WEBVTT - Wicked Words - Roxanna Asgarian: We Were Once a Family

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<v Speaker 1>This story contains adult content and language, along with references

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<v Speaker 1>to sexual assault. Listener discretion is advised.

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<v Speaker 2>This book is about grief, It's about loss, and it's

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<v Speaker 2>about what parents we consider good parents and which parents

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<v Speaker 2>we give chances to.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm Kate Winkler Dawson, a nonfiction author and journalism professor

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<v Speaker 1>in Austin, Texas. I'm also the host of the historical

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<v Speaker 1>true crime podcast tenfold More Wicked and the co host

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<v Speaker 1>of the podcast Buried Bones on Exactly Right. I've traveled

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<v Speaker 1>around the world interviewing people for the show, and they

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<v Speaker 1>are all excellent writers. They've had so many great true

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<v Speaker 1>crime stories, and now we want to tell you those

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<v Speaker 1>stories with the details that have never been published. Tenfold More

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<v Speaker 1>Wicked presents Wicked Words is about the choices that writers make,

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<v Speaker 1>good and bad. It's a deep dive into the stories

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<v Speaker 1>behind the stories. Most of you have probably heard the

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<v Speaker 1>story of the Heart Family, the couple that drove a

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<v Speaker 1>car off a cliff with all of their adopted children inside.

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<v Speaker 1>Our guest rock Sanna as Garian unfolds the story with

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<v Speaker 1>details that we've never heard before, including an investigation into

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<v Speaker 1>the child welfare system. I'll warn you that much of

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<v Speaker 1>this is difficult to hear. Well, why don't we start

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<v Speaker 1>with the story of the birth families. How these kids,

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<v Speaker 1>these six kids, ended up with these two women, and

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<v Speaker 1>how potentially these two women ended up in the state

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<v Speaker 1>they were in when they made this terrible decision. So

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<v Speaker 1>let's start with the families.

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<v Speaker 3>So there's two birth families.

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<v Speaker 2>The first birth family that I encountered where the Davis is,

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<v Speaker 2>and that's a birth family of Divine Tay, Jeremiah, and Sierra.

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<v Speaker 2>And so they were actually the second group of kids

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<v Speaker 2>that were adopted, but I started with them because we

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<v Speaker 2>were all living in Houston. So the kids were removed

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<v Speaker 2>from their mom because she had a drug problem. She

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<v Speaker 2>used cocaine that came up when she gave birth to

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<v Speaker 2>Jeremiah at first, and then when Sierra was born and

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<v Speaker 2>Sherry tested positive for cocaine. The kids were ultimately removed

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<v Speaker 2>from her care and she was living with a man

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<v Speaker 2>named Nathaniel who was a much older guy who was

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<v Speaker 2>actually the primary caretaker. And Nathaniel was sober, he received

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<v Speaker 2>disability benefits, and he was, by all accounts, are really

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<v Speaker 2>loving father. He was the first person I actually ended

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<v Speaker 2>up talking to was Nathaniel. They were removed from him

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<v Speaker 2>when they were removed after Sierra's birth, so ultimately they

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<v Speaker 2>moved to their aunt's house. And their aunt's name was Priscilla,

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<v Speaker 2>and Priscilla as a church going woman who worked full

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<v Speaker 2>time at a hospital in Houston at the time. DeVante, Jeremiah,

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<v Speaker 2>and Sierra had an older brother named Dante, and all

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<v Speaker 2>four of those kids were initially involved in this CPS case.

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<v Speaker 2>So all four of those kids lived with Priscilla up

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<v Speaker 2>until this fateful day when she was unable to find childcare.

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<v Speaker 2>She got called into work and her daughter, who was

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<v Speaker 2>a grown woman at that time, usually watched the kids,

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<v Speaker 2>but she was unable, so she asked Sherry, who's their

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<v Speaker 2>birth mother, to watch the kids. And while she was

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<v Speaker 2>out and Sharry was there with the kids, a caseworker

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<v Speaker 2>stop by unannounced, and because Sherrie's rights to her kids

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<v Speaker 2>were terminated, she wasn't allowed to be around them, and

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<v Speaker 2>so the kids were removed immediately when the caseworker showed up.

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<v Speaker 1>So this is four kids at this point who were removed.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, and Dante was the oldest, so he was ten

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<v Speaker 2>at this time. He was acting out. He was the

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<v Speaker 2>oldest so he understood sort of what was going on

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<v Speaker 2>more than the other kids. He really didn't want to

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<v Speaker 2>be removed from his family. He was fighting and arguing,

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<v Speaker 2>and he ended up getting sent to a residential treatment center,

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<v Speaker 2>which is sort of like an institutional setting for mostly

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<v Speaker 2>foster youth. So he was split from his siblings at

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<v Speaker 2>that time. Kind of the frustrating thing about this story

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<v Speaker 2>is that Sherry terminated her rights voluntarily because she was

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<v Speaker 2>told that she needed to do that in order for

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<v Speaker 2>Priscilla to adopt the kids, because you can't adopt kids

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<v Speaker 2>when they have legal parents already.

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<v Speaker 1>So these four kids go into foster care, well one

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<v Speaker 1>of them goes into a residential facility, but the other

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<v Speaker 1>three kids go into foster care. What is their journey

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<v Speaker 1>to where they eventually land with the hearts?

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<v Speaker 2>So Texas has a website that you can look at.

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<v Speaker 2>It's called the Texas Adoption Resource Exchange, and you can

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<v Speaker 2>essentially shop for kids that you would like to adopt

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<v Speaker 2>using that website. So Jennifer and Sarah Hart, who are

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<v Speaker 2>a white married couple who both were from South Dakota

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<v Speaker 2>but at this time we're living in Minnesota. They were

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<v Speaker 2>looking at the Texas Adoption Resource Exchange which they called

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<v Speaker 2>TAR and they stumbled on DeVante and Jeremiah and Sierra,

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<v Speaker 2>and they had used this website two years earlier when

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<v Speaker 2>they adopted their first set of three children, also from Texas,

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<v Speaker 2>so by that point they'd already been through the process

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<v Speaker 2>once it went really quickly. Kids have to live in

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<v Speaker 2>pre adoptive homes for at least six months before you

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<v Speaker 2>can initiate adoption, and they had lived with their aunt

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<v Speaker 2>Priscilla for five and a half months. She was attempting

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<v Speaker 2>to adopt them even though they got removed. She had

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<v Speaker 2>hired an attorney, she got denied, and then she appealed

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<v Speaker 2>that decision, but before that appeal went through in the courts,

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<v Speaker 2>the kids were already adopted by the Hearts.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm surprised that they did not give prential treatment to

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<v Speaker 1>a family member, but I guess she had a mark

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<v Speaker 1>against her for leaving the kids with their birth mother,

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<v Speaker 1>who had no rights and who obviously had some problems

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<v Speaker 1>to begin with. Is that the thinking? Why would they

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<v Speaker 1>not hold to see what Priscilla was going to do?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, So I actually spoke to another judge who wasn't

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<v Speaker 2>involved in this case, but he was a judge for

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<v Speaker 2>these types of cases in Harris County, and he said

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<v Speaker 2>that was actually not the way that it should have gone.

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<v Speaker 2>If her appeal would have gone through, then the adoption

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<v Speaker 2>would have been void.

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<v Speaker 3>It felt pretty rush.

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<v Speaker 2>It was basically at the exact time when it could happen.

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<v Speaker 2>It happened despite the fact that there were family members,

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<v Speaker 2>and despite that there is a federal mandate that family

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<v Speaker 2>members must be given preference for placement of kids who

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<v Speaker 2>are involved with CPS. That is there for a reason,

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<v Speaker 2>and that's because there's plenty of research that shows that

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<v Speaker 2>kids do best with their families, They do best with

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<v Speaker 2>their parents, and when they can't be with their parents,

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<v Speaker 2>they do best in family homes. And we understand this

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<v Speaker 2>across the child welfare system, but I think in the

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<v Speaker 2>case of the Davis family, it became clear that to

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<v Speaker 2>me that sometimes the preference is more theoretical than it

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<v Speaker 2>is actual.

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<v Speaker 1>So will you educate me a little bit on in

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<v Speaker 1>time where we are and what is the view of

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<v Speaker 1>a same sex couple adopting kids, because I just assumed

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<v Speaker 1>it was not going to be that easy, particularly in

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<v Speaker 1>a state like Texas.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that's a good question, and it's an interesting wrinkle

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<v Speaker 2>in the case. I think I started looking into the judges,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, in Harris County, and there's a whole history

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<v Speaker 2>of corruption and racism, and there are actually instances of

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<v Speaker 2>not the judge in this case, but a judge next

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<v Speaker 2>door being very vocally anti LGBT for adoptive parents. So

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<v Speaker 2>I think that that is true that there. It kind

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<v Speaker 2>of depends on the judge. The judge in the Davis

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<v Speaker 2>family's case was really super interested in speed in clearing

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<v Speaker 2>out the docket, so to speak, you know, in his mind.

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<v Speaker 2>And I spoke to him actually about this case, and

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<v Speaker 2>he said, there are kids that languish in foster care,

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<v Speaker 2>which is true, especially sibling groups, because they're hard to

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<v Speaker 2>place multiple kids. And he said Minnesota has been great

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<v Speaker 2>for like providing people who want to adopt essentially, and again,

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<v Speaker 2>because they had already adopted three kids from Texas, they

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<v Speaker 2>kind of knew the process. I will say that at

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<v Speaker 2>the time that the Davis kids were adopted, there had

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<v Speaker 2>already been an allegation of abuse against Jennifer and Sarah

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<v Speaker 2>Hart regarding the three children that were already adopted.

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<v Speaker 1>Were they in Minnesota during that accusation or were they

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<v Speaker 1>in Oregon at that point.

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<v Speaker 2>They were in Minnesota and that either got totally missed

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<v Speaker 2>by Texas, which it kind of looks like it did.

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<v Speaker 2>I have some records, so I have their actual adoption paperwork,

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<v Speaker 2>and I also have the foster care case file of Dante,

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<v Speaker 2>the oldest.

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<v Speaker 3>All of the movil stuff that was happening.

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<v Speaker 2>Is in that file as well, because they kind of

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<v Speaker 2>grouped the file by birth mom.

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<v Speaker 1>So this judge is moving through his docket quickly. Are

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<v Speaker 1>we also thinking that he's looking at these three black

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<v Speaker 1>children and thinking they are better off with a white family.

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<v Speaker 2>I think that the facts of this case make that

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<v Speaker 2>pretty clear. The officials that were involved assumed that the

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<v Speaker 2>white women were a better home for the kids. There's

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<v Speaker 2>a couple of ways that that becomes clear. Like in Priscilla,

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<v Speaker 2>the aunt's appeal that got denied, the court said why

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<v Speaker 2>should she have another bite at the proverbial apple, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>like they were saying, no, you can't adopt these kids,

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<v Speaker 2>and we're going to be a little.

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<v Speaker 3>Mean to you about it too.

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<v Speaker 1>Amazing.

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<v Speaker 2>But on the other side, the you know, the abuse

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<v Speaker 2>allegation sort of just went by. I mean, there was

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<v Speaker 2>no charge, you know, like criminal charge. Yet at that

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<v Speaker 2>point a criminal charge did happen later, but it felt

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<v Speaker 2>very clear that Texas thought, Okay, this is the best

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<v Speaker 2>place that these kids can end up, and after that

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<v Speaker 2>just kind of wipe their hands and never really checked,

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<v Speaker 2>although they did continue to pay monthly payments per child

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<v Speaker 2>to the Heart Women until their murder.

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<v Speaker 1>Will you tell me about the first family and those

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<v Speaker 1>kids before we sort of get into Sarah and Jennifer

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<v Speaker 1>and what they were like.

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<v Speaker 2>Sure, So, as I was reporting this story, nobody knew

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<v Speaker 2>who the family of Marcus and Hannah and Abigail was,

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<v Speaker 2>and that was partly because Texas refused to disclose that information,

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<v Speaker 2>even to the police who were investigating the murders, which

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<v Speaker 2>is I would say an unusual level of confidentiality given

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<v Speaker 2>specifics of the case. So it was six months after

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<v Speaker 2>the crash when I noticed a family name for Marcus

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<v Speaker 2>in a big passle of records that the Sheriff's department

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<v Speaker 2>in Washington, which was the last place that the family lived,

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<v Speaker 2>released to the public. I guess it's important to note

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<v Speaker 2>that the police did have these files as well. I

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<v Speaker 2>just looked up the name on Facebook. I knew they

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<v Speaker 2>came from the Corpus Christi area, and I ended up

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<v Speaker 2>reaching out to their grandmother, and it became clear almost

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<v Speaker 2>immediately that she did not know what had happened to

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<v Speaker 2>the children. So I ended up telling her that, which

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<v Speaker 2>was really awful because it had been six months. It

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<v Speaker 2>was a huge national story, as you remember, so that means,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, millions of people heard this awful news before

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<v Speaker 2>the family was told. I got to know Tammy, who's

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<v Speaker 2>the birth mom of Marcus and Hannah and Abigail, and

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<v Speaker 2>her story which involves experiencing childhood sexual abuse at a

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<v Speaker 2>really young age and having resultant mental health struggles, so

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<v Speaker 2>she spent time in like a state mental hospital as

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<v Speaker 2>a child. She was experiencing homelessness and housing instability when

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<v Speaker 2>she had Marcus, who's the oldest. Marcus was being raised

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<v Speaker 2>mostly by Tammy's grandparents great grandparents, but ultimately the reason

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<v Speaker 2>they were removed from Tammy was Hannah got really sick

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<v Speaker 2>and needed to go to the hospital, and Tammy didn't

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<v Speaker 2>trust the hospital in Columbus, Texas, where they were living,

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<v Speaker 2>and she wanted to go to Houston, but she had

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<v Speaker 2>two other kids and they couldn't fit in the ambulance

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<v Speaker 2>and she didn't have a ride there, and so there

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<v Speaker 2>was this period of time that she was trying to

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<v Speaker 2>figure out a way to get Hannah to the hospital,

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<v Speaker 2>and she ended up calling her caseworker, who picked her

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<v Speaker 2>up and took them to the hospital and immediately handed

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<v Speaker 2>her removal paperwork and the kids were removed at that point,

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<v Speaker 2>and Tammy was actually charged with medical neglect and she

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<v Speaker 2>ended up having to spend time in jail because she

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<v Speaker 2>couldn't afford to pay the fees that resulted from the case.

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<v Speaker 2>And she had the same situation as Sherry. When she

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<v Speaker 2>gave up her rights. She was under the impression that

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<v Speaker 2>they were going to a foster home. Like that foster

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<v Speaker 2>home was going to adopt them. It was a black

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<v Speaker 2>couple who also had black children, and who told Tammy

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<v Speaker 2>that she would be able to be in their lives.

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<v Speaker 2>But again, you give up your rights, and you give

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<v Speaker 2>up your right to know anything and anything can happen

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<v Speaker 2>to the kids after that, and so she doesn't know

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<v Speaker 2>what happened with the prospective adoptive family. And there's actually

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<v Speaker 2>no records that I could ascertain because of how Texas

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<v Speaker 2>is very confidential with its records. In cases like this,

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<v Speaker 2>But they did end up in Minnesota with Jennifer and Sarah.

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<v Speaker 1>So at what point in what year do Jennifer and

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<v Speaker 1>Sarah have all six kids together?

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<v Speaker 2>In two thousand and eight, they were all adopted, But

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<v Speaker 2>there are some files that show that Jennifer and Sarah

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<v Speaker 2>did not necessarily think that their family was complete. They

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<v Speaker 2>had continued to look for kids on the Texas Adoption

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<v Speaker 2>Resource Exchange, and they had also tried IVF successfully.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, now I think we need to talk about them

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<v Speaker 1>because all of the lives and at this point, what

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<v Speaker 1>can you tell me about either woman? Whichever one you

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<v Speaker 1>want to go with first.

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<v Speaker 2>We'll start with Jennifer because Jennifer was the much more

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<v Speaker 2>vocal person in the couple. Jennifer grew up in here

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<v Speaker 2>on South Dakota. She was gay, but she never actually

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<v Speaker 2>came out to her dad, at least not explicitly. She

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<v Speaker 2>met Sarah in college, and Sarah was from an even

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<v Speaker 2>smaller town in South Dakota, right on the border of Minnesota.

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<v Speaker 2>They moved to Minnesota after college, and Sarah was working

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<v Speaker 2>for a department store and Jennifer she never got her degree,

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<v Speaker 2>And I think they started planning pretty quickly after that

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<v Speaker 2>for adopting through the foster care system. So they originally

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<v Speaker 2>got a foster youth named Brie, who was a teenager

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<v Speaker 2>who lived in Minnesota. I think Bree's experience actually shows

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<v Speaker 2>a lot because she was able to mean, she lived

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<v Speaker 2>there with a couple. Well, she actually saw them looking

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<v Speaker 2>through the website and talking about adopting kids, and she

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<v Speaker 2>was under the impression that she would be a part

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<v Speaker 2>of that family.

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<v Speaker 3>Shortly before they went to go pick up.

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<v Speaker 2>Marcus and Hannah and Abigail from Houston, they dropped Brie

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<v Speaker 2>off for her therapy appointment, and the therapist told Brie

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<v Speaker 2>that it wasn't going to work out and that they

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<v Speaker 2>had already had all of her stuff packed up, and

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<v Speaker 2>she had no idea and still basically to this day,

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<v Speaker 2>has no idea what caused their change in thinking.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, she was really upset.

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<v Speaker 2>She said that she saw later saw them with their

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<v Speaker 2>kids and felt really awful, you know, because it was

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<v Speaker 2>this pretty small town in Minnesota where they all lived.

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<v Speaker 2>And she still to this day is like very confused

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<v Speaker 2>about what happened, especially in light of what came afterwards.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you say Brie was black? I can't remember if

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<v Speaker 1>you said.

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<v Speaker 2>That Bree was white, and also her rights to her

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<v Speaker 2>mother were not terminated, so she wasn't open to be

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<v Speaker 2>a permanently. That's part of an issue with the foster

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<v Speaker 2>to adopt is that there are some people who use

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<v Speaker 2>the foster system as it means, like directly to adopt,

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<v Speaker 2>But there are a lot of kids in the foster

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<v Speaker 2>system who need temporary safe places with loving parents and

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<v Speaker 2>don't need to have.

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<v Speaker 3>Their rights of their parents totally severed.

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<v Speaker 1>Are people in her life, their lives? Sarah and Jennifer

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<v Speaker 1>shocked based on what they know, not about the crash necessarily,

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<v Speaker 1>but the allegations that came before it. Does this just

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<v Speaker 1>seem completely out of character for either of these women.

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<v Speaker 1>But when they came together, something happened, something changed with

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<v Speaker 1>both of them. What is even the dynamic?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, that's a really good question.

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<v Speaker 2>I think that first and foremost, Jennifer was very active

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<v Speaker 2>on social media, and she spun a story, a narrative

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<v Speaker 2>about her relationship, about her family, about the kids, and

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<v Speaker 2>that heavily influenced how people perceived her and the family.

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<v Speaker 2>There were a ton of friends that were completely shocked

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<v Speaker 2>by what happened. You know, one of her friends right

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<v Speaker 2>after the crash had said, Jennifer and Sarah are the

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<v Speaker 2>kinds of parents that this world needs.

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<v Speaker 3>So that was a fiction.

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<v Speaker 2>Really that was spun with really beautiful photography of the children,

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<v Speaker 2>like in their chicken coop and at the Grand Canyon

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<v Speaker 2>and all of this.

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<v Speaker 3>Kind of stuff.

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<v Speaker 2>That's partly I think why people were so drawn to

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<v Speaker 2>this case is because there was this whole record of

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<v Speaker 2>a life, the reality of the situation, and those things

0:17:42.760 --> 0:17:46.800
<v Speaker 2>were so hard to reconcile with each other. Before the

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<v Speaker 2>inquest happened, there was a line of thinking from a

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<v Speaker 2>lot of people who were following the case that Jennifer

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<v Speaker 2>was probably the abuser of the family. I think in

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<v Speaker 2>this case, though, it became pretty clear that the evidence

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<v Speaker 2>that was there actually pointed to both women being involved

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<v Speaker 2>in the abuse. The first thing is Sarah was charged

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<v Speaker 2>with domestic violence for putting bruises on one of her

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<v Speaker 2>children that was in Minnesota. She pled guilty and serve probation.

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<v Speaker 2>There was some confusion maybe that like jen had sort

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<v Speaker 2>of asked her to fess up to it or something,

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<v Speaker 2>but that's not what the evidence showed, and ultimately after

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<v Speaker 2>the crash, they looked through the women's cell phones and

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<v Speaker 2>they found a whole bunch of really incriminating Google searches

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<v Speaker 2>on Sarah's phone about how much benadryl would kill a

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<v Speaker 2>certain pound person. The kids were all found to have

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<v Speaker 2>ingested huge quantities of benadrul before they went off the cliff,

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<v Speaker 2>and you know, searches about like hypothermia, of drowning and

0:18:58.119 --> 0:19:01.399
<v Speaker 2>all kinds of really awful stuff. And it became clear,

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<v Speaker 2>at least to me, that it was both Jennifer and

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<v Speaker 2>Sarah that were involved in the abuse of the kids.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's take these offenses and now let's pick up the

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<v Speaker 1>timeline sort of in real time. They're in Minnesota with

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<v Speaker 1>these kids, and there's this domestic abuse allegation against Sarah

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<v Speaker 1>and she pleads guilty, but they don't lose the kids,

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<v Speaker 1>right What happens step by step? Where did they go

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<v Speaker 1>and what do they do and what do people see

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<v Speaker 1>as this escalates?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, so, prior to the criminal complaint, the teachers of

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<v Speaker 2>the kids in Minnesota were reporting alarming behavior. So they

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<v Speaker 2>were reporting that the kids were really hungry and that

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<v Speaker 2>they didn't seem to have enough food to eat, and

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<v Speaker 2>that they were asking other people for food and even

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<v Speaker 2>looking in trash cans, and to that, Jennifer and Sarah

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<v Speaker 2>said that the kids had food issues because of foster care,

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<v Speaker 2>which is not rare actually, but it became clear to

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<v Speaker 2>the teachers that when they were calling home that the

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<v Speaker 2>kids were getting disciplined, and so they stopped basically reporting

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<v Speaker 2>this stuff. But when Sarah pled guilty, they pulled their

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<v Speaker 2>kids from public school, and that was the last time

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<v Speaker 2>the kids were in public school or any school, and

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<v Speaker 2>because of that, they lost contact with really any other

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<v Speaker 2>adults besides their parents. Sarah had to finish probation, but

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<v Speaker 2>once that probation ended, they immediately moved to Oregon. They

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<v Speaker 2>lived in Oregon for a little while before a second

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<v Speaker 2>investigation started, and this one was reported by friends of

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<v Speaker 2>the family who witnessed some really alarming punishment of all

0:20:43.760 --> 0:20:47.320
<v Speaker 2>of the kids, but particularly of Marcus. They had gone

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<v Speaker 2>to visit this woman at her house and they were

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<v Speaker 2>only each allowed to have one small piece of pizza,

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<v Speaker 2>but they had ordered a lot of pizza, and so

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<v Speaker 2>they had a bunch in the fridge, and when they

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<v Speaker 2>woke up in the morning, the woman made a comment

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<v Speaker 2>to her husband, like did you eat all the pizza

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<v Speaker 2>in the fridge, and that set off Jennifer, who forced

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<v Speaker 2>all the kids to lay on their air mattress with

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<v Speaker 2>eyemasks on for like the whole day. And it was

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<v Speaker 2>Marcus's birthday and she wouldn't let anyone say happy birthday

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<v Speaker 2>to Marcus. And the kids were very skinny at this point,

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<v Speaker 2>like alarmingly skinny, and Hannah was so small that people

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<v Speaker 2>regularly thought that she was like five years younger than

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<v Speaker 2>she actually was. That woman reported this, and there was

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<v Speaker 2>another investigation, and they actually reached out to the Minnesota

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<v Speaker 2>child welfare officials who said, you know, the problem is

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<v Speaker 2>these women, they look normal, and when they're confronted with

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<v Speaker 2>these alarming behaviors, they have a tendency to put them

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<v Speaker 2>back onto the kids and explain it by their trauma

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<v Speaker 2>histories and their experience in foster care. And that Oregon investigation,

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<v Speaker 2>a doctor found that five of the kids were so

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<v Speaker 2>small that they weren't even on the growth charts at

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<v Speaker 2>all for their ages, and still they were not removed.

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<v Speaker 2>Shortly after that, they moved to Washington, not too far away,

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<v Speaker 2>just sort of the other side of Portland basically, and

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<v Speaker 2>essentially DeVante started going to their neighbor's house and asking

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<v Speaker 2>for food, large amounts of food, and Hannah had one

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<v Speaker 2>time ran away in the middle of the night and

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<v Speaker 2>told the neighbors that she was being abused and her

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<v Speaker 2>parents were racist, and finally the neighbors called that in

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<v Speaker 2>to CPS and that was sort of the inciting incident

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<v Speaker 2>that led to the family leaving and driving to California

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<v Speaker 2>in the first place.

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<v Speaker 1>Tell me about the racism allegations. What did Hannah say

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<v Speaker 1>was going on in this house?

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<v Speaker 2>Well, the thing with Hannah was that she basically jumped

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<v Speaker 2>out of the second story window ran over to the

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<v Speaker 2>neighbor's house in the middle of the night. The neighbors

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<v Speaker 2>were like sleeping and kind of confused and obviously really

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<v Speaker 2>like alarm. The other thing is that Hannah, again she

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<v Speaker 2>looked really young, so they're thinking like, maybe this is

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<v Speaker 2>like an eight year old. I think at that point

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<v Speaker 2>she was fifteen. She had no two front teeth because

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<v Speaker 2>they had got knocked out, which was another social media

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<v Speaker 2>post that was really alarming, where Jennifer's fingers were holding

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<v Speaker 2>like an entire tooth root to tip, saying like, oh.

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<v Speaker 3>Hannah's slipped in.

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<v Speaker 2>The rule is no running in the house or something

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<v Speaker 2>like that, but she never got replacement teeth, so it

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<v Speaker 2>ended up making her look a lot younger. And I

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<v Speaker 2>think they didn't get any specifics because shortly after she

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<v Speaker 2>came over the family had come to look for her.

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<v Speaker 2>Jennifer would not allow the neighbors to talk to Hannah

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<v Speaker 2>on her own after they arrived, and again, I think

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<v Speaker 2>partly because they thought she was so much younger. They

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<v Speaker 2>just thought and they said, oh again with the she

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<v Speaker 2>has a lot of problems and you know, and then

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<v Speaker 2>she wrote a note where she said I'm sorry, I

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<v Speaker 2>shouldn't have come here and all of this, and so

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<v Speaker 2>they didn't really get any clear sense of what was

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<v Speaker 2>going on. But when Davante started coming over repeatedly and

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<v Speaker 2>asking for food, and it wasn't just food for him,

0:24:08.359 --> 0:24:10.320
<v Speaker 2>it became clear that it was food for all of

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<v Speaker 2>his siblings.

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<v Speaker 3>He told them, though, please don't.

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<v Speaker 2>Call CPS because we don't want to be split up

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<v Speaker 2>from each other, which is probably a pretty reasonable fear,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, because there's six of them.

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<v Speaker 3>And I think that might have contributed to why they.

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<v Speaker 2>Were never removed in the first place, was like they

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<v Speaker 2>didn't know necessarily who was responsible for them and there's

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<v Speaker 2>no process for that. And that became clear because multiple,

0:24:37.359 --> 0:24:41.119
<v Speaker 2>multiple people were very alarmed by what they saw with

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<v Speaker 2>this family, and repeated attempts to protect the kids went unheeded.

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<v Speaker 1>So do you think Jennifer and Sarah were feeling increasing pressure?

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<v Speaker 1>There's more and more incidents because the kids are older

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<v Speaker 1>now and they are making kind of bigger moves. They're

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<v Speaker 1>getting attention. We talk about the inciting incident. What was

0:25:18.320 --> 0:25:21.719
<v Speaker 1>it that got them loaded up into that gold Yukon

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<v Speaker 1>and drove down into California to have what happened? What

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<v Speaker 1>leads up to that?

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<v Speaker 2>I think that's a good point, that the kids were

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<v Speaker 2>getting older. Marcus was nineteen at that time. I also

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<v Speaker 2>think that there might have been a sense that their

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<v Speaker 2>luck would run out at some point. With investigations, often

0:25:39.760 --> 0:25:42.240
<v Speaker 2>people say like, Okay, they must have been really overwhelmed.

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<v Speaker 2>I will say that if there was already an abuse

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<v Speaker 2>allegation before they adopted the second set of three kids,

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<v Speaker 2>they doubled the number of kids. Six kids is a

0:25:52.200 --> 0:25:56.159
<v Speaker 2>huge number of kids, but also six kids from two families,

0:25:56.680 --> 0:26:02.280
<v Speaker 2>mixed ages, right, and trauma has extensive trauma histories. I

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<v Speaker 2>couldn't imagine that and that stands to reason that like

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<v Speaker 2>that might have been instead of fast tracking the second adoption,

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<v Speaker 2>that might have been like a pause, like, Okay, that's

0:26:13.040 --> 0:26:15.280
<v Speaker 2>a lot of kids for anyone. You know, that's a

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<v Speaker 2>lot of kids for like trained therapists.

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<v Speaker 1>And then you're thinking, if you're the judge, why are

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<v Speaker 1>you not thinking maybe these are parents who are doing

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<v Speaker 1>this for the paycheck and that's it. You know that

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<v Speaker 1>many kids.

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<v Speaker 3>That's a good point. And it's four hundred dollars per child.

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<v Speaker 2>Additionally, DeVante and Jeremiah got disability payments from Nathaniel Davis,

0:26:36.240 --> 0:26:41.240
<v Speaker 2>their father figure, that they also continued to receive until

0:26:41.440 --> 0:26:42.040
<v Speaker 2>their deaths.

0:26:42.200 --> 0:26:45.040
<v Speaker 3>So this was like twenty six hundred dollars a month.

0:26:45.480 --> 0:26:48.159
<v Speaker 1>And isn't it if the kids need therapy? I interviewed

0:26:48.160 --> 0:26:50.800
<v Speaker 1>a different author about a similar sort of situation. If

0:26:50.840 --> 0:26:53.679
<v Speaker 1>the kids need therapy or they need anything that's special,

0:26:53.720 --> 0:26:56.520
<v Speaker 1>there's more money that the state provides, right with the

0:26:56.560 --> 0:26:59.240
<v Speaker 1>intention that you're going to use that money to help

0:26:59.280 --> 0:27:00.520
<v Speaker 1>them get the help they need.

0:27:00.880 --> 0:27:03.919
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it's a good point. And it's also true that

0:27:04.280 --> 0:27:07.320
<v Speaker 2>the family was really open about taking the kids off

0:27:07.359 --> 0:27:10.800
<v Speaker 2>of all of their psychiatric meds, and the foster care

0:27:10.840 --> 0:27:14.400
<v Speaker 2>system has a tendency to over medicate children, for sure,

0:27:14.560 --> 0:27:17.600
<v Speaker 2>that's documented, But they didn't go to therapy. The kids

0:27:17.640 --> 0:27:20.479
<v Speaker 2>didn't continue going to therapy. The thing that happens when

0:27:20.600 --> 0:27:23.480
<v Speaker 2>kids get removed from home at a young age, especially

0:27:23.480 --> 0:27:25.800
<v Speaker 2>if they get moved around from place to place, is

0:27:25.840 --> 0:27:29.520
<v Speaker 2>that every single time they move, they internalize the idea

0:27:29.640 --> 0:27:33.280
<v Speaker 2>that they're never going to be safe or stable, that

0:27:33.560 --> 0:27:36.359
<v Speaker 2>even if it seems good, it might not last. It

0:27:36.400 --> 0:27:40.520
<v Speaker 2>probably won't last, and that's really harmful psychologically for kids.

0:27:40.880 --> 0:27:42.880
<v Speaker 1>Well, let's talk about that. We do have to talk

0:27:42.920 --> 0:27:46.120
<v Speaker 1>about the psychology or because we've been talking about the facts,

0:27:46.240 --> 0:27:49.040
<v Speaker 1>what is going on? What do you think they're doing.

0:27:49.200 --> 0:27:51.800
<v Speaker 1>You've got this sort of picture perfect family on the outside.

0:27:52.080 --> 0:27:54.400
<v Speaker 1>They're over the top with their social media posts. They're

0:27:54.400 --> 0:27:58.760
<v Speaker 1>really trying to present themselves not just as a happy, healthy,

0:27:58.960 --> 0:28:03.119
<v Speaker 1>blended family, but like activists. They have them out there

0:28:03.240 --> 0:28:06.040
<v Speaker 1>in the Black Lives Matter protests. You know, there's all

0:28:06.160 --> 0:28:10.560
<v Speaker 1>this sort of facade going up, but so much bad

0:28:10.680 --> 0:28:14.119
<v Speaker 1>behind it. What are people saying about what they were doing,

0:28:14.200 --> 0:28:15.080
<v Speaker 1>what they were thinking?

0:28:15.640 --> 0:28:19.200
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I think you know, I'm not a psychologist, but

0:28:19.320 --> 0:28:22.199
<v Speaker 2>to me, Jennifer seemed to have a really sort of

0:28:22.560 --> 0:28:27.080
<v Speaker 2>a mindset of like she herself being persecuted, persecuted for

0:28:27.240 --> 0:28:32.440
<v Speaker 2>her black children, and persecuted for her lesbian relationship. And

0:28:32.640 --> 0:28:36.200
<v Speaker 2>I think she sort of shows the signs of narcissism.

0:28:36.359 --> 0:28:39.000
<v Speaker 2>And again I'm not a psychologist, but the idea that

0:28:39.080 --> 0:28:43.200
<v Speaker 2>like everything is taken through the frame of herself primarily.

0:28:43.520 --> 0:28:45.840
<v Speaker 2>There were some things in the social media posts that

0:28:45.880 --> 0:28:50.360
<v Speaker 2>were really inappropriate. I felt, talking about private and kind

0:28:50.400 --> 0:28:54.360
<v Speaker 2>of embarrassing potentially situations with the kids, because the kids

0:28:54.400 --> 0:28:57.320
<v Speaker 2>were going through a lot of stuff, and you know,

0:28:57.440 --> 0:29:00.440
<v Speaker 2>she talked about the first night that Marcus and and

0:29:00.520 --> 0:29:04.200
<v Speaker 2>Abigail spent in their home and how Marcus was banging

0:29:04.240 --> 0:29:07.120
<v Speaker 2>his head against the wall and you know, bleeding and

0:29:07.200 --> 0:29:08.160
<v Speaker 2>screaming and.

0:29:08.360 --> 0:29:09.280
<v Speaker 3>You know, and all this stuff.

0:29:09.320 --> 0:29:11.880
<v Speaker 2>And it's like, if that's true, which we don't know,

0:29:12.120 --> 0:29:14.680
<v Speaker 2>and we don't have really any evidence for any of

0:29:14.720 --> 0:29:17.000
<v Speaker 2>the stuff that she was saying, but if that's true,

0:29:17.040 --> 0:29:19.440
<v Speaker 2>how embarrassing is that for him? You know? I mean

0:29:19.480 --> 0:29:23.280
<v Speaker 2>it's a really challenging move. There are thousands of miles

0:29:23.280 --> 0:29:26.440
<v Speaker 2>away and the totally different climate in like a basically

0:29:26.480 --> 0:29:29.200
<v Speaker 2>all white town. They're never going to see their mom again,

0:29:29.600 --> 0:29:32.120
<v Speaker 2>like these are reasons that kids do act out and

0:29:32.640 --> 0:29:35.080
<v Speaker 2>it's normal, and you can really understand that.

0:29:35.640 --> 0:29:39.440
<v Speaker 1>And it's framing her as this savior, literally a white savior,

0:29:39.600 --> 0:29:41.880
<v Speaker 1>savior coming in and saving him. Look what I have

0:29:41.960 --> 0:29:44.680
<v Speaker 1>to deal with. Look at what's happening, and look how

0:29:44.760 --> 0:29:47.480
<v Speaker 1>lucky this kid is to have Sarah and me.

0:29:47.560 --> 0:29:52.000
<v Speaker 2>As parents exactly, And even that exact same post where

0:29:52.000 --> 0:29:54.280
<v Speaker 2>she was talking about their first night there she said,

0:29:54.960 --> 0:29:59.080
<v Speaker 2>if not us who we have natural maternal instincts and

0:29:59.120 --> 0:30:02.480
<v Speaker 2>we have gits of love and all this kind of stuff.

0:30:02.480 --> 0:30:06.080
<v Speaker 2>And it's like, the central character in the story, especially

0:30:06.120 --> 0:30:10.280
<v Speaker 2>in the story of adoption and especially adoption from foster care, right,

0:30:10.760 --> 0:30:14.719
<v Speaker 2>should not be the parent, because it's the kid's journey,

0:30:14.840 --> 0:30:17.680
<v Speaker 2>and the kid is experiencing it with a lot less

0:30:17.760 --> 0:30:23.520
<v Speaker 2>power and with a lot more internal instability, without really

0:30:23.640 --> 0:30:28.160
<v Speaker 2>understanding developmentally the sort of context for it, just having

0:30:28.200 --> 0:30:29.600
<v Speaker 2>really big feelings around it.

0:30:30.080 --> 0:30:34.440
<v Speaker 1>Are we seeing anything in their backgrounds that points to

0:30:34.560 --> 0:30:37.720
<v Speaker 1>these tendencies before they have any of these children, maybe

0:30:37.720 --> 0:30:40.360
<v Speaker 1>even before we met. I'm assuming people have been looking

0:30:40.400 --> 0:30:42.640
<v Speaker 1>and talking to family members or talking to friends from

0:30:42.720 --> 0:30:43.280
<v Speaker 1>high school.

0:30:43.640 --> 0:30:46.200
<v Speaker 2>So I did speak to some family members that ended

0:30:46.280 --> 0:30:49.280
<v Speaker 2>up not wanting to be on the record, and there

0:30:49.320 --> 0:30:53.440
<v Speaker 2>were a couple specific stories that were quite alarming, especially

0:30:53.680 --> 0:30:54.760
<v Speaker 2>regards to Jennifer.

0:30:55.040 --> 0:30:57.320
<v Speaker 3>There was one story about how.

0:30:57.440 --> 0:31:00.479
<v Speaker 2>One of Jennifer's siblings was using a Q tip and

0:31:00.520 --> 0:31:03.120
<v Speaker 2>she walked by and banged her head against the Q tip.

0:31:03.240 --> 0:31:06.160
<v Speaker 1>Ooh, okay. So they get into the gold Yukon and

0:31:06.240 --> 0:31:09.880
<v Speaker 1>when are they thinking the timeline starts for obviously a

0:31:09.920 --> 0:31:12.120
<v Speaker 1>panic to set in. They think that CPS is going

0:31:12.160 --> 0:31:14.120
<v Speaker 1>to come knocking at their door and take away these kids,

0:31:14.320 --> 0:31:14.840
<v Speaker 1>is that right?

0:31:15.200 --> 0:31:15.400
<v Speaker 3>Right?

0:31:15.800 --> 0:31:18.640
<v Speaker 2>So they came home, actually I think they were home

0:31:18.720 --> 0:31:22.280
<v Speaker 2>because they didn't answer the door, so the caseworker put

0:31:22.440 --> 0:31:26.160
<v Speaker 2>her card in the door. When the caseworker returned, still

0:31:26.280 --> 0:31:29.360
<v Speaker 2>not unable to get a hold of the family, the

0:31:29.440 --> 0:31:32.920
<v Speaker 2>card was gone. But also the Yukon was gone. And

0:31:33.320 --> 0:31:36.120
<v Speaker 2>they had a little sort of a small wall along

0:31:36.200 --> 0:31:39.000
<v Speaker 2>their driveway and it was like they had backed into

0:31:39.040 --> 0:31:41.640
<v Speaker 2>the wall and like toppled over some of it. I

0:31:41.640 --> 0:31:44.479
<v Speaker 2>think the panic set in before they ever left. I

0:31:44.520 --> 0:31:48.280
<v Speaker 2>think they probably realized or maybe thought that just because

0:31:48.280 --> 0:31:51.640
<v Speaker 2>they had recently been investigated in Oregon, you know, and

0:31:51.680 --> 0:31:54.720
<v Speaker 2>like you said, the kids were getting older, which means

0:31:54.800 --> 0:31:58.000
<v Speaker 2>they were able to leave. I think they had a

0:31:58.000 --> 0:32:00.920
<v Speaker 2>lot of that white savior idea that like the kids

0:32:00.960 --> 0:32:04.360
<v Speaker 2>couldn't function without them. I think they probably did also

0:32:04.440 --> 0:32:07.000
<v Speaker 2>believe that the kids are really messed up and kind

0:32:07.040 --> 0:32:09.480
<v Speaker 2>of assigned all those behaviors.

0:32:09.080 --> 0:32:09.280
<v Speaker 3>You know.

0:32:09.360 --> 0:32:11.360
<v Speaker 2>I think probably in their minds, they thought the things

0:32:11.360 --> 0:32:13.800
<v Speaker 2>that they were doing, like with the withholding food and

0:32:13.840 --> 0:32:15.840
<v Speaker 2>all that were like necessary.

0:32:15.880 --> 0:32:16.480
<v Speaker 3>In some way.

0:32:16.600 --> 0:32:19.000
<v Speaker 2>It did seem like they had like a complex right

0:32:19.080 --> 0:32:22.560
<v Speaker 2>of like being the victimized people. And so in that

0:32:22.800 --> 0:32:26.720
<v Speaker 2>frame of mind, they probably thought that if they couldn't

0:32:27.160 --> 0:32:29.920
<v Speaker 2>have the kids, then you know, I mean, that's really

0:32:29.920 --> 0:32:32.680
<v Speaker 2>awful to think, right, that you would think of killing

0:32:32.720 --> 0:32:36.120
<v Speaker 2>your family before you would think of just letting them

0:32:36.160 --> 0:32:37.080
<v Speaker 2>exist without you.

0:32:37.680 --> 0:32:39.440
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, they think they're doing them a favor. I mean,

0:32:39.480 --> 0:32:42.080
<v Speaker 1>any of the research I've done on family annihilators, some

0:32:42.160 --> 0:32:43.880
<v Speaker 1>of them say in their heads, they don't want to

0:32:43.920 --> 0:32:45.720
<v Speaker 1>live with a shame, They don't want them to go

0:32:45.840 --> 0:32:47.840
<v Speaker 1>on without them. They wouldn't be able to function. It's

0:32:47.840 --> 0:32:51.440
<v Speaker 1>so narcissistic, and it makes me wonder what that day

0:32:51.560 --> 0:32:56.680
<v Speaker 1>was like. Do you think that they left Washington knowing

0:32:56.720 --> 0:32:58.600
<v Speaker 1>that this was going to be a plan that this

0:32:58.680 --> 0:33:00.440
<v Speaker 1>is what they should do, or do we get the

0:33:00.480 --> 0:33:03.600
<v Speaker 1>impression from any of the evidence that this was spur

0:33:03.680 --> 0:33:06.760
<v Speaker 1>of the moment, even if that means they decided that

0:33:07.000 --> 0:33:08.080
<v Speaker 1>morning to do this.

0:33:08.520 --> 0:33:11.720
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I think the evidence shows that they were kind

0:33:11.720 --> 0:33:14.479
<v Speaker 2>of figuring it out as they were driving because of

0:33:14.560 --> 0:33:18.720
<v Speaker 2>Sarah's Google searches, so she searched for no kill shelters

0:33:18.720 --> 0:33:22.280
<v Speaker 2>for dogs, they had animals. I think it started forming,

0:33:22.600 --> 0:33:24.719
<v Speaker 2>like how to do it. I think they did realize

0:33:24.760 --> 0:33:27.040
<v Speaker 2>that they were trapped before they left, but I don't

0:33:27.040 --> 0:33:29.440
<v Speaker 2>know that they came up with the plan. It's really

0:33:29.520 --> 0:33:32.040
<v Speaker 2>hard to say because there's the evidence on their phones.

0:33:32.160 --> 0:33:35.160
<v Speaker 2>There's the evidence on the car itself, right that shows

0:33:35.160 --> 0:33:37.280
<v Speaker 2>that they didn't break But I don't know what was

0:33:37.400 --> 0:33:40.600
<v Speaker 2>like in that car and how they were able to

0:33:41.000 --> 0:33:42.959
<v Speaker 2>drug the children or anything like that.

0:33:43.640 --> 0:33:47.720
<v Speaker 1>Are either women talking to friends texting in the days

0:33:47.800 --> 0:33:50.600
<v Speaker 1>leading up to this at all. I had read somewhere

0:33:51.040 --> 0:33:56.160
<v Speaker 1>that maybe Sarah regretted something beforehand. This just seems like

0:33:56.440 --> 0:33:57.960
<v Speaker 1>everybody's on edge.

0:33:58.680 --> 0:33:59.280
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, Sarah.

0:33:59.280 --> 0:34:02.200
<v Speaker 2>This was a while back that Sarah had told one

0:34:02.200 --> 0:34:04.720
<v Speaker 2>of her coworkers that she wished that she knew that

0:34:05.080 --> 0:34:06.640
<v Speaker 2>you don't have to have a big family.

0:34:07.680 --> 0:34:11.160
<v Speaker 1>Okay, tell me about that day. So the crash happens

0:34:11.400 --> 0:34:15.319
<v Speaker 1>on March twenty sixth of twenty eighteen. What do we

0:34:15.480 --> 0:34:19.399
<v Speaker 1>know from I know their CCTV, there's receipts, there's cell

0:34:19.440 --> 0:34:23.040
<v Speaker 1>phone records. Piece together what happens leading up to what

0:34:23.120 --> 0:34:24.600
<v Speaker 1>happens on March twenty sixth.

0:34:24.920 --> 0:34:29.840
<v Speaker 2>So they left the house and they started driving. I

0:34:29.880 --> 0:34:34.160
<v Speaker 2>don't think they stayed at any hotel or anything. They

0:34:34.200 --> 0:34:37.680
<v Speaker 2>stopped at a grocery store and bought some bananas and

0:34:37.719 --> 0:34:41.680
<v Speaker 2>snack foods. They parked their car at this turnoff off

0:34:41.680 --> 0:34:45.960
<v Speaker 2>the Pacific Coast Highway, and there was another couple, like

0:34:46.040 --> 0:34:49.240
<v Speaker 2>an older couple who had an RV and was driving

0:34:49.600 --> 0:34:52.920
<v Speaker 2>down the coast from Alaska. They heard the car, and

0:34:52.960 --> 0:34:55.560
<v Speaker 2>they poked out and saw the car. And then he said,

0:34:55.600 --> 0:34:57.160
<v Speaker 2>in the middle of the night, this was like three

0:34:57.160 --> 0:35:00.280
<v Speaker 2>in the morning, he heard what sounded like bottoming out.

0:35:00.640 --> 0:35:02.680
<v Speaker 1>Wait, what is bottoming out mean? Exactly?

0:35:02.960 --> 0:35:05.680
<v Speaker 2>You ever hit like a speed bump too fast, you know,

0:35:05.719 --> 0:35:08.719
<v Speaker 2>like it makes a loud sound where the bottom of

0:35:08.719 --> 0:35:11.560
<v Speaker 2>the car hits the ground. Okay, what he thought happened

0:35:11.880 --> 0:35:15.319
<v Speaker 2>was that they had like peeled out to go down

0:35:15.360 --> 0:35:18.200
<v Speaker 2>to the town which was nearby, so he thought maybe

0:35:18.200 --> 0:35:22.080
<v Speaker 2>they just left fast. He said he thought he heard

0:35:22.120 --> 0:35:24.879
<v Speaker 2>something like off the cliff, and that he thought maybe

0:35:24.920 --> 0:35:27.440
<v Speaker 2>it was a seal, and then he went back to bed.

0:35:27.960 --> 0:35:31.239
<v Speaker 2>He left with his wife the next day. And then

0:35:31.280 --> 0:35:34.120
<v Speaker 2>there was a German tourist who spotted like it was

0:35:34.160 --> 0:35:36.560
<v Speaker 2>a lookout point, right, so people would come there and

0:35:36.600 --> 0:35:40.000
<v Speaker 2>park their car and look at this beautiful view. And

0:35:40.440 --> 0:35:43.160
<v Speaker 2>that's what this German tourist was doing when they noticed

0:35:43.400 --> 0:35:46.560
<v Speaker 2>the car flipped on its hood at the bottom of

0:35:46.560 --> 0:35:47.000
<v Speaker 2>the cliff.

0:35:47.680 --> 0:35:51.479
<v Speaker 1>And we know that. We have rescuers going down there

0:35:51.680 --> 0:35:54.279
<v Speaker 1>and they're looking and tell me what the scene is

0:35:54.320 --> 0:35:56.040
<v Speaker 1>because it's a total disarray.

0:35:56.480 --> 0:35:59.520
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it was a really difficult scene, actually a crime scene,

0:35:59.560 --> 0:36:03.080
<v Speaker 2>because the car was actually on the shore but partly

0:36:03.160 --> 0:36:07.440
<v Speaker 2>in the water, and because of that, the tide had

0:36:07.480 --> 0:36:10.080
<v Speaker 2>been coming in and out right. So in addition to

0:36:10.120 --> 0:36:12.560
<v Speaker 2>the impact, which was a huge impact because it was

0:36:12.560 --> 0:36:15.200
<v Speaker 2>one hundred foot cliff that the car went off and

0:36:15.239 --> 0:36:18.040
<v Speaker 2>it was on its hood, there was also this tide

0:36:18.160 --> 0:36:22.040
<v Speaker 2>which was coming in and going out. There had been

0:36:22.080 --> 0:36:26.120
<v Speaker 2>a storm recently, so it made it really challenging for

0:36:26.320 --> 0:36:30.000
<v Speaker 2>investigators to find the rest of the bodies, because three

0:36:30.120 --> 0:36:33.120
<v Speaker 2>of the kids were found, two of the kids were

0:36:33.160 --> 0:36:37.880
<v Speaker 2>found much later, one was found weeks later, and one kid, Davante,

0:36:38.040 --> 0:36:41.480
<v Speaker 2>was never found. And that's partly because the conditions were

0:36:41.520 --> 0:36:45.359
<v Speaker 2>so changeable. So, like one of the searchers said, you'd

0:36:45.400 --> 0:36:48.080
<v Speaker 2>go down to the beach at two pm, and you'd

0:36:48.080 --> 0:36:50.000
<v Speaker 2>go down at the beach at eight pm, and it

0:36:50.040 --> 0:36:52.479
<v Speaker 2>was like a totally different beach. You were seeing all

0:36:52.560 --> 0:36:55.400
<v Speaker 2>different things, which made it really challenging for people to

0:36:55.480 --> 0:36:56.040
<v Speaker 2>do the search.

0:36:56.800 --> 0:36:59.960
<v Speaker 1>What does the car say actually happened? Because a car

0:37:00.000 --> 0:37:02.480
<v Speaker 1>I can tell you right the black box inside the

0:37:02.520 --> 0:37:04.200
<v Speaker 1>car can tell you whether or not the car was

0:37:04.280 --> 0:37:06.839
<v Speaker 1>breaking at the time of a crash or accelerating.

0:37:07.200 --> 0:37:10.800
<v Speaker 2>Yes, it accelerated off the cliff. That became clear pretty

0:37:10.800 --> 0:37:13.560
<v Speaker 2>early on when there were no skid marks. You often

0:37:13.640 --> 0:37:17.600
<v Speaker 2>see some evidence at the street level that there's breaking,

0:37:17.640 --> 0:37:20.239
<v Speaker 2>that there's attempts to, you know, turn really fast or

0:37:20.239 --> 0:37:20.839
<v Speaker 2>something like that.

0:37:20.920 --> 0:37:22.480
<v Speaker 3>So there was nothing like that at.

0:37:22.320 --> 0:37:25.840
<v Speaker 2>The actual and there's a berm, like an eighteen inch berm,

0:37:25.920 --> 0:37:29.000
<v Speaker 2>which is just like a raised amount of earth around

0:37:29.080 --> 0:37:33.560
<v Speaker 2>the whole lookout just for safety, and so you would

0:37:33.600 --> 0:37:36.279
<v Speaker 2>have to accelerate to get over that.

0:37:37.120 --> 0:37:40.680
<v Speaker 1>What is the toxicology saying about the two women and

0:37:40.920 --> 0:37:43.080
<v Speaker 1>the kids that they were able to recover? I know

0:37:43.120 --> 0:37:46.759
<v Speaker 1>we talked about benadryl. Did both women take benadryl or

0:37:46.840 --> 0:37:47.680
<v Speaker 1>was there alcohol?

0:37:48.200 --> 0:37:49.360
<v Speaker 3>Sarah took benadryl.

0:37:49.719 --> 0:37:52.879
<v Speaker 2>Sarah wasn't driving shoes in the passenger seat, so all

0:37:52.920 --> 0:37:56.040
<v Speaker 2>of the kids and Sarah were found with like massive

0:37:56.080 --> 0:38:01.480
<v Speaker 2>amounts of benadryl, like overnoses of benadryl, and Jennifer was drunk.

0:38:02.080 --> 0:38:06.200
<v Speaker 1>Has there been any kind of reckoning with the foster

0:38:06.239 --> 0:38:09.440
<v Speaker 1>care system in Texas once this story came out and

0:38:09.520 --> 0:38:12.920
<v Speaker 1>these families, I mean the Davis family in particular, I

0:38:12.960 --> 0:38:15.560
<v Speaker 1>know that they had been interviewed. Was there any kind

0:38:15.560 --> 0:38:18.960
<v Speaker 1>of a reckoning? Were there apologies? Was there acknowledgment that

0:38:19.040 --> 0:38:19.920
<v Speaker 1>this was a mistake.

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<v Speaker 2>No, there was no acknowledgment at all on the part

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<v Speaker 2>of Texas. The caseworker that was Tammy's caseworker, so she

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<v Speaker 2>had a big hand in placing Marcus in Hannah and Abigail,

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<v Speaker 2>and after that adoption went through, she actually wrote this

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<v Speaker 2>glowing letter of recommendation that this family should get any

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<v Speaker 2>kids that they want right they're just the wonderful parents.

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<v Speaker 2>I followed up with her and asked her sort of

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<v Speaker 2>how she felt about it, and she said, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>Something must have happened, but I still don't really believe

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<v Speaker 2>it that they did this. And I said, have you

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<v Speaker 2>read the news stories? And she said no, Will you

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<v Speaker 2>tell me?

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<v Speaker 1>Do you know what happened to Bree who was a

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<v Speaker 1>teenager who too lived with the hearts, and to Dante,

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<v Speaker 1>who was the ten year old who did not go

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<v Speaker 1>with them, who would have presumably ended up dead but

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<v Speaker 1>instead went to like a mental health facility.

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<v Speaker 3>So Brie I reach out to her.

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<v Speaker 2>She still lives in Minnesota, in the same town she

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<v Speaker 2>actually works for like a behavioral health program. She seems fine,

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<v Speaker 2>and she's in contact with her mom and they get

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<v Speaker 2>along well and they've sort of worked through some of

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<v Speaker 2>their issues that they'd had that had resulted in her

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<v Speaker 2>being in care. With Dante, his story is a big

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<v Speaker 2>part of the book, and he spent years in that institution,

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<v Speaker 2>which it's called a mental health facility, but they don't

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<v Speaker 2>provide very much mental health care and the place is

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<v Speaker 2>rife with abuse. He did experience abuse there at least

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<v Speaker 2>one documented incidence where his shoulder was dislocated by a

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<v Speaker 2>staff member. He actually was able to reunite with Nathaniel

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<v Speaker 2>at age sixteen. He walked across town, he recognized the neighborhood.

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<v Speaker 2>He went and found Nathaniel, and Nathaniel was able to

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<v Speaker 2>gain custody of him before he aged out.

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<v Speaker 1>This was Sherry's boyfriend and not his biological son.

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<v Speaker 2>No, but he never gave up hope, and he never

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<v Speaker 2>gave up hope on the other kids too until he

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<v Speaker 2>found out that they were killed, and it was really tragic.

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<v Speaker 3>It was really tragic.

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<v Speaker 2>For Dante too, because Dante has years and years of

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<v Speaker 2>case reports where he was begging his caseworker to contact

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<v Speaker 2>his siblings. He felt responsible for them being taken from

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<v Speaker 2>him because he was the oldest and he thought that

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<v Speaker 2>his bad behavior led to their removal. He felt responsible

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<v Speaker 2>for that also. He begged to the point where they

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<v Speaker 2>did ask Jennifer and Sarah if he could have a

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<v Speaker 2>phone call with them, and they said no.

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<v Speaker 1>What has been the lesson? Do you think just in

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<v Speaker 1>the national news, what do people take away when they

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<v Speaker 1>read your book or any narrative on this story.

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<v Speaker 2>My hope is that my book adds to what's out

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<v Speaker 2>there already about this case that helps people understand that

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<v Speaker 2>the way that the child welfare system works or doesn't

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<v Speaker 2>work greatly contributes to traumatizing kids, because I think we

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<v Speaker 2>have this tendency to think of parents who are involved

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<v Speaker 2>with CPS as bad parents, bad people, and that you know,

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<v Speaker 2>removing kids from that situation is helping them.

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<v Speaker 3>But I think that's often not true.

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<v Speaker 2>I think there are so many kids that are stuck

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<v Speaker 2>in foster care dealing with just really horrific abuse in care,

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<v Speaker 2>and that we provide no support to them, real emotional support,

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<v Speaker 2>like a kid needs someone who loves them, and we

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<v Speaker 2>take all the people, all of their family away. Even

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<v Speaker 2>this case, like the Heart Family case, is a story

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<v Speaker 2>that Texa is considered a win, and it's not a win.

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<v Speaker 2>So I want to sort of draw attention to the

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<v Speaker 2>idea that the system is not set up to really

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<v Speaker 2>help children.

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