WEBVTT - Awkward Tuesday: Bridesmaid Contract

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, we're glad you got the podcast. We got a

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<v Speaker 1>brand new episode today. It's Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning,

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<v Speaker 1>and today is Awkward Tuesday. Yea on your Second Date

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<v Speaker 1>Update podcast. And I just can't wait to see the

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<v Speaker 1>comment section fill up with Bridezilla stories.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, it's gonna be so many. This woman was unhinged.

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<v Speaker 2>You're in for a treat. It's starting right now.

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<v Speaker 3>It's awkward.

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<v Speaker 2>It's Tuesday.

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<v Speaker 3>It's awkward Tuesday phone call.

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<v Speaker 4>You know.

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<v Speaker 3>I heard someone say being a bridesmaid is basically like

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<v Speaker 3>being in a very expensive cult. What matching outfits one

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<v Speaker 3>really strict leader, lots of emotional chanting, and you have

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<v Speaker 3>to financially ruin yourself to prove your loyalty.

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<v Speaker 2>That's a good play.

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<v Speaker 3>I've personally never been one, but Alexis is that description relatively.

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<v Speaker 2>In many cults? Yeah? Yeah, how much red kool aid?

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<v Speaker 2>Did you drink too much?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>It was mixed with vodka.

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<v Speaker 5>That's right.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, Now I'm probably missing a lot of the tears

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<v Speaker 3>and the choreographed dances that come with it too, But

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<v Speaker 3>you do get the general idea, because yes, it is

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<v Speaker 3>an honor, but it can also be a challenge.

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<v Speaker 2>It really depends on where the bride is.

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<v Speaker 3>That's true.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean honestly, because you can all of a sudden,

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<v Speaker 1>now you're signed up all bachelotte party in another state

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<v Speaker 1>or country.

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<v Speaker 5>You don't know.

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<v Speaker 3>It's different for every single person, and that's why our

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<v Speaker 3>listener Shannon says she needs our help today with a

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<v Speaker 3>bridesmaid situation. Shannon, Welcome to the show.

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<v Speaker 2>Hi guys, are you Are you the bridesmaid? Shannon?

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<v Speaker 6>I am one of the bridesmaids? Yeah, okay, okay, yeah,

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<v Speaker 6>you know, I risked. I thought it was an honor,

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<v Speaker 6>but now it's getting a little weird and a little stressful.

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<v Speaker 2>Can we ask before we get into it? How you

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<v Speaker 2>know the bride?

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<v Speaker 6>So we've been friends for like ever, like since kindergarten. Oh.

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<v Speaker 1>That's always one of those where you're like, are you

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<v Speaker 1>still really that close or is it just you know,

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<v Speaker 1>sometimes it can go either way.

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<v Speaker 6>It's one of those we don't have to talk every day,

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<v Speaker 6>we don't live in the same state anymore, but okay,

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<v Speaker 6>we get together. It's like your time has passed.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah that's awesome.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, that's cool. So what's going on with the bride?

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<v Speaker 6>So here's the thing. She recently got engaged to her

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<v Speaker 6>boyfriend and she asked me to be a bridesmaid. Of

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<v Speaker 6>course they said yes. So then a few days later

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<v Speaker 6>I get this email and it has an attachment and

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<v Speaker 6>it's a bridemaid contract contract.

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<v Speaker 1>WHOA, that's business like or just like you're going to

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<v Speaker 1>actually follow through and pay for this stuff.

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<v Speaker 6>So it outlines all her expectations of being part of

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<v Speaker 6>the wedding.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh interesting, you know it probably came from somebody told her,

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<v Speaker 1>like some advice somewhere, was like, lay out what your

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<v Speaker 1>expectations are and then you won't have any drama.

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<v Speaker 7>I've been sent a PowerPoint before, have you. Yeah, she's

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<v Speaker 7>a teacher, so it's her thing on like nails and

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<v Speaker 7>outfits and like what we expected.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, when I heard that, I thought it was a joke,

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<v Speaker 3>but that that's something that actually maybe a contract is.

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<v Speaker 2>A little different than a powerful it. What did it say?

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<v Speaker 6>So I actually have it in front of me. I'm

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<v Speaker 6>going to read you some of these.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay.

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<v Speaker 6>One is attendance mandatory for all pre wedding events including

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<v Speaker 6>dress fitting, bachelor party, bridal shower, and spontaneous gathering.

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<v Speaker 2>Let's spontaneous. I mean that can't. That can't be you.

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<v Speaker 2>You live in another state. There's no way you can.

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<v Speaker 6>Make spontaneous like I can't be spontaneous. I'm I supposed

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<v Speaker 6>to do that well by a.

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<v Speaker 8>Flight last second.

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<v Speaker 3>If you actually cared about her, then you would take it.

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<v Speaker 2>I even think the dress fitting is ridiculous.

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<v Speaker 6>Oh this is a good one too. Weight management must

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<v Speaker 6>fit into dress, as is. No diet accordingly, no ya, no, yeah, okay.

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<v Speaker 3>But that one I can kind of understand, because you

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<v Speaker 3>want to look good in the photos right out of here,

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<v Speaker 3>no one, no one, no one wants to photos.

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<v Speaker 2>There's no way in before a wedding.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, Like I didn't get in your way in. I

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<v Speaker 3>just must fit in your dress.

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<v Speaker 6>No diet, diet of accordingly?

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, Okay.

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<v Speaker 8>Maybe that they'd crossed triggered me, Jeff, obviously, I'm afraid

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<v Speaker 8>to even continue to ask if there's anything else, guys,

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<v Speaker 8>Oh god, okay.

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<v Speaker 6>Groom proximity, no flirting, joking or standing too close to

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<v Speaker 6>the groom, no exception.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, you know what, now I have to draw the line.

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<v Speaker 2>That's a weird thing that you would even have to

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<v Speaker 2>say your best.

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<v Speaker 3>Friends has he cheated or something?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, is there history. I'm with Jose on that one.

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<v Speaker 6>No, No, not not as far as I know. I

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<v Speaker 6>know she has one of her bridesmaids is a little

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<v Speaker 6>bit of let's say, maybe a trollop.

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<v Speaker 3>So maybe that rule was specifically designed for that particular

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<v Speaker 3>brides maybe.

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<v Speaker 6>But here's the one that really irks me too. Financial commitment.

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<v Speaker 6>You're expected to contribute a minimum of two thousand dollars

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<v Speaker 6>towards the entire events, travels and gifts.

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<v Speaker 2>Wow.

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<v Speaker 6>And at the bottom it says to sign it and

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<v Speaker 6>return within twenty four hours or else penalties would occur.

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<v Speaker 1>This is got She's like, ha ha ha, No, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>literally on a group chat with all the girls.

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<v Speaker 6>They think she is out of her mind. So I'm

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<v Speaker 6>reaching out to you guys because they're all like pushing

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<v Speaker 6>me because I've known her the longest to have the

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<v Speaker 6>conversation with her.

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<v Speaker 1>A bridesmaid union, You're going to rise up and fight

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<v Speaker 1>against the man.

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<v Speaker 2>I like it.

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<v Speaker 3>The situation sounds pretty serious, which is great that we're

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<v Speaker 3>putting it in an awkward Tuesday where Jose can contribute

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<v Speaker 3>his knowledge and advice on brides I am so scared

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<v Speaker 3>to talk.

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<v Speaker 8>That's so funny.

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<v Speaker 9>Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, I think here's the thing.

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<v Speaker 1>This is a really important conversation because the bride is

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<v Speaker 1>a little out of her mind. She's alienating all of

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<v Speaker 1>her closest people, and someone needs to tell her that's

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<v Speaker 1>what's happening.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, maybe that someone should be brooked because she feels

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<v Speaker 3>the strongest about it. By the way, Shannon, what is

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<v Speaker 3>the bride's name? Oh yeah, para Terah the first part

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<v Speaker 3>of terrible. That's not good. I'm not gonna say.

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<v Speaker 5>Name.

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<v Speaker 3>So let's circle the wagons here, team that we're gonna

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<v Speaker 3>come up with some top notch advice to give Shannon

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<v Speaker 3>before she calls the bride to confront her about the

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<v Speaker 3>bridesmaid contract, Say, you've gone too far.

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<v Speaker 5>Girl.

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<v Speaker 3>We're gonna do it with your awkward Tuesday phone call

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<v Speaker 3>right after this. Hold on, it's awkward.

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<v Speaker 2>It's Tuesday.

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<v Speaker 3>It's awkward Tuesday phone call. We just heard from a bridesmaid.

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<v Speaker 3>Her name is Shannon, who told us about her friend's

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<v Speaker 3>extremely reasonable bridesmaid contract that she sent out to the

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<v Speaker 3>whole bridal party. Some of the clauses in there include

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<v Speaker 3>minimum dollar amounts required in order to participate, weight restriction rules,

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<v Speaker 3>and limits on groom proximity. Now again, I've never been

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<v Speaker 3>a bridesmaid before, but if I was, I would think

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<v Speaker 3>that'd be pretty normal stuff.

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<v Speaker 5>I can.

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<v Speaker 3>Brooks tends to disagree. She has a little bit more

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<v Speaker 3>experience with this stuff than me. For the bottom line is,

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<v Speaker 3>Shannon has been nominated by the entire group to call

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<v Speaker 3>the bride and talk her down from some of the

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<v Speaker 3>expectations laid out in the contract. That's why she needs

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<v Speaker 3>a little bit of advice before she does it. Brooke,

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<v Speaker 3>We're gonna start with you. What advice do you have

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<v Speaker 3>for Shannon?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, First, Shannon, the most important thing is you need

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<v Speaker 1>to come to her as her friend. Okay, Yeah, this

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<v Speaker 1>call is because you've got her back and she hasn't

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<v Speaker 1>thought all of this through yet. Like, of course, all

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<v Speaker 1>the bridesmaids are gonna sign it. But what if this document,

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<v Speaker 1>this contract got leaked on social media, this bride may become.

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<v Speaker 2>Literally the most hated person on the internet.

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<v Speaker 1>And not only is that not deserved, but like it's

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<v Speaker 1>also like such a distraction from her big day.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, she has this little window right now.

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<v Speaker 3>I see. The advice is to threaten to leak it

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<v Speaker 3>onto the internet. Embarrassed.

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<v Speaker 1>The advice is to tell her you have this little

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<v Speaker 1>window right now, to just tell everybody it's a joke.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, wait a minute, she has a chance to back out.

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<v Speaker 3>What do you think about that, Shannon, She's not.

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<v Speaker 6>One to back down. But I do think that if

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<v Speaker 6>people found out, I would hope that she would maybe

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<v Speaker 6>see that.

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<v Speaker 1>You got to set it up that way before you

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<v Speaker 1>ask her to tell it.

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<v Speaker 3>Is blowing up right now. So a lot of people

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<v Speaker 3>have opinions. Okay, so there's one piece of advice for

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<v Speaker 3>you now. Jose has already said that he is too

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<v Speaker 3>scared to give any opinion or the other.

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<v Speaker 8>I don't want to be in the room because I

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<v Speaker 8>feel like a lot of drama's about to.

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<v Speaker 3>Happen and it's gonna yell that's fair. So instead we're

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<v Speaker 3>gonna go to Alexis, the bride'smaide experts makes sense.

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<v Speaker 7>I'm away were asking me because I probably would have

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<v Speaker 7>already signed it and just into backs I'm too scared. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 7>but if you are brave enough to confront the bride,

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<v Speaker 7>then be like you are going to be a great bride.

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<v Speaker 7>I love your plans, and then go into like, but

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<v Speaker 7>you're a little psycho.

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<v Speaker 8>But that's what I love about you, you know, But

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<v Speaker 8>that's what I love about it.

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<v Speaker 2>You have a bout.

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<v Speaker 1>You never had a confrontation with any one of your friends.

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<v Speaker 3>I just do back down like that already. Come on. Actually,

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<v Speaker 3>so it sounds like, say some sweet things, compliment her

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<v Speaker 3>a little bit before you bring the criticism.

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<v Speaker 6>Like some compliment sandwiches.

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<v Speaker 2>Nobody ever sees through that.

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<v Speaker 3>Although the compliment sandwiches might be a problem with the

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<v Speaker 3>weight restrictions on the sandwich, Jennery ordered cucumber sandwiches.

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<v Speaker 9>Either way.

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<v Speaker 3>Now, we're going to call the bride tear here and

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<v Speaker 3>we will step back and let you make your call. Oh,

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<v Speaker 3>just keep the advice in mind and know that we

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<v Speaker 3>have your back to We're going to jump in if

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<v Speaker 3>you feel like you need a little help.

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<v Speaker 6>Okay, I'm really nervous. My hands are sweating, But thank

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<v Speaker 6>you for your.

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<v Speaker 3>F Remember this is your friend, so you have the

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<v Speaker 3>benefit of the doubt.

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<v Speaker 10>We go, Hello, Hey, who's the.

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<v Speaker 6>Girl, Shannon? Do you get a new number or something?

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<v Speaker 9>What where are you calling from?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah? I had to use my phone being funny.

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<v Speaker 5>So it's interesting because Melanie texted me earlier and she

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<v Speaker 5>said that you're gonna call because there's something about the wedding,

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<v Speaker 5>And honestly, I'm starting to feel some type of way

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<v Speaker 5>because none of you guys have signed the contract and

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<v Speaker 5>it's the deadlines ten night at midnight, so what's.

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<v Speaker 6>Going Okay, I didn't know if she'd do that. Of

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<v Speaker 6>course she would. Maybe we just dive in. First of all,

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<v Speaker 6>very excited for the big day.

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<v Speaker 5>We all are, Yeah, you should be, It's gonna be amazing.

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<v Speaker 9>I got yeah. So you sound kind of fullish right now, Well,

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<v Speaker 9>what's no.

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<v Speaker 6>Listen, I love your enthusiasm for your big day, and

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<v Speaker 6>I just kind of wanted to maybe have a little

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<v Speaker 6>conversation about said contract.

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<v Speaker 9>She gets to the point, Okay, you know, I mean

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<v Speaker 9>the most loving and constructive way possible, but it was girl, on,

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<v Speaker 9>don't I don't have time to this with us?

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<v Speaker 6>Okay? Well, like number one the weight management saying, Amber's

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<v Speaker 6>trying to get pregnant, and you've got this girl terrified

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<v Speaker 6>if she's to get pregnant because she's like, I can't

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<v Speaker 6>gain any weight and that's the problem.

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<v Speaker 9>She's not having cleanses.

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<v Speaker 10>She at least no.

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<v Speaker 6>Listen, you your dress is kind of form fitting she's

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<v Speaker 6>never gonna hide. If she by the time your wedding comes,

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<v Speaker 6>she would be pretty pregnant.

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<v Speaker 9>I'm not really liking your phone girl. Let me tell

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<v Speaker 9>you something.

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<v Speaker 4>I went to Shana's wedding in a high pink bridesmaid

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<v Speaker 4>dressed put together with duct tape. So the least yup

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<v Speaker 4>just can do for me is show up sober.

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<v Speaker 6>And you know how like things hit the internet, like

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<v Speaker 6>what if one of these girls talk about it or

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<v Speaker 6>post about it? And then if you're gonna look like

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<v Speaker 6>this crazy bridezilla. First of all, I can't believe that

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<v Speaker 6>you would.

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<v Speaker 10>What are you going to do to me?

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<v Speaker 9>I would? I held your hair back in Vegas.

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<v Speaker 6>Okay, first of all, we weren't going to talk about that.

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<v Speaker 6>We made a pack about it.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, we're not gonna leak anything online.

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<v Speaker 6>Either, Parah. I adore you, I love you, can you.

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<v Speaker 6>I'm coming from a place of love and friendship. Take

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<v Speaker 6>a breath. The groom part, like the no flirting or

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<v Speaker 6>talking or I mean can't even look his direction, Like

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<v Speaker 6>that's that's a little bizarre.

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<v Speaker 9>Listed Listen, listen, listen, listen.

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<v Speaker 5>You and I both know who who has Polish.

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<v Speaker 6>Tendencies and we do not and I both know that is.

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<v Speaker 9>Not directed at you. I'm not gonna listen. There is

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<v Speaker 9>no compromising on that.

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<v Speaker 6>Okay, well that one. That one's fine. Leave that one.

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<v Speaker 9>But like the minimum two thousand dollars in the travel and.

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<v Speaker 6>The no missing event, Like I don't live in the

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<v Speaker 6>same state, so that might be a problem.

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<v Speaker 9>It might be a problem, but it's not my problem.

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<v Speaker 9>But good listen.

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<v Speaker 6>I deserve a perfect day, and by god, I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 6>have it.

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<v Speaker 10>What is going on?

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<v Speaker 2>He told you that was way too castul.

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<v Speaker 3>Shannon, Yeah, Shannon's there, and so is there a radio

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<v Speaker 3>show called Brook and Jeffrey in the morning. You're on

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<v Speaker 3>the radio right now, Tara, Good.

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<v Speaker 6>Morning, Tara.

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<v Speaker 8>All right, Okay, it's okay, everything's okay.

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<v Speaker 1>She was just scared on how to bring this up,

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<v Speaker 1>so she needed some help and that's where we came in.

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<v Speaker 2>Just it was all out of like she said, love

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<v Speaker 2>and friendship. That's where we're coming from.

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<v Speaker 9>Answer my question, who is this?

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<v Speaker 8>That's a good question, Brook is.

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<v Speaker 6>Today?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay?

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<v Speaker 6>Okay, okay, hold on, this is a station in my town,

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<v Speaker 6>not yours. You there's no connection. Ohs it so much better?

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<v Speaker 3>All she's asking Tara is if maybe you would consider

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<v Speaker 3>relooking over your contract with the girls, because it's kind

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<v Speaker 3>of intense for some of them.

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<v Speaker 6>All of us want to be in your wedding. We're

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<v Speaker 6>all gonna just sign the contract. But I just I

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<v Speaker 6>feel that if this is kind of how things are

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<v Speaker 6>going to go, we'll just go to Tona a smidget

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<v Speaker 6>And you know, I don't do well with con occasion,

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<v Speaker 6>and I'm very sweaty, palm my armpitllart very sweaty.

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<v Speaker 9>I gets true.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm way you are bright right right, I'm like, I

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<v Speaker 5>know you know, and.

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<v Speaker 6>I'm like, I'm sweating. I'm sweating in all my crevices.

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<v Speaker 3>And that's good for the weight loss part of the

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<v Speaker 3>contract that she set out, So she's trying. What do

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<v Speaker 3>you think, though, Tarah, do you think that maybe you

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<v Speaker 3>would consider I know, I know it's a lot to ask,

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<v Speaker 3>but it would mean a lot to Shannon and to

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<v Speaker 3>all the bridesmaids if you'd sit down with them and

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<v Speaker 3>just go over the rules and maybe make a couple

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<v Speaker 3>amendments so it works better for everybody.

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<v Speaker 9>We'll talk about it, Okay, we can talk about it.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, I'm gonna tell you right now though the room.

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<v Speaker 1>Is staying okay, yet have a really questionable bed.

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<v Speaker 9>You know, we love her, She's just a little hollish.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, you have her for the plot.

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<v Speaker 3>I get it. Yeah, yeah, we all got one.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't think I have anyone that will take my man.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, you're looking at that. That's not what I meant.

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<v Speaker 2>But Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning,