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Speaker 1: Second date of date. Some heroes don't wear cakes? What

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Speaker 1: do they wear? Some heroes wear size eleven new balanced sneakers.

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Speaker 1: Oh dad, superhero and nothing else. Not a good look. Well,

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Speaker 1: apparently one of our listeners, Ryan, met a woman the

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Speaker 1: other day thanks to his quick thinking shoe heroics. So Ryan,

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Speaker 1: is it cool if we call you sneaker boy? Sure? Okay,

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Speaker 1: all right? So wait? Are you the naked one in

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Speaker 1: I don't know if it was a good date. I

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Speaker 1: think I just made up the naked stuffsating. But apparently

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Speaker 1: shoes come into how they met each other. What's the

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Speaker 1: name of the girl that you want us to call?

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Speaker 1: Her name is Trinity? Trinity sounds like a superhero name

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Speaker 1: by you use? No? How did shoes bring you guys together?

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Speaker 1: I use my shoe to kill a spider. You are

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Speaker 1: get it? Here we go? So how did that happen?

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Speaker 1: Set the scene for us? Where were you did a

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Speaker 1: you scream, not today, evil do her? I approached silent

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Speaker 1: but deadley. I did, okay, okay, and you got a

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Speaker 1: So how did you end up turning that into a date?

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Speaker 1: We talked when she thanked me for what I did,

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Speaker 1: But I had coffee. I was sitting there working, right,

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Speaker 1: So so I said, well, how about you know sometime

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Speaker 1: pretty smooth. That's sweet. So where did you guys end

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Speaker 1: up going together? We went out to my favorite tie

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Speaker 1: out for dinner. That's awesome, and it's always key to

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Speaker 1: Get that strategy. You ate your entire meal before she

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Speaker 1: Oh that's the last time I spoke to her? And

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Speaker 1: We're gonna play a song, we'll come back, we'll call

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Speaker 1: All right, thanks? What good love story doesn't start with

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Speaker 1: a little murder, all of them. That's how one of

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Speaker 1: our listeners, Ryan met a woman named Trinity by murdering

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Speaker 1: Ryan wants us to call a woman named Trinity, who

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Speaker 1: he met at a coffee shop. They had a nice

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Speaker 1: all right, man? So I feel like we're ready to

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Speaker 1: here we go. I'm gonna doll her number right now. Hello. Hey,

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Speaker 1: is this Trinity? Yes, it is hey, Trinity. My name

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Speaker 1: is jeff from the radio show Brook and Jeffrey in

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Speaker 1: the Morning. Hoping you have a second to talk with us. Okay, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: what is about her? This is about a date that

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Speaker 1: many names. Some call him, some call him Sneaker Boys,

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Speaker 1: I've had a little bit of a rough time. We've

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Speaker 1: had a rough time. We've been engaged for a little

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Speaker 1: that night. Okay, No, I get this, Like sometimes you

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Speaker 1: why didn't you just tell Ryan that, like you didn't

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Speaker 1: Are you serious? Yeah, I'm afraid, so Ryan you there? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I'm here. Ryan. What are you feeling. I'm feeling, like

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Speaker 1: Rarely that happened. You're so after this, we're just gonna

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