Speaker 1: I gotta say, it takes a lot of courage to
Speaker 1: come onto this podcast and just, I don't know, reveal
Speaker 1: all about your dating life, you know, just to come.
Speaker 2: On and say hi and bye.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean if you're saying the wrong way, we
Speaker 1: might start teasing you.
Speaker 3: Just over that.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's why you have to be proud of the
Speaker 1: woman on today's brand new Second Date Update podcast.
Speaker 3: Thank you so much for being here, because she's a
Speaker 3: shy girl. Yeah, she's a shy girl, and she gave
Speaker 3: us a shot.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you're gonna hear that in just a second. But
Speaker 1: first comments from our very non shy girl over.
Speaker 3: Not shy girl.
Speaker 5: But this guy's a sad guy?
Speaker 3: Is their name?
Speaker 1: Comment?
Speaker 4: Name?
Speaker 3: Really? His handle is sad guy.
Speaker 6: Which may not help this comment that says, I've been
Speaker 6: listening for ten years and I've heard every episode over
Speaker 6: twenty five times through.
Speaker 3: Now we understand how we got that handled.
Speaker 5: Yeah exactly.
Speaker 3: The more the more episodes, the sadder he gets what happens.
Speaker 1: Yeah, change it a sad single guy we need to know.
Speaker 1: All right, Hey, thank you so much for being here
Speaker 1: and for your commitment to this show. Yeah, your brand
Speaker 1: new episode starts right now.
Speaker 5: Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 3: Second Date updates.
Speaker 5: What types of parties are the best? KEG parties, college parties?
Speaker 3: Are they the same?
Speaker 5: How about science parties? Rare dudes and dames with glasses
Speaker 5: and pocket protectors get together and nerd out over Bunsen
Speaker 5: burners and beakers.
Speaker 3: You haven't been to a science party?
Speaker 5: Have you not? Recently?
Speaker 3: Okay?
Speaker 5: I used to go a lot though. Oh yeah, it
Speaker 5: was super cool. We'd be like, hey, what's your atomic
Speaker 5: number of hot stuff? Because I'm about to reach critical mass.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you got kicked out of the science part too.
Speaker 5: It was it was too sexy for the room. That
Speaker 5: is true. But our listener Bionca, met a guy at
Speaker 5: a science expo recently and we want to hear from her.
Speaker 5: So Bianca, welcome to the show.
Speaker 6: Hey guys, that's awesome.
Speaker 3: Does that mean like you're a scientist and you.
Speaker 6: Were well, okay, I'm not a scientist, but the company
Speaker 6: I worked for kind of is adjacent, I guess. And
Speaker 6: I was just volunteering at this science expo. I was
Speaker 6: signing people in, giving out name tags and stuff.
Speaker 3: Cool.
Speaker 1: Okay, do you sign up to volunteer so that you
Speaker 1: can meet some science hotties.
Speaker 6: I mean, it's not mandatory, but.
Speaker 5: It was.
Speaker 6: Yeah, I ain't complaining.
Speaker 5: Okay, all right, So tell us about who you met.
Speaker 6: Okay, So I was signing people in and this guy
Speaker 6: was just he was super cute, and I checked him
Speaker 6: in gave him his name tag. Not much went down
Speaker 6: during this interaction, but I did see him later on
Speaker 6: while I was setting up displays.
Speaker 3: You noted him, You were like, okay, yeah.
Speaker 6: I was like, there's that kind again. And I already
Speaker 6: knew his name from giving him his name tag, And yeah.
Speaker 5: What's the name of this science hotty?
Speaker 6: Bladen?
Speaker 3: Bladen?
Speaker 5: Wow?
Speaker 3: Is scientists in the world?
Speaker 6: Did I forget that?
Speaker 3: Do you know?
Speaker 1: He had like two rockert parents that were like, yeah,
Speaker 1: he's gonna be in a band someday And he's like, nope,
Speaker 1: Mom and dad, I'm rebelling with science.
Speaker 5: So tell us more about you and Bladen and what
Speaker 5: you guys did together.
Speaker 4: Okay.
Speaker 6: So I saw him by some displays. Me and my
Speaker 6: boss were getting some slides ready for presentation leader, and
Speaker 6: I was like, all right, I'm going to slip over
Speaker 6: and talk to this guy really quick. I saw him
Speaker 6: playing with one of those plasma ball things like you know,
Speaker 6: the Chloe dappy things.
Speaker 5: And I was like, all right, is that the thing
Speaker 5: that you touch that makes your hair stand up?
Speaker 6: Yeah, it doesn't make your hair stand up, but it
Speaker 6: like exacts you a little bit.
Speaker 5: Maybe that's just a shampoo thing that I keep going.
Speaker 6: Okay, So I'm I'm chatting him up and he's asked
Speaker 6: me questions like why are you here? It's just your
Speaker 6: normal job. I was like, no, it's not my normal job,
Speaker 6: just volunteering. And he's like, well, if you need any help.
Speaker 4: I'm a science guy.
Speaker 5: So what you know? Wow, he never heard that used
Speaker 5: as a pickup line before.
Speaker 3: Is that how you took it as a pickup line?
Speaker 6: It was a pick up line, It absolutely was.
Speaker 4: So we got each other's numbers.
Speaker 1: Okay, you guys, you moved fast in Hey, you.
Speaker 6: Never know, chemicals are volatile, Like any second.
Speaker 5: We're trying really hard not to make a chemistry joke.
Speaker 5: So yeah, yeah, yeah, it was anything we could have
Speaker 5: come up with.
Speaker 6: So the next day there was a chemical spill behind
Speaker 6: the stage.
Speaker 5: And I was like, yeah, there was, I'm going to
Speaker 5: text blaydon oh no, that wasn't a actually spilled something.
Speaker 3: Wait, you text Blaydon for help.
Speaker 6: Yeah, he told me to text him if I needed help.
Speaker 6: And you know what, even if he couldn't help, it's
Speaker 6: still a good excuse to hang out with him.
Speaker 1: Right.
Speaker 3: I feel like a janitor came over to mop it
Speaker 3: up and she's like.
Speaker 5: No, don't dodge it. I've got a science guy coming.
Speaker 5: So did he show up?
Speaker 1: Yeah he did.
Speaker 6: He knew how to clean it up up and you
Speaker 6: took care of it.
Speaker 2: What a hero?
Speaker 1: Were you ever able to turn these science expos moments
Speaker 1: into an actual date?
Speaker 4: Oh?
Speaker 6: Yeah, we were out for drinks after this.
Speaker 3: Okay, so that I care more about that than the
Speaker 3: chemical spill.
Speaker 5: Okay, tell us about drinks.
Speaker 4: I mean, we are each other, and how do you
Speaker 4: know that?
Speaker 6: Pretty well? It went pretty well. I'm just gonna leave
Speaker 6: it that.
Speaker 4: Okay.
Speaker 3: Wait, is he like have a hotel room that you
Speaker 3: went back to something?
Speaker 1: Maybe?
Speaker 3: All right?
Speaker 4: I said I didn't want to say anything else.
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, your voice said everything.
Speaker 3: Yeah, so you had a very fun evening.
Speaker 6: Yeah it was. It was very fun. I was blinded
Speaker 6: by science, to put it for sure.
Speaker 3: You still sound giddy over the whole thing.
Speaker 6: Yeah, well that's why I need help from you. Guys,
Speaker 6: because I haven't her from him in a week now,
Speaker 6: and I don't know.
Speaker 2: He's the typical science player.
Speaker 5: Yeah, you know how they are the Einstein's of the world.
Speaker 3: At Einstein was a notorious he was.
Speaker 5: He bounced around through all of his cousins. Oh no, there, sorry,
Speaker 5: that's true story.
Speaker 4: Oh god, do.
Speaker 3: You know does he live in your city or is
Speaker 3: he in from out of town?
Speaker 6: Well, I'm assuming he was out of town because it's
Speaker 6: area code and the hotel room.
Speaker 3: He didn't do much talking.
Speaker 6: Hey, we were busy experimenting.
Speaker 1: Okay, so do you have a theory as to why
Speaker 1: he's not calling I.
Speaker 6: Don't know why he's not calling me.
Speaker 4: Him.
Speaker 5: All right, Well, I think you came to the right people.
Speaker 5: We don't know much about science, but we do know
Speaker 5: a little bit about calling people and demanding to know
Speaker 5: why they aren't calling another person back.
Speaker 3: Yeah, we're afraid to make things awkward, so.
Speaker 5: We will reignite the sparks underneath your Bunsen burners hopefully
Speaker 5: when we come back and get you your scientific Second
Speaker 5: date update.
Speaker 2: Everyone put your safety goggles on.
Speaker 5: We already right after this Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 2: Second Date updates.
Speaker 5: You know what they say about science boys, serial rizzlers,
Speaker 5: Ah Bill Nye, Neil deGrasse, Tyson, Isaac the nude Newton.
Speaker 3: Oh is that your nickname for him?
Speaker 5: What's his name? Why do you think the apple fell
Speaker 5: on his head because he was down below shaking the
Speaker 5: branches with the seventeenth century honey? Oh, that's the rumor
Speaker 5: that I heard. And our listener Bianca is hoping praying
Speaker 5: that this guy that she met named Blaydon is not
Speaker 5: your stereotypical science scumbag.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 3: I don't even think she said that so far.
Speaker 5: No, but that's what she's worried. I think, are there
Speaker 5: science players? We're not really sure, but.
Speaker 2: Well, for sure, dude, if you're attractive and smart, you
Speaker 2: got it made.
Speaker 5: The two of them did hang out in his hotel room,
Speaker 5: and she hasn't heard from him in a week after
Speaker 5: the science expo they attended. So we're just going to
Speaker 5: try and call and get to the bottom of this
Speaker 5: once and for all. Bianca, how you doing?
Speaker 6: I just really need you guys to help because I
Speaker 6: just don't often meet cute guys at science Expo's name Bladon, Okay.
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's very specific.
Speaker 2: We have a different name than that.
Speaker 1: Yeah, can I ask you was there any reason to
Speaker 1: indicate that it wasn't just a one night fun thing,
Speaker 1: especially if he was in from out of town.
Speaker 6: It really seemed like we just had a deeper connection
Speaker 6: than that. That's why I'm surprised it.
Speaker 5: Yeah, and from how she described it, they didn't do
Speaker 5: a whole lot of talking.
Speaker 3: He lives.
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, maybe that's one of the first questions we
Speaker 5: can ask if he picks up the phone here.
Speaker 2: Wait, we should google the area code.
Speaker 5: It's too late. Now, we just gotta get going. I'm
Speaker 5: going to Isle Blayden's number and we'll see if he
Speaker 5: picks up. Here we go, Hello, Hey, is this Bladan?
Speaker 4: Yeah? This is Blaydon.
Speaker 5: Hey, Blaydan. We're a radio show called Brooke and Jeffrey
Speaker 5: in the Morning.
Speaker 1: Okay, scientists, I don't think we can have any research
Speaker 1: to back that up.
Speaker 5: I'm not sure, but we do want you to be
Speaker 5: today's featured guest on our most popular segment called the
Speaker 5: Second Date Update. How does that sound?
Speaker 4: Uh? I guess it sounds kind of intriguing.
Speaker 3: All right, that's more than we usually get, so thank
Speaker 3: you very much.
Speaker 5: I don't know if you know what the segment even is.
Speaker 5: But we're trying to help out one of our listeners
Speaker 5: who met up with you about a week ago. Her
Speaker 5: name is Bianca.
Speaker 4: Oh okay, wow, that was not what I wanted it
Speaker 4: down or tired.
Speaker 3: When we talked to her, she was excited.
Speaker 4: Yeah, no, I mean, it's just complicated.
Speaker 1: Okay, are you can we just ask straight up, like
Speaker 1: are you single?
Speaker 5: Brooks not asking for herself, she's asking just general.
Speaker 1: I mean, anytime someone says complicated, that's immediately what anyone thinks.
Speaker 5: Shouldn't that there's other people in the picture.
Speaker 4: No, I'm single. I'm very much single.
Speaker 5: Then how is it complicated?
Speaker 4: Well, it's just things kind of are more. There's more
Speaker 4: than just at Faid's value with meeting people at these
Speaker 4: types of events, you know.
Speaker 5: Yeah, no, I definitely like all the vague ways you're
Speaker 5: describing it. But if you could be any more specific.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I was going to say when he said, you know,
Speaker 3: I don't.
Speaker 5: I don't know how well.
Speaker 4: I mean, just because of her employer made it a
Speaker 4: little bit more difficult to pursue.
Speaker 3: Do you work for the same company as her?
Speaker 4: And she didn't realize it, well, not at the moment
Speaker 4: I'm actually applying to work at her company. I actually
Speaker 4: have like an interview schedule to go in and see
Speaker 4: them as like the follow up, Well, wouldn't.
Speaker 3: That be good? Like she would be a connection for you.
Speaker 4: Then, But I'm kind of like I didn't want her
Speaker 4: to think that I was using her to get preferential
Speaker 4: treatment at this company. And I didn't even realize that
Speaker 4: she even worked there until at my hotel room I
Speaker 4: noticed her name badge, and then I thought, you know
Speaker 4: the company, and I put two and together.
Speaker 3: Didn't talk.
Speaker 4: No, I mean, I know that it was a science expo,
Speaker 4: but there was way more chemistry going on between the
Speaker 4: two of us.
Speaker 3: You did like her, like you? Oh? Yeah, I thought
Speaker 3: she was amazing.
Speaker 4: Yeah, she is amazing. She's an amazing one, and I
Speaker 4: would love circumstances different. I don't want to like mess
Speaker 4: up the opportunities at this company because it's a really
Speaker 4: good opportunity.
Speaker 3: Okay, you are all up in your head. Why would
Speaker 3: you not just call her and tell her all these things?
Speaker 5: Explain a little bit of like why because she feels
Speaker 5: like you're completely ignoring her for the last week and
Speaker 5: she has no idea why.
Speaker 4: I mean, I don't know what to do. I mean,
Speaker 4: I've been in touch with their boss. I was trying
Speaker 4: to get all that squared away, and I'm going to
Speaker 4: be going in at some point in the next week
Speaker 4: or so to.
Speaker 1: That would be so awkward if the first time you
Speaker 1: see that after your guys just fun night was in
Speaker 1: the office.
Speaker 4: Don't you think I haven't thought about that. I mean,
Speaker 4: if she's the one signing me at the interview, that's
Speaker 4: going to be horrible.
Speaker 5: Yeah.
Speaker 3: It's in your power to not have that happen.
Speaker 5: Yeah, And in fact, we're going to take the power
Speaker 5: away from you at this point. And just let you know.
Speaker 5: Bianca is already on the phone right now, listening in
Speaker 5: on this conversation waiting talk to you.
Speaker 4: What.
Speaker 5: Yeah, we're uncomplicating it, We're putting it all out there.
Speaker 2: You told her good job there.
Speaker 4: Oh yes, Oh, I'm so sorry.
Speaker 3: You didn't anything bad.
Speaker 6: Why wouldn't you just tell me that, I don't know.
Speaker 4: I didn't want you to think that I was like
Speaker 4: using you to get a job or anything.
Speaker 6: I don't know, is that what works in the science world, really,
Speaker 6: I mean, you still could have just told me. I
Speaker 6: guess I'm just disappointed.
Speaker 4: You're not disappointed in what happened in the hotel room.
Speaker 4: You're just disappointed that I didn't tell you about.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 6: If I was disappointed in what happened in the hotel room,
Speaker 6: then I wouldn't have called.
Speaker 5: Yeah, the fact she called the radio station to get
Speaker 5: in touch with you should be a pretty clear sign
Speaker 5: that there's feelings there.
Speaker 4: Yeah. Yeah, I mean the feelings are definitely neutral. I'm
Speaker 4: just I don't know. I just feel like going into
Speaker 4: a relationship, I don't want to make it more complicated,
Speaker 4: and it has to be.
Speaker 3: To present the one that's making this hard album.
Speaker 5: Not intentionally, but yes, you're overthinking it.
Speaker 6: Well, you guys don't know this, but my boss has
Speaker 6: this policy that's like no dating policy for everybody in
Speaker 6: the office.
Speaker 3: It is.
Speaker 6: Yeah, but I feel like it wouldn't count if we
Speaker 6: were dating before he got hired. Though.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's actually really smart.
Speaker 3: But it would probably be important to tell the boss
Speaker 3: in the interview.
Speaker 2: Oh no, that may affect a higher.
Speaker 3: Because you don't want to come off as line.
Speaker 5: Yeah, it could play against him to be like, oh, yeah,
Speaker 5: I don't want to hire your new boyfriend.
Speaker 4: See I told you guys this whole thing complicated, and
Speaker 4: what if they don't want to hire me because of
Speaker 4: the relationship, and that's the only reason you're right?
Speaker 5: Actually, I guess this is complicated and the only way
Speaker 5: to counteract this is to have Brooke go sleep with
Speaker 5: Bianca's boss first. I'm married, Jeff, but you don't work there.
Speaker 3: It's not going to make a Differ's have.
Speaker 5: Smooth things over for Bladon.
Speaker 1: Okay, honestly, I think you guys should just go out
Speaker 1: one more time.
Speaker 3: One date doesn't mean you're in a relationship.
Speaker 1: And like you're basing life on things that you don't
Speaker 1: know will even happen, Like you don't even know if
Speaker 1: he'll get hired there.
Speaker 4: Bianca, would it be okay if at the interview I
Speaker 4: told your boss that we hooked up, but our relationship
Speaker 4: is uncertain.
Speaker 2: What No, dude, I just.
Speaker 4: Don't and I don't want to mess up your employment
Speaker 4: opportunities there, Like what if they hire me but then
Speaker 4: fire you? That would be awful.
Speaker 3: All these what ifs.
Speaker 6: You're just way overthinking so bad.
Speaker 4: I mean, that's why they're looking to hire you, because
Speaker 4: how well I overthink things. I mean, that's I.
Speaker 5: Mean, Bladen, I know that you really seem to care
Speaker 5: about this job, and that's great, but it sounds like
Speaker 5: you care about Bianca too, And I think when you
Speaker 5: find somebody that you relate to the way that the
Speaker 5: two of you seem to, you can't just throw that
Speaker 5: away over a job opportunity.
Speaker 3: You have so much to talk about that you haven't.
Speaker 5: Yeah, we'd like to offer to send you two out
Speaker 5: on another date, and we would pay for it.
Speaker 4: Really.
Speaker 5: Yeah, if you're down, Uh yeah, definitely.
Speaker 4: Isn't that going to make things more complicated?
Speaker 1: Though?
Speaker 3: That's the point. Nobody knows.
Speaker 5: With you, it probably will be, But I would just
Speaker 5: still go for it.
Speaker 4: All right, all right, I'm in. You guys convinced me.
Speaker 4: I'm in. You're still getting Yeah, of course, I don't
Speaker 4: want to mess anything up with you Bianca or with
Speaker 4: the job. But I think let's get back together and
Speaker 4: try it and see where things go.
Speaker 2: Try talking this time.
Speaker 5: I don't know. I think the more he talks, the
Speaker 5: less it's working. So talks when you're made up, say
Speaker 5: anything to each other. I can do that, all right,
Speaker 5: good Jeffrey in the morning. If there was any second
Speaker 5: ate update that needed an update update afterwards. This is
Speaker 5: the one.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean there's so many what ifs that were
Speaker 1: going through his head.
Speaker 5: And I have a lot of what ifs for what
Speaker 5: could happen. Option A. They become secret lovers and he
Speaker 5: gets hired. They don't tell the boss anything until the
Speaker 5: day of their wedding.
Speaker 1: That would make it really I'm sorry this guy could
Speaker 1: not keep a secret, honest, he would crumble under the pressure.
Speaker 5: Of that fair Option B. Blaydon goes to the interview
Speaker 5: and Bianca sabotages it on purpose because she wants to
Speaker 5: be with him, but he knows that they can't be
Speaker 5: together if he gets the job.
Speaker 3: Drone, I don't know.
Speaker 1: I think he'll sabotage it himself, saying, hey, I hooked
Speaker 1: up with with Bianca in your office.
Speaker 2: I mean, I have a strong attraction to that girl
Speaker 2: over there.
Speaker 5: Now I do have options C through Z.
Speaker 2: No, I don't know.
Speaker 3: I was kind of interested.
Speaker 5: We'll put that up on a later podcast if you
Speaker 5: want to hear my other theories. But I really do
Speaker 5: hope that we stay in touch with these two and
Speaker 5: find out how this works out.
Speaker 2: Yeah, they're like.
Speaker 5: Totally a perfect couple, or the next day they're gonna
Speaker 5: be like whoop, that was a mistake. Yeah, you're not
Speaker 5: meant to be, not at all, but make sure you
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