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Speaker 2: It could be yours. Buckle up and hold on tight.

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Speaker 2: We got it for you here. It is Strawberry Letter. Subject.

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Speaker 1: He's not handsome, but he's blessed. Dear Stephen Shirley. I'm

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Speaker 1: thirty four years old and I'm dating a pastor that

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Speaker 1: is forty two years old. We are both divorced and

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Speaker 1: we met online. I'm ready for children, and although he

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Speaker 1: already has two from his first marriage, he said he'd

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Speaker 1: have another child with me. He wants us to have

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Speaker 1: sex before we get married, but I prefer to wait

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Speaker 1: until the night of our wedding. I love to tease

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Speaker 1: him and sexy lingerie, and he always jokes about ripping

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Speaker 1: my nightgown off and taking whatever he wants. I love

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Speaker 1: this man and we have a great time together, but

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Speaker 1: I don't like the way he looks. He has a

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Speaker 1: hard face and a permanent frown in his forehead. He

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Speaker 1: has short teeth, but they're pearly white. My aunt and

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Speaker 1: my mother warned me against having children with him because

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Speaker 1: they said my baby will look like a grimlin. This

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Speaker 1: man is anointed and he has been a perfect gentleman.

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Speaker 1: He's a man of God for sure, and he's blessed

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Speaker 1: where it counts. Just because I am not partaking of

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Speaker 1: his blessings, I still know what he's working with and

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Speaker 1: I can't wait to make him and it all mine.

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Speaker 1: I've never been into looks, and I think less handsome

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Speaker 1: men are sexy because they are rough looking. This man

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Speaker 1: can walk around me in nothing but his underwear and

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Speaker 1: I will be a happy woman for the rest of

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Speaker 1: my life. But my aunt and my mother said I

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Speaker 1: need to try it out before we get engaged, just

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Speaker 1: in case he is terrible in bed. How can he

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Speaker 1: be terrible when when he's working with all of that.

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Speaker 1: I need your advice on this one. Should I sample

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Speaker 1: the goods now or wait until marriage hold? Okay, just

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Speaker 1: because someone as blessed as you call it doesn't mean

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Speaker 1: they know you know what to do with what they have.

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Speaker 1: So you know that's that's kind of a funny question

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Speaker 1: that you're asking. I gotta say this, so, huh, I am.

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Speaker 3: I am.

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Speaker 1: The first thing I learned out the gate from this

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Speaker 1: letters that pastors are on dating sites and he's single.

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Speaker 1: So I'm not judging or anything, just a little surprised. Uh.

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Speaker 1: And that's not what this letter is about. It's about

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Speaker 1: should you give him a test drive before you buy

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Speaker 1: this car? So to speak? And you know what most

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Speaker 1: people do. Most people do have sex before marriage. You know,

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Speaker 1: it's admirable that you want to wait until your wedding

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Speaker 1: night and you got to decide what's right for you.

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Speaker 1: I find it odd that you never mentioned how he

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Speaker 1: treats you, Is he good to you? All you're talking

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Speaker 1: about is how he looks and what he's blessed with.

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Speaker 1: I think if you're holding out on him because you

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Speaker 1: truly don't want to have sex before marriage until your

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Speaker 1: wedding night, because you think God is watching, and you

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Speaker 1: mentioned that this is a man of God, then stick

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Speaker 1: to your beliefs. Stick to your beliefs. But you have

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Speaker 1: to stop teasing the man with your sexy lingerie and

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Speaker 1: all of that, because it doesn't sound like the pastor

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Speaker 1: can hold out much longer. Now, if you want to

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Speaker 1: do it just because you know your mom and your

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Speaker 1: honor pressuring you, that's still not a good reason to

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Speaker 1: have sex with him. If you don't want to, you

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Speaker 1: want to wait. You know they don't need to be

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Speaker 1: in your bedroom business anyway. So again, this is your decision.

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Speaker 1: You know, this is your decision. If you don't mind

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Speaker 1: being with and having children by an unattractive man, as

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Speaker 1: you call him a hard face and little baby teeth,

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Speaker 1: well that's up to you. It's your life. If you

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Speaker 1: say he's packing and that seems to be all that's

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Speaker 1: important to you from this letter, then go for it.

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Speaker 1: Stop listening to all these other people who are into

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Speaker 1: your business. You gotta do what's right for you.

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Speaker 3: Steve, Well, I'm gonna just tell you this right off

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Speaker 3: to dribble. Probably need to go on and listen to

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Speaker 3: Charlene on this one, because what I'm about to tell

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Speaker 3: you ain't nothing but truth. All I'm finna tell you

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Speaker 3: is nothing but truth. I'm gonna give you some facts

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Speaker 3: and then you have to make your own decision because

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Speaker 3: I can't tell you how to live your life. Now

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Speaker 3: you thirty four he farty too. That's an eight year difference.

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Speaker 3: Both of y'all are divorced, and people are divorced for

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Speaker 3: a reason. Y'all met online. You ready for kids? He

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Speaker 3: got two from his first marriage. He said he'd have

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Speaker 3: had to say that, And you know why, because he's

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Speaker 3: not handsome. Ugly ass men hair up and get in

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Speaker 3: same page because he ugly.

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Speaker 2: You ain't. You said he's not handsome, but we know

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Speaker 2: what that means.

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Speaker 3: His ugly ass got to hair up and a grief

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Speaker 3: with everything. Women won't because his ugly ass ain't got

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Speaker 3: no whole lot of options. Now, like I told you,

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Speaker 3: you probably need to just go on with Shirley's answer,

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Speaker 3: because I ain't finna give you.

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Speaker 2: Nothing but facts.

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Speaker 3: He wants to have us to have sex before we

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Speaker 3: get married. That's got a lot to do with him

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Speaker 3: being ugly. He can't run the risk, and you waiting

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Speaker 3: and starting to ask questions about him and looking at

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Speaker 3: him closer, sitting over there, starting analyz stuff. You know

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Speaker 3: you already got some stuff. I'll tell you about that

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Speaker 3: in a minute. Because you love to tease him in

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Speaker 3: section Lnderraye. He always joke about ripping my night down

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Speaker 3: off and taking whatever he wants. I love this man,

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Speaker 3: we have a great time together, but I don't like

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Speaker 3: the way he looks right there.

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Speaker 2: He got a.

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Speaker 3: Hard face and a permittent frown in his fuehead. But

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Speaker 3: a man got a hard face?

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Speaker 2: What does that mean?

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Speaker 3: That's the time to look like a rock?

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Speaker 2: I have seen a pretty ass rock.

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Speaker 1: I've never heard that before.

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Speaker 2: You look like he just looked like a rock.

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Speaker 3: Got a hard ass face. You know what, even when

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Speaker 3: he smiled, he looked like he crying. He just got

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Speaker 3: a hard ass face. He'd be telling the joke and

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Speaker 3: everybody be scared.

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Speaker 1: Puld that thought. Part two. Steve Harvey's response is coming

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Speaker 1: up at twenty three minutes after the hour Today's Strawberry.

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Speaker 1: Let let her subject because he's not handsome, but he's blessed.

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Speaker 1: We'll get back into it right after this. Well, the

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Speaker 1: super Bowl was great, and you know how we always

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Speaker 1: watch the Super Bowl for the commercials. But did you

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Speaker 1: guys see the rocket commercial?

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Speaker 2: Wasn't that great? I was good?

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Speaker 1: I love that really good singing along the song.

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Speaker 3: Yes, Oh man, you don't even understand how that song

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Speaker 3: touched me. Western Virginia's and that's where I'm from. And

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Speaker 3: they was talking about home ownership. Boy, I said, Rocket,

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Speaker 3: you better stop getting behind.

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Speaker 2: Emotions were all riled up in here. I was crying

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Speaker 2: with the soldier on the plane and everything.

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Speaker 1: It was really really touching and really good. It's reminding

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Speaker 1: us that a big part of the American dream is

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Speaker 1: home ownership.

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Speaker 2: That moment of signing that paperwork and walking out with

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Speaker 2: that key. Come on, man, come.

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Speaker 1: On, yes, home ownership the American dream. Thank you Rocket,

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Speaker 1: That's what Rocket is, all right? Come on, Steve, let's

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Speaker 1: recap today's Strawberry letter. The subject he's not handsome, but

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Speaker 1: he's blessed.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, well we'll get in that in a minute. But

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Speaker 3: just a man is forty two years old. Both of

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Speaker 3: y'all got divorced for a reason, for a reason. I'm

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Speaker 3: ready for children. Although he had two from his first man.

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Speaker 3: He said, he have another child with me. He can't

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Speaker 3: believe you want one with him. He know how he looked.

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Speaker 3: He's so ugly. You wrote about it. You don't think

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Speaker 3: he heard this before. He'd heard this his whole life.

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Speaker 3: This ain't no new information. You just that rode in

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Speaker 3: on the National radio show. He's not handsome, but he

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Speaker 2: I love this man. We have a great time together,

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Speaker 2: but I don't like the way he looked.

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Speaker 3: He got a hard face and a permanent frown in

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Speaker 3: his forehead, just over there, looking like a rock.

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Speaker 2: Keep be telling jokes. Ain't nobody laughing.

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Speaker 3: Everybody had that little grimace on their face like they

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Speaker 3: kind of back up a little bit. You ever met

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Speaker 3: somebody so ugly when they talk to you, just keep

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Speaker 3: trying to deal with all. Listen in front of you,

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Speaker 3: what is this hard ass rock asss looking man got

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Speaker 3: got short teeth, but they pairly white.

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Speaker 2: Hell, it's easy to take care of a little lamb teeth.

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Speaker 3: Tell ay, shot he probably threw brushing his teeth in

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Speaker 3: no time. You can have pearly white teeth. When they shot,

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Speaker 3: I got all that currt coin in his head. He

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Speaker 3: got his whole mouth look like a row of coin.

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Speaker 3: And you talking about they pearly white.

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Speaker 2: Hell. It don't take him no time to brush. He

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Speaker 3: Let me tell you what this woman that when she

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Speaker 3: That's what she's talking about. That type of short jes

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Speaker 3: coming up out the guns. So now he got pearly white.

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Speaker 3: And they shot my aunt. My mother wore me against

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Speaker 2: They not lying teeth, he's not lying. This baby you

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Speaker 3: If if the baby don't look just like you, ma'am,

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Speaker 3: you better hope you really. Now, let me ask you this.

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Speaker 3: You're gonna have to be honest because we don't know this.

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Speaker 3: Are you extremely attracted because you're gonna have to offset

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Speaker 3: chances are I'm just going out on the limb. I'm

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna just go out on the limb.

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Speaker 3: I think you're an attractive woman, but you may not

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Speaker 3: be attractive enough to have an uglass man and have

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Speaker 3: damn near beautiful to offset and get this baby.

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Speaker 2: A chance of being regularly looking.

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Speaker 3: See now, this baby does he not gonna have a chance.

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Speaker 3: He gonna grow up with the little last teeth, that

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Speaker 3: hard ass look on his face, that God forbid it.

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Speaker 3: Don't be a girl, Lord, have mercy, Jesus, this man

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Speaker 3: is annoying it. And he's been a perfect gentleman. He's

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Speaker 3: a man of God for sure. He's blessed where it counts.

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Speaker 3: Just because I'm not partaking of his blessings, I still

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Speaker 3: know what he's working with and I can't wait to

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Speaker 3: think about something. Now, Why is him still available? Why

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Speaker 3: is him online looking for love?

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Speaker 2: If he's a past man of the clothe?

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Speaker 3: See something? You need to have some more conversation with

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Speaker 3: this man. I've never been into looks. I think less

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Speaker 3: handsome men are sexy because they rough looking, well, Jack Pott,

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Speaker 3: where you're sitting on top of gold Man, that's the case,

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Speaker 3: because you can't look no rougher than a rock.

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Speaker 2: I'm telling you that right now. Here's the hard face.

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Speaker 2: That's about as rough as you get.

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Speaker 3: This man can walk around him nothing but his underwear,

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Speaker 3: and I'll be a happy woman the rest of my life.

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Speaker 3: But my aunt mother said I need to try. Wait, Philip,

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Speaker 3: ask youself, who is your aunt, your mama? Who is

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Speaker 3: these helps?

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Speaker 2: Do they have me? Why are you listening to them?

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Speaker 3: And your mama say, I need to try it out

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Speaker 3: before we get engaged, just in case he's terribly bad.

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Speaker 3: How can they be terrible when he's working with all that?

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Speaker 3: O me personally?

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Speaker 2: I bet on lim. Yeah.

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Speaker 3: See, he ugly, he's had to learn how to perform. Oh,

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Speaker 3: he's finna do. He's finna do everything in his power

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Speaker 3: because he ugly. He know he not gonna get another shot.

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Speaker 3: And he know the line ain't long because everybody ain't

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Speaker 3: seen you walking around in the draws.

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Speaker 2: Most people that are looking at that hall, they're faith

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Speaker 2: doubly lad.

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Speaker 3: And most people just trying to figure out how I'm

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Speaker 3: gonna get through marrying flavor fla.

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Speaker 2: That's what a lot of them.

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Speaker 3: Now you can sit there and man is mad with

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Speaker 3: this clock around his neck, then go ahead. I need

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Speaker 3: your advice on this one. Should I sample the goods

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Speaker 3: now or wait till marriage? Please help? I listen to me.

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Speaker 3: If you wait ninety days and you can still talk

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Speaker 3: to him up close, if you can wait ninety days

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Speaker 3: and that hardness, that rock hard face, with that permanent frown, friend,

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Speaker 3: it's still not repulse in you.

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Speaker 2: Then go ahead, all right, Steve, did this baby gonna

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Speaker 2: be on his hell? Though? You made that point? Now?

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Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey Morning Show