WEBVTT - Excuse Me for Being Pregnant 0:00:00.600 --> 0:00:00.800 God. 0:00:01.120 --> 0:00:14.240 God came to chip, came to chipped, came to chip, 0:00:14.880 --> 0:00:18.000 comes to my best day. Chipping, Ice came to Chipping, 0:00:19.079 --> 0:00:21.959 came to tipped, came through Chipped. 0:00:22.280 --> 0:00:23.160 Comes to my best day. 0:00:23.239 --> 0:00:25.400 Tripping Hello. 0:00:26.480 --> 0:00:31.840 Hello's early. This is the earliest we've ever recorded, and 0:00:31.920 --> 0:00:33.480 we were still late. I was late. 0:00:34.920 --> 0:00:38.640 Welcome to parential Advisory. Good mom's bad choices. I'm Erica 0:00:38.920 --> 0:00:44.120 and I'm Mila. And that was Cardi B. Drip Drip 0:00:44.640 --> 0:00:46.480 all the time is my risk kick dripping ice. 0:00:47.200 --> 0:00:48.600 I'm pretty sure that was wrong. 0:00:48.440 --> 0:00:51.360 But I came to trip. I love that song. I 0:00:51.400 --> 0:00:54.040 love her. Listen to her album, yeah a little bit, 0:00:54.160 --> 0:00:56.040 I'm always like delayed on the album listening. 0:00:56.480 --> 0:00:58.160 I mean, the only reason I'm not the only reason 0:00:58.160 --> 0:00:59.360 I actually really love Cardi B. 0:00:59.480 --> 0:01:02.280 But it's good workout music and I'm on the treadmill. 0:01:02.440 --> 0:01:04.960 I'm like, Okay, I'm gonna keep that in mind because 0:01:04.959 --> 0:01:05.920 I need to work out this week. 0:01:06.440 --> 0:01:09.160 Bet she bet you gotta hear that song. That's good. 0:01:09.280 --> 0:01:12.000 I think I heard that one too. Cartie's bad and 0:01:12.080 --> 0:01:14.120 apparently everybody knows that, including me. Nikki. 0:01:15.120 --> 0:01:18.240 I know, wait, did you see the interview with Nikki 0:01:18.280 --> 0:01:19.600 like crying about I heard about it. 0:01:19.560 --> 0:01:20.000 Can you please? 0:01:20.240 --> 0:01:20.720 I can? I keep? 0:01:20.760 --> 0:01:22.440 I've been meaning to google it, but I forgot was 0:01:22.440 --> 0:01:23.080 what is happening? 0:01:23.200 --> 0:01:26.120 She's literally so she's like talking about how she's hurt. 0:01:26.280 --> 0:01:28.319 Because I was kind of a little bit confused. But 0:01:28.360 --> 0:01:30.520 I guess that song that she did. 0:01:30.400 --> 0:01:35.639 With Offset in the Motorsports song, Yeah, that I guess. 0:01:35.720 --> 0:01:37.720 Nicki was saying, like, do you know how many girls 0:01:37.760 --> 0:01:39.160 would be so honored to be in a song with 0:01:39.240 --> 0:01:39.840 Nicki Minaj? 0:01:39.920 --> 0:01:43.080 Not to sound conceited, you sound conceited, but she said 0:01:43.200 --> 0:01:44.759 in the interview before she started crying. 0:01:44.880 --> 0:01:46.840 Yeah, it said that. 0:01:47.520 --> 0:01:49.800 I mean it's true though a lot of rap bitches 0:01:49.840 --> 0:01:52.000 would want to be on a song with Nicki Minach. 0:01:51.720 --> 0:01:53.160 Can't front on that, just like I would like to 0:01:53.160 --> 0:01:54.160 be in a song with Little Kim. 0:01:55.400 --> 0:01:57.360 She don't well, can't want to be longn't. 0:01:57.400 --> 0:01:59.160 But that's what I'm saying, like you got to pay 0:01:59.360 --> 0:01:59.920 you know whatever. 0:02:00.080 --> 0:02:01.760 I get it, I get it. It's just so competitive, 0:02:01.800 --> 0:02:04.480 Like it's so crazy. I know one like female rappers 0:02:04.480 --> 0:02:06.280 cannot just all get along. I can't believe there's not 0:02:06.360 --> 0:02:08.960 enough room for like the thory what happened to Ladies' Night? 0:02:09.280 --> 0:02:10.840 It was late, it was like right. 0:02:11.280 --> 0:02:14.040 Girls, rappy, right, there was a whole like Foxy Brown, 0:02:14.080 --> 0:02:16.120 well camp, there was a whole like posse, why doesn't 0:02:16.120 --> 0:02:17.720 we you have to can only be one? I don't know, 0:02:17.760 --> 0:02:18.320 it's so annoying. 0:02:18.320 --> 0:02:21.919 But anyway, she was saying how when she did that song, 0:02:22.160 --> 0:02:25.400 like I can't remember, like something about like she changed 0:02:25.400 --> 0:02:27.680 the verse and then like it was it was she 0:02:27.800 --> 0:02:30.600 was made out to be, to be seen as like 0:02:30.840 --> 0:02:34.680 the bad person, and like Migos like Hancho is that 0:02:34.720 --> 0:02:35.079 his name? 0:02:35.280 --> 0:02:35.640 Hancho? 0:02:35.720 --> 0:02:39.600 And Migos said something like to the effect that like 0:02:40.080 --> 0:02:42.480 Nikki wasn't like playing fair and they couldn't get on 0:02:42.480 --> 0:02:45.520 set together. And then Carti, like the first time Carti 0:02:45.639 --> 0:02:48.160 ever mentioned Nikki was kind of like in a negative light. 0:02:48.400 --> 0:02:50.440 And she was really hurt by that because she felt 0:02:50.440 --> 0:02:53.000 like she showed her love by like laing on the. 0:02:52.960 --> 0:02:55.000 Track, letting her be on the track, and she. 0:02:55.040 --> 0:02:57.600 Literally was like I was, I was really hurt, and 0:02:57.639 --> 0:03:00.959 she had tears in her eyes because she knows she's 0:03:01.000 --> 0:03:02.440 an actor, she's an actress. 0:03:02.480 --> 0:03:05.600 But furthermore, I think that pride, and this is a 0:03:05.639 --> 0:03:07.399 big thing, I think you are, like you gotta push 0:03:07.400 --> 0:03:09.320 that pride aside, but because one day you're in and 0:03:09.360 --> 0:03:12.520 the next second you're out. And she thought, she was like, 0:03:12.680 --> 0:03:16.400 you know, that seat couldn't be you know, compromised, and 0:03:16.440 --> 0:03:18.360 you're talking about you letting someone be on the song 0:03:18.400 --> 0:03:21.160 and allowing this. And Benina came and took that crownd 0:03:21.160 --> 0:03:24.240 real quick because she just broke all these like crazy. 0:03:23.880 --> 0:03:26.359 Ass broke a lot of records, a lot of never 0:03:26.480 --> 0:03:28.720 came close to. And now she's being put in her place. 0:03:28.800 --> 0:03:31.520 Well, now Nicky's posting all all of her like like oh, 0:03:31.680 --> 0:03:34.079 like all the all her successes with these last two 0:03:34.080 --> 0:03:36.480 songs that she's had, like she has a new song 0:03:36.520 --> 0:03:39.440 called Chunley and then like barb Tine well and then 0:03:39.440 --> 0:03:42.160 she ever she's like like number one in like Anguilla, 0:03:42.240 --> 0:03:45.600 number two in Iceland, like number one added like song 0:03:45.720 --> 0:03:47.800 on like the Trap playlist. 0:03:48.000 --> 0:03:50.920 So like she keeps like she keeps like putting them out, so. 0:03:50.920 --> 0:03:53.840 You know, like I have so winning. Yeah, I'm still winning. 0:03:54.120 --> 0:03:57.200 And it's like, first of all, don't be petty. Well, 0:03:57.200 --> 0:03:57.680 what's the thing. 0:03:57.680 --> 0:04:01.080 I love Nicki Minaj. She is the queen of rap 0:04:01.480 --> 0:04:04.600 right now. Cardi doesn't want to be the queen of rap. 0:04:04.800 --> 0:04:06.080 I don't think she wants to be the queen of 0:04:06.160 --> 0:04:07.520 I did even heard her on interviews like, I don't 0:04:07.560 --> 0:04:09.200 want I just want to make money. I want to 0:04:09.240 --> 0:04:11.320 have a good time. I don't need to be the 0:04:11.400 --> 0:04:13.280 queen of rap. I think Cardi knows. 0:04:13.080 --> 0:04:15.880 That she lyrically is not She's getting someone's writing this 0:04:15.920 --> 0:04:18.599 for her. Lyrically. Cardi is not Nicki Minaj. 0:04:19.400 --> 0:04:22.520 She knows how to rap. She's a lyricist. Yes right, 0:04:23.760 --> 0:04:26.040 Nikki doesn't write all Cardi came up. 0:04:27.600 --> 0:04:28.920 Carti doesn't want your spot boom. 0:04:29.560 --> 0:04:32.720 She just wants to make money, be fly and do 0:04:32.760 --> 0:04:35.599 her and get her long ass be jeweled acrylics. 0:04:36.240 --> 0:04:41.080 Keep sucking uh off. But have some little offset, bababy, 0:04:41.400 --> 0:04:44.919 and she's good. It's always a competition. I'm like, weir, 0:04:45.040 --> 0:04:46.280 nobody wants you, nobody. 0:04:46.000 --> 0:04:48.120 Wants your crown. Your crown is glued to your head. 0:04:48.160 --> 0:04:51.240 Don't worry, Bobo. Yeah it's And then like why did 0:04:51.520 --> 0:04:53.799 her album come out so close to Cardi's. 0:04:53.839 --> 0:04:55.160 Wasn't like two days later. 0:04:55.120 --> 0:04:56.560 It was an album, but it was those too single 0:04:58.680 --> 0:05:00.640 girl ain't heard from you? And now to because party 0:05:00.680 --> 0:05:02.040 came out with the album, came out with the baby. 0:05:02.040 --> 0:05:05.920 She's like, wait, what about putting out. 0:05:06.320 --> 0:05:08.040 She's like, what you gotta do a photo shoot today? 0:05:08.400 --> 0:05:12.280 Right now? Get to make up artists and the wathologist. 0:05:13.960 --> 0:05:21.000 Well Tokyo styles where you at? But yeah, anyway, I 0:05:21.040 --> 0:05:22.159 love I love both of them. 0:05:22.279 --> 0:05:25.600 So yeah, I love Cardi though I love parties. I 0:05:25.640 --> 0:05:27.440 love her because she's just who she is. Yeah, she's 0:05:27.440 --> 0:05:30.560 like the underdog and that like transparency, just and like 0:05:30.600 --> 0:05:32.920 she doesn't try to be anything she's not. She's not 0:05:33.000 --> 0:05:36.000 like brilliant, you know, she doesn't try to say smart ship. 0:05:36.120 --> 0:05:39.040 So it's like and it's just it smarks. It works 0:05:39.080 --> 0:05:43.719 for her. Oh that's a pretty dress. I love your dress. 0:05:44.279 --> 0:05:45.640 Oh you both beautiful? 0:05:46.360 --> 0:05:46.600 Yes? 0:05:46.800 --> 0:05:57.280 Wow yeah she uh yes baby nice. 0:05:58.800 --> 0:06:04.719 By eyes play. What was I saying? Oh yeah, card 0:06:04.920 --> 0:06:08.360 she even I was I was reading this interview. 0:06:08.520 --> 0:06:10.080 Yeah, I was reading the interview and she was saying 0:06:10.080 --> 0:06:12.599 how she knows that she didn't speak well because she 0:06:12.640 --> 0:06:14.320 grew up in a house with her I think her 0:06:14.360 --> 0:06:17.720 mother is uh from Trinity dad and her dad is 0:06:17.720 --> 0:06:22.160 like Dominican, and so her like her, they both talked 0:06:22.200 --> 0:06:25.599 so broken, broken that her English is so broken and 0:06:25.600 --> 0:06:27.440 my stuff. So sometimes she has to ask people like 0:06:27.440 --> 0:06:29.760 does this make sense? Like before she like writes something 0:06:30.680 --> 0:06:32.440 but the which which when you hear her talk you 0:06:32.520 --> 0:06:32.800 be like. 0:06:32.800 --> 0:06:34.760 Huh, yeah, but that makes sense, like when you have 0:06:35.240 --> 0:06:37.560 parents that are from like not from the States, Like 0:06:37.560 --> 0:06:39.560 I have friends who I say stuff that because their 0:06:39.600 --> 0:06:41.280 parents said, because they said, and I didn't even grow 0:06:41.320 --> 0:06:43.480 up in the household. Like I say, like close the 0:06:43.560 --> 0:06:47.200 light till this day because Danielle's foreign asked close the light, 0:06:47.279 --> 0:06:49.599 close the lights, open the light, And people like, are 0:06:49.640 --> 0:06:50.760 you talking about like you know what I mean? 0:06:51.920 --> 0:06:53.840 I would be like, huh, you know exactly what I'm 0:06:53.839 --> 0:06:57.000 talking about, but like the du that makes sense, yeah, 0:06:57.040 --> 0:06:58.479 and she don't, And then she could say it like 0:06:58.480 --> 0:07:01.920 I'm you know, fucking grammatically always correct. 0:07:02.880 --> 0:07:06.479 As you know, listening to our podcast, oh by the way, 0:07:06.760 --> 0:07:09.640 listening to going back and listening to a few of 0:07:09.680 --> 0:07:13.760 our episodes, which I did the other night, I would 0:07:13.800 --> 0:07:17.280 apologize now for saying like so much. 0:07:17.960 --> 0:07:18.720 I say like. 0:07:20.360 --> 0:07:25.120 So much, but like we're from a valet, so you know, no. 0:07:25.200 --> 0:07:26.800 I'm gonna work on it. This is gonna be my 0:07:26.840 --> 0:07:30.080 goal for today's episode. I'm gonna really try to not 0:07:30.800 --> 0:07:33.120 say like as much as I can. It's gonna I'm 0:07:33.120 --> 0:07:38.640 gonna slip up. I'm gonna up. I'm gonna you're like, 0:07:40.640 --> 0:07:44.160 but like see even just going into like a convert 0:07:44.400 --> 0:07:46.560 into like a conversation. 0:07:46.280 --> 0:07:47.480 I can't even stop. 0:07:48.080 --> 0:07:51.000 Someone help me. You don't notice? 0:07:51.040 --> 0:07:52.920 So is it a valley thing? 0:07:52.960 --> 0:07:56.240 Because sometimes I'm talking to Luna and she's like she's 0:07:56.320 --> 0:08:01.400 like she's like like like like mom, you know, like 0:08:01.400 --> 0:08:03.000 like like a lemon. 0:08:03.520 --> 0:08:07.840 It's a filler word for I don't know. Yeah, I 0:08:07.840 --> 0:08:08.800 don't know where this is going. 0:08:09.040 --> 0:08:09.840 I don't know what I'm saying. 0:08:09.840 --> 0:08:12.280 I'm sure what I'm going to say next, So it's 0:08:12.320 --> 0:08:13.000 like a filler word. 0:08:13.080 --> 0:08:15.280 It's like a filler word. I'm like taking my time 0:08:15.280 --> 0:08:15.920 to figure it out. 0:08:16.840 --> 0:08:18.120 I'm annoying myself already. 0:08:18.240 --> 0:08:20.880 How is your weekend? My weekend was good. 0:08:21.200 --> 0:08:24.960 I don't remember what I did Friday because I'm a 0:08:25.000 --> 0:08:26.200 mom and I can't remember shit. 0:08:27.760 --> 0:08:30.680 Saturday, I went to the beach, had a little day 0:08:31.080 --> 0:08:34.240 at the beach. It was cute, it was nice. I 0:08:34.240 --> 0:08:34.959 had a good time. 0:08:36.320 --> 0:08:43.199 Get a crush. Maybe I don't know. My heart is 0:08:43.240 --> 0:08:44.000 still ice. 0:08:43.800 --> 0:08:50.480 Cold, but maybe maybe it smelt maybe yeah, maybe there's 0:08:50.600 --> 0:08:53.400 like some like drips falling down. 0:08:54.200 --> 0:08:57.760 I get this ice. But that's when my heart used 0:08:57.840 --> 0:08:59.680 to be yes. 0:09:02.320 --> 0:09:05.640 So we did that, and then I came back and 0:09:06.080 --> 0:09:11.360 went to sleep with Irie. And then Sunday, I don't 0:09:11.400 --> 0:09:13.400 know what I did. Oh and oh, I took Irin 0:09:13.440 --> 0:09:15.800 to my mom's and we went swimming at her house 0:09:16.880 --> 0:09:18.560 and that was about it. 0:09:18.679 --> 0:09:19.160 Sounds fun. 0:09:19.280 --> 0:09:21.480 Yeah, what about you at a low key Sunday. We 0:09:21.520 --> 0:09:23.760 don't have any like crazy stripper stories this week. 0:09:24.080 --> 0:09:27.920 No, I'm crazy stripper stories this week I did. I mean, 0:09:27.960 --> 0:09:29.920 I did a couple of things. We're so close in 0:09:29.920 --> 0:09:32.640 this episode. I'd like to talk about my extravadances, like 0:09:32.640 --> 0:09:34.320 when they're like, oh, that was like a while ago, 0:09:34.880 --> 0:09:37.680 so I can't talk about it. I'm soon because i'ven't 0:09:37.679 --> 0:09:38.719 able to know what I did this weekend, why I 0:09:38.720 --> 0:09:41.720 wasn't ansering the phone. So let's just move. 0:09:41.640 --> 0:09:44.120 Right along here, along, moving along. 0:09:45.080 --> 0:09:48.880 I guess in today's episode, I wanted to talk about 0:09:49.559 --> 0:09:52.360 pregnancy while working. And I think I was inspired by 0:09:52.360 --> 0:09:56.959 this because last weekend was Coachella and my favorite Cardi 0:09:57.000 --> 0:10:00.319 B was up and there was up there and beyond 0:10:00.480 --> 0:10:01.400 right up there. 0:10:01.400 --> 0:10:02.560 She just drop two twins. 0:10:02.640 --> 0:10:04.440 Carti is currently like twelve months pregnant. 0:10:04.440 --> 0:10:07.200 Carty was like, oh, Beyonce, you're pregnant. I mean, Beyonce, 0:10:07.320 --> 0:10:09.719 I'm pregnant. I'm not performing beyond like I'm twins. I'm 0:10:09.760 --> 0:10:10.600 canceling Coachella. 0:10:10.720 --> 0:10:11.440 Yeah, not happening. 0:10:11.679 --> 0:10:17.160 So yeah, Cardi B was up there performing with her belly, tworking, 0:10:17.800 --> 0:10:20.600 doing her thing, just being cute as fuck because she's 0:10:20.640 --> 0:10:22.280 so fucking cute and just happy. 0:10:22.440 --> 0:10:25.720 She's happy, happy. I saw a video of I guess 0:10:25.720 --> 0:10:27.920 she was like I don't know if you saw Rihanna congratulate, 0:10:27.960 --> 0:10:30.200 like walk by her and congratulated her, and you can 0:10:30.280 --> 0:10:32.199 tell like she was like a kid in the candy store. 0:10:31.920 --> 0:10:32.520 Like, oh my god. 0:10:32.679 --> 0:10:34.240 She just like congratulations to me. 0:10:34.320 --> 0:10:36.400 I'm like, I know, girls, So that's cool. That's pretty cool. 0:10:36.559 --> 0:10:41.000 Rion's so like like she's just so happy to be here. 0:10:43.120 --> 0:10:45.800 She's just so happy to be here and just be 0:10:46.960 --> 0:10:49.000 where she's at. She's so grateful and it like you 0:10:49.080 --> 0:10:51.080 see it and that's why I love it. But anyway, 0:10:51.160 --> 0:10:52.959 she was talking on stage. A lot of people have 0:10:53.040 --> 0:10:58.360 a lot of opinions about that about her, you know, 0:10:58.440 --> 0:11:04.640 being a mom to be and still working, I mean. 0:11:04.679 --> 0:11:08.320 Tworking or working. What was the problem working and tworking? Whatever? 0:11:08.440 --> 0:11:10.960 If you if you talk to work. Then that's part 0:11:10.920 --> 0:11:12.040 of her work is a twerk. 0:11:12.480 --> 0:11:18.520 You know, there's just a lot of discrimination period turnspective moment. 0:11:18.559 --> 0:11:21.040 It's like you get pregnant and suddenly you're like an alien. 0:11:21.480 --> 0:11:23.319 You're supposed to just like hide and it's supposed to 0:11:23.360 --> 0:11:24.520 be like a bear, just. 0:11:24.400 --> 0:11:27.880 Go in your hybernae right, not to be seen until 0:11:28.000 --> 0:11:29.840 the baby emerges nine months later. 0:11:29.960 --> 0:11:32.199 I think it's I think, I think I think it's everywhere. 0:11:32.320 --> 0:11:37.240 I think it's especially seen in the entertainment industry. 0:11:37.480 --> 0:11:41.040 It's like very taboo for you to be continue to like, 0:11:42.080 --> 0:11:43.120 especially if you're a rapper. 0:11:43.120 --> 0:11:44.800 That's why you don't see a lot of rap women, 0:11:44.960 --> 0:11:47.480 rap girls women have babies. 0:11:48.040 --> 0:11:49.360 I know there's like this taboo. 0:11:49.520 --> 0:11:51.720 I mean like Eve doesn't have a baby, Laki Minaj 0:11:51.760 --> 0:11:55.800 doesn't have a baby, lesbian look look about her baby? 0:11:55.880 --> 0:11:59.760 Like later, Bossy Brown just had a bit like all 0:11:59.800 --> 0:12:01.800 these women like Missy Elliott don't have no kids. 0:12:01.840 --> 0:12:03.640 I guess she's a lesbian, but lesbians have babies too. No, 0:12:03.720 --> 0:12:05.599 I'm totally joking. I went and pregnant in Missy you 0:12:05.640 --> 0:12:10.760 l like tomorrow? Is it like some like taboo about 0:12:10.760 --> 0:12:13.720 being like a badass, tough woman and having a baby, 0:12:13.760 --> 0:12:16.200 Like you can't be both, Like it's it's too it's 0:12:16.200 --> 0:12:18.640 too maternal to be a rapper and have a baby. 0:12:18.679 --> 0:12:20.760 Well, I think the industry is so quick that no 0:12:20.760 --> 0:12:22.400 one wants to take that break. They feel like they 0:12:22.440 --> 0:12:24.800 have to take a break. Yeah, so no one wants 0:12:24.800 --> 0:12:26.600 to take that supposed break they need to take. 0:12:26.679 --> 0:12:27.480 Like even Remyla. 0:12:27.559 --> 0:12:30.600 I remember watching Love and Hip Hop and she you 0:12:30.640 --> 0:12:33.000 know what's her baby daddy name? I can't remember him, 0:12:33.280 --> 0:12:35.559 but she wanted to have He's right to have a baby, 0:12:35.600 --> 0:12:36.880 like E been waiting, she's been in jail. 0:12:36.960 --> 0:12:38.960 Yeah, Like we're so cute, by the way. 0:12:39.040 --> 0:12:40.000 I know they're so cute. 0:12:40.400 --> 0:12:43.080 He's like, let's have this baby, and she's like, whoa, 0:12:43.120 --> 0:12:45.920 my career just started like popping again. I'm not ready 0:12:45.920 --> 0:12:48.440 for a baby. But like, girl, you ain't getting no younger. 0:12:48.520 --> 0:12:50.200 Not but you can't have to have a kid young. 0:12:50.240 --> 0:12:51.240 But I'm just saying, like, what are. 0:12:51.120 --> 0:12:53.440 You waiting for? You people? Yeah, the industry is so 0:12:53.520 --> 0:12:55.679 finicky that people are afraid they're gonna miss Like if 0:12:55.679 --> 0:12:58.000 they have their five minutes on right now, they're not 0:12:58.040 --> 0:13:01.040 trying to like become irrelevant or just a washed up 0:13:01.040 --> 0:13:03.280 pregnant rapper for any reason, which is crazy because we 0:13:03.320 --> 0:13:03.840 still function. 0:13:04.400 --> 0:13:07.319 But I mean it's I mean, Cardi b has definitely 0:13:08.960 --> 0:13:12.360 it is changing that narrative. But unfortunately, I don't think 0:13:12.360 --> 0:13:15.520 remy Ma could have been the person to change because 0:13:15.520 --> 0:13:19.000 she's already been a rapper. She's older people, people are 0:13:19.040 --> 0:13:21.200 ready to write her off. Oh yeah, so I think 0:13:21.320 --> 0:13:24.640 she you know, she definitely felt the pressure to take 0:13:24.960 --> 0:13:27.160 to not take a break and have the baby. 0:13:26.920 --> 0:13:28.440 That she wanted for sure. 0:13:29.280 --> 0:13:31.360 I mean, unfortunately, she actually did get pregnant, and I 0:13:31.360 --> 0:13:37.280 think she miscarried. But it's just so sad and so 0:13:37.800 --> 0:13:40.600 watching Carti on stage just having so much fun being 0:13:40.640 --> 0:13:43.400 pregnant brought me so much joy to watch. 0:13:43.440 --> 0:13:45.600 And then seeing all these negative comments. 0:13:46.280 --> 0:13:48.800 I was like, like, there was one comment like, nobody 0:13:48.800 --> 0:13:50.160 wants to see is. 0:13:50.080 --> 0:13:50.600 That my phone? 0:13:50.720 --> 0:13:55.760 Yeah, oh, nobody wants to see a pregnant Oh my 0:13:55.800 --> 0:13:56.760 grandma's calling me. 0:13:58.800 --> 0:14:05.160 No done, yep, I think it's still recording. Oh I 0:14:05.160 --> 0:14:09.680 don't know. It brought you so much joy, but that 0:14:09.720 --> 0:14:12.120 other people had such negative things to say about it. 0:14:15.000 --> 0:14:17.360 Yeah, they were like, nobody wants to see it, sorry, hardy, 0:14:17.360 --> 0:14:19.200 nobody wants to see a pregnant woman towards me. 0:14:19.400 --> 0:14:22.320 Wow, wow, what kind of mother are you? 0:14:22.320 --> 0:14:23.680 Who are kind of mother are you? 0:14:23.800 --> 0:14:27.000 Or like your career is over just because people are 0:14:27.320 --> 0:14:27.920 mean and evil? 0:14:28.000 --> 0:14:28.800 Yoah. 0:14:28.840 --> 0:14:31.160 And it's just like like you were saying before when 0:14:31.160 --> 0:14:33.400 we have this conversation, how the fuck do you think. 0:14:33.360 --> 0:14:36.440 I got she got pregnant? That was twark Moo's bitch, 0:14:36.920 --> 0:14:40.040 Like yeah, like all this ass got me where I 0:14:40.080 --> 0:14:43.160 am right now, all this sexiness people forget, like the 0:14:43.240 --> 0:14:46.760 root of a child is sex and intimacy. So like 0:14:47.320 --> 0:14:49.320 as you're trying to discredit us and make us feel 0:14:49.320 --> 0:14:52.840 ashamed of being sexual beings while also being pregnant, because 0:14:52.840 --> 0:14:56.040 God forbid to be two things at once, that suddenly's 0:14:56.040 --> 0:14:58.320 supposed to feel like, first of all, be fucking wholesome 0:14:58.320 --> 0:15:01.960 as fuck and be like somebody's green mom. That hello, 0:15:02.080 --> 0:15:05.040 all this sexy shit right here got me pregnant. That's 0:15:05.040 --> 0:15:08.360 why I'm somebody's mom. So let's not separate the two 0:15:09.240 --> 0:15:11.600 characteristics because you could be both. You could do both, 0:15:11.880 --> 0:15:13.200 and you need to get you someone who could do 0:15:13.240 --> 0:15:15.840 both or else that you're gonna highly be like disappointment 0:15:16.400 --> 0:15:16.960 and bored. 0:15:17.200 --> 0:15:20.240 Yeah yeah, I mean shit, I mean I just feel 0:15:20.280 --> 0:15:25.960 like I feel like, like, write that tally that. 0:15:25.920 --> 0:15:28.600 Went down I missed like too, I didn't know if 0:15:28.600 --> 0:15:33.280 it was in context. Mila's literally taking Italian my legs. 0:15:34.400 --> 0:15:37.960 I just feel that it's just really. 0:15:37.920 --> 0:15:41.800 Unfortunate that even women hating on her, you know, and 0:15:41.840 --> 0:15:42.800 it's probably women. 0:15:42.840 --> 0:15:43.240 It's both. 0:15:43.240 --> 0:15:45.240 It's women that have children, women that don't, so they 0:15:45.240 --> 0:15:48.640 don't get it. It's like those women that claim to 0:15:48.880 --> 0:15:52.160 empower one another, those women that write those inspirational quotes 0:15:52.440 --> 0:15:56.000 on Instagram, Let's find you a friend that can fix 0:15:56.040 --> 0:15:58.320 your crown, like all that bullshit, and those are the 0:15:58.320 --> 0:15:59.960 first ones that are hating. 0:16:00.160 --> 0:16:01.120 That's another thing I. 0:16:01.080 --> 0:16:05.000 Find, like within the mom community, if that's a thing, 0:16:05.120 --> 0:16:07.800 like there's a lot of judgment within to each other. 0:16:08.040 --> 0:16:09.720 And it was like bitch, and I think a lot 0:16:09.720 --> 0:16:12.040 of that stems from and this is really where our 0:16:12.080 --> 0:16:16.240 whole podcast is rooted in, is like jealousy, you know, 0:16:16.360 --> 0:16:19.800 like I'm living my life and being happy and having 0:16:19.800 --> 0:16:22.600 a child and having these dual you know, this dual 0:16:22.640 --> 0:16:25.360 life where I can cater to myself and to my child, 0:16:25.600 --> 0:16:28.480 and bitches are bored and miserable and stuck at home 0:16:28.520 --> 0:16:30.080 and feeling like they have to be stuck at home 0:16:30.200 --> 0:16:32.560 because their mom told them they should because someone said 0:16:32.560 --> 0:16:33.800 they can't do this, you can't do that, you have 0:16:33.800 --> 0:16:36.720 a baby now, and they've like swallowed all of those. 0:16:36.560 --> 0:16:37.720 Conditionings and believe it. 0:16:37.840 --> 0:16:41.000 So instead of being happy themselves, they would like to 0:16:41.000 --> 0:16:44.040 look at other people having happy fun and talk shit, right, 0:16:44.080 --> 0:16:47.280 because it makes them feel better about sacrificing their lives 0:16:47.320 --> 0:16:48.520 and not doing what they want to do. 0:16:48.680 --> 0:16:51.200 But like this is the whole thing. Like we're a community. 0:16:51.240 --> 0:16:53.240 We all go through shit, and we all do it differently, 0:16:53.280 --> 0:16:55.160 you know, like how you mom, and how and you parents. 0:16:55.200 --> 0:16:57.040 Now I'm going to a parent, and there's obviously we're 0:16:57.040 --> 0:16:59.720 all making mistakes, we're all learning because nobody knows this shit. 0:16:59.760 --> 0:17:03.200 There's no real booklet. But like we should encourage each 0:17:03.240 --> 0:17:06.600 other to, you know, to be ourselves and except out 0:17:06.640 --> 0:17:08.920 of this little tiny box we've been put in, because 0:17:08.960 --> 0:17:12.440 there's so much more to us than just being moms, 0:17:12.520 --> 0:17:12.800 you know. 0:17:13.960 --> 0:17:16.480 No, there's just so much more, And I totally agree 0:17:16.480 --> 0:17:20.080 with you. And just our bodies have are sexualized and 0:17:20.119 --> 0:17:24.040 then bodies shamed, and then first like our bodies aren't 0:17:24.040 --> 0:17:27.800 good enough, then then our bodies are disfigured because we're 0:17:27.840 --> 0:17:30.119 pregnant and we're not allowed to show it. Like, for example, 0:17:30.200 --> 0:17:33.560 I remember our friend Nisha who shout out to Nisha, 0:17:33.880 --> 0:17:36.480 she she just had her baby. 0:17:36.840 --> 0:17:38.840 Go check out our instagram. You can see who our 0:17:38.840 --> 0:17:39.639 friend Nisia is. 0:17:39.720 --> 0:17:43.520 Our tribe just grew yes, and she was literally the 0:17:43.640 --> 0:17:46.080 cutest pregnant person on the planet. 0:17:46.280 --> 0:17:47.920 Should be like put all of us to shame. 0:17:49.720 --> 0:17:52.120 But she sent me a text when she was pregnant, 0:17:52.119 --> 0:17:55.240 and she was She was saying, I have this crop 0:17:55.280 --> 0:17:57.199 top I want to wear, but I feel weird wearing it. 0:17:57.240 --> 0:18:00.720 Should I wear it outside? I was, girl, you better 0:18:00.760 --> 0:18:02.879 wear that shit. Girl, I was like, put that crops 0:18:02.960 --> 0:18:05.840 up on immediately. And then I was I was told. 0:18:05.920 --> 0:18:08.119 I was like, who cares what anybody else says. This 0:18:08.200 --> 0:18:11.480 is your body, this is your pregnancy. You're beautiful. Show 0:18:11.560 --> 0:18:14.720 off your body, just like any other girl would show 0:18:14.720 --> 0:18:17.800 off her body, her breast. Why can't you show off 0:18:17.840 --> 0:18:20.960 what you're creating? Our bodies are. This is the coolest 0:18:20.960 --> 0:18:23.560 shit your body's ever gonna do, the coolest shit ever. 0:18:24.040 --> 0:18:26.560 We are the coolest, we are the strongest. Look what 0:18:26.560 --> 0:18:30.520 we can do. It's just insane. So she did, and 0:18:30.600 --> 0:18:32.600