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Speaker 1: It's a brand new Say Yes to the X, and

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Speaker 1: the Morning, and it's time for another heart throttling edition

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Speaker 1: of Say Yes to the X. Help one of our

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Speaker 1: Because you never know, and it's okay to wonder about

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Speaker 1: your exes sometimes Brook certainly does. The question is will

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Speaker 2: If you use that residual word, then it's going to

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Speaker 1: Everybody likes to be flung every once in a while.

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Speaker 1: And today we've got Evan on the phone hoping to

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Speaker 1: get in touch with an old past relationship. Evan, you

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Speaker 1: got some flang you want to try reflinging?

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Speaker 3: Hey, yes, yes I do.

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Speaker 4: Good answer.

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Speaker 1: I like that answer. So tell us who is this ex?

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Speaker 1: And uh, just tell us about her and your relationship together?

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Speaker 3: Well, it's my ex Abbey.

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Speaker 4: Abby.

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Speaker 1: Are you really sad? When you said?

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Speaker 2: I was going to say, are you sad? Or you

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Speaker 1: What happened with you and Abby? Tell us about your

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Speaker 3: Well? I really miss her. I thought she was the

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Speaker 1: That's a tough feeling. Yeah, like you feel helpless.

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Speaker 4: How long did you date for?

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Speaker 2: Get it like it can feel that way, but then

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Speaker 1: Oh Brooks talking about her exes again, saying.

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Speaker 4: Like it sucks. I get what you're going through.

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Speaker 2: I've definitely felt like I was totally in love with

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Speaker 1: You know, you know I'm in the room right this

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Speaker 1: We have a lot of downer vibes going on right now.

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Speaker 4: Oh what changed? Why didn't you like it in the end?

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Speaker 1: it sounds like, yeah, it was a woman named Abby.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, right. I tried to sing Nickelback's how You Remind Me, Well.

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Speaker 1: That's where you went wrong? Well is a special? Is

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Speaker 1: Has it changed in the past six months since you

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Speaker 3: Absolutely the past six months. I've done the work. I

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Speaker 1: So you backed away, but you still are you?

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Speaker 2: I could see if that was something already bothering her,

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Speaker 4: Her back, Jeff, you can help.

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Speaker 1: You're listening to what she maybe she has grown over

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Speaker 1: It sounds really sincere on the phone right now? Sure,

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Speaker 5: Well, it seemed like she blocked me after a while.

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Speaker 4: Are you just a little mad?

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Speaker 2: Like you're that far into a relationship, you're proposing and

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Speaker 3: She was trying to tell me and I just wasn't listening.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that is a very mature statement, almost too mature

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Speaker 1: She hasn't heard any of this. When we come back,

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Speaker 4: Oh she doesn't hang out. I got to proposal this

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Speaker 1: I mean, it's not my choice. I'm not.

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Speaker 4: I didn't know.

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Speaker 4: You can't play this song.

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Speaker 1: Evan get in touch with his ex girlfriend Abby, and

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Speaker 1: because their breakup didn't happen over a petty fight or

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Speaker 2: What I think that we need to concentrate on is Evan.

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Speaker 2: You sound like you heard what her problems were in

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Speaker 1: But they're not actually in a relationship right now.

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Speaker 4: No, just a better man.

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Speaker 1: That's what I said. So, like you already know, Evan,

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Speaker 4: I think we can come back from that.

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Speaker 3: All right.

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Speaker 1: We get a lot of bad reactions when people find

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Speaker 6: Or colder are you saying like a long lost friend

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Speaker 6: Yeah, wow, this is awkward. Okay, So did Evans talk you?

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Speaker 1: You do remember him.

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Speaker 4: They dated a year and a half.

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Speaker 1: But that's a good sign that you haven't forgot about

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Speaker 6: Yeah yeah, I mean he was a really good guy.

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Speaker 1: Okay, and equally bad at trivia as you are.

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Speaker 6: That's actually funny. He would tell you that.

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Speaker 2: We kind of went down memory lane a little bit

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Speaker 6: So do you guys think that's healthy, like to have

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Speaker 4: He's probably not the word.

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Speaker 1: We're not therapists, so we're not in any place to

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Speaker 6: I mean, so I don't really have a choice, but okay, hi, Evan, Hey,

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Speaker 5: I've been thinking about you.

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Speaker 3: I miss you, and I'm honestly I'm sorry it had

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Speaker 6: Yeah, that kind of sucks. I'm not gonna lie.

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Speaker 4: Suck.

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Speaker 3: It was.

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Speaker 6: I didn't mean to offend anybody.

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Speaker 4: It's okay, it's okay, we're joking.

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Speaker 1: It's okay. We'll cry later.

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Speaker 1: Well, Evan's told us that you've had more more than

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Speaker 3: Evan.

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Speaker 5: Well, I really want you to know that I've done

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Speaker 5: and I think, no, I know you deserve a.

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Speaker 3: Better version of me.

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Speaker 6: Well, that's really sweet.

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Speaker 5: I just wanted to let you know I might have

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Speaker 4: Oh wait, is that a joke.

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Speaker 3: No, no, it's not a joke.

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Speaker 1: I wonder he's so even Keel, What do you take

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Speaker 6: Okay, I appreciate you, Evan being vulnerable, I really do,

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Speaker 6: there's something you should know about that night that you

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Speaker 1: Oh that doesn't sound ominous.

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Speaker 3: What are you talking about.

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Speaker 6: Well, when you started saying that song, it just triggered

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Speaker 6: But I couldn't have you propose with a song that

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Speaker 1: This is how you were.

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Speaker 3: Crazy, Evan.

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Speaker 6: You Evan, you and I have talked so many times.

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Speaker 1: I mean, you.

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Speaker 6: Believe in signs too, and that that was a sign

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Speaker 2: I don't think that's that's not fair to Evan.

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Speaker 3: That's cool?

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah you like that.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's a real quick changing emotion.

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Speaker 3: I ag really like that.

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Speaker 5: I don't think our story is over, so I'd like

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Speaker 4: Yeah, let me look how chill he is.

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Speaker 6: I think it's a little weird for us to try again,

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Speaker 6: But I mean I can do coffee. Oh but you

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Speaker 4: B is like, yeah, we got you covered.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it sounds like she is saying maybe yes to

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Speaker 3: Sounds great?

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Speaker 4: Okay, right, we got the door cracked open.

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Speaker 3: Me?

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Speaker 5: What was that I had a joke with you A

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Speaker 6: Please are pit farting? Change yourself?

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Speaker 3: Bro, I gotta take more medication for that.

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Speaker 2: Okay, but you do it, bro freaking Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 1: Well, I don't know if we can call that a

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Speaker 1: successful say yes to the.

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Speaker 1: Joke, that's right. At least she would agree to a

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Speaker 1: and agree to never make jokes and never be with

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Speaker 4: He's gonna have the greatest life, you guys. She wasn't

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Speaker 1: Bad luck, and he chose that, and she used to date.

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Speaker 5: One of them.

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Speaker 1: I mean, but who hasn't dated somebody from Nickelback. We're

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Speaker 4: Multiple people from the band.

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Speaker 1: So we give everybody grace for that. But if you

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Speaker 1: ever want help getting back in touch with an AX

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Speaker 1: or somebody who's just dating you, you can always email.

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Speaker 1: The show will help you out.

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Speaker 4: Just go to Bertinjeffrey dot com