Speaker 1: It's time to Catch a Cheater. Only on the Jubile Show.
Speaker 1: Dede is on the phone today for to Catch a Cheater.
Speaker 1: She's been with her boyfriend Jake for two years, but
Speaker 1: now she thinks something might be up, So we'll see
Speaker 1: if we can help her out. First, Didy, what's going on?
Speaker 1: Why do you think Jake's cheating on you?
Speaker 2: Well, it's just been weird lately, like he I mean,
Speaker 2: I normally talk to him every single day or I
Speaker 2: see him every single day, and he has not been around,
Speaker 2: not texting.
Speaker 3: Me as much.
Speaker 2: I haven't seen him in a couple of days. It's
Speaker 2: just been really weird and not like him at all.
Speaker 2: So have that like woman's intuition that something's going on.
Speaker 4: Have you said anything to him about it, like, hey, babe,
Speaker 4: where are you been?
Speaker 5: Yeah?
Speaker 3: I totally have, And he says that nothing's going on.
Speaker 3: He I should preface it by saying this. He works
Speaker 3: a lot, and he is like a.
Speaker 2: Video gamer, and he's got this deadline coming out, so
Speaker 2: this game that's coming out. So he keeps telling me that,
Speaker 2: like he's under a lot of pressure with this deadline
Speaker 2: and this game, and like we've been through this before,
Speaker 2: so like I remember when that happened, and yeah, he
Speaker 2: kind of was like a little bit distant when that
Speaker 2: was going on.
Speaker 3: But like, I don't know, this just seems like a
Speaker 3: little bit different.
Speaker 4: So when you do see him, is he the same
Speaker 4: or even different?
Speaker 3: Then well, like I haven't seen him. That's the thing is.
Speaker 2: It's just he's not responding to my text as quickly
Speaker 2: as he normally does, and it's something's off, you know. So,
Speaker 2: I mean, we normally see each other every single day,
Speaker 2: but like I said, like the past month or so,
Speaker 2: like he just complains that he's working late and that
Speaker 2: this deadline is coming. So that's that's just not like him.
Speaker 2: It'll be like a day or two that he doesn't
Speaker 2: answer my text. Oh when he is writing me though,
Speaker 2: I mean, and when we are.
Speaker 3: Talking, he's still saying I love you. He's still nothing's wrong, baby,
Speaker 3: Everything's good, you know, that whole kind of thing. But
Speaker 3: I don't know something's up.
Speaker 4: Does he work from home or does he go into
Speaker 4: an office?
Speaker 6: No?
Speaker 2: See, that's the thing too. It's like I do work
Speaker 2: from home. I have a lot of time on my
Speaker 2: hands in comparison to him. So yeah, he's in an
Speaker 2: office all the time he's got that deadline, So I
Speaker 2: mean it is different. I'm trying to tell myself and
Speaker 2: like talk myself into.
Speaker 3: That that that's what's going on. But I don't know.
Speaker 2: Just something made me contact you guys, because I just
Speaker 2: think it's a bit more.
Speaker 4: Do you do any pop ups or do you have
Speaker 4: anybody in house that could kind of like keep an
Speaker 4: eye on him? I just I don't know. Sometimes it
Speaker 4: sucks to have to go that extra mile. But the
Speaker 4: terms are so technical house, right, what like you don't
Speaker 4: have them, not those words.
Speaker 3: I mean, I guess I should also say too, that
Speaker 3: he is a little bit older than me.
Speaker 2: I am a little bit worried that maybe he found
Speaker 2: someone like his age and maybe that has something to
Speaker 2: do with it.
Speaker 4: Can I ask how much older like it? Like, I mean, a.
Speaker 2: Lot of people tell me it's significant. It's twenty years.
Speaker 2: I don't really think it's that big of a deal.
Speaker 2: But I mean some people might think that that's a
Speaker 2: big deal, but it hasn't really mattered to us for
Speaker 2: the whole time we've been dating. And like I said,
Speaker 2: we've been dating for a while. Our two year anniversary
Speaker 2: is going to come up in a couple of months.
Speaker 4: So the age gap probably hasn't been a thing. But
Speaker 4: I wonder also if that's just like growing in different directions,
Speaker 4: just a different phases maybe, right, even if there isn't
Speaker 4: another person. Yeah, and that's just kind of it's an
Speaker 4: intrusive thought that enters my head, like, yeah, okay, is
Speaker 4: is he you know, finding someone that's like a little
Speaker 4: bit calmer, wants to sit around the house a bit more,
Speaker 4: not go out as much, like, I don't know.
Speaker 1: So we'll see if we can figure it out for you.
Speaker 1: You told us at grocery store. He's a rewards card
Speaker 1: member at So we'll call up, pretend to be from
Speaker 1: there and say that every single month we choose one
Speaker 1: lucky rewards member who gets free flowers delivered from our
Speaker 1: florial department. We'll see if he sends those se you
Speaker 1: it to somebody else, Okay, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 3: I appreciate it.
Speaker 2: I listen to you guys all the time, and I
Speaker 2: can't believe I'm doing this.
Speaker 1: Well, sorry, you're going through it. Hopefully he's not, but
Speaker 1: we'll see if we can catch him. We'll play a
Speaker 1: song come back, get to catch Acheater next right in
Speaker 1: the middle of to catch a cheater if you're just
Speaker 1: joining us. Dede is on the phone, and Dede he
Speaker 1: thinks that her boyfriend of two years named Jake might
Speaker 1: be cheating. So on a second, we're gonna call him
Speaker 1: and pretend to be from the grocery store that he's
Speaker 1: a rewards card member at and say that he's this
Speaker 1: month's lucky winner of free flowers delivered from our floral
Speaker 1: department to anywhere that he wants, and we'll see if
Speaker 1: he sends those to his girlfriend or to somebody else
Speaker 1: Before we do that, though, Dide, why don't you catch
Speaker 1: everybody up on your situation?
Speaker 3: My god, I just got really nervous once you went
Speaker 3: through all that.
Speaker 2: Yeah, just I mean, we've been together almost two years
Speaker 2: and just jumping's been off lately. He's been telling me
Speaker 2: that he's got this deadline at work and that that's
Speaker 2: why he's just not texting me as quickly, coming around
Speaker 2: as much.
Speaker 3: And I don't know. There's just something that I don't know.
Speaker 2: Something doesn't smell right to me here, and I just
Speaker 2: think that something's up.
Speaker 1: All right, You ready for us to call him? I said,
Speaker 1: I'm all right, here we go. Hello, Hey, this is
Speaker 1: corrible calling from I was looking for a rewards card
Speaker 1: member named Jake.
Speaker 5: Uh yeah, speaking, Please.
Speaker 1: Don't hang up. This is not a marketing phone call.
Speaker 1: I'm actually calling to say thank you very much for
Speaker 1: shopping with us. Here this month's big winner.
Speaker 5: Okay, wow, cool, this is a nice surprise. I guess
Speaker 5: I won. Yes, I didn't enter anything.
Speaker 1: So well. We do it every single month for our
Speaker 1: Rewards card members. Maybe you haven't seen the signage. That's
Speaker 1: fine if you haven't. But every month we choose one
Speaker 1: rewards Card member to call up and say thank you
Speaker 1: very much for being such a loyal customer. You've won
Speaker 1: thirty six long stem red roses, a box of candy
Speaker 1: or chocolates, and a card to be delivered to anybody
Speaker 1: that you want.
Speaker 7: Wow, I feel like a real big winner. Well, as
Speaker 7: much as I want to, I want the flowers. I think,
Speaker 7: there's just no question. I already know I'm gonna send
Speaker 7: them to my wife Janelle obviously.
Speaker 1: Okay, Pogue has been together, by the way, that's cute.
Speaker 5: We've been married like ten years.
Speaker 1: Wow. That is a long time.
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, wow, a decade.
Speaker 1: Jake. This isn't the grocery store. This is actually a
Speaker 1: radio show. My name is Jewbel, It's called the Jewel Show,
Speaker 1: and DEDI is on the phone.
Speaker 3: You're married?
Speaker 5: Are you kidding me? This is what's happening right now?
Speaker 3: I was no, no, no, oh God, act like that. You're married?
Speaker 3: What do you mean you're married?
Speaker 5: Like the how you want to do this right now? Seriously?
Speaker 5: Would you tell them that we're in a relationship? Did
Speaker 5: you tell them the truth? Is that what you did?
Speaker 3: We are in a relationship? I mean you're a liar.
Speaker 5: You're the one that that what you want to call it? No,
Speaker 5: I am married, Okay, I'm her sugar daddy. Okay, say whatever.
Speaker 3: It's more than that. It's more than.
Speaker 5: That, is it? Like from the day one, Yeah I did.
Speaker 3: I was saying we love each other like this, it's
Speaker 3: been more than that.
Speaker 5: I did tell you I was not in a relationship.
Speaker 5: I did tell you you were the only one.
Speaker 3: Thank you? Tell me you love me? Like, what are
Speaker 3: you talking about now?
Speaker 2: You're married, You've been married, You've been lying the full time.
Speaker 5: Is this how you want to actually blow my spot
Speaker 5: up on the radio? Yeah, just about it. I'm married
Speaker 5: and we had a thing.
Speaker 6: I've just been dealing with the deadline, the game was
Speaker 6: about to watch. It's well, my wife and I are
Speaker 6: doing okay, Bedie, And what you knew this was temporary?
Speaker 6: You would always want that you had other sugar Daddy,
Speaker 6: and like a millisecond, I stopped.
Speaker 5: Spending sending money to you. This is how you react. Seriously,
Speaker 5: I haven't talked.
Speaker 6: To you in like a couple of days, and you're
Speaker 6: calling me on the radio.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean like you weren't answering me, and like
Speaker 3: you stopped sending me everything. So like, how else am
Speaker 3: I supposed to get?
Speaker 4: Are you guys actually together or do you just pay
Speaker 4: for things?
Speaker 3: I thought we were Like I.
Speaker 5: Thought it was we had an agreement, that was the contract.
Speaker 8: She said there was other people doing whatever financially, and
Speaker 8: I knew I didn't think either of us were being
Speaker 8: one hundred percent, so that I thought it is what
Speaker 8: it is, And like that's why there was no urgency
Speaker 8: to get back to you. Dd Okay, Well now you're
Speaker 8: literally ruining my marriage on the radio.
Speaker 4: She's going on sugar Daddy, like you got yourself a
Speaker 4: sugar daddy. I'm sorry, I'm laughing with that's funny.
Speaker 1: It's kind of funny.
Speaker 5: What else do you want to call it?
Speaker 8: I was just trying to be a financial beneficiar or whatever.
Speaker 2: But like I just, oh, but you can't, like, you
Speaker 2: can't just cut me off like that without an explanation.
Speaker 3: So like I you should have told me this.
Speaker 5: That was the agreement.
Speaker 6: If you're just gonna break the contract literally by blowing
Speaker 6: up my spot right now?
Speaker 5: Live, what did God knows you here? I'm sure my
Speaker 5: wife listens to this.
Speaker 8: Two years ago, like I thought, we moved on.
Speaker 1: Do you just meet on a website or something?
Speaker 5: Yeah, we met on t I'm like Tinder years ago.
Speaker 4: Is there a real contract?
Speaker 2: No, there's no real contract, like that's for the sugar.
Speaker 3: Babies website has a contract. We didn't meet that way.
Speaker 3: I told him about my other clients, but I don't
Speaker 3: want them anymore.
Speaker 5: Oh, it was an agreement. She didn't make that appearance.
Speaker 5: He called me other people.
Speaker 4: Wait, Jay, do you say I love you to her?
Speaker 5: Yes?
Speaker 6: I love my wife. I don't know what is going
Speaker 6: on right now. Please don't call me anymore.
Speaker 5: I'm hanging up. This is ridiculous. This is so dumb.
Speaker 5: I can't believe he did this. The radio d please
Speaker 5: stop following me, please, don't text me anymore. We're through.
Speaker 5: I want nothing to do with you.
Speaker 3: No, I want to talk to you, like, let's talk
Speaker 3: this out, like I can't lose you.
Speaker 1: Did he hung up?
Speaker 3: But I hope he doesn't like block me.
Speaker 2: I mean, like I need to get in touch with him,
Speaker 2: like he still owes me money and like I mean,
Speaker 2: like it's more than this, like it's it's the whole thing.
Speaker 4: Why does he owe you money?
Speaker 3: He pays for my rent?
Speaker 2: I mean, like there's a lot that goes into it,
Speaker 2: Like he can't just disappear.
Speaker 1: Like this and you didn't know he was married, had
Speaker 1: no clue, no.
Speaker 2: Clue, like say, I love you, like I thought this
Speaker 2: was my man, Like yes, it started out as something,
Speaker 2: but like it's.
Speaker 3: Evolved, so I thought, I mean, now now Lena see.
Speaker 1: It now you know, you know, good luck figuring stuff.
Speaker 3: Out, Jesus, Like this is a mess.
Speaker 4: I'm really sorry, DEDI that sucks especial because you thought
Speaker 4: you guys were in a relationship. But it doesn't sound
Speaker 4: like it started off real honest, and he's married. You
Speaker 4: don't want that anyway, you know, no, But like that's
Speaker 4: the whole other thing is like now I got like,
Speaker 4: come to terms with that.
Speaker 3: I just I gotta go process all this. Thank you
Speaker 3: you guys, I really appreciate it.
Speaker 1: You got your answer, Yeah, yeah.
Speaker 3: Thank you.
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