Speaker 1: This is He Said a Yadiho with Eric Winter and
Speaker 1: Rodlin fantab.
Speaker 2: All right, welcome back to another episode of He Said
Speaker 2: A Yet Voh, this is leading up to our Halloween week.
Speaker 2: You're not gonna be here.
Speaker 1: No, thank you guys for listening. Yeah, I'm not gonna
Speaker 1: be here.
Speaker 2: No, I'm missing a lot of stuff.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna miss Halloween. I'm gonna miss Dylan's birthday, although
Speaker 1: we're going to celebrate it when we're back, but his
Speaker 1: actual birthday, I'm not gonna be here. And those are
Speaker 1: the moments when you go, oh, what am I doing?
Speaker 1: What am I doing? What am I doing?
Speaker 2: I'm not sure?
Speaker 1: My mom gave me so much coca.
Speaker 2: You have no idea for what?
Speaker 1: For leaving again to go to work?
Speaker 2: Oh my god, but she always gives you crap if
Speaker 2: you don't work.
Speaker 1: Too exactly right, exactly right. But she was like, why
Speaker 1: are you doing that again? You leave in your family?
Speaker 1: Those kids, Well, Mom, I know, but they're with Grandma
Speaker 1: and Nanny and Eric and they are happy and they're thriving,
Speaker 1: and they go to school and they have their activities
Speaker 1: and is it But it doesn't matter. They don't have you.
Speaker 1: I don't know why you're doing it really bugged me.
Speaker 2: Listen, it's funny. We had a conversation you and I
Speaker 2: just the other day when our good friend Siano is
Speaker 2: in town and there's a project that we're going to
Speaker 2: start developing with another company that they came to us
Speaker 2: to help them, you know, produce together and for Rozland
Speaker 2: to possibly star and the show would be set in Oregon,
Speaker 2: and I said, you know, for me, roz this is
Speaker 2: a no go unless they can guarantee shoot this in
Speaker 2: Los Angeles, like Gray's Anatomy is a Seattle based show,
Speaker 2: but it's shot in LA.
Speaker 1: Would explained to people that shooting in LA is very expensed.
Speaker 2: It's very difficult, very expensive. But there are plenty.
Speaker 1: Of actors Portland, Yeah, is that cold.
Speaker 2: Yes, that's going north northwest, very chilly, beautiful Portland, Organs
Speaker 2: great but very overcast, very gloomy like most of the year.
Speaker 2: But you know, listen, there are plenty of actors that
Speaker 2: do have to put the foot down and say, hey,
Speaker 2: I won't relocate, and not everybody's in that position to
Speaker 2: be able to do it, but that was our stipulation.
Speaker 2: They were okay with it, so we're going to carry on,
Speaker 2: but it was important. I said, ro, you can't go
Speaker 2: do a network potentially a network procedural type show and
Speaker 2: be gone for nine months out of the year and
Speaker 2: you're the star of the show. We did it with
Speaker 2: Fantasy Island Brutal and now this would be even longer
Speaker 2: if it was to work. So your mom's not wrong,
Speaker 2: but then your mom also gives you crap when you
Speaker 2: don't work, So it's a very tough balance. It is
Speaker 2: a bummer because she's leaving again so soon, like she's
Speaker 2: lamping home for a few months and she's been working
Speaker 2: non stops and she got back and then to the movie.
Speaker 2: Then she comes back for like a week, and then
Speaker 2: she's gone again for almost a week and a half.
Speaker 2: So it's not it's definitely not fun.
Speaker 1: And the kids are incredible. I'm very understanding, and they're like, no,
Speaker 1: they wish they could go with me. That's the only thing.
Speaker 1: They're like, caw, we go to Spain with your mom.
Speaker 2: But I mean, we'd all love to go to Spain
Speaker 2: if we could go to Spain.
Speaker 1: For that's why say they should be homeschooled.
Speaker 2: No, that's not the ants. That doesn't solve.
Speaker 1: These because it's more flexible.
Speaker 2: There are so many people in this business that we've
Speaker 2: had this debate so many times that don't agree with
Speaker 2: homes schore in this situation, and it's up to the
Speaker 2: parent to make the decisions. If the parent's going to travel,
Speaker 2: it's on the parent. I'm gonna do it their whole life,
Speaker 2: so they understand.
Speaker 1: Guys, let's talk about homeschooling for a second and problem
Speaker 1: and the way the world is at the moment. I
Speaker 1: understand that there's a very important reality to socialization and
Speaker 1: for kids to be able to experience, yeah, going to
Speaker 1: school and having friends and the clicks and the senior
Speaker 1: from junior from all the dances and the recitals and
Speaker 1: the extracurricular activities and going to the mall. And you know,
Speaker 1: having like the way we grew up. Yes, that's what
Speaker 1: I said, is very very very important. It is. And
Speaker 1: I had a blast when I was in high school
Speaker 1: and you know high school and it was amazing, but
Speaker 1: it was it was different times. And nowadays the stuff
Speaker 1: that Sabella comes back telling us, granted she's she's in
Speaker 1: a private school, you know, really fundomenal families. We pay
Speaker 1: a lot of money for her to be safe to
Speaker 1: come back home and talk about things that you just
Speaker 1: go the peer pressure. And because these kids they have resources,
Speaker 1: they are able to get into trouble and to buy
Speaker 1: things and to do things.
Speaker 2: I went to public school with with like not any
Speaker 2: wealthy area.
Speaker 1: And Okay, I guess the problem some parents problems even
Speaker 1: not actors or athletes or none of that. Some people
Speaker 1: they believe that because the way kids grow up, they
Speaker 1: grow up so fast nowadays, and the social media and
Speaker 1: everything is so accessible to these kids, and they grow
Speaker 1: so fast, they learn things way too fast when they're
Speaker 1: they're in school. So there are a lot of parents argue,
Speaker 1: and I'm not talking about only celebrities or big professional
Speaker 1: athletes and very wealthy people that they decide to go
Speaker 1: to the homeschooling route so they can protect their kids,
Speaker 1: or you know, because they want to keep their lives
Speaker 1: very private. Regular people more and more are inclining into
Speaker 1: the idea of home schooling because at least you feel
Speaker 1: that all this outside influences, you know, they're a little
Speaker 1: bit more sheltered.
Speaker 2: Yeah, but sheltering a kid doesn't always guarantee the success
Speaker 2: and the same either. I'm not saying that do you
Speaker 2: know how many stories I've heard about kids that a
Speaker 2: were homeschooled and they go to college and they don't
Speaker 2: know how to navigate the courses of the classes because
Speaker 2: their studying habits been totally different. Yes, this is I've
Speaker 2: heard this directly from other students. Not only that there.
Speaker 1: Are eric there are homeschooling programs that now big like
Speaker 1: Ivy League colleges are looking into those kids to be
Speaker 1: able to recruit them because it's like really high quality education.
Speaker 1: We're not talking about homeschooling. They know, but they learned.
Speaker 1: They learn a lot.
Speaker 2: You're not even here who's gonna stay home and make
Speaker 2: sure you're doing her homework? No, I'm not saying every
Speaker 2: kid that I know that home school has a parent
Speaker 2: managing the curriculum or somebody being fully invested in what's
Speaker 2: going on in the homeschool. And these kids at twelveyears
Speaker 2: old aren't just fully navigating all their own homeschooling stuff
Speaker 2: and setting it up. So are you going to do that? No?
Speaker 1: I don't have time to do exactly any of that.
Speaker 1: But are you missing the point? I'm not saying that
Speaker 1: we're going to do it. I don't think it's conducive
Speaker 1: to our lifestyle at the moment, you just say what
Speaker 1: I'm saying. What I'm saying. What I'm saying is I'm
Speaker 1: trying to give you the two sides of the coin.
Speaker 1: You know, some people think they're in favor of home schooling.
Speaker 1: Some people are against. I am just trying for you
Speaker 1: to understand that there might be benefit when it comes
Speaker 1: to homeschooling. And listen, it depends on the amount the
Speaker 1: kind of curriculum you have them on. It doesn't mean
Speaker 1: that they're going to be home playing video games. If
Speaker 1: you have them doing sports.
Speaker 2: And managing all of it, then.
Speaker 1: You get somebody to manage it.
Speaker 2: Yes, oh my god. Yes, it's not as easy as
Speaker 2: she's making a sample.
Speaker 1: It's not as complicated as you make it.
Speaker 2: Middle. I'm not saying it's bad. There's a good and
Speaker 2: bad to it. Definitely. Here's a topic that randomly. Have
Speaker 2: you heard about this, Kim Kardashian's daughter getting her a
Speaker 2: twenty thousand dollars necklace for her for her birthday?
Speaker 1: No, I haven't.
Speaker 2: It's something it's called a scimity toilet graphic, some kind
Speaker 2: of design. But is there a world in which you
Speaker 2: think that her daughter actually got her a twenty thousand
Speaker 2: dollars necklace or this was just gifted And this is
Speaker 2: again great press because how does her daughter have access
Speaker 2: to twenty thousand dollars? I don't care how rich is
Speaker 2: does she have a does her daughter a credit card
Speaker 2: with twenty thousand dollars on it?
Speaker 1: They're both pretty pretty rich. Twys Northwest probably has.
Speaker 2: So she went to her nanny's. I'm buying my mom
Speaker 2: a twenty thousand.
Speaker 1: Dollars Well has a lot ones that is twenty thousand
Speaker 1: dollars away. I think grandma paid for it and said
Speaker 1: this and you're going to give this? This is you
Speaker 1: they pay for it.
Speaker 2: I think this is a publicity thing and that they
Speaker 2: were gifted this necklace and it's retail value is twenty
Speaker 2: thousand dollars. But there's no way it is a I mean,
Speaker 2: we all know jewelry is one of the most overpriced
Speaker 2: things out there, so it didn't cost twenty thousand dollars to,
Speaker 2: you know, get this necklace made. I think it was
Speaker 2: gifted and I think it's a fun publicity thing.
Speaker 1: But what do we know about it?
Speaker 2: Look, I mean they're saying it was just a gift.
Speaker 2: And it was something that was sentimental and something that
Speaker 2: was fun. I think, you know, the idea of anything
Speaker 2: that comes from the kid to the parent I think
Speaker 2: is wonderful. Would you be you love it if our
Speaker 2: kids got you a twenty thousand dollars necklace? I actually
Speaker 2: know that for a fact.
Speaker 1: You love it.
Speaker 2: I'd be furious. I'd be so annoying.
Speaker 1: Why did you buy me a twenty thousand dollars necklace?
Speaker 1: As what's said? First of all, so.
Speaker 2: You could you know? I'd be happy? Very nice things.
Speaker 2: But my point is, okay, just so you know. The
Speaker 2: skippy d refers to a series of surrealists videos Popular
Speaker 2: and You, which features an army of human headed toilets
Speaker 2: fighting a war against another army of camera headed men.
Speaker 2: This sounds like a fun, wacky thing that they must
Speaker 2: enjoy together. But look, my point is, would you be happy?
Speaker 2: You would love it? I'm right, m oh my god,
Speaker 2: kids got me a twenty thousand dollars necklace, and you
Speaker 2: would love it that they spent that kind of money.
Speaker 1: Not really, Eric, Now, no, no, I'm going to get
Speaker 1: twenty thousand dollars for my kid like I should. We
Speaker 1: should be gifting them.
Speaker 2: Twenty We get them twenty thousand dollars. Our lives are
Speaker 2: gifting them everything that there. There's thousands and thousands of
Speaker 2: dollars we spend with them on a daily basis. Guys,
Speaker 2: So teach these kids something about earning money and with
Speaker 2: a value of money.
Speaker 1: And like Eric, when you are Northwest and your parents
Speaker 1: are twenty thousands, probably two ballionaires, exactly, let them be
Speaker 1: to them. Twenty thousand is no what twenty thousand means
Speaker 1: to us. Don't be a hater, and I hate it
Speaker 1: is what it is. I mean, I wish they will
Speaker 1: just go downtown LA and feed some some poor families
Speaker 1: with those twenty thousand, But that's not what they do.
Speaker 1: Although I shouldn't say that because I'm sure they do
Speaker 1: a lot of charitable a lot of charitable. Yes, So listen, let.
Speaker 2: Them be north I have no problem with very rich
Speaker 2: people spending the money the way they want to spend it.
Speaker 2: There's some problem.
Speaker 1: So, guys, this is a true story. So not Eric
Speaker 1: Dylan Gabriet Winter. He has been asking for a gold
Speaker 1: necklace because.
Speaker 2: And he's obsessed with baseball right now. He doesn't play
Speaker 2: baseball all, by the way, but he thinks he is.
Speaker 2: He played. He's obsessed with the baseball playoffs and now
Speaker 2: the World Series, like I mean, lives for it.
Speaker 1: And the cutest thing is that every time they go
Speaker 1: to bad, he gets up and he grabs his bat
Speaker 1: and he's batting at the same time that the TV
Speaker 1: person is bad and ask.
Speaker 2: Him if he wants to play, and he's like, he's
Speaker 2: obsessed with their necklaces too, because all these baseball players
Speaker 2: have these big gold changes. Yeah, and he's like, how
Speaker 2: much you think that one costs? Can I get a
Speaker 2: necklace like that? What do you think done?
Speaker 1: You're twelve anyway, twelve or so, Dylan has been asking
Speaker 1: for a old necklace. Of course, Mommy here, I'm not
Speaker 1: going to get him a fake gold play it. I'm
Speaker 1: going to get him a gold necklace. So I said, Eric,
Speaker 1: you know what, I'm just gonna go.
Speaker 2: She's always word is going to turn their neck green,
Speaker 2: and they do.
Speaker 1: So I'm like, we don't do it like fake jewelry.
Speaker 1: Like it kills me because I think it gets green
Speaker 1: and tarnishes and it's like you get bacteria. I hate it. Anyways,
Speaker 1: So I go to this place that I love in
Speaker 1: Beverly Hills that they have jewry.
Speaker 2: It's a jury store actually for a decent price. It's
Speaker 2: not like yes over.
Speaker 1: So I'm there and I'm looking for something, and I'll
Speaker 1: tell the lady. I said, listen, I'm looking for my son.
Speaker 1: He's six years old and he wants a gold necklace
Speaker 1: and I want something that is reasonable and like like thin,
Speaker 1: you know. And she's like, how old is he? He's six?
Speaker 1: And she's like, wow, okay, that you're a really really
Speaker 1: good mom. So let's go over here. And she said,
Speaker 1: which is.
Speaker 2: Crazy, but this, and listen, I was against it big
Speaker 2: time because he has a friend that has like a
Speaker 2: gold rope. I think that one is like I used
Speaker 2: to have as a kid, probably play and you know.
Speaker 1: Anyways, we're gonna give it to him today.
Speaker 2: We're gonna get my little necklace for his birthday today
Speaker 2: together for birthday before. Mom.
Speaker 1: He's so cute. I paid for it, you only have.
Speaker 1: I already told our business manager to make sure. And
Speaker 1: then Eric just getting Eric's I don't know why I
Speaker 1: did didn't do that, and then Eric goes like how
Speaker 1: much was it? I'm going don't worry about it, and
Speaker 1: the lady keeps saying you can go a little thinner.
Speaker 1: You know, he's only six, and I go, what if
Speaker 1: he doesn't like And I'm going, oh my god, I
Speaker 1: will worry because it's beautiful.
Speaker 2: So no, no, we're gonna love It's it's a crazy gift.
Speaker 2: This actually goes hand in hand with us saying we
Speaker 2: shouldn't talk about anybody's gifts. Crazy gift for a six
Speaker 2: year old. I was fully against it, but we actually
Speaker 2: know it's very it's actually very easily priced. But we
Speaker 2: this kid doesn't He loves toys and stuff, but he
Speaker 2: just this will mean so much more to him to
Speaker 2: have these little neck he's wearing like a fake plastic
Speaker 2: necklace around right now. I know, so for a Halloween costume.
Speaker 2: So he just really wants this. So it's I guess
Speaker 2: we do, you know, treat them occasionally for something?
Speaker 1: Yes, we do.
Speaker 2: Have you heard about it? I just saw this the
Speaker 2: other day. Funny enough about this engaged couple who have
Speaker 2: they have never kissed, saying they're saving the moment for
Speaker 2: their wedding day. Now, obviously we've heard about people not
Speaker 2: having sex before they get married, but have you ever
Speaker 2: heard of something not kissing? No, that's wild good for them,
Speaker 2: I guess in some way that clearly means that I
Speaker 2: wonder if either of them have ever kissed anybody else
Speaker 2: at some point, you know, just in a dating experience
Speaker 2: before this this engagement. That's pretty that's a strong, strong commitment.
Speaker 2: But I have to I mean, like, in my opinion,
Speaker 2: for me, you gotta know a little bit what you're
Speaker 2: getting into. No, you got to know if the person's
Speaker 2: a good kiss if someone's a bad kisser. To me,
Speaker 2: that's a major turn off. Like kissing is a big
Speaker 2: thing for me.
Speaker 1: Let me ask you something. I mean, it's truly you're
Speaker 1: gonna be almost fifty years old, But do you think
Speaker 1: you could have married a woman that wanted to excuse
Speaker 1: a cause celibacy, said I'm not gonna have sex until marriage.
Speaker 1: Would you marry? Would you have married her?
Speaker 2: If I was super super I mean, if I was
Speaker 2: gonna get married, I'd have been very in love with
Speaker 2: a person.
Speaker 1: Maybe yeah, But what if marriage was like she's like,
Speaker 1: I don't want to do it until i'm married, and
Speaker 1: I don't want to marry like in four or five years.
Speaker 2: Boo. It would be tough. May really, I don't know.
Speaker 2: I would have to be would you be cheating left
Speaker 2: and right. No, that's terrible. I have to be very
Speaker 2: very much in love. But a kiss, I'd have to
Speaker 2: at least have a kiss.
Speaker 1: What if jesuys I don't care say that, I'd.
Speaker 2: Be probably out, Not probably, I'd be out. Be a
Speaker 2: deal breaker for sure, even though not having sex before marriage,
Speaker 2: I'd be a little bit like, woo, why you kind
Speaker 2: of want to know what you're getting into. But if
Speaker 2: I was in love, love love with the person, and
Speaker 2: there was a lot of potential obviously for us to
Speaker 2: have great physical connection and all that that, I probably
Speaker 2: would be able to manage that. But you got to
Speaker 2: be able to have a kiss of some sort. I
Speaker 2: mean if they haven't even kissed. There's never been any
Speaker 2: four plan of any kind, like nothing, because there's plenty
Speaker 2: of people that will do everything but have sex.
Speaker 1: I'm watching, at least I'm watching the new season of
Speaker 1: Love is Blind. You know that I'm a big fan
Speaker 1: of the show, And there was a couple. Now they
Speaker 1: picked the six or seven couples that actually make it
Speaker 1: to the big beautiful vacation in Mexico. They're there for
Speaker 1: a week and then they go to meet their parents,
Speaker 1: and then after that is when they actually get married,
Speaker 1: if they're going to get married anyways. So there's this
Speaker 1: couple that she was talking about before the show. She's
Speaker 1: been not actively, not sexually active for a while because
Speaker 1: she made a conscious decision to be like, you know,
Speaker 1: at this stage of my life as a woman, I
Speaker 1: don't want to continue giving myself to people that are
Speaker 1: not worthy, you know, deserving of me, because it's a
Speaker 1: soul connection. You know, she's very Christian. The guy that
Speaker 1: she picked is also they're actually a lovely Couplelympig fans.
Speaker 1: He's also very very Christian, And she was saying, I don't,
Speaker 1: I don't. I just don't want to do it anymore,
Speaker 1: you know, unless it's somebody that I know. But I
Speaker 1: get that, I know, so I was. But so you
Speaker 1: believe you believe that when you actually have intercourse with somebody, right,
Speaker 1: it's not only a physical act of skin to skin
Speaker 1: and just your organic Do you think it's a spiritual connection?
Speaker 2: I fully do. You don't. I think it can be.
Speaker 2: Sex can be two different things, right, it can be
Speaker 2: I don't. I don't mean transactional in the sense of cost,
Speaker 2: but sex can just be transactional in the sense of pleasure. Right,
Speaker 2: someone can just be like I need to have sex
Speaker 2: and it and that's it. It feels good. But then there's
Speaker 2: also a much more deeper rooted connection for sure that
Speaker 2: I think two people can experience beyond the physical place.
Speaker 1: So why do people just do it for for leisure?
Speaker 2: It can be transactional, or it can be.
Speaker 1: I know, no, but it's not about transactional or or spiritual.
Speaker 1: She believes that it doesn't matter if a is a
Speaker 1: one night standing. It doesn't matter if it's fast or
Speaker 1: slow with a person you love or not love. She
Speaker 1: believes that the act of having sex, there is a
Speaker 1: little piece of you energetically that always stays with other
Speaker 1: person and vice versa. So if that's the case, it's.
Speaker 2: A little bit I think that is a stronger I
Speaker 2: could be wrong, stronger feeling for a woman. Okay, I
Speaker 2: mean you're letting you know what I mean. It's a
Speaker 2: it's a much different it's a bit more of a
Speaker 2: different situation, right, So I could I totally see how
Speaker 2: a woman can feel I'm giving a piece of myself
Speaker 2: with any partner I sleep with. I fully understand that
Speaker 2: in comprehend and I fully respect it, by the way,
Speaker 2: but I think in the school.
Speaker 1: So you think of a man, they don't care.
Speaker 2: Not ever, not all men. Some men take it very
Speaker 2: personal and feel very much that it's you're giving a
Speaker 2: part of yourself, your spirit, a spiritual connection. You know
Speaker 2: that you're you're you're giving something to say somebody that
Speaker 2: you may never get back right if you break up,
Speaker 2: and that that piece is gone. There are plenty of men,
Speaker 2: I'm sure that feel that way. I just think it's
Speaker 2: less for men than women. But I do think there
Speaker 2: is a true spiritual connection with a partner, when you're
Speaker 2: deeply connected with someone, and that's sort of what will
Speaker 2: continue to build that relationship and make it stronger.
Speaker 1: It's interesting because I think girls nowadays it's like we
Speaker 1: have become men, you know, and there's all these young girls,
Speaker 1: because there's these young girls that have absolutely no respect
Speaker 1: for sex or their bodies and they just think it's
Speaker 1: fun and they love going. I know, you're right, you're right,
Speaker 1: but I'm like now because of the podcast world, you know,
Speaker 1: I listened to a lot of podcasts of girls from
Speaker 1: all ages, and a lot of them it's such a nonchalant,
Speaker 1: it's so casual, for them to to talk about about
Speaker 1: sexual encounters. And I and I slept with this, and
Speaker 1: after last night, I kept thinking about it. And maybe
Speaker 1: it's because now I have a daughtery, right, and I
Speaker 1: keept thinking about it, going, yeah, it is absolutely true.
Speaker 1: They only knew if women, if these young girls only
Speaker 1: knew that every time you allow something to go inside
Speaker 1: your body, they take something away from it. I don't
Speaker 1: I don't know.
Speaker 2: There's a different way of perceiving the sexual encounter. But
Speaker 2: at the end of the day, I think what you're
Speaker 2: there's twofold, right, There's always been women like that, but
Speaker 2: you're hearing about it more because of podcast, social media,
Speaker 2: et cetera. Right, things are news and information is much
Speaker 2: more accessible. Number one. But number two, you have a rise,
Speaker 2: you know of a female movement, you know over these
Speaker 2: past decades, right, and women are taking more control over
Speaker 2: their rights, deservedly, so.
Speaker 1: Rtect about it.
Speaker 2: But a woman has a right to pick which what
Speaker 2: it means to them, and at the end of the day,
Speaker 2: whatever that feels to that purse, to that woman, it's
Speaker 2: her choice. And because I've always said this, women rule
Speaker 2: the world in every sense of the you know, the
Speaker 2: word as far as I'm concerned. You know, if a
Speaker 2: female there is no man that can just walk into
Speaker 2: a bar and be like, I'm going to sleep with
Speaker 2: somebody to night, Like that man is at the mercy no,
Speaker 2: but he's at the mercy of the woman saying okay.
Speaker 2: But there is any woman at that bar could walk
Speaker 2: in and be like, I'm getting laid to night, and
Speaker 2: you know what, one hundred percent she will because if
Speaker 2: a woman wants to get laid, she's going to get laid.
Speaker 2: If a dude wants to get laid, no guarantees percent. Yeah, women,
Speaker 2: as soon as women realize that, like they have the
Speaker 2: powers in their hands in a relationship, we realize it. No,
Speaker 2: it's happening more and more, but like it wasn't always
Speaker 2: the case because they didn't have that position in society.
Speaker 2: And that's what is happening.
Speaker 1: In parts of the world. There's all the countries that
Speaker 1: women will never have the luxury or the ability, or
Speaker 1: the will or the shind to to have that kind
Speaker 1: of mentality. But that's why I will never It's interesting,
Speaker 1: that's why I would never be able to forgive or
Speaker 1: move past an infidelity because now I see it as
Speaker 1: you have put your thing and energetically disrespected me because
Speaker 1: you're going to go to that and then come to
Speaker 1: me and then come into my body.
Speaker 2: It would be it would be the exact same thing
Speaker 2: for a man. Who think about how bad it would
Speaker 2: be for a man, for a woman that cheated on
Speaker 2: a man. Not only did that person put themselves inside
Speaker 2: your wife and you have to live with forever knowing
Speaker 2: your wife was screwing that person. It's the same thing.
Speaker 2: It goes both ways. That's why you can see how
Speaker 2: people struggle so much with overcoming it.
Speaker 1: That's one of the things that when the whole Tiger
Speaker 1: Woods is even Tiger Woods.
Speaker 2: I mean, that was an insane amount of ways.
Speaker 1: I know. But to me, the most painful thing for
Speaker 1: me feeling for the wife was like, it's not only
Speaker 1: it was not only one, it was so many of
Speaker 1: them without protection. How can you do that and go
Speaker 1: back home and be with your wife and pretend that
Speaker 1: nothing is going on the amount of disrespect to her
Speaker 1: body and to her life, because when you know you're
Speaker 1: bringing back all kinds of probably diseases and like like
Speaker 1: STDs guaranty.
Speaker 2: Why I feel like you're always attacking? Why are you
Speaker 2: attacking men. I'm man, women do exactly the same thing
Speaker 2: you're talking about.
Speaker 1: No, No, it's not the same.
Speaker 2: Are you talking about? It's not the same.
Speaker 1: You can't keep being not as much? How do you
Speaker 1: know that statistically? I'm sure it's a textbook. I'm pretty
Speaker 1: sure this. God forgive me.
Speaker 2: I would love to know the status men cheating that
Speaker 2: way women and men cheating. How big the disparity really is?
Speaker 1: List of the research I fol that right now.
Speaker 2: I think you're you're not going to be You're gonna
Speaker 2: be surprised.
Speaker 1: Maybe maybe I'll be surprised.
Speaker 2: But you're always, uh, you're always very one sided in
Speaker 2: this topic. Maybe you know that, you're always very okay.
Speaker 2: Men are more likely to cheat the women, but the
Speaker 2: gender gap varies by age. Twenty percent of men and
Speaker 2: thirteen percent of women reportedly have sex with someone other
Speaker 2: than their partner. So it's not that, but it's it's
Speaker 2: only seven percent difference.
Speaker 1: But that's a big percentage really, and that's on an
Speaker 1: age range.
Speaker 2: That's not like I still think National Survey of sexual Okay,
Speaker 2: let's say fifteen percent of men have had an overlapping
Speaker 2: relationship in a previous year, but only nine percent of women. Okay,
Speaker 2: so that's a little bit more in that way. You know,
Speaker 2: it's it's it's more men, for sure. But I'm just
Speaker 2: saying to you, stop acting like women are all saints.
Speaker 1: I'm not saying that. I don't plenty of women.
Speaker 2: That cheat and go out there and their marriages over
Speaker 2: over stuff. I know. All right, let's shift to another topic.
Speaker 2: This one's actually it's a horrible, horrible topic. But I'm
Speaker 2: curious how you felt about the way TMZ handled the
Speaker 2: Liam Paigne situation, which was so shocking and tragic. I
Speaker 2: feel so bad for his family and you know, everybody
Speaker 2: that's always supported him him and he seemed like such
Speaker 2: a good guy, just dealing with a lot of issues. Yeah, really, really,
Speaker 2: it really hit I don't know why they hit me.
Speaker 2: Saw when I read it, I was like, I was
Speaker 2: very much in shock, and it felt just felt so
Speaker 2: bad and seeing his dad at the scene and looking
Speaker 2: at over the balcony all this stuff, like the family
Speaker 2: had to go.
Speaker 1: I haven't seen that.
Speaker 2: Oh my god, his dad went to Argentina and his
Speaker 2: dad was looking off the balcony that he fell off
Speaker 2: of and at the site where he let I mean
Speaker 2: just awful to have to go through that, But what
Speaker 2: do you think about teams? He releasing the images of
Speaker 2: so much stuff so quickly. It didn't surprise me because
Speaker 2: that's what these do, these trades do. Yeah, but you
Speaker 2: probably think it's wrong, right, it was going to come
Speaker 2: out anyway. Yeah, it's going to come out. But it
Speaker 2: just feels like obviously people just making money off of it.
Speaker 2: You know.
Speaker 1: Of course it's super sad and money rules the world
Speaker 1: and they don't care. You know who said? Whoever took
Speaker 1: the picture and decided to go to the raise and
Speaker 1: and that's even worse because they got it from somebody.
Speaker 1: So the person that should be accountable is that person
Speaker 1: that said, you know what, let me just I'm assuming
Speaker 1: an employee.
Speaker 2: You know, there's gonna be problems. There's gonna be lawsuits
Speaker 2: because it happened with Kobe Bryant. I don't know if
Speaker 2: you remember, but there was a massive lawsuit family won
Speaker 2: against the Sheriff's department. I believe it was because they
Speaker 2: released photos of the of the crash and it was awful.
Speaker 2: So there could be massive lawsuits. But we'll probably get
Speaker 2: sued because they got the rights from somebody else.
Speaker 1: But Yeah.
Speaker 2: Anyways, well, thoughts and prayers go out to his family.
Speaker 2: We covered a lot. I know I'm gonna go to
Speaker 2: work film some rookie and you're gonna go get a
Speaker 2: facial I'm gonna go to facial spot, which is gonna
Speaker 2: be really interesting.
Speaker 1: Then I'm gonna go do my grades and then I
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