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Speaker 1: I'm reporting my sister in law to the police for

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Speaker 1: child endangerment, but I was not ready for what my

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Speaker 1: family did next. You know, it's never fun when you

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Speaker 1: have to call the police on your own sister in law.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but if you get them to take the child,

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Speaker 2: then you're kind of like having double babysitting, right, because

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Speaker 2: the babysitter is babysitting the baby, and then the police

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Speaker 2: are babysitting the babysitter, and so you have like two

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Speaker 2: layers of babysitting.

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Speaker 1: Much like the plot line to Inception. I do not

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Speaker 1: understand what you're saying. So this is me twenty five mail,

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Speaker 1: my brother Jack twenty seven male, and his wife twenty

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Speaker 1: five female. It all started when Jack and Jill got perego.

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Speaker 2: Ooh, they went up that hell they created a baby

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Speaker 2: hill yep.

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Speaker 1: The at least was almost over, and my parents invited

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Speaker 1: them to stay at our house. The day they came back,

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Speaker 1: Jack asked me why I haven't moved out of my

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Speaker 1: room yet, like a boom. I was confused, like wtf.

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Speaker 1: He told me that he and Jill will be at

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Speaker 1: my room and that I need to go to the

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Speaker 1: guest room. Stupid. Wait, so that's the real real are

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Speaker 1: living with the parents. Jack and Joe are now moving

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Speaker 1: in because their lease is about to come up and

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Speaker 1: she's about to have the baby, so they're moving in

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Speaker 1: with the parents. Yeah, I know, it's a little different.

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Speaker 1: And now the brother's like, Yo, no, your room is mine.

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Speaker 1: What are you doing? Get out of here? Yeah? Bum

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Speaker 1: did you forget? Everything belongs to me? Do you forget?

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Speaker 1: I refused, but my parents got mad. We got into

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Speaker 1: a big fight, and I lost and ended up in

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Speaker 1: the much smaller guest room. Then his wife, Jill, had

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Speaker 1: a problem with my cooking. I eat scrambled eggs with

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Speaker 1: mozzarella and avocado every day for breakfast, so delicious, which

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Speaker 1: I was literally just going to say that literally sounds

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Speaker 1: like something that you hit a huge That sounds awesome.

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Speaker 1: But Jill said she could not stand the smell. That

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Speaker 1: smells so good. She asked me to stop. I refused,

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Speaker 1: and then my parents got involved, and then I did

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Speaker 1: have to stop. Yo, this guy can't eat. You can't

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Speaker 1: stay in the room. You thought you could eat and sleep.

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Speaker 1: You ATEI it problems with other food I like too,

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Speaker 1: and I had to stop cooking that as well. What

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Speaker 1: can the man eat, let me eat. I was told

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Speaker 1: that I must be more accommodating because she is pregnant,

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Speaker 1: Like that is my problem at ain it ain't. Then

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Speaker 1: Jill started to boss me around. We were alone for

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Speaker 1: eight hours while my parents and Jack worked. She obviously

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Speaker 1: thought I was going to be her personal maid. I refused,

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Speaker 1: and she threw a temper tantrum like always, and I

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Speaker 1: again had a big fight with Jack and my parents

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Speaker 1: and I was then told that she has a high

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Speaker 1: risk pregnancy and was on bed rest and that I'm

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Speaker 1: an a hole for not agreeing to help her.

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Speaker 2: Okay, like I understand. You know you want to make

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Speaker 2: sure the pregnant woman is safe. Yeah, I'm not stressed.

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Speaker 1: The man's gotta eat. He's gotta eat. No, he has

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Speaker 1: to starve.

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Speaker 2: You're taking every food group away from this poor souls

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Speaker 2: food pyramid is empty.

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Speaker 1: You know, his lack of food will We'll build a

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Speaker 1: real resilience within him. I'm channeling my dad, I'm channeling

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Speaker 1: my inner Reddit logic.

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Speaker 2: Yes, yeah, yeah, he's intermittent fasting.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, very very good. Read him to faris the four

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Speaker 1: hour body. So everyone thinks I'm an a hole for

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Speaker 1: not helping her. So I told Jack that he's the

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Speaker 1: one that knocked her up. It's your responsibility. I mean true,

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Speaker 1: this is true. He's pitting facts. I stood my ground

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Speaker 1: and in the end, Jill's cousin came to help her

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Speaker 1: on the occasion. Then Jill gave birth to my nephew.

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Speaker 1: I congratulated them when they came home. And that is it. Bro,

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Speaker 1: he's he's so salty, it's amazing. It's amazing.

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Speaker 2: You can't have that delicious food, you know, you gottah else?

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Speaker 1: Yeh, come on. I don't like babies, so I just

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Speaker 1: keep him myself now. But that doesn't stop Jill from

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Speaker 1: asking for favors. Please watch the baby while I take

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Speaker 1: himself some food, et cetera. I always refuse it. Damn right,

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Speaker 1: it's been it's been a tense this baby ridiculous actually,

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Speaker 1: and we have new fights now all the time, over

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Speaker 1: and over. It all came to a head last Friday

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Speaker 1: when she asked me to watch my nephew while she

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Speaker 1: goes to the pharmacy for baby formula. I refused. She

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Speaker 1: got mad and we started having a fight. She grabbed

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Speaker 1: her purse to start leaving anyways, And I told her

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Speaker 1: been much.

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Speaker 2: It's a been much, right. He's like so just like

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Speaker 2: man is so anti baby and just like this couple. Dude, Yo,

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Speaker 2: yo yo, it's time to move out. FAM's get your

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Speaker 2: own place big time. Like I feel for him, but

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Speaker 2: like this, he's going to.

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Speaker 1: Get out too far? Yeah, too far? Now. I was serious,

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Speaker 1: and she knew it. That's how bad. It's like. She

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Speaker 1: knows that he's gonna call the police. You're being a

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Speaker 1: She broke down and screamed what a horrible human being

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Speaker 1: I am, and then ran to her room and had

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Speaker 1: a complete mental breakdown. Good God. When Jack and my

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Speaker 1: parents came home, we had the biggest fight yet. Jack

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Speaker 1: accused me of hating Jill and my nephew, among other things.

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Speaker 1: I told him I refuse to bond with them because

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Speaker 1: they will weaponize my nephew against me. Oh, fee sound

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Speaker 1: fucking crazy. You sound crazy, bro. My parents told me

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Speaker 1: enough is enough, that they can't believe they've raised such

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Speaker 1: a selfish human being, and that I could either help

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Speaker 1: or move out, ih yeah, yeah, yeah, yes, I am

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Speaker 1: thinking the second option and quick edit. I work from

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Speaker 1: home and pay for fifty percent of all household expenses,

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Speaker 1: including the mortgage. Jack and Jill do not contribute to

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Speaker 1: any expenses. All right, well it's very simple. Take that

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Speaker 1: money that you're contributing and get yourself an apartment. Like

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Speaker 1: what are we doing here? Yeah? What are you doing?

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Speaker 1: Is for sure the a hole right point? Yes, eight

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Speaker 1: thousand percent? Op? What do you do? What are the

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Speaker 1: comments on this one? Yeah? I was curious, so I'll

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Speaker 1: tell you guys, what do you think? It's a whole? Like,

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Speaker 1: like for sure? We got to see what you guys

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Speaker 1: say on this. So, based on Op's response, Jilda doesn't

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Speaker 1: want a parent her all day. They pay nothing towards

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Speaker 1: the house and treat Op like crap in your shoes. Op.

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Speaker 1: I might maybe sometimes watch the kid while the parent

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Speaker 1: grabs a shower. I would not, however, be free in

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Speaker 1: house babysitting under circumstances barring with genuine emergency the way

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Speaker 1: they seem to treat you, though, I can't say I

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Speaker 1: blame you for refusing outright, As long as this has

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Speaker 1: been made clear to everyone, OP is not the a

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Speaker 1: hole I think. I think I think op is being

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Speaker 1: I think dud.

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Speaker 2: Read it always sides with Poster, But I think I

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Speaker 2: think op he's probably been a little bit of an

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Speaker 2: a hole.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah. If you think this family story is crazy,

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Speaker 1: check out this one where Opie's husband lost her two

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Speaker 1: hundred thousand dollars. That's a lot of do