1 00:00:01,240 --> 00:00:04,760 Speaker 1: All right, guys, time now for today's Strawberry Letter and listen. 2 00:00:04,880 --> 00:00:09,280 Speaker 1: If you need advice on relationships, on dating, work, sex, parenting, 3 00:00:09,360 --> 00:00:13,480 Speaker 1: and more, please submit your Strawberry letter to Steve HARVEYFM 4 00:00:13,600 --> 00:00:16,840 Speaker 1: dot com and click submit Strawberry Letter. We could be 5 00:00:16,880 --> 00:00:19,640 Speaker 1: reading your letter live on the air, just like we're 6 00:00:19,640 --> 00:00:23,160 Speaker 1: gonna read this one right here, right now. Buckle up 7 00:00:23,160 --> 00:00:25,160 Speaker 1: and hold on tight. We got it for you here. 8 00:00:25,160 --> 00:00:29,480 Speaker 1: It is a Strawberry letter, Thank you, nephew. Subject side 9 00:00:29,560 --> 00:00:34,280 Speaker 1: chick title with main chick duties Dear Stephen Shirley. Don't 10 00:00:34,320 --> 00:00:37,479 Speaker 1: go anywhere Tommy. I may need Tommy, it says Tommy 11 00:00:37,520 --> 00:00:41,440 Speaker 1: and Jay to offer some advice on this one, if 12 00:00:41,479 --> 00:00:44,800 Speaker 1: you don't mind, since they're the side piece experts on 13 00:00:44,880 --> 00:00:51,440 Speaker 1: the show. Word gets around, Han, nephew, I've been a 14 00:00:51,560 --> 00:00:55,280 Speaker 1: proud side chick to a married man for over seven years. 15 00:00:55,680 --> 00:00:58,600 Speaker 1: I know what was up when we met, and I 16 00:00:58,720 --> 00:01:01,360 Speaker 1: was fine with it. I was happy to provide laughter, 17 00:01:01,520 --> 00:01:03,720 Speaker 1: fun times, and a lot of great sex once or 18 00:01:03,720 --> 00:01:06,120 Speaker 1: twice a week. For the most part. I've held up 19 00:01:06,160 --> 00:01:09,040 Speaker 1: my end of the deal. Now that we're getting older, 20 00:01:09,319 --> 00:01:12,600 Speaker 1: he's been expecting more from me. If I cook, he 21 00:01:12,680 --> 00:01:15,120 Speaker 1: expects to come eat dinner over at my house. Some 22 00:01:15,240 --> 00:01:17,920 Speaker 1: days he's asking me to pick up his clothes from 23 00:01:17,920 --> 00:01:20,560 Speaker 1: the cleaner's, run to the mall, to buy him some cologne, 24 00:01:20,880 --> 00:01:23,800 Speaker 1: or stop by the pharmacy and pick up his prescriptions. 25 00:01:24,160 --> 00:01:26,399 Speaker 1: One day, I asked him, if I'm doing all of 26 00:01:26,440 --> 00:01:29,240 Speaker 1: this stuff, what is his wife doing nowadays in her 27 00:01:29,280 --> 00:01:32,440 Speaker 1: spare time. I've never had one argument with this man, 28 00:01:32,760 --> 00:01:35,440 Speaker 1: and I truly love him, But if he expects me 29 00:01:35,480 --> 00:01:37,840 Speaker 1: to do more for him, then I want him to 30 00:01:37,880 --> 00:01:40,800 Speaker 1: do more for me. I don't bother him for money 31 00:01:40,880 --> 00:01:43,880 Speaker 1: or gifts, because he has always been generous and thoughtful, 32 00:01:44,120 --> 00:01:47,600 Speaker 1: but the extra duties are causing a problem for me. Saturday, 33 00:01:47,640 --> 00:01:50,720 Speaker 1: I picked up his medicine from Walgreens and some vitamins 34 00:01:50,720 --> 00:01:54,240 Speaker 1: he asked for. I had a new guide come over 35 00:01:54,320 --> 00:01:56,680 Speaker 1: later that night and he saw the medicine bag on 36 00:01:56,720 --> 00:01:59,440 Speaker 1: the table. I told him it was for my uncle 37 00:01:59,600 --> 00:02:02,720 Speaker 1: and he believed me. Yes, I date other men from 38 00:02:02,800 --> 00:02:07,360 Speaker 1: time to time. Exclamation mark. No matter what, I have 39 00:02:07,440 --> 00:02:10,520 Speaker 1: always put my side chick duties first and never let 40 00:02:10,560 --> 00:02:13,959 Speaker 1: anything interfere with my duties. I need the same respect 41 00:02:14,000 --> 00:02:17,160 Speaker 1: from my main man. I want to pay increase if 42 00:02:17,200 --> 00:02:19,960 Speaker 1: he expects me to do more, I take it seriously, 43 00:02:20,240 --> 00:02:23,000 Speaker 1: and he knows it because this arrangement has been paying 44 00:02:23,040 --> 00:02:25,760 Speaker 1: my bills for years. He won't give me a raise, 45 00:02:26,680 --> 00:02:31,480 Speaker 1: and how can I get him to pay up? Wow? Okay, 46 00:02:31,480 --> 00:02:36,360 Speaker 1: this is different, different letter here. Yeah, you know you 47 00:02:36,360 --> 00:02:38,320 Speaker 1: want to know how can you get him to pay up? 48 00:02:38,360 --> 00:02:41,000 Speaker 1: I guess the easy answer is just to stop doing 49 00:02:41,040 --> 00:02:44,320 Speaker 1: anything extra for him, since he's not going to give 50 00:02:44,360 --> 00:02:47,080 Speaker 1: you a raise. I mean, that's the easy answer. It 51 00:02:47,120 --> 00:02:49,440 Speaker 1: sounds like he's starting to take you for granted now 52 00:02:50,080 --> 00:02:53,760 Speaker 1: and he does want more. He's totally ignoring whatever arrangement 53 00:02:53,800 --> 00:02:56,919 Speaker 1: you guys had in the beginning. You asked him a 54 00:02:57,040 --> 00:03:00,399 Speaker 1: question about what is his wife doing now that you're 55 00:03:00,400 --> 00:03:02,880 Speaker 1: doing all of this extra stuff, But you didn't say 56 00:03:02,919 --> 00:03:06,040 Speaker 1: you got an answer for him from him. You know, 57 00:03:06,160 --> 00:03:08,160 Speaker 1: he wants you to just pick up his meds or 58 00:03:08,240 --> 00:03:11,520 Speaker 1: cook or go to the cleaners. That was kind of 59 00:03:11,560 --> 00:03:14,840 Speaker 1: I guess his answer. But since you're asking, I have 60 00:03:14,880 --> 00:03:18,400 Speaker 1: a question for you, because I've never quite heard this before. 61 00:03:20,360 --> 00:03:24,200 Speaker 1: A proud side chick, A proud side chick, does that 62 00:03:24,240 --> 00:03:27,200 Speaker 1: mean you're happy? You're happy in your role, You're happy 63 00:03:27,200 --> 00:03:30,079 Speaker 1: to be number two, that you're okay with wasting your 64 00:03:30,080 --> 00:03:33,200 Speaker 1: time with this man, that you won't want your own 65 00:03:33,280 --> 00:03:36,000 Speaker 1: husband one day. It doesn't sound like any of that 66 00:03:36,040 --> 00:03:39,720 Speaker 1: stuff matters to you. And but really, I don't believe 67 00:03:39,760 --> 00:03:42,200 Speaker 1: you're proud. I just believe you're in it and this 68 00:03:42,280 --> 00:03:44,720 Speaker 1: is what it is. I think you know you get 69 00:03:44,760 --> 00:03:47,520 Speaker 1: sad sometimes. I think maybe you do wish you could 70 00:03:47,520 --> 00:03:51,440 Speaker 1: be wifey. I think that I'm glad you have another man, 71 00:03:52,240 --> 00:03:55,560 Speaker 1: since you made that clear in your letter. But where 72 00:03:55,600 --> 00:03:58,200 Speaker 1: are you going with all of this stuff in your life? 73 00:03:58,240 --> 00:04:01,880 Speaker 1: That's the most important questions. What about your future and 74 00:04:01,920 --> 00:04:04,280 Speaker 1: what you want and your dreams and your goals and 75 00:04:04,640 --> 00:04:07,440 Speaker 1: all of that. I think you should think about those questions. 76 00:04:07,640 --> 00:04:09,920 Speaker 1: You should think about how you're being treated right now 77 00:04:09,920 --> 00:04:12,800 Speaker 1: with all the extra stuff, and maybe if you sit 78 00:04:12,840 --> 00:04:15,200 Speaker 1: down and think about it what you really want, maybe 79 00:04:15,200 --> 00:04:20,360 Speaker 1: you'll get the strength to walk away from this situation. Steve. Now, 80 00:04:22,000 --> 00:04:25,680 Speaker 1: now see I got all this right, I got all 81 00:04:25,720 --> 00:04:28,040 Speaker 1: the answer to this right here. Because see his lady 82 00:04:28,120 --> 00:04:37,880 Speaker 1: right hill, she's confused. Yeah, And when you said I 83 00:04:38,000 --> 00:04:40,680 Speaker 1: have been a proud side check to a married man 84 00:04:40,760 --> 00:04:43,640 Speaker 1: for over seven years, I knew what was up. When 85 00:04:43,640 --> 00:04:49,440 Speaker 1: we met I was fine with it. Okay, hello, you've 86 00:04:49,480 --> 00:04:53,680 Speaker 1: just described your relationship. You was fine with it for 87 00:04:54,040 --> 00:04:58,200 Speaker 1: seven years, and then you said I was happy to 88 00:04:58,279 --> 00:05:01,960 Speaker 1: provide laughter for times and a lot of great sex 89 00:05:02,400 --> 00:05:05,080 Speaker 1: once or twice a week for the most part out 90 00:05:05,120 --> 00:05:08,360 Speaker 1: of held up my head, my deal. Well now we're 91 00:05:08,360 --> 00:05:13,599 Speaker 1: getting older now, so now what do you want? He's 92 00:05:13,640 --> 00:05:17,840 Speaker 1: been expecting more from me If I cook, he expects 93 00:05:17,839 --> 00:05:20,720 Speaker 1: to come over and eat dinner at my house. Okay, 94 00:05:21,040 --> 00:05:25,680 Speaker 1: you cook, Well you're gonna gear all everybody yourself. You 95 00:05:26,040 --> 00:05:31,160 Speaker 1: don't want the proud side chick. Now you want to complain? 96 00:05:31,680 --> 00:05:37,719 Speaker 1: Sherley's right. Are you really the proud side chick? Are 97 00:05:37,800 --> 00:05:43,200 Speaker 1: you just the side chick? So then he says he's 98 00:05:43,200 --> 00:05:45,880 Speaker 1: asking me to pick up clothes from the cleaners, run 99 00:05:45,880 --> 00:05:48,520 Speaker 1: the mail, buy him some cologne, stop by the pharmacy, 100 00:05:48,560 --> 00:05:51,440 Speaker 1: pick up prescription. One day, asking if I'm doing all 101 00:05:51,440 --> 00:05:54,279 Speaker 1: his stuff, what's his wife doing nowadays in her spare time? 102 00:05:54,839 --> 00:05:56,440 Speaker 1: He didn't give you an answer. Well, let me help 103 00:05:56,440 --> 00:06:00,440 Speaker 1: you out. Do you know what his wife is doing? See, 104 00:06:00,440 --> 00:06:03,200 Speaker 1: if you're doing all this extra stuff, it frees up 105 00:06:03,279 --> 00:06:06,840 Speaker 1: his wife to be more relaxed and less stressed. Out 106 00:06:07,320 --> 00:06:13,120 Speaker 1: thanks to you. Living her best life. That's whe's doing. Oh, 107 00:06:13,160 --> 00:06:16,360 Speaker 1: she enjoyed herself. So now he got a happy wife 108 00:06:16,680 --> 00:06:18,800 Speaker 1: because she ain't got to go pick up the scriptures, 109 00:06:19,040 --> 00:06:21,680 Speaker 1: cooking no dinner, she ain't gotta make getting no medicine 110 00:06:21,920 --> 00:06:25,599 Speaker 1: because he got your stupid ass doing all this. Proud 111 00:06:26,279 --> 00:06:28,680 Speaker 1: but she signed up for and talking about you, the 112 00:06:28,760 --> 00:06:32,240 Speaker 1: proud side chick. Just what the proud side chick get. 113 00:06:32,839 --> 00:06:35,559 Speaker 1: And when we come back, I'm finish square, I'm finna 114 00:06:35,600 --> 00:06:37,880 Speaker 1: sell it all for you. I'm going to help you 115 00:06:37,960 --> 00:06:42,479 Speaker 1: understand exactly where you at. All right, Steve. We'll have 116 00:06:42,600 --> 00:06:45,920 Speaker 1: part two of Steve's response coming up at twenty three 117 00:06:45,960 --> 00:06:49,480 Speaker 1: minutes after the hours subject side chick title with main 118 00:06:49,640 --> 00:06:52,560 Speaker 1: chick duty. We'll get back into it right after this. 119 00:06:53,240 --> 00:06:56,840 Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, Steve, 120 00:06:56,920 --> 00:07:00,040 Speaker 1: come on, let's recap today's strawberry letter. The subject my 121 00:07:00,240 --> 00:07:04,440 Speaker 1: chick title with main chick duties. He is woman being 122 00:07:04,520 --> 00:07:07,799 Speaker 1: the proud side chick to a married man for seven years. 123 00:07:08,480 --> 00:07:10,520 Speaker 1: She knew what was when she met him. She was 124 00:07:10,560 --> 00:07:13,520 Speaker 1: fine with it, happy to provide laughter, fun times in 125 00:07:13,560 --> 00:07:15,520 Speaker 1: a lot of great sex. Once or twice a week. 126 00:07:16,760 --> 00:07:19,640 Speaker 1: That's what you said. You signed up for that. You 127 00:07:19,760 --> 00:07:24,160 Speaker 1: said you was happy to provide that, and guess what, 128 00:07:24,480 --> 00:07:28,640 Speaker 1: he was happy to accept it. So now for the 129 00:07:28,680 --> 00:07:30,320 Speaker 1: most part, out of the the hell of mind to deal. 130 00:07:30,400 --> 00:07:36,200 Speaker 1: Now we're getting older. Oh now you're older now, and 131 00:07:36,320 --> 00:07:38,880 Speaker 1: he's been expected more from me. If I cooked, he 132 00:07:39,000 --> 00:07:40,840 Speaker 1: expected to come over and eat dinner at my house 133 00:07:40,880 --> 00:07:47,800 Speaker 1: some days. Okay, you cook, obviously made enough for him, 134 00:07:47,840 --> 00:07:50,400 Speaker 1: so he over your house eating. He asked me to 135 00:07:50,440 --> 00:07:52,400 Speaker 1: pick up his clothes from the cleaners, running the mail, 136 00:07:52,880 --> 00:07:55,640 Speaker 1: buy him some cologne or shot by the pharmacy, pick 137 00:07:55,720 --> 00:07:59,920 Speaker 1: up some prescriptions. And guess what you're doing it because 138 00:08:00,080 --> 00:08:04,920 Speaker 1: you the proud side chick, but the title is side 139 00:08:05,000 --> 00:08:08,800 Speaker 1: chick with main chick duties. You signed up for this 140 00:08:09,480 --> 00:08:11,440 Speaker 1: one day to ask him. If I'm doing all this stuff, 141 00:08:11,440 --> 00:08:13,120 Speaker 1: then what is his wife doing it? Like I told 142 00:08:13,160 --> 00:08:15,800 Speaker 1: you earlier, See, if you're doing all this extra stuff, 143 00:08:15,920 --> 00:08:18,160 Speaker 1: it frees up his wife to be more relaxed and 144 00:08:18,240 --> 00:08:23,080 Speaker 1: less stressed out at home thanks to you, because now 145 00:08:23,120 --> 00:08:25,080 Speaker 1: all she got to do is lay down when he wanted, 146 00:08:25,480 --> 00:08:27,440 Speaker 1: she could do what she wants. She watching TV, she 147 00:08:27,480 --> 00:08:31,600 Speaker 1: got her feet up because this side chick is doing 148 00:08:31,720 --> 00:08:39,959 Speaker 1: all the remedial tasks. Now, I've never had one argument 149 00:08:40,000 --> 00:08:42,719 Speaker 1: with this man, and I truly love him. But if 150 00:08:42,720 --> 00:08:44,720 Speaker 1: he expects me to do more for him that I 151 00:08:44,800 --> 00:08:47,120 Speaker 1: want him to do more for me, it's too late. 152 00:08:48,600 --> 00:08:55,880 Speaker 1: It's too late, do more for you? What? What? What? 153 00:08:55,200 --> 00:08:58,000 Speaker 1: What are you getting all you gonna get? You're the 154 00:08:58,120 --> 00:09:02,679 Speaker 1: side chick. You might be doing wifey duties, but you 155 00:09:02,679 --> 00:09:07,080 Speaker 1: ain't gonna get wifey rights, you ain't gonna get wifey credits, 156 00:09:07,679 --> 00:09:11,000 Speaker 1: and you show ain't gonna get wifey benefits. So now, 157 00:09:11,040 --> 00:09:13,720 Speaker 1: what extra do you want him to do? Well, let's 158 00:09:13,720 --> 00:09:16,720 Speaker 1: get into the letter. I don't bother him for money 159 00:09:16,840 --> 00:09:19,640 Speaker 1: or for gifts, because he's always been generous and thoughtful. 160 00:09:20,120 --> 00:09:22,000 Speaker 1: So that means he break you off a little bit, 161 00:09:22,240 --> 00:09:25,720 Speaker 1: that's all that means. But the extra duties are causing 162 00:09:25,760 --> 00:09:27,480 Speaker 1: a problem for me. Sad that I picked up his 163 00:09:27,559 --> 00:09:30,160 Speaker 1: medicine from Walgreen and some vitamins he asked me for. 164 00:09:30,280 --> 00:09:32,120 Speaker 1: I had a new guy come over late that night. 165 00:09:32,280 --> 00:09:34,920 Speaker 1: He saw the medicine bag on the table and I 166 00:09:35,040 --> 00:09:37,600 Speaker 1: add toty mills from my uncle and he believed me. Yes, 167 00:09:37,640 --> 00:09:41,080 Speaker 1: I date other men from time to time. Okay, So 168 00:09:41,200 --> 00:09:44,960 Speaker 1: you don't want nothing for yourself. You just want some 169 00:09:45,040 --> 00:09:49,680 Speaker 1: sex from some men. You're a proud side chick, and 170 00:09:49,880 --> 00:09:52,880 Speaker 1: you probably a side chick to some other people too, 171 00:09:54,080 --> 00:09:56,440 Speaker 1: because why are you dating other men. You ain't in 172 00:09:56,480 --> 00:10:01,000 Speaker 1: a full blown relationship with nobody but married man for 173 00:10:01,040 --> 00:10:04,760 Speaker 1: seven years, so you are double side. You ain't nothing 174 00:10:04,800 --> 00:10:08,200 Speaker 1: but Slaw. But what is there to be proud of? 175 00:10:08,520 --> 00:10:12,880 Speaker 1: That's what I'm because you slow. You ain't the Greens 176 00:10:13,080 --> 00:10:19,040 Speaker 1: or the black eyed peas. You is just slow. But 177 00:10:19,200 --> 00:10:22,679 Speaker 1: Slaw by herself ain't nothing. She wanted you to comment, 178 00:10:22,760 --> 00:10:27,640 Speaker 1: Tommy Slow, I'm gonna let Tomma let tom slow. Is 179 00:10:27,840 --> 00:10:30,680 Speaker 1: the cheapest item side item you can buy. You ain't 180 00:10:30,760 --> 00:10:34,000 Speaker 1: baked beans, You ain't the macaroni and cheese. You ain't 181 00:10:34,000 --> 00:10:38,439 Speaker 1: the yams, You ain't the Greens. You're the slow. So 182 00:10:38,480 --> 00:10:41,600 Speaker 1: now here we go. I told him stre was uncle. 183 00:10:41,720 --> 00:10:45,280 Speaker 1: He believed no matter what, I've always put my side 184 00:10:45,360 --> 00:10:49,280 Speaker 1: chick duties first and never let anything interfere with my duties. 185 00:10:49,880 --> 00:10:52,320 Speaker 1: I need the same respect from my main man. I 186 00:10:52,400 --> 00:10:55,280 Speaker 1: want to pay increase if he expects me to do more, 187 00:10:55,480 --> 00:10:58,240 Speaker 1: if I take it seriously. He knows this because arrangement 188 00:10:58,440 --> 00:11:01,680 Speaker 1: has been paying my bills for years. He won't give 189 00:11:01,720 --> 00:11:03,679 Speaker 1: me a raise. How could I get him to pay up? 190 00:11:03,960 --> 00:11:08,440 Speaker 1: You can't listen to me. You are the side chick 191 00:11:08,840 --> 00:11:13,520 Speaker 1: that has been performing your duties for minimum wage. Now. 192 00:11:13,559 --> 00:11:14,960 Speaker 1: I don't know if you've been keeping up with the 193 00:11:14,960 --> 00:11:18,280 Speaker 1: news or not, but the stimulus package just got passed 194 00:11:18,280 --> 00:11:22,880 Speaker 1: by the Biden Kamala Harris administration. In this new stimulus bill, 195 00:11:23,000 --> 00:11:26,440 Speaker 1: they put forth a new minimum wage law to try 196 00:11:26,480 --> 00:11:29,480 Speaker 1: to get fifteen dollars an hour. They shot that down. 197 00:11:30,080 --> 00:11:33,079 Speaker 1: Even the stimulus package ain't giving people a rage when 198 00:11:33,120 --> 00:11:36,480 Speaker 1: they come to minimum wage. So you're not getting a 199 00:11:36,679 --> 00:11:43,360 Speaker 1: raise for minimum wage either. Side chicks don't get full 200 00:11:43,600 --> 00:11:50,000 Speaker 1: blown salaries with benefits. You the side chick you signed 201 00:11:50,360 --> 00:11:54,040 Speaker 1: up for it. You're sitting up in here talking about 202 00:11:54,120 --> 00:11:57,920 Speaker 1: you though you've been receiving minimum wage. And then you 203 00:11:58,040 --> 00:12:01,800 Speaker 1: said you're talking Look, he's not taking you for granted, 204 00:12:02,280 --> 00:12:06,600 Speaker 1: he's just taking you, see, And then you didn't win 205 00:12:06,640 --> 00:12:11,520 Speaker 1: out and to worsen your situation, you are now seeing 206 00:12:11,640 --> 00:12:15,280 Speaker 1: other men too, but you ain't in a serious relationship 207 00:12:15,320 --> 00:12:20,440 Speaker 1: with them because guess what, you probably they side chick too. 208 00:12:21,880 --> 00:12:25,840 Speaker 1: You have not set yourself up to be nobody's number one, 209 00:12:27,360 --> 00:12:34,000 Speaker 1: and now you want to raise and pay later, lady, 210 00:12:34,720 --> 00:12:38,920 Speaker 1: come on that. You got to stop this foolishness because 211 00:12:38,960 --> 00:12:42,720 Speaker 1: the clock is ticking and you older. Now when we 212 00:12:42,840 --> 00:12:47,960 Speaker 1: come back, I'm gonna let Tommy talk to you. Tommy, 213 00:12:48,480 --> 00:12:55,560 Speaker 1: the side chick expert Uncle Steve then told you what 214 00:12:55,679 --> 00:12:59,000 Speaker 1: the deal is. But now since you want to really hit, 215 00:12:59,320 --> 00:13:02,000 Speaker 1: I'm gonna let you here from Tommy, Ladies and Jimmy, 216 00:13:02,080 --> 00:13:05,960 Speaker 1: we come back. Side chick advice from one of the 217 00:13:06,040 --> 00:13:10,080 Speaker 1: side piece kings. Here we go. All right, we'll be 218 00:13:10,160 --> 00:13:12,880 Speaker 1: back with part three of the Strawberry Letters, side chick 219 00:13:12,880 --> 00:13:15,880 Speaker 1: title with main chick duties and Tommy right after this, 220 00:13:17,760 --> 00:13:22,040 Speaker 1: you're listening Morning show. All right, guys, here we are 221 00:13:22,160 --> 00:13:25,120 Speaker 1: part three of today's Strawberry Letters. Sometimes they're so good 222 00:13:25,160 --> 00:13:28,520 Speaker 1: we have to have three parts. Side chick title with 223 00:13:28,559 --> 00:13:32,480 Speaker 1: main chick duties. Go ahead. This woman wants to raise. 224 00:13:33,760 --> 00:13:35,960 Speaker 1: She tied to do an actual She won't know what 225 00:13:36,000 --> 00:13:37,880 Speaker 1: the man's wife is doing. If she's doing all this 226 00:13:38,000 --> 00:13:40,640 Speaker 1: extra stuff, Well, the wife had the house relaxing. Because 227 00:13:40,679 --> 00:13:43,920 Speaker 1: you're doing all extra stuff. I gave you solid advice, 228 00:13:44,320 --> 00:13:48,440 Speaker 1: But you want to hear from Tommy. So, Tommy, here's 229 00:13:48,480 --> 00:13:52,400 Speaker 1: this woman that's chick number two, the very proud side chick, 230 00:13:53,240 --> 00:13:55,920 Speaker 1: and she wants to know. She just want to get 231 00:13:55,920 --> 00:13:58,160 Speaker 1: a raise in pay for being side chick number two. 232 00:13:58,200 --> 00:14:01,880 Speaker 1: What do you have to say? And I understand it wholeheartedly. Listen, 233 00:14:01,960 --> 00:14:04,280 Speaker 1: I'm gonna jump in here first and say I'm not 234 00:14:04,360 --> 00:14:08,040 Speaker 1: gonna let Uncle Steve sit here and ruin the side 235 00:14:08,120 --> 00:14:10,880 Speaker 1: chick nation. We're not going to do that. You're not 236 00:14:10,960 --> 00:14:14,360 Speaker 1: going to commit here and ruin a good thing that's 237 00:14:14,400 --> 00:14:17,600 Speaker 1: going on with a lot of people across this country. Now, listen, 238 00:14:17,679 --> 00:14:20,520 Speaker 1: young lady, you don't have to be the side chick. 239 00:14:20,600 --> 00:14:23,720 Speaker 1: What you can do Let's just change the title, all right, 240 00:14:23,880 --> 00:14:26,400 Speaker 1: you the second wife. You see what I'm saying. Let's 241 00:14:26,440 --> 00:14:29,240 Speaker 1: make that thing look a little bit better what it is. 242 00:14:29,760 --> 00:14:32,240 Speaker 1: You can be wife. Yeah, you can be you know, 243 00:14:32,560 --> 00:14:35,320 Speaker 1: second wife or be wife, but you don't have to 244 00:14:35,440 --> 00:14:41,800 Speaker 1: be you know, uh going yeah like as an abat. Yeah, 245 00:14:41,800 --> 00:14:44,040 Speaker 1: his asking to go to prison. Go ahead, tell me 246 00:14:46,240 --> 00:14:49,480 Speaker 1: you can be. Now. If this man is not owning 247 00:14:49,600 --> 00:14:52,560 Speaker 1: up and taking care of his side chick duties, then 248 00:14:52,600 --> 00:14:54,680 Speaker 1: guess what we got to go get this money? Baby, 249 00:14:54,800 --> 00:14:57,120 Speaker 1: we got to take him to court. I don't see 250 00:14:57,120 --> 00:14:59,960 Speaker 1: no other way around this. We got to take him 251 00:15:00,080 --> 00:15:02,960 Speaker 1: the court. And your honor will understand because your honor 252 00:15:03,000 --> 00:15:05,440 Speaker 1: probably got a side piece too. So guess what. We 253 00:15:05,600 --> 00:15:08,280 Speaker 1: got to take him to court because this money is 254 00:15:08,400 --> 00:15:10,720 Speaker 1: due to you, because you have earned it, and you 255 00:15:10,840 --> 00:15:13,040 Speaker 1: put in seven years of work and you are old 256 00:15:13,120 --> 00:15:15,680 Speaker 1: this much. We are not gonna let Steve Harvey jump 257 00:15:15,720 --> 00:15:19,960 Speaker 1: on here and ruin the side piece. Nation, all side pieces, 258 00:15:20,040 --> 00:15:22,440 Speaker 1: stand up. We're not gonna do it today. And I 259 00:15:22,560 --> 00:15:25,960 Speaker 1: mean that. Okay, stand up for what's your what's old 260 00:15:26,000 --> 00:15:29,840 Speaker 1: to you, what's what's what's what's supposed to be for you? Okay, 261 00:15:30,160 --> 00:15:32,440 Speaker 1: I'm here to help you. I will go into that 262 00:15:32,520 --> 00:15:34,840 Speaker 1: court room with you, tom and I will stand by 263 00:15:34,880 --> 00:15:38,480 Speaker 1: your side and hip time. You can't see, but you 264 00:15:38,560 --> 00:15:40,560 Speaker 1: all zoom your little boy to walk in the room. 265 00:15:41,600 --> 00:15:57,960 Speaker 1: Oste stupid. That was neew timing. Thomas Miles host is 266 00:15:58,000 --> 00:16:02,520 Speaker 1: ready to live. I talked to you'all lady. Come up, boys, 267 00:16:03,720 --> 00:16:07,560 Speaker 1: Hey Tommy, this doing your radio show from home. Y'all 268 00:16:07,800 --> 00:16:10,480 Speaker 1: we all zoom. Tommy's little boy walked in the room 269 00:16:10,520 --> 00:16:12,480 Speaker 1: and say, hey, Tommy, you need to shut this down 270 00:16:13,920 --> 00:16:19,320 Speaker 1: half your family just walked in the room. Hey mommy, 271 00:16:19,360 --> 00:16:24,720 Speaker 1: Hey mommy, what what is Decide Chick Daddy talking about? 272 00:16:25,120 --> 00:16:27,920 Speaker 1: I said, Tommy, all right, listen, we gotta get out 273 00:16:27,920 --> 00:16:30,560 Speaker 1: of here. Coming up more of The Steve Harvey Morning 274 00:16:30,600 --> 00:16:34,760 Speaker 1: Show at the top of the hour. Right after you're 275 00:16:34,800 --> 00:16:37,280 Speaker 1: listening to The Steve Harvey Morning Show