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Speaker 1: What's up.

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Speaker 2: It's lift service and the Antela Yee.

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Speaker 3: I'm g g maguire, Jordie jor.

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Speaker 2: Auntie.

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Speaker 4: She came.

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Speaker 1: And welcome.

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Speaker 2: This is so exciting to have from the stars of

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Speaker 2: Operation Aunties here with us All Black. That movie just

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Speaker 2: came out. I of course had a chance to see it.

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Speaker 2: We did too, write all of us. So congratulations. How

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Speaker 2: was it for you guys. This is the first time

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Speaker 2: you guys worked on That's the sometime we.

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Speaker 1: Worked together together. Yes, ever, we've known him here in

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Speaker 1: the business for forever.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, and with Wendy Rockell Robinson, who was also the director, worked.

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Speaker 1: With her in the nineties. But I worked with this.

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Speaker 5: It was my first time working with her as a

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Speaker 5: director as well, so it.

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Speaker 3: Was it was fun.

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Speaker 2: I have to check because I was like, have they

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Speaker 2: ever done anything today?

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Speaker 3: I know?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, when I when I heard she saw and on

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Speaker 1: and I was.

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Speaker 3: Like, and when I heard they were doing I was like,

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Speaker 3: oh God, I gotta do this. The chemistry already we

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Speaker 3: know you doing all day was laughing.

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Speaker 4: You can actually see the chemistry on on screen too.

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Speaker 3: Even with that makes me have the three of you guys.

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Speaker 2: They did a great sasting.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I think so.

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Speaker 2: But let's talk about a couple of things in the show.

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Speaker 2: Because one of the one of the things we find

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Speaker 2: out about your character early on a form former detective

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Speaker 2: yep retired a retired detective. You were breaking up with

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Speaker 2: their husband.

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Speaker 5: Because because I wanted to have a polyamorous experience.

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Speaker 2: Okay, yes, I feel like what man doesn't want that?

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Speaker 2: We didn't you.

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Speaker 1: Know why my character's husband did not, right?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you said passionately.

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Speaker 4: I was like, yeah, because men are selfish. They want

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Speaker 4: to they only want to be able to.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, not with two men. They were probably wanted with

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Speaker 3: two women.

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Speaker 2: Okay, it doesn't mean you both get to do what

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Speaker 2: you want, though, I don't know.

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Speaker 3: Yes, I don't know.

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Speaker 1: That's what we were trying to explore.

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Speaker 3: Another couple.

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Speaker 5: It's like, I don't think it was a situation yeah

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Speaker 5: or yeah, but I feel like you had a one

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Speaker 5: person a person.

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Speaker 1: I think I think my character was just trying to.

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Speaker 3: Do the movie either way, he wasn't.

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Speaker 2: That's funny. It's so interesting how like talks about different

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Speaker 2: ways that people like stay married or are in relationships

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Speaker 2: are being had that were never being had before. You know,

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Speaker 2: because I feel like so often you hear people talking

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Speaker 2: about this now, it's just such a common thing, like

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Speaker 2: and I feel like, like to your point, a lot

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Speaker 2: of times it's the one the guy that wants to

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Speaker 2: be able to like open things up, like the whole

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Speaker 2: TV shows where that's happening right right right, And I

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Speaker 2: know gz you wanted to at one point in your life.

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Speaker 4: At one point I was in it. I'm not, but

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Speaker 4: I was in a long term relationship and we were

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Speaker 4: having like random threesomes because we both wanted to. It

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Speaker 4: was I mean, I'm not like technically by it. You know,

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Speaker 4: sometimes no just femalech yeah, but you know sometimes the no,

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Speaker 4: we were having fine, we were having a good time

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Speaker 4: you know, it's crazy out in these streets. So let's

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Speaker 4: just find a girlfriend and then we can have just

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Speaker 4: one person that we can trust and you know, we

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Speaker 4: can be open with and da da da. But yeah,

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Speaker 4: he wasn't deserving, so it never happened. And now I'm

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Speaker 4: over that.

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Speaker 2: So what do you think, Jordan about redefining what like.

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Speaker 6: I mean, I feel like people have to be honest

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Speaker 6: about what they want, because I feel like that has

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Speaker 6: led to a lot of breakups and people not feeling

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Speaker 6: with and like what they will or will not tolerate.

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Speaker 6: But at the same time.

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Speaker 3: I'm like, I'm not doing that. I'm not doing that.

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Speaker 1: I don't think that was fine.

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Speaker 2: I'm not doing it, you know. I just want to

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Speaker 2: put that out there. Yes, I'm into that, so only

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Speaker 2: because I don't want my man like doing nothing else.

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Speaker 2: I just don't if he did, I don't even care

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Speaker 2: if it's like, oh, I couldn't handle that, Yeah, And

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Speaker 2: I don't think he could handle that either.

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Speaker 4: They usually can't.

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Speaker 1: I feel like a lot of.

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Speaker 2: Times it ends to people's relationship, like ends people's relationships,

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Speaker 2: Like people think that that's what they want, Like, well,

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Speaker 2: if he's going to do it anyway, or he'll like

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Speaker 2: it and he'll like me if I do this, and

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Speaker 2: then they do it and then they regret it.

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Speaker 1: It seems like it's more one sighted.

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Speaker 3: Oh absolutely, I know I DDA did it with He

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Speaker 3: was telling me he did it with someone another girl

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Speaker 3: he was with, but they added another girl, and then

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Speaker 3: after they did it together, he went to see the

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Speaker 4: That's definitely work to be clean. I don't know anyone

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Speaker 4: that that was one of the things that was the

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Speaker 4: most disrespect part of him cheating is that you would

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Speaker 4: cheat with women that we were with together, and then

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Speaker 4: you would go and do it behind my back, because

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Speaker 4: if I didn't already you permission and you know I

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Speaker 4: want to watch, So why are you keeping it away

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Speaker 2: People think about what they wanted to forget it now

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Speaker 2: your character and Operation Aunties, you're this text geniuses, which

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Speaker 2: I love.

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Speaker 1: I love I love that her character.

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Speaker 3: Because it's like a bunch of dialogue.

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Speaker 2: I was going to ask you about that because you

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Speaker 2: Giving presentations and.

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Speaker 3: Giving our nervous breakdown is what I was about. Literally,

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Speaker 3: I don't know anything about that stuff. So you know,

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Speaker 3: I know I shouldn't keep confessing this, right.

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Speaker 1: I can't. It's authentic that you really had to work hard.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but it was really hard, and sometimes I had

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Speaker 3: to like pastelines in places.

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Speaker 1: Because it wasn't.

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Speaker 2: Like doing my roles.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and I came on late because teacher was already

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Speaker 3: and so I was having panic attacks because I couldn't remember.

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Speaker 3: And I don't like being the one on set that

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Speaker 2: That's not me.

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Speaker 3: I'm always very prepared and professional. So it did not

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Speaker 5: And it felt that more though, more so than what

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Speaker 5: it came across, because she's a phenomenal actress.

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Speaker 2: Me, I was like, let me find out and listen

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Speaker 2: know all this text I can't.

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Speaker 3: Even work my iPhone and goes to.

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Speaker 4: Show how good that.

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Speaker 2: Didn't think about technology though, just doing a movie like

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Speaker 2: this and what space we're moving into, just being in

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Speaker 2: do this hey.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, she said.

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Speaker 3: I would like it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, she would like it until it turns into make right.

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Speaker 3: And I want, like, you know, Martin or something, you know,

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Speaker 3: I don't know. I want a guy that can just

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Speaker 3: walk around, you know, the robot to do stuff for me.

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Speaker 3: I wouldn't mind that cleaning the house and do that

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Speaker 3: kind of stuff.

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Speaker 2: A housekeeper robot.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, you know, they don't have make me something out

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Speaker 5: of you have eyes and ship, but I would just

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Speaker 3: Woke up and he was standing staring at scary, charging,

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Speaker 3: charging without me turning him on.

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Speaker 2: What if they could give you a massage every night?

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Speaker 2: That sounds amazing, No.

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Speaker 3: That sounds frightening, like we're gonna be touching you on

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Speaker 3: stuff cold. You know, they could do things I would

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Speaker 3: if he locks up on your body.

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Speaker 1: Come on a.

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Speaker 4: Destination thing.

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Speaker 1: All right.

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Speaker 2: So let's just say, in a world of technology, what

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Speaker 2: are some things that you would embrace and wish you

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Speaker 2: could have in your house? What's that with you? Besides

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Speaker 2: the vibrator?

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Speaker 4: Because the way I be master to be hmmm, I

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Speaker 4: would like some help cleaning. I do a lot of cleaning. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: I do a lot of cleaning. Maybe fold and put

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Speaker 4: I'm going to the cleaning. It's a big old pollicles

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Speaker 4: and then the next day I got to revisit that

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Speaker 4: because now I'm worn out. So maybe just have put

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Speaker 4: the put the laundry away, all right, finish up.

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Speaker 5: That's sane for me because I have a OCD, so

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Speaker 5: I clean. I love to clean, but I do not

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Speaker 5: like doing laundry. My mother used to make me do

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Speaker 5: my brother's laundry and the things that I've seen noaking.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, man, no, I'm good.

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Speaker 2: Even boys. I'm sure you've seen a lot worse.

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Speaker 1: I taught them how to do their laundry at seven because.

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Speaker 3: I c t shirts.

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Speaker 5: I'm nothing. No, they on their own, ten years old.

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Speaker 5: They all knew how to work the wash.

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Speaker 1: I'm not doing it. Mark.

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Speaker 2: I know you're going to say marks.

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Speaker 1: The worse.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, yes, of course I know what that is.

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Speaker 2: I was thinking maybe cooking would be nice, like I

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Speaker 2: would love to cooking. Yes, I would to everything there,

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Speaker 2: but I would like to throw massages in there. I'm

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Speaker 2: not gonna lie.

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Speaker 3: No, I don't know. I feel like something be broken.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you guys don't want to say that.

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Speaker 4: That one I used, But those.

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Speaker 2: Are ball they're like on a ball hands like, so

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Speaker 2: you'll okay with a human beings hands on you who

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Speaker 2: you don't know. But I don't like it either, malfunction.

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Speaker 3: I'm not I'm not a big massage. I'm not a

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Speaker 3: big I'm not I'm not a girl like I don't

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Speaker 3: like to do like the manny petties. I'm not getting

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Speaker 3: in anyone's mud back. I don't like any of that stuff,

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Speaker 3: all the things because.

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Speaker 1: I might be with her on the massage.

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Speaker 2: Really, I.

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Speaker 3: Do like it if they know how to do it right.

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Speaker 3: You know how sometimes you get that person that's too

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Speaker 3: light on it.

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Speaker 4: Off.

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Speaker 2: I think sometimes they want you to fall asleep and

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Speaker 2: then they don't be doing nothing like the little gentle.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that keeps me up.

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Speaker 2: What about you, Jerdie?

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Speaker 6: If you had to definitely the chores, the laundry, clean

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Speaker 6: the house, make my bed, turn my TV on, run

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Speaker 4: Yees?

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Speaker 3: Sneaking behind my girlfriend's back?

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Speaker 2: I mean, no one knows, but right purposely you didn't

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Speaker 3: No, no, no, not I know even talk to me

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Speaker 3: I just tell it. I can't help it.

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Speaker 4: No, No, not keeping it a secret.

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Speaker 2: No, I'd be like, yeah, or date somebody that's kind

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Speaker 3: Oh No, I'm not doing that at all, you know

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Speaker 2: I don't want people to know necessarily.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, like the.

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Speaker 5: Situationship, Yeah, like somebody or maybe he ain't ship, and like,

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Speaker 4: They could be any reason he ain't ship.

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Speaker 2: But you know, because sometimes we tell our friends a lot,

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Speaker 3: Oh I think I've the friends I've had, We've always

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so you think no kidding, enjoy Do you ever

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Speaker 6: Absolutely, most of them, most of them looking back at

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Speaker 3: Celibate for a year or two.

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Speaker 2: It's clear it.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, just clear the roster because it's really hard out here,

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Speaker 6: And I was actually gonna ask y'all that, like, what

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Speaker 1: Like was the nineties?

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Speaker 4: It now is not?

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Speaker 1: I didn't know.

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Speaker 5: Let me tell you, I've never really had a been

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Speaker 1: How did you get from point A to B? What

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Speaker 3: Like, how did you get.

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Speaker 4: An introduction to boys?

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Speaker 2: How does become your Somebody.

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Speaker 5: Would always like I was always like that catchers. They

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Speaker 5: and I don't have a long roster. I don't have

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Speaker 2: No, I don't have.

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Speaker 5: So I just went straight from that to marriage. So

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Speaker 5: the whole dating thing.

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Speaker 2: Is all we need to get you a proper somebody

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Speaker 2: asked you one date?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, actually, this one guy took me on.

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Speaker 5: Like a like a horseback ride, first day mountain.

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Speaker 4: You think it's romantic when you think of his back ride.

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Speaker 3: No, that hurts. Yeah, if you've never you've never ridden

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Speaker 2: When you get off, you still walk bowlet Yeah, if.

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Speaker 3: You know how to ride, you're bouncing.

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Speaker 1: That's only. That's only.

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Speaker 2: It's a good proper date then, like if somebody was

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Speaker 2: want to take you, somebody take me.

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Speaker 5: To dinner, dinner, to a movie to play. You know,

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Speaker 5: somebody asked me to have some you know, and I'm

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Speaker 5: a cheap date.

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Speaker 1: I don't even like lobster.

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Speaker 2: I am too. I don't need seafood, red meat or

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Speaker 2: park not.

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I eat some chicken though, chicken and chicken. Yeah, there

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Speaker 2: we go. Listen, you know youre a cheap date. Of

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Speaker 2: all you eat is chicken. That's always a che menu

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Speaker 2: chick exactly. Listen. I went to this restaurant when I

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Speaker 2: was where was I was? I an Anguilla and no

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna tell you this, everybody was like, where'd you

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Speaker 2: can eat on the menu, all right, So a proper

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Speaker 2: date for you? Would you would like for somebody to

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Speaker 2: just ask you, like, hey, I would love to take

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Speaker 2: you to dinner. Yeah, somebody do this?

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Speaker 3: You just said.

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Speaker 1: I said I never, But that don't mean that I

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Speaker 1: want somebody right now. Join my freedom.

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Speaker 4: I love that for you.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, man, freedom is great. But you know, friendship dates

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Speaker 1: I don't know what that is. It's from my generation.

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Speaker 5: When they took you out, they expected something like like

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Speaker 5: I hang out with a millennial. She was like, I mean,

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Speaker 5: somebody to take me out, but I don't have to put

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Speaker 2: You don't, you don't.

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Speaker 1: But from my generation, that's what we knew.

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Speaker 4: You know what I'm sayingast chicken.

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Speaker 2: And potatoes. That's a shame. I feel like dating is fine,

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Speaker 2: but like, how do you meet somebody? Because you know

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Speaker 2: you're you?

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Speaker 1: You're you?

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Speaker 2: Like, how do you? I just feel like that part

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Speaker 2: is hard because then you know they're texting their homeboys like.

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Speaker 5: Shelby, like, I hang out with millennials and gen Z

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Speaker 5: so I could keep it high, keep it popping, keep

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Speaker 5: it current, right, But.

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Speaker 1: My millennial friends said to me, you know you are

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Speaker 1: not marriage material, and I was like, whoa right, yes

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Speaker 5: Like nah, because all people want to do, all who

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Speaker 5: want to do is Jake Gina.

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Speaker 1: They want to have to a Gina.

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Speaker 2: Okay, so I was.

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Speaker 3: To care for my marriage.

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Speaker 1: So but that's a little hard.

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Speaker 2: You've had other great roles, you know.

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Speaker 3: That's the fantasized about.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, you know, I I guess because Gina was

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Speaker 1: Not far off, so I get the fantasy.

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Speaker 3: However, how.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so I just know I don't do it just

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Speaker 2: Well I almost called you Shelby because I just said that.

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Speaker 2: But people also like the girl that's like a little

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Speaker 1: And that's you.

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Speaker 2: The yeah, and you seem like you just say what

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Speaker 2: it was on your mind.

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Speaker 3: It's not like me. You're like, oh, you're so nice.

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Speaker 3: When they meet me, they just, I guess expect me

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Speaker 3: like I mean, listen, I know I can be a

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Speaker 3: that you know.

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Speaker 4: What I mean.

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Speaker 3: And I'm in my relationship, I'm a libra. So I'm

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Speaker 3: you know what I mean. Yeah, I literally had to

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Speaker 3: I mean, I would do a lot of that. I'm

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Speaker 3: a I'm a caretaker, I like, you know, I take

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Speaker 3: guys out sometimes, you know what I mean, I'm not

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Speaker 3: like it's all about me and like what are you

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Speaker 3: so almost to where.

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Speaker 1: It's too much.

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Speaker 2: I understand what you mean. Sometimes you're just too giving. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: Going to be that way. But at the same time,

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Speaker 3: you gotta watch yourself, yeah, because you know yeah, And

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Speaker 5: So you know, So you have discernment when it comes

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Speaker 3: Well, I don't. I've never really dated dated that much either.

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Speaker 3: And if I've ever dated, it's always just one time.

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Speaker 3: And then you I know, I already.

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Speaker 2: Know, like, say somebody take you on the first date,

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Speaker 2: what would make you be like, never again. I'm all

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Speaker 2: of the icks.

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Speaker 4: What are yours?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: What is something?

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Speaker 3: I remember one guy when I was like, I was

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Speaker 3: getting sleepy, I was just like, I don't I don't

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Speaker 3: remember what happened. I don't remember. Well, there's certain things

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Speaker 3: I have an ick. But I know there was. Okay,

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Speaker 3: this is one thing I do have a thing with.

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Speaker 3: And I know everyone's going to probably be like, oh god,

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Speaker 3: if you smoke weed, It's like, I can't. I don't know.

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Speaker 3: That's not a thing for me. Like if it's if

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Speaker 3: like you smoke as soon as you wake up.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, I agree with that.

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Speaker 3: I'm like, because you're not ever coherent.

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Speaker 2: I like, I a gy who would smok before you

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Speaker 2: even brush his teeth. Oh yeah, like they disgusting. By

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Speaker 2: the way, if you don't even get up, brush your teeth,

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Speaker 2: wipe the crust out your eye, like you know what

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Speaker 2: I'm saying. You get your day, the first thing you

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Speaker 2: I do think that's awful. Yeah, And I don't smoke either, Yeah,

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Speaker 2: but and so I don't like people who like all

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Speaker 3: Yeah, No, I don't know. I'm not against it by

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Speaker 3: going to date you, I don't know if if that's

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Speaker 3: something you do all like every day, I probably couldn't.

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Speaker 3: All right, So when I'm getting lifestyle, yeah, it's totally

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Speaker 3: nothing wrong with it.

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Speaker 1: You're not judging. No, I've tried it.

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Speaker 3: And then I failed algebra and I have no seriously

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Speaker 3: go to night school. That's because I failed. So then

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Speaker 3: it was in the city that I gotta go to Queen's.

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Speaker 3: I gotta go back to Queens. It was night time.

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Speaker 3: I was like, well that was anymore. I'm done. This

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Speaker 2: That was you have trauma associated trauma.

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00:20:17,480 --> 00:20:21,760
Speaker 3: We just brought everything. It just wasn't good. It wasn't good.

451
00:20:21,840 --> 00:20:24,360
Speaker 2: She said, one bad experience and it was over one

452
00:20:24,400 --> 00:20:27,360
Speaker 2: bad experience. I don't even feel like I should say

453
00:20:27,359 --> 00:20:27,679
Speaker 2: this all right?

454
00:20:28,119 --> 00:20:29,040
Speaker 3: From smoking weed?

455
00:20:29,280 --> 00:20:33,399
Speaker 2: No, but I did do ecstasy when it was like,

456
00:20:33,560 --> 00:20:35,479
Speaker 2: you know, I didn't even know it was. Yes, I

457
00:20:35,520 --> 00:20:37,879
Speaker 2: did it, and it was the longest two days in

458
00:20:37,920 --> 00:20:38,439
Speaker 2: my life.

459
00:20:38,800 --> 00:20:39,159
Speaker 3: Really.

460
00:20:39,240 --> 00:20:42,640
Speaker 2: I just say that I cannot sleep. I was like, yeah,

461
00:20:43,119 --> 00:20:45,679
Speaker 2: I was awake. You tried it before too.

462
00:20:45,840 --> 00:20:49,160
Speaker 6: No shrooms did that to me once where I could

463
00:20:49,160 --> 00:20:49,760
Speaker 6: not sleep.

464
00:20:50,040 --> 00:20:52,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, and that's a terrible feeling. And then you look careful, right,

465
00:20:53,240 --> 00:20:56,280
Speaker 2: I looked just worn out, scaring, all right, So I

466
00:20:56,359 --> 00:20:59,040
Speaker 2: understand that's not a bad ache for you to have.

467
00:20:59,320 --> 00:21:03,119
Speaker 5: What about you X Somebody that calls me Gina, Oh,

468
00:21:03,400 --> 00:21:09,880
Speaker 5: that'll do it. My son calls me, that's my job.

469
00:21:12,040 --> 00:21:15,280
Speaker 1: For people who don't know. Somebody showed like I don't

470
00:21:15,280 --> 00:21:18,360
Speaker 1: show my kids my work. But when it was one

471
00:21:18,359 --> 00:21:20,280
Speaker 1: of the waynses. It was Nollawayan's.

472
00:21:20,400 --> 00:21:23,520
Speaker 5: She was basitting and when I left, I came back,

473
00:21:23,560 --> 00:21:24,840
Speaker 5: they were watching the March Show.

474
00:21:25,000 --> 00:21:27,159
Speaker 1: Zek was about three years old. From then on he

475
00:21:27,200 --> 00:21:28,159
Speaker 1: started calling me Gene.

476
00:21:28,160 --> 00:21:31,800
Speaker 4: That's so funny, hilarious.

477
00:21:31,320 --> 00:21:31,639
Speaker 6: It was like.

478
00:21:33,440 --> 00:21:37,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, and he still does it to this day. He's fifteen. Now, Gina,

479
00:21:37,520 --> 00:21:38,080
Speaker 1: what's going on.

480
00:21:39,280 --> 00:21:40,920
Speaker 2: I know, they have to love the fact that their

481
00:21:40,960 --> 00:21:42,800
Speaker 2: mom is like, they don't care.

482
00:21:43,600 --> 00:21:45,960
Speaker 1: I bet at school though, they don't care. As a

483
00:21:45,960 --> 00:21:48,359
Speaker 1: matter of fact, they asked me to.

484
00:21:48,240 --> 00:21:52,080
Speaker 5: Come from my son's school to you know, for Black

485
00:21:52,160 --> 00:21:55,159
Speaker 5: History Month and do a speech. And he was like,

486
00:21:55,280 --> 00:21:55,840
Speaker 5: you can.

487
00:21:55,680 --> 00:21:59,359
Speaker 1: Come, but you you better not tell anybody that I'm your.

488
00:21:59,200 --> 00:22:04,240
Speaker 2: Son randomly coming. Yeah, that I'm just randomly coming to

489
00:22:04,280 --> 00:22:05,000
Speaker 2: the school.

490
00:22:04,840 --> 00:22:06,200
Speaker 4: Not because your son goes.

491
00:22:06,000 --> 00:22:06,440
Speaker 3: To the school.

492
00:22:06,520 --> 00:22:07,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, No, he didn't.

493
00:22:07,520 --> 00:22:09,760
Speaker 4: He didn't want my son was not a student, Yeah,

494
00:22:09,920 --> 00:22:10,760
Speaker 4: not at all.

495
00:22:10,880 --> 00:22:12,960
Speaker 3: I just thought it was just some random ladies showing up.

496
00:22:13,040 --> 00:22:15,280
Speaker 2: Absolutely like how did y'all get her?

497
00:22:15,440 --> 00:22:16,840
Speaker 4: He didn't want the attention.

498
00:22:17,240 --> 00:22:17,720
Speaker 1: He doesn't.

499
00:22:17,760 --> 00:22:21,719
Speaker 5: He doesn't like a lot of attention. He plays around

500
00:22:21,720 --> 00:22:25,040
Speaker 5: with it. But you know, even our our tiktoks, he's like, yeah,

501
00:22:25,040 --> 00:22:27,359
Speaker 5: I seen it been this time, but not the next time.

502
00:22:28,400 --> 00:22:30,720
Speaker 2: That's cute. That's good. It means you raised them right though, Yeah,

503
00:22:30,840 --> 00:22:31,679
Speaker 2: you know that.

504
00:22:31,480 --> 00:22:34,439
Speaker 5: Like I actually wanted them. I didn't want them to

505
00:22:34,480 --> 00:22:36,040
Speaker 5: watch my work because I just wanted them to know

506
00:22:36,160 --> 00:22:38,160
Speaker 5: me as my mom, you know what I mean.

507
00:22:38,240 --> 00:22:39,520
Speaker 1: So that's good.

508
00:22:39,920 --> 00:22:40,080
Speaker 4: Now.

509
00:22:40,119 --> 00:22:43,320
Speaker 2: I wasn't even like doing a movie like Operation Aunties

510
00:22:43,880 --> 00:22:46,040
Speaker 2: and thinking about how these are are. It is a

511
00:22:46,080 --> 00:22:49,000
Speaker 2: serious topic that the movie is addressing, but there's a

512
00:22:49,040 --> 00:22:51,040
Speaker 2: lot of humor in it too. But there were some

513
00:22:51,160 --> 00:22:53,159
Speaker 2: scary moments. The first thing I learned was do not

514
00:22:53,240 --> 00:23:00,600
Speaker 2: drink no water And all right, I didn't know. This

515
00:23:00,640 --> 00:23:02,000
Speaker 2: is based on the Tuesdays on the Truth.

516
00:23:02,080 --> 00:23:02,320
Speaker 1: TJ.

517
00:23:02,520 --> 00:23:05,679
Speaker 5: A'llli wrote it and it was based on a true story.

518
00:23:05,760 --> 00:23:08,000
Speaker 5: He and Wendy really worked the script so that the

519
00:23:08,080 --> 00:23:12,159
Speaker 5: story was strong. But yeah, it's based on a true story.

520
00:23:12,240 --> 00:23:15,000
Speaker 5: And they and Wendy said, she, you know, did a

521
00:23:15,000 --> 00:23:17,240
Speaker 5: lot of research on the dark web and she was

522
00:23:17,240 --> 00:23:21,440
Speaker 5: like going down that rabbit hole was that's scary for real,

523
00:23:21,680 --> 00:23:24,680
Speaker 5: you know, But yeah, it's based on a true story.

524
00:23:24,800 --> 00:23:27,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, that is definitely. I've heard that before, like when

525
00:23:27,480 --> 00:23:30,840
Speaker 2: you get into uber not to never ever get to

526
00:23:30,880 --> 00:23:33,960
Speaker 2: not drink the water and then it's and then also

527
00:23:34,160 --> 00:23:38,400
Speaker 2: don't get into one when you're drunk by yourself, I know, yeah,

528
00:23:38,520 --> 00:23:41,119
Speaker 2: or even by yourself period, that is like nothing you

529
00:23:41,200 --> 00:23:45,240
Speaker 2: can you know safely. I think, do by yourself. That's

530
00:23:45,240 --> 00:23:47,200
Speaker 2: why as women we always like go to the club

531
00:23:47,240 --> 00:23:50,960
Speaker 2: together and leave together and take together. H Do you

532
00:23:50,960 --> 00:23:53,280
Speaker 2: ever feel like has this ever happened to you? You're like,

533
00:23:53,320 --> 00:23:54,680
Speaker 2: did somebody put something in my drink?

534
00:23:55,119 --> 00:23:57,320
Speaker 5: No, but that happened to a friend of mine, and

535
00:23:58,160 --> 00:24:01,560
Speaker 5: she was fine one second, and then she only had

536
00:24:01,600 --> 00:24:04,080
Speaker 5: one glass of wine and then all of a sudden

537
00:24:04,160 --> 00:24:06,560
Speaker 5: she was incoherent, and oh.

538
00:24:06,440 --> 00:24:08,679
Speaker 2: My goodness, we had to take her home and so, well,

539
00:24:08,720 --> 00:24:11,280
Speaker 2: thank god you did you know you.

540
00:24:13,440 --> 00:24:15,880
Speaker 3: I'm not. I've never been a club girl, though I've

541
00:24:15,920 --> 00:24:19,199
Speaker 3: gone out, but yeah, I don't. But I always knew, like,

542
00:24:19,200 --> 00:24:21,160
Speaker 3: you got to watch your drink. But sometimes you know.

543
00:24:21,280 --> 00:24:22,199
Speaker 2: You can't do anything.

544
00:24:22,240 --> 00:24:24,439
Speaker 3: You can't Yeah, you can't be on top of it

545
00:24:24,480 --> 00:24:25,320
Speaker 3: all every time.

546
00:24:25,440 --> 00:24:27,720
Speaker 2: That happened to me. Once, I was at my friend's

547
00:24:27,760 --> 00:24:31,320
Speaker 2: birthday party and I had one drink and it was

548
00:24:31,359 --> 00:24:33,440
Speaker 2: me and my friend. The two of us had one drink,

549
00:24:33,640 --> 00:24:36,359
Speaker 2: and we both were so out of it after that

550
00:24:36,400 --> 00:24:38,960
Speaker 2: one drink. It was an awful night. I'm just say

551
00:24:39,000 --> 00:24:43,800
Speaker 2: that we had a car accident and everything and a

552
00:24:43,840 --> 00:24:45,879
Speaker 2: lot of it that I was like, we blacked out.

553
00:24:45,880 --> 00:24:47,639
Speaker 2: I only had one I don't even think I finished

554
00:24:47,640 --> 00:24:50,320
Speaker 2: the drink, and it was like the worst experience ever,

555
00:24:50,320 --> 00:24:53,160
Speaker 2: but thankfully, like everything was okay. Have you ever felt

556
00:24:53,160 --> 00:24:54,240
Speaker 2: like that Jordie.

557
00:24:54,200 --> 00:24:57,600
Speaker 6: Definitely in college and I actually recently saw this video.

558
00:24:57,600 --> 00:24:58,720
Speaker 1: I don't know if anyone else saw it.

559
00:24:58,800 --> 00:25:01,280
Speaker 6: They were showing you how easy it is to slip

560
00:25:01,320 --> 00:25:05,320
Speaker 6: stuff and drink, and like, even with a group of people,

561
00:25:05,320 --> 00:25:07,240
Speaker 6: you could be mid sentence whether your drink in your

562
00:25:07,240 --> 00:25:09,399
Speaker 6: hand and someone's passing by and just throws it and

563
00:25:09,400 --> 00:25:13,040
Speaker 6: you have no idea. Yeah, was it like a pill

564
00:25:13,119 --> 00:25:17,160
Speaker 6: or was it like a It's like a little yeah,

565
00:25:18,000 --> 00:25:20,360
Speaker 6: It's just like you don't even notice, you don't even

566
00:25:20,359 --> 00:25:20,959
Speaker 6: feel anything.

567
00:25:21,000 --> 00:25:23,080
Speaker 4: You know, you don't know what happened.

568
00:25:23,280 --> 00:25:26,479
Speaker 5: If I'm out a lot of times I'll only drink water,

569
00:25:27,119 --> 00:25:28,880
Speaker 5: and I have to crack the box.

570
00:25:29,840 --> 00:25:32,480
Speaker 1: I don't. I don't drink when i'm out.

571
00:25:32,640 --> 00:25:35,000
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's crazy, how as when we have to take

572
00:25:35,040 --> 00:25:38,679
Speaker 4: so many procrossings because you never know who's actually preying

573
00:25:38,760 --> 00:25:39,960
Speaker 4: on you, you know.

574
00:25:40,880 --> 00:25:44,440
Speaker 5: I do remember this one time, yo, there was this

575
00:25:44,480 --> 00:25:48,879
Speaker 5: one I was I was I was twenty No, I

576
00:25:48,960 --> 00:25:53,159
Speaker 5: was sixteen. I was sixteen, and I went over to

577
00:25:53,240 --> 00:25:58,400
Speaker 5: this guy's house and I remember that he kept trying

578
00:25:58,440 --> 00:26:01,600
Speaker 5: to get me to drink this Coca cola and I

579
00:26:01,640 --> 00:26:03,560
Speaker 5: was like, I'm good, I'm not thirsty, So I just

580
00:26:03,640 --> 00:26:05,919
Speaker 5: kept talking and then he was like, you want some

581
00:26:05,960 --> 00:26:08,719
Speaker 5: more food? Eat the food. Eat the food. And I

582
00:26:08,760 --> 00:26:11,159
Speaker 5: was like, nah, I'm good, I'm full. And he was like,

583
00:26:11,880 --> 00:26:13,959
Speaker 5: so he had to like take me back to Jersey.

584
00:26:14,000 --> 00:26:15,919
Speaker 5: I went all the way over there to.

585
00:26:15,960 --> 00:26:18,040
Speaker 1: Queens to you know, hang out.

586
00:26:18,440 --> 00:26:24,720
Speaker 5: He was actually a music producer and not a famous one. Yeah,

587
00:26:24,800 --> 00:26:28,840
Speaker 5: but when I saw him a couple of years later,

588
00:26:29,560 --> 00:26:30,919
Speaker 5: he was like, hey, I want to I want to

589
00:26:31,280 --> 00:26:36,560
Speaker 5: take you to dinner and no. He brought this photo

590
00:26:36,600 --> 00:26:39,560
Speaker 5: album with him and he and he showed me the

591
00:26:39,600 --> 00:26:41,639
Speaker 5: photo album. He was like, you see this and it

592
00:26:41,720 --> 00:26:46,280
Speaker 5: was a chair that was nailed to the headboard and

593
00:26:46,320 --> 00:26:48,120
Speaker 5: I said, what is this? What am I looking at?

594
00:26:48,320 --> 00:26:51,200
Speaker 5: He said that night that you came over, I put

595
00:26:51,240 --> 00:26:57,080
Speaker 5: something in your drink, he admitted, And he said I

596
00:26:57,200 --> 00:27:00,040
Speaker 5: nailed the chair to the headboard because I was I

597
00:27:00,040 --> 00:27:01,560
Speaker 5: want to put you on the chair and I was

598
00:27:01,560 --> 00:27:02,840
Speaker 5: gonna do this to you and I was going to

599
00:27:02,920 --> 00:27:03,240
Speaker 5: do that to you.

600
00:27:03,359 --> 00:27:04,800
Speaker 1: I was like, are you fucking kidding me?

601
00:27:04,800 --> 00:27:04,919
Speaker 4: What?

602
00:27:05,720 --> 00:27:10,720
Speaker 5: If admitted it, and then she told you.

603
00:27:09,600 --> 00:27:11,080
Speaker 2: That he was proud.

604
00:27:11,480 --> 00:27:12,320
Speaker 1: He was proud.

605
00:27:12,960 --> 00:27:16,760
Speaker 5: He showed he had all these other contraptions and handcuffs,

606
00:27:16,760 --> 00:27:18,919
Speaker 5: and all kinds of other stuff, and he just showed

607
00:27:18,920 --> 00:27:21,159
Speaker 5: me the pictures. He was like, I tried to get

608
00:27:21,240 --> 00:27:24,600
Speaker 5: you to drink the coca cola and you wouldn't drink it.

609
00:27:24,640 --> 00:27:27,040
Speaker 5: Then I'll put it in your in your spaghetti, and

610
00:27:27,080 --> 00:27:27,879
Speaker 5: you wouldn't eat that.

611
00:27:28,080 --> 00:27:28,800
Speaker 2: Oh my God.

612
00:27:29,280 --> 00:27:31,800
Speaker 1: But every time he tried to give me something.

613
00:27:32,119 --> 00:27:33,120
Speaker 4: I don't know, God.

614
00:27:34,640 --> 00:27:37,000
Speaker 2: Saying don't don't eat it, don't drink it.

615
00:27:37,160 --> 00:27:39,040
Speaker 1: I didn't you hear that in my head? Don't drink that,

616
00:27:39,320 --> 00:27:39,879
Speaker 1: don't eat that.

617
00:27:39,960 --> 00:27:42,240
Speaker 2: And he had pictures of these things, had pictures and

618
00:27:42,400 --> 00:27:43,320
Speaker 2: was proud.

619
00:27:43,119 --> 00:27:45,520
Speaker 4: Was proud to tell you that he was trying to

620
00:27:45,560 --> 00:27:46,360
Speaker 4: try you what.

621
00:27:47,160 --> 00:27:48,439
Speaker 1: It's giving criminal minds?

622
00:27:48,600 --> 00:27:48,840
Speaker 3: Right?

623
00:27:49,040 --> 00:27:51,239
Speaker 2: And how did you react? You were like all right?

624
00:27:51,400 --> 00:27:53,000
Speaker 2: And the fact that he didn't think clearly, he didn't

625
00:27:53,000 --> 00:27:54,680
Speaker 2: think there was anything wrong with that. And he's showing

626
00:27:54,680 --> 00:27:55,359
Speaker 2: you this like.

627
00:27:55,400 --> 00:27:56,120
Speaker 1: No he thought.

628
00:27:56,640 --> 00:27:59,080
Speaker 5: And when he when this happened, it was back in

629
00:27:59,200 --> 00:28:01,320
Speaker 5: the ninety so I saw him again when I was twenty,

630
00:28:01,480 --> 00:28:04,240
Speaker 5: so it was like a four year span afternoon when

631
00:28:04,240 --> 00:28:05,000
Speaker 5: I was sixteen.

632
00:28:05,600 --> 00:28:08,800
Speaker 2: And how old was he He had to be old

633
00:28:08,920 --> 00:28:13,240
Speaker 2: nineteen twenty at the time when we when we were

634
00:28:14,080 --> 00:28:18,480
Speaker 2: going to when he made dinner, but yeah, he was

635
00:28:18,840 --> 00:28:22,800
Speaker 2: imagine he probably did that to some other women did Yeah,

636
00:28:23,560 --> 00:28:27,600
Speaker 2: there's no way that Oh my god, right, that is right.

637
00:28:27,800 --> 00:28:29,320
Speaker 2: And when you think about it, like thinking about it now,

638
00:28:29,359 --> 00:28:31,159
Speaker 2: because you know, now seeing a lot of things that

639
00:28:31,200 --> 00:28:33,240
Speaker 2: people have happening, and people are like, what didn't somebody

640
00:28:33,320 --> 00:28:36,000
Speaker 2: say something like at the time, you're just like horrified,

641
00:28:36,960 --> 00:28:41,400
Speaker 2: and it's something that's so like, like, I'm that scary.

642
00:28:41,520 --> 00:28:44,120
Speaker 2: Forgot all about that, yeah until just now, until just now.

643
00:28:44,280 --> 00:28:44,560
Speaker 4: Wow.

644
00:28:44,720 --> 00:28:45,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, their.

645
00:28:45,560 --> 00:28:47,840
Speaker 2: Life it would have been wait, wait, can you imagine

646
00:28:47,840 --> 00:28:51,320
Speaker 2: the type of trauma somebody would have an experience like

647
00:28:51,400 --> 00:28:53,640
Speaker 2: that for the rest of your life. But that's why

648
00:28:53,640 --> 00:28:55,920
Speaker 2: I'm saying, you said, this is a true story based

649
00:28:55,960 --> 00:28:58,320
Speaker 2: on a true story, true story, you know this movie.

650
00:28:58,360 --> 00:29:00,480
Speaker 2: That's why all this stuff is so scared. Even when

651
00:29:00,520 --> 00:29:02,960
Speaker 2: I was watching it, like there were some great laughs

652
00:29:02,960 --> 00:29:06,000
Speaker 2: in there, you know as well, but it's also kind

653
00:29:06,000 --> 00:29:07,560
Speaker 2: of like this is creazy.

654
00:29:07,560 --> 00:29:08,240
Speaker 1: It makes you think.

655
00:29:08,320 --> 00:29:11,000
Speaker 5: I think that the wonderful thing about Operational Aunties is

656
00:29:11,040 --> 00:29:14,200
Speaker 5: that it is entertaining in every single way. I'm there

657
00:29:14,240 --> 00:29:17,000
Speaker 5: for the levity, but you also get to see African

658
00:29:17,040 --> 00:29:22,440
Speaker 5: American women be as brilliant as a Steve Jobs. You

659
00:29:22,440 --> 00:29:24,560
Speaker 5: know what I'm saying, and for I mean, we haven't

660
00:29:24,560 --> 00:29:27,080
Speaker 5: even talked about like what it actually is about.

661
00:29:27,080 --> 00:29:33,280
Speaker 1: It's it's a cyber crime, yeah, drama y, and so

662
00:29:33,680 --> 00:29:36,560
Speaker 1: you get to see us be all the things.

663
00:29:36,600 --> 00:29:38,280
Speaker 5: You get to see us be vulnerable, you get to

664
00:29:38,280 --> 00:29:41,400
Speaker 5: see us being intellectual, you get to see us be comedic,

665
00:29:41,440 --> 00:29:44,320
Speaker 5: you get to see when they even wet.

666
00:29:45,040 --> 00:29:47,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, there's there's drama, there's something vigilanta.

667
00:29:48,960 --> 00:29:51,440
Speaker 5: You're definitely a who done a vigilante type of thing,

668
00:29:51,880 --> 00:29:54,400
Speaker 5: and so you have everything in this movie.

669
00:29:54,200 --> 00:29:56,120
Speaker 2: And I steel like, but it makes you think. It

670
00:29:56,120 --> 00:29:58,120
Speaker 2: also makes you think. It also makes you realize that

671
00:29:58,240 --> 00:30:00,680
Speaker 2: sometimes it could take so long if you have to

672
00:30:00,680 --> 00:30:01,959
Speaker 2: go to the police about something.

673
00:30:02,440 --> 00:30:03,720
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, that's for sure.

674
00:30:03,960 --> 00:30:08,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, the process can feel like injustice.

675
00:30:08,280 --> 00:30:11,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, having been famous as long as you

676
00:30:11,240 --> 00:30:15,600
Speaker 2: both have, have you ever had like stalker situations speaking

677
00:30:15,680 --> 00:30:17,720
Speaker 2: of how long it takes to get because I haven't

678
00:30:17,720 --> 00:30:20,080
Speaker 2: a stocker is a really long process. A lot of

679
00:30:20,120 --> 00:30:23,880
Speaker 2: times the police won't do anything until something actually happens.

680
00:30:25,000 --> 00:30:27,160
Speaker 3: Not in person. I've just had people online where I

681
00:30:27,240 --> 00:30:30,480
Speaker 3: just had to block because every morning, every like another

682
00:30:30,560 --> 00:30:33,080
Speaker 3: message or you know, what I mean, just stuff, just messages,

683
00:30:33,160 --> 00:30:36,080
Speaker 3: but not ever like showing up somewhere.

684
00:30:36,360 --> 00:30:38,520
Speaker 5: When I was on the Martin Show, there was this

685
00:30:38,640 --> 00:30:41,040
Speaker 5: guy who would know where I was going to be

686
00:30:41,040 --> 00:30:42,760
Speaker 5: before I even knew where I was going to be,

687
00:30:43,640 --> 00:30:46,080
Speaker 5: Like if we had to do publicity or press.

688
00:30:46,200 --> 00:30:49,400
Speaker 1: This guy knew anything, and he would call.

689
00:30:49,640 --> 00:30:52,160
Speaker 5: The office of the you know, the Martin Show offices

690
00:30:52,480 --> 00:30:54,920
Speaker 5: and tell people I'm going to be there, tell them

691
00:30:54,960 --> 00:30:56,680
Speaker 5: I'm going to be there, like he would.

692
00:30:56,360 --> 00:30:57,080
Speaker 1: Do that, right.

693
00:30:57,480 --> 00:31:01,080
Speaker 5: And so then one day I'm walking, I'm by myself

694
00:31:02,200 --> 00:31:03,720
Speaker 5: in between scenes.

695
00:31:03,440 --> 00:31:05,479
Speaker 1: And nobody was around for some reason.

696
00:31:05,760 --> 00:31:08,640
Speaker 5: The makeup trailer is on my left, and I see

697
00:31:08,680 --> 00:31:12,440
Speaker 5: these two guys that looked like they shouldn't have been mere, right,

698
00:31:12,960 --> 00:31:15,720
Speaker 5: And so I see them. So I make a quick

699
00:31:15,800 --> 00:31:19,040
Speaker 5: left and I go into the makeup tailer and try

700
00:31:19,120 --> 00:31:21,200
Speaker 5: not to think about it, and put did something in

701
00:31:21,200 --> 00:31:24,200
Speaker 5: the makeup tailer, came back out. They moved closer to

702
00:31:24,200 --> 00:31:27,080
Speaker 5: the makeup tailer, right, So I just said, well, I'm

703
00:31:27,120 --> 00:31:29,320
Speaker 5: just gonna go on the stage because they look creepy, right,

704
00:31:29,680 --> 00:31:33,200
Speaker 5: So I started to walk towards the stage. They said, Tisha,

705
00:31:33,320 --> 00:31:41,080
Speaker 5: it's me, right, and so I said, who's me, and

706
00:31:41,120 --> 00:31:43,479
Speaker 5: he was like, I'm such and such and I know

707
00:31:43,520 --> 00:31:45,000
Speaker 5: you're going to be and I came.

708
00:31:45,280 --> 00:31:47,840
Speaker 1: I snuck on this lot to come see you. Well,

709
00:31:48,120 --> 00:31:52,280
Speaker 1: here's the thing. Most people think that, you know, I'm Gina,

710
00:31:53,560 --> 00:31:54,720
Speaker 1: but bitch, I ain't Gena.

711
00:31:54,840 --> 00:31:56,440
Speaker 2: Okay, So I.

712
00:31:57,240 --> 00:31:59,920
Speaker 1: Went nuts, right, I started cussing them.

713
00:31:59,760 --> 00:32:04,040
Speaker 5: Out I could, Yeah, absolutely, okay, I don't want to

714
00:32:04,040 --> 00:32:09,239
Speaker 5: mess up your sponsor eleven.

715
00:32:10,760 --> 00:32:11,840
Speaker 4: I went straight new.

716
00:32:15,200 --> 00:32:22,239
Speaker 1: Looking over. He said right and would never and they

717
00:32:22,360 --> 00:32:24,880
Speaker 1: both took off running like I was. I was coming

718
00:32:24,920 --> 00:32:34,240
Speaker 1: at him right, there's a lot there, but he was

719
00:32:36,560 --> 00:32:40,080
Speaker 1: knotted up on him real quick. He's never been back.

720
00:32:41,680 --> 00:32:43,120
Speaker 1: I'll do it, I'll do it.

721
00:32:43,400 --> 00:32:48,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, he was like, I stocked the wrong person, all right,

722
00:32:48,240 --> 00:32:51,160
Speaker 2: So fortunately for you it's just online annoying line and

723
00:32:51,320 --> 00:32:51,760
Speaker 2: just block.

724
00:32:52,280 --> 00:32:53,920
Speaker 3: But then they get a new name, you know what

725
00:32:53,920 --> 00:32:54,200
Speaker 3: I mean.

726
00:32:54,240 --> 00:32:55,600
Speaker 1: This is the same picture that pops up.

727
00:32:55,640 --> 00:32:58,920
Speaker 3: I'm like, yeah, so that's it. But even that, the

728
00:32:59,080 --> 00:33:02,440
Speaker 3: stalkers and there, Yeah, it's just even though it's just like,

729
00:33:02,800 --> 00:33:04,920
Speaker 3: come on, it's just I don't even want to go

730
00:33:04,960 --> 00:33:09,520
Speaker 3: online now. Just kind of ruins it. But you know, yeah,

731
00:33:09,960 --> 00:33:13,320
Speaker 3: every time, Yeah, it does make my stomach hurt a

732
00:33:13,320 --> 00:33:13,760
Speaker 3: little bit.

733
00:33:14,160 --> 00:33:16,320
Speaker 2: You know what I wanted to ask you as as

734
00:33:16,600 --> 00:33:19,800
Speaker 2: far as you doing Alvin Ailey, I know that's intense.

735
00:33:20,360 --> 00:33:22,520
Speaker 2: Can you tell me what that experience was like? Because

736
00:33:22,520 --> 00:33:25,680
Speaker 2: I'm Ali is so highly esteemed you know here, and

737
00:33:25,720 --> 00:33:27,480
Speaker 2: I've listened you know how many times I've been to

738
00:33:27,560 --> 00:33:30,480
Speaker 2: like the Alvin Alei Theater and gone to those performances.

739
00:33:30,800 --> 00:33:32,760
Speaker 2: But I would love to hear what your experience was like.

740
00:33:33,560 --> 00:33:36,160
Speaker 3: Okay, Well, I started out at the high School Performing

741
00:33:36,240 --> 00:33:38,920
Speaker 3: Arts in New York City, which you know the Fame movie,

742
00:33:38,960 --> 00:33:42,600
Speaker 3: and so I was a ballet major. Then I took

743
00:33:42,680 --> 00:33:45,000
Speaker 3: modern but the dancers also had to take acting classes.

744
00:33:45,040 --> 00:33:47,240
Speaker 3: So that's how that got woven in at some point.

745
00:33:47,960 --> 00:33:50,360
Speaker 3: But then after, while I was in high school, I

746
00:33:50,440 --> 00:33:53,120
Speaker 3: was on scholarship at the Ale School, so I got

747
00:33:53,160 --> 00:33:55,880
Speaker 3: a scholarship to take classes. After school, I would go

748
00:33:56,120 --> 00:33:58,520
Speaker 3: to the school, the Aley School, to take classes and

749
00:33:58,520 --> 00:34:00,000
Speaker 3: then go home and do my homework and come back

750
00:34:00,160 --> 00:34:02,960
Speaker 3: do it all over again. So once I was on scholarship.

751
00:34:02,960 --> 00:34:05,760
Speaker 3: When you're on scholarship and they know I'm at Performing Arts,

752
00:34:05,920 --> 00:34:09,040
Speaker 3: you know, they start, you see, like I saw they

753
00:34:09,080 --> 00:34:11,759
Speaker 3: the head of the company, Sylvia Waters, like she would

754
00:34:11,800 --> 00:34:14,000
Speaker 3: come into class and pop in and kind of just look,

755
00:34:14,040 --> 00:34:16,640
Speaker 3: and so you knew if she would pop in and

756
00:34:16,719 --> 00:34:18,759
Speaker 3: like she's kind of sculping out who's she's going to

757
00:34:18,800 --> 00:34:23,640
Speaker 3: bring into the company next. And so literally after I

758
00:34:23,680 --> 00:34:25,800
Speaker 3: think I had just graduated, was about to graduate. It

759
00:34:25,880 --> 00:34:27,400
Speaker 3: was in my senior year and I was in the

760
00:34:27,480 --> 00:34:29,560
Speaker 3: kitchen with my mother and she called. She was like,

761
00:34:29,560 --> 00:34:33,160
Speaker 3: this is Silvia Waters. I was like, well, anyway, She

762
00:34:33,200 --> 00:34:34,640
Speaker 3: was like, would you like to join us? And I

763
00:34:34,719 --> 00:34:37,359
Speaker 3: said of course, so yeah, so you know, so while

764
00:34:37,520 --> 00:34:40,239
Speaker 3: so I got in by being on scholarship there, so

765
00:34:40,280 --> 00:34:42,759
Speaker 3: they kind of see you in the class, and then

766
00:34:42,800 --> 00:34:45,719
Speaker 3: she just asked me to join the company. So but

767
00:34:45,800 --> 00:34:49,799
Speaker 3: it was hard. I mean, the choreography is hard, and

768
00:34:49,880 --> 00:34:52,960
Speaker 3: you know, just like acting, it's it's funny because Alvin,

769
00:34:53,760 --> 00:34:57,640
Speaker 3: it wasn't his ballets were kind of like theater piece.

770
00:34:57,680 --> 00:35:00,880
Speaker 3: They were they were you were characters. It wasn't just

771
00:35:01,280 --> 00:35:04,040
Speaker 3: like movement. It's like each like there was a part

772
00:35:04,080 --> 00:35:06,520
Speaker 3: for tall girls, were part for shorter girls, and then

773
00:35:06,680 --> 00:35:11,080
Speaker 3: you it was an acting piece almost characters that they were.

774
00:35:11,120 --> 00:35:13,920
Speaker 3: You were cast as characters, so you know, sometimes there

775
00:35:13,920 --> 00:35:15,160
Speaker 3: was a little type casting. I was like, oh, I

776
00:35:15,200 --> 00:35:18,320
Speaker 3: wish I could do that part, but it's he created

777
00:35:18,360 --> 00:35:20,799
Speaker 3: things just by you know, body type and all this

778
00:35:20,840 --> 00:35:23,200
Speaker 3: other stuff. But that's what I loved about it. So

779
00:35:23,280 --> 00:35:25,719
Speaker 3: it was kind of acting as well. You know, the

780
00:35:25,800 --> 00:35:29,080
Speaker 3: ballets are very still, they're very dramatic, and they're very

781
00:35:29,160 --> 00:35:31,880
Speaker 3: heartfelt and there's you know, a lot of history to it.

782
00:35:32,440 --> 00:35:35,720
Speaker 3: And only one time, one time there was a ballet

783
00:35:35,800 --> 00:35:38,279
Speaker 3: called Streams, and it was very very hard. You know.

784
00:35:38,320 --> 00:35:40,800
Speaker 3: I wasn't like the one that had like the six o'clock,

785
00:35:40,880 --> 00:35:43,040
Speaker 3: you know, and you know the whatever, you know what

786
00:35:43,080 --> 00:35:45,239
Speaker 3: I mean, Like I can my develope wasn't up to

787
00:35:45,320 --> 00:35:47,680
Speaker 3: my head. It wasn't one of those. But I had

788
00:35:47,719 --> 00:35:51,520
Speaker 3: my strengths. And so one time I had a private

789
00:35:51,560 --> 00:35:54,279
Speaker 3: rehearsal with him and it was so scary, but I

790
00:35:54,320 --> 00:35:57,280
Speaker 3: got to like he was sitting there, sitting there watching

791
00:35:57,320 --> 00:36:00,759
Speaker 3: me do He's like rehearse the solo, and he like

792
00:36:01,200 --> 00:36:04,400
Speaker 3: fitted to me because I had my body was different

793
00:36:04,440 --> 00:36:06,239
Speaker 3: than maybe the other person that did it, so he

794
00:36:06,320 --> 00:36:09,480
Speaker 3: kind of molded it to what I to my strengths.

795
00:36:10,360 --> 00:36:11,600
Speaker 3: So I'll never forget that.

796
00:36:11,600 --> 00:36:12,440
Speaker 2: That's such a big deal.

797
00:36:13,320 --> 00:36:17,120
Speaker 3: It was huge. It was scary, but and then after

798
00:36:17,280 --> 00:36:19,239
Speaker 3: he passed whatever. Then I had a rehearsal with the

799
00:36:19,320 --> 00:36:21,359
Speaker 3: first who took over. She was like, it's all wrong,

800
00:36:21,640 --> 00:36:29,920
Speaker 3: like she didn't know it anyway. But it was it

801
00:36:29,960 --> 00:36:33,360
Speaker 3: was a it was an amazing experience and it was hard.

802
00:36:33,440 --> 00:36:35,799
Speaker 3: It was hard, but I wouldn't give it up.

803
00:36:35,840 --> 00:36:36,000
Speaker 4: You know.

804
00:36:36,120 --> 00:36:37,799
Speaker 3: It was one of the some of the best times

805
00:36:37,840 --> 00:36:39,239
Speaker 3: even the high school. It was just some of the

806
00:36:39,239 --> 00:36:41,040
Speaker 3: best times in my life. But it was difficult. It

807
00:36:41,080 --> 00:36:44,160
Speaker 3: wasn't easy. It's really hard choreography and hard on the body.

808
00:36:44,239 --> 00:36:48,080
Speaker 3: And yeah, so after that, I was still taking acting

809
00:36:48,120 --> 00:36:50,000
Speaker 3: classes and then I just kind of transitioned. I did

810
00:36:50,040 --> 00:36:52,600
Speaker 3: some musical theater and stuff like that. But you know,

811
00:36:52,680 --> 00:36:54,400
Speaker 3: that just it was just like a kind of like

812
00:36:54,440 --> 00:36:57,000
Speaker 3: a you know, like what's the word I'm looking for.

813
00:36:57,200 --> 00:36:59,960
Speaker 3: It was just like a smooth transition from the dance

814
00:37:00,040 --> 00:37:03,239
Speaker 3: to but yeah, it was it was grueling, like I

815
00:37:03,280 --> 00:37:06,479
Speaker 3: had like back problems and you know, because yeah, it's not.

816
00:37:06,400 --> 00:37:07,719
Speaker 2: Something you can continue to do.

817
00:37:07,920 --> 00:37:09,680
Speaker 3: Fur yeah a lot.

818
00:37:09,760 --> 00:37:11,319
Speaker 2: And that sounds interesting to me that you don't like

819
00:37:11,360 --> 00:37:13,480
Speaker 2: massages like that, because it feels like it would do

820
00:37:13,760 --> 00:37:14,319
Speaker 2: you some good.

821
00:37:14,800 --> 00:37:17,799
Speaker 3: No, I mean I had to have I didn't have.

822
00:37:20,680 --> 00:37:22,560
Speaker 2: Masses Okay.

823
00:37:22,760 --> 00:37:24,080
Speaker 3: You know you know when they you know, the woman

824
00:37:24,120 --> 00:37:25,719
Speaker 3: gets on top of you and stuff like that, she

825
00:37:25,760 --> 00:37:27,600
Speaker 3: bends you and stuff. So yeah, I've had those and

826
00:37:27,640 --> 00:37:28,600
Speaker 3: those are actually good.

827
00:37:28,719 --> 00:37:30,399
Speaker 2: What about occupacture? You ever do that?

828
00:37:30,840 --> 00:37:31,040
Speaker 7: Yeah?

829
00:37:31,040 --> 00:37:32,960
Speaker 3: And I kind of feel like, well, what are these

830
00:37:33,000 --> 00:37:33,840
Speaker 3: needles doing? I don't know.

831
00:37:33,880 --> 00:37:38,520
Speaker 4: I'm sure it works, but you know you want are

832
00:37:38,560 --> 00:37:39,280
Speaker 4: you into yoga?

833
00:37:40,640 --> 00:37:43,800
Speaker 3: I have done like the hot yoga where it's really hot,

834
00:37:44,200 --> 00:37:46,239
Speaker 3: and you know, it was good because I had I

835
00:37:46,239 --> 00:37:47,960
Speaker 3: could stretch, you know what I mean, so I could

836
00:37:48,000 --> 00:37:51,839
Speaker 3: do the positions. But that's hard to that I had.

837
00:37:52,280 --> 00:37:56,799
Speaker 3: Favorite's so good. It is so like sweat so much.

838
00:37:59,040 --> 00:38:01,200
Speaker 3: I probably should go back to that. I tried to

839
00:38:01,200 --> 00:38:03,480
Speaker 3: take a ballet class the other day and I said

840
00:38:03,640 --> 00:38:06,279
Speaker 3: I stayed too long. I stayed too long in the fair, you.

841
00:38:06,200 --> 00:38:06,600
Speaker 1: Know, that's all.

842
00:38:08,120 --> 00:38:11,719
Speaker 3: I stayed too long and like now my back is hurting. Yea.

843
00:38:12,239 --> 00:38:14,000
Speaker 3: I have a dance background in my mind.

844
00:38:14,040 --> 00:38:17,000
Speaker 4: I went to Arts high school. I took byle since

845
00:38:17,000 --> 00:38:20,200
Speaker 4: the age of in Philadelphia.

846
00:38:21,800 --> 00:38:22,520
Speaker 3: Yeah, I was.

847
00:38:23,840 --> 00:38:29,520
Speaker 4: Yeah, dance was like my dream, like a police I

848
00:38:29,520 --> 00:38:33,160
Speaker 4: can only imagine. Unfortunately, I got pregnant in high school

849
00:38:33,280 --> 00:38:35,800
Speaker 4: and that ended my that part of my dance career.

850
00:38:35,840 --> 00:38:37,840
Speaker 4: I ended the band stripper, but that's a whole different story.

851
00:38:38,000 --> 00:38:46,640
Speaker 4: But I'm looking at Yeah I was. But that's why

852
00:38:46,680 --> 00:38:48,560
Speaker 4: I love yoga so much because I still get to

853
00:38:48,600 --> 00:38:50,920
Speaker 4: have that movement. And I would love to take an

854
00:38:50,920 --> 00:38:53,600
Speaker 4: adult ballet class. I think that would be good.

855
00:38:53,600 --> 00:38:54,399
Speaker 3: You live here in New York.

856
00:38:54,440 --> 00:38:58,000
Speaker 4: I live in Atlanta, but here, but I'm always here.

857
00:38:58,680 --> 00:39:01,520
Speaker 3: The Steps, Steps, And don't get we.

858
00:39:01,480 --> 00:39:02,960
Speaker 4: Don't tell me that it was bad because.

859
00:39:04,280 --> 00:39:07,600
Speaker 3: I went. I had no business. I went to like

860
00:39:08,520 --> 00:39:10,799
Speaker 3: I was my mind. You know, you think I saw

861
00:39:10,840 --> 00:39:13,560
Speaker 3: myself still doing what I was doing. So yeah, no,

862
00:39:13,760 --> 00:39:16,200
Speaker 3: the bar was great. But then I tried to go

863
00:39:16,239 --> 00:39:18,880
Speaker 3: in the center and you know, start jumping around. There's like,

864
00:39:18,920 --> 00:39:21,799
Speaker 3: okay this I just limped off to the side. I

865
00:39:21,800 --> 00:39:25,120
Speaker 3: didn't because I didn't take it slow. I just what

866
00:39:25,760 --> 00:39:25,880
Speaker 3: to do.

867
00:39:26,080 --> 00:39:27,080
Speaker 2: I could not do it.

868
00:39:27,080 --> 00:39:27,959
Speaker 4: It was just so good.

869
00:39:28,040 --> 00:39:30,200
Speaker 3: But you know they have beginners classes at Steps.

870
00:39:30,200 --> 00:39:30,759
Speaker 4: You can go there.

871
00:39:30,840 --> 00:39:32,799
Speaker 3: It's just I took the beginners of ballet because just

872
00:39:32,800 --> 00:39:34,879
Speaker 3: to go take the bar and just work it.

873
00:39:34,800 --> 00:39:35,880
Speaker 2: Out and everything.

874
00:39:35,960 --> 00:39:37,640
Speaker 3: Yeah, you can just do that. It's a great.

875
00:39:38,800 --> 00:39:41,120
Speaker 2: It's like it's also great like for you in the

876
00:39:42,840 --> 00:39:47,040
Speaker 2: of course, yeah, being flexible like that, like, yeah, she

877
00:39:47,040 --> 00:39:53,080
Speaker 2: didn't even hear what I said. That's from probably great

878
00:39:53,080 --> 00:40:04,759
Speaker 2: for in the bedroom, like ballet, and to clarify that, yeah, yeah, listen,

879
00:40:04,840 --> 00:40:06,239
Speaker 2: I want to it's great too.

880
00:40:06,280 --> 00:40:07,960
Speaker 3: I mean it's a it's an art form I took.

881
00:40:08,920 --> 00:40:12,839
Speaker 3: When you're good, like just walk them. It's not easy.

882
00:40:13,040 --> 00:40:14,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's not.

883
00:40:15,680 --> 00:40:20,120
Speaker 4: Workout. It only works out in my life, honestly, and

884
00:40:20,440 --> 00:40:23,480
Speaker 4: it's it's full body, is cores, upper strength. But then

885
00:40:23,520 --> 00:40:26,080
Speaker 4: it's a mental thing too, because you see the professional

886
00:40:26,160 --> 00:40:28,160
Speaker 4: dancers and the women who are on the pole and

887
00:40:28,200 --> 00:40:31,080
Speaker 4: you have not one of those women. You see those

888
00:40:31,080 --> 00:40:32,560
Speaker 4: women doing it, and you're like, oh my god, wow,

889
00:40:32,600 --> 00:40:34,439
Speaker 4: I wonder how you do it. And then when you learn,

890
00:40:34,600 --> 00:40:36,360
Speaker 4: it's such an accomplishment and it's so good for the

891
00:40:36,360 --> 00:40:38,279
Speaker 4: self esteem. I taught those classes for a really long

892
00:40:38,320 --> 00:40:38,799
Speaker 4: time after that.

893
00:40:39,280 --> 00:40:40,840
Speaker 2: And that to be able to.

894
00:40:43,560 --> 00:40:43,759
Speaker 3: Break.

895
00:40:46,200 --> 00:40:48,160
Speaker 2: And you know, you look like you've always had some

896
00:40:48,400 --> 00:40:51,120
Speaker 2: Like watching you on TV and your roles, it just

897
00:40:51,120 --> 00:40:54,080
Speaker 2: looks like you're having such a good time incorporating everything

898
00:40:54,440 --> 00:40:55,800
Speaker 2: that you did do a dancer.

899
00:40:56,440 --> 00:40:59,920
Speaker 5: You are no everybody thinks I am I faked it. Sorry,

900
00:41:00,080 --> 00:41:03,200
Speaker 5: go ahead, I've asked, I'm sorry.

901
00:41:03,280 --> 00:41:04,880
Speaker 2: It's okay, take your time.

902
00:41:06,640 --> 00:41:10,920
Speaker 1: Sorry. So everybody thinks that I'm a dancer, but I

903
00:41:10,960 --> 00:41:14,160
Speaker 1: was never a dancer. I would fake it. Even my

904
00:41:14,280 --> 00:41:15,400
Speaker 1: agent would send.

905
00:41:15,200 --> 00:41:17,880
Speaker 5: Me out on dance auditions because they first saw me

906
00:41:18,120 --> 00:41:23,880
Speaker 5: in a musical on forty second at Theater Row and they.

907
00:41:23,880 --> 00:41:25,560
Speaker 1: Assumed that I was a dancer.

908
00:41:26,840 --> 00:41:29,759
Speaker 5: But no, I was never a dancer. And I had

909
00:41:29,760 --> 00:41:31,120
Speaker 5: to beg them to stop sending.

910
00:41:30,880 --> 00:41:31,920
Speaker 1: Me on dance auditions.

911
00:41:32,160 --> 00:41:35,960
Speaker 5: Oh my god, I would grab it if I was fifteen.

912
00:41:36,000 --> 00:41:37,920
Speaker 5: And when I first got my agent, I was like, well, they.

913
00:41:37,920 --> 00:41:40,359
Speaker 1: Must believe in me because I should really do this.

914
00:41:40,480 --> 00:41:41,840
Speaker 1: And that was horrible.

915
00:41:42,239 --> 00:41:45,279
Speaker 5: And even for the audition for school days, you had

916
00:41:45,320 --> 00:41:48,520
Speaker 5: to do the acting audition and then the callback was

917
00:41:48,560 --> 00:41:51,440
Speaker 5: the dance audition. I didn't know it was a callback,

918
00:41:51,800 --> 00:41:55,480
Speaker 5: and so they had told me, yeah, you know, I

919
00:41:55,520 --> 00:41:56,920
Speaker 5: want you to come in for this dance audient. I

920
00:41:57,000 --> 00:42:00,560
Speaker 5: was like, mm, I'm not coming. I'm not going over there,

921
00:42:01,040 --> 00:42:04,840
Speaker 5: and they then Robbie Reid called me back. I was like,

922
00:42:05,080 --> 00:42:06,840
Speaker 5: te sher, this is the callback for school this.

923
00:42:06,960 --> 00:42:09,200
Speaker 2: I was like, oh, I can be there.

924
00:42:15,560 --> 00:42:18,879
Speaker 5: You know what happened was I said, okay, okay, okay, okay,

925
00:42:18,960 --> 00:42:23,320
Speaker 5: I'm come, but Robbie, tell me what the first audition

926
00:42:23,480 --> 00:42:25,839
Speaker 5: is and your last audition. She was like, it's nine

927
00:42:25,880 --> 00:42:29,480
Speaker 5: am and six pm is the last auditions. I was like,

928
00:42:29,480 --> 00:42:31,200
Speaker 5: give me the six pm. I show up at nine

929
00:42:31,239 --> 00:42:34,400
Speaker 5: am and watch everybody else. No, now watch I'm in

930
00:42:34,760 --> 00:42:35,880
Speaker 5: the I'm learning the.

931
00:42:35,920 --> 00:42:39,960
Speaker 1: Choreography from nine o'clock until six. I didn't take a

932
00:42:40,040 --> 00:42:41,760
Speaker 1: water break. I didn't take a food break.

933
00:42:41,800 --> 00:42:44,400
Speaker 5: I just worked until I could get it in my

934
00:42:44,480 --> 00:42:47,000
Speaker 5: body good enough so that.

935
00:42:47,000 --> 00:42:47,640
Speaker 1: I could try to do.

936
00:42:50,480 --> 00:43:04,120
Speaker 7: Because every okay, she says, you know that said to me, listen,

937
00:43:05,040 --> 00:43:08,920
Speaker 7: you have the moves down, but I'm eighteen.

938
00:43:09,360 --> 00:43:11,080
Speaker 1: You lack sensuality.

939
00:43:11,840 --> 00:43:16,200
Speaker 5: So me and Jasmine were standing next to each other,

940
00:43:16,760 --> 00:43:19,400
Speaker 5: Jazmine guy, and so he says, so I'm gonna have

941
00:43:19,560 --> 00:43:21,480
Speaker 5: you guys take sensuality classes.

942
00:43:21,760 --> 00:43:24,520
Speaker 1: And when what the fuck is that? Right?

943
00:43:24,600 --> 00:43:30,200
Speaker 5: So he goes, I want you to spell the words

944
00:43:30,239 --> 00:43:33,680
Speaker 5: sensuality centraally, and so Jasmine went first, she.

945
00:43:33,680 --> 00:43:35,880
Speaker 1: Goes, s E.

946
00:43:37,360 --> 00:43:47,600
Speaker 5: And how you spell it? But from this part right here,

947
00:43:47,680 --> 00:43:50,800
Speaker 5: he was like, just pretend your breasts are on fire.

948
00:43:51,320 --> 00:43:59,399
Speaker 1: So it wasn't just this. So that's why I have.

949
00:44:00,960 --> 00:44:08,120
Speaker 4: But that's my favorite part of the movie that want

950
00:44:08,120 --> 00:44:09,320
Speaker 4: to be seen. That's what that's.

951
00:44:11,560 --> 00:44:14,640
Speaker 5: They gave me two weeks ahead of time before all

952
00:44:14,640 --> 00:44:17,880
Speaker 5: the other real dancers came in and me and Kime

953
00:44:18,000 --> 00:44:21,520
Speaker 5: we worked really hard together and that I was lacking

954
00:44:21,800 --> 00:44:22,279
Speaker 5: did a girl?

955
00:44:22,520 --> 00:44:25,279
Speaker 2: Thank you and listen Nothing and Nothing one of my

956
00:44:25,280 --> 00:44:28,400
Speaker 2: favorite shows that to this day i'd be like, they

957
00:44:28,400 --> 00:44:30,600
Speaker 2: should have never raxed to Riches was mine?

958
00:44:30,719 --> 00:44:38,279
Speaker 1: Oh that was you that watched that? That was you?

959
00:44:39,719 --> 00:44:43,960
Speaker 5: Oh my god, that's making me sing, oh little Witches sauce.

960
00:44:47,360 --> 00:44:48,240
Speaker 1: Let the Black Girls.

961
00:44:50,120 --> 00:44:53,200
Speaker 2: It's just something about seeing like your representation on TV

962
00:44:53,880 --> 00:44:54,760
Speaker 2: that's a real family.

963
00:44:55,400 --> 00:44:58,240
Speaker 5: At that time, there were no other little black girls

964
00:44:58,239 --> 00:45:02,879
Speaker 5: on yeah, that had just so I was the only

965
00:45:02,960 --> 00:45:04,120
Speaker 5: little black girl.

966
00:45:03,920 --> 00:45:06,200
Speaker 2: On That was a big deal. That's why I was like,

967
00:45:06,400 --> 00:45:10,560
Speaker 2: thank you know watching that, but listen, Operation Auntie's is

968
00:45:10,600 --> 00:45:12,640
Speaker 2: out right now in All Black. I just want to

969
00:45:12,800 --> 00:45:15,279
Speaker 2: give both of you, like just the ultimate props just

970
00:45:15,320 --> 00:45:18,000
Speaker 2: for your careers where you are today, in the background

971
00:45:18,040 --> 00:45:20,160
Speaker 2: that you have, I'm sure y'all have so many stories

972
00:45:20,160 --> 00:45:22,960
Speaker 2: that may one day you could tell, just because I

973
00:45:23,000 --> 00:45:25,279
Speaker 2: want people to see, Like, it's not like y'all just

974
00:45:25,440 --> 00:45:29,840
Speaker 2: became actively like you really put the China scenes and

975
00:45:29,840 --> 00:45:32,080
Speaker 2: got into spaces that were not easy to get into,

976
00:45:32,680 --> 00:45:36,160
Speaker 2: you know, performing arts. We can see like how important

977
00:45:36,200 --> 00:45:38,200
Speaker 2: that is to have that absolutely, you know.

978
00:45:38,160 --> 00:45:40,040
Speaker 1: For our youth development.

979
00:45:40,280 --> 00:45:42,399
Speaker 3: Yeah, we came from the days of the cattle call.

980
00:45:42,560 --> 00:45:43,080
Speaker 1: That's right.

981
00:45:43,480 --> 00:45:48,160
Speaker 3: I remember audition for the series Fame. I'll never forget

982
00:45:48,200 --> 00:45:49,479
Speaker 3: this day. I was there.

983
00:45:49,560 --> 00:45:49,759
Speaker 4: You know.

984
00:45:50,080 --> 00:45:53,040
Speaker 3: First of all, they started outside outside on the street,

985
00:45:53,560 --> 00:45:55,520
Speaker 3: and they type they picked you whether they were even

986
00:45:55,560 --> 00:45:58,800
Speaker 3: gonna let you audition. So they picked me by physical

987
00:45:59,040 --> 00:46:01,040
Speaker 3: They were like, okay, so we will let you audition

988
00:46:01,080 --> 00:46:03,120
Speaker 3: because we physically like the way you look. Gave me

989
00:46:03,160 --> 00:46:05,360
Speaker 3: a number. That was the first stage.

990
00:46:05,640 --> 00:46:07,839
Speaker 1: For people that don't know what cattle calls are.

991
00:46:08,239 --> 00:46:12,480
Speaker 5: It's like American idol all the line.

992
00:46:14,600 --> 00:46:18,000
Speaker 2: In New York on the street, and imagine how it

993
00:46:18,000 --> 00:46:20,080
Speaker 2: feels for people who don't get picked for having the look,

994
00:46:20,480 --> 00:46:22,799
Speaker 2: and they stand you on that line and you get

995
00:46:22,800 --> 00:46:25,600
Speaker 2: cut right there, like Dan, you don't.

996
00:46:25,040 --> 00:46:29,480
Speaker 3: Finished, no, true, you have to say so. Then literally

997
00:46:29,600 --> 00:46:34,719
Speaker 3: that's early early in the morning. I got all the way.

998
00:46:34,840 --> 00:46:37,279
Speaker 3: It took hours. So we're working our way up the

999
00:46:37,320 --> 00:46:39,759
Speaker 3: stairs up in this building in Manhattan. And then so

1000
00:46:39,920 --> 00:46:42,719
Speaker 3: I finally get up to the part where you learn

1001
00:46:42,800 --> 00:46:43,600
Speaker 3: the choreography.

1002
00:46:44,080 --> 00:46:45,480
Speaker 1: Now this is hours of past.

1003
00:46:45,520 --> 00:46:48,480
Speaker 3: I'm not even lying to you. I'm not hours. You're stretching.

1004
00:46:48,520 --> 00:46:52,480
Speaker 3: You got to keep yourself warm. One of my one

1005
00:46:52,480 --> 00:46:55,920
Speaker 3: of my weaknesses was remembering choreography. So whether I was

1006
00:46:55,920 --> 00:46:57,840
Speaker 3: with the Ali company or not, we had rehearsals, so

1007
00:46:57,880 --> 00:47:00,600
Speaker 3: we had time to learn whatever. This was my downfall

1008
00:47:00,600 --> 00:47:03,240
Speaker 3: when I would go to like Broadway auditions, because it

1009
00:47:03,320 --> 00:47:06,400
Speaker 3: was quick, so literally they taught it. This is me

1010
00:47:06,520 --> 00:47:09,920
Speaker 3: after like waiting, like an eight hour day, and I

1011
00:47:09,960 --> 00:47:14,640
Speaker 3: finally get into the room, I went one, two, thank you.

1012
00:47:15,080 --> 00:47:18,359
Speaker 1: I mean, oh god, that's how shay it was.

1013
00:47:19,000 --> 00:47:23,720
Speaker 3: I was shaking. I literally walked down the stairs slow,

1014
00:47:23,880 --> 00:47:27,920
Speaker 3: just tears streaming, like I spent the whole day. I mean,

1015
00:47:27,960 --> 00:47:30,680
Speaker 3: I didn't even get the kickball change. Okay, it was

1016
00:47:30,719 --> 00:47:31,759
Speaker 3: like one too, thank you.

1017
00:47:31,880 --> 00:47:32,200
Speaker 1: It was.

1018
00:47:33,719 --> 00:47:35,799
Speaker 2: No, man, that's crazy.

1019
00:47:35,640 --> 00:47:37,120
Speaker 3: I messed up.

1020
00:47:38,880 --> 00:47:39,200
Speaker 1: Whatever.

1021
00:47:39,280 --> 00:47:40,200
Speaker 3: I don't know, but it was.

1022
00:47:40,239 --> 00:47:42,960
Speaker 2: I was done, and then you went I should have said,

1023
00:47:43,280 --> 00:47:44,560
Speaker 2: let me tell you one more time.

1024
00:47:45,239 --> 00:47:50,040
Speaker 1: No, it was so hard and you're done.

1025
00:47:50,760 --> 00:47:51,560
Speaker 2: Damn. I felt that.

1026
00:47:51,760 --> 00:47:54,880
Speaker 3: Yeah, he pointed it like hit me in the face.

1027
00:47:54,920 --> 00:47:57,239
Speaker 3: It was like a strong point you got to walk

1028
00:47:57,239 --> 00:47:59,360
Speaker 3: out that door. Don't waste no time, don't get in

1029
00:47:59,360 --> 00:47:59,880
Speaker 3: our way, get it.

1030
00:48:00,520 --> 00:48:02,759
Speaker 2: Did you have to Shina de Lena like how you?

1031
00:48:02,760 --> 00:48:06,480
Speaker 2: And but did you have my like in general, like

1032
00:48:06,600 --> 00:48:07,760
Speaker 2: do out all this time.

1033
00:48:07,600 --> 00:48:10,759
Speaker 3: And this stuff by yourself. I'm coming from Queens on

1034
00:48:10,760 --> 00:48:12,439
Speaker 3: the training bus with my.

1035
00:48:12,400 --> 00:48:20,600
Speaker 2: Bag and Sena and I are analogy was anomalaly anomally? Yes? No, listen.

1036
00:48:20,680 --> 00:48:23,640
Speaker 2: I seen Toshina when I was in Where was I?

1037
00:48:23,640 --> 00:48:25,960
Speaker 2: I was in Saint Martin, Yes, and we had a time.

1038
00:48:26,120 --> 00:48:29,120
Speaker 2: She practically lives there. I was. I was in bed

1039
00:48:29,160 --> 00:48:31,560
Speaker 2: asleep and shout out to my boy g Money. He

1040
00:48:31,640 --> 00:48:33,880
Speaker 2: calls me like, hey, I'm in the club with Tshina

1041
00:48:34,040 --> 00:48:36,680
Speaker 2: and she said you should. I was like, get out

1042
00:48:36,760 --> 00:48:44,600
Speaker 2: and going to the club. Good time, okay everybody. It

1043
00:48:44,680 --> 00:48:46,600
Speaker 2: was like one am. I got right up it went

1044
00:48:46,640 --> 00:48:48,000
Speaker 2: because there was no way I was going to pass

1045
00:48:48,040 --> 00:48:48,359
Speaker 2: that up.

1046
00:48:48,440 --> 00:48:49,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, she's a good person.

1047
00:48:49,640 --> 00:48:51,080
Speaker 2: I just want to think both of you. I hope

1048
00:48:51,120 --> 00:48:53,120
Speaker 2: that we can, like you know, come back and do

1049
00:48:53,200 --> 00:48:56,120
Speaker 2: some more because I know y'all have the most amazing

1050
00:48:56,160 --> 00:48:58,360
Speaker 2: stories and this is fine and just like the energy

1051
00:48:58,400 --> 00:49:04,480
Speaker 2: in here, just congratulations aunties on all black. I didn't

1052
00:49:04,520 --> 00:49:06,200
Speaker 2: even know it was based on a true story, but

1053
00:49:06,200 --> 00:49:09,200
Speaker 2: definitely something that may COMBOTX with like you know your

1054
00:49:09,280 --> 00:49:14,680
Speaker 2: kids too, Like yeah, just m male and female. But

1055
00:49:14,760 --> 00:49:16,800
Speaker 2: congratulations and I hope to see more of y'all like

1056
00:49:16,840 --> 00:49:20,520
Speaker 2: hanging out together too. Yes, we love each other all right. Well,

1057
00:49:20,520 --> 00:49:22,680
Speaker 2: thank you so much, Thank you so much.