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Speaker 1: Second date of date. I'll admit, when I first started dating,

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Speaker 1: I thought people went on dates to like find true love.

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Speaker 2: I like that for a.

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Speaker 1: Long I really did what naive little boy way to think.

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Speaker 1: Because some people, some people just date for the free meal.

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Speaker 3: Somebody knew exactly.

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Speaker 1: Some people just date because they need somebody to administer

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Speaker 1: that EpiPen shot at the shellfish buffet. Oh my gosh,

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Speaker 1: where I go. It's half off of crabs legs. I'm

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Speaker 1: not gonna not eat that. So yeah, a lot of reasons.

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Speaker 1: And today our listener Lucy is asking for a second date,

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Speaker 1: even though she isn't one hundred percent sure why she

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Speaker 1: wants to date this guy that's been there. So hopefully

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Speaker 1: just talking it out with us might give you some clarity.

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Speaker 1: But welcome to the show.

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Speaker 2: Hi, I love it.

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Speaker 3: Like four minutes into our conversation, she just hangs up, No, actually.

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Speaker 1: Was a bad choice. Well, Lucy, tell us about this

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Speaker 1: guy that you met, like, start from the beginning.

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Speaker 4: Okay, so his name is Nate. I just want to

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Speaker 4: get everything out in the open because I'm confused. I

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Speaker 4: am way better looking than this hand and it's.

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Speaker 2: Coming in hot there.

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Speaker 1: Okay, all right, I like it. Okay, I heard that

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Speaker 1: he's not as good looking as you. I didn't hear

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Speaker 1: what you said after that.

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Speaker 2: Oh, I only heard the humility, so that.

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Speaker 1: Sorry, humble, Lucy.

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Speaker 4: What was the other reason, Well, he's not chasing me

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Speaker 4: the way that I normally get chased after a date.

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Speaker 1: You normally have men like physically chasing you, or you

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Speaker 1: just mean like, yeah.

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Speaker 3: Possibly most of the time, yes, okay, can I guess?

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Speaker 3: I mean not just his looks, but also his personality

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Speaker 3: is probably not typically what you normally date.

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Speaker 4: No, not really, Like we met on hinge and he

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Speaker 1: Stopped gagging during the description.

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Speaker 3: After my friends they're like, I'll give a guy a chance,

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Speaker 3: I'll try something different, and then he stops talking to her,

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Speaker 3: and it's like, what's wrong in the world?

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Speaker 5: You know?

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Speaker 3: Like how she said he seemed normal and he's obviously

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Speaker 1: But even though he seemed normal and nice and totally

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Speaker 1: I did.

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Speaker 4: I mean, yes, I was kind of bored, so I

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Speaker 4: was like why not?

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Speaker 2: Wow?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but personality can add the looks once you meet someone.

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Speaker 3: So how was it when you first met him? Like,

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Speaker 3: what was that moment?

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Speaker 4: Like, well, he invited me to a bar for happy

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Speaker 4: That was like five Well.

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Speaker 3: That's happy hour, yeah okay, okay, yeah, the late night crowds.

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Speaker 2: So all right, So what happened?

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Speaker 4: The conversation went, Well, he was more confident than I

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Speaker 3: When you can, I just ask like, is so like

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Speaker 3: you're saying he's more confident because you still think he's

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Speaker 3: not very attractive. Correct, Okay, I want to know when

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Speaker 3: you very first saw him, what was your reaction.

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Speaker 4: I think it was like, I'm doing this guy a favor.

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Speaker 1: Okay, You're like, he's not trying yet, but he will

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Speaker 5: I'm just being honest.

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Speaker 4: Okay, you guys asked me the question.

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Speaker 1: All right. Sometimes I do see couples and I'm like, Wow,

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Speaker 1: she's gorgeous. How did he pull her? Now I'm wondering

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Speaker 2: A charity case.

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Speaker 1: Well, you have to understand, she's the one that's calling

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Speaker 2: She's the one chasing him.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, although there's a reason we didn't answer your

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Speaker 1: what happens during this happy hour drink state.

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Speaker 4: Conversation went well, and then he started asking me about

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Speaker 4: what type of food I like, and I was like,

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Speaker 1: She's like, oh god, this guy's gonna try and feed

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Speaker 1: me too. Is that is that kind of where you're

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Speaker 4: I mean making it sound like it's out of the ordinary,

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Speaker 4: but that's not where my head was at the time.

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Speaker 3: Okay, So you're excited to continue the day with him?

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Speaker 4: Excited might be a strong word, like medium excited, all right, okay.

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Speaker 1: Willing to go along with it a little longer, Yeah.

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Speaker 4: Okay, But here's the weird thing. I tell him what

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Speaker 1: What immediately do.

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Speaker 3: You that's not even a good review of the date,

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Speaker 4: Why would you even ask what I'd like to eat?

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Speaker 4: And I just said meet up with who? And he

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Speaker 4: was like, oh, just a friend, I'll catch you later. Though, Oh,

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Speaker 1: Maybe a huge player?

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Speaker 3: This feels like the perfect So I think that he

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Speaker 4: Did you miss that I am way better looking? Like

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Speaker 4: he never should have had a chance.

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Speaker 3: Some people aren't looking for just look you gave off

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Speaker 1: But he did say i'll catch you later, So there's

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Speaker 1: What was that the end of all conversation?

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Speaker 4: Well, I texted him a little later and said, hey,

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Speaker 4: I had a really great time. It was coleeting you,

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Speaker 4: and he just hurted it.

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Speaker 1: What he could have just thumbs up it and that

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Speaker 3: Can't wait to talk to this guy. I don't feel like, like,

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Speaker 3: It's just like a game. I don't why are we

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Speaker 1: Yeah, what made you reach out to us for help?

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Speaker 2: Well, we have to hear his side.

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Speaker 4: I'm too curious, Like, who did he have to meet

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Speaker 3: So I don't think you're gonna like anything, he says.

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Speaker 1: Maybe his like family member was in the hospital and

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Speaker 1: Would that change your mind?

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Speaker 4: You don't say meet up with someone if you're going

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Speaker 1: Dead right now. Meet up.

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Speaker 3: She decided the moment she saw him that she was

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Speaker 1: There is a little bit of a power dynamic going on,

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Speaker 1: and I am excited to hopefully get him on the phone.

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Speaker 1: We'll see what he has to say if he answers

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Speaker 1: in your second date update. Right after this hold second

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Speaker 1: date update, let's recap what we know about our listener

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Speaker 1: Lucy and her date with Nate the other day.

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Speaker 2: It's a rough one, Jeff Well.

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Speaker 6: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: Number one, according to her, she is way hotter than him.

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Speaker 1: Number two, he was lucky to be going out with

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Speaker 1: personality was fine, but not as fine as her hotness.

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Speaker 1: And despite all of that, uh huh, Nate was the

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Speaker 1: one who cut their date short after just one drink.

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Speaker 2: So weird. It seems like she's so deep.

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Speaker 5: It is that he was confident.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, why would he be confident?

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Speaker 1: I'm not sure, but it's all very unusual for Lucy. Clearly,

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Speaker 1: it's got her a little bit flustered, very confused, which

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Speaker 1: a call and get some answers. Right, Lucy, you guys

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Speaker 1: make me.

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Speaker 4: Sound like I'm so shallow. I'm not.

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Speaker 2: Okay, you know what.

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Speaker 3: I think that just the conversation we had made that happen.

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Speaker 2: But yeah, but.

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Speaker 4: I am just trying to paint a picture for you here.

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Speaker 4: I think it's very important to note that I am,

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Speaker 4: in fact hotter than him.

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Speaker 1: Okay, fact like a brat. We're not that. We were

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Speaker 1: We're all taking your word for it. But I think

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Speaker 4: Him, that's he really did hold down a conversation.

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Speaker 3: Well okay, and you actually sounds sincere about that, which

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Speaker 4: Okay, when I say he did that, he barely did it.

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Speaker 1: But he did it, okay, But I'm just gonna make

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Speaker 1: I'm just going to bring it up to him just

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Speaker 2: Sounds like a confident, great guy.

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Speaker 1: Okay, So let's hope he holds a conversation. We're going

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Speaker 1: to talk to him on the radio if he answers. First,

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Speaker 1: we got to get him on the phone. Let me

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Speaker 1: we can move from there. Here we go. Hello, Hey,

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Speaker 1: is this Nate?

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Speaker 3: Uh yeah, cute voice, Brook coming.

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Speaker 2: Can you give him some compliments? Okay?

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Speaker 1: All right, this is We're a radio show. We're called

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Speaker 1: Brook and Jeffrey.

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Speaker 3: In the Morning.

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Speaker 2: Welcome to the show.

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Speaker 1: Good morning.

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Speaker 5: Uh yeah, I'm a little busy right now. And what's

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Speaker 5: going on?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so we won't take up too much of your time.

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Speaker 1: What we're doing is a segment it's called a second

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Speaker 1: Date Update, where we're trying to help one of our

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Speaker 1: listeners get back in touch with you after you two

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Speaker 1: went out on a hot date the other night.

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Speaker 2: A short date.

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Speaker 3: I think he ended it pretty short.

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Speaker 5: Who are you talking about?

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Speaker 1: It's a woman named Lucy.

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Speaker 5: Lucy Yeah, okay, super serious, laughing. It totally checks out.

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Speaker 5: It totally checks out that she would be.

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Speaker 1: The one calling out What does that mean?

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Speaker 6: Yeah, she's texted me like four times in the last

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Speaker 6: couple of days, like I barely sponsor her.

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Speaker 1: So that's okay. So clearly you you know what you're

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Speaker 1: doing here. This is all on purpose.

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Speaker 2: It's a power play.

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Speaker 5: It sounds like, well, it's just she's that type of girl,

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Speaker 5: Like there's a type.

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Speaker 3: What does that mean? Explain the type.

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Speaker 6: Though, Like she's very attractive, but she's been told all

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Speaker 5: And then she's like, no, I'm better, and I'm like no,

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Speaker 2: So do you do you not like her?

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Speaker 3: Like is that negative or positive? I can't tell.

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Speaker 6: No, She's fine, Like it's just a matter of Like

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Speaker 5: Right, that's the thing. You got to keep the date

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Speaker 6: Going longer, longer, I had the suspicion that she was like,

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Speaker 5: Meal out of me, and I'm not. That's not what

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Speaker 1: Okay. So this is like a rule of strategy that

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Speaker 6: It's not just beautiful women, it's beautiful women who know

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Speaker 6: that they're beautiful and think that they're better than you

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Speaker 3: Okay, waiting jem specific type of girls. Most women in

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Speaker 3: my case, I don't get it though, Like you want

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Speaker 6: No, it's definitely because I want to keep her interested.

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Speaker 5: And you're the woman I gluecy.

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Speaker 6: The longer the date goes, the less interested she becomes

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Speaker 1: So you mentioned earlier there's two things that you always do.

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Speaker 1: You keep the date short. Was one short.

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Speaker 5: You don't give them any information. You just hey, I

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Speaker 3: So when you said you were going to meet up

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Speaker 5: That wasn'tna lie. That was we were at the gym.

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Speaker 6: I want to want to go to the gym to

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Speaker 5: But I'm not going to give her specifics.

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Speaker 6: I'm not gonna where and when and with who because

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Speaker 6: I know that the moment I say that, all the

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Speaker 1: Wow wow, oh my god. Yeah, who's used to dating girls?

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Speaker 3: Okay, so she found she found someone who.

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Speaker 1: Is so clearly you seem to have some sort of

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Speaker 1: When do you plan to actually meet up with her again? Like?

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Speaker 1: How do you make that happen?

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Speaker 6: Well, when I reach out to her, I'll say like, hey,

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Speaker 5: Or do you want to get some dinner tonight? And

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Speaker 5: it's always got to be like last.

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Speaker 2: Minute, Okay, throw her a boat.

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Speaker 6: I've been dodging her and I've been keeping it vague

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Speaker 5: It track with the irons hot that that's all right?

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Speaker 6: This plan.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you're breaking Brooks spirit. The more that you talk

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Speaker 2: Proud of him.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I think she's proud of himself with this energy.

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Speaker 3: Or go out with someone who thinks they're better than you?

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Speaker 6: Like, yeah, I definitely wouldn't do this with everybody. I

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Speaker 6: I just know the type of woman and when I

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Speaker 6: ask her, Hey, what do you like to eat? And

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Speaker 1: Come on, dude, Yeah, you know how these women are.

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Speaker 1: They try and like manipulate you. They try and like

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Speaker 5: Right, Well, what are you talking about? What did that mean?

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Speaker 6: Well?

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Speaker 1: I thought I thought you would have known by now.

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Speaker 1: Lucy's on the other line listening to this. What. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: that's how this works, Lucy, are you there?

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Speaker 5: Hi?

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Speaker 4: Nathan?

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Speaker 1: He was Nate before full name.

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Speaker 4: You seriously thought like you were gonna hit my confidence.

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Speaker 4: Bab you can't bread crumb me, okay, I own the bakery.

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Speaker 6: Oh oh god, Lucy, Lucy, you can't say all of

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Speaker 6: this after you've called.

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Speaker 5: The radio station to get folded. You're not much. You're in.

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Speaker 4: I'm a curious about why you were being an asshole,

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Speaker 4: And now I know because you like games.

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Speaker 6: What I just I'm better at the game than you.

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Speaker 4: Are to pick up artist. Okay, you think negging women

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Speaker 5: No, that's not at all. That's not true at all.

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Speaker 5: I think negging you is the right way, Honey.

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Speaker 4: It doesn't work that way, It doesn't it.

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Speaker 3: Just did.

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Speaker 6: You literally called the radio station to get hold of me?

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Speaker 5: How you say that?

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Speaker 4: No one like, no one treat me like that?

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Speaker 5: You know that nobody does.

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Speaker 1: Defense a lot? She did say. Remember, even if he

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Speaker 1: likes me, I don't want.

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Speaker 6: To go out with him again.

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Speaker 3: I Mean, here's the thing, Lucy, Like, it's not that

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Speaker 3: you're beautiful, it's that you're I am. Yeah, she's gorgeous.

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Speaker 3: The reason he's playing the game is because you go

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Speaker 2: Like you're better than everybody else.

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Speaker 4: And that is fact. Are facts? I am better looking

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Speaker 1: Okay, Well.

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Speaker 5: This, Lucy, Yeah, she absolutely is better looking than me.

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Speaker 5: But I have a wrap around my little finger.

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Speaker 4: I've got your finger right here. Okay, and you get one.

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Speaker 1: Well, let's save that for the bedroom, guys, because this

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Speaker 1: I'm trying to just read between the lines of that conversation,

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Speaker 1: and what Lucy was trying to say is she's willing

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Speaker 1: to give you one more chance to do the date

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Speaker 1: the right way.

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Speaker 2: Wait, I think she's talking right now.

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Speaker 1: Well, Lucy, this is going to be my time because

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Speaker 1: we're running. We're running short here because I have to

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Speaker 1: ask Nate, would you be willing to go out with

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Speaker 4: You ask me? You don't need to ask him. I

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Speaker 2: You judge whoa is?

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Speaker 3: That? Was that your last power move?

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Speaker 5: Okay, I'm not even gonna say yes or no. That's

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Speaker 3: He's so good. Oh my god, I Alexis wants to

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Speaker 1: All right, it's a game of chicken.

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Speaker 3: We need to see you.

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Speaker 1: I'll text you, gonna text to first, Nathan.

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Speaker 3: It's gonna be her.

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Speaker 1: Jeffrey in the morning. Is it just me or was

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Speaker 1: that guy like the hot girl whisperer? He just knows

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Speaker 3: I don't think it's that hard when they're not that deep.

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Speaker 1: Jeff But that that in itself is like a crazy

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Speaker 3: But why would you want to That's my whole point.

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Speaker 3: There's plenty of hot girls to have substance, Like, why

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Speaker 3: would you want one without it?

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Speaker 1: Show me one, jef.

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Speaker 3: Right here, she's a hot girl with substance. That's nice

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Speaker 3: of you, that's true, silent, but I'm.

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Speaker 1: Glad you think so. I mean, this whole strategy really

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Speaker 1: this is why I'll never get dates because I.

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Speaker 2: Can't shut up.

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Speaker 1: So if we want hot girls to listen to our podcasts,

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Speaker 1: I guess we should just be vague about it. Yeah. So, uh,

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Speaker 1: any hot girls it's online somewhere, comedians, Yeah, go find it.

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Speaker 2: We got a boun never going to date someone higher.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but think about the hot girls are going to

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Speaker 1: listen to our podcasts.

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Speaker 2: I'm sure yeah, they can't resist you.

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Speaker 1: By the way, the official one is Brook and Jeffrey's

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Speaker 1: Second Date Update. There's a lot of fakes and knockoffs right.

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Speaker 2: Now, so don't I mean, seriously than you.

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Speaker 1: Brook and Jeffery Second Date Update. Find it online, wherever

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Speaker 1: you get your podcast

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Speaker 2: Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning