WEBVTT - Master The Art of Story Telling

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<v Speaker 1>An illegal alien from Guatemala charged with raping a child

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<v Speaker 1>in Massachusetts. An MS thirteen gang member from Al Salvador

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<v Speaker 1>accused of murdering a Texas man of Venezuelan charged with

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<v Speaker 1>filming and selling child pornography in Michigan. These are just

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<v Speaker 1>some of the heinous migrant criminals caught because of President

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<v Speaker 1>Donald J. Trump's leadership. I'm Christy nom the United States

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<v Speaker 1>Secretary of Homeland Security. Under President Trump, attempted illegal border

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<v Speaker 1>crossings are at the lowest levels ever recorded, and over

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<v Speaker 1>one hundred thousand illegal aliens have been arrested. If you

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<v Speaker 1>are here illegally, your next you will be fined nearly

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<v Speaker 1>one thousand dollars a day, imprisoned, and deported. You will

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<v Speaker 1>never return. But if you register using our CBP home

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<v Speaker 1>app and leave now, you could be allowed to return legally.

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<v Speaker 1>Do what's right. Leave now. Under President Trump, America's laws,

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<v Speaker 1>border and families will.

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<v Speaker 2>Be protected, sponsored by the United States Department of Homeland Security.

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<v Speaker 3>And then the last slide that we didn't get to

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<v Speaker 3>last night is making sure that you master the art

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<v Speaker 3>of story telling all writing, so storytelling is key. Our

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<v Speaker 3>whole lives are based on stories, right think about your

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<v Speaker 3>arch enemy.

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<v Speaker 4>They're your arch.

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<v Speaker 3>Enemy because what there's a story behind there. Your best

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<v Speaker 3>friend is your best friend? How many stories do you

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<v Speaker 3>have about about about your best friend?

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<v Speaker 4>Right?

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<v Speaker 3>Everything we do, the movies we watch, the brands we buy,

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<v Speaker 3>even down to the cereal that we eat. You know,

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<v Speaker 3>things that we like are usually mostly all based around

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<v Speaker 3>the story. Remember I told you the brain love stories. Okay,

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<v Speaker 3>The things that we remember about our friends and loved

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<v Speaker 3>ones is surrounded by that story. Everything you do is

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<v Speaker 3>telling a story, right, So you want to make sure

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<v Speaker 3>that you tell the story.

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<v Speaker 4>And no one else gets the care. You get to

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<v Speaker 4>create the narrative, right.

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<v Speaker 3>So think about you know, the way we tell our

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<v Speaker 3>stories is how we dress. You know, the type of

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<v Speaker 3>content that we're sharing online helps tell the story about us.

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<v Speaker 3>How are you speaking to people?

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<v Speaker 4>Right?

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<v Speaker 3>How are you speaking to your the people online in person?

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<v Speaker 3>And then think about how long is your story? How

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<v Speaker 3>long is your actual personal story, the one that the

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<v Speaker 3>that you wrote your bio, right that you can give

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<v Speaker 3>in the elevator pitch.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, think about that? Is it long? Is it short? Right?

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<v Speaker 3>And so you want to think about your personal appearance,

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<v Speaker 3>your style, What is the story that you want to create.

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<v Speaker 3>You don't have to go out and be fake. But

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<v Speaker 3>what is it that you want to say through your

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<v Speaker 3>personal appearance, your style, the clothing you wear, the content

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<v Speaker 3>you create. You want to have a similar storyline that

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<v Speaker 3>you build up so that you know when people think

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<v Speaker 3>about you, it's going to be top of the mind awareness. Right.

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<v Speaker 4>We know Oprah's story right for her childhood, how she

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<v Speaker 4>was brought up. Mary J.

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<v Speaker 3>Blist, Okay, I hate to say this, y'all, but I'm

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<v Speaker 3>gonna say I be open and honest.

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<v Speaker 4>Don't judge me.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, I am not a huge fan of Mary J. Blast,

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<v Speaker 3>but I love Mary J.

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<v Speaker 4>Blisse. I will go support her and see a concert.

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<v Speaker 3>Because of her story. And that's how profound your story

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<v Speaker 3>can be. Her story just.

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<v Speaker 4>What she's gone through is uh.

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<v Speaker 3>Her story is what really brings people in and it

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<v Speaker 3>touches people's hearts and souls. And she I mean, she

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<v Speaker 3>just gives you a drop of her story. See, there

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<v Speaker 3>are people who who don't who say I love man,

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<v Speaker 3>won't put nothing in the offering plate. Now come through

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<v Speaker 3>say something exactly because I have. Because she came down

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<v Speaker 3>here for the.

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<v Speaker 4>Rodeo in Houston, y'all know that's big.

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<v Speaker 3>And I went to go I went to go see

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<v Speaker 3>her so and I still have, you know, the former

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<v Speaker 3>one all of back in the day. I'm still will support.

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<v Speaker 3>I ain't about keeping nobody down. Okay, all right, So

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<v Speaker 3>you think about how many times have you heard Lil

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<v Speaker 3>Wayne say he's the greatest rapper A lot, he's the

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<v Speaker 3>greatest rapper alive. How many he's been saying he the

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<v Speaker 3>greatest rapp alive for what ten twenty years?

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<v Speaker 4>Twenty years? He didn't been around for a long time.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, whether he is or not, it doesn't matter. He's

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<v Speaker 3>building a story, right, He's building a story. And so

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<v Speaker 3>I was, I don't know. I have some donuts yesterday

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<v Speaker 3>and it said America's best best favorite donuts, says who

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<v Speaker 3>says them? Okay, so you can have the best credit repair,

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<v Speaker 3>the best is, be the best doctor, whatever it is.

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<v Speaker 4>You get to tell the story when you're online.

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<v Speaker 1>An illegal alien from Guatemala charged with raping a child

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<v Speaker 1>in Massachusetts. An MS thirteen gang member from Al Salvador

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<v Speaker 1>accused of murdering a Texas. Man of Venezuelan charged with

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<v Speaker 1>filming and selling child pornography in Michigan. These are just

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<v Speaker 1>some of the heinous migrant criminals caught because of President

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<v Speaker 1>Donald J. Trump's leadership. I'm Christy Noman, the United States

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<v Speaker 1>Secretary of Homeland Security. Under President Trump, attempted illegal border

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<v Speaker 1>crossings are at the lowest levels ever recorded, and over

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<v Speaker 1>one hundred thousand illegal aliens.

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<v Speaker 2>Have been arrested.

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<v Speaker 1>If you are here illegally, your next you will be

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<v Speaker 1>fined nearly one thousand dollars a day, imprisoned, and deported.

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<v Speaker 1>You will never return. But if you register using our

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<v Speaker 1>CBP home app, and leave now. You could be allowed

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<v Speaker 1>to return legally. Do what's right. Leave now. Under President

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<v Speaker 1>Trump America's laws, border and families will be.

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<v Speaker 2>Protected sponsored by the United States Department of Homeland Security.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, whatever you do.

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<v Speaker 3>You want to tell a story about why you are

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<v Speaker 3>the best Okay, think about if you had a male

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<v Speaker 3>prep service service, why you're the best medal prep service.

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<v Speaker 3>Why you're the best esthetisian. Why are you the best

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<v Speaker 3>real estate broker okay? Or the best car salesman or

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<v Speaker 3>the best car detailing service or the best business coach.

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<v Speaker 3>All right, you build a story so repetitive, We're gonna

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<v Speaker 3>keep it basically the same, so that you make it

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<v Speaker 3>easy for others to go out there and tell the

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<v Speaker 3>story for you.

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<v Speaker 4>So anybody who knows me, especially.

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<v Speaker 3>Now, No, I'm big on boundaries, like I will say no,

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<v Speaker 3>like you know how Kevin Harten says pineapples.

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<v Speaker 4>Her min is No.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, yeah, no, we're not getting to that uncomfortable like

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<v Speaker 3>you're invading my personal space, invading my boundary. So because

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<v Speaker 3>I had to let go of a fifteen year relationship

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<v Speaker 3>that was a friendship, that was toxic, Okay, then I

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<v Speaker 3>had my year of no, that was twenty nineteen. That's

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<v Speaker 3>what led me onto the journey to looking at my

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<v Speaker 3>finances and just getting my whole life together because I

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<v Speaker 3>kept inviting talks of people in my life and I

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<v Speaker 3>had to figure out why, why.

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<v Speaker 4>Am I continuing to attract these people.

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<v Speaker 3>That's what led me to writing my book called Find

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<v Speaker 3>Your Spark, Right, And so then I just started building

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<v Speaker 3>from there, taking my classes just really like and I

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<v Speaker 3>just said, told myself, I'm not gonna be a victim.

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<v Speaker 3>So part of those little dibble and dabbles, all of

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<v Speaker 3>those big key things for me, or boundaries saying no,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, uninviting people, having important circle, all of that

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<v Speaker 3>is what defines my personal story. Okay, and I repeat

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<v Speaker 3>most of that stuff over and over and over.

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<v Speaker 4>So that way people will know.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, all right, So with that said, what is your story?

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<v Speaker 4>Right? What is your story? So this is what we're

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<v Speaker 4>gonna do, hopefully, and you can read it, y'all. Y'all

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<v Speaker 4>can read it.

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<v Speaker 3>Go back to week one, week two where you were

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<v Speaker 3>writing down your personal story. All right, you can read

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<v Speaker 3>it or if you even haven't thought of it, say something, Okay,

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<v Speaker 3>we're gonna share who we are all right, and what

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<v Speaker 3>we do. We're gonna share our personal story that you

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<v Speaker 3>plan on repeating right in your breakout room, and then

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<v Speaker 3>you're gonna share your social media in the chat of

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<v Speaker 3>your breakout room. So that way we're gonna make sure

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<v Speaker 3>that we follow each other and that we support each other.

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<v Speaker 3>All right, Oh, definitely, definitely, all right, So we have Okay,

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<v Speaker 3>we got people, so ooh that is I almoust like

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<v Speaker 3>to say, let's do three. Three is a great number,

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<v Speaker 3>and we'll give us about ten minutes. So that means

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<v Speaker 3>each person gets three minutes to talk, and if you

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<v Speaker 3>finish early, you know, feel free to you know, whatever

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<v Speaker 3>it leads to. Right, So we'll give we're gonna get

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<v Speaker 3>ten minutes, three minutes for each person to talk.

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<v Speaker 4>The person with the the youngest.

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<v Speaker 3>Person will start first, So whoever's the youngest, but man,

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<v Speaker 3>you gotta tell my age or if you go with

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<v Speaker 3>the shortest hair, you the one you want to Okay,

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<v Speaker 3>the person has the shortest hair or the person who

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<v Speaker 3>is the youngest, whatever y'all want to share, all right?

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<v Speaker 3>Everybody got that put a one in the chat. If

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<v Speaker 3>you understand the directions right, Remember this the time to

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<v Speaker 3>practice your personal story it's okay.

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<v Speaker 4>You don't have to have all the together.

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<v Speaker 3>Just practice it, okay. And I'm coming in too. I'm

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<v Speaker 3>coming in all right. I think we are ready, Magda. Yes,

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<v Speaker 3>you should have all received invitations to go into the rooms,

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<v Speaker 3>so they should have ready.

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<v Speaker 4>See those I see some have joined already.

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<v Speaker 1>An illegal alien from Guatemala charged with raping a child

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<v Speaker 1>in Massachusetts. An MS thirteen gang member from Al Salvador

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<v Speaker 1>accused of murdering a Texas man of Venezuelan charged with

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<v Speaker 1>filming and selling child pornography in Michigan. These are just

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<v Speaker 1>some of the heinous migrant criminals caught because of President

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<v Speaker 1>Donald J. Trump's leadership. I'm Christy nom the United States

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<v Speaker 1>Secretary of Homeland Security. Under President Trump, attempted illegal border

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<v Speaker 1>crossings are at the lowest levels ever recorded, and over

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<v Speaker 1>one hundred thousand illegal aliens have been arrested. If you

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<v Speaker 1>are here illegally, your next you will be fine nearly

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<v Speaker 1>one thousand dollars a day, imprisoned and deported, you will

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<v Speaker 1>never return. But if you register using our CBP home

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<v Speaker 1>app and leave now, you could be allowed to return legally.

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<v Speaker 1>Do what's right, Leave now. Under President Trump America's laws,

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<v Speaker 1>border and families will be protected.

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<v Speaker 2>Sponsored by the United States Department of Homeland Security,