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Speaker 1: Hey, we're glad you got the podcast. We got a

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Speaker 1: brand new episode today. It's Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning,

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Speaker 1: and today is Awkward Tuesday. Yea on your Second Date

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Speaker 1: Update podcast. And I just can't wait to see the

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Speaker 1: comment section fill up with Bridezilla stories.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, it's gonna be so many. This woman was unhinged.

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Speaker 2: You're in for a treat. It's starting right now.

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Speaker 3: It's awkward.

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Speaker 2: It's Tuesday.

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Speaker 3: It's awkward Tuesday phone call.

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Speaker 4: You know.

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Speaker 3: I heard someone say being a bridesmaid is basically like

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Speaker 3: being in a very expensive cult. What matching outfits one

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Speaker 3: really strict leader, lots of emotional chanting, and you have

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Speaker 3: to financially ruin yourself to prove your loyalty.

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Speaker 2: That's a good play.

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Speaker 3: I've personally never been one, but Alexis is that description relatively.

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Speaker 2: In many cults? Yeah? Yeah, how much red kool aid?

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Speaker 2: Did you drink too much?

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: It was mixed with vodka.

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Speaker 5: That's right.

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Speaker 3: Okay, Now I'm probably missing a lot of the tears

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Speaker 3: and the choreographed dances that come with it too, But

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Speaker 3: you do get the general idea, because yes, it is

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Speaker 3: an honor, but it can also be a challenge.

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Speaker 2: It really depends on where the bride is.

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Speaker 3: That's true.

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Speaker 1: I mean honestly, because you can all of a sudden,

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Speaker 1: now you're signed up all bachelotte party in another state

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Speaker 1: or country.

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Speaker 5: You don't know.

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Speaker 3: It's different for every single person, and that's why our

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Speaker 3: listener Shannon says she needs our help today with a

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Speaker 3: bridesmaid situation. Shannon, Welcome to the show.

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Speaker 2: Hi guys, are you Are you the bridesmaid? Shannon?

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Speaker 6: I am one of the bridesmaids? Yeah, okay, okay, yeah,

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Speaker 6: you know, I risked. I thought it was an honor,

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Speaker 6: but now it's getting a little weird and a little stressful.

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Speaker 2: Can we ask before we get into it? How you

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Speaker 2: know the bride?

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Speaker 6: So we've been friends for like ever, like since kindergarten. Oh.

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Speaker 1: That's always one of those where you're like, are you

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Speaker 1: still really that close or is it just you know,

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Speaker 1: sometimes it can go either way.

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Speaker 6: It's one of those we don't have to talk every day,

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Speaker 6: we don't live in the same state anymore, but okay,

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Speaker 6: we get together. It's like your time has passed.

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Speaker 2: Yeah that's awesome.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that's cool. So what's going on with the bride?

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Speaker 6: So here's the thing. She recently got engaged to her

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Speaker 6: boyfriend and she asked me to be a bridesmaid. Of

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Speaker 6: course they said yes. So then a few days later

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Speaker 6: I get this email and it has an attachment and

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Speaker 6: it's a bridemaid contract contract.

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Speaker 1: WHOA, that's business like or just like you're going to

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Speaker 1: actually follow through and pay for this stuff.

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Speaker 6: So it outlines all her expectations of being part of

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Speaker 6: the wedding.

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Speaker 1: Oh interesting, you know it probably came from somebody told her,

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Speaker 1: like some advice somewhere, was like, lay out what your

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Speaker 7: I've been sent a PowerPoint before, have you. Yeah, she's

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Speaker 7: a teacher, so it's her thing on like nails and

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Speaker 7: outfits and like what we expected.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, when I heard that, I thought it was a joke,

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Speaker 3: but that that's something that actually maybe a contract is.

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Speaker 2: A little different than a powerful it. What did it say?

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Speaker 6: So I actually have it in front of me. I'm

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Speaker 6: going to read you some of these.

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Speaker 3: Okay.

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Speaker 6: One is attendance mandatory for all pre wedding events including

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Speaker 6: dress fitting, bachelor party, bridal shower, and spontaneous gathering.

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Speaker 2: Let's spontaneous. I mean that can't. That can't be you.

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Speaker 2: You live in another state. There's no way you can.

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Speaker 6: Make spontaneous like I can't be spontaneous. I'm I supposed

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Speaker 8: Flight last second.

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Speaker 3: If you actually cared about her, then you would take it.

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Speaker 2: I even think the dress fitting is ridiculous.

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Speaker 6: Oh this is a good one too. Weight management must

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Speaker 6: fit into dress, as is. No diet accordingly, no ya, no, yeah, okay.

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Speaker 3: But that one I can kind of understand, because you

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Speaker 3: want to look good in the photos right out of here,

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Speaker 3: no one, no one, no one wants to photos.

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Speaker 2: There's no way in before a wedding.

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Speaker 3: Okay, Like I didn't get in your way in. I

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Speaker 6: No diet, diet of accordingly?

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Speaker 8: Maybe that they'd crossed triggered me, Jeff, obviously, I'm afraid

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Speaker 8: to even continue to ask if there's anything else, guys,

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Speaker 8: Oh god, okay.

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Speaker 6: Groom proximity, no flirting, joking or standing too close to

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Speaker 3: Okay, you know what, now I have to draw the line.

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Speaker 2: That's a weird thing that you would even have to

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Speaker 2: say your best.

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Speaker 3: Friends has he cheated or something?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, is there history. I'm with Jose on that one.

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Speaker 6: No, No, not not as far as I know. I

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Speaker 6: know she has one of her bridesmaids is a little

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Speaker 3: So maybe that rule was specifically designed for that particular

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Speaker 6: But here's the one that really irks me too. Financial commitment.

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Speaker 6: You're expected to contribute a minimum of two thousand dollars

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Speaker 6: towards the entire events, travels and gifts.

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Speaker 2: Wow.

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Speaker 6: And at the bottom it says to sign it and

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Speaker 6: return within twenty four hours or else penalties would occur.

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Speaker 1: This is got She's like, ha ha ha, No, I'm

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Speaker 1: literally on a group chat with all the girls.

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Speaker 6: They think she is out of her mind. So I'm

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Speaker 6: reaching out to you guys because they're all like pushing

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Speaker 6: me because I've known her the longest to have the

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Speaker 1: A bridesmaid union, You're going to rise up and fight

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Speaker 1: against the man.

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Speaker 2: I like it.

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Speaker 3: The situation sounds pretty serious, which is great that we're

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Speaker 3: putting it in an awkward Tuesday where Jose can contribute

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Speaker 3: his knowledge and advice on brides I am so scared

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Speaker 8: That's so funny.

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Speaker 2: I mean, I think here's the thing.

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Speaker 1: This is a really important conversation because the bride is

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Speaker 3: Yeah, maybe that someone should be brooked because she feels

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Speaker 3: the strongest about it. By the way, Shannon, what is

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Speaker 3: the bride's name? Oh yeah, para Terah the first part

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Speaker 3: of terrible. That's not good. I'm not gonna say.

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Speaker 5: Name.

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Speaker 3: So let's circle the wagons here, team that we're gonna

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Speaker 3: come up with some top notch advice to give Shannon

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Speaker 3: bridesmaid contract, Say, you've gone too far.

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Speaker 5: Girl.

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Speaker 3: We're gonna do it with your awkward Tuesday phone call

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Speaker 3: right after this. Hold on, it's awkward.

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Speaker 2: It's Tuesday.

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Speaker 3: It's awkward Tuesday phone call. We just heard from a bridesmaid.

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Speaker 3: Her name is Shannon, who told us about her friend's

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Speaker 3: extremely reasonable bridesmaid contract that she sent out to the

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Speaker 3: whole bridal party. Some of the clauses in there include

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Speaker 3: minimum dollar amounts required in order to participate, weight restriction rules,

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Speaker 3: and limits on groom proximity. Now again, I've never been

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Speaker 3: a bridesmaid before, but if I was, I would think

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Speaker 3: that'd be pretty normal stuff.

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Speaker 5: I can.

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Speaker 3: Brooks tends to disagree. She has a little bit more

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Speaker 3: experience with this stuff than me. For the bottom line is,

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Speaker 3: Shannon has been nominated by the entire group to call

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Speaker 3: the bride and talk her down from some of the

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Speaker 3: expectations laid out in the contract. That's why she needs

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Speaker 3: a little bit of advice before she does it. Brooke,

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Speaker 3: We're gonna start with you. What advice do you have

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Speaker 3: for Shannon?

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Speaker 1: Okay, First, Shannon, the most important thing is you need

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Speaker 1: to come to her as her friend. Okay, Yeah, this

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Speaker 1: call is because you've got her back and she hasn't

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Speaker 1: thought all of this through yet. Like, of course, all

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Speaker 1: the bridesmaids are gonna sign it. But what if this document,

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Speaker 1: this contract got leaked on social media, this bride may become.

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Speaker 2: Literally the most hated person on the internet.

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Speaker 1: And not only is that not deserved, but like it's

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Speaker 1: also like such a distraction from her big day.

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Speaker 2: You know, she has this little window right now.

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Speaker 3: I see. The advice is to threaten to leak it

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Speaker 1: The advice is to tell her you have this little

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Speaker 3: Okay, wait a minute, she has a chance to back out.

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Speaker 3: What do you think about that, Shannon, She's not.

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Speaker 6: One to back down. But I do think that if

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Speaker 1: You got to set it up that way before you

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Speaker 3: Is blowing up right now. So a lot of people

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Speaker 3: have opinions. Okay, so there's one piece of advice for

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Speaker 8: I don't want to be in the room because I

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Speaker 8: feel like a lot of drama's about to.

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Speaker 3: Happen and it's gonna yell that's fair. So instead we're

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Speaker 3: gonna go to Alexis, the bride'smaide experts makes sense.

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Speaker 7: I'm away were asking me because I probably would have

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Speaker 7: already signed it and just into backs I'm too scared. Yeah,

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Speaker 7: but if you are brave enough to confront the bride,

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Speaker 7: then be like you are going to be a great bride.

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Speaker 7: I love your plans, and then go into like, but

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Speaker 7: you're a little psycho.

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Speaker 8: But that's what I love about you, you know, But

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Speaker 8: that's what I love about it.

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Speaker 2: You have a bout.

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Speaker 1: You never had a confrontation with any one of your friends.

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Speaker 3: I just do back down like that already. Come on. Actually,

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Speaker 3: so it sounds like, say some sweet things, compliment her

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Speaker 3: a little bit before you bring the criticism.

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Speaker 6: Like some compliment sandwiches.

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Speaker 2: Nobody ever sees through that.

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Speaker 3: Although the compliment sandwiches might be a problem with the

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Speaker 3: weight restrictions on the sandwich, Jennery ordered cucumber sandwiches.

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Speaker 9: Either way.

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Speaker 3: Now, we're going to call the bride tear here and

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Speaker 3: we will step back and let you make your call. Oh,

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Speaker 3: just keep the advice in mind and know that we

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Speaker 3: have your back to We're going to jump in if

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Speaker 3: you feel like you need a little help.

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Speaker 6: Okay, I'm really nervous. My hands are sweating, But thank

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Speaker 6: you for your.

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Speaker 3: F Remember this is your friend, so you have the

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Speaker 10: We go, Hello, Hey, who's the.

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Speaker 6: Girl, Shannon? Do you get a new number or something?

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Speaker 9: What where are you calling from?

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Speaker 6: Yeah? I had to use my phone being funny.

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Speaker 5: So it's interesting because Melanie texted me earlier and she

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Speaker 5: said that you're gonna call because there's something about the wedding,

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Speaker 5: And honestly, I'm starting to feel some type of way

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Speaker 5: because none of you guys have signed the contract and

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Speaker 6: Going Okay, I didn't know if she'd do that. Of

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Speaker 6: course she would. Maybe we just dive in. First of all,

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Speaker 5: We all are, Yeah, you should be, It's gonna be amazing.

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Speaker 6: Listen, I love your enthusiasm for your big day, and

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Speaker 9: She gets to the point, Okay, you know, I mean

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Speaker 9: don't I don't have time to this with us?

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Speaker 6: Okay? Well, like number one the weight management saying, Amber's

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Speaker 9: She's not having cleanses.

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Speaker 10: She at least no.

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Speaker 6: Listen, you your dress is kind of form fitting she's

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Speaker 6: never gonna hide. If she by the time your wedding comes,

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Speaker 9: I'm not really liking your phone girl. Let me tell

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Speaker 4: I went to Shana's wedding in a high pink bridesmaid

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Speaker 6: And you know how like things hit the internet, like

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Speaker 6: post about it? And then if you're gonna look like

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Speaker 6: this crazy bridezilla. First of all, I can't believe that

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Speaker 10: What are you going to do to me?

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Speaker 9: I would? I held your hair back in Vegas.

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Speaker 6: Okay, first of all, we weren't going to talk about that.

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Speaker 6: We made a pack about it.

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Speaker 4: Well, we're not gonna leak anything online.

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Speaker 6: Either, Parah. I adore you, I love you, can you.

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Speaker 6: I'm coming from a place of love and friendship. Take

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Speaker 9: Listed Listen, listen, listen, listen.

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Speaker 5: You and I both know who who has Polish.

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Speaker 6: Tendencies and we do not and I both know that is.

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Speaker 9: Not directed at you. I'm not gonna listen. There is

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Speaker 9: no compromising on that.

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Speaker 6: Okay, well that one. That one's fine. Leave that one.

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Speaker 9: But like the minimum two thousand dollars in the travel and.

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Speaker 6: The no missing event, Like I don't live in the

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Speaker 9: It might be a problem, but it's not my problem.

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Speaker 9: But good listen.

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Speaker 6: I deserve a perfect day, and by god, I'm gonna

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Speaker 10: What is going on?

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Speaker 2: He told you that was way too castul.

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Speaker 3: Shannon, Yeah, Shannon's there, and so is there a radio

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Speaker 3: the radio right now, Tara, Good.

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Speaker 6: Morning, Tara.

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Speaker 8: All right, Okay, it's okay, everything's okay.

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Speaker 1: She was just scared on how to bring this up,

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Speaker 2: Just it was all out of like she said, love

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Speaker 9: Answer my question, who is this?

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Speaker 8: That's a good question, Brook is.

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Speaker 6: Today?

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Speaker 2: Okay?

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Speaker 6: Okay, okay, hold on, this is a station in my town,

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Speaker 6: not yours. You there's no connection. Ohs it so much better?

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Speaker 3: All she's asking Tara is if maybe you would consider

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Speaker 6: All of us want to be in your wedding. We're

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Speaker 6: feel that if this is kind of how things are

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Speaker 6: And you know, I don't do well with con occasion,

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Speaker 6: and I'm very sweaty, palm my armpitllart very sweaty.

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Speaker 9: I gets true.

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Speaker 5: I'm way you are bright right right, I'm like, I

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Speaker 6: I'm like, I'm sweating. I'm sweating in all my crevices.

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Speaker 3: And that's good for the weight loss part of the

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Speaker 3: you think, though, Tarah, do you think that maybe you

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Speaker 3: would consider I know, I know it's a lot to ask,

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Speaker 3: just go over the rules and maybe make a couple

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Speaker 3: amendments so it works better for everybody.

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Speaker 9: We'll talk about it, Okay, we can talk about it.

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Speaker 4: Okay, I'm gonna tell you right now though the room.

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Speaker 1: Is staying okay, yet have a really questionable bed.

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Speaker 9: You know, we love her, She's just a little hollish.

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Speaker 2: Okay, you have her for the plot.

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Speaker 3: I get it. Yeah, yeah, we all got one.

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Speaker 2: I don't think I have anyone that will take my man.

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Speaker 3: Oh, you're looking at that. That's not what I meant.

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Speaker 2: But Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning,