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Speaker 1: God.

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Speaker 2: God came to chip, came to chipped, came to chip,

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Speaker 2: comes to my best day. Chipping, Ice came to Chipping,

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Speaker 2: came to tipped, came through Chipped.

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Speaker 1: Comes to my best day.

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Speaker 3: Tripping Hello.

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Speaker 1: Hello's early. This is the earliest we've ever recorded, and

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Speaker 1: we were still late. I was late.

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Speaker 4: Welcome to parential Advisory. Good mom's bad choices. I'm Erica

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Speaker 4: and I'm Mila. And that was Cardi B. Drip Drip

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Speaker 4: all the time is my risk kick dripping ice.

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Speaker 3: I'm pretty sure that was wrong.

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Speaker 1: But I came to trip. I love that song. I

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Speaker 1: love her. Listen to her album, yeah a little bit,

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Speaker 1: I'm always like delayed on the album listening.

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Speaker 4: I mean, the only reason I'm not the only reason

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Speaker 4: I actually really love Cardi B.

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Speaker 1: But it's good workout music and I'm on the treadmill.

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Speaker 1: I'm like, Okay, I'm gonna keep that in mind because

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Speaker 1: I need to work out this week.

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Speaker 3: Bet she bet you gotta hear that song. That's good.

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Speaker 1: I think I heard that one too. Cartie's bad and

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Speaker 1: apparently everybody knows that, including me. Nikki.

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Speaker 4: I know, wait, did you see the interview with Nikki

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Speaker 4: like crying about I heard about it.

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Speaker 3: Can you please?

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Speaker 1: I can? I keep?

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Speaker 3: I've been meaning to google it, but I forgot was

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Speaker 3: what is happening?

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Speaker 4: She's literally so she's like talking about how she's hurt.

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Speaker 4: Because I was kind of a little bit confused. But

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Speaker 4: I guess that song that she did.

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Speaker 1: With Offset in the Motorsports song, Yeah, that I guess.

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Speaker 4: Nicki was saying, like, do you know how many girls

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Speaker 4: would be so honored to be in a song with

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Speaker 4: Nicki Minaj?

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Speaker 3: Not to sound conceited, you sound conceited, but she said

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Speaker 3: in the interview before she started crying.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it said that.

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Speaker 4: I mean it's true though a lot of rap bitches

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Speaker 4: would want to be on a song with Nicki Minach.

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Speaker 3: Can't front on that, just like I would like to

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Speaker 3: be in a song with Little Kim.

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Speaker 1: She don't well, can't want to be longn't.

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Speaker 3: But that's what I'm saying, like you got to pay

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Speaker 3: you know whatever.

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Speaker 4: I get it, I get it. It's just so competitive,

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Speaker 4: Like it's so crazy. I know one like female rappers

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Speaker 4: cannot just all get along. I can't believe there's not

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Speaker 4: enough room for like the thory what happened to Ladies' Night?

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Speaker 3: It was late, it was like right.

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Speaker 1: Girls, rappy, right, there was a whole like Foxy Brown,

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Speaker 1: well camp, there was a whole like posse, why doesn't

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Speaker 1: we you have to can only be one? I don't know,

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Speaker 1: it's so annoying.

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Speaker 4: But anyway, she was saying how when she did that song,

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Speaker 4: like I can't remember, like something about like she changed

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Speaker 4: the verse and then like it was it was she

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Speaker 4: was made out to be, to be seen as like

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Speaker 4: the bad person, and like Migos like Hancho is that

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Speaker 3: Hancho?

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Speaker 4: And Migos said something like to the effect that like

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Speaker 4: Nikki wasn't like playing fair and they couldn't get on

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Speaker 4: set together. And then Carti, like the first time Carti

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Speaker 4: And she was really hurt by that because she felt

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Speaker 4: like she showed her love by like laing on the.

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Speaker 1: Track, letting her be on the track, and she.

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Speaker 4: Literally was like I was, I was really hurt, and

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Speaker 4: an actor, she's an actress.

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Speaker 1: But furthermore, I think that pride, and this is a

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Speaker 1: big thing, I think you are, like you gotta push

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Speaker 1: that pride aside, but because one day you're in and

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Speaker 1: the next second you're out. And she thought, she was like,

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Speaker 1: you know, that seat couldn't be you know, compromised, and

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Speaker 1: and allowing this. And Benina came and took that crownd

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Speaker 1: real quick because she just broke all these like crazy.

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Speaker 3: Ass broke a lot of records, a lot of never

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Speaker 4: Well, now Nicky's posting all all of her like like oh,

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Speaker 4: like all the all her successes with these last two

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Speaker 4: called Chunley and then like barb Tine well and then

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Speaker 4: she ever she's like like number one in like Anguilla,

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Speaker 4: number two in Iceland, like number one added like song

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Speaker 4: on like the Trap playlist.

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Speaker 3: So like she keeps like she keeps like putting them out, so.

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Speaker 1: You know, like I have so winning. Yeah, I'm still winning.

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Speaker 1: And it's like, first of all, don't be petty. Well,

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Speaker 1: what's the thing.

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Speaker 4: I love Nicki Minaj. She is the queen of rap

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Speaker 4: right now. Cardi doesn't want to be the queen of rap.

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Speaker 4: I don't think she wants to be the queen of

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Speaker 4: I did even heard her on interviews like, I don't

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Speaker 4: want I just want to make money. I want to

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Speaker 4: have a good time. I don't need to be the

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Speaker 4: queen of rap. I think Cardi knows.

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Speaker 1: That she lyrically is not She's getting someone's writing this

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Speaker 1: for her. Lyrically. Cardi is not Nicki Minaj.

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Speaker 3: She knows how to rap. She's a lyricist. Yes right,

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Speaker 3: Nikki doesn't write all Cardi came up.

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Speaker 1: Carti doesn't want your spot boom.

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Speaker 4: She just wants to make money, be fly and do

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Speaker 4: her and get her long ass be jeweled acrylics.

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Speaker 1: Keep sucking uh off. But have some little offset, bababy,

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Speaker 1: and she's good. It's always a competition. I'm like, weir,

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Speaker 1: nobody wants you, nobody.

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Speaker 3: Wants your crown. Your crown is glued to your head.

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Speaker 1: Don't worry, Bobo. Yeah it's And then like why did

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Speaker 1: her album come out so close to Cardi's.

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Speaker 3: Wasn't like two days later.

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Speaker 1: It was an album, but it was those too single

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Speaker 1: girl ain't heard from you? And now to because party

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Speaker 1: came out with the album, came out with the baby.

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Speaker 1: She's like, wait, what about putting out.

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Speaker 3: She's like, what you gotta do a photo shoot today?

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Speaker 1: Right now? Get to make up artists and the wathologist.

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Speaker 4: Well Tokyo styles where you at? But yeah, anyway, I

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Speaker 4: love I love both of them.

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Speaker 1: So yeah, I love Cardi though I love parties. I

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Speaker 1: love her because she's just who she is. Yeah, she's

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Speaker 1: like the underdog and that like transparency, just and like

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Speaker 1: she doesn't try to be anything she's not. She's not

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Speaker 1: like brilliant, you know, she doesn't try to say smart ship.

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Speaker 1: So it's like and it's just it smarks. It works

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Speaker 1: for her. Oh that's a pretty dress. I love your dress.

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Speaker 1: Oh you both beautiful?

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Speaker 3: Yes?

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Speaker 5: Wow yeah she uh yes baby nice.

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Speaker 1: By eyes play. What was I saying? Oh yeah, card

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Speaker 1: she even I was I was reading this interview.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I was reading the interview and she was saying

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Speaker 4: how she knows that she didn't speak well because she

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Speaker 4: grew up in a house with her I think her

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Speaker 4: like Dominican, and so her like her, they both talked

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Speaker 4: so broken, broken that her English is so broken and

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Speaker 4: my stuff. So sometimes she has to ask people like

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Speaker 4: does this make sense? Like before she like writes something

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Speaker 4: but the which which when you hear her talk you

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Speaker 1: Huh, yeah, but that makes sense, like when you have

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Speaker 1: I have friends who I say stuff that because their

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Speaker 1: parents said, because they said, and I didn't even grow

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Speaker 1: up in the household. Like I say, like close the

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Speaker 1: light till this day because Danielle's foreign asked close the light,

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Speaker 1: close the lights, open the light, And people like, are

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Speaker 6: I would be like, huh, you know exactly what I'm

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Speaker 6: talking about, but like the du that makes sense, yeah,

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Speaker 6: and she don't, And then she could say it like

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Speaker 6: I'm you know, fucking grammatically always correct.

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Speaker 4: As you know, listening to our podcast, oh by the way,

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Speaker 4: our episodes, which I did the other night, I would

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Speaker 4: apologize now for saying like so much.

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Speaker 1: I say like.

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Speaker 3: So much, but like we're from a valet, so you know, no.

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Speaker 4: I'm gonna work on it. This is gonna be my

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Speaker 3: I can't even stop.

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Speaker 1: Someone help me. You don't notice?

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Speaker 3: So is it a valley thing?

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Speaker 1: Because sometimes I'm talking to Luna and she's like she's

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Speaker 4: It's a filler word for I don't know. Yeah, I

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Speaker 4: I'm sure what I'm going to say next, So it's

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Speaker 1: It's like a filler word. I'm like taking my time

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Speaker 3: I'm annoying myself already.

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Speaker 1: How is your weekend? My weekend was good.

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Speaker 4: I don't remember what I did Friday because I'm a

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Speaker 3: Saturday, I went to the beach, had a little day

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Speaker 1: Get a crush. Maybe I don't know. My heart is

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Speaker 1: still ice.

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Speaker 4: Cold, but maybe maybe it smelt maybe yeah, maybe there's

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Speaker 4: like some like drips falling down.

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Speaker 1: I get this ice. But that's when my heart used

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Speaker 4: So we did that, and then I came back and

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Speaker 4: went to sleep with Irie. And then Sunday, I don't

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Speaker 4: and that was about it.

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Speaker 1: Sounds fun.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, what about you at a low key Sunday. We

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Speaker 3: don't have any like crazy stripper stories this week.

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Speaker 1: No, I'm crazy stripper stories this week I did. I mean,

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Speaker 1: I did a couple of things. We're so close in

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Speaker 1: this episode. I'd like to talk about my extravadances, like

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Speaker 1: when they're like, oh, that was like a while ago,

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Speaker 3: Right along here, along, moving along.

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Speaker 4: I guess in today's episode, I wanted to talk about

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Speaker 4: pregnancy while working. And I think I was inspired by

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Speaker 4: this because last weekend was Coachella and my favorite Cardi

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Speaker 1: She just drop two twins.

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Speaker 3: Carti is currently like twelve months pregnant.

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Speaker 4: Carty was like, oh, Beyonce, you're pregnant. I mean, Beyonce,

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Speaker 4: watching Carti on stage just having so much fun being

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Speaker 4: Yeah, they were like, nobody wants to see it, sorry, hardy,

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Speaker 4: And it's just like like you were saying before when

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Speaker 1: I got she got pregnant? That was twark Moo's bitch,

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Speaker 4: No, there's just so much more, And I totally agree

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Speaker 4: Nobody saying nobody wants to see that, like your husband

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Speaker 1: I mean, obviously women have been like discriminated against with

440
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Speaker 1: pay and everything else, but specifically with like being pregnant

441
00:20:24,880 --> 00:20:28,520
Speaker 1: in the workplace. It wasn't even like a law until

442
00:20:29,160 --> 00:20:31,560
Speaker 1: nineteen seventy eight, which is only like ten years before

443
00:20:31,720 --> 00:20:34,000
Speaker 1: we were born. So basically, like that.

444
00:20:34,040 --> 00:20:36,640
Speaker 4: You can't fire a woman based on whether she's pregnant

445
00:20:36,680 --> 00:20:37,800
Speaker 4: or plans to get pregnant.

446
00:20:37,840 --> 00:20:40,520
Speaker 1: So prior to nineteen seventy eight, there was no laws

447
00:20:39,920 --> 00:20:44,600
Speaker 1: in force or that existed that protected women from being

448
00:20:44,680 --> 00:20:47,360
Speaker 1: pregnant and being fired in the workplace. Now, it's one

449
00:20:47,359 --> 00:20:49,480
Speaker 1: thing to be pregnant and stressed out as is and

450
00:20:50,000 --> 00:20:52,360
Speaker 1: happing this foreign thing happened to your body, but then

451
00:20:52,680 --> 00:20:56,560
Speaker 1: think about getting fired and worrying about, oh shit, my baby.

452
00:20:57,119 --> 00:21:00,720
Speaker 1: And like even for me, like I I worked the

453
00:21:00,800 --> 00:21:03,440
Speaker 1: day I gave birth because I was fine, Like I

454
00:21:03,440 --> 00:21:05,119
Speaker 1: didn't want to sit up in the house and like

455
00:21:05,240 --> 00:21:08,840
Speaker 1: have idle time. But people literally even before I was

456
00:21:08,840 --> 00:21:12,280
Speaker 1: training with someone and training like I wasn't even like

457
00:21:13,359 --> 00:21:15,679
Speaker 1: going to really be working for that person. And I

458
00:21:15,720 --> 00:21:18,640
Speaker 1: was like, I'm pregnant, and this is a girl she

459
00:21:18,680 --> 00:21:21,040
Speaker 1: was training you. She was training me to do lashes,

460
00:21:21,680 --> 00:21:23,520
Speaker 1: and she and I was the plan was that she

461
00:21:23,560 --> 00:21:25,280
Speaker 1: was gonna train me and then I would work with her.

462
00:21:25,520 --> 00:21:27,640
Speaker 1: And when I got pregnant. This is keep in mind,

463
00:21:27,680 --> 00:21:30,240
Speaker 1: this is a young female. She was like, oh, well,

464
00:21:31,160 --> 00:21:33,400
Speaker 1: how long do you think you're gonna need off? And

465
00:21:33,440 --> 00:21:35,760
Speaker 1: I was like, I don't know. I never had a

466
00:21:35,800 --> 00:21:38,119
Speaker 1: baby before, Like, bitch, I don't know look it up

467
00:21:38,160 --> 00:21:41,080
Speaker 1: oul it. I don't know, but what the point is.

468
00:21:41,119 --> 00:21:44,080
Speaker 1: It's like I immediately I felt like, oh my god,

469
00:21:44,080 --> 00:21:46,800
Speaker 1: I've done something wrong. You know, You're like, oh god,

470
00:21:47,000 --> 00:21:49,879
Speaker 1: I'm ruining my life. I can't like not even have

471
00:21:49,920 --> 00:21:53,480
Speaker 1: a job. And there's just so much. There's so many

472
00:21:53,520 --> 00:21:56,200
Speaker 1: fucked up things that like even articles I've just read,

473
00:21:56,359 --> 00:21:59,600
Speaker 1: just like an employer telling someone to have pressuring her

474
00:21:59,600 --> 00:22:02,679
Speaker 1: to have an telling her like she's fat and ugly,

475
00:22:02,840 --> 00:22:06,240
Speaker 1: like it's or just dissolving their position while they're on

476
00:22:06,280 --> 00:22:08,959
Speaker 1: maternity leave because it doesn't exist anymore, and then like

477
00:22:08,960 --> 00:22:11,800
Speaker 1: adding two things and rehiring somebody else under their position

478
00:22:11,840 --> 00:22:14,160
Speaker 1: and getting away with it. So there's like a lot

479
00:22:14,160 --> 00:22:17,640
Speaker 1: of discrimination, not only just socially but in the workplace,

480
00:22:17,640 --> 00:22:20,639
Speaker 1: which is a huge deal. Oh and this is another

481
00:22:20,920 --> 00:22:27,160
Speaker 1: uh interesting statistic. Women report pregnancy discrimination across races and ethnicities,

482
00:22:27,400 --> 00:22:31,840
Speaker 1: just black women are disproportionately affected. Nearly three in ten

483
00:22:31,960 --> 00:22:35,360
Speaker 1: charges of pregnancy discrimination, twenty eight point six percent were

484
00:22:35,440 --> 00:22:38,760
Speaker 1: filed by Black women. Yet black women can compromise only

485
00:22:38,760 --> 00:22:41,119
Speaker 1: fourteen percent of women in the workforce ages sixteen to

486
00:22:41,160 --> 00:22:43,919
Speaker 1: fifty four. Black women are also at a higher risk

487
00:22:43,960 --> 00:22:48,840
Speaker 1: for pregnancy related complications like preterm labor, proclamsia, and hypertensive disorders,

488
00:22:48,960 --> 00:22:51,320
Speaker 1: which can make a loss of wages and health insurance

489
00:22:52,200 --> 00:22:56,240
Speaker 1: due to pregnancy discrimination especially challenging. So for women of color,

490
00:22:56,480 --> 00:22:58,280
Speaker 1: we're experiencing it even more.

491
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Speaker 4: I mean, I'm not surprised because it's there's already so

492
00:23:04,800 --> 00:23:07,200
Speaker 4: much discrimination in the workforce. There's so many there's so

493
00:23:07,240 --> 00:23:10,040
Speaker 4: much discrimination and just you know, people assuming, oh, well,

494
00:23:10,560 --> 00:23:13,120
Speaker 4: you got you have another baby, daddy, you're pregnant again.

495
00:23:13,200 --> 00:23:16,560
Speaker 4: It's just like, I don't know, it's just I mean,

496
00:23:16,600 --> 00:23:21,879
Speaker 4: it's unfortunate, and they probably look at them like, I

497
00:23:21,920 --> 00:23:26,200
Speaker 4: don't know, like a more of a liability, especially if

498
00:23:26,200 --> 00:23:28,160
Speaker 4: we if statistically.

499
00:23:27,520 --> 00:23:34,680
Speaker 1: We experience more you know, complications with pregnancy. But it

500
00:23:34,680 --> 00:23:36,080
Speaker 1: shouldn't be considered liability.

501
00:23:36,119 --> 00:23:37,400
Speaker 3: It's a natural course, it's.

502
00:23:37,320 --> 00:23:38,639
Speaker 1: Not it should be.

503
00:23:40,200 --> 00:23:43,080
Speaker 4: I mean, my I didn't have that experience, fortunately for me.

504
00:23:43,160 --> 00:23:45,840
Speaker 4: When I was pregnant, I was well. When I first

505
00:23:45,840 --> 00:23:47,400
Speaker 4: found out I was pregnant, I was living in New York.

506
00:23:47,440 --> 00:23:49,919
Speaker 4: I was like working as a server, and then I

507
00:23:49,960 --> 00:23:52,840
Speaker 4: came back to LA because I was pregnant. Yeah, my

508
00:23:52,880 --> 00:23:54,960
Speaker 4: baby daddy was not living in New York, so I

509
00:23:55,119 --> 00:23:58,960
Speaker 4: moved back to LA and he didn't want me to work,

510
00:23:59,240 --> 00:24:02,160
Speaker 4: and so I was like, what, Okay, I ain't gonna

511
00:24:02,160 --> 00:24:05,160
Speaker 4: work in But that was the worst decision I ever made.

512
00:24:05,200 --> 00:24:08,280
Speaker 4: I was so depressed not working. Actually, I was bored.

513
00:24:08,359 --> 00:24:10,920
Speaker 4: I had nothing to do except sit around and eat.

514
00:24:11,280 --> 00:24:15,160
Speaker 4: And I wish that I would have worked and kept

515
00:24:15,200 --> 00:24:17,960
Speaker 4: myself busy. I would have probably had a different experience

516
00:24:18,000 --> 00:24:22,040
Speaker 4: being pregnant. But but that idea too, that like you're

517
00:24:22,040 --> 00:24:24,720
Speaker 4: supposed I'm not supposed to work, that he didn't want

518
00:24:24,720 --> 00:24:25,320
Speaker 4: me to work.

519
00:24:25,400 --> 00:24:26,639
Speaker 1: I mean, I'm sure it was.

520
00:24:27,040 --> 00:24:29,280
Speaker 4: It was a sweet gesture, of course, and it was not,

521
00:24:29,440 --> 00:24:31,960
Speaker 4: of course, not done in malice, and I totally agreed,

522
00:24:32,040 --> 00:24:35,440
Speaker 4: agreed to it. But now looking back, it's like he

523
00:24:35,520 --> 00:24:38,000
Speaker 4: prided himself on that. He prided himself on the fact

524
00:24:38,000 --> 00:24:39,600
Speaker 4: that he could take care of me and I didn't

525
00:24:39,600 --> 00:24:41,680
Speaker 4: have to work, because that's what a man is supposed

526
00:24:41,720 --> 00:24:43,600
Speaker 4: to do apparently, right wait.

527
00:24:43,400 --> 00:24:46,680
Speaker 1: Right, And it's just like, no, I'll do whatever the

528
00:24:46,720 --> 00:24:47,960
Speaker 1: fuck I want. How about that.

529
00:24:47,920 --> 00:24:50,680
Speaker 4: Next time, if and when I ever have a child again,

530
00:24:51,320 --> 00:24:53,280
Speaker 4: I'm working. I mean I have to work. I work

531
00:24:53,320 --> 00:24:57,680
Speaker 4: for I've worked for a brand that it doesn't stop.

532
00:24:57,840 --> 00:24:59,919
Speaker 3: Yeah, I can't stop my position because of.

533
00:25:00,280 --> 00:25:02,560
Speaker 1: Luckily it's your face, and I'm just saying I do

534
00:25:02,640 --> 00:25:04,080
Speaker 1: other things besides my face.

535
00:25:07,000 --> 00:25:12,320
Speaker 4: But yeah, I just think women, and I think also

536
00:25:12,440 --> 00:25:17,000
Speaker 4: men feel uncomfortable men and women feel uncomfortable seeing a

537
00:25:17,040 --> 00:25:19,480
Speaker 4: pregnant body in their work space.

538
00:25:19,840 --> 00:25:23,040
Speaker 1: But why I don't it's what it is about.

539
00:25:23,440 --> 00:25:27,520
Speaker 4: It's a reminder of that they fucked to get to

540
00:25:27,600 --> 00:25:28,280
Speaker 4: get pregnant.

541
00:25:28,320 --> 00:25:30,880
Speaker 1: Is it just a constant reminder of like, oh, oh,

542
00:25:30,920 --> 00:25:32,359
Speaker 1: like you have sex? I don't know.

543
00:25:32,960 --> 00:25:36,720
Speaker 4: I think it makes them constantly reminded that they literally

544
00:25:36,800 --> 00:25:41,240
Speaker 4: are a sexual being, right, and they sexualize them constantly

545
00:25:41,280 --> 00:25:47,600
Speaker 4: because they have this constant reminder of what conceived from sex. Right,

546
00:25:48,640 --> 00:25:51,280
Speaker 4: That's only what that's like the only way I can

547
00:25:51,359 --> 00:25:52,360
Speaker 4: rationalize it in my head.

548
00:25:52,400 --> 00:25:54,520
Speaker 1: I don't really understand it makes them. It just makes it.

549
00:25:55,040 --> 00:25:57,480
Speaker 1: But like the parts of sex they don't want to

550
00:25:57,480 --> 00:26:01,080
Speaker 1: be reminded about, like like what happened if you don't

551
00:26:01,119 --> 00:26:04,560
Speaker 1: pull up? Because guys, because sexual harassment in the workplace

552
00:26:04,640 --> 00:26:06,359
Speaker 1: is also a huge thing, you know what I mean, Like,

553
00:26:06,440 --> 00:26:10,600
Speaker 1: so we're already being objectified sexually, but like when it

554
00:26:10,600 --> 00:26:13,280
Speaker 1: comes to pregnancy, there is this crazy taboo which is

555
00:26:13,280 --> 00:26:14,919
Speaker 1: so weird, or is.

556
00:26:14,920 --> 00:26:18,560
Speaker 4: It looked upon as like like a period, like you know,

557
00:26:19,119 --> 00:26:22,280
Speaker 4: like gross not gross, Okay, Mary, gross isn't the right word.

558
00:26:22,280 --> 00:26:26,200
Speaker 4: I need to find another word. But just too I

559
00:26:26,200 --> 00:26:28,480
Speaker 4: don't know, an elephant in the room too real, I

560
00:26:28,480 --> 00:26:31,359
Speaker 4: don't know. Like imagine, if like a man saw a

561
00:26:31,400 --> 00:26:33,880
Speaker 4: woman with a period stand on the back of her pants,

562
00:26:33,880 --> 00:26:36,360
Speaker 4: he would be disgusted and he would yeah, he would

563
00:26:36,440 --> 00:26:38,240
Speaker 4: judge her. I almost feel like that's how they look

564
00:26:38,240 --> 00:26:40,399
Speaker 4: at a pregnant woman walking through the office.

565
00:26:40,960 --> 00:26:43,200
Speaker 1: Well, I think they look at them as weak. Yeah, week,

566
00:26:43,600 --> 00:26:44,960
Speaker 1: they're not gonna be able. Look at They're gonna be

567
00:26:45,000 --> 00:26:48,680
Speaker 1: complaining a lot because they're they're circumstance and they're gonna

568
00:26:48,680 --> 00:26:49,560
Speaker 1: make excuses a lot.

569
00:26:49,600 --> 00:26:52,919
Speaker 4: And there are more emotional yeah and yeah, you know what,

570
00:26:53,000 --> 00:26:56,000
Speaker 4: I was more emotional, and you know what, women are

571
00:26:56,040 --> 00:26:58,280
Speaker 4: probably more emotional, but that doesn't have to interfere with

572
00:26:58,320 --> 00:26:58,840
Speaker 4: their job.

573
00:27:00,000 --> 00:27:02,080
Speaker 1: I'm not necessarily because people do. I think I had

574
00:27:02,119 --> 00:27:04,520
Speaker 1: one nervous breakdown network while I was pregnant, and I

575
00:27:04,640 --> 00:27:05,879
Speaker 1: was like, don't talk to me.

576
00:27:06,800 --> 00:27:07,639
Speaker 3: I just start crying.

577
00:27:07,920 --> 00:27:10,439
Speaker 1: I will not do your lashes. My boss is like,

578
00:27:10,720 --> 00:27:12,000
Speaker 1: are you Okay, I.

579
00:27:12,040 --> 00:27:12,880
Speaker 3: Just feel really weird.

580
00:27:12,920 --> 00:27:17,360
Speaker 1: I'm fad. I can't move fast. She's like, just go home.

581
00:27:17,440 --> 00:27:21,480
Speaker 1: I was like, okay, I'm leaving. Please stop talking to me.

582
00:27:21,560 --> 00:27:24,520
Speaker 1: I can't move that fast and it's hot and I'm

583
00:27:24,520 --> 00:27:26,760
Speaker 1: crying now.

584
00:27:26,880 --> 00:27:29,160
Speaker 4: Well, it's just also like when we're talking about going,

585
00:27:29,359 --> 00:27:35,439
Speaker 4: like going to places that aren't that society deems unfit

586
00:27:35,480 --> 00:27:37,800
Speaker 4: for pregnant women, like the club, like the club or

587
00:27:37,840 --> 00:27:43,520
Speaker 4: a bar or any place where they're people are engaging

588
00:27:43,600 --> 00:27:45,480
Speaker 4: in My homegirl, we should post this.

589
00:27:45,520 --> 00:27:49,320
Speaker 1: Actually, my homegirl. Shout out to Paola. She went to

590
00:27:49,359 --> 00:27:53,720
Speaker 1: Coachella pregnant this weekend, and I was like, yes, Paula, yes,

591
00:27:54,080 --> 00:27:55,040
Speaker 1: mom Cella.

592
00:27:55,320 --> 00:27:57,760
Speaker 3: Because yeah, like you can do stuff.

593
00:27:57,920 --> 00:27:59,679
Speaker 1: Yeah, you can still go have a good time. I

594
00:27:59,680 --> 00:28:01,600
Speaker 1: can go to music right like.

595
00:28:01,760 --> 00:28:02,800
Speaker 3: I am not gonna faint.

596
00:28:02,880 --> 00:28:05,119
Speaker 1: I can I can handle it. Yes, women could do so.

597
00:28:05,160 --> 00:28:07,479
Speaker 1: We can get jacoozie, we can drink wine. There's all

598
00:28:07,520 --> 00:28:09,040
Speaker 1: these things that we could do a while pregnant. I

599
00:28:09,040 --> 00:28:11,240
Speaker 1: just want to put a PSA out there. I think

600
00:28:11,240 --> 00:28:12,480
Speaker 1: I went to the club when I was like six

601
00:28:12,520 --> 00:28:18,160
Speaker 1: months six months pregnant, and I felt really weird and

602
00:28:18,160 --> 00:28:22,239
Speaker 1: and my baby's daddy talked so much shit to me, Like,

603
00:28:22,359 --> 00:28:24,800
Speaker 1: what kind of woman are you? You're trying to go

604
00:28:24,840 --> 00:28:27,199
Speaker 1: to the like you're thirsty, you want to be at

605
00:28:27,240 --> 00:28:30,280
Speaker 1: the club, and you're pregnant. I'm like, I'm gonna be

606
00:28:30,320 --> 00:28:33,359
Speaker 1: pregnant for nine months. Do you think I'm gonna be

607
00:28:33,440 --> 00:28:33,960
Speaker 1: up in this house?

608
00:28:33,960 --> 00:28:35,720
Speaker 3: But you're asked straight for nine months.

609
00:28:35,600 --> 00:28:38,040
Speaker 1: Not doing shit? Why can't I go hang out with

610
00:28:38,080 --> 00:28:40,840
Speaker 1: my friends? Yeah, I'm gonna be out here, like.

611
00:28:40,880 --> 00:28:42,280
Speaker 3: Well, who cares if I'm twarky?

612
00:28:42,640 --> 00:28:42,840
Speaker 4: Right?

613
00:28:43,040 --> 00:28:45,200
Speaker 1: I might be twirky? How do you I talked to

614
00:28:45,240 --> 00:28:48,480
Speaker 1: get the baby right, shit, it's talking on that dick

615
00:28:48,480 --> 00:28:53,960
Speaker 1: and you weren't complaining that was I got hit on

616
00:28:54,000 --> 00:28:56,440
Speaker 1: so much that night and I wasn't showing that much.

617
00:28:56,480 --> 00:28:59,160
Speaker 1: But you have no idea how lovely it felt. I

618
00:28:59,200 --> 00:29:00,000
Speaker 1: don't know why to be.

619
00:28:59,920 --> 00:29:02,800
Speaker 3: Like, actually, I'm with a child.

620
00:29:03,320 --> 00:29:04,160
Speaker 1: I'm like a child.

621
00:29:04,360 --> 00:29:06,840
Speaker 3: You know, I've never seen a nigga moon walk.

622
00:29:06,880 --> 00:29:11,640
Speaker 1: So fast away from me, Like, okay, nice to be. Oh,

623
00:29:11,720 --> 00:29:13,000
Speaker 1: let's cute.

624
00:29:13,520 --> 00:29:18,880
Speaker 4: I remember I remember my baby dad day took me

625
00:29:19,000 --> 00:29:21,040
Speaker 4: to a day party. So there was no like, at

626
00:29:21,120 --> 00:29:23,240
Speaker 4: least at the clubs a little dark, you could like, right,

627
00:29:23,520 --> 00:29:26,560
Speaker 4: like we're blob y hid. I was at like a

628
00:29:26,680 --> 00:29:30,320
Speaker 4: day party in West Hollywood, bright lights. I must have

629
00:29:30,400 --> 00:29:32,760
Speaker 4: been eight months pregnant, and at that point I was

630
00:29:32,800 --> 00:29:36,560
Speaker 4: as large as a house. And but I was also

631
00:29:36,640 --> 00:29:38,800
Speaker 4: like I was in that space where I was, I was,

632
00:29:38,960 --> 00:29:41,800
Speaker 4: I just needed to get out. I was, and he

633
00:29:41,920 --> 00:29:43,720
Speaker 4: was like, Okay, let's go. Let's go to this day party.

634
00:29:43,800 --> 00:29:45,840
Speaker 4: We're gonna We're gonna have fun, you know. And I

635
00:29:45,880 --> 00:29:47,680
Speaker 4: was like all right, So we went. I was like

636
00:29:47,960 --> 00:29:51,840
Speaker 4: he's like moving the crowd. He's like pushing through, like

637
00:29:51,840 --> 00:29:54,520
Speaker 4: like I'm like the Red Sea and I'm coming party

638
00:29:54,560 --> 00:29:58,040
Speaker 4: with it, my big belly, all these like all these holes.

639
00:29:58,040 --> 00:30:00,800
Speaker 1: They're looking at me like the fuck is this don't here?

640
00:30:01,160 --> 00:30:02,360
Speaker 1: But I'm like I am.

641
00:30:02,120 --> 00:30:04,400
Speaker 3: Here about my way.

642
00:30:10,880 --> 00:30:14,800
Speaker 4: But I felt so judged and I felt really uncomfort right, Yeah,

643
00:30:14,800 --> 00:30:16,920
Speaker 4: I felt so uncomfortable. I just wanted to have fun

644
00:30:16,960 --> 00:30:19,840
Speaker 4: and I just wanted to like dance and chill and

645
00:30:19,880 --> 00:30:21,840
Speaker 4: here I go with the legs again. I just wanted

646
00:30:21,840 --> 00:30:24,680
Speaker 4: to chill and dance and just spend time with him,

647
00:30:24,960 --> 00:30:26,360
Speaker 4: and I just didn't.

648
00:30:26,440 --> 00:30:29,040
Speaker 1: I just remember feeling a shame. I don't want to

649
00:30:29,040 --> 00:30:29,600
Speaker 1: do this again.

650
00:30:30,520 --> 00:30:30,840
Speaker 3: I did it.

651
00:30:31,240 --> 00:30:32,800
Speaker 1: I think I did it. One other time before that.

652
00:30:32,840 --> 00:30:34,240
Speaker 1: It was dark, so no one really knew.

653
00:30:34,920 --> 00:30:37,600
Speaker 4: So I felt like I could maneuver like a normal person,

654
00:30:37,880 --> 00:30:39,080
Speaker 4: even though I wasn't a normal person.

655
00:30:39,120 --> 00:30:42,320
Speaker 1: I just happened to be with child and right. No, honestly,

656
00:30:42,360 --> 00:30:46,480
Speaker 1: that day party shit because it's not nighttime. I specifically

657
00:30:46,480 --> 00:30:48,280
Speaker 1: remember going to the Ace Hotel and it was like

658
00:30:48,280 --> 00:30:50,400
Speaker 1: a Sunday, so a lot of people were there. Oh

659
00:30:50,480 --> 00:30:53,080
Speaker 1: my god, and I and I don't get embarrassed easy,

660
00:30:53,160 --> 00:30:54,640
Speaker 1: like I am like a I don't give a fun

661
00:30:54,720 --> 00:30:58,320
Speaker 1: type of bitch. I felt like every I've never felt

662
00:30:58,320 --> 00:31:00,160
Speaker 1: so weird in my life. I know, I felt I'm

663
00:31:00,200 --> 00:31:02,360
Speaker 1: so insecure. Like I was just like, people are looking

664
00:31:02,360 --> 00:31:02,600
Speaker 1: at me.

665
00:31:02,680 --> 00:31:03,360
Speaker 3: I'm pregnant.

666
00:31:04,400 --> 00:31:05,920
Speaker 1: Everyone's looking at me. I'm not supposed to be here.

667
00:31:05,960 --> 00:31:09,760
Speaker 1: I'm not supposed to be breathing outdoors. I'm very pregnant.

668
00:31:09,760 --> 00:31:11,720
Speaker 1: And like I felt so wead. I kept time to me,

669
00:31:11,720 --> 00:31:13,600
Speaker 1: I'm like, are people looking at me? She's like, who

670
00:31:13,640 --> 00:31:17,120
Speaker 1: caress like ChIL, you look good? Able to look at

671
00:31:17,160 --> 00:31:17,600
Speaker 1: that belly.

672
00:31:19,280 --> 00:31:21,840
Speaker 3: She's taking shots off your belly. We went to Vegas

673
00:31:21,840 --> 00:31:22,800
Speaker 3: one time too, pregnant.

674
00:31:22,840 --> 00:31:25,480
Speaker 1: Fre'st what you couldn't tell you this bitch insisted on

675
00:31:25,520 --> 00:31:28,840
Speaker 1: playing blackjack and being in the casino all night, but

676
00:31:28,920 --> 00:31:31,760
Speaker 1: also insisted on telling everyone who came in the distance

677
00:31:31,800 --> 00:31:34,080
Speaker 1: of me, do you mind smoking that way? She's pregnant.

678
00:31:34,760 --> 00:31:38,040
Speaker 1: Excuse me, she's pregnant. I'm like, Danielle, I'm at the casino,

679
00:31:38,440 --> 00:31:41,360
Speaker 1: at the fucking blackjack table. You can't tell everybody that

680
00:31:41,440 --> 00:31:45,960
Speaker 1: I'm pregnant. They don't give a shit. She's pregnant, right right.

681
00:31:46,560 --> 00:31:50,040
Speaker 4: Yeah. It's so crazy how people treat pregnant women, not

682
00:31:50,480 --> 00:31:53,120
Speaker 4: like in the workplace and everyday life, like we're only

683
00:31:53,680 --> 00:31:56,160
Speaker 4: we can only be in certain areas at certain times

684
00:31:56,160 --> 00:31:57,200
Speaker 4: at certain hours.

685
00:31:57,400 --> 00:32:01,160
Speaker 1: Why are you out this late? Why are you smoking weed?

686
00:32:01,320 --> 00:32:04,120
Speaker 4: Like my baby's awake. Why are you out at one

687
00:32:04,160 --> 00:32:05,160
Speaker 4: am and you're pregnant?

688
00:32:05,160 --> 00:32:07,840
Speaker 1: Because it's not here yet, so I'm milking it, bitch,

689
00:32:08,000 --> 00:32:09,440
Speaker 1: that's fine.

690
00:32:10,400 --> 00:32:12,040
Speaker 4: I was, Oh my god, I remember this other story

691
00:32:12,040 --> 00:32:17,000
Speaker 4: where I went to a Laker game and uh, we've

692
00:32:17,040 --> 00:32:18,600
Speaker 4: been sitting for a while and.

693
00:32:19,960 --> 00:32:22,560
Speaker 1: BD was like hey, and he's like, I want.

694
00:32:22,400 --> 00:32:25,080
Speaker 3: To Margarita's and I was like, I'll go get it.

695
00:32:25,120 --> 00:32:26,360
Speaker 1: He's like, are you sure. I'm like, yeah, I'm fine.

696
00:32:26,360 --> 00:32:27,840
Speaker 4: I need to get up anyway, So I went and

697
00:32:27,880 --> 00:32:29,480
Speaker 4: got him the mar I went to against me and

698
00:32:29,560 --> 00:32:33,520
Speaker 4: DCAF coffee, and I went to go get him a margarita.

699
00:32:33,640 --> 00:32:35,400
Speaker 4: You know when you go to the Staples Center, there's

700
00:32:35,440 --> 00:32:36,680
Speaker 4: specific lines.

701
00:32:36,400 --> 00:32:37,160
Speaker 3: For the alcohol.

702
00:32:37,440 --> 00:32:39,320
Speaker 4: You know, you have to have, like I don't remember

703
00:32:39,320 --> 00:32:41,080
Speaker 4: if I no, there's no rispains, have to show your ID.

704
00:32:41,880 --> 00:32:44,240
Speaker 4: But I was in the line, like for the margarita line.

705
00:32:44,240 --> 00:32:46,600
Speaker 4: So it's only tequila, serf. There there's no wine, there's

706
00:32:46,600 --> 00:32:49,840
Speaker 4: no anything. It's straight tequila. And here I am, literally

707
00:32:49,920 --> 00:32:52,680
Speaker 4: nine months pregnant in the tequila line and people are

708
00:32:52,680 --> 00:32:55,320
Speaker 4: looking at me like, is this bitch about to order margarita?

709
00:32:55,640 --> 00:32:56,240
Speaker 1: Yes? Oh yeah?

710
00:32:56,440 --> 00:32:57,880
Speaker 4: And I was like and I ordered too because we

711
00:32:57,880 --> 00:32:59,320
Speaker 4: were with a friend, so I ordered. I was like

712
00:32:59,400 --> 00:33:02,200
Speaker 4: double fist to margarita's. I have like my coffee and

713
00:33:02,240 --> 00:33:04,680
Speaker 4: like my other are like tucked in like my elbow,

714
00:33:05,640 --> 00:33:08,000
Speaker 4: and everyone was just judging me, and I was just

715
00:33:08,240 --> 00:33:10,160
Speaker 4: and I knew I wasn't doing anything wrong, but I

716
00:33:10,240 --> 00:33:12,280
Speaker 4: felt strange.

717
00:33:12,440 --> 00:33:15,400
Speaker 1: I just felt strange. And it's just a shame.

718
00:33:15,520 --> 00:33:19,040
Speaker 4: It's just a shame that in our society, mothers just

719
00:33:19,120 --> 00:33:24,480
Speaker 4: aren't we don't we are not respected. Respect me I'm

720
00:33:24,560 --> 00:33:27,080
Speaker 4: making a life so that this world can keep moving.

721
00:33:27,440 --> 00:33:32,400
Speaker 1: Like hashtag I'm normal still too, I'm pregnant and alive,

722
00:33:33,360 --> 00:33:39,440
Speaker 1: hashtag alive and pregnant, make it afraid, I look pregnant

723
00:33:39,480 --> 00:33:46,200
Speaker 1: and functioning and true. Oh, speaking of pregnancy, breaking news

724
00:33:46,280 --> 00:33:51,840
Speaker 1: dot D Chloe got cheated on and had our baby.

725
00:33:52,680 --> 00:33:56,280
Speaker 1: I mean, what are your feelings, because everybody has their opinions.

726
00:33:56,480 --> 00:33:58,840
Speaker 1: I don't feel like it's real. Oh yeah, you did

727
00:33:58,840 --> 00:34:00,360
Speaker 1: say that. I mean I don't know anybody. I mean,

728
00:34:00,480 --> 00:34:02,800
Speaker 1: who knows. It's extreme? But you think you're gonna get

729
00:34:02,840 --> 00:34:05,720
Speaker 1: cheated on as a publicity stunt while you're nine months pregnant?

730
00:34:05,800 --> 00:34:06,360
Speaker 1: I don't know.

731
00:34:06,520 --> 00:34:10,439
Speaker 4: No, Okay, maybe this is what happened. Maybe they knew

732
00:34:10,480 --> 00:34:12,239
Speaker 4: about because the tape was like a week old. I

733
00:34:12,280 --> 00:34:14,680
Speaker 4: feel like maybe they knew a week before, and they

734
00:34:14,760 --> 00:34:19,239
Speaker 4: tried to get ahead of it by I think that

735
00:34:19,320 --> 00:34:20,440
Speaker 4: they had already.

736
00:34:20,360 --> 00:34:22,520
Speaker 3: Like you should get ahead of it by making it like.

737
00:34:23,880 --> 00:34:26,520
Speaker 4: Using it, you know, using it as a way for more.

738
00:34:28,480 --> 00:34:34,440
Speaker 4: Oh oh oh, oh, there's a there's a fight happening outside.

739
00:34:34,480 --> 00:34:42,800
Speaker 1: Oh I was crying. Oh what happened? Luna's jumping? She

740
00:34:42,840 --> 00:34:43,480
Speaker 1: doesn't want to jump.

741
00:34:43,480 --> 00:34:43,799
Speaker 3: I don't know.

742
00:34:43,800 --> 00:34:45,279
Speaker 4: I think a luna might have hit her in the

743
00:34:45,520 --> 00:34:50,320
Speaker 4: head by accident. Oh well, I re just fell behind a.

744
00:34:49,640 --> 00:34:51,640
Speaker 1: Bad mom moment. Oh my god.

745
00:34:52,400 --> 00:34:54,560
Speaker 4: I remember standing behind the chair that I'm sitting at

746
00:34:54,600 --> 00:34:57,440
Speaker 4: in this record our podcast, and it literally fell on

747
00:34:57,480 --> 00:34:58,000
Speaker 4: top of her.

748
00:34:58,320 --> 00:35:01,279
Speaker 1: It looked like the Evil Witch, like when the house

749
00:35:01,400 --> 00:35:03,080
Speaker 1: lands on the Evil Witch in the Wizard of Oz,

750
00:35:03,120 --> 00:35:07,400
Speaker 1: and her legs were just underneath there. And we literally

751
00:35:07,400 --> 00:35:09,960
Speaker 1: sat there for like ten seconds of delay time because

752
00:35:10,000 --> 00:35:11,560
Speaker 1: it was so rare. It was just I didn't even

753
00:35:11,600 --> 00:35:14,520
Speaker 1: see it because she didn't make a sound. She was

754
00:35:14,640 --> 00:35:17,080
Speaker 1: kind of waiting for her to cry. Yeah, she didn't

755
00:35:17,080 --> 00:35:21,600
Speaker 1: even she was just laying there, and we literally, first

756
00:35:21,600 --> 00:35:23,120
Speaker 1: of all, I was closest. I could have picked up

757
00:35:23,120 --> 00:35:25,120
Speaker 1: the chair, but the fact that she didn't cry and

758
00:35:25,160 --> 00:35:28,000
Speaker 1: her legs were just sitting there underneath it, I couldn't

759
00:35:28,000 --> 00:35:28,560
Speaker 1: know what to do.

760
00:35:29,640 --> 00:35:32,080
Speaker 4: I pulled the chair out and I just couldn't stop laughing,

761
00:35:32,160 --> 00:35:33,520
Speaker 4: and I felt so bad, but.

762
00:35:33,520 --> 00:35:34,319
Speaker 1: We laughed so hard.

763
00:35:34,400 --> 00:35:37,080
Speaker 3: She was like, not funny, it's.

764
00:35:36,920 --> 00:35:39,760
Speaker 1: Not funny, and me and Mila are like, have tears

765
00:35:39,880 --> 00:35:42,000
Speaker 1: rolling down when your kid has to tell you it's

766
00:35:42,040 --> 00:35:46,000
Speaker 1: not funny and you're laughing hysterically. You need to grow up,

767
00:35:47,880 --> 00:35:48,560
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh.

768
00:35:48,640 --> 00:35:52,640
Speaker 4: Anyway, but then then I heard that with the Chloe thing,

769
00:35:52,719 --> 00:35:55,520
Speaker 4: that the cameras were present when she found out that.

770
00:35:55,560 --> 00:35:58,479
Speaker 1: You know, it's just like, no way, the cameras were there.

771
00:35:58,640 --> 00:36:00,960
Speaker 4: Yeah, they they like were president when she found out

772
00:36:00,960 --> 00:36:04,640
Speaker 4: that he cheated. Just all That's why I just don't know.

773
00:36:04,680 --> 00:36:07,120
Speaker 1: Like when the tabloid story hit and you just happened

774
00:36:07,160 --> 00:36:09,600
Speaker 1: to be being filmed for creeping up at the carriage,

775
00:36:09,800 --> 00:36:10,359
Speaker 1: and then that she.

776
00:36:10,320 --> 00:36:14,000
Speaker 4: Couldn't leave Cleveland, you know, like she couldn't leave Cleveland.

777
00:36:14,120 --> 00:36:15,239
Speaker 3: Her family had to come to her.

778
00:36:15,520 --> 00:36:18,239
Speaker 4: Chloe's desperately trying to leave Cleveland, but she can't find

779
00:36:18,239 --> 00:36:20,320
Speaker 4: a way out. Her doctors won't let her fly. Bitch,

780
00:36:20,440 --> 00:36:22,560
Speaker 4: you want, but jillionaire, run a tour bus and drive

781
00:36:22,600 --> 00:36:24,600
Speaker 4: your ass home. She could drive your ass back to.

782
00:36:24,680 --> 00:36:27,239
Speaker 1: La bitch and render her rocket. You can. You can

783
00:36:27,280 --> 00:36:30,160
Speaker 1: rent a dot you can you in the door. You

784
00:36:30,160 --> 00:36:32,720
Speaker 1: can get away us there. Yes, you have a homework

785
00:36:32,760 --> 00:36:34,360
Speaker 1: and a tour bus with a doctor and a midwife

786
00:36:34,400 --> 00:36:36,520
Speaker 1: on your account for youre just oh, you could have

787
00:36:36,560 --> 00:36:38,160
Speaker 1: made any possible.

788
00:36:38,840 --> 00:36:42,120
Speaker 4: That's why I'm like, it just sounded Okay, I don't

789
00:36:42,160 --> 00:36:45,239
Speaker 4: want to laugh at her pain because maybe it is true.

790
00:36:45,120 --> 00:36:47,320
Speaker 1: And she got stressed out and had to have a baby.

791
00:36:47,400 --> 00:36:48,040
Speaker 1: I just don't.

792
00:36:48,880 --> 00:36:50,880
Speaker 4: It's hard for me to believe anything with them because

793
00:36:50,920 --> 00:36:55,120
Speaker 4: everything is so calculated and now like that that baby

794
00:36:55,160 --> 00:36:57,600
Speaker 4: photo is gonna be worth like ten million dollars.

795
00:36:57,320 --> 00:37:00,399
Speaker 3: You think now because because of that, Yeah.

796
00:37:00,040 --> 00:37:03,000
Speaker 4: The baby's name is true, which is like damn names

797
00:37:02,960 --> 00:37:04,080
Speaker 4: shit true, which y'all.

798
00:37:04,840 --> 00:37:06,480
Speaker 3: And I'm just like, and it's true.

799
00:37:06,680 --> 00:37:09,360
Speaker 1: Is a baby's name true?

800
00:37:08,200 --> 00:37:09,920
Speaker 3: And I cannot.

801
00:37:10,000 --> 00:37:11,759
Speaker 4: But then so then Chris had to come out and

802
00:37:11,800 --> 00:37:14,160
Speaker 4: like explain why the baby's name is true because her

803
00:37:14,200 --> 00:37:16,680
Speaker 4: grandfather's name is true and his uncle's name was true.

804
00:37:16,719 --> 00:37:17,839
Speaker 1: Whose grandfather's name is true?

805
00:37:17,880 --> 00:37:24,319
Speaker 3: Her dad, Chris Jenner. Now that it's her dad, I

806
00:37:24,360 --> 00:37:25,719
Speaker 3: really feel like OJ's her dad.

807
00:37:25,719 --> 00:37:27,719
Speaker 1: But I mean, don't get it twisted. Like Chloe is

808
00:37:27,760 --> 00:37:30,800
Speaker 1: my fate. She's a cancer, like, hands down, she's the realist,

809
00:37:30,840 --> 00:37:33,080
Speaker 1: one of the Possey I fox with her, so she's

810
00:37:33,080 --> 00:37:34,000
Speaker 1: always been my favorite.

811
00:37:34,080 --> 00:37:35,799
Speaker 3: Yeah, but her daddy's OJ.

812
00:37:38,000 --> 00:37:40,719
Speaker 1: Her dad is the juice. What the fun we're going to?

813
00:37:43,719 --> 00:37:45,160
Speaker 1: But I just don't.

814
00:37:46,120 --> 00:37:48,760
Speaker 4: I just feel like, okay, because I was thinking Okay,

815
00:37:48,880 --> 00:37:50,960
Speaker 4: what what if this baby's gonna grow up one day

816
00:37:51,000 --> 00:37:55,000
Speaker 4: and read the headlines and know that her father cheated

817
00:37:55,000 --> 00:37:57,480
Speaker 4: on her mother? Why would they do that on purpose?

818
00:37:57,520 --> 00:38:00,319
Speaker 4: That sounds like that seems such a But then I

819
00:38:00,360 --> 00:38:02,719
Speaker 4: was like, well, as long as I feel like for

820
00:38:02,800 --> 00:38:06,600
Speaker 4: them and their family, as long as they know the truth, that's.

821
00:38:08,080 --> 00:38:08,359
Speaker 1: The way.

822
00:38:08,960 --> 00:38:11,640
Speaker 4: Like they know, like they'll have a conversation with a

823
00:38:11,760 --> 00:38:13,440
Speaker 4: child one day and be like, we did this.

824
00:38:13,280 --> 00:38:15,240
Speaker 1: For this reason. I mean, did you have twenty million

825
00:38:15,560 --> 00:38:17,920
Speaker 1: immediately in your college fund right without doing much? I

826
00:38:17,960 --> 00:38:20,520
Speaker 1: see that Maserata you have at age fifteen because your

827
00:38:20,600 --> 00:38:22,760
Speaker 1: dad is stupid and we twisted.

828
00:38:22,840 --> 00:38:26,319
Speaker 4: They make these deals with each other because they know

829
00:38:26,440 --> 00:38:28,920
Speaker 4: their truth. It doesn't matter what everybody else thinks. But

830
00:38:28,920 --> 00:38:32,959
Speaker 4: then it projects such a negative example for so many

831
00:38:33,000 --> 00:38:36,560
Speaker 4: people that don't realize that nothing is real on reality

832
00:38:36,560 --> 00:38:39,160
Speaker 4: TV and everything is like our Instagram.

833
00:38:38,840 --> 00:38:41,200
Speaker 3: Versus reality shit. It's like so much fake shit.

834
00:38:41,360 --> 00:38:43,239
Speaker 1: I mean, the truth days will never know, just like

835
00:38:43,280 --> 00:38:50,360
Speaker 1: we'll never really know if the Jesus or Dad. But sorry,

836
00:38:50,400 --> 00:38:57,000
Speaker 1: I'm a little hot. What was it gonna say? I

837
00:38:57,040 --> 00:38:59,800
Speaker 1: don't know, but I know I just think what about

838
00:38:59,840 --> 00:39:03,359
Speaker 1: the fact, I mean aside from the fact that she

839
00:39:03,400 --> 00:39:05,879
Speaker 1: got cheated on nine months pregnant. Do you think there's

840
00:39:05,960 --> 00:39:08,200
Speaker 1: any like because everyone's talking about the karma that she

841
00:39:08,400 --> 00:39:11,200
Speaker 1: got with him when he had a baby, that was like,

842
00:39:11,520 --> 00:39:13,120
Speaker 1: well on the way. Basically when he.

843
00:39:13,120 --> 00:39:15,439
Speaker 3: Met her, wasn't he expecting a child?

844
00:39:15,680 --> 00:39:18,480
Speaker 4: Yeah, he was expecting a child with another So it's

845
00:39:18,480 --> 00:39:20,360
Speaker 4: still crazy because I don't I don't follow basketball.

846
00:39:20,360 --> 00:39:20,759
Speaker 1: I don't know.

847
00:39:20,920 --> 00:39:23,279
Speaker 4: I still really don't even know who Tristan Thompson is.

848
00:39:23,280 --> 00:39:27,000
Speaker 4: I know he plays basketball. Literally just found out he

849
00:39:27,040 --> 00:39:29,680
Speaker 4: played in Ohio because I saw that Chloe was in Ohio.

850
00:39:30,000 --> 00:39:31,560
Speaker 3: You couldn't tell. I could not tell you what team

851
00:39:31,640 --> 00:39:32,040
Speaker 3: he played for.

852
00:39:32,600 --> 00:39:35,040
Speaker 4: But I followed his girlfriend at the time because she

853
00:39:35,080 --> 00:39:37,920
Speaker 4: was always like posting these fabulous photos all over the

854
00:39:38,040 --> 00:39:41,759
Speaker 4: traveling with her beautiful boyfriend, like on private jets, going

855
00:39:41,800 --> 00:39:45,080
Speaker 4: to Demaldi's Dubai, and I was like, who is this couple?

856
00:39:46,320 --> 00:39:48,680
Speaker 1: It was him and her. Oh, so they were a couple.

857
00:39:48,719 --> 00:39:50,640
Speaker 1: They were a serious couple. And then it wasn't like

858
00:39:50,760 --> 00:39:52,880
Speaker 1: she was like a jump off. They tried to make

859
00:39:52,920 --> 00:39:55,160
Speaker 1: it seem like she was a jumper. Oh no, no, no,

860
00:39:55,160 --> 00:39:55,440
Speaker 1: no no.

861
00:39:55,480 --> 00:39:58,400
Speaker 4: They were a serious couple and then she was pregnant

862
00:39:58,400 --> 00:40:00,600
Speaker 4: and it was like this beautiful thing and then suddenly

863
00:40:00,719 --> 00:40:03,440
Speaker 4: they apparently they were no longer together when him and

864
00:40:03,520 --> 00:40:05,240
Speaker 4: Chloe started dating.

865
00:40:05,360 --> 00:40:07,880
Speaker 3: But it's like, I'm not about to date a nigga.

866
00:40:07,880 --> 00:40:09,520
Speaker 1: They got a baby on the way, I'm not dating.

867
00:40:11,120 --> 00:40:13,160
Speaker 4: Just wait till the baby were coming with the babies

868
00:40:13,200 --> 00:40:14,839
Speaker 4: like six months, yeah, and then you let me know

869
00:40:14,880 --> 00:40:17,600
Speaker 4: if you like, the baby is born and then you fall.

870
00:40:18,520 --> 00:40:22,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, like no, any I mean I think unfortunately, poor baby,

871
00:40:22,680 --> 00:40:24,799
Speaker 1: Like she probably it probably started that way.

872
00:40:24,920 --> 00:40:26,759
Speaker 3: She probably got knocked up and wanted to keep the

873
00:40:26,800 --> 00:40:27,480
Speaker 3: baby so bad.

874
00:40:27,560 --> 00:40:29,120
Speaker 1: She was like, I don't give a fuck what you

875
00:40:29,160 --> 00:40:32,080
Speaker 1: got going on. I'm having the baby, you know, which

876
00:40:32,120 --> 00:40:33,920
Speaker 1: is like who knows what he was telling her? Obviously

877
00:40:33,920 --> 00:40:37,239
Speaker 1: he's a lie, cheating piece of But here's the.

878
00:40:37,120 --> 00:40:41,279
Speaker 4: Thing, you've you've dated, Like how many different athletes did

879
00:40:41,320 --> 00:40:43,560
Speaker 4: you think that he was going to be faithful? Was

880
00:40:43,600 --> 00:40:46,600
Speaker 4: athlete number one faithful? Was athlete number two faithful? I

881
00:40:46,640 --> 00:40:49,640
Speaker 4: think athletes that we don't even know about, were they faithful?

882
00:40:50,000 --> 00:40:52,640
Speaker 4: Like no, So it's just.

883
00:40:52,880 --> 00:40:55,959
Speaker 1: It's just like it's also nice to see, like whether

884
00:40:56,000 --> 00:40:59,719
Speaker 1: it's it's publicity or intentional or whatever, like it is

885
00:41:00,560 --> 00:41:02,719
Speaker 1: not nice to see. But the truth of the matter is,

886
00:41:04,239 --> 00:41:06,320
Speaker 1: it doesn't matter who the fuck you are. Like Beyonce

887
00:41:06,440 --> 00:41:09,400
Speaker 1: is getting cheated on, right, Claula Cardiash, she's getting cheated on.

888
00:41:09,520 --> 00:41:11,680
Speaker 1: Can't probably get cheated on. Everybody's getting cheated on. If

889
00:41:11,719 --> 00:41:14,560
Speaker 1: you date somebody with a penis probably getting cheated on.

890
00:41:15,400 --> 00:41:18,200
Speaker 1: And it sucks. But that's like the reality of it,

891
00:41:18,320 --> 00:41:20,760
Speaker 1: Like nobody hide you like you can't.

892
00:41:20,640 --> 00:41:23,719
Speaker 4: Especially I mean pregnancy is like I feel like that's

893
00:41:23,760 --> 00:41:25,319
Speaker 4: I feel like a lot of people. Women also get

894
00:41:25,320 --> 00:41:27,000
Speaker 4: scared when they get pregnant because they're scared that their

895
00:41:27,000 --> 00:41:29,800
Speaker 4: men are going to cheat on them, because you can't

896
00:41:30,040 --> 00:41:31,719
Speaker 4: like some you know, for me, like I didn't want

897
00:41:31,719 --> 00:41:32,800
Speaker 4: to have sex when I was pregnant.

898
00:41:32,840 --> 00:41:34,719
Speaker 3: I was not horny a get away from me, get

899
00:41:34,719 --> 00:41:35,400
Speaker 3: that thing away.

900
00:41:35,440 --> 00:41:35,759
Speaker 1: I wasn't.

901
00:41:36,320 --> 00:41:40,560
Speaker 4: And so, you know, men feel unwanted. They feel their

902
00:41:40,640 --> 00:41:44,120
Speaker 4: their their significant other, who maybe their body was like

903
00:41:44,200 --> 00:41:48,759
Speaker 4: the centerpiece of their relationship. It's changed and they need

904
00:41:48,840 --> 00:41:53,000
Speaker 4: validation somewhere else, from something else. And I think that's

905
00:41:53,000 --> 00:41:54,759
Speaker 4: why a lot of men cheat. They just don't. They're

906
00:41:54,800 --> 00:41:58,960
Speaker 4: not used to not being the center of the center

907
00:41:59,000 --> 00:42:01,200
Speaker 4: of it all. You're no longer the center of it.

908
00:42:01,239 --> 00:42:03,520
Speaker 4: And guess what, when that baby's born, you really don't

909
00:42:03,520 --> 00:42:05,440
Speaker 4: give a fuck. We really don't give a fuck about you,

910
00:42:05,560 --> 00:42:09,120
Speaker 4: because all retired, all we care about is like sleep,

911
00:42:09,719 --> 00:42:12,640
Speaker 4: and like making sure our baby stays alive, like making

912
00:42:12,640 --> 00:42:14,279
Speaker 4: sure we don't kill our baby by accident, because our

913
00:42:14,280 --> 00:42:15,480
Speaker 4: first time moms and we don't know what the fuck

914
00:42:15,480 --> 00:42:16,160
Speaker 4: we're doing right.

915
00:42:16,400 --> 00:42:18,319
Speaker 1: Right, So you are gonna get on the back bone,

916
00:42:18,400 --> 00:42:20,279
Speaker 1: so get away. And if you can't handle it, you

917
00:42:20,320 --> 00:42:22,840
Speaker 1: need not say. Your pullout game should be strong.

918
00:42:24,120 --> 00:42:26,080
Speaker 4: I was just having this conversation on Sunday with my

919
00:42:26,160 --> 00:42:28,520
Speaker 4: friend and then her friend her this guy came in

920
00:42:28,719 --> 00:42:31,680
Speaker 4: and the first thing she asked, is it possible for

921
00:42:31,719 --> 00:42:33,279
Speaker 4: men to be faithful? Because I was talking to my

922
00:42:33,360 --> 00:42:35,920
Speaker 4: dad about it. And my dad is a performer professional

923
00:42:35,920 --> 00:42:39,560
Speaker 4: athlete and to this day, like he still has he

924
00:42:39,640 --> 00:42:44,000
Speaker 4: has issues with fidelity, but openly he knows who he is, you.

925
00:42:43,960 --> 00:42:44,480
Speaker 1: Know what I mean.

926
00:42:44,960 --> 00:42:48,239
Speaker 4: And he's always told me that men, all men, he

927
00:42:48,280 --> 00:42:51,080
Speaker 4: has always always said, all men cheat, Erica, all of them.

928
00:42:51,800 --> 00:42:53,960
Speaker 4: I don't care if you're the nerd, I don't care

929
00:42:54,000 --> 00:42:56,680
Speaker 4: if you're He's like, and it's not that they all

930
00:42:57,160 --> 00:42:59,080
Speaker 4: want to cheat. It's just if they're presented with the

931
00:42:59,080 --> 00:43:02,799
Speaker 4: opportunity time and time and time again, event eventually they're

932
00:43:02,800 --> 00:43:05,279
Speaker 4: gonna break down. So especially a man who's in like

933
00:43:05,320 --> 00:43:08,720
Speaker 4: an athlete or the music industry, who's constantly being pussy's

934
00:43:08,760 --> 00:43:11,799
Speaker 4: being thrown at them constantly, they're they're weak. Where if

935
00:43:11,800 --> 00:43:15,200
Speaker 4: he said, we're weak, we think about everything with our

936
00:43:15,239 --> 00:43:18,000
Speaker 4: dick and they're always were always gonna de lie.

937
00:43:18,320 --> 00:43:19,640
Speaker 3: He's like, the main the man.

938
00:43:19,440 --> 00:43:22,919
Speaker 4: Code is de lie delie, de lie deny and lie

939
00:43:23,000 --> 00:43:27,680
Speaker 4: deny and lie deny and lie.

940
00:43:27,600 --> 00:43:28,399
Speaker 1: Yes, this is my dad.

941
00:43:28,440 --> 00:43:30,040
Speaker 4: So like when I told him, when I would tell

942
00:43:30,120 --> 00:43:35,160
Speaker 4: him about, you know, my situation and like my baby

943
00:43:35,239 --> 00:43:38,360
Speaker 4: daddy's infidelity problems, he didn't really have a lot of

944
00:43:38,360 --> 00:43:42,200
Speaker 4: remorse for me because he was like, I told you

945
00:43:42,640 --> 00:43:43,560
Speaker 4: and look at me.

946
00:43:45,080 --> 00:43:47,919
Speaker 1: And I'm just like wow. Well, I was just like, wow,

947
00:43:48,200 --> 00:43:50,600
Speaker 1: do you think that's true? Do you think that all

948
00:43:50,640 --> 00:43:51,120
Speaker 1: men cheat?

949
00:43:52,120 --> 00:43:54,239
Speaker 4: I don't think that all men cheat, but I think

950
00:43:54,239 --> 00:43:56,799
Speaker 4: if presented with the opportunity enough, then they will.

951
00:43:58,120 --> 00:43:59,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think they're stupid.

952
00:43:59,560 --> 00:44:02,440
Speaker 3: And also I don't I don't necessarily think monogamy is natural.

953
00:44:02,680 --> 00:44:04,200
Speaker 1: I d oh, my god, can we talk about that.

954
00:44:04,239 --> 00:44:07,600
Speaker 1: I do not I I I don't think monogamy is natural.

955
00:44:07,640 --> 00:44:10,640
Speaker 1: I never really have like our animals feeful and then

956
00:44:11,640 --> 00:44:14,240
Speaker 1: t A. But then it goes so deeply because sometimes

957
00:44:14,280 --> 00:44:16,360
Speaker 1: I know that that's true. But then like we're so

958
00:44:16,640 --> 00:44:20,680
Speaker 1: deeply conditioned and in bread to feel like we own people. Yes,

959
00:44:21,320 --> 00:44:23,640
Speaker 1: and even for us, like who knows that this is

960
00:44:23,719 --> 00:44:27,760
Speaker 1: not like a realistic concept. You still get these feelings

961
00:44:27,800 --> 00:44:29,759
Speaker 1: of wanting to own someone and let anyone start who

962
00:44:29,760 --> 00:44:31,240
Speaker 1: looks at them, and that's.

963
00:44:31,080 --> 00:44:32,680
Speaker 3: Not normal, and what the fuck is?

964
00:44:32,760 --> 00:44:35,960
Speaker 4: Well, we go against nature, We go against what our body.

965
00:44:36,600 --> 00:44:38,439
Speaker 4: We tell our body, like, no, do you don't feel

966
00:44:38,480 --> 00:44:39,560
Speaker 4: that way? You don't want that?

967
00:44:39,560 --> 00:44:40,680
Speaker 3: Your pussy's not wet for him?

968
00:44:40,719 --> 00:44:40,759
Speaker 4: No?

969
00:44:40,960 --> 00:44:42,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, right, your dick is not wet for her or

970
00:44:43,080 --> 00:44:43,560
Speaker 3: hard for her.

971
00:44:43,640 --> 00:44:44,839
Speaker 1: No, that's wrong, you know.

972
00:44:44,920 --> 00:44:47,719
Speaker 4: And it's like if we I think communication is what

973
00:44:47,960 --> 00:44:50,200
Speaker 4: is that is is the biggest issue is that we

974
00:44:50,440 --> 00:44:53,279
Speaker 4: don't know how to communicate on honesty. We don't really

975
00:44:53,320 --> 00:44:56,239
Speaker 4: want to be honest with each other, right, and like,

976
00:44:57,200 --> 00:44:58,640
Speaker 4: and that's what we're t I was talking about with

977
00:44:58,680 --> 00:45:01,920
Speaker 4: my friends friend this guy who came in and he

978
00:45:01,920 --> 00:45:03,840
Speaker 4: he was really intelligent and he was talking about it,

979
00:45:03,880 --> 00:45:06,719
Speaker 4: and he because I was, I was telling him what

980
00:45:06,760 --> 00:45:08,120
Speaker 4: my dad is said that Allman sheet.

981
00:45:07,880 --> 00:45:08,359
Speaker 3: And he was like.

982
00:45:09,840 --> 00:45:11,279
Speaker 1: That there's a lot of truth to that.

983
00:45:11,440 --> 00:45:16,600
Speaker 4: But the guy, because there's a lot of truth to that.

984
00:45:16,680 --> 00:45:18,800
Speaker 3: But it's just like also, it's.

985
00:45:18,680 --> 00:45:22,560
Speaker 4: Because we don't want to be honest with each other

986
00:45:23,520 --> 00:45:25,920
Speaker 4: and women and women want to own men and men

987
00:45:26,040 --> 00:45:26,800
Speaker 4: want to own women.

988
00:45:27,400 --> 00:45:31,920
Speaker 1: So it's just difficult. It's difficult. And but I had

989
00:45:32,000 --> 00:45:34,640
Speaker 1: someone tell me recently who's known me a long time,

990
00:45:35,200 --> 00:45:39,319
Speaker 1: and they were like, Jamella, I don't really see you

991
00:45:39,400 --> 00:45:40,760
Speaker 1: in a relationship with anyone.

992
00:45:40,840 --> 00:45:44,160
Speaker 3: And I was like, and they're like, no, like or maybe.

993
00:45:43,880 --> 00:45:46,000
Speaker 1: With like multiple people, Like I don't see you. It's

994
00:45:46,040 --> 00:45:48,520
Speaker 1: just one person. You don't have that type of personality.

995
00:45:48,640 --> 00:45:50,399
Speaker 1: And initially I was kind of offended, like I'm never

996
00:45:50,440 --> 00:45:54,080
Speaker 1: gonna get married, but then I was like I really

997
00:45:54,160 --> 00:45:56,799
Speaker 1: appreciated that because they're like, I love you, I still

998
00:45:56,840 --> 00:45:58,759
Speaker 1: would want to be with you, but I could I

999
00:45:58,760 --> 00:46:02,440
Speaker 1: could accept that you would probably still see other people

1000
00:46:02,480 --> 00:46:04,880
Speaker 1: and that would be okay. So there's a beauty in

1001
00:46:04,960 --> 00:46:08,600
Speaker 1: someone like acknowledging certain things about you in a truthful,

1002
00:46:08,640 --> 00:46:11,960
Speaker 1: honest manner and still loving you despite it, you know,

1003
00:46:12,120 --> 00:46:15,400
Speaker 1: like that's to me, that is that's real love, Like

1004
00:46:15,520 --> 00:46:17,400
Speaker 1: I love you so much that I don't want to

1005
00:46:17,440 --> 00:46:19,880
Speaker 1: cut you off from loving anyone else or experiencing or

1006
00:46:19,920 --> 00:46:22,360
Speaker 1: living your life fulfillingly. And I think when you do

1007
00:46:22,440 --> 00:46:24,400
Speaker 1: that and you give someone the space and freedom to

1008
00:46:24,680 --> 00:46:28,239
Speaker 1: truly love freely, nine times out of ten they will

1009
00:46:28,480 --> 00:46:32,719
Speaker 1: They probably won't like what we're off because they know,

1010
00:46:32,800 --> 00:46:35,320
Speaker 1: like I have this like love that doesn't want to

1011
00:46:35,360 --> 00:46:37,080
Speaker 1: own me or control me. And I don't really need

1012
00:46:37,080 --> 00:46:38,320
Speaker 1: to do that right like I could.

1013
00:46:38,200 --> 00:46:39,600
Speaker 3: If I want to, but I don't need to know

1014
00:46:39,719 --> 00:46:40,400
Speaker 3: it's true.

1015
00:46:40,840 --> 00:46:43,400
Speaker 4: I think with that, it's just also I think I

1016
00:46:43,400 --> 00:46:46,320
Speaker 4: think people's fear in that is that they are scared

1017
00:46:46,320 --> 00:46:48,400
Speaker 4: that they're going to go out and find something different

1018
00:46:48,480 --> 00:46:49,319
Speaker 4: that's better than them.

1019
00:46:49,360 --> 00:46:52,160
Speaker 1: It's their own insecurity in themselves. They're not confident enough to.

1020
00:46:52,160 --> 00:46:54,120
Speaker 4: Know that, Like, Okay, I'm I let you go be

1021
00:46:54,160 --> 00:46:55,600
Speaker 4: free and do your thing, But what if you find

1022
00:46:55,600 --> 00:46:56,359
Speaker 4: someone better than.

1023
00:46:56,280 --> 00:47:00,040
Speaker 1: Me then you leave me? But that's just life. I

1024
00:47:00,160 --> 00:47:02,160
Speaker 1: find somebody better than me, but for me, it's like

1025
00:47:02,239 --> 00:47:04,320
Speaker 1: more power to you. If you think that bit is

1026
00:47:04,360 --> 00:47:07,960
Speaker 1: better than me, good luck because give it six weeks.

1027
00:47:08,920 --> 00:47:10,080
Speaker 1: She's gonna get on your nerves.

1028
00:47:10,120 --> 00:47:15,680
Speaker 4: I mean, I've always been intrigued by open relationships, and

1029
00:47:16,560 --> 00:47:18,960
Speaker 4: I mean I think I think open relationships are healthy

1030
00:47:19,000 --> 00:47:21,960
Speaker 4: as long as you're not bringing me back anything. Yeah,

1031
00:47:21,960 --> 00:47:24,239
Speaker 4: as long as you're really honest and really safe. That's

1032
00:47:24,239 --> 00:47:26,920
Speaker 4: what I mean, like, don't bring me back no STDs.

1033
00:47:27,120 --> 00:47:30,880
Speaker 1: I think I want to do like a trial, polyamorous

1034
00:47:31,160 --> 00:47:36,520
Speaker 1: trial like period the trial, a thirty day trial period,

1035
00:47:36,520 --> 00:47:37,560
Speaker 1: Polly situation.

1036
00:47:37,760 --> 00:47:39,440
Speaker 3: This is my boyfriend, this is my girlfriend, this is

1037
00:47:39,440 --> 00:47:40,160
Speaker 3: not the boyfriend.

1038
00:47:40,239 --> 00:47:41,799
Speaker 1: Are you cool with it? Okay, come on, you can

1039
00:47:41,840 --> 00:47:48,200
Speaker 1: hang out too. I was speaking of the Kardashians. I

1040
00:47:48,719 --> 00:47:50,120
Speaker 1: want you to hear my notes that I have for

1041
00:47:50,200 --> 00:47:52,400
Speaker 1: today that I wrote at two o'clock in the morning

1042
00:47:52,480 --> 00:47:57,160
Speaker 1: last night. Topic episode six, Chloe gets cheated on, Bruce

1043
00:47:57,200 --> 00:48:00,480
Speaker 1: goes Black Happy for twenty. Those are the three things

1044
00:48:00,560 --> 00:48:03,280
Speaker 1: Chloe gets you done, Bruce goes Black Happy four twenty.

1045
00:48:03,880 --> 00:48:07,879
Speaker 1: Literally when I have his notes. Oh yes, I saw

1046
00:48:07,960 --> 00:48:10,440
Speaker 1: that photo of his Name's not Bruce, her name is not.

1047
00:48:13,280 --> 00:48:17,239
Speaker 1: What's her name? Okay? Oh my god?

1048
00:48:17,440 --> 00:48:19,600
Speaker 3: Why am I from Black Kyle? No?

1049
00:48:19,600 --> 00:48:23,279
Speaker 1: No, oh my god, Candys No, Oh my gosh, what's

1050
00:48:23,320 --> 00:48:27,200
Speaker 1: her name Chrice. No, oh my god, Kayla, Kyln, Kayla.

1051
00:48:27,400 --> 00:48:29,919
Speaker 3: Okay, Caitlyn feels black, So.

1052
00:48:30,000 --> 00:48:31,279
Speaker 1: Okay, we don't know that for sure.

1053
00:48:31,320 --> 00:48:32,000
Speaker 3: That was a photo.

1054
00:48:32,080 --> 00:48:33,839
Speaker 1: They were all the hands, but maybe he.

1055
00:48:33,880 --> 00:48:35,759
Speaker 3: Was like protecting her from the pop pop.

1056
00:48:35,920 --> 00:48:42,400
Speaker 1: That little man doesn't protect me anyone. I mean, according

1057
00:48:42,440 --> 00:48:47,920
Speaker 1: to I don't know a post I saw. According to

1058
00:48:47,960 --> 00:48:52,400
Speaker 1: my my notes, they have a photo of Caitlyn with

1059
00:48:52,440 --> 00:48:54,920
Speaker 1: a little black man and they said she's gone black.

1060
00:48:55,200 --> 00:48:58,399
Speaker 1: I mean, I went black and never go black black back. Yeah,

1061
00:48:58,920 --> 00:49:01,000
Speaker 1: I wouldn't be surprised, but no else it's going black,

1062
00:49:01,040 --> 00:49:04,000
Speaker 1: except like the one. As soon as she does, she's

1063
00:49:04,000 --> 00:49:04,880
Speaker 1: probably not going back there.

1064
00:49:04,920 --> 00:49:07,600
Speaker 3: They love them some black men, don't we all?

1065
00:49:07,920 --> 00:49:08,520
Speaker 1: Don't we all?

1066
00:49:08,760 --> 00:49:09,920
Speaker 3: I know I can't shake up.

1067
00:49:09,960 --> 00:49:11,200
Speaker 1: Just like I like my coffee.

1068
00:49:11,280 --> 00:49:13,000
Speaker 3: I know, black as hell.

1069
00:49:13,239 --> 00:49:13,640
Speaker 4: Yes.

1070
00:49:16,560 --> 00:49:16,960
Speaker 1: I don't.

1071
00:49:17,200 --> 00:49:19,120
Speaker 4: It's funny because when I so, when I actually when

1072
00:49:19,120 --> 00:49:22,719
Speaker 4: I was giving birth, I had birth. I gave birth

1073
00:49:22,760 --> 00:49:24,919
Speaker 4: to Cedar Sinai, and its Cedar Sinai. There's no limits

1074
00:49:24,960 --> 00:49:27,279
Speaker 4: to the amount of people you can have in your room.

1075
00:49:28,080 --> 00:49:30,000
Speaker 4: And so I was in labor, but like not like

1076
00:49:30,080 --> 00:49:32,440
Speaker 4: active labor. I was had like an epidural and I

1077
00:49:32,480 --> 00:49:34,560
Speaker 4: was just chilling watching TV, and so literally I wish

1078
00:49:34,640 --> 00:49:36,520
Speaker 4: I had this photo. I had about twenty five people

1079
00:49:36,560 --> 00:49:37,000
Speaker 4: in the room.

1080
00:49:37,360 --> 00:49:40,000
Speaker 1: We're good. I like ten people. I thought I was

1081
00:49:40,040 --> 00:49:40,600
Speaker 1: overdoing it.

1082
00:49:40,960 --> 00:49:42,359
Speaker 3: I had a lot of people.

1083
00:49:42,040 --> 00:49:42,480
Speaker 1: In the room.

1084
00:49:42,680 --> 00:49:45,759
Speaker 4: And that day was the Caitlyn Jenner special, so we

1085
00:49:45,760 --> 00:49:48,880
Speaker 4: were all watching her come out on like Martha Stewart,

1086
00:49:49,040 --> 00:49:53,319
Speaker 4: not Martha Stewart Diane Sawyer right, and uh, we were

1087
00:49:53,360 --> 00:49:57,880
Speaker 4: all watching it and she was asking Caitlin, do you

1088
00:49:59,040 --> 00:50:01,960
Speaker 4: like men or like women? And she was still confused.

1089
00:50:01,960 --> 00:50:03,320
Speaker 4: She didn't know how to answer it. And actually I

1090
00:50:03,360 --> 00:50:05,560
Speaker 4: started watching her reality show and she still didn't have

1091
00:50:05,680 --> 00:50:09,560
Speaker 4: like an an answer for that, I think, which I

1092
00:50:09,600 --> 00:50:12,800
Speaker 4: think she had just been so conditioned to only liking

1093
00:50:12,920 --> 00:50:16,399
Speaker 4: or thought that she could only like women. But now

1094
00:50:16,440 --> 00:50:21,040
Speaker 4: that she's fully embracing her new life, I think she

1095
00:50:21,080 --> 00:50:23,719
Speaker 4: wants to play that part even more. And maybe she's

1096
00:50:23,760 --> 00:50:27,440
Speaker 4: always maybe she suppressed that. Maybe she suppressed that, so

1097
00:50:27,600 --> 00:50:30,200
Speaker 4: I don't know. Maybe this is her new boo. He

1098
00:50:30,239 --> 00:50:32,720
Speaker 4: looks like a skinny version of Chris Junner's boo.

1099
00:50:33,680 --> 00:50:34,080
Speaker 6: He does.

1100
00:50:34,440 --> 00:50:36,520
Speaker 1: I've never think I forgot she has a black boyfriend too,

1101
00:50:36,680 --> 00:50:37,759
Speaker 1: child I cannot.

1102
00:50:37,520 --> 00:50:39,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, he has got a big old booty.

1103
00:50:40,080 --> 00:50:45,080
Speaker 1: Where is Rob because Hi, I won't Rob likes I know,

1104
00:50:45,600 --> 00:50:47,840
Speaker 1: but I like Rob so and I'll be much better

1105
00:50:47,880 --> 00:50:50,719
Speaker 1: than China because that bitch is a little rat. She's

1106
00:50:50,760 --> 00:50:54,279
Speaker 1: a She's a calculated rat, but she's a rat. But

1107
00:50:54,560 --> 00:50:59,399
Speaker 1: I can be but I'll be I'll be good. I'll

1108
00:50:59,400 --> 00:51:02,200
Speaker 1: be good to you. We could go hiking and shit,

1109
00:51:03,400 --> 00:51:06,080
Speaker 1: I think she did that. Dream and Luna sound good together.

1110
00:51:06,560 --> 00:51:14,719
Speaker 1: Do so love the family, Jamila Kardashian, Ooh, I kind

1111
00:51:14,760 --> 00:51:15,920
Speaker 1: of let here for it.

1112
00:51:16,200 --> 00:51:16,600
Speaker 4: Hate you?

1113
00:51:17,600 --> 00:51:18,960
Speaker 3: This is how your friends should treat you.

1114
00:51:19,040 --> 00:51:22,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, Jamella Obama, I like you. You could be his

1115
00:51:22,960 --> 00:51:27,560
Speaker 1: side chick. Yeah, whatever you want, I'm here for yeah.

1116
00:51:27,640 --> 00:51:29,600
Speaker 3: Okay, now, don't about that. I love me, Michelle, I

1117
00:51:30,120 --> 00:51:31,120
Speaker 3: no I do. I'm just kidding.

1118
00:51:31,160 --> 00:51:32,040
Speaker 1: Oma is not cheat.

1119
00:51:32,120 --> 00:51:34,840
Speaker 3: He's the only man in America. I'm not cheat.

1120
00:51:35,360 --> 00:51:39,160
Speaker 1: But if you did cheat, Obama, I wouldn't tell nobody cheated.

1121
00:51:39,160 --> 00:51:41,400
Speaker 1: Obama better be with a black woman, Okay, all I

1122
00:51:41,440 --> 00:51:43,560
Speaker 1: have to say, Okay, Erica, this is a good question.

1123
00:51:43,560 --> 00:51:46,480
Speaker 1: We're totally going off topic, but we're so you as

1124
00:51:46,480 --> 00:51:49,759
Speaker 1: a mixed woman in America, how because I know, like

1125
00:51:50,920 --> 00:51:54,120
Speaker 1: sometimes I feel guilty of my like racial thoughts, but

1126
00:51:54,200 --> 00:51:56,000
Speaker 1: I know it's conditioning, Like I don't know. I'm not

1127
00:51:56,040 --> 00:51:57,640
Speaker 1: an angry black woman, and I do think everyone she

1128
00:51:57,719 --> 00:52:01,000
Speaker 1: loved everybody, but like it does get kind of irritating,

1129
00:52:01,080 --> 00:52:03,279
Speaker 1: Like there's especially probably I think I'm biased because I

1130
00:52:03,320 --> 00:52:06,160
Speaker 1: live in LA and if no one knows, guys in

1131
00:52:06,280 --> 00:52:08,479
Speaker 1: LA don't like Black guys in LA do not fuck

1132
00:52:08,520 --> 00:52:10,080
Speaker 1: with black girls. It's just the thing I go to

1133
00:52:10,080 --> 00:52:12,000
Speaker 1: anywhere else in the world and I'm the bomb, but

1134
00:52:12,160 --> 00:52:15,920
Speaker 1: not in a lit Do you get irritated sometimes when

1135
00:52:15,920 --> 00:52:18,640
Speaker 1: we see like so many celebrities, so many like black

1136
00:52:18,680 --> 00:52:21,239
Speaker 1: men dating outside of the race and not dating black women.

1137
00:52:21,400 --> 00:52:23,239
Speaker 1: How are your feelings on that because you are a

1138
00:52:23,280 --> 00:52:25,640
Speaker 1: product of well, I guess it's not the same. Well

1139
00:52:26,120 --> 00:52:26,480
Speaker 1: when you are.

1140
00:52:26,560 --> 00:52:30,640
Speaker 4: Mom's uh Irish and Mexican, and I mean she definitely

1141
00:52:30,719 --> 00:52:31,520
Speaker 4: doesn't look white.

1142
00:52:32,320 --> 00:52:35,279
Speaker 1: Or does your mom. Has your mom experienced anything that

1143
00:52:35,320 --> 00:52:37,680
Speaker 1: you know of, like from a black from like the

1144
00:52:38,000 --> 00:52:41,000
Speaker 1: like any backlash from the black of course, yeah, yeah, yeah,

1145
00:52:41,040 --> 00:52:44,040
Speaker 1: like or even being a Latina like oh really from

1146
00:52:44,160 --> 00:52:46,640
Speaker 1: having a black man. Yeah. Well, because there's like that

1147
00:52:46,880 --> 00:52:48,720
Speaker 1: there's like a beef between black people and Latin.

1148
00:52:48,719 --> 00:52:50,160
Speaker 3: Which is ridiculous cause we're the same.

1149
00:52:50,320 --> 00:52:54,640
Speaker 4: Yeah, I would say me personally, Do I get annoyed

1150
00:52:55,680 --> 00:52:57,239
Speaker 4: or do I have an opinion about it?

1151
00:52:57,480 --> 00:52:58,120
Speaker 1: Absolutely?

1152
00:52:58,719 --> 00:53:01,439
Speaker 4: Okay, because I identify as a black woman no matter

1153
00:53:02,040 --> 00:53:03,160
Speaker 4: how mixed I am.

1154
00:53:03,480 --> 00:53:04,920
Speaker 3: I'm forty nine percent African.

1155
00:53:05,360 --> 00:53:05,680
Speaker 1: Okay.

1156
00:53:05,719 --> 00:53:07,000
Speaker 3: According to ancestry dot com.

1157
00:53:07,000 --> 00:53:08,560
Speaker 1: Oh, he's mostly from Nigeria.

1158
00:53:08,640 --> 00:53:10,160
Speaker 3: Okay, check the record.

1159
00:53:14,520 --> 00:53:17,560
Speaker 4: It's like, yes, I do want everyone to love each other,

1160
00:53:18,440 --> 00:53:20,960
Speaker 4: but I'm like, there's so many beautiful single black women

1161
00:53:21,000 --> 00:53:22,560
Speaker 4: out there that don't have men, and.

1162
00:53:22,480 --> 00:53:26,440
Speaker 1: There's why not even try to just.

1163
00:53:26,480 --> 00:53:30,080
Speaker 4: Dip your toe in there into your own pool because

1164
00:53:30,120 --> 00:53:35,279
Speaker 4: some For example, the guy that I've been having fun with,

1165
00:53:35,960 --> 00:53:42,439
Speaker 4: he has he's African, and he has stated different types

1166
00:53:42,440 --> 00:53:44,160
Speaker 4: of women. He stated a black woman and you know,

1167
00:53:44,400 --> 00:53:47,160
Speaker 4: like a Brazilian woman. I think his last girlfriend was

1168
00:53:47,640 --> 00:53:51,719
Speaker 4: like Mexican and white or something. But what I found

1169
00:53:51,800 --> 00:53:55,440
Speaker 4: with him in particular is that he does even when

1170
00:53:55,480 --> 00:53:58,319
Speaker 4: we're talking about our Tinder, like he was like, what

1171
00:53:58,360 --> 00:54:00,880
Speaker 4: did you who's on your Tinder or whatever? And he

1172
00:54:01,040 --> 00:54:04,400
Speaker 4: was he's been dating like white girls, And did you

1173
00:54:04,440 --> 00:54:06,600
Speaker 4: ask about it about him dating white girls?

1174
00:54:06,680 --> 00:54:06,879
Speaker 7: Yeah?

1175
00:54:06,880 --> 00:54:07,400
Speaker 1: Well, like you have.

1176
00:54:08,080 --> 00:54:10,239
Speaker 4: First of all, African men have such a different view

1177
00:54:10,320 --> 00:54:15,120
Speaker 4: of blackness than African American people. We're very like hostile

1178
00:54:15,120 --> 00:54:18,040
Speaker 4: about it, whereas Africans aren't because they're more comfortable in

1179
00:54:18,080 --> 00:54:20,960
Speaker 4: their blackness because they haven't it hasn't been taken away

1180
00:54:20,960 --> 00:54:23,800
Speaker 4: from them. Yeah, And that's what I've really realized talking

1181
00:54:23,800 --> 00:54:26,560
Speaker 4: to him, because he he doesn't have the state the

1182
00:54:26,600 --> 00:54:28,120
Speaker 4: same strife as I do.

1183
00:54:28,520 --> 00:54:32,759
Speaker 1: He doesn't have the same like anger as I because

1184
00:54:32,800 --> 00:54:34,879
Speaker 1: there is, Yes, I had to admit that there is

1185
00:54:34,960 --> 00:54:39,720
Speaker 1: like a like a yeah, like there's like a little

1186
00:54:39,719 --> 00:54:42,000
Speaker 1: something like, yeah, I'm a little angry, I'm a little irritated.

1187
00:54:42,040 --> 00:54:44,360
Speaker 4: It doesn't have that yeah, And it's I don't know

1188
00:54:44,360 --> 00:54:45,840
Speaker 4: if it's the way he grew up.

1189
00:54:45,880 --> 00:54:47,880
Speaker 1: I don't know, if it's the school he's, the schools

1190
00:54:47,920 --> 00:54:49,920
Speaker 1: he went to. I don't know.

1191
00:54:50,200 --> 00:54:52,800
Speaker 4: But it's so interesting talking to him about it because

1192
00:54:52,920 --> 00:54:55,840
Speaker 4: he doesn't always have an opinion on the opinions that

1193
00:54:55,880 --> 00:54:58,560
Speaker 4: I have, and or he won't express them, or they

1194
00:54:58,600 --> 00:55:00,879
Speaker 4: don't get him rowled up the way I get riled

1195
00:55:00,960 --> 00:55:02,000
Speaker 4: up about them, And.

1196
00:55:01,920 --> 00:55:03,480
Speaker 1: Then I have to wonder, like, cool, am I just

1197
00:55:03,560 --> 00:55:05,480
Speaker 1: like angry.

1198
00:55:04,840 --> 00:55:07,640
Speaker 3: And he's just like secure in his blackness?

1199
00:55:07,840 --> 00:55:08,560
Speaker 1: I'm not right?

1200
00:55:08,719 --> 00:55:10,840
Speaker 4: Is that why I'm angry. But to answer your question

1201
00:55:10,920 --> 00:55:14,799
Speaker 4: about black men dating white women, I don't. I think

1202
00:55:14,880 --> 00:55:19,200
Speaker 4: they make beautiful babies. I'm a product of a mixed setup.

1203
00:55:19,360 --> 00:55:21,080
Speaker 4: I mean, my mom is not one hundred percent white.

1204
00:55:21,600 --> 00:55:25,759
Speaker 4: But I do think that people make beautiful baby I

1205
00:55:25,760 --> 00:55:29,520
Speaker 4: think Look, black and white people make really cute.

1206
00:55:29,400 --> 00:55:31,160
Speaker 1: Babies instead of black and black people and white and

1207
00:55:31,200 --> 00:55:31,640
Speaker 1: white people.

1208
00:55:31,760 --> 00:55:34,520
Speaker 4: No, black and black people do too, but they make

1209
00:55:34,560 --> 00:55:38,279
Speaker 4: cute babies too. Particularly. Yes, look, all your people are

1210
00:55:38,640 --> 00:55:41,680
Speaker 4: good on my ass about babies are either cute it

1211
00:55:41,719 --> 00:55:42,400
Speaker 4: now I'm just kidding.

1212
00:55:42,400 --> 00:55:46,000
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, literally hate my biggest pet peeve on earth.

1213
00:55:46,040 --> 00:55:46,480
Speaker 3: Oh my god.

1214
00:55:46,520 --> 00:55:48,920
Speaker 1: I have friends who do it like hashtag mixed babies.

1215
00:55:50,040 --> 00:55:52,320
Speaker 1: I it really irritates me, and it might be the

1216
00:55:52,360 --> 00:55:55,080
Speaker 1: angry black woman in me, like, shut the fuck up,

1217
00:55:55,120 --> 00:55:59,120
Speaker 1: it's a baby, Okay, have keep and half Filipino babies.

1218
00:55:59,120 --> 00:55:59,759
Speaker 1: Well that's the same.

1219
00:56:00,040 --> 00:56:02,080
Speaker 3: The same argument can be made about black role magic.

1220
00:56:02,160 --> 00:56:03,560
Speaker 1: I know, I know you know what I mean.

1221
00:56:04,320 --> 00:56:07,359
Speaker 4: Okay, as I'm gonna argue with you on that. As

1222
00:56:07,360 --> 00:56:10,840
Speaker 4: a mixed woman, we don't. We are always having to

1223
00:56:10,920 --> 00:56:14,760
Speaker 4: choose what side to side we lie on, And it's like, why.

1224
00:56:14,680 --> 00:56:17,799
Speaker 1: Can't we be mixed. Well, I guess it's just like

1225
00:56:17,800 --> 00:56:20,800
Speaker 1: to me, I feel like, who hashtags that when everybody's mixed.

1226
00:56:20,840 --> 00:56:22,879
Speaker 1: We're American first of all, and if you're any black,

1227
00:56:22,880 --> 00:56:25,880
Speaker 1: you're mixed because of you know, slavery and rape. No,

1228
00:56:26,920 --> 00:56:28,759
Speaker 1: but yeah, you're right. I guess it is like having

1229
00:56:28,760 --> 00:56:30,759
Speaker 1: pride in whatever you is is just having pride whatever.

1230
00:56:31,280 --> 00:56:31,800
Speaker 1: It's true.

1231
00:56:31,880 --> 00:56:34,839
Speaker 3: And I think all babies are beautiful. Guys, calm down.

1232
00:56:36,440 --> 00:56:39,800
Speaker 1: I just I don't. I don't know. It's a tricky.

1233
00:56:39,840 --> 00:56:43,840
Speaker 1: It's a tricky thing, like because a part of me,

1234
00:56:43,960 --> 00:56:47,040
Speaker 1: I feel like this sounds so shitty, we may have

1235
00:56:47,040 --> 00:56:51,800
Speaker 1: to edit this up. A part of me felt like

1236
00:56:51,800 --> 00:56:53,600
Speaker 1: I don't really feel the way. I don't waste anything

1237
00:56:53,600 --> 00:56:56,359
Speaker 1: bad on anyone, like especially not Klaye Kardashian because she's

1238
00:56:56,360 --> 00:56:58,480
Speaker 1: my favorite. But I feel like a part of like

1239
00:56:58,560 --> 00:57:01,920
Speaker 1: for some black women because of how they initiated the

1240
00:57:01,960 --> 00:57:04,719
Speaker 1: relationship that she kind of like basically in everyone's lives,

1241
00:57:04,760 --> 00:57:07,319
Speaker 1: took him from her his ex woman, who was like

1242
00:57:07,520 --> 00:57:10,600
Speaker 1: there was this like this, this air about it like this.

1243
00:57:10,880 --> 00:57:12,160
Speaker 1: He you know, you get on and leave.

1244
00:57:12,280 --> 00:57:14,680
Speaker 3: You're asked for a white girl, Kanye.

1245
00:57:15,400 --> 00:57:19,000
Speaker 1: Technically she's not white either Chloe. Chloe is not white.

1246
00:57:19,600 --> 00:57:21,160
Speaker 1: Why because she's the Juices baby.

1247
00:57:21,360 --> 00:57:24,400
Speaker 4: Yeah, okay, that would be like if I took like,

1248
00:57:24,440 --> 00:57:25,440
Speaker 4: if I took.

1249
00:57:25,360 --> 00:57:28,560
Speaker 1: Chloe Baby, you're more black than Chloe because Coloe doesn't

1250
00:57:28,600 --> 00:57:30,160
Speaker 1: identify with being the Juices daughter.

1251
00:57:30,640 --> 00:57:32,680
Speaker 4: She's our meaning in America. But okay, but if she

1252
00:57:32,760 --> 00:57:35,280
Speaker 4: was our Armenian's not white either Omania. It's the farthest

1253
00:57:35,280 --> 00:57:36,280
Speaker 4: thing from white either.

1254
00:57:36,960 --> 00:57:38,760
Speaker 1: As a black you look at them as white because

1255
00:57:38,800 --> 00:57:42,960
Speaker 1: they're like racist.

1256
00:57:41,840 --> 00:57:44,720
Speaker 3: But but there, but they're not white though they're not.

1257
00:57:46,080 --> 00:57:46,640
Speaker 1: I'm gott out.

1258
00:57:46,640 --> 00:57:49,840
Speaker 3: I'd be like, if you're not black, you're white.

1259
00:57:50,160 --> 00:57:51,360
Speaker 1: Because the thing could be said for me.

1260
00:57:51,400 --> 00:57:53,640
Speaker 4: If I took a black, dark skinned black man from

1261
00:57:53,640 --> 00:57:55,480
Speaker 4: another dark skinned black girl, they'd be like, oh, you

1262
00:57:55,520 --> 00:57:56,320
Speaker 4: left me for that white girl.

1263
00:57:56,360 --> 00:58:00,360
Speaker 1: I mean.

1264
00:58:00,040 --> 00:58:02,360
Speaker 4: His family members think I'm white what I thought I

1265
00:58:02,440 --> 00:58:04,600
Speaker 4: was white? Or think I'm like Puerto Rican which is

1266
00:58:04,640 --> 00:58:05,200
Speaker 4: white to them.

1267
00:58:05,720 --> 00:58:08,240
Speaker 1: Okay, that's weird. Well, I mean I think there was

1268
00:58:08,320 --> 00:58:12,040
Speaker 1: like when he cheated on her, the black community, the

1269
00:58:12,080 --> 00:58:15,200
Speaker 1: black woman community was like ha ha, you know, like

1270
00:58:15,520 --> 00:58:17,040
Speaker 1: even I'm not saying it's right, I don't think it's

1271
00:58:17,040 --> 00:58:19,160
Speaker 1: cool either way. I don't think anyone deserves that, not

1272
00:58:19,600 --> 00:58:21,760
Speaker 1: as the initial baby mama, not the second baby mama.

1273
00:58:21,800 --> 00:58:23,000
Speaker 3: No baby mama deserves to be cheated.

1274
00:58:23,040 --> 00:58:26,600
Speaker 1: I'm not pregnant. It's not fun, but I just think

1275
00:58:26,640 --> 00:58:29,360
Speaker 1: it's it's interesting that there's just like this, just like

1276
00:58:29,880 --> 00:58:32,400
Speaker 1: I always think it's interesting because I do have mixed friends.

1277
00:58:32,400 --> 00:58:34,520
Speaker 1: I do have friends like Danielle who like have only

1278
00:58:34,600 --> 00:58:36,560
Speaker 1: dated black guys since she was in kindergarten. I've literally

1279
00:58:36,600 --> 00:58:37,280
Speaker 1: had more white.

1280
00:58:37,080 --> 00:58:37,600
Speaker 3: Dick than her.

1281
00:58:38,120 --> 00:58:41,360
Speaker 1: She's never so like I have to be I like

1282
00:58:41,440 --> 00:58:43,560
Speaker 1: to be rational and like thinking, am I thinking like

1283
00:58:43,600 --> 00:58:45,200
Speaker 1: there is this par portion to me that has this

1284
00:58:45,240 --> 00:58:48,280
Speaker 1: angry black woman thing because I'm thinking so many like

1285
00:58:48,280 --> 00:58:52,120
Speaker 1: I've been probably heard ridiculous, ignorant comments from my fellow

1286
00:58:52,120 --> 00:58:54,560
Speaker 1: black men, which in turn made me feel some type

1287
00:58:54,560 --> 00:58:57,040
Speaker 1: of way. But I have to continuously like counteract it

1288
00:58:57,080 --> 00:59:00,400
Speaker 1: with like my rational logical knowledge, you know.

1289
00:59:01,400 --> 00:59:02,800
Speaker 3: So, yeah, that's fucked up, and no.

1290
00:59:02,800 --> 00:59:04,840
Speaker 1: One should ge cheated on my mo they're pregnant. But

1291
00:59:04,880 --> 00:59:07,120
Speaker 1: I was just curious your take on it. But yeah,

1292
00:59:07,120 --> 00:59:08,440
Speaker 1: I guess I could go so many ways. People are

1293
00:59:08,440 --> 00:59:10,040
Speaker 1: can always talk. It can't go so any ways.

1294
00:59:10,080 --> 00:59:12,120
Speaker 4: I don't want to alienate people like white women from

1295
00:59:12,200 --> 00:59:14,400
Speaker 4: dating black men are feeling like that that's their fault.

1296
00:59:14,440 --> 00:59:16,600
Speaker 1: You love who you love and I don't. I don't

1297
00:59:16,600 --> 00:59:19,120
Speaker 1: blame you for liking black man girl. They fine as hell.

1298
00:59:19,400 --> 00:59:23,240
Speaker 1: It's hell. They chocolity, they got swag even when they

1299
00:59:23,280 --> 00:59:24,000
Speaker 1: don't have no job.

1300
00:59:24,400 --> 00:59:27,200
Speaker 4: And even the white boys that love the black girls, yes,

1301
00:59:27,240 --> 00:59:28,160
Speaker 4: they chocolady too.

1302
00:59:28,240 --> 00:59:30,360
Speaker 1: I love them too. I do love a white guy

1303
00:59:30,360 --> 00:59:32,040
Speaker 1: who loves a black woman because I feel like you can.

1304
00:59:32,080 --> 00:59:34,680
Speaker 1: They appreciate it, so then you respect that more than

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Speaker 1: the other one. I told you I'm fucked up. I

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00:59:37,840 --> 00:59:40,040
Speaker 1: know I'm fucked up. Like no, I don't respect it more.

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00:59:40,120 --> 00:59:42,360
Speaker 1: I just I think I see and hear so often

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00:59:42,400 --> 00:59:44,640
Speaker 1: you don't judge it as much when you see it.

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00:59:45,040 --> 00:59:47,479
Speaker 1: My aunt for many years saw me don't wait around

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00:59:47,520 --> 00:59:50,680
Speaker 1: for Tyrone because he ain't waiting around for you. Ooh, okay,

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00:59:51,720 --> 00:59:56,080
Speaker 1: veer out. She's the most like one sided racist person

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00:59:56,120 --> 00:59:57,800
Speaker 1: I've ever man. And like, you realize none of this

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00:59:57,880 --> 01:00:01,880
Speaker 1: makes sense, like look at that, look at that he

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01:00:02,120 --> 01:00:03,479
Speaker 1: left her for that white woman.

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01:00:03,520 --> 01:00:06,000
Speaker 3: I'm like, oh my god, please be quiet. You can't

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01:00:06,000 --> 01:00:06,760
Speaker 3: say this like.

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01:00:06,840 --> 01:00:10,920
Speaker 1: Loud, but it's a thing like black women unfortunately have

1318
01:00:11,040 --> 01:00:14,320
Speaker 1: been set like I think black men the culture period

1319
01:00:14,360 --> 01:00:17,840
Speaker 1: have been so conditioned to like hate ourselves, hate everything

1320
01:00:17,840 --> 01:00:22,920
Speaker 1: about blackness, and admire everything about European duty that like

1321
01:00:23,080 --> 01:00:24,400
Speaker 1: even within the community, it's like.

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01:00:24,320 --> 01:00:27,160
Speaker 3: Ooh, she makes me cute, she got good here. Oh

1323
01:00:27,160 --> 01:00:28,440
Speaker 3: you know what I mean, Like there's just all this

1324
01:00:28,600 --> 01:00:29,320
Speaker 3: like fucked up shit.

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01:00:29,440 --> 01:00:30,760
Speaker 1: So yeah, I.

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01:00:30,720 --> 01:00:33,880
Speaker 3: Think there's a resurgence of black pride.

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01:00:33,880 --> 01:00:39,200
Speaker 4: Maybe got a resurgence and and like a introduction right right, ain't.

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01:00:39,600 --> 01:00:41,800
Speaker 3: Of blackness and black pride.

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01:00:41,800 --> 01:00:44,680
Speaker 4: So hopefully, you know, we'll see how how this how

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01:00:44,680 --> 01:00:47,080
Speaker 4: it turns in the next I'd say, like five to

1331
01:00:47,120 --> 01:00:50,800
Speaker 4: ten years of like you know, younger generation and like

1332
01:00:50,880 --> 01:00:55,040
Speaker 4: what they're attracted to embrace and embrace because yeah, I

1333
01:00:55,040 --> 01:01:00,320
Speaker 4: mean tradition, Okay, women, Yeah, because we've been so yeah,

1334
01:01:00,320 --> 01:01:03,640
Speaker 4: we have been taught to love to like European beauty

1335
01:01:03,800 --> 01:01:09,400
Speaker 4: and have slim noses and wavy, manageable air quotes, hair

1336
01:01:10,320 --> 01:01:12,960
Speaker 4: and all that, you know. And now we can have

1337
01:01:13,000 --> 01:01:16,280
Speaker 4: all that and have a big ass booty and a

1338
01:01:16,320 --> 01:01:19,760
Speaker 4: belly and be pregnant and work right.

1339
01:01:20,560 --> 01:01:26,200
Speaker 1: Vearing back to our original topic anyway, So if anyone

1340
01:01:26,240 --> 01:01:29,800
Speaker 1: has experienced any pregnancy discrimination at the club.

1341
01:01:29,800 --> 01:01:32,960
Speaker 3: All right, work write in and tell us about it.

1342
01:01:32,960 --> 01:01:34,200
Speaker 1: We'd love for you to share.

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01:01:34,960 --> 01:01:36,800
Speaker 4: Yeah, I would love to know because I didn't really

1344
01:01:36,880 --> 01:01:39,320
Speaker 4: have I mean, I didn't really have that experience, so

1345
01:01:39,760 --> 01:01:41,600
Speaker 4: I want to know. I mean I was just reading

1346
01:01:41,640 --> 01:01:44,360
Speaker 4: a few things online, like one lady said that she

1347
01:01:44,440 --> 01:01:46,080
Speaker 4: worked with a bunch of doctors and she was giving

1348
01:01:46,160 --> 01:01:48,680
Speaker 4: like a presentation and the guy was like, do you

1349
01:01:48,720 --> 01:01:49,480
Speaker 4: have a tumor?

1350
01:01:49,480 --> 01:01:50,280
Speaker 3: Are you pregnant?

1351
01:01:50,600 --> 01:01:51,280
Speaker 1: Is that a tumor?

1352
01:01:51,360 --> 01:01:53,280
Speaker 3: Are you pregnant? And this is like a room full

1353
01:01:53,320 --> 01:01:55,280
Speaker 3: of doctors.

1354
01:01:54,840 --> 01:01:58,800
Speaker 1: Which brings us to the conclusion that doctors are fucking dumb.

1355
01:02:01,160 --> 01:02:03,240
Speaker 1: Don't believe your doctor. They're dumb.

1356
01:02:04,520 --> 01:02:05,640
Speaker 3: Seriously, Like when I.

1357
01:02:05,640 --> 01:02:08,680
Speaker 1: Feel like doctors have only books intelligence, but their intelligence

1358
01:02:08,680 --> 01:02:11,760
Speaker 1: that put together anything like logically doesn't exist, because that's

1359
01:02:11,800 --> 01:02:14,200
Speaker 1: the stupid shit that is really that. When I read that,

1360
01:02:14,240 --> 01:02:15,720
Speaker 1: I was like, huh.

1361
01:02:15,320 --> 01:02:18,720
Speaker 3: You're somebody's doctor. This perfectly round tumor.

1362
01:02:21,720 --> 01:02:24,360
Speaker 4: And just also like you telling your employer that you're

1363
01:02:24,360 --> 01:02:26,240
Speaker 4: pregnant because you don't have to technically you don't have

1364
01:02:26,280 --> 01:02:28,160
Speaker 4: to tell them shit first of all, but like people

1365
01:02:28,200 --> 01:02:30,600
Speaker 4: like to waitit the first trimesters over, like after three

1366
01:02:30,600 --> 01:02:33,960
Speaker 4: months they tell them and having that conversation with them like, Okay,

1367
01:02:34,160 --> 01:02:36,760
Speaker 4: this is my information I'm sharing with you. I'm going

1368
01:02:36,800 --> 01:02:38,480
Speaker 4: to choose to share it with other people. It's not

1369
01:02:38,600 --> 01:02:42,920
Speaker 4: your business to share. And just being inappropriate and talking

1370
01:02:42,920 --> 01:02:48,480
Speaker 4: about referencing your child with other people when you've shared

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01:02:48,520 --> 01:02:52,200
Speaker 4: that in confidence with your employer out of respect, right,

1372
01:02:52,560 --> 01:02:53,400
Speaker 4: So I think it's just like.

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01:02:53,720 --> 01:02:55,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, where do you draw the line?

1374
01:02:55,480 --> 01:02:57,720
Speaker 4: How do you maintain the respect from your employer who

1375
01:02:57,720 --> 01:02:59,920
Speaker 4: maybe is the is the employer that doesn't get it?

1376
01:03:00,960 --> 01:03:10,640
Speaker 7: And hashtag I'm pregnant and a lot I'm pregnant line. Okay,

1377
01:03:10,880 --> 01:03:12,720
Speaker 7: well this concludes our story.

1378
01:03:12,720 --> 01:03:14,440
Speaker 1: Tomorrow we're going to Disneyland, so we need to can

1379
01:03:14,480 --> 01:03:16,720
Speaker 1: serve every iota have energy that we have.

1380
01:03:17,200 --> 01:03:19,800
Speaker 4: Yeah, I know, my god, I've never been to Disneyland

1381
01:03:19,800 --> 01:03:25,000
Speaker 4: with Iri. So lots of coffee, comfy shoes and blast hydration.

1382
01:03:25,680 --> 01:03:31,439
Speaker 4: Hydration is key, any type of hydration. Margarete a type

1383
01:03:31,480 --> 01:03:32,000
Speaker 4: of hydration.

1384
01:03:34,800 --> 01:03:37,320
Speaker 3: They're gonna think we're alcoholics.

1385
01:03:36,920 --> 01:03:40,919
Speaker 4: Our friends, our listeners, like all these girls Douders drink

1386
01:03:40,920 --> 01:03:41,600
Speaker 4: with their children.

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01:03:41,880 --> 01:03:45,040
Speaker 1: Hi, we're gonna have a lot of backup there.

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01:03:45,080 --> 01:03:47,560
Speaker 4: Look, I drink a lot of water guys, a lot

1389
01:03:47,800 --> 01:03:48,640
Speaker 4: some of the balance.

1390
01:03:48,920 --> 01:03:49,960
Speaker 3: It's all about balance.

1391
01:03:50,200 --> 01:03:52,040
Speaker 1: Hydrate. My grandmother taught me that you can drink as

1392
01:03:52,120 --> 01:03:53,920
Speaker 1: much tequila as long as you hydrate equally.

1393
01:03:54,360 --> 01:03:58,120
Speaker 3: Sounds like my type of woman. Oh and also happy

1394
01:03:58,200 --> 01:04:01,520
Speaker 3: for twenty on Friday. We're about to art this right now.

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01:04:01,800 --> 01:04:04,200
Speaker 1: Happy for twenty like.

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01:04:06,960 --> 01:04:11,440
Speaker 4: Every day ha ha, because like I had because like

1397
01:04:11,440 --> 01:04:11,960
Speaker 4: like that REMX.

1398
01:04:15,120 --> 01:04:17,520
Speaker 1: You know what that song, I was gonna go to sleep?

1399
01:04:17,840 --> 01:04:22,760
Speaker 1: But what what happened to that guy from Man? Yeah?

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01:04:22,880 --> 01:04:24,280
Speaker 1: I don't know, but that's song was the ship I

1401
01:04:24,320 --> 01:04:26,600
Speaker 1: was supposed to come over, but then I got hot.

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01:04:26,640 --> 01:04:34,320
Speaker 4: I don't think that was enough like syllables girl.

1403
01:04:35,600 --> 01:04:36,960
Speaker 3: Okay, guys, we gotta go.

1404
01:04:38,640 --> 01:04:44,720
Speaker 1: Handle some ship can't through dripping chip chip, can't through

1405
01:04:44,800 --> 01:04:48,800
Speaker 1: dripping chip chip, carn't through drift chip dripping.

1406
01:04:49,360 --> 01:04:51,640
Speaker 2: Give me a little son to remember trying to make

1407
01:04:51,880 --> 01:04:53,960
Speaker 2: up in the sprinter Chust. You drop a nugga like

1408
01:04:54,040 --> 01:04:55,920
Speaker 2: kimber can like a right sipe.

1409
01:04:55,720 --> 01:04:58,160
Speaker 1: On tender ship on these holes.

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01:04:58,640 --> 01:04:59,960
Speaker 2: None of my wrists on these holes.

1411
01:05:00,080 --> 01:05:01,760
Speaker 1: Bridge now look down on these breeches.

1412
01:05:02,120 --> 01:05:04,440
Speaker 2: Cool like a moscows on this hole. But go get

1413
01:05:04,480 --> 01:05:06,840
Speaker 2: every day rain now and the make got cake by

1414
01:05:06,920 --> 01:05:10,080
Speaker 2: the pel go down, eat it up, don't trown teasing

1415
01:05:10,120 --> 01:05:11,000
Speaker 2: a bow herself.

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01:05:12,000 --> 01:05:13,920
Speaker 1: I got that cushion. Yeah, that's the fact that I've

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01:05:13,960 --> 01:05:14,680
Speaker 1: never been pussing