Speaker 1: God.
Speaker 2: God came to chip, came to chipped, came to chip,
Speaker 2: comes to my best day. Chipping, Ice came to Chipping,
Speaker 2: came to tipped, came through Chipped.
Speaker 1: Comes to my best day.
Speaker 3: Tripping Hello.
Speaker 1: Hello's early. This is the earliest we've ever recorded, and
Speaker 1: we were still late. I was late.
Speaker 4: Welcome to parential Advisory. Good mom's bad choices. I'm Erica
Speaker 4: and I'm Mila. And that was Cardi B. Drip Drip
Speaker 4: all the time is my risk kick dripping ice.
Speaker 3: I'm pretty sure that was wrong.
Speaker 1: But I came to trip. I love that song. I
Speaker 1: love her. Listen to her album, yeah a little bit,
Speaker 1: I'm always like delayed on the album listening.
Speaker 4: I mean, the only reason I'm not the only reason
Speaker 4: I actually really love Cardi B.
Speaker 1: But it's good workout music and I'm on the treadmill.
Speaker 1: I'm like, Okay, I'm gonna keep that in mind because
Speaker 1: I need to work out this week.
Speaker 3: Bet she bet you gotta hear that song. That's good.
Speaker 1: I think I heard that one too. Cartie's bad and
Speaker 1: apparently everybody knows that, including me. Nikki.
Speaker 4: I know, wait, did you see the interview with Nikki
Speaker 4: like crying about I heard about it.
Speaker 3: Can you please?
Speaker 1: I can? I keep?
Speaker 3: I've been meaning to google it, but I forgot was
Speaker 3: what is happening?
Speaker 4: She's literally so she's like talking about how she's hurt.
Speaker 4: Because I was kind of a little bit confused. But
Speaker 4: I guess that song that she did.
Speaker 1: With Offset in the Motorsports song, Yeah, that I guess.
Speaker 4: Nicki was saying, like, do you know how many girls
Speaker 4: would be so honored to be in a song with
Speaker 4: Nicki Minaj?
Speaker 3: Not to sound conceited, you sound conceited, but she said
Speaker 3: in the interview before she started crying.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it said that.
Speaker 4: I mean it's true though a lot of rap bitches
Speaker 4: would want to be on a song with Nicki Minach.
Speaker 3: Can't front on that, just like I would like to
Speaker 3: be in a song with Little Kim.
Speaker 1: She don't well, can't want to be longn't.
Speaker 3: But that's what I'm saying, like you got to pay
Speaker 3: you know whatever.
Speaker 4: I get it, I get it. It's just so competitive,
Speaker 4: Like it's so crazy. I know one like female rappers
Speaker 4: cannot just all get along. I can't believe there's not
Speaker 4: enough room for like the thory what happened to Ladies' Night?
Speaker 3: It was late, it was like right.
Speaker 1: Girls, rappy, right, there was a whole like Foxy Brown,
Speaker 1: well camp, there was a whole like posse, why doesn't
Speaker 1: we you have to can only be one? I don't know,
Speaker 1: it's so annoying.
Speaker 4: But anyway, she was saying how when she did that song,
Speaker 4: like I can't remember, like something about like she changed
Speaker 4: the verse and then like it was it was she
Speaker 4: was made out to be, to be seen as like
Speaker 4: the bad person, and like Migos like Hancho is that
Speaker 4: his name?
Speaker 3: Hancho?
Speaker 4: And Migos said something like to the effect that like
Speaker 4: Nikki wasn't like playing fair and they couldn't get on
Speaker 4: set together. And then Carti, like the first time Carti
Speaker 4: ever mentioned Nikki was kind of like in a negative light.
Speaker 4: And she was really hurt by that because she felt
Speaker 4: like she showed her love by like laing on the.
Speaker 1: Track, letting her be on the track, and she.
Speaker 4: Literally was like I was, I was really hurt, and
Speaker 4: she had tears in her eyes because she knows she's
Speaker 4: an actor, she's an actress.
Speaker 1: But furthermore, I think that pride, and this is a
Speaker 1: big thing, I think you are, like you gotta push
Speaker 1: that pride aside, but because one day you're in and
Speaker 1: the next second you're out. And she thought, she was like,
Speaker 1: you know, that seat couldn't be you know, compromised, and
Speaker 1: you're talking about you letting someone be on the song
Speaker 1: and allowing this. And Benina came and took that crownd
Speaker 1: real quick because she just broke all these like crazy.
Speaker 3: Ass broke a lot of records, a lot of never
Speaker 3: came close to. And now she's being put in her place.
Speaker 4: Well, now Nicky's posting all all of her like like oh,
Speaker 4: like all the all her successes with these last two
Speaker 4: songs that she's had, like she has a new song
Speaker 4: called Chunley and then like barb Tine well and then
Speaker 4: she ever she's like like number one in like Anguilla,
Speaker 4: number two in Iceland, like number one added like song
Speaker 4: on like the Trap playlist.
Speaker 3: So like she keeps like she keeps like putting them out, so.
Speaker 1: You know, like I have so winning. Yeah, I'm still winning.
Speaker 1: And it's like, first of all, don't be petty. Well,
Speaker 1: what's the thing.
Speaker 4: I love Nicki Minaj. She is the queen of rap
Speaker 4: right now. Cardi doesn't want to be the queen of rap.
Speaker 4: I don't think she wants to be the queen of
Speaker 4: I did even heard her on interviews like, I don't
Speaker 4: want I just want to make money. I want to
Speaker 4: have a good time. I don't need to be the
Speaker 4: queen of rap. I think Cardi knows.
Speaker 1: That she lyrically is not She's getting someone's writing this
Speaker 1: for her. Lyrically. Cardi is not Nicki Minaj.
Speaker 3: She knows how to rap. She's a lyricist. Yes right,
Speaker 3: Nikki doesn't write all Cardi came up.
Speaker 1: Carti doesn't want your spot boom.
Speaker 4: She just wants to make money, be fly and do
Speaker 4: her and get her long ass be jeweled acrylics.
Speaker 1: Keep sucking uh off. But have some little offset, bababy,
Speaker 1: and she's good. It's always a competition. I'm like, weir,
Speaker 1: nobody wants you, nobody.
Speaker 3: Wants your crown. Your crown is glued to your head.
Speaker 1: Don't worry, Bobo. Yeah it's And then like why did
Speaker 1: her album come out so close to Cardi's.
Speaker 3: Wasn't like two days later.
Speaker 1: It was an album, but it was those too single
Speaker 1: girl ain't heard from you? And now to because party
Speaker 1: came out with the album, came out with the baby.
Speaker 1: She's like, wait, what about putting out.
Speaker 3: She's like, what you gotta do a photo shoot today?
Speaker 1: Right now? Get to make up artists and the wathologist.
Speaker 4: Well Tokyo styles where you at? But yeah, anyway, I
Speaker 4: love I love both of them.
Speaker 1: So yeah, I love Cardi though I love parties. I
Speaker 1: love her because she's just who she is. Yeah, she's
Speaker 1: like the underdog and that like transparency, just and like
Speaker 1: she doesn't try to be anything she's not. She's not
Speaker 1: like brilliant, you know, she doesn't try to say smart ship.
Speaker 1: So it's like and it's just it smarks. It works
Speaker 1: for her. Oh that's a pretty dress. I love your dress.
Speaker 1: Oh you both beautiful?
Speaker 3: Yes?
Speaker 5: Wow yeah she uh yes baby nice.
Speaker 1: By eyes play. What was I saying? Oh yeah, card
Speaker 1: she even I was I was reading this interview.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I was reading the interview and she was saying
Speaker 4: how she knows that she didn't speak well because she
Speaker 4: grew up in a house with her I think her
Speaker 4: mother is uh from Trinity dad and her dad is
Speaker 4: like Dominican, and so her like her, they both talked
Speaker 4: so broken, broken that her English is so broken and
Speaker 4: my stuff. So sometimes she has to ask people like
Speaker 4: does this make sense? Like before she like writes something
Speaker 4: but the which which when you hear her talk you
Speaker 4: be like.
Speaker 1: Huh, yeah, but that makes sense, like when you have
Speaker 1: parents that are from like not from the States, Like
Speaker 1: I have friends who I say stuff that because their
Speaker 1: parents said, because they said, and I didn't even grow
Speaker 1: up in the household. Like I say, like close the
Speaker 1: light till this day because Danielle's foreign asked close the light,
Speaker 1: close the lights, open the light, And people like, are
Speaker 1: you talking about like you know what I mean?
Speaker 6: I would be like, huh, you know exactly what I'm
Speaker 6: talking about, but like the du that makes sense, yeah,
Speaker 6: and she don't, And then she could say it like
Speaker 6: I'm you know, fucking grammatically always correct.
Speaker 4: As you know, listening to our podcast, oh by the way,
Speaker 4: listening to going back and listening to a few of
Speaker 4: our episodes, which I did the other night, I would
Speaker 4: apologize now for saying like so much.
Speaker 1: I say like.
Speaker 3: So much, but like we're from a valet, so you know, no.
Speaker 4: I'm gonna work on it. This is gonna be my
Speaker 4: goal for today's episode. I'm gonna really try to not
Speaker 4: say like as much as I can. It's gonna I'm
Speaker 4: gonna slip up. I'm gonna up. I'm gonna you're like,
Speaker 4: but like see even just going into like a convert
Speaker 4: into like a conversation.
Speaker 3: I can't even stop.
Speaker 1: Someone help me. You don't notice?
Speaker 3: So is it a valley thing?
Speaker 1: Because sometimes I'm talking to Luna and she's like she's
Speaker 1: like she's like like like like mom, you know, like
Speaker 1: like like a lemon.
Speaker 4: It's a filler word for I don't know. Yeah, I
Speaker 4: don't know where this is going.
Speaker 1: I don't know what I'm saying.
Speaker 4: I'm sure what I'm going to say next, So it's
Speaker 4: like a filler word.
Speaker 1: It's like a filler word. I'm like taking my time
Speaker 1: to figure it out.
Speaker 3: I'm annoying myself already.
Speaker 1: How is your weekend? My weekend was good.
Speaker 4: I don't remember what I did Friday because I'm a
Speaker 4: mom and I can't remember shit.
Speaker 3: Saturday, I went to the beach, had a little day
Speaker 3: at the beach. It was cute, it was nice. I
Speaker 3: had a good time.
Speaker 1: Get a crush. Maybe I don't know. My heart is
Speaker 1: still ice.
Speaker 4: Cold, but maybe maybe it smelt maybe yeah, maybe there's
Speaker 4: like some like drips falling down.
Speaker 1: I get this ice. But that's when my heart used
Speaker 1: to be yes.
Speaker 4: So we did that, and then I came back and
Speaker 4: went to sleep with Irie. And then Sunday, I don't
Speaker 4: know what I did. Oh and oh, I took Irin
Speaker 4: to my mom's and we went swimming at her house
Speaker 4: and that was about it.
Speaker 1: Sounds fun.
Speaker 3: Yeah, what about you at a low key Sunday. We
Speaker 3: don't have any like crazy stripper stories this week.
Speaker 1: No, I'm crazy stripper stories this week I did. I mean,
Speaker 1: I did a couple of things. We're so close in
Speaker 1: this episode. I'd like to talk about my extravadances, like
Speaker 1: when they're like, oh, that was like a while ago,
Speaker 1: so I can't talk about it. I'm soon because i'ven't
Speaker 1: able to know what I did this weekend, why I
Speaker 1: wasn't ansering the phone. So let's just move.
Speaker 3: Right along here, along, moving along.
Speaker 4: I guess in today's episode, I wanted to talk about
Speaker 4: pregnancy while working. And I think I was inspired by
Speaker 4: this because last weekend was Coachella and my favorite Cardi
Speaker 4: B was up and there was up there and beyond
Speaker 4: right up there.
Speaker 1: She just drop two twins.
Speaker 3: Carti is currently like twelve months pregnant.
Speaker 4: Carty was like, oh, Beyonce, you're pregnant. I mean, Beyonce,
Speaker 4: I'm pregnant. I'm not performing beyond like I'm twins. I'm
Speaker 4: canceling Coachella.
Speaker 3: Yeah, not happening.
Speaker 4: So yeah, Cardi B was up there performing with her belly, tworking,
Speaker 4: doing her thing, just being cute as fuck because she's
Speaker 4: so fucking cute and just happy.
Speaker 1: She's happy, happy. I saw a video of I guess
Speaker 1: she was like I don't know if you saw Rihanna congratulate,
Speaker 1: like walk by her and congratulated her, and you can
Speaker 1: tell like she was like a kid in the candy store.
Speaker 4: Like, oh my god.
Speaker 3: She just like congratulations to me.
Speaker 1: I'm like, I know, girls, So that's cool. That's pretty cool.
Speaker 4: Rion's so like like she's just so happy to be here.
Speaker 4: She's just so happy to be here and just be
Speaker 4: where she's at. She's so grateful and it like you
Speaker 4: see it and that's why I love it. But anyway,
Speaker 4: she was talking on stage. A lot of people have
Speaker 4: a lot of opinions about that about her, you know,
Speaker 4: being a mom to be and still working, I mean.
Speaker 1: Tworking or working. What was the problem working and tworking? Whatever?
Speaker 3: If you if you talk to work. Then that's part
Speaker 3: of her work is a twerk.
Speaker 1: You know, there's just a lot of discrimination period turnspective moment.
Speaker 3: It's like you get pregnant and suddenly you're like an alien.
Speaker 3: You're supposed to just like hide and it's supposed to
Speaker 3: be like a bear, just.
Speaker 1: Go in your hybernae right, not to be seen until
Speaker 1: the baby emerges nine months later.
Speaker 4: I think it's I think, I think I think it's everywhere.
Speaker 4: I think it's especially seen in the entertainment industry.
Speaker 1: It's like very taboo for you to be continue to like,
Speaker 1: especially if you're a rapper.
Speaker 4: That's why you don't see a lot of rap women,
Speaker 4: rap girls women have babies.
Speaker 1: I know there's like this taboo.
Speaker 4: I mean like Eve doesn't have a baby, Laki Minaj
Speaker 4: doesn't have a baby, lesbian look look about her baby?
Speaker 4: Like later, Bossy Brown just had a bit like all
Speaker 4: these women like Missy Elliott don't have no kids.
Speaker 1: I guess she's a lesbian, but lesbians have babies too. No,
Speaker 1: I'm totally joking. I went and pregnant in Missy you
Speaker 1: l like tomorrow? Is it like some like taboo about
Speaker 1: being like a badass, tough woman and having a baby,
Speaker 1: Like you can't be both, Like it's it's too it's
Speaker 1: too maternal to be a rapper and have a baby.
Speaker 4: Well, I think the industry is so quick that no
Speaker 4: one wants to take that break. They feel like they
Speaker 4: have to take a break. Yeah, so no one wants
Speaker 4: to take that supposed break they need to take.
Speaker 1: Like even Remyla.
Speaker 4: I remember watching Love and Hip Hop and she you
Speaker 4: know what's her baby daddy name? I can't remember him,
Speaker 4: but she wanted to have He's right to have a baby,
Speaker 4: like E been waiting, she's been in jail.
Speaker 1: Yeah, Like we're so cute, by the way.
Speaker 3: I know they're so cute.
Speaker 4: He's like, let's have this baby, and she's like, whoa,
Speaker 4: my career just started like popping again. I'm not ready
Speaker 4: for a baby. But like, girl, you ain't getting no younger.
Speaker 4: Not but you can't have to have a kid young.
Speaker 4: But I'm just saying, like, what are.
Speaker 1: You waiting for? You people? Yeah, the industry is so
Speaker 1: finicky that people are afraid they're gonna miss Like if
Speaker 1: they have their five minutes on right now, they're not
Speaker 1: trying to like become irrelevant or just a washed up
Speaker 1: pregnant rapper for any reason, which is crazy because we
Speaker 1: still function.
Speaker 4: But I mean it's I mean, Cardi b has definitely
Speaker 4: it is changing that narrative. But unfortunately, I don't think
Speaker 4: remy Ma could have been the person to change because
Speaker 4: she's already been a rapper. She's older people, people are
Speaker 4: ready to write her off. Oh yeah, so I think
Speaker 4: she you know, she definitely felt the pressure to take
Speaker 4: to not take a break and have the baby.
Speaker 3: That she wanted for sure.
Speaker 4: I mean, unfortunately, she actually did get pregnant, and I
Speaker 4: think she miscarried. But it's just so sad and so
Speaker 4: watching Carti on stage just having so much fun being
Speaker 4: pregnant brought me so much joy to watch.
Speaker 3: And then seeing all these negative comments.
Speaker 4: I was like, like, there was one comment like, nobody
Speaker 4: wants to see is.
Speaker 3: That my phone?
Speaker 4: Yeah, oh, nobody wants to see a pregnant Oh my
Speaker 4: grandma's calling me.
Speaker 1: No done, yep, I think it's still recording. Oh I
Speaker 1: don't know. It brought you so much joy, but that
Speaker 1: other people had such negative things to say about it.
Speaker 4: Yeah, they were like, nobody wants to see it, sorry, hardy,
Speaker 4: nobody wants to see a pregnant woman towards me.
Speaker 3: Wow, wow, what kind of mother are you?
Speaker 1: Who are kind of mother are you?
Speaker 3: Or like your career is over just because people are
Speaker 3: mean and evil?
Speaker 1: Yoah.
Speaker 4: And it's just like like you were saying before when
Speaker 4: we have this conversation, how the fuck do you think.
Speaker 1: I got she got pregnant? That was twark Moo's bitch,
Speaker 1: Like yeah, like all this ass got me where I
Speaker 1: am right now, all this sexiness people forget, like the
Speaker 1: root of a child is sex and intimacy. So like
Speaker 1: as you're trying to discredit us and make us feel
Speaker 1: ashamed of being sexual beings while also being pregnant, because
Speaker 1: God forbid to be two things at once, that suddenly's
Speaker 1: supposed to feel like, first of all, be fucking wholesome
Speaker 1: as fuck and be like somebody's green mom. That hello,
Speaker 1: all this sexy shit right here got me pregnant. That's
Speaker 1: why I'm somebody's mom. So let's not separate the two
Speaker 1: characteristics because you could be both. You could do both,
Speaker 1: and you need to get you someone who could do
Speaker 1: both or else that you're gonna highly be like disappointment
Speaker 1: and bored.
Speaker 4: Yeah yeah, I mean shit, I mean I just feel
Speaker 4: like I feel like, like, write that tally that.
Speaker 1: Went down I missed like too, I didn't know if
Speaker 1: it was in context. Mila's literally taking Italian my legs.
Speaker 1: I just feel that it's just really.
Speaker 4: Unfortunate that even women hating on her, you know, and
Speaker 4: it's probably women.
Speaker 3: It's both.
Speaker 4: It's women that have children, women that don't, so they
Speaker 4: don't get it. It's like those women that claim to
Speaker 4: empower one another, those women that write those inspirational quotes
Speaker 4: on Instagram, Let's find you a friend that can fix
Speaker 4: your crown, like all that bullshit, and those are the
Speaker 4: first ones that are hating.
Speaker 3: That's another thing I.
Speaker 1: Find, like within the mom community, if that's a thing,
Speaker 1: like there's a lot of judgment within to each other.
Speaker 1: And it was like bitch, and I think a lot
Speaker 1: of that stems from and this is really where our
Speaker 1: whole podcast is rooted in, is like jealousy, you know,
Speaker 1: like I'm living my life and being happy and having
Speaker 1: a child and having these dual you know, this dual
Speaker 1: life where I can cater to myself and to my child,
Speaker 1: and bitches are bored and miserable and stuck at home
Speaker 1: and feeling like they have to be stuck at home
Speaker 1: because their mom told them they should because someone said
Speaker 1: they can't do this, you can't do that, you have
Speaker 1: a baby now, and they've like swallowed all of those.
Speaker 3: Conditionings and believe it.
Speaker 1: So instead of being happy themselves, they would like to
Speaker 1: look at other people having happy fun and talk shit, right,
Speaker 1: because it makes them feel better about sacrificing their lives
Speaker 1: and not doing what they want to do.
Speaker 3: But like this is the whole thing. Like we're a community.
Speaker 1: We all go through shit, and we all do it differently,
Speaker 1: you know, like how you mom, and how and you parents.
Speaker 1: Now I'm going to a parent, and there's obviously we're
Speaker 1: all making mistakes, we're all learning because nobody knows this shit.
Speaker 1: There's no real booklet. But like we should encourage each
Speaker 1: other to, you know, to be ourselves and except out
Speaker 1: of this little tiny box we've been put in, because
Speaker 1: there's so much more to us than just being moms,
Speaker 1: you know.
Speaker 4: No, there's just so much more, And I totally agree
Speaker 4: with you. And just our bodies have are sexualized and
Speaker 4: then bodies shamed, and then first like our bodies aren't
Speaker 4: good enough, then then our bodies are disfigured because we're
Speaker 4: pregnant and we're not allowed to show it. Like, for example,
Speaker 4: I remember our friend Nisha who shout out to Nisha,
Speaker 4: she she just had her baby.
Speaker 1: Go check out our instagram. You can see who our
Speaker 1: friend Nisia is.
Speaker 4: Our tribe just grew yes, and she was literally the
Speaker 4: cutest pregnant person on the planet.
Speaker 3: Should be like put all of us to shame.
Speaker 4: But she sent me a text when she was pregnant,
Speaker 4: and she was She was saying, I have this crop
Speaker 4: top I want to wear, but I feel weird wearing it.
Speaker 4: Should I wear it outside? I was, girl, you better
Speaker 4: wear that shit. Girl, I was like, put that crops
Speaker 4: up on immediately. And then I was I was told.
Speaker 4: I was like, who cares what anybody else says. This
Speaker 4: is your body, this is your pregnancy. You're beautiful. Show
Speaker 4: off your body, just like any other girl would show
Speaker 4: off her body, her breast. Why can't you show off
Speaker 4: what you're creating? Our bodies are. This is the coolest
Speaker 4: shit your body's ever gonna do, the coolest shit ever.
Speaker 4: We are the coolest, we are the strongest. Look what
Speaker 4: we can do. It's just insane. So she did, and
Speaker 4: she then she got some backlash, like some hater was
Speaker 4: on her Instagram saying.
Speaker 1: What saying put that away?
Speaker 4: Nobody saying nobody wants to see that, like your husband
Speaker 4: should be Like I don't even remember, but it was
Speaker 4: some crazy shit and I just went in on her.
Speaker 1: I was so happy because I'm like, which post was that,
Speaker 1: I'm about to go.
Speaker 3: In right now? I cannot stand that ship.
Speaker 1: And then it's often like a dude or a man
Speaker 1: like this ship, Like, first of all, I'm I really
Speaker 1: think that like a lot of men these days are
Speaker 1: borderline gay. No, seriously, you got to really consider when
Speaker 1: you talk shit to women, and you like bash even
Speaker 1: like subconsciously like talk shit about women or them being
Speaker 1: held or them just in a certain way, like dog.
Speaker 1: You don't like pussy, you like dick because anytime you're
Speaker 1: like trying to put a woman down and make her
Speaker 1: feel shameful about like all the sexy shit we got
Speaker 1: going on, you're insecure and you liked it. No, it's true,
Speaker 1: it's true. Like who says that, I don't know.
Speaker 4: All I know is that we should not be ashamed
Speaker 4: of our pregnant bodies, you know, and also we shouldn't
Speaker 4: feel like we have to stop our lives when we're pregnant,
Speaker 4: Like we shouldn't, like we can't work, Like we have
Speaker 4: to take a backseat to our career, whether it's being
Speaker 4: a rapper, whether it's being you know, anything any a stripper.
Speaker 1: I won't, you know, like it depends you know, you know, you.
Speaker 4: Know, I mean you probably can't be speared too far
Speaker 4: up the pole, but you know, I just feel, I
Speaker 4: just feel you should be able to do what you
Speaker 4: want to do. It's your body. As long as you're
Speaker 4: being safe, then who cares? Yeah, And I just all
Speaker 4: these people with their opinions about Cardi, I will.
Speaker 1: Like what upon Like this episode we did some research on,
Speaker 1: Like this is not just the thing like how we
Speaker 1: personally feel because we've experienced it, but like this has
Speaker 1: been a thing, like especially in the workplace within corporate America.
Speaker 1: I mean, obviously women have been like discriminated against with
Speaker 1: pay and everything else, but specifically with like being pregnant
Speaker 1: in the workplace. It wasn't even like a law until
Speaker 1: nineteen seventy eight, which is only like ten years before
Speaker 1: we were born. So basically, like that.
Speaker 4: You can't fire a woman based on whether she's pregnant
Speaker 4: or plans to get pregnant.
Speaker 1: So prior to nineteen seventy eight, there was no laws
Speaker 1: in force or that existed that protected women from being
Speaker 1: pregnant and being fired in the workplace. Now, it's one
Speaker 1: thing to be pregnant and stressed out as is and
Speaker 1: happing this foreign thing happened to your body, but then
Speaker 1: think about getting fired and worrying about, oh shit, my baby.
Speaker 1: And like even for me, like I I worked the
Speaker 1: day I gave birth because I was fine, Like I
Speaker 1: didn't want to sit up in the house and like
Speaker 1: have idle time. But people literally even before I was
Speaker 1: training with someone and training like I wasn't even like
Speaker 1: going to really be working for that person. And I
Speaker 1: was like, I'm pregnant, and this is a girl she
Speaker 1: was training you. She was training me to do lashes,
Speaker 1: and she and I was the plan was that she
Speaker 1: was gonna train me and then I would work with her.
Speaker 1: And when I got pregnant. This is keep in mind,
Speaker 1: this is a young female. She was like, oh, well,
Speaker 1: how long do you think you're gonna need off? And
Speaker 1: I was like, I don't know. I never had a
Speaker 1: baby before, Like, bitch, I don't know look it up
Speaker 1: oul it. I don't know, but what the point is.
Speaker 1: It's like I immediately I felt like, oh my god,
Speaker 1: I've done something wrong. You know, You're like, oh god,
Speaker 1: I'm ruining my life. I can't like not even have
Speaker 1: a job. And there's just so much. There's so many
Speaker 1: fucked up things that like even articles I've just read,
Speaker 1: just like an employer telling someone to have pressuring her
Speaker 1: to have an telling her like she's fat and ugly,
Speaker 1: like it's or just dissolving their position while they're on
Speaker 1: maternity leave because it doesn't exist anymore, and then like
Speaker 1: adding two things and rehiring somebody else under their position
Speaker 1: and getting away with it. So there's like a lot
Speaker 1: of discrimination, not only just socially but in the workplace,
Speaker 1: which is a huge deal. Oh and this is another
Speaker 1: uh interesting statistic. Women report pregnancy discrimination across races and ethnicities,
Speaker 1: just black women are disproportionately affected. Nearly three in ten
Speaker 1: charges of pregnancy discrimination, twenty eight point six percent were
Speaker 1: filed by Black women. Yet black women can compromise only
Speaker 1: fourteen percent of women in the workforce ages sixteen to
Speaker 1: fifty four. Black women are also at a higher risk
Speaker 1: for pregnancy related complications like preterm labor, proclamsia, and hypertensive disorders,
Speaker 1: which can make a loss of wages and health insurance
Speaker 1: due to pregnancy discrimination especially challenging. So for women of color,
Speaker 1: we're experiencing it even more.
Speaker 4: I mean, I'm not surprised because it's there's already so
Speaker 4: much discrimination in the workforce. There's so many there's so
Speaker 4: much discrimination and just you know, people assuming, oh, well,
Speaker 4: you got you have another baby, daddy, you're pregnant again.
Speaker 4: It's just like, I don't know, it's just I mean,
Speaker 4: it's unfortunate, and they probably look at them like, I
Speaker 4: don't know, like a more of a liability, especially if
Speaker 4: we if statistically.
Speaker 1: We experience more you know, complications with pregnancy. But it
Speaker 1: shouldn't be considered liability.
Speaker 3: It's a natural course, it's.
Speaker 1: Not it should be.
Speaker 4: I mean, my I didn't have that experience, fortunately for me.
Speaker 4: When I was pregnant, I was well. When I first
Speaker 4: found out I was pregnant, I was living in New York.
Speaker 4: I was like working as a server, and then I
Speaker 4: came back to LA because I was pregnant. Yeah, my
Speaker 4: baby daddy was not living in New York, so I
Speaker 4: moved back to LA and he didn't want me to work,
Speaker 4: and so I was like, what, Okay, I ain't gonna
Speaker 4: work in But that was the worst decision I ever made.
Speaker 4: I was so depressed not working. Actually, I was bored.
Speaker 4: I had nothing to do except sit around and eat.
Speaker 4: And I wish that I would have worked and kept
Speaker 4: myself busy. I would have probably had a different experience
Speaker 4: being pregnant. But but that idea too, that like you're
Speaker 4: supposed I'm not supposed to work, that he didn't want
Speaker 4: me to work.
Speaker 1: I mean, I'm sure it was.
Speaker 4: It was a sweet gesture, of course, and it was not,
Speaker 4: of course, not done in malice, and I totally agreed,
Speaker 4: agreed to it. But now looking back, it's like he
Speaker 4: prided himself on that. He prided himself on the fact
Speaker 4: that he could take care of me and I didn't
Speaker 4: have to work, because that's what a man is supposed
Speaker 4: to do apparently, right wait.
Speaker 1: Right, And it's just like, no, I'll do whatever the
Speaker 1: fuck I want. How about that.
Speaker 4: Next time, if and when I ever have a child again,
Speaker 4: I'm working. I mean I have to work. I work
Speaker 4: for I've worked for a brand that it doesn't stop.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I can't stop my position because of.
Speaker 1: Luckily it's your face, and I'm just saying I do
Speaker 1: other things besides my face.
Speaker 4: But yeah, I just think women, and I think also
Speaker 4: men feel uncomfortable men and women feel uncomfortable seeing a
Speaker 4: pregnant body in their work space.
Speaker 1: But why I don't it's what it is about.
Speaker 4: It's a reminder of that they fucked to get to
Speaker 4: get pregnant.
Speaker 1: Is it just a constant reminder of like, oh, oh,
Speaker 1: like you have sex? I don't know.
Speaker 4: I think it makes them constantly reminded that they literally
Speaker 4: are a sexual being, right, and they sexualize them constantly
Speaker 4: because they have this constant reminder of what conceived from sex. Right,
Speaker 4: That's only what that's like the only way I can
Speaker 4: rationalize it in my head.
Speaker 1: I don't really understand it makes them. It just makes it.
Speaker 1: But like the parts of sex they don't want to
Speaker 1: be reminded about, like like what happened if you don't
Speaker 1: pull up? Because guys, because sexual harassment in the workplace
Speaker 1: is also a huge thing, you know what I mean, Like,
Speaker 1: so we're already being objectified sexually, but like when it
Speaker 1: comes to pregnancy, there is this crazy taboo which is
Speaker 1: so weird, or is.
Speaker 4: It looked upon as like like a period, like you know,
Speaker 4: like gross not gross, Okay, Mary, gross isn't the right word.
Speaker 4: I need to find another word. But just too I
Speaker 4: don't know, an elephant in the room too real, I
Speaker 4: don't know. Like imagine, if like a man saw a
Speaker 4: woman with a period stand on the back of her pants,
Speaker 4: he would be disgusted and he would yeah, he would
Speaker 4: judge her. I almost feel like that's how they look
Speaker 4: at a pregnant woman walking through the office.
Speaker 1: Well, I think they look at them as weak. Yeah, week,
Speaker 1: they're not gonna be able. Look at They're gonna be
Speaker 1: complaining a lot because they're they're circumstance and they're gonna
Speaker 1: make excuses a lot.
Speaker 4: And there are more emotional yeah and yeah, you know what,
Speaker 4: I was more emotional, and you know what, women are
Speaker 4: probably more emotional, but that doesn't have to interfere with
Speaker 4: their job.
Speaker 1: I'm not necessarily because people do. I think I had
Speaker 1: one nervous breakdown network while I was pregnant, and I
Speaker 1: was like, don't talk to me.
Speaker 3: I just start crying.
Speaker 1: I will not do your lashes. My boss is like,
Speaker 1: are you Okay, I.
Speaker 3: Just feel really weird.
Speaker 1: I'm fad. I can't move fast. She's like, just go home.
Speaker 1: I was like, okay, I'm leaving. Please stop talking to me.
Speaker 1: I can't move that fast and it's hot and I'm
Speaker 1: crying now.
Speaker 4: Well, it's just also like when we're talking about going,
Speaker 4: like going to places that aren't that society deems unfit
Speaker 4: for pregnant women, like the club, like the club or
Speaker 4: a bar or any place where they're people are engaging
Speaker 4: in My homegirl, we should post this.
Speaker 1: Actually, my homegirl. Shout out to Paola. She went to
Speaker 1: Coachella pregnant this weekend, and I was like, yes, Paula, yes,
Speaker 1: mom Cella.
Speaker 3: Because yeah, like you can do stuff.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you can still go have a good time. I
Speaker 1: can go to music right like.
Speaker 3: I am not gonna faint.
Speaker 1: I can I can handle it. Yes, women could do so.
Speaker 1: We can get jacoozie, we can drink wine. There's all
Speaker 1: these things that we could do a while pregnant. I
Speaker 1: just want to put a PSA out there. I think
Speaker 1: I went to the club when I was like six
Speaker 1: months six months pregnant, and I felt really weird and
Speaker 1: and my baby's daddy talked so much shit to me, Like,
Speaker 1: what kind of woman are you? You're trying to go
Speaker 1: to the like you're thirsty, you want to be at
Speaker 1: the club, and you're pregnant. I'm like, I'm gonna be
Speaker 1: pregnant for nine months. Do you think I'm gonna be
Speaker 1: up in this house?
Speaker 3: But you're asked straight for nine months.
Speaker 1: Not doing shit? Why can't I go hang out with
Speaker 1: my friends? Yeah, I'm gonna be out here, like.
Speaker 3: Well, who cares if I'm twarky?
Speaker 4: Right?
Speaker 1: I might be twirky? How do you I talked to
Speaker 1: get the baby right, shit, it's talking on that dick
Speaker 1: and you weren't complaining that was I got hit on
Speaker 1: so much that night and I wasn't showing that much.
Speaker 1: But you have no idea how lovely it felt. I
Speaker 1: don't know why to be.
Speaker 3: Like, actually, I'm with a child.
Speaker 1: I'm like a child.
Speaker 3: You know, I've never seen a nigga moon walk.
Speaker 1: So fast away from me, Like, okay, nice to be. Oh,
Speaker 1: let's cute.
Speaker 4: I remember I remember my baby dad day took me
Speaker 4: to a day party. So there was no like, at
Speaker 4: least at the clubs a little dark, you could like, right,
Speaker 4: like we're blob y hid. I was at like a
Speaker 4: day party in West Hollywood, bright lights. I must have
Speaker 4: been eight months pregnant, and at that point I was
Speaker 4: as large as a house. And but I was also
Speaker 4: like I was in that space where I was, I was,
Speaker 4: I just needed to get out. I was, and he
Speaker 4: was like, Okay, let's go. Let's go to this day party.
Speaker 4: We're gonna We're gonna have fun, you know. And I
Speaker 4: was like all right, So we went. I was like
Speaker 4: he's like moving the crowd. He's like pushing through, like
Speaker 4: like I'm like the Red Sea and I'm coming party
Speaker 4: with it, my big belly, all these like all these holes.
Speaker 1: They're looking at me like the fuck is this don't here?
Speaker 1: But I'm like I am.
Speaker 3: Here about my way.
Speaker 4: But I felt so judged and I felt really uncomfort right, Yeah,
Speaker 4: I felt so uncomfortable. I just wanted to have fun
Speaker 4: and I just wanted to like dance and chill and
Speaker 4: here I go with the legs again. I just wanted
Speaker 4: to chill and dance and just spend time with him,
Speaker 4: and I just didn't.
Speaker 1: I just remember feeling a shame. I don't want to
Speaker 1: do this again.
Speaker 3: I did it.
Speaker 1: I think I did it. One other time before that.
Speaker 1: It was dark, so no one really knew.
Speaker 4: So I felt like I could maneuver like a normal person,
Speaker 4: even though I wasn't a normal person.
Speaker 1: I just happened to be with child and right. No, honestly,
Speaker 1: that day party shit because it's not nighttime. I specifically
Speaker 1: remember going to the Ace Hotel and it was like
Speaker 1: a Sunday, so a lot of people were there. Oh
Speaker 1: my god, and I and I don't get embarrassed easy,
Speaker 1: like I am like a I don't give a fun
Speaker 1: type of bitch. I felt like every I've never felt
Speaker 1: so weird in my life. I know, I felt I'm
Speaker 1: so insecure. Like I was just like, people are looking
Speaker 1: at me.
Speaker 3: I'm pregnant.
Speaker 1: Everyone's looking at me. I'm not supposed to be here.
Speaker 1: I'm not supposed to be breathing outdoors. I'm very pregnant.
Speaker 1: And like I felt so wead. I kept time to me,
Speaker 1: I'm like, are people looking at me? She's like, who
Speaker 1: caress like ChIL, you look good? Able to look at
Speaker 1: that belly.
Speaker 3: She's taking shots off your belly. We went to Vegas
Speaker 3: one time too, pregnant.
Speaker 1: Fre'st what you couldn't tell you this bitch insisted on
Speaker 1: playing blackjack and being in the casino all night, but
Speaker 1: also insisted on telling everyone who came in the distance
Speaker 1: of me, do you mind smoking that way? She's pregnant.
Speaker 1: Excuse me, she's pregnant. I'm like, Danielle, I'm at the casino,
Speaker 1: at the fucking blackjack table. You can't tell everybody that
Speaker 1: I'm pregnant. They don't give a shit. She's pregnant, right right.
Speaker 4: Yeah. It's so crazy how people treat pregnant women, not
Speaker 4: like in the workplace and everyday life, like we're only
Speaker 4: we can only be in certain areas at certain times
Speaker 4: at certain hours.
Speaker 1: Why are you out this late? Why are you smoking weed?
Speaker 4: Like my baby's awake. Why are you out at one
Speaker 4: am and you're pregnant?
Speaker 1: Because it's not here yet, so I'm milking it, bitch,
Speaker 1: that's fine.
Speaker 4: I was, Oh my god, I remember this other story
Speaker 4: where I went to a Laker game and uh, we've
Speaker 4: been sitting for a while and.
Speaker 1: BD was like hey, and he's like, I want.
Speaker 3: To Margarita's and I was like, I'll go get it.
Speaker 1: He's like, are you sure. I'm like, yeah, I'm fine.
Speaker 4: I need to get up anyway, So I went and
Speaker 4: got him the mar I went to against me and
Speaker 4: DCAF coffee, and I went to go get him a margarita.
Speaker 4: You know when you go to the Staples Center, there's
Speaker 4: specific lines.
Speaker 3: For the alcohol.
Speaker 4: You know, you have to have, like I don't remember
Speaker 4: if I no, there's no rispains, have to show your ID.
Speaker 4: But I was in the line, like for the margarita line.
Speaker 4: So it's only tequila, serf. There there's no wine, there's
Speaker 4: no anything. It's straight tequila. And here I am, literally
Speaker 4: nine months pregnant in the tequila line and people are
Speaker 4: looking at me like, is this bitch about to order margarita?
Speaker 1: Yes? Oh yeah?
Speaker 4: And I was like and I ordered too because we
Speaker 4: were with a friend, so I ordered. I was like
Speaker 4: double fist to margarita's. I have like my coffee and
Speaker 4: like my other are like tucked in like my elbow,
Speaker 4: and everyone was just judging me, and I was just
Speaker 4: and I knew I wasn't doing anything wrong, but I
Speaker 4: felt strange.
Speaker 1: I just felt strange. And it's just a shame.
Speaker 4: It's just a shame that in our society, mothers just
Speaker 4: aren't we don't we are not respected. Respect me I'm
Speaker 4: making a life so that this world can keep moving.
Speaker 1: Like hashtag I'm normal still too, I'm pregnant and alive,
Speaker 1: hashtag alive and pregnant, make it afraid, I look pregnant
Speaker 1: and functioning and true. Oh, speaking of pregnancy, breaking news
Speaker 1: dot D Chloe got cheated on and had our baby.
Speaker 1: I mean, what are your feelings, because everybody has their opinions.
Speaker 1: I don't feel like it's real. Oh yeah, you did
Speaker 1: say that. I mean I don't know anybody. I mean,
Speaker 1: who knows. It's extreme? But you think you're gonna get
Speaker 1: cheated on as a publicity stunt while you're nine months pregnant?
Speaker 1: I don't know.
Speaker 4: No, Okay, maybe this is what happened. Maybe they knew
Speaker 4: about because the tape was like a week old. I
Speaker 4: feel like maybe they knew a week before, and they
Speaker 4: tried to get ahead of it by I think that
Speaker 4: they had already.
Speaker 3: Like you should get ahead of it by making it like.
Speaker 4: Using it, you know, using it as a way for more.
Speaker 4: Oh oh oh, oh, there's a there's a fight happening outside.
Speaker 1: Oh I was crying. Oh what happened? Luna's jumping? She
Speaker 1: doesn't want to jump.
Speaker 3: I don't know.
Speaker 4: I think a luna might have hit her in the
Speaker 4: head by accident. Oh well, I re just fell behind a.
Speaker 1: Bad mom moment. Oh my god.
Speaker 4: I remember standing behind the chair that I'm sitting at
Speaker 4: in this record our podcast, and it literally fell on
Speaker 4: top of her.
Speaker 1: It looked like the Evil Witch, like when the house
Speaker 1: lands on the Evil Witch in the Wizard of Oz,
Speaker 1: and her legs were just underneath there. And we literally
Speaker 1: sat there for like ten seconds of delay time because
Speaker 1: it was so rare. It was just I didn't even
Speaker 1: see it because she didn't make a sound. She was
Speaker 1: kind of waiting for her to cry. Yeah, she didn't
Speaker 1: even she was just laying there, and we literally, first
Speaker 1: of all, I was closest. I could have picked up
Speaker 1: the chair, but the fact that she didn't cry and
Speaker 1: her legs were just sitting there underneath it, I couldn't
Speaker 1: know what to do.
Speaker 4: I pulled the chair out and I just couldn't stop laughing,
Speaker 4: and I felt so bad, but.
Speaker 1: We laughed so hard.
Speaker 3: She was like, not funny, it's.
Speaker 1: Not funny, and me and Mila are like, have tears
Speaker 1: rolling down when your kid has to tell you it's
Speaker 1: not funny and you're laughing hysterically. You need to grow up,
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh.
Speaker 4: Anyway, but then then I heard that with the Chloe thing,
Speaker 4: that the cameras were present when she found out that.
Speaker 1: You know, it's just like, no way, the cameras were there.
Speaker 4: Yeah, they they like were president when she found out
Speaker 4: that he cheated. Just all That's why I just don't know.
Speaker 1: Like when the tabloid story hit and you just happened
Speaker 1: to be being filmed for creeping up at the carriage,
Speaker 1: and then that she.
Speaker 4: Couldn't leave Cleveland, you know, like she couldn't leave Cleveland.
Speaker 3: Her family had to come to her.
Speaker 4: Chloe's desperately trying to leave Cleveland, but she can't find
Speaker 4: a way out. Her doctors won't let her fly. Bitch,
Speaker 4: you want, but jillionaire, run a tour bus and drive
Speaker 4: your ass home. She could drive your ass back to.
Speaker 1: La bitch and render her rocket. You can. You can
Speaker 1: rent a dot you can you in the door. You
Speaker 1: can get away us there. Yes, you have a homework
Speaker 1: and a tour bus with a doctor and a midwife
Speaker 1: on your account for youre just oh, you could have
Speaker 1: made any possible.
Speaker 4: That's why I'm like, it just sounded Okay, I don't
Speaker 4: want to laugh at her pain because maybe it is true.
Speaker 1: And she got stressed out and had to have a baby.
Speaker 1: I just don't.
Speaker 4: It's hard for me to believe anything with them because
Speaker 4: everything is so calculated and now like that that baby
Speaker 4: photo is gonna be worth like ten million dollars.
Speaker 3: You think now because because of that, Yeah.
Speaker 4: The baby's name is true, which is like damn names
Speaker 4: shit true, which y'all.
Speaker 3: And I'm just like, and it's true.
Speaker 1: Is a baby's name true?
Speaker 3: And I cannot.
Speaker 4: But then so then Chris had to come out and
Speaker 4: like explain why the baby's name is true because her
Speaker 4: grandfather's name is true and his uncle's name was true.
Speaker 1: Whose grandfather's name is true?
Speaker 3: Her dad, Chris Jenner. Now that it's her dad, I
Speaker 3: really feel like OJ's her dad.
Speaker 1: But I mean, don't get it twisted. Like Chloe is
Speaker 1: my fate. She's a cancer, like, hands down, she's the realist,
Speaker 1: one of the Possey I fox with her, so she's
Speaker 1: always been my favorite.
Speaker 3: Yeah, but her daddy's OJ.
Speaker 1: Her dad is the juice. What the fun we're going to?
Speaker 1: But I just don't.
Speaker 4: I just feel like, okay, because I was thinking Okay,
Speaker 4: what what if this baby's gonna grow up one day
Speaker 4: and read the headlines and know that her father cheated
Speaker 4: on her mother? Why would they do that on purpose?
Speaker 4: That sounds like that seems such a But then I
Speaker 4: was like, well, as long as I feel like for
Speaker 4: them and their family, as long as they know the truth, that's.
Speaker 1: The way.
Speaker 4: Like they know, like they'll have a conversation with a
Speaker 4: child one day and be like, we did this.
Speaker 1: For this reason. I mean, did you have twenty million
Speaker 1: immediately in your college fund right without doing much? I
Speaker 1: see that Maserata you have at age fifteen because your
Speaker 1: dad is stupid and we twisted.
Speaker 4: They make these deals with each other because they know
Speaker 4: their truth. It doesn't matter what everybody else thinks. But
Speaker 4: then it projects such a negative example for so many
Speaker 4: people that don't realize that nothing is real on reality
Speaker 4: TV and everything is like our Instagram.
Speaker 3: Versus reality shit. It's like so much fake shit.
Speaker 1: I mean, the truth days will never know, just like
Speaker 1: we'll never really know if the Jesus or Dad. But sorry,
Speaker 1: I'm a little hot. What was it gonna say? I
Speaker 1: don't know, but I know I just think what about
Speaker 1: the fact, I mean aside from the fact that she
Speaker 1: got cheated on nine months pregnant. Do you think there's
Speaker 1: any like because everyone's talking about the karma that she
Speaker 1: got with him when he had a baby, that was like,
Speaker 1: well on the way. Basically when he.
Speaker 3: Met her, wasn't he expecting a child?
Speaker 4: Yeah, he was expecting a child with another So it's
Speaker 4: still crazy because I don't I don't follow basketball.
Speaker 1: I don't know.
Speaker 4: I still really don't even know who Tristan Thompson is.
Speaker 4: I know he plays basketball. Literally just found out he
Speaker 4: played in Ohio because I saw that Chloe was in Ohio.
Speaker 3: You couldn't tell. I could not tell you what team
Speaker 3: he played for.
Speaker 4: But I followed his girlfriend at the time because she
Speaker 4: was always like posting these fabulous photos all over the
Speaker 4: traveling with her beautiful boyfriend, like on private jets, going
Speaker 4: to Demaldi's Dubai, and I was like, who is this couple?
Speaker 1: It was him and her. Oh, so they were a couple.
Speaker 1: They were a serious couple. And then it wasn't like
Speaker 1: she was like a jump off. They tried to make
Speaker 1: it seem like she was a jumper. Oh no, no, no,
Speaker 1: no no.
Speaker 4: They were a serious couple and then she was pregnant
Speaker 4: and it was like this beautiful thing and then suddenly
Speaker 4: they apparently they were no longer together when him and
Speaker 4: Chloe started dating.
Speaker 3: But it's like, I'm not about to date a nigga.
Speaker 1: They got a baby on the way, I'm not dating.
Speaker 4: Just wait till the baby were coming with the babies
Speaker 4: like six months, yeah, and then you let me know
Speaker 4: if you like, the baby is born and then you fall.
Speaker 1: Yeah, like no, any I mean I think unfortunately, poor baby,
Speaker 1: Like she probably it probably started that way.
Speaker 3: She probably got knocked up and wanted to keep the
Speaker 3: baby so bad.
Speaker 1: She was like, I don't give a fuck what you
Speaker 1: got going on. I'm having the baby, you know, which
Speaker 1: is like who knows what he was telling her? Obviously
Speaker 1: he's a lie, cheating piece of But here's the.
Speaker 4: Thing, you've you've dated, Like how many different athletes did
Speaker 4: you think that he was going to be faithful? Was
Speaker 4: athlete number one faithful? Was athlete number two faithful? I
Speaker 4: think athletes that we don't even know about, were they faithful?
Speaker 4: Like no, So it's just.
Speaker 1: It's just like it's also nice to see, like whether
Speaker 1: it's it's publicity or intentional or whatever, like it is
Speaker 1: not nice to see. But the truth of the matter is,
Speaker 1: it doesn't matter who the fuck you are. Like Beyonce
Speaker 1: is getting cheated on, right, Claula Cardiash, she's getting cheated on.
Speaker 1: Can't probably get cheated on. Everybody's getting cheated on. If
Speaker 1: you date somebody with a penis probably getting cheated on.
Speaker 1: And it sucks. But that's like the reality of it,
Speaker 1: Like nobody hide you like you can't.
Speaker 4: Especially I mean pregnancy is like I feel like that's
Speaker 4: I feel like a lot of people. Women also get
Speaker 4: scared when they get pregnant because they're scared that their
Speaker 4: men are going to cheat on them, because you can't
Speaker 4: like some you know, for me, like I didn't want
Speaker 4: to have sex when I was pregnant.
Speaker 3: I was not horny a get away from me, get
Speaker 3: that thing away.
Speaker 1: I wasn't.
Speaker 4: And so, you know, men feel unwanted. They feel their
Speaker 4: their their significant other, who maybe their body was like
Speaker 4: the centerpiece of their relationship. It's changed and they need
Speaker 4: validation somewhere else, from something else. And I think that's
Speaker 4: why a lot of men cheat. They just don't. They're
Speaker 4: not used to not being the center of the center
Speaker 4: of it all. You're no longer the center of it.
Speaker 4: And guess what, when that baby's born, you really don't
Speaker 4: give a fuck. We really don't give a fuck about you,
Speaker 4: because all retired, all we care about is like sleep,
Speaker 4: and like making sure our baby stays alive, like making
Speaker 4: sure we don't kill our baby by accident, because our
Speaker 4: first time moms and we don't know what the fuck
Speaker 4: we're doing right.
Speaker 1: Right, So you are gonna get on the back bone,
Speaker 1: so get away. And if you can't handle it, you
Speaker 1: need not say. Your pullout game should be strong.
Speaker 4: I was just having this conversation on Sunday with my
Speaker 4: friend and then her friend her this guy came in
Speaker 4: and the first thing she asked, is it possible for
Speaker 4: men to be faithful? Because I was talking to my
Speaker 4: dad about it. And my dad is a performer professional
Speaker 4: athlete and to this day, like he still has he
Speaker 4: has issues with fidelity, but openly he knows who he is, you.
Speaker 1: Know what I mean.
Speaker 4: And he's always told me that men, all men, he
Speaker 4: has always always said, all men cheat, Erica, all of them.
Speaker 4: I don't care if you're the nerd, I don't care
Speaker 4: if you're He's like, and it's not that they all
Speaker 4: want to cheat. It's just if they're presented with the
Speaker 4: opportunity time and time and time again, event eventually they're
Speaker 4: gonna break down. So especially a man who's in like
Speaker 4: an athlete or the music industry, who's constantly being pussy's
Speaker 4: being thrown at them constantly, they're they're weak. Where if
Speaker 4: he said, we're weak, we think about everything with our
Speaker 4: dick and they're always were always gonna de lie.
Speaker 3: He's like, the main the man.
Speaker 4: Code is de lie delie, de lie deny and lie
Speaker 4: deny and lie deny and lie.
Speaker 1: Yes, this is my dad.
Speaker 4: So like when I told him, when I would tell
Speaker 4: him about, you know, my situation and like my baby
Speaker 4: daddy's infidelity problems, he didn't really have a lot of
Speaker 4: remorse for me because he was like, I told you
Speaker 4: and look at me.
Speaker 1: And I'm just like wow. Well, I was just like, wow,
Speaker 1: do you think that's true? Do you think that all
Speaker 1: men cheat?
Speaker 4: I don't think that all men cheat, but I think
Speaker 4: if presented with the opportunity enough, then they will.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think they're stupid.
Speaker 3: And also I don't I don't necessarily think monogamy is natural.
Speaker 1: I d oh, my god, can we talk about that.
Speaker 1: I do not I I I don't think monogamy is natural.
Speaker 1: I never really have like our animals feeful and then
Speaker 1: t A. But then it goes so deeply because sometimes
Speaker 1: I know that that's true. But then like we're so
Speaker 1: deeply conditioned and in bread to feel like we own people. Yes,
Speaker 1: and even for us, like who knows that this is
Speaker 1: not like a realistic concept. You still get these feelings
Speaker 1: of wanting to own someone and let anyone start who
Speaker 1: looks at them, and that's.
Speaker 3: Not normal, and what the fuck is?
Speaker 4: Well, we go against nature, We go against what our body.
Speaker 4: We tell our body, like, no, do you don't feel
Speaker 4: that way? You don't want that?
Speaker 3: Your pussy's not wet for him?
Speaker 4: No?
Speaker 3: Yeah, right, your dick is not wet for her or
Speaker 3: hard for her.
Speaker 1: No, that's wrong, you know.
Speaker 4: And it's like if we I think communication is what
Speaker 4: is that is is the biggest issue is that we
Speaker 4: don't know how to communicate on honesty. We don't really
Speaker 4: want to be honest with each other, right, and like,
Speaker 4: and that's what we're t I was talking about with
Speaker 4: my friends friend this guy who came in and he
Speaker 4: he was really intelligent and he was talking about it,
Speaker 4: and he because I was, I was telling him what
Speaker 4: my dad is said that Allman sheet.
Speaker 3: And he was like.
Speaker 1: That there's a lot of truth to that.
Speaker 4: But the guy, because there's a lot of truth to that.
Speaker 3: But it's just like also, it's.
Speaker 4: Because we don't want to be honest with each other
Speaker 4: and women and women want to own men and men
Speaker 4: want to own women.
Speaker 1: So it's just difficult. It's difficult. And but I had
Speaker 1: someone tell me recently who's known me a long time,
Speaker 1: and they were like, Jamella, I don't really see you
Speaker 1: in a relationship with anyone.
Speaker 3: And I was like, and they're like, no, like or maybe.
Speaker 1: With like multiple people, Like I don't see you. It's
Speaker 1: just one person. You don't have that type of personality.
Speaker 1: And initially I was kind of offended, like I'm never
Speaker 1: gonna get married, but then I was like I really
Speaker 1: appreciated that because they're like, I love you, I still
Speaker 1: would want to be with you, but I could I
Speaker 1: could accept that you would probably still see other people
Speaker 1: and that would be okay. So there's a beauty in
Speaker 1: someone like acknowledging certain things about you in a truthful,
Speaker 1: honest manner and still loving you despite it, you know,
Speaker 1: like that's to me, that is that's real love, Like
Speaker 1: I love you so much that I don't want to
Speaker 1: cut you off from loving anyone else or experiencing or
Speaker 1: living your life fulfillingly. And I think when you do
Speaker 1: that and you give someone the space and freedom to
Speaker 1: truly love freely, nine times out of ten they will
Speaker 1: They probably won't like what we're off because they know,
Speaker 1: like I have this like love that doesn't want to
Speaker 1: own me or control me. And I don't really need
Speaker 1: to do that right like I could.
Speaker 3: If I want to, but I don't need to know
Speaker 3: it's true.
Speaker 4: I think with that, it's just also I think I
Speaker 4: think people's fear in that is that they are scared
Speaker 4: that they're going to go out and find something different
Speaker 4: that's better than them.
Speaker 1: It's their own insecurity in themselves. They're not confident enough to.
Speaker 4: Know that, Like, Okay, I'm I let you go be
Speaker 4: free and do your thing, But what if you find
Speaker 4: someone better than.
Speaker 1: Me then you leave me? But that's just life. I
Speaker 1: find somebody better than me, but for me, it's like
Speaker 1: more power to you. If you think that bit is
Speaker 1: better than me, good luck because give it six weeks.
Speaker 1: She's gonna get on your nerves.
Speaker 4: I mean, I've always been intrigued by open relationships, and
Speaker 4: I mean I think I think open relationships are healthy
Speaker 4: as long as you're not bringing me back anything. Yeah,
Speaker 4: as long as you're really honest and really safe. That's
Speaker 4: what I mean, like, don't bring me back no STDs.
Speaker 1: I think I want to do like a trial, polyamorous
Speaker 1: trial like period the trial, a thirty day trial period,
Speaker 1: Polly situation.
Speaker 3: This is my boyfriend, this is my girlfriend, this is
Speaker 3: not the boyfriend.
Speaker 1: Are you cool with it? Okay, come on, you can
Speaker 1: hang out too. I was speaking of the Kardashians. I
Speaker 1: want you to hear my notes that I have for
Speaker 1: today that I wrote at two o'clock in the morning
Speaker 1: last night. Topic episode six, Chloe gets cheated on, Bruce
Speaker 1: goes Black Happy for twenty. Those are the three things
Speaker 1: Chloe gets you done, Bruce goes Black Happy four twenty.
Speaker 1: Literally when I have his notes. Oh yes, I saw
Speaker 1: that photo of his Name's not Bruce, her name is not.
Speaker 1: What's her name? Okay? Oh my god?
Speaker 3: Why am I from Black Kyle? No?
Speaker 1: No, oh my god, Candys No, Oh my gosh, what's
Speaker 1: her name Chrice. No, oh my god, Kayla, Kyln, Kayla.
Speaker 3: Okay, Caitlyn feels black, So.
Speaker 1: Okay, we don't know that for sure.
Speaker 3: That was a photo.
Speaker 1: They were all the hands, but maybe he.
Speaker 3: Was like protecting her from the pop pop.
Speaker 1: That little man doesn't protect me anyone. I mean, according
Speaker 1: to I don't know a post I saw. According to
Speaker 1: my my notes, they have a photo of Caitlyn with
Speaker 1: a little black man and they said she's gone black.
Speaker 1: I mean, I went black and never go black black back. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I wouldn't be surprised, but no else it's going black,
Speaker 1: except like the one. As soon as she does, she's
Speaker 1: probably not going back there.
Speaker 3: They love them some black men, don't we all?
Speaker 1: Don't we all?
Speaker 3: I know I can't shake up.
Speaker 1: Just like I like my coffee.
Speaker 3: I know, black as hell.
Speaker 4: Yes.
Speaker 1: I don't.
Speaker 4: It's funny because when I so, when I actually when
Speaker 4: I was giving birth, I had birth. I gave birth
Speaker 4: to Cedar Sinai, and its Cedar Sinai. There's no limits
Speaker 4: to the amount of people you can have in your room.
Speaker 4: And so I was in labor, but like not like
Speaker 4: active labor. I was had like an epidural and I
Speaker 4: was just chilling watching TV, and so literally I wish
Speaker 4: I had this photo. I had about twenty five people
Speaker 4: in the room.
Speaker 1: We're good. I like ten people. I thought I was
Speaker 1: overdoing it.
Speaker 3: I had a lot of people.
Speaker 1: In the room.
Speaker 4: And that day was the Caitlyn Jenner special, so we
Speaker 4: were all watching her come out on like Martha Stewart,
Speaker 4: not Martha Stewart Diane Sawyer right, and uh, we were
Speaker 4: all watching it and she was asking Caitlin, do you
Speaker 4: like men or like women? And she was still confused.
Speaker 4: She didn't know how to answer it. And actually I
Speaker 4: started watching her reality show and she still didn't have
Speaker 4: like an an answer for that, I think, which I
Speaker 4: think she had just been so conditioned to only liking
Speaker 4: or thought that she could only like women. But now
Speaker 4: that she's fully embracing her new life, I think she
Speaker 4: wants to play that part even more. And maybe she's
Speaker 4: always maybe she suppressed that. Maybe she suppressed that, so
Speaker 4: I don't know. Maybe this is her new boo. He
Speaker 4: looks like a skinny version of Chris Junner's boo.
Speaker 6: He does.
Speaker 1: I've never think I forgot she has a black boyfriend too,
Speaker 1: child I cannot.
Speaker 3: Yeah, he has got a big old booty.
Speaker 1: Where is Rob because Hi, I won't Rob likes I know,
Speaker 1: but I like Rob so and I'll be much better
Speaker 1: than China because that bitch is a little rat. She's
Speaker 1: a She's a calculated rat, but she's a rat. But
Speaker 1: I can be but I'll be I'll be good. I'll
Speaker 1: be good to you. We could go hiking and shit,
Speaker 1: I think she did that. Dream and Luna sound good together.
Speaker 1: Do so love the family, Jamila Kardashian, Ooh, I kind
Speaker 1: of let here for it.
Speaker 4: Hate you?
Speaker 3: This is how your friends should treat you.
Speaker 1: Yeah, Jamella Obama, I like you. You could be his
Speaker 1: side chick. Yeah, whatever you want, I'm here for yeah.
Speaker 3: Okay, now, don't about that. I love me, Michelle, I
Speaker 3: no I do. I'm just kidding.
Speaker 1: Oma is not cheat.
Speaker 3: He's the only man in America. I'm not cheat.
Speaker 1: But if you did cheat, Obama, I wouldn't tell nobody cheated.
Speaker 1: Obama better be with a black woman, Okay, all I
Speaker 1: have to say, Okay, Erica, this is a good question.
Speaker 1: We're totally going off topic, but we're so you as
Speaker 1: a mixed woman in America, how because I know, like
Speaker 1: sometimes I feel guilty of my like racial thoughts, but
Speaker 1: I know it's conditioning, Like I don't know. I'm not
Speaker 1: an angry black woman, and I do think everyone she
Speaker 1: loved everybody, but like it does get kind of irritating,
Speaker 1: Like there's especially probably I think I'm biased because I
Speaker 1: live in LA and if no one knows, guys in
Speaker 1: LA don't like Black guys in LA do not fuck
Speaker 1: with black girls. It's just the thing I go to
Speaker 1: anywhere else in the world and I'm the bomb, but
Speaker 1: not in a lit Do you get irritated sometimes when
Speaker 1: we see like so many celebrities, so many like black
Speaker 1: men dating outside of the race and not dating black women.
Speaker 1: How are your feelings on that because you are a
Speaker 1: product of well, I guess it's not the same. Well
Speaker 1: when you are.
Speaker 4: Mom's uh Irish and Mexican, and I mean she definitely
Speaker 4: doesn't look white.
Speaker 1: Or does your mom. Has your mom experienced anything that
Speaker 1: you know of, like from a black from like the
Speaker 1: like any backlash from the black of course, yeah, yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: like or even being a Latina like oh really from
Speaker 1: having a black man. Yeah. Well, because there's like that
Speaker 1: there's like a beef between black people and Latin.
Speaker 3: Which is ridiculous cause we're the same.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I would say me personally, Do I get annoyed
Speaker 4: or do I have an opinion about it?
Speaker 1: Absolutely?
Speaker 4: Okay, because I identify as a black woman no matter
Speaker 4: how mixed I am.
Speaker 3: I'm forty nine percent African.
Speaker 1: Okay.
Speaker 3: According to ancestry dot com.
Speaker 1: Oh, he's mostly from Nigeria.
Speaker 3: Okay, check the record.
Speaker 4: It's like, yes, I do want everyone to love each other,
Speaker 4: but I'm like, there's so many beautiful single black women
Speaker 4: out there that don't have men, and.
Speaker 1: There's why not even try to just.
Speaker 4: Dip your toe in there into your own pool because
Speaker 4: some For example, the guy that I've been having fun with,
Speaker 4: he has he's African, and he has stated different types
Speaker 4: of women. He stated a black woman and you know,
Speaker 4: like a Brazilian woman. I think his last girlfriend was
Speaker 4: like Mexican and white or something. But what I found
Speaker 4: with him in particular is that he does even when
Speaker 4: we're talking about our Tinder, like he was like, what
Speaker 4: did you who's on your Tinder or whatever? And he
Speaker 4: was he's been dating like white girls, And did you
Speaker 4: ask about it about him dating white girls?
Speaker 7: Yeah?
Speaker 1: Well, like you have.
Speaker 4: First of all, African men have such a different view
Speaker 4: of blackness than African American people. We're very like hostile
Speaker 4: about it, whereas Africans aren't because they're more comfortable in
Speaker 4: their blackness because they haven't it hasn't been taken away
Speaker 4: from them. Yeah, And that's what I've really realized talking
Speaker 4: to him, because he he doesn't have the state the
Speaker 4: same strife as I do.
Speaker 1: He doesn't have the same like anger as I because
Speaker 1: there is, Yes, I had to admit that there is
Speaker 1: like a like a yeah, like there's like a little
Speaker 1: something like, yeah, I'm a little angry, I'm a little irritated.
Speaker 4: It doesn't have that yeah, And it's I don't know
Speaker 4: if it's the way he grew up.
Speaker 1: I don't know, if it's the school he's, the schools
Speaker 1: he went to. I don't know.
Speaker 4: But it's so interesting talking to him about it because
Speaker 4: he doesn't always have an opinion on the opinions that
Speaker 4: I have, and or he won't express them, or they
Speaker 4: don't get him rowled up the way I get riled
Speaker 4: up about them, And.
Speaker 1: Then I have to wonder, like, cool, am I just
Speaker 1: like angry.
Speaker 3: And he's just like secure in his blackness?
Speaker 1: I'm not right?
Speaker 4: Is that why I'm angry. But to answer your question
Speaker 4: about black men dating white women, I don't. I think
Speaker 4: they make beautiful babies. I'm a product of a mixed setup.
Speaker 4: I mean, my mom is not one hundred percent white.
Speaker 4: But I do think that people make beautiful baby I
Speaker 4: think Look, black and white people make really cute.
Speaker 1: Babies instead of black and black people and white and
Speaker 1: white people.
Speaker 4: No, black and black people do too, but they make
Speaker 4: cute babies too. Particularly. Yes, look, all your people are
Speaker 4: good on my ass about babies are either cute it
Speaker 4: now I'm just kidding.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, literally hate my biggest pet peeve on earth.
Speaker 3: Oh my god.
Speaker 1: I have friends who do it like hashtag mixed babies.
Speaker 1: I it really irritates me, and it might be the
Speaker 1: angry black woman in me, like, shut the fuck up,
Speaker 1: it's a baby, Okay, have keep and half Filipino babies.
Speaker 1: Well that's the same.
Speaker 3: The same argument can be made about black role magic.
Speaker 1: I know, I know you know what I mean.
Speaker 4: Okay, as I'm gonna argue with you on that. As
Speaker 4: a mixed woman, we don't. We are always having to
Speaker 4: choose what side to side we lie on, And it's like, why.
Speaker 1: Can't we be mixed. Well, I guess it's just like
Speaker 1: to me, I feel like, who hashtags that when everybody's mixed.
Speaker 1: We're American first of all, and if you're any black,
Speaker 1: you're mixed because of you know, slavery and rape. No,
Speaker 1: but yeah, you're right. I guess it is like having
Speaker 1: pride in whatever you is is just having pride whatever.
Speaker 1: It's true.
Speaker 3: And I think all babies are beautiful. Guys, calm down.
Speaker 1: I just I don't. I don't know. It's a tricky.
Speaker 1: It's a tricky thing, like because a part of me,
Speaker 1: I feel like this sounds so shitty, we may have
Speaker 1: to edit this up. A part of me felt like
Speaker 1: I don't really feel the way. I don't waste anything
Speaker 1: bad on anyone, like especially not Klaye Kardashian because she's
Speaker 1: my favorite. But I feel like a part of like
Speaker 1: for some black women because of how they initiated the
Speaker 1: relationship that she kind of like basically in everyone's lives,
Speaker 1: took him from her his ex woman, who was like
Speaker 1: there was this like this, this air about it like this.
Speaker 1: He you know, you get on and leave.
Speaker 3: You're asked for a white girl, Kanye.
Speaker 1: Technically she's not white either Chloe. Chloe is not white.
Speaker 1: Why because she's the Juices baby.
Speaker 4: Yeah, okay, that would be like if I took like,
Speaker 4: if I took.
Speaker 1: Chloe Baby, you're more black than Chloe because Coloe doesn't
Speaker 1: identify with being the Juices daughter.
Speaker 4: She's our meaning in America. But okay, but if she
Speaker 4: was our Armenian's not white either Omania. It's the farthest
Speaker 4: thing from white either.
Speaker 1: As a black you look at them as white because
Speaker 1: they're like racist.
Speaker 3: But but there, but they're not white though they're not.
Speaker 1: I'm gott out.
Speaker 3: I'd be like, if you're not black, you're white.
Speaker 1: Because the thing could be said for me.
Speaker 4: If I took a black, dark skinned black man from
Speaker 4: another dark skinned black girl, they'd be like, oh, you
Speaker 4: left me for that white girl.
Speaker 1: I mean.
Speaker 4: His family members think I'm white what I thought I
Speaker 4: was white? Or think I'm like Puerto Rican which is
Speaker 4: white to them.
Speaker 1: Okay, that's weird. Well, I mean I think there was
Speaker 1: like when he cheated on her, the black community, the
Speaker 1: black woman community was like ha ha, you know, like
Speaker 1: even I'm not saying it's right, I don't think it's
Speaker 1: cool either way. I don't think anyone deserves that, not
Speaker 1: as the initial baby mama, not the second baby mama.
Speaker 3: No baby mama deserves to be cheated.
Speaker 1: I'm not pregnant. It's not fun, but I just think
Speaker 1: it's it's interesting that there's just like this, just like
Speaker 1: I always think it's interesting because I do have mixed friends.
Speaker 1: I do have friends like Danielle who like have only
Speaker 1: dated black guys since she was in kindergarten. I've literally
Speaker 1: had more white.
Speaker 3: Dick than her.
Speaker 1: She's never so like I have to be I like
Speaker 1: to be rational and like thinking, am I thinking like
Speaker 1: there is this par portion to me that has this
Speaker 1: angry black woman thing because I'm thinking so many like
Speaker 1: I've been probably heard ridiculous, ignorant comments from my fellow
Speaker 1: black men, which in turn made me feel some type
Speaker 1: of way. But I have to continuously like counteract it
Speaker 1: with like my rational logical knowledge, you know.
Speaker 3: So, yeah, that's fucked up, and no.
Speaker 1: One should ge cheated on my mo they're pregnant. But
Speaker 1: I was just curious your take on it. But yeah,
Speaker 1: I guess I could go so many ways. People are
Speaker 1: can always talk. It can't go so any ways.
Speaker 4: I don't want to alienate people like white women from
Speaker 4: dating black men are feeling like that that's their fault.
Speaker 1: You love who you love and I don't. I don't
Speaker 1: blame you for liking black man girl. They fine as hell.
Speaker 1: It's hell. They chocolity, they got swag even when they
Speaker 1: don't have no job.
Speaker 4: And even the white boys that love the black girls, yes,
Speaker 4: they chocolady too.
Speaker 1: I love them too. I do love a white guy
Speaker 1: who loves a black woman because I feel like you can.
Speaker 1: They appreciate it, so then you respect that more than
Speaker 1: the other one. I told you I'm fucked up. I
Speaker 1: know I'm fucked up. Like no, I don't respect it more.
Speaker 1: I just I think I see and hear so often
Speaker 1: you don't judge it as much when you see it.
Speaker 1: My aunt for many years saw me don't wait around
Speaker 1: for Tyrone because he ain't waiting around for you. Ooh, okay,
Speaker 1: veer out. She's the most like one sided racist person
Speaker 1: I've ever man. And like, you realize none of this
Speaker 1: makes sense, like look at that, look at that he
Speaker 1: left her for that white woman.
Speaker 3: I'm like, oh my god, please be quiet. You can't
Speaker 3: say this like.
Speaker 1: Loud, but it's a thing like black women unfortunately have
Speaker 1: been set like I think black men the culture period
Speaker 1: have been so conditioned to like hate ourselves, hate everything
Speaker 1: about blackness, and admire everything about European duty that like
Speaker 1: even within the community, it's like.
Speaker 3: Ooh, she makes me cute, she got good here. Oh
Speaker 3: you know what I mean, Like there's just all this
Speaker 3: like fucked up shit.
Speaker 1: So yeah, I.
Speaker 3: Think there's a resurgence of black pride.
Speaker 4: Maybe got a resurgence and and like a introduction right right, ain't.
Speaker 3: Of blackness and black pride.
Speaker 4: So hopefully, you know, we'll see how how this how
Speaker 4: it turns in the next I'd say, like five to
Speaker 4: ten years of like you know, younger generation and like
Speaker 4: what they're attracted to embrace and embrace because yeah, I
Speaker 4: mean tradition, Okay, women, Yeah, because we've been so yeah,
Speaker 4: we have been taught to love to like European beauty
Speaker 4: and have slim noses and wavy, manageable air quotes, hair
Speaker 4: and all that, you know. And now we can have
Speaker 4: all that and have a big ass booty and a
Speaker 4: belly and be pregnant and work right.
Speaker 1: Vearing back to our original topic anyway, So if anyone
Speaker 1: has experienced any pregnancy discrimination at the club.
Speaker 3: All right, work write in and tell us about it.
Speaker 1: We'd love for you to share.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I would love to know because I didn't really
Speaker 4: have I mean, I didn't really have that experience, so
Speaker 4: I want to know. I mean I was just reading
Speaker 4: a few things online, like one lady said that she
Speaker 4: worked with a bunch of doctors and she was giving
Speaker 4: like a presentation and the guy was like, do you
Speaker 4: have a tumor?
Speaker 3: Are you pregnant?
Speaker 1: Is that a tumor?
Speaker 3: Are you pregnant? And this is like a room full
Speaker 3: of doctors.
Speaker 1: Which brings us to the conclusion that doctors are fucking dumb.
Speaker 1: Don't believe your doctor. They're dumb.
Speaker 3: Seriously, Like when I.
Speaker 1: Feel like doctors have only books intelligence, but their intelligence
Speaker 1: that put together anything like logically doesn't exist, because that's
Speaker 1: the stupid shit that is really that. When I read that,
Speaker 1: I was like, huh.
Speaker 3: You're somebody's doctor. This perfectly round tumor.
Speaker 4: And just also like you telling your employer that you're
Speaker 4: pregnant because you don't have to technically you don't have
Speaker 4: to tell them shit first of all, but like people
Speaker 4: like to waitit the first trimesters over, like after three
Speaker 4: months they tell them and having that conversation with them like, Okay,
Speaker 4: this is my information I'm sharing with you. I'm going
Speaker 4: to choose to share it with other people. It's not
Speaker 4: your business to share. And just being inappropriate and talking
Speaker 4: about referencing your child with other people when you've shared
Speaker 4: that in confidence with your employer out of respect, right,
Speaker 4: So I think it's just like.
Speaker 1: Yeah, where do you draw the line?
Speaker 4: How do you maintain the respect from your employer who
Speaker 4: maybe is the is the employer that doesn't get it?
Speaker 7: And hashtag I'm pregnant and a lot I'm pregnant line. Okay,
Speaker 7: well this concludes our story.
Speaker 1: Tomorrow we're going to Disneyland, so we need to can
Speaker 1: serve every iota have energy that we have.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I know, my god, I've never been to Disneyland
Speaker 4: with Iri. So lots of coffee, comfy shoes and blast hydration.
Speaker 4: Hydration is key, any type of hydration. Margarete a type
Speaker 4: of hydration.
Speaker 3: They're gonna think we're alcoholics.
Speaker 4: Our friends, our listeners, like all these girls Douders drink
Speaker 4: with their children.
Speaker 1: Hi, we're gonna have a lot of backup there.
Speaker 4: Look, I drink a lot of water guys, a lot
Speaker 4: some of the balance.
Speaker 3: It's all about balance.
Speaker 1: Hydrate. My grandmother taught me that you can drink as
Speaker 1: much tequila as long as you hydrate equally.
Speaker 3: Sounds like my type of woman. Oh and also happy
Speaker 3: for twenty on Friday. We're about to art this right now.
Speaker 1: Happy for twenty like.
Speaker 4: Every day ha ha, because like I had because like
Speaker 4: like that REMX.
Speaker 1: You know what that song, I was gonna go to sleep?
Speaker 1: But what what happened to that guy from Man? Yeah?
Speaker 1: I don't know, but that's song was the ship I
Speaker 1: was supposed to come over, but then I got hot.
Speaker 4: I don't think that was enough like syllables girl.
Speaker 3: Okay, guys, we gotta go.
Speaker 1: Handle some ship can't through dripping chip chip, can't through
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Speaker 2: Give me a little son to remember trying to make
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Speaker 2: None of my wrists on these holes.
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Speaker 1: I got that cushion. Yeah, that's the fact that I've
Speaker 1: never been pussing