WEBVTT - No Kissing?

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<v Speaker 1>This is He Said a Yadiho with Eric Winter and

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<v Speaker 1>Rodlin fantab.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, welcome back to another episode of He Said

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<v Speaker 2>A Yet Voh, this is leading up to our Halloween week.

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<v Speaker 2>You're not gonna be here.

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<v Speaker 1>No, thank you guys for listening. Yeah, I'm not gonna

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<v Speaker 1>be here.

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<v Speaker 2>No, I'm missing a lot of stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna miss Halloween. I'm gonna miss Dylan's birthday, although

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<v Speaker 1>we're going to celebrate it when we're back, but his

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<v Speaker 1>actual birthday, I'm not gonna be here. And those are

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<v Speaker 1>the moments when you go, oh, what am I doing?

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<v Speaker 1>What am I doing? What am I doing?

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not sure?

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<v Speaker 1>My mom gave me so much coca.

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<v Speaker 2>You have no idea for what?

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<v Speaker 1>For leaving again to go to work?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my god, but she always gives you crap if

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<v Speaker 2>you don't work.

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<v Speaker 1>Too exactly right, exactly right. But she was like, why

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<v Speaker 1>are you doing that again? You leave in your family?

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<v Speaker 1>Those kids, Well, Mom, I know, but they're with Grandma

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<v Speaker 1>and Nanny and Eric and they are happy and they're thriving,

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<v Speaker 1>and they go to school and they have their activities

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<v Speaker 1>and is it But it doesn't matter. They don't have you.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know why you're doing it really bugged me.

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<v Speaker 2>Listen, it's funny. We had a conversation you and I

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<v Speaker 2>just the other day when our good friend Siano is

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<v Speaker 2>in town and there's a project that we're going to

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<v Speaker 2>start developing with another company that they came to us

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<v Speaker 2>to help them, you know, produce together and for Rozland

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<v Speaker 2>to possibly star and the show would be set in Oregon,

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<v Speaker 2>and I said, you know, for me, roz this is

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<v Speaker 2>a no go unless they can guarantee shoot this in

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<v Speaker 2>Los Angeles, like Gray's Anatomy is a Seattle based show,

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<v Speaker 2>but it's shot in LA.

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<v Speaker 1>Would explained to people that shooting in LA is very expensed.

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<v Speaker 2>It's very difficult, very expensive. But there are plenty.

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<v Speaker 1>Of actors Portland, Yeah, is that cold.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, that's going north northwest, very chilly, beautiful Portland, Organs

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<v Speaker 2>great but very overcast, very gloomy like most of the year.

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<v Speaker 2>But you know, listen, there are plenty of actors that

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<v Speaker 2>do have to put the foot down and say, hey,

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<v Speaker 2>I won't relocate, and not everybody's in that position to

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<v Speaker 2>be able to do it, but that was our stipulation.

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<v Speaker 2>They were okay with it, so we're going to carry on,

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<v Speaker 2>but it was important. I said, ro, you can't go

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<v Speaker 2>do a network potentially a network procedural type show and

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<v Speaker 2>be gone for nine months out of the year and

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<v Speaker 2>you're the star of the show. We did it with

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<v Speaker 2>Fantasy Island Brutal and now this would be even longer

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<v Speaker 2>if it was to work. So your mom's not wrong,

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<v Speaker 2>but then your mom also gives you crap when you

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<v Speaker 2>don't work, So it's a very tough balance. It is

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<v Speaker 2>a bummer because she's leaving again so soon, like she's

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<v Speaker 2>lamping home for a few months and she's been working

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<v Speaker 2>non stops and she got back and then to the movie.

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<v Speaker 2>Then she comes back for like a week, and then

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<v Speaker 2>she's gone again for almost a week and a half.

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<v Speaker 2>So it's not it's definitely not fun.

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<v Speaker 1>And the kids are incredible. I'm very understanding, and they're like, no,

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<v Speaker 1>they wish they could go with me. That's the only thing.

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<v Speaker 1>They're like, caw, we go to Spain with your mom.

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<v Speaker 2>But I mean, we'd all love to go to Spain

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<v Speaker 2>if we could go to Spain.

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<v Speaker 1>For that's why say they should be homeschooled.

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<v Speaker 2>No, that's not the ants. That doesn't solve.

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<v Speaker 1>These because it's more flexible.

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<v Speaker 2>There are so many people in this business that we've

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<v Speaker 2>had this debate so many times that don't agree with

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<v Speaker 2>homes schore in this situation, and it's up to the

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<v Speaker 2>parent to make the decisions. If the parent's going to travel,

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<v Speaker 2>it's on the parent. I'm gonna do it their whole life,

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<v Speaker 2>so they understand.

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<v Speaker 1>Guys, let's talk about homeschooling for a second and problem

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<v Speaker 1>and the way the world is at the moment. I

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<v Speaker 1>understand that there's a very important reality to socialization and

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<v Speaker 1>for kids to be able to experience, yeah, going to

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<v Speaker 1>school and having friends and the clicks and the senior

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<v Speaker 1>from junior from all the dances and the recitals and

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<v Speaker 1>the extracurricular activities and going to the mall. And you know,

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<v Speaker 1>having like the way we grew up. Yes, that's what

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<v Speaker 1>I said, is very very very important. It is. And

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<v Speaker 1>I had a blast when I was in high school

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<v Speaker 1>and you know high school and it was amazing, but

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<v Speaker 1>it was it was different times. And nowadays the stuff

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<v Speaker 1>that Sabella comes back telling us, granted she's she's in

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<v Speaker 1>a private school, you know, really fundomenal families. We pay

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of money for her to be safe to

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<v Speaker 1>come back home and talk about things that you just

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<v Speaker 1>go the peer pressure. And because these kids they have resources,

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<v Speaker 1>they are able to get into trouble and to buy

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<v Speaker 1>things and to do things.

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<v Speaker 2>I went to public school with with like not any

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<v Speaker 2>wealthy area.

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<v Speaker 1>And Okay, I guess the problem some parents problems even

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<v Speaker 1>not actors or athletes or none of that. Some people

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<v Speaker 1>they believe that because the way kids grow up, they

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<v Speaker 1>grow up so fast nowadays, and the social media and

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<v Speaker 1>everything is so accessible to these kids, and they grow

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<v Speaker 1>so fast, they learn things way too fast when they're

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<v Speaker 1>they're in school. So there are a lot of parents argue,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm not talking about only celebrities or big professional

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<v Speaker 1>athletes and very wealthy people that they decide to go

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<v Speaker 1>to the homeschooling route so they can protect their kids,

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<v Speaker 1>or you know, because they want to keep their lives

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<v Speaker 1>very private. Regular people more and more are inclining into

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<v Speaker 1>the idea of home schooling because at least you feel

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<v Speaker 1>that all this outside influences, you know, they're a little

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<v Speaker 1>bit more sheltered.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, but sheltering a kid doesn't always guarantee the success

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<v Speaker 2>and the same either. I'm not saying that do you

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<v Speaker 2>know how many stories I've heard about kids that a

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<v Speaker 2>were homeschooled and they go to college and they don't

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<v Speaker 2>know how to navigate the courses of the classes because

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<v Speaker 2>their studying habits been totally different. Yes, this is I've

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<v Speaker 2>heard this directly from other students. Not only that there.

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<v Speaker 1>Are eric there are homeschooling programs that now big like

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<v Speaker 1>Ivy League colleges are looking into those kids to be

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<v Speaker 1>able to recruit them because it's like really high quality education.

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<v Speaker 1>We're not talking about homeschooling. They know, but they learned.

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<v Speaker 1>They learn a lot.

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<v Speaker 2>You're not even here who's gonna stay home and make

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<v Speaker 2>sure you're doing her homework? No, I'm not saying every

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<v Speaker 2>kid that I know that home school has a parent

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<v Speaker 2>managing the curriculum or somebody being fully invested in what's

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<v Speaker 2>going on in the homeschool. And these kids at twelveyears

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<v Speaker 2>old aren't just fully navigating all their own homeschooling stuff

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<v Speaker 2>and setting it up. So are you going to do that? No?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't have time to do exactly any of that.

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<v Speaker 1>But are you missing the point? I'm not saying that

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<v Speaker 1>we're going to do it. I don't think it's conducive

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<v Speaker 1>to our lifestyle at the moment, you just say what

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<v Speaker 1>I'm saying. What I'm saying. What I'm saying is I'm

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<v Speaker 1>trying to give you the two sides of the coin.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, some people think they're in favor of home schooling.

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<v Speaker 1>Some people are against. I am just trying for you

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<v Speaker 1>to understand that there might be benefit when it comes

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<v Speaker 1>to homeschooling. And listen, it depends on the amount the

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<v Speaker 1>kind of curriculum you have them on. It doesn't mean

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<v Speaker 1>that they're going to be home playing video games. If

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<v Speaker 1>you have them doing sports.

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<v Speaker 2>And managing all of it, then.

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<v Speaker 1>You get somebody to manage it.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, oh my god. Yes, it's not as easy as

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<v Speaker 2>she's making a sample.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not as complicated as you make it.

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<v Speaker 2>Middle. I'm not saying it's bad. There's a good and

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<v Speaker 2>bad to it. Definitely. Here's a topic that randomly. Have

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<v Speaker 2>you heard about this, Kim Kardashian's daughter getting her a

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<v Speaker 2>twenty thousand dollars necklace for her for her birthday?

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<v Speaker 1>No, I haven't.

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<v Speaker 2>It's something it's called a scimity toilet graphic, some kind

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<v Speaker 2>of design. But is there a world in which you

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<v Speaker 2>think that her daughter actually got her a twenty thousand

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<v Speaker 2>dollars necklace or this was just gifted And this is

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<v Speaker 2>again great press because how does her daughter have access

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<v Speaker 2>to twenty thousand dollars? I don't care how rich is

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<v Speaker 2>does she have a does her daughter a credit card

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<v Speaker 2>with twenty thousand dollars on it?

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<v Speaker 1>They're both pretty pretty rich. Twys Northwest probably has.

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<v Speaker 2>So she went to her nanny's. I'm buying my mom

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<v Speaker 2>a twenty thousand.

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<v Speaker 1>Dollars Well has a lot ones that is twenty thousand

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<v Speaker 1>dollars away. I think grandma paid for it and said

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<v Speaker 1>this and you're going to give this? This is you

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<v Speaker 1>they pay for it.

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<v Speaker 2>I think this is a publicity thing and that they

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<v Speaker 2>were gifted this necklace and it's retail value is twenty

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<v Speaker 2>thousand dollars. But there's no way it is a I mean,

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<v Speaker 2>we all know jewelry is one of the most overpriced

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<v Speaker 2>things out there, so it didn't cost twenty thousand dollars to,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, get this necklace made. I think it was

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<v Speaker 2>gifted and I think it's a fun publicity thing.

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<v Speaker 1>But what do we know about it?

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<v Speaker 2>Look, I mean they're saying it was just a gift.

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<v Speaker 2>And it was something that was sentimental and something that

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<v Speaker 2>was fun. I think, you know, the idea of anything

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<v Speaker 2>that comes from the kid to the parent I think

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<v Speaker 2>is wonderful. Would you be you love it if our

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<v Speaker 2>kids got you a twenty thousand dollars necklace? I actually

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<v Speaker 2>know that for a fact.

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<v Speaker 1>You love it.

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<v Speaker 2>I'd be furious. I'd be so annoying.

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<v Speaker 1>Why did you buy me a twenty thousand dollars necklace?

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<v Speaker 1>As what's said? First of all, so.

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<v Speaker 2>You could you know? I'd be happy? Very nice things.

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<v Speaker 2>But my point is, okay, just so you know. The

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<v Speaker 2>skippy d refers to a series of surrealists videos Popular

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<v Speaker 2>and You, which features an army of human headed toilets

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<v Speaker 2>fighting a war against another army of camera headed men.

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<v Speaker 2>This sounds like a fun, wacky thing that they must

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<v Speaker 2>enjoy together. But look, my point is, would you be happy?

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<v Speaker 2>You would love it? I'm right, m oh my god,

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<v Speaker 2>kids got me a twenty thousand dollars necklace, and you

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<v Speaker 2>would love it that they spent that kind of money.

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<v Speaker 1>Not really, Eric, Now, no, no, I'm going to get

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<v Speaker 1>twenty thousand dollars for my kid like I should. We

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<v Speaker 1>should be gifting them.

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<v Speaker 2>Twenty We get them twenty thousand dollars. Our lives are

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<v Speaker 2>gifting them everything that there. There's thousands and thousands of

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<v Speaker 2>dollars we spend with them on a daily basis. Guys,

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<v Speaker 2>So teach these kids something about earning money and with

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<v Speaker 2>a value of money.

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<v Speaker 1>And like Eric, when you are Northwest and your parents

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<v Speaker 1>are twenty thousands, probably two ballionaires, exactly, let them be

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<v Speaker 1>to them. Twenty thousand is no what twenty thousand means

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<v Speaker 1>to us. Don't be a hater, and I hate it

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<v Speaker 1>is what it is. I mean, I wish they will

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<v Speaker 1>just go downtown LA and feed some some poor families

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<v Speaker 1>with those twenty thousand, But that's not what they do.

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<v Speaker 1>Although I shouldn't say that because I'm sure they do

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of charitable a lot of charitable. Yes, So listen, let.

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<v Speaker 2>Them be north I have no problem with very rich

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<v Speaker 2>people spending the money the way they want to spend it.

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<v Speaker 2>There's some problem.

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<v Speaker 1>So, guys, this is a true story. So not Eric

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<v Speaker 1>Dylan Gabriet Winter. He has been asking for a gold

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<v Speaker 1>necklace because.

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<v Speaker 2>And he's obsessed with baseball right now. He doesn't play

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<v Speaker 2>baseball all, by the way, but he thinks he is.

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<v Speaker 2>He played. He's obsessed with the baseball playoffs and now

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<v Speaker 2>the World Series, like I mean, lives for it.

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<v Speaker 1>And the cutest thing is that every time they go

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<v Speaker 1>to bad, he gets up and he grabs his bat

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<v Speaker 1>and he's batting at the same time that the TV

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<v Speaker 1>person is bad and ask.

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<v Speaker 2>Him if he wants to play, and he's like, he's

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<v Speaker 2>obsessed with their necklaces too, because all these baseball players

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<v Speaker 2>have these big gold changes. Yeah, and he's like, how

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<v Speaker 2>much you think that one costs? Can I get a

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<v Speaker 2>necklace like that? What do you think done?

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<v Speaker 1>You're twelve anyway, twelve or so, Dylan has been asking

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<v Speaker 1>for a old necklace. Of course, Mommy here, I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>going to get him a fake gold play it. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>going to get him a gold necklace. So I said, Eric,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what, I'm just gonna go.

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<v Speaker 2>She's always word is going to turn their neck green,

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<v Speaker 2>and they do.

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<v Speaker 1>So I'm like, we don't do it like fake jewelry.

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<v Speaker 1>Like it kills me because I think it gets green

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<v Speaker 1>and tarnishes and it's like you get bacteria. I hate it. Anyways,

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<v Speaker 1>So I go to this place that I love in

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<v Speaker 1>Beverly Hills that they have jewry.

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<v Speaker 2>It's a jury store actually for a decent price. It's

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<v Speaker 2>not like yes over.

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<v Speaker 1>So I'm there and I'm looking for something, and I'll

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<v Speaker 1>tell the lady. I said, listen, I'm looking for my son.

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<v Speaker 1>He's six years old and he wants a gold necklace

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<v Speaker 1>and I want something that is reasonable and like like thin,

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<v Speaker 1>you know. And she's like, how old is he? He's six?

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<v Speaker 1>And she's like, wow, okay, that you're a really really

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<v Speaker 1>good mom. So let's go over here. And she said,

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<v Speaker 1>which is.

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<v Speaker 2>Crazy, but this, and listen, I was against it big

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<v Speaker 2>time because he has a friend that has like a

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<v Speaker 2>gold rope. I think that one is like I used

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<v Speaker 2>to have as a kid, probably play and you know.

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<v Speaker 1>Anyways, we're gonna give it to him today.

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<v Speaker 2>We're gonna get my little necklace for his birthday today

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<v Speaker 2>together for birthday before. Mom.

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<v Speaker 1>He's so cute. I paid for it, you only have.

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<v Speaker 1>I already told our business manager to make sure. And

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<v Speaker 1>then Eric just getting Eric's I don't know why I

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<v Speaker 1>did didn't do that, and then Eric goes like how

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<v Speaker 1>much was it? I'm going don't worry about it, and

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<v Speaker 1>the lady keeps saying you can go a little thinner.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, he's only six, and I go, what if

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<v Speaker 1>he doesn't like And I'm going, oh my god, I

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<v Speaker 1>will worry because it's beautiful.

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<v Speaker 2>So no, no, we're gonna love It's it's a crazy gift.

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<v Speaker 2>This actually goes hand in hand with us saying we

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<v Speaker 2>shouldn't talk about anybody's gifts. Crazy gift for a six

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<v Speaker 2>year old. I was fully against it, but we actually

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<v Speaker 2>know it's very it's actually very easily priced. But we

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<v Speaker 2>this kid doesn't He loves toys and stuff, but he

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<v Speaker 2>just this will mean so much more to him to

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<v Speaker 2>have these little neck he's wearing like a fake plastic

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<v Speaker 2>necklace around right now. I know, so for a Halloween costume.

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<v Speaker 2>So he just really wants this. So it's I guess

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<v Speaker 2>we do, you know, treat them occasionally for something?

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, we do.

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<v Speaker 2>Have you heard about it? I just saw this the

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<v Speaker 2>other day. Funny enough about this engaged couple who have

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<v Speaker 2>they have never kissed, saying they're saving the moment for

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<v Speaker 2>their wedding day. Now, obviously we've heard about people not

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<v Speaker 2>having sex before they get married, but have you ever

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<v Speaker 2>heard of something not kissing? No, that's wild good for them,

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<v Speaker 2>I guess in some way that clearly means that I

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<v Speaker 2>wonder if either of them have ever kissed anybody else

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<v Speaker 2>at some point, you know, just in a dating experience

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<v Speaker 2>before this this engagement. That's pretty that's a strong, strong commitment.

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<v Speaker 2>But I have to I mean, like, in my opinion,

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<v Speaker 2>for me, you gotta know a little bit what you're

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<v Speaker 2>getting into. No, you got to know if the person's

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<v Speaker 2>a good kiss if someone's a bad kisser. To me,

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<v Speaker 2>that's a major turn off. Like kissing is a big

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<v Speaker 2>thing for me.

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<v Speaker 1>Let me ask you something. I mean, it's truly you're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna be almost fifty years old, But do you think

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<v Speaker 1>you could have married a woman that wanted to excuse

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<v Speaker 1>a cause celibacy, said I'm not gonna have sex until marriage.

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<v Speaker 1>Would you marry? Would you have married her?

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<v Speaker 2>If I was super super I mean, if I was

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<v Speaker 2>gonna get married, I'd have been very in love with

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<v Speaker 2>a person.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe yeah, But what if marriage was like she's like,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want to do it until i'm married, and

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want to marry like in four or five years.

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<v Speaker 2>Boo. It would be tough. May really, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>I would have to be would you be cheating left

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<v Speaker 2>and right. No, that's terrible. I have to be very

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<v Speaker 2>very much in love. But a kiss, I'd have to

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<v Speaker 2>at least have a kiss.

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<v Speaker 1>What if jesuys I don't care say that, I'd.

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<v Speaker 2>Be probably out, Not probably, I'd be out. Be a

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<v Speaker 2>deal breaker for sure, even though not having sex before marriage,

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<v Speaker 2>I'd be a little bit like, woo, why you kind

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<v Speaker 2>of want to know what you're getting into. But if

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<v Speaker 2>I was in love, love love with the person, and

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<v Speaker 2>there was a lot of potential obviously for us to

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<v Speaker 2>have great physical connection and all that that, I probably

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<v Speaker 2>would be able to manage that. But you got to

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<v Speaker 2>be able to have a kiss of some sort. I

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<v Speaker 2>mean if they haven't even kissed. There's never been any

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<v Speaker 2>four plan of any kind, like nothing, because there's plenty

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<v Speaker 2>of people that will do everything but have sex.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm watching, at least I'm watching the new season of

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<v Speaker 1>Love is Blind. You know that I'm a big fan

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<v Speaker 1>of the show, And there was a couple. Now they

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<v Speaker 1>picked the six or seven couples that actually make it

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<v Speaker 1>to the big beautiful vacation in Mexico. They're there for

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<v Speaker 1>a week and then they go to meet their parents,

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<v Speaker 1>and then after that is when they actually get married,

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<v Speaker 1>if they're going to get married anyways. So there's this

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<v Speaker 1>couple that she was talking about before the show. She's

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<v Speaker 1>been not actively, not sexually active for a while because

0:15:48.000 --> 0:15:50.760
<v Speaker 1>she made a conscious decision to be like, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>at this stage of my life as a woman, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't want to continue giving myself to people that are

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<v Speaker 1>not worthy, you know, deserving of me, because it's a

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<v Speaker 1>soul connection. You know, she's very Christian. The guy that

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<v Speaker 1>she picked is also they're actually a lovely Couplelympig fans.

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<v Speaker 1>He's also very very Christian, And she was saying, I don't,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't. I just don't want to do it anymore,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, unless it's somebody that I know. But I

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<v Speaker 1>get that, I know, so I was. But so you

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<v Speaker 1>believe you believe that when you actually have intercourse with somebody, right,

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<v Speaker 1>it's not only a physical act of skin to skin

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<v Speaker 1>and just your organic Do you think it's a spiritual connection?

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<v Speaker 2>I fully do. You don't. I think it can be.

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<v Speaker 2>Sex can be two different things, right, it can be

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<v Speaker 2>I don't. I don't mean transactional in the sense of cost,

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<v Speaker 2>but sex can just be transactional in the sense of pleasure. Right,

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<v Speaker 2>someone can just be like I need to have sex

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<v Speaker 2>and it and that's it. It feels good. But then there's

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<v Speaker 2>also a much more deeper rooted connection for sure that

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<v Speaker 2>I think two people can experience beyond the physical place.

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<v Speaker 1>So why do people just do it for for leisure?

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<v Speaker 2>It can be transactional, or it can be.

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<v Speaker 1>I know, no, but it's not about transactional or or spiritual.

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<v Speaker 1>She believes that it doesn't matter if a is a

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<v Speaker 1>one night standing. It doesn't matter if it's fast or

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<v Speaker 1>slow with a person you love or not love. She

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<v Speaker 1>believes that the act of having sex, there is a

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<v Speaker 1>little piece of you energetically that always stays with other

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<v Speaker 1>person and vice versa. So if that's the case, it's.

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<v Speaker 2>A little bit I think that is a stronger I

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<v Speaker 2>could be wrong, stronger feeling for a woman. Okay, I

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<v Speaker 2>mean you're letting you know what I mean. It's a

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<v Speaker 2>it's a much different it's a bit more of a

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<v Speaker 2>different situation, right, So I could I totally see how

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<v Speaker 2>a woman can feel I'm giving a piece of myself

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<v Speaker 2>with any partner I sleep with. I fully understand that

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<v Speaker 2>in comprehend and I fully respect it, by the way,

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<v Speaker 2>but I think in the school.

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<v Speaker 1>So you think of a man, they don't care.

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<v Speaker 2>Not ever, not all men. Some men take it very

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<v Speaker 2>personal and feel very much that it's you're giving a

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<v Speaker 2>part of yourself, your spirit, a spiritual connection. You know

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<v Speaker 2>that you're you're you're giving something to say somebody that

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<v Speaker 2>you may never get back right if you break up,

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<v Speaker 2>and that that piece is gone. There are plenty of men,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm sure that feel that way. I just think it's

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<v Speaker 2>less for men than women. But I do think there

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<v Speaker 2>is a true spiritual connection with a partner, when you're

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<v Speaker 2>deeply connected with someone, and that's sort of what will

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<v Speaker 2>continue to build that relationship and make it stronger.

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<v Speaker 1>It's interesting because I think girls nowadays it's like we

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<v Speaker 1>have become men, you know, and there's all these young girls,

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<v Speaker 1>because there's these young girls that have absolutely no respect

0:18:30.760 --> 0:18:32.920
<v Speaker 1>for sex or their bodies and they just think it's

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<v Speaker 1>fun and they love going. I know, you're right, you're right,

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<v Speaker 1>but I'm like now because of the podcast world, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I listened to a lot of podcasts of girls from

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<v Speaker 1>all ages, and a lot of them it's such a nonchalant,

0:18:46.760 --> 0:18:50.399
<v Speaker 1>it's so casual, for them to to talk about about

0:18:50.400 --> 0:18:54.440
<v Speaker 1>sexual encounters. And I and I slept with this, and

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<v Speaker 1>after last night, I kept thinking about it. And maybe

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<v Speaker 1>it's because now I have a daughtery, right, and I

0:18:59.240 --> 0:19:02.160
<v Speaker 1>keept thinking about it, going, yeah, it is absolutely true.

0:19:02.200 --> 0:19:05.360
<v Speaker 1>They only knew if women, if these young girls only

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<v Speaker 1>knew that every time you allow something to go inside

0:19:08.720 --> 0:19:12.000
<v Speaker 1>your body, they take something away from it. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>There's a different way of perceiving the sexual encounter. But

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<v Speaker 2>at the end of the day, I think what you're

0:19:17.400 --> 0:19:19.720
<v Speaker 2>there's twofold, right, There's always been women like that, but

0:19:19.760 --> 0:19:21.840
<v Speaker 2>you're hearing about it more because of podcast, social media,

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<v Speaker 2>et cetera. Right, things are news and information is much

0:19:24.880 --> 0:19:28.240
<v Speaker 2>more accessible. Number one. But number two, you have a rise,

0:19:28.520 --> 0:19:31.480
<v Speaker 2>you know of a female movement, you know over these

0:19:31.480 --> 0:19:34.640
<v Speaker 2>past decades, right, and women are taking more control over

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<v Speaker 2>their rights, deservedly, so.

0:19:38.000 --> 0:19:39.679
<v Speaker 1>Rtect about it.

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<v Speaker 2>But a woman has a right to pick which what

0:19:41.359 --> 0:19:43.520
<v Speaker 2>it means to them, and at the end of the day,

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<v Speaker 2>whatever that feels to that purse, to that woman, it's

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<v Speaker 2>her choice. And because I've always said this, women rule

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<v Speaker 2>the world in every sense of the you know, the

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<v Speaker 2>word as far as I'm concerned. You know, if a

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<v Speaker 2>female there is no man that can just walk into

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<v Speaker 2>a bar and be like, I'm going to sleep with

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<v Speaker 2>somebody to night, Like that man is at the mercy no,

0:20:02.520 --> 0:20:05.600
<v Speaker 2>but he's at the mercy of the woman saying okay.

0:20:06.200 --> 0:20:07.960
<v Speaker 2>But there is any woman at that bar could walk

0:20:07.960 --> 0:20:09.720
<v Speaker 2>in and be like, I'm getting laid to night, and

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<v Speaker 2>you know what, one hundred percent she will because if

0:20:12.760 --> 0:20:14.920
<v Speaker 2>a woman wants to get laid, she's going to get laid.

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<v Speaker 2>If a dude wants to get laid, no guarantees percent. Yeah, women,

0:20:23.400 --> 0:20:25.600
<v Speaker 2>as soon as women realize that, like they have the

0:20:25.680 --> 0:20:29.600
<v Speaker 2>powers in their hands in a relationship, we realize it. No,

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<v Speaker 2>it's happening more and more, but like it wasn't always

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<v Speaker 2>the case because they didn't have that position in society.

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<v Speaker 2>And that's what is happening.

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<v Speaker 1>In parts of the world. There's all the countries that

0:20:39.840 --> 0:20:42.760
<v Speaker 1>women will never have the luxury or the ability, or

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<v Speaker 1>the will or the shind to to have that kind

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<v Speaker 1>of mentality. But that's why I will never It's interesting,

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<v Speaker 1>that's why I would never be able to forgive or

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<v Speaker 1>move past an infidelity because now I see it as

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<v Speaker 1>you have put your thing and energetically disrespected me because

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<v Speaker 1>you're going to go to that and then come to

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<v Speaker 1>me and then come into my body.

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<v Speaker 2>It would be it would be the exact same thing

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<v Speaker 2>for a man. Who think about how bad it would

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<v Speaker 2>be for a man, for a woman that cheated on

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<v Speaker 2>a man. Not only did that person put themselves inside

0:21:21.000 --> 0:21:23.120
<v Speaker 2>your wife and you have to live with forever knowing

0:21:23.119 --> 0:21:26.200
<v Speaker 2>your wife was screwing that person. It's the same thing.

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<v Speaker 2>It goes both ways. That's why you can see how

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<v Speaker 2>people struggle so much with overcoming it.

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<v Speaker 1>That's one of the things that when the whole Tiger

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<v Speaker 1>Woods is even Tiger Woods.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, that was an insane amount of ways.

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<v Speaker 1>I know. But to me, the most painful thing for

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<v Speaker 1>me feeling for the wife was like, it's not only

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<v Speaker 1>it was not only one, it was so many of

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<v Speaker 1>them without protection. How can you do that and go

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<v Speaker 1>back home and be with your wife and pretend that

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<v Speaker 1>nothing is going on the amount of disrespect to her

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<v Speaker 1>body and to her life, because when you know you're

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<v Speaker 1>bringing back all kinds of probably diseases and like like

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<v Speaker 1>STDs guaranty.

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<v Speaker 2>Why I feel like you're always attacking? Why are you

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<v Speaker 2>attacking men. I'm man, women do exactly the same thing

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<v Speaker 2>you're talking about.

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<v Speaker 1>No, No, it's not the same.

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<v Speaker 2>Are you talking about? It's not the same.

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<v Speaker 1>You can't keep being not as much? How do you

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<v Speaker 1>know that statistically? I'm sure it's a textbook. I'm pretty

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<v Speaker 1>sure this. God forgive me.

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<v Speaker 2>I would love to know the status men cheating that

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<v Speaker 2>way women and men cheating. How big the disparity really is?

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<v Speaker 1>List of the research I fol that right now.

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<v Speaker 2>I think you're you're not going to be You're gonna

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<v Speaker 2>be surprised.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe maybe I'll be surprised.

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<v Speaker 2>But you're always, uh, you're always very one sided in

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<v Speaker 2>this topic. Maybe you know that, you're always very okay.

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<v Speaker 2>Men are more likely to cheat the women, but the

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<v Speaker 2>gender gap varies by age. Twenty percent of men and

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<v Speaker 2>thirteen percent of women reportedly have sex with someone other

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<v Speaker 2>than their partner. So it's not that, but it's it's

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<v Speaker 2>only seven percent difference.

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<v Speaker 1>But that's a big percentage really, and that's on an

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<v Speaker 1>age range.

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<v Speaker 2>That's not like I still think National Survey of sexual Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>let's say fifteen percent of men have had an overlapping

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<v Speaker 2>relationship in a previous year, but only nine percent of women. Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>so that's a little bit more in that way. You know,

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<v Speaker 2>it's it's it's more men, for sure. But I'm just

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<v Speaker 2>saying to you, stop acting like women are all saints.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not saying that. I don't plenty of women.

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<v Speaker 2>That cheat and go out there and their marriages over

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<v Speaker 2>over stuff. I know. All right, let's shift to another topic.

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<v Speaker 2>This one's actually it's a horrible, horrible topic. But I'm

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<v Speaker 2>curious how you felt about the way TMZ handled the

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<v Speaker 2>Liam Paigne situation, which was so shocking and tragic. I

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<v Speaker 2>feel so bad for his family and you know, everybody

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<v Speaker 2>that's always supported him him and he seemed like such

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<v Speaker 2>a good guy, just dealing with a lot of issues. Yeah, really, really,

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<v Speaker 2>it really hit I don't know why they hit me.

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<v Speaker 2>Saw when I read it, I was like, I was

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<v Speaker 2>very much in shock, and it felt just felt so

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<v Speaker 2>bad and seeing his dad at the scene and looking

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<v Speaker 2>at over the balcony all this stuff, like the family

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<v Speaker 2>had to go.

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<v Speaker 1>I haven't seen that.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my god, his dad went to Argentina and his

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<v Speaker 2>dad was looking off the balcony that he fell off

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<v Speaker 2>of and at the site where he let I mean

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<v Speaker 2>just awful to have to go through that, But what

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<v Speaker 2>do you think about teams? He releasing the images of

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<v Speaker 2>so much stuff so quickly. It didn't surprise me because

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<v Speaker 2>that's what these do, these trades do. Yeah, but you

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<v Speaker 2>probably think it's wrong, right, it was going to come

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<v Speaker 2>out anyway. Yeah, it's going to come out. But it

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<v Speaker 2>just feels like obviously people just making money off of it.

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<v Speaker 2>You know.

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<v Speaker 1>Of course it's super sad and money rules the world

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<v Speaker 1>and they don't care. You know who said? Whoever took

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<v Speaker 1>the picture and decided to go to the raise and

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<v Speaker 1>and that's even worse because they got it from somebody.

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<v Speaker 1>So the person that should be accountable is that person

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<v Speaker 1>that said, you know what, let me just I'm assuming

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<v Speaker 1>an employee.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, there's gonna be problems. There's gonna be lawsuits

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<v Speaker 2>because it happened with Kobe Bryant. I don't know if

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<v Speaker 2>you remember, but there was a massive lawsuit family won

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<v Speaker 2>against the Sheriff's department. I believe it was because they

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<v Speaker 2>released photos of the of the crash and it was awful.

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<v Speaker 2>So there could be massive lawsuits. But we'll probably get

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<v Speaker 2>sued because they got the rights from somebody else.

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<v Speaker 1>But Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Anyways, well, thoughts and prayers go out to his family.

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<v Speaker 2>We covered a lot. I know I'm gonna go to

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<v Speaker 2>work film some rookie and you're gonna go get a

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<v Speaker 2>facial I'm gonna go to facial spot, which is gonna

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<v Speaker 2>be really interesting.

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<v Speaker 1>Then I'm gonna go do my grades and then I

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<v Speaker 1>have to finish packing and then oh if I go, guys,

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<v Speaker 1>wish me a long. I'm going to do a movie

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<v Speaker 1>Harvey Harvey, Harvey Gjen and very excited Chris Hoole, Mexican director.

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<v Speaker 1>This is an American comedy. It's a lot of fun

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<v Speaker 1>and you'll be seeing things I'm going to be posting

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<v Speaker 1>on Instagram and stuff like that. So you guys are

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<v Speaker 1>part of the journey. Thank you so much. Love you,

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