WEBVTT - Awkward Thursday: 30 Day Girlfriend 0:00:00.080 --> 0:00:02.880 Y'all just keep demanding it so we listen. All right, 0:00:02.920 --> 0:00:03.840 we give in easily. 0:00:03.920 --> 0:00:07.120 We got a special Awkward Thursday phone call for you today. 0:00:07.120 --> 0:00:10.920 It's brand Yes, welcome, so so much, welcome, so much, welcome, 0:00:10.960 --> 0:00:13.640 so much, I don't know you're here. 0:00:13.920 --> 0:00:17.119 Yes, that's a second date podcast. Before we get to 0:00:17.160 --> 0:00:19.239 this new episode, what do we have in comments? 0:00:19.280 --> 0:00:19.360 Like? 0:00:19.480 --> 0:00:22.720 Yeah, Eric's Vinyl said, Ever since I discovered y'all over 0:00:22.760 --> 0:00:25.439 a year ago, I can't get anything done in terms 0:00:25.480 --> 0:00:28.800 of testing records for my record store. I'm constantly torn 0:00:28.840 --> 0:00:31.400 between having to listen to these albums and listening to 0:00:31.440 --> 0:00:32.800 you guys so cool. 0:00:33.479 --> 0:00:40.080 We're cooler than a record. I like that. I was 0:00:40.120 --> 0:00:41.160 excited about it. 0:00:41.360 --> 0:00:43.040 We should make a Brook and Jeffrey record that. 0:00:43.680 --> 0:00:46.720 Brook and Jeffrey on vinyl. Oh yeah, yeah, I'm not 0:00:46.840 --> 0:00:47.599 opposed to it. 0:00:47.720 --> 0:00:49.240 I mean it's trendy again. 0:00:49.320 --> 0:00:53.960 Yeah, maybe cassette tapes. We'll go to them to tapes. 0:00:54.440 --> 0:00:57.560 No, how about just go to our YouTube subscribe to 0:00:57.560 --> 0:00:59.960 at Brook and Jeffrey and your brand new Awkward Thursday 0:01:00.120 --> 0:01:03.040 episode starting right now. 0:01:03.080 --> 0:01:05.840 Just think of all the precious time and energy that 0:01:05.920 --> 0:01:10.120 you waste at the start of dating someone new. Oh yeah, 0:01:10.440 --> 0:01:14.640 the hours of over analyzing every text, the deep dives 0:01:14.640 --> 0:01:17.640 into their social media wondering do they like me? 0:01:18.000 --> 0:01:18.800 Do I like them? 0:01:19.040 --> 0:01:20.959 Is it weird to kiss them now? Or should I 0:01:20.959 --> 0:01:25.800 wait till after her parents leave? There's so much confusion 0:01:25.840 --> 0:01:28.200 and headache. But what if there was a way to 0:01:28.200 --> 0:01:32.039 skip all the awkward parts of early dating. Because one 0:01:32.080 --> 0:01:35.200 of our listeners says he found a revolutionary new way 0:01:35.240 --> 0:01:38.800 to handle a brand new love interest that jumps right 0:01:38.880 --> 0:01:42.679 to the good stuff, and he's about to pitch his 0:01:42.800 --> 0:01:46.720 strategy while we try to help make it happen. Okay, 0:01:46.880 --> 0:01:49.640 it's coming up in a brand new awkward Thursday phone 0:01:49.680 --> 0:01:50.880 call right after. 0:01:50.680 --> 0:01:56.520 This It's awkward, It's Thursday. It's awkward Thursday phone call. 0:01:57.400 --> 0:01:59.920 I know everybody seems to complain about the state of 0:02:00.080 --> 0:02:06.160 modern dating, that it's two competitive standards are unrealistic. Alexis's 0:02:06.200 --> 0:02:09.960 mom is getting all the matches, leaving nothing for anyone else, 0:02:10.080 --> 0:02:15.880 including her, so it's definitely bleak, and what's a person 0:02:15.919 --> 0:02:16.240 to do. 0:02:16.800 --> 0:02:17.040 Well. 0:02:17.240 --> 0:02:19.800 We have a listener named Scott who's identified a person 0:02:19.840 --> 0:02:23.320 of interest for himself. Okay, but as a different idea 0:02:23.360 --> 0:02:26.240 on how the whole dating thing should work. 0:02:26.680 --> 0:02:28.680 In his mind didn't go into a. 0:02:28.680 --> 0:02:30.520 Lot of detail in his email about it, but I'm 0:02:30.520 --> 0:02:33.480 interested to talk to him and hopefully help him with it. 0:02:33.720 --> 0:02:35.200 So Scott, welcome to the show man. 0:02:35.800 --> 0:02:36.920 Hey, how you guys doing. 0:02:37.160 --> 0:02:39.200 I'm so curious this person of interest. 0:02:39.280 --> 0:02:41.959 Is it someone you know in life or is it 0:02:42.200 --> 0:02:43.440 someone you found online? 0:02:43.880 --> 0:02:46.680 Irl in real life? And yes, she's great. 0:02:47.080 --> 0:02:50.960 Okay, all right, we'll get to the new way that 0:02:51.040 --> 0:02:53.560 you think dating should work in just a second, But 0:02:53.680 --> 0:02:54.640 let's start with the girl. 0:02:54.919 --> 0:02:56.280 Who is she tell us about her? 0:02:57.280 --> 0:03:00.560 Yeah, her name is Nicole, She's awesome. Met in a 0:03:00.760 --> 0:03:04.240 like a running club. Yeah, I go to this running 0:03:04.240 --> 0:03:06.600 club on Saturday mornings, and so I brought my dog 0:03:06.720 --> 0:03:09.160 and it was the first time that I ever noticed Nicole. 0:03:09.520 --> 0:03:12.520 But she came up to the dog. If Sally is her. 0:03:12.440 --> 0:03:13.800 Name, Sally's the dogs. 0:03:15.040 --> 0:03:18.080 The dog's name is Sally. Nicole is the actual human 0:03:18.120 --> 0:03:21.399 being and she doesn't have a dog, and so we 0:03:21.600 --> 0:03:22.680 kind of hit it off. 0:03:23.000 --> 0:03:25.320 It's weird that we're doing this in an awkward Thursday 0:03:25.320 --> 0:03:27.040 and not just doing a second date update. 0:03:27.160 --> 0:03:29.639 Yeah, yeah, well, I mean I haven't had a date 0:03:29.680 --> 0:03:30.160 with her yet. 0:03:31.480 --> 0:03:32.720 That hasn't stopped other people. 0:03:33.120 --> 0:03:35.840 Yes, well, what's holding you back from going out on 0:03:35.880 --> 0:03:36.160 the date? 0:03:36.320 --> 0:03:40.040 Yeah, well, I mean, first off, we haven't had any 0:03:40.080 --> 0:03:42.720 time to schedule anything yet. We're both really busy, okay, 0:03:43.080 --> 0:03:45.960 and so we talked over the phone like three to 0:03:46.000 --> 0:03:46.600 four times. 0:03:46.600 --> 0:03:47.920 Though, oh my. 0:03:47.880 --> 0:03:50.320 God, okay, how long do you talk for that's important? 0:03:51.040 --> 0:03:51.880 Like an hour or so? 0:03:52.040 --> 0:03:52.880 Wow? 0:03:54.000 --> 0:03:55.880 Panic right now, it couldn't be me. 0:03:56.160 --> 0:03:59.520 Yeah, it's really really great, Like we don't want to 0:03:59.560 --> 0:04:00.320 hang up and. 0:04:00.360 --> 0:04:01.560 Oh that's cute. 0:04:01.680 --> 0:04:02.360 That's a good sign. 0:04:02.560 --> 0:04:04.520 I mean, I feel like this is a good start 0:04:04.640 --> 0:04:07.120 to a relationship, and it would be natural for you 0:04:07.200 --> 0:04:08.320 to just ask her. 0:04:08.200 --> 0:04:09.120 Out at this point. 0:04:09.240 --> 0:04:11.640 I mean I have asked her out and she said yes, 0:04:11.680 --> 0:04:13.080 we just haven't had the time yet. 0:04:13.240 --> 0:04:13.600 Okay. 0:04:13.800 --> 0:04:15.200 Well, like I kind of want to do it a 0:04:15.240 --> 0:04:17.640 little differently though, I want to frame it in a way, 0:04:18.440 --> 0:04:20.480 and I don't know how to approach that. 0:04:20.800 --> 0:04:24.200 You want to do the date itself differently kind. 0:04:23.920 --> 0:04:27.200 Of, okay, Like we've talked on the phone three or 0:04:27.240 --> 0:04:29.480 four times. I saw in person and we. 0:04:29.600 --> 0:04:30.159 Like each other. 0:04:30.240 --> 0:04:32.440 So when I when I see her in person, I 0:04:32.520 --> 0:04:33.680 kind of want to picture something. 0:04:33.960 --> 0:04:36.520 Okay, on your date, And this is what ties into 0:04:36.720 --> 0:04:38.479 what you said in your email that you have a 0:04:38.480 --> 0:04:42.680 different idea for how the dating process should work exactly. 0:04:43.040 --> 0:04:45.359 I have a friend who's tried something before and he 0:04:45.400 --> 0:04:48.560 said it works great. He says, it's called a trial 0:04:48.640 --> 0:04:50.039 relationship mode. 0:04:50.400 --> 0:04:51.680 Trial relationship. 0:04:53.320 --> 0:04:55.240 Yeah, So you like, you go on a date with 0:04:55.279 --> 0:04:57.680 somebody and you don't hear from them. That sucks, right, 0:04:58.240 --> 0:05:00.840 Or you go on a date with someone and you 0:05:00.839 --> 0:05:03.039 don't know if they're hooking up with someone else, that 0:05:03.240 --> 0:05:03.800 sucks too. 0:05:03.960 --> 0:05:05.800 Okay, that's how normal dating works. 0:05:06.240 --> 0:05:09.000 Right, right, But in a trial relationship mode, if you 0:05:09.040 --> 0:05:11.680 think that you have a good thing going, you can 0:05:11.760 --> 0:05:14.520 try it out for thirty days. I can try out 0:05:14.560 --> 0:05:16.440 the relationship for thirty days. 0:05:16.160 --> 0:05:19.560 Like just focusing on each other, going on other dates kind. 0:05:19.400 --> 0:05:21.960 Of thing, right, So, like I don't have to go 0:05:22.000 --> 0:05:24.440 on multiple dates with other people. No, I can just 0:05:24.520 --> 0:05:25.520 focus on Nicole. 0:05:26.960 --> 0:05:29.800 So you're trying to get her to subscribe for a 0:05:29.839 --> 0:05:32.080 thirty day period to just dating you. 0:05:32.120 --> 0:05:34.760 Alone exclusive membership, Yes, yes. 0:05:34.720 --> 0:05:38.919 And if she can re up the subscription. 0:05:38.960 --> 0:05:42.320 If she forgets about the subscription, and then there's. 0:05:42.160 --> 0:05:44.320 Her auto charging is just one of those things where 0:05:44.320 --> 0:05:45.560 you'll save money if you just commit to. 0:05:45.520 --> 0:05:46.000 The whole year. 0:05:46.120 --> 0:05:50.039 Yeah. Probably so that's what you're thinking. 0:05:50.320 --> 0:05:52.200 I mean, yeah, when you put it that way, it's 0:05:52.279 --> 0:05:55.440 kind of weird. I don't want to waste my time 0:05:55.560 --> 0:05:57.360 if I like her. I like her and I want 0:05:57.400 --> 0:05:59.000 to see if it works. We've had so many, so 0:05:59.440 --> 0:06:02.599 many hours the conversation here that it just feels like 0:06:02.640 --> 0:06:04.520 the natural step. But I don't know how to frame 0:06:04.560 --> 0:06:05.080 it properly. 0:06:05.120 --> 0:06:08.200 I mean, it's definitely unique. I haven't heard that before. 0:06:08.240 --> 0:06:10.719 But I'm curious to ask everyone in the room if 0:06:10.760 --> 0:06:13.800 this idea was pitched to you by someone you were 0:06:13.839 --> 0:06:16.200 interested in, you want to do a thirty day trial, 0:06:16.320 --> 0:06:17.760 SESSH would you be open to it? 0:06:17.839 --> 0:06:18.640 If I really liked him? 0:06:18.839 --> 0:06:20.760 That's a month, so you barely google them three days 0:06:20.760 --> 0:06:22.200 in a month anyways, Probably. 0:06:21.880 --> 0:06:24.599 With the H if you remember you've only met him once, 0:06:24.800 --> 0:06:26.080 you talk to him on the phone a couple of 0:06:26.080 --> 0:06:27.039 times and that's gone okay. 0:06:27.080 --> 0:06:28.720 Well, does she have to agree to hang out him 0:06:28.760 --> 0:06:31.320 like every day this month or it's just like they 0:06:31.360 --> 0:06:32.400 don't hang out four times. 0:06:32.600 --> 0:06:35.359 Look, there's no kind of set rules. If it meshes 0:06:35.400 --> 0:06:36.680 well in mesh as well, it. 0:06:37.240 --> 0:06:38.920 Does I feel like you should tie out for thirty 0:06:38.960 --> 0:06:40.200 days or you don't mess anything up. 0:06:40.960 --> 0:06:42.760 But I do feel like there should be a consequence 0:06:42.800 --> 0:06:44.880 if she breaks her contract to the thirty days, there 0:06:44.880 --> 0:06:45.600 should be a penalty. 0:06:45.800 --> 0:06:48.640 Okay, that makes it weird. That makes it weird. 0:06:49.000 --> 0:06:51.960 Well, then he just wants to be a thirty day boyfriend, right, Yeah, 0:06:52.200 --> 0:06:53.360 that's what we're working. 0:06:53.120 --> 0:06:53.680 With right here. 0:06:53.760 --> 0:06:56.000 Okay, And how do you pitch that to Nicole so 0:06:56.080 --> 0:06:57.359 that she's open to the idea. 0:06:57.920 --> 0:06:58.839 That's what we're doing today. 0:06:58.960 --> 0:07:00.200 I mean, here's the thing. 0:07:00.279 --> 0:07:04.200 You also don't want to make it sound so clinical, yeah, because. 0:07:04.200 --> 0:07:06.240 It doesn't sound like the flirty hard to get staged. 0:07:06.480 --> 0:07:08.920 Yeah, but I think there's a difference between what you're 0:07:08.960 --> 0:07:12.440 talking about and simply commitment uncertainty. 0:07:12.840 --> 0:07:13.160 Okay. 0:07:13.280 --> 0:07:15.440 I mean I don't disagree with you. 0:07:15.520 --> 0:07:17.200 I'm just saying that I feel like you want to 0:07:17.240 --> 0:07:19.160 make sure that she still knows she's going to get 0:07:19.200 --> 0:07:20.760 the fun part, right. 0:07:21.200 --> 0:07:24.160 Yeah, agreed, agreed, Okay, put that in the contract when 0:07:24.200 --> 0:07:25.120 she signs. 0:07:24.760 --> 0:07:27.400 It, must have fun once a week. 0:07:28.360 --> 0:07:29.960 We'll lay up the guidelines for her. 0:07:30.080 --> 0:07:33.440 I've never heard of this before, Like, are you worried? 0:07:33.480 --> 0:07:34.400 Are you with me here? 0:07:34.440 --> 0:07:36.680 If she's like, oh no, I'm more committed to another 0:07:36.760 --> 0:07:37.680 guy or something. 0:07:37.440 --> 0:07:40.040 Already not at all, because then I'll get to know 0:07:40.080 --> 0:07:40.960 all this stuff early. 0:07:41.160 --> 0:07:43.000 Okay, mature, I don't know what that's like. 0:07:45.240 --> 0:07:46.000 Let's try it. 0:07:46.080 --> 0:07:48.320 We'll have some advice for you when we come back 0:07:48.360 --> 0:07:50.400 and get you your thirty day girlfriend. 0:07:50.640 --> 0:07:55.440 Wow, it's really weird, sounds like a TLC show, but. 0:07:55.480 --> 0:07:58.680 It's perfect for your awkward Thursday phone call right after this. 0:07:58.720 --> 0:08:05.120 Hold on, it's awkward. It's Thursday. It's awkward Thursday phone call. 0:08:05.880 --> 0:08:09.320 We've been talking to Scott about his new idea for dating. 0:08:10.240 --> 0:08:13.080 It's very interesting, something we've never really heard of before, 0:08:13.320 --> 0:08:18.360 called trial relationship mode. Instead of taking it just one 0:08:18.440 --> 0:08:21.239 date at a time while also going out with multiple 0:08:21.280 --> 0:08:24.600 other people, engaging your interests with them, just cut out 0:08:24.640 --> 0:08:27.680 all the clutter and all the confusion and lock them 0:08:27.680 --> 0:08:31.080 into a thirty day trial relationship where you agree to 0:08:31.120 --> 0:08:34.440 focus solely on each other for one full month, and 0:08:34.480 --> 0:08:36.640 then if that goes well, just re up. Keep the 0:08:36.679 --> 0:08:40.559 subscription going though, because that's part of the trial is Yeah. 0:08:40.760 --> 0:08:41.520 Okay, sign up? 0:08:41.960 --> 0:08:42.600 Yeah, thank you. 0:08:42.720 --> 0:08:45.000 So Scott wants to pitch this idea to a woman 0:08:45.120 --> 0:08:47.959 he met recently named Nicole. They haven't even been out 0:08:48.000 --> 0:08:50.560 on a first date. Yet they've just talked over the 0:08:50.559 --> 0:08:53.079 phone and had a pretty good connection. But it is 0:08:53.160 --> 0:08:55.240 kind of a big leap to go from zero dates 0:08:55.280 --> 0:08:58.160 to where instant boyfriend girlfriend for a month? So how 0:08:58.200 --> 0:08:59.760 do we get Nicole to be open to that? 0:09:00.800 --> 0:09:02.960 This should be easy? Well, what's your advice? 0:09:03.240 --> 0:09:05.240 I actually kind of like this idea because I think 0:09:05.280 --> 0:09:07.480 that there's just too many options out there for people 0:09:07.559 --> 0:09:09.400 right now, and it just lets you focus. It's a 0:09:09.440 --> 0:09:12.160 good idea, but it can come across, like we talked 0:09:12.160 --> 0:09:15.480 about a little clinical, So I think that my advice 0:09:15.600 --> 0:09:19.640 is just all about your delivery. You need to keep 0:09:19.679 --> 0:09:22.520 the romance alive and keep it sexy, right, you got 0:09:22.520 --> 0:09:25.319 a sexy voice, sexy, you got a sexy voice over there? 0:09:25.480 --> 0:09:28.000 Try will you be my girlfriend in a sexy voice? 0:09:28.040 --> 0:09:28.439 Go for it? 0:09:30.800 --> 0:09:31.400 Come on? 0:09:32.880 --> 0:09:34.520 I mean, like, do we want something. 0:09:34.280 --> 0:09:35.640 Like this that's not bad? 0:09:36.080 --> 0:09:39.640 We're like a little low, a little gravelly better. 0:09:40.000 --> 0:09:42.120 Yeah, I think that works. 0:09:41.520 --> 0:09:46.480 Alexis turned on right extremely, So whatever you're doing, it's 0:09:46.480 --> 0:09:47.280 clearly working. 0:09:47.480 --> 0:09:49.880 I don't know they don't do that. 0:09:50.720 --> 0:09:53.960 Yeah, yeah, keep it in the lower volumes. 0:09:53.960 --> 0:09:55.280 But Jose, what's your advice? 0:09:55.440 --> 0:09:58.320 Well, this is like such a unique idea, So I 0:09:58.360 --> 0:10:01.360 think you need to highlight the positive of it, skipping 0:10:01.440 --> 0:10:03.880 the awkward stuff that would usually come up when you 0:10:03.920 --> 0:10:04.960 start dating someone. 0:10:05.880 --> 0:10:06.080 Yeah. 0:10:06.120 --> 0:10:08.480 Now we're jumping straight into like being like cozy and 0:10:08.520 --> 0:10:11.439 comfortable with each other, then awkward and weird around each other. 0:10:11.640 --> 0:10:11.880 Yeah. 0:10:11.920 --> 0:10:13.760 And I'm sure if you say it, it becomes reality. 0:10:13.960 --> 0:10:16.880 Yeah, it's called manifesting. 0:10:17.679 --> 0:10:19.600 Is manifesting? Jeff? 0:10:19.640 --> 0:10:20.560 What do you think about that? 0:10:20.600 --> 0:10:23.080 Stop you? Yeah? High like the positives. 0:10:23.160 --> 0:10:24.040 That makes sense to me. 0:10:24.400 --> 0:10:26.000 In a sexy voice? 0:10:25.920 --> 0:10:28.640 Yes right, I mean in a in a sexy voice. 0:10:28.760 --> 0:10:29.320 There you go. 0:10:29.440 --> 0:10:31.080 We don't got to go on any day's girl. 0:10:31.120 --> 0:10:33.480 All right, he's locked into his voice right now. I 0:10:33.480 --> 0:10:34.760 don't want to get him off his game. 0:10:34.800 --> 0:10:37.120 So let's die on the call and we will step 0:10:37.120 --> 0:10:39.680 away and let you make your awkward Thursday phone call 0:10:40.280 --> 0:10:43.040 and then leave here in a relationship for the next 0:10:43.080 --> 0:10:44.040 thirty days. 0:10:44.160 --> 0:10:46.240 All wait, if we're on the phone, we don't need. 0:10:46.160 --> 0:10:47.120 Your sexy voice. 0:10:47.280 --> 0:10:47.439 Now. 0:10:47.480 --> 0:10:49.959 I'm kind of having fun with it and I want 0:10:50.000 --> 0:10:52.880 to play along. But okay, at the energy, I'm step away, Scott. 0:10:53.200 --> 0:10:55.120 Good luck you got this man? Here we go. 0:11:02.240 --> 0:11:06.080 Hello, Hey, Nicole, how you doing. 0:11:08.160 --> 0:11:08.640 Scott? 0:11:09.720 --> 0:11:13.400 Yeah? Hi, Sorry, I'm calling from work, so it's a 0:11:13.400 --> 0:11:14.040 different number. 0:11:15.120 --> 0:11:18.240 Okay, yeah, how you how you do it? 0:11:19.720 --> 0:11:21.360 I'm good. How's your take going? 0:11:22.240 --> 0:11:22.800 Pretty good? 0:11:24.480 --> 0:11:27.920 You know, I did want to like run something by you. 0:11:30.080 --> 0:11:32.800 Okay, what is it? 0:11:33.360 --> 0:11:34.720 Okay? Okay, here it is? 0:11:34.800 --> 0:11:34.959 Right? 0:11:35.040 --> 0:11:38.800 So, like, don't you like hate it when like people 0:11:38.840 --> 0:11:41.120 start to date and it's super awkward in the beginning. 0:11:41.320 --> 0:11:42.880 It doesn't isn't terrible? 0:11:44.200 --> 0:11:46.520 I mean, yeah, it's definitely not the fun part. 0:11:47.440 --> 0:11:48.400 Yeah, totally. 0:11:48.760 --> 0:11:51.880 And so like I don't want it to suck. 0:11:52.000 --> 0:11:53.400 I don't I want it to be good. 0:11:53.400 --> 0:11:56.760 We've already had some great conversations, like we I think 0:11:56.760 --> 0:11:58.680 we click pretty well. 0:12:01.000 --> 0:12:03.840 I mean, you're not the answer that that's okay anyway. 0:12:03.679 --> 0:12:07.280 So I was, I was, I was talking to a 0:12:07.320 --> 0:12:09.720 buddy and he suggested. 0:12:09.200 --> 0:12:11.040 Something and I wanted to run it by you. 0:12:12.200 --> 0:12:13.280 Okay. 0:12:13.440 --> 0:12:17.400 So it's called a trial relationship mode, So it's basically 0:12:18.559 --> 0:12:19.840 instant exclusivity. 0:12:20.520 --> 0:12:22.760 Hold on, hold on, Like I haven't even been on 0:12:22.800 --> 0:12:23.959 a date with you yet. 0:12:24.400 --> 0:12:27.800 I know, but like we've talked for like hours on 0:12:27.880 --> 0:12:30.520 the phone and we've. 0:12:30.360 --> 0:12:31.000 Like hung out. 0:12:31.559 --> 0:12:33.080 I don't know, I thought it might be good to 0:12:33.120 --> 0:12:33.800 try this out. 0:12:34.640 --> 0:12:38.000 So you're asking me to skip all the awkward tough 0:12:38.040 --> 0:12:39.760 and just jump into a relationship with you. 0:12:41.040 --> 0:12:43.200 I don't know, doesn't that doesn't that sound awesome to you? 0:12:44.840 --> 0:12:47.960 I mean it's definitely different. I've never heard of it before. 0:12:48.920 --> 0:12:51.800 But yeah, the awkward stuff, I mean, it's it always sucks, 0:12:51.840 --> 0:12:54.480 So it wouldn't be bad to skip over that. 0:12:55.320 --> 0:12:59.959 Oh okay, Oh wow, you sound like you're interest. 0:13:01.760 --> 0:13:06.359 I mean, like, oh, that sounds really good. But hypothetically, 0:13:06.840 --> 0:13:11.360 what if I was in multiple situationships? Would I have 0:13:11.400 --> 0:13:11.880 to stop the. 0:13:15.720 --> 0:13:17.280 Multiple situationship? 0:13:17.520 --> 0:13:20.360 Yeah, well we'll get to that, Scott. We just first 0:13:20.400 --> 0:13:21.920 need to tell Nicole high. 0:13:23.320 --> 0:13:23.640 Morning. 0:13:23.760 --> 0:13:25.080 You're on the radio right now. 0:13:26.679 --> 0:13:30.840 Hi, Okay, situationships, we're all here. 0:13:31.040 --> 0:13:32.640 I mean, I don't know when you think of us 0:13:32.640 --> 0:13:36.400 as like the big romantic gesture part you wanted a. 0:13:36.400 --> 0:13:38.200 Surprise, don't like that? 0:13:38.240 --> 0:13:40.920 So also don't think, yeah, we're. 0:13:40.840 --> 0:13:44.040 Skipping the awkwardness of dating with this segment called the 0:13:44.080 --> 0:13:45.360 Awkward Thursday Phone. 0:13:45.679 --> 0:13:48.000 This is even more awkward than I expected. 0:13:48.080 --> 0:13:50.120 Well, yes, we're getting all the awkwardness out of the 0:13:50.160 --> 0:13:52.480 way so that we could just jump right to the 0:13:52.520 --> 0:13:55.439 good part that thirty day trial relationship. 0:13:56.040 --> 0:13:58.640 I mean, okay, so like back to your situationship stuff 0:13:58.720 --> 0:14:01.839 like what do you what do you mean? Like? How many? 0:14:02.040 --> 0:14:03.360 I'm curious, what do you do? 0:14:03.400 --> 0:14:05.000 You need to know that? 0:14:04.920 --> 0:14:09.160 That's how many situationships does she have to break off 0:14:09.240 --> 0:14:10.160 to make this happen. 0:14:10.840 --> 0:14:13.200 I'm not gonna answer that, but it's probably more than 0:14:13.200 --> 0:14:14.160 you're thinking in your head. 0:14:14.440 --> 0:14:19.120 Okay, no, wonder you haven't had time to damn him? 0:14:20.480 --> 0:14:24.280 Oh yes, so this isn't hypothetical, this is like actual truth. 0:14:24.760 --> 0:14:27.040 You have a couple of situationships, at least a couple. 0:14:27.520 --> 0:14:29.160 Why didn't you were gonna call me and ask to 0:14:29.160 --> 0:14:30.840 be exclusive before first date? 0:14:31.560 --> 0:14:32.720 Yeah? 0:14:32.000 --> 0:14:34.720 Yeah, that's totally fair. That's totally fair. 0:14:35.000 --> 0:14:37.960 Yeah, but that just shows how strong he feels. The 0:14:37.960 --> 0:14:40.880 connection is right off the bat between you two, Nicole, 0:14:41.280 --> 0:14:44.360 And I'm sure if you reflect on all those other situationships, 0:14:44.520 --> 0:14:46.960 none of them have as sexy of a voice as 0:14:47.000 --> 0:14:47.600 Scott did. 0:14:48.320 --> 0:14:50.440 Oh my god, he does. 0:14:50.440 --> 0:14:54.760 That's a very sexy voice, yeah, said yea. 0:14:57.440 --> 0:14:58.920 The first two words were pretty good though. 0:14:59.120 --> 0:15:02.480 So if you were going away all these situationships out, 0:15:02.520 --> 0:15:04.720 would Scott be top of the list. 0:15:05.240 --> 0:15:07.080 I don't know. I've only met him in a dog one. 0:15:07.560 --> 0:15:10.360 Yeah, she knows these other guys way more than she 0:15:10.400 --> 0:15:10.960 knows him. 0:15:11.120 --> 0:15:13.320 No, I know, but have you had, like, have you 0:15:13.320 --> 0:15:15.680 had hours of conversation over the phone with these other 0:15:15.720 --> 0:15:19.800 people's person I don't know if the answer to this. 0:15:20.400 --> 0:15:22.320 I mean, I left one guy at my house this morning. 0:15:22.360 --> 0:15:23.000 He's still there. 0:15:24.400 --> 0:15:25.760 I mean she really trusts him. 0:15:25.840 --> 0:15:31.760 Oh yeah, yep, that's that's great. So maybe the trial 0:15:31.840 --> 0:15:34.720 relationship thing isn't for you for now. Maybe you got 0:15:34.720 --> 0:15:37.840 to like tighten some screws up and nip some things 0:15:37.840 --> 0:15:38.520 in the bud. 0:15:38.360 --> 0:15:40.720 First trial, free trial trial. 0:15:42.080 --> 0:15:44.400 Look, you know what, I'd even say, let's go on 0:15:44.440 --> 0:15:47.240 the first date, see how it works, and then if 0:15:47.240 --> 0:15:48.040 you're interested. 0:15:48.680 --> 0:15:51.880 No, now he's like coming back on his like original 0:15:51.960 --> 0:15:52.520 thirty day. 0:15:52.960 --> 0:15:54.640 How about we just date like normal. 0:15:54.720 --> 0:15:56.120 I just want to I just want to meet you 0:15:56.200 --> 0:15:57.680 in person and have like a proper date. 0:15:57.800 --> 0:15:59.480 Yeah, I have a new idea. Let's just have one 0:15:59.480 --> 0:15:59.800 meet up. 0:16:02.520 --> 0:16:04.640 Stick to your idea. Okay. 0:16:05.040 --> 0:16:08.560 Just because she has some situationships, I mean, here's the thing, Nicole, 0:16:08.640 --> 0:16:11.280 Obviously that's not working great for you because you haven't 0:16:11.320 --> 0:16:15.400 committed to one of them, so they're not all that wonderful, right, 0:16:15.680 --> 0:16:18.400 And this gives you thirty days to like, I don't know, 0:16:18.800 --> 0:16:19.600 do a cleanse. 0:16:19.920 --> 0:16:20.840 Think of it that way. 0:16:21.520 --> 0:16:24.560 You know, it's like if you try to what you're 0:16:24.600 --> 0:16:26.760 allergic to and you have to remove all the foods 0:16:26.800 --> 0:16:28.360 and tell you Adam back. 0:16:28.200 --> 0:16:32.640 In wait to make it sound sexy. 0:16:32.680 --> 0:16:36.400 Now, Just so funny that all mill are so interested 0:16:36.400 --> 0:16:39.479 in my dating life. Like, I did not expect this today. 0:16:39.680 --> 0:16:42.080 We know it's not something that's traditional that we've ever 0:16:42.120 --> 0:16:45.600 heard of before. It's brand new to us to a 0:16:45.680 --> 0:16:48.280 trial relationship thirty day period, but we thought it was 0:16:48.360 --> 0:16:50.080 interesting enough to bring it to your attention. 0:16:50.440 --> 0:16:51.880 We want you to do it so in thirty days 0:16:51.920 --> 0:16:52.840 we can get an update. 0:16:52.920 --> 0:16:53.960 Yeah, think about us. 0:16:55.240 --> 0:16:56.760 Yeah, that means I have to ditch all these other 0:16:56.800 --> 0:16:58.080 guys I put time into that. 0:16:58.400 --> 0:17:00.600 Well, you're honest, she's not cheating her trial. 0:17:01.240 --> 0:17:03.320