No, No,

443
00:26:33,200 --> 00:26:35,760
Speaker 1: it was it was There's nobody that I went to

444
00:26:35,840 --> 00:26:38,880
Speaker 1: when I left my hope I was in your marriage.

445
00:26:39,000 --> 00:26:42,239
Speaker 1: Did you cheat on your before? No, There's never been

446
00:26:42,280 --> 00:26:44,560
Speaker 1: a day where I'm going over to my happy wife

447
00:26:44,560 --> 00:26:47,440
Speaker 1: when she's you know, we're in a relationship and I'm cheating,

448
00:26:47,480 --> 00:26:50,560
Speaker 1: I just goft another woman. That that never happened. Um.

449
00:26:50,600 --> 00:26:53,159
Speaker 1: Certainly when I was in a hotel room, Um, that

450
00:26:53,400 --> 00:26:55,320
Speaker 1: you know, that kind of started a whole different path,

451
00:26:55,520 --> 00:26:57,520
Speaker 1: was like, yeah, well I'm done with this relationship. Living

452
00:26:57,520 --> 00:27:00,560
Speaker 1: in a hotel gave you the opportunity. Basically, yeah, I

453
00:27:00,880 --> 00:27:03,600
Speaker 1: didn't happen. I was setting there and I'm a jacking

454
00:27:03,640 --> 00:27:06,160
Speaker 1: off on myself for you know. And and it wasn't

455
00:27:06,240 --> 00:27:08,960
Speaker 1: until that, you know, somebody else is a ball. And

456
00:27:08,960 --> 00:27:11,800
Speaker 1: then after that it became, um, it became more of

457
00:27:11,800 --> 00:27:14,119
Speaker 1: a regular current because I was like, you know, so,

458
00:27:14,240 --> 00:27:17,000
Speaker 1: let me ask you this, prior to you moving out

459
00:27:17,040 --> 00:27:19,520
Speaker 1: of the house, when was the last time you sucked

460
00:27:19,520 --> 00:27:22,760
Speaker 1: your wife before you went to that hotel, because obviously

461
00:27:23,400 --> 00:27:26,840
Speaker 1: out yeah, maybe it was some Uh, it's like we

462
00:27:26,840 --> 00:27:29,680
Speaker 1: don't like each other anymore. It starts for us mentally.

463
00:27:29,840 --> 00:27:33,280
Speaker 1: So if I'm unhappy my pussy now I didn't win. Yeah,

464
00:27:33,320 --> 00:27:37,120
Speaker 1: it's not damn that makes me Now, I'm just imagining,

465
00:27:37,280 --> 00:27:39,800
Speaker 1: just thinking about being in a marriage and feeling that way. Yeah,

466
00:27:40,760 --> 00:27:44,040
Speaker 1: how long were we married? Almost two years? Okay, wow,

467
00:27:44,119 --> 00:27:47,160
Speaker 1: so a long marriage. Well, I mean considerably because you're

468
00:27:47,200 --> 00:27:49,919
Speaker 1: only forty so that was a good portion of your

469
00:27:49,920 --> 00:27:52,320
Speaker 1: adult life. So let me ask you this. Do you

470
00:27:52,359 --> 00:27:54,760
Speaker 1: feel like because I heard you said you left, you

471
00:27:54,800 --> 00:27:57,560
Speaker 1: said back home, and now you're saying Atlanta, Um, do

472
00:27:57,600 --> 00:28:00,760
Speaker 1: you feel like dating in Atlanta is a different ball game? Um?

473
00:28:00,800 --> 00:28:06,960
Speaker 1: So I think Atlanta becomes a bad contil of ambition, misinformation,

474
00:28:07,280 --> 00:28:10,720
Speaker 1: and um, toxic feminism. And so we put all those

475
00:28:10,760 --> 00:28:14,120
Speaker 1: things together, that is dating in Atlanta. Um. And it's

476
00:28:14,160 --> 00:28:17,600
Speaker 1: a lot of very inbitious people here. Oh you know,

477
00:28:17,800 --> 00:28:20,080
Speaker 1: and we don't you don't have to be in a relationship.

478
00:28:20,119 --> 00:28:23,560
Speaker 1: And frankly, um, most of us are you know, we

479
00:28:23,840 --> 00:28:26,960
Speaker 1: wouldn't understand it, but we're all kind of polygue here

480
00:28:27,040 --> 00:28:29,440
Speaker 1: and it's and we and it's really uh, it's really

481
00:28:29,480 --> 00:28:31,440
Speaker 1: a thing that we kind of kind of step back

482
00:28:31,440 --> 00:28:34,720
Speaker 1: and look at. So when you say toxic feminism, it's

483
00:28:34,720 --> 00:28:39,479
Speaker 1: fine what that is for me? Um, So what does

484
00:28:39,480 --> 00:28:42,080
Speaker 1: it mean to you? Because to me, like it's like, uh,

485
00:28:42,160 --> 00:28:45,560
Speaker 1: too many alpha females in Atlanta, too many women that

486
00:28:45,680 --> 00:28:48,160
Speaker 1: may have their own So it's like, I don't need

487
00:28:48,200 --> 00:28:51,320
Speaker 1: a man type attitudes or well you want to encapculate

488
00:28:51,400 --> 00:28:53,080
Speaker 1: it that whole I don't need to I don't need

489
00:28:53,160 --> 00:28:55,520
Speaker 1: no man type of statement. That is a statement of

490
00:28:55,640 --> 00:28:59,200
Speaker 1: toxic feminism in my opinion, because you're you're saying, wow,

491
00:28:59,320 --> 00:29:01,239
Speaker 1: look at my last paycheck. That means I don't need

492
00:29:01,280 --> 00:29:04,479
Speaker 1: a man anymore because you've simplified the contribution to I'm

493
00:29:04,480 --> 00:29:07,800
Speaker 1: going to tell you just cry at night. Okay, they do.

494
00:29:09,080 --> 00:29:13,600
Speaker 1: And I'm because I have friends. I have a lot

495
00:29:13,600 --> 00:29:16,840
Speaker 1: of female friends that I fucking we're just female friends,

496
00:29:16,840 --> 00:29:19,640
Speaker 1: and I know that they have to struggle, right, And

497
00:29:19,640 --> 00:29:22,600
Speaker 1: I'm like, dude, you've been like to like, you gotta change.

498
00:29:22,600 --> 00:29:24,840
Speaker 1: You can't just think of men as a resource pool

499
00:29:24,920 --> 00:29:27,320
Speaker 1: for you. These their whole human beings that you're not.

500
00:29:27,400 --> 00:29:30,400
Speaker 1: You're interested in only one test of their life, and

501
00:29:30,480 --> 00:29:32,440
Speaker 1: so it's just the utility of man that wants to

502
00:29:32,480 --> 00:29:34,760
Speaker 1: be exported from them. You see a lot of that

503
00:29:34,920 --> 00:29:36,760
Speaker 1: here in the city, right, you see that, and the

504
00:29:36,800 --> 00:29:39,000
Speaker 1: women in this in this age, raams where they should

505
00:29:39,040 --> 00:29:41,160
Speaker 1: be the Becky's of the world, to figure out how

506
00:29:41,160 --> 00:29:43,600
Speaker 1: do I get married? And a lot of the black

507
00:29:43,640 --> 00:29:46,480
Speaker 1: women like how do I get rich? Right? And so

508
00:29:46,600 --> 00:29:50,120
Speaker 1: those are two different objectives. And so I don't know

509
00:29:50,160 --> 00:29:53,800
Speaker 1: how because all women are attracted to resources like no, no, no,

510
00:29:54,040 --> 00:29:56,280
Speaker 1: I'm talking about the Becky's are not trying to figure

511
00:29:56,320 --> 00:29:58,040
Speaker 1: out how they're going to do. I'm not saying that

512
00:29:58,080 --> 00:30:00,360
Speaker 1: women should not be do whatever they want to. I'm

513
00:30:00,400 --> 00:30:02,440
Speaker 1: not saying that. I'm saying that if you're if you're

514
00:30:02,480 --> 00:30:06,720
Speaker 1: not focused on a partnering at certain points in your life,

515
00:30:06,760 --> 00:30:08,720
Speaker 1: women will run out of what they will be more

516
00:30:08,760 --> 00:30:11,080
Speaker 1: complicated for you later. And I'm saying that there's a

517
00:30:11,120 --> 00:30:13,800
Speaker 1: lot of that happening with with women right now in

518
00:30:13,840 --> 00:30:16,160
Speaker 1: the city. And you know, I just I'm from out

519
00:30:16,200 --> 00:30:18,680
Speaker 1: of town. You've been through four years now, and I

520
00:30:19,120 --> 00:30:22,120
Speaker 1: can just see it's a different thing because you know,

521
00:30:22,160 --> 00:30:24,720
Speaker 1: they will they have their their their money and their

522
00:30:24,760 --> 00:30:27,280
Speaker 1: businesses and stuff like that, but they don't have relationships.

523
00:30:27,320 --> 00:30:28,960
Speaker 1: And it makes me sad. It makes and it's going

524
00:30:29,040 --> 00:30:31,040
Speaker 1: to be that can be good for our people, and

525
00:30:31,080 --> 00:30:33,280
Speaker 1: that is what I'm talking about, and that's what I'm about,

526
00:30:33,360 --> 00:30:35,680
Speaker 1: is how do I be better our people? And I

527
00:30:35,720 --> 00:30:37,520
Speaker 1: don't and I don't think that's good when women have

528
00:30:37,680 --> 00:30:41,480
Speaker 1: chosen to not see men for partners but just resources

529
00:30:41,480 --> 00:30:43,960
Speaker 1: that they can use for occasionally. So when I lived

530
00:30:43,960 --> 00:30:45,760
Speaker 1: in Atlanta, but I lived in Atlanta for some time

531
00:30:45,880 --> 00:30:48,880
Speaker 1: in my late journies, and it was the loneliest time

532
00:30:48,920 --> 00:30:51,600
Speaker 1: in my life, like because I realized there are just

533
00:30:51,640 --> 00:30:53,840
Speaker 1: a couple of different types of men in Atlanta you

534
00:30:53,920 --> 00:30:57,080
Speaker 1: have the hetero sexual bumass niggers and to come live

535
00:30:57,120 --> 00:30:59,360
Speaker 1: at your house. Then you have the hetero sexual guy

536
00:30:59,360 --> 00:31:01,160
Speaker 1: who has its whole shipped together. But then he has

537
00:31:01,200 --> 00:31:05,480
Speaker 1: a choice thirty different women. Um, you got to compete with,

538
00:31:05,600 --> 00:31:07,880
Speaker 1: and then you have the gay men, and then you

539
00:31:07,920 --> 00:31:10,600
Speaker 1: know all these other little people in between. But so

540
00:31:10,800 --> 00:31:13,720
Speaker 1: as a woman, you're getting your own money. I think

541
00:31:13,760 --> 00:31:17,080
Speaker 1: that black men sometimes have a misconception of exactly what

542
00:31:17,120 --> 00:31:19,920
Speaker 1: black women want. Like some Black women just yeah, I

543
00:31:19,960 --> 00:31:21,320
Speaker 1: want somebody to take care of me and I want

544
00:31:21,320 --> 00:31:22,640
Speaker 1: to keep my money. A lot of people do have

545
00:31:22,680 --> 00:31:24,720
Speaker 1: the attitude. They'll well they don't say that, right, but

546
00:31:24,760 --> 00:31:26,800
Speaker 1: they really don't live their lives like that because nine

547
00:31:26,840 --> 00:31:28,120
Speaker 1: times of the time they could be taking care of

548
00:31:28,160 --> 00:31:32,360
Speaker 1: a nigga similar. But um, we want we want a partner,

549
00:31:32,440 --> 00:31:35,560
Speaker 1: that I would want a partner, not just somebody that

550
00:31:35,720 --> 00:31:39,240
Speaker 1: I'm running through the check you know. So why but

551
00:31:39,320 --> 00:31:42,240
Speaker 1: then they're to white women, they are raised and they

552
00:31:42,280 --> 00:31:45,360
Speaker 1: practice hypergamy. But for whatever reason, for Black women, we

553
00:31:45,400 --> 00:31:53,640
Speaker 1: don't have that option. I don't know what that basically Okay, okay,

554
00:31:53,800 --> 00:31:58,000
Speaker 1: someone would say men are naturally polyamorous. Um, some would

555
00:31:58,000 --> 00:32:01,760
Speaker 1: say women are naturally hyper and meaning that men want

556
00:32:01,760 --> 00:32:04,640
Speaker 1: to funk around spread their seeds or in life, women

557
00:32:04,840 --> 00:32:07,600
Speaker 1: because they want to suck as as the highest status

558
00:32:07,640 --> 00:32:10,680
Speaker 1: male as possible. And so that is whatever they can

559
00:32:10,680 --> 00:32:13,200
Speaker 1: get their hands on whenever they can they want, that's

560
00:32:13,200 --> 00:32:15,800
Speaker 1: who they want to be with is the highest drivers man.

561
00:32:15,920 --> 00:32:18,520
Speaker 1: And why is that? Because I can create, you know,

562
00:32:18,760 --> 00:32:21,080
Speaker 1: come twenty times in a day where you used to

563
00:32:21,120 --> 00:32:24,280
Speaker 1: be able to probably can't do it more. But but

564
00:32:24,360 --> 00:32:27,040
Speaker 1: women can't make twenty babies in a day, right, you

565
00:32:27,120 --> 00:32:29,560
Speaker 1: get times you'll be able to make twenty babies in

566
00:32:29,600 --> 00:32:31,920
Speaker 1: this world. So you have to make choices around where

567
00:32:32,000 --> 00:32:34,200
Speaker 1: you put your wound. Do you want to align your

568
00:32:34,240 --> 00:32:38,240
Speaker 1: wound to the highest value mail that can help north

569
00:32:38,320 --> 00:32:40,800
Speaker 1: child the best chances of success in this world? And

570
00:32:40,880 --> 00:32:43,640
Speaker 1: that's all it is. And I'm not mad about hypergnmy

571
00:32:43,720 --> 00:32:46,160
Speaker 1: and I'm not mad about I think more women, based

572
00:32:46,200 --> 00:32:48,440
Speaker 1: on what you're like, I know what a hypergnmy is,

573
00:32:48,520 --> 00:32:51,600
Speaker 1: and more women need to practice hypergumy because if we did,

574
00:32:51,600 --> 00:32:54,040
Speaker 1: because we set the standards right, more men would be

575
00:32:54,160 --> 00:32:57,480
Speaker 1: successful exactly and children would be taken care of. We

576
00:32:57,520 --> 00:33:00,520
Speaker 1: wouldn't be having just just having a baby. Fan anybody.

577
00:33:00,720 --> 00:33:03,320
Speaker 1: I can't even argue with your descriptions the categories of men.

578
00:33:03,600 --> 00:33:06,840
Speaker 1: That's a good roundbout with thinking those couch flovers, you

579
00:33:06,880 --> 00:33:10,200
Speaker 1: know they go for wood counsel with others because is

580
00:33:10,800 --> 00:33:15,840
Speaker 1: you know. And that was so good, Nathan eas thank

581
00:33:15,920 --> 00:33:18,560
Speaker 1: you for joining us, and we'd love to have you back.

582
00:33:19,040 --> 00:33:23,480
Speaker 1: One more thing on your treating cheat. So he didn't

583
00:33:23,520 --> 00:33:26,640
Speaker 1: really cheat, I mean he didn't really talk about cheating

584
00:33:26,720 --> 00:33:28,840
Speaker 1: maybe in another relationship. But he spoke about how he

585
00:33:28,920 --> 00:33:32,280
Speaker 1: was married for teen years and sorry, yeah, so I

586
00:33:32,280 --> 00:33:34,720
Speaker 1: mean that count he was still married, so that means

587
00:33:34,760 --> 00:33:38,840
Speaker 1: he's just cheating, right, And he basically said because he

588
00:33:39,560 --> 00:33:42,880
Speaker 1: basically the relationship was over, even though the paperwork wasn't done,

589
00:33:43,040 --> 00:33:45,240
Speaker 1: the relationship was over and that's how he gave himself

590
00:33:45,320 --> 00:33:48,760
Speaker 1: permission to cheat. Do you think that holds value? Like?

591
00:33:48,840 --> 00:33:51,760
Speaker 1: I guess that makes sense for me. She probably didn't

592
00:33:51,760 --> 00:33:54,280
Speaker 1: give a funk no more either, and neither party is

593
00:33:54,360 --> 00:33:56,880
Speaker 1: in it. Yeah, and especially if a man ain't been

594
00:33:56,880 --> 00:33:59,320
Speaker 1: at home for two months, right, that's not your man.

595
00:33:59,360 --> 00:34:05,240
Speaker 1: He butted to the streets exactly wherever he had. But

596
00:34:05,560 --> 00:34:08,399
Speaker 1: out of the two guys we've heard so far, if

597
00:34:08,440 --> 00:34:10,640
Speaker 1: I had to kill, like funk with one of them.

598
00:34:10,680 --> 00:34:14,360
Speaker 1: It would be corporate bro. I think all right, listen,

599
00:34:14,400 --> 00:34:17,919
Speaker 1: I would funk with the corporate nigga and then oh

600
00:34:18,000 --> 00:34:23,960
Speaker 1: boy would be my side nigga. Shame. I don't want

601
00:34:23,960 --> 00:34:27,680
Speaker 1: no parts to that. I'm jumping street nigga man street niggas.

602
00:34:28,280 --> 00:34:30,279
Speaker 1: I know. But if I was a twenty four year

603
00:34:30,280 --> 00:34:32,919
Speaker 1: old fund girl, Hell yeah, I'm near and I don't

604
00:34:32,920 --> 00:34:35,360
Speaker 1: give a ship about your responsibilities at home. I'm running

605
00:34:35,360 --> 00:34:39,600
Speaker 1: to check up and damn vip like my favorite is

606
00:34:39,760 --> 00:34:43,319
Speaker 1: a corporate street nigga. Yes, I love hood niggas that

607
00:34:43,400 --> 00:34:47,719
Speaker 1: made it. They just treat you so nice that you're

608
00:34:47,760 --> 00:34:49,760
Speaker 1: just so nice. And even if they did, like maybe

609
00:34:49,760 --> 00:34:53,479
Speaker 1: three years in prison also just three now a little

610
00:34:53,480 --> 00:34:56,839
Speaker 1: bit more than that. They kind of need therapy. Ud

611
00:34:56,920 --> 00:35:00,080
Speaker 1: niggas who come home with the plan and yeah, I

612
00:35:00,160 --> 00:35:04,080
Speaker 1: like hooding examine it also my favorite time. But they

613
00:35:04,360 --> 00:35:07,680
Speaker 1: like they like the smoke weed too. They're not too stuffy,

614
00:35:08,000 --> 00:35:10,000
Speaker 1: but they're not like they still want to get up

615
00:35:10,040 --> 00:35:12,919
Speaker 1: and go work the next day. It's great for me.

616
00:35:14,360 --> 00:35:17,359
Speaker 1: So what do you think about are I call him?

617
00:35:17,360 --> 00:35:20,560
Speaker 1: I'm calling him high value? What do you think about him?

618
00:35:20,920 --> 00:35:24,240
Speaker 1: Um in his situation. I don't know why I'm receiving bitter,

619
00:35:24,600 --> 00:35:30,000
Speaker 1: a little little little hard, just a little maybe a

620
00:35:30,000 --> 00:35:33,600
Speaker 1: little jaded perhaps, No, I just I was receiving that

621
00:35:33,760 --> 00:35:37,960
Speaker 1: in the spirit. I didn't get that. I thought he

622
00:35:38,000 --> 00:35:40,359
Speaker 1: was a responsible man. You know what I'm saying. He's

623
00:35:40,400 --> 00:35:41,920
Speaker 1: singles and now he's doing what he want to do.

624
00:35:42,000 --> 00:35:44,400
Speaker 1: And he said he's the super whole. Now as long

625
00:35:44,440 --> 00:35:48,000
Speaker 1: as you know other people feelings involved. But can you

626
00:35:48,040 --> 00:35:51,680
Speaker 1: really be a superhole and nobody's feelings are involved? I

627
00:35:51,680 --> 00:35:54,319
Speaker 1: guess it depends on how you dealing with them, how

628
00:35:54,440 --> 00:35:56,799
Speaker 1: how you sucking them. So that kind of leads us

629
00:35:56,800 --> 00:36:01,960
Speaker 1: to the next conversation. Listen up, hi, this is a

630
00:36:02,120 --> 00:36:04,360
Speaker 1: J and Tamba And when we talked back, thank you

631
00:36:04,440 --> 00:36:10,440
Speaker 1: so much for participating in this experiment with dis experiment

632
00:36:10,480 --> 00:36:14,279
Speaker 1: with these niggers. Right, so we want to ask you

633
00:36:14,320 --> 00:36:18,000
Speaker 1: just like some questions about you, your relationship with your

634
00:36:18,040 --> 00:36:26,000
Speaker 1: dick and others. Okay, all right, so first, uh just

635
00:36:26,040 --> 00:36:29,080
Speaker 1: tell us a little bit about yourself, ezra Um. Well,

636
00:36:29,640 --> 00:36:33,760
Speaker 1: I'm an executive at my company and I graduated college,

637
00:36:33,800 --> 00:36:35,520
Speaker 1: kind of moved around on the dout West and I

638
00:36:35,600 --> 00:36:38,399
Speaker 1: live on the on the East Coast. Now, so I'm

639
00:36:38,440 --> 00:36:42,040
Speaker 1: a black gay male, so I've been in rights for

640
00:36:42,160 --> 00:36:45,000
Speaker 1: females and with and with I'm a guys. I'm a

641
00:36:45,040 --> 00:36:48,480
Speaker 1: little bit diversed in my dating population. Which do you

642
00:36:48,600 --> 00:36:56,960
Speaker 1: prefer guys? For sure? Yeah? Yes, it's my personal favorite.

643
00:36:57,800 --> 00:37:02,239
Speaker 1: Definitely need more. So we're just going to ask you

644
00:37:02,280 --> 00:37:06,160
Speaker 1: like a series of questions. The first one, all right, first,

645
00:37:06,280 --> 00:37:08,840
Speaker 1: I was what was your last When was his last

646
00:37:09,480 --> 00:37:13,440
Speaker 1: serious relationship? I'm currently in a relationship. I'm not currently

647
00:37:13,480 --> 00:37:16,640
Speaker 1: in a relationship. I just got out of a relationship yesterday,

648
00:37:16,840 --> 00:37:27,120
Speaker 1: so congratulations. I don't know middle things to my old

649
00:37:27,160 --> 00:37:32,480
Speaker 1: life before night, it was like, uh like three years ago,

650
00:37:32,680 --> 00:37:35,399
Speaker 1: and that's the last person a couple of years ago.

651
00:37:35,600 --> 00:37:39,640
Speaker 1: So question, have you ever cheated? Yeah, I've cheated them,

652
00:37:39,680 --> 00:37:43,400
Speaker 1: been cheated on, so I know I know boths Okay, facts,

653
00:37:43,960 --> 00:37:49,520
Speaker 1: I've never cheated. I'm innocent. But when when you decided

654
00:37:49,680 --> 00:37:53,160
Speaker 1: to cheat? How did you give yourself permission to do that? Like?

655
00:37:53,640 --> 00:37:55,480
Speaker 1: What was the thought that was, like, you know what,

656
00:37:55,760 --> 00:37:58,879
Speaker 1: I'm about to go do this? Um? For me, I

657
00:37:58,920 --> 00:38:01,920
Speaker 1: was kind of like the provider in that relationship, you know,

658
00:38:02,000 --> 00:38:03,880
Speaker 1: I was taking care of all of this I was like,

659
00:38:03,920 --> 00:38:05,560
Speaker 1: for lotting at the house of staying and I'll pay

660
00:38:05,640 --> 00:38:07,360
Speaker 1: for two cars. Like I had a lot of ships

661
00:38:07,400 --> 00:38:09,560
Speaker 1: that I'm taking care of as a man take care

662
00:38:09,560 --> 00:38:12,759
Speaker 1: of another man especially gets real real quick. And then

663
00:38:12,760 --> 00:38:14,760
Speaker 1: when it came downtime to like, you know, I'm coming

664
00:38:14,760 --> 00:38:16,600
Speaker 1: home from work or I had to work like an

665
00:38:16,600 --> 00:38:18,319
Speaker 1: hour and a half. But where I live, so I'm

666
00:38:18,320 --> 00:38:20,160
Speaker 1: coming home from work, you don't have like ship together.

667
00:38:20,239 --> 00:38:22,000
Speaker 1: You don't have like the house and order, you ain't

668
00:38:22,040 --> 00:38:25,239
Speaker 1: cooking nothing like what value or got into my life.

669
00:38:25,280 --> 00:38:27,120
Speaker 1: So when I'd be at work, you know, and people

670
00:38:27,120 --> 00:38:30,239
Speaker 1: showing me love and attention and affection and like, you know,

671
00:38:30,480 --> 00:38:32,560
Speaker 1: I'm at a place at work where people are like

672
00:38:32,680 --> 00:38:34,799
Speaker 1: spending on me and I feel good. I was like,

673
00:38:34,800 --> 00:38:36,400
Speaker 1: I want to do that. And I ended up like

674
00:38:36,480 --> 00:38:38,319
Speaker 1: working with a guy in the city that I was

675
00:38:38,320 --> 00:38:41,480
Speaker 1: working in just because I like nice stuff too. So

676
00:38:41,520 --> 00:38:45,000
Speaker 1: you basically yeah, so because because I've been in a

677
00:38:45,040 --> 00:38:47,120
Speaker 1: situation like that before and it does kind of put you.

678
00:38:47,320 --> 00:38:49,239
Speaker 1: And I'm a woman head of sexual and I was

679
00:38:49,280 --> 00:38:51,840
Speaker 1: in a relationship with a man at the time and

680
00:38:51,960 --> 00:38:55,680
Speaker 1: he wasn't doing much. I understand that. So if you

681
00:38:55,840 --> 00:38:58,399
Speaker 1: wear the pants. You think you can just go cheat.

682
00:38:58,520 --> 00:39:00,720
Speaker 1: I don't think yes said that you can in goo cheat.

683
00:39:00,800 --> 00:39:03,040
Speaker 1: I think that if you're not if something's not being

684
00:39:03,080 --> 00:39:05,319
Speaker 1: satisfied in your life, like now, I've been through like

685
00:39:05,520 --> 00:39:07,600
Speaker 1: therapy and ship, so I would know to like talk

686
00:39:07,640 --> 00:39:10,919
Speaker 1: about it and say, like be more vocal and say like, Yo,

687
00:39:11,120 --> 00:39:13,120
Speaker 1: this isn't working for me because once to three and

688
00:39:13,239 --> 00:39:16,160
Speaker 1: four vertu like just being upset about it coming home

689
00:39:16,160 --> 00:39:18,360
Speaker 1: and like flipping out and then when I get the

690
00:39:18,440 --> 00:39:20,560
Speaker 1: chance to get what I want getting it elsewhere, Like

691
00:39:20,600 --> 00:39:22,279
Speaker 1: I could have just talked about it. Because the sex

692
00:39:22,320 --> 00:39:24,800
Speaker 1: at home was good, as we had really good sects,

693
00:39:24,920 --> 00:39:27,399
Speaker 1: like every time we did hook up, like that's part

694
00:39:27,400 --> 00:39:29,640
Speaker 1: of the reason why I stayed. It actually good. But

695
00:39:29,960 --> 00:39:32,000
Speaker 1: with everything else, I just wasn't getting a full picture.

696
00:39:32,080 --> 00:39:34,160
Speaker 1: So I just got that from from somebody else who

697
00:39:34,160 --> 00:39:36,200
Speaker 1: could give it to me. So it was just about

698
00:39:36,239 --> 00:39:39,320
Speaker 1: the stuff that made you step out. It wasn't say

699
00:39:39,560 --> 00:39:43,680
Speaker 1: it was material things that was missing from relationship. You

700
00:39:43,680 --> 00:39:45,799
Speaker 1: can't say like material ship because I don't know. I'm

701
00:39:45,840 --> 00:39:48,319
Speaker 1: not the kind of person that needs material things as much.

702
00:39:48,440 --> 00:39:52,000
Speaker 1: It was more so the level of affection and like hustle,

703
00:39:52,160 --> 00:39:54,520
Speaker 1: like that was an attractive traite to me, and I wasn't.

704
00:39:54,719 --> 00:39:56,960
Speaker 1: I was losing that attraction from my partner. So I

705
00:39:57,040 --> 00:39:59,800
Speaker 1: found it in somebody else who was hustling on the

706
00:40:00,040 --> 00:40:02,200
Speaker 1: on and you know that that was attractive to me,

707
00:40:02,200 --> 00:40:04,040
Speaker 1: and I was able to get that versus at home.

708
00:40:04,320 --> 00:40:06,000
Speaker 1: I'm coming home and y'all lady asked me to the

709
00:40:06,000 --> 00:40:07,919
Speaker 1: house all day, like you know, you like, we ain't

710
00:40:07,920 --> 00:40:09,239
Speaker 1: got no kids, how you have to like to stay

711
00:40:09,239 --> 00:40:13,560
Speaker 1: at home mom? But you never had so. Through therapy

712
00:40:13,600 --> 00:40:16,879
Speaker 1: after the situation, you learned how to then communicate your

713
00:40:17,000 --> 00:40:20,799
Speaker 1: feelings better. So then at that time, you didn't communicate

714
00:40:20,840 --> 00:40:23,480
Speaker 1: to the person you were with how you felt and

715
00:40:23,520 --> 00:40:26,880
Speaker 1: how they weren't meeting whatever expectations you had for them.

716
00:40:26,920 --> 00:40:29,320
Speaker 1: You didn't communicate that. You just went out and slept

717
00:40:29,320 --> 00:40:31,640
Speaker 1: with somebody else to complete your happiness. I mean we

718
00:40:31,760 --> 00:40:35,440
Speaker 1: had some conversation, like I would express my frustrations in

719
00:40:35,520 --> 00:40:38,040
Speaker 1: general about like the fact that you're not on your ship,

720
00:40:38,480 --> 00:40:41,440
Speaker 1: and then I would say like, well, you know, I'm

721
00:40:41,520 --> 00:40:43,279
Speaker 1: kind of can be kind of an asshote sometimes, so

722
00:40:43,320 --> 00:40:45,080
Speaker 1: I was like, well, you know, like somebody will make

723
00:40:45,080 --> 00:40:47,120
Speaker 1: sure I'm straight and just laugh it off. Like a

724
00:40:47,160 --> 00:40:49,560
Speaker 1: little joke. So I kind of like alluding to that,

725
00:40:50,400 --> 00:40:54,879
Speaker 1: but it wasn't a joke, right, do what I need

726
00:40:55,120 --> 00:40:58,719
Speaker 1: most to it? They do, and mine definitely packed a

727
00:40:58,840 --> 00:41:02,480
Speaker 1: big punch because I definitely you like, yeah, get my

728
00:41:02,560 --> 00:41:15,800
Speaker 1: dicks up. You ain't right. I feel like that's even trade,

729
00:41:15,800 --> 00:41:18,480
Speaker 1: like if you ain't done for twelve hours whatever I

730
00:41:18,520 --> 00:41:23,920
Speaker 1: want to. Did you possess any guilt? Um? Yeah, I

731
00:41:23,960 --> 00:41:26,279
Speaker 1: felt bad because I had to come home. You know,

732
00:41:26,320 --> 00:41:31,800
Speaker 1: I think it wasn't like out yeah, da, I felt

733
00:41:31,800 --> 00:41:34,560
Speaker 1: bad because I had to come home, like in the

734
00:41:35,000 --> 00:41:37,759
Speaker 1: spence like I just got my di and now I'm

735
00:41:37,760 --> 00:41:39,319
Speaker 1: about to come home to you. It's about to kiss

736
00:41:39,320 --> 00:41:41,960
Speaker 1: me my face, Like that's that's kind of sucked up, Like,

737
00:41:42,239 --> 00:41:44,520
Speaker 1: well let's do that. You You know you possessed the

738
00:41:44,520 --> 00:41:47,480
Speaker 1: guilt because some nig is like sleep peacefully after they

739
00:41:47,480 --> 00:41:54,680
Speaker 1: got come home and you too, right, they ain't even been. Yeah.

740
00:41:54,760 --> 00:41:56,839
Speaker 1: I did some of that too. I got that, like

741
00:41:58,760 --> 00:42:01,719
Speaker 1: when you come home and fitching about like how you

742
00:42:01,719 --> 00:42:03,560
Speaker 1: ain't do nothing all this time? Did you come home

743
00:42:03,600 --> 00:42:06,000
Speaker 1: that one time you're cheated? You come home and then

744
00:42:06,000 --> 00:42:07,520
Speaker 1: and clean the house, put the meal. I got the

745
00:42:07,520 --> 00:42:10,960
Speaker 1: whole situation together and you're like, and they want to

746
00:42:11,000 --> 00:42:13,520
Speaker 1: like funk with you right then, you know, because they're

747
00:42:13,640 --> 00:42:16,239
Speaker 1: working up to it. So it's like, I just you

748
00:42:16,280 --> 00:42:18,120
Speaker 1: gotta be able to get it back up, so it's

749
00:42:18,120 --> 00:42:23,080
Speaker 1: not ideal. Yeah, did you did you build a relationship

750
00:42:23,120 --> 00:42:26,719
Speaker 1: with your outside partner or was it just you know,

751
00:42:26,800 --> 00:42:28,840
Speaker 1: like it is what it is and I see you

752
00:42:28,920 --> 00:42:30,960
Speaker 1: later this ain't that and that ain't this, so don't

753
00:42:30,960 --> 00:42:33,720
Speaker 1: get too caught up. Or was it like y'all started

754
00:42:33,760 --> 00:42:37,200
Speaker 1: building an emotional connection perhaps, I mean bro had a

755
00:42:37,239 --> 00:42:42,600
Speaker 1: whole girlfriend like situation and we both were traveling for

756
00:42:42,680 --> 00:42:46,400
Speaker 1: work in town. It was like that was my niggawn

757
00:42:46,480 --> 00:42:50,480
Speaker 1: something else. So wait, so that makes it all right?

758
00:42:50,520 --> 00:42:52,720
Speaker 1: So maybe this tell me if this term is correct,

759
00:42:52,840 --> 00:42:55,680
Speaker 1: that would make him a trade. A trade. Yes, so

760
00:42:55,719 --> 00:42:59,000
Speaker 1: he wasn't openly bisexual to his girl. No, he wasn't

761
00:42:59,000 --> 00:43:06,520
Speaker 1: open to nobody at all. We actually met the hotel,

762
00:43:06,680 --> 00:43:09,600
Speaker 1: like we were at the hotel, like he was traveling,

763
00:43:09,600 --> 00:43:11,239
Speaker 1: I was traveling, was at the bar and like, so

764
00:43:11,560 --> 00:43:13,719
Speaker 1: I'm aggressive with my shots. I'll just be like, yo,

765
00:43:13,760 --> 00:43:15,680
Speaker 1: would not be cool, like we should hang out? And

766
00:43:15,840 --> 00:43:17,680
Speaker 1: did We just hung out and he started like you

767
00:43:17,719 --> 00:43:19,760
Speaker 1: know he had a better job to need. In general,

768
00:43:19,800 --> 00:43:21,719
Speaker 1: he was just a bean, you know, who was taking

769
00:43:21,760 --> 00:43:24,120
Speaker 1: care of peace and whatever form that was. So that

770
00:43:24,200 --> 00:43:26,200
Speaker 1: was attracted to me that you know. So we're up

771
00:43:26,200 --> 00:43:27,960
Speaker 1: in town, we were working around, and we go back

772
00:43:28,000 --> 00:43:31,440
Speaker 1: to our houses and it is what it is. That's

773
00:43:31,480 --> 00:43:37,440
Speaker 1: so fu scary man trying to figure out okay, because

774
00:43:37,440 --> 00:43:39,680
Speaker 1: this is going into something different. I'm trying to figure

775
00:43:39,680 --> 00:43:41,720
Speaker 1: out the and I guess this is not a question

776
00:43:41,760 --> 00:43:44,239
Speaker 1: for you. We have to find somebody who is a

777
00:43:44,320 --> 00:43:47,360
Speaker 1: trade basically because I want to understand their dot process

778
00:43:47,400 --> 00:43:50,719
Speaker 1: when with the same sex. That's a different episode. Well

779
00:43:50,800 --> 00:43:54,640
Speaker 1: not definitely took you up for the next episode. Please yes, nigger,

780
00:43:55,120 --> 00:44:00,319
Speaker 1: please the real yes, okay, And they're not who you

781
00:44:00,320 --> 00:44:03,200
Speaker 1: think they are. I already know. I already know already

782
00:44:03,360 --> 00:44:06,080
Speaker 1: because everybody like the things like light skinned, green eyes,

783
00:44:06,120 --> 00:44:13,000
Speaker 1: the gay guy know the trade is omar from wire

784
00:44:13,280 --> 00:44:16,960
Speaker 1: or the nigger riding around here with the don't right

785
00:44:17,000 --> 00:44:20,400
Speaker 1: here and I'm about to brown thin muscles like you

786
00:44:20,520 --> 00:44:22,759
Speaker 1: know this stuff, like you know, every girl I know

787
00:44:22,800 --> 00:44:25,960
Speaker 1: was won the interesting What do you think you were

788
00:44:26,160 --> 00:44:30,240
Speaker 1: a different person in the affair to the outside partner,

789
00:44:30,320 --> 00:44:33,240
Speaker 1: like were you the same at home with this person

790
00:44:33,400 --> 00:44:36,680
Speaker 1: or did you display a different side of yourself to him,

791
00:44:36,680 --> 00:44:40,360
Speaker 1: Like were you more the submissive with the trade? I

792
00:44:40,400 --> 00:44:43,319
Speaker 1: mean not really because at the same time like the

793
00:44:43,400 --> 00:44:45,759
Speaker 1: trade to think about them, and they usually want you

794
00:44:45,840 --> 00:44:47,719
Speaker 1: to be like the man when they comes like the

795
00:44:47,840 --> 00:44:50,920
Speaker 1: bedroom stuff, like they really like Yeah, in the city,

796
00:44:51,040 --> 00:44:53,279
Speaker 1: like around town, they're giving off like I'm a man,

797
00:44:53,320 --> 00:44:56,160
Speaker 1: I'm a man. But when they get in that bedroom

798
00:44:56,200 --> 00:44:59,200
Speaker 1: down like they turned into a whole ldy. So you know,

799
00:45:01,760 --> 00:45:04,200
Speaker 1: I was still that I was running it either way sextually,

800
00:45:04,280 --> 00:45:06,080
Speaker 1: but when it came to like when we went out

801
00:45:06,120 --> 00:45:08,680
Speaker 1: to dinner or something like that, he's running now, you know.

802
00:45:08,800 --> 00:45:11,160
Speaker 1: So it's like he was the dude out quote unquote

803
00:45:11,160 --> 00:45:14,760
Speaker 1: to Doude in the in the street, at the hotel

804
00:45:14,840 --> 00:45:19,520
Speaker 1: room he was. He was the girl. Interesting. Interesting. See,

805
00:45:20,560 --> 00:45:23,120
Speaker 1: I'm gonna stay here for everybody. You know, I would

806
00:45:23,280 --> 00:45:27,160
Speaker 1: kill my nigga if I found out that he was

807
00:45:27,239 --> 00:45:31,840
Speaker 1: getting you feel bad if he was doing yes really

808
00:45:31,880 --> 00:45:34,759
Speaker 1: to a woman. Oh either way, I'm mad. It's the

809
00:45:34,880 --> 00:45:39,120
Speaker 1: nigga and not another woman. But to insult the injury,

810
00:45:39,200 --> 00:45:41,560
Speaker 1: not only are you working with another nigga, but you're

811
00:45:41,600 --> 00:45:48,280
Speaker 1: also getting fun. Yeah, it's crazy. We don't talk anymore

812
00:45:48,320 --> 00:45:50,560
Speaker 1: because the way I got caught cheating is that niggating

813
00:45:50,840 --> 00:45:55,400
Speaker 1: stp Wait so wait all right, we got unity the trade.

814
00:45:55,480 --> 00:45:57,640
Speaker 1: The trade gave me st Did you pass it on

815
00:45:57,719 --> 00:46:01,080
Speaker 1: to your partner at home? I did, and that's how

816
00:46:01,120 --> 00:46:03,480
Speaker 1: you got caught. That's how I got caught. And what

817
00:46:03,600 --> 00:46:07,480
Speaker 1: was the conversation that name? Hey, my dick is burning

818
00:46:07,480 --> 00:46:11,360
Speaker 1: a little bit, but I didn't say nothing at first.

819
00:46:11,400 --> 00:46:14,640
Speaker 1: I woke up and I was like, this ain't the thing, right.

820
00:46:15,239 --> 00:46:17,080
Speaker 1: I went to head and went to the urgent care,

821
00:46:17,160 --> 00:46:19,000
Speaker 1: you know, I got checked out and they told me

822
00:46:19,040 --> 00:46:21,520
Speaker 1: I had gone a real I was like, because I

823
00:46:21,560 --> 00:46:24,120
Speaker 1: knew I had just like both of my main like

824
00:46:24,200 --> 00:46:26,120
Speaker 1: my like to do that with me. So I knew

825
00:46:26,160 --> 00:46:27,719
Speaker 1: I had just had sex with him. I was like, dang,

826
00:46:27,800 --> 00:46:29,920
Speaker 1: that means he probably got it. I gotta tell him.

827
00:46:29,960 --> 00:46:31,799
Speaker 1: And O Loki was scheming on like if I was

828
00:46:31,800 --> 00:46:34,000
Speaker 1: gonna just like get extra pills and just like put

829
00:46:34,080 --> 00:46:35,839
Speaker 1: him in a smoothie or something. So I didn't want

830
00:46:35,840 --> 00:46:42,759
Speaker 1: to have that. I was like doing playing bees. Probably right,

831
00:46:44,719 --> 00:46:49,080
Speaker 1: you want another mimosa, Right, I'm gonna make that. I

832
00:46:49,200 --> 00:46:53,480
Speaker 1: think I saw the pizza. Now, yeah, stop babysitting there.

833
00:46:53,520 --> 00:46:56,640
Speaker 1: Drink drink. That ship read seventy two hours, right, and

834
00:46:56,719 --> 00:47:01,960
Speaker 1: we got one more hour before I with daddy, right,

835
00:47:02,160 --> 00:47:03,759
Speaker 1: you know. But then the doctor told me how to

836
00:47:03,760 --> 00:47:08,040
Speaker 1: get like a shot to what I'm shot. We had

837
00:47:08,080 --> 00:47:14,839
Speaker 1: that nigga from the back and stabbing in the button, yeah,

838
00:47:15,640 --> 00:47:19,440
Speaker 1: I said, I just like accused him of cheating. Oh wow,

839
00:47:20,160 --> 00:47:26,560
Speaker 1: I was on the most Yeah, that was what boy behavior.

840
00:47:26,719 --> 00:47:30,560
Speaker 1: And then he probably got it from his bitch who

841
00:47:30,640 --> 00:47:33,560
Speaker 1: was getting some dick on the side too. Yeah. I

842
00:47:33,600 --> 00:47:36,120
Speaker 1: actually did tell him, but he like after that, he

843
00:47:36,239 --> 00:47:42,720
Speaker 1: just ghosted because you're gonna give me leave me along creek.

844
00:47:44,640 --> 00:47:46,759
Speaker 1: That made me feel like he knew he had something, right,

845
00:47:46,960 --> 00:47:48,600
Speaker 1: we knew. I really feel like he knew it. But

846
00:47:48,640 --> 00:47:50,719
Speaker 1: I mean, at the same time, like I did appreciate

847
00:47:50,719 --> 00:47:53,200
Speaker 1: the great sex for that time, for that like conference,

848
00:47:53,239 --> 00:47:55,400
Speaker 1: So I mean the probace you pay for being a

849
00:47:55,440 --> 00:47:58,840
Speaker 1: home no more. I just have one bit of advice.

850
00:47:59,719 --> 00:48:05,080
Speaker 1: No more outside dick, look, because that outside did keep

851
00:48:05,160 --> 00:48:11,239
Speaker 1: them most sick. All right, thank you so much. All Right,

852
00:48:11,560 --> 00:48:15,640
Speaker 1: the man, we definitely have to have him back on

853
00:48:17,880 --> 00:48:21,360
Speaker 1: the trade. I care wait to talk about the trade,

854
00:48:22,520 --> 00:48:25,839
Speaker 1: because that's a whole another ball game, baby girl, I'm

855
00:48:25,880 --> 00:48:31,960
Speaker 1: scared of he's scared of the trade. That was very interesting.

856
00:48:32,000 --> 00:48:35,480
Speaker 1: So basically he said that the person he they had

857
00:48:35,520 --> 00:48:39,080
Speaker 1: bomb sex at home, but this person wasn't doing anything.

858
00:48:39,239 --> 00:48:41,880
Speaker 1: So this person was bringing me resources to the pot.

859
00:48:42,239 --> 00:48:44,680
Speaker 1: So I'm the man in the house, I'm financing your

860
00:48:44,800 --> 00:48:49,080
Speaker 1: entire life. I deserve to cheat. So with his attitude, right,

861
00:48:49,120 --> 00:48:54,560
Speaker 1: and the moral is nobody woman or man wants lazy dick,

862
00:48:54,960 --> 00:49:00,000
Speaker 1: get up yourself. Nobody wants it gay straight, Well, I'm

863
00:49:00,200 --> 00:49:04,160
Speaker 1: nobody wants. I wonder. I wonder if society would say, oh,

864
00:49:04,320 --> 00:49:08,560
Speaker 1: his his standards too high? How they do us? Is that?

865
00:49:08,719 --> 00:49:10,799
Speaker 1: How you do black women? Out stand this too high?

866
00:49:10,800 --> 00:49:13,480
Speaker 1: Because we want you to meet us halfway. I don't

867
00:49:13,560 --> 00:49:17,839
Speaker 1: want my man to also enjoy that. I don't. Yeah,

868
00:49:17,840 --> 00:49:21,240
Speaker 1: and I'm not. I'm not opposed. Like I have gay friends.

869
00:49:21,280 --> 00:49:22,960
Speaker 1: I hate to say it, like that people have white

870
00:49:22,960 --> 00:49:26,760
Speaker 1: people like I have black friends, but I have gay friends.

871
00:49:26,800 --> 00:49:30,839
Speaker 1: But I have gay friends. They're not straddling the fence, right,

872
00:49:30,920 --> 00:49:33,120
Speaker 1: see what I'm saying. So if that's what you like,

873
00:49:33,320 --> 00:49:35,600
Speaker 1: you need to make you need to at some point,

874
00:49:35,800 --> 00:49:39,319
Speaker 1: man you gotta come out the closet because there are

875
00:49:39,360 --> 00:49:42,640
Speaker 1: women out here who are okay with that ship, right, Like,

876
00:49:42,920 --> 00:49:46,239
Speaker 1: it's not a problem. You can do both, and y'all

877
00:49:46,239 --> 00:49:48,680
Speaker 1: can all do it together like a little by little

878
00:49:49,120 --> 00:49:53,960
Speaker 1: sequel type ship. Right, whatever you want, but don't be deceitful, man.

879
00:49:54,360 --> 00:49:56,320
Speaker 1: So let me tell you. Let's tell you all a

880
00:49:56,360 --> 00:49:59,239
Speaker 1: little secret that I do when I'm like getting in

881
00:49:59,320 --> 00:50:03,759
Speaker 1: all man, before we fuck, Like, oh, I'll put on

882
00:50:03,760 --> 00:50:06,200
Speaker 1: a movie with a gay scene in it, and then

883
00:50:06,280 --> 00:50:08,240
Speaker 1: we'll just be chilling. And then when the gay scene

884
00:50:08,239 --> 00:50:10,520
Speaker 1: comes on, when it's good into it, I grab this

885
00:50:10,640 --> 00:50:16,240
Speaker 1: dick just to see if it's hard, because if it's hard,

886
00:50:16,840 --> 00:50:20,160
Speaker 1: baby sending you back to the straights. But that's terrible.

887
00:50:20,360 --> 00:50:22,320
Speaker 1: Why is that terrible? I don't know, because I feel

888
00:50:22,320 --> 00:50:25,200
Speaker 1: like it is there a correlation, Like, Okay, so it's

889
00:50:25,239 --> 00:50:29,640
Speaker 1: a sexual act going on, right, So should the man

890
00:50:29,760 --> 00:50:35,680
Speaker 1: penuts not get hard at all? But two niggers fucking no? Oh? No, man?

891
00:50:35,760 --> 00:50:39,040
Speaker 1: So you I heard porn Hub. Porn Hub said there's

892
00:50:39,040 --> 00:50:42,520
Speaker 1: a lot of gay porn being watched. So guys, honestly,

893
00:50:42,920 --> 00:50:47,160
Speaker 1: are y'all getting hard on during gay scenes with men?

894
00:50:47,760 --> 00:50:50,160
Speaker 1: If you are then you need to explore that. But

895
00:50:50,239 --> 00:50:52,799
Speaker 1: they may not necessarily like a man. Then maybe they're

896
00:50:52,840 --> 00:50:56,360
Speaker 1: aroused by that. Explore that. Because I don't like women,

897
00:50:56,360 --> 00:50:59,120
Speaker 1: but I like orgy sex. I like to watch orgy

898
00:50:59,200 --> 00:51:01,680
Speaker 1: porn or every body fucking and touching and spitting and

899
00:51:01,760 --> 00:51:07,719
Speaker 1: sucking I like, but you don't. You might want to

900
00:51:07,760 --> 00:51:10,319
Speaker 1: explore that. No, I don't. I like a lot of dick,

901
00:51:10,800 --> 00:51:19,000
Speaker 1: not like at one time, right, I like um woman

902
00:51:19,040 --> 00:51:21,040
Speaker 1: on woman porn, and I don't usually watch porn with

903
00:51:21,040 --> 00:51:24,719
Speaker 1: a minute. But you just watched Lesbie important. That's it.

904
00:51:25,040 --> 00:51:28,520
Speaker 1: I don't really watch porn though, I'm more of an imagination.

905
00:51:28,600 --> 00:51:32,440
Speaker 1: I haven't watched porn in a while. I only discovered

906
00:51:32,440 --> 00:51:36,440
Speaker 1: poor in two thousand seventeen. Really, yeah, I always use

907
00:51:36,520 --> 00:51:40,520
Speaker 1: my imagination. That's it. So if you're in a relationship

908
00:51:40,560 --> 00:51:43,920
Speaker 1: and masturbating and then having a thought about somebody else,

909
00:51:44,120 --> 00:51:49,719
Speaker 1: and I've seen that you somebody relationship. If I'm masturbating,

910
00:51:49,760 --> 00:51:53,880
Speaker 1: I think about him. Okay, you're not thinking about somebody else. No, really,

911
00:51:54,040 --> 00:51:57,319
Speaker 1: I think about like past sexual experiences, and usually with

912
00:51:57,400 --> 00:51:59,440
Speaker 1: that person. It's with the nigga that I'm dealing with

913
00:51:59,480 --> 00:52:03,919
Speaker 1: at the time. Okay, So yeah, that's how it goes.

914
00:52:04,400 --> 00:52:08,080
Speaker 1: I don't know. I watched I watched the porn. Yeah

915
00:52:08,080 --> 00:52:10,080
Speaker 1: it's cool, you watched the port of Lot. Who's your

916
00:52:10,120 --> 00:52:14,719
Speaker 1: favorite porn female? Oh? I forgot. You don't like girls.

917
00:52:15,400 --> 00:52:19,279
Speaker 1: I don't even know, Like who's the popping porn guys? Now, Like,

918
00:52:20,719 --> 00:52:23,719
Speaker 1: I don't know, you're not into it, like not. I

919
00:52:23,840 --> 00:52:28,520
Speaker 1: used to like Mr Marcus. Yeah that's the old school, yes,

920
00:52:28,680 --> 00:52:30,839
Speaker 1: but then one day he was like fucking a bit

921
00:52:30,960 --> 00:52:33,560
Speaker 1: in the kitchen on the scene and he had like

922
00:52:33,680 --> 00:52:36,640
Speaker 1: this dent in his bowls, and it turned me off

923
00:52:38,080 --> 00:52:40,920
Speaker 1: from that point, and I did not like Mr Marcus.

924
00:52:41,360 --> 00:52:43,279
Speaker 1: He had like a little dent in his balls. I'm like,

925
00:52:43,520 --> 00:52:46,680
Speaker 1: he does not does not like balls. But it's like

926
00:52:46,719 --> 00:52:49,200
Speaker 1: almost the equivalent to like, like I went, men like

927
00:52:49,239 --> 00:52:52,880
Speaker 1: to talk to about women who have like longer ladies

928
00:52:53,000 --> 00:52:55,839
Speaker 1: or whatever. That's the equivalent, like your dick is ran through?

929
00:52:55,840 --> 00:53:00,359
Speaker 1: Why your balls look like that ran through? Eat up?

930
00:53:01,040 --> 00:53:03,719
Speaker 1: I think I've been beat up, Bob, I can't do it.

931
00:53:07,000 --> 00:53:09,200
Speaker 1: And then you know he'd be ashy down there like

932
00:53:10,000 --> 00:53:12,680
Speaker 1: that's not cute. And then I remember I don't know

933
00:53:12,680 --> 00:53:15,440
Speaker 1: if it was him, Oh, what was other guy's name now.

934
00:53:15,480 --> 00:53:18,919
Speaker 1: I used to like to see this dude. Fuck um

935
00:53:19,719 --> 00:53:24,080
Speaker 1: oh no, Helen, not viroling. I don't have a guy

936
00:53:24,080 --> 00:53:28,920
Speaker 1: could be giving you backrubs while he got the dicking, Like,

937
00:53:28,960 --> 00:53:32,680
Speaker 1: how are you rubbing the damn porn bitch? You're giving

938
00:53:32,680 --> 00:53:34,560
Speaker 1: her a back beside with the dick. It's for the

939
00:53:34,719 --> 00:53:38,919
Speaker 1: entertainment purposes for girls. But man, that sounds really good.

940
00:53:38,960 --> 00:53:42,000
Speaker 1: So trying that with your lady tonight. You're welcome, ladies.

941
00:53:44,080 --> 00:53:47,000
Speaker 1: So what what did we learn today? I don't feel

942
00:53:47,040 --> 00:53:49,719
Speaker 1: like I learned ship maybe either, man, I feel like

943
00:53:49,760 --> 00:53:52,560
Speaker 1: you need to interview some more people. I don't think

944
00:53:52,560 --> 00:53:55,200
Speaker 1: we're gonna learn anything different. These niggas just go are

945
00:53:55,239 --> 00:53:58,440
Speaker 1: we are sorry? These men? We should also do women

946
00:53:58,600 --> 00:54:00,640
Speaker 1: to see why women? Oh yeah, we need to talk.

947
00:54:00,760 --> 00:54:02,040
Speaker 1: I don't want to. I don't want this to be

948
00:54:02,160 --> 00:54:04,359
Speaker 1: one sided. I don't want men to feel like this

949
00:54:04,440 --> 00:54:07,279
Speaker 1: is like a man bash podcast, because it's not. You know,

950
00:54:07,360 --> 00:54:09,200
Speaker 1: it's not because we'd be on some both shoot two.

951
00:54:09,280 --> 00:54:11,319
Speaker 1: There's such thing as a fun girl, right, and we

952
00:54:11,400 --> 00:54:13,359
Speaker 1: just wanted to hear him it's truth, you know, And

953
00:54:13,400 --> 00:54:15,319
Speaker 1: I feel like we got to receive that today, just

954
00:54:17,200 --> 00:54:23,360
Speaker 1: the voice, the recognition like so women. If if there

955
00:54:23,400 --> 00:54:28,239
Speaker 1: are any ladies who would like to participate again, send

956
00:54:28,280 --> 00:54:31,319
Speaker 1: us an email or you can hit us up on

957
00:54:31,400 --> 00:54:35,239
Speaker 1: Instagram or Instagram. Is we talk Back Podcast? So it's

958
00:54:35,360 --> 00:54:39,359
Speaker 1: at We Talked Back Podcast, or you can email us

959
00:54:39,360 --> 00:54:42,080
Speaker 1: and let us know you want to participate at We

960
00:54:42,160 --> 00:54:45,839
Speaker 1: Talk Back p o D at gmail dot com and

961
00:54:45,880 --> 00:54:50,000
Speaker 1: we would much appreciate it. We're gonna be talking some

962
00:54:50,120 --> 00:54:52,919
Speaker 1: real ship on this show. We have like so many

963
00:54:52,960 --> 00:54:57,080
Speaker 1: different segments that we've created. There's gonna be so much

964
00:54:57,160 --> 00:55:00,080
Speaker 1: fun for y'all to participate with us. Um, we're some

965
00:55:00,120 --> 00:55:03,000
Speaker 1: of the segments that we got. One of my favorites

966
00:55:03,600 --> 00:55:08,120
Speaker 1: dumb bitch stories. Yes, we want to hear your dumb

967
00:55:08,160 --> 00:55:11,000
Speaker 1: bitch stories. You know, not necessarily just you know, trying

968
00:55:11,040 --> 00:55:13,040
Speaker 1: to play you, calling you a dumb bitch, but you know,

969
00:55:13,080 --> 00:55:16,160
Speaker 1: it gives us an opportunity to maybe coach you a

970
00:55:16,200 --> 00:55:18,640
Speaker 1: little bit. I like to think of myself as a

971
00:55:18,680 --> 00:55:24,000
Speaker 1: whole coach and um, it also gives us an opportunity

972
00:55:24,080 --> 00:55:29,759
Speaker 1: to laugh at your Yes, we can't laugh at our

973
00:55:29,840 --> 00:55:31,920
Speaker 1: own ship. What can we laugh at? All of us

974
00:55:31,920 --> 00:55:34,720
Speaker 1: have been a dumb bitch before? Because I remember crying

975
00:55:34,719 --> 00:55:41,120
Speaker 1: in my eclipse bit that was no fun and it

976
00:55:41,200 --> 00:55:46,000
Speaker 1: was different. Yeah, I had to level up, but them

977
00:55:46,000 --> 00:55:48,400
Speaker 1: tears and the eclips and clips didn't have no a C.

978
00:55:49,800 --> 00:55:51,480
Speaker 1: I used to ride with the top by, but when

979
00:55:52,080 --> 00:55:55,000
Speaker 1: I remember, it was raining, so I have no a C.

980
00:55:55,560 --> 00:55:57,560
Speaker 1: And I rolled the windows up in the summertime. Bitch

981
00:55:57,640 --> 00:56:07,279
Speaker 1: almost died. Motherfucker. Guy Steve out and I called the

982
00:56:07,280 --> 00:56:09,480
Speaker 1: same nigger that was cheat up. He's like, I can't

983
00:56:09,600 --> 00:56:14,120
Speaker 1: see and he was just like, he said the same

984
00:56:14,200 --> 00:56:17,799
Speaker 1: thing that was cheating on you, and he was just like,

985
00:56:17,880 --> 00:56:19,440
Speaker 1: a bitch, just let me know when you make it

986
00:56:19,520 --> 00:56:24,440
Speaker 1: home safe like you have. Damn, man, women, do not

987
00:56:24,600 --> 00:56:27,680
Speaker 1: be out here using your vagina on someone that you

988
00:56:27,719 --> 00:56:31,960
Speaker 1: cannot depend on. That's our dumb bitch advice for today. Okay,

989
00:56:32,080 --> 00:56:38,000
Speaker 1: along with dumb bitch stories. The first dumb bitch motherfucking show.

990
00:56:38,239 --> 00:56:42,840
Speaker 1: God damn, that's an old dumb bitch story. Know you

991
00:56:42,920 --> 00:56:45,080
Speaker 1: have that, dumb but that was a long time ago.

992
00:56:45,120 --> 00:56:50,279
Speaker 1: We're making new dumb bitch memories now. We're talking to

993
00:56:50,320 --> 00:56:52,600
Speaker 1: any women out here right now who has a quarter

994
00:56:52,640 --> 00:56:57,600
Speaker 1: tank of gas ball tires oil oil oil, change light

995
00:56:57,680 --> 00:57:01,000
Speaker 1: on and you're calling your brother and you inig house

996
00:57:01,400 --> 00:57:03,880
Speaker 1: in those conditions, right, and then when you need to

997
00:57:03,880 --> 00:57:05,719
Speaker 1: help your brother come out to help you instead of

998
00:57:05,719 --> 00:57:08,439
Speaker 1: then you're getting the whole attitude because your brother won't

999
00:57:08,480 --> 00:57:14,400
Speaker 1: come right. Don't be her reevaluate your vagina. Man. So

1000
00:57:14,520 --> 00:57:17,560
Speaker 1: that's gonna be a real fun segment. Um, ask a

1001
00:57:17,640 --> 00:57:22,360
Speaker 1: Black friend. This is an opportunity for you nine black

1002
00:57:22,400 --> 00:57:26,640
Speaker 1: people to call in or email us and ask questions

1003
00:57:26,680 --> 00:57:30,120
Speaker 1: to us that you wouldn't normally ask the black people

1004
00:57:30,120 --> 00:57:32,440
Speaker 1: who existing around you. Or maybe you don't even have

1005
00:57:32,480 --> 00:57:36,160
Speaker 1: any black people around you and you're in Wyoming or

1006
00:57:36,200 --> 00:57:38,360
Speaker 1: some ship like that, and you want to ask some

1007
00:57:38,440 --> 00:57:41,800
Speaker 1: black people about some ship, anything like why do we

1008
00:57:41,920 --> 00:57:46,400
Speaker 1: use lorries? So that's ask a black friend. Call up,

1009
00:57:46,520 --> 00:57:49,440
Speaker 1: ask us anything, email us, ask us any question. It

1010
00:57:49,440 --> 00:57:51,640
Speaker 1: will save you from getting your ass be in your

1011
00:57:51,640 --> 00:57:55,000
Speaker 1: own community or going viral for some dumb ship. And

1012
00:57:55,040 --> 00:57:59,520
Speaker 1: now you out here in the airport screaming talk about

1013
00:57:59,560 --> 00:58:03,880
Speaker 1: I love y'all saw that white man? Yes, all right, y'all.

1014
00:58:03,920 --> 00:58:07,160
Speaker 1: So if y'all like this conversations day, you could follow

1015
00:58:07,280 --> 00:58:13,920
Speaker 1: us on Instagram right now. Um, we talked back podcast at,

1016
00:58:14,080 --> 00:58:16,920
Speaker 1: we talked back podcasts, and we'd also like to hear

1017
00:58:17,000 --> 00:58:20,640
Speaker 1: your stories, So you email us at UM. We talked back,

1018
00:58:20,720 --> 00:58:23,760
Speaker 1: E and T at gmail dot com. And what's your

1019
00:58:23,800 --> 00:58:28,360
Speaker 1: social media? Tam? I'm official Tam Bam on Instagram, So

1020
00:58:28,480 --> 00:58:32,960
Speaker 1: y'all follow me there? Have you posted news? Get that

1021
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Speaker 1: money hand? You might as well do our holy thing right?

1022
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Speaker 1: And I'm a J You can hit me up at

1023
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Speaker 1: a J holiday two point oh all right and we

1024
00:58:41,880 --> 00:58:43,000
Speaker 1: out by