WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Sneaker Boy

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<v Speaker 1>Second date of date. Some heroes don't wear cakes? What

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<v Speaker 1>do they wear? Some heroes wear size eleven new balanced sneakers.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh dad, superhero and nothing else. Not a good look. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>apparently one of our listeners, Ryan, met a woman the

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<v Speaker 1>other day thanks to his quick thinking shoe heroics. So Ryan,

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<v Speaker 1>is it cool if we call you sneaker boy? Sure? Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>all right? So wait? Are you the naked one in

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<v Speaker 1>the story or is she? Or maybe you're both naked.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if it was a good date. I

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<v Speaker 1>think I just made up the naked stuffsating. But apparently

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<v Speaker 1>shoes come into how they met each other. What's the

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<v Speaker 1>name of the girl that you want us to call?

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<v Speaker 1>Her name is Trinity? Trinity sounds like a superhero name

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<v Speaker 1>by you use? No? How did shoes bring you guys together?

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<v Speaker 1>I use my shoe to kill a spider. You are

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<v Speaker 1>get it? Here we go? So how did that happen?

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<v Speaker 1>Set the scene for us? Where were you did a

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<v Speaker 1>coffee shot? Okay? Okay, okay. I was working on my laptop,

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<v Speaker 1>just working on a project for work, and there's a booth,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, run across from me, and I saw this

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<v Speaker 1>spider crawling up towards this woman, like up the side

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<v Speaker 1>of the booth, ready to go into it, and it

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<v Speaker 1>was like a big one. It's a juicy one, and

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<v Speaker 1>you scream, not today, evil do her? I approached silent

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<v Speaker 1>but deadley. I did, okay, okay, and you got a

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<v Speaker 1>cute girl's attention on top of it. Yeah. I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>know that's what was happening at the time until yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and then I realized that, Yeah, she's an attractive woman

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<v Speaker 1>who I just saved, takes a life, get a number.

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<v Speaker 1>So how did you end up turning that into a date?

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<v Speaker 1>We talked when she thanked me for what I did,

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<v Speaker 1>and then I sat back down. Then she came over

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<v Speaker 1>and asked me if she could buy me a coffee,

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<v Speaker 1>But I had coffee. I was sitting there working, right,

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<v Speaker 1>So so I said, well, how about you know sometime

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<v Speaker 1>in the future. Okay you because she gave me her number. Yeah, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>pretty smooth. That's sweet. So where did you guys end

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<v Speaker 1>up going together? We went out to my favorite tie

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<v Speaker 1>places dinner. Yeah. Yeah, we didn't do coffee, that was

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<v Speaker 1>just the end, you know. But yeah, so we went

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<v Speaker 1>out for dinner. That's awesome, and it's always key to

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<v Speaker 1>take someone to like your favorite place. Yeah, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>the food's good, you know, the service is good, exactly. No,

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<v Speaker 1>the atmosphere it's fun. It's it's a nice place, but

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<v Speaker 1>it's you know, yeah, a good place to talk. Um. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and it was. It was really good. So why The

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<v Speaker 1>only thing I can think of is that I love

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<v Speaker 1>this place so much. And I'm a pretty big guy,

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<v Speaker 1>and I eat a lot of food, and you know,

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<v Speaker 1>tie food, I mean chop sticks. Sometimes it can be

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<v Speaker 1>a little you're eating soup like tom yam or something.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, you can splash back and you can kind

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<v Speaker 1>of make a little bit of a mess of yourself,

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<v Speaker 1>even if you're you know, being cool. You know. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I wanted to eat so I could like have a

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<v Speaker 1>full meal before she came, so I would be like

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<v Speaker 1>pre gamed and then order something light with her and

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<v Speaker 1>just sort of pick at it while we talked at

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<v Speaker 1>Get that strategy. You ate your entire meal before she

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<v Speaker 1>even got there. I ate an entire meal the first course.

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<v Speaker 1>I can put back a lot of Thai foodah me too, right,

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<v Speaker 1>I like that soup, I like that a rice dish

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<v Speaker 1>noodle this, But like with her, I just had that,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, by a salad. So I was just like

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<v Speaker 1>eating something light. But when she arrived, was your table

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<v Speaker 1>all cleaned off? Yeah? Yeah, I had asked the guys

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<v Speaker 1>to reset it. I didn't want it to be weird.

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<v Speaker 1>I came from work, you know, so I was like hungry.

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<v Speaker 1>It might be kind of awkward for her, though, if

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<v Speaker 1>she's eating this big thie meal and you're not eating anything,

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<v Speaker 1>You're just watching her eat the entire time. Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>could make her feel like she's being a glutton. So yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean maybe that's it. That's the only thing I

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<v Speaker 1>can think of. It might have been weird. She mentioned,

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<v Speaker 1>she was like, why you really don't eat much? To you?

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<v Speaker 1>You know, You're like, it seemed weird that a guy

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<v Speaker 1>in my size wasn't eating anything but like a dream

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<v Speaker 1>of salad. And how did you respond to that? Would

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<v Speaker 1>you say? When she said that, I'll just say that's

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<v Speaker 1>how I roll, you know, That's just how I felt.

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<v Speaker 1>I like you, fatty. I don't know. That might be

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<v Speaker 1>a deal breaker for me because I feel like I

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<v Speaker 1>eat a lot. I suppised with a guy who wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>eating I don't looking back, I should just have an

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<v Speaker 1>appetizer and then I eat like a start. So yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>so how did dinner end? Was there like a kiss?

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<v Speaker 1>Was there any romance? I'm not a kiss, but there

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<v Speaker 1>was some romance. We went for a walk afterwards, and

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<v Speaker 1>you know, we were holding hands form part of it.

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<v Speaker 1>You know. It was like a fun kind of very

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<v Speaker 1>easy going into the evening. So when you left, you

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<v Speaker 1>had full thought that you guys were going to hang

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<v Speaker 1>out again. Oh yeah, for sure. And what did she say? Do?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, what was her last words? Uh? I don't

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<v Speaker 1>remember her exact lass words, but she definitely was like, yeah, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>let's do this again, you know, like weird way to

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<v Speaker 1>ask that, though I don't know what her last words

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<v Speaker 1>for her fighting breath, guys know what I mean? I

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<v Speaker 1>mean we left it on that tone of like, we're

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<v Speaker 1>going to do this again. Let's you know. Okay, So

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<v Speaker 1>how long has it been since you last spoke to her?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh that's the last time I spoke to her? And

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<v Speaker 1>I texted her and I called once, but I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>going to call more than one time, you know, But

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<v Speaker 1>I've texted to so I covered both the channels, you know, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>But I mean, like, is that a day ago? Is

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<v Speaker 1>that a week ago. We can ask yeah and nothing

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<v Speaker 1>neshing it's true. Or maybe that spider's family came back

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<v Speaker 1>and finished the job. We okay, check, Maybe she just

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<v Speaker 1>remembered me killing it and guys like this guy's that

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<v Speaker 1>kill I don't like this guy. Well, let's find out.

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<v Speaker 1>We're gonna play a song, we'll come back, we'll call

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<v Speaker 1>Trinity for you, and we'll try and get your second date. Update.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, thanks? What good love story doesn't start with

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<v Speaker 1>a little murder, all of them. That's how one of

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<v Speaker 1>our listeners, Ryan met a woman named Trinity by murdering

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<v Speaker 1>a spider. You're making it sound crawling up the booth

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<v Speaker 1>in the coffee shop where she was sitting. And that's

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<v Speaker 1>why they call him the eight Legged Assassin to the

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<v Speaker 1>super super Guy. They also call him sneaker boy during

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<v Speaker 1>the day at nice is the eight legged Assassin? I

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<v Speaker 1>see I only have two legs the spider at age, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's why here's the assassin and the chopped off his

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<v Speaker 1>own six legs in a rage. That's how they eight

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<v Speaker 1>legged Assassin rolls in surprise, he's not getting a callback.

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<v Speaker 1>Ryan wants us to call a woman named Trinity, who

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<v Speaker 1>he met at a coffee shop. They had a nice

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<v Speaker 1>date together, but afterwards she's completely ghosted and it's been

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<v Speaker 1>a little over a week. So we're going to try

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<v Speaker 1>and help him out. Ryan, how feeling feeling good? Are

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<v Speaker 1>you feeling because you know your theory is that because

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<v Speaker 1>you pregamed with the whole meal before she arrived, that

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<v Speaker 1>she felt like a pig eating in front of you.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you gonna come clean and tell her the truth

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<v Speaker 1>of what you did? Yeah? Well, if that's the issue,

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<v Speaker 1>of course, I'm not going to say it though they

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<v Speaker 1>legged assassin. You come out and say it for you,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, man? So I feel like we're ready to

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<v Speaker 1>call Trinity. Are you feeling ready? I am, okay excited. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>if we can get her on the line, I'm hoping

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<v Speaker 1>that we'll hear what she has to say. All right,

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<v Speaker 1>here we go. I'm gonna doll her number right now. Hello. Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>is this Trinity? Yes, it is hey, Trinity. My name

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<v Speaker 1>is jeff from the radio show Brook and Jeffrey in

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<v Speaker 1>the Morning. Hoping you have a second to talk with us. Okay, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>what is about her? This is about a date that

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<v Speaker 1>you went on recently with a guy who's known by

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<v Speaker 1>many names. Some call him, some call him Sneaker Boys,

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<v Speaker 1>some call him the leg An Assassin, but Layman's people

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<v Speaker 1>would know him as Ryan. How many people are on

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<v Speaker 1>the phone right now, I'm sorry, I don't know. I

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<v Speaker 1>can't count. Yeah, somewhere between three and eight. There's four

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<v Speaker 1>of us. Okay, it's a radio show, Okay, Okay. The

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<v Speaker 1>reason why we're calling is because Ryan told us that

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<v Speaker 1>he went out with you the other night and said

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<v Speaker 1>he had a great time, but afterwards, you haven't been

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<v Speaker 1>responding to him, and he's a little bit confused about

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<v Speaker 1>why he called you guys about this. Yeah, I mean

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<v Speaker 1>he emailed us and then we spoke to him about

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<v Speaker 1>you guys hanging out, and from our end, it sounded

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<v Speaker 1>really nice. Is that okay that he did. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>he's just really excited about you, and he said that

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<v Speaker 1>you hadn't gotten back to him in like over a week. Um, yeah, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So he just wants a little bit to clarity about

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<v Speaker 1>why you ghosted all of a sudden. Oh, this is

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<v Speaker 1>like a little awkward. It's just weird to talk about.

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<v Speaker 1>We went on one It wasn't even I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>if I would call it even like a date. Oh

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<v Speaker 1>why wouldn't you call it a date? You went to

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<v Speaker 1>dinner and you held hands. Honestly, I don't think he

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<v Speaker 1>should be talking to you guys about that. Like this

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<v Speaker 1>was a casual thing between two people. I'm kind of weird.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you in a relationship or something? I'm engaged? Oh okay,

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<v Speaker 1>well that's it. Are you happily engaged? Because it is

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<v Speaker 1>kind of a weird thing to say yes to dinner with.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I understand you're saying your intentions were pretty innocent,

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<v Speaker 1>but I just wanted to buy him a cup of coffee.

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<v Speaker 1>It wasn't this like a huge dinner plan. And then

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<v Speaker 1>he was like, you know, I'll take your number. So

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<v Speaker 1>I was like okay, and I didn't think that much

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<v Speaker 1>of it. And then like he would like want to

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<v Speaker 1>grab a bite to eat, and I'm like sure, and

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<v Speaker 1>then like you know, it became like a sit down dinner.

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<v Speaker 1>Like I didn't even know we're gonna like sit anywhere.

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<v Speaker 1>So it wasn't that formal. But how did your feel

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<v Speaker 1>How did your fiance not come up during conversation? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I've had a little bit of a rough time. We've

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<v Speaker 1>had a rough time. We've been engaged for a little

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<v Speaker 1>over a year now, so it's just been like an

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<v Speaker 1>awkward time, and so I did not want my ring

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<v Speaker 1>that night. Okay, No, I get this, Like sometimes you

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<v Speaker 1>just you want to be friends with guys and they

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<v Speaker 1>always take it too far, interpreted it wrong. Maybe, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>yeah maybe. I mean even if that is the case, Trinity,

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<v Speaker 1>why didn't you just tell Ryan that, like you didn't

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<v Speaker 1>have to ghost him? Well, I mean I can understand too,

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<v Speaker 1>how you know, she kind of didn't know that it

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<v Speaker 1>was happening that way. She was thinking it was just

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<v Speaker 1>a friendship. Yeah. Yeah, and you know, I never it

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't like a date, Like we didn't kiss, It wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>like romantic. That's true. Yeah, And traumatic experiences do bring

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<v Speaker 1>people together, that was what And this might also be

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<v Speaker 1>kind of a traumatic experience because Ryan, I need to

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<v Speaker 1>let you know, Trinity has been on the other line

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<v Speaker 1>listening this whole time and he wants to talk to you.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you serious? Yeah, I'm afraid, so Ryan you there? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm here. Ryan. What are you feeling. I'm feeling, like

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<v Speaker 1>really disappointed because that was like the best date I've

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<v Speaker 1>been on in a really long time. But it was

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<v Speaker 1>a date. I mean it was a dinner date. I

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<v Speaker 1>mean friends can go to dinner. Yeah, not stranger friends

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<v Speaker 1>with the world, dinner with friends that you know totally.

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<v Speaker 1>And I mean, like, Trinity, did you tell your fiance

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<v Speaker 1>that you were going out with Ryan? Not before? Hi? Ryan,

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<v Speaker 1>not beforehand, but after you know, we had just I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not going to say date, after we had this dinner.

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<v Speaker 1>I did talk about it with my fiance. Yes, what

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<v Speaker 1>did he have to say? Yeah? What's happy about that? Note,

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<v Speaker 1>this is a bit of a rough patch. We're okay,

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<v Speaker 1>it's a little awkward right now. Like it was just

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<v Speaker 1>you know, it was a bad timing. We've been fighting

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<v Speaker 1>about how you know long we've been engaged, and yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>so maybe there's I was feeling some things in the

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<v Speaker 1>back of my mind, like I just wanted someone to

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<v Speaker 1>talk to you, and you know, Ryan, you were there.

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<v Speaker 1>So I apologize for giving you mixed messages. Were you

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<v Speaker 1>just like testing it, like let me see what it

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<v Speaker 1>feels like to be out with another guy and then

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<v Speaker 1>you realize you didn't like it and went right back

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<v Speaker 1>to your engagement. No, I mean I did not enjoy it. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I enjoyed it at the time, and I just had

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<v Speaker 1>a guilty conscience after, but yeah, I enjoyed it. So

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<v Speaker 1>if you were engaged, do you go out with Ryan again? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>What are you trying to do? What? I don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>Like you're not You're going through a rough patch. You've

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<v Speaker 1>got a lot of thinking to do right now and

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of reevalue waiting. Where you're at with your relationship.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think that has anything to do with Ryan. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's your own thing. Yeah, I agree. I mean, Trinity

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<v Speaker 1>is your fiance, somebody that you live with currently. No,

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<v Speaker 1>we don't live together. Oh oh okay, where does he live?

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<v Speaker 1>We don't live in the same city. We're doing a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit of a long distance right now. That makes

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<v Speaker 1>way more sense. Why this all happens. When are you

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<v Speaker 1>guys moving to be with each other? Um, it's a

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<v Speaker 1>good question of the drama. So I feel she's not

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<v Speaker 1>going to delete your phone number any time soon. Ryan.

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<v Speaker 1>This is a tough situation where it's like you feel

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<v Speaker 1>the connection between these two, but you don't want to

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<v Speaker 1>break up an engagement. Absolutely, they're both okay with it.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, the fiance doesn't have to know what show Alexa.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, we can't really send you guys out on

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<v Speaker 1>a romantic date. Not officially, but we could send you out.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what I'm saying. Yeah, I don't think i'm feeling

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<v Speaker 1>that well, what about this ron? What what if would

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<v Speaker 1>it be okay? If Trinity calls you, if she needs

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<v Speaker 1>somebody to talk to, I wouldn't say that was okay,

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<v Speaker 1>But I would say if we saw each other in

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<v Speaker 1>the coffee shop, it would be nice. If she said hello,

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<v Speaker 1>I'd like, okay, okay. If there's a spider inside her apartment,

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<v Speaker 1>is it okay? If if it's a poisonous spider, I

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<v Speaker 1>will help her. Yes, there we go. All right, I'll

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<v Speaker 1>bring the shoe sho Okay, look at you with your

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<v Speaker 1>good boundaries. It's just this point because this literally first

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<v Speaker 1>date I've been on that wasn't on an app in forever.

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<v Speaker 1>Rarely that happened. You're so after this, we're just gonna

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<v Speaker 1>be killing insects everywhere. It's Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.