Speaker 1: Second date date. A lot of people when they go
Speaker 1: out on a date, like to wait for the perfect
Speaker 1: moment to go in for that first kiss. Oh my gosh,
Speaker 1: you have to you don't like panic inducing out. For
Speaker 1: some people, that happens at the very end of the night,
Speaker 1: while you're walking them back to their car. Classic. For Brooke,
Speaker 1: it happens three seconds after she makes eye contact. What
Speaker 1: was your name? But for one of our listeners, Barry,
Speaker 1: he says, the perfect moment actually came after the date
Speaker 1: was over, which I don't really know what that means himself. Idea,
Speaker 1: I have that happy moment too, and I'm alone. I
Speaker 1: guess we're gonna find out in just a second. But
Speaker 1: first let's say hi to him, Barry. What's up man?
Speaker 1: Welcome to the showy gush Barry? What is it just me?
Speaker 1: Or did we have a moment right there? And he did? Know?
Speaker 1: Maybe they did. I'm sensing something. Don't hurt it. Don't
Speaker 1: rain on people's moments, Jose, I think I would have
Speaker 1: felt it. I'm in the moment as well. I'm leaning in.
Speaker 1: I don't know about you've got are you leaning I'm here? Okay,
Speaker 1: that's a rejection, yea. All right, never mind, Well, I
Speaker 1: guess tell us about the girl that you want us
Speaker 1: to call today. What's her name? Her name is Sky?
Speaker 1: And how did you meet Sky? That's always our next question.
Speaker 1: She's friends with my buddy's girlfriend, so kind of a
Speaker 1: friend of a friend. Okay, Yeah, had you guys hung
Speaker 1: out quite a bit prior to your date? We actually
Speaker 1: met for the very first time on our first date.
Speaker 1: So it was like a setup then, not really a setup, like,
Speaker 1: you know, my friend put us in touch and then
Speaker 1: we started texting each other. And yeah, when your friend
Speaker 1: puts you in touch with somebody to go on a
Speaker 1: date with them, that's called a set up. They yeah, no,
Speaker 1: I mean they just like, you know, they didn't like
Speaker 1: plan the data any again, like you guys go together?
Speaker 1: Do you want to get married now? And all garden
Speaker 1: on Saturday. I've already made reservation. I've an event planner now,
Speaker 1: entire life all right, so connected the two of you, Yeah,
Speaker 1: and you guys agreed to go out. Yeah, I mean
Speaker 1: we texted back and forth for about a week or so.
Speaker 1: And what was that? Like? We you know, I had
Speaker 1: good chemistry over text and uh. At one point she
Speaker 1: mentioned she was a really good cook and okay, I
Speaker 1: jokingly like, I was like, oh, you better prove it.
Speaker 1: Oh that is actually a really good response word taken control.
Speaker 1: So she invited me over for dinner. You know, it's
Speaker 1: a challenge accepted, right, all right? I know, and you're
Speaker 1: already going over to her place. I mean, what were
Speaker 1: you feeling. Were you excited, nervous? Oh? Yeah, for sure.
Speaker 1: I mean that's kind of like a big move for
Speaker 1: a first date, especially when you haven't met someone before. Yeah,
Speaker 1: for sure. Yeah, it's a really good sign. It means
Speaker 1: she trusts you too. Yeah. I don't any guy to
Speaker 1: their home. I think its a lot that they met
Speaker 1: through friends, because friends can always vouch for their friends.
Speaker 1: Like if you're friends with my body, then of course
Speaker 1: you're It's one line of defense that comes down. Yeah,
Speaker 1: for sure, for sure. So how did things go when
Speaker 1: you guys met up? You know, I brought over some
Speaker 1: dessert and a bottle of wine. You should never show
Speaker 1: up to someone's house empty handed. I'm mostly talking to
Speaker 1: Alexis because she's young, and I don't think she knows
Speaker 1: that yet anything, all right, And so that was dinner
Speaker 1: right from the moment I walked in you know, obviously
Speaker 1: I haven't seen her before, but she looked amazing and
Speaker 1: really good conversation over dinner, and true to her word,
Speaker 1: she's really good at cooking. Yeah, she made this awesome lasagna.
Speaker 1: It was incredible. I mean she took time because lasagna is,
Speaker 1: Oh it's time intensive. Unless you get the stove first one,
Speaker 1: you just pop that. Yeah, oh god, it is good.
Speaker 1: That technically counts as homemade. Yeah, I guess she's serving you.
Speaker 1: Was on there for thirty two people. Yeah, so dinner
Speaker 1: went well. Did you guys do anything else? So we
Speaker 1: finished in her pretty quickly and overcome a little bit
Speaker 1: of awkward silence. I ask she had Netflix and if
Speaker 1: she wanted to watch a movie, because there was a
Speaker 1: really awesome movie on Netflix. You know, when I see
Speaker 1: a really funny movie or when I see something really good,
Speaker 1: I want to share with other people, you know what
Speaker 1: I mean. Yeah, I'm sure that's why you asked. That's
Speaker 1: why everyone asks to watch Netflix, because I want to
Speaker 1: share a really great program. I mean, okay, so I
Speaker 1: put on Grown Ups Too with Adam Sandler. Have you
Speaker 1: seen it? It's incredible Grown Ups Too. It's not very romantic. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's an interesting first date choice. I mean, I feel
Speaker 1: like if you're laughing and having a good time, that
Speaker 1: is romantic. Yeah, but it's a questionable laugh, you know,
Speaker 1: it's like that's gonna guarantee to laugh like Adam Sandler.
Speaker 1: That's like you're hanging with your bros. And maybe you're
Speaker 1: smoked too much. I mean, my strategy when I'm trying
Speaker 1: to show romantic movies to have like a really good
Speaker 1: looking guy to get the other person in the movi, okay,
Speaker 1: so that they can close their eyes and not see
Speaker 1: your face out with you. Yeah, I don't think you
Speaker 1: guys appreciate the comic genius that is Adam Sandler. I don't.
Speaker 1: I guess not turned me on. But you know that's okay.
Speaker 1: What did she think of the movie? She laughs, She
Speaker 1: laughs a little bit, a little bit like a normal Adam.
Speaker 1: I mean, okay, yeah, you know, we were eating tie
Speaker 1: watching a movie and I wanted to make a move,
Speaker 1: but I just couldn't find the right moment, and so
Speaker 1: that was kind of a bummer. During coron ups too,
Speaker 1: you couldn't find a good moment. It's pretty amazing. So
Speaker 1: many romantic pieces of that shocks me. I still can't
Speaker 1: believe that. David Spain and Evin James on the screen too.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, Chris, Oh my god, maybe I'll better luck
Speaker 1: and grown ups three twenty times, so they have to
Speaker 1: grow up. So those guys are satured in life royalty.
Speaker 1: I don't know why. Yeah, no notice. Respect. So how
Speaker 1: did the night end for you? So? I just gave
Speaker 1: her a hug and I left her place. Okay, Okay,
Speaker 1: that seems that's okay. And then one of my friends
Speaker 1: lives by, so we ended up at a bar in
Speaker 1: the area and we just had a couple of drinks.
Speaker 1: But here's the thing I regret is, you know, I
Speaker 1: was kind of kind of loose, and it was probably
Speaker 1: a little overconfident, and so back to her apartment, and
Speaker 1: it was probably around midnight or so, maybe a little
Speaker 1: after Wait, did you tell her that you were coming
Speaker 1: back or you just went back? No? I just went back.
Speaker 1: What did she say she answered the door? No, No,
Speaker 1: she didn't answer. But from where I was parted, I
Speaker 1: could see that she had just turned off the light
Speaker 1: in her bedroom, and so you know, that was when
Speaker 1: I realized that, like, you know, maybe it had accidentally
Speaker 1: been a little creepy. I guess I'm just picturing you're
Speaker 1: standing outside her apartment drunk. But Sky, let me and
Speaker 1: I'm confident enough to kiss you. Now that's such an
Speaker 1: out of Sailor movie classics. So have you reached out
Speaker 1: to Sky since the day? Yeah? I did under a
Speaker 1: couple of texts, but have not heard back. Okay, all right,
Speaker 1: all right, man, Well we're gonna play a song, we'll
Speaker 1: come back, we'll call Sky for you, and we'll try
Speaker 1: and get your second date update. Okay, all right, thanks guys,
Speaker 1: all right, hang on second. During the last song, I've
Speaker 1: been googling most romantic Adam Sandler quotes of all time? Okay,
Speaker 1: what'd you come up with that? Wait? Did anything? Come on?
Speaker 1: I'm actually excited for that. I have a few contenders here.
Speaker 1: First one, now, that's what I call high quality H
Speaker 1: two old, or maybe this one? Why don't you just
Speaker 1: go home? Ball? Are you too good for your home?
Speaker 1: Doesn't get much hotter than that one? Oh wow. If
Speaker 1: you're wondering why am I bringing up these steamy Adam
Speaker 1: Sandler lines here, one of our listeners, Barry, went on
Speaker 1: a date with a woman named Sky. She cooked them
Speaker 1: a meal at her place, and then Barry put on
Speaker 1: the movie Grown Ups Too, and waited for the perfect
Speaker 1: moment to go in for the first kiss, which shockingly
Speaker 1: never came. And his biggest regret is after he left
Speaker 1: her apartment, he had a few drinks and then returned
Speaker 1: around midnight with his liquid confidence, but she never answered
Speaker 1: the door. It was almost that Romeo and Juliet balcony scene,
Speaker 1: and now he's hoping that we can get a hold
Speaker 1: of her. Barry, how you feeling good? Okay? Very well?
Speaker 1: I mean, Barry, there's a lot on the line, like
Speaker 1: this girl she cooked for you, Like, how are you
Speaker 1: really feeling? Yeah, I mean I'm voteful. I've heard you
Speaker 1: guys work your magic before, so you should. The matter is,
Speaker 1: I've been single for a really long time and Sky
Speaker 1: is just recently single, So I just I don't want
Speaker 1: to let the opportunity go. You know, she's a catch,
Speaker 1: and I feel like she's not going to be single
Speaker 1: for long. Okay, that's good. Let's give it a show
Speaker 1: out here. I'm Gonnadasky's number and we're gonna get you
Speaker 1: a second date. Update you ready, I'm ready? Okay, here
Speaker 1: we go. Hello, Hi, I'm looking for Sky. Her Hi, Sky.
Speaker 1: My name is Jeffrey from the radio show Brook and
Speaker 1: Jeffrey in the Morning. How you doing. I'm okay, Hi, Hi,
Speaker 1: how are your energy run up there? Hey? We're a
Speaker 1: morning show. Okay, okay, and we're doing something called a
Speaker 1: second date update. Have you ever heard of that before?
Speaker 1: I think so? Yeah, okay, okay, smile coming through the phone.
Speaker 1: But basically, a second date update works like this. If
Speaker 1: you go out with someone and afterwards, if that person
Speaker 1: isn't calling you back, you can email our show and
Speaker 1: we'll reach out to them for you to try and
Speaker 1: figure out the reason why. Oh okay, okay. And so
Speaker 1: somebody emailed us in regards to you. His name's Barry. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that was a bad sounds guy. Ye Oh, I'm sorry. Okay, Yeah,
Speaker 1: I know, Barry. Yeah, it's okay. You don't have to
Speaker 1: fake it like you like him if you don't. But
Speaker 1: we're just trying to figure out why you've been avoiding him.
Speaker 1: All right, Well, let me first say, I'm sure he's
Speaker 1: a very nice guy. Oh man, that is a setup
Speaker 1: for something bad. Yeah. She doesn't even say like he
Speaker 1: is a nice guy. I'm sure he is. It was
Speaker 1: a blind date, so those are always risky. Yes, they
Speaker 1: are always risky. But it was a blind date, but
Speaker 1: it was like true friends, so it felt kind of okay,
Speaker 1: you know. Yeah, so Barry has told us a lot
Speaker 1: about your date already, about how you guys met and
Speaker 1: that you cooked him some dinner over at your apartment,
Speaker 1: and he put on the movie Grown Ups two. Yes,
Speaker 1: how did you feel about that? Well? I hadn't seen
Speaker 1: Grown Up one when they did tell him, But you
Speaker 1: don't need to see one. Did it really make some
Speaker 1: It's got a lot of plotline there. It wasn't a
Speaker 1: book first, ye, all right, But honestly it was not
Speaker 1: the movie that was like the issue. I don't really
Speaker 1: know everything that he told you. But before we even met,
Speaker 1: we were taxing back and forth and it was like
Speaker 1: it was fine, But then he was asking all these
Speaker 1: weird questions about my apartment, which seems odd, like what
Speaker 1: kind of questions? Just like what my amenities were? Like
Speaker 1: he used the word amenities. Do you think he was
Speaker 1: just nervous or something like? Well, no, it was definitely
Speaker 1: on purpose because he showed up to the date with
Speaker 1: a bag of laundry. What what do you mean we
Speaker 1: did his laundry? On our date. No, no, he did
Speaker 1: not tell us that. No he did not. He didn't
Speaker 1: tell you that. That was kind of like the big thing.
Speaker 1: He showed up with a bag of laundry, and then
Speaker 1: I spent like a lot of time you actually did
Speaker 1: it well. He couldn't seem to get my wash or
Speaker 1: dryer situation, so I was like explaining where the buttons were,
Speaker 1: and then I wound up popping him like sort through
Speaker 1: his dark and slights. It was just so weird. What
Speaker 1: was his explanation, like that he doesn't have it in
Speaker 1: his building? Would it be okay if he did it here?
Speaker 1: But it was definitely a moment where I was like, oh,
Speaker 1: that's why he was talking about my amenity. Oh my god.
Speaker 1: I don't know. Maybe it was some kind of test
Speaker 1: to see if you're really wife material. What wives don't
Speaker 1: do laundry anymore? Just in nineteen fifty. I was like
Speaker 1: I could for him. I did his laundry. I felt
Speaker 1: like his mom, like yeah it does. And he made
Speaker 1: you watch grown ups too, like I didn't even make
Speaker 1: a move. So and I don't know if you know
Speaker 1: about this, but he said after the day ended, he
Speaker 1: went out and then came back around midnight hoping to
Speaker 1: see Yeah. So the movie ended and I kind of
Speaker 1: didn't know how to end the situation. And he was like,
Speaker 1: you know, my friend loves down the street. Would you
Speaker 1: mind if I go and meet them for a couple
Speaker 1: of drinks while my stuff in the dryer? And I
Speaker 1: was just like yes, Like I didn't know what to do.
Speaker 1: He left his clothes at your out. Yeah, so he
Speaker 1: left and then I just was like cleaning up our stuff,
Speaker 1: and then when his clothes were dry, I put them
Speaker 1: in a big bag and put him outside my door
Speaker 1: and just kind of went to bed. And I did
Speaker 1: hear him knocking, but I was like, I mean, it's
Speaker 1: not like he forgot anything or like, oh wow, well
Speaker 1: that makes sense. Oh yeah, but he didn't even stay
Speaker 1: do the dishes after you cooked for him, Like all
Speaker 1: of this didn't Were you doing a teenage boy? Yeah?
Speaker 1: At first I was like, wait, do I not know
Speaker 1: how dating works anymore? And I was like no, I
Speaker 1: think he doesn't know how to work. Oh my gosh,
Speaker 1: this is crazy because he never mentioned anything about that
Speaker 1: to us. What that was like the biggest thing that
Speaker 1: like I couldn't stop thinking about the whole time we're
Speaker 1: eating dinner, and I can hear it like tumbling around
Speaker 1: the waher. O. God, I wonder why he did that,
Speaker 1: And I really know, I really would like to ask him,
Speaker 1: no Sky, because I need to tell you Barry's on
Speaker 1: the other line listening and he wants to talk to you.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, wait wait, no, that's a joke. Great, it's
Speaker 1: not a joke. Barry there, I'm here, Oh Barry, Hi. Well,
Speaker 1: I mean I don't I don't know what to say.
Speaker 1: I mean, best of luck, I don't know what to say.
Speaker 1: That is the best response ever, Barry, What the hell
Speaker 1: are you thinking? You brought laundry over to her house,
Speaker 1: lay machine, some of the dishwasher. You don't bring dishes over? Well?
Speaker 1: I mean I have a dishwasher. Okay, that's not God, dude,
Speaker 1: it's not the point, Like, can't you see that? That's overstepping,
Speaker 1: especially on a first date. It also made me things
Speaker 1: like you like me at all? Or would you just
Speaker 1: go out with anyone who has a washing? I will
Speaker 1: say in unit is pretty sexy. No, I mean it's
Speaker 1: like I like you a lot. I mean, like the
Speaker 1: washer joy situation is a bonus. But I can venmo
Speaker 1: you for the detergent I should have offered no, that's
Speaker 1: that's fine, that's totally okay. We don't need to be
Speaker 1: friends on venmo Verry. No woman wants to be a
Speaker 1: mom to a boyfriend. I didn't really think of it
Speaker 1: like that, you know. I thought it was kind of
Speaker 1: just like a bonding experience. It was like an activity
Speaker 1: we can do together. Oh. I mean, I could see
Speaker 1: it being romantic in an Adam Sandler movie maybe, But
Speaker 1: in the real world, Barry, that's not really how it works.
Speaker 1: It's not like a couple of goals. I'll do my
Speaker 1: laundering my Grandma's from now on, So next time we'll
Speaker 1: have like a more normal date without you know, um,
Speaker 1: you know what I hold on hold on Sky, don't
Speaker 1: go job at the conclusions here, guys, because it's very
Speaker 1: important for me to ask right now, if you would
Speaker 1: like to go out on one more date with Barry,
Speaker 1: we will pay for it. Maybe go to a laundry
Speaker 1: mat will just give you a big bag of coins,
Speaker 1: do some laundry together. I think I have to like
Speaker 1: trust my gut and the idea that I was uncomfortable
Speaker 1: off the bat. It means like you don't go on
Speaker 1: a second date. So are you sure. I mean I'll
Speaker 1: do your laundry too. Oh oh, that's even weirder. I'll
Speaker 1: fold your panties for your girl. Broken Jeffrey in the morning,