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Speaker 1: together for I don't join me. You gotta use that

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Speaker 1: water the water go. Come come on your thah, I

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Speaker 1: shall will. Good morning everybody. You're listening to the voice,

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Speaker 1: Come on dig me now. One and only Steve Harvey

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Speaker 1: got a radio show. Man. What an amazing blessing. God

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Speaker 1: has given me my health, my dreams, all of it.

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Speaker 1: God gave it to me. I accept it. I work hard,

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Speaker 1: but man on, man on, man, I work hard is

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Speaker 1: something that He gave me a gift. And that's what

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Speaker 1: I want to talk to you about today, because God

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Speaker 1: has gifted everyone, so I can't help but believe it.

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Speaker 1: You are gifted in some way. Something about you it's

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Speaker 1: specially and unique. That doesn't mean you're the only one

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Speaker 1: Are you the only one that can draw? You're the

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Speaker 1: not what it means. Or you have a great scientific

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Speaker 1: mind you can figure things out, or you're good and

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Speaker 1: problem solving. You're not the only one, but you are

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Speaker 1: a unique individual. Nobody will travel the exact path that

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Speaker 1: it happened to you. That's what I mean when I

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Speaker 1: say that you are unique. But now because you are gifted,

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Speaker 1: you know you have something you have to do. You know,

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Speaker 1: there's a scripture. It's in Proverbs, Proverbs eighteen and sixteen.

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Speaker 1: I've been trying to be a little bit better at

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Speaker 1: that for you, you know. So when I have an

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Speaker 1: looked the scripture up from it handed to me. So

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Speaker 1: it's in Proverbs eighteen sixteen. And this is the layman's

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Speaker 1: term of it. It says a man's gift make room

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Speaker 1: your gift that will make room for you. Now my

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Speaker 1: interpretation of this is this. Now I could be wrong.

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Speaker 1: Please go to your local church, Synder God Temple, mass.

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Speaker 1: Whatever you do and go get clarification. But what my

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Speaker 1: taken it almost in the literal sense. My gift has

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Speaker 1: My gift has opened up doors for me. That's what

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Speaker 1: gift has is broadened my ability to travel. My gift

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Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying in terms of it will make

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Speaker 1: pretty sure Bishop Jake's, Joel Oldstein, Ken If Alma, you

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Speaker 1: You're gonna meet people because of your gift. I told

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Speaker 1: You know I'm messing with him like that. But that's

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Speaker 1: never know where it could take you. But that's your guift.

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Speaker 1: take note of what God has given you already. He

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Speaker 1: has given you a gift already. He has already given

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Speaker 1: What we're talking about, Well, what you you blaming God

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Speaker 1: for that? Man? I tell you what. I sit around

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Speaker 1: the other day. Man, the road to success is always

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Speaker 1: It ain't getting ready to be easy just because you

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Speaker 1: but you won't do it. It is within you. Stop

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Speaker 1: looking around. Here's where people waste the most time on

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Speaker 1: to figure out. Man, how can I do what they did?

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Speaker 1: Do what you do? You ain't jay Z, You ain't. Sorry.

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Speaker 1: I got a couple of your homies told you you

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Speaker 1: you're not. You know, all of us then shot at him,

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Speaker 1: but we ain't Richard Pryor a nice shot Steve, Bernie Dierre,

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Speaker 1: not him. Do what you can do? Do you do

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Speaker 1: You're listening ste ladies and gentlemen and boys and girls.

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Speaker 1: Here we are again, And I'm just must say, I

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Speaker 1: I think we passed that time. But we are still

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Speaker 1: If you think rich thoughts, riches will come your way.

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Speaker 1: If you don't believe it, try it. Thank you, Shirley

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Speaker 1: Strawberry Carlin for real, the girl from mississipp Be Monica

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Speaker 1: or Junior and the legend the King of Pranks, Nephew Tommy.

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Speaker 1: They just here. It has begun, Junior Horse, on your mind.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you exactly what's on my mind. Let

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Speaker 1: life how much has been in love cost you? Why? Why?

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Speaker 1: I noticed in love has it cost you a lot? Well,

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Speaker 1: let me say, listen to you. Uh, it's really, Junior Horse,

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Speaker 1: it's all about you know. Forget these songs that talking

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Speaker 1: It is going to cost you your time. It will

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Speaker 1: at times your will of choice. It will cost you

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Speaker 1: at time moments of peace where you want to be alone,

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Speaker 1: but because you're in love, you got to be with somebody.

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Speaker 1: So it's going to cost you in every aspect of

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Speaker 1: So my question is to you, don't you think as

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Speaker 1: being as how knowing how you are. Yes, it was, yes,

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Speaker 1: I'm saying that's a rich man. That's what I like

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Speaker 1: to see that you know a different positions. Let me

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Speaker 1: rich right, all right, all right, thank you for that.

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Speaker 1: Coming up at thirty two minutes after the hour, we're

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Speaker 1: gonna start the show off with the nephew and run

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Speaker 1: that prank back right after this. You're listening Dave Harvey

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Speaker 1: Morning Show. All right, let's go it's time for the

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Speaker 1: nephew to kick things off with run that prank back?

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Speaker 1: What you got enough? Church fees? Church fee, let's go,

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Speaker 1: This is nephew Tommy from the Steve Harvey Morning Joe.

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Speaker 1: Your sister Patrese got me to prank phone call you.

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Speaker 1: love questions. This one's from Anika and Rochester. Anika writes,

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Speaker 1: this year marks the fifth year of my celibacy, and

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Speaker 1: Like often say, God, it's gonna flip the switch, So

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Speaker 1: and Duncanville says, I'm married to doctor Jekyll and mister Hyde.

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Speaker 1: and Birmingham says. My wife got a new job, new lashes,

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Speaker 1: skin that's closest to the hairline, it's different than the

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Speaker 1: skin just below it. That means you need to look

425
00:26:10,000 --> 00:26:16,920
Speaker 1: at that real clothes. Let's with the baby hair, y'all,

426
00:26:17,480 --> 00:26:21,720
Speaker 1: what is that? What is that? That's just style? You know,

427
00:26:21,880 --> 00:26:24,240
Speaker 1: But you can't have a whole head a baby hattle.

428
00:26:24,440 --> 00:26:29,400
Speaker 1: You can't have a baby hair look like you don't

429
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Speaker 1: have on a wig or have piece? Right, you got

430
00:26:33,320 --> 00:26:35,639
Speaker 1: extra hair you can pull down in the front. That

431
00:26:35,840 --> 00:26:38,920
Speaker 1: much mean, well, you just put the hair on the wig.

432
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Speaker 1: That's what you're doing. Smooth that down. I don't know

433
00:26:42,240 --> 00:26:47,159
Speaker 1: how that. I don't know that. You don't need to

434
00:26:47,240 --> 00:26:50,440
Speaker 1: know everything, all our secrets. All right, here we go.

435
00:26:50,800 --> 00:26:55,280
Speaker 1: Bam in Indianapolis says I recently flew to Ohio to

436
00:26:55,480 --> 00:26:58,439
Speaker 1: visit a man that I met online. I found out

437
00:26:58,520 --> 00:27:01,960
Speaker 1: he's married, and then he went ghost on me. I

438
00:27:02,119 --> 00:27:04,120
Speaker 1: fell for the lies when he asked me to get

439
00:27:04,119 --> 00:27:07,200
Speaker 1: a hotel room and pay for my own flight. I

440
00:27:07,240 --> 00:27:10,200
Speaker 1: should have known something was up. So am I wrong

441
00:27:10,320 --> 00:27:15,560
Speaker 1: to expect him to reimburse me for the money I spent? What? What? Well?

442
00:27:15,840 --> 00:27:19,720
Speaker 1: I mean? You just said he ghost at you. If

443
00:27:19,760 --> 00:27:24,200
Speaker 1: a man then't ghosted you? Yeah, how are you gonna get?

444
00:27:25,560 --> 00:27:27,720
Speaker 1: All you gotta do is change his number and you out.

445
00:27:28,960 --> 00:27:31,200
Speaker 1: You don't know where he lived because you got the hotel.

446
00:27:32,280 --> 00:27:34,400
Speaker 1: Why would you fly to somebody for the first time

447
00:27:34,440 --> 00:27:38,320
Speaker 1: and get your own hotel in your own ticket? How'd

448
00:27:38,400 --> 00:27:42,240
Speaker 1: you sell yourself that cheap? Yeah? Just make some desperation?

449
00:27:42,520 --> 00:27:46,399
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, lady, Come on now you want you fail

450
00:27:46,560 --> 00:27:48,840
Speaker 1: for that? Come on, now you want some money? You

451
00:27:48,840 --> 00:27:51,680
Speaker 1: ain't fitting getting no money back? This? This you bought

452
00:27:51,720 --> 00:27:58,160
Speaker 1: this lessons? Yes, well that's the Louis of a time

453
00:27:58,240 --> 00:28:05,640
Speaker 1: bag out the window. Care don't play yourself? Yes, man,

454
00:28:06,480 --> 00:28:11,080
Speaker 1: come on, now, you could have had a Louis. Yeah, bag,

455
00:28:11,160 --> 00:28:14,040
Speaker 1: I'm married. Let that man go. You're right, Clo. She

456
00:28:14,119 --> 00:28:16,920
Speaker 1: should have known something was up. That that's your instinct.

457
00:28:16,960 --> 00:28:19,920
Speaker 1: She should have listened your intuition. She knew something was

458
00:28:20,040 --> 00:28:23,240
Speaker 1: up in the beginning. All women know something's up if

459
00:28:23,280 --> 00:28:27,359
Speaker 1: it seems funny or strange, that show intuition telling you

460
00:28:27,560 --> 00:28:32,640
Speaker 1: that it is. Don't ignore it period. You listen to intuition.

461
00:28:33,160 --> 00:28:38,080
Speaker 1: That's right, I mean seriously, all right, running and end

462
00:28:38,200 --> 00:28:42,200
Speaker 1: up costing you. Yeah, all right, thank you, cello, great advice.

463
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Speaker 1: As usual, coming up at the top of the hour,

464
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Speaker 1: we'll check out Steve's voicemail eight seven seven twenty nine Steve.

465
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Speaker 1: Right after this, you're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right,

466
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Speaker 1: here we go Steve to voicemails. We go eight seven

467
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Speaker 1: seven twenty nine. Steve. This one's from an inspirational caller.

468
00:29:02,720 --> 00:29:06,600
Speaker 1: Let's just say, hey, mister Steve Harvey, you have been

469
00:29:06,600 --> 00:29:09,440
Speaker 1: an inspiration and I want to say thank you. I've

470
00:29:09,520 --> 00:29:12,680
Speaker 1: leaped off that cliff. I put the lead of faith.

471
00:29:13,320 --> 00:29:15,680
Speaker 1: I went out there. I had a job that I

472
00:29:15,840 --> 00:29:17,840
Speaker 1: was going to be making one hundred and fifty thousand

473
00:29:17,880 --> 00:29:21,000
Speaker 1: a year. I quit that job to go out there

474
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Speaker 1: to be an entrepreneur. In two thousand and nine, my

475
00:29:24,640 --> 00:29:28,360
Speaker 1: dad passed away on January thirty first, two weeks later.

476
00:29:28,440 --> 00:29:30,880
Speaker 1: I heard your voice for the first time on a

477
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Speaker 1: morning inspiration and you have inspired me since then. And

478
00:29:34,360 --> 00:29:36,480
Speaker 1: I just want to say thank you. I heard you,

479
00:29:36,600 --> 00:29:40,320
Speaker 1: big bro. I heard you a million times a million.

480
00:29:41,040 --> 00:29:44,560
Speaker 1: You said, think bigger than what anything that only God

481
00:29:44,720 --> 00:29:47,240
Speaker 1: can't be able to give you the answer to it

482
00:29:47,840 --> 00:29:51,320
Speaker 1: a million times a million. I would love to share

483
00:29:51,400 --> 00:29:54,600
Speaker 1: that with you one day. And it's all in the houses.

484
00:29:55,040 --> 00:29:58,560
Speaker 1: Thank you man, Thank you. People hear you, they love you.

485
00:29:59,000 --> 00:30:02,480
Speaker 1: They'll here, they're listening. It's a lot of us who's

486
00:30:02,520 --> 00:30:04,800
Speaker 1: taking that leap of faith. And we are on that

487
00:30:05,000 --> 00:30:08,760
Speaker 1: path because once you got a million upreneurs, we're a

488
00:30:08,800 --> 00:30:12,520
Speaker 1: million dollars. That's the trillion dollars and we can do.

489
00:30:13,320 --> 00:30:17,320
Speaker 1: Love you, big bro. Thank you again, mister Steve Harvey.

490
00:30:17,520 --> 00:30:27,360
Speaker 1: You are the man. You don't know if you reach people. Yeah,

491
00:30:28,680 --> 00:30:31,040
Speaker 1: that was that was that was powerful. I appreciate that

492
00:30:31,160 --> 00:30:34,120
Speaker 1: man from the bottom of my heart. That's that. But

493
00:30:34,320 --> 00:30:38,080
Speaker 1: you know what that's that. That's God's grace. Man. I

494
00:30:38,160 --> 00:30:41,200
Speaker 1: mean you, you can't cut a deal for it. God

495
00:30:41,280 --> 00:30:43,800
Speaker 1: just gives it to you. And something he didn't gave

496
00:30:43,840 --> 00:30:46,360
Speaker 1: me the desires of my heart so many times, and

497
00:30:46,840 --> 00:30:49,640
Speaker 1: and and upped it. Heiter took the desires of my

498
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Speaker 1: heart and put some grace on it to got me

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00:30:52,760 --> 00:30:54,520
Speaker 1: where I ain't. I ain't even asked for that. And

500
00:30:54,680 --> 00:30:58,200
Speaker 1: look up, got that too. Ye got another one, Shirley,

501
00:30:58,320 --> 00:31:01,080
Speaker 1: All right, more boy smell Steve, this is um. Remember

502
00:31:01,120 --> 00:31:04,600
Speaker 1: you do the closing remarks about haters. Drop the mic.

503
00:31:04,840 --> 00:31:08,120
Speaker 1: Let's go see. I I listened to you this Saturday.

504
00:31:08,600 --> 00:31:12,000
Speaker 1: You're closing remarks the most beautiful words I have heard

505
00:31:12,120 --> 00:31:14,960
Speaker 1: in a long time. You may say dropped the mic.

506
00:31:15,400 --> 00:31:18,120
Speaker 1: You should have dropped the mic that time. The coach,

507
00:31:19,040 --> 00:31:23,200
Speaker 1: you really let your haters know that it's all about them,

508
00:31:23,840 --> 00:31:26,960
Speaker 1: because God used them to put you where you are,

509
00:31:27,400 --> 00:31:29,880
Speaker 1: to show you where you had to go. Because I

510
00:31:30,520 --> 00:31:33,280
Speaker 1: believe that it had not been for them hating on you.

511
00:31:33,520 --> 00:31:35,960
Speaker 1: You might not applied to tart, but you then you

512
00:31:36,160 --> 00:31:39,440
Speaker 1: got it and you're moving on and you got gre awesome.

513
00:31:39,920 --> 00:31:47,960
Speaker 1: I love you mine, And you know what, man, I

514
00:31:48,160 --> 00:31:51,560
Speaker 1: was just about to say, I want to change the

515
00:31:51,760 --> 00:31:54,520
Speaker 1: hater closing remarks. I want I want to redo it.

516
00:31:54,560 --> 00:31:56,880
Speaker 1: Because I wanted to add some more to it, because

517
00:31:56,880 --> 00:31:59,360
Speaker 1: I've been thinking about it, because it's really one of

518
00:31:59,400 --> 00:32:05,160
Speaker 1: my favorite closing remarks, because I just because it really

519
00:32:05,280 --> 00:32:07,840
Speaker 1: opened up my heart man, because I was I was

520
00:32:07,920 --> 00:32:13,600
Speaker 1: handling these haters wrong. And then God just started exposing

521
00:32:13,760 --> 00:32:17,240
Speaker 1: to me. Don't listen to me, man, you need them.

522
00:32:18,360 --> 00:32:20,800
Speaker 1: Let me show you what I did. And he just

523
00:32:21,120 --> 00:32:24,480
Speaker 1: revealed it to me one morning I was meditating. He said,

524
00:32:24,920 --> 00:32:27,920
Speaker 1: every time they did this to you, it caused this.

525
00:32:28,800 --> 00:32:31,560
Speaker 1: I want to just show you something. And I really

526
00:32:31,600 --> 00:32:34,120
Speaker 1: started looking at it, man, and like the lady said,

527
00:32:35,040 --> 00:32:37,880
Speaker 1: they didn't know, man, but they made me work harder,

528
00:32:38,000 --> 00:32:41,040
Speaker 1: they made me focus, they made me dry. But the

529
00:32:41,520 --> 00:32:46,960
Speaker 1: biggest gift haters gave me they pushed me up under

530
00:32:47,080 --> 00:32:51,640
Speaker 1: the wings of my heavenly fathers and tucked me under

531
00:32:51,720 --> 00:32:54,760
Speaker 1: that hey man, like I was thinking, Man, you know

532
00:32:54,840 --> 00:32:57,560
Speaker 1: what I actually thought. For the people who actually kicked

533
00:32:57,600 --> 00:32:59,360
Speaker 1: me and thought they was kicking me off to the

534
00:32:59,440 --> 00:33:02,800
Speaker 1: clifford kicking me off the cliff, They actually just kicking

535
00:33:02,880 --> 00:33:05,600
Speaker 1: me into the and into my Lord and save his arms.

536
00:33:06,040 --> 00:33:08,600
Speaker 1: That's all they did. Man. When they laughed about me

537
00:33:08,680 --> 00:33:11,080
Speaker 1: behind my back, they just made me strong. You know

538
00:33:11,280 --> 00:33:14,719
Speaker 1: the one thing, man, the count of the only thing

539
00:33:14,800 --> 00:33:17,840
Speaker 1: that really bothered me about the haters was dudes in

540
00:33:17,960 --> 00:33:21,120
Speaker 1: the barbershop. That that's the one that bothers me the

541
00:33:21,240 --> 00:33:25,000
Speaker 1: most because I've always prided myself on being a man's man,

542
00:33:25,320 --> 00:33:27,920
Speaker 1: and I know I am because there's not a man

543
00:33:28,080 --> 00:33:31,200
Speaker 1: living who knows me who don't know that about me.

544
00:33:31,360 --> 00:33:33,720
Speaker 1: I mean, if you know me, you know that about me,

545
00:33:33,880 --> 00:33:35,800
Speaker 1: then I'm a man's man. I made a lie of

546
00:33:35,880 --> 00:33:38,800
Speaker 1: mistakes with females or who ain't, but when it comes

547
00:33:38,840 --> 00:33:42,360
Speaker 1: to brotherhood, manhood or locked in on that thing right there,

548
00:33:42,720 --> 00:33:45,000
Speaker 1: and I'm really really good at that. I'm an expert

549
00:33:45,080 --> 00:33:47,960
Speaker 1: at it. So when brothers in the barbershop be talking

550
00:33:48,000 --> 00:33:50,000
Speaker 1: about me because they ain't got all the facts or

551
00:33:50,040 --> 00:33:52,520
Speaker 1: they'd have jumped off the bandwagon, you know, man, that

552
00:33:52,640 --> 00:33:55,040
Speaker 1: really kind of bothered me because I go, damned dog,

553
00:33:55,280 --> 00:33:58,760
Speaker 1: y'all too, because I'm a man's man. If you meet

554
00:33:58,800 --> 00:34:01,040
Speaker 1: me as a man and you don't like me, I'm

555
00:34:01,120 --> 00:34:03,800
Speaker 1: telling you, man, really, it's because it's something wrong with you, dog,

556
00:34:04,360 --> 00:34:07,800
Speaker 1: because really, as a man, I really bro you really,

557
00:34:08,040 --> 00:34:12,360
Speaker 1: you come home, man. You can't meet me and not

558
00:34:12,640 --> 00:34:16,799
Speaker 1: know that I'm that dude right there. But now, even

559
00:34:16,880 --> 00:34:21,520
Speaker 1: though the brothers in the barbershop bothered me, the brothers

560
00:34:21,600 --> 00:34:26,000
Speaker 1: in the barbershop helped me out too, because a lot

561
00:34:26,080 --> 00:34:29,960
Speaker 1: of them cats in the barbershop was really cats that

562
00:34:30,080 --> 00:34:32,440
Speaker 1: I thought I was cool with. And that was the

563
00:34:32,560 --> 00:34:36,000
Speaker 1: other purpose of the haters too, so I could stop

564
00:34:36,200 --> 00:34:40,440
Speaker 1: thinking somebody was really all right with me and they

565
00:34:40,520 --> 00:34:43,920
Speaker 1: really wasn't. Because you know, sometimes man, it's just important

566
00:34:43,920 --> 00:34:46,480
Speaker 1: to know who they are. It's important to know who

567
00:34:46,560 --> 00:34:50,080
Speaker 1: people really are in your life, and you got to

568
00:34:50,120 --> 00:34:52,719
Speaker 1: have certain circumstances to bring that about so you can

569
00:34:52,800 --> 00:34:59,279
Speaker 1: now know the truth about them. But it ain't everybody right, no, no, no, no, no, no, no.

570
00:34:59,480 --> 00:35:02,680
Speaker 1: Oh man, I got some great dudes in the barbershop. Yeah,

571
00:35:02,920 --> 00:35:05,680
Speaker 1: there's some great dudes in the barbershop that love me.

572
00:35:05,760 --> 00:35:07,719
Speaker 1: That to defend me. That a stand up from me,

573
00:35:08,360 --> 00:35:10,759
Speaker 1: But he comes to them cancing that it just, you know,

574
00:35:10,880 --> 00:35:14,040
Speaker 1: want to jump on the bandwagon. You know, trolls is everywhere.

575
00:35:14,320 --> 00:35:17,440
Speaker 1: I appreciate the brothers that defend me, that say, hey, man,

576
00:35:17,520 --> 00:35:19,279
Speaker 1: that ain't how that dude is. Y'all don't know how

577
00:35:19,320 --> 00:35:21,360
Speaker 1: he is, So I appreciate it. Go both ways. But

578
00:35:21,480 --> 00:35:23,680
Speaker 1: thank y'all man from bottom of my heart, thank y'all.

579
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Speaker 1: All right, coming up in twenty minutes after the hour,

580
00:35:26,600 --> 00:35:29,680
Speaker 1: we'll talk to our good friends from but Up Melanin

581
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Speaker 1: skincare products. Plus we'll have details and how you can

582
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Speaker 1: qualify for twenty five hundred dollars right after this. You're

583
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Speaker 1: listening show, all right, everybody, Hey, listen, we got a

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Speaker 1: special guest this morning. Kind of feel like family because

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Speaker 1: everybody from down that way. He's a native of Beaumont, Texas,

586
00:35:50,000 --> 00:35:52,000
Speaker 1: but he now lives in LA and he's got a

587
00:35:52,080 --> 00:35:56,319
Speaker 1: flourishing career as a model, actor, recording artist. Now, when

588
00:35:56,520 --> 00:35:58,880
Speaker 1: when he found out that he was spending most of

589
00:35:58,920 --> 00:36:01,239
Speaker 1: his time in front of a ameral, he wanted to

590
00:36:01,320 --> 00:36:06,360
Speaker 1: take better care of his specific skincare needs, which that

591
00:36:06,680 --> 00:36:10,720
Speaker 1: led him to formulate his own product line called Butter

592
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Speaker 1: b U T T A H. And that's the CEO Butter.

593
00:36:14,960 --> 00:36:19,520
Speaker 1: His mission is to give melanie and rich skin the

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00:36:19,640 --> 00:36:24,919
Speaker 1: attention it deserves. That's cold word for black and let's

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00:36:25,000 --> 00:36:29,160
Speaker 1: find out more. Let's find out more about Butter. Please

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00:36:29,200 --> 00:36:33,719
Speaker 1: welcome to the show, the fabulous Dorian Renaud. Good morning, Welcome,

597
00:36:36,080 --> 00:36:40,040
Speaker 1: good big honor to be here this morning. Well, thank you, Dorian,

598
00:36:40,160 --> 00:36:44,320
Speaker 1: thank you so much, Um and congratulations. This is phenomenal

599
00:36:44,400 --> 00:36:47,319
Speaker 1: what you've done. We love the products, We definitely love

600
00:36:47,400 --> 00:36:51,840
Speaker 1: the I'm using it. Thank you. Yeah, this whipped butter,

601
00:36:52,239 --> 00:36:58,439
Speaker 1: this whipped body butter. Yeah, you got my bone head,

602
00:36:58,960 --> 00:37:02,960
Speaker 1: your sun. I'm thirty three and I got a ball

603
00:37:03,040 --> 00:37:05,400
Speaker 1: here too, so I needed it as well. Man. So

604
00:37:07,520 --> 00:37:10,200
Speaker 1: so let's talk about the butter products story. And they

605
00:37:10,320 --> 00:37:14,879
Speaker 1: are based around raw, natural and organic shay and specifically

606
00:37:14,960 --> 00:37:18,800
Speaker 1: formulated for melan and rich skin. What inspired you to

607
00:37:18,960 --> 00:37:23,200
Speaker 1: do the butter line specifically for our skin? Well, I mean,

608
00:37:23,320 --> 00:37:25,600
Speaker 1: you know, I'm from both my Texas small town and

609
00:37:26,400 --> 00:37:29,279
Speaker 1: I grew up in Louisiana, grew up in Houston, And

610
00:37:29,920 --> 00:37:32,319
Speaker 1: I mean, I would say the inspiration came from seeing

611
00:37:32,360 --> 00:37:35,279
Speaker 1: the beautiful black and brown faces around me. My dad

612
00:37:35,360 --> 00:37:38,960
Speaker 1: had a barbershop, shoe shop. He was an entrepreneur, still live,

613
00:37:39,600 --> 00:37:42,680
Speaker 1: and I saw him making people feel good, you know,

614
00:37:42,760 --> 00:37:44,680
Speaker 1: whether they were going to a funeral, whether they were

615
00:37:44,719 --> 00:37:46,799
Speaker 1: going to a wedding. You know, you had to come

616
00:37:46,880 --> 00:37:49,240
Speaker 1: in and get that self care at a young age.

617
00:37:49,280 --> 00:37:53,400
Speaker 1: And I realized that and I had problematic skin growing up.

618
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Speaker 1: I mean, I'm talking about dark sparks, type of pigmentation, acting,

619
00:37:56,760 --> 00:37:59,399
Speaker 1: anything you could think of. And as I entered into

620
00:37:59,440 --> 00:38:02,160
Speaker 1: the entertainment industry, you know, in front of the camera,

621
00:38:02,280 --> 00:38:05,640
Speaker 1: I realized, you know, I didn't quite look like myself

622
00:38:05,960 --> 00:38:08,880
Speaker 1: like I did on television. I was saying, So, you know,

623
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Speaker 1: it started from a little bit of famous, but then

624
00:38:11,640 --> 00:38:13,480
Speaker 1: you know a lot of people started reaching out to

625
00:38:13,600 --> 00:38:16,200
Speaker 1: me after I really found some shape butter on the

626
00:38:16,239 --> 00:38:18,320
Speaker 1: streets of New York modeling, and I mixed that with

627
00:38:18,400 --> 00:38:20,360
Speaker 1: a gentle cleanser and about him a C serum and

628
00:38:20,400 --> 00:38:22,719
Speaker 1: start working for me. And so you know, I found

629
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Speaker 1: that people, especially black men, black women, were embarrassed and

630
00:38:26,320 --> 00:38:28,680
Speaker 1: they were asking me and my DMS or in person, hey,

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Speaker 1: what do you used to be a skin? I'm really

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Speaker 1: struggling with it. And so you know, I brought my

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Speaker 1: formula and my routine to the streets about three years ago,

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Speaker 1: and now we've grown into over twenty five products over

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Speaker 1: just a short amount of time because of the supporting,

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Speaker 1: really the education that we provide. Well, you didn't help

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Speaker 1: a lot of assh your people, because this isn't I

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Speaker 1: have hang on, hang on all right, Joran, hang on,

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Speaker 1: We'll be right back. Okay, okay, right after this, you're

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Speaker 1: listening Morning show. We are back with our very special guest,

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Speaker 1: Story and Renaud, owner and CEO of Butter. That's b

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Speaker 1: ut T a h. It is a skin line for

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Speaker 1: melanin and rich skin that's for black and brown people.

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Speaker 1: He's our special guests this morning, and we just love

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Speaker 1: your products. We want to say that my favorite is

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Speaker 1: the whipped butter. That's my personal favorite. Oh yeah, you

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Speaker 1: go into these stores a lot of times, you send

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Speaker 1: a lot of money on these products, and you look

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Speaker 1: at commercials and you know, up until now, you don't

650
00:39:34,160 --> 00:39:36,759
Speaker 1: really see much representation of us. And you know, I

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Speaker 1: try to provide education so that people were melanan and

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Speaker 1: rich skin know how to take care of their skin

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Speaker 1: and that it's the ingredients in the products that really

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Speaker 1: like work for us. And so you know, the community

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Speaker 1: and everybody that really has supportive Butter and such a

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Speaker 1: short amount of time, so it's really made it successful.

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Speaker 1: But the inspiration always comes from home in the heart

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Speaker 1: of being a black man and seeing our beautiful black

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Speaker 1: mother and and you know, all the different shades of

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Speaker 1: black grown up in the South, Okay, well, I love

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Speaker 1: seeing men with beautiful skin as well. And we've got

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Speaker 1: to commend you jury and on the success of your line.

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Speaker 1: You own it, you operated at the black owned business.

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Speaker 1: It employs black women. I would position absolutely absolutely it's important.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I see beauty through my eyes, but it's

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Speaker 1: important to have black women around me to understand beauties

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Speaker 1: through their lands. And so I have an all black

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Speaker 1: female executive team who's around me and everybody out and

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Speaker 1: my factory in Florida, you know, is multicultural, and so

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Speaker 1: it's important to have women involved because you know, as

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Speaker 1: a man, you know, you look at the woman's skin

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Speaker 1: and I don't know the circles you go through. I

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Speaker 1: don't know what you know what what makeup does to

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Speaker 1: your skin. So I had to do my research, I

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Speaker 1: had to get in the lab. I had to listen

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Speaker 1: to my sisters, my brothers. He was they needed. And

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Speaker 1: that's why I did Butter, and that's why we continue

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Speaker 1: creating products. You know that pretty much the audience asked

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Speaker 1: for and to the Steve Harvey Nation, We're doing a

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Speaker 1: Butter sweep steak. Yeah, you can enter for a chance

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Speaker 1: to win a grand prize. Shopping spree with the twenty

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Speaker 1: first prizes of a butter three piece customizable kit. Butter

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Speaker 1: products are designed to gently cleaned, brightening, moisturized skin daily

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Speaker 1: and formulated especially for Melanie rich complexions and all skin types.

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Speaker 1: You can enter and get the rules at Steve Harvey

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Speaker 1: FM dot com. Everyone needs a little butter baby, right, Dorian,

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Speaker 1: that's right man. You know you like to be said.

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Speaker 1: You cannot be askey and I know a lot of

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Speaker 1: us Black people associate drift again with the world ask

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Speaker 1: you sorry, sorry, it's a lot, but you know we

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Speaker 1: want to we want to do that's word that uh

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Speaker 1: that is that's true to our culture, you know what

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Speaker 1: I mean. And that's one thing that we try to avoid.

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Speaker 1: It's my real body. Butter is amazing because it's imported

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Speaker 1: directly from Ghana, so it's just the real stuff and

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Speaker 1: we whip it down. It has amazing cocoa shade sent

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Speaker 1: to it, so it's not too heavy, you know you

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Speaker 1: it's still smells light. You could put it on from

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Speaker 1: head to toe. I put it on my ball head

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Speaker 1: and put it on my body, on my face, and um, yeah,

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00:42:25,680 --> 00:42:27,839
Speaker 1: it's amazing. It's one of our top sellers that people

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Speaker 1: really love it. But I think Shay Butter goes back

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Speaker 1: to like to us. You know, we grew up our

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00:42:33,120 --> 00:42:36,600
Speaker 1: grandmothers using vaseline and thick products, and so when I

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Speaker 1: thought about, you know, something far our body, I wanted

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Speaker 1: something to think that would give us that glow and

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Speaker 1: and then not have us ashy all day. Surely. Now,

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Speaker 1: I love Dorian. I love the Vitamin c Sum. I

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00:42:50,160 --> 00:42:54,960
Speaker 1: love that it's it's brightening, it hydrates, and I love

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Speaker 1: the Coco Shaye revitalizing cream. So we love your products,

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Speaker 1: love it, love us. But a baby. Yeah, everything from

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Speaker 1: top to bottom, the packaging, everything is just top notch.

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Speaker 1: Beautify you. Yeah, you know it's please and yeah it's

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Speaker 1: like but a baby. It is so Dorian. Continued success

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Speaker 1: to you in your career as an actor and musician

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Speaker 1: and all the things that you do and especially as

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Speaker 1: CEO of BUTTA. Thank you so much. All right, thank

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Speaker 1: you guys. Get all the information you need on Butta

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Speaker 1: at Steve Harvey FM dot com. Dorian, please don't be

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Speaker 1: a stranger. I won't be y'all, and I'm gonna keep

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Speaker 1: sending y'all from y'all, won't be ashy appreciate it, okay,

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Speaker 1: all right? Coming up next, it is the nephew and

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Speaker 1: the praying phone call. Right after this, you're listening to

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Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Coming up at the top

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Speaker 1: of the hour. Right about four minutes after it is

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Speaker 1: my strawberry letter for today. The subject is in love

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Speaker 1: and terrified. We'll get into that. Find out what that

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Speaker 1: Wait till you hear this, find out what that's all about.

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Speaker 1: Right after this, right now, the nephew is here. You

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Speaker 1: hear him with today's prank phone call. What you got

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Speaker 1: for us? And now, if you can't talk straight at

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Speaker 1: the bab shop, then where can you talk straight? Black

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Speaker 1: Man's Country Club ladies, And right I say, yeah, yes, sir,

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Speaker 1: This right here is the Bob Shot Brady. How you doing? Man?

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Speaker 1: My name, my name is Dennis Man. I got a

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Speaker 1: hair cut from you a couple of weeks ago. Ye, hey, listen,

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Speaker 1: I wanted to get an appointment with you man, Like

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Speaker 1: I said, I was there a couple of weeks ago. Man,

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Speaker 1: my first time getting hair cut from you, did real,

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Speaker 1: real good job. So I want to say thank you

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Speaker 1: for that. All right, no, it's not from Okay, do

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Speaker 1: you have any um any time or available on Thursday? Yeah? Yeah,

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00:45:05,960 --> 00:45:08,480
Speaker 1: for sure. Yeah, you come up to Thursday and fine,

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Speaker 1: what's what's what's your name here? Bro? Dennis? Man? Dennis? Okay, Dennis?

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Speaker 1: Why I can get chanting Dennis about about three o'clock, man,

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Speaker 1: something of that nature. I mean, you know, I know

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Speaker 1: the work performers. You know three o'clock you will be there. Yeah, okay. Hey,

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Speaker 1: I got a little bit of a situation though, man,

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00:45:25,719 --> 00:45:28,320
Speaker 1: that happened last time I was there. I kind of

751
00:45:28,360 --> 00:45:30,279
Speaker 1: wanted to talk to you about it, man, because it

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00:45:30,440 --> 00:45:33,320
Speaker 1: kind of called me off guard. So I wanted to

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Speaker 1: how I let you, man and see if we could

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Speaker 1: rectify the problem. For I came back up there. What happened?

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00:45:38,600 --> 00:45:42,640
Speaker 1: What somebody disrespect your something? I mean, what else to do? What? What? Um?

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Speaker 1: It really wasn't something body, man, it was it was

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00:45:45,520 --> 00:45:48,319
Speaker 1: It was it was actually you me whoa? I mean,

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Speaker 1: what's the here's deal? Man? When you was cutting my hair,

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Speaker 1: when it when it was time to turn the chair,

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00:45:55,440 --> 00:45:58,480
Speaker 1: you didn't turn the chair with with with with with

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Speaker 1: your hand man. See Brady man, you you turned the

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00:46:01,760 --> 00:46:06,279
Speaker 1: chair with your with your private part. Oh, come on safe,

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00:46:06,320 --> 00:46:08,359
Speaker 1: then it's I mean, Dannis, I'm a professional man. I've

764
00:46:08,360 --> 00:46:10,719
Speaker 1: been doing this fifteen years, bro right right. I don't

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00:46:10,760 --> 00:46:14,000
Speaker 1: think it's anything deliberate. Man. I think you just do

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00:46:14,160 --> 00:46:16,799
Speaker 1: it unconsciously, man, because you know you be leaning over

767
00:46:16,880 --> 00:46:19,480
Speaker 1: on the chair cutting, and I think you don't realize,

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00:46:19,800 --> 00:46:22,440
Speaker 1: you know, you be turning the chair with your private

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Speaker 1: part instead of doing it with your hand. Man. And see,

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00:46:25,400 --> 00:46:28,000
Speaker 1: my hand got caught out there, and I saw it

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00:46:28,040 --> 00:46:29,800
Speaker 1: out the corner of my eyes. I saw your private

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00:46:29,880 --> 00:46:32,880
Speaker 1: part coming towards my hand. I moved it just in time.

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Speaker 1: You understand, but not see, Dennis, I'm not understanding something.

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00:46:37,800 --> 00:46:40,440
Speaker 1: But because I don't, I don't. We don't operate like that, mind, yes,

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Speaker 1: because you know I don't make mistakes like that. But

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00:46:43,600 --> 00:46:45,080
Speaker 1: I mean, you know, I don't know you. You're sure

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00:46:45,120 --> 00:46:47,160
Speaker 1: you're talking to the right person, man, Yeah, I mean,

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00:46:47,280 --> 00:46:49,360
Speaker 1: ain't you the third chair on the right when you

779
00:46:49,440 --> 00:46:52,200
Speaker 1: walk in the door. Yeah it's correct, Okay, that what

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Speaker 1: I'm talking about, man. And you cut me two weeks ago,

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Speaker 1: and like I said, I really like my hair cut,

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Speaker 1: so I wanted to call back and rectify this problem.

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00:46:58,840 --> 00:47:01,040
Speaker 1: But you know, you, I turn the chair with your

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Speaker 1: head and not your pride part. If now we're gonna

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00:47:03,200 --> 00:47:06,440
Speaker 1: have a problem, okay, Bro, Now I feel it, and

786
00:47:06,640 --> 00:47:10,200
Speaker 1: I understand you your complaint and everything. I mean, I'm

787
00:47:10,239 --> 00:47:13,040
Speaker 1: not understanding what you're saying, but because I don't do that,

788
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Speaker 1: you know. But I mean we will be glad to

789
00:47:15,200 --> 00:47:16,839
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, give you another cut or whatever.

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00:47:16,880 --> 00:47:21,200
Speaker 1: You understanding, you know, but I don't move nobody around

791
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Speaker 1: with my problem. Man, that's just not being Okay. I

792
00:47:24,400 --> 00:47:26,839
Speaker 1: understand what you're saying, but I want you to hear

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Speaker 1: what I'm saying. If you put your private on there

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Speaker 1: at all when I come in there Thursday, then I

795
00:47:34,080 --> 00:47:35,719
Speaker 1: promise you I'm gonna jump up and we're gonna have

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00:47:35,800 --> 00:47:39,200
Speaker 1: a problem, let's see, not now now right there. And

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00:47:39,880 --> 00:47:41,920
Speaker 1: I'm not I'm not feeling that jump up having a

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00:47:42,000 --> 00:47:44,600
Speaker 1: problem because you know, you don't really know me like that. Bro,

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Speaker 1: you know. I mean, I'm trying to be professional here

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00:47:46,920 --> 00:47:49,960
Speaker 1: and and solve your little issue that you got your understanding.

801
00:47:50,040 --> 00:47:52,319
Speaker 1: But but I all this jumping up and stuff you're

802
00:47:52,360 --> 00:47:55,359
Speaker 1: talking about doing, I don't know. I'm trying to come

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00:47:55,400 --> 00:47:57,319
Speaker 1: in and get a nice hair cut, and walk out

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Speaker 1: with a nice hair cut. What I don't want do

805
00:48:00,480 --> 00:48:03,560
Speaker 1: it's come down there, you're lean old, put your private part. Well,

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00:48:03,600 --> 00:48:05,400
Speaker 1: I got my arms in my hands that I got

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Speaker 1: help you. Now, that's what I don't from them. Dude,

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00:48:08,960 --> 00:48:11,200
Speaker 1: you're starting. You're touching the wrong, talking about what you're

809
00:48:11,200 --> 00:48:13,960
Speaker 1: talking about. I'm touching you wrong. You touch me wrong

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00:48:14,080 --> 00:48:16,879
Speaker 1: two weeks ago when you put your private on my hand. Man,

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Speaker 1: I don't know how to touch you. I tell you

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00:48:19,800 --> 00:48:23,080
Speaker 1: feeling say what I don't you talking to man? You

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00:48:23,160 --> 00:48:27,000
Speaker 1: know dog all I'm trying to say, you know, the

814
00:48:27,040 --> 00:48:29,200
Speaker 1: brother trying to come in and get his hair cut

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Speaker 1: and walk out fitting like a man, and not walk

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00:48:31,840 --> 00:48:35,000
Speaker 1: out feeling violated. Man, because you didn't turn the chair

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00:48:35,239 --> 00:48:37,640
Speaker 1: with your private part all up against my head and

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00:48:37,719 --> 00:48:40,279
Speaker 1: my elbow and stuff. Man, you know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 1: You know I'm trying to talk to you. But unles,

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Speaker 1: you're gonna run me wrong. I ain't no punk flying here,

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Speaker 1: and you understanding, they ain't no punk flying that didn't

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Speaker 1: keep it off my hand. Let me tell you something

823
00:48:54,960 --> 00:48:57,759
Speaker 1: fit over here. You ring your stupid so he's gonna

824
00:48:57,760 --> 00:49:02,080
Speaker 1: tell you right understanding and look quickly I'm gonna play

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00:49:02,640 --> 00:49:08,400
Speaker 1: over here. This is Salvan. It's a barbershop. Hear me,

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Speaker 1: I hear what you're saying. But let me explain something.

827
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Speaker 1: You are you using your hips and your private section

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Speaker 1: like a paying ball machine. And I'm gonna tell you

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Speaker 1: right now I will put something on your you. Come on,

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Speaker 1: understand me, dude. I'm just trying to come and get

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Speaker 1: a hair cut. I'm trying to get a hair cut

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Speaker 1: and walk out of there like a man, feeling like

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Speaker 1: a man. Bet open you. I'm gonna open you up. Boy,

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Speaker 1: stand here now now, now, come on here, you know,

835
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Speaker 1: tell you to do something to your heart? What's you

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Speaker 1: want to be? This salon? This is a barber shot.

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Speaker 1: You understand me. Understand hold what I ain't got no time.

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00:49:51,120 --> 00:49:53,520
Speaker 1: I'm not saying, damn out, I got somebody had a

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Speaker 1: cut right now. Ain't got time running a dumb back over.

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Speaker 1: You're gonna come over here too, too straight? I bet

841
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Speaker 1: you did. I don't do it? You feel you know what? Man?

842
00:50:06,400 --> 00:50:09,520
Speaker 1: You come up, come on, commize your shelf and you

843
00:50:09,560 --> 00:50:13,440
Speaker 1: come up to you. Okay, okay, I'm gonna put my

844
00:50:13,560 --> 00:50:15,680
Speaker 1: real name on my shirt. Then you want to know

845
00:50:15,760 --> 00:50:18,839
Speaker 1: what my real name is. That's what's up. That's what's up? Okay,

846
00:50:18,920 --> 00:50:20,279
Speaker 1: Then you might want to you want you want to

847
00:50:20,320 --> 00:50:22,279
Speaker 1: know what name gonna be on the shirt? I want

848
00:50:22,320 --> 00:50:26,120
Speaker 1: to like? Then the name on the shirt is nephew

849
00:50:26,320 --> 00:50:40,719
Speaker 1: Tommy from the Steve Harpin Morning Show. Man say oh man,

850
00:50:41,560 --> 00:50:50,440
Speaker 1: say bro my bad man. Hey, Hey, I got one

851
00:50:50,480 --> 00:50:53,040
Speaker 1: more thing to ask you, man, what is what is

852
00:50:53,120 --> 00:50:56,400
Speaker 1: the baddest and I mean the baddest radio show in

853
00:50:56,520 --> 00:51:06,879
Speaker 1: the land. Man, man can't talk straight at the bobs shot?

854
00:51:07,960 --> 00:51:13,719
Speaker 1: Where can you talk? Boy? Sometime he was professional at

855
00:51:13,760 --> 00:51:18,520
Speaker 1: first and did he went all the weight over there

856
00:51:19,560 --> 00:51:21,680
Speaker 1: to the point where this ain't no I tell you what,

857
00:51:22,120 --> 00:51:25,360
Speaker 1: Come on, man, stop boy. I love I love the

858
00:51:25,520 --> 00:51:29,720
Speaker 1: button that we have that we that we switch. It's quick.

859
00:51:30,040 --> 00:51:37,520
Speaker 1: It's quick. Ain't no in between it because we anticipate

860
00:51:37,760 --> 00:51:42,480
Speaker 1: by we know it's coming. But you know, man, he

861
00:51:43,160 --> 00:51:45,319
Speaker 1: gave it a nice little time where he was being

862
00:51:45,400 --> 00:51:48,080
Speaker 1: you know, I ain't bro, that ain't what we're doing

863
00:51:48,200 --> 00:51:50,440
Speaker 1: up in hire. Man, come up here and then get it.

864
00:51:50,520 --> 00:51:54,600
Speaker 1: Man to your clock. I see you know who me?

865
00:51:55,320 --> 00:51:57,520
Speaker 1: Oh brake, you got me, you show you got me

866
00:51:57,640 --> 00:52:02,799
Speaker 1: your third chair on the right end. Yeah, Yeah, take

867
00:52:05,239 --> 00:52:10,560
Speaker 1: click this switch right here. Yeah, okay, play boy, he

868
00:52:10,719 --> 00:52:13,880
Speaker 1: went hard to Yes, come up in if you want to.

869
00:52:13,960 --> 00:52:16,040
Speaker 1: They're gonna be packing your ass up out of him.

870
00:52:16,160 --> 00:52:21,200
Speaker 1: I said, okay, I'm open up out of there. Yeah.

871
00:52:21,520 --> 00:52:24,399
Speaker 1: When they pack you up out of there, Yeah, you're

872
00:52:24,440 --> 00:52:32,280
Speaker 1: not walking, he said, you will recognize yourself. February tenth, eleventh,

873
00:52:32,360 --> 00:52:35,160
Speaker 1: and twelfth and Nephew coming to Huntsville, Alabama, Stand Up

874
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875
00:52:39,600 --> 00:52:42,719
Speaker 1: is what is that? That's Valentine's and super Bowl weekend. Baby,

876
00:52:42,760 --> 00:52:44,680
Speaker 1: come hang out with your boy, bring your loved one out.

877
00:52:45,000 --> 00:52:48,279
Speaker 1: That's right, Huntsville, Alabama, Stand Up Live Comedy Club. The

878
00:52:48,320 --> 00:52:51,839
Speaker 1: Nephews coming to town. Take its own sail Ridden NA

879
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Speaker 1: d r ET nine Ridden NA, Thank you Crazy Nephew.

880
00:52:58,480 --> 00:53:03,239
Speaker 1: Coming up next this Strawberry letter. The subject is in

881
00:53:03,480 --> 00:53:08,560
Speaker 1: love and terrified. We'll find out of what right after this.

882
00:53:09,239 --> 00:53:13,719
Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Time now

883
00:53:13,840 --> 00:53:18,960
Speaker 1: for today's Strawberry Letter. And if you need advice on relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting,

884
00:53:19,000 --> 00:53:21,960
Speaker 1: and more, police submit your Strawberry letter one of those

885
00:53:22,120 --> 00:53:26,040
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886
00:53:26,200 --> 00:53:29,919
Speaker 1: submit Strawberry Letter. M We could be reading your letter

887
00:53:30,040 --> 00:53:31,920
Speaker 1: live on the air, just like we're going to read

888
00:53:31,960 --> 00:53:33,920
Speaker 1: this one right here, right now, and you never know

889
00:53:34,000 --> 00:53:36,880
Speaker 1: it could be yours all. You just never know. Buckle

890
00:53:37,520 --> 00:53:39,320
Speaker 1: hold on tight. We got it for you here. It

891
00:53:39,520 --> 00:53:44,640
Speaker 1: is just Strawberry letter, subject and love and terrify. Dear

892
00:53:44,719 --> 00:53:48,200
Speaker 1: Stephen Shirley. I'm thirty two and my boyfriend and I

893
00:53:48,320 --> 00:53:51,480
Speaker 1: have been together for six months. He's a great guy

894
00:53:51,640 --> 00:53:55,560
Speaker 1: and everything I hoped for in my second husband. Yes

895
00:53:55,719 --> 00:53:59,239
Speaker 1: I say husband because he's been talking about marriage already.

896
00:53:59,800 --> 00:54:03,279
Speaker 1: We're both divorced and ready to settle down, so we

897
00:54:03,400 --> 00:54:05,560
Speaker 1: got the important stuff out of the way early on.

898
00:54:06,160 --> 00:54:08,640
Speaker 1: I get along great with his parents, and my mother

899
00:54:08,880 --> 00:54:12,120
Speaker 1: loved him. He's in a rental and I own my home,

900
00:54:12,480 --> 00:54:15,160
Speaker 1: so he's planning to move in with me. I have

901
00:54:15,400 --> 00:54:18,600
Speaker 1: fallen for this man and I can't see myself living

902
00:54:18,640 --> 00:54:23,080
Speaker 1: without him. But there's one thing I don't love, and

903
00:54:23,280 --> 00:54:26,640
Speaker 1: that's his size. The first time I got married, I

904
00:54:26,800 --> 00:54:30,040
Speaker 1: was really young and inexperienced, and I had no idea

905
00:54:30,160 --> 00:54:33,719
Speaker 1: how small my first husband was. I had nothing to

906
00:54:33,840 --> 00:54:37,880
Speaker 1: compare to because he's the only other man I've been with.

907
00:54:38,480 --> 00:54:41,440
Speaker 1: The first time I was intimate with my current boyfriend,

908
00:54:41,800 --> 00:54:44,480
Speaker 1: I called my doctor the next day because I was

909
00:54:44,600 --> 00:54:48,400
Speaker 1: sure something was broken below. She let me know that

910
00:54:48,640 --> 00:54:51,320
Speaker 1: everything was fine, and she gave me some items that

911
00:54:51,440 --> 00:54:55,080
Speaker 1: would help with intimacy. None of that stuff works, and

912
00:54:55,200 --> 00:54:57,800
Speaker 1: I feel like I am letting my boyfriend down every

913
00:54:57,840 --> 00:55:00,920
Speaker 1: time he tries to make love to me. Talked about it,

914
00:55:01,280 --> 00:55:04,080
Speaker 1: and he assured me that he loves me and he'll

915
00:55:04,120 --> 00:55:07,480
Speaker 1: be patient with me. He also told me that he's

916
00:55:07,520 --> 00:55:10,960
Speaker 1: never had this problem with the female before. My doctor

917
00:55:11,160 --> 00:55:14,840
Speaker 1: told me there's nothing wrong with my body. He's just

918
00:55:15,200 --> 00:55:21,160
Speaker 1: too large. I'm terrified whenever he starts coming on to me,

919
00:55:21,600 --> 00:55:24,120
Speaker 1: but I try to play it off. We had a

920
00:55:24,200 --> 00:55:27,040
Speaker 1: heated talk about our sex life recently and he admitted

921
00:55:27,120 --> 00:55:30,040
Speaker 1: that he's disappointed and this could be a big deal

922
00:55:30,120 --> 00:55:33,520
Speaker 1: breaker for him. How can he make our intimacy the

923
00:55:33,600 --> 00:55:40,640
Speaker 1: main focus? Does this mean we're not compatible? This letter

924
00:55:40,760 --> 00:55:44,200
Speaker 1: threw me a bit in the beginning, and I got

925
00:55:44,320 --> 00:55:46,319
Speaker 1: to say, this is a problem that many women would

926
00:55:46,360 --> 00:55:48,920
Speaker 1: love to have, and I'm sure many men would love

927
00:55:49,000 --> 00:55:52,520
Speaker 1: to have the same problem. We've had many, many letters

928
00:55:52,600 --> 00:55:54,719
Speaker 1: about the size of men and all of this, but

929
00:55:54,840 --> 00:56:01,000
Speaker 1: it's usually go ahead. We've had any letters about the

930
00:56:01,080 --> 00:56:03,880
Speaker 1: size of men, but usually it's a complaint about them

931
00:56:04,000 --> 00:56:07,520
Speaker 1: being too small, which was the case you say with

932
00:56:07,640 --> 00:56:10,440
Speaker 1: your first husband. But we've never had a letter if

933
00:56:10,480 --> 00:56:12,239
Speaker 1: I can remember, Steve, I don't know if I can

934
00:56:12,320 --> 00:56:16,560
Speaker 1: remember about a man being too large. And I guess

935
00:56:16,600 --> 00:56:19,279
Speaker 1: there's a first time for everything. You say your new

936
00:56:19,360 --> 00:56:22,120
Speaker 1: man is way too much for you, and now you're

937
00:56:22,320 --> 00:56:27,200
Speaker 1: terrified to have sex with him. But you've checked with

938
00:56:27,400 --> 00:56:30,279
Speaker 1: your doctor and you've been checked by her, and she

939
00:56:30,440 --> 00:56:32,520
Speaker 1: said you were okay, and actually she said you were

940
00:56:32,560 --> 00:56:36,000
Speaker 1: better than okay. She said you were fine. He said,

941
00:56:36,400 --> 00:56:38,480
Speaker 1: your new man said he would be patient with you,

942
00:56:38,719 --> 00:56:40,960
Speaker 1: but his patience is running out. This could be a

943
00:56:41,040 --> 00:56:44,480
Speaker 1: deal breaker for him, he's saying, And you know, I

944
00:56:44,560 --> 00:56:47,319
Speaker 1: guess understandably so, because he would want to have sex

945
00:56:47,400 --> 00:56:50,120
Speaker 1: with you if you're going to be his wife, but

946
00:56:50,280 --> 00:56:54,080
Speaker 1: you still haven't been able to. Then you said your

947
00:56:54,120 --> 00:56:57,360
Speaker 1: doctor also said there's nothing wrong with your body and

948
00:56:57,560 --> 00:57:00,480
Speaker 1: he's just too large. I mean, I don't really know

949
00:57:00,560 --> 00:57:03,799
Speaker 1: what to tell you in this in this situation, I mean,

950
00:57:04,000 --> 00:57:07,520
Speaker 1: you guys might not be compared to compatible. You know,

951
00:57:07,960 --> 00:57:10,799
Speaker 1: there could be such a thing as this going along.

952
00:57:10,880 --> 00:57:13,120
Speaker 1: I mean, women have babies every day and all of

953
00:57:13,160 --> 00:57:16,960
Speaker 1: this um. But listen, I don't know what to tell you, honestly,

954
00:57:17,080 --> 00:57:20,240
Speaker 1: unless it's mental or something like that. If you can't physically,

955
00:57:20,760 --> 00:57:26,040
Speaker 1: you can. But the doctor listened to what the doctor said, Steve, Wow,

956
00:57:26,920 --> 00:57:30,480
Speaker 1: Well you know I understand, Shelly do you say we've

957
00:57:30,560 --> 00:57:32,800
Speaker 1: never had a letter like this and everything? But you

958
00:57:32,880 --> 00:57:37,200
Speaker 1: know this is like this is like so so up

959
00:57:37,280 --> 00:57:43,040
Speaker 1: my alec Oh really, people for writing in, you know,

960
00:57:43,120 --> 00:57:47,320
Speaker 1: because game you know, you know, game recognized game right,

961
00:57:47,960 --> 00:57:50,800
Speaker 1: and uh so I have a solution, but we're gonna

962
00:57:50,840 --> 00:57:52,840
Speaker 1: have to get to the solution in the second half

963
00:57:53,040 --> 00:57:56,520
Speaker 1: of this call. Well, let's just go with some fact

964
00:57:56,520 --> 00:57:58,920
Speaker 1: because I'm too like Sherley, I was very confused at

965
00:57:58,960 --> 00:58:02,280
Speaker 1: the beginning of the letter because he's everything you wanted

966
00:58:02,360 --> 00:58:05,080
Speaker 1: in your second husband. You're both divorced, You've gotten all

967
00:58:05,120 --> 00:58:07,640
Speaker 1: of him important stuff out of the way. You get

968
00:58:07,680 --> 00:58:10,320
Speaker 1: along with his parents and mom, your mama love him.

969
00:58:11,160 --> 00:58:13,640
Speaker 1: You know, he's in a rental, I own a home.

970
00:58:13,960 --> 00:58:16,560
Speaker 1: Your sounds like something for me. Were talking about off

971
00:58:16,600 --> 00:58:20,320
Speaker 1: the app he's planning to move in with me. You know,

972
00:58:20,320 --> 00:58:23,160
Speaker 1: I failed for this man. I can't see living without him.

973
00:58:23,200 --> 00:58:26,400
Speaker 1: Blah blah blah blah. And then that's one thing you

974
00:58:26,480 --> 00:58:29,400
Speaker 1: don't love. That's his size. Not quite natural. I'm probably

975
00:58:29,440 --> 00:58:32,080
Speaker 1: like Sherley was reading this letter. Thing what very small.

976
00:58:32,120 --> 00:58:35,320
Speaker 1: We got small problems, you know, got something hem And

977
00:58:35,560 --> 00:58:38,080
Speaker 1: then the first time I got married, you know, then

978
00:58:38,160 --> 00:58:40,480
Speaker 1: you started talking about how you was young and inexperience

979
00:58:40,560 --> 00:58:44,400
Speaker 1: and you had no idea how small your first husband

980
00:58:44,640 --> 00:58:46,840
Speaker 1: was because you didn't have had nothing to compare to.

981
00:58:48,160 --> 00:58:51,200
Speaker 1: And then you got intimate with his current boyfriend, and

982
00:58:51,400 --> 00:58:53,440
Speaker 1: you call your doctor the next day because I was

983
00:58:53,520 --> 00:58:57,720
Speaker 1: sure something was broken below, which means you know, you know,

984
00:58:58,840 --> 00:59:00,760
Speaker 1: came up in there, you know, you know, putting it

985
00:59:00,760 --> 00:59:04,160
Speaker 1: in work. You know, it's just up in there. You

986
00:59:04,280 --> 00:59:07,760
Speaker 1: know he was whoop, he was aggressive. Let's just say

987
00:59:08,480 --> 00:59:11,840
Speaker 1: he was overly aggressively. You thought something had broke. She

988
00:59:12,040 --> 00:59:14,120
Speaker 1: let me know that everything was fine, and she gave

989
00:59:14,160 --> 00:59:16,800
Speaker 1: me some items that could help with intimacy. I don't

990
00:59:16,800 --> 00:59:19,520
Speaker 1: know what that was, you know, I have well, I

991
00:59:19,600 --> 00:59:21,560
Speaker 1: do know what they gave me, but you know that

992
00:59:21,600 --> 00:59:24,320
Speaker 1: ain't what it's let about. None of that stuff works.

993
00:59:24,440 --> 00:59:28,160
Speaker 1: I know that's called homeboard, homeboard, break all that up,

994
00:59:28,280 --> 00:59:30,440
Speaker 1: you know all that little stuff you didn't bought back

995
00:59:30,520 --> 00:59:33,000
Speaker 1: from the doctor homeboy, and was damn about that right there.

996
00:59:34,360 --> 00:59:36,560
Speaker 1: And you know I got some I got some stuff.

997
00:59:36,640 --> 00:59:41,320
Speaker 1: You need to give him. You need to give him

998
00:59:41,400 --> 00:59:44,480
Speaker 1: some stuff because none of that stuff work. And I

999
00:59:44,600 --> 00:59:46,919
Speaker 1: feel like I'm letting him down every time I try

1000
00:59:46,960 --> 00:59:48,560
Speaker 1: to make good of you. When I come back, I

1001
00:59:48,800 --> 00:59:51,560
Speaker 1: had an answer for you. Hold it all right. We'll

1002
00:59:51,600 --> 00:59:56,320
Speaker 1: have part two of Thief Crazy Response coming up at

1003
00:59:56,360 --> 00:59:59,440
Speaker 1: twenty three minutes after the hour. Today's Strawberry Letters subject

1004
00:59:59,520 --> 01:00:04,320
Speaker 1: in love and terrified. We'll get back into it right

1005
01:00:04,360 --> 01:00:10,640
Speaker 1: after this. You're listening, come on, Steve. Let's recap today's

1006
01:00:10,680 --> 01:00:16,880
Speaker 1: strawberry letter. The subject is in love and terrified. Well,

1007
01:00:16,920 --> 01:00:18,840
Speaker 1: that's thirty two year old girl who felt and found

1008
01:00:18,880 --> 01:00:21,000
Speaker 1: a man in her dream, second marriage for both of them,

1009
01:00:21,000 --> 01:00:23,360
Speaker 1: and everything worked out everything. She go on a home

1010
01:00:23,520 --> 01:00:26,040
Speaker 1: he read he gonna move in with her. The girl mama,

1011
01:00:26,120 --> 01:00:30,240
Speaker 1: loving parents, love her, everything going on. She has a

1012
01:00:30,280 --> 01:00:32,800
Speaker 1: problem with his size though I thought he was too small.

1013
01:00:32,920 --> 01:00:35,240
Speaker 1: Turned out through it's just the opposite, because she didn't

1014
01:00:35,240 --> 01:00:37,320
Speaker 1: know how small A first husband was because she didn't

1015
01:00:37,360 --> 01:00:39,800
Speaker 1: had nothing compared to so she thought he was doing something.

1016
01:00:40,120 --> 01:00:42,680
Speaker 1: Then when homeboard came in and put his work helmet on.

1017
01:00:42,840 --> 01:00:45,720
Speaker 1: See homeboard came in the set that igloo cooler down

1018
01:00:45,840 --> 01:00:48,280
Speaker 1: next year to bed and put that put that hat on,

1019
01:00:48,400 --> 01:00:51,400
Speaker 1: that hard hat on, and set that igloo cooler down

1020
01:00:51,520 --> 01:00:53,920
Speaker 1: next to the bed, and crawled up in there on

1021
01:00:54,040 --> 01:00:55,760
Speaker 1: one knee off that bed. And he went up in

1022
01:00:55,840 --> 01:00:59,720
Speaker 1: there and with the work came up in there. Board

1023
01:00:59,720 --> 01:01:01,960
Speaker 1: like a thrown ass man came up in the work.

1024
01:01:02,000 --> 01:01:05,280
Speaker 1: And you know who came up with some artillery boy

1025
01:01:05,400 --> 01:01:07,320
Speaker 1: came up in there there, You know, he up in

1026
01:01:07,360 --> 01:01:10,120
Speaker 1: there with he came up there with military terms and

1027
01:01:10,280 --> 01:01:13,680
Speaker 1: and and and and that, you know, excavation devices and

1028
01:01:14,000 --> 01:01:18,040
Speaker 1: came up in there with mussel launchers and call call

1029
01:01:18,200 --> 01:01:21,720
Speaker 1: up in there with stuff near you with you know,

1030
01:01:21,800 --> 01:01:23,400
Speaker 1: you're in here playing with the little boy. Had the

1031
01:01:23,520 --> 01:01:25,160
Speaker 1: little tenant bad the boy and came up in the

1032
01:01:25,280 --> 01:01:27,720
Speaker 1: bard with some stuff that they don't even sell in

1033
01:01:27,800 --> 01:01:29,880
Speaker 1: the gi Joe is no more, you know. So he

1034
01:01:30,000 --> 01:01:32,640
Speaker 1: came up in there and putting in work and it

1035
01:01:33,080 --> 01:01:35,080
Speaker 1: came up there so where you went to doctor next day,

1036
01:01:35,120 --> 01:01:37,080
Speaker 1: You thought this man broke some because he'd better been

1037
01:01:37,120 --> 01:01:40,280
Speaker 1: there just clowning. You know, he all he up on

1038
01:01:40,440 --> 01:01:43,520
Speaker 1: all ten of his toes, just black. He just got

1039
01:01:43,600 --> 01:01:46,680
Speaker 1: his toes flex. He help in there, just let nickta.

1040
01:01:46,760 --> 01:01:51,040
Speaker 1: And so anyway we have a problem. And now the

1041
01:01:51,200 --> 01:01:56,000
Speaker 1: doctor and gave you some stuff to help you deal

1042
01:01:56,080 --> 01:01:58,439
Speaker 1: with this. But the problem ain't chew because there's nothing

1043
01:01:58,480 --> 01:02:01,000
Speaker 1: wrong with you. It's just the often told you he's

1044
01:02:01,040 --> 01:02:04,480
Speaker 1: too large. So see he got started taking stuff. You know.

1045
01:02:04,600 --> 01:02:06,880
Speaker 1: So now I don't hard to tell you this hill,

1046
01:02:06,960 --> 01:02:09,840
Speaker 1: but you got to You got to get him to

1047
01:02:09,920 --> 01:02:15,400
Speaker 1: the point where he gets excited a lot quicker. It's

1048
01:02:15,440 --> 01:02:17,480
Speaker 1: what I'm trying to tell you. You got to give

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Speaker 1: him to get to where he going faster so he

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Speaker 1: ain't in there creating damage. And so what I'm about

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Speaker 1: to tell you as how this is going to work.

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Speaker 1: Doctor told is nothing wrong with your body. He just

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Speaker 1: too large. I'm terrified when he started coming on me,

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Speaker 1: but I played off. We had a head talk about

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Speaker 1: our sex life. Recently, he admitted he's disappointed and this

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Speaker 1: could be a big deal breaker for him because he's

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Speaker 1: never had this problem with a female before. He says

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Speaker 1: he's never had this problem with a female before, but

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Speaker 1: he ain't with nobody though. Is he's had a problem

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Speaker 1: some women had just walked out us his life, just

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Speaker 1: got up and gotten the car, drove off and never

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Speaker 1: called her back. Nothing to do this no more with you,

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Speaker 1: his partner. You ain't find to come up in the

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Speaker 1: hill like you're looking for all every evening. We're not

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Speaker 1: fend to do this. So how can he make our

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Speaker 1: intimacy the main focus? Does this mean we're not compatible? Well,

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Speaker 1: here's what has to happen. You have to have a

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Speaker 1: talk with this young man because he's thirty two. See

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Speaker 1: he going going at just the same way he's been

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Speaker 1: going at it, and it's creating a problem for you.

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Speaker 1: So now here's what has to happen. He has to

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Speaker 1: change his depth perception. He has to change his depth perception,

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Speaker 1: meaning he has to change what he think d is.

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Speaker 1: See it's like a swimming pool in a cave. And

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Speaker 1: these are the two analogies I have for you. See,

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Speaker 1: you can drown in five feet of water, or you

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Speaker 1: can build you a swimming pool is down to thirteenth foot,

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Speaker 1: end on it with a diving board. But you can

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Speaker 1: drown in three feet a water. So what you got

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Speaker 1: to do is get him to start drowning in less water,

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Speaker 1: which means he got to quit jumping in this pool

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Speaker 1: like he on the deep end. He got to come

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Speaker 1: on on this shaller end and get involved in the

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Speaker 1: water in a different way. Church, say, man, a man, man.

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Speaker 1: I know y'all don't know what I'm talking about. Yeah, see,

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Speaker 1: he got to set Let me give you an example.

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Speaker 1: He is a cave dweller. He's a man with a

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Speaker 1: helmet on with a mining light. If he liked to

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Speaker 1: go in cave, what he has to learn is he

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Speaker 1: can't go all the way in the cave. He gonna

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Speaker 1: had to get happy by just to be an indicave.

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Speaker 1: He can't go all the way to the back of

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Speaker 1: this cave. He is to learn to stay at the

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Speaker 1: front of the cave because it's too much back there.

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Speaker 1: We thank you. He got to learn how to stay

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Speaker 1: at the front of the cave. Now, well, what you

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01:05:23,880 --> 01:05:26,480
Speaker 1: have to do is you have to make the front

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Speaker 1: of the cave the focal point. It has to be everything.

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Speaker 1: I have a lot of knowledge on this subject because

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Speaker 1: I had you know, I've had to be understanding and

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Speaker 1: now I just you know. I just people who had

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Speaker 1: the best life they can have. Now are they compatible?

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Speaker 1: Not sexually, They're not compatible section And it's not going

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Speaker 1: to work unless he changes a couple of things to

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Speaker 1: his death perception. He gotta he has to change what

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Speaker 1: he thinks d and then he had to play at

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Speaker 1: the front of the cave. Quit trying to go all

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Speaker 1: in the back. Thank you. Post your comments untime. Post

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Speaker 1: your comments on on today's Strawberry Letters Facebook. We got it.

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Speaker 1: Check out the Strawberry Letter podcast. Light At coming up

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Speaker 1: in forty six minutes after the hour of Juniors here

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Speaker 1: with Sports Talk right after this, you're listening st show.

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Speaker 1: All right, guys, Junior is here with Sports Talk. What

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Speaker 1: you got, Junior? I'm gonna tell you right now. We

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Speaker 1: already know. No Brady, no Aaron Rods, somebody gonna be

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Speaker 1: a Super Bowl champ. You got the Bengals and the Chiefs.

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Speaker 1: Rams forty nine is next Sunday Man. Who would have

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Speaker 1: thought that the Bengals with Joe Burrow would be right here?

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Speaker 1: I never saw that. I never saw the Bengals. I

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Speaker 1: expect the Chiefs never saw the being I don't I

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Speaker 1: don't know anybody saw the Bengals. I don't know anybody

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Speaker 1: saw that scept the Bengals except the Beakers. That's it.

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Speaker 1: Everybody says in that saw that man on top of

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Speaker 1: that though, now we got the forty nine ers and

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Speaker 1: the Rams. Matthew Stafford finna get his shot man to

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Speaker 1: go to the super Bowl. That the Ram's gonna do it.

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Speaker 1: I do think the Ram's gonna do what I do.

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Speaker 1: Do you think the Ram's gonna win the Super Bowl?

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Speaker 1: I think the Ram's gonna San Francisco first. Yeah, I don't.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you something, man, they have some pressure him.

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Speaker 1: Damn Rams had some pressure on Tom Brady. Ass boards,

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Speaker 1: Aaron Donald stay. They stayed back there, they live back then.

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Speaker 1: They move right off that mark. And that's what they've

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Speaker 1: been saying. If you get if you can make Tom

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Speaker 1: Brady move, he's not gonna be successful. Is he not

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Speaker 1: fin the run? And we know that. No, I ain't running,

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Speaker 1: and you you shouldn't talk about running. But he not running? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: you know that's cute. No, that's the truth. You know

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Speaker 1: what that is. Don't say running. I'm gonna let you

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Speaker 1: make it. Go ahead. He won't let me make it.

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Speaker 1: But what that means I'm just saying we just move on.

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Speaker 1: I ain't moving on. He ain't say nothing about running running.

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Speaker 1: But did you see Antonio Brown's tweet though? What he say?

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Speaker 1: Did he say? Yeah? He held he held up a

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Speaker 1: sign that said bucks eliminated yeah with his shirtless. You

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01:08:49,680 --> 01:08:55,240
Speaker 1: see it on Twitter that yeah, he shouldn't be talking.

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01:08:55,360 --> 01:08:57,400
Speaker 1: I saw the other the message put out there talking

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Speaker 1: about a couple of teams already called me, well, why

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Speaker 1: do you ain't working? Dan? They can call. Ain'tybody to

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Speaker 1: book at you? Ain't nobody dog, everybody can call. What's

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Speaker 1: the offer gonna be? And I don't know what team

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Speaker 1: that wants to invite that today, locker room, I really don't.

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01:09:15,320 --> 01:09:18,080
Speaker 1: I feel bad for this kid man and he's not

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01:09:18,200 --> 01:09:21,880
Speaker 1: getting younger and he's not getting better. So well, what

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Speaker 1: do you think they fit to offer him? Ah? Nothing,

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Speaker 1: nothing at all. We're gonna find out Sunday though. Who's

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Speaker 1: gonna be in the super Bowl. We're gonna know them

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Speaker 1: all right, Junior, thank you. Coming up at the top

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Speaker 1: of the hour, Fat Joe said to be honest with

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Speaker 1: your family about your finances. We're gonna talk about that

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Speaker 1: right after this. You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

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Speaker 1: Well thought. Joe did a recent podcast interview on I

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Speaker 1: Am Athlete, and he said people need to be honest

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Speaker 1: with themselves about their finances. He says, I tell my wife,

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Speaker 1: I tell my kids. We are not Sean P. Diddy,

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Speaker 1: Combs or Jay Z. That Joe said, there are levels

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Speaker 1: to wealth. Okay, you agree with that, Steve. It's it's

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01:10:07,240 --> 01:10:09,720
Speaker 1: absolutely true as levels to it. Your level can be

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01:10:09,880 --> 01:10:13,599
Speaker 1: just fine. If you put looking over somebody else's, right,

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Speaker 1: you know you really can get on and enjoy your

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Speaker 1: life if you couldn't looking at the life you don't have. Yes, right,

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Speaker 1: But let me tell you something though. I was. I

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01:10:24,960 --> 01:10:27,880
Speaker 1: was doing that recently, looking at somebody's life that I

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Speaker 1: know what it was, and they make a considerably an

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Speaker 1: amount of money more than I do. And somebody asked me,

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01:10:35,120 --> 01:10:37,800
Speaker 1: one of my partners say, man, I bet you trade

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Speaker 1: lives with him. I said, I bet I wouldn't because

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Speaker 1: with all the money you have and all the worldly

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Speaker 1: possessions I see you with that I don't have. I

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Speaker 1: look in my life and I would not trade my

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Speaker 1: life for his life. You don't know what that person's

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01:10:56,840 --> 01:10:58,840
Speaker 1: life is like. And you don't know what they're going through.

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Speaker 1: I'm telling you, man, you might be in way better

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Speaker 1: shape than you think. Yeah, because somebody's missing, somebody got

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01:11:06,600 --> 01:11:08,160
Speaker 1: issues in their life. I don't care who they are.

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Speaker 1: And somebody's lacking something. But I lacked for nothing. You know,

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Speaker 1: I don't. I don't need anything. There's a lot of

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Speaker 1: stuff I won't but I don't need nothing now, man.

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Speaker 1: But you but it's kind of hard to He's saying,

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Speaker 1: you have to be honest about your finances. That that's

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Speaker 1: kind of hard, I mean telling people. I think he's

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Speaker 1: doing a great job telling his wife and kids that.

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Speaker 1: But yeah, yeah, because they probably want things that they

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Speaker 1: see the other kids have and other families. But he's

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Speaker 1: being honest. Also, Steve, former retired Miami Dolphins NFL player

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Speaker 1: Channing Crowder, talked about the black tax phenomenon. This is

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Speaker 1: the idea that black athletes are expected expected to financially

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Speaker 1: take care of their family once they become successful. He

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Speaker 1: talked about how after he was drafted, his family was like,

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Speaker 1: we made it. We made it. Yeah. Yeah, And that's true, man,

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Speaker 1: because black people two things about us. We are the

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Speaker 1: only race of people for the actions of each other.

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Speaker 1: We get blamed if if black people are the only

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Speaker 1: race of people that's responsible for the actions of one another.

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Speaker 1: When black people do something over here, all black people

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01:12:24,240 --> 01:12:27,840
Speaker 1: get blamed for it. All people, all black people don't

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Speaker 1: get credit for it. But we share in the blame.

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Speaker 1: So the racism towards the black races, it makes it

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Speaker 1: very easy for people to apply to pressure all the

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Speaker 1: way across the board. And when we become successful and

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Speaker 1: signed contracts, we're responsible for our family members and friends.

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Speaker 1: Ain't nobody else, says man, I remember Meyl Brooks told

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Speaker 1: me one time. I mean, not Meyl Brooks, Meyl Gibson

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Speaker 1: told me one time we were talking. He said, hey, man,

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Speaker 1: I'm not responsible for anybody. I don't get that. I

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Speaker 1: don't get responsible for anybody. I did this. And I'm

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Speaker 1: saying a while, but black people off made to believe

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Speaker 1: and held responsible for one another. That's a true statement.

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Speaker 1: And it doesn't matter what field or industry, not just

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Speaker 1: athletes or entertainers. Even if you're just successful in your family,

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Speaker 1: that's the case. You know, all of us have felt that. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: but but the attitude of the we made it, I mean,

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Speaker 1: I know it takes you know, it takes a village,

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Speaker 1: and it takes a team. It's teamwork. And you know

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Speaker 1: you didn't get there by yourself, you know, and all

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Speaker 1: of that. But still we made it. I'm on here

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Speaker 1: doing this hard work every day, running these plays and

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Speaker 1: all of that. You know, we can't tell our family no, no,

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Speaker 1: you said, it's a responsibility. We oh man, it's kind

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Speaker 1: of crazy too, man, it is, it really is. I

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Speaker 1: got them. People helped you go to practice and all that.

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Speaker 1: But you don't owe him nothing. You don't owe him

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Speaker 1: for that. You drove me to practice. What did you practice?

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Speaker 1: You put in the time right? Did you go to school?

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Speaker 1: Did you run these routes? Did you go do these

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Speaker 1: two days? Really? Man? Now you know we all feel

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Speaker 1: obligated to buy Mama House. I mean that's just yes,

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Speaker 1: all right. You know we'll have more of the Steve

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Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show coming up at twenty minutes after. Right

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Speaker 1: after this, you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Well,

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Speaker 1: new year, new Eminem's that's right, Eminem's the candy, the candy, Uh,

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Speaker 1: well as we know them, they're getting a makeover. Mars

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Speaker 1: Ink said, gone are the green Eminem's go go boots

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Speaker 1: and the sex appeal. Instead, she'll be representing confidence and

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Speaker 1: empowerment as a strong female. She'll be rocking sneakers now.

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Speaker 1: Green Eminem will also become better friends with the only

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Speaker 1: other female eminem that's Brown Eminem, to showcase of force

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Speaker 1: supporting women. The other colors will also see some notable

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Speaker 1: personality changes to the Orange Eminem's constantly untied shoes and

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Speaker 1: anxious personality will change as he learned to embrace his

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Speaker 1: true self, worries and all. Conservative news anchor Tucker Carlson

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Speaker 1: is very upset about the female eminem's not being sexy

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Speaker 1: anymore and changing to be more inclusive. He wants them

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Speaker 1: to stay sexy and keep the pumps and all of that.

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Speaker 1: Oh you need something to do? You wearry about about

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Speaker 1: a candy? Candy? I don't damn what characters? Make sure

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Speaker 1: you don't change the taste dress all the eminem's and drag.

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01:15:50,840 --> 01:15:56,000
Speaker 1: But I can't. Shall we have the damn eminem? Right?

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Speaker 1: This is crazy, Paul, that's a plane which peanuts? Baby? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: definitely the peanut. All right, we'll play a round of

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Speaker 1: would you rather coming up at thirty three minutes after

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Speaker 1: the hour, right, after this you're listening to Steve Harvey

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Speaker 1: Morning Show. All right, guys, it's time for a round

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Speaker 1: of would you rather? Would you rather make love on

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Speaker 1: the beach or would you rather make love in a

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Speaker 1: hot tub? What's your preference? What's your water preference? Hot?

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Speaker 1: Hot tub gets too hot that you can't enjoy what

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Speaker 1: you get that same hot all this damn noise? What's wrong?

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Speaker 1: Am I doing something? Is it just this tub that's noisy?

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Speaker 1: It's hot in here? I'm already hot here. Let me

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Speaker 1: hear that that beach where the big ass need a

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01:17:12,760 --> 01:17:17,920
Speaker 1: big ass blanket though? Yeah, okay, you can't just be

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Speaker 1: on that sand That ain't gonna sand? Okay. Would you

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Speaker 1: rather spend the day with your favorite athlete or would

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Speaker 1: you rather spend the day with your favorite movie star?

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Speaker 1: Would you rather movie star? Yeah? I knew you would

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Speaker 1: say movie start because you're being Sam Jackson hanging out

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Speaker 1: playing golf. Yeah, movie stop? Oh that seems fun. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: he cussing hard? That's hard because I like my favorite

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Speaker 1: athletes too, man, But then I would you know who's

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01:17:59,160 --> 01:18:04,080
Speaker 1: your favorite? Was my favorite actor? Favorite my favorite athlete? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: I don't know, man, Tiger's a favorite athlete. I love

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Speaker 1: to have dinner with him. I don't want to hang

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01:18:10,360 --> 01:18:14,559
Speaker 1: out with him, thought him. I'd like to hang out

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Speaker 1: with with Mike Tyson, but I think he's too scared

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Speaker 1: to say something. I don't say the wrong thing. I

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Speaker 1: know watch him. I don't know, man, I fall I

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Speaker 1: like shock hanging out cool when he's one of my

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01:18:34,040 --> 01:18:37,160
Speaker 1: favorite dudes. Man that I like just to see we're

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Speaker 1: not like real tighter number. We always give each other

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01:18:39,680 --> 01:18:43,519
Speaker 1: love when we see each other. Up then probably probably

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01:18:43,560 --> 01:18:49,800
Speaker 1: athlete for me, but I'd have a tough time picking one. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I'll tell you. Man. When Steph Curry came to do

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01:18:52,720 --> 01:18:55,840
Speaker 1: Steph Curry's family came to do a celebrity family feud

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01:18:56,760 --> 01:18:59,639
Speaker 1: and Steph got out the corn, everybody was gathering around. Man,

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01:18:59,760 --> 01:19:01,880
Speaker 1: I dapt him up, said it was Steph. Nice meet you,

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Speaker 1: But the dude I wanted to meet was his damn

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01:19:04,960 --> 01:19:10,800
Speaker 1: daddy Dan. We're standing out hug and his wife said,

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Speaker 1: I can't believe this. Me and Dale carry oh oh,

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Speaker 1: the coolest dude man. Right, all right, coming up, Thank

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Speaker 1: you guys. Coming up. At forty nine minutes after the hour,

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Speaker 1: there's our last break of the day and you do

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Speaker 1: not want to miss Steve's closing remarks right after this.

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Speaker 1: You're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show. Here we are guys,

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Speaker 1: our last break of the day. Wow, what a day.

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Speaker 1: that's good stuff. It is, it is love it, it

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Speaker 1: is so my closing remarks today, I want to go

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Speaker 1: back and I want to take a call that came

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Speaker 1: in on the email on my excuse me, on my voicemail.

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Speaker 1: You have eight seven twenty nine, Steve, where you can

1319
01:20:27,680 --> 01:20:29,840
Speaker 1: leave me in voicemail and talk to me. I want

1320
01:20:29,880 --> 01:20:33,400
Speaker 1: to share one with you, and here it is now. Hey, Steve,

1321
01:20:33,800 --> 01:20:36,799
Speaker 1: I love listening to you. My name is Roger Williams.

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01:20:37,479 --> 01:20:40,960
Speaker 1: Listen these white folks man, they still got us contained.

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01:20:41,240 --> 01:20:43,960
Speaker 1: The reason I said that is because I've been trying

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01:20:44,000 --> 01:20:46,800
Speaker 1: to buy a house. I do everything they tell me

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01:20:46,960 --> 01:20:49,599
Speaker 1: to do, and they always come back with some kind

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01:20:49,640 --> 01:20:53,160
Speaker 1: of bullcrap. It keeps me not for not buying a house.

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01:20:53,439 --> 01:20:56,320
Speaker 1: Were black folks. Yeah, we gotta stick together, we gotta

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01:20:56,400 --> 01:20:58,360
Speaker 1: stand it up. I am just so sick of this.

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01:20:58,960 --> 01:21:01,599
Speaker 1: If I could, I will move out to the United States.

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01:21:01,800 --> 01:21:04,760
Speaker 1: I'm tired of this. They treat you any kind of way.

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01:21:05,280 --> 01:21:08,160
Speaker 1: They tell you everything you do, but they tell you

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01:21:08,280 --> 01:21:10,960
Speaker 1: to do and they still come up with some bullcraft. Man,

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01:21:11,280 --> 01:21:13,479
Speaker 1: I'm just trying to buy how to put my wife

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01:21:13,560 --> 01:21:16,040
Speaker 1: and myself in it. They won't let me, Steve, they

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01:21:16,080 --> 01:21:21,599
Speaker 1: won't let me talk to you. Well, let me help

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01:21:21,680 --> 01:21:25,200
Speaker 1: you out with something stuff. I will be the first

1337
01:21:25,240 --> 01:21:27,800
Speaker 1: to admit I've had these exact same thoughts as you.

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01:21:28,760 --> 01:21:30,400
Speaker 1: As a matter of fact, I used to carry those

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01:21:30,439 --> 01:21:33,400
Speaker 1: thoughts around with me all the time. I got what

1340
01:21:33,520 --> 01:21:38,880
Speaker 1: you're saying. I'm in that age bracket where it almost fits. Look, man,

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01:21:38,960 --> 01:21:42,040
Speaker 1: I'm old enough where I grew up in a city Welch,

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01:21:42,080 --> 01:21:47,120
Speaker 1: West Virginia that had colored only water fountains, colored only restrooms,

1343
01:21:48,080 --> 01:21:50,479
Speaker 1: no blacks could eat at lunch counters. I grew up.

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01:21:50,560 --> 01:21:52,960
Speaker 1: I grew up in that. I was the sixties kid.

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01:21:53,800 --> 01:21:56,960
Speaker 1: I saw all of this. Let me help you understand something.

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Speaker 1: So I'm admitting that I've had these same thoughts, brother,

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Speaker 1: But what I got to help you out with is

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01:22:03,080 --> 01:22:06,360
Speaker 1: how I got rid of those thoughts. And this may

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01:22:06,479 --> 01:22:13,559
Speaker 1: help you. First of all, I understand systematically it's hard

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Speaker 1: to succeed in this country on any level, but it's

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01:22:19,360 --> 01:22:23,600
Speaker 1: because of the game. The game is set up for

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01:22:23,920 --> 01:22:27,120
Speaker 1: no one to succeed. Now, because we are black, we

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Speaker 1: have extra barriers. You know, we've been zonings. If once

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Speaker 1: they see a certain zip code, they put you in

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Speaker 1: a certain category, you get a different interest rate. I

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Speaker 1: got all that they make it hard, man. If they

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Speaker 1: do make it hard, the system, the systematic racism in

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01:22:42,960 --> 01:22:47,040
Speaker 1: this country is real. But what I had to learn

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01:22:47,320 --> 01:22:50,800
Speaker 1: was I quit calling it the white man's game, and

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01:22:50,960 --> 01:22:54,479
Speaker 1: I just started calling it the game because it's the game.

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Speaker 1: And I just had to learn how to play the game. Now.

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Speaker 1: I had to implement the fact that the extras that

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01:22:59,720 --> 01:23:01,360
Speaker 1: come with it cause I'm black, but I had to

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Speaker 1: deal with it. But listen, man, a lot of what's

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Speaker 1: happening to you is because you allowing it to come

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Speaker 1: out of your mouth. You give too much power to them. Man,

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Speaker 1: these white folks won't let us. Man, these white folks

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Speaker 1: won't let Who are you talking? What white folks? See? Bro?

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Speaker 1: I got what you saying technically, But you can't empower

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Speaker 1: people like that. You can't give a person the power

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01:23:26,840 --> 01:23:29,800
Speaker 1: over you. You give too much power to them. You're

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01:23:29,920 --> 01:23:34,479
Speaker 1: verbalizing it and speaking a truth into your life. I'm

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01:23:34,520 --> 01:23:38,200
Speaker 1: just telling you what you're doing. Bro. If I were you,

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Speaker 1: I would stop verbalizing and speaking this truth into my life.

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01:23:45,840 --> 01:23:51,479
Speaker 1: I would stop. I would stop saying stuff that you

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01:23:51,720 --> 01:23:56,160
Speaker 1: keep making fruition. You keep giving them the power. You

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01:23:56,360 --> 01:23:59,599
Speaker 1: keep saying the white man did this, The white man

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01:23:59,720 --> 01:24:03,720
Speaker 1: got power. They won't let me. No, man, what are

1379
01:24:03,760 --> 01:24:05,439
Speaker 1: you talking about? They won't let you. You know what

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01:24:05,439 --> 01:24:09,280
Speaker 1: I mean? Black people got houses? Stop? First of all,

1381
01:24:09,439 --> 01:24:12,639
Speaker 1: stop verbalizing. I gotta show full of people that got

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Speaker 1: houses because they've made a commitment to get one. Secondly,

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01:24:20,320 --> 01:24:22,160
Speaker 1: you're talking about moving out the country. But if you

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01:24:22,240 --> 01:24:24,080
Speaker 1: move out the country where you're gonna live, you gotta

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01:24:24,160 --> 01:24:26,160
Speaker 1: have ticking money. You gotta go there and buy a house.

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Speaker 1: I got what you said. Now, how about this right here,

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01:24:29,240 --> 01:24:31,040
Speaker 1: let me help you out with it. Quit going to

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Speaker 1: the bank by yourself. I have no problem I ever

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Speaker 1: had in my life, Nor do I have that I

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Speaker 1: have that's bigger than my God. I don't have a

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01:24:39,080 --> 01:24:41,920
Speaker 1: problem that's bigger than my God. Quit going to the

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Speaker 1: bank by yourself. Why don't you going, Why don't you

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Speaker 1: take Why don't you take the lord in the bank

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Speaker 1: with you? What they're gonna do? Now, see now, they

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Speaker 1: ain't just turning you down. See that's why. That's why. Man. Look, man,

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Speaker 1: whenever people come for me, I try to warm people.

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01:24:58,640 --> 01:25:01,160
Speaker 1: I try to warm them. I started to say, hey, man,

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Speaker 1: listen to me. Don't don't come for me because I

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Speaker 1: ain't over here by myself. Now, I happen to belong

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01:25:07,720 --> 01:25:10,240
Speaker 1: I'm a child of the Most High. I'm telling you

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Speaker 1: right now, I belong to somebody. So careful when you

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Speaker 1: come for me. I ain't over here by myself, Pardner,

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Speaker 1: My heavenly father watches over me. So when you come

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Speaker 1: for me, you know. And it's like when I was

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Speaker 1: a little boy, sometimes I would tell kids on the street,

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell my daddy that gave me power. I'm

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01:25:32,720 --> 01:25:34,920
Speaker 1: gonna tell my daddy come to My daddy was gonna

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Speaker 1: do something. Well, I got a heavenly father too. Why

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01:25:37,560 --> 01:25:40,240
Speaker 1: don't you take him to the bank with you. Why

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01:25:40,280 --> 01:25:42,280
Speaker 1: don't you tell him to help you get a house

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Speaker 1: and then watch you get a house? And because when

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Speaker 1: God give it to you, ain't nothing nobody could do

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Speaker 1: about it, you feel me, Let's try that, man, Just

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Speaker 1: try that, bro. I just want to address that. Y'all.

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