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Speaker 1: The Nicki Kleiser Podcast.

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Speaker 2: Nikkleaser Podcast. Here's Nikki, Hello, welcome to the show. It's

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Speaker 2: Nicky Glaser podcast podcast. What did I say? Off to

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Speaker 2: a great start? I'm here alone in Saint Louis. Uh

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Speaker 2: Noah's in Arizona. Brian Franjie is in Los Angeles. Anya

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Speaker 2: is in New York. I know we are all alone,

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Speaker 2: anyas the troth that is on the on tour.

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Speaker 3: Auviy is where he is in Dallas. What work stuff? Oh?

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Speaker 3: How do you feel about that?

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Speaker 2: Fine? Fine?

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Speaker 4: I enjoy the time alone where I could just be

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Speaker 4: gross and just do whatever.

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Speaker 5: I wanst Why is that the first thing we go to.

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Speaker 5: It's so nice.

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Speaker 3: I do not change anything if Chris is here or not?

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Speaker 5: Wait, what do you you're not?

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Speaker 3: I maybe I fart more? Is that what you mean?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: I mean like if I face.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I think that's what they meant.

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Speaker 5: I eat the same food every day. I'm just like,

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Speaker 5: I don't need I don't care if lunch is the

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Speaker 5: same as dinner, whereas if we're together, I think we

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Speaker 5: try a little harder for each other.

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Speaker 2: Okay, same, God, meal planning is so exhaustive. You have

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Speaker 2: to be like what do you want, Chris and I

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Speaker 2: just get separate things.

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Speaker 5: You're smart. Oh my god, I just read this article

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Speaker 5: written by a divorce lawyer. I sent it to you guys.

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, what what did that say?

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Speaker 5: When you gets the advice on marriage? It's really well written.

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Speaker 5: It It came out a couple of years ago, and

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Speaker 5: my sister sent it to me. I don't know what

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Speaker 5: that means. She's like warning, warning, But no, he's like,

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Speaker 5: this is the most important thing, he said. He's like,

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Speaker 5: marriage is the most legally significant thing you can do

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Speaker 5: other than dying. It changes your property ownership rights, it

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Speaker 5: changes your obligations when it comes to support, and changes

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Speaker 5: all kinds of legal rights. And you don't even get

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Speaker 5: a pamphlet when you get married that explains that to

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Speaker 5: your inheritance right.

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Speaker 2: Having a child would be before, like would be up

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Speaker 2: there too with legal rights.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, he says, like a partnership sharing children all that.

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Speaker 5: He's like, he was like a romantic and saying whenever

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Speaker 5: people come into his office, he urges them to go

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Speaker 5: to counseling. And he's just shocked at how many people

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Speaker 5: get married without thinking about it. He's like, more people

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Speaker 5: put thought into getting a car and getting ready.

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Speaker 2: That's why I'm shocked by people doing well. I think

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Speaker 2: he's saying it should be more romantic, like it should

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Speaker 2: like like treasure the idea of marriage and give it

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Speaker 2: more thought like you would your new car Kia Sorrento.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, and think of the car that's going to get

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Speaker 5: you through all phases of life. He's like, if you

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Speaker 5: choose something in your twenties, you're going to choose Everyone's like,

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Speaker 5: I want a Lamborghini or Ferrari. But you have to

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Speaker 5: think about all the phases of life. What kind of

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Speaker 5: car is going to get you through all that?

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Speaker 2: You want? That four wheel drive you want, those heated

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Speaker 2: seats you want. Well, that's why I'm always like, you

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Speaker 2: want people buy mozd, Like why do people buy Malibus?

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Speaker 3: I just don't understand.

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Speaker 2: If you are have this amount of money, why wouldn't

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Speaker 2: you get look at Kelly Bluebook and get the most

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Speaker 2: reliably rated car that you could get for your money

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Speaker 2: instead of Because there's so many cars that are shit

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Speaker 2: that are in the same price range as something that's reliable,

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Speaker 2: like a Toyota Camera or Civic or you know what

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Speaker 2: I mean.

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Speaker 1: Yeahci, Yeah, I mean America's got a car culture and

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Speaker 1: people are are influenced by marketing, and you know, one

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Speaker 1: year you're gonna be like that car makes me.

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Speaker 2: But if you're buying a low end car, who gives

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Speaker 2: a fuck? What? Like there are no cool cars when

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Speaker 2: you're paying Oh I really?

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Speaker 1: Okay, There's there's a huge difference between having a Kia

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Speaker 1: Sorrento and a mos To six, you know, which are

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Speaker 2: But Mazdas are gonna probably be better rated.

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Speaker 3: Right, Why would anyone buy a Kia?

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Speaker 1: Then?

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Speaker 2: Why would any because.

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Speaker 1: Especially nowadays, because you can easily break into you.

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, they can steal them.

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Speaker 2: My luber driver told me about that stealable Okay, So

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Speaker 2: what else do we learn in this marriage thing?

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Speaker 1: Okay?

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Speaker 2: So people need to give it more thought, which is

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Speaker 2: that's why I said I don't go to people's weddings.

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Speaker 2: If you're in your twenties getting married and you haven't

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Speaker 2: been together at least four years, I don't think your

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Speaker 2: marriage is gonna make it. It's the only prerequisite for

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Speaker 2: me thinking your marriage can make it in your twenties

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Speaker 2: four years together at least, But otherwise what are you doing?

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Speaker 3: But that's me projecting.

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Speaker 5: It just struck me how we don't really think about

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Speaker 5: it and you have to go to a divorce lawyer's

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Speaker 5: office to he goes. A lot of people just have

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Speaker 5: no idea what they're already in for. Like you said,

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Speaker 5: your inheritance rates changed, your ability to select a beneficiary

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Speaker 5: for your life insurance policy has changed, your ability to

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Speaker 5: hold property, and your sole name just changed, and he goes.

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Speaker 5: The first thing I do anytime anyone comes into my

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Speaker 3: Wait, you can't buy property in your own name.

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Speaker 5: When you're married, you can, but if you already are

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Speaker 5: a property, I guess entitled to half.

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 3: That's why I'm going to have a million carve outs.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna have like you're doing the pre nup.

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Speaker 2: But why why get married so you can visit each

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Speaker 2: other in the hospital and have a wedding, which I mean,

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Speaker 2: so what are the benefits of you get.

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Speaker 1: To share health insurance?

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Speaker 2: Oh that's right, Okay, you get a tax break, tax break.

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Speaker 1: A little tax break. It's amazing much, is it?

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Speaker 3: It's negligible.

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Speaker 2: It has to be negligible or everyone getting many married,

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Speaker 2: Like they're all moving to Texas.

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Speaker 1: You got a free foot long from subway. I know

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Speaker 1: that once a year. M you want the subway married,

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Speaker 1: they give you a free sandwich. You didn't know that.

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Speaker 5: He did say most divorces are the result of a

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Speaker 5: bunch of tiny resentments over time, not one big thing.

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Speaker 5: He quoted this thing from on Fire of the Vanities.

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Speaker 5: You guys remember that movie. He said, there's this line

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Speaker 5: where they're like, how did you go bankrupt? And the

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Speaker 5: guy goes, I went bankrupt the way everyone does, very slowly,

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Speaker 5: and then all at once, and he goes, that's how

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Speaker 5: divorce happens. It's very slowly and then all at once.

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Speaker 3: Is this news to anyone?

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Speaker 2: I mean, do you guys think that people get divorced

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Speaker 2: because of one thing?

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Speaker 3: Like you can see it coming a mile away.

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Speaker 2: Like it's always starts with little things of like he

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Speaker 2: doesn't pick out the fucking trash, He never helps me

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Speaker 2: or like she doesn't fuck me anymore, Like everything starts

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Speaker 2: with That's everything in life. If you pick up a

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Speaker 2: bad habit, let's say you start cheating or you start

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Speaker 2: using drugs, or something you start with, just like I'm

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Speaker 2: a little bit anxious right now. I just need a

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Speaker 2: little extra pills to get me through tonight. And then

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Speaker 2: the next day you go, I need some more, and

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Speaker 2: then it's snowballs. It all starts with something small, right.

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Speaker 1: I say, it's even earlier. I can tell when couples

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Speaker 1: are gonna get divorced before they get married. I have

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Speaker 1: I I'm not going to say who, but I have

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Speaker 1: my like people that I know are married. I've got

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Speaker 1: like three or four of them pegged that you know,

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Speaker 1: twenty years at most, but I believe sooner for some

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Speaker 2: The years is a good run. Twenty years is a

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Speaker 2: successful marriage in my opinion.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I've got a few that I'm like, this isn't

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Speaker 1: gonna last no way. And also I uh oh no,

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Speaker 1: I lost my train of thought again.

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Speaker 2: That's all right, that makes you likable.

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Speaker 1: Well, no, that's not why I'm doing it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you do look like you're pointing to a charge

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Speaker 2: like postcards you have like I have.

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Speaker 1: I have my all my lines for the podcast written

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Speaker 1: down the wall.

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Speaker 5: Here, grab a pen, grab a sharpie, Bryant like me,

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Speaker 5: and just start pointing and it'll come back to you.

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Speaker 5: I lost my train of thought too. I don't remember

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Speaker 5: why I brought up to divorce lawyer artist this.

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Speaker 1: Is I'm I'm in a brain fog today.

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Speaker 5: We're all that's so we didn't tell the listener.

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Speaker 2: I think you brought it up because we were talking

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Speaker 2: about planning. Yeah, and like how hard it is to

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Speaker 2: cohabitate with someone and not just hard at all? Is Ye.

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Speaker 1: What I was gonna say was I know who's gonna

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Speaker 1: now they're going to last into their ten years.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, that'll well, that's a classic trick. Is like

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Speaker 2: the cat. You have kids to make to save this,

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Speaker 2: let's get focus to save it. Get cats and dogs

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Speaker 2: they move in together to save a thing. I've done

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Speaker 2: all these tricks too, or like at least thought about

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Speaker 2: this will soothe her. I think is a lot of

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Speaker 2: people like she wants a baby, I'll get her a dog.

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Speaker 1: What do you think is more likely to save a marriage?

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Speaker 1: A dog or a cat?

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Speaker 2: I think a cat because they require so much less work.

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Speaker 1: So you think a cat will make your marriage last

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Speaker 1: longer than a dog.

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Speaker 2: Well, I think either our bad options, and you should

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Speaker 2: I think therapy.

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Speaker 3: Would be the best option.

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Speaker 2: But so many people have the worst opinion about couple's therapy,

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Speaker 2: like it's it means you're already broken. I've heard like

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Speaker 2: really intelligent men be like, then your your relationship's over,

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Speaker 4: I heard something very helpful from my therapist about couples therapy.

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Speaker 1: Okay, so.

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Speaker 4: I mean, like I mean and I we have a

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Speaker 4: pretty like good strong relationship, good communications for the most part,

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Speaker 4: but there are some things where we're just like not aligned.

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Speaker 2: With and.

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Speaker 4: We had this thing and I was like, and I said,

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Speaker 4: I told him that we need couples therapy, but we're

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Speaker 4: only gonna go to a couple's therapy if he sees

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Speaker 4: a therapist on the side, because it's not fair that

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Speaker 4: I have to see a therapist and then a couple's therapists.

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Speaker 3: Men's sister let me guess she didn't like that.

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Speaker 4: She said, uh, do not give him an ultimatum, and

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Speaker 4: then she said, look for couple's therapy. You can do like,

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Speaker 4: you know, six weeks and think of it as like

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Speaker 4: a six week course before marriage, like a prerequisite before marriage.

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Speaker 4: It's kind of like you're you're taking a class and

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Speaker 4: you're resolving all to get a license for you get married. Yes, exactly,

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Speaker 4: And I thought, I mean just like turning it around

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Speaker 4: like that as opposed to like going to therapy to

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, Nikki, you've changed my life. When you said, yes,

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Speaker 1: What did I say? Once ago? You were you were

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Speaker 3: Reddit is the best thing ever.

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Speaker 2: No, because Reddit you find links. People write links like

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Speaker 2: watch you more. And if you met any of those

440
00:20:38,200 --> 00:20:40,640
Speaker 2: women out, mom, you would go up and say can

441
00:20:40,640 --> 00:20:43,320
Speaker 2: I get a picture? I love you? You would never maybe

442
00:20:43,359 --> 00:20:46,520
Speaker 2: in the recesses of My mom doesn't like troll but

443
00:20:46,680 --> 00:20:49,800
Speaker 2: like I can see how she you know, these people

444
00:20:49,880 --> 00:20:51,439
Speaker 2: get a lot of hate online, but these people go

445
00:20:51,480 --> 00:20:53,800
Speaker 2: out and about Ramona is never being faced with someone

446
00:20:53,840 --> 00:20:56,480
Speaker 2: being like you dumb cunt, like even though that's all

447
00:20:56,480 --> 00:20:58,760
Speaker 2: people say about her online or whatever. I like Ramona,

448
00:20:58,840 --> 00:21:02,080
Speaker 2: but like you aren't faced with it, you know, like it.

449
00:21:02,560 --> 00:21:06,120
Speaker 1: On line how your mom views you, because these are

450
00:21:06,119 --> 00:21:09,399
Speaker 1: things that she feels you may actually do, so she

451
00:21:09,480 --> 00:21:12,240
Speaker 1: has to warn you don't. It's not like she's like

452
00:21:12,520 --> 00:21:15,840
Speaker 1: when she's not like Nikki, don't do what Casey Anthony did, Like,

453
00:21:15,840 --> 00:21:18,440
Speaker 1: she's not warning you against stuff like that. She's warning

454
00:21:18,520 --> 00:21:21,160
Speaker 1: you against getting lip fillers. So it's interesting.

455
00:21:21,720 --> 00:21:23,879
Speaker 2: It is interesting because even when we were one of

456
00:21:23,920 --> 00:21:25,800
Speaker 2: the Taylor Swift shows, I was wearing a really short

457
00:21:25,840 --> 00:21:27,879
Speaker 2: skirt and you could kind of see like the bottom

458
00:21:28,040 --> 00:21:31,280
Speaker 2: part of my butt sticking out, and I just didn't care,

459
00:21:31,320 --> 00:21:32,680
Speaker 2: because I would care if I was going to a

460
00:21:32,680 --> 00:21:34,800
Speaker 2: place with a lot of men, because it would seem

461
00:21:34,840 --> 00:21:36,600
Speaker 2: like I want men to look at my ass and

462
00:21:36,640 --> 00:21:38,919
Speaker 2: it would be like kind of getting men's attention. And

463
00:21:38,960 --> 00:21:41,560
Speaker 2: I don't like men's attention when they're just like I

464
00:21:41,600 --> 00:21:45,800
Speaker 2: don't like I just don't like men being like over me.

465
00:21:46,280 --> 00:21:49,680
Speaker 2: So I was like, I'm going to a safe place

466
00:21:49,720 --> 00:21:51,639
Speaker 2: with like children, which a lot of people would go.

467
00:21:51,640 --> 00:21:54,320
Speaker 2: Why would you wear that around children because Taylor's wearing

468
00:21:54,320 --> 00:21:56,879
Speaker 2: it on stage, She's wearing swimsuits, and like, why is

469
00:21:56,880 --> 00:21:59,720
Speaker 2: this acceptable if I'm at a pool but it's not here?

470
00:22:00,200 --> 00:22:02,359
Speaker 2: I just don't get it. I don't get why you

471
00:22:02,440 --> 00:22:06,240
Speaker 2: can't wear my moms that's pretty short. And my mom

472
00:22:06,320 --> 00:22:08,679
Speaker 2: was even hanging out it just if I bent over it,

473
00:22:08,720 --> 00:22:11,280
Speaker 2: And so I ended up wearing gym shorts underneath because

474
00:22:11,280 --> 00:22:13,320
Speaker 2: my mom was so like, oh, I don't think so

475
00:22:13,359 --> 00:22:15,480
Speaker 2: it's pretty short, and I go, is a kid gonna

476
00:22:15,520 --> 00:22:18,240
Speaker 2: see my boy? And there aren't that many kids there

477
00:22:18,280 --> 00:22:20,480
Speaker 2: by the way, I'm just saying like there's more kids

478
00:22:20,480 --> 00:22:22,879
Speaker 2: than probably men. Well that's not true, but or I

479
00:22:22,880 --> 00:22:26,520
Speaker 2: would say straight men. But it was just like, why

480
00:22:27,800 --> 00:22:30,280
Speaker 2: what is gonna happen if I wear a short skirt?

481
00:22:30,359 --> 00:22:31,360
Speaker 2: Like what are people gonna think?

482
00:22:31,359 --> 00:22:33,520
Speaker 3: I like apart and go like what's gonna what?

483
00:22:34,080 --> 00:22:36,879
Speaker 2: Let's let's play this out. Am I gonnaa?

484
00:22:37,720 --> 00:22:42,320
Speaker 3: And then what they'll think? You're my mom? Always in they'll.

485
00:22:44,480 --> 00:22:44,840
Speaker 1: My mom.

486
00:22:44,880 --> 00:22:47,920
Speaker 2: The other night was like, Chris probably thinks those kids

487
00:22:47,960 --> 00:22:50,480
Speaker 2: are crazy because we went to dinner with my sister's

488
00:22:50,520 --> 00:22:53,880
Speaker 2: kids and she goes, does Chris think those kids are crazy?

489
00:22:54,240 --> 00:22:56,520
Speaker 2: And I go, no, I don't think so she goes,

490
00:22:56,880 --> 00:22:59,639
Speaker 2: he probably thinks they're crazy, and I go, okay, so

491
00:23:00,160 --> 00:23:00,520
Speaker 2: what if.

492
00:23:00,440 --> 00:23:01,560
Speaker 3: He does, what's gonna happen?

493
00:23:02,040 --> 00:23:04,920
Speaker 2: She goes, I just don't want people thinking Lauren's kids

494
00:23:04,920 --> 00:23:08,200
Speaker 2: are crazy. What happens if they do, because then they'll

495
00:23:08,240 --> 00:23:10,639
Speaker 2: think that she's not doing a good job. And I go, so,

496
00:23:10,720 --> 00:23:14,000
Speaker 2: who gives a shit? So they think she's a bad mom, like,

497
00:23:14,040 --> 00:23:14,960
Speaker 2: which is not true.

498
00:23:14,760 --> 00:23:18,360
Speaker 5: Because the reflex on your mom because then she'll think, oh,

499
00:23:18,440 --> 00:23:18,919
Speaker 5: they think.

500
00:23:19,000 --> 00:23:22,040
Speaker 2: I raised someone who's a bad mom. Yeah, but like

501
00:23:22,200 --> 00:23:25,879
Speaker 2: who really cares. That's how I feel so impervious to

502
00:23:26,000 --> 00:23:28,400
Speaker 2: any judgment. I was thinking about my Taylor Swift rant

503
00:23:28,400 --> 00:23:30,800
Speaker 2: from a couple episodes ago, and I was like, oh

504
00:23:30,800 --> 00:23:32,439
Speaker 2: my god, are people gonna come after me? And I go,

505
00:23:32,520 --> 00:23:35,120
Speaker 2: oh my god. If I unsubscribe from every swifty thing,

506
00:23:35,640 --> 00:23:38,120
Speaker 2: I'll never see what people say about it. I can

507
00:23:38,160 --> 00:23:40,840
Speaker 2: totally miss if it like gets picked up and people

508
00:23:40,880 --> 00:23:43,080
Speaker 2: are pissed about it or they're like because I.

509
00:23:43,040 --> 00:23:43,639
Speaker 3: Know they will be.

510
00:23:43,720 --> 00:23:46,119
Speaker 2: And by the way, I was talking directly to Swifties

511
00:23:46,119 --> 00:23:50,200
Speaker 2: on that one, like the fanatical Swifties, not the everyday

512
00:23:50,200 --> 00:23:52,800
Speaker 2: swifty who's like oh, I like that Folklore album. I'm

513
00:23:52,840 --> 00:23:55,719
Speaker 2: talking about the girls on Reddit who are like, how

514
00:23:55,960 --> 00:23:58,600
Speaker 2: could she do this to us? Those swifties are gonna

515
00:23:58,600 --> 00:24:00,600
Speaker 2: hate me for what I said, But I was also

516
00:24:00,760 --> 00:24:05,680
Speaker 2: like I could. It literally doesn't matter what anyone thinks

517
00:24:05,680 --> 00:24:08,480
Speaker 2: about me ever, if I don't read it. I don't

518
00:24:08,520 --> 00:24:10,439
Speaker 2: care what people say about me behind my back if

519
00:24:10,480 --> 00:24:13,440
Speaker 2: I don't have to ever hear it. And that gives

520
00:24:13,520 --> 00:24:15,240
Speaker 2: us back to what we were talking about about criticism.

521
00:24:15,240 --> 00:24:17,000
Speaker 2: I don't ever ask Chris, do I look fat in this?

522
00:24:17,040 --> 00:24:19,480
Speaker 2: Because what I don't know, I don't care about.

523
00:24:19,880 --> 00:24:24,359
Speaker 1: Most people don't care what anyone is doing at any time.

524
00:24:24,760 --> 00:24:27,600
Speaker 1: When they do comment on Reddit, it's because they're getting

525
00:24:27,640 --> 00:24:30,760
Speaker 1: something out of it. They really don't actually care. No

526
00:24:30,800 --> 00:24:34,000
Speaker 1: one cares about what anyone does at any time unless

527
00:24:34,000 --> 00:24:36,800
Speaker 1: you're on a plane, and then everybody cares what you're doing.

528
00:24:36,840 --> 00:24:38,680
Speaker 1: But other than that, nobody can care.

529
00:24:39,320 --> 00:24:42,000
Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, I mean in their real life, but just

530
00:24:42,040 --> 00:24:44,400
Speaker 2: being someone in the spotlight where people have strong opinions

531
00:24:44,440 --> 00:24:47,919
Speaker 2: about what you do, it like it can get to

532
00:24:47,960 --> 00:24:50,000
Speaker 2: you of like, dude, these people don't like what I said.

533
00:24:50,040 --> 00:24:52,600
Speaker 2: I mean, it's happened to me before, where I've read

534
00:24:52,600 --> 00:24:54,720
Speaker 2: things that are like the worst thing you could think

535
00:24:54,720 --> 00:24:59,440
Speaker 2: about yourself. Someone found a way to synthesize that hatred

536
00:24:59,440 --> 00:25:01,520
Speaker 2: that's in your bin and like put it perfectly into

537
00:25:01,520 --> 00:25:03,879
Speaker 2: words on a forum where everyone is reading about you.

538
00:25:04,040 --> 00:25:06,640
Speaker 1: I think that's giving the deficult too much credit. You're

539
00:25:06,720 --> 00:25:08,920
Speaker 1: you're thinking that this person spent a lot of time

540
00:25:09,000 --> 00:25:11,120
Speaker 1: thinking about what to say, and then they post.

541
00:25:11,200 --> 00:25:13,920
Speaker 2: They didn't they be so obvious. They just were able

542
00:25:13,920 --> 00:25:15,760
Speaker 2: to jot it down.

543
00:25:14,880 --> 00:25:16,960
Speaker 1: Then they went on with their life.

544
00:25:16,960 --> 00:25:19,080
Speaker 2: I look so fat or whatever. This is my mean

545
00:25:19,160 --> 00:25:21,040
Speaker 2: quotes when I when I say, I never ask anyone

546
00:25:21,080 --> 00:25:23,760
Speaker 2: do I look fat? This person didn't even need to

547
00:25:23,800 --> 00:25:26,560
Speaker 2: be asked. They just knew it and put it somewhere

548
00:25:26,560 --> 00:25:28,240
Speaker 2: where I could see it, and I just stumbled upon

549
00:25:28,240 --> 00:25:30,800
Speaker 2: it accidentally. I never seek it out, And so it's like,

550
00:25:31,040 --> 00:25:34,040
Speaker 2: but if you don't see it, it doesn't exist. It's

551
00:25:34,040 --> 00:25:36,280
Speaker 2: like the way I feel about ghosts. At some point

552
00:25:36,320 --> 00:25:38,919
Speaker 2: in my life, I had to say ghosts don't exist,

553
00:25:39,040 --> 00:25:41,639
Speaker 2: because otherwise I'd be scared all the time.

554
00:25:41,440 --> 00:25:42,320
Speaker 3: When I'm alone.

555
00:25:42,720 --> 00:25:44,439
Speaker 2: All the time I was a kid, I was scared

556
00:25:44,440 --> 00:25:47,040
Speaker 2: constantly of ghosts. And then one day I go if

557
00:25:47,080 --> 00:25:49,800
Speaker 2: I convince myself they don't exist, and I think people

558
00:25:49,840 --> 00:25:52,679
Speaker 2: who believe they exist are cuckoo. I can live a

559
00:25:52,720 --> 00:25:56,320
Speaker 2: peaceful life because I'm not looking for this thing, and

560
00:25:56,359 --> 00:25:58,800
Speaker 2: so that's what I do with. If I can do

561
00:25:58,880 --> 00:26:01,400
Speaker 2: that with people's opinions, I'll live a great life.

562
00:26:01,680 --> 00:26:04,640
Speaker 5: That's so true. If you don't see it, it doesn't exist.

563
00:26:04,760 --> 00:26:05,800
Speaker 5: I mean, it does exist.

564
00:26:05,840 --> 00:26:09,239
Speaker 2: But I'm not even killing I've ever seen about Kim

565
00:26:09,320 --> 00:26:12,560
Speaker 2: Kardashian if she never like I think about Taylor Swift

566
00:26:12,600 --> 00:26:14,280
Speaker 2: and I'm like, I really hope she's not looking at

567
00:26:14,280 --> 00:26:14,679
Speaker 2: any of this.

568
00:26:15,080 --> 00:26:17,360
Speaker 3: I guarantee you it's hard for her to eat.

569
00:26:17,640 --> 00:26:21,120
Speaker 2: She can't go online without someone saying, like, there's nowhere

570
00:26:21,200 --> 00:26:23,560
Speaker 2: online where someone's not talking about her, so it would

571
00:26:23,560 --> 00:26:24,280
Speaker 2: be impossible.

572
00:26:24,920 --> 00:26:26,919
Speaker 3: But she she didn't.

573
00:26:26,640 --> 00:26:29,239
Speaker 2: Do anything wrong in dating this guy. People are very

574
00:26:29,280 --> 00:26:32,240
Speaker 2: upset about it and all these things. But she could,

575
00:26:32,680 --> 00:26:35,040
Speaker 2: she could avoid all of it, and then it wouldn't matter,

576
00:26:35,040 --> 00:26:37,760
Speaker 2: and she could keep living her life and not adjust anything.

577
00:26:38,320 --> 00:26:41,000
Speaker 2: And that's what I'm interested in, is people who avoid

578
00:26:41,080 --> 00:26:43,240
Speaker 2: everything and just keep living their lives and wait for

579
00:26:43,320 --> 00:26:45,959
Speaker 2: the wave of hatred or whatever to subside, and then

580
00:26:45,960 --> 00:26:49,520
Speaker 2: they come back out and it's not there anymore because

581
00:26:49,520 --> 00:26:50,720
Speaker 2: people have moved on to something else.

582
00:26:51,119 --> 00:26:54,040
Speaker 5: Yeah, you said at once to me, successful people don't

583
00:26:54,480 --> 00:26:56,440
Speaker 5: give little stuff energy.

584
00:26:58,040 --> 00:26:59,880
Speaker 1: They just don't know what this small stuff.

585
00:27:00,280 --> 00:27:03,040
Speaker 5: Yeah, you're like you are bothered by something, and you're like,

586
00:27:03,119 --> 00:27:06,920
Speaker 5: I just realized. I read somewhere that successful people don't

587
00:27:06,960 --> 00:27:10,160
Speaker 5: like let stuff bother them. So I dropped it, like, oh.

588
00:27:10,160 --> 00:27:12,239
Speaker 2: Yeah, I worried about someone being mad at me, one

589
00:27:12,280 --> 00:27:14,080
Speaker 2: of my friends being mad at me, and I was

590
00:27:14,119 --> 00:27:16,240
Speaker 2: walking down the street being like, I have to explain

591
00:27:16,240 --> 00:27:17,800
Speaker 2: to her, like that's not what I meant, and now

592
00:27:17,840 --> 00:27:21,000
Speaker 2: she's gonna think. And I was like, would Taylor Swift

593
00:27:21,280 --> 00:27:23,000
Speaker 2: ever be obsessed with this?

594
00:27:23,200 --> 00:27:25,680
Speaker 3: It would because I was about to hijack my entire day.

595
00:27:25,680 --> 00:27:27,200
Speaker 2: It was put a gun to my head and said,

596
00:27:27,320 --> 00:27:28,600
Speaker 2: you know what, you're gonna do what I want you

597
00:27:28,640 --> 00:27:30,600
Speaker 2: to do today, which is nothing except think about this.

598
00:27:30,640 --> 00:27:31,919
Speaker 3: You're not gonna get anything done.

599
00:27:32,520 --> 00:27:35,320
Speaker 2: It's a wasted day. And so looking at it through

600
00:27:35,320 --> 00:27:37,840
Speaker 2: that lens did help me. Of like, and there are

601
00:27:37,880 --> 00:27:39,960
Speaker 2: so many things that come up in the girl's chat

602
00:27:40,040 --> 00:27:42,800
Speaker 2: that I'm in with all my friends that I'm just like, man,

603
00:27:42,880 --> 00:27:45,280
Speaker 2: because that doesn't you know this thing my friend's bringing

604
00:27:45,359 --> 00:27:46,960
Speaker 2: up that would never bother me.

605
00:27:47,080 --> 00:27:48,440
Speaker 3: I wish I could give them.

606
00:27:48,280 --> 00:27:49,600
Speaker 1: My brain for the day.

607
00:27:49,920 --> 00:27:53,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, borrow it because that thing would never occur to me,

608
00:27:54,000 --> 00:27:56,640
Speaker 2: and that way they could get something done today. At

609
00:27:56,680 --> 00:27:57,760
Speaker 2: the end of the day, they're.

610
00:27:57,560 --> 00:28:02,760
Speaker 5: Like, now I'm a swiftie, fuck it, and I'm hungry

611
00:28:02,840 --> 00:28:05,520
Speaker 5: for rice cakes and cream cheese.

612
00:28:06,119 --> 00:28:11,520
Speaker 2: Okay, that's a little dig, but no, Yeah, I got

613
00:28:11,560 --> 00:28:16,600
Speaker 2: into your sack. Okay, but I'll take it. But yeah,

614
00:28:16,600 --> 00:28:18,560
Speaker 2: you're right. Like, I just feel like and I'm the

615
00:28:18,600 --> 00:28:21,639
Speaker 2: same way, Like I get into self hatred things that

616
00:28:21,720 --> 00:28:23,399
Speaker 2: I drop on the girl's chat where I'm just like,

617
00:28:23,520 --> 00:28:26,640
Speaker 2: I hate myself today, And I'm sure there's so many

618
00:28:26,680 --> 00:28:29,200
Speaker 2: I try to think about what my friends are thinking about,

619
00:28:29,280 --> 00:28:31,760
Speaker 2: like when because when my friends say something crazy or

620
00:28:31,800 --> 00:28:34,000
Speaker 2: like that I would never worry about, I'm always like, God,

621
00:28:34,040 --> 00:28:35,520
Speaker 2: I wish they could see it my way. So I

622
00:28:35,640 --> 00:28:39,760
Speaker 2: try when I'm in those moods to imagine my friend's

623
00:28:39,760 --> 00:28:42,480
Speaker 2: brains and how they perceive it, and like trying to

624
00:28:42,520 --> 00:28:44,720
Speaker 2: borrow their brain for the day, how.

625
00:28:44,640 --> 00:28:48,800
Speaker 5: They are aising and like putting yourself in somebody else's shoes.

626
00:28:49,560 --> 00:28:51,640
Speaker 2: I just want to I don't want my brain sometimes

627
00:28:51,680 --> 00:28:54,080
Speaker 2: because I'm hung up on this thing that doesn't seem

628
00:28:54,400 --> 00:28:57,240
Speaker 2: that no one else seems to care about.

629
00:28:57,320 --> 00:29:01,320
Speaker 1: But I don't like there's any reason why someone borrowing

630
00:29:01,360 --> 00:29:02,840
Speaker 1: my brain would help them.

631
00:29:03,120 --> 00:29:03,880
Speaker 2: No one.

632
00:29:05,920 --> 00:29:08,320
Speaker 5: Same, So what you would just be obsessed with their

633
00:29:08,400 --> 00:29:10,760
Speaker 5: fucking teeth all day long and staring in the mirror

634
00:29:10,800 --> 00:29:11,760
Speaker 5: and like, is this too?

635
00:29:11,960 --> 00:29:14,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, I've been there before though, I've been there obsessing

636
00:29:14,960 --> 00:29:17,840
Speaker 2: about little like like things.

637
00:29:17,920 --> 00:29:20,800
Speaker 3: I was trying to think of the teeth thing for you.

638
00:29:21,480 --> 00:29:23,600
Speaker 2: I was obsessed with I mean, I look back at

639
00:29:23,600 --> 00:29:25,400
Speaker 2: pictures of my teeth, and I was obsessed with a

640
00:29:25,440 --> 00:29:28,280
Speaker 2: tooth thing for a really long time. I was with

641
00:29:28,360 --> 00:29:31,800
Speaker 2: my legs, really, and you look at other people's legs

642
00:29:31,800 --> 00:29:33,440
Speaker 2: all you do all on it does. When we were

643
00:29:33,480 --> 00:29:35,920
Speaker 2: watching Succession was her teeth. I was like, oh my god,

644
00:29:35,920 --> 00:29:37,640
Speaker 2: this is going to be a teeth of palooza for her.

645
00:29:38,360 --> 00:29:41,959
Speaker 2: I just knew that you were still a teeth and

646
00:29:42,000 --> 00:29:46,040
Speaker 2: so we were like watching Succession together, and I knew

647
00:29:46,080 --> 00:29:47,680
Speaker 2: I was like in the same texting.

648
00:29:47,840 --> 00:29:49,600
Speaker 3: I just knew that you were.

649
00:29:49,720 --> 00:29:50,720
Speaker 2: You were trying to get out of it.

650
00:29:50,840 --> 00:29:53,200
Speaker 5: I kept kept being like, I got to rewind. I

651
00:29:53,240 --> 00:29:57,640
Speaker 5: missed a bunch of stuff, staring texting Nikki about what

652
00:29:57,800 --> 00:29:58,880
Speaker 5: exactly teeth?

653
00:29:59,200 --> 00:30:02,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, well shives, Oh they're a little darker, and she

654
00:30:02,240 --> 00:30:06,680
Speaker 2: still works. I'm like, yes, I've been doing that. Yeah,

655
00:30:06,720 --> 00:30:09,000
Speaker 2: because when you're looking for like a new car, or

656
00:30:09,040 --> 00:30:11,160
Speaker 2: you start seeing cars everywhere, you start noticing cars. When

657
00:30:11,160 --> 00:30:13,120
Speaker 2: you're looking for like a new backpack, you start seeing

658
00:30:13,120 --> 00:30:20,280
Speaker 2: backpacks everywhere. Like, there's our brains betray us constantly, and

659
00:30:20,320 --> 00:30:23,080
Speaker 2: they're always doing little tricks, like backpacks are always everywhere.

660
00:30:23,240 --> 00:30:25,080
Speaker 2: I tend to focus on them when I'm looking at

661
00:30:25,080 --> 00:30:27,200
Speaker 2: backpacks or looking for a new backpack. But there, it's

662
00:30:27,240 --> 00:30:29,160
Speaker 2: not like they just started showing up. You know.

663
00:30:29,440 --> 00:30:30,920
Speaker 3: Wait, why are you obsessed with your legs?

664
00:30:30,920 --> 00:30:31,280
Speaker 2: Brian?

665
00:30:31,640 --> 00:30:35,000
Speaker 1: Your brain is an organ and it needs to be

666
00:30:35,760 --> 00:30:40,840
Speaker 1: for any of the Houston or Methodist Church. Yeah, my legs,

667
00:30:40,840 --> 00:30:42,520
Speaker 1: I don't know. Did you guys have this growing up?

668
00:30:42,960 --> 00:30:45,960
Speaker 1: Did you? Did you? Were you ever self conscious about

669
00:30:45,960 --> 00:30:50,560
Speaker 1: the size of your calves? Oh? Yes, yeah, oh yeah.

670
00:30:50,600 --> 00:30:52,200
Speaker 2: My friends used to say that I was one of

671
00:30:52,200 --> 00:30:55,360
Speaker 2: the gay Bower brothers because Dan Gaybauer had the largest calves.

672
00:30:55,400 --> 00:30:57,680
Speaker 2: And so Carson's probably laughing right now listening to this.

673
00:30:57,960 --> 00:30:59,800
Speaker 2: She would be like she would call me Dan Gaybauer

674
00:31:00,200 --> 00:31:03,840
Speaker 2: because his calves were ginormous. He was like a normal

675
00:31:03,880 --> 00:31:05,680
Speaker 2: sized guy, but his caves were huge. And she'd be like,

676
00:31:06,160 --> 00:31:08,080
Speaker 2: and I think one time I made the joke, which

677
00:31:08,080 --> 00:31:09,280
Speaker 2: is the worst, where I was like, I have the

678
00:31:09,280 --> 00:31:12,240
Speaker 2: same calves as Dan Gabauer and her laughter was so

679
00:31:12,360 --> 00:31:15,640
Speaker 2: confirming that it like ruined my life. You know, Yeah,

680
00:31:15,840 --> 00:31:18,719
Speaker 2: and I have huge calves. My calves are bigger than

681
00:31:18,760 --> 00:31:20,120
Speaker 2: Andrews when we measured them.

682
00:31:20,680 --> 00:31:24,440
Speaker 1: Your calves, yes, so your issue is the opposite of

683
00:31:24,480 --> 00:31:27,520
Speaker 1: my issue. I felt like my legs I had little

684
00:31:27,600 --> 00:31:31,680
Speaker 1: chicken legs. We should I mean, I'm I wouldn't. I mean,

685
00:31:31,720 --> 00:31:33,640
Speaker 1: I've done a lot of squats since then, and I

686
00:31:33,640 --> 00:31:35,160
Speaker 1: think my legs are gotten a little better. But I

687
00:31:35,200 --> 00:31:38,719
Speaker 1: still feel self conscious about my calves. And when I

688
00:31:38,800 --> 00:31:41,280
Speaker 1: was growing up, I just I would do calf raises

689
00:31:41,360 --> 00:31:44,080
Speaker 1: all the time. Oh and I just wanted my calves

690
00:31:44,080 --> 00:31:44,600
Speaker 1: to get bigger.

691
00:31:44,640 --> 00:31:47,520
Speaker 2: And they knew that guy on MTV who got calf implants.

692
00:31:47,560 --> 00:31:48,520
Speaker 2: Did you ever see that one?

693
00:31:48,760 --> 00:31:49,600
Speaker 1: Yeah they did.

694
00:31:50,040 --> 00:31:51,280
Speaker 3: Yeah it was good, I.

695
00:31:51,200 --> 00:31:51,680
Speaker 2: Mean not good.

696
00:31:51,760 --> 00:31:53,240
Speaker 5: It looked like chicken breasts.

697
00:31:53,520 --> 00:31:56,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, it was huge, but yeah, I could see that,

698
00:31:56,720 --> 00:31:58,640
Speaker 2: Like I noticed when guys have scorny legs. It's not

699
00:31:58,960 --> 00:32:01,000
Speaker 2: like I would never fuck him, but I'm just like, oh,

700
00:32:01,160 --> 00:32:04,000
Speaker 2: that poor guy, because I know he's probably self conscious

701
00:32:04,040 --> 00:32:05,320
Speaker 2: about like I'm just projecting.

702
00:32:05,680 --> 00:32:08,160
Speaker 1: There was a picture of me with Chris in it

703
00:32:08,280 --> 00:32:11,080
Speaker 1: from twenty sixteen where I was wearing these I made

704
00:32:11,080 --> 00:32:14,640
Speaker 1: the I made the mistake of buying shorts from Bonobos,

705
00:32:14,680 --> 00:32:18,440
Speaker 1: which is just not a good place to get shorts.

706
00:32:19,080 --> 00:32:22,600
Speaker 1: And they were white, and you know, they were too short,

707
00:32:22,640 --> 00:32:24,880
Speaker 1: you know how like Adam Sandler wears shorts and he's

708
00:32:24,920 --> 00:32:29,560
Speaker 1: got great cats. They're long, they're long wear shorts. Okay,

709
00:32:30,120 --> 00:32:32,360
Speaker 1: I can tell you name a guy, a famous person.

710
00:32:32,480 --> 00:32:34,080
Speaker 1: I can tell you if they got good calves.

711
00:32:34,240 --> 00:32:38,920
Speaker 2: That's interesting, that's your thing, his teeth. My thing is

712
00:32:39,120 --> 00:32:45,200
Speaker 2: forehead size, nose, eyes too close together, too much fat

713
00:32:45,280 --> 00:32:49,840
Speaker 2: around your back area, lower back, all my like fat arms,

714
00:32:50,440 --> 00:32:54,080
Speaker 2: Like we all have our thing of like what obsessed?

715
00:32:54,120 --> 00:32:55,880
Speaker 3: And know what other celebrities have?

716
00:32:56,400 --> 00:32:59,520
Speaker 5: Yeah, and nobody is thinking about it. I spent I

717
00:32:59,560 --> 00:33:02,200
Speaker 5: wasted so many years of my life obsessing about my

718
00:33:02,440 --> 00:33:04,880
Speaker 5: ice skating calves are too big. I never should have

719
00:33:04,960 --> 00:33:08,120
Speaker 5: spent seven years in the rink ice skating and development.

720
00:33:08,160 --> 00:33:10,040
Speaker 5: It's like, no, who cares.

721
00:33:11,120 --> 00:33:11,280
Speaker 7: Well.

722
00:33:11,280 --> 00:33:13,040
Speaker 2: The thing I hated most about my legs is that

723
00:33:13,080 --> 00:33:15,680
Speaker 2: they were too big, And now my legs are the

724
00:33:15,720 --> 00:33:20,080
Speaker 2: most complimented thing on my entire body by a landslide,

725
00:33:20,120 --> 00:33:22,280
Speaker 2: because I never used to wear shorts. I never used

726
00:33:22,280 --> 00:33:24,680
Speaker 2: to wear skirts because I hated my muscular legs, and

727
00:33:24,720 --> 00:33:28,240
Speaker 2: now it's the thing that is my most complimented thing.

728
00:33:28,800 --> 00:33:30,000
Speaker 3: I was hiding it my whole life.

729
00:33:30,000 --> 00:33:32,960
Speaker 2: I had no idea for twenty I would say, until

730
00:33:33,320 --> 00:33:35,640
Speaker 2: two years ago. I started embracing my legs because I

731
00:33:35,720 --> 00:33:38,480
Speaker 2: just didn't give a fuck anymore. And then I was like, WHOA,

732
00:33:38,600 --> 00:33:40,840
Speaker 2: I have good legs. I had never heard that before.

733
00:33:40,920 --> 00:33:42,640
Speaker 2: I had never thought of it ever. I just got

734
00:33:42,640 --> 00:33:44,400
Speaker 2: made fun of for having two muscular legs.

735
00:33:44,520 --> 00:33:46,520
Speaker 1: You're like a nerdy girl in an eighties movie who

736
00:33:46,560 --> 00:33:47,600
Speaker 1: wears a ponytail and gold.

737
00:33:47,720 --> 00:33:50,600
Speaker 2: Yeah. I took off the glasses. It's so bizarre to me.

738
00:33:50,720 --> 00:33:53,239
Speaker 2: The thing I hated more than anything about myself, I

739
00:33:53,320 --> 00:33:56,200
Speaker 2: always wanted my sister's legs to be taken from her

740
00:33:56,200 --> 00:34:00,320
Speaker 2: in a car accident because they were so perfect, such

741
00:34:00,440 --> 00:34:03,240
Speaker 2: little tiny, like she had gazelle legs, and I always

742
00:34:03,240 --> 00:34:05,840
Speaker 2: wanted those legs, no fat on them. If you squeeze

743
00:34:05,840 --> 00:34:08,239
Speaker 2: them as tartly as you could, there would be no cellulite.

744
00:34:08,280 --> 00:34:11,760
Speaker 3: There's just none. And I was always so jealous.

745
00:34:11,760 --> 00:34:14,040
Speaker 2: And Sara Lena has those kinds of legs too, and

746
00:34:14,080 --> 00:34:15,799
Speaker 2: I always wanted them, And.

747
00:34:15,719 --> 00:34:18,520
Speaker 3: Now, uh, that's just not.

748
00:34:18,800 --> 00:34:20,880
Speaker 2: It's just so weird that it was the opposite of

749
00:34:20,920 --> 00:34:23,000
Speaker 2: what I thought the whole time.

750
00:34:23,200 --> 00:34:25,719
Speaker 5: It does seem like a lot of guys have calf issues.

751
00:34:26,200 --> 00:34:26,799
Speaker 3: Yes they do.

752
00:34:27,200 --> 00:34:29,959
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah, you do all these calf exercises. Some

753
00:34:30,080 --> 00:34:33,040
Speaker 1: people in high school would walk around with calf weights

754
00:34:33,040 --> 00:34:35,239
Speaker 1: on their ankles all day to try to get this.

755
00:34:35,920 --> 00:34:36,800
Speaker 1: And then there was also.

756
00:34:36,920 --> 00:34:38,040
Speaker 3: Turns into hairline.

757
00:34:38,600 --> 00:34:44,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, yes, that's the that's the male obsessives.

758
00:34:44,640 --> 00:34:46,680
Speaker 3: You guys aren't worried about like your butts like we are.

759
00:34:46,800 --> 00:34:49,719
Speaker 2: We all became obsessed with butts not having one, then

760
00:34:49,800 --> 00:34:50,319
Speaker 2: having one.

761
00:34:50,800 --> 00:34:54,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, now it was not want not not having one?

762
00:34:55,040 --> 00:34:55,200
Speaker 2: Is it?

763
00:34:55,320 --> 00:34:58,040
Speaker 1: What's what's good? Now? I feel like men most men

764
00:34:58,280 --> 00:35:01,000
Speaker 1: that I, uh, you know, talk to about these things,

765
00:35:01,200 --> 00:35:04,440
Speaker 1: they say they like big butts. Yeah, isn't that what it's?

766
00:35:04,760 --> 00:35:07,440
Speaker 1: They can't lie, Yeah, I don't think they're lying to me.

767
00:35:08,160 --> 00:35:09,480
Speaker 3: Well, hips don't lie and butts.

768
00:35:09,480 --> 00:35:11,360
Speaker 1: Wait, are you guys worry? Do you think the ozempic

769
00:35:11,440 --> 00:35:13,840
Speaker 1: thing is saying now everyone's got to have small butts?

770
00:35:14,040 --> 00:35:15,880
Speaker 2: Yes, because that goes against what.

771
00:35:15,760 --> 00:35:18,440
Speaker 1: The men are are are celebrating.

772
00:35:18,760 --> 00:35:20,839
Speaker 2: We guess, I guess it's not about what men want,

773
00:35:21,719 --> 00:35:26,160
Speaker 2: because it's like because well, the problem is, and Sailors

774
00:35:26,239 --> 00:35:28,640
Speaker 2: has said it perfectly in her special if you're large

775
00:35:28,719 --> 00:35:30,759
Speaker 2: enough to have a butt, you have a tummy. If

776
00:35:30,800 --> 00:35:32,439
Speaker 2: you have the if you're large enough, if you eat

777
00:35:32,520 --> 00:35:34,720
Speaker 2: enough to have the perfect butt, you have a tummy,

778
00:35:35,040 --> 00:35:38,200
Speaker 2: and you're like your arms get sausage e. And then

779
00:35:38,280 --> 00:35:40,880
Speaker 2: if you're thin enough to not have sausage arms and

780
00:35:41,239 --> 00:35:43,560
Speaker 2: in a flat tummy, you have no butt. And so

781
00:35:43,680 --> 00:35:47,720
Speaker 2: you can't fucking win, to quote my girl, you can't

782
00:35:47,760 --> 00:35:51,200
Speaker 2: fucking win. So there's you know, it's just but that's

783
00:35:51,239 --> 00:35:53,600
Speaker 2: but you can win, and it's called a BBM. And

784
00:35:53,640 --> 00:35:55,319
Speaker 2: they suck the fat out of your stomach and they

785
00:35:55,320 --> 00:35:57,160
Speaker 2: put it in your ass, and so that's the way

786
00:35:57,200 --> 00:35:57,520
Speaker 2: to win.

787
00:35:58,239 --> 00:36:00,800
Speaker 3: Yeah, documentary about that looks terrible.

788
00:36:01,400 --> 00:36:04,080
Speaker 1: I think what a lot of men want in their

789
00:36:04,120 --> 00:36:06,400
Speaker 1: heads and this is not what I want, f YI,

790
00:36:07,280 --> 00:36:09,120
Speaker 1: But I think they want like a little thin, a

791
00:36:09,239 --> 00:36:12,760
Speaker 1: rail fin waste and a huge ass cool.

792
00:36:13,200 --> 00:36:19,160
Speaker 4: I think that's yes, Well, because they know boobs, do

793
00:36:19,200 --> 00:36:20,760
Speaker 4: you guys not like boobs anymore.

794
00:36:20,880 --> 00:36:25,560
Speaker 1: They all they want huge, gigantic boobs aint it needs

795
00:36:25,600 --> 00:36:28,360
Speaker 1: to be Basically, if you were in the jungle, you

796
00:36:28,400 --> 00:36:30,520
Speaker 1: would be eaten immediately because you wouldn't be able to

797
00:36:30,520 --> 00:36:32,560
Speaker 1: get escape anything. That's what they want.

798
00:36:35,640 --> 00:36:37,120
Speaker 5: Yeah, want us disabled.

799
00:36:38,440 --> 00:36:40,839
Speaker 1: They want your top heavy on the breasts and then

800
00:36:40,880 --> 00:36:44,799
Speaker 1: the the waist incapable of holding them up. And then

801
00:36:44,840 --> 00:36:48,200
Speaker 1: an ass that is can't get you through a thin cave.

802
00:36:48,680 --> 00:36:51,040
Speaker 3: What is it about that ass that like?

803
00:36:51,080 --> 00:36:53,399
Speaker 2: Because women, I mean, for so long, having a big

804
00:36:53,400 --> 00:36:57,120
Speaker 2: ass was the worst thing possible. Yeah, and then it

805
00:36:57,200 --> 00:36:59,200
Speaker 2: switched and I don't think in the past it's ever

806
00:36:59,239 --> 00:37:02,239
Speaker 2: been desirable to have the big ass into until two

807
00:37:02,280 --> 00:37:05,840
Speaker 2: thousand and eighteen. It was like the first time women

808
00:37:05,880 --> 00:37:08,160
Speaker 2: were like, I want a big ass. It's not you know,

809
00:37:08,280 --> 00:37:11,240
Speaker 2: usually trends come and go, like the sixties, big zass

810
00:37:11,360 --> 00:37:13,000
Speaker 2: was where in I don't think they've ever been in

811
00:37:13,239 --> 00:37:15,160
Speaker 2: until the Kardashians.

812
00:37:15,360 --> 00:37:19,320
Speaker 1: I like it and I cannot lie. Was a huge revelation.

813
00:37:20,120 --> 00:37:22,279
Speaker 1: That was a huge that was a statement at the time,

814
00:37:22,320 --> 00:37:25,600
Speaker 1: like people were secretly secretly they were like, I like

815
00:37:25,680 --> 00:37:27,759
Speaker 1: big butts, but I don't want to say because everyone.

816
00:37:27,480 --> 00:37:29,719
Speaker 2: Like, oh yeah. They had to be ashamed about it

817
00:37:29,719 --> 00:37:32,120
Speaker 2: because that was during the nineties of like the fat

818
00:37:32,200 --> 00:37:35,520
Speaker 2: free phase and like wave thin girls.

819
00:37:36,040 --> 00:37:37,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, the whole song is about you.

820
00:37:37,800 --> 00:37:40,680
Speaker 2: And he's like a shame that he likes big, big butts.

821
00:37:40,960 --> 00:37:43,360
Speaker 2: He's coming out about it, like like coming out of

822
00:37:43,360 --> 00:37:46,640
Speaker 2: the closet. Yes and yes, and oh my god, that's

823
00:37:46,719 --> 00:37:49,480
Speaker 2: crazy that it was like revelatory for someone to say that,

824
00:37:49,719 --> 00:37:52,160
Speaker 2: and that's why he was like, I cannot lie.

825
00:37:52,600 --> 00:37:53,239
Speaker 1: I can't lie.

826
00:37:53,800 --> 00:37:57,880
Speaker 2: I'm not getting anymore funny.

827
00:37:58,120 --> 00:38:00,920
Speaker 1: I like big butts.

828
00:38:00,000 --> 00:38:02,480
Speaker 2: My friends, for a big ass on a woman was

829
00:38:02,480 --> 00:38:06,319
Speaker 2: something to be ashamed of because it was so that

830
00:38:06,520 --> 00:38:09,520
Speaker 2: not the norm. That's really interesting. I never thought about.

831
00:38:09,320 --> 00:38:11,480
Speaker 1: It that what are the kinks today? What are the

832
00:38:11,520 --> 00:38:14,920
Speaker 1: ones today that people want to shout from the rooftops

833
00:38:14,920 --> 00:38:18,160
Speaker 1: about but they're getting pissed on?

834
00:38:18,640 --> 00:38:21,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, getting pissed on anal anal?

835
00:38:21,920 --> 00:38:24,480
Speaker 1: I feel like no one's no, I guess for women

836
00:38:24,840 --> 00:38:27,799
Speaker 1: wanting anal, but for men saying they want anal is

837
00:38:27,880 --> 00:38:29,759
Speaker 1: like as easy as saying I want a glass of water.

838
00:38:31,800 --> 00:38:34,200
Speaker 2: I think it's easy. Yeah, you're supposed to have seven

839
00:38:35,200 --> 00:38:36,279
Speaker 2: glasses of anal a day.

840
00:38:36,400 --> 00:38:38,920
Speaker 5: Yes, yeah, Oh I thought you meant for men to

841
00:38:39,000 --> 00:38:40,280
Speaker 5: admit they want to be pegged.

842
00:38:41,920 --> 00:38:45,239
Speaker 1: No, no, no, you're man and you want to get

843
00:38:45,239 --> 00:38:46,160
Speaker 1: pegged that.

844
00:38:46,400 --> 00:38:48,400
Speaker 2: I think it used to be gay to say you

845
00:38:48,520 --> 00:38:50,879
Speaker 2: wanted to fuck someone in the ass, like a woman

846
00:38:50,920 --> 00:38:52,840
Speaker 2: in the ass. Like guys were like kind of ashamed

847
00:38:52,840 --> 00:38:54,680
Speaker 2: of Oh really, I didn't know that, Like what, but

848
00:38:54,760 --> 00:38:57,280
Speaker 2: why is it so normal now? And it wasn't normal before?

849
00:38:57,360 --> 00:38:59,839
Speaker 2: What was so shamed shameful about it? Then?

850
00:39:00,239 --> 00:39:02,520
Speaker 1: I can't I don't know, but I can only speak

851
00:39:02,560 --> 00:39:04,040
Speaker 1: to the trends I'm I'm sensing.

852
00:39:04,239 --> 00:39:08,200
Speaker 2: I think it's porn obviously. Oh yeah, like anil is

853
00:39:08,239 --> 00:39:09,400
Speaker 2: just ubiquitous impornt.

854
00:39:09,440 --> 00:39:12,160
Speaker 1: It's definitely furry stuff is gone the up and up.

855
00:39:12,200 --> 00:39:15,480
Speaker 1: Furry and anime stuff is on the rise. I don't know.

856
00:39:15,520 --> 00:39:19,040
Speaker 2: There's sometimes some animation, animated stuff on porn where I go.

857
00:39:19,400 --> 00:39:22,600
Speaker 2: This ad is almost getting me because it's like a

858
00:39:22,800 --> 00:39:26,800
Speaker 2: giant man and a tiny little girl, like not girl,

859
00:39:27,120 --> 00:39:31,200
Speaker 2: but like a tiny like it'll be like a cartoonishly,

860
00:39:31,480 --> 00:39:34,120
Speaker 2: it'll be like an ape man, like a giant, giant,

861
00:39:34,200 --> 00:39:37,120
Speaker 2: like it'll be like a monster, like a King Kong

862
00:39:37,280 --> 00:39:40,520
Speaker 2: fucking a little tiny woman like on the top of

863
00:39:40,560 --> 00:39:43,040
Speaker 2: the Empire state building. And I like it, even though

864
00:39:43,040 --> 00:39:45,880
Speaker 2: he's like tearing her up, and I'm like, what the

865
00:39:46,040 --> 00:39:49,480
Speaker 2: fuck is wrong with me? Like now I need cartoons

866
00:39:49,800 --> 00:39:52,759
Speaker 2: because nothing, no human can even give me what I

867
00:39:52,800 --> 00:39:54,759
Speaker 2: want to see anymore. I haven't watched porn in a

868
00:39:54,800 --> 00:39:56,680
Speaker 2: really long time. Actually, I'm pretty proud of my and

869
00:39:56,680 --> 00:39:58,759
Speaker 2: I'm not proud of myself. Actually I kind of miss it.

870
00:39:59,080 --> 00:40:02,640
Speaker 1: Thinks it's so gay. Check out the landscape because it

871
00:40:02,760 --> 00:40:08,279
Speaker 1: is there the advancements in porn technology a couple weeks ago.

872
00:40:09,960 --> 00:40:14,879
Speaker 1: Kidding me, Yes, they're always the ones that are ahead

873
00:40:14,880 --> 00:40:19,160
Speaker 1: of everybody else when they're adopting technology like like you know,

874
00:40:19,560 --> 00:40:23,000
Speaker 1: like like deep fakes. You know that was porn first.

875
00:40:23,520 --> 00:40:27,799
Speaker 2: Yes, we all just what a fuck thing? I mean,

876
00:40:27,840 --> 00:40:31,080
Speaker 2: because guess what. Sex leads everything. And that's why it's

877
00:40:31,120 --> 00:40:33,400
Speaker 2: like so bizarre to me that we can't talk about

878
00:40:33,400 --> 00:40:37,200
Speaker 2: it openly because it literally is every it's everything that

879
00:40:37,360 --> 00:40:41,720
Speaker 2: anyone is motivated by. And if you are a sexual, sex,

880
00:40:41,840 --> 00:40:44,239
Speaker 2: the fact that you don't want sex is something that's

881
00:40:44,239 --> 00:40:45,960
Speaker 2: on the forefront of your mind a lot like yes,

882
00:40:46,160 --> 00:40:48,160
Speaker 2: really defines who you are, So even if sex is

883
00:40:48,200 --> 00:40:50,759
Speaker 2: not something that they're interested in, it defines who you

884
00:40:50,800 --> 00:40:53,200
Speaker 2: are the merreor fact that other people want it and

885
00:40:53,239 --> 00:40:53,680
Speaker 2: you don't.

886
00:40:53,880 --> 00:40:55,640
Speaker 3: So sex is everything.

887
00:40:56,520 --> 00:41:00,799
Speaker 1: Did you know that the first successful full heart transplant

888
00:41:01,040 --> 00:41:04,640
Speaker 1: was done in a porn No, it wasn't. Just kidding,

889
00:41:04,680 --> 00:41:07,960
Speaker 1: this is the technology thing, I would say. I couldn't

890
00:41:07,960 --> 00:41:08,840
Speaker 1: think of any example of it.

891
00:41:09,600 --> 00:41:11,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, the polio vaccine.

892
00:41:11,480 --> 00:41:16,479
Speaker 1: Was It was invented by Ron Jeremy nineteen seventy three.

893
00:41:17,560 --> 00:41:21,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean it's all uh yeah, but I haven't

894
00:41:21,080 --> 00:41:23,000
Speaker 2: I haven't dabbled in that in a while.

895
00:41:23,239 --> 00:41:26,560
Speaker 1: Are you worried about deep fakes? No? I would.

896
00:41:26,960 --> 00:41:31,440
Speaker 2: I mean, yeah, I am just on a like people

897
00:41:31,440 --> 00:41:33,439
Speaker 2: putting my face in porn. No, I'm not worried about

898
00:41:33,480 --> 00:41:36,080
Speaker 2: it on a personal level, but on a level of

899
00:41:36,160 --> 00:41:40,640
Speaker 2: like for the ar media and like the truth yes,

900
00:41:40,920 --> 00:41:44,120
Speaker 2: deeply and chat GPT. I mean people, I don't know

901
00:41:44,160 --> 00:41:45,560
Speaker 2: anything about this, so this is kind of like a

902
00:41:45,600 --> 00:41:49,239
Speaker 2: we know nothing segment. But people who do know about

903
00:41:49,320 --> 00:41:52,160
Speaker 2: advancements in AI and the threat they pose to humanity

904
00:41:52,640 --> 00:41:58,800
Speaker 2: are so fucking alarmed at Chat GPT. They one expert

905
00:41:58,800 --> 00:42:00,479
Speaker 2: that was on the Sam Harris podcast I was trying

906
00:42:00,520 --> 00:42:02,200
Speaker 2: to listen to, but I couldn't understand half of what

907
00:42:02,200 --> 00:42:04,600
Speaker 2: they were saying because they're so smart, said that he

908
00:42:04,680 --> 00:42:06,680
Speaker 2: thought it was going to be twenty or thirty years

909
00:42:06,760 --> 00:42:10,040
Speaker 2: from now by the time that that chat GBT is

910
00:42:10,040 --> 00:42:12,040
Speaker 2: something like that would exist. And he is an expert

911
00:42:12,040 --> 00:42:14,120
Speaker 2: in this field, and he says it is happening at

912
00:42:14,120 --> 00:42:17,120
Speaker 2: such an alarming rate. I mean, every job is going

913
00:42:17,160 --> 00:42:19,760
Speaker 2: to be replaced by this eventually that you can literally

914
00:42:19,800 --> 00:42:23,080
Speaker 2: type in chat GBT, write a joke in the about

915
00:42:23,520 --> 00:42:25,680
Speaker 2: traffic Cones in the style of Nicki Glazer, and it

916
00:42:25,680 --> 00:42:27,680
Speaker 2: will write a better joke than I could.

917
00:42:27,920 --> 00:42:29,080
Speaker 1: No, it won't.

918
00:42:29,320 --> 00:42:31,799
Speaker 2: I mean, I mean, you don't know.

919
00:42:31,680 --> 00:42:33,280
Speaker 3: What I've been into these days.

920
00:42:34,680 --> 00:42:36,879
Speaker 1: I'll do that right now and we'll see what Joe.

921
00:42:36,920 --> 00:42:40,160
Speaker 1: I guarantee you it. Yeah, I have it. I use

922
00:42:40,520 --> 00:42:43,600
Speaker 1: I am on the forefront of all this, a Cones

923
00:42:43,920 --> 00:42:46,560
Speaker 1: trashal I got to log in, so I need there's time.

924
00:42:46,840 --> 00:42:48,360
Speaker 2: We'll give you a second. Okay, So last night I

925
00:42:48,360 --> 00:42:51,279
Speaker 2: went over to my mom's house, and my mom's they're

926
00:42:51,320 --> 00:42:54,880
Speaker 2: not divorcing, so but you know, we know about marriage

927
00:42:54,880 --> 00:42:59,680
Speaker 2: and property and she's her name's on it, and we

928
00:42:59,719 --> 00:43:04,000
Speaker 2: start watching The Depoted and because it was just on,

929
00:43:04,200 --> 00:43:06,480
Speaker 2: we tried to watch and we watched one episode of Intervention,

930
00:43:06,560 --> 00:43:08,040
Speaker 2: but we were both like crying by the end of

931
00:43:08,080 --> 00:43:10,440
Speaker 2: it because it was bringing up old wounds I think of, like,

932
00:43:11,480 --> 00:43:14,640
Speaker 2: you know, just you know, when I almost died and stuff.

933
00:43:14,920 --> 00:43:17,319
Speaker 2: So we were I think we both were like, let's

934
00:43:17,320 --> 00:43:20,359
Speaker 2: not watch anymore. Even though Katie did live. At the end,

935
00:43:20,640 --> 00:43:22,920
Speaker 2: we thought, I thought, you ever try to predict on Intervention,

936
00:43:23,040 --> 00:43:24,640
Speaker 2: like is this person gonna be okay?

937
00:43:25,120 --> 00:43:25,319
Speaker 1: Oh?

938
00:43:25,440 --> 00:43:25,799
Speaker 5: They die?

939
00:43:25,920 --> 00:43:30,719
Speaker 2: Sometimes no, they just like leave treatment or they relapse

940
00:43:30,920 --> 00:43:32,919
Speaker 2: right right right, you know, like at the end, it'll

941
00:43:32,920 --> 00:43:35,600
Speaker 2: tell you they relapsed after ninety two days or whatever

942
00:43:35,640 --> 00:43:35,840
Speaker 2: it is.

943
00:43:35,840 --> 00:43:38,600
Speaker 5: As drug of choice, Katie.

944
00:43:38,320 --> 00:43:42,400
Speaker 2: Heroin and crack, and she was so smart. And this

945
00:43:42,440 --> 00:43:45,719
Speaker 2: girl is twenty eight and she started doing heroin. She

946
00:43:45,800 --> 00:43:48,760
Speaker 2: was like like she's been doing it for like thirteen years.

947
00:43:48,840 --> 00:43:50,960
Speaker 2: And she lives with her boyfriend who she doesn't even

948
00:43:50,960 --> 00:43:53,000
Speaker 2: fuck anymore, and he's just giving her a heroin because

949
00:43:53,000 --> 00:43:54,440
Speaker 2: he loves her so much and like doesn't want her

950
00:43:54,520 --> 00:43:57,000
Speaker 2: to struggle and get sick, and because she's such a nag,

951
00:43:57,440 --> 00:44:00,399
Speaker 2: but he doesn't even they don't even fuck anymore. She

952
00:44:00,800 --> 00:44:03,000
Speaker 2: just he's a drug dealer, so he has it, and

953
00:44:03,040 --> 00:44:04,560
Speaker 2: I guess he doesn't have a problem with it because

954
00:44:04,600 --> 00:44:06,000
Speaker 2: he's like fine kind of.

955
00:44:07,400 --> 00:44:08,839
Speaker 3: But her family hates her so much.

956
00:44:08,880 --> 00:44:11,680
Speaker 2: She has been in rehab thirteen times and they've done

957
00:44:12,000 --> 00:44:14,279
Speaker 2: that many interventions for her. So the family is just

958
00:44:14,440 --> 00:44:17,040
Speaker 2: the sister called intervention the TV show. It is like, please,

959
00:44:17,080 --> 00:44:19,080
Speaker 2: can we do this? And the family's like, we're not

960
00:44:19,120 --> 00:44:21,520
Speaker 2: doing this same more. We're done with her. It's over.

961
00:44:21,560 --> 00:44:25,080
Speaker 2: And I've never seen a family so like, I have

962
00:44:25,160 --> 00:44:29,400
Speaker 2: to move on. She's dead to me because she is already.

963
00:44:29,560 --> 00:44:32,680
Speaker 2: She's gonna die, she's never gonna change. And they all

964
00:44:32,719 --> 00:44:35,360
Speaker 2: finally convince the mom because the mom's like, I can't

965
00:44:35,400 --> 00:44:38,160
Speaker 2: be hurt anymore. I have to let her go, and

966
00:44:38,200 --> 00:44:41,279
Speaker 2: they convinced her to do it, and they confronted her

967
00:44:41,480 --> 00:44:44,400
Speaker 2: and she went, but she was like, I have to

968
00:44:44,440 --> 00:44:46,200
Speaker 2: go home first, and they're like why. She's like, I'll

969
00:44:46,200 --> 00:44:48,239
Speaker 2: go to treatment. I have to go home first, and

970
00:44:48,239 --> 00:44:50,440
Speaker 2: they're like why, Katie, why and she's like, well, because

971
00:44:50,680 --> 00:44:52,239
Speaker 2: I need to get my things and they're like, we'll

972
00:44:52,360 --> 00:44:54,000
Speaker 2: get your things for you tell us what you need

973
00:44:54,200 --> 00:44:56,520
Speaker 2: and she's like, they go, do you need to go

974
00:44:56,560 --> 00:44:58,440
Speaker 2: home because you want to use and she's like yes,

975
00:44:59,040 --> 00:45:01,799
Speaker 2: of course, gonna do it again. And they're like, you

976
00:45:01,800 --> 00:45:04,239
Speaker 2: know what, Okay, we'll let you go. And it was

977
00:45:04,360 --> 00:45:06,960
Speaker 2: nice because I thought that I thought they're gonna lose

978
00:45:07,000 --> 00:45:09,560
Speaker 2: her because they won't you, they won't let She was like,

979
00:45:09,719 --> 00:45:12,000
Speaker 2: I already showed up to this thing with not enough

980
00:45:12,000 --> 00:45:13,560
Speaker 2: heroin in my system because I thought I was signing

981
00:45:13,600 --> 00:45:15,279
Speaker 2: a paper. You guys told me signing a paper, so

982
00:45:15,320 --> 00:45:17,040
Speaker 2: I only did enough to get through signing a paper.

983
00:45:17,080 --> 00:45:19,279
Speaker 2: I'm already freaking out. And it was like, let her

984
00:45:19,320 --> 00:45:21,719
Speaker 2: go do some h and then she'll go. And she

985
00:45:21,760 --> 00:45:24,239
Speaker 2: went to treatment, and like ninety days later, she's a

986
00:45:24,280 --> 00:45:28,000
Speaker 2: lot like she is fat on her body again and

987
00:45:28,040 --> 00:45:30,719
Speaker 2: she's just kind of like and I don't even want

988
00:45:30,719 --> 00:45:32,560
Speaker 2: to google it because this was in twenty fourteen. But

989
00:45:32,600 --> 00:45:35,360
Speaker 2: I don't think Katie made it. And I want her

990
00:45:35,440 --> 00:45:37,200
Speaker 2: to make it more than anything, but I just don't.

991
00:45:38,000 --> 00:45:39,560
Speaker 2: I don't know. I was like her mom, I was like,

992
00:45:39,600 --> 00:45:42,279
Speaker 2: I've lost oping this girl, but I really hope she

993
00:45:42,320 --> 00:45:44,839
Speaker 2: did because she was so smart. Usually people on those

994
00:45:44,880 --> 00:45:48,920
Speaker 2: shows are so like they're set. They're always smart, like

995
00:45:49,040 --> 00:45:53,200
Speaker 2: heroin addicts are usually like very intelligent, and drug addicts are.

996
00:45:53,600 --> 00:45:56,319
Speaker 2: They're usually smarter people than you would think, but you

997
00:45:56,320 --> 00:45:58,560
Speaker 2: wouldn't know because their brains are fried. But she was

998
00:45:58,600 --> 00:46:02,120
Speaker 2: like everything she did, she was like, oh, I know,

999
00:46:02,239 --> 00:46:04,839
Speaker 2: my life isn't good. I'm doing a documentary right now

1000
00:46:04,880 --> 00:46:07,560
Speaker 2: to be an example for people not to do drugs.

1001
00:46:07,640 --> 00:46:09,799
Speaker 2: So things aren't great for me. And then she goes

1002
00:46:10,400 --> 00:46:13,480
Speaker 2: and like, nady she yet I told her mom, I go,

1003
00:46:13,520 --> 00:46:16,279
Speaker 2: I listened to this girl's podcast. She was so self reflective.

1004
00:46:16,680 --> 00:46:19,000
Speaker 2: I really liked her. But I don't even want to

1005
00:46:19,040 --> 00:46:20,960
Speaker 2: google it because I don't want to know. There's several

1006
00:46:21,080 --> 00:46:23,520
Speaker 2: Katies on intervention, so don't tell me. But I want

1007
00:46:23,520 --> 00:46:24,319
Speaker 2: to believe she made it.

1008
00:46:24,360 --> 00:46:27,719
Speaker 5: But I just type in a joke about traffic cone

1009
00:46:27,800 --> 00:46:29,280
Speaker 5: is done by Katie from a intervention.

1010
00:46:29,840 --> 00:46:32,240
Speaker 3: Yeah, let's find out if she is dead.

1011
00:46:33,520 --> 00:46:35,719
Speaker 2: I know. The problem was she was never gonna it

1012
00:46:35,760 --> 00:46:37,920
Speaker 2: was there's some people that like it won't kill like

1013
00:46:38,000 --> 00:46:40,640
Speaker 2: she was just not. She still looked beautiful, she still

1014
00:46:40,680 --> 00:46:41,560
Speaker 2: had all her hair.

1015
00:46:41,719 --> 00:46:44,160
Speaker 5: Oh yeah, there's so many functioning heroin addicts.

1016
00:46:44,400 --> 00:46:45,080
Speaker 2: Oh my god.

1017
00:46:45,160 --> 00:46:47,720
Speaker 3: But she but she would. She wasn't even getting high anymore.

1018
00:46:48,000 --> 00:46:51,000
Speaker 2: The intake people were like, she doesn't get high anymore,

1019
00:46:51,040 --> 00:46:54,120
Speaker 2: she just gets not sick. So she was totally lucid.

1020
00:46:54,600 --> 00:46:56,880
Speaker 2: It was just like she just wasn't throwing up. She

1021
00:46:57,000 --> 00:47:00,480
Speaker 2: was never like what's up, guys, nodding off or anything.

1022
00:47:00,520 --> 00:47:00,719
Speaker 5: I know.

1023
00:47:00,840 --> 00:47:02,960
Speaker 2: It was awful and she was so aware of it.

1024
00:47:02,960 --> 00:47:05,320
Speaker 2: It was a really good episode. I think was season thirteen,

1025
00:47:05,360 --> 00:47:08,880
Speaker 2: episode one. It's on Hulu. Okay, Bright, what did this?

1026
00:47:08,960 --> 00:47:09,520
Speaker 2: What did it say?

1027
00:47:09,640 --> 00:47:11,799
Speaker 1: I'm failing miserably. It's not letting me log in.

1028
00:47:11,880 --> 00:47:14,880
Speaker 2: I'm sorry, Oh my god, just remember I'm.

1029
00:47:14,920 --> 00:47:18,960
Speaker 1: It's saying oops, it just keeps saying, which is it? No,

1030
00:47:19,040 --> 00:47:20,320
Speaker 1: it's just free. It's still free.

1031
00:47:20,480 --> 00:47:23,040
Speaker 2: Wait, you can just get chat ept for free.

1032
00:47:23,320 --> 00:47:25,000
Speaker 1: Yes, you can just get it for free. But I'm

1033
00:47:25,040 --> 00:47:27,720
Speaker 1: telling you this, it's not as good as you think.

1034
00:47:28,080 --> 00:47:31,400
Speaker 1: And Okay, I would not worry that much about AI

1035
00:47:31,640 --> 00:47:32,920
Speaker 1: or replacing everything.

1036
00:47:32,960 --> 00:47:35,200
Speaker 2: I can't wait to be replaced, honestly, I want to

1037
00:47:35,960 --> 00:47:38,640
Speaker 2: You know what can't replace a bird rescue, which is

1038
00:47:38,640 --> 00:47:40,160
Speaker 2: what I'm going to do as soon as this job

1039
00:47:40,239 --> 00:47:42,840
Speaker 2: is taken from me. I'm gonna just rescue animals and

1040
00:47:42,960 --> 00:47:45,200
Speaker 2: robots can't do that yet, so I'll be fine.

1041
00:47:45,280 --> 00:47:49,440
Speaker 1: I'm very proud of the WGA because we are fighting

1042
00:47:49,560 --> 00:47:52,520
Speaker 1: to get some rules set in place for Have you

1043
00:47:52,600 --> 00:47:54,600
Speaker 1: been on the picket lines. I've been on the picket lines.

1044
00:47:54,640 --> 00:47:56,839
Speaker 1: I've been picketing every day. Here do you go? I'm

1045
00:47:56,880 --> 00:47:58,680
Speaker 1: not every day, but almost every day. I go. Well,

1046
00:47:58,719 --> 00:48:01,839
Speaker 1: I'm very lucky because I live within walking distance of

1047
00:48:02,480 --> 00:48:06,040
Speaker 1: Amazon and Sony, so I can just walk to either

1048
00:48:06,080 --> 00:48:09,720
Speaker 1: of those lots whenever. That's the vibe there, vibe is great.

1049
00:48:10,040 --> 00:48:11,040
Speaker 1: I love Yeah.

1050
00:48:11,120 --> 00:48:14,160
Speaker 2: Yesterday, Cheryl Hines, where is everything.

1051
00:48:15,280 --> 00:48:15,400
Speaker 1: Is?

1052
00:48:15,520 --> 00:48:18,880
Speaker 3: He's like the spearhead of that. He's the face of this.

1053
00:48:19,120 --> 00:48:22,200
Speaker 1: He was on the negotiating committee, he was elected to

1054
00:48:22,640 --> 00:48:23,680
Speaker 1: be a board member.

1055
00:48:23,719 --> 00:48:24,440
Speaker 3: He's amazing.

1056
00:48:24,840 --> 00:48:27,000
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, he has to say about it, like put

1057
00:48:27,000 --> 00:48:29,640
Speaker 2: a microphone in front of the guy Adam Conover, who

1058
00:48:29,680 --> 00:48:32,760
Speaker 2: Brian writes for currently for his YouTube channel.

1059
00:48:32,800 --> 00:48:33,520
Speaker 3: Right you still do that?

1060
00:48:33,840 --> 00:48:34,080
Speaker 1: Yeah?

1061
00:48:34,160 --> 00:48:37,600
Speaker 2: Sure, yeah, he that guy is the best. So you

1062
00:48:37,640 --> 00:48:38,920
Speaker 2: So Cheryl Hines showed up.

1063
00:48:39,120 --> 00:48:41,960
Speaker 1: Cheryl Hines was on the line at Amazon yesterday and

1064
00:48:42,000 --> 00:48:43,680
Speaker 1: I got and there was She wanted to take a

1065
00:48:43,680 --> 00:48:46,520
Speaker 1: group photo with a bunch of picketers. I wouldn't go

1066
00:48:46,640 --> 00:48:48,759
Speaker 1: up to her and start talking to her. That's inappropriate.

1067
00:48:49,200 --> 00:48:51,200
Speaker 1: But she wanted to take a group photo and then

1068
00:48:51,360 --> 00:48:53,040
Speaker 1: she waved me over and I was in it. I'm

1069
00:48:53,040 --> 00:48:55,200
Speaker 1: in a group photo. There's a chance I might show

1070
00:48:55,280 --> 00:49:00,200
Speaker 1: up on her Instagram page. Oh my god. Yeah, but

1071
00:49:00,600 --> 00:49:04,360
Speaker 1: Harry at the Netflix studios yesterday day.

1072
00:49:04,239 --> 00:49:06,000
Speaker 3: The show with Cheryl Hines. She's so nice?

1073
00:49:06,080 --> 00:49:07,160
Speaker 1: Oh you did? Yeah?

1074
00:49:07,160 --> 00:49:09,719
Speaker 2: I did a game show with her like six months

1075
00:49:09,760 --> 00:49:12,200
Speaker 2: ago and she was lovely to me. And that was

1076
00:49:12,239 --> 00:49:13,839
Speaker 2: the game show I talked about on the show where

1077
00:49:14,040 --> 00:49:16,279
Speaker 2: there was one person who was not nice and I'll

1078
00:49:17,560 --> 00:49:19,799
Speaker 2: show I will. I can't wait to book her and

1079
00:49:19,840 --> 00:49:23,000
Speaker 2: then cancel her and go. It was because you were

1080
00:49:23,080 --> 00:49:25,239
Speaker 2: route to me on that one show we did. And

1081
00:49:25,880 --> 00:49:27,600
Speaker 2: now you can probably figure out who it is, because

1082
00:49:27,760 --> 00:49:31,640
Speaker 2: if that show comes out, it's not Cheryl Hines. There's

1083
00:49:31,640 --> 00:49:34,399
Speaker 2: two other women on it too, So now I feel

1084
00:49:34,400 --> 00:49:36,359
Speaker 2: bad because one of them is nice and you won't

1085
00:49:36,360 --> 00:49:39,840
Speaker 2: know which one Wasn't that cool or yeah. So anyway,

1086
00:49:41,120 --> 00:49:43,640
Speaker 2: here's my thing. How many days, how many hours are

1087
00:49:43,640 --> 00:49:44,640
Speaker 2: you are you walking around?

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00:49:44,800 --> 00:49:48,359
Speaker 1: They oblige you, that's what they say, to walk for

1089
00:49:48,400 --> 00:49:52,919
Speaker 1: four hours a day, Monday through Friday, I'm not sure

1090
00:49:53,080 --> 00:49:54,200
Speaker 1: everybody's doing it.

1091
00:49:54,440 --> 00:49:56,840
Speaker 2: Are you doing that? I will not.

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00:49:58,760 --> 00:50:05,239
Speaker 1: Friends, Well that's the thing. No, they go, I go, well,

1093
00:50:05,280 --> 00:50:07,799
Speaker 1: So the first day I did it. I just want

1094
00:50:07,840 --> 00:50:11,319
Speaker 1: to say quickly that at Netflix yesterday, imagine dragons showed up.

1095
00:50:11,520 --> 00:50:13,520
Speaker 1: That's what I saw that and they did a free

1096
00:50:13,600 --> 00:50:16,360
Speaker 1: concert for the right. No. I was at Amazon.

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00:50:17,320 --> 00:50:18,160
Speaker 2: Who's there?

1098
00:50:18,320 --> 00:50:22,200
Speaker 1: It seems like, yeah, showed up and they begged us

1099
00:50:22,200 --> 00:50:25,560
Speaker 1: for money, and I was like, this is not but

1100
00:50:26,400 --> 00:50:29,720
Speaker 1: it's it's really I feel very proud of the union

1101
00:50:29,760 --> 00:50:33,080
Speaker 1: and I'm it's fun. But I go there and the

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00:50:33,080 --> 00:50:35,600
Speaker 1: first day I showed up, I had I have no friends.

1103
00:50:35,640 --> 00:50:37,520
Speaker 1: I didn't know anybody that was out there. I was

1104
00:50:37,600 --> 00:50:40,080
Speaker 1: kind of surprised, but it's because everybody that I know

1105
00:50:40,600 --> 00:50:43,359
Speaker 1: is on the east side, is in Hipsterville, and I'm

1106
00:50:43,400 --> 00:50:45,279
Speaker 1: now on the west side. So the east side is

1107
00:50:45,320 --> 00:50:47,279
Speaker 1: like where all the writers that I would know would

1108
00:50:47,280 --> 00:50:48,160
Speaker 1: be picketing and.

1109
00:50:48,480 --> 00:50:49,960
Speaker 3: Make friends and go, hey, what are you write?

1110
00:50:50,239 --> 00:50:52,480
Speaker 1: So the first day I didn't talk to anybody. I

1111
00:50:52,520 --> 00:50:54,880
Speaker 1: walked around in a circle. I felt very lonely.

1112
00:50:54,800 --> 00:50:57,719
Speaker 3: For four hours or some therein.

1113
00:50:57,880 --> 00:51:02,080
Speaker 1: Some some amount that would keep me obliged to the union, yes.

1114
00:51:02,440 --> 00:51:06,120
Speaker 1: And the second day I was like, you know what,

1115
00:51:06,280 --> 00:51:09,399
Speaker 1: I am going to talk to somebody. So I did

1116
00:51:09,400 --> 00:51:12,080
Speaker 1: a couple of laps with the picket with the picket line,

1117
00:51:12,480 --> 00:51:17,440
Speaker 1: and I just looked for people who are also alone. Yes, yes,

1118
00:51:17,880 --> 00:51:20,320
Speaker 1: And I found a guy and I walked up to

1119
00:51:20,400 --> 00:51:24,080
Speaker 1: him and I said, Hello, do you want to talk

1120
00:51:24,200 --> 00:51:25,320
Speaker 1: or was you rather walking?

1121
00:51:26,000 --> 00:51:30,759
Speaker 2: Like an ai that's the problem, Okay, you said would

1122
00:51:30,760 --> 00:51:31,640
Speaker 2: you rather talk or walk in?

1123
00:51:31,880 --> 00:51:33,480
Speaker 1: I said, hello, do you want to talk or would

1124
00:51:33,520 --> 00:51:36,680
Speaker 1: you rather walk in silence? That's open And he thought

1125
00:51:36,719 --> 00:51:39,920
Speaker 1: about it and he said, you know what, I'll talk.

1126
00:51:41,800 --> 00:51:44,080
Speaker 1: So then we wound up talking. And now every day

1127
00:51:44,160 --> 00:51:47,400
Speaker 1: since I've talked to a different person on the line.

1128
00:51:47,239 --> 00:51:48,320
Speaker 3: By saying that line.

1129
00:51:48,880 --> 00:51:50,360
Speaker 1: Sometimes they they talk to me.

1130
00:51:51,360 --> 00:51:53,920
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, Brian, you're very personable.

1131
00:51:54,200 --> 00:51:57,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, and I would be lucky to be next to

1132
00:51:57,000 --> 00:51:58,400
Speaker 2: you in a picket line.

1133
00:51:58,600 --> 00:52:00,440
Speaker 1: Yeah. We talk, and you know, we talk about all

1134
00:52:00,480 --> 00:52:02,520
Speaker 1: sorts of shit. We get deep fast too.

1135
00:52:04,600 --> 00:52:06,560
Speaker 2: Yeah. I guess it's like it's you gotta be out

1136
00:52:06,560 --> 00:52:09,279
Speaker 2: there if you're not working, like I would probably be

1137
00:52:09,360 --> 00:52:12,759
Speaker 2: out there if I've lived in La Yeah, doing it.

1138
00:52:13,040 --> 00:52:17,279
Speaker 1: But well, it's such a great situation because you know,

1139
00:52:17,360 --> 00:52:19,480
Speaker 1: you're going up. It's like you're going up to a

1140
00:52:19,520 --> 00:52:22,200
Speaker 1: person and you're asking them to talk, and you know

1141
00:52:22,800 --> 00:52:26,360
Speaker 1: that you have to be there for hours, and so

1142
00:52:26,840 --> 00:52:29,000
Speaker 1: it's not like you're talking to someone and you're like, God,

1143
00:52:29,040 --> 00:52:30,960
Speaker 1: I wish I could just leave. Why do I have

1144
00:52:31,040 --> 00:52:34,520
Speaker 1: to be here? You have to be there. So you're

1145
00:52:34,600 --> 00:52:38,600
Speaker 1: like guaranteed at a certain amount of time talking to somebody, but.

1146
00:52:38,600 --> 00:52:40,279
Speaker 2: You could just kind of lap them or something, or

1147
00:52:40,360 --> 00:52:42,239
Speaker 2: kind of like mosey back or go, oh, I got

1148
00:52:42,239 --> 00:52:43,879
Speaker 2: to tie my shoe and like find someone else.

1149
00:52:44,040 --> 00:52:48,279
Speaker 1: That happened once, and it was really embarrassing. Why well,

1150
00:52:48,360 --> 00:52:50,399
Speaker 1: I mean, I was this person tried to get away

1151
00:52:50,400 --> 00:52:53,160
Speaker 1: from you. Yes, this person came up to me. She

1152
00:52:53,360 --> 00:52:56,800
Speaker 1: was like drama or comedy and I was like, oh, comedy.

1153
00:52:56,480 --> 00:52:57,720
Speaker 2: That's okay, that's the opener.

1154
00:52:57,840 --> 00:53:00,480
Speaker 1: That's the drama. Comedy and I was like, oh, comedy,

1155
00:53:00,640 --> 00:53:03,080
Speaker 1: and she's like oh and then I guess the conversation

1156
00:53:03,600 --> 00:53:06,600
Speaker 1: it only lasted like less than two minutes because then

1157
00:53:06,640 --> 00:53:08,920
Speaker 1: she was like, all right, I gotta go, and then

1158
00:53:08,960 --> 00:53:10,960
Speaker 1: she saw some oh, hi, Lindsay or whatever, and she

1159
00:53:11,000 --> 00:53:12,800
Speaker 1: got away from me as fast as possible.

1160
00:53:13,440 --> 00:53:13,720
Speaker 3: Right.

1161
00:53:14,040 --> 00:53:16,600
Speaker 1: I didn't say anything that would cause her to do that.

1162
00:53:16,640 --> 00:53:18,520
Speaker 1: It was just she sussed out the.

1163
00:53:18,680 --> 00:53:21,359
Speaker 2: Maybe maybe she was interested in you, and you came

1164
00:53:21,400 --> 00:53:22,360
Speaker 2: up that you were engaged.

1165
00:53:23,840 --> 00:53:25,720
Speaker 3: That would make me. Oh it didn't.

1166
00:53:25,960 --> 00:53:28,280
Speaker 2: No, I think you saw your wedding.

1167
00:53:28,520 --> 00:53:30,960
Speaker 1: She looked at im half wage. I think it was like,

1168
00:53:31,000 --> 00:53:32,359
Speaker 1: this guy is not worth my time.

1169
00:53:32,560 --> 00:53:35,360
Speaker 2: Oh right, she just privately googled it real quick or

1170
00:53:35,400 --> 00:53:38,319
Speaker 2: reddited it. Okay, we'll be back with reddit dump after this.

1171
00:53:41,160 --> 00:53:44,719
Speaker 2: All right, we're back. Let's do reddit dump. This is

1172
00:53:44,760 --> 00:53:55,840
Speaker 2: your redit dump. Okay, why do Oh? These are the

1173
00:53:55,920 --> 00:53:59,719
Speaker 2: dumbest celebrity tweets. So it's from pop culture Chat. It

1174
00:53:59,760 --> 00:54:04,360
Speaker 2: says dumbest celebrity tweet, and it's Bbi Rexa, who I

1175
00:54:04,400 --> 00:54:06,640
Speaker 2: played against her family and family feud and she was

1176
00:54:06,719 --> 00:54:08,880
Speaker 2: very lovely, but she had a dumb tweet that I

1177
00:54:08,920 --> 00:54:11,759
Speaker 2: probably would have made the same mistake, it said. So

1178
00:54:11,760 --> 00:54:13,600
Speaker 2: she's responding to a tweet that says if you had

1179
00:54:13,600 --> 00:54:16,719
Speaker 2: the chance to time travel, where would you go? And

1180
00:54:16,760 --> 00:54:21,480
Speaker 2: she wrote, I would go to Paris nineteen forties. Oh

1181
00:54:22,360 --> 00:54:26,200
Speaker 2: my god, that's just someone who grew up being a

1182
00:54:26,280 --> 00:54:26,799
Speaker 2: pop star.

1183
00:54:27,160 --> 00:54:36,640
Speaker 3: Okay, let's hope so okay, yeah, no kidding, Um, Okay.

1184
00:54:36,719 --> 00:54:39,480
Speaker 2: So in the comments, though, is where people listed all

1185
00:54:39,520 --> 00:54:41,560
Speaker 2: other celebrity tweets that they loved, and there were some

1186
00:54:41,600 --> 00:54:42,040
Speaker 2: good ones.

1187
00:54:42,040 --> 00:54:43,000
Speaker 1: Okay, so this.

1188
00:54:43,000 --> 00:54:45,760
Speaker 2: One said, uh, not so much dumb as poorly timed,

1189
00:54:45,760 --> 00:54:47,520
Speaker 2: but I still cackle when I think of the time

1190
00:54:47,560 --> 00:54:56,000
Speaker 2: The Weekend tweeted, let's go just as Russia bombed you craye. Okay,

1191
00:54:56,360 --> 00:54:59,520
Speaker 2: lindsay this. Someone posted Lizzie Lohan's tweet. She said, why

1192
00:54:59,760 --> 00:55:03,360
Speaker 2: is everyone in such a panic about hurricane I'm calling

1193
00:55:03,400 --> 00:55:08,000
Speaker 2: it Sally in parentheses. Stop projecting negativity, think positive and

1194
00:55:08,080 --> 00:55:14,480
Speaker 2: pray for peace. Oh my god, Oh this one was painful.

1195
00:55:15,400 --> 00:55:17,400
Speaker 2: This is from Rita Aura, who I also I mean,

1196
00:55:17,440 --> 00:55:19,080
Speaker 2: I don't mean to name drop, but I'm also on

1197
00:55:19,120 --> 00:55:23,040
Speaker 2: a show with her. Last week on Thursday's celeb Game

1198
00:55:23,080 --> 00:55:25,839
Speaker 2: Face with My Mom on E we played against Rita

1199
00:55:25,880 --> 00:55:28,480
Speaker 2: Aura and her sister. But this is Rita Aura. She said,

1200
00:55:28,680 --> 00:55:31,480
Speaker 2: dropping my new song Monday. If this gets one hundred

1201
00:55:31,480 --> 00:55:37,120
Speaker 2: thousand retweets, it has eighteen hundred retweets, like purposely did

1202
00:55:37,120 --> 00:55:40,040
Speaker 2: it and she people said, biggest secondhand embarrassment I've ever

1203
00:55:40,120 --> 00:55:42,040
Speaker 2: had for a celeb, the fact that she pretended she

1204
00:55:42,080 --> 00:55:44,480
Speaker 2: was hacked because she was nowhere near the rt amount

1205
00:55:44,560 --> 00:55:49,399
Speaker 2: she said, she said, she pretended she was hacked. Oh

1206
00:55:49,480 --> 00:55:55,080
Speaker 2: this one is so good. Okay, So asap Ferg. So

1207
00:55:55,719 --> 00:55:59,560
Speaker 2: someone posted about acep Ferg. He goes acept Ferg announces

1208
00:55:59,600 --> 00:56:01,759
Speaker 2: the name of his forthcoming album, and then there's a

1209
00:56:01,800 --> 00:56:06,759
Speaker 2: link an acep for responds second and then the guy

1210
00:56:06,760 --> 00:56:09,560
Speaker 2: writes back, sorry, if there is an inaccuracy somewhere, something

1211
00:56:09,600 --> 00:56:12,440
Speaker 2: we need to fix, and he goes, you said fourth

1212
00:56:12,440 --> 00:56:18,919
Speaker 2: coming album, it's only the second. Oh, no, cute, that's

1213
00:56:18,960 --> 00:56:26,640
Speaker 2: a cute one. Then Joel Austin, you know that fucking hick, Yes, yeah,

1214
00:56:27,280 --> 00:56:33,799
Speaker 2: who didn't let hurricane you know, victims stay at his compound, which,

1215
00:56:33,880 --> 00:56:35,600
Speaker 2: by the way, I was kind of thinking about that,

1216
00:56:35,640 --> 00:56:37,040
Speaker 2: and I was like, I don't know if i'd want

1217
00:56:37,040 --> 00:56:40,799
Speaker 2: a bunch of hurricane victims at my house either, But

1218
00:56:40,880 --> 00:56:43,120
Speaker 2: maybe I'm reading it wrong, Like I remember everyone was

1219
00:56:43,160 --> 00:56:45,399
Speaker 2: so mad at Joel. I hate Joel Austin because he's

1220
00:56:45,960 --> 00:56:48,200
Speaker 2: obviously a smart enough guy to know that what he's

1221
00:56:48,239 --> 00:56:51,200
Speaker 2: preaching is not true, and he's you know, a charlatan

1222
00:56:51,239 --> 00:56:54,080
Speaker 2: and a corrupt person. But I don't know that I

1223
00:56:54,160 --> 00:56:57,759
Speaker 2: want a bunch of fucking displays Hurricane refuge Us at

1224
00:56:57,760 --> 00:57:01,040
Speaker 2: my beautiful compound either. But I would do it because

1225
00:57:01,040 --> 00:57:02,960
Speaker 2: I didn't want to be a dick. But you can't

1226
00:57:02,960 --> 00:57:05,440
Speaker 2: blame the guy. Am I wrong?

1227
00:57:05,680 --> 00:57:08,440
Speaker 1: No tricking all those people, They're not tricking.

1228
00:57:08,520 --> 00:57:11,160
Speaker 2: No, for just not he the biggest thing that people

1229
00:57:11,160 --> 00:57:13,200
Speaker 2: get mad about him. Yeah, they said, remember when Joel

1230
00:57:13,200 --> 00:57:15,640
Speaker 2: Austin refused to let victims of Hurricane Harvey into his

1231
00:57:15,760 --> 00:57:18,240
Speaker 2: church and it can hold like fifteen thousand people after

1232
00:57:18,320 --> 00:57:20,280
Speaker 2: they've been flooded out of their homes. He saw what happened

1233
00:57:20,280 --> 00:57:23,959
Speaker 2: to the fucking super Dome in New Orleans. He turned

1234
00:57:23,960 --> 00:57:27,920
Speaker 2: into like a homeless camp. I'm sorry, it's a church.

1235
00:57:28,400 --> 00:57:31,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like the whole point of welcome in the

1236
00:57:31,760 --> 00:57:35,760
Speaker 1: you know, the the people who are suffering. It's like

1237
00:57:35,800 --> 00:57:38,080
Speaker 1: if it was that would be different. Which was like

1238
00:57:38,080 --> 00:57:40,240
Speaker 1: a lot which is like a Curb your Enthusiasm storyline,

1239
00:57:40,480 --> 00:57:40,760
Speaker 1: get it.

1240
00:57:40,800 --> 00:57:42,480
Speaker 2: But there's a lot of money that goes into that

1241
00:57:42,560 --> 00:57:44,360
Speaker 2: church to make a nice I hate this guy. I

1242
00:57:44,400 --> 00:57:47,160
Speaker 2: want to be clear. I think he is the devil.

1243
00:57:47,240 --> 00:57:49,080
Speaker 2: I think he's a bad person. Every time I say

1244
00:57:49,120 --> 00:57:51,640
Speaker 2: him on TV, I just go uugh, Yeah, but I

1245
00:57:51,760 --> 00:57:54,120
Speaker 2: don't kind of blame him for this because it would

1246
00:57:54,120 --> 00:57:57,320
Speaker 2: have been completely trashed. But I guess you're just supposed

1247
00:57:57,360 --> 00:58:00,800
Speaker 2: to allow that. I guess the church it's a really

1248
00:58:00,920 --> 00:58:04,040
Speaker 2: nice and they have enough money to rebuild, Okay, so keep.

1249
00:58:03,920 --> 00:58:09,120
Speaker 5: Their doors locked and so fuck them. They really yeah,

1250
00:58:09,160 --> 00:58:12,000
Speaker 5: but it's been for decades. It's like, why doesn't Why

1251
00:58:12,000 --> 00:58:14,120
Speaker 5: don't churches have open doors because they.

1252
00:58:14,080 --> 00:58:18,760
Speaker 2: Because the homeless need places to go, and they'll it'll

1253
00:58:18,760 --> 00:58:21,560
Speaker 2: get trashed, don't We want to keep things nice sometimes?

1254
00:58:21,560 --> 00:58:23,240
Speaker 3: But like, I also don't know what what do you

1255
00:58:23,240 --> 00:58:24,040
Speaker 3: think the solution is?

1256
00:58:24,800 --> 00:58:25,800
Speaker 5: Go to Joelastines.

1257
00:58:26,360 --> 00:58:30,440
Speaker 1: The reason why it's upsetting is because it's hypocritical. It

1258
00:58:30,480 --> 00:58:33,120
Speaker 1: goes against what he's preaching. He's like, you know, help

1259
00:58:33,200 --> 00:58:38,200
Speaker 1: people turn the other cheek, Jesus, all that stuff, charity, charity,

1260
00:58:38,920 --> 00:58:41,360
Speaker 1: the Cross, he says all those things, and then he

1261
00:58:41,400 --> 00:58:43,520
Speaker 1: SAIDs and then and then when it comes time to

1262
00:58:43,560 --> 00:58:47,600
Speaker 1: put his money where his mouth is, he doesn't do it.

1263
00:58:47,880 --> 00:58:51,280
Speaker 2: Yes, but there's also the thing of like it would

1264
00:58:51,320 --> 00:58:55,000
Speaker 2: have gotten trashed. I mean, I just I want someone

1265
00:58:55,000 --> 00:58:57,000
Speaker 2: who's smarter than all four of us to weigh in

1266
00:58:57,040 --> 00:59:01,120
Speaker 2: on this, because I don't see why wanting to protect

1267
00:59:01,160 --> 00:59:03,520
Speaker 2: something that a lot of money and effort has been

1268
00:59:04,000 --> 00:59:07,200
Speaker 2: put into building. I mean, maybe you make it hurricane

1269
00:59:07,520 --> 00:59:11,440
Speaker 2: like refugee accessible, and like you build it so that

1270
00:59:11,520 --> 00:59:13,840
Speaker 2: it can like with that in mind that someday this

1271
00:59:13,880 --> 00:59:15,160
Speaker 2: is going to be a place where people are going

1272
00:59:15,200 --> 00:59:18,680
Speaker 2: to need to go. I don't know. None of us

1273
00:59:18,760 --> 00:59:22,480
Speaker 2: open our homes to victims of things. So not that

1274
00:59:22,520 --> 00:59:24,280
Speaker 2: it's his home. I know it's his church, but like

1275
00:59:24,840 --> 00:59:27,200
Speaker 2: you don't open would you want them? Would you go

1276
00:59:27,240 --> 00:59:29,240
Speaker 2: to a gym that you is your gym, that your

1277
00:59:29,280 --> 00:59:32,320
Speaker 2: business that you run, or like your business your cafe

1278
00:59:32,440 --> 00:59:33,560
Speaker 2: and let people sleep there.

1279
00:59:33,840 --> 00:59:35,960
Speaker 5: But it's a disaster where they supposed to go.

1280
00:59:36,280 --> 00:59:40,320
Speaker 6: It's temporary, temporary disaster. It's not like this the government.

1281
00:59:41,160 --> 00:59:44,560
Speaker 6: It is supposed to come tax dollars. Yes, So I'm

1282
00:59:44,560 --> 00:59:46,960
Speaker 6: not defending to Laustine. Actually I kind of am.

1283
00:59:47,040 --> 00:59:48,720
Speaker 2: I don't know what's wrong with what the fuck is

1284
00:59:48,760 --> 00:59:57,400
Speaker 2: happening you guys? Oh my god, don't jacket home? Okay,

1285
00:59:57,640 --> 00:59:59,880
Speaker 2: So Joel Austin says, this is the tweet that is

1286
00:59:59,880 --> 01:00:03,760
Speaker 2: a embarrassing. A true friend walks in when everybody walks out. Okay,

1287
01:00:03,800 --> 01:00:06,600
Speaker 2: that's hilarious. A true friend doesn't rub it in. When

1288
01:00:06,600 --> 01:00:08,439
Speaker 2: you make a mistake, they rub it out.

1289
01:00:08,960 --> 01:00:14,840
Speaker 4: Oh masturbation, Joe, Oh yeah, that's a good friend.

1290
01:00:15,640 --> 01:00:19,600
Speaker 2: Doctor Phil tweeted once in twenty thirteen, if a girl

1291
01:00:19,720 --> 01:00:22,200
Speaker 2: is drunk, is it okay to have sex with her?

1292
01:00:22,360 --> 01:00:26,040
Speaker 2: Reply yes or no to doctor Phil hashtag teen's accused.

1293
01:00:28,960 --> 01:00:32,320
Speaker 2: It just seems like he's asking, he's asking for his show. Yeah,

1294
01:00:32,320 --> 01:00:35,439
Speaker 2: but also I don't know. Again, I found nothing wrong

1295
01:00:35,480 --> 01:00:38,400
Speaker 2: with this tweet because it's asking if a girl is

1296
01:00:38,440 --> 01:00:41,560
Speaker 2: a kneebri and it people. I think people are shocked

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Speaker 2: by this because they're like, of course, it's not okay.

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Speaker 2: I'm sorry, no one would be conceived if our dads

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Speaker 2: didn't fuck a girl who had been a little bit

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01:00:49,600 --> 01:00:54,280
Speaker 2: drunk or drunk. I just don't believe that people have sex.

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Speaker 2: I think it's do you know what I'm saying? Maybe

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01:00:56,680 --> 01:00:57,160
Speaker 2: I'm wrong.

1303
01:00:57,240 --> 01:00:58,920
Speaker 3: I'm like, am I begging to get canceled?

1304
01:00:58,960 --> 01:01:00,000
Speaker 2: I don't know what I'm doing.

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Speaker 1: Wait, can you you're saying look into what you're saying?

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Speaker 1: We were would?

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Speaker 2: He says, if a girl is drunk, is it okay

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Speaker 2: to have sex with her? I think people are upset

1309
01:01:08,640 --> 01:01:10,320
Speaker 2: about this tweet because they're like, of course it's not

1310
01:01:10,360 --> 01:01:12,040
Speaker 2: okay to have sex with a girl that's drunk.

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Speaker 4: I think it's the reply yes or no, I don't

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Speaker 4: know for some reason, like it's fun have a different yes.

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Speaker 5: It sounds like he's checking before he takes action.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's why it's funny. But I think people are

1315
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Speaker 2: offended because they're like, of course it's not okay. But

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Speaker 2: I would say, yes, it's okay to have sex with

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Speaker 2: a girl who's drunk. But also this is I mean again,

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Speaker 2: I'm this is another thing that is a sticky situation.

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Speaker 2: But I think most people who have sex the girl

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Speaker 2: is drunk, like, as long as she consents, yes, But

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Speaker 2: then what if she's like yeah.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, what if she's like the Love is Blind person,

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Speaker 1: then can you have what do you mean yes, no,

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01:01:58,440 --> 01:02:02,840
Speaker 1: the girl from Love is blind? You were with the bagh.

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Speaker 1: It depends what It reaches a level where it's not

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Speaker 1: okay any.

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Speaker 2: By the way, whereas alcohol makes you do stupid things,

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01:02:11,560 --> 01:02:14,200
Speaker 2: alcohol is a retardant. I don't think that's the right

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Speaker 2: word for it, because there retarded to some of the

1330
01:02:15,600 --> 01:02:18,480
Speaker 2: pressent flames out. It is, well, it's not it's not

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Speaker 2: only the present. It makes you stupid er. It makes

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Speaker 2: you dumber. That's why you do things that are hash

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Speaker 2: like or quote unquote brave almost aid hashtag brave. That's

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Speaker 2: why you do things that you're like, oh, liquid courage.

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Speaker 2: It's not because it makes you courageous. It makes your

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01:02:35,680 --> 01:02:39,960
Speaker 2: your sense of fear and observing things around you. It

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01:02:40,040 --> 01:02:42,640
Speaker 2: diminishes those things so that you are able to step

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Speaker 2: out on that ledge, you are able to say that

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Speaker 2: thing to that person. It's not because you're like suddenly

1340
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Speaker 2: have self esteem enough to do that.

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Speaker 3: You're just stupider. So why is it okay?

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01:02:52,080 --> 01:02:55,280
Speaker 2: Then if girls get stupid, like, they'll only fuck you

1343
01:02:55,320 --> 01:02:58,360
Speaker 2: if they get stupider? Isn't that shouldn't that be wrong

1344
01:02:58,680 --> 01:03:00,760
Speaker 2: than any amount that makes you dumber?

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01:03:00,880 --> 01:03:02,480
Speaker 3: And unless with it?

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Speaker 5: He should have asked, is it okay to have sex

1347
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Speaker 5: with someone borderline unconscious?

1348
01:03:08,160 --> 01:03:10,080
Speaker 1: He should have asked, is it okay to have sex

1349
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Speaker 1: with someone who just got their pH d?

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01:03:14,600 --> 01:03:15,680
Speaker 3: Oh because they got smarter?

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01:03:15,800 --> 01:03:17,680
Speaker 1: Yeah? That really bombed, man.

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01:03:23,920 --> 01:03:26,400
Speaker 2: I mean I saw the logic of it right that

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Speaker 2: for you?

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01:03:27,040 --> 01:03:30,240
Speaker 1: Okay, I do. I just I was able to log

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Speaker 1: into chat EPT and I was able to ask it

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Speaker 1: in case we would go back to that. Yes, please,

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Speaker 1: I have I have five Nikki Laser jokes about traffic cones. Okay,

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Speaker 1: Number one, traffic cones are like the Kardashians of the road.

1359
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Speaker 1: They're everywhere, they're distracting, and no one knows why they're famous.

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01:03:49,760 --> 01:03:51,960
Speaker 1: The problem is, traffic cones are not famous.

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Speaker 2: Are not famous. But listen, I thought that the first

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01:03:55,680 --> 01:03:59,120
Speaker 2: two were good. Yeah, they're everywhere, they're distracting. Let's come

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Speaker 2: up with a better one.

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01:04:00,600 --> 01:04:07,080
Speaker 1: And and uh and no one knows why they're so orange.

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01:04:08,360 --> 01:04:09,040
Speaker 2: Oh that's good.

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Speaker 5: I like that.

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Speaker 3: This is why you're on the pick.

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Speaker 1: Everywhere.

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Speaker 2: Protect that talent, all right, all righting them up your

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Speaker 2: ass or something. And then I was like, well, that's

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Speaker 2: not what the Kardashians do.

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Speaker 1: Okay, they're distracting.

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01:04:30,600 --> 01:04:33,400
Speaker 5: And they almost exclusively date black people.

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01:04:37,760 --> 01:04:40,880
Speaker 1: The other jokes, you know what's worse than hitting a pothole?

1375
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Speaker 1: Hitting a traffic cone. At least with a pothole, you

1376
01:04:45,120 --> 01:04:48,280
Speaker 1: can pretend you're off roading. With a traffic cone. You

1377
01:04:48,440 --> 01:04:49,960
Speaker 1: just look like a drunk driver.

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01:04:51,360 --> 01:04:55,200
Speaker 2: What I like it.

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01:04:56,040 --> 01:04:59,320
Speaker 1: I dare you, without context, to go on stage and

1380
01:04:59,360 --> 01:05:03,800
Speaker 1: try one of these. Joe, don't tell them it's chat ept.

1381
01:05:04,240 --> 01:05:06,080
Speaker 1: I'm telling you. This ship is not good.

1382
01:05:06,600 --> 01:05:09,040
Speaker 2: It's not good. It's that's not good.

1383
01:05:09,160 --> 01:05:10,080
Speaker 1: I don't trust.

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01:05:09,760 --> 01:05:12,520
Speaker 2: Traffic because we used to Hold on, wait, let me

1385
01:05:12,560 --> 01:05:15,760
Speaker 2: just go back to that joke. So a traffic cone. Wait,

1386
01:05:15,960 --> 01:05:18,160
Speaker 2: say it again. So when you feel like.

1387
01:05:18,840 --> 01:05:22,080
Speaker 1: What's worse than a hitting a pothole? Hitting a traffic cone.

1388
01:05:22,240 --> 01:05:25,560
Speaker 1: At least a pothole, you can pretend you're off roading

1389
01:05:25,720 --> 01:05:29,080
Speaker 1: with a traffic cone. There's lots like a trunk driver.

1390
01:05:29,120 --> 01:05:30,560
Speaker 3: But there's logic behind that.

1391
01:05:30,680 --> 01:05:33,240
Speaker 1: Because it's copying your logic, it's plagiarizing you.

1392
01:05:34,040 --> 01:05:35,560
Speaker 3: I know, I like it.

1393
01:05:35,600 --> 01:05:39,120
Speaker 5: I'm not off roading. A pothole is in the road,

1394
01:05:39,640 --> 01:05:39,840
Speaker 5: I know.

1395
01:05:39,880 --> 01:05:41,760
Speaker 2: But I can feel like because you're like bouncing like

1396
01:05:41,840 --> 01:05:43,800
Speaker 2: into this pothole, you can feel like you're like, oh,

1397
01:05:43,800 --> 01:05:45,200
Speaker 2: I'm rugged rugged terrain.

1398
01:05:45,320 --> 01:05:46,520
Speaker 3: Like that makes sense to me.

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01:05:47,760 --> 01:05:50,480
Speaker 1: You know, what's worse than hitting a pothole is what

1400
01:05:51,120 --> 01:05:56,400
Speaker 1: getting killed? At Least when you get killed, you can

1401
01:05:56,440 --> 01:05:57,640
Speaker 1: pretend you're stop.

1402
01:05:58,360 --> 01:06:00,520
Speaker 2: I am defending chat ept. They picked two things that

1403
01:06:00,520 --> 01:06:03,240
Speaker 2: happen on the road to compare them. It kind of

1404
01:06:03,280 --> 01:06:05,960
Speaker 2: makes sense. The only problem is you don't hit traffic

1405
01:06:05,960 --> 01:06:08,480
Speaker 2: cones that often, and there's no there's no reason to

1406
01:06:08,520 --> 01:06:09,040
Speaker 2: compare them.

1407
01:06:10,680 --> 01:06:14,760
Speaker 1: You've defended Olstein, you've defended doctor Phil's date rape, and

1408
01:06:14,800 --> 01:06:15,920
Speaker 1: now you're defending.

1409
01:06:17,840 --> 01:06:20,640
Speaker 2: Oh my god, I just want to open a bird rescue.

1410
01:06:20,960 --> 01:06:25,080
Speaker 1: Okay, I don't trust traffic cones. They're always telling me

1411
01:06:25,160 --> 01:06:28,160
Speaker 1: to go slow, but they never offer to pay me

1412
01:06:28,640 --> 01:06:33,960
Speaker 1: for my speeding ticket. What the fuck?

1413
01:06:34,800 --> 01:06:39,840
Speaker 2: I love this so much, it's my special friend.

1414
01:06:40,760 --> 01:06:42,560
Speaker 1: Is this kind of insulting because this is what it

1415
01:06:42,600 --> 01:06:45,440
Speaker 1: thinks the nicky Glazer joke is No, it's good.

1416
01:06:45,760 --> 01:06:48,520
Speaker 2: I have the on version one. It's so cute. It's

1417
01:06:48,560 --> 01:06:50,800
Speaker 2: like a kid like learning how to do comedy or

1418
01:06:50,840 --> 01:06:53,480
Speaker 2: something like. It totally sounds like a five year old like,

1419
01:06:54,600 --> 01:06:57,280
Speaker 2: and that's funny. That one is the best one of

1420
01:06:57,320 --> 01:07:01,800
Speaker 2: the three because traffic cones do wait, so they never

1421
01:07:02,040 --> 01:07:06,160
Speaker 2: so they trust make you go So it doesn't make

1422
01:07:06,200 --> 01:07:10,160
Speaker 2: sense reason traffic cone they're always telling.

1423
01:07:09,920 --> 01:07:12,240
Speaker 1: You to go slow, but then oh but then they

1424
01:07:12,280 --> 01:07:14,480
Speaker 1: never offer to pay for your speeding tickets.

1425
01:07:15,000 --> 01:07:17,520
Speaker 2: Look, if that does not make sense, No, in chat

1426
01:07:17,560 --> 01:07:20,280
Speaker 2: GPT's mind, going slow and speeding are the same thing,

1427
01:07:20,480 --> 01:07:23,960
Speaker 2: and it's equating. Well, it would make sense if it's said,

1428
01:07:24,040 --> 01:07:25,760
Speaker 2: but it never plays for your tickets. When you get

1429
01:07:25,760 --> 01:07:28,800
Speaker 2: pulled over for going too slow. Yeah, no, like it's

1430
01:07:28,840 --> 01:07:31,120
Speaker 2: it's thinking a speeding ticket is like a ticket you

1431
01:07:31,160 --> 01:07:33,120
Speaker 2: can get for going too slow, which I guess is

1432
01:07:33,160 --> 01:07:34,640
Speaker 2: a thing, but we would not call it that.

1433
01:07:35,360 --> 01:07:38,200
Speaker 1: There is a stand up comedy robot. Did you know this?

1434
01:07:38,360 --> 01:07:40,080
Speaker 1: A Japanese I think robot.

1435
01:07:40,280 --> 01:07:42,000
Speaker 3: Oh, I've seen those on YouTube.

1436
01:07:42,400 --> 01:07:46,640
Speaker 1: It does. It's a literal, physical form mechanical robot that

1437
01:07:46,680 --> 01:07:50,960
Speaker 1: goes on stage and it tells jokes. And the scary

1438
01:07:51,040 --> 01:07:53,880
Speaker 1: thing about the robot is that it can tell jokes,

1439
01:07:54,920 --> 01:07:59,000
Speaker 1: unlimited jokes every second, and soon it will be able

1440
01:07:59,040 --> 01:08:02,520
Speaker 1: to have AI audience members, so it's like it can

1441
01:08:02,560 --> 01:08:08,040
Speaker 1: tell it can test out unlimited jokes at nauseum two

1442
01:08:08,160 --> 01:08:11,200
Speaker 1: unlimited audience members, so it might actually be able.

1443
01:08:11,000 --> 01:08:14,160
Speaker 2: To come up with the GTP would laugh at that

1444
01:08:14,320 --> 01:08:17,880
Speaker 2: joke that was just told, right, because it doesn't know

1445
01:08:18,040 --> 01:08:20,080
Speaker 2: it wrote it, So why would it not think? Why

1446
01:08:20,080 --> 01:08:21,720
Speaker 2: would it be able to judge whether it's good or not.

1447
01:08:22,120 --> 01:08:25,559
Speaker 1: It's tough when it comes to humor taste.

1448
01:08:25,680 --> 01:08:28,759
Speaker 2: Okay, well, this is one more tweet that is really funny.

1449
01:08:29,439 --> 01:08:32,920
Speaker 2: So some performer called Shad Moss, I guess I don't

1450
01:08:32,960 --> 01:08:35,760
Speaker 2: know who that is it said Travel Day NYC press

1451
01:08:35,840 --> 01:08:39,120
Speaker 2: run for Growing Up Hip Hop. Let's go, I promised

1452
01:08:39,160 --> 01:08:41,240
Speaker 2: to bring you all the hottest show ever May twenty

1453
01:08:41,240 --> 01:08:44,360
Speaker 2: fifth on we TV. And it shows a picture of him.

1454
01:08:44,760 --> 01:08:46,960
Speaker 2: He's just taking a picture, you can't see him in

1455
01:08:47,000 --> 01:08:50,560
Speaker 2: it of a private jet. And then someone on Snapchat

1456
01:08:50,880 --> 01:08:55,360
Speaker 2: posted that guy and he says, so, this guy, little

1457
01:08:55,400 --> 01:08:57,839
Speaker 2: bow Wow, I guess that's little bow Wow is Shad

1458
01:08:58,479 --> 01:09:01,200
Speaker 2: Shad Moss. He goes, so this guy little bow Wow

1459
01:09:01,240 --> 01:09:02,919
Speaker 2: is on my flight to New York. But on Instagram

1460
01:09:02,920 --> 01:09:05,439
Speaker 2: he posted a picture of private jet caption traveling to

1461
01:09:05,479 --> 01:09:06,160
Speaker 2: New York today.

1462
01:09:06,640 --> 01:09:07,000
Speaker 1: Ha ha ha.

1463
01:09:07,760 --> 01:09:10,320
Speaker 2: And he's like, you see him, You see him like

1464
01:09:10,479 --> 01:09:14,280
Speaker 2: looking at his post on his phone, like in on

1465
01:09:14,400 --> 01:09:19,080
Speaker 2: a Southwest flight in the back. It's so good. And

1466
01:09:19,120 --> 01:09:23,760
Speaker 2: then yeah, that's so sad. I know. Let's go to

1467
01:09:24,040 --> 01:09:30,920
Speaker 2: final thought. Noah, I want you to play the one

1468
01:09:30,960 --> 01:09:33,519
Speaker 2: where the guy's talking in his car. And this is

1469
01:09:33,640 --> 01:09:38,040
Speaker 2: labeled how to keep someone from getting defensive in an argument.

1470
01:09:38,400 --> 01:09:41,040
Speaker 7: These three responses will keep somebody from getting defensive. My

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01:09:41,120 --> 01:09:43,000
Speaker 7: name is Jefferson Fisher. I'm a trial attorney, and I

1472
01:09:43,000 --> 01:09:45,120
Speaker 7: teach people how to argue and communicate when it's your

1473
01:09:45,160 --> 01:09:47,280
Speaker 7: turn to respond in an argument. You can actually keep

1474
01:09:47,280 --> 01:09:49,920
Speaker 7: somebody from getting defensive. If you want, start with what

1475
01:09:49,960 --> 01:09:52,000
Speaker 7: you agree with. Now you don't actually even have to

1476
01:09:52,040 --> 01:09:54,320
Speaker 7: agree with what they said. You can go macro and

1477
01:09:54,400 --> 01:09:56,639
Speaker 7: just agree that the two of you are talking. For example,

1478
01:09:56,680 --> 01:09:59,000
Speaker 7: you can see I agree that this subject is worth discussing,

1479
01:09:59,120 --> 01:10:01,240
Speaker 7: or I agree that we should talk about this. As

1480
01:10:01,320 --> 01:10:03,280
Speaker 7: long as you use use the words I agree, you

1481
01:10:03,360 --> 01:10:04,679
Speaker 7: automatically bring down their wall.

1482
01:10:04,880 --> 01:10:06,360
Speaker 1: Number two, tell them what you've learned.

1483
01:10:06,400 --> 01:10:09,479
Speaker 7: It can be as easy as after listening I've learned

1484
01:10:09,520 --> 01:10:11,400
Speaker 7: that this topic is really important to you. As long

1485
01:10:11,400 --> 01:10:13,320
Speaker 7: as they hear the phrase I have learned, it makes

1486
01:10:13,360 --> 01:10:16,040
Speaker 7: them feel like they're educating, like they're understood. In other

1487
01:10:16,080 --> 01:10:18,280
Speaker 7: less defensive or Number three, you can try using the

1488
01:10:18,280 --> 01:10:20,560
Speaker 7: phrase that's helpful to know. If you tell them that

1489
01:10:20,600 --> 01:10:22,919
Speaker 7: they've been helpful, it makes them feel like they're invested

1490
01:10:22,960 --> 01:10:24,920
Speaker 7: in their own mutual understanding, and then they're going to

1491
01:10:25,000 --> 01:10:26,920
Speaker 7: be more receptive to what you have to say.

1492
01:10:27,120 --> 01:10:28,400
Speaker 1: So try that and follow me.

1493
01:10:30,200 --> 01:10:34,120
Speaker 2: How good are How simple and kind of manipulative are

1494
01:10:34,160 --> 01:10:34,639
Speaker 2: all of those?

1495
01:10:34,680 --> 01:10:38,160
Speaker 1: I know I can see it working. I that it

1496
01:10:38,200 --> 01:10:40,880
Speaker 1: would work because that they managed just like, how yeah,

1497
01:10:40,880 --> 01:10:43,920
Speaker 1: how dumb are people easily tricked? You could be like,

1498
01:10:44,000 --> 01:10:46,679
Speaker 1: I agree with you, you're a dumb piece of shit. Yeah,

1499
01:10:47,120 --> 01:10:49,760
Speaker 1: I've learned today that I've learned a lot from you.

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01:10:49,760 --> 01:10:51,120
Speaker 1: That you're stupid and I hate you.

1501
01:10:52,160 --> 01:10:55,320
Speaker 2: But he even says like things, I agree we're talking

1502
01:10:55,360 --> 01:10:58,719
Speaker 2: about this, Yeah, just to say that is so funny

1503
01:10:58,720 --> 01:11:02,760
Speaker 2: to me that we're both inhaling oxygen right now and

1504
01:11:02,960 --> 01:11:04,000
Speaker 2: our hearts are muscles.

1505
01:11:04,280 --> 01:11:06,479
Speaker 1: That is good to find a place of common ground

1506
01:11:06,520 --> 01:11:07,200
Speaker 1: at least a start.

1507
01:11:07,400 --> 01:11:11,200
Speaker 5: Yes, I mean women do this all the time. You

1508
01:11:11,240 --> 01:11:13,719
Speaker 5: read a dating book and it teaches you how to talk,

1509
01:11:13,760 --> 01:11:15,479
Speaker 5: and you're like, ugh, I have to learn how to

1510
01:11:15,520 --> 01:11:19,280
Speaker 5: be Like, you're right about this idea I actually had.

1511
01:11:21,520 --> 01:11:25,880
Speaker 2: Yes, I do find this to be very helpful in

1512
01:11:25,960 --> 01:11:30,439
Speaker 2: talking to men. But or I mean, I think i'd

1513
01:11:30,479 --> 01:11:33,200
Speaker 2: see through this. I would want this a little bit more.

1514
01:11:33,280 --> 01:11:36,320
Speaker 2: And like when I'm in arguments of someone doing these

1515
01:11:36,320 --> 01:11:38,160
Speaker 2: things for me and saying what they've learned or what

1516
01:11:38,200 --> 01:11:41,519
Speaker 2: they understand. But I do this. This is this is

1517
01:11:41,520 --> 01:11:45,000
Speaker 2: how I commune. Like if I get into a tiff

1518
01:11:45,040 --> 01:11:49,719
Speaker 2: with my beloved, I always try to say I always

1519
01:11:49,760 --> 01:11:51,519
Speaker 2: try to see his side of things and explain to

1520
01:11:51,600 --> 01:11:53,800
Speaker 2: him what his side of things is so that I.

1521
01:11:53,800 --> 01:11:55,480
Speaker 3: Don't have to hear it anymore.

1522
01:11:57,720 --> 01:11:59,760
Speaker 2: And so that he knows I get it, you know,

1523
01:11:59,840 --> 01:12:02,439
Speaker 2: like I want to. But at the same time, they

1524
01:12:02,520 --> 01:12:05,640
Speaker 2: don't like to be interrupted, so you might have to

1525
01:12:05,760 --> 01:12:08,920
Speaker 2: listen to it again fully, and then you can take

1526
01:12:08,960 --> 01:12:11,880
Speaker 2: a beat and go, here's what I think you've said.

1527
01:12:13,080 --> 01:12:16,400
Speaker 2: But I also find that sometimes that doesn't actually work

1528
01:12:16,880 --> 01:12:21,160
Speaker 2: because they'll you know, and I've done this before too,

1529
01:12:22,320 --> 01:12:26,600
Speaker 2: where you hear someone repeat you know. For instance, recently,

1530
01:12:26,720 --> 01:12:29,960
Speaker 2: I was like upset about something that someone texted me,

1531
01:12:30,840 --> 01:12:33,200
Speaker 2: and I didn't just let it slide. I was like,

1532
01:12:34,080 --> 01:12:36,800
Speaker 2: that wasn't cool or funny or something. I replied like

1533
01:12:36,840 --> 01:12:40,120
Speaker 2: I don't like it, and the person said, I'm really sorry.

1534
01:12:40,200 --> 01:12:41,240
Speaker 3: I didn't mean it that way.

1535
01:12:41,800 --> 01:12:43,880
Speaker 2: And I was so proud of myself because what I

1536
01:12:43,920 --> 01:12:47,240
Speaker 2: did start typing back was yeah, that really hurt because

1537
01:12:47,280 --> 01:12:50,080
Speaker 2: of bubblah. I was gonna explain all of my feelings again.

1538
01:12:50,240 --> 01:12:51,880
Speaker 2: I didn't explain my feelings at first. I just go,

1539
01:12:51,960 --> 01:12:54,040
Speaker 2: that's kind of that didn't feel good to read or whatever,

1540
01:12:54,680 --> 01:12:56,400
Speaker 2: and then the person apologized, and then I was going

1541
01:12:56,479 --> 01:12:58,519
Speaker 2: to go because and you know why.

1542
01:12:58,520 --> 01:12:59,240
Speaker 3: It didn't feel good.

1543
01:12:59,240 --> 01:13:01,760
Speaker 2: But after that gave me the apology, and I was

1544
01:13:01,800 --> 01:13:05,559
Speaker 2: writing all this stuff explaining why exactly that did hurt me,

1545
01:13:05,600 --> 01:13:08,280
Speaker 2: even though they just acknowledged I'm sorry, I didn't mean

1546
01:13:08,320 --> 01:13:10,479
Speaker 2: it that way, and I go, why do I need

1547
01:13:10,560 --> 01:13:14,200
Speaker 2: to send this? Just I want to do what I

1548
01:13:14,240 --> 01:13:16,960
Speaker 2: want from others, which is when I apologize and say

1549
01:13:17,040 --> 01:13:19,160
Speaker 2: I get it, I'm sorry, I didn't mean it that way,

1550
01:13:19,400 --> 01:13:22,599
Speaker 2: they forgive me and move on. They don't keep going

1551
01:13:22,680 --> 01:13:24,880
Speaker 2: back to it and going because it did hurt that

1552
01:13:24,920 --> 01:13:26,840
Speaker 2: you said it like this, and that did make me

1553
01:13:26,960 --> 01:13:30,639
Speaker 2: like I understand, needing to be understood and feeling like, okay,

1554
01:13:30,640 --> 01:13:31,400
Speaker 2: they don't really get it.

1555
01:13:31,400 --> 01:13:32,960
Speaker 3: They're saying they get it, but I need to repeat it.

1556
01:13:33,280 --> 01:13:35,240
Speaker 2: But I was really proud of myself to erase that

1557
01:13:35,520 --> 01:13:38,680
Speaker 2: entire message I was going to send, explaining because I

1558
01:13:38,720 --> 01:13:41,360
Speaker 2: hadn't explained yet why it was hurtful and I needed

1559
01:13:42,479 --> 01:13:45,160
Speaker 2: them to know that. And then I go, no, they no,

1560
01:13:45,240 --> 01:13:47,679
Speaker 2: I don't they know it was hurtful. They said sorry,

1561
01:13:47,840 --> 01:13:50,000
Speaker 2: this is over, and I just said thank you and

1562
01:13:50,120 --> 01:13:51,120
Speaker 2: done and move on.

1563
01:13:51,800 --> 01:13:54,479
Speaker 1: It's that that urge. It's it's kind of like a

1564
01:13:54,520 --> 01:13:57,200
Speaker 1: primal urge to twist the knife, because if you got hurt,

1565
01:13:57,640 --> 01:14:03,160
Speaker 1: you want the image thing which you successfully averted would

1566
01:14:03,160 --> 01:14:07,000
Speaker 1: be to make them now hurt in retaliation. And you

1567
01:14:07,040 --> 01:14:08,760
Speaker 1: were like, you know what, I'm gonna be a I'm

1568
01:14:08,800 --> 01:14:09,320
Speaker 1: not gonna do it.

1569
01:14:09,439 --> 01:14:11,680
Speaker 2: Firse about it. Yeah, and you have them in a

1570
01:14:12,000 --> 01:14:14,720
Speaker 2: vulnerable position where they've just apologized, so that you know

1571
01:14:14,800 --> 01:14:18,600
Speaker 2: that they're open to like taking more punches. Yes, you know,

1572
01:14:18,720 --> 01:14:20,840
Speaker 2: like whenever I apologize and I'm like I was wrong,

1573
01:14:21,439 --> 01:14:23,680
Speaker 2: pile it on me like I can now. I'm just

1574
01:14:23,760 --> 01:14:26,439
Speaker 2: like I'm a punching bag. Like I'll apologize for everything.

1575
01:14:26,520 --> 01:14:29,400
Speaker 2: I'll give you so much more of like I'm sorry,

1576
01:14:29,520 --> 01:14:32,080
Speaker 2: I didn't mean it. I'm like, you can't get it

1577
01:14:32,200 --> 01:14:34,320
Speaker 2: enough from me. I'll just keep piling it on. So

1578
01:14:34,560 --> 01:14:36,760
Speaker 2: why not just keep telling me? And it hurt when

1579
01:14:36,760 --> 01:14:39,000
Speaker 2: you did this and this and this is how it hurt.

1580
01:14:39,040 --> 01:14:41,840
Speaker 2: And it's just like once someone apologizes, try to let

1581
01:14:41,840 --> 01:14:44,040
Speaker 2: it go. Try to walk away from him, at least

1582
01:14:44,120 --> 01:14:47,719
Speaker 2: until your anger subsides, because you're still angry from before

1583
01:14:47,760 --> 01:14:50,880
Speaker 2: they apologized, and you still want to be you like.

1584
01:14:50,960 --> 01:14:52,719
Speaker 5: Not aholder at all.

1585
01:14:53,040 --> 01:14:55,439
Speaker 2: No, I'm not let for I just go because I

1586
01:14:55,560 --> 01:14:57,080
Speaker 2: want people to do the same for me.

1587
01:14:57,960 --> 01:15:01,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, you ever get to the point where you can't.

1588
01:15:00,800 --> 01:15:04,000
Speaker 2: Forgive anyone for anything? Literally, I always say Trump could

1589
01:15:04,040 --> 01:15:06,320
Speaker 2: go I'm so sorry, I don't know what I was doing,

1590
01:15:06,560 --> 01:15:07,439
Speaker 2: and I would forgive him.

1591
01:15:07,479 --> 01:15:10,679
Speaker 3: I really would. I believe I hate him more than anyone.

1592
01:15:10,920 --> 01:15:13,160
Speaker 1: I've said it on the podcast before, I'll say it again,

1593
01:15:13,280 --> 01:15:15,960
Speaker 1: is that you. I mean, you have forgiven people for

1594
01:15:16,080 --> 01:15:18,519
Speaker 1: things that I can't believe.

1595
01:15:19,680 --> 01:15:22,479
Speaker 2: Well, yeah, because if they're sorry, if they really make

1596
01:15:22,520 --> 01:15:24,559
Speaker 2: an amends and they say I can't believe I did that,

1597
01:15:24,600 --> 01:15:27,920
Speaker 2: I don't know, because no one wants to be the person.

1598
01:15:28,240 --> 01:15:29,479
Speaker 3: No one can help what they are.

1599
01:15:29,840 --> 01:15:32,200
Speaker 2: Even if you murder someone, you can't help that your

1600
01:15:32,240 --> 01:15:35,479
Speaker 2: brain chose to murder instead of talk it out or whatever,

1601
01:15:35,560 --> 01:15:36,120
Speaker 2: Like you have a.

1602
01:15:36,080 --> 01:15:36,840
Speaker 3: Fucked up brain.

1603
01:15:37,320 --> 01:15:39,360
Speaker 2: And if you are able to reach a point where

1604
01:15:39,400 --> 01:15:41,720
Speaker 2: you go, I can't believe I did that. I mean

1605
01:15:41,800 --> 01:15:44,080
Speaker 2: I really do think when people say, like, oh my god,

1606
01:15:44,120 --> 01:15:47,040
Speaker 2: I can't believe that person. You see these fathers hug

1607
01:15:47,080 --> 01:15:49,840
Speaker 2: a criminal in court and the criminal like murdered their child,

1608
01:15:49,880 --> 01:15:52,880
Speaker 2: and you go, how could that father ever hug the

1609
01:15:52,920 --> 01:15:55,800
Speaker 2: person who killed his child? And you were just mind

1610
01:15:55,840 --> 01:15:58,439
Speaker 2: boggled by it. I would be that father if the

1611
01:15:58,479 --> 01:16:00,800
Speaker 2: criminal really was like, I can't believe I did that.

1612
01:16:01,000 --> 01:16:04,080
Speaker 2: I've done soul searching in prison. I this, These are

1613
01:16:04,120 --> 01:16:05,880
Speaker 2: all the things that steps in my life that led

1614
01:16:05,920 --> 01:16:08,759
Speaker 2: me to take your son's life instead of doing anything else.

1615
01:16:09,040 --> 01:16:11,200
Speaker 2: I would be able to see this person couldn't help that,

1616
01:16:11,560 --> 01:16:14,200
Speaker 2: and they hate that they did it, and I relate

1617
01:16:14,240 --> 01:16:16,000
Speaker 2: to that feeling. Do you know many things I've said

1618
01:16:16,040 --> 01:16:20,080
Speaker 2: in my life that I'm like so embarrassed by who

1619
01:16:20,680 --> 01:16:23,200
Speaker 2: who can point a finger and say they've never done

1620
01:16:23,280 --> 01:16:26,360
Speaker 2: something they regret? So just forgive people because you've done

1621
01:16:26,400 --> 01:16:27,160
Speaker 2: it too well.

1622
01:16:27,200 --> 01:16:30,439
Speaker 1: Forgiving is not an entirely selfless act. When you forgive someone,

1623
01:16:30,479 --> 01:16:34,880
Speaker 1: you are also releasing yourself from holding feelings of negativity

1624
01:16:34,920 --> 01:16:37,920
Speaker 1: and having that person have any power over you anymore. Yeah,

1625
01:16:38,000 --> 01:16:40,559
Speaker 1: those people can take over your life, take over your brain,

1626
01:16:40,640 --> 01:16:45,559
Speaker 1: and you could really spiral into a depression just because

1627
01:16:45,560 --> 01:16:48,320
Speaker 1: someone's wronged you. And if you forgive them, it's just

1628
01:16:48,360 --> 01:16:49,559
Speaker 1: a release. It's the same thing.

1629
01:16:49,640 --> 01:16:51,840
Speaker 2: It's hard to do when they don't apologize, though, then

1630
01:16:51,880 --> 01:16:54,599
Speaker 2: I hold on to it if they don't apologize, I

1631
01:16:54,720 --> 01:16:56,519
Speaker 2: just like love. Hating people.

1632
01:16:58,840 --> 01:17:01,599
Speaker 5: Can never like so often you won't get that apology.

1633
01:17:01,600 --> 01:17:02,680
Speaker 5: Maybe the person's.

1634
01:17:02,400 --> 01:17:05,640
Speaker 3: Dead, or maybe the person just isn't capable.

1635
01:17:05,920 --> 01:17:09,120
Speaker 2: They have a personality disorder that makes them incapable of

1636
01:17:09,160 --> 01:17:12,120
Speaker 2: feeling empathy or feeling bad about what they did.

1637
01:17:12,400 --> 01:17:20,559
Speaker 1: They'll forgive them, still forgive that struggle because it's you

1638
01:17:20,640 --> 01:17:22,160
Speaker 1: doing it for yourself at that point.

1639
01:17:22,280 --> 01:17:24,760
Speaker 2: Actually, don't struggle with that because I am able to

1640
01:17:24,800 --> 01:17:27,400
Speaker 2: look at it as like a brain abnormality, like they

1641
01:17:27,439 --> 01:17:30,040
Speaker 2: are sick in the head, as opposed to like they

1642
01:17:30,200 --> 01:17:35,280
Speaker 2: are a bad person. Yeah, I'm able to see it,

1643
01:17:35,280 --> 01:17:37,080
Speaker 2: like they don't have an arm, you know, like they

1644
01:17:37,280 --> 01:17:39,920
Speaker 2: a guy with no arms can't hug me. So a

1645
01:17:39,920 --> 01:17:42,320
Speaker 2: guy with a part of his brain that didn't get

1646
01:17:42,360 --> 01:17:47,080
Speaker 2: developed can't feel empathy for me, can't feel can't see

1647
01:17:47,080 --> 01:17:47,840
Speaker 2: what he's done wrong.

1648
01:17:47,840 --> 01:17:49,840
Speaker 3: He's a narcissist. That's a personality disorder.

1649
01:17:49,920 --> 01:17:53,080
Speaker 2: It's a diagnosable thing for someone to have a narcissisic

1650
01:17:53,120 --> 01:17:55,960
Speaker 2: personality disorder, which makes them incapable of giving a.

1651
01:17:55,880 --> 01:17:56,960
Speaker 3: Fuck about you.

1652
01:17:56,880 --> 01:17:59,479
Speaker 1: You are sociopaths, but you will never let them do

1653
01:17:59,520 --> 01:18:03,040
Speaker 1: it again. That's the I mean, you can forget yourself.

1654
01:18:03,200 --> 01:18:03,639
Speaker 3: You don't.

1655
01:18:04,240 --> 01:18:07,080
Speaker 2: You don't forgive them, you can forge you just excuse

1656
01:18:07,120 --> 01:18:10,360
Speaker 2: it because it's like you're mad at someone for not

1657
01:18:10,520 --> 01:18:13,120
Speaker 2: doing something that that has a disability. I look at

1658
01:18:13,160 --> 01:18:15,519
Speaker 2: it as a disability, something that's not their fault, that

1659
01:18:15,600 --> 01:18:18,640
Speaker 2: this person cannot apologize or be a good person and

1660
01:18:18,760 --> 01:18:21,040
Speaker 2: is sociopathic and is jealous and is trying to ruin

1661
01:18:21,080 --> 01:18:23,360
Speaker 2: my career by saying these shitty things, like I've had

1662
01:18:23,360 --> 01:18:26,360
Speaker 2: people do horrible things to me behind my back. You

1663
01:18:26,400 --> 01:18:27,960
Speaker 2: know that one comedian in Saint Louis who is like

1664
01:18:27,960 --> 01:18:31,240
Speaker 2: a bully to me. I still hate her, but I

1665
01:18:31,320 --> 01:18:34,280
Speaker 2: know that she I feel sorry for her childhood and

1666
01:18:34,320 --> 01:18:36,439
Speaker 2: I feel sorry for how she was bullied in life

1667
01:18:36,479 --> 01:18:38,640
Speaker 2: to be so threatened by me that she has to

1668
01:18:38,680 --> 01:18:40,960
Speaker 2: like she tried to ruin me, And and there's a

1669
01:18:41,120 --> 01:18:43,880
Speaker 2: there's I would have been the same if I were

1670
01:18:43,880 --> 01:18:46,000
Speaker 2: born into her brain with her life experiences, I would

1671
01:18:46,000 --> 01:18:47,639
Speaker 2: have done the same thing to me. So I cannot

1672
01:18:47,640 --> 01:18:50,519
Speaker 2: fault her, but I can still hate her from afar

1673
01:18:50,680 --> 01:18:53,439
Speaker 2: and I will forever and ever thank you guys for

1674
01:18:53,439 --> 01:18:56,200
Speaker 2: listening to the show. That's it for today. Don't try

1675
01:18:56,200 --> 01:18:58,360
Speaker 2: to send me people of guessing who that person is.

1676
01:18:58,400 --> 01:19:00,960
Speaker 2: I'll never reveal her name. Luckily you wouldn't know her

1677
01:19:01,040 --> 01:19:05,880
Speaker 2: name because she never made It's not Kathleen Madigan. Don't

1678
01:19:05,920 --> 01:19:09,400
Speaker 2: guess that she's dead to everyone. She doesn't exist anymore

1679
01:19:09,439 --> 01:19:11,600
Speaker 2: in comedy. And it's a great, great gift to me.

1680
01:19:12,360 --> 01:19:15,360
Speaker 2: Thank you so much for listening. That is me, Nikki.

1681
01:19:15,400 --> 01:19:18,439
Speaker 2: Don't be so mean. Stop, Okay, I'm just joking. I

1682
01:19:18,479 --> 01:19:21,040
Speaker 2: really wish her the best, her and her daughter whatever,

1683
01:19:21,720 --> 01:19:23,320
Speaker 2: even though I will say that when she got pregnant,

1684
01:19:23,360 --> 01:19:25,519
Speaker 2: I texted Amy Schumer like, oh my god, my bully

1685
01:19:25,560 --> 01:19:27,600
Speaker 2: is pregnant, and she goes you won, and so that

1686
01:19:27,640 --> 01:19:29,599
Speaker 2: was a nice day in my life. All right, thank

1687
01:19:29,600 --> 01:19:31,120
Speaker 2: you guys so much for listening to the podcast. We

1688
01:19:31,160 --> 01:19:33,240
Speaker 2: will be back tomorrow. Don't you even think we won't.

1689
01:19:33,240 --> 01:19:34,680
Speaker 2: I am in Europe right now. We will be in

1690
01:19:34,720 --> 01:19:37,439
Speaker 2: London on I believe Friday night, So if you are

1691
01:19:37,880 --> 01:19:39,960
Speaker 2: in the UK, please come out and see us. We're

1692
01:19:39,960 --> 01:19:41,720
Speaker 2: on the European tour in the middle of it. This

1693
01:19:41,760 --> 01:19:43,760
Speaker 2: is a pre taped episode. You didn't know until now,

1694
01:19:43,800 --> 01:19:44,040
Speaker 2: did you.

1695
01:19:44,080 --> 01:19:45,639
Speaker 3: Maybe you did because you saw my Instagram and I'm

1696
01:19:45,640 --> 01:19:46,360
Speaker 3: in Europe and you're.

1697
01:19:46,200 --> 01:19:47,280
Speaker 1: Like, how does she bring lik?

1698
01:19:48,360 --> 01:19:50,080
Speaker 2: But anyway, thank you so much for listening. We will

1699
01:19:50,080 --> 01:19:52,320
Speaker 2: see you on the podcast tomorrow. Don't be kissed, and

1700
01:19:52,960 --> 01:19:54,080
Speaker 2: to just forget everyone.