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Speaker 1: From Hollywood. Thank you for listening to us with a

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Speaker 1: Ryan Seacrest. You know, each morning the alarm goes off

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Speaker 1: put the stuff in my hair, throw something on. This

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Speaker 1: time of year, it's very loose. Yeah, roll in, sit

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Speaker 1: in front of the microphone, and I often wonder what

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Speaker 1: will we do today, Like what are we gonna talk about? Right?

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Speaker 1: And it just usually comes together somehow, not always perfect,

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Speaker 1: but somehow it comes together right. And all of a sudden,

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Speaker 1: it's ten o'clock. I didn't see this conversation happening today, ever, John,

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Speaker 1: you just told me that her friend of hers about

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Speaker 1: my age or younger than me. My friend not more

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Speaker 1: my age. She's thirty two. Okay, so we're are we

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Speaker 1: that different in age? You and I? I mean we're

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Speaker 1: like a decade apart, I think more. Take your friends

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Speaker 1: thirty two dating is seventy year old. Yes, okay. Now

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Speaker 1: I didn't see this as a conversation we would have

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Speaker 1: today about one hund So that's not the problem because whatever,

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Speaker 1: he's actually also very active seventy. You wouldn't guess he

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Speaker 1: was seventy. He looks great, he you know, and we're

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Speaker 1: in the middle of the pandemic. Do what you gotta do.

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Speaker 1: You know. The problem is now they're talking about she's

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Speaker 1: talking about having a baby with him, and now I'm

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Speaker 1: in a pickle. Well, what's your pick? It's not my issue,

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Speaker 1: but I feel as though I should say something, because no,

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Speaker 1: I shouldn't owe the something. I mean, think this through.

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Speaker 1: You're saying he's not going to be around for all

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Speaker 1: the life of that child growing up. I just think

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Speaker 1: if you look at statistics, if you look at statistics,

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Speaker 1: and I also think too a little bit has to

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Speaker 1: do with we're in this pandemic. And it was just

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Speaker 1: it's kind of a fun thing. I didn't think it

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Speaker 1: was anything serious, but now it's turned into something super serious.

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Speaker 1: Who wants to have the baby? Is it mutual or

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Speaker 1: is one pushing more than the others? She wants to

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Speaker 1: have a baby, and she I mean, as she talked

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Speaker 1: to you about the fact that she realizes that in

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Speaker 1: fifty years, statistics say he's not gonna be around. I

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Speaker 1: don't think there's anything for you to do here, because

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Speaker 1: I there's not. I think about this all the time.

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Speaker 1: What do you think about I think about this all

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Speaker 1: the time. I'm I haven't had a baby different than seven,

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Speaker 1: but I think about it differently. I think about, let's

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Speaker 1: say I have a kid when I'm fifty five. All right,

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Speaker 1: odds are at some point daddy's going nightnight right before

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Speaker 1: night night, and the kid maybe a teenager, or kid

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Speaker 1: may be in college, or the kid maybe just dirty.

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Speaker 1: But I got on night night right. Think about that too.

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Speaker 1: At some point I'm gonna be I'm gonna be so

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Speaker 1: old to have my first child that I'm not gonna

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Speaker 1: see their forties birthday. By then, you're gonna be sleeping

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Speaker 1: in some chamber and you're going to live here. I

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Speaker 1: don't know if I am. She's not a wrong. I

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Speaker 1: don't want to be in a chamber. I don't even

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Speaker 1: know if I want to lift her in twenty night

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Speaker 1: needs to be one of our best fits calendar. It's

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Speaker 1: what if someone told you not to have kids with

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Speaker 1: your boyfriend. How would you like that? But it's not

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Speaker 1: her boyfriend. I thought it was. They're dating, but I

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Speaker 1: mean nothing that matters tomato tomato or whatever. But yeah's

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Speaker 1: with us. It's still it's conversation that is not for

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Speaker 1: you know those things that are off limits. This is

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Speaker 1: one of them. Caitlyn, good morning. How you doing, go Hi,

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Speaker 1: I'm doing good. Good. So tell me your fiance. What

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Speaker 1: what's going with your fiance? Yeah, so you guys have

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Speaker 1: heard about like the great resignation thing, right, So like

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Speaker 1: everybody's quitting their job if like they're not being treated

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Speaker 1: for really or if they're not getting paid enough. Well,

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Speaker 1: my fiance is talking about quitting his job, and like,

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Speaker 1: I know, he doesn't make a lot. I make more

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Speaker 1: but I know it seems to like bug him sometimes.

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Speaker 1: Um but and I also know like his boss is

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Speaker 1: hard on him. But I just think him quitting is

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Speaker 1: but like my problem is like with with him quitting,

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Speaker 1: what will he do if he does? Line, I don't know.

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Speaker 1: That's the thing. Like that's why I'm concerned and he

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Speaker 1: doesn't have a plan to he doesn't he doesn't have

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Speaker 1: a plan to pay the bills. Not really. Yeah, that

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Speaker 1: he's like, I'll find something. You need to set some

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Speaker 1: sort of I don't know, like a goal, you know,

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Speaker 1: like okay, fine, Like I want you to be happy

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Speaker 1: if you're miserable at your job. I don't want you

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Speaker 1: like hating life every day. So but we also have

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Speaker 1: to be responsible, right, yes, but like give him three months,

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Speaker 1: you know, like you have to really find a job

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Speaker 1: within two months or three months because this is our life.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I can't just go be an influencer, you know.

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Speaker 1: It's like, hey, here I am. And if he wants

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Speaker 1: to do that and succeed and more, Right, but it

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Speaker 1: doesn't just happen like that. You need a plan, don't you. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: you do, well, I think there's no You're you're getting married,

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Speaker 1: You're gonna be together. This is a partnership. Then you

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Speaker 1: need to have an honest conversation about your concern of

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Speaker 1: his next step and what that responsibility looks like. Right, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: like I said, we've just we've he's talked about this

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Speaker 1: for like the past month, but he's now bringing up

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Speaker 1: more often. I just keep trying to be like, hey,

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Speaker 1: doesn't seem to respond to that he needs. He's like, oh,

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Speaker 1: I'll just quit and figure it out. Mm hmm. He

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Speaker 1: needs to line something up at least. Yeah, Yeah, I

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Speaker 1: can talk to him. Sinning will tell him he needs

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Speaker 1: a ligne something up before he quit. Yeah, they have

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Speaker 1: like job recruiters. Look, if it makes you this uncomfortable,

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Speaker 1: maybe you need to postpone getting married. You need to

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Speaker 1: can't relax. You don't have to go that far. Wow,

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Speaker 1: all right, well I'll be over here in the corner

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Speaker 1: with my cold call postpone the wedding. Yeah, I feel

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Speaker 1: like that might be more drastic. Well, I wouldn't take

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Speaker 1: good luck and congratulations. I think I don't understand how

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Speaker 1: right if you if you're gonna quit, how are you

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Speaker 1: do that because but we're also planners. Like I'm such

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Speaker 1: a planner I have maybe so since you were telling

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Speaker 1: me you're excited this morning for the heat, but you

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Speaker 1: had a little you had a little rough start apparently

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Speaker 1: out of the gate today. Huh Yeah. Here's the deal.

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Speaker 1: We all get here very early in the morning. I

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Speaker 1: feel like we all respect each other's spaces when it

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Speaker 1: comes to parking. In their little parking structure, there's not

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Speaker 1: assigned spaces. But I know where Tanya parks, I know

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Speaker 1: where Mark parks. I would never park in their space,

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Speaker 1: you know, even though it's not assigned to us, it's

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Speaker 1: just the routine of our mornings. So I come in

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Speaker 1: this morning and somebody white sedan is parked in my spot.

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Speaker 1: But it's not your spot. It's open parking. It's not

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Speaker 1: my spot, but it's my favorite spot because it's against

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Speaker 1: It's so early, I'm gonna tell you. I was reading

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Speaker 1: an article about this. Actually this is a nationwide issue.

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Speaker 1: People who were who came back to their offices first

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Speaker 1: then when their managers started coming back, who usually get

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Speaker 1: the line. And so there's this whole parking hierarchy issue

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Speaker 1: with companies around the country. I am up in arms

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Speaker 1: because I came back in January and I've had that

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Speaker 1: throw you off parking. Here's how it threw me off.

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Speaker 1: So I had to go and I reverse my car

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Speaker 1: I'm reversing. It's a bus and so I'm reversing it

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Speaker 1: back into a new spot that I'm not used to,

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Speaker 1: and I hit the polls I got on a car

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Speaker 1: accident whatever. The then pillar. No, that's bad, I know,

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Speaker 1: and my whole side of my car now smashed in,

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Speaker 1: and I'm just like, yeah, well, first of all, you

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Speaker 1: bus has dark windows, doesn't it. Sure, dark windows in

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Speaker 1: the parking garage are tragic. It's hard to see those pillars.

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Speaker 1: And you know what the crazy thing is. The thing

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Speaker 1: was beeping at me, like I knew it was like,

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Speaker 1: I'm like, you don't have a camera that shows you

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Speaker 1: that camera, the beeping, all of it. And still I

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Speaker 1: this morning, listen, I have like a spot in my

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Speaker 1: pilates class. But it's not like it's my spot. Sometimes

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Speaker 1: annoyed are you when that happens. Whatever, it lurks you

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Speaker 1: a little. And you're also not there every day, actually

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Speaker 1: not there ever. I just was using it. But I

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Speaker 1: think this is something that has happened. You know, some

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Speaker 1: people do get assigned parking. That's like a perk that

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Speaker 1: some companies get. You know what, you have the same parking.

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Speaker 1: I should just take your spot. I think my office

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Speaker 1: to my spot, right, somebody didn't somebody steal it. I

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Speaker 1: don't think anybody parks in it. And actually they don't

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Speaker 1: they're not gonna pay for it. I'm like, fine, you know,

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Speaker 1: I thought I give it to ton your sissany but fine,

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Speaker 1: you guys know you guys be that way apparently. Um So.

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Speaker 1: The hierarchy, though, is a big issue. Some places have

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Speaker 1: reserved for guests. You're not supposed to use those. I

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Speaker 1: was going to SMC and g c C. Getting a

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Speaker 1: parking spot to get the class on time was like

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Speaker 1: the biggest issue was so stressful. Now, oh yeah, you had.

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Speaker 1: We called it like you're patrolling like a shark in

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Speaker 1: you like, look for someone that's walking back to their car,

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Speaker 1: like are you leaving? And I know I'm just putting

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Speaker 1: something in my car? Oh no, I'm just dropping my

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Speaker 1: books off. All right, listen, we're gonna get through it, sissany.

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Speaker 1: thanks so much, Tyler, Thank you for holding. My name

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Speaker 1: Thanks man. So we're just forgive the strangeness of this call.

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Speaker 1: well Giobou rabis I just went through all the movies

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00:24:01,920 --> 00:24:04,200
Speaker 1: that he's not in. He's in one called boiler Room.

422
00:24:04,400 --> 00:24:09,440
Speaker 1: Who is that guy? I don't know? Phoebe's brother from Friends. Yeah,

423
00:24:11,600 --> 00:24:13,760
Speaker 1: but wait, I'm not that's not the robot guy that

424
00:24:13,800 --> 00:24:16,399
Speaker 1: gets into fights. That's a different guy. Isn't it the

425
00:24:16,440 --> 00:24:20,719
Speaker 1: Transformer guy that's I'm thinking of. But you sound like

426
00:24:21,000 --> 00:24:29,600
Speaker 1: Phoebe's brother from Friends, Givanni Rabisi. Okay, I mean we're

427
00:24:29,680 --> 00:24:34,840
Speaker 1: so sidetracked right now, I can't even let's stay on task. So, Tyler,

428
00:24:34,880 --> 00:24:36,560
Speaker 1: I'm here to tell you that Olivia is listening to

429
00:24:36,600 --> 00:24:39,520
Speaker 1: all of this. She's on the line and she would

430
00:24:39,520 --> 00:24:41,399
Speaker 1: like to know why you didn't get back to her.

431
00:24:41,440 --> 00:24:43,280
Speaker 1: But I think Olivia, maybe you know, now what's your

432
00:24:43,320 --> 00:24:47,280
Speaker 1: reaction to what Tyler has been saying? Yeah, I mean, hi, Tyler,

433
00:24:47,520 --> 00:24:50,720
Speaker 1: this is basically like what guys do all the time, right,

434
00:24:50,840 --> 00:24:53,439
Speaker 1: Like you were just talking to me. Why because you

435
00:24:53,440 --> 00:25:00,480
Speaker 1: were bored or something? Um no, I mean, we'll be No,

436
00:25:00,640 --> 00:25:04,200
Speaker 1: we had a nice connection, but I I guess I

437
00:25:04,320 --> 00:25:09,119
Speaker 1: just moved on right because there's always another girl to

438
00:25:09,160 --> 00:25:12,080
Speaker 1: swipe right on. Well, this is not gonna work out.

439
00:25:12,160 --> 00:25:16,800
Speaker 1: I can pretty much tell from the conversation. But Tyler

440
00:25:16,880 --> 00:25:20,600
Speaker 1: seems a little laid back Olivia and not so uh

441
00:25:20,920 --> 00:25:24,200
Speaker 1: taking the initiative here, So it seems I'm not sure

442
00:25:24,280 --> 00:25:27,639
Speaker 1: why you're upset, Like, did I do something wrong? I don't.

443
00:25:28,480 --> 00:25:30,280
Speaker 1: I mean, I guess not. But like I feel like

444
00:25:30,280 --> 00:25:32,639
Speaker 1: this is why it's so hard to believe that you know,

445
00:25:32,640 --> 00:25:34,919
Speaker 1: when guys compliment you, they're just telling you whatever you

446
00:25:34,920 --> 00:25:38,080
Speaker 1: want here, And to be honest, I feel like you

447
00:25:38,160 --> 00:25:44,480
Speaker 1: probably do this to a lot of girls. Um, I

448
00:25:44,480 --> 00:25:47,119
Speaker 1: I don't know what to tell you. Welcome to dating,

449
00:25:47,160 --> 00:25:52,000
Speaker 1: I guess wow, I don't wait, I don't want this

450
00:25:52,040 --> 00:25:57,880
Speaker 1: call to end keep going like I didn't know we

451
00:25:57,880 --> 00:26:01,440
Speaker 1: were married because I asked you out. One's just okay.

452
00:26:01,440 --> 00:26:05,960
Speaker 1: She didn't say that everything you don't know, people you

453
00:26:06,000 --> 00:26:08,919
Speaker 1: don't know. No, No, this is not this is the problem.

454
00:26:09,760 --> 00:26:11,199
Speaker 1: This is the first time. Is this the first time

455
00:26:11,200 --> 00:26:15,240
Speaker 1: you guys are talking on the phone. Probably, yeah, this

456
00:26:15,280 --> 00:26:18,000
Speaker 1: is the problem. This is the what's the problem. The

457
00:26:18,040 --> 00:26:20,520
Speaker 1: problem is meaning people that you don't know, or that

458
00:26:20,680 --> 00:26:25,000
Speaker 1: don't know somebody you know what they're loose cannon. You

459
00:26:25,040 --> 00:26:29,600
Speaker 1: don't know what type of person they are. You need

460
00:26:29,680 --> 00:26:31,760
Speaker 1: to get together, like we're supposed to hang out so

461
00:26:31,800 --> 00:26:34,240
Speaker 1: we could get to know each other. But I think

462
00:26:34,280 --> 00:26:36,720
Speaker 1: this is the ship. I think this is better, Olivia,

463
00:26:36,760 --> 00:26:38,760
Speaker 1: because you would have gotten together met he probably would

464
00:26:38,760 --> 00:26:40,119
Speaker 1: have told you everything you want to hear with the

465
00:26:40,200 --> 00:26:42,080
Speaker 1: date would have gone fantastic, and then he would have

466
00:26:42,080 --> 00:26:44,320
Speaker 1: still swiped right on another chick and then dated her

467
00:26:44,359 --> 00:26:47,240
Speaker 1: and left you in the dust. So I think I

468
00:26:47,240 --> 00:26:49,640
Speaker 1: think that. Well, look, Tyler and Olivia, thank you both

469
00:26:49,720 --> 00:26:52,399
Speaker 1: for talking to us and talking to each other. We're

470
00:26:52,440 --> 00:26:55,159
Speaker 1: gonna assume this is probably not gonna work out, but

471
00:26:55,240 --> 00:26:58,280
Speaker 1: for the best and good luck to both of you. Okay,

472
00:26:59,160 --> 00:27:04,280
Speaker 1: they thanks guys, bye bye, all right. Two things. One, Nick,

473
00:27:04,359 --> 00:27:10,520
Speaker 1: if you're listening, can you get me Giovanni Robis Giovanni

474
00:27:10,600 --> 00:27:12,960
Speaker 1: Robisi's voice from boiler Room and that guy's voice on

475
00:27:12,960 --> 00:27:14,960
Speaker 1: the side by side. I gotta play him back later.

476
00:27:14,960 --> 00:27:19,040
Speaker 1: It's too good. And secondly, what's up with that dude?

477
00:27:19,119 --> 00:27:21,719
Speaker 1: He just doesn't care, right, He just out there fishing

478
00:27:21,800 --> 00:27:25,760
Speaker 1: for whatever and eating. He's just like dating in numbers.

479
00:27:25,440 --> 00:27:29,960
Speaker 1: He's not being so nice and he's been so courteous. Man,

480
00:27:30,160 --> 00:27:39,159
Speaker 1: it's scary out there with ryans. Could you pass the salt?

481
00:27:40,040 --> 00:27:43,119
Speaker 1: It's all over AT's side if you are just joining

482
00:27:43,160 --> 00:27:46,000
Speaker 1: us this morning. Tony is very salty. It's right word.

483
00:27:46,320 --> 00:27:49,520
Speaker 1: It's not salty. I think I think she waved the

484
00:27:49,520 --> 00:27:51,040
Speaker 1: Oh look what I have, but what you don't have?

485
00:27:51,119 --> 00:27:55,080
Speaker 1: Finger in my face? No, yeah, I want you. I

486
00:27:55,080 --> 00:27:59,679
Speaker 1: think you need to unclench a little hun clench and

487
00:27:59,720 --> 00:28:03,040
Speaker 1: he words except those what what? What? What are you

488
00:28:03,040 --> 00:28:06,399
Speaker 1: even thinking about? I don't know what you're thinking about?

489
00:28:06,960 --> 00:28:09,120
Speaker 1: What I'm all I The only thing I can say

490
00:28:09,160 --> 00:28:13,320
Speaker 1: for sure is once you found your perfect match, you

491
00:28:13,440 --> 00:28:20,080
Speaker 1: become very judgmental to others about it, and very high

492
00:28:20,119 --> 00:28:22,960
Speaker 1: on your high horse about it. Yeah. I mean, you know,

493
00:28:23,040 --> 00:28:29,800
Speaker 1: we all have feelings. I didn't remember that cry. What

494
00:28:30,280 --> 00:28:33,760
Speaker 1: joking the day you made me cry? Well, the day

495
00:28:33,800 --> 00:28:41,680
Speaker 1: is not over yet, Salty Cole, so awkward right now?

496
00:28:45,800 --> 00:28:50,960
Speaker 1: Are you mad at me? I'm talking Cole, I'm talking Tom,

497
00:28:51,000 --> 00:28:53,480
Speaker 1: not mad. It's just it's just like an evolution I

498
00:28:53,520 --> 00:28:56,160
Speaker 1: haven't seen from you. I'm gonna call you Morton from

499
00:28:56,200 --> 00:29:02,400
Speaker 1: now on. Cole, You're on, Sissy, Morton and Ryan go ahead,

500
00:29:05,000 --> 00:29:10,560
Speaker 1: and Ryan and Martin and Morton. I'm sorry, go ahead, Cole,

501
00:29:10,840 --> 00:29:15,680
Speaker 1: You're on with Ryan. What's up? Okay? Okay. So I

502
00:29:15,800 --> 00:29:18,479
Speaker 1: have this group of friends that I've been We've all

503
00:29:18,520 --> 00:29:21,960
Speaker 1: been friends since like freshman year. Um. And you know

504
00:29:21,960 --> 00:29:23,880
Speaker 1: it's probably because we were all in these long term

505
00:29:23,960 --> 00:29:27,200
Speaker 1: relationships this whole time, not not with each other. UM.

506
00:29:27,240 --> 00:29:29,480
Speaker 1: I had just broken up with with my girlfriend like

507
00:29:29,520 --> 00:29:32,440
Speaker 1: a month ago, which is totally fine, don't worry about that. UM.

508
00:29:32,440 --> 00:29:34,800
Speaker 1: But this other girl in our friend group, Ashley, she

509
00:29:34,880 --> 00:29:37,520
Speaker 1: also just broke up with her boyfriend and she had

510
00:29:37,560 --> 00:29:40,120
Speaker 1: just asked me out. And you know, normally I would

511
00:29:40,160 --> 00:29:43,280
Speaker 1: say yes because she's great, but you know, we both

512
00:29:43,280 --> 00:29:45,680
Speaker 1: just got out of these long term relationships. You know

513
00:29:45,720 --> 00:29:48,400
Speaker 1: we're in this group, which makes everything complicated. I also

514
00:29:48,440 --> 00:29:51,000
Speaker 1: don't want to mess up our friendships, and so you know,

515
00:29:51,120 --> 00:29:55,200
Speaker 1: it's it's so interesting, Cole, because all of those things

516
00:29:55,240 --> 00:29:57,480
Speaker 1: you just said are going to make you hang out

517
00:29:57,520 --> 00:30:00,880
Speaker 1: with that person or go out with that person. It's

518
00:30:00,920 --> 00:30:03,480
Speaker 1: like all the kind of some wrong common, but there's

519
00:30:03,520 --> 00:30:05,960
Speaker 1: so much common that that common is going to get

520
00:30:05,960 --> 00:30:07,800
Speaker 1: you to hang out. I just know you're gonna lean

521
00:30:07,840 --> 00:30:10,880
Speaker 1: on each other. It's like it's like, like, you know,

522
00:30:11,080 --> 00:30:14,080
Speaker 1: we both just broke up. We got the same friends.

523
00:30:14,160 --> 00:30:16,000
Speaker 1: Is probably not a great idea, but it's not a

524
00:30:16,080 --> 00:30:18,800
Speaker 1: terrible idea, So what the hell? That's what will happen.

525
00:30:18,880 --> 00:30:20,600
Speaker 1: You want what you can't have, and then it means

526
00:30:20,720 --> 00:30:25,320
Speaker 1: dangling right there, you go for it. But it's like, yes, yeah,

527
00:30:27,360 --> 00:30:34,080
Speaker 1: let's ask Morton, what do you think go for I try,

528
00:30:34,160 --> 00:30:35,920
Speaker 1: I'm like, I was distracted as I'm trying to google

529
00:30:35,920 --> 00:30:42,400
Speaker 1: what morton means. Get it? Alright, col please keep us

530
00:30:42,440 --> 00:30:45,120
Speaker 1: posted on that one, all right, will, I'll keep Morton

531
00:30:45,200 --> 00:30:50,600
Speaker 1: posted all right? By You're being very salty, but who

532
00:30:50,840 --> 00:30:54,840
Speaker 1: who's jelly roll? Morton? Morton is the brand of salt

533
00:30:55,320 --> 00:31:02,160
Speaker 1: with the umbrella. Yeah, my God, I think you're googling, like,

534
00:31:02,360 --> 00:31:07,280
Speaker 1: who is Morton and what what came up in your search? Morton?

535
00:31:08,480 --> 00:31:13,440
Speaker 1: Jelly roll Morton. He was an American jazz penis like,

536
00:31:14,080 --> 00:31:17,400
Speaker 1: I'm calling you a pianist because of your saltiness about

537
00:31:17,440 --> 00:31:25,640
Speaker 1: my personal life. You well, what a morning? All right?

538
00:31:25,680 --> 00:31:29,280
Speaker 1: I want to just experiments. Last hour, we had a

539
00:31:29,320 --> 00:31:31,680
Speaker 1: second date update and Tyler and Olivia they're not going

540
00:31:31,720 --> 00:31:35,720
Speaker 1: to work out. But as sometimes with anyone on the telephone,

541
00:31:36,120 --> 00:31:38,280
Speaker 1: I mean, this happens to you with other people. The

542
00:31:38,360 --> 00:31:42,000
Speaker 1: voice sounds familiar, and I don't know Tyler never met Tyler,

543
00:31:42,760 --> 00:31:46,680
Speaker 1: but Tyler sounded like an actor, and by process of elimination,

544
00:31:47,440 --> 00:31:52,760
Speaker 1: I figured out he sounded like Giovanni Rabisi. So here's Tyler.

545
00:31:53,040 --> 00:31:55,520
Speaker 1: This is Tyler. Just was on a second date update. Yeah,

546
00:31:55,560 --> 00:31:58,280
Speaker 1: we just seemed we seem to have a connection, you know,

547
00:31:58,760 --> 00:32:02,280
Speaker 1: like things in common, and so it's yeah, I asked

548
00:32:02,320 --> 00:32:05,080
Speaker 1: her out, but it just didn't. It didn't work out,

549
00:32:05,920 --> 00:32:09,400
Speaker 1: all right, Tyler s d you right there now, this

550
00:32:09,480 --> 00:32:12,320
Speaker 1: is Giovanna Riviisi from the movies. I'm gonna come back

551
00:32:12,360 --> 00:32:14,200
Speaker 1: to you in one month with one idea and one

552
00:32:14,240 --> 00:32:15,680
Speaker 1: idea only you know if you're like, well, we have

553
00:32:15,760 --> 00:32:18,400
Speaker 1: to say great, you know, we'll do business. If not,

554
00:32:18,600 --> 00:32:20,920
Speaker 1: we're gonna part his friends. That's yeah, we just seem

555
00:32:20,960 --> 00:32:25,640
Speaker 1: we seem to. I don't think there's a nasally sound

556
00:32:25,640 --> 00:32:28,200
Speaker 1: to it. Yeah, I asked her out, but it just didn't.

557
00:32:28,960 --> 00:32:30,800
Speaker 1: It didn't work out. I'm gonna come back to you

558
00:32:30,840 --> 00:32:36,320
Speaker 1: in one month. I've seen a movie Audios to Chris.

559
00:32:36,920 --> 00:32:40,280
Speaker 1: But it's the same voice, guys, it's a talent that

560
00:32:40,400 --> 00:32:44,560
Speaker 1: is Phoebe's brother for me forever. All right, let's get

561
00:32:44,600 --> 00:32:47,720
Speaker 1: to MICHAELA. So MICHAELA is new to the morning show team.

562
00:32:47,760 --> 00:32:49,840
Speaker 1: Here works in the back room where all the phone

563
00:32:49,840 --> 00:32:52,000
Speaker 1: lines come in. And the other day we were talking

564
00:32:52,040 --> 00:32:55,000
Speaker 1: about single people meeting potential dates online, but not on

565
00:32:55,120 --> 00:32:58,120
Speaker 1: dating apps. It was on Great Customer Service chats and

566
00:32:58,160 --> 00:33:01,120
Speaker 1: you guys said Venmo and all that stuff exactly. So

567
00:33:01,360 --> 00:33:04,680
Speaker 1: MICHAELA are producing the back room, dropped this one on

568
00:33:04,800 --> 00:33:07,080
Speaker 1: us in the meaning she said, and I think this

569
00:33:07,160 --> 00:33:10,080
Speaker 1: is a quote, MICHAELA quote My mom found out my

570
00:33:10,200 --> 00:33:13,160
Speaker 1: dad was cheating on her on Words with Friends. Is

571
00:33:13,160 --> 00:33:17,800
Speaker 1: that what came out of your mouth? I don't understand. Yeah,

572
00:33:17,840 --> 00:33:20,120
Speaker 1: like my it was my mom just got my dad

573
00:33:20,160 --> 00:33:22,920
Speaker 1: like on the phone all the time. So and she

574
00:33:22,920 --> 00:33:24,760
Speaker 1: asked him about it, and that was it, and she

575
00:33:24,880 --> 00:33:29,680
Speaker 1: caught him cheating friends. There's a chat. There's a chat.

576
00:33:29,880 --> 00:33:31,880
Speaker 1: You can do a chat in Words with friends. We're

577
00:33:31,960 --> 00:33:38,200
Speaker 1: playing against another real player. So your father and you're

578
00:33:38,200 --> 00:33:42,600
Speaker 1: fine to talk about this. Well, how long ago was it? Um?

579
00:33:42,760 --> 00:33:46,400
Speaker 1: I was in high school? So well, I mean words

580
00:33:46,440 --> 00:33:49,760
Speaker 1: with friends and now wardle it's like, alright, so got

581
00:33:49,800 --> 00:33:53,000
Speaker 1: my word in three today. Be careful. You don't want

582
00:33:53,000 --> 00:33:56,320
Speaker 1: to be having things happen on word there. It could

583
00:33:56,320 --> 00:33:58,120
Speaker 1: be soon, you don't know. The one of those New

584
00:33:58,160 --> 00:34:02,480
Speaker 1: York Times just bought it. That's true, Mikaela. So you're

585
00:34:03,400 --> 00:34:06,440
Speaker 1: dad is on and chatting with the other woman, and

586
00:34:06,480 --> 00:34:07,960
Speaker 1: your mom's like, why are you always on the phone.

587
00:34:07,960 --> 00:34:09,520
Speaker 1: He's like, I'm just playing Words with friends. And then

588
00:34:09,600 --> 00:34:15,880
Speaker 1: she read the chat exactly yeah, yep. And then what um,

589
00:34:15,920 --> 00:34:19,040
Speaker 1: I mean she confronted him about it. I mean, yeah,

590
00:34:19,120 --> 00:34:23,319
Speaker 1: she obviously she was suspicious before too, because he had

591
00:34:23,440 --> 00:34:28,000
Speaker 1: cheated previously, so she just kind of was on edge anyway,

592
00:34:28,080 --> 00:34:29,719
Speaker 1: And when he was just on the phone all the time,

593
00:34:29,880 --> 00:34:32,839
Speaker 1: not paying attention to us, she was like, what's going

594
00:34:32,880 --> 00:34:34,600
Speaker 1: on with this? Why are you what's going on with

595
00:34:35,000 --> 00:34:36,640
Speaker 1: with friends? I need to check this out. And that's

596
00:34:36,640 --> 00:34:41,160
Speaker 1: when she was let me apologize that the producers on

597
00:34:41,200 --> 00:34:42,759
Speaker 1: the other side of the wall are throwing you into

598
00:34:42,800 --> 00:34:44,960
Speaker 1: these conversations out of the gate when you just started

599
00:34:44,960 --> 00:34:47,080
Speaker 1: and apparently they have your mother on the phone. Yes,

600
00:34:47,280 --> 00:34:55,759
Speaker 1: she's here, Yeah, Melissa, Hi, Hi, Hi, I'm great. It's

601
00:34:55,840 --> 00:34:59,440
Speaker 1: Ryan Seacrest and Sinsony and Morton. Good morning. My name's

602
00:34:59,600 --> 00:35:05,439
Speaker 1: morning Tanya. So Melissa, you're in Rhode Island. I am well.

603
00:35:05,760 --> 00:35:09,200
Speaker 1: I want to apologize to YouTube because the producers on

604
00:35:09,200 --> 00:35:12,640
Speaker 1: one side of the wall had stumbled into this conversation

605
00:35:12,680 --> 00:35:16,560
Speaker 1: about your your life and discovering about your husband cheating

606
00:35:16,880 --> 00:35:19,520
Speaker 1: on you on Words with Friends, and Mikaylo was just

607
00:35:19,520 --> 00:35:24,080
Speaker 1: telling us all about it. Oh yes, yeah, I never

608
00:35:24,120 --> 00:35:26,880
Speaker 1: thought there was a chat where you could chat on

609
00:35:27,000 --> 00:35:31,440
Speaker 1: words with friends, but obviously there is. And what I mean,

610
00:35:31,440 --> 00:35:35,000
Speaker 1: what's that? What was that moment like for you? Well,

611
00:35:35,040 --> 00:35:38,160
Speaker 1: he's cheated in the past, so you know when he

612
00:35:38,239 --> 00:35:41,279
Speaker 1: was constantly on his phone, you know, constantly doing it

613
00:35:41,280 --> 00:35:43,520
Speaker 1: while it was Stanley time or whatever he was doing.

614
00:35:43,960 --> 00:35:46,200
Speaker 1: I said, what are you doing on your phone, I'm

615
00:35:46,200 --> 00:35:49,239
Speaker 1: playing words with friends. So I questioned it right there.

616
00:35:49,280 --> 00:35:51,239
Speaker 1: So he had gotten in the shower and I you know,

617
00:35:51,400 --> 00:35:54,359
Speaker 1: went through his phone and shure enough, I throw all

618
00:35:54,560 --> 00:35:57,520
Speaker 1: the messages. So it was a little it wasn't shocking,

619
00:35:57,520 --> 00:35:59,759
Speaker 1: but yes it was shocking. And did he stop or

620
00:36:00,680 --> 00:36:04,720
Speaker 1: what happened with that relationship? Um? I confronted him and

621
00:36:04,760 --> 00:36:07,719
Speaker 1: he denied it, of course, Um you know, but uh

622
00:36:08,800 --> 00:36:11,239
Speaker 1: I ended it actually at that point because you, like

623
00:36:11,239 --> 00:36:14,759
Speaker 1: I said, he cheated in the past and this was it.

624
00:36:15,080 --> 00:36:18,399
Speaker 1: This this He's not going to change this is it? Well?

625
00:36:18,920 --> 00:36:22,160
Speaker 1: Sorry that this is our first conversation, Melissa. It's a

626
00:36:22,200 --> 00:36:26,319
Speaker 1: pleasure to meet you, and we love your daughter, thank you.

627
00:36:26,680 --> 00:36:28,359
Speaker 1: But I do have a bone to pick with her,

628
00:36:28,760 --> 00:36:31,800
Speaker 1: and so just say, you know, Melissa, she's roaming around

629
00:36:31,800 --> 00:36:37,120
Speaker 1: town on these dating apps cutting out any man that's short. Yeah.

630
00:36:37,200 --> 00:36:39,759
Speaker 1: I told that she just needs to stop that. Yeah,

631
00:36:39,800 --> 00:36:43,080
Speaker 1: I agree. I mean, let's out about how you gotta

632
00:36:43,280 --> 00:36:48,040
Speaker 1: open mind when it comes to this stuff, right, absolutely, absolutely, Yeah,

633
00:36:48,480 --> 00:36:51,600
Speaker 1: it's all about you know how nice he is and

634
00:36:52,160 --> 00:36:54,680
Speaker 1: you know, for your daughter, it's got to be five

635
00:36:55,400 --> 00:36:58,680
Speaker 1: six two and above, right, Am I making that up?

636
00:36:58,719 --> 00:37:02,000
Speaker 1: My Caleb? No, no, that's not true. It's it's fine

637
00:37:02,239 --> 00:37:04,520
Speaker 1: if they're just as long as i'm they're taller than

638
00:37:04,520 --> 00:37:06,560
Speaker 1: me without heels, it's good. They can be five sicks

639
00:37:06,560 --> 00:37:09,320
Speaker 1: and five five. It's a she's she's sugarcoating. That's not

640
00:37:11,160 --> 00:37:16,480
Speaker 1: I know, I know. I'll keep my tabs on all this. Okay, okay, yeah,

641
00:37:16,520 --> 00:37:21,120
Speaker 1: we're watching her. She's in good hands. It's perfect. Thank you,

642
00:37:21,280 --> 00:37:23,759
Speaker 1: thank you. We well try not to bother you too

643
00:37:23,840 --> 00:37:25,400
Speaker 1: much there in Rhode Island, and listen, thank you for

644
00:37:25,440 --> 00:37:30,120
Speaker 1: coming on with us. Okay, thank you, bye bye bye.

645
00:37:30,960 --> 00:37:32,440
Speaker 1: Did you know your mom is gonna be on the

646
00:37:32,480 --> 00:37:37,279
Speaker 1: phone listen to that conversation? Yeah, putting us to the

647
00:37:37,320 --> 00:37:43,239
Speaker 1: test here. She sounds sweet and she's so beautiful. That's her. Yeah,

648
00:37:43,440 --> 00:37:46,080
Speaker 1: you guys look like sisters said, I don't know who's mckaylin.

649
00:37:47,000 --> 00:37:52,759
Speaker 1: Everyone said that, and sissony with the story about what

650
00:37:53,040 --> 00:37:56,680
Speaker 1: some people are doing. Apparently it's catching on because well,

651
00:37:56,920 --> 00:38:00,840
Speaker 1: we have limited time us. The other day, which is

652
00:38:00,880 --> 00:38:02,719
Speaker 1: like was like the big light bulb, and I was like,

653
00:38:02,760 --> 00:38:05,360
Speaker 1: oh my gosh, this is actually a thing. So what

654
00:38:05,400 --> 00:38:08,760
Speaker 1: are they calling what's the concept? It's called errand dates.

655
00:38:08,760 --> 00:38:11,120
Speaker 1: So let's do the math real quick, twenty four hours

656
00:38:11,120 --> 00:38:12,959
Speaker 1: in a day. If you get eight hours of sleep

657
00:38:13,000 --> 00:38:16,359
Speaker 1: and you work eight hours at work, that's I mean

658
00:38:16,480 --> 00:38:19,280
Speaker 1: right if you if you do, I'm just saying, sixteen

659
00:38:19,280 --> 00:38:22,080
Speaker 1: hours are taken up by sleep and work essentially give

660
00:38:22,160 --> 00:38:25,080
Speaker 1: or take. So that doesn't leave you very much time

661
00:38:25,280 --> 00:38:28,640
Speaker 1: for like hanging out with your friends and like catching

662
00:38:28,760 --> 00:38:31,399
Speaker 1: up with people. So you do the math like that.

663
00:38:31,560 --> 00:38:35,560
Speaker 1: It's very limited, it is, I know, And so erond

664
00:38:35,600 --> 00:38:38,359
Speaker 1: dates is basically calling your best and saying like, hey,

665
00:38:38,400 --> 00:38:40,480
Speaker 1: I have to go to Target. Come with me, and

666
00:38:40,560 --> 00:38:44,040
Speaker 1: you're you run your errands together, you catch up. You

667
00:38:44,080 --> 00:38:46,120
Speaker 1: can go to the car wash. You can think about

668
00:38:46,160 --> 00:38:47,680
Speaker 1: when I go to the car wash, I sit there

669
00:38:47,680 --> 00:38:51,120
Speaker 1: by myself on my phone for an hour, Like why

670
00:38:51,239 --> 00:38:53,759
Speaker 1: not like have that time spent with a friend, or

671
00:38:53,800 --> 00:38:56,640
Speaker 1: taking a step further and go maybe not a first date,

672
00:38:56,920 --> 00:38:58,719
Speaker 1: but maybe like a second date or a third day,

673
00:38:58,760 --> 00:39:00,400
Speaker 1: like going to like if you have to, Like if

674
00:39:00,400 --> 00:39:02,920
Speaker 1: you're shopping for a new couch and you're like coming

675
00:39:03,120 --> 00:39:05,160
Speaker 1: up a few different furniture stories, you can get a

676
00:39:05,239 --> 00:39:06,960
Speaker 1: vibe of, like what this guy is, like, what a

677
00:39:07,040 --> 00:39:08,880
Speaker 1: style is like? If you think, if you think that

678
00:39:08,880 --> 00:39:11,759
Speaker 1: you could see a teacher with them. It's like kind

679
00:39:11,760 --> 00:39:18,400
Speaker 1: of cute. I I need to think it well, I

680
00:39:18,800 --> 00:39:23,279
Speaker 1: tell you, Like when I go shopping for food, I

681
00:39:23,400 --> 00:39:25,640
Speaker 1: kind of like to be in my own head at

682
00:39:25,640 --> 00:39:29,040
Speaker 1: the grocery store. I do. I find it therapeutic. I

683
00:39:29,080 --> 00:39:31,760
Speaker 1: also have this whole inner voice talking to me about

684
00:39:31,760 --> 00:39:33,399
Speaker 1: what I want to make and what I'm looking for,

685
00:39:33,480 --> 00:39:35,920
Speaker 1: and I don't I don't need to be focused on

686
00:39:36,120 --> 00:39:38,080
Speaker 1: I don't know that I could focus on getting the

687
00:39:38,120 --> 00:39:41,480
Speaker 1: things I need at a grocery store and also having

688
00:39:41,520 --> 00:39:46,120
Speaker 1: great dialogue with a friend or a potential significant other.

689
00:39:46,440 --> 00:39:49,520
Speaker 1: Like I'm focused on like going and getting your car

690
00:39:49,600 --> 00:39:51,440
Speaker 1: washed or but then what happens at the end your

691
00:39:51,440 --> 00:39:55,120
Speaker 1: car gets called first and you bail, you leave. It's

692
00:39:55,120 --> 00:39:59,200
Speaker 1: not a good deal. Like I have had my friends

693
00:39:59,239 --> 00:40:02,480
Speaker 1: like to hang out and I say, you can come

694
00:40:02,520 --> 00:40:04,440
Speaker 1: over for like thirty minutes, but then I have to

695
00:40:04,480 --> 00:40:05,840
Speaker 1: go and pick up the kids from school, and then

696
00:40:05,880 --> 00:40:07,759
Speaker 1: I have to take them to dance class. So they're like,

697
00:40:07,760 --> 00:40:10,359
Speaker 1: walk on with you, and so they do because that's

698
00:40:10,360 --> 00:40:12,120
Speaker 1: the only time we get to hang out. Didn't you

699
00:40:12,160 --> 00:40:14,759
Speaker 1: speak now? But in the dating world I find it

700
00:40:14,800 --> 00:40:16,759
Speaker 1: to be didn't you either? Want to talking about X.

701
00:40:16,880 --> 00:40:19,120
Speaker 1: Isn't this an ick? If the person wanted to do

702
00:40:19,160 --> 00:40:21,759
Speaker 1: this as a date, it seems like an ick. Well

703
00:40:21,800 --> 00:40:23,560
Speaker 1: maybe for you, maybe that's your ick, But I don't

704
00:40:23,560 --> 00:40:27,359
Speaker 1: think it's most people sick. I just think it. Yeah,

705
00:40:27,400 --> 00:40:30,480
Speaker 1: you're not focused on the person, don't you think? Don't

706
00:40:30,480 --> 00:40:34,080
Speaker 1: you think it's a isn't one of the most challenging

707
00:40:34,280 --> 00:40:38,759
Speaker 1: things to find someone who listens? And if you're shopping

708
00:40:38,920 --> 00:40:41,080
Speaker 1: or your car is going through the car wash, you're not.

709
00:40:42,320 --> 00:40:45,640
Speaker 1: You're seeing this the wrong way. You're not understanding. Okay,

710
00:40:45,800 --> 00:40:47,680
Speaker 1: when you first start dating somebody, don't you want to

711
00:40:47,680 --> 00:40:49,440
Speaker 1: be with them all the time? Like you think about

712
00:40:49,440 --> 00:40:53,399
Speaker 1: them all the time when you first start. You mean,

713
00:40:53,440 --> 00:40:59,160
Speaker 1: once you've gotten once, you're realizing like that's them, Like

714
00:40:59,200 --> 00:41:01,000
Speaker 1: you want to be with at all time to them,

715
00:41:01,080 --> 00:41:04,520
Speaker 1: You can't keep doing these like extravagant dates. You have

716
00:41:04,560 --> 00:41:06,280
Speaker 1: to get on with your life and run your errands

717
00:41:06,280 --> 00:41:08,160
Speaker 1: and do normal day to day stuff. So then they

718
00:41:08,239 --> 00:41:10,359
Speaker 1: just come with you to that stuff. And I think

719
00:41:10,360 --> 00:41:12,759
Speaker 1: you know each other that way, but that's later after

720
00:41:12,800 --> 00:41:16,759
Speaker 1: the yeah, yeah, yeah. Imagine somebody on the third date

721
00:41:16,800 --> 00:41:20,240
Speaker 1: being like, Hey, I'm gonna go get my shoes shine

722
00:41:20,320 --> 00:41:22,400
Speaker 1: down at our touros. Do you want to hop in

723
00:41:22,480 --> 00:41:24,399
Speaker 1: the car and get my shoes shined with me? I'd

724
00:41:24,440 --> 00:41:27,560
Speaker 1: be like, that's weird. I wouldn't want to go with

725
00:41:27,560 --> 00:41:29,879
Speaker 1: anybody to get their shoes. I mean whatever, I'm trying

726
00:41:29,880 --> 00:41:34,399
Speaker 1: to think. What eron's guys run We don't. We don't

727
00:41:34,440 --> 00:41:41,360
Speaker 1: do that. Yeah, we don't get a hot shave and

728
00:41:43,480 --> 00:41:47,320
Speaker 1: at the train station, yeah, and get in our wagon.

729
00:41:51,360 --> 00:41:53,080
Speaker 1: All right, Well, thank you for bringing this up. If

730
00:41:53,080 --> 00:41:56,440
Speaker 1: anybody's into it one or two seven, or if this

731
00:41:56,480 --> 00:41:59,080
Speaker 1: is something you're doing, there's a coffee shop with a

732
00:41:59,120 --> 00:42:02,680
Speaker 1: twist in Echo Park that we think you should know about.

733
00:42:02,719 --> 00:42:05,560
Speaker 1: Sisany as the details now. So, I've kind of been

734
00:42:05,600 --> 00:42:08,960
Speaker 1: toying with the idea of getting another tattoo. I want

735
00:42:09,000 --> 00:42:12,680
Speaker 1: to maybe get something like that involves my kids names

736
00:42:12,880 --> 00:42:15,680
Speaker 1: or their initials or their birthdays. I don't know, write

737
00:42:15,680 --> 00:42:22,440
Speaker 1: something that you have creative three kids tattoos. Oh, I have.

738
00:42:23,160 --> 00:42:26,000
Speaker 1: I have one tattoo. It's hidden. It's a little bit

739
00:42:26,920 --> 00:42:34,760
Speaker 1: toying for start. It's kind of like whenever something big

740
00:42:34,800 --> 00:42:39,080
Speaker 1: in my life happens, I want like something else that

741
00:42:39,360 --> 00:42:43,120
Speaker 1: is like drastic afterwards, Like when I got married. Uh,

742
00:42:43,160 --> 00:42:45,520
Speaker 1: after I got married, I died. I bleached my hair

743
00:42:45,600 --> 00:42:48,760
Speaker 1: platinum blonde, and then I dyed it purple and pink

744
00:42:48,920 --> 00:42:51,359
Speaker 1: and and so it's like there's something about that with

745
00:42:51,400 --> 00:42:53,960
Speaker 1: like with big events, when they're over, you get the blues,

746
00:42:54,000 --> 00:42:56,600
Speaker 1: so you want to do something bigger to like compensate.

747
00:42:57,080 --> 00:42:58,839
Speaker 1: So like maybe that's like the feeling that I'm having

748
00:42:58,840 --> 00:43:03,680
Speaker 1: now that I've had all my kids and like what's next?

749
00:43:03,880 --> 00:43:06,040
Speaker 1: Does everybody agreed that you maybe I've had no big

750
00:43:06,040 --> 00:43:12,279
Speaker 1: events in my life. I'm not plotting them. Done my hair, Yeah,

751
00:43:13,800 --> 00:43:16,680
Speaker 1: this is the same. It's been for as long as

752
00:43:17,080 --> 00:43:18,560
Speaker 1: as long as I was this tall, which is a

753
00:43:18,600 --> 00:43:20,680
Speaker 1: long I never had. You've never had the edge to

754
00:43:20,680 --> 00:43:24,880
Speaker 1: get a tattoo. Of course, I've had the itch. I

755
00:43:24,920 --> 00:43:26,880
Speaker 1: just don't scratch it because I know what my body's

756
00:43:26,920 --> 00:43:29,440
Speaker 1: gonna look like in thirty five years with a tattoo.

757
00:43:29,520 --> 00:43:31,520
Speaker 1: It's not going to be what I want to see. Well,

758
00:43:31,560 --> 00:43:33,959
Speaker 1: you care in thirty five years what your body looks

759
00:43:34,000 --> 00:43:39,200
Speaker 1: like with the tattoo? Probably, yeah, for sure, I think.

760
00:43:39,239 --> 00:43:41,840
Speaker 1: And also good your body will still be tight in

761
00:43:41,880 --> 00:43:46,640
Speaker 1: thirty five years. So there's that tubbs Uh, you did

762
00:43:46,640 --> 00:43:51,399
Speaker 1: your hair plattum once or no, yeah he did, yeah,

763
00:43:51,480 --> 00:43:55,120
Speaker 1: he and Jojo kind of like I was creeping around

764
00:43:55,560 --> 00:44:02,560
Speaker 1: looking around at their their style. Not like creeping, but

765
00:44:02,680 --> 00:44:05,239
Speaker 1: like what is the right verb? I was checking it

766
00:44:05,239 --> 00:44:10,200
Speaker 1: out because I thought maybe if I changed my wardrobe

767
00:44:10,200 --> 00:44:13,840
Speaker 1: a little bit, maybe that platinumize my hair at some point.

768
00:44:14,320 --> 00:44:17,239
Speaker 1: But platinumize is something I can get that I could

769
00:44:17,280 --> 00:44:19,959
Speaker 1: do and get rid of tattooing. You can't anyway. We are. Yeah,

770
00:44:20,000 --> 00:44:22,399
Speaker 1: I think I think you could and just own it.

771
00:44:22,520 --> 00:44:24,799
Speaker 1: That's so that's the difference. Do it and own it,

772
00:44:25,120 --> 00:44:27,839
Speaker 1: don't do it shy about it? Um okay. So this

773
00:44:27,920 --> 00:44:31,480
Speaker 1: is l A's first tattoo and coffee shop. Um. I

774
00:44:31,520 --> 00:44:34,719
Speaker 1: think the idea is genius. It's an echo park and

775
00:44:34,920 --> 00:44:36,880
Speaker 1: it's kind of nice. The owner wanted to create this

776
00:44:36,920 --> 00:44:40,839
Speaker 1: space especially for tattooed newbies that wasn't intimidating. So when

777
00:44:40,840 --> 00:44:43,239
Speaker 1: you think about tattoo parlor, you don't really know what

778
00:44:43,320 --> 00:44:45,719
Speaker 1: to expect. You feel like intimidated when you walk in.

779
00:44:46,200 --> 00:44:48,880
Speaker 1: Who knows. So this is more of like a pink,

780
00:44:49,200 --> 00:44:52,759
Speaker 1: really inviting coffee shop. They have really cute drinks. There's

781
00:44:52,800 --> 00:44:55,040
Speaker 1: like this latte called the ash Tray and they make

782
00:44:55,080 --> 00:44:58,160
Speaker 1: it look like the sprinkles of like the cocoa on

783
00:44:58,239 --> 00:45:00,799
Speaker 1: top look like ash, and then they put a like

784
00:45:00,840 --> 00:45:04,080
Speaker 1: a vanilla straw looking thing in there and to look

785
00:45:04,120 --> 00:45:06,719
Speaker 1: like a cigarette um. And so this having like a

786
00:45:06,760 --> 00:45:10,560
Speaker 1: really creative drinks and then you go and get your tattoo.

787
00:45:10,719 --> 00:45:12,719
Speaker 1: And it's so simple to make your appointment. I was

788
00:45:12,719 --> 00:45:15,239
Speaker 1: on their website and you just pick your date. You

789
00:45:15,280 --> 00:45:17,600
Speaker 1: say do you need an hour tattoo a two hour tattoo,

790
00:45:18,000 --> 00:45:19,839
Speaker 1: and you go from there. You can have a consultation

791
00:45:19,880 --> 00:45:22,960
Speaker 1: if you're not sure what you want to do. I

792
00:45:23,000 --> 00:45:25,760
Speaker 1: went into one, not this. I went into a tattoo

793
00:45:25,760 --> 00:45:29,160
Speaker 1: parlor once with somebody who's getting a tattoo, and she

794
00:45:29,320 --> 00:45:32,399
Speaker 1: asked me to come along with her. And I didn't

795
00:45:32,440 --> 00:45:35,080
Speaker 1: even know what to ask, what questions to ask, or

796
00:45:35,160 --> 00:45:38,120
Speaker 1: what to do inside the tattoo parlor because everybody thought

797
00:45:38,120 --> 00:45:41,000
Speaker 1: everybody that was in there was a member, you know,

798
00:45:41,080 --> 00:45:44,759
Speaker 1: like they knew what to do, and I was an outsider. Yeah,

799
00:45:44,800 --> 00:45:46,080
Speaker 1: this would be a good place for you to go

800
00:45:46,120 --> 00:45:49,279
Speaker 1: to that, but like it's not intimidating, No, it looks

801
00:45:49,360 --> 00:45:53,080
Speaker 1: very cute. It's like my tattoo would be if I

802
00:45:53,120 --> 00:45:57,040
Speaker 1: got one. Kylie is with us now, Kylie, good morning,

803
00:45:57,040 --> 00:46:01,160
Speaker 1: How are you doing good? How are you doing well? Kylie? So?

804
00:46:01,200 --> 00:46:06,759
Speaker 1: How Kylie? Kyle? What what I say? Kylie? How do

805
00:46:06,760 --> 00:46:11,440
Speaker 1: you spoke? K y l? I E right l E Yeah.

806
00:46:11,640 --> 00:46:15,360
Speaker 1: I'm so used to seeing the name Kylie on Instagram

807
00:46:15,400 --> 00:46:21,759
Speaker 1: that Kyle became Kylie in my brain. It's okay, Well,

808
00:46:21,800 --> 00:46:27,239
Speaker 1: thank you anyway. What what what can we do for you? Oh? So,

809
00:46:27,520 --> 00:46:30,440
Speaker 1: I have a big group chat with a bunch of

810
00:46:30,480 --> 00:46:34,000
Speaker 1: my college friends and it's like our main form of communication,

811
00:46:34,080 --> 00:46:36,920
Speaker 1: you know, sending means talking about what's going on with

812
00:46:36,960 --> 00:46:42,000
Speaker 1: our lives. Well, about a year ago, um, two of

813
00:46:42,040 --> 00:46:46,680
Speaker 1: our friends actually broke up and we're all still like

814
00:46:46,760 --> 00:46:49,200
Speaker 1: kind of friendly, but things have been weird for them

815
00:46:49,239 --> 00:46:53,040
Speaker 1: for a while. So one of the guy actually left

816
00:46:53,280 --> 00:46:57,520
Speaker 1: the group chat after they broke up, but now he's, uh,

817
00:46:57,600 --> 00:47:00,480
Speaker 1: I'm still friendly with some and everything, but now he

818
00:47:00,719 --> 00:47:04,640
Speaker 1: recently texted me about rejoining the group chat, and I

819
00:47:04,680 --> 00:47:08,520
Speaker 1: just feel like that's super awkward because of how weird. Ah,

820
00:47:09,560 --> 00:47:12,359
Speaker 1: they aren't together, So I just don't know what to do.

821
00:47:13,400 --> 00:47:15,720
Speaker 1: I feel like everybody will freak out if I randomly

822
00:47:15,760 --> 00:47:19,560
Speaker 1: add him back. Well, then you're probably right, don't you

823
00:47:19,600 --> 00:47:24,759
Speaker 1: think with your gut there, Yeah, I feel like you know,

824
00:47:24,920 --> 00:47:29,319
Speaker 1: if you add him back, they're going to freak out. Yeah,

825
00:47:29,360 --> 00:47:31,440
Speaker 1: but he's still my friends, so I just don't want

826
00:47:31,520 --> 00:47:35,680
Speaker 1: him to be upset and feel left out. What if

827
00:47:35,719 --> 00:47:45,640
Speaker 1: you add him back and then started doing without him. Yeah,

828
00:47:45,920 --> 00:47:48,319
Speaker 1: it's a life can be assured sometimes, right, We're just

829
00:47:48,360 --> 00:47:53,560
Speaker 1: trying to get through some of it, well, Kyle. Usually

830
00:47:53,560 --> 00:47:56,759
Speaker 1: in this situation group etiquette friend eediquette. Etiquette is a

831
00:47:56,760 --> 00:48:01,480
Speaker 1: tricky one sometimes. But I find in most of the

832
00:48:01,520 --> 00:48:06,600
Speaker 1: conversations we've had with people in that universe, the first

833
00:48:06,600 --> 00:48:09,239
Speaker 1: thing they say to us is the right thing, and

834
00:48:09,640 --> 00:48:11,680
Speaker 1: they know already that's what they should do. So I

835
00:48:11,719 --> 00:48:16,359
Speaker 1: think that that's the right path for you. Yeah, yeah,

836
00:48:16,400 --> 00:48:18,960
Speaker 1: that makes sense. All right. Well, good luck Coyle and

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Speaker 1: thank you very much for Colin. Thank you, okay bye.

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Speaker 1: Don't you think when your calls, usually even relationship stuff,

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Speaker 1: up their minds. It's just about action. M hmm. On

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Speaker 1: air with Ryan one two seven kiss, Thank you guys

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Speaker 1: so much for that epic Friday morning. It's gonna be

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Speaker 1: such a great weekend in Southern California. We'll talk to

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Speaker 1: you on Monday. Thanks for listening So on Air with

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