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Speaker 1: Ever been left waiting by the phone. It's the Fred Show. Hey, Shannon,

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Speaker 1: good morning, Welcome to the show. How are you hey doing?

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Speaker 2: All right?

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Speaker 1: What's going on with this guy? Adam on waiting by

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Speaker 1: the phone? We got to know how you met? About

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Speaker 1: any dates that you've been on? Tell us about those,

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Speaker 1: and then why do you think maybe you're being ghosted?

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Speaker 3: Okay?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I met Adam on Hinge. We matched, we started chatting.

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Speaker 2: It was going well well, like same send, the humors,

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Speaker 2: same music taste. And then so after like a week

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Speaker 2: of talking, we went out for drinks and I don't know,

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Speaker 2: we had a really good time. And honestly, like after

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Speaker 2: like a couple of drinks, got like a little touchy,

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Speaker 2: and I was like, come back to my place. And

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Speaker 2: I normally wouldn't say that on the radio, but I

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Speaker 2: feel like it's really important to the story.

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Speaker 1: I normally don't do this. I normally I don't normally

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Speaker 1: do this kind of thing. Yeah I've heard that before, Okay,

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Speaker 1: but normally that's true. Yeah, you normally don't do this

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Speaker 1: kind of thing. So it was back to your place

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Speaker 1: and then what.

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Speaker 2: Okay, so everything was going great. We were in the cab,

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Speaker 2: it was a vibe, and then once we got there

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Speaker 2: everything changed. He like got really weird.

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Speaker 4: We didn't even get to the front door, and he

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Speaker 4: got really sweaty and told me that he wasn't feeling well.

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Speaker 3: And had to leave, like super roughly.

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Speaker 4: And I honestly, like I thought, like, Okay, maybe he

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Speaker 4: drank too much. But then like when I checked on

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Speaker 4: him later to see if he was okay, he just

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Speaker 4: didn't answer.

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Speaker 5: Oh.

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Speaker 1: So he goes from this is this is like gonna

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Speaker 1: be a lot of fun. We're going back to my place.

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Speaker 1: We're gonna do whatever. It goes from that too, he's sick,

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Speaker 1: has to leave, and now he's ghosting you. Yep, how

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Speaker 1: do we get there? Yeah, so let's yeah, that's interesting.

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Speaker 1: Let's call Adam. We're gonna play a song. We'll call Adam.

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Speaker 1: You'll be on the phone at the same time, and

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Speaker 1: we're gonna try and figure out what's going on, see

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Speaker 1: kind of what happened there, and hopefully we can straighten

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Speaker 1: things out and then set you guys up on another

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Speaker 1: day that we pay for. Sound good, Okay, Hey, Shannon,

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Speaker 1: all right, let's call this guy Adam.

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Speaker 3: You met on Hinge.

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Speaker 1: You went on a date the date went well, well

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Speaker 1: enough that you invited him back to your place. But

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Speaker 1: between the time that you invited him in the time

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Speaker 1: you got to your front door, the guy was like,

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Speaker 1: look visibly ill left and then now you have not

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Speaker 1: heard from him since he hasn't responded to you. You've

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Speaker 1: reached out to him to check on him. Nothing, he's

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Speaker 1: ghosting you. You want to know why?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, all right, let's call him right now. Good luck? Shannon. Hello, Hi,

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Speaker 3: is this Adam? Yes, it is Adam. Good morning.

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Speaker 1: My name is Fredam calling from the Fred Show, the

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Speaker 1: Morning radio Show. I have to tell you that we

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Speaker 1: are on the radio right now and I would need

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Speaker 1: your permission to continue with the call. Is it okay

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Speaker 1: if we chat for just a second, you can hang

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Speaker 1: up anytime.

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Speaker 3: Okay, thank you.

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Speaker 1: I know it's kind of an awkward thing, but we're

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Speaker 1: calling on behalf of a woman named Shannon, who I

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Speaker 1: guess you met on Hinge and you guys went on

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Speaker 1: a date recently.

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Speaker 3: Do you remember her? Yeah, it was this strange noise.

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Speaker 1: Okay, well, yeah, I get you in the middle of

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Speaker 1: something or but hey, we're calling because she reached out

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Speaker 1: to us and said that you guys have matched and

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Speaker 1: that you went on a date and that the date

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Speaker 1: went well except somewhere between the end of the date

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Speaker 1: and maybe going back to her place, you were ill,

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Speaker 1: and that you've you've been missing an action and we

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Speaker 1: had no problem getting hold of you.

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Speaker 3: So what's going on? Why are you ignoring her?

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Speaker 5: It is not going to be a lot?

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Speaker 3: Okay, it's why is it? Why is it not going

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Speaker 3: to be you? Are you okay right now? Like? What's

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Speaker 3: going on?

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Speaker 5: Okay? This is going to sound odd, but I hate

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Speaker 5: those watable lawn decoration shape and and and her entire

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Speaker 5: lawn is comfort with them for Halloween?

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Speaker 3: Okay.

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Speaker 1: So you so you go to her house and she's

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Speaker 1: got like a pumpkin and I don't know whatever goblin

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Speaker 1: or yeah, like a skeleton or something that's all blown

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Speaker 1: up in the front yard. So she's festive. She she

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Speaker 1: got into Halloween a little bit. And but why did

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Speaker 1: you start sweating? And like and you sound like things

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Speaker 1: aren't okay right now? Like are you scared of it?

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Speaker 1: Or what what's the problem?

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Speaker 5: I I I dislike them. I I I guess you

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Speaker 5: could say I have more than dislike I have a ptolbia.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, are you are you having like an episode

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Speaker 2: right now?

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Speaker 1: I mean, did she did she have like a like

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Speaker 1: a coffin and something like it with it? It was

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Speaker 1: it was a very realistic because the ones I've seen

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Speaker 1: that you buy it like home Depot, are not they're

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Speaker 1: not super realistic.

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Speaker 5: She had everything everything, pump and.

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Speaker 1: Are you did she have that DJ guy, you know

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Speaker 1: the skeleton DJ that played music with the bluetooth, Because

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Speaker 1: that's kind of that's that's kind of cool, right, that's

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Speaker 1: new for this season.

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Speaker 3: You know what I mean? I saw that when I

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Speaker 3: hear music makes me dance.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I like that right right, Hey, Shannon, this dude's

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Speaker 1: having a real problem right now with your Halloween decorations,

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Speaker 1: which is a new one.

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Speaker 3: We haven't heard that one before.

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Speaker 1: I mean he sounds like I'm actually a little concerned, Adam,

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Speaker 1: are you okay?

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Speaker 5: I'm sure.

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Speaker 1: My thoughts I mean I'm confused, Like, I mean, how

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Speaker 1: realistic are these decorations? Like is it is like a

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Speaker 1: man changing people around with a change saw in your yard?

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Speaker 1: Like why she soa he's so scarred by this and

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Speaker 1: the noises he's making.

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Speaker 3: I don't even really know what to say here.

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Speaker 2: So you have I really don't even have that many

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Speaker 2: like I have like a witch, I have like a pumpkin.

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Speaker 3: Oh my god.

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Speaker 1: Okay, I don't know if these noises are I'm not

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Speaker 1: certain these noises are associated with this call.

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Speaker 4: I thought like a phobia of some sort of phobia.

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Speaker 3: And I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I don't want to make fun of you, man, but

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Speaker 1: it's just like I don't know, you sound uncomfortable, like

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Speaker 1: physically uncomfortable, and I don't want you to be that way.

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Speaker 5: They're just they're discrusting, they're disgusting.

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Speaker 3: Okay, okay, okay, okay.

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Speaker 1: Like I've seen the light displays where it looks like

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Speaker 1: bugs or you know, all over you know what I mean.

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Speaker 3: Like, but none of that I have.

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Speaker 2: Like your I have like your standard like cute. It's

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Speaker 2: like cute, it's like family friendly.

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Speaker 3: It's and it's not it's not. Oh my god. Okay,

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Speaker 3: well actually.

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Speaker 1: Okay, look, I actually don't Yeah, I don't want to

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Speaker 1: continue to make you feel however you feel right now.

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Speaker 3: It seems.

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Speaker 1: Seems excessive, but I don't want to make fun of

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Speaker 1: someone's phobiasm. Look, you must have a real time with

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Speaker 1: the month of October, like in general, are you able

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Speaker 1: to go to like a store.

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Speaker 5: No, I hate October.

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Speaker 1: I guess this all makes sense now, but look, Okay,

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Speaker 1: so Adam is scared of Halloween and you're a Halloween

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Speaker 1: person and so, and he's making strange noises still, so

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Speaker 1: I'm just gonna end this call because I don't I

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Speaker 1: don't want him to be in any you know. And

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Speaker 1: he could have hung up at any time he wanted to. Okay, actually, yeah,

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Speaker 1: ok yeah, I got yeah, I don't know.

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Speaker 3: I wish you the best, man. I'm sorry.

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Speaker 1: I hope you you know, you work it all out,

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Speaker 1: and I'm sorry about the month of October for you

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Speaker 1: and Shannon is obviously not a match.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm good, Okay, good luck, guys.

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Speaker 1: Thanks