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Speaker 1: Scrubbing in with Becca Tilly, an iHeartRadio podcast. Hey guys,

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Speaker 1: it's Tanya here. Becca is not in this week. She's

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Speaker 1: actually on vacation. It is one of her best friend's birthdays,

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Speaker 1: so she is with her in Nantucket. But I am

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Speaker 1: holding down the fort. Mark is here. Don't worry. We

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Speaker 1: got the email later Easton. Don't worry. We got you

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Speaker 1: guys covered. But I'm very excited because Okay, I feel

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Speaker 1: like I've talked about my love for Gilmore Girls on

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Speaker 1: the podcast before. I definitely have at some point, but

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Speaker 1: I feel like, so, okay, so we have Keiko Ayana again.

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Speaker 2: The flavor that you gave it.

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Speaker 1: Ethnic different practicing the last name because for some reason,

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Speaker 1: I can't say again, I always say Ayena. I don't know,

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Speaker 1: but I feel like you're America's best friend.

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Speaker 3: Oh thank you.

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Speaker 1: I always because I like, I don't know you. I

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Speaker 1: literally just met you two seconds ago, and I genuinely

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Speaker 1: feel like.

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Speaker 3: We did have a hug moment.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Like, I feel like you're one of like my girlfriends that, like,

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Speaker 1: I spent a lot of time with in high school.

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Speaker 1: Oh is that weird? You do a lot of people

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Speaker 1: tell you that, Uh No.

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Speaker 3: But I I like it. I'm game, I'm good, I'm

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Speaker 3: good to be friendly.

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Speaker 4: Yeah yeah, yeah you were's best friend. Yes, yeah, and

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Speaker 4: you were twenty six and playing sixteen.

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Speaker 5: What.

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Speaker 4: Yes, that's impressive, that's pretty great.

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Speaker 1: It was like, honestly, you don't understand that what that

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Speaker 1: show did for me, Like that show was like a major,

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Speaker 1: major moment. And I think it's really cool that, like

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Speaker 1: it's coming back and they did that whole like reboot,

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Speaker 1: and I think they're gonna do another one, right, They're

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Speaker 1: gonna do another one.

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Speaker 3: People have asked about it.

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Speaker 2: I don't think there's anything necessarily in the works, right,

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Speaker 2: but yeah, I mean it's been when when it went

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Speaker 2: back on Netflix, that was like a huge It was

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Speaker 2: a nice moment to kind of read you we reen

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Speaker 2: with people and uh, I think more people to me,

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Speaker 2: it felt like saw it when it went onto Netflix

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Speaker 2: than maybe even did back in the day.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Like I feel so I watched all of them

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Speaker 1: like in real time, but I almost feel like I

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Speaker 1: should go back and kind of give it a rego

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Speaker 1: from like top to bottom because there's so many life lessons.

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Speaker 4: Of market seven times all the way through, so true.

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Speaker 1: But Gilmar Girls is one of those shows. It's like

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Speaker 1: it's just all about like women and their like relationships,

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Speaker 1: whether they're romantic friendships, with the relationship with their parents.

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Speaker 1: There's so many life lessons in the show. I feel

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Speaker 1: like probably learn a thing or two going second second time.

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Speaker 2: Oh, that's sweet to say. It is kind of like

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Speaker 2: a little bit of an idyllic world. I think that's

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Speaker 2: part of the attraction too, because Stars Hollow is uh,

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Speaker 2: I don't know, it's this fast talking but also this

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Speaker 2: quaint little town where everyone knows each other and uh.

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Speaker 2: I think one of the anecdotes that Amy Sherman Paladin,

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Speaker 2: who created the show, talked about why she wanted to

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Speaker 2: write about this place is that when she was visiting

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Speaker 2: a town that this is based off of, people in

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Speaker 2: the coffee shop would go behind the counter and just

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Speaker 2: pour themselves coffee and there was just something about that

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Speaker 2: whole everyone's comfortable and kind of owns this little place

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Speaker 2: that has more festivals I think per year than anywhere.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, did you ever have this moment where you were

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Speaker 1: like when when like Gilmore Girls was like and it's

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Speaker 1: like and it's like major moment where you kind of

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Speaker 3: No. Never, I'm the most awkward person.

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Speaker 2: Like as you were saying nice things about it, I

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Speaker 2: could feel my butt cheeks just like get tight, and

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Speaker 2: I just smile. I had like a plastic smile on

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Speaker 2: my face, like just get through the compliments.

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Speaker 3: Oh my god.

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Speaker 1: If I were Lane, I would have been walking around

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Speaker 1: town like yeah girl, yeah na.

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Speaker 3: No.

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Speaker 1: Never, you never had that moment where somebody like really

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Speaker 1: did you ever have a starstruck moment or you're like

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Speaker 2: I've had people come up and say that they've watched

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Speaker 2: mostly eighty percent of me just feels awkward and.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, like like nobody like George Clooney ever came up

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Speaker 2: Like I gotta take nobody not yet maybe today, Maybe today,

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Speaker 2: I just have to hang out at the right spots

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Speaker 2: where George is Pullinson pranks or whatever George does for fun.

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Speaker 1: Like I mean, I so I work on the Ryan

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Speaker 1: Seacrest Morning Show, and I feel like whenever somebody like

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Speaker 1: that I'm a fan of says they listened to like,

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Speaker 1: I saw Gwen Stefani posted a video and she was

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Speaker 1: listening to me talking about her song, and I literally

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Speaker 1: almost my pants, like, sorry, do you have to believe

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Speaker 3: Because there was an a in it?

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Speaker 4: Is it? Okay?

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Speaker 3: They were like, we can get it by I know

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Speaker 3: what it is. But I was okay.

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Speaker 1: I was like, oh my gosh, one stuff knows who

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Speaker 1: I am. That is Banana's.

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Speaker 2: You didn't even she is in your subconscious She has

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Speaker 2: locked herself in there totally.

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Speaker 1: I want to talk about what you came in here today.

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Speaker 1: She talked about is that you have this book, and

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Speaker 1: I was reading up about the book and I kind

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Speaker 1: of equated it a little bit too. I'm a Christian

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Speaker 1: and there's a book that a lot of Christians use.

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Speaker 1: It's called the Five Minute Journal. It's a little bit

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Speaker 1: like in spray. There's quotes and there's there's like things

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Speaker 1: felt like yours is a little similar. Whether you can

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Speaker 1: like draw and you kind of like you tell your

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Speaker 3: Absolutely, yeah, it's totally like that. It's Originally it really started.

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Speaker 2: Off as a very very early on before we even

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Speaker 2: and I started post things on Facebook and people said, well,

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Speaker 2: if you did an adult coloring book, I would buy it,

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Speaker 2: and I'm like, okay, And then it graduated into being

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Speaker 2: to be more of a I think it's one hundred

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Speaker 1: I think that's so cool because it's almost it's like

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Speaker 1: a self help book, but it's like, actually you're helping

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Speaker 1: yourself because there's not like a one. It's almost like

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Speaker 1: I don't know what the word what I'm trying to

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Speaker 1: so it's like your way of being like, this is

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Speaker 1: how you can do it by channeling your own struggles

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Speaker 1: and things that are like going on in your own life.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I kind of wrote it for people. I think

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Speaker 2: every self help book is not for every person. Like

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Speaker 2: my book in particular is for people who are too

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Speaker 2: hard on themselves.

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Speaker 3: Not necessarily for.

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Speaker 2: The people that need to get motivated and do like

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Speaker 2: a bunch of lists, but for the people who you know,

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Speaker 1: I think a lot of people can relate to that.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, So that's the point of view of how I

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Speaker 1: I think no matter who you are, I think everybody

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Speaker 1: don't feel good enough. Yeah, in any aspect of their life,

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Speaker 1: you know what I mean. I think especially there's a

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Speaker 1: lot of times I talk a lot about seasons. You

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Speaker 1: go through seasons in life, and I feel like, sometimes

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Speaker 1: can you know, have that what you're talking about at

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Speaker 3: In their life. Yeah, yeah, I think so love it.

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Speaker 4: You said that this is the book you needed to

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Speaker 4: read in order to be able to write this book. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: that makes my head hurt. But it's the kind of

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Speaker 4: book that can get people to accomplish goals like they

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Because what was so funny about it is that

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Speaker 2: But it is one of those books that writes itself

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Speaker 1: Than maybe anybody else. But why, there's something I've always

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Speaker 1: wanted to write a book.

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Speaker 4: It's a lot of words.

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Speaker 1: It's a lot of words.

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Speaker 4: When I read a book, I'm like, man.

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Speaker 1: Words like where do you even start? Why get you

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Speaker 4: What would you write? Wuld you write a self help

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Speaker 1: No, it'd be like it would be like a book book.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, like a like a fantasy, like a It'd be

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Speaker 2: like it'd be like a book a little bit about

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Speaker 2: my life, but like things I learned about my life.

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Speaker 4: Okay, so autobiographical and motivational.

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Speaker 2: Sure would you throw fiction in there, like a fictionalized

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Speaker 3: Go crazy hogwild?

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Speaker 1: Or oh I want it to be very acarate.

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Speaker 3: Okay, yeah, got it, got it? I think you can start.

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Speaker 1: Now?

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Speaker 4: What's holding you back? You wrote a.

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Speaker 1: Song, I know, right, writing very therapeutic, very therapeutic.

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Speaker 3: So do you you have journals already?

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Speaker 1: Yes? I went through a really bad breakup and I wrote,

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Speaker 1: like I wrote a song. I mean, I'm not a

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Speaker 1: just very therapeutic. So I was just going to town

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Speaker 3: So there's your book right there. Just hand them all

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Speaker 3: to an editor. Here you go.

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Speaker 4: So what's next for you? Acting wise? Because you're still

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Speaker 4: acting Thirteen Reasons Why Shameless? And you did that voice

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Speaker 1: Thank you and everybody go. But when's your book out?

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Speaker 3: It's called No Mistakes. Yeah, please please check it out.

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Speaker 1: Awesome, thank you so much. No big deal, you guys,

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Speaker 6: Then over time it's just we now see what others are.

443
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Speaker 4: Able to do.

444
00:19:26,600 --> 00:19:28,359
Speaker 6: We've always had bad people, right, It's like that out

445
00:19:28,400 --> 00:19:29,760
Speaker 6: of side, out of mind. You put your candy bar

446
00:19:29,840 --> 00:19:31,320
Speaker 6: up in the cabinet, you're not going to see it,

447
00:19:31,359 --> 00:19:33,280
Speaker 6: you're not going to touch it. Versus now we have

448
00:19:33,320 --> 00:19:36,920
Speaker 6: so much access to all information that you are there's

449
00:19:36,920 --> 00:19:39,880
Speaker 6: just an overabundance information that you're You're scared and people

450
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Speaker 6: are worried that this is happening at a high rate.

451
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Speaker 4: I agree. I don't think that's the job of local

452
00:19:43,640 --> 00:19:47,000
Speaker 4: news to scare you. The more you scare up exactly,

453
00:19:47,119 --> 00:19:48,080
Speaker 4: maybe it's get paid for.

454
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Speaker 5: I think it's happening at a higher rate, but proportional

455
00:19:50,119 --> 00:19:51,800
Speaker 5: to the amount of people that are now, Like there's

456
00:19:51,840 --> 00:19:53,920
Speaker 5: just more people now, so like more things happen well

457
00:19:53,960 --> 00:19:55,440
Speaker 5: than that too, and over reporting and like all that

458
00:19:55,480 --> 00:19:55,920
Speaker 5: kind of stuff.

459
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Speaker 4: I agree.

460
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Speaker 1: Okay, well that was a very mature answer, and I

461
00:20:00,760 --> 00:20:02,560
Speaker 1: feel like I'm going to stick with Peter for a

462
00:20:02,560 --> 00:20:05,639
Speaker 1: second because I'm going to get into Dean in a minute.

463
00:20:06,600 --> 00:20:08,000
Speaker 1: You're very hot. Are you single?

464
00:20:11,240 --> 00:20:11,320
Speaker 4: No?

465
00:20:11,440 --> 00:20:12,159
Speaker 1: Are you single?

466
00:20:12,359 --> 00:20:12,920
Speaker 4: I am single?

467
00:20:13,000 --> 00:20:13,160
Speaker 5: Yes?

468
00:20:13,280 --> 00:20:15,400
Speaker 1: Do you want to be a dad at some point?

469
00:20:15,440 --> 00:20:15,640
Speaker 3: Yeah?

470
00:20:15,640 --> 00:20:16,080
Speaker 4: Absolutely?

471
00:20:16,160 --> 00:20:19,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, you seem very like together. Why are you what's happening?

472
00:20:19,760 --> 00:20:20,959
Speaker 4: Why are you single? Happening?

473
00:20:21,080 --> 00:20:21,680
Speaker 1: Well, I don't like that.

474
00:20:21,840 --> 00:20:22,720
Speaker 4: I haven't tried.

475
00:20:22,800 --> 00:20:24,879
Speaker 1: I don't like that question. Why you're single? Because you

476
00:20:24,920 --> 00:20:28,040
Speaker 1: have high standards and you just haven't found the right girl.

477
00:20:27,920 --> 00:20:32,040
Speaker 6: Right, Yeah, I guess I haven't if I'm single at

478
00:20:32,040 --> 00:20:33,160
Speaker 6: this point, No that I haven't.

479
00:20:33,200 --> 00:20:33,840
Speaker 1: Are you dating?

480
00:20:34,240 --> 00:20:35,200
Speaker 4: I'm actively dating?

481
00:20:35,240 --> 00:20:37,520
Speaker 1: Yes, actively dating one person or multiple people.

482
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Speaker 6: I wouldn't say one person specifically right now now, Okay,

483
00:20:40,760 --> 00:20:43,960
Speaker 6: And that's not saying I'm like previously dating through the

484
00:20:44,000 --> 00:20:46,639
Speaker 6: Madison population. It's just I haven't met anybody yet. So

485
00:20:46,680 --> 00:20:49,679
Speaker 6: I'm still going on dates, okay. And I travel a

486
00:20:49,680 --> 00:20:51,320
Speaker 6: lot right now for work, and I'm really busy on

487
00:20:51,359 --> 00:20:52,200
Speaker 6: opening a second gym.

488
00:20:52,240 --> 00:20:53,879
Speaker 1: And so where's your second gym going to be?

489
00:20:54,119 --> 00:20:56,240
Speaker 6: Still in Madison, just opposite side of town. Okay, So

490
00:20:56,320 --> 00:20:59,040
Speaker 6: right now, I own a personal training business. It's mostly

491
00:20:59,080 --> 00:21:02,520
Speaker 6: all in home, which you're talking about, like people have

492
00:21:02,560 --> 00:21:04,239
Speaker 6: to drive to the gym and all their equipment's gone. Well,

493
00:21:04,320 --> 00:21:05,439
Speaker 6: we just bring the trainer to you.

494
00:21:05,800 --> 00:21:08,679
Speaker 1: Oh really, So how many people do you employ currently?

495
00:21:08,720 --> 00:21:08,960
Speaker 4: Five?

496
00:21:09,359 --> 00:21:11,119
Speaker 1: So they go out and they'll go to like somebody's

497
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Speaker 1: home and train them at their house.

498
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Speaker 6: And then I have a dietician on staff, a guy

499
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Speaker 6: who does I mean t which funny when you're doing

500
00:21:16,000 --> 00:21:19,159
Speaker 6: the hypnosis Earlier, I was thinking more of along the

501
00:21:19,160 --> 00:21:22,600
Speaker 6: lines of like kinesiology, your body has certain nural pathways

502
00:21:22,640 --> 00:21:24,919
Speaker 6: that a lot of times will not necessarily die, but

503
00:21:24,960 --> 00:21:27,520
Speaker 6: they go dormant. And just like with your your mind,

504
00:21:27,600 --> 00:21:30,320
Speaker 6: she's teaching you new pathways and reawakening these pathways, just

505
00:21:30,359 --> 00:21:33,320
Speaker 6: as in your body with things like muscle activation technique

506
00:21:34,119 --> 00:21:37,040
Speaker 6: that you like, Let's say you have a little hitch,

507
00:21:37,040 --> 00:21:40,000
Speaker 6: I guess in your walk you can actually create that

508
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Speaker 6: pathway again to improve it. And so I was just

509
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Speaker 6: thinking that with your mind, maybe she just got to

510
00:21:44,440 --> 00:21:45,560
Speaker 6: wake up those pathways again.

511
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Speaker 1: I need you to put your phone down because I

512
00:21:48,000 --> 00:21:49,359
Speaker 1: need your attentions.

513
00:21:49,520 --> 00:21:51,399
Speaker 4: Well, you were talking to Peter and I and I

514
00:21:51,440 --> 00:21:52,000
Speaker 4: went on a tan.

515
00:21:52,680 --> 00:21:54,399
Speaker 1: You're involved in the conversation.

516
00:21:53,920 --> 00:21:54,640
Speaker 4: Literally said Dean.

517
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Speaker 6: I'm going to talk to Peter for a little bit first,

518
00:21:56,440 --> 00:21:57,760
Speaker 6: and then I'll get to you later. So okay, I

519
00:21:57,800 --> 00:21:59,120
Speaker 6: guess I can focus on something.

520
00:21:58,920 --> 00:22:00,880
Speaker 1: Else and you cannot focus on anything else. I need

521
00:22:01,080 --> 00:22:01,760
Speaker 1: right here with me.

522
00:22:02,440 --> 00:22:05,480
Speaker 4: Tanya shared a single problem she has earlier today, and

523
00:22:05,520 --> 00:22:07,639
Speaker 4: I thought you guys might weigh out of that. She

524
00:22:07,680 --> 00:22:11,000
Speaker 4: didn't change her emergency contact because she realized that her

525
00:22:11,040 --> 00:22:13,400
Speaker 4: parents are in Seal Beach. Yeah, and that's like two

526
00:22:13,440 --> 00:22:15,640
Speaker 4: hours the traff room here if she's actually having.

527
00:22:15,600 --> 00:22:17,840
Speaker 1: If I'm having an emergency the doctor's office, my parents

528
00:22:17,840 --> 00:22:19,240
Speaker 1: are not going to be any help to me.

529
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Speaker 4: So she changed it too. That's sweet, that's cute. Who's

530
00:22:22,840 --> 00:22:25,040
Speaker 4: your emergency contact where you go to the doctor's office just.

531
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Speaker 1: So sad there's an emergency.

532
00:22:29,359 --> 00:22:33,399
Speaker 4: They're like, who, if there's an emergency, just let me be.

533
00:22:33,480 --> 00:22:37,639
Speaker 4: I'll figure out. That's so, I'm not even joking.

534
00:22:37,680 --> 00:22:40,159
Speaker 5: I always live like I can't put anyone for my family,

535
00:22:40,200 --> 00:22:42,160
Speaker 5: Like maybe I'll put my brother. I used to put

536
00:22:42,160 --> 00:22:44,960
Speaker 5: my ex girlfriend, like while we were still exes, my

537
00:22:44,960 --> 00:22:46,920
Speaker 5: girlfriend from college, because I wanted to get her back,

538
00:22:46,960 --> 00:22:48,520
Speaker 5: and I was like, oh, maybe something bad happens to me,

539
00:22:49,119 --> 00:22:53,120
Speaker 5: And then if she comes to my rescue, that means

540
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Speaker 5: that she really actually still cares about it.

541
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Speaker 4: Sure enough, nothing emergent ever happens. That's Peter. What about

542
00:22:59,880 --> 00:23:01,720
Speaker 4: you as your parents because you still live live to

543
00:23:01,920 --> 00:23:02,520
Speaker 4: back my hometown.

544
00:23:02,520 --> 00:23:04,399
Speaker 1: So my mom okay, so she could if there was

545
00:23:04,400 --> 00:23:05,480
Speaker 1: an emergency, she could help you.

546
00:23:05,800 --> 00:23:07,840
Speaker 4: I don't trust my dad to do that. He's fine,

547
00:23:07,880 --> 00:23:10,639
Speaker 4: and mark your wife. I would assume if that's easy

548
00:23:10,680 --> 00:23:10,879
Speaker 4: for me.

549
00:23:11,920 --> 00:23:15,560
Speaker 1: Literally just switched all my emergency contacts because I was like, well.

550
00:23:16,560 --> 00:23:18,679
Speaker 4: When do you switched? What do you have to switch?

551
00:23:18,840 --> 00:23:20,160
Speaker 1: I have multiple doctors.

552
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Speaker 4: So did you call the office and said I'd like

553
00:23:23,000 --> 00:23:24,280
Speaker 4: to change in the emergency contacts?

554
00:23:24,400 --> 00:23:24,600
Speaker 3: Well?

555
00:23:24,680 --> 00:23:28,679
Speaker 1: It also actually started because of my klonic first over

556
00:23:28,720 --> 00:23:34,760
Speaker 1: the weekend. That's where they uh like watch, yeah, they

557
00:23:34,880 --> 00:23:36,680
Speaker 1: put the water up your butt.

558
00:23:37,040 --> 00:23:44,000
Speaker 4: Can you say that basically but professional? Yes?

559
00:23:44,119 --> 00:23:44,320
Speaker 3: Nice?

560
00:23:44,480 --> 00:23:47,480
Speaker 4: Yeah, pressure right, it fills you. I love it.

561
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Speaker 1: I'm not gonna I thought, I'm like the best cannon

562
00:23:49,200 --> 00:23:52,520
Speaker 1: ex type I b S. So I was like, oh,

563
00:23:52,560 --> 00:23:53,960
Speaker 1: this is gonna be the best thing for me because

564
00:23:54,000 --> 00:23:56,800
Speaker 1: it's just gonna like clean me out. And I really didn't.

565
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Speaker 4: Enjoy Maybe the maybe that's why you're not.

566
00:24:00,280 --> 00:24:02,439
Speaker 1: But I don't need dairy because I have ideas.

567
00:24:02,520 --> 00:24:04,520
Speaker 4: Isn't that bacteria really good for you? Yes?

568
00:24:04,600 --> 00:24:06,040
Speaker 1: They give you probiotics and stuff after.

569
00:24:06,119 --> 00:24:08,159
Speaker 5: Okay, because I know that there's this thing that's trending

570
00:24:08,200 --> 00:24:12,320
Speaker 5: right now poop transplants. Basically, people that have this deficiency

571
00:24:12,359 --> 00:24:16,000
Speaker 5: somewhere they inject poop of a healthy person into their yeah,

572
00:24:16,040 --> 00:24:19,919
Speaker 5: into their reprofits, the good bacteria.

573
00:24:19,680 --> 00:24:21,200
Speaker 4: Basically that Yeah, it is now missing.

574
00:24:21,240 --> 00:24:21,800
Speaker 1: That's a thing.

575
00:24:22,000 --> 00:24:22,880
Speaker 4: Yeah. Yeah.

576
00:24:22,960 --> 00:24:24,280
Speaker 1: Where are they doing it in La?

577
00:24:24,320 --> 00:24:24,960
Speaker 4: Well, there are people.

578
00:24:25,720 --> 00:24:27,480
Speaker 5: There are people that can't afford the health insurance, so

579
00:24:27,520 --> 00:24:29,879
Speaker 5: they'll literally just buy their neighbors healthy poop.

580
00:24:30,119 --> 00:24:32,440
Speaker 4: I'm not joking. There's a whole documentary out there.

581
00:24:32,600 --> 00:24:35,159
Speaker 5: They'll buy their neighbors healthy poop and put it in

582
00:24:35,160 --> 00:24:37,240
Speaker 5: a syringe and inject it into their should.

583
00:24:36,960 --> 00:24:43,600
Speaker 4: Do that with your extu girlfriends. This sounds like so

584
00:24:43,640 --> 00:24:44,880
Speaker 4: many problems waiting there.

585
00:24:44,960 --> 00:24:47,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, so we'll steer out of the poop conversation.

586
00:24:47,520 --> 00:24:47,840
Speaker 4: Please.

587
00:24:48,880 --> 00:24:50,800
Speaker 1: Did we finish with Peter? Did we finish getting up

588
00:24:50,840 --> 00:24:52,840
Speaker 1: to date with you? You're opening your second.

589
00:24:52,600 --> 00:24:55,800
Speaker 6: Gym, opening my second gym currently in LA again to

590
00:24:56,160 --> 00:24:57,680
Speaker 6: teach a book camp a daughter's field tomorrow.

591
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Speaker 1: Be it just like Major by the way.

592
00:24:59,359 --> 00:25:03,000
Speaker 4: Exciting in Chicago. Yep, be there.

593
00:25:03,000 --> 00:25:04,560
Speaker 6: Well, the game is four four thirty and then the

594
00:25:04,760 --> 00:25:06,399
Speaker 6: boot camp if you around seven seven thirty, So.

595
00:25:06,400 --> 00:25:07,879
Speaker 1: How many people are coming to this boot camp tomorrow?

596
00:25:08,000 --> 00:25:08,480
Speaker 4: Hundreds?

597
00:25:08,680 --> 00:25:11,520
Speaker 1: Lots, no way, Yes.

598
00:25:11,600 --> 00:25:14,239
Speaker 4: Yes, that's the hope to have the stadium filled, right,

599
00:25:14,240 --> 00:25:15,600
Speaker 4: We're trying to get as many people on the field

600
00:25:15,600 --> 00:25:16,080
Speaker 4: as possible.

601
00:25:16,240 --> 00:25:16,919
Speaker 1: That's huge.

602
00:25:17,240 --> 00:25:20,000
Speaker 4: After the game, it's after the game. What about There'll

603
00:25:20,080 --> 00:25:21,720
Speaker 4: be a lot of traffic leaving the stadium. It's gonna

604
00:25:21,720 --> 00:25:22,960
Speaker 4: be hard to get to the stadium if you want

605
00:25:22,960 --> 00:25:23,439
Speaker 4: to just show up.

606
00:25:23,640 --> 00:25:25,399
Speaker 6: So it's a it's a double ticket. You buy the

607
00:25:25,480 --> 00:25:26,440
Speaker 6: game and you get onto the field.

608
00:25:26,480 --> 00:25:28,280
Speaker 4: Gotcha. They're playing the Mets. They're playing them.

609
00:25:28,440 --> 00:25:30,280
Speaker 5: And that's one of the benefits of doing the the

610
00:25:30,400 --> 00:25:31,959
Speaker 5: boot camp after it because you get to miss out

611
00:25:31,960 --> 00:25:33,560
Speaker 5: on some traffic. You know, there's obviously going to be

612
00:25:33,560 --> 00:25:34,879
Speaker 5: some people, like probably half is going to go to

613
00:25:34,960 --> 00:25:36,760
Speaker 5: the boot camp, half is going to leave the stadium.

614
00:25:36,880 --> 00:25:38,240
Speaker 4: And you can with that.

615
00:25:38,600 --> 00:25:40,240
Speaker 6: Yeah, you got to be Peter kraw and Dean because

616
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Speaker 6: Dean's coming will be there.

617
00:25:42,720 --> 00:25:43,640
Speaker 4: I forced his hand.

618
00:25:44,640 --> 00:25:45,320
Speaker 1: I will be there.

619
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Speaker 4: Yeah, I live for New York Tomorrow. That was fun

620
00:25:48,640 --> 00:25:50,240
Speaker 4: for all, But I.

621
00:25:50,200 --> 00:25:53,400
Speaker 1: Do want to I guess I just wanted to give

622
00:25:53,400 --> 00:25:56,359
Speaker 1: you a formal pitch. Actually did want to talk about

623
00:25:57,000 --> 00:25:59,399
Speaker 1: this tweet that I read this morning. Oh boy, that

624
00:25:59,560 --> 00:26:02,760
Speaker 1: people there's they're kind of pissed that Coulton got chosen

625
00:26:02,760 --> 00:26:05,359
Speaker 1: to be the Bachelor, and then this this specific tweet

626
00:26:05,359 --> 00:26:07,199
Speaker 1: that I read, it was like, we wanted Peter, you

627
00:26:07,240 --> 00:26:10,760
Speaker 1: gave us Ari. We wanted Blake or Jason, you gave

628
00:26:10,800 --> 00:26:11,320
Speaker 1: us Coulton.

629
00:26:12,440 --> 00:26:15,120
Speaker 4: It happens, what's happened, What's gonna happen next year?

630
00:26:15,960 --> 00:26:17,679
Speaker 1: And then there was one before you too, It was

631
00:26:17,720 --> 00:26:20,160
Speaker 1: we wanted who did they want before? When they chosen

632
00:26:20,200 --> 00:26:20,919
Speaker 1: to look it up?

633
00:26:21,000 --> 00:26:23,200
Speaker 4: Look it up real quick, cause this happens every single year.

634
00:26:23,400 --> 00:26:25,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, they were like, we wanted who was it?

635
00:26:26,000 --> 00:26:28,199
Speaker 4: There still seems to be a demand for Peter the

636
00:26:28,200 --> 00:26:34,440
Speaker 4: Bachelor is yes, is that door closed or cracked? What's

637
00:26:34,480 --> 00:26:35,360
Speaker 4: the status of that door?

638
00:26:35,440 --> 00:26:38,199
Speaker 6: Honestly, had they called this year and asked me, I

639
00:26:38,200 --> 00:26:39,160
Speaker 6: probably wouldn't been a post.

640
00:26:39,160 --> 00:26:42,000
Speaker 4: Didn't even call interesting. It was not a conversation.

641
00:26:42,040 --> 00:26:43,560
Speaker 1: Oh I thought you were like in the running.

642
00:26:45,320 --> 00:26:47,760
Speaker 4: Have you think they want.

643
00:26:47,800 --> 00:26:50,840
Speaker 1: I feel like you've got it going on, like, yeah,

644
00:26:51,040 --> 00:26:51,440
Speaker 1: we went.

645
00:26:51,359 --> 00:26:55,360
Speaker 4: The running before they selected Ari had to have been

646
00:26:56,600 --> 00:26:59,600
Speaker 4: y yeah, okay, Yeah, So then there was a conversation. Yeah,

647
00:26:59,680 --> 00:27:01,760
Speaker 4: but you're so the door is open if they're if

648
00:27:01,760 --> 00:27:03,160
Speaker 4: the producers are interested.

649
00:27:03,400 --> 00:27:06,199
Speaker 6: Yeah, depending on how things go U. I guess in

650
00:27:06,320 --> 00:27:07,200
Speaker 6: talks about this shell.

651
00:27:07,600 --> 00:27:09,080
Speaker 4: I think that would be a good choice.

652
00:27:09,720 --> 00:27:10,000
Speaker 3: Peter.

653
00:27:10,280 --> 00:27:12,879
Speaker 1: Yeah, I kind of agree to. I'm coming into you

654
00:27:12,960 --> 00:27:13,320
Speaker 1: right now.

655
00:27:13,680 --> 00:27:15,520
Speaker 4: Well, yeah, of course, man, some miss hell.

656
00:27:15,600 --> 00:27:17,160
Speaker 5: I think he would have killed it last season too,

657
00:27:17,480 --> 00:27:19,880
Speaker 5: And for selfishly, I want him do Bachelor every single

658
00:27:19,960 --> 00:27:22,119
Speaker 5: year too. I'll go on a season. I'll give him

659
00:27:22,160 --> 00:27:26,679
Speaker 5: some unsolicited advice. I've got, I've got. Oh, yeah, that's all.

660
00:27:26,720 --> 00:27:30,840
Speaker 5: I wanted to go back, but in the less less responsibility.

661
00:27:31,960 --> 00:27:34,919
Speaker 1: But I think that you seem like mature, like you

662
00:27:34,960 --> 00:27:37,800
Speaker 1: seem like you actually like want to like settle down

663
00:27:37,840 --> 00:27:40,280
Speaker 1: and like you're ready. Yeah.

664
00:27:40,320 --> 00:27:42,560
Speaker 6: Absolutely, the gray is working, isn't it? The gray and

665
00:27:42,600 --> 00:27:44,800
Speaker 6: the hair. It's it's really there's been a lot more

666
00:27:44,840 --> 00:27:46,240
Speaker 6: in the last year since I shall tell.

667
00:27:46,119 --> 00:27:49,520
Speaker 1: You that, Oh, you need to be like on Grey's Anatomy,

668
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Speaker 1: I can't act.

669
00:27:51,280 --> 00:27:52,920
Speaker 4: I can't remember a line after Maybe you.

670
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Speaker 1: Could be like a dead person like patient you don't

671
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Speaker 1: have to talk.

672
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Speaker 6: Is that good looking dead guy in the court, which

673
00:27:59,920 --> 00:28:01,320
Speaker 6: I get tell you on this, Well, what if we

674
00:28:01,320 --> 00:28:02,639
Speaker 6: would have gotten you on if it was Jason?

675
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Speaker 1: Oh, okay, we'll talk about that. You know what I

676
00:28:05,160 --> 00:28:08,360
Speaker 1: want to talk about first? Sure about keeping me safe?

677
00:28:09,560 --> 00:28:14,320
Speaker 1: Very important, very important, and I like to do that

678
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681
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682
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Speaker 1: move out on my own, so I will I know,

683
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Speaker 1: big step, I will have ADT in my new home.

684
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685
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686
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687
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Speaker 1: of like you know those people. It's kind of like

688
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Speaker 1: you're in the Jetsons. You can control everything from your phone.

689
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Speaker 1: It's kind of crazy, I know, right.

690
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Speaker 4: I think it's Yeah.

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Speaker 5: I think that you would really be much more secure

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693
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694
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Speaker 1: especially in my home. So all controlled from the ADT

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701
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Speaker 4: So what you're saying is this podcast is sponsored by ADT.

702
00:29:26,240 --> 00:29:28,400
Speaker 1: That's exactly what I'm saying. Okay, great, this podcast is

703
00:29:28,400 --> 00:29:29,200
Speaker 1: sponsored by ADT.

704
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Speaker 4: Thank you.

705
00:29:30,120 --> 00:29:32,280
Speaker 1: I love AT And I'm actually realizing it more and

706
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Speaker 1: more that it's like in everybody's front yard.

707
00:29:34,080 --> 00:29:34,440
Speaker 4: It's like.

708
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Speaker 1: My home is ADT. Do not come over here and no,

709
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Speaker 1: thank you.

710
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Speaker 4: But also the technology nowadays is amazing. Before it was

711
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Speaker 4: just a thing where if somebody opens like a larm system.

712
00:29:46,040 --> 00:29:47,920
Speaker 4: Now you got your phone, you could see wherever you

713
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Speaker 4: want to see, wherever you want to set up a camera,

714
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Speaker 4: you can look at it all the time. You get

715
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Speaker 4: a lurse if your motion detecture light goes off. I

716
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Speaker 4: mean it's incredible.

717
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Speaker 5: We have ADT at our house too, and meet my

718
00:29:55,360 --> 00:29:57,400
Speaker 5: environment has the video on his phone like if you

719
00:29:57,400 --> 00:29:58,760
Speaker 5: want to click and see like the front yard or

720
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Speaker 5: something like that. And I'll say, this is one of

721
00:29:59,880 --> 00:30:01,560
Speaker 5: my worse things too, is I never locked the door

722
00:30:01,840 --> 00:30:03,880
Speaker 5: like I live in Venice, which is it's good in a.

723
00:30:03,880 --> 00:30:04,880
Speaker 4: Bad area at the same time.

724
00:30:06,120 --> 00:30:07,840
Speaker 5: Example, So I grew up in a small town very

725
00:30:07,880 --> 00:30:09,600
Speaker 5: similar to you guys, where it's like we didn't have

726
00:30:09,640 --> 00:30:10,280
Speaker 5: to lock our doors.

727
00:30:10,280 --> 00:30:11,720
Speaker 4: Our doors could be open all night, like not to

728
00:30:11,800 --> 00:30:12,800
Speaker 4: like we'd have we'd.

729
00:30:12,600 --> 00:30:14,440
Speaker 5: Be more worried about a bear coming doorhouse and like

730
00:30:14,480 --> 00:30:16,480
Speaker 5: someone coming in to steal something, you know, And that

731
00:30:16,600 --> 00:30:18,080
Speaker 5: is kind of carried over to me now where it's

732
00:30:18,120 --> 00:30:19,720
Speaker 5: like I don't lock the doors. I don't really care

733
00:30:19,720 --> 00:30:22,400
Speaker 5: about security because nothing bad has ever really happened to me,

734
00:30:22,840 --> 00:30:24,320
Speaker 5: but I know like one day will happen and I

735
00:30:24,360 --> 00:30:25,040
Speaker 5: wish I had ad T.

736
00:30:25,200 --> 00:30:28,400
Speaker 4: Yeah, just announced it on the podcast What's Your Address?

737
00:30:28,800 --> 00:30:31,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, we've had actually break ins in my apartment complex before.

738
00:30:31,480 --> 00:30:31,760
Speaker 4: Wow.

739
00:30:31,840 --> 00:30:32,080
Speaker 1: Yeah.

740
00:30:32,160 --> 00:30:34,040
Speaker 5: I heard a story yesterday from a neighbor that our

741
00:30:34,080 --> 00:30:36,680
Speaker 5: other neighbor got robbed like we could go. I was like, well, shoot, like,

742
00:30:36,680 --> 00:30:38,520
Speaker 5: well I probably should be locking the doors now.

743
00:30:38,640 --> 00:30:41,600
Speaker 1: And I've never lived alone, and I like that's part

744
00:30:41,600 --> 00:30:43,400
Speaker 1: of the reason why for safety. It kind of like

745
00:30:43,400 --> 00:30:45,520
Speaker 1: freaks me out, but I'm like, I'm a modern woman

746
00:30:45,560 --> 00:30:46,640
Speaker 1: and I want to live with myself.

747
00:30:46,640 --> 00:30:49,800
Speaker 4: It's time. Yes, yeah, you need a place to take

748
00:30:49,800 --> 00:30:54,360
Speaker 4: a guy home too, Yeah, no, I'm sorry, a solid

749
00:30:54,400 --> 00:30:55,640
Speaker 4: point back to his house.

750
00:30:55,800 --> 00:30:57,360
Speaker 1: Oh well, I could sup with my roommate.

751
00:30:57,800 --> 00:30:59,440
Speaker 4: Isn't it awkward? Do you guys have a system to

752
00:30:59,480 --> 00:31:01,000
Speaker 4: have like a socker the door or a tire or

753
00:31:01,000 --> 00:31:07,640
Speaker 4: something around a fraternity. We're not be signed her that

754
00:31:07,680 --> 00:31:09,520
Speaker 4: you have a guy in the apartment. You need a

755
00:31:09,560 --> 00:31:10,200
Speaker 4: private time.

756
00:31:10,880 --> 00:31:13,240
Speaker 5: Okay, just shut my door you wanted. Who actually just

757
00:31:13,280 --> 00:31:16,440
Speaker 5: moved down the hall from you, my ex girlfriend.

758
00:31:17,240 --> 00:31:18,000
Speaker 1: I think I met her.

759
00:31:18,760 --> 00:31:19,600
Speaker 4: She knows who you are.

760
00:31:19,640 --> 00:31:21,440
Speaker 5: And she actually told me that she like bumped into

761
00:31:21,440 --> 00:31:22,800
Speaker 5: you in the parking rodge or something like that.

762
00:31:22,920 --> 00:31:23,560
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh.

763
00:31:23,680 --> 00:31:25,640
Speaker 5: And she's and like you maybe didn't recognize her, but

764
00:31:25,720 --> 00:31:26,800
Speaker 5: she like obviously knew.

765
00:31:26,640 --> 00:31:29,000
Speaker 1: Who you were, didn't recognize Have I met her before?

766
00:31:29,160 --> 00:31:32,160
Speaker 5: Yes, I think you have, oh, like in passing, okay,

767
00:31:32,400 --> 00:31:33,520
Speaker 5: But she was like she's so nice.

768
00:31:33,520 --> 00:31:35,920
Speaker 4: I listened to her every morning. I'm like, yeah, she's amazing.

769
00:31:36,080 --> 00:31:38,280
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, I totally met her. Yeah, and I

770
00:31:38,280 --> 00:31:41,560
Speaker 1: think I was. She was with with Hannah. Yeah, She's like, yeah,

771
00:31:41,640 --> 00:31:42,360
Speaker 1: there's our new neighbor.

772
00:31:42,360 --> 00:31:45,240
Speaker 5: And I was like, welcome, yeah, is that funny? That

773
00:31:45,360 --> 00:31:47,320
Speaker 5: is so fun like literally three doors down?

774
00:31:47,360 --> 00:31:48,320
Speaker 1: Why'd you guys break up?

775
00:31:48,680 --> 00:31:50,120
Speaker 4: Uh? We just wasn't working out?

776
00:31:50,400 --> 00:31:51,640
Speaker 1: Do you want to get back together with her?

777
00:31:51,720 --> 00:31:55,760
Speaker 5: We've we are remaining friends. I don't think it's just

778
00:31:55,800 --> 00:31:57,400
Speaker 5: obviously it didn't work out the first time. It's probably

779
00:31:57,480 --> 00:31:58,480
Speaker 5: not gonna work out a second time.

780
00:31:58,520 --> 00:32:02,520
Speaker 1: Why didn't work out? Let's get into d now, because Dean,

781
00:32:03,160 --> 00:32:04,920
Speaker 1: I have to say, I think you are one of

782
00:32:04,960 --> 00:32:09,080
Speaker 1: the most eligible men. No I do. I think you

783
00:32:09,120 --> 00:32:11,960
Speaker 1: have a heart of gold. No, you do. I do.

784
00:32:12,040 --> 00:32:12,520
Speaker 3: I agree.

785
00:32:12,760 --> 00:32:15,000
Speaker 1: I think very very highly of you. I don't think

786
00:32:15,000 --> 00:32:17,600
Speaker 1: you're a compatible match for me, Unfortunately, I think that

787
00:32:17,600 --> 00:32:18,160
Speaker 1: we would make.

788
00:32:18,040 --> 00:32:18,840
Speaker 4: An incredible couple.

789
00:32:20,040 --> 00:32:22,120
Speaker 5: I am using this platform right now to profess my

790
00:32:22,240 --> 00:32:23,360
Speaker 5: love and interest in Tanya.

791
00:32:23,440 --> 00:32:25,360
Speaker 3: Ads so full of it.

792
00:32:25,560 --> 00:32:28,120
Speaker 4: I'm not joking. Let's go to get dinner and we'll

793
00:32:28,160 --> 00:32:32,360
Speaker 4: talk about it there. Maybe off there, Well, Dean, That's

794
00:32:32,360 --> 00:32:33,760
Speaker 4: all I gotta do is ask her on a date.

795
00:32:34,360 --> 00:32:37,520
Speaker 4: That would be okay? You want to go to dinner

796
00:32:37,560 --> 00:32:37,800
Speaker 4: with Dean?

797
00:32:37,960 --> 00:32:39,600
Speaker 1: You guys, he's full of it.

798
00:32:41,080 --> 00:32:43,520
Speaker 4: This is okay. I don't know if he's full of

799
00:32:43,560 --> 00:32:45,160
Speaker 4: it or not, but this is something that you do.

800
00:32:45,800 --> 00:32:48,560
Speaker 4: You do deny people feelings like that, like, oh, he's

801
00:32:48,560 --> 00:32:50,720
Speaker 4: just kidding. Oh we're just friends. Oh he doesn't mean

802
00:32:50,760 --> 00:32:51,479
Speaker 4: that you do do that.

803
00:32:51,840 --> 00:32:53,320
Speaker 1: Okay, Yes, let's go to dinner.

804
00:32:53,320 --> 00:32:56,400
Speaker 4: All right, We're going to dinner. When I get to pick, no,

805
00:32:56,520 --> 00:32:58,480
Speaker 4: i'll go, I'll pick. You're going to New York tomorrow,

806
00:32:58,480 --> 00:33:01,720
Speaker 4: like you said, when you have Okay, Like.

807
00:33:01,680 --> 00:33:03,040
Speaker 1: We're like really gonna go on a date?

808
00:33:03,160 --> 00:33:05,080
Speaker 4: Yes, absolutely, I'll come pick you up, and.

809
00:33:05,000 --> 00:33:10,120
Speaker 1: You're gonna kiss me at the end.

810
00:33:12,520 --> 00:33:15,520
Speaker 4: I don't move that tongue or no tongue, I know.

811
00:33:16,000 --> 00:33:19,080
Speaker 1: I usually don't do tongue on a first date, but potentially.

812
00:33:18,600 --> 00:33:22,280
Speaker 4: A second, second date, we'll see if being an expert

813
00:33:22,280 --> 00:33:24,520
Speaker 4: at that timeline, What do you like about Tanya? What? What?

814
00:33:24,720 --> 00:33:26,040
Speaker 4: What are Tanya's good quality?

815
00:33:26,080 --> 00:33:27,600
Speaker 5: I think that everyone can all agree that she's just

816
00:33:27,640 --> 00:33:31,680
Speaker 5: the kindest, most radiantly positive person in the entire world.

817
00:33:32,000 --> 00:33:36,760
Speaker 5: And like you do, you're very willing to share your feelings,

818
00:33:36,880 --> 00:33:38,400
Speaker 5: whether they're good or bad, and I think that's a

819
00:33:38,480 --> 00:33:41,440
Speaker 5: very rare attribute that people don't have very often. You're

820
00:33:41,520 --> 00:33:44,000
Speaker 5: very willing to put yourself out there, which is very important.

821
00:33:44,280 --> 00:33:48,040
Speaker 5: You're obviously beautiful, You just possess every quality that any

822
00:33:48,040 --> 00:33:50,000
Speaker 5: person would ever want to have in a significant other.

823
00:33:50,640 --> 00:33:52,720
Speaker 4: She's a light. There's no question about it. She's a

824
00:33:52,800 --> 00:33:56,160
Speaker 4: light in this dark, dark world. Tanya, you started this earlier,

825
00:33:56,160 --> 00:33:58,120
Speaker 4: but continue what you think is appealing about Dean.

826
00:33:58,400 --> 00:34:00,680
Speaker 1: I think that you I don't think you see that

827
00:34:00,680 --> 00:34:02,600
Speaker 1: you're You're such a huge light in this world. I

828
00:34:02,640 --> 00:34:05,600
Speaker 1: feel like you have just you are kind to every

829
00:34:05,640 --> 00:34:07,800
Speaker 1: single person that you meet, no matter like who they are,

830
00:34:07,880 --> 00:34:10,200
Speaker 1: what they are, what like where they are, you are

831
00:34:10,320 --> 00:34:13,000
Speaker 1: just kind. And I think you have a heart of gold.

832
00:34:13,280 --> 00:34:15,520
Speaker 1: And the thing that is so the reason why I

833
00:34:15,520 --> 00:34:17,799
Speaker 1: feel like we're not compatible is because I feel like

834
00:34:17,840 --> 00:34:19,000
Speaker 1: you're a little bit of a nomad.

835
00:34:19,480 --> 00:34:21,480
Speaker 4: Oh, because you like to be rooted in the Los Angeles.

836
00:34:21,480 --> 00:34:24,320
Speaker 1: I'm very rooted, Like I like my routine, but I

837
00:34:24,440 --> 00:34:28,520
Speaker 1: very much enjoy watching you explore the world. But I

838
00:34:28,520 --> 00:34:30,200
Speaker 1: feel like you have this devil. I feel like you

839
00:34:30,200 --> 00:34:31,759
Speaker 1: have this like zest for life that not a lot

840
00:34:31,760 --> 00:34:33,920
Speaker 1: of people have, that you don't really encounter very often.

841
00:34:34,719 --> 00:34:35,799
Speaker 1: And I feel like you're pretty loyal.

842
00:34:36,600 --> 00:34:38,120
Speaker 5: And so that's one of the concerns that I have

843
00:34:38,280 --> 00:34:40,600
Speaker 5: is their infidelity runs in my family.

844
00:34:41,239 --> 00:34:44,120
Speaker 4: Oh, you can't put that on yourself. You can't, but

845
00:34:44,200 --> 00:34:44,879
Speaker 4: you kind of can.

846
00:34:45,520 --> 00:34:52,040
Speaker 5: Like if you have experiences of like watching people you know,

847
00:34:52,120 --> 00:34:53,320
Speaker 5: do that type of stuff, then it kind of like

848
00:34:53,360 --> 00:34:54,520
Speaker 5: ReBs off on you in some certain things.

849
00:34:54,680 --> 00:34:56,880
Speaker 4: You're twenty seven, Have you cheated on girlfriends in the

850
00:34:56,920 --> 00:34:59,239
Speaker 4: past in high school? Okay? But I think that's high school.

851
00:34:59,239 --> 00:34:59,880
Speaker 4: I think that's different.

852
00:35:00,560 --> 00:35:02,000
Speaker 5: I'm telling you, like it's been a fear of mine

853
00:35:02,000 --> 00:35:03,920
Speaker 5: for a long time. Is like I'm sometimes scared to

854
00:35:03,960 --> 00:35:06,560
Speaker 5: answer into a relationship because of my own shortcoming comings

855
00:35:06,680 --> 00:35:08,560
Speaker 5: was as it comes pertains to infidelity, you know what

856
00:35:08,600 --> 00:35:08,919
Speaker 5: I mean.

857
00:35:09,200 --> 00:35:11,400
Speaker 1: Like that's very interesting.

858
00:35:11,520 --> 00:35:13,520
Speaker 4: It's just a fear that I have. My brothers have

859
00:35:13,640 --> 00:35:14,000
Speaker 4: done it.

860
00:35:14,520 --> 00:35:16,719
Speaker 5: Maybe I don't like to maybe talk about that, but

861
00:35:16,800 --> 00:35:20,320
Speaker 5: like we've all been guilty of this, and like obviously

862
00:35:20,320 --> 00:35:22,120
Speaker 5: we see the effect that it has on people. Yeah,

863
00:35:22,200 --> 00:35:23,520
Speaker 5: and so like the last thing I want is like

864
00:35:23,560 --> 00:35:25,560
Speaker 5: to have it affect someone else negatively.

865
00:35:25,800 --> 00:35:27,960
Speaker 1: But I think by you, this is the thing. I

866
00:35:27,960 --> 00:35:32,080
Speaker 1: think sometimes we project things that, like you, we project

867
00:35:32,080 --> 00:35:33,920
Speaker 1: a lot, and then even by putting it out there,

868
00:35:34,000 --> 00:35:35,880
Speaker 1: you kind of like gravitate towards that, do you know

869
00:35:35,920 --> 00:35:36,279
Speaker 1: what I mean?

870
00:35:36,320 --> 00:35:38,640
Speaker 5: Like, well as doctor Nancy was saying on our podcast,

871
00:35:38,719 --> 00:35:40,520
Speaker 5: was you kind of self fulfilling prophecies and that kind

872
00:35:40,520 --> 00:35:40,920
Speaker 5: of stuff?

873
00:35:41,120 --> 00:35:43,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, so I feel like you need to really get

874
00:35:43,600 --> 00:35:44,320
Speaker 1: that out of your.

875
00:35:44,360 --> 00:35:47,520
Speaker 4: Well, because you have freedom of choice. You can choose

876
00:35:47,600 --> 00:35:49,720
Speaker 4: for yourself whether or not you're going to betray someone

877
00:35:49,800 --> 00:35:52,879
Speaker 4: or not. That's entirely up to you. And secondly, if

878
00:35:52,880 --> 00:35:54,680
Speaker 4: you're really that concerned about it, you're never going to

879
00:35:54,680 --> 00:35:57,319
Speaker 4: be a strong long term relationship. If you're throwing that

880
00:35:57,360 --> 00:35:58,640
Speaker 4: out there before the first date.

881
00:35:58,520 --> 00:36:00,640
Speaker 5: Well, okay, you're right, and I do. It's like one

882
00:36:00,640 --> 00:36:02,920
Speaker 5: of the everyone has their reservations going into relationships. That's

883
00:36:02,960 --> 00:36:04,560
Speaker 5: just one of mine. Like it's a fear of mine

884
00:36:05,280 --> 00:36:07,160
Speaker 5: that like obviously, like I'm in control of my actions

885
00:36:07,160 --> 00:36:09,520
Speaker 5: at all times, but like once like you even like

886
00:36:09,719 --> 00:36:12,799
Speaker 5: begin to dilute your thoughts with the possibility of something

887
00:36:12,880 --> 00:36:14,600
Speaker 5: like that, then you're like, oh, like this is all

888
00:36:14,640 --> 00:36:16,640
Speaker 5: going to be a slippery slope now. And like even

889
00:36:16,640 --> 00:36:18,800
Speaker 5: that I considered to be like a bad sign, you

890
00:36:18,800 --> 00:36:20,279
Speaker 5: know what I mean, Like the second.

891
00:36:20,040 --> 00:36:22,080
Speaker 6: That you're dating sort of a mature relationship, you have

892
00:36:22,120 --> 00:36:23,839
Speaker 6: to talk that out right. Well, like if people who

893
00:36:23,960 --> 00:36:26,520
Speaker 6: cheat just don't have the maturity to actually talk well.

894
00:36:26,520 --> 00:36:29,040
Speaker 5: So that that was the situation with my girlfriend who

895
00:36:29,080 --> 00:36:32,560
Speaker 5: now lives in your apartment complex. Is like, I like

896
00:36:32,600 --> 00:36:34,239
Speaker 5: had these like thoughts and I was like, why am

897
00:36:34,280 --> 00:36:36,040
Speaker 5: I having these thoughts? And then I sat down and

898
00:36:36,040 --> 00:36:37,239
Speaker 5: talked to her and I was like, I'm sorry, like

899
00:36:37,280 --> 00:36:39,759
Speaker 5: I don't know why I'm thinking these things, but like

900
00:36:39,840 --> 00:36:40,840
Speaker 5: I just don't think that we should be in a

901
00:36:40,880 --> 00:36:43,319
Speaker 5: relationship anymore because I feel guilty for even just thinking them,

902
00:36:43,400 --> 00:36:43,960
Speaker 5: you know what I mean.

903
00:36:44,239 --> 00:36:45,480
Speaker 4: And like we had like trips planned.

904
00:36:45,280 --> 00:36:46,360
Speaker 5: And stuff like that, and I was like, I just

905
00:36:46,360 --> 00:36:48,040
Speaker 5: don't think that it's appropriate for us to do these

906
00:36:48,080 --> 00:36:49,080
Speaker 5: together now because.

907
00:36:48,880 --> 00:36:51,520
Speaker 1: You had thoughts about another being with other women.

908
00:36:51,440 --> 00:36:53,160
Speaker 5: Just like they were just like wandering and it wasn't

909
00:36:53,160 --> 00:36:54,960
Speaker 5: like I could tell that my thoughts were beginning to

910
00:36:55,040 --> 00:36:55,600
Speaker 5: become on.

911
00:36:57,120 --> 00:37:01,279
Speaker 4: Unhealthy. Yeah yeah, interesting better person now than you were.

912
00:37:02,000 --> 00:37:04,000
Speaker 4: And I don't mean that just because of you specifically.

913
00:37:04,000 --> 00:37:06,800
Speaker 4: I think we all become better people as we attack

914
00:37:06,840 --> 00:37:08,719
Speaker 4: on the years, right, I think I agree from just

915
00:37:08,840 --> 00:37:10,320
Speaker 4: experiences learning things.

916
00:37:10,400 --> 00:37:12,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, but it's interesting because I feel like when you're

917
00:37:12,520 --> 00:37:14,640
Speaker 1: really enamored and I don't know, I guess my my

918
00:37:14,719 --> 00:37:16,879
Speaker 1: longest relationship was four years, so I don't. I've never

919
00:37:16,920 --> 00:37:18,319
Speaker 1: I haven't been married for twenty eight years.

920
00:37:18,320 --> 00:37:19,040
Speaker 4: That's a long one.

921
00:37:19,239 --> 00:37:21,640
Speaker 1: But I feel like when you're really enamored with somebody,

922
00:37:21,840 --> 00:37:26,440
Speaker 1: your mind doesn't wander in that intensive a way. Like

923
00:37:26,480 --> 00:37:28,480
Speaker 1: sure I thought, I like when I was in a relationship,

924
00:37:28,480 --> 00:37:30,239
Speaker 1: I thought guys were hot or like you meet guys,

925
00:37:30,280 --> 00:37:31,920
Speaker 1: you're like, oh, this guy's cool. But I would never

926
00:37:32,040 --> 00:37:34,280
Speaker 1: My mind never went there because I was so enamored

927
00:37:34,280 --> 00:37:36,719
Speaker 1: and in love with a boyfriend at the time. So

928
00:37:36,760 --> 00:37:37,600
Speaker 1: I do feel like that's.

929
00:37:37,920 --> 00:37:40,080
Speaker 4: Towards the end of the relationship where it wasn't all possible.

930
00:37:40,120 --> 00:37:42,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, well for me, it was all rainbows and butterflies

931
00:37:42,760 --> 00:37:47,480
Speaker 1: until yeah yeah, sorry, curse, curse, sorry.

932
00:37:47,520 --> 00:37:49,480
Speaker 5: I think that's also Yeah, I just kind of lost

933
00:37:49,560 --> 00:37:52,040
Speaker 5: interest after a while. It became less exciting as time

934
00:37:52,040 --> 00:37:52,399
Speaker 5: moves on.

935
00:37:52,400 --> 00:37:53,480
Speaker 4: Which wasn't the one.

936
00:37:53,560 --> 00:37:55,600
Speaker 5: Yeah yeah, but like I still love and respect her

937
00:37:55,600 --> 00:37:57,359
Speaker 5: as a human being. But it's just like you lose

938
00:37:57,400 --> 00:37:59,399
Speaker 5: like the spark, you know, as time moves on, which

939
00:37:59,520 --> 00:38:01,640
Speaker 5: it's like something that you I feel like I should

940
00:38:01,640 --> 00:38:03,759
Speaker 5: be more comfortable with losing, because then that's just when

941
00:38:03,760 --> 00:38:05,919
Speaker 5: you get comfortable and like you can like expect things

942
00:38:05,920 --> 00:38:08,000
Speaker 5: and have someone be your emergency contact and expect them

943
00:38:08,040 --> 00:38:09,960
Speaker 5: to come through for you in the end, rather than

944
00:38:10,040 --> 00:38:12,080
Speaker 5: just like the volatility of like a new relationship that's

945
00:38:12,080 --> 00:38:13,800
Speaker 5: like exciting and up and down all this kind of stuff.

946
00:38:14,000 --> 00:38:15,600
Speaker 5: Like once that's gone, then I kind of like almost

947
00:38:15,680 --> 00:38:17,800
Speaker 5: lose interest, which is not again a very bad quality

948
00:38:17,840 --> 00:38:18,760
Speaker 5: to have in a relationship.

949
00:38:18,960 --> 00:38:21,320
Speaker 1: Very interesting. There's something to that.

950
00:38:22,120 --> 00:38:24,200
Speaker 4: All bad too, but it also feels like self sabotage

951
00:38:24,200 --> 00:38:26,520
Speaker 4: at this point. It really does well.

952
00:38:26,560 --> 00:38:28,440
Speaker 5: Again, I think it comes back from like as a

953
00:38:28,520 --> 00:38:31,319
Speaker 5: child growing up, I'd always seen these volatile relationships where

954
00:38:31,360 --> 00:38:32,560
Speaker 5: it's like, oh, it's hot and it's cold, and it's

955
00:38:32,560 --> 00:38:34,359
Speaker 5: hot and it's cold. So now I gravitate more towards

956
00:38:34,400 --> 00:38:35,840
Speaker 5: those relationships that are up and down like that.

957
00:38:35,960 --> 00:38:38,959
Speaker 4: Oof. Interesting, So these are the reasons why I suck

958
00:38:38,960 --> 00:38:39,440
Speaker 4: at dating.

959
00:38:39,480 --> 00:38:41,160
Speaker 6: You can say about so many things though, like I

960
00:38:41,160 --> 00:38:43,240
Speaker 6: come from a family who doesn't have the best health history,

961
00:38:43,239 --> 00:38:45,400
Speaker 6: and yet I choose to take a separate path.

962
00:38:45,520 --> 00:38:46,719
Speaker 4: There you go, right, and so.

963
00:38:46,680 --> 00:38:48,640
Speaker 5: That's like I'm going to therapy to work on that stuff.

964
00:38:48,680 --> 00:38:51,080
Speaker 5: Like you take it through like obviously you eat better

965
00:38:51,080 --> 00:38:53,080
Speaker 5: and work out. So I'm trying to like mentally purge

966
00:38:53,080 --> 00:38:56,160
Speaker 5: myself of these afflictions that I have or like I

967
00:38:56,239 --> 00:38:58,840
Speaker 5: guess self diagnosed afflictions. But still it's like, yeah, I

968
00:38:58,880 --> 00:39:03,480
Speaker 5: think obviously that's the first step is to focus on

969
00:39:03,520 --> 00:39:05,640
Speaker 5: them and like obviously, like what's the word I'm looking for,

970
00:39:05,800 --> 00:39:08,040
Speaker 5: like detect them and then like improve upon them.

971
00:39:08,120 --> 00:39:09,640
Speaker 4: Yes, you know what I mean. That's interesting, Peter. Do

972
00:39:09,640 --> 00:39:13,160
Speaker 4: you have like maybe obesity in your family? Yeah, you

973
00:39:13,160 --> 00:39:15,279
Speaker 4: can go the other way. You're not a prisoner to

974
00:39:16,120 --> 00:39:18,040
Speaker 4: the people who brought you up, right, But it doesn't

975
00:39:18,040 --> 00:39:21,120
Speaker 4: happen overnight. Perhaps you've been in therapy for a while now, yeah,

976
00:39:21,160 --> 00:39:24,120
Speaker 4: well three months, three months, okay, but you're taking positive steps.

977
00:39:24,880 --> 00:39:27,960
Speaker 4: So yeah, that's that's why I suck dated. But in

978
00:39:28,120 --> 00:39:31,839
Speaker 4: terms of the two of you, which I also I'm

979
00:39:31,920 --> 00:39:36,480
Speaker 4: very excited we're going to We're going is coming true.

980
00:39:37,680 --> 00:39:41,160
Speaker 4: I am teen team D all the way right now.

981
00:39:42,160 --> 00:39:44,879
Speaker 4: But I also worry about the faith element. I don't

982
00:39:44,920 --> 00:39:47,880
Speaker 4: feel like you're as into faith as Tanya is. Well

983
00:39:47,920 --> 00:39:51,120
Speaker 4: I'm not, but I'm open to theoptical guy. Yeah, well

984
00:39:51,160 --> 00:39:54,360
Speaker 4: I'm not religious, and Tanya, I think you've mentioned that

985
00:39:54,360 --> 00:39:56,640
Speaker 4: it's a deal breaker in the past. But I'm open

986
00:39:56,680 --> 00:39:59,600
Speaker 4: to other people. I don't like that's that's condemn anyone.

987
00:40:00,000 --> 00:40:01,200
Speaker 1: It's a major okay, good.

988
00:40:01,880 --> 00:40:04,560
Speaker 5: I've gone to church with dates in the past six

989
00:40:04,600 --> 00:40:06,040
Speaker 5: months or so, Like I would go to church with

990
00:40:06,040 --> 00:40:06,799
Speaker 5: them if they wanted to.

991
00:40:06,840 --> 00:40:08,400
Speaker 4: I'm open to like experiencing it.

992
00:40:08,400 --> 00:40:12,040
Speaker 5: It's just something that I don't personally find very important

993
00:40:12,080 --> 00:40:14,160
Speaker 5: to my individual life, you know what I mean.

994
00:40:14,520 --> 00:40:18,440
Speaker 1: I do sometimes I think, like I think that I

995
00:40:18,560 --> 00:40:20,840
Speaker 1: used to think I had to have a partner that

996
00:40:21,000 --> 00:40:23,120
Speaker 1: was like stronger in his faith than I.

997
00:40:22,880 --> 00:40:25,480
Speaker 4: Was, because he's like the pull you along.

998
00:40:25,440 --> 00:40:27,840
Speaker 1: Yeah kind of. And I feel like I've recently realized

999
00:40:27,880 --> 00:40:31,360
Speaker 1: that maybe I am that light to somebody else, do

1000
00:40:31,400 --> 00:40:32,960
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, Like I'm that conduit to

1001
00:40:33,040 --> 00:40:35,160
Speaker 1: like bring somebody in or you know, and I just

1002
00:40:35,200 --> 00:40:37,399
Speaker 1: need somebody to be open. I think in the past member,

1003
00:40:37,400 --> 00:40:39,000
Speaker 1: I went out with that guy that was like atheist,

1004
00:40:39,040 --> 00:40:39,520
Speaker 1: and like that.

1005
00:40:39,600 --> 00:40:41,759
Speaker 4: Was like, oh my god, that was one day, I know.

1006
00:40:41,800 --> 00:40:43,440
Speaker 1: But what I'm saying is like I think that's more

1007
00:40:43,440 --> 00:40:46,200
Speaker 1: of a deal breaker, whereas this isn't so.

1008
00:40:46,239 --> 00:40:48,840
Speaker 4: Perfect, so deal's not broken. So yeah, the date's still on.

1009
00:40:49,320 --> 00:40:50,920
Speaker 4: If you're saying there was a while where I'm still

1010
00:40:50,920 --> 00:40:51,360
Speaker 4: going to make it.

1011
00:40:51,360 --> 00:40:53,120
Speaker 5: I was atheist for a while when I was in college.

1012
00:40:53,200 --> 00:40:55,600
Speaker 5: I just was vehemently against religion all that kind of stuff.

1013
00:40:55,600 --> 00:40:57,360
Speaker 5: And I was like I got older and more not like,

1014
00:40:57,480 --> 00:40:59,239
Speaker 5: understood more things. I was like, okay, like I'm not

1015
00:40:59,440 --> 00:41:02,040
Speaker 5: that extreme. I'm just going to be open to everything

1016
00:41:02,040 --> 00:41:04,239
Speaker 5: and everyone as I always was. But I just was like,

1017
00:41:04,360 --> 00:41:05,920
Speaker 5: I didn't believe there was a god.

1018
00:41:06,280 --> 00:41:08,040
Speaker 4: You believe there's a higher power of some sort. I'm

1019
00:41:08,040 --> 00:41:08,879
Speaker 4: still I'm not sure.

1020
00:41:09,040 --> 00:41:11,880
Speaker 5: If there was undeniable evidence that was presented to me,

1021
00:41:11,920 --> 00:41:13,440
Speaker 5: I would have no problem believing it.

1022
00:41:13,680 --> 00:41:15,200
Speaker 4: But until that comes, I just like I.

1023
00:41:17,120 --> 00:41:19,760
Speaker 1: See it to believe it. Type guy, Yeah, I can't.

1024
00:41:21,520 --> 00:41:24,680
Speaker 4: That comes down to that trust issue that I just

1025
00:41:24,760 --> 00:41:25,799
Speaker 4: I don't know. I don't know.

1026
00:41:26,360 --> 00:41:28,080
Speaker 5: It's not a deal break here for me. Like, don't worry.

1027
00:41:28,080 --> 00:41:30,000
Speaker 5: When Tanya and I get married, we will have what

1028
00:41:30,080 --> 00:41:33,799
Speaker 5: is that Christian Catholic pastor well, well you Catholic Christian.

1029
00:41:33,560 --> 00:41:34,799
Speaker 4: If you'll have a church wedding, if you be able

1030
00:41:34,800 --> 00:41:35,320
Speaker 4: to do a church.

1031
00:41:35,200 --> 00:41:37,120
Speaker 5: Weddings wedding, sure it will have the wedding bills and

1032
00:41:37,120 --> 00:41:40,200
Speaker 5: all that kind of stuff, and what world we'll have

1033
00:41:40,239 --> 00:41:41,480
Speaker 5: the traditional Christian wedding.

1034
00:41:41,480 --> 00:41:45,640
Speaker 4: That's fine, okay, and your kids being and Tania's children

1035
00:41:46,080 --> 00:41:48,839
Speaker 4: can be raised Christians go to church on Sundays as

1036
00:41:48,840 --> 00:41:51,439
Speaker 4: a family or just with mom, Absolutely right. I don't

1037
00:41:51,440 --> 00:41:54,040
Speaker 4: think that that's major. Yeah, that is. I wouldn't make

1038
00:41:54,040 --> 00:41:57,240
Speaker 4: you take the kids to church by yourself. So nice.

1039
00:41:58,360 --> 00:42:00,440
Speaker 1: We are a unit. Look, this is a thing though

1040
00:42:00,480 --> 00:42:03,000
Speaker 1: that I think a lot of people don't like. I

1041
00:42:03,040 --> 00:42:05,520
Speaker 1: think there's so much power in being in a pair,

1042
00:42:05,960 --> 00:42:07,120
Speaker 1: do you know what I mean. Like, I think there's

1043
00:42:07,160 --> 00:42:11,560
Speaker 1: so much power in like a really strong partnership through life,

1044
00:42:11,640 --> 00:42:13,600
Speaker 1: you know. And I think that's what I've kind of

1045
00:42:13,600 --> 00:42:15,720
Speaker 1: been missing a little bit, Like since I've been single.

1046
00:42:15,719 --> 00:42:19,400
Speaker 1: It's like I feel like there's there's a sense of,

1047
00:42:19,560 --> 00:42:21,080
Speaker 1: I don't know, like we can do this together.

1048
00:42:21,400 --> 00:42:23,319
Speaker 4: You have your friends, you have like Becca I have.

1049
00:42:23,760 --> 00:42:27,160
Speaker 1: And honestly, I have the most amazing friendships in my life.

1050
00:42:27,160 --> 00:42:32,560
Speaker 1: Like I truly, truly have a rock solid handful of

1051
00:42:32,600 --> 00:42:35,120
Speaker 1: people that I know would be there for me in

1052
00:42:35,120 --> 00:42:36,960
Speaker 1: a heartbeat. And I think I needed this time to

1053
00:42:37,040 --> 00:42:39,320
Speaker 1: actually like really figure out who those people in my

1054
00:42:39,400 --> 00:42:40,920
Speaker 1: life are and I'll always have them.

1055
00:42:41,120 --> 00:42:42,239
Speaker 4: You've been single for how long now?

1056
00:42:42,920 --> 00:42:46,080
Speaker 1: Oh, gosh, five years. It's like it's been a while.

1057
00:42:46,120 --> 00:42:49,839
Speaker 1: I mean, Mark's at Easton too, saw me through when

1058
00:42:49,840 --> 00:42:51,640
Speaker 1: I was like, oh my god, I'm gonna be married

1059
00:42:51,680 --> 00:42:53,759
Speaker 1: tomorrow and then like not that.

1060
00:42:53,800 --> 00:42:54,439
Speaker 4: Was a tough time.

1061
00:42:54,600 --> 00:42:57,399
Speaker 5: But you've been dating quite a bit, well not quite

1062
00:42:57,400 --> 00:42:59,600
Speaker 5: a bit, but yeah, but are all these dates do

1063
00:42:59,680 --> 00:43:01,400
Speaker 5: they like one, two, three times done?

1064
00:43:01,680 --> 00:43:01,759
Speaker 4: Like?

1065
00:43:01,880 --> 00:43:05,359
Speaker 5: How how long do you let a relationship last before

1066
00:43:05,360 --> 00:43:07,120
Speaker 5: you're like, okay, this isn't going somewhere.

1067
00:43:07,239 --> 00:43:11,239
Speaker 1: I mean some one guy was kind of hooking up

1068
00:43:11,320 --> 00:43:14,719
Speaker 1: for a while, just looking up though. Yeah he was

1069
00:43:14,760 --> 00:43:20,040
Speaker 1: never my boyfriend and thought I could turn him. Turns

1070
00:43:20,080 --> 00:43:20,640
Speaker 1: out couldn't.

1071
00:43:21,000 --> 00:43:24,239
Speaker 4: Well yeah, so how did that the cat? Well, so

1072
00:43:24,280 --> 00:43:25,480
Speaker 4: you could turn him from what to what?

1073
00:43:25,800 --> 00:43:27,200
Speaker 1: From like it was kind of just like we were

1074
00:43:27,200 --> 00:43:29,040
Speaker 1: hooking up and like, oh, turn.

1075
00:43:28,960 --> 00:43:30,400
Speaker 4: Him from casual into a relationship.

1076
00:43:30,480 --> 00:43:31,879
Speaker 1: Yeah, it didn't work out so well.

1077
00:43:33,760 --> 00:43:35,000
Speaker 4: Peter asked, how you meet these guys?

1078
00:43:35,080 --> 00:43:37,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's the problem. I'm not. I meet them all

1079
00:43:37,920 --> 00:43:41,960
Speaker 1: through work and kind of just like life. I'm not.

1080
00:43:42,040 --> 00:43:43,880
Speaker 1: I haven't really met anybody on any dating apps. I

1081
00:43:43,920 --> 00:43:46,000
Speaker 1: just deleted all my dating apps, which is funny.

1082
00:43:46,000 --> 00:43:48,200
Speaker 4: That's what we're talking about. Earlier, I'm only meeting people

1083
00:43:48,280 --> 00:43:49,319
Speaker 4: through dating apps. I know.

1084
00:43:50,080 --> 00:43:51,640
Speaker 1: Am I dumb for getting off of them?

1085
00:43:52,360 --> 00:43:55,799
Speaker 4: No, I've never gone on like a legitimate date. I

1086
00:43:55,800 --> 00:43:56,440
Speaker 4: guess off of it.

1087
00:43:57,080 --> 00:43:59,160
Speaker 1: And the last guy that I dated, doctor W I

1088
00:43:59,160 --> 00:44:00,200
Speaker 1: met him on Instagram.

1089
00:44:00,400 --> 00:44:04,960
Speaker 6: He DM you m hm, which is like, actually, I've

1090
00:44:04,960 --> 00:44:09,440
Speaker 6: met more people off Instagram than that's it nowadays. Before

1091
00:44:09,640 --> 00:44:11,440
Speaker 6: the show and all that I loved being on the

1092
00:44:11,480 --> 00:44:13,839
Speaker 6: dating apps, I feel like I actually had some legitimate conversations,

1093
00:44:13,960 --> 00:44:15,239
Speaker 6: went on a couple of good dates. I met a

1094
00:44:15,280 --> 00:44:17,319
Speaker 6: few people, even dated a girl for like four months

1095
00:44:17,400 --> 00:44:19,640
Speaker 6: or something like that prior to the show.

1096
00:44:19,680 --> 00:44:21,000
Speaker 4: Now since the show, it's very different.

1097
00:44:21,239 --> 00:44:23,440
Speaker 6: In fact, I matched with a girl and the very

1098
00:44:23,440 --> 00:44:27,000
Speaker 6: first message was part of my language. Holy, I can't

1099
00:44:27,000 --> 00:44:28,400
Speaker 6: wait to tell my friends.

1100
00:44:28,560 --> 00:44:32,839
Speaker 4: At Peter That kind of kills it. Yeah, so let's

1101
00:44:32,880 --> 00:44:35,840
Speaker 4: got tricks then or something? Not going to be responded, No,

1102
00:44:35,920 --> 00:44:36,440
Speaker 4: of course not.

1103
00:44:37,600 --> 00:44:39,360
Speaker 1: Oh shoot, are you on any of the dating apps?

1104
00:44:39,360 --> 00:44:41,279
Speaker 4: I'm not. I haven't been on on dating I did.

1105
00:44:41,400 --> 00:44:45,120
Speaker 5: I did use them before the show, obviously post dating

1106
00:44:45,160 --> 00:44:47,240
Speaker 5: my girlfriend, but not anymore.

1107
00:44:47,280 --> 00:44:48,279
Speaker 1: Are you dating anyone now?

1108
00:44:49,280 --> 00:44:52,000
Speaker 5: I have just begun opening myself up to the idea

1109
00:44:52,000 --> 00:44:53,640
Speaker 5: of dates. I'm going on a date later this week,

1110
00:44:53,680 --> 00:44:55,320
Speaker 5: as we discussed on our other podcast.

1111
00:44:55,360 --> 00:44:58,400
Speaker 4: Oh yes, that's right, I forgot about that. Anya's not

1112
00:44:58,480 --> 00:44:59,040
Speaker 4: so happy.

1113
00:44:58,840 --> 00:45:05,120
Speaker 5: About Well, come on, we just no.

1114
00:45:05,280 --> 00:45:09,839
Speaker 1: This is the problem with everything. It's just a date.

1115
00:45:09,920 --> 00:45:12,759
Speaker 1: Like I can't. I've been that person. I try to

1116
00:45:12,840 --> 00:45:15,399
Speaker 1: date multiple people at once, and I can't do it.

1117
00:45:15,560 --> 00:45:17,920
Speaker 4: That's an interesting question. If you have a date planned

1118
00:45:17,960 --> 00:45:20,920
Speaker 4: with somebody a week two weeks from now, are you

1119
00:45:21,000 --> 00:45:23,919
Speaker 4: not allowed to ask anyone else out in that period question?

1120
00:45:24,000 --> 00:45:26,080
Speaker 6: I always feel terrible if that's the case. I don't

1121
00:45:26,080 --> 00:45:29,040
Speaker 6: think there's anything wrong with it, but I always.

1122
00:45:29,400 --> 00:45:32,400
Speaker 4: Convitation to go on a date with me, or should

1123
00:45:32,400 --> 00:45:33,560
Speaker 4: I cancel my date on Thursday?

1124
00:45:35,239 --> 00:45:37,160
Speaker 1: No, I don't think there's anything wrong with it. I

1125
00:45:37,160 --> 00:45:39,239
Speaker 1: think that's totally normal. I think that's what everybody is

1126
00:45:39,280 --> 00:45:39,719
Speaker 1: doing now.

1127
00:45:39,880 --> 00:45:40,640
Speaker 4: I think it's fine.

1128
00:45:41,000 --> 00:45:42,919
Speaker 1: I do, but I can't. For some reason, I can't

1129
00:45:42,920 --> 00:45:44,640
Speaker 1: do it. I'm telling you the last guy that I dated,

1130
00:45:45,040 --> 00:45:47,160
Speaker 1: I went when I went on two dates, and I

1131
00:45:47,200 --> 00:45:48,880
Speaker 1: was like, I don't want to date anybody else. I

1132
00:45:48,880 --> 00:45:49,799
Speaker 1: don't want to go out anybody else.

1133
00:45:49,840 --> 00:45:51,520
Speaker 5: I guess I should be more clear about my date then,

1134
00:45:51,560 --> 00:45:55,080
Speaker 5: because it's not. I would maybe to backpedal a little bit.

1135
00:45:55,160 --> 00:45:56,960
Speaker 5: So we've been friends for like a year. We've hung

1136
00:45:57,000 --> 00:46:00,719
Speaker 5: out multiple times, probably like seven or eight times, going

1137
00:46:00,760 --> 00:46:03,239
Speaker 5: on dates, coffee, lunch, whatever it is, but we've never

1138
00:46:03,640 --> 00:46:06,520
Speaker 5: like kissed. We barely like do anything like that. So

1139
00:46:06,680 --> 00:46:08,360
Speaker 5: when I say I'm going on a date on Thursday,

1140
00:46:08,760 --> 00:46:10,480
Speaker 5: what I mean is I'm hanging out with a friend

1141
00:46:10,719 --> 00:46:13,440
Speaker 5: who maybe I'm like interested in and maybe she's interested

1142
00:46:13,480 --> 00:46:15,960
Speaker 5: in me. But there's never really been any advancement towards

1143
00:46:16,080 --> 00:46:18,000
Speaker 5: like dating, like physical with each other.

1144
00:46:18,239 --> 00:46:21,319
Speaker 4: That is that weird? No, But is this like like

1145
00:46:21,360 --> 00:46:23,520
Speaker 4: it's clear that this is a date, Like, hey, I'm

1146
00:46:23,600 --> 00:46:25,000
Speaker 4: asking you out in a roomanate, like it's not a

1147
00:46:25,000 --> 00:46:27,160
Speaker 4: friendly hanging out Like, well, it's very it's friendly.

1148
00:46:27,200 --> 00:46:29,160
Speaker 5: But so when I say date, it's like we're gonna

1149
00:46:29,200 --> 00:46:30,400
Speaker 5: go to the zoo or something like that.

1150
00:46:33,080 --> 00:46:35,040
Speaker 4: The zoo is pretty daty, you think. I think the

1151
00:46:35,120 --> 00:46:38,239
Speaker 4: zoo is very date. I don't know what is not

1152
00:46:38,280 --> 00:46:41,240
Speaker 4: a date? Then, yeah, that's pretty casual.

1153
00:46:41,400 --> 00:46:41,920
Speaker 1: Good question.

1154
00:46:42,880 --> 00:46:44,840
Speaker 4: The sun is still up? Well, that's true.

1155
00:46:46,200 --> 00:46:47,319
Speaker 1: Coffee is not a date.

1156
00:46:47,520 --> 00:46:49,080
Speaker 6: See, I only go on coffee dates. I don't go

1157
00:46:49,120 --> 00:46:52,560
Speaker 6: any drink dates. I don't really drink, so it's always awkward, like, hey,

1158
00:46:52,600 --> 00:46:53,640
Speaker 6: do you want to get a drink? But then I

1159
00:46:53,680 --> 00:46:56,279
Speaker 6: just have water. So it's just so I'm like, I'd

1160
00:46:56,400 --> 00:46:57,960
Speaker 6: rather go out for coffee in the middle of date

1161
00:46:58,000 --> 00:46:58,560
Speaker 6: with somebody.

1162
00:46:58,360 --> 00:47:05,240
Speaker 1: And then she just has diarrhea from coffee directed instant

1163
00:47:05,400 --> 00:47:06,880
Speaker 1: you mentioned her ib earlier.

1164
00:47:09,520 --> 00:47:11,759
Speaker 4: We're not going out of coffee. That's fine. I want

1165
00:47:11,760 --> 00:47:14,160
Speaker 4: to offer myself anyway, if I asked.

1166
00:47:14,239 --> 00:47:17,360
Speaker 1: Guys asked me to get coffee, I'm like, how do

1167
00:47:17,440 --> 00:47:17,840
Speaker 1: I get.

1168
00:47:17,680 --> 00:47:18,000
Speaker 2: Out of this?

1169
00:47:18,680 --> 00:47:20,600
Speaker 4: You get a wat hair or something. I don't know,

1170
00:47:20,760 --> 00:47:21,319
Speaker 4: probably even more.

1171
00:47:21,360 --> 00:47:22,200
Speaker 1: It's probably way work.

1172
00:47:23,960 --> 00:47:26,279
Speaker 4: So the zoo Okay, So that's cute because it's cute,

1173
00:47:26,280 --> 00:47:27,839
Speaker 4: I guess. I guess it's not a serious one.

1174
00:47:27,920 --> 00:47:29,640
Speaker 5: And we're gonna go to the zoo because she likes

1175
00:47:29,920 --> 00:47:31,560
Speaker 5: pandas a lot, and so I was like, let's go

1176
00:47:31,560 --> 00:47:32,960
Speaker 5: to the zoo, we'll see the PANDAM will leave.

1177
00:47:33,000 --> 00:47:36,759
Speaker 4: Well, you hold hands? No, okay, alright, what what if

1178
00:47:36,800 --> 00:47:39,920
Speaker 4: you hold hands? She reaches zero percent chance will hold hands.

1179
00:47:40,680 --> 00:47:45,080
Speaker 4: It is not a date. I feel like we're flopping

1180
00:47:45,120 --> 00:47:47,320
Speaker 4: on there. We will not hold hands? Is in the

1181
00:47:47,360 --> 00:47:53,600
Speaker 4: clear here? Maybe I'm looking at like, are you going

1182
00:47:53,640 --> 00:47:54,759
Speaker 4: to hook up that night? No?

1183
00:47:55,040 --> 00:47:57,520
Speaker 5: But like I said, I find her attractive and interesting

1184
00:47:57,640 --> 00:48:00,680
Speaker 5: and like fun to hang out with, and so like,

1185
00:48:01,000 --> 00:48:04,360
Speaker 5: I am interested, but I don't know if she's interested,

1186
00:48:04,400 --> 00:48:06,200
Speaker 5: and so like I would just like we're just gonna

1187
00:48:06,200 --> 00:48:07,680
Speaker 5: walk around and continue to be friends.

1188
00:48:07,880 --> 00:48:08,600
Speaker 2: La zoo.

1189
00:48:10,040 --> 00:48:14,719
Speaker 1: No, no, San Diego. Yeah, all the way down there,

1190
00:48:14,840 --> 00:48:16,000
Speaker 1: that's where the pand is.

1191
00:48:16,840 --> 00:48:18,759
Speaker 4: We went and saw that pandemic's no panda.

1192
00:48:18,640 --> 00:48:18,799
Speaker 1: Way.

1193
00:48:19,040 --> 00:48:21,160
Speaker 4: Is it an overnight No, We're gonna drive down and

1194
00:48:21,200 --> 00:48:22,960
Speaker 4: come back the same day. Oh, that's a lot of

1195
00:48:22,960 --> 00:48:24,800
Speaker 4: card time. I'm head.

1196
00:48:27,960 --> 00:48:30,359
Speaker 5: Put your No, she has a much nicer car than

1197
00:48:31,360 --> 00:48:34,239
Speaker 5: there won't be any center console to like hold legs

1198
00:48:34,320 --> 00:48:34,839
Speaker 5: or anything like that.

1199
00:48:34,719 --> 00:48:37,200
Speaker 4: That's about six hours in the car. Again, No, it's

1200
00:48:37,239 --> 00:48:39,680
Speaker 4: like three and a half. Four hours. You're gonna pay

1201
00:48:39,680 --> 00:48:42,120
Speaker 4: her mission, it's two and a half. She's gonna pay

1202
00:48:42,120 --> 00:48:44,399
Speaker 4: my on a good day's like and a half. I've

1203
00:48:44,440 --> 00:48:45,719
Speaker 4: done that. You can do an hour and a half,

1204
00:48:45,800 --> 00:48:47,320
Speaker 4: San Diego, I've done Oh please.

1205
00:48:47,480 --> 00:48:49,600
Speaker 5: Yeah, we're gonna take my motorcycle so that way she

1206
00:48:49,640 --> 00:48:51,480
Speaker 5: can be cleaning on me the entire.

1207
00:48:51,400 --> 00:48:55,120
Speaker 4: It's a weekday. There's no way we're turning into the Yeah, well, and.

1208
00:48:55,200 --> 00:48:57,520
Speaker 1: You drive a motorcycle, I can't.

1209
00:48:57,680 --> 00:49:00,560
Speaker 4: Oh can I pick you up on our date night

1210
00:49:00,640 --> 00:49:01,720
Speaker 4: with it? Or no? No?

1211
00:49:01,800 --> 00:49:02,920
Speaker 1: Those are so dangerous.

1212
00:49:02,920 --> 00:49:04,360
Speaker 4: That could be a deal break if you're tiring to

1213
00:49:04,360 --> 00:49:06,080
Speaker 4: the fact that you own a motor What about bad boys?

1214
00:49:06,120 --> 00:49:07,399
Speaker 4: I thought bad boys was like a whole thing.

1215
00:49:07,440 --> 00:49:10,439
Speaker 1: Do you have you met me, Tanya? Like, bad boys

1216
00:49:10,480 --> 00:49:11,440
Speaker 1: are not my thing at all.

1217
00:49:11,719 --> 00:49:13,200
Speaker 4: Wait, there is kind of a thing that with women.

1218
00:49:13,200 --> 00:49:15,719
Speaker 4: They like riding in the back of the motorcycles. They

1219
00:49:15,800 --> 00:49:17,359
Speaker 4: like the idea of it, but when it actually happens,

1220
00:49:17,360 --> 00:49:17,919
Speaker 4: I feel like it's.

1221
00:49:18,000 --> 00:49:20,279
Speaker 1: No, no, no, never, Tanya, want to do that. No,

1222
00:49:20,320 --> 00:49:21,840
Speaker 1: I don't want to ride on the bike, your motorcycle.

1223
00:49:21,840 --> 00:49:23,080
Speaker 1: I don't want to put on a helmet. I don't

1224
00:49:23,080 --> 00:49:24,960
Speaker 1: want you riding on a motorcycle. I don't want you

1225
00:49:25,040 --> 00:49:25,800
Speaker 1: near a motorcycle.

1226
00:49:25,840 --> 00:49:28,279
Speaker 4: I want you to sell the motorcycle. I want you a.

1227
00:49:29,800 --> 00:49:33,719
Speaker 1: Very safe vehicle, driving very sleefely, driving the speed limit,

1228
00:49:33,800 --> 00:49:35,720
Speaker 1: not texting and being distracted on your phone.

1229
00:49:35,920 --> 00:49:40,120
Speaker 5: Hey, okay, Tanya, Fine, fine, If this is what it takes,

1230
00:49:40,200 --> 00:49:40,759
Speaker 5: that's what I'll do.

1231
00:49:41,520 --> 00:49:46,440
Speaker 4: You know. He doesn't lock his doors either. Doors motorcycle

1232
00:49:46,440 --> 00:49:47,840
Speaker 4: and put the doors back on my jeep.

1233
00:49:48,440 --> 00:49:50,319
Speaker 6: I won't text, and I don't text and drive as

1234
00:49:50,320 --> 00:49:51,799
Speaker 6: it is already, but still the zoo.

1235
00:49:51,840 --> 00:49:53,839
Speaker 4: You ruled out the possibility of holding hands, so you're

1236
00:49:53,960 --> 00:49:55,600
Speaker 4: ruled out the possibility of a kiss. At the end

1237
00:49:55,600 --> 00:49:57,480
Speaker 4: of the time, they will be, you know, kissing. Okay,

1238
00:49:57,520 --> 00:49:58,319
Speaker 4: so we're fine.

1239
00:49:58,400 --> 00:49:59,839
Speaker 1: You know what I didn't? I do know this about

1240
00:50:00,200 --> 00:50:04,359
Speaker 1: he's not a very physical person. What do you mean

1241
00:50:04,480 --> 00:50:06,240
Speaker 1: physical touch isn't one of your big.

1242
00:50:06,080 --> 00:50:08,279
Speaker 4: Love Yeah, it isn't. It isn't. I feel like in a.

1243
00:50:08,239 --> 00:50:12,000
Speaker 1: Relationship it's like top maybe third, top five for sure?

1244
00:50:12,080 --> 00:50:17,359
Speaker 1: Well there's only five, so yeah, I.

1245
00:50:17,280 --> 00:50:19,239
Speaker 4: Feel like he's a cuddler. Are you cudl Do you

1246
00:50:19,280 --> 00:50:19,760
Speaker 4: like cuddling?

1247
00:50:19,840 --> 00:50:20,040
Speaker 2: Yeah?

1248
00:50:20,120 --> 00:50:24,200
Speaker 4: Yeah, you hug me every time I see big post coitus,

1249
00:50:24,239 --> 00:50:27,440
Speaker 4: I'm cuddling the crap out of you, for sure. How

1250
00:50:27,440 --> 00:50:31,400
Speaker 4: do you spell that needs huger too? That's a definite

1251
00:50:31,440 --> 00:50:33,520
Speaker 4: thing you have in common. All right, can you do?

1252
00:50:34,080 --> 00:50:37,160
Speaker 1: Keiko was like, oh, yeah, yeah, let's.

1253
00:50:37,000 --> 00:50:39,480
Speaker 4: Get this topic of conversation off of me please. Okay,

1254
00:50:39,520 --> 00:50:41,120
Speaker 4: Well let's talk about Tonya's hair.

1255
00:50:41,280 --> 00:50:45,160
Speaker 1: Okay. Well, I'm bummed at Beckatilli is not here because

1256
00:50:45,640 --> 00:50:49,439
Speaker 1: she has been talking about sugar Bear hair for ever now,

1257
00:50:50,040 --> 00:50:51,920
Speaker 1: and we actually were going through we were cleaning. I

1258
00:50:51,920 --> 00:50:54,640
Speaker 1: don't know again with the phone, I can't with the distraction.

1259
00:50:54,880 --> 00:50:56,480
Speaker 4: You need to know about this. Your hair looks great,

1260
00:50:56,520 --> 00:50:58,200
Speaker 4: but it could look even better. I'm not a big

1261
00:50:58,920 --> 00:50:59,600
Speaker 4: biot guy.

1262
00:50:59,800 --> 00:51:02,440
Speaker 1: Come oh well wait, let me yeah, let me tell

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Speaker 1: you about this. So sugar Bear hair is a best

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1266
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Speaker 1: cup of cranberries, and as much vitamin B twelve as

1270
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Speaker 1: four organic That's pretty good, little bear and one little

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Speaker 1: hair win, nails wind skin win. So all you guys

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Speaker 1: so for the last Becca. Can you guys chime in, Yeah,

1279
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Speaker 1: sugar Bear hair dot com Slasha.

1280
00:52:02,440 --> 00:52:04,680
Speaker 5: I'm literally on the website right now ordering sugar Bear

1281
00:52:04,680 --> 00:52:05,560
Speaker 5: hair for myself.

1282
00:52:05,680 --> 00:52:07,040
Speaker 4: Excellent, great hair.

1283
00:52:07,120 --> 00:52:09,360
Speaker 5: Thank you for telling me about sugar Bear hair, Tanya.

1284
00:52:09,400 --> 00:52:11,360
Speaker 5: I will I have even better hair tomorrow when it

1285
00:52:11,360 --> 00:52:11,680
Speaker 5: gets here.

1286
00:52:11,719 --> 00:52:13,640
Speaker 4: Another man, another man you've turned.

1287
00:52:14,520 --> 00:52:16,719
Speaker 1: I don't know what's gone into him today? What do

1288
00:52:16,760 --> 00:52:18,279
Speaker 1: you mean so I don't know.

1289
00:52:18,480 --> 00:52:20,080
Speaker 5: If you want a man with good hair, I will

1290
00:52:20,120 --> 00:52:22,719
Speaker 5: eat sugar Bear hair. I will do all the requirements

1291
00:52:22,760 --> 00:52:24,200
Speaker 5: that it takes to get you go on a.

1292
00:52:24,239 --> 00:52:24,640
Speaker 4: Date with me.

1293
00:52:25,400 --> 00:52:27,480
Speaker 1: I do have to say, though, so ever since Colton

1294
00:52:27,520 --> 00:52:30,440
Speaker 1: was announced as a bachelor, I can't even tell you

1295
00:52:30,480 --> 00:52:32,680
Speaker 1: how many people have hit me up saying, shoot your

1296
00:52:32,680 --> 00:52:34,640
Speaker 1: shot with Jason. Now's your chance.

1297
00:52:35,360 --> 00:52:38,359
Speaker 4: You guys know if you met him and circles. I've

1298
00:52:38,400 --> 00:52:41,040
Speaker 4: met him, yes, okay, very nice guy, very nice guy.

1299
00:52:41,280 --> 00:52:43,799
Speaker 1: I was like, very handsome, very handsome. I was so

1300
00:52:43,880 --> 00:52:48,720
Speaker 1: into it. Ryan flew him from Seattle to the studio

1301
00:52:48,800 --> 00:52:50,040
Speaker 1: to meet me in person.

1302
00:52:50,600 --> 00:52:52,760
Speaker 4: Wait he really did that. Yeah, it's hilarious.

1303
00:52:52,840 --> 00:52:54,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, And I was like so into.

1304
00:52:54,680 --> 00:52:57,279
Speaker 4: It, really not the first or last guy that she's

1305
00:52:57,320 --> 00:52:58,080
Speaker 4: he's flown in.

1306
00:52:58,120 --> 00:52:59,360
Speaker 1: Really, I have a lot of wing men.

1307
00:53:00,080 --> 00:53:00,880
Speaker 4: I was looking out for you.

1308
00:53:01,160 --> 00:53:03,399
Speaker 1: I know, I know it's better than like I'm doing

1309
00:53:03,400 --> 00:53:04,360
Speaker 1: for myself at the moment.

1310
00:53:04,400 --> 00:53:11,759
Speaker 5: But well, you shouldn't flay any guy down from.

1311
00:53:09,160 --> 00:53:11,560
Speaker 1: So I shot my shot. I was rejected.

1312
00:53:11,640 --> 00:53:13,719
Speaker 5: Tell us, Okay, can you walk me through what you

1313
00:53:13,800 --> 00:53:16,200
Speaker 5: asked him or how you approach the situation. Did you

1314
00:53:16,600 --> 00:53:18,520
Speaker 5: explicitly say, hey, let's go on a date or are

1315
00:53:18,520 --> 00:53:19,239
Speaker 5: you like hey, like.

1316
00:53:19,239 --> 00:53:21,480
Speaker 1: No, yes, okay, no, Mark shaking his head.

1317
00:53:21,840 --> 00:53:24,920
Speaker 4: Banya drops handkerchief. She doesn't like to actually ask people.

1318
00:53:24,760 --> 00:53:27,800
Speaker 1: That's true, But I drop a thick handkerchief.

1319
00:53:28,480 --> 00:53:31,640
Speaker 4: Tearing like a basket. Hiccup, Dean right now.

1320
00:53:32,520 --> 00:53:35,040
Speaker 1: So like, if I was interested in you and I

1321
00:53:35,080 --> 00:53:39,160
Speaker 1: wanted to, I would say, oh, okay, so you're not

1322
00:53:39,160 --> 00:53:42,480
Speaker 1: from here. So I was like saying, yeah, if you

1323
00:53:42,520 --> 00:53:45,240
Speaker 1: need anywhere good to go when you're in l A,

1324
00:53:45,800 --> 00:53:47,719
Speaker 1: definitely let me know. When you're here, I can give

1325
00:53:47,760 --> 00:53:49,279
Speaker 1: you some good spots and we can go, like, we

1326
00:53:49,320 --> 00:53:51,160
Speaker 1: can go together. That's a pretty thick.

1327
00:53:51,000 --> 00:53:53,120
Speaker 4: Can with that handkerchief.

1328
00:53:53,520 --> 00:53:56,600
Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. I'm not like sitting here being like, okay, bye,

1329
00:53:57,520 --> 00:53:59,200
Speaker 1: Like I'm being pretty.

1330
00:53:58,880 --> 00:54:01,040
Speaker 5: Forward, So why don't you say explicitly say hey, let's

1331
00:54:01,040 --> 00:54:02,040
Speaker 5: go get dinner while you're here.

1332
00:54:02,160 --> 00:54:04,279
Speaker 4: It did, but it sounds like, oh like, if you

1333
00:54:04,320 --> 00:54:07,360
Speaker 4: want to like you, it was not passed.

1334
00:54:07,440 --> 00:54:09,000
Speaker 6: It's like, the next time you're here, if you want

1335
00:54:09,040 --> 00:54:11,319
Speaker 6: to kind of as friends, maybe we not go or

1336
00:54:11,360 --> 00:54:11,600
Speaker 6: do go.

1337
00:54:12,000 --> 00:54:14,279
Speaker 1: No, No, it was next time you're here, let's go.

1338
00:54:14,520 --> 00:54:16,640
Speaker 1: And then when he was here, I said, let's get

1339
00:54:16,640 --> 00:54:18,759
Speaker 1: a happy hour. Oh and what did I say, I

1340
00:54:18,760 --> 00:54:19,240
Speaker 1: have a flight?

1341
00:54:19,400 --> 00:54:24,160
Speaker 4: Well, he had a flight. You move stuff that's in.

1342
00:54:27,239 --> 00:54:30,920
Speaker 4: It wasn't really well received, unfortunately. Yeah, and it wasn't like, oh, no,

1343
00:54:30,960 --> 00:54:32,920
Speaker 4: I have a flight. Well, but next time, let's definitely

1344
00:54:32,920 --> 00:54:34,640
Speaker 4: do that, probably because he thought he was still going

1345
00:54:34,680 --> 00:54:37,600
Speaker 4: to be the Bachelor. There's that. And I also worry

1346
00:54:37,600 --> 00:54:39,640
Speaker 4: that he thinks it's a radio bit and it's not legit.

1347
00:54:39,920 --> 00:54:41,799
Speaker 1: No, I don't think he thinks that because we've had

1348
00:54:42,000 --> 00:54:43,400
Speaker 1: we've talked, like, we talked out.

1349
00:54:43,280 --> 00:54:46,600
Speaker 4: We've talked. Yeah, this is new news, not new news.

1350
00:54:46,880 --> 00:54:49,880
Speaker 1: We've been talking since the beginning of the season on Instagram.

1351
00:54:50,000 --> 00:54:54,160
Speaker 4: Yeah, but who what did you did you message him?

1352
00:54:55,040 --> 00:54:57,480
Speaker 1: I picked him as like one of my like top contenders,

1353
00:54:57,719 --> 00:55:00,120
Speaker 1: like on the whatever. And so he saw it that

1354
00:55:00,160 --> 00:55:01,839
Speaker 1: I had posted it when Becco was in or something

1355
00:55:01,840 --> 00:55:04,200
Speaker 1: like that. He like wrote me and said like thanks

1356
00:55:04,239 --> 00:55:07,960
Speaker 1: for like the support or whatever. So that's opened the dialogue, gotcha.

1357
00:55:08,400 --> 00:55:11,680
Speaker 5: So he initiated the conversation with you, I mean sort

1358
00:55:11,680 --> 00:55:13,440
Speaker 5: of after you initiated it with him totally.

1359
00:55:13,920 --> 00:55:15,479
Speaker 4: I just think you should hit him up again.

1360
00:55:15,560 --> 00:55:17,240
Speaker 5: I agree with Mark. I think it could be slightly

1361
00:55:17,280 --> 00:55:21,239
Speaker 5: perceived as a bit to any degree. And also I

1362
00:55:21,239 --> 00:55:23,120
Speaker 5: think that I wanted him to be the Bachelor. Personally,

1363
00:55:23,120 --> 00:55:25,040
Speaker 5: I love Colton, I'm very happy for him, but I

1364
00:55:25,080 --> 00:55:25,920
Speaker 5: wanted to be Jason.

1365
00:55:26,040 --> 00:55:27,560
Speaker 4: I think he's got charisma. I think he would be

1366
00:55:27,560 --> 00:55:28,800
Speaker 4: so much fun to watch it in the season.

1367
00:55:29,600 --> 00:55:31,960
Speaker 5: But now that he's obviously definitively he is not going

1368
00:55:32,000 --> 00:55:34,520
Speaker 5: to be the Bachelor. Now you have to reshoot your shot.

1369
00:55:35,400 --> 00:55:36,719
Speaker 1: How many times are I reshooting?

1370
00:55:36,880 --> 00:55:39,080
Speaker 4: I mean, like it seems like the balls a little

1371
00:55:39,080 --> 00:55:41,240
Speaker 4: bit in his court, yeah, isn't it. He has access

1372
00:55:41,280 --> 00:55:44,600
Speaker 4: to her, he could ask her out like you just did.

1373
00:55:45,320 --> 00:55:47,720
Speaker 6: But in his situation and in his defense, he's probably

1374
00:55:47,719 --> 00:55:48,919
Speaker 6: getting hit up by a lot of people.

1375
00:55:49,040 --> 00:55:49,839
Speaker 4: At this period of time.

1376
00:55:49,960 --> 00:55:52,239
Speaker 1: Oh so he's just probably like all over the place.

1377
00:55:52,080 --> 00:55:53,799
Speaker 5: Not even that, but I just mean like he would

1378
00:55:53,800 --> 00:55:55,600
Speaker 5: be hurtful that someone would take the initiative that he

1379
00:55:55,640 --> 00:55:57,080
Speaker 5: already knows and is comfortable with.

1380
00:55:58,280 --> 00:56:00,000
Speaker 4: He's getting a lot of creepy dms right now. I'm sure.

1381
00:56:00,239 --> 00:56:05,960
Speaker 4: Oh you guys would talk about overwhelmed with that response. Man. Fortunately,

1382
00:56:06,000 --> 00:56:07,000
Speaker 4: I don't put that vibe out there.

1383
00:56:07,000 --> 00:56:10,600
Speaker 5: I get a lot of pictures of dogs and like

1384
00:56:10,680 --> 00:56:13,960
Speaker 5: hot cheetahs, but I have seen, like I haven't heard

1385
00:56:13,960 --> 00:56:16,040
Speaker 5: stories of other people from the franchise who maybe put

1386
00:56:16,040 --> 00:56:17,279
Speaker 5: out more of a sex appeal than I do. I

1387
00:56:17,320 --> 00:56:18,759
Speaker 5: have like more of like a I don't know, less

1388
00:56:18,760 --> 00:56:22,319
Speaker 5: sex appeal and more an inappropriate disagree.

1389
00:56:22,840 --> 00:56:24,840
Speaker 1: You get a lot, Doude, a lot of people asking you.

1390
00:56:24,800 --> 00:56:28,239
Speaker 4: To like be my husband, just like straight up get married.

1391
00:56:28,400 --> 00:56:31,120
Speaker 1: But why don't you respond to them? Is that weird?

1392
00:56:31,200 --> 00:56:31,800
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's weird.

1393
00:56:31,840 --> 00:56:34,840
Speaker 6: Yeah, it's like the person on Bumble that message with

1394
00:56:34,960 --> 00:56:37,040
Speaker 6: holy Peter Krause, Oh.

1395
00:56:38,680 --> 00:56:39,359
Speaker 1: That's not the move.

1396
00:56:39,640 --> 00:56:40,120
Speaker 4: No, I don't know.

1397
00:56:40,160 --> 00:56:42,279
Speaker 5: I've heard stories of other guys receiving like just full

1398
00:56:42,320 --> 00:56:44,799
Speaker 5: on like this is what I look naked, and this

1399
00:56:44,880 --> 00:56:46,840
Speaker 5: is what I want to do to you with my

1400
00:56:46,920 --> 00:56:47,560
Speaker 5: body parts.

1401
00:56:47,719 --> 00:56:51,480
Speaker 4: I don't receive any of those disclaimer fortunately, So what

1402
00:56:52,320 --> 00:56:53,359
Speaker 4: Let's say a woman is.

1403
00:56:53,320 --> 00:56:55,080
Speaker 1: Listening like why am I not geting those?

1404
00:56:55,840 --> 00:56:58,239
Speaker 4: Listen to the bachelor friend listening? Who is interested in

1405
00:56:58,280 --> 00:56:59,839
Speaker 4: going on a date with one of you? We've learned

1406
00:56:59,840 --> 00:57:02,719
Speaker 4: that naked photos is not the waveload that holy f

1407
00:57:02,800 --> 00:57:05,120
Speaker 4: your Peter Kraut is not the way? What is the way?

1408
00:57:05,200 --> 00:57:07,040
Speaker 4: Is there a way to kind of get your attention?

1409
00:57:07,960 --> 00:57:08,799
Speaker 1: Good question mark?

1410
00:57:09,920 --> 00:57:13,280
Speaker 4: What's the question mark? How do you get your attention?

1411
00:57:13,800 --> 00:57:16,000
Speaker 4: How does someone on Instagram get your attention in a

1412
00:57:16,000 --> 00:57:18,160
Speaker 4: way that would actually intrigue you? Or is that not

1413
00:57:18,240 --> 00:57:19,560
Speaker 4: possible to do it as a joke?

1414
00:57:19,840 --> 00:57:20,240
Speaker 1: Question mark?

1415
00:57:20,480 --> 00:57:24,240
Speaker 4: Question mark? Yeah, it's like bookmark. That is a good

1416
00:57:24,280 --> 00:57:29,520
Speaker 4: question mark because I don't know. I've definitely responded.

1417
00:57:29,040 --> 00:57:31,560
Speaker 5: To a few dms in my time, but I don't

1418
00:57:31,600 --> 00:57:34,440
Speaker 5: know why I do when I do. Maybe, like bored,

1419
00:57:34,600 --> 00:57:38,280
Speaker 5: it really depends on timing, serendipity of it all. Yeah,

1420
00:57:38,280 --> 00:57:40,560
Speaker 5: I think that's why maybe some wit involved.

1421
00:57:40,240 --> 00:57:43,320
Speaker 4: Is pretty important. Yes, somebody funny okay, Peter, I mean yeah,

1422
00:57:43,360 --> 00:57:45,640
Speaker 4: good conversation if they started off with something that's kind

1423
00:57:45,640 --> 00:57:48,520
Speaker 4: of funny or just catch you off guard and you

1424
00:57:48,560 --> 00:57:51,400
Speaker 4: can shoot for a little bit. I'm all for it.

1425
00:57:52,400 --> 00:57:54,000
Speaker 6: That just doesn't happen too much that I feel like

1426
00:57:54,000 --> 00:57:55,320
Speaker 6: they're they're too enamored.

1427
00:57:55,360 --> 00:57:59,200
Speaker 4: Maybe with the franchise, Yeah, the celebrity.

1428
00:57:59,520 --> 00:58:02,720
Speaker 1: You want to date someone that lives in Madison?

1429
00:58:03,360 --> 00:58:03,920
Speaker 4: I would love to.

1430
00:58:04,080 --> 00:58:05,880
Speaker 1: Okay, so that's the goal. Stay where you are.

1431
00:58:05,960 --> 00:58:07,480
Speaker 5: Why don't you do for a period of time, Why

1432
00:58:07,480 --> 00:58:09,160
Speaker 5: don't you meet someone elsewhere and then just convince them

1433
00:58:09,200 --> 00:58:10,160
Speaker 5: to move to Madison with you.

1434
00:58:10,240 --> 00:58:13,240
Speaker 4: It's a great city. It is a great city, beautiful,

1435
00:58:13,240 --> 00:58:13,840
Speaker 4: it's getting better.

1436
00:58:13,880 --> 00:58:17,080
Speaker 5: All the four legs can we hold like like tryouts

1437
00:58:17,160 --> 00:58:21,680
Speaker 5: or something. I think it's called the Bachelor, But like

1438
00:58:21,760 --> 00:58:24,040
Speaker 5: you bring all of them to Madison and just like

1439
00:58:24,120 --> 00:58:28,080
Speaker 5: have you speed date all of them.

1440
00:58:27,240 --> 00:58:30,840
Speaker 4: In Regional Madison Bachelor? Yeah, Regional Madison Bachelor.

1441
00:58:30,880 --> 00:58:33,320
Speaker 5: But they can come from anywhere in the world technically,

1442
00:58:33,720 --> 00:58:35,440
Speaker 5: and then like maybe we'll have a couple that you like,

1443
00:58:35,480 --> 00:58:38,280
Speaker 5: stay interested in and maintain an open line of conversation

1444
00:58:38,320 --> 00:58:40,800
Speaker 5: and dialogue with and then like just as the weeks

1445
00:58:40,880 --> 00:58:42,560
Speaker 5: move on, Yeah, like the Bachelor, you just whittle it

1446
00:58:42,600 --> 00:58:44,720
Speaker 5: down until you have your final one. And she could

1447
00:58:44,760 --> 00:58:49,320
Speaker 5: live in freaking Switzerland or something, and then you're like, hey,

1448
00:58:49,320 --> 00:58:50,960
Speaker 5: this is going really well. I'd love it if you

1449
00:58:51,000 --> 00:58:52,960
Speaker 5: move to Madison. And that's obviously one of the stipulations

1450
00:58:53,040 --> 00:58:54,280
Speaker 5: is they all have to be open to the idea

1451
00:58:54,280 --> 00:58:55,120
Speaker 5: of moving to Madison.

1452
00:58:55,200 --> 00:58:58,200
Speaker 6: Well, yeah, long term distance or long distance relationships are

1453
00:58:58,240 --> 00:58:59,160
Speaker 6: not easy.

1454
00:58:58,920 --> 00:59:00,880
Speaker 5: Right, so they have to they have to come initially

1455
00:59:00,920 --> 00:59:03,680
Speaker 5: with the intent and willingness to move to Madison. And

1456
00:59:03,720 --> 00:59:05,640
Speaker 5: then like you have, like whatlet maybe a two week

1457
00:59:06,080 --> 00:59:08,320
Speaker 5: uh boot camp as we like to call it in

1458
00:59:08,400 --> 00:59:11,439
Speaker 5: the in the fitness industry. Let them go their separate ways,

1459
00:59:11,480 --> 00:59:13,240
Speaker 5: maintain a conversation with a few that you're interested in,

1460
00:59:13,360 --> 00:59:16,080
Speaker 5: let them all know that you're conversing with others as well.

1461
00:59:16,520 --> 00:59:18,040
Speaker 5: And then as the week moves on, say sorry, I

1462
00:59:18,240 --> 00:59:19,600
Speaker 5: have to block your phone number now because I have

1463
00:59:19,680 --> 00:59:21,840
Speaker 5: only these other women are interested. Another week passes, sorry,

1464
00:59:21,840 --> 00:59:23,040
Speaker 5: I have to block your phone number, and the until

1465
00:59:23,040 --> 00:59:24,320
Speaker 5: we down to one, and then she moves to Madison

1466
00:59:24,360 --> 00:59:26,440
Speaker 5: for you, Oh, until we get down to two. They

1467
00:59:26,600 --> 00:59:28,960
Speaker 5: both moved to Madison for you.

1468
00:59:28,960 --> 00:59:34,000
Speaker 4: Whoever gonna li whoever handles the first winter they both lose.

1469
00:59:33,920 --> 00:59:36,840
Speaker 5: Yes, they in your two bedroom apartment. They share the

1470
00:59:36,880 --> 00:59:39,280
Speaker 5: second bedroom together while dating you. At the same time,

1471
00:59:39,320 --> 00:59:40,720
Speaker 5: there's a TV show in this somewhere.

1472
00:59:40,760 --> 00:59:43,040
Speaker 4: You guys take care of my dog? Yes, all for it.

1473
00:59:43,080 --> 00:59:44,640
Speaker 5: And whenever you come to La to hang out with

1474
00:59:44,680 --> 00:59:47,320
Speaker 5: me and Tanya and Vanessa, they're watching your dog.

1475
00:59:49,200 --> 00:59:52,800
Speaker 4: All right, I have an email we should read. How

1476
00:59:52,840 --> 00:59:55,720
Speaker 4: about an email for the show? Anybody excited about that?

1477
00:59:58,720 --> 01:00:00,360
Speaker 4: I love how Peter and I have just taken over

1478
01:00:00,600 --> 01:00:03,240
Speaker 4: co hosting the What is going on?

1479
01:00:04,080 --> 01:00:04,640
Speaker 3: So fun?

1480
01:00:04,760 --> 01:00:06,400
Speaker 1: I mean, you guys are just like onions. I could

1481
01:00:06,440 --> 01:00:08,640
Speaker 1: just peel back. I mean I really could keep going,

1482
01:00:08,680 --> 01:00:10,360
Speaker 1: but for the sake of time, I'll just.

1483
01:00:10,400 --> 01:00:12,439
Speaker 5: After this we're done recording this, I'm going to ask

1484
01:00:12,480 --> 01:00:14,440
Speaker 5: Mark and Easton to omit everything I've said.

1485
01:00:14,280 --> 01:00:17,440
Speaker 4: From this episode. Oh great, thanks discriminate. I feel like

1486
01:00:17,480 --> 01:00:19,520
Speaker 4: I've said too much most No, you have not.

1487
01:00:19,680 --> 01:00:21,840
Speaker 5: I've voiced too many of my own concerns as they

1488
01:00:21,880 --> 01:00:22,800
Speaker 5: pertain a relationship.

1489
01:00:22,920 --> 01:00:25,280
Speaker 1: First of all, the first rule of scrubbing in is

1490
01:00:25,320 --> 01:00:28,920
Speaker 1: no scrapping of scrubbing in. Well, that's what you signed

1491
01:00:28,920 --> 01:00:29,600
Speaker 1: with dators.

1492
01:00:29,960 --> 01:00:31,280
Speaker 4: It is what it is. I remember seeing that in

1493
01:00:31,320 --> 01:00:32,560
Speaker 4: the contract that I signed as I walked to the

1494
01:00:32,560 --> 01:00:34,600
Speaker 4: door to door here's an email from k. She says,

1495
01:00:34,640 --> 01:00:36,439
Speaker 4: Becca in Tanya, I need your help. I'm a twenty

1496
01:00:36,440 --> 01:00:39,040
Speaker 4: eight year old college student left follows taking class with

1497
01:00:39,080 --> 01:00:41,360
Speaker 4: a male teacher. He's thirty one. He's like twenty eight

1498
01:00:41,400 --> 01:00:43,520
Speaker 4: year old college students. See it does happen theater?

1499
01:00:43,800 --> 01:00:45,160
Speaker 1: What you want to date a twenty eight year old?

1500
01:00:45,320 --> 01:00:47,000
Speaker 4: Sorry? I guess that was the other podcast. I get

1501
01:00:47,040 --> 01:00:49,160
Speaker 4: these all mixed up. I was saying, Madison's a college town,

1502
01:00:49,160 --> 01:00:50,439
Speaker 4: there's a lot to turn over, a lot of people

1503
01:00:50,440 --> 01:00:52,240
Speaker 4: come to Madison's all over the country. And he was

1504
01:00:52,240 --> 01:00:55,280
Speaker 4: saying he's thirty two. Deal ages not ideal to date

1505
01:00:55,280 --> 01:00:58,920
Speaker 4: a college student, right, No, no, anyway, she says. When

1506
01:00:58,960 --> 01:01:00,959
Speaker 4: my class ended in decen I waited a few months

1507
01:01:00,960 --> 01:01:03,200
Speaker 4: to email him and ask him out. To my surprise,

1508
01:01:03,280 --> 01:01:05,240
Speaker 4: he said yes. We hung out for coffee and they

1509
01:01:05,360 --> 01:01:07,160
Speaker 4: left for the summer for work. When he got back,

1510
01:01:07,240 --> 01:01:08,800
Speaker 4: went on two more dates, and the second date we

1511
01:01:08,840 --> 01:01:11,360
Speaker 4: hooked up the next morning. He was traveling and I

1512
01:01:11,360 --> 01:01:13,520
Speaker 4: have not heard from him since. He has never been

1513
01:01:13,560 --> 01:01:15,120
Speaker 4: a great Texter, and I don't know how to feel.

1514
01:01:15,280 --> 01:01:17,280
Speaker 4: He's a teacher. I'm a student, but not his student.

1515
01:01:17,880 --> 01:01:19,360
Speaker 4: What do you think did he sleep with me and

1516
01:01:19,360 --> 01:01:21,080
Speaker 4: now he's ignoring me? Or is he just busy on

1517
01:01:21,200 --> 01:01:25,400
Speaker 4: vacation thinks that's okay? So advice for her after the fact.

1518
01:01:26,680 --> 01:01:28,800
Speaker 4: So how long has it been since then? Yeah, it

1519
01:01:28,800 --> 01:01:32,880
Speaker 4: doesn't say she writes your day of Probably wouldn't.

1520
01:01:33,760 --> 01:01:35,480
Speaker 1: It's probably been like a.

1521
01:01:35,480 --> 01:01:38,720
Speaker 4: Couple of weeks or like a week. We don't have all.

1522
01:01:38,840 --> 01:01:42,200
Speaker 4: Let's say it's a couple of weeks, right, I mean

1523
01:01:42,760 --> 01:01:43,280
Speaker 4: a couple of weeks.

1524
01:01:43,320 --> 01:01:46,320
Speaker 1: I've done this movie. Okay, you asked out a teacher,

1525
01:01:47,080 --> 01:01:48,240
Speaker 1: ta slept with them?

1526
01:01:48,560 --> 01:01:50,600
Speaker 4: Wow? Tell us where was this? What's cool?

1527
01:01:51,120 --> 01:01:56,439
Speaker 1: My only college that I want too? Yeah?

1528
01:01:56,480 --> 01:02:00,120
Speaker 4: Yeah, you asked out it's you asked him out. You

1529
01:02:00,120 --> 01:02:05,760
Speaker 4: shoot your shot, shot your shot a modern woman? Yeah,

1530
01:02:05,800 --> 01:02:06,680
Speaker 4: and he said.

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01:02:06,520 --> 01:02:09,640
Speaker 1: Yes, Yeah, And I went out with him. We went

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01:02:09,680 --> 01:02:11,920
Speaker 1: out three times, and then I slept with him, and

1533
01:02:11,960 --> 01:02:12,800
Speaker 1: then I never heard from him.

1534
01:02:13,600 --> 01:02:16,840
Speaker 4: That's exactly a story. Did you confront him afterwards?

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01:02:17,200 --> 01:02:20,280
Speaker 1: No, because like then, I think I just I think

1536
01:02:20,280 --> 01:02:22,800
Speaker 1: I thought less of myself back then, you know what

1537
01:02:22,840 --> 01:02:24,800
Speaker 1: I mean, Like you kind of just let I don't

1538
01:02:24,880 --> 01:02:29,520
Speaker 1: want to say you let guys do crappy things to you.

1539
01:02:29,600 --> 01:02:33,200
Speaker 1: But I don't know. I'm much more like vocal and

1540
01:02:33,240 --> 01:02:33,920
Speaker 1: more protected.

1541
01:02:33,960 --> 01:02:37,760
Speaker 4: Now it's a learning experience to way. So, uh, the

1542
01:02:37,800 --> 01:02:38,880
Speaker 4: advice for k is not good.

1543
01:02:40,680 --> 01:02:45,080
Speaker 5: So what would today's Tanya give advice to pass Tanya? Like,

1544
01:02:45,080 --> 01:02:47,240
Speaker 5: what would you tell your past self in that position?

1545
01:02:47,640 --> 01:02:50,040
Speaker 1: Well, I wouldn't have slept with him in the first

1546
01:02:50,040 --> 01:02:52,120
Speaker 1: in the first place, Okay, so now I don't.

1547
01:02:52,160 --> 01:02:55,360
Speaker 4: That's obviously unavoidab because it's already happened. But why just

1548
01:02:55,440 --> 01:02:57,520
Speaker 4: knowing that it resulted the way it did?

1549
01:02:57,760 --> 01:03:00,800
Speaker 1: No, So, what I've learned about myself in the past,

1550
01:03:00,960 --> 01:03:05,360
Speaker 1: I'd say a handful of years, I can't have unattached sex.

1551
01:03:06,280 --> 01:03:09,000
Speaker 1: I can't. I can't do the whole friends with benefits thing, like,

1552
01:03:09,000 --> 01:03:12,200
Speaker 1: it's just not me. And I used to do that

1553
01:03:12,760 --> 01:03:15,480
Speaker 1: repeatedly and I was always in this perpetual pattern.

1554
01:03:15,200 --> 01:03:17,800
Speaker 4: Of pain PPP. Yeah, you talk about it before.

1555
01:03:17,960 --> 01:03:20,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, And so I think now that I've learned that

1556
01:03:20,800 --> 01:03:22,800
Speaker 1: about myself that I just can't do that. But that's

1557
01:03:22,840 --> 01:03:24,720
Speaker 1: just me personally. I don't think every girl's like that.

1558
01:03:24,800 --> 01:03:28,040
Speaker 1: I think that's just how I am. Sure, So now

1559
01:03:28,160 --> 01:03:31,600
Speaker 1: I need commitment before that happens. Does that make sense sense?

1560
01:03:31,760 --> 01:03:33,480
Speaker 4: I'm absolutely I've been writing all of this down for

1561
01:03:33,520 --> 01:03:34,120
Speaker 4: our date.

1562
01:03:34,440 --> 01:03:36,360
Speaker 1: So that would be the advice that I give her.

1563
01:03:36,800 --> 01:03:38,760
Speaker 1: But now that she has already done it, I would

1564
01:03:38,800 --> 01:03:41,640
Speaker 1: just say, make your peace with it. You did what

1565
01:03:41,680 --> 01:03:43,800
Speaker 1: you did. If he comes back around, he comes back around,

1566
01:03:43,800 --> 01:03:45,280
Speaker 1: but you have to just like mentally move on.

1567
01:03:45,760 --> 01:03:47,840
Speaker 4: So it's sad, but that you think this is a situation.

1568
01:03:47,960 --> 01:03:49,880
Speaker 4: Both of these situations were a guy who kept going

1569
01:03:49,920 --> 01:03:52,960
Speaker 4: out with you for the purpose of getting to that point,

1570
01:03:53,280 --> 01:03:56,120
Speaker 4: and now that he's gotten to that point, he's done. Yeah,

1571
01:03:56,240 --> 01:03:57,040
Speaker 4: that's unfortunate.

1572
01:03:57,680 --> 01:03:58,880
Speaker 1: Sorry, kay, guys.

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01:03:58,960 --> 01:04:02,240
Speaker 6: I mean in defense and I'm not saying in defense

1574
01:04:02,240 --> 01:04:04,280
Speaker 6: of him. I'm just saying more like, we don't get

1575
01:04:04,320 --> 01:04:05,040
Speaker 6: all the story.

1576
01:04:05,520 --> 01:04:07,280
Speaker 4: That's true, so we don't know his side of it.

1577
01:04:07,400 --> 01:04:10,000
Speaker 6: That's I'm not again going to defend him because for

1578
01:04:10,040 --> 01:04:12,280
Speaker 6: all we know what happened exactly how that says, and

1579
01:04:13,120 --> 01:04:14,720
Speaker 6: he sounds like an app for that instance.

1580
01:04:14,760 --> 01:04:18,400
Speaker 4: But other than that, I swear too much for.

1581
01:04:19,880 --> 01:04:20,439
Speaker 1: I too.

1582
01:04:21,920 --> 01:04:23,760
Speaker 6: You never know what happened that night or the next morning,

1583
01:04:23,800 --> 01:04:26,560
Speaker 6: what their conversation was, what she acted like. I mean,

1584
01:04:27,520 --> 01:04:30,280
Speaker 6: I don't know anything about her either, right, that's true,

1585
01:04:30,320 --> 01:04:30,920
Speaker 6: So that's.

1586
01:04:30,720 --> 01:04:32,960
Speaker 4: True, and we don't know the side of the story

1587
01:04:32,960 --> 01:04:33,479
Speaker 4: either totally.

1588
01:04:33,520 --> 01:04:34,840
Speaker 1: She could have been like, oh my gosh, but we

1589
01:04:34,920 --> 01:04:35,280
Speaker 1: know you.

1590
01:04:35,240 --> 01:04:38,160
Speaker 6: So we know that he must have been what did jerk, Peter,

1591
01:04:38,240 --> 01:04:40,360
Speaker 6: Have you ever asked out a teacher of yours?

1592
01:04:40,680 --> 01:04:41,439
Speaker 4: No? Never.

1593
01:04:41,640 --> 01:04:43,400
Speaker 6: I went to community college, so it was a very

1594
01:04:43,400 --> 01:04:44,640
Speaker 6: different situation at theaters.

1595
01:04:44,680 --> 01:04:47,760
Speaker 4: I never have, I don't think. So we did talk

1596
01:04:47,800 --> 01:04:49,600
Speaker 4: about this if only auction before we wrap it up

1597
01:04:49,640 --> 01:04:52,960
Speaker 4: for today. It's a very cool thing. If you want

1598
01:04:53,000 --> 01:04:58,000
Speaker 4: to go to bed you're part of this, too cool?

1599
01:04:59,040 --> 01:05:02,600
Speaker 1: I'm not Okay, Do you want a chance to go

1600
01:05:02,640 --> 01:05:05,200
Speaker 1: to the iHeart Rating Music Festival Las Vegas and see

1601
01:05:05,720 --> 01:05:08,440
Speaker 1: Justin Timberlake's going to be there, Carrie Underwood's gonna be

1602
01:05:09,080 --> 01:05:11,640
Speaker 1: mac as well, and many many more. Yeah, you can

1603
01:05:11,680 --> 01:05:13,800
Speaker 1: meet one of the artists and you stay at the

1604
01:05:13,800 --> 01:05:15,520
Speaker 1: Planet Hollywood's Ort in Casino.

1605
01:05:15,240 --> 01:05:17,000
Speaker 4: The Bass Resort and Casino in La Vegas.

1606
01:05:18,000 --> 01:05:20,440
Speaker 1: You're going to play blackjack and have dinner with.

1607
01:05:20,520 --> 01:05:23,520
Speaker 4: Ben Ash Becca. Becca.

1608
01:05:25,000 --> 01:05:25,840
Speaker 1: But are you reading this?

1609
01:05:25,960 --> 01:05:27,960
Speaker 4: I'm we're setting it by memory, Okay.

1610
01:05:28,000 --> 01:05:29,680
Speaker 5: I think that Blake is going to be there, Oh,

1611
01:05:30,000 --> 01:05:39,000
Speaker 5: Charo and not Peter and not Peter. Oh, hopefully we're

1612
01:05:39,000 --> 01:05:39,680
Speaker 5: working on Peter to.

1613
01:05:39,680 --> 01:05:40,640
Speaker 4: Get that get to work.

1614
01:05:41,400 --> 01:05:44,640
Speaker 1: So we are raising money for Ben higgins charity, Humanity

1615
01:05:44,680 --> 01:05:46,600
Speaker 1: and Hope, and you can buy a raffle ticket for

1616
01:05:46,760 --> 01:05:50,920
Speaker 1: just five dollars. Go to if only dot com slash Bachelor.

1617
01:05:51,320 --> 01:05:53,560
Speaker 1: Buy your raffle ticket. It goes to a great cause.

1618
01:05:53,600 --> 01:05:56,880
Speaker 1: I have donated to Ben's charity. It's a great charity.

1619
01:05:57,520 --> 01:05:59,840
Speaker 1: And buy as many Raffle tickets as you can.

1620
01:06:00,120 --> 01:06:02,280
Speaker 4: And speaking of Ben, he has a new podcast with

1621
01:06:02,360 --> 01:06:06,280
Speaker 4: her Heart Radio called Lady Bosses and Ben. Are you familiar, Tanya?

1622
01:06:06,360 --> 01:06:07,040
Speaker 1: I am familiar.

1623
01:06:07,080 --> 01:06:10,120
Speaker 4: It's fantastic. Yesse Drea prou Venture Casualty guest on it.

1624
01:06:11,080 --> 01:06:11,840
Speaker 4: You're a lady boss.

1625
01:06:11,880 --> 01:06:16,160
Speaker 5: I mean maybe not quite as entrepreneurial as.

1626
01:06:14,160 --> 01:06:16,800
Speaker 4: The typical one, but you're still a boss.

1627
01:06:17,120 --> 01:06:17,520
Speaker 1: Thank you.

1628
01:06:17,640 --> 01:06:18,760
Speaker 4: It's true. You are a boss.

1629
01:06:18,800 --> 01:06:19,080
Speaker 1: Thank you.

1630
01:06:19,120 --> 01:06:22,280
Speaker 4: And this is about women, but in general, people who

1631
01:06:22,280 --> 01:06:24,800
Speaker 4: have amazing ideas for apps and stuff and you might

1632
01:06:24,800 --> 01:06:26,480
Speaker 4: think to yourself, how do you make that happen? And

1633
01:06:26,520 --> 01:06:28,240
Speaker 4: these people made it happen and they'll tell you how

1634
01:06:28,240 --> 01:06:30,920
Speaker 4: they did it. So it's empowering and it's inspiring and

1635
01:06:31,000 --> 01:06:31,560
Speaker 4: it's exciting.

1636
01:06:31,800 --> 01:06:33,880
Speaker 1: Side note, I think my episode of The Lady Gang

1637
01:06:34,160 --> 01:06:36,360
Speaker 1: airs this week. Okay, so I was a guest on

1638
01:06:36,480 --> 01:06:39,160
Speaker 1: Lady Gang podcast. It's a podcast that I'm a huge

1639
01:06:39,160 --> 01:06:42,240
Speaker 1: fan of. I'm obsessed with these girls. And I went

1640
01:06:42,240 --> 01:06:44,160
Speaker 1: in and I went in to do the podcast and

1641
01:06:44,200 --> 01:06:48,200
Speaker 1: this girl comes to me and she goes, Tanya, I

1642
01:06:48,240 --> 01:06:50,400
Speaker 1: need to talk to you. She's like, you are a

1643
01:06:50,600 --> 01:06:54,120
Speaker 1: major girl boss. You have it going on, and nowhere

1644
01:06:54,160 --> 01:06:56,800
Speaker 1: on your Instagram profile does it say what you do

1645
01:06:56,880 --> 01:06:59,360
Speaker 1: for a living. And I was like, well, yeah, I

1646
01:06:59,400 --> 01:07:01,320
Speaker 1: was like I'm not. I was like, I don't really

1647
01:07:01,360 --> 01:07:05,120
Speaker 1: want to define myself by my job, you know, like

1648
01:07:05,280 --> 01:07:08,840
Speaker 1: I'm Tanya and that's you know whatever. And she's like,

1649
01:07:09,240 --> 01:07:11,160
Speaker 1: you need to have it plastered out there. You need

1650
01:07:11,200 --> 01:07:13,080
Speaker 1: to put you you have a resume, girl, you need

1651
01:07:13,120 --> 01:07:14,520
Speaker 1: to put that out. And she kind of liked me,

1652
01:07:14,560 --> 01:07:15,919
Speaker 1: like kind of pumped me up a little bit because

1653
01:07:15,920 --> 01:07:18,920
Speaker 1: I think sometimes I like to just I don't know,

1654
01:07:19,080 --> 01:07:22,320
Speaker 1: you know, just hang hang. I don't really like to like,

1655
01:07:22,360 --> 01:07:23,760
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, I'm not like persons like

1656
01:07:23,840 --> 01:07:31,640
Speaker 1: bah face. Yeah, but she kind of made me like realize,

1657
01:07:31,680 --> 01:07:32,840
Speaker 1: I need to like kick it up a notch.

1658
01:07:32,960 --> 01:07:35,640
Speaker 4: But I shouldn't liked that you aren't like that though.

1659
01:07:35,960 --> 01:07:38,360
Speaker 1: I'm never gonna be like that, but I think she

1660
01:07:38,400 --> 01:07:40,200
Speaker 1: made me really because she literally she goes I was

1661
01:07:40,240 --> 01:07:42,480
Speaker 1: trying to find out information on like your job, and

1662
01:07:42,520 --> 01:07:45,120
Speaker 1: like just she's like, it's nowhere, you have it nowhere.

1663
01:07:45,120 --> 01:07:47,880
Speaker 4: You should have a Wikipedia page something I guess. But

1664
01:07:48,160 --> 01:07:50,400
Speaker 4: I was like, yeah, used to make telling you a

1665
01:07:50,400 --> 01:07:51,240
Speaker 4: Wikipedia page.

1666
01:07:51,360 --> 01:07:56,600
Speaker 1: I have something in my happy but I'm very excited.

1667
01:07:56,600 --> 01:07:58,960
Speaker 1: So hopefully that's up this week and everybody can listen

1668
01:07:59,000 --> 01:07:59,240
Speaker 1: to it.

1669
01:08:00,000 --> 01:08:01,440
Speaker 4: We'll look for that on your Instagram. A little bit

1670
01:08:01,480 --> 01:08:05,080
Speaker 4: more about your job. Okay, so the podcast, okay, great?

1671
01:08:05,280 --> 01:08:09,280
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Speaker 1: a healthier you. Thank you very much to Dean my

1679
01:08:35,760 --> 01:08:39,559
Speaker 1: future date next week. Yeah, thank you Peter for staying.

1680
01:08:39,560 --> 01:08:42,920
Speaker 1: I know you're very hungry and you want lunch. I

1681
01:08:42,960 --> 01:08:46,240
Speaker 1: appreciate that, and I hope everybody can come out to

1682
01:08:46,280 --> 01:08:47,280
Speaker 1: your boot camp tomorrow.

1683
01:08:47,439 --> 01:08:47,840
Speaker 4: It really helps.

1684
01:08:47,880 --> 01:08:51,439
Speaker 6: So Dodger Stadium Wednesday September fifth, Wednesday, seven fifth, four

1685
01:08:51,439 --> 01:08:52,000
Speaker 6: to thirty game.

1686
01:08:52,040 --> 01:08:54,120
Speaker 4: But the boot camps at seven seven. What's the website

1687
01:08:54,160 --> 01:08:55,479
Speaker 4: people have to go to to get those tickets?

1688
01:08:55,600 --> 01:08:57,720
Speaker 6: You can go directly to my Instagram. There's a link there.

1689
01:08:57,760 --> 01:09:00,599
Speaker 6: Otherwise the Dodgers website and search.

1690
01:09:00,360 --> 01:09:03,559
Speaker 4: Boot camp is it at Peter Crouse. Peter Crouse. W

1691
01:09:03,680 --> 01:09:11,479
Speaker 4: I nice Wisco crowsy like crows Wisconsin, but thank you

1692
01:09:11,600 --> 01:09:15,639
Speaker 4: We Wisconsin people love Wisconsin. Still annoying the people like people.

1693
01:09:15,680 --> 01:09:17,280
Speaker 4: I was like, why did you leave? Like you're so

1694
01:09:17,439 --> 01:09:20,519
Speaker 4: obsessed with Wisconsin. Go back there. I'm like, sorry, it's

1695
01:09:20,560 --> 01:09:22,240
Speaker 4: it's it is. It's what we have, it's what we do,

1696
01:09:22,280 --> 01:09:22,760
Speaker 4: it's what we have.

1697
01:09:23,280 --> 01:09:25,600
Speaker 1: Wow. Well, I appreciate you guys, thank you, thank you.

1698
01:09:25,760 --> 01:09:28,679
Speaker 5: We're going to listen to uh Dean, Jared and Vanessa's

1699
01:09:28,680 --> 01:09:31,960
Speaker 5: podcast called help I Suck at Dating uh on iHeartRadio.

1700
01:09:32,760 --> 01:09:36,599
Speaker 4: Get hypnotized anyway, listen to podcasts. Last week's Ghosting episode

1701
01:09:36,600 --> 01:09:37,400
Speaker 4: it's very popular.

1702
01:09:37,520 --> 01:09:39,760
Speaker 1: It was Yes, I'll go back and listen to one

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01:09:40,400 --> 01:09:41,080
Speaker 1: and this one.

1704
01:09:41,640 --> 01:09:45,040
Speaker 5: Okay, you did, and next week we can have Tanya

1705
01:09:45,040 --> 01:09:47,479
Speaker 5: on and tell the world about what.

1706
01:09:47,400 --> 01:09:48,360
Speaker 4: It's like to go on a date with me.

1707
01:09:48,479 --> 01:09:50,040
Speaker 6: Well, is it next week because you're in New York

1708
01:09:50,120 --> 01:09:51,400
Speaker 6: till we right, maybe the following week.

1709
01:09:51,439 --> 01:09:53,920
Speaker 1: Maybe the following week. I'm a New New York till Sunday.

1710
01:09:54,040 --> 01:09:56,760
Speaker 4: Oh perfect, some Monday night we'll go out. Oh, I'm

1711
01:09:56,760 --> 01:09:58,000
Speaker 4: going to sweep you off your feet?

1712
01:09:58,400 --> 01:09:58,680
Speaker 3: Like it?

1713
01:09:58,800 --> 01:09:59,519
Speaker 4: I like it.

1714
01:10:00,320 --> 01:10:01,200
Speaker 1: Where do let's come from?

1715
01:10:02,720 --> 01:10:04,559
Speaker 4: Tie, it's going to flowers at your door.

1716
01:10:04,560 --> 01:10:08,760
Speaker 1: It's you, guys, there's not too dean and you know this.

1717
01:10:09,320 --> 01:10:10,680
Speaker 1: We are like opposites.

1718
01:10:10,920 --> 01:10:13,720
Speaker 4: Opposite the track, Paul Abdu is coming in tomorrow. What

1719
01:10:14,160 --> 01:10:19,400
Speaker 4: who's that for? The opposite a track? That's her song Hello?

1720
01:10:19,600 --> 01:10:23,920
Speaker 4: You say that two steps forward, I take two steps back.

1721
01:10:24,360 --> 01:10:28,040
Speaker 4: We fit together because opposite a tract. I'm so excited. Imps.

1722
01:10:28,280 --> 01:10:30,200
Speaker 1: I mean, I know who Paul? But that made no sense?

1723
01:10:30,280 --> 01:10:32,880
Speaker 4: Okay, but that's her song, opposite the track. Paul was

1724
01:10:32,920 --> 01:10:35,680
Speaker 4: a singer before she was on that. I'm just going

1725
01:10:35,760 --> 01:10:37,960
Speaker 4: to put that out there. Do you see the point? Though?

1726
01:10:37,960 --> 01:10:39,960
Speaker 4: Opposite the track is the point. I see the point.

1727
01:10:40,000 --> 01:10:41,519
Speaker 4: I think Tanya struggling to see that if you keep

1728
01:10:41,640 --> 01:10:44,000
Speaker 4: looking for exactly like you and exactly what you want.

1729
01:10:44,040 --> 01:10:45,320
Speaker 4: You're never going to find it right.

1730
01:10:45,400 --> 01:10:47,280
Speaker 5: You can't get what you never had without doing what

1731
01:10:47,400 --> 01:10:49,519
Speaker 5: you never did, and you're not going to get it

1732
01:10:49,560 --> 01:10:51,200
Speaker 5: without going on a date with me next week.

1733
01:10:51,240 --> 01:10:56,040
Speaker 1: Okay, do you want to call time of death?

1734
01:10:56,880 --> 01:11:00,599
Speaker 4: Yes? Uh? Time of Death thirteen thirty six.

1735
01:11:01,400 --> 01:11:07,760
Speaker 1: Nice. He did it the right way, all.

1736
01:11:07,720 --> 01:11:12,080
Speaker 5: Right Monday, just to pick you up at where the

1737
01:11:12,240 --> 01:11:13,479
Speaker 5: whorld did that come from?

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01:11:14,040 --> 01:11:15,559
Speaker 4: I think we should do it. I think it'll be fun.