1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:01,800 Speaker 1: Today show is pre recorded. 2 00:00:04,200 --> 00:00:04,920 Speaker 2: Y'all know what time. 3 00:00:05,120 --> 00:00:13,720 Speaker 3: Y'all don't know y'all at all, So don't given them 4 00:00:13,760 --> 00:00:19,279 Speaker 3: black the milk bus buss boozy. 5 00:00:23,120 --> 00:00:24,959 Speaker 1: Yeah, listening to. 6 00:00:26,480 --> 00:01:06,679 Speaker 4: To I don't joy, Yeah, Joy, you know you love 7 00:01:06,800 --> 00:01:42,959 Speaker 4: you gotta turn. I got to turn the mouth turn, 8 00:01:43,400 --> 00:01:48,320 Speaker 4: probably got to turn them out ald the money cap. 9 00:01:49,600 --> 00:01:50,120 Speaker 5: Look me. 10 00:01:55,800 --> 00:01:58,880 Speaker 4: Come come out. 11 00:01:59,000 --> 00:02:04,560 Speaker 6: You think that, Uh huh, I sure will. Good morning everybody. 12 00:02:04,920 --> 00:02:08,960 Speaker 6: You'll listen to the voice. Come on, dig me now. 13 00:02:09,800 --> 00:02:16,000 Speaker 6: One and only. Steve Harvey got a radio self. Steve 14 00:02:16,040 --> 00:02:19,160 Speaker 6: Harvey got a radio show. Sometimes when a chuckle like 15 00:02:19,240 --> 00:02:21,720 Speaker 6: that reminds me and my oldest brother that passed away. 16 00:02:21,760 --> 00:02:23,600 Speaker 6: He used to laugh like that. It's kind of funny 17 00:02:23,639 --> 00:02:26,519 Speaker 6: how jeans get passed down through the line. I don't 18 00:02:26,520 --> 00:02:28,120 Speaker 6: know why I told you all that. Just want to 19 00:02:28,160 --> 00:02:32,120 Speaker 6: share with you, that's all. As always, always kind of 20 00:02:32,160 --> 00:02:35,480 Speaker 6: asked God to help me, you know, And and and 21 00:02:35,880 --> 00:02:38,480 Speaker 6: I had I had gotten off track a little bit 22 00:02:39,400 --> 00:02:43,239 Speaker 6: because one of the principles of success I want to 23 00:02:43,280 --> 00:02:46,000 Speaker 6: share with you all today is the law of attraction. 24 00:02:47,080 --> 00:02:49,560 Speaker 2: And that is a very very serious principle. 25 00:02:50,320 --> 00:02:55,280 Speaker 6: It cannot be ignored the law of attraction and I'm 26 00:02:55,480 --> 00:02:58,280 Speaker 6: not going to be able to explain it to you 27 00:02:58,800 --> 00:03:01,520 Speaker 6: as well as the book Secrets can, or as well 28 00:03:01,560 --> 00:03:04,480 Speaker 6: as some people. I can only articulate it to you 29 00:03:06,360 --> 00:03:08,919 Speaker 6: the way that I see it, And the law of 30 00:03:08,960 --> 00:03:12,919 Speaker 6: attraction is very, very real. The law of attraction is 31 00:03:13,120 --> 00:03:18,320 Speaker 6: a principle of success. It is something that everyone has 32 00:03:18,440 --> 00:03:21,600 Speaker 6: to adhere to. Now, whether you know the law of 33 00:03:21,680 --> 00:03:25,880 Speaker 6: attraction or not, it does not make it not exist 34 00:03:26,400 --> 00:03:31,440 Speaker 6: for you. This is the case where ignorance is not 35 00:03:31,680 --> 00:03:35,480 Speaker 6: the excuse. The fact that no one told it to you. 36 00:03:36,680 --> 00:03:39,480 Speaker 6: There is no pass for this one. The fact that 37 00:03:39,560 --> 00:03:43,800 Speaker 6: you never heard it before it does not allow you 38 00:03:44,000 --> 00:03:47,080 Speaker 6: to do it any other way. So let me see 39 00:03:47,080 --> 00:03:49,800 Speaker 6: if I can put it to you best I can. 40 00:03:50,040 --> 00:03:53,640 Speaker 6: The law of attraction, the law of attraction, to put 41 00:03:53,680 --> 00:03:57,720 Speaker 6: it real, simply, is the thing that you focus on, 42 00:03:58,840 --> 00:04:02,160 Speaker 6: the thing that you taught about, the thing that you 43 00:04:02,480 --> 00:04:04,920 Speaker 6: think of, is the thing that you. 44 00:04:05,120 --> 00:04:08,840 Speaker 2: Draw to you. It's what you attract to you. That's 45 00:04:08,960 --> 00:04:12,800 Speaker 2: basically the law of attraction. The thing that you talk. 46 00:04:12,680 --> 00:04:16,680 Speaker 6: About, the thing that you think about, the thing that 47 00:04:16,800 --> 00:04:22,720 Speaker 6: you focus on, whatever it is that is what you attract. 48 00:04:23,600 --> 00:04:30,960 Speaker 6: The law of attraction does not differentiate from positive and negative. 49 00:04:31,360 --> 00:04:35,920 Speaker 2: It only does what it does. What I am saying 50 00:04:36,120 --> 00:04:38,680 Speaker 2: is this in the law of attraction. 51 00:04:40,279 --> 00:04:44,600 Speaker 6: No matter what you think of, no matter what occupies 52 00:04:44,720 --> 00:04:48,200 Speaker 6: your time, no matter what you say, or no matter 53 00:04:48,400 --> 00:04:52,000 Speaker 6: what the focus is, positive or negative, the law. 54 00:04:51,880 --> 00:04:55,200 Speaker 2: Of attraction knows neither one. It just attracts it. 55 00:04:56,400 --> 00:05:00,560 Speaker 6: So let's use some examples here. I can just the 56 00:05:00,640 --> 00:05:02,320 Speaker 6: best example. Always uses me. 57 00:05:02,960 --> 00:05:03,280 Speaker 2: That way. 58 00:05:03,360 --> 00:05:05,240 Speaker 6: I ain't got to figure out nothing. I can just 59 00:05:05,320 --> 00:05:08,280 Speaker 6: tell you my side of it. I was in a 60 00:05:08,360 --> 00:05:12,040 Speaker 6: lot of debt one time in my life. This is 61 00:05:12,120 --> 00:05:16,080 Speaker 6: before any of you knew me, so you can understand. 62 00:05:16,160 --> 00:05:17,000 Speaker 2: In case you're not. 63 00:05:18,960 --> 00:05:21,320 Speaker 6: Thinking, I don't want you to think that this conversation 64 00:05:21,480 --> 00:05:25,119 Speaker 6: is about your income level, because it's not. It doesn't 65 00:05:25,120 --> 00:05:27,680 Speaker 6: matter what income level you are. The law of attraction 66 00:05:27,839 --> 00:05:33,680 Speaker 6: works in all aspects money, family, relationships, job, career, love. 67 00:05:34,040 --> 00:05:37,120 Speaker 1: It just works that way. Okay, here's the deal. I 68 00:05:37,279 --> 00:05:39,760 Speaker 1: kept saying, man. 69 00:05:39,680 --> 00:05:42,240 Speaker 2: This debt is killing me. I got to get out. 70 00:05:43,560 --> 00:05:46,600 Speaker 6: That's what I thought was a good goal, to get 71 00:05:46,720 --> 00:05:50,520 Speaker 6: out of debt. But what I kept saying was, you know, 72 00:05:50,960 --> 00:05:53,279 Speaker 6: I kept talking about debt, and you. 73 00:05:53,360 --> 00:05:54,360 Speaker 7: Know what it kept doing. 74 00:05:54,720 --> 00:05:59,840 Speaker 2: It kept attracting debt to me. So guess what I 75 00:06:00,080 --> 00:06:03,640 Speaker 2: could get out? That's all? Is that crazy? 76 00:06:05,080 --> 00:06:08,920 Speaker 6: That is an amazing law to understand. What turned it 77 00:06:09,040 --> 00:06:16,919 Speaker 6: around for me was I started claiming a life of abundance. God, 78 00:06:17,600 --> 00:06:20,760 Speaker 6: I am seeking a life of abundance. I want to 79 00:06:20,880 --> 00:06:24,520 Speaker 6: have more than enough. I want to be able to 80 00:06:24,720 --> 00:06:28,080 Speaker 6: help other people. I just want to have a law 81 00:06:28,160 --> 00:06:30,720 Speaker 6: of attraction so that I be able to provide my 82 00:06:30,920 --> 00:06:33,720 Speaker 6: family the lifestyle that I want to provide them. I 83 00:06:33,880 --> 00:06:37,960 Speaker 6: want Heavenly Father to be able to be an example 84 00:06:38,360 --> 00:06:41,320 Speaker 6: of your goodness and your grace in my life. That 85 00:06:42,240 --> 00:06:45,680 Speaker 6: is what I started saying. And guess what, that's what 86 00:06:45,880 --> 00:06:49,960 Speaker 6: I started attracting. I'm going to have a great relationship 87 00:06:50,040 --> 00:06:53,160 Speaker 6: with my children. I'm going to be the father that 88 00:06:53,320 --> 00:06:56,440 Speaker 6: I always wanted to be. I'm going to be a 89 00:06:56,680 --> 00:06:59,840 Speaker 6: good father. I'm going to be a good husband. 90 00:07:00,000 --> 00:07:00,200 Speaker 2: Now. 91 00:07:00,560 --> 00:07:03,520 Speaker 6: I am going to do the right things. I am 92 00:07:03,720 --> 00:07:06,760 Speaker 6: going to be the type of example that my sons 93 00:07:06,839 --> 00:07:09,360 Speaker 6: can look no further and go. I can be like 94 00:07:09,520 --> 00:07:12,559 Speaker 6: my dad. I want to be able to be a place, 95 00:07:12,680 --> 00:07:14,760 Speaker 6: a beacon of light and hope for my daughters to 96 00:07:14,880 --> 00:07:18,480 Speaker 6: come through. That's what I started saying. That's what I 97 00:07:18,640 --> 00:07:23,960 Speaker 6: started attracting to my life. The law of attraction does 98 00:07:24,120 --> 00:07:28,240 Speaker 6: not care if you want it to be positive or negative. 99 00:07:28,600 --> 00:07:33,120 Speaker 6: The law of attraction just attracts whatever it is. You 100 00:07:33,320 --> 00:07:37,080 Speaker 6: focus on, what you think about the words that come 101 00:07:37,160 --> 00:07:41,640 Speaker 6: out your mouth. You cannot overlook this principle of success 102 00:07:42,000 --> 00:07:44,720 Speaker 6: and expect to make it because of the fact that 103 00:07:44,840 --> 00:07:47,600 Speaker 6: you've never heard of the law of attraction, because of 104 00:07:47,680 --> 00:07:50,720 Speaker 6: the fact that you don't know how it really operates. 105 00:07:51,200 --> 00:07:55,080 Speaker 2: It does not make it not exist in your day. 106 00:07:55,640 --> 00:07:59,840 Speaker 6: You can start today attracting the right things to your 107 00:08:00,120 --> 00:08:07,440 Speaker 6: life by changing what you say, what you think, what 108 00:08:07,680 --> 00:08:14,520 Speaker 6: you focus on. Change the focus, change the thought, change 109 00:08:14,680 --> 00:08:18,240 Speaker 6: the words that come out your mouth, and guess what 110 00:08:18,880 --> 00:08:22,840 Speaker 6: you change what you attract to yourself. You have got 111 00:08:22,920 --> 00:08:24,920 Speaker 6: to ask yourself why is it? 112 00:08:25,120 --> 00:08:25,320 Speaker 2: Man? 113 00:08:25,760 --> 00:08:27,840 Speaker 6: Man, let me tell you something. Somebody said the Bishop 114 00:08:27,960 --> 00:08:32,400 Speaker 6: Jakes one time. They said, man, everything you touch turns 115 00:08:32,480 --> 00:08:39,080 Speaker 6: to gold. He said, no, I just don't touch everything. Man, 116 00:08:39,160 --> 00:08:39,800 Speaker 6: This is crazy. 117 00:08:40,720 --> 00:08:45,560 Speaker 2: Come on, man, he has a focus. He has a focus. 118 00:08:46,240 --> 00:08:49,480 Speaker 6: See, he ain't just everywhere. Bring me any idea, let 119 00:08:49,520 --> 00:08:52,360 Speaker 6: me try that. No, no, no, man, he has a focus. 120 00:08:53,000 --> 00:08:56,280 Speaker 6: He has a law of attraction that's working where he's 121 00:08:56,360 --> 00:08:58,400 Speaker 6: attracting things to his life. 122 00:08:58,880 --> 00:09:01,360 Speaker 2: That that's positive that he can. 123 00:09:01,679 --> 00:09:04,240 Speaker 6: That's not to say Bishop Jakes don't have problems, because 124 00:09:04,240 --> 00:09:08,160 Speaker 6: we talk often and man, he have them. Oh please understand. 125 00:09:08,320 --> 00:09:10,920 Speaker 6: And he not trying to attract the problems. But what 126 00:09:11,120 --> 00:09:15,200 Speaker 6: he will attract is the proper solution for the problem. 127 00:09:15,920 --> 00:09:19,360 Speaker 6: And ain't that all you need? Sometimes? God did not 128 00:09:19,600 --> 00:09:23,040 Speaker 6: say that it would be easy. He just said he 129 00:09:23,080 --> 00:09:25,839 Speaker 6: would be with you. And if God is with you, 130 00:09:26,240 --> 00:09:29,480 Speaker 6: who can be against you? God will make your enemies 131 00:09:29,559 --> 00:09:32,640 Speaker 6: your footstool. God is powerful man, His word is true. 132 00:09:32,840 --> 00:09:35,640 Speaker 6: He do what he say he gonna do. Now, all 133 00:09:35,720 --> 00:09:38,280 Speaker 6: we got to do is do some of what we say. 134 00:09:38,360 --> 00:09:40,439 Speaker 6: But we ain't gonna do everything. Just do some of 135 00:09:40,520 --> 00:09:43,280 Speaker 6: what we say. We Okay, here's the deal. God is 136 00:09:43,400 --> 00:09:46,719 Speaker 6: going to do everything he say he gonna do. You 137 00:09:46,880 --> 00:09:49,320 Speaker 6: and I just got to do some of the stuff 138 00:09:49,400 --> 00:09:51,000 Speaker 6: we say we're gonna do it because He already know 139 00:09:51,080 --> 00:09:52,000 Speaker 6: we ain't gonna do all of them. 140 00:09:52,040 --> 00:09:54,400 Speaker 2: He clear on that. He clear on that. 141 00:09:55,640 --> 00:09:58,800 Speaker 1: All right, thank you you're listening to the Steve Harvey 142 00:09:58,880 --> 00:09:59,480 Speaker 1: Morning Show. 143 00:10:03,640 --> 00:10:04,400 Speaker 2: Ladies and gentlemen. 144 00:10:05,120 --> 00:10:08,439 Speaker 6: The time has come to give thanks to Ardor for 145 00:10:08,480 --> 00:10:11,880 Speaker 6: a new day. Another opportunity, brand new chance to shot 146 00:10:11,960 --> 00:10:16,160 Speaker 6: at it. Huh, Steve Harvey Morning Show. See this is 147 00:10:16,240 --> 00:10:19,599 Speaker 6: the deal on this show. We start this show with 148 00:10:19,760 --> 00:10:24,080 Speaker 6: gratitude because we understand that it affects your attitude, which 149 00:10:24,120 --> 00:10:28,040 Speaker 6: is in direct correlation with your altitude. You gotta get 150 00:10:28,040 --> 00:10:31,239 Speaker 6: them through, You gotta get your tools right. Your gratitude, 151 00:10:31,320 --> 00:10:35,280 Speaker 6: your attitude, and your altitude is all tied together. But 152 00:10:35,440 --> 00:10:40,880 Speaker 6: it stems from gratitude. If you don't believe it, I 153 00:10:41,280 --> 00:10:44,520 Speaker 6: dare you to try it. This is not a theory 154 00:10:44,600 --> 00:10:49,600 Speaker 6: of mine. That's not what this is. It's not a theory. Okay, 155 00:10:50,559 --> 00:10:53,199 Speaker 6: it's a fact. You can ask the Lord about it. 156 00:10:53,320 --> 00:10:56,800 Speaker 6: Steve Harvey Morning Show Show, The Strawberry, Colin Farrell, Mississippi 157 00:10:56,880 --> 00:10:59,880 Speaker 6: Monica Junior, what's on your mind? 158 00:11:00,559 --> 00:11:02,079 Speaker 1: Hey, let's talk about this. 159 00:11:02,320 --> 00:11:02,440 Speaker 8: Uh. 160 00:11:03,160 --> 00:11:06,240 Speaker 1: Can you help people understand when makes you feel like 161 00:11:06,280 --> 00:11:08,599 Speaker 1: they're successful? Like, we don't know when we know? 162 00:11:08,760 --> 00:11:10,439 Speaker 9: How do we know we want to be successful? It 163 00:11:10,679 --> 00:11:14,000 Speaker 9: ain't the car of money. What do you determine the 164 00:11:14,040 --> 00:11:14,679 Speaker 9: success to be? 165 00:11:15,520 --> 00:11:15,720 Speaker 10: Well? 166 00:11:15,840 --> 00:11:18,760 Speaker 6: I mean, look at this, here's the simplest and most 167 00:11:19,400 --> 00:11:23,240 Speaker 6: gratifying way to judge your success. Forget where you at, 168 00:11:24,440 --> 00:11:26,960 Speaker 6: Forget the fact that you are not where you want 169 00:11:27,080 --> 00:11:31,280 Speaker 6: to be. Let's take those two off the table. Let's 170 00:11:31,320 --> 00:11:35,320 Speaker 6: look at where you were. Take a real good look 171 00:11:35,400 --> 00:11:39,959 Speaker 6: at where you were. That's how you measure measure success. 172 00:11:40,440 --> 00:11:45,000 Speaker 6: Not not how far you've come, but how far you've 173 00:11:45,160 --> 00:11:49,400 Speaker 6: come from. That's your measure of success. And that's what 174 00:11:49,559 --> 00:11:51,920 Speaker 6: a lot of people do. They overlook the how far 175 00:11:52,240 --> 00:11:55,560 Speaker 6: from Say you want to measure with how far I come? 176 00:11:56,080 --> 00:11:58,160 Speaker 6: And then you looking at the measuring stick, but then 177 00:11:58,200 --> 00:12:00,760 Speaker 6: you looking at somebody that's ahead and you and now 178 00:12:00,800 --> 00:12:03,520 Speaker 6: you in here feeling some kind of way. But no, no, no, 179 00:12:03,760 --> 00:12:07,280 Speaker 6: slow down, homie, back up just a little bit. How 180 00:12:07,320 --> 00:12:10,360 Speaker 6: about if you start looking at how far you've come 181 00:12:10,480 --> 00:12:15,719 Speaker 6: from where you from? That's how you measure success, and 182 00:12:15,920 --> 00:12:18,560 Speaker 6: that's how you become grateful. See, if you looking at 183 00:12:18,640 --> 00:12:21,839 Speaker 6: everybody else, man, you ain't gonna ever be grateful. Like 184 00:12:21,960 --> 00:12:24,040 Speaker 6: I was telling y'all before the show started this morning, 185 00:12:24,120 --> 00:12:25,839 Speaker 6: I was at a meeting last night and a man 186 00:12:25,960 --> 00:12:28,839 Speaker 6: said a number that was so astonishing to me. I 187 00:12:28,960 --> 00:12:35,839 Speaker 6: said to myself, why am I so poor? But then 188 00:12:35,960 --> 00:12:41,880 Speaker 6: I had to catch myself. Hold up, bro, bro, what 189 00:12:42,120 --> 00:12:46,640 Speaker 6: about from where you was from? What about when you 190 00:12:46,720 --> 00:12:51,640 Speaker 6: was living in that car. What about when your father 191 00:12:51,800 --> 00:12:56,199 Speaker 6: sent you five dollars in an envelope to college between 192 00:12:56,360 --> 00:12:57,680 Speaker 6: two index cards. 193 00:12:57,800 --> 00:13:01,880 Speaker 2: He mailed it between two cars. I opened up the 194 00:13:01,960 --> 00:13:02,840 Speaker 2: index car that had a. 195 00:13:02,880 --> 00:13:05,480 Speaker 6: Five dollar billing on the note on one of the 196 00:13:05,640 --> 00:13:09,920 Speaker 6: cards said this sugar honted ice tea, gonna have to stop. 197 00:13:11,480 --> 00:13:12,079 Speaker 1: Five hours. 198 00:13:13,280 --> 00:13:13,880 Speaker 7: Five dollars. 199 00:13:16,040 --> 00:13:17,240 Speaker 4: You stay in our pocket. 200 00:13:18,440 --> 00:13:18,680 Speaker 2: Boy. 201 00:13:19,920 --> 00:13:21,760 Speaker 6: You ain't send you down there. We sent you down 202 00:13:21,800 --> 00:13:24,240 Speaker 6: there to turn yourself into something. We didn't send you 203 00:13:24,320 --> 00:13:27,760 Speaker 6: to college that asked me for some more money. I 204 00:13:27,880 --> 00:13:29,320 Speaker 6: just bought some books last week. 205 00:13:30,200 --> 00:13:34,440 Speaker 2: Damn. So guess what that's how you measured success? Steve 206 00:13:34,520 --> 00:13:35,320 Speaker 2: Hawysmore Show. 207 00:13:35,440 --> 00:13:38,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, all right, Steve, thank you, great question. 208 00:13:38,280 --> 00:13:41,480 Speaker 11: Junior coming up at thirty two minutes after speaking of Junior, 209 00:13:41,559 --> 00:13:43,840 Speaker 11: he'll be in for the nephew with a prank phone 210 00:13:43,920 --> 00:13:48,400 Speaker 11: call right after this. 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Rocket Mortgage LLC 220 00:14:16,000 --> 00:14:19,560 Speaker 9: license in fifty states, n MLS Consumer Access dot Org 221 00:14:19,720 --> 00:14:20,560 Speaker 9: number thirty thirty. 222 00:14:21,200 --> 00:14:24,160 Speaker 11: It is time now to run that prank back with 223 00:14:24,400 --> 00:14:26,600 Speaker 11: Junior and for the nephew this morning. 224 00:14:27,000 --> 00:14:28,840 Speaker 9: You know, you know y'all have a look at babies, 225 00:14:29,320 --> 00:14:31,640 Speaker 9: and you know when you see babies, you're probably gonna 226 00:14:31,640 --> 00:14:32,640 Speaker 9: look at it and say. 227 00:14:33,280 --> 00:14:37,120 Speaker 1: That's not my brother's baby. That's the prank, that's not 228 00:14:37,320 --> 00:14:41,480 Speaker 1: my brother's baby. Run it, cat, I don't. 229 00:14:41,280 --> 00:14:41,760 Speaker 7: Worry about it. 230 00:14:41,920 --> 00:14:44,040 Speaker 12: Something I need to take care. I talked to man, 231 00:14:44,040 --> 00:14:47,440 Speaker 12: I speak to Terry. My name is darl dam When 232 00:14:47,560 --> 00:14:49,600 Speaker 12: is my brother. I don't live in Dallas where y'all 233 00:14:49,680 --> 00:14:51,840 Speaker 12: live at. I'm the one that live out of town. 234 00:14:51,960 --> 00:14:54,480 Speaker 12: But we didn't have a family meeting and talked about it. 235 00:14:54,840 --> 00:14:58,560 Speaker 12: And I know Travis is your son. He eight years old. 236 00:14:59,160 --> 00:15:02,720 Speaker 12: But the problem me is the reason why I'm calling you, uh, Tyry, 237 00:15:02,880 --> 00:15:06,880 Speaker 12: is cause we didn't find out that Travis ain't none 238 00:15:06,880 --> 00:15:10,800 Speaker 12: of damous child excuse me. Travis ain't none a damon child. 239 00:15:11,320 --> 00:15:13,760 Speaker 12: He been paying you child support here for the last eight. 240 00:15:14,400 --> 00:15:15,640 Speaker 13: Old on and you said your name was. 241 00:15:15,640 --> 00:15:19,160 Speaker 5: Who I'm there, I'm damon brother, and who gave you 242 00:15:19,280 --> 00:15:19,840 Speaker 5: this information? 243 00:15:20,400 --> 00:15:21,880 Speaker 7: We are to have found the information. 244 00:15:21,960 --> 00:15:23,760 Speaker 12: Now we actually gonna go down there to the courthouse 245 00:15:23,800 --> 00:15:26,200 Speaker 12: and get all this stuff rectified. But we didn't find 246 00:15:26,240 --> 00:15:29,680 Speaker 12: out that Travis ain't non ain't none a damon's child. 247 00:15:29,960 --> 00:15:32,160 Speaker 12: And you've been sitting up here sending you money seven 248 00:15:32,200 --> 00:15:34,840 Speaker 12: eight hundred dollars a month and this child ain't even here. 249 00:15:35,280 --> 00:15:35,400 Speaker 8: Now. 250 00:15:35,440 --> 00:15:36,840 Speaker 7: I hate for Travis to find. 251 00:15:36,680 --> 00:15:38,240 Speaker 8: This out, and he gonna have to find it out, 252 00:15:38,560 --> 00:15:40,640 Speaker 8: but he ain't for to find that. 253 00:15:41,800 --> 00:15:42,680 Speaker 5: Why you calling me? 254 00:15:42,920 --> 00:15:44,920 Speaker 12: Look, the family then had a meeting, and I'm the 255 00:15:45,000 --> 00:15:47,000 Speaker 12: one that they decided to make the phone call and 256 00:15:47,120 --> 00:15:47,960 Speaker 12: tell you what's going on. 257 00:15:48,400 --> 00:15:48,480 Speaker 14: Now. 258 00:15:49,400 --> 00:15:51,560 Speaker 13: You don't have a thing to do with this. You 259 00:15:51,840 --> 00:15:54,520 Speaker 13: You ain't nobody daddy over here. So I'm not sure 260 00:15:54,560 --> 00:15:57,920 Speaker 13: what you're calling for. Who God made you king or wanted. 261 00:15:57,640 --> 00:15:59,640 Speaker 15: You to be head in charge to call? 262 00:16:00,080 --> 00:16:01,120 Speaker 13: But that it's not gonna work out. 263 00:16:01,200 --> 00:16:03,960 Speaker 7: But let me, why are you doing this to my brother? 264 00:16:04,120 --> 00:16:06,240 Speaker 12: That's what I'm saying for eight years, the man been 265 00:16:06,240 --> 00:16:08,320 Speaker 12: sending you seven hundred and some dollars a month and 266 00:16:09,200 --> 00:16:10,360 Speaker 12: this ain't even his child. 267 00:16:11,000 --> 00:16:11,200 Speaker 5: You know. 268 00:16:13,240 --> 00:16:13,960 Speaker 13: Why am I even. 269 00:16:13,880 --> 00:16:14,240 Speaker 2: Talking to you? 270 00:16:14,320 --> 00:16:16,440 Speaker 13: I'm not really sure. Your brother need to call me 271 00:16:16,480 --> 00:16:18,720 Speaker 13: if he has any problems to questions. You have a 272 00:16:18,760 --> 00:16:19,400 Speaker 13: good day that. 273 00:16:21,480 --> 00:16:23,760 Speaker 12: You don't hang no phone up on me. Damon told 274 00:16:23,760 --> 00:16:25,440 Speaker 12: me a little was hard headed anyway. 275 00:16:25,640 --> 00:16:29,280 Speaker 13: Now look, you know what you got the wrong one baby, 276 00:16:29,360 --> 00:16:31,680 Speaker 13: Like I'm trying to not lose all my religion today, 277 00:16:31,840 --> 00:16:34,560 Speaker 13: but you about to make me lose it on your well. 278 00:16:34,640 --> 00:16:36,840 Speaker 13: You don't know who you over here. So like I 279 00:16:36,920 --> 00:16:41,160 Speaker 13: said before, my son, your nephew that you trying not 280 00:16:41,240 --> 00:16:43,120 Speaker 13: to claim over there. I don't know why you came 281 00:16:43,160 --> 00:16:44,800 Speaker 13: from wherever they are. You said you came from the 282 00:16:44,840 --> 00:16:45,960 Speaker 13: Dallads to try to came. 283 00:16:46,320 --> 00:16:48,960 Speaker 7: I came from California down here to Dallas, and I'm. 284 00:16:48,840 --> 00:16:50,560 Speaker 13: Telling you need to take your back come back to 285 00:16:50,640 --> 00:16:52,520 Speaker 13: California because down here you. 286 00:16:52,560 --> 00:16:53,320 Speaker 8: Don't know me like that. 287 00:16:53,560 --> 00:16:55,440 Speaker 12: No, I don't know you, but I'm finna know you, 288 00:16:55,560 --> 00:16:58,400 Speaker 12: and Travis find to know that my brother ain't his daddy. 289 00:16:59,520 --> 00:17:01,360 Speaker 13: I don't know you know what. You need to talk 290 00:17:01,400 --> 00:17:02,800 Speaker 13: to your brother again. That's what you need to do, 291 00:17:02,880 --> 00:17:03,880 Speaker 13: and you don't need to be talking to me. 292 00:17:04,119 --> 00:17:06,560 Speaker 7: You finish sent us all the money my brother done 293 00:17:06,640 --> 00:17:07,160 Speaker 7: sent y'all? 294 00:17:07,480 --> 00:17:12,600 Speaker 13: Uh, And when I do, look but I sent When 295 00:17:12,600 --> 00:17:15,760 Speaker 13: I send all that eight years worth of money back, you're. 296 00:17:15,440 --> 00:17:17,840 Speaker 7: Gonna send every dying back because it belonged to my brother. 297 00:17:18,000 --> 00:17:18,800 Speaker 7: That ain't my brother. 298 00:17:18,960 --> 00:17:19,200 Speaker 8: Child. 299 00:17:19,359 --> 00:17:21,080 Speaker 7: Now we ain't got time to be going on. 300 00:17:21,200 --> 00:17:24,159 Speaker 12: No Marve Polvish showing nothing to find out who you 301 00:17:24,240 --> 00:17:24,440 Speaker 12: know what? 302 00:17:24,720 --> 00:17:27,280 Speaker 13: Like I said, you kicked the wrong one. It be 303 00:17:27,359 --> 00:17:29,760 Speaker 13: your best bet not to coll me anymore. You actually 304 00:17:29,800 --> 00:17:31,639 Speaker 13: it is a good thing that you call because if 305 00:17:31,680 --> 00:17:33,320 Speaker 13: you can't knock it on my door, you got job 306 00:17:33,400 --> 00:17:33,879 Speaker 13: with today. 307 00:17:34,080 --> 00:17:36,680 Speaker 7: No you go, that's my second thing I'm finna do. 308 00:17:36,720 --> 00:17:39,040 Speaker 12: If we can't rectified over the file, I don't have 309 00:17:39,160 --> 00:17:41,399 Speaker 12: a problem coming over there, knocking down some dose and 310 00:17:41,480 --> 00:17:44,920 Speaker 12: getting some questions answered. Because this ain't Damon's baby. 311 00:17:45,520 --> 00:17:47,600 Speaker 13: Obviously you must wish it was yours, so you're taking 312 00:17:47,680 --> 00:17:48,359 Speaker 13: so much interest. 313 00:17:48,560 --> 00:17:52,040 Speaker 12: No, it ain't mine, but it ain't Damon's either, And 314 00:17:52,119 --> 00:17:54,440 Speaker 12: we got that money if I had any and looking 315 00:17:54,480 --> 00:17:54,880 Speaker 12: for song. 316 00:17:55,040 --> 00:17:58,000 Speaker 13: But I'm sorry this was taking over here and Damon 317 00:17:58,040 --> 00:18:00,840 Speaker 13: will we continue to play when he owes don't open. 318 00:18:01,440 --> 00:18:03,280 Speaker 13: That's what's all. What your brothers now you don't want 319 00:18:03,320 --> 00:18:05,960 Speaker 13: to pay. I'm sorry, he's gonna continue to fight, and 320 00:18:06,000 --> 00:18:07,760 Speaker 13: you can call whatever you wanna, come, do whatever you 321 00:18:07,800 --> 00:18:09,560 Speaker 13: wanna do. So go back and tell your mama and 322 00:18:09,640 --> 00:18:12,920 Speaker 13: everybody else who's waiting for this meeting to let them 323 00:18:12,960 --> 00:18:14,080 Speaker 13: know it ain't having me. 324 00:18:14,400 --> 00:18:16,240 Speaker 7: Look, my mama ain't got nothing. 325 00:18:16,040 --> 00:18:17,159 Speaker 5: To do with it. Mama business. 326 00:18:17,400 --> 00:18:19,720 Speaker 13: Your mama, you say to mama and y'all got together. 327 00:18:20,200 --> 00:18:20,960 Speaker 15: She the same life. 328 00:18:21,119 --> 00:18:24,280 Speaker 13: I'll see where you get it from. You're just like hers, 329 00:18:24,440 --> 00:18:27,040 Speaker 13: y'all from nosing people. Mam, y'all business. 330 00:18:27,080 --> 00:18:27,719 Speaker 5: That's a grown man. 331 00:18:28,000 --> 00:18:28,400 Speaker 4: That ain't. 332 00:18:28,640 --> 00:18:30,399 Speaker 7: My mama said it from the get go, that it 333 00:18:30,520 --> 00:18:32,520 Speaker 7: wasn't hunt, that it wasn't damon child. 334 00:18:32,680 --> 00:18:34,560 Speaker 13: Wow, I mean your mama. The two face lock because 335 00:18:34,560 --> 00:18:35,600 Speaker 13: you're ain't what your mama said. 336 00:18:35,840 --> 00:18:38,520 Speaker 7: You ain't finna sit here and bring my mama up. 337 00:18:38,520 --> 00:18:39,320 Speaker 5: In this well. 338 00:18:39,400 --> 00:18:41,160 Speaker 13: If you know so much, then you back. Come knock 339 00:18:41,200 --> 00:18:42,960 Speaker 13: on my beat, come knock on my bell if you want. 340 00:18:42,840 --> 00:18:43,680 Speaker 7: To We done done. 341 00:18:43,760 --> 00:18:48,240 Speaker 12: The man seven hundred and fifty dollars times twelve times 342 00:18:48,320 --> 00:18:52,400 Speaker 12: eight is seventy two thousand dollars. That's how much money 343 00:18:52,480 --> 00:18:54,840 Speaker 12: my brother didn't send you, and that's how much we 344 00:18:55,000 --> 00:18:57,120 Speaker 12: want back. And I need you to get to working 345 00:18:57,200 --> 00:18:57,840 Speaker 12: on this money. 346 00:18:58,200 --> 00:19:01,240 Speaker 13: Naw okay, want you come over here and get it. 347 00:19:01,359 --> 00:19:03,840 Speaker 7: Don't get your who today, Terry, come on. 348 00:19:03,920 --> 00:19:05,639 Speaker 13: Over here and you don't see them to think you 349 00:19:05,960 --> 00:19:07,000 Speaker 13: in Dallas when. 350 00:19:07,720 --> 00:19:09,879 Speaker 7: I don't care nothing about it. But I'm in no Dallas. 351 00:19:10,000 --> 00:19:12,320 Speaker 13: We ain't dryinga for on you. So what I don't 352 00:19:12,359 --> 00:19:12,879 Speaker 13: even know what they hear. 353 00:19:13,040 --> 00:19:13,280 Speaker 15: I don't. 354 00:19:13,640 --> 00:19:15,639 Speaker 13: I don't even know why I'm wasting my time talking 355 00:19:15,680 --> 00:19:18,440 Speaker 13: to you. Like I said, your brother is a week 356 00:19:18,560 --> 00:19:20,800 Speaker 13: if he got to have you'll had a meeting and 357 00:19:20,880 --> 00:19:22,600 Speaker 13: you got to be the one to count. I'm not 358 00:19:22,720 --> 00:19:23,520 Speaker 13: really understanding. 359 00:19:23,720 --> 00:19:25,720 Speaker 7: Look, I got one more thing I need to say 360 00:19:25,760 --> 00:19:27,159 Speaker 7: to you. As you listening to me, you. 361 00:19:27,200 --> 00:19:28,240 Speaker 5: Know you get on my nerves. 362 00:19:28,320 --> 00:19:28,960 Speaker 13: That's what you're doing. 363 00:19:29,359 --> 00:19:32,480 Speaker 7: You you respect me? Are you listening to me? You 364 00:19:32,600 --> 00:19:35,640 Speaker 7: what this your nephew tire me from the Steve harb 365 00:19:35,680 --> 00:19:36,560 Speaker 7: In Morning Show. 366 00:19:36,880 --> 00:19:40,280 Speaker 5: You just gotten right, Oh my. 367 00:19:42,119 --> 00:19:44,960 Speaker 7: You just got pranked by your sister telling your baby. 368 00:19:45,840 --> 00:19:46,240 Speaker 5: You know what. 369 00:19:48,359 --> 00:19:51,320 Speaker 7: She said, talk to her about her baby, daddy and 370 00:19:51,560 --> 00:19:52,080 Speaker 7: that baby. 371 00:19:52,600 --> 00:19:53,800 Speaker 13: Yeah, I don't play with the child. 372 00:19:55,040 --> 00:19:58,240 Speaker 7: Oh my god, I'm still in all right, let me 373 00:19:58,320 --> 00:19:59,760 Speaker 7: ask you this, what is the bad? 374 00:20:00,119 --> 00:20:03,359 Speaker 12: I'm talking about the baddest radio show in the land, 375 00:20:03,600 --> 00:20:05,119 Speaker 12: Christy Morning Shower. 376 00:20:07,840 --> 00:20:08,040 Speaker 4: Yeah. 377 00:20:08,119 --> 00:20:10,080 Speaker 9: Sure, that's that's pretty much how he do it. Just 378 00:20:10,200 --> 00:20:12,480 Speaker 9: you know, right now it's time for prank praise, y'all? 379 00:20:12,960 --> 00:20:14,240 Speaker 9: Is anybody doing that today? 380 00:20:14,560 --> 00:20:15,960 Speaker 4: King? Won't him? 381 00:20:15,960 --> 00:20:21,640 Speaker 1: Frank King of Frank? Yeah, krankrank praise? You know, you know, yeah, 382 00:20:21,680 --> 00:20:22,680 Speaker 1: because I'm the best at this. 383 00:20:22,840 --> 00:20:23,320 Speaker 4: This is what I do. 384 00:20:23,640 --> 00:20:24,880 Speaker 10: I do well well. 385 00:20:24,960 --> 00:20:26,760 Speaker 2: When he's not here, I take they off. 386 00:20:27,520 --> 00:20:33,280 Speaker 1: Hell from all that praise praising on days off. You're right, 387 00:20:34,480 --> 00:20:38,000 Speaker 1: we need a break because he's expected. He's probably listening 388 00:20:38,119 --> 00:20:41,000 Speaker 1: right now. He expecting to hear probably listening. 389 00:20:41,080 --> 00:20:41,639 Speaker 4: Where is he? 390 00:20:44,359 --> 00:20:45,440 Speaker 1: Why he ain't at work? 391 00:20:47,320 --> 00:20:48,000 Speaker 2: Just turned us of. 392 00:20:50,440 --> 00:20:54,040 Speaker 1: A long time ago, yeah, really long. Yeah, But you 393 00:20:54,160 --> 00:20:56,960 Speaker 1: let him get away with it, so because he's. 394 00:20:58,280 --> 00:21:03,000 Speaker 2: You know, because I quit carry Yeah. See, that's what 395 00:21:03,119 --> 00:21:05,320 Speaker 2: you got to come to sometime when you realize you 396 00:21:05,520 --> 00:21:06,920 Speaker 2: just got to quit carry. 397 00:21:07,000 --> 00:21:09,600 Speaker 11: Well, you quit caring about him or the fact that 398 00:21:09,720 --> 00:21:12,520 Speaker 11: he doesn't come to work when he's supposed. 399 00:21:12,040 --> 00:21:15,000 Speaker 2: To anything pertain and till. 400 00:21:18,920 --> 00:21:25,120 Speaker 1: And respects you so much. That's that's so crazy, all right, Junior, Wow, 401 00:21:25,320 --> 00:21:27,879 Speaker 1: thank you, Yeah, yeah, yeah, thank you. 402 00:21:29,160 --> 00:21:31,960 Speaker 11: Coming up next and is ask the CLO or Chief 403 00:21:32,040 --> 00:21:34,680 Speaker 11: Love Officer, Steve Harvey in the building right after this, 404 00:21:35,400 --> 00:21:36,360 Speaker 11: you're listening. 405 00:21:36,119 --> 00:21:44,120 Speaker 1: To the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Hey everyone, quick health question. 406 00:21:44,560 --> 00:21:48,040 Speaker 11: Even though you're still thriving, still loving, still connecting, did 407 00:21:48,080 --> 00:21:51,120 Speaker 11: you know your immune system weakens with age. That's where 408 00:21:51,240 --> 00:21:54,359 Speaker 11: vaccines come in. They help train and strengthen your immune 409 00:21:54,400 --> 00:21:59,639 Speaker 11: response to fight off certain respiratory illnesses like flu, new macacle, pneumonia, RSV, 410 00:22:00,240 --> 00:22:03,840 Speaker 11: COVID nineteen this fall, Ask your doctor which vaccines you 411 00:22:04,000 --> 00:22:08,200 Speaker 11: need and visit vaxsist dot com that's vaexsist dot com 412 00:22:08,359 --> 00:22:11,920 Speaker 11: to schedule one or more of vaccines sponsored by Pfizer. 413 00:22:12,720 --> 00:22:15,760 Speaker 11: Coming up at the top of the hour and entertainment News, 414 00:22:15,840 --> 00:22:18,600 Speaker 11: we'll tell you about the judge and what he told 415 00:22:18,680 --> 00:22:22,680 Speaker 11: Diddy before sentencing him. Plus President Trump says did he 416 00:22:22,840 --> 00:22:26,760 Speaker 11: asked him for a pardon? Also, coach Prime Dion Sanders 417 00:22:26,800 --> 00:22:30,159 Speaker 11: says he has more health issues. And Carlo will be 418 00:22:30,240 --> 00:22:32,719 Speaker 11: in today with our music news. We'll talk about all 419 00:22:32,760 --> 00:22:35,240 Speaker 11: of these stories. At the top of the hour. But 420 00:22:35,440 --> 00:22:41,400 Speaker 11: right now it is time to ask the clo. Ready Colo, right, 421 00:22:42,040 --> 00:22:45,119 Speaker 11: all right? This is from Shelley and Philly. Shelley writes, 422 00:22:45,240 --> 00:22:49,240 Speaker 11: I'm in love with a man that just got married. 423 00:22:49,600 --> 00:22:52,560 Speaker 11: I'm in love with a man that just got married. 424 00:22:52,880 --> 00:22:55,760 Speaker 11: He's my co worker and we had sex a few times, 425 00:22:56,000 --> 00:22:58,440 Speaker 11: but he said it was just a fling. He still 426 00:22:58,520 --> 00:23:00,840 Speaker 11: flirts with me at work and he takes me out 427 00:23:00,880 --> 00:23:05,200 Speaker 11: to lunch often. I feel like he's giving me mixed signals. 428 00:23:05,600 --> 00:23:06,399 Speaker 1: What should I do? 429 00:23:07,920 --> 00:23:11,280 Speaker 6: See, listen to me. The person who has to straighten 430 00:23:11,359 --> 00:23:15,199 Speaker 6: out to signals is you. Yeah, yeah, he's still flirting 431 00:23:15,240 --> 00:23:19,919 Speaker 6: with you, y'all has sex he didn't forget. 432 00:23:20,640 --> 00:23:23,840 Speaker 2: He told you it's just a flee Yeah. 433 00:23:24,480 --> 00:23:26,879 Speaker 6: Now he's a halfway decent guy because he don't want 434 00:23:26,920 --> 00:23:28,720 Speaker 6: you feel in some kind of way, So he trying 435 00:23:28,800 --> 00:23:31,200 Speaker 6: to take you to lunch. But if you keep going 436 00:23:31,240 --> 00:23:33,760 Speaker 6: to lunch, you're gonna do more than eating a snack 437 00:23:33,840 --> 00:23:35,720 Speaker 6: on one of these breaks. I'm just telling you that 438 00:23:35,880 --> 00:23:40,800 Speaker 6: right now, now you in love with the man that 439 00:23:41,080 --> 00:23:45,560 Speaker 6: just got married. Here's my suggestion to you. Fall out 440 00:23:45,640 --> 00:23:51,840 Speaker 6: of love with him, Asaph, because this ain't going nowhere 441 00:23:51,960 --> 00:23:52,159 Speaker 6: for you. 442 00:23:53,680 --> 00:23:54,320 Speaker 10: He picked her. 443 00:23:54,920 --> 00:23:57,000 Speaker 1: Here's a question, how do you fall out of love? 444 00:23:57,720 --> 00:23:59,679 Speaker 2: I don't know. Just find something to hate on it. 445 00:24:03,520 --> 00:24:03,720 Speaker 8: To me. 446 00:24:04,640 --> 00:24:07,680 Speaker 6: Go on Facebook, find his wedding pictures, look at his 447 00:24:08,320 --> 00:24:11,840 Speaker 6: wife's wedding pit. They on line somewhere and find they 448 00:24:11,920 --> 00:24:14,040 Speaker 6: wedding pictures and just look at them and know that 449 00:24:14,160 --> 00:24:16,560 Speaker 6: that ain't you and start developing a. 450 00:24:16,600 --> 00:24:17,480 Speaker 2: Hatred for him. 451 00:24:17,920 --> 00:24:21,080 Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, all right, you have to fall. 452 00:24:20,920 --> 00:24:21,440 Speaker 10: Out of love. 453 00:24:21,840 --> 00:24:26,280 Speaker 2: You have to form or develop some form of hatred. 454 00:24:26,520 --> 00:24:29,120 Speaker 11: Yeah, because that's the opposite, the very opposite of love. 455 00:24:29,440 --> 00:24:32,600 Speaker 6: Yeah, that's what you gotta do, all right. Like all 456 00:24:32,720 --> 00:24:35,879 Speaker 6: my exes, I found, you know, something to hate. This 457 00:24:36,119 --> 00:24:41,480 Speaker 6: is not about you, halimony, child support, anything, Just pick something. 458 00:24:41,640 --> 00:24:43,040 Speaker 2: Just get to and get to hating. 459 00:24:44,520 --> 00:24:48,680 Speaker 11: Moving on to Amazing and tex Amazing Rights. I'm a 460 00:24:48,720 --> 00:24:51,639 Speaker 11: sixty year old, sixty nine year old divorced woman. I 461 00:24:51,720 --> 00:24:54,440 Speaker 11: went on a date with my ex husband's cousin, and 462 00:24:54,520 --> 00:24:56,800 Speaker 11: I feel that it's okay for us to date. He 463 00:24:57,000 --> 00:25:01,520 Speaker 11: wants to keep it a secret. I've been divorced for years, 464 00:25:01,920 --> 00:25:04,480 Speaker 11: so why should we hide? Are we doing something wrong? 465 00:25:05,160 --> 00:25:07,320 Speaker 11: It's from Amazing. Her name is Amazing. 466 00:25:07,600 --> 00:25:10,760 Speaker 2: Well, he know you was married to his cuk uh huh. 467 00:25:11,040 --> 00:25:14,560 Speaker 6: Yeah, and he know if he show up with you 468 00:25:14,720 --> 00:25:20,359 Speaker 6: at the house for Thanksgiving, the hell that's gonna break loose. 469 00:25:21,920 --> 00:25:23,920 Speaker 6: And he wants to keep it a secret because it 470 00:25:24,000 --> 00:25:27,639 Speaker 6: ain't going nowhere. Oh he wanted you when you was 471 00:25:27,720 --> 00:25:28,640 Speaker 6: married to his cut. 472 00:25:29,280 --> 00:25:32,960 Speaker 1: Oh, but he knew he'd better not cross that line. 473 00:25:33,600 --> 00:25:37,159 Speaker 2: Right, So now he got you. He's not gonna introduce 474 00:25:37,200 --> 00:25:37,879 Speaker 2: you to the family. 475 00:25:38,000 --> 00:25:38,639 Speaker 4: Y'all not going on? 476 00:25:38,680 --> 00:25:41,000 Speaker 2: Why you ain't in no real relationship. 477 00:25:43,320 --> 00:25:45,440 Speaker 1: And you're not a secret. Don't let him keep you 478 00:25:45,880 --> 00:25:46,080 Speaker 1: and you. 479 00:25:46,200 --> 00:25:48,240 Speaker 2: Sixty nine you know them? 480 00:25:48,800 --> 00:25:53,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yes, that's true, all right. 481 00:25:53,640 --> 00:25:57,160 Speaker 11: Moving on to Carl in Houston, Carl writes, my wife 482 00:25:57,200 --> 00:25:59,920 Speaker 11: has a bad habit of donating my clothes if she 483 00:26:00,160 --> 00:26:03,800 Speaker 11: does not like them. My favorite sweats were missing, and 484 00:26:03,880 --> 00:26:07,000 Speaker 11: so were my favorite sneakers. She said, I don't know 485 00:26:07,119 --> 00:26:09,959 Speaker 11: when stuff is too old to wear. I don't care 486 00:26:10,080 --> 00:26:13,679 Speaker 11: how old it is. It's mine. How do I stop her? 487 00:26:14,640 --> 00:26:17,880 Speaker 6: You ain't she gonna give it away, though, Yo, gives 488 00:26:17,880 --> 00:26:20,320 Speaker 6: yourself some new sweatpants. This is an opportunity to get 489 00:26:20,359 --> 00:26:21,560 Speaker 6: some new sweatpants, had. 490 00:26:21,480 --> 00:26:22,240 Speaker 2: Some new sneakers. 491 00:26:22,920 --> 00:26:23,600 Speaker 10: She throw it away. 492 00:26:23,640 --> 00:26:24,600 Speaker 7: You get to wear some new. 493 00:26:24,560 --> 00:26:27,199 Speaker 6: Them little nasty little sneaches. They ain't even white no more. 494 00:26:27,240 --> 00:26:31,640 Speaker 6: They got dirt all on them. They sweatpants. They don't 495 00:26:31,680 --> 00:26:32,119 Speaker 6: fit right? 496 00:26:34,119 --> 00:26:38,120 Speaker 1: Sure from Houston? Sure, yes, yes, it is his last name, Matt. 497 00:26:38,680 --> 00:26:41,320 Speaker 1: I don't know why you asked? What can't call back to. 498 00:26:41,320 --> 00:26:42,120 Speaker 4: Do the same thing? 499 00:26:42,320 --> 00:26:44,120 Speaker 1: Wear the same sweats shoes? 500 00:26:44,600 --> 00:26:45,280 Speaker 2: Who called? 501 00:26:45,520 --> 00:26:49,359 Speaker 1: He wear old stuff? He just a partner I med 502 00:26:49,359 --> 00:26:50,600 Speaker 1: at the barber shop years ago. 503 00:26:50,760 --> 00:26:51,840 Speaker 4: He still wear the same. 504 00:26:51,680 --> 00:26:54,919 Speaker 1: Sweat No more? 505 00:26:55,040 --> 00:26:56,240 Speaker 2: Is your wife? Then gave him away? 506 00:26:58,840 --> 00:27:05,080 Speaker 1: I may show have you ever have you ever gotten 507 00:27:05,119 --> 00:27:06,080 Speaker 1: your stuff thrown away? 508 00:27:06,160 --> 00:27:06,440 Speaker 12: Steve? 509 00:27:08,320 --> 00:27:09,280 Speaker 15: What happened. 510 00:27:11,520 --> 00:27:13,120 Speaker 1: All those shoes? Wear? 511 00:27:13,600 --> 00:27:13,760 Speaker 4: Oh? 512 00:27:13,880 --> 00:27:15,880 Speaker 2: Man, just threw all my hats in the swim pool 513 00:27:15,920 --> 00:27:16,320 Speaker 2: one time? 514 00:27:19,440 --> 00:27:20,240 Speaker 1: All your hats. 515 00:27:20,840 --> 00:27:29,880 Speaker 2: Hey, he'll get over her, get over her. 516 00:27:31,440 --> 00:27:31,639 Speaker 12: Like that. 517 00:27:32,240 --> 00:27:32,880 Speaker 1: You're really. 518 00:27:34,520 --> 00:27:38,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, wow yeah. 519 00:27:39,960 --> 00:27:42,600 Speaker 1: And what did you say when you saw your hats 520 00:27:42,640 --> 00:27:43,159 Speaker 1: in the pool. 521 00:27:43,920 --> 00:27:45,840 Speaker 2: Well, I can't say. What I said on the radio. 522 00:27:47,160 --> 00:27:50,760 Speaker 1: Would be our last day. Please don't nice working with 523 00:27:50,840 --> 00:27:52,920 Speaker 1: you guys, Yeah no, please don't. 524 00:27:53,080 --> 00:27:53,399 Speaker 2: Okay? 525 00:27:54,240 --> 00:27:56,600 Speaker 1: All right, Last one, Steve, Last one. This is from 526 00:27:56,720 --> 00:27:58,520 Speaker 1: Angie and Pensacola. 527 00:27:58,960 --> 00:28:02,760 Speaker 11: Angie writes, my husband's phone was vibrating at one a m. 528 00:28:02,960 --> 00:28:05,080 Speaker 11: From the drawer bedside. 529 00:28:06,119 --> 00:28:06,600 Speaker 2: His bed. 530 00:28:07,000 --> 00:28:09,440 Speaker 11: Well from the drawer beside his bed. He got the 531 00:28:09,520 --> 00:28:12,440 Speaker 11: phone and turned off the power. He never puts his 532 00:28:12,520 --> 00:28:15,840 Speaker 11: phone in the drawer, and it's never on vibrate. Did 533 00:28:15,880 --> 00:28:17,440 Speaker 11: he expect that late night call? 534 00:28:17,840 --> 00:28:22,160 Speaker 1: What is going on the phone is in the drawer? 535 00:28:22,720 --> 00:28:23,399 Speaker 1: What are you saying? 536 00:28:24,000 --> 00:28:27,600 Speaker 2: See, somebody ain't understanding the rooms. 537 00:28:28,040 --> 00:28:32,479 Speaker 6: That's exactly what he am unless he has lied about 538 00:28:32,600 --> 00:28:33,800 Speaker 6: his status. 539 00:28:34,880 --> 00:28:36,520 Speaker 1: To the person who's calling. 540 00:28:37,480 --> 00:28:40,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, so she thinks she got free reign, free access. 541 00:28:43,520 --> 00:28:45,000 Speaker 2: She may not know he married. 542 00:28:45,080 --> 00:28:50,400 Speaker 1: But the phone in the drawer, Yeah, yeah, he's hiding something. 543 00:28:50,560 --> 00:28:52,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, I ain't no knocking. I can't even help you, homie, 544 00:28:52,920 --> 00:28:55,480 Speaker 2: once you put it in the drawer. Yeah, he put 545 00:28:55,480 --> 00:28:56,000 Speaker 2: it in the drawer. 546 00:28:57,320 --> 00:28:58,640 Speaker 1: Why did he just turn it off? 547 00:28:59,280 --> 00:28:59,400 Speaker 4: Yea? 548 00:28:59,480 --> 00:29:02,440 Speaker 1: Why does he happened on brands vibrating the drawer? 549 00:29:02,600 --> 00:29:04,840 Speaker 10: Now it's making that was. 550 00:29:05,040 --> 00:29:08,680 Speaker 6: Dump you know me, I'm just I wan't apologize to 551 00:29:08,840 --> 00:29:10,640 Speaker 6: y'all ladies, because sometimes. 552 00:29:10,360 --> 00:29:11,600 Speaker 2: Just me and we're just stupid. 553 00:29:12,720 --> 00:29:13,960 Speaker 1: This is really stupid. 554 00:29:14,440 --> 00:29:15,840 Speaker 2: I'm so sorry. 555 00:29:15,880 --> 00:29:16,520 Speaker 4: Why do that? 556 00:29:17,360 --> 00:29:22,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, he got that chip drawer, He got that drawer 557 00:29:22,800 --> 00:29:27,760 Speaker 2: from my kill. That ain't real wood. So it's shake 558 00:29:27,880 --> 00:29:28,800 Speaker 2: all through the floor. 559 00:29:30,120 --> 00:29:32,960 Speaker 1: What would you have done though, back in the day, 560 00:29:33,320 --> 00:29:33,600 Speaker 1: would you? 561 00:29:35,920 --> 00:29:38,240 Speaker 6: Yeah, I buy a burner, I buy that. I buy 562 00:29:38,320 --> 00:29:41,360 Speaker 6: that phone from seven eleven or Walmart. Put some came 563 00:29:41,480 --> 00:29:41,680 Speaker 6: on it. 564 00:29:42,280 --> 00:29:43,560 Speaker 1: What are you going to inform it? 565 00:29:45,480 --> 00:29:48,880 Speaker 6: Yeah, well that's their number. That's who I get that nomber. 566 00:29:49,000 --> 00:29:50,120 Speaker 6: You don't get the main number. 567 00:29:50,880 --> 00:29:52,440 Speaker 2: Oh okay, okay. 568 00:29:53,320 --> 00:29:55,400 Speaker 1: And where is this said burner phone? 569 00:29:55,480 --> 00:29:58,080 Speaker 2: It's not in the drawer. Besides, it's in the trunk 570 00:29:58,160 --> 00:29:58,520 Speaker 2: of the car. 571 00:30:00,600 --> 00:30:04,480 Speaker 1: Of the car, Oh, that's where my call. That's where 572 00:30:04,560 --> 00:30:06,280 Speaker 1: my shoes used to be. That I don't want to 573 00:30:06,320 --> 00:30:07,920 Speaker 1: bring in the house. Okay, I guys, my. 574 00:30:07,920 --> 00:30:10,160 Speaker 6: Wife go check the glove box and all that, and 575 00:30:10,160 --> 00:30:12,160 Speaker 6: the troy and under the seat. They very rarely go 576 00:30:12,240 --> 00:30:15,520 Speaker 6: in the trunk. You put it under that tidybody. 577 00:30:16,160 --> 00:30:19,440 Speaker 11: Oh okay, all right, all right, thank you, Clo. We 578 00:30:19,600 --> 00:30:21,520 Speaker 11: learned ourselves something today, didn't we. 579 00:30:22,120 --> 00:30:23,120 Speaker 1: Thank you, Colo. 580 00:30:24,080 --> 00:30:24,440 Speaker 2: Welcome. 581 00:30:24,600 --> 00:30:26,600 Speaker 11: Coming up at the top of the hour, we'll have 582 00:30:26,760 --> 00:30:28,880 Speaker 11: some entertainment news for you right after this. 583 00:30:30,000 --> 00:30:32,720 Speaker 1: You're listening Harvey Morning Show. 584 00:30:37,360 --> 00:30:40,400 Speaker 11: Well, as we told you previously, Diddy was sentenced to 585 00:30:40,520 --> 00:30:44,280 Speaker 11: fifty months in prison and with credit for time served, 586 00:30:44,600 --> 00:30:47,960 Speaker 11: he has thirty six months left to serve. Diddy was 587 00:30:48,000 --> 00:30:51,640 Speaker 11: also fined five hundred thousand dollars and sentenced to five. 588 00:30:51,520 --> 00:30:53,560 Speaker 1: Years of supervised release. 589 00:30:54,640 --> 00:30:57,520 Speaker 11: The judge in the case said, quote, did he's history 590 00:30:57,560 --> 00:31:01,560 Speaker 11: of rampant sexual and physical violence warrant a substantial sentence? 591 00:31:01,840 --> 00:31:04,960 Speaker 11: Miss Ventura and the other brave survivors that came forward. 592 00:31:05,200 --> 00:31:07,760 Speaker 11: I want to say, first, we heard you. I know 593 00:31:07,880 --> 00:31:09,920 Speaker 11: your families are proud of you. I am proud of 594 00:31:10,000 --> 00:31:12,000 Speaker 11: you for coming to the court to tell the world 595 00:31:12,400 --> 00:31:15,960 Speaker 11: what really happened. The judge also addressed Diddy. He said, 596 00:31:16,360 --> 00:31:18,280 Speaker 11: I know you are in a dark place now, but 597 00:31:18,440 --> 00:31:20,840 Speaker 11: you and your family are going to get through this 598 00:31:21,280 --> 00:31:22,600 Speaker 11: end quote Wow. 599 00:31:23,920 --> 00:31:24,160 Speaker 4: Whoa. 600 00:31:24,720 --> 00:31:26,840 Speaker 1: I mean yeah, you know that ain't really. 601 00:31:26,800 --> 00:31:31,520 Speaker 6: Encouraging from somebody that just gave you fifty Hey man, 602 00:31:31,600 --> 00:31:36,520 Speaker 6: that was like, now listen to me. I'm finish slapped 603 00:31:36,520 --> 00:31:41,680 Speaker 6: the taste out your mom. But eventually slave the will 604 00:31:41,800 --> 00:31:49,880 Speaker 6: come back, That's what you know. Yeah, but you know, 605 00:31:50,080 --> 00:31:53,120 Speaker 6: like I've heard that he's got a particular prison he 606 00:31:53,240 --> 00:31:57,520 Speaker 6: wants to pick. I think, yeah, I think they got 607 00:31:57,640 --> 00:31:59,880 Speaker 6: to understand right now that the ain't nobody listening to it. 608 00:32:01,320 --> 00:32:03,959 Speaker 1: Yeah, well is the president listening? 609 00:32:04,680 --> 00:32:04,880 Speaker 5: Yeah? 610 00:32:05,920 --> 00:32:07,560 Speaker 1: Because according to TMZ. 611 00:32:07,960 --> 00:32:12,360 Speaker 11: While talking to reporters on Monday, President Trump said Diddy's 612 00:32:12,440 --> 00:32:15,760 Speaker 11: legal team reached out and said, quote, I call him 613 00:32:15,800 --> 00:32:16,480 Speaker 11: puff Daddy. 614 00:32:16,800 --> 00:32:18,880 Speaker 1: He has asked me for a pardon. 615 00:32:20,240 --> 00:32:20,520 Speaker 2: Okay. 616 00:32:20,640 --> 00:32:22,760 Speaker 11: The President has not said if he's going to grant 617 00:32:22,840 --> 00:32:26,160 Speaker 11: Diddy clemency yet, and we'll just you know, have to 618 00:32:26,240 --> 00:32:27,120 Speaker 11: follow that and see. 619 00:32:27,280 --> 00:32:30,920 Speaker 1: But he asked he has asked the president his legal team. 620 00:32:31,560 --> 00:32:32,400 Speaker 2: Hell, I would too. 621 00:32:33,760 --> 00:32:39,040 Speaker 1: Whoever, Yeah, yeah, well, I mean, you know he's been He. 622 00:32:39,120 --> 00:32:40,040 Speaker 2: Let me out of jail. 623 00:32:41,120 --> 00:32:43,360 Speaker 6: I'll be back on family few with my suits and 624 00:32:43,840 --> 00:32:47,200 Speaker 6: I wed nothing but them gold Trump sneakers, with all myself. 625 00:32:51,960 --> 00:32:54,200 Speaker 2: I'm out there with a maga hat on everything. 626 00:32:55,000 --> 00:33:00,280 Speaker 10: Well, huh, they call you then, No. 627 00:33:00,440 --> 00:33:01,120 Speaker 2: I got out. 628 00:33:05,720 --> 00:33:08,040 Speaker 1: I love how Trump said, I call him puff Daddy. 629 00:33:09,480 --> 00:33:10,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, me too. 630 00:33:14,400 --> 00:33:17,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, Well, huh, what were we. 631 00:33:17,520 --> 00:33:20,000 Speaker 16: Gonna say, Carl, I was just saying that, you know, 632 00:33:20,160 --> 00:33:23,520 Speaker 16: the judge, I liked that he heard the victims. Yeah, 633 00:33:23,720 --> 00:33:30,960 Speaker 16: that was the sentencing. And you know, your actions, your conduct, 634 00:33:31,040 --> 00:33:33,920 Speaker 16: and your behavior. You know, this is a message that 635 00:33:34,040 --> 00:33:36,840 Speaker 16: I think he's sending out to the judge as well. 636 00:33:37,400 --> 00:33:40,080 Speaker 16: You have to be held accountable for your actions. 637 00:33:40,560 --> 00:33:42,880 Speaker 6: And I agree, but you know, that's the grounds for 638 00:33:43,000 --> 00:33:47,000 Speaker 6: the appeal that Puffy's attorneys are talking about because him 639 00:33:47,080 --> 00:33:48,920 Speaker 6: admonishing him about. 640 00:33:48,640 --> 00:33:51,720 Speaker 2: That was not what he was on trial for. It 641 00:33:51,840 --> 00:33:53,680 Speaker 2: was on trial for sex trafficking. 642 00:33:54,120 --> 00:33:57,760 Speaker 6: Yeah, and so they're saying that was biased in his 643 00:33:58,080 --> 00:34:00,960 Speaker 6: sentencing because he used that to monish them. That's what 644 00:34:01,040 --> 00:34:03,760 Speaker 6: they're gonna use to go back and get and try 645 00:34:03,800 --> 00:34:06,040 Speaker 6: to get that sentence reduced. 646 00:34:06,040 --> 00:34:10,839 Speaker 1: In the appeals. Yeah, we'll see, Yeah you will. 647 00:34:11,400 --> 00:34:14,120 Speaker 6: Let this be a message to all celebrities. Not it 648 00:34:14,239 --> 00:34:16,640 Speaker 6: be a message to anybody you you can't do like 649 00:34:16,760 --> 00:34:17,320 Speaker 6: you want to do. 650 00:34:17,600 --> 00:34:20,160 Speaker 1: Carefe careful, careful. 651 00:34:20,400 --> 00:34:23,960 Speaker 2: Yeah. I counsel our Thanksgiving dinner this year. We're not 652 00:34:24,120 --> 00:34:25,560 Speaker 2: throwing no kind of party. 653 00:34:26,640 --> 00:34:30,160 Speaker 1: We can't throw it. You could have family over, don't 654 00:34:30,200 --> 00:34:34,360 Speaker 1: come over here in oops. You can have turkey and dreads, 655 00:34:35,960 --> 00:34:37,200 Speaker 1: not up in here. 656 00:34:37,360 --> 00:34:38,879 Speaker 2: We're sending that out this year. 657 00:34:40,440 --> 00:34:46,000 Speaker 1: Family that's different. You haven't flown them in from you know. 658 00:34:47,040 --> 00:34:51,920 Speaker 2: That's another thing. I ain't flying. Nobody can't have No 659 00:34:53,280 --> 00:34:56,160 Speaker 2: you can find in the bedroom having sex. 660 00:34:56,360 --> 00:34:56,880 Speaker 11: No, you not. 661 00:34:57,520 --> 00:34:57,839 Speaker 5: I don't. 662 00:34:58,200 --> 00:35:02,080 Speaker 2: If you're married, you're not into my house and having 663 00:35:02,200 --> 00:35:03,320 Speaker 2: sex in my house. 664 00:35:04,840 --> 00:35:05,240 Speaker 1: Married. 665 00:35:05,719 --> 00:35:08,520 Speaker 2: I don't care if you married. That's sex trafficking. I 666 00:35:08,640 --> 00:35:11,359 Speaker 2: flew y'all from out of town. Y'all in my house 667 00:35:11,600 --> 00:35:14,680 Speaker 2: and you're having sex, and we're not gonna do. 668 00:35:14,760 --> 00:35:18,480 Speaker 1: It that family type of reunion. 669 00:35:19,200 --> 00:35:22,600 Speaker 2: I'm now I learned my lesson. 670 00:35:24,000 --> 00:35:25,239 Speaker 1: Because you're a celebrity. 671 00:35:25,800 --> 00:35:29,680 Speaker 2: Don't come in here with no lotion maybe or nothing. 672 00:35:31,320 --> 00:35:34,879 Speaker 2: Come here rubbing your hands, don't ask for nothing. All 673 00:35:35,040 --> 00:35:36,120 Speaker 2: we got to hear par. 674 00:35:39,080 --> 00:35:41,640 Speaker 1: Well, aren't you going to be lonely on Thanksgiving without 675 00:35:41,680 --> 00:35:49,960 Speaker 1: your family? Lonely and free? Freedom? Freedom? 676 00:35:50,719 --> 00:35:53,480 Speaker 11: All right, we're gonna try to move on here and 677 00:35:53,719 --> 00:35:55,360 Speaker 11: talk about Coach Prime. 678 00:35:55,480 --> 00:36:00,760 Speaker 1: Dean s Hey, what' y'all doing in now? We're married? Okay, 679 00:36:00,920 --> 00:36:02,640 Speaker 1: it relaxed, we're married. 680 00:36:03,520 --> 00:36:06,120 Speaker 2: She clothes on and go in here for head count tonight. 681 00:36:08,600 --> 00:36:09,960 Speaker 1: What time will lights be out? 682 00:36:10,080 --> 00:36:14,279 Speaker 2: Steve? We don't cut no lights out in him every light. 683 00:36:14,360 --> 00:36:19,840 Speaker 11: Oh, I'm trying to get to Coach Prime as we 684 00:36:19,960 --> 00:36:23,480 Speaker 11: switch gears a little bit. He has revealed after Saturday's 685 00:36:23,640 --> 00:36:26,960 Speaker 11: Colorado thirty five to twenty one lost to TCU that 686 00:36:27,080 --> 00:36:29,400 Speaker 11: he thinks he has more blood clots in his legs 687 00:36:29,440 --> 00:36:33,759 Speaker 11: after already undergoing numerous surgeries because of blood circulation in 688 00:36:33,840 --> 00:36:34,680 Speaker 11: his lower body. 689 00:36:35,160 --> 00:36:35,279 Speaker 12: Now. 690 00:36:35,320 --> 00:36:38,080 Speaker 11: According to USA Today, Coach Prime admitted he was in 691 00:36:38,200 --> 00:36:41,320 Speaker 11: pain this week in addition to his recovery from bladder 692 00:36:41,360 --> 00:36:44,440 Speaker 11: cancer this year. He said, after the game, Cats out 693 00:36:44,480 --> 00:36:46,279 Speaker 11: of the bag, all right, I think I got more 694 00:36:46,320 --> 00:36:50,120 Speaker 11: blood clots. It don't make sense. I'm hurting like crazy. 695 00:36:50,520 --> 00:36:53,960 Speaker 11: So of course we're praying for Dion, for coach Sanders, 696 00:36:54,040 --> 00:36:58,600 Speaker 11: for Coach Prime. This is a lot, Yeah, a whole 697 00:36:58,680 --> 00:37:02,279 Speaker 11: lot this year. Yeah, he's been through a lot of them. 698 00:37:02,520 --> 00:37:03,960 Speaker 11: Yeah he really got this though. 699 00:37:05,000 --> 00:37:05,719 Speaker 1: God's got them. 700 00:37:06,560 --> 00:37:07,680 Speaker 4: Yep. All right. 701 00:37:08,000 --> 00:37:10,040 Speaker 11: Coming up at twenty minutes after the hour of the 702 00:37:10,120 --> 00:37:13,000 Speaker 11: State of Illinois and the City of Chicago are suing 703 00:37:13,080 --> 00:37:17,600 Speaker 11: President Trump over the National Guard deployment. We'll talk about 704 00:37:17,600 --> 00:37:21,600 Speaker 11: it right after this. You're listening to the Steve Harvey 705 00:37:21,680 --> 00:37:28,960 Speaker 11: Morning Show. Hey, everyone, quick health question. Even though you're 706 00:37:29,000 --> 00:37:32,359 Speaker 11: still thriving, still loving, still connecting, did you know your 707 00:37:32,400 --> 00:37:35,840 Speaker 11: immune system weakens with age. That's where vaccines come in. 708 00:37:36,160 --> 00:37:39,080 Speaker 11: They help train and strengthen your immune response to fight 709 00:37:39,160 --> 00:37:43,400 Speaker 11: off certain respiratory illnesses like flu, new Macaco, pneumonia, RSV, 710 00:37:43,680 --> 00:37:47,520 Speaker 11: and COVID nineteen this fall, ask your doctor which vaccines 711 00:37:47,560 --> 00:37:51,680 Speaker 11: you need and visit vaxisist dot com. That's vaexsist dot 712 00:37:51,800 --> 00:37:55,120 Speaker 11: com to schedule one or more of vaccines sponsored by 713 00:37:55,239 --> 00:37:56,600 Speaker 11: Pfizer well. 714 00:37:56,640 --> 00:37:58,279 Speaker 1: According to NPR, the. 715 00:37:58,320 --> 00:38:00,600 Speaker 11: State of Illinois and the city of Chico, Icago have 716 00:38:00,840 --> 00:38:05,200 Speaker 11: filed a federal lawsuit against the Trump administration over its 717 00:38:05,280 --> 00:38:08,560 Speaker 11: effort to deploy National Guard troops to the state. The 718 00:38:08,600 --> 00:38:12,680 Speaker 11: American people, regardless of where they reside, should not live 719 00:38:12,880 --> 00:38:17,120 Speaker 11: under the threat of occupation by the United States military, 720 00:38:17,400 --> 00:38:21,120 Speaker 11: particularly not simply because their city or state leadership has 721 00:38:21,239 --> 00:38:25,800 Speaker 11: fallen out of a president's favor. That's what Illinois Attorney 722 00:38:25,920 --> 00:38:30,880 Speaker 11: General Kwame Ryul wrote in a complaint. In addition, the 723 00:38:31,000 --> 00:38:36,120 Speaker 11: citizens of Illinois and Chicago protesters and political leaders believe 724 00:38:36,200 --> 00:38:39,880 Speaker 11: the presence of National Guard could cause more community unrest 725 00:38:40,040 --> 00:38:44,359 Speaker 11: and business economic harm and slow down tourism. So see 726 00:38:44,440 --> 00:38:46,960 Speaker 11: what are your thoughts about the National Guard deployment? And 727 00:38:47,400 --> 00:38:50,440 Speaker 11: part two? Did you guys hear that ICE is detaining 728 00:38:50,520 --> 00:38:54,000 Speaker 11: black people now in Chicago? This is getting crazier by 729 00:38:54,080 --> 00:38:54,520 Speaker 11: the minute. 730 00:38:54,600 --> 00:38:54,960 Speaker 2: For real. 731 00:38:56,680 --> 00:39:01,759 Speaker 6: This is all It reeks of white supremacy to me, 732 00:39:03,840 --> 00:39:09,399 Speaker 6: because that's all they're going after. They're they're going after 733 00:39:09,480 --> 00:39:13,640 Speaker 6: people that don't look like them. They're not in none 734 00:39:13,680 --> 00:39:17,520 Speaker 6: of the Irish neighborhoods, trying to find out who legal, 735 00:39:17,640 --> 00:39:18,080 Speaker 6: who's not. 736 00:39:18,280 --> 00:39:20,879 Speaker 2: They're not in any Italian neighborhoods. 737 00:39:20,960 --> 00:39:24,160 Speaker 6: They're not in the Ukraine neighborhoods, they're not in the 738 00:39:24,320 --> 00:39:25,480 Speaker 6: Polish neighborhoods. 739 00:39:25,880 --> 00:39:29,520 Speaker 2: Trying to find out who don't belong here, people who 740 00:39:29,680 --> 00:39:31,319 Speaker 2: don't look like them. 741 00:39:32,760 --> 00:39:37,080 Speaker 6: That's the easiest target, and it's okayed by our leadership. 742 00:39:38,120 --> 00:39:43,640 Speaker 6: And that's the crazy part now. And they're coming to Chicago. Listen, 743 00:39:44,880 --> 00:39:47,960 Speaker 6: this guy, this president does what he wants to do, 744 00:39:49,280 --> 00:39:55,640 Speaker 6: and of the House in the Senate, and you know, 745 00:39:56,000 --> 00:39:57,400 Speaker 6: and they just do what they want to do. 746 00:39:57,640 --> 00:39:59,759 Speaker 2: So here they come. 747 00:40:01,200 --> 00:40:03,880 Speaker 6: Uh, we've always had to make adjustments, So let's just 748 00:40:03,960 --> 00:40:05,160 Speaker 6: make the necessary adjustments. 749 00:40:05,280 --> 00:40:05,480 Speaker 2: Y'all. 750 00:40:05,520 --> 00:40:08,400 Speaker 6: Be careful out there, Be watchful, keep your head on 751 00:40:08,480 --> 00:40:11,160 Speaker 6: the swivel when you see him go the other way, 752 00:40:12,080 --> 00:40:14,120 Speaker 6: you know, because you know that's them. 753 00:40:14,360 --> 00:40:15,319 Speaker 2: They ain't been over here. 754 00:40:16,760 --> 00:40:22,759 Speaker 16: But you're in your apartment building in Chicago and they're rating, yeah, 755 00:40:23,360 --> 00:40:26,800 Speaker 16: helicopters and they're raiding your apartment building and you you 756 00:40:27,080 --> 00:40:28,800 Speaker 16: are an American citizen. 757 00:40:29,120 --> 00:40:32,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, you know, this is crazy. 758 00:40:32,600 --> 00:40:33,400 Speaker 4: What is going on? 759 00:40:34,080 --> 00:40:36,880 Speaker 1: Military on American citizens on Chicago. 760 00:40:37,520 --> 00:40:38,759 Speaker 4: So you just what what? 761 00:40:40,320 --> 00:40:43,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, and in a different time, in a different place, 762 00:40:43,880 --> 00:40:45,280 Speaker 2: we're living on a different regime. 763 00:40:45,840 --> 00:40:45,960 Speaker 3: Uh. 764 00:40:46,280 --> 00:40:46,560 Speaker 17: He did. 765 00:40:46,640 --> 00:40:49,640 Speaker 6: He did everything was that he was gonna do, except 766 00:40:49,680 --> 00:40:51,760 Speaker 6: he said for the first month, I'm gonna seek vengeance. 767 00:40:52,000 --> 00:40:54,680 Speaker 6: But he's gonna do that his entire turn. And yeah, 768 00:40:54,840 --> 00:40:55,800 Speaker 6: that's that's what it is. 769 00:40:56,120 --> 00:41:01,200 Speaker 11: Three more years of this madness. All right, switching gears 770 00:41:01,239 --> 00:41:03,120 Speaker 11: coming up at thirty four minutes after the hour. 771 00:41:03,200 --> 00:41:06,960 Speaker 1: The porch light might be off for Halloween. We'll tell 772 00:41:07,000 --> 00:41:11,880 Speaker 1: you why. Right after this blessed is DJ Cavick, your boy, 773 00:41:11,960 --> 00:41:14,080 Speaker 1: Chris Broth. Hey, this is Keisha Cole Lost people. 774 00:41:14,120 --> 00:41:15,000 Speaker 2: This is Kirk Franklin. 775 00:41:15,080 --> 00:41:16,240 Speaker 1: Hey, this is John Legend. 776 00:41:16,239 --> 00:41:18,200 Speaker 2: And you listened to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 777 00:41:18,520 --> 00:41:21,200 Speaker 1: You're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show. 778 00:41:25,840 --> 00:41:28,320 Speaker 11: Okay, guys, before we get to this Halloween story, I 779 00:41:28,400 --> 00:41:30,160 Speaker 11: do have to give a shout out to my hometown 780 00:41:30,239 --> 00:41:33,440 Speaker 11: of Chicago and V one three for a Sister strut 781 00:41:33,560 --> 00:41:36,440 Speaker 11: this past weekend in Chicago at the Croc Center on 782 00:41:36,560 --> 00:41:37,520 Speaker 11: the South Side. 783 00:41:38,360 --> 00:41:39,520 Speaker 1: It was a great time. 784 00:41:39,640 --> 00:41:42,840 Speaker 11: It was a great event to bring about breast cancer awareness. 785 00:41:43,120 --> 00:41:45,319 Speaker 11: Great time had by all. I want to say thank 786 00:41:45,360 --> 00:41:48,320 Speaker 11: you to everyone who came out, all the beautiful, beautiful 787 00:41:48,400 --> 00:41:50,920 Speaker 11: ladies who were pretty in pink. A lot of guys 788 00:41:51,000 --> 00:41:57,400 Speaker 11: supported too, just great, and the message was get your mammograms, ladies, 789 00:41:57,480 --> 00:42:01,400 Speaker 11: get your yearly mammograms and early testing of course is 790 00:42:01,600 --> 00:42:04,440 Speaker 11: the key, all right, and thank you again to everyone 791 00:42:05,200 --> 00:42:06,640 Speaker 11: to who came out. 792 00:42:08,040 --> 00:42:09,080 Speaker 1: So onto the story. 793 00:42:09,160 --> 00:42:13,239 Speaker 11: Now, Halloween candy prices are giving people sticker shock this year. 794 00:42:13,719 --> 00:42:15,520 Speaker 1: Oh I did I mention Tommy was there too. 795 00:42:15,640 --> 00:42:17,680 Speaker 11: Tommy came out and hung out with us. I forgot 796 00:42:17,719 --> 00:42:19,840 Speaker 11: to say that because he's not here to get your nephew. 797 00:42:19,880 --> 00:42:23,840 Speaker 11: Tommy was that sister strud Yeah, he support. 798 00:42:23,920 --> 00:42:27,040 Speaker 1: He isn't at work today, because it could be I'm here. 799 00:42:27,200 --> 00:42:32,920 Speaker 1: I was there on Saturday, right, Monica was there. She's here. Yes, 800 00:42:34,080 --> 00:42:35,000 Speaker 1: I don't understand that. 801 00:42:35,400 --> 00:42:36,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, it could be. 802 00:42:36,880 --> 00:42:37,960 Speaker 1: Could be. I don't know. 803 00:42:39,360 --> 00:42:43,279 Speaker 11: But anyway, moving on to the Halloween candy prices that 804 00:42:43,400 --> 00:42:46,640 Speaker 11: are giving people sticker shock this year. Thumb bags are 805 00:42:46,680 --> 00:42:49,919 Speaker 11: going for up to twenty five dollars or even more. 806 00:42:50,400 --> 00:42:52,480 Speaker 11: A lot of people are posting on social media that 807 00:42:52,520 --> 00:42:55,400 Speaker 11: they are skipping trick or treating altogether this year because 808 00:42:55,400 --> 00:42:57,919 Speaker 11: of the cost and the porch light will be off 809 00:42:58,200 --> 00:43:01,759 Speaker 11: this year. On social media, reactions are mixed, with some 810 00:43:01,880 --> 00:43:05,080 Speaker 11: people saying they're switching to cheaper candy altern it is. 811 00:43:05,520 --> 00:43:08,280 Speaker 11: So here's a question, think back to your childhood, guys. 812 00:43:08,719 --> 00:43:12,480 Speaker 11: Do you guys have any cheaper suggestions to pass out 813 00:43:12,520 --> 00:43:15,200 Speaker 11: to trigger treaters so they won't be able they so 814 00:43:15,320 --> 00:43:17,840 Speaker 11: they won't have to skip Halloween this year? You know, 815 00:43:18,080 --> 00:43:20,080 Speaker 11: maybe cheaper costumes, all of that. 816 00:43:21,120 --> 00:43:25,080 Speaker 6: Out A bag of pental beans, dry penthal beans. Everybody 817 00:43:25,200 --> 00:43:31,320 Speaker 6: get one bean. It isn't cheaper on how long you know, 818 00:43:31,520 --> 00:43:34,080 Speaker 6: how long you can put a pental bean in your mouth? 819 00:43:34,160 --> 00:43:34,360 Speaker 8: In it. 820 00:43:36,400 --> 00:43:37,480 Speaker 1: A dry one. 821 00:43:41,719 --> 00:43:44,160 Speaker 2: That almost lash you to next Halloween. 822 00:43:46,280 --> 00:43:47,840 Speaker 1: Any suggestions, junior? 823 00:43:48,680 --> 00:43:52,840 Speaker 9: Yeah, yeah, I'm telling right now. Tomorrow go by the 824 00:43:52,880 --> 00:43:55,160 Speaker 9: bank and get somebody that dish that be in the bank, 825 00:43:55,280 --> 00:43:55,560 Speaker 9: gets the. 826 00:43:55,600 --> 00:43:57,600 Speaker 1: Free candidate from there, because they will. 827 00:43:57,400 --> 00:43:59,200 Speaker 9: Be not here for twenty five dollars, just gone in 828 00:43:59,320 --> 00:44:01,359 Speaker 9: there and just you just suck it and going out 829 00:44:02,840 --> 00:44:03,640 Speaker 9: twenty five hours. 830 00:44:04,680 --> 00:44:05,759 Speaker 1: Fu kid, I don't even know. 831 00:44:08,600 --> 00:44:09,759 Speaker 7: I don't even you know. 832 00:44:10,040 --> 00:44:12,800 Speaker 6: Or just watch what you put in the band. Everybody 833 00:44:12,880 --> 00:44:17,640 Speaker 6: get one stick of gunyah, ain't on pack. You get 834 00:44:17,719 --> 00:44:20,719 Speaker 6: one stick of gun. You buy a bag of hers. 835 00:44:20,760 --> 00:44:24,920 Speaker 6: She kisses one kiss y'all got the paper sticking out 836 00:44:24,960 --> 00:44:28,160 Speaker 6: of it, so it'll be an easy opener. That's a 837 00:44:28,520 --> 00:44:33,320 Speaker 6: bag of corn candy. Everybody, get one kernel on candy 838 00:44:33,400 --> 00:44:37,160 Speaker 6: corn one, hey you, and there's three bites. Bite the 839 00:44:37,239 --> 00:44:39,959 Speaker 6: little yellow tempo, eat the middle, and eat a little 840 00:44:40,000 --> 00:44:40,759 Speaker 6: white on the top. 841 00:44:40,880 --> 00:44:43,200 Speaker 2: It's three delicious separate. 842 00:44:42,920 --> 00:44:49,120 Speaker 14: Biitese Come on, Steve, yeah, would you open up a 843 00:44:49,280 --> 00:44:51,759 Speaker 14: would you would actually open up a bag of Eminem's 844 00:44:51,800 --> 00:44:54,800 Speaker 14: and give them one eminem one peanut? 845 00:44:55,040 --> 00:44:55,200 Speaker 2: Yeah? 846 00:44:57,719 --> 00:44:59,320 Speaker 1: Matter fact, we can make it. 847 00:44:59,400 --> 00:45:01,320 Speaker 9: We can crack the can the shell and keep the 848 00:45:01,400 --> 00:45:03,000 Speaker 9: peanut and get a peanut and the shell. 849 00:45:03,239 --> 00:45:03,560 Speaker 4: That's too. 850 00:45:03,760 --> 00:45:09,719 Speaker 2: That's a way not to make it most special. I 851 00:45:09,880 --> 00:45:11,400 Speaker 2: will let you pick your color. 852 00:45:13,080 --> 00:45:14,320 Speaker 1: That's the least you can do. 853 00:45:17,080 --> 00:45:21,439 Speaker 6: Really, ain't nothing hipper reds, Well that's all you got 854 00:45:21,560 --> 00:45:22,200 Speaker 6: to pick up. 855 00:45:22,960 --> 00:45:26,319 Speaker 11: What about what about a cheaper way to make Halloween costumes? 856 00:45:26,719 --> 00:45:29,760 Speaker 11: Because those are expensive as well, they are very priced. 857 00:45:29,880 --> 00:45:33,760 Speaker 1: Huh man, Get back in that, Get back in that linen. 858 00:45:33,600 --> 00:45:36,120 Speaker 9: Closet, get that tie, put the tie around your neck, 859 00:45:36,160 --> 00:45:37,800 Speaker 9: and you superman back of that. 860 00:45:40,239 --> 00:45:43,080 Speaker 1: When you take the towel cabinet, put around your neck 861 00:45:43,160 --> 00:45:44,120 Speaker 1: tie and you Superman? 862 00:45:44,239 --> 00:45:44,480 Speaker 4: That's it. 863 00:45:45,880 --> 00:45:50,040 Speaker 1: What if you're a girl, Yeah, supergirl, superb. 864 00:45:51,400 --> 00:45:53,680 Speaker 2: Take that same tie, wrap it around your head. You 865 00:45:53,800 --> 00:45:54,480 Speaker 2: trick or treating? 866 00:45:54,520 --> 00:45:54,880 Speaker 7: Who are you? 867 00:45:55,040 --> 00:45:55,520 Speaker 10: Little boy? 868 00:45:55,560 --> 00:45:56,440 Speaker 2: I'm the Tali fan. 869 00:45:58,840 --> 00:45:59,120 Speaker 16: Really. 870 00:46:00,480 --> 00:46:07,719 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's been nice. That's a lot. That's how I 871 00:46:07,880 --> 00:46:11,200 Speaker 1: do a lot. Okay. 872 00:46:12,200 --> 00:46:15,000 Speaker 11: Coming up next, it is Junior and for Tommy with 873 00:46:15,200 --> 00:46:16,480 Speaker 11: today's prank phone call. 874 00:46:16,800 --> 00:46:20,239 Speaker 1: Right after this, you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 875 00:46:24,880 --> 00:46:26,879 Speaker 11: Coming up at the top of the hour, right about 876 00:46:26,920 --> 00:46:29,360 Speaker 11: four minutes after, it's my strawberry letter for today, and 877 00:46:29,440 --> 00:46:32,280 Speaker 11: the subject is how did I miss this over the years? 878 00:46:32,600 --> 00:46:35,279 Speaker 11: How did I miss this over the years. We'll get 879 00:46:35,320 --> 00:46:38,920 Speaker 11: into it, find out what that's all about. It's gonna 880 00:46:38,920 --> 00:46:41,560 Speaker 11: be some mess, you know that. We'll find out right now. 881 00:46:41,680 --> 00:46:45,560 Speaker 11: Junior is and for the nephew with today's prank phone call. 882 00:46:45,640 --> 00:46:46,880 Speaker 11: What you got for is nef. 883 00:46:48,719 --> 00:46:49,080 Speaker 17: The net? 884 00:46:49,960 --> 00:46:53,080 Speaker 9: Yeah, it's it's uh something from Tommy did Indeed, he 885 00:46:53,160 --> 00:46:56,120 Speaker 9: didn't call the insurance company trying to get some insurance 886 00:46:56,719 --> 00:46:59,480 Speaker 9: for some very special people, just some insurance for some 887 00:46:59,600 --> 00:47:00,480 Speaker 9: very space should people. 888 00:47:02,040 --> 00:47:04,600 Speaker 1: I don't know, I don't know. He just said it's 889 00:47:04,760 --> 00:47:07,240 Speaker 1: insurance that's all. It is insurance. 890 00:47:07,280 --> 00:47:07,960 Speaker 2: Come on, cat. 891 00:47:09,880 --> 00:47:12,160 Speaker 5: Call asurances and Joseph, I can I help you? 892 00:47:12,760 --> 00:47:13,759 Speaker 8: Yeah, Joseph, what you doing? 893 00:47:13,800 --> 00:47:16,160 Speaker 5: Man? I got you doing your number? 894 00:47:16,680 --> 00:47:18,279 Speaker 8: Uh? Well, so I give you a card. Told me 895 00:47:18,360 --> 00:47:20,520 Speaker 8: you have an insurance company. You might be to help me. 896 00:47:20,600 --> 00:47:22,560 Speaker 5: Absolutely it will love to help you, will love to 897 00:47:22,640 --> 00:47:22,880 Speaker 5: help you. 898 00:47:22,960 --> 00:47:26,800 Speaker 8: Okay, listen, I'm I'm seeking some insurance with all the 899 00:47:26,840 --> 00:47:27,840 Speaker 8: insurance that you guys have. 900 00:47:28,000 --> 00:47:30,960 Speaker 5: What what what do you all cover? We have automobile insurance, 901 00:47:31,000 --> 00:47:34,960 Speaker 5: we have home insurance, we have life insurance, fire flood 902 00:47:35,320 --> 00:47:38,759 Speaker 5: were pretty much. Uh we have everything exactly what top 903 00:47:38,760 --> 00:47:39,800 Speaker 5: of insurance you're looking for? 904 00:47:40,239 --> 00:47:43,360 Speaker 8: Okay, well, see I need uh. I have my own business, 905 00:47:43,440 --> 00:47:44,160 Speaker 8: my own company. 906 00:47:45,520 --> 00:47:45,840 Speaker 5: I like that. 907 00:47:46,120 --> 00:47:46,359 Speaker 8: Okay. 908 00:47:46,440 --> 00:47:47,160 Speaker 5: What I'm what I'm want. 909 00:47:47,680 --> 00:47:50,680 Speaker 8: What I'm trying to do, man, is I'm trying to 910 00:47:50,760 --> 00:47:53,239 Speaker 8: make sure I have insurance for the people underneath me. 911 00:47:53,960 --> 00:47:57,480 Speaker 8: Oh okay your employees, Yeah, exactly exactly. I want to 912 00:47:57,480 --> 00:47:59,400 Speaker 8: I want my employees to be insured. 913 00:48:00,160 --> 00:48:02,120 Speaker 5: Okay, you know, like if something happens to. 914 00:48:02,160 --> 00:48:04,200 Speaker 8: Them, they can get they can get work ms comp 915 00:48:04,320 --> 00:48:04,839 Speaker 8: you know what I mean. 916 00:48:04,920 --> 00:48:07,239 Speaker 5: I want to be able to accommodate them that way. 917 00:48:07,360 --> 00:48:08,960 Speaker 5: Is that and Are you able to help me out 918 00:48:09,000 --> 00:48:11,400 Speaker 5: with something like that? Yeah, I am able to help you. 919 00:48:11,600 --> 00:48:14,399 Speaker 5: I just need to ask you a few questions. How 920 00:48:14,480 --> 00:48:16,200 Speaker 5: many How many employees do you. 921 00:48:16,320 --> 00:48:20,640 Speaker 8: Ask right now? I have? I got six? Well, I 922 00:48:20,719 --> 00:48:24,120 Speaker 8: got four that's working full time. I got two that 923 00:48:24,360 --> 00:48:27,960 Speaker 8: that work predominantly on the weekends. Okay, so I got 924 00:48:28,120 --> 00:48:30,880 Speaker 8: let me think real quick, limit, I got Sentnlement, I 925 00:48:31,000 --> 00:48:34,720 Speaker 8: got ice Jasmine, I got thunder. 926 00:48:35,680 --> 00:48:38,600 Speaker 5: I'm sorry, sir, tell me a name again to what 927 00:48:38,880 --> 00:48:44,120 Speaker 5: was smitty? Okay? Okay? What type of pendess you have, sir? 928 00:48:44,960 --> 00:48:47,319 Speaker 8: Well, I'm I'm more of a I'm a I'm a. 929 00:48:47,360 --> 00:48:53,120 Speaker 5: PC and I'm sorry DC uh personal consulting. 930 00:48:53,360 --> 00:48:55,520 Speaker 8: No, no, no, no, I'm I'm I'm pretty close though, 931 00:48:55,600 --> 00:48:58,160 Speaker 8: pretty close. That's that's that's pretty close. I'm I'm I'm 932 00:48:58,200 --> 00:48:59,279 Speaker 8: a pleasure consultant. 933 00:49:00,160 --> 00:49:02,719 Speaker 5: And and what it is me? I got you know, 934 00:49:02,760 --> 00:49:06,080 Speaker 5: I got I'm sorry, did you say pleasure of consultant? 935 00:49:06,719 --> 00:49:07,239 Speaker 5: Right right? 936 00:49:07,520 --> 00:49:08,279 Speaker 8: What that is? 937 00:49:08,400 --> 00:49:08,560 Speaker 5: Man? 938 00:49:08,680 --> 00:49:09,759 Speaker 4: Is you know? 939 00:49:10,040 --> 00:49:13,560 Speaker 8: I pleasurize people that want to be pleasurized, Like I 940 00:49:13,680 --> 00:49:17,560 Speaker 8: have girls that may dance for you, something may come 941 00:49:17,640 --> 00:49:23,400 Speaker 8: by and do other things for you after the private parties. 942 00:49:23,480 --> 00:49:24,120 Speaker 8: That kind of thing. 943 00:49:24,239 --> 00:49:27,480 Speaker 5: Are you trying to Are you trying to ensure strippers? 944 00:49:27,840 --> 00:49:28,560 Speaker 15: A call girl? 945 00:49:28,880 --> 00:49:30,800 Speaker 8: Well, I mean, I mean I'm trying to ensure what 946 00:49:30,800 --> 00:49:32,160 Speaker 8: I'm trying to show. I mean, I give all my 947 00:49:32,239 --> 00:49:34,240 Speaker 8: girl ten ninety nine at the end of the Yeah. 948 00:49:34,160 --> 00:49:37,120 Speaker 5: I don't know what this is an insurance company. This 949 00:49:37,239 --> 00:49:42,719 Speaker 5: is a reperable company. We don't ensure call girls strippers, Sir. 950 00:49:42,800 --> 00:49:45,160 Speaker 8: I'm trying to ensure my product. I mean, the way 951 00:49:45,160 --> 00:49:47,440 Speaker 8: it economy is right now, everybody got to look out 952 00:49:47,440 --> 00:49:49,040 Speaker 8: for themself. But I got to insured what I need 953 00:49:49,120 --> 00:49:51,320 Speaker 8: to ensure so in case things go bad. Man, I 954 00:49:51,400 --> 00:49:52,279 Speaker 8: can bounce back on that. 955 00:49:53,000 --> 00:49:54,520 Speaker 5: I understand that, sir, and I do. 956 00:49:54,840 --> 00:49:56,759 Speaker 8: I mean, I'm a businessman just like you are, sir. 957 00:49:56,920 --> 00:49:59,600 Speaker 5: But we don't ensure call girl strippers. 958 00:49:59,760 --> 00:50:01,960 Speaker 8: So so hold on, I got your card. Man, you're 959 00:50:01,960 --> 00:50:04,120 Speaker 8: trying to tell me that now you can't give me 960 00:50:04,160 --> 00:50:04,800 Speaker 8: no inshues. 961 00:50:05,680 --> 00:50:11,319 Speaker 5: We can't ensure call girls are strippers. Uh okay, okay, okay. 962 00:50:11,360 --> 00:50:13,320 Speaker 5: Tell me what type of duties do they perform? 963 00:50:14,160 --> 00:50:15,600 Speaker 8: I mean, what you mean, what kind of do I 964 00:50:15,680 --> 00:50:16,080 Speaker 8: mean they think? 965 00:50:16,719 --> 00:50:19,200 Speaker 5: On the application? I have to put down what type 966 00:50:19,239 --> 00:50:20,200 Speaker 5: of duties do. 967 00:50:20,280 --> 00:50:26,440 Speaker 8: You We're gonna put down down exotic dance, you know, uh, 968 00:50:26,760 --> 00:50:29,719 Speaker 8: and see since they are there for people that like, uh, 969 00:50:30,280 --> 00:50:32,759 Speaker 8: need to have some personal attention. Man, you know we 970 00:50:32,960 --> 00:50:35,960 Speaker 8: just put something else down, like you know, counseling. 971 00:50:36,360 --> 00:50:39,799 Speaker 5: You know, he's prostitutes. You want to ensure prostitutes. 972 00:50:39,920 --> 00:50:42,600 Speaker 8: I'm not saying that, man, I'm not stop saying that. 973 00:50:42,920 --> 00:50:45,000 Speaker 8: Don't say that, no more. That's not what I'm saying. 974 00:50:45,360 --> 00:50:47,920 Speaker 5: I'm saying that's what that's what they are. Well, why 975 00:50:47,960 --> 00:50:49,080 Speaker 5: don't you put down people? 976 00:50:49,360 --> 00:50:51,240 Speaker 8: Man? Why do you Why don't you put down pleasure 977 00:50:51,320 --> 00:50:52,560 Speaker 8: consultant for him, man. 978 00:50:52,480 --> 00:50:58,040 Speaker 5: Pleasure consulting, So we don't do that here. I low 979 00:50:58,080 --> 00:51:00,640 Speaker 5: to help you say we don't do that here. You 980 00:51:00,719 --> 00:51:01,920 Speaker 5: can't insure a prostitute. 981 00:51:02,080 --> 00:51:03,759 Speaker 8: Then I tell you, don't say that no more. I 982 00:51:03,920 --> 00:51:06,440 Speaker 8: told you this right here is a PC. It's a 983 00:51:06,480 --> 00:51:09,000 Speaker 8: pleasure consultant. Now, somebody that gave me this business card 984 00:51:09,040 --> 00:51:10,480 Speaker 8: and told me that you'll be able to take care 985 00:51:10,480 --> 00:51:12,560 Speaker 8: of me. And now here you is coming back saying 986 00:51:12,600 --> 00:51:14,480 Speaker 8: you can't see this one is starting to be some 987 00:51:15,080 --> 00:51:15,680 Speaker 8: smitty name. 988 00:51:16,480 --> 00:51:19,520 Speaker 5: Sir. You gonna have to rein from using that language. No, no, no, no, 989 00:51:19,840 --> 00:51:22,040 Speaker 5: They telling me that you are able to insure me. 990 00:51:22,160 --> 00:51:22,640 Speaker 8: Man, you. 991 00:51:24,400 --> 00:51:26,840 Speaker 5: The one coming back with some bogus right here. We 992 00:51:26,920 --> 00:51:31,240 Speaker 5: don't ensure any type of ghetto mess. Prostitutes call girls, 993 00:51:32,239 --> 00:51:34,799 Speaker 5: and that's some street junk that we don't do here. 994 00:51:35,239 --> 00:51:37,560 Speaker 8: Man, listen, I was told you can ensure me, and 995 00:51:37,640 --> 00:51:40,520 Speaker 8: guess what you go insure me. I'm finna go back 996 00:51:40,560 --> 00:51:42,640 Speaker 8: and forth with you, DoD. I'm finna come down there 997 00:51:42,680 --> 00:51:44,440 Speaker 8: to your office and I want to. I want these 998 00:51:44,480 --> 00:51:46,560 Speaker 8: bapers filled down till I can sign them. 999 00:51:46,560 --> 00:51:49,080 Speaker 5: So I'm out of my office. Look, man, we don't 1000 00:51:49,200 --> 00:51:53,840 Speaker 5: ensure no prostitutes are no are there strippers? Okay, So 1001 00:51:54,000 --> 00:51:56,839 Speaker 5: we don't do that. And you're not gonna come down 1002 00:51:56,920 --> 00:51:59,120 Speaker 5: to my office with this ghetto mess. 1003 00:51:59,400 --> 00:52:00,200 Speaker 6: We don't do that. 1004 00:52:00,480 --> 00:52:01,879 Speaker 8: Who you think you're out of a man? 1005 00:52:02,000 --> 00:52:04,440 Speaker 5: You you don't know who you're only with now. 1006 00:52:04,440 --> 00:52:07,080 Speaker 15: I don't left this corporate over the phone, corporate for 1007 00:52:07,120 --> 00:52:09,040 Speaker 15: it fool you because I can get gangster. 1008 00:52:09,520 --> 00:52:10,440 Speaker 5: Hey man, I don't know who you. 1009 00:52:10,520 --> 00:52:10,800 Speaker 11: Thank you. 1010 00:52:10,920 --> 00:52:11,920 Speaker 5: I may look at your hell. 1011 00:52:11,920 --> 00:52:13,840 Speaker 8: We don't do that here, Hey man, look at Let 1012 00:52:13,880 --> 00:52:15,359 Speaker 8: me tell you. I'm on my way down there. 1013 00:52:15,440 --> 00:52:19,520 Speaker 5: Okay, do not come to this office. Do not come 1014 00:52:19,600 --> 00:52:21,839 Speaker 5: to this office I'm coming to the office. You're gonna 1015 00:52:21,880 --> 00:52:22,920 Speaker 5: show up my girls for me? 1016 00:52:23,160 --> 00:52:25,400 Speaker 8: Now, if somebody gave me your card and told me 1017 00:52:25,600 --> 00:52:27,200 Speaker 8: you can take care of me on the low, and 1018 00:52:27,280 --> 00:52:29,440 Speaker 8: that's what you're gonna do now. I need my massuring 1019 00:52:29,480 --> 00:52:31,239 Speaker 8: for my girls. Dog, That's all I'm trying to get. 1020 00:52:31,520 --> 00:52:35,719 Speaker 15: Don't you bring low to my steps with because we 1021 00:52:35,920 --> 00:52:37,640 Speaker 15: don't do it and I will not. And if you 1022 00:52:37,719 --> 00:52:38,920 Speaker 15: bring up something. 1023 00:52:38,640 --> 00:52:40,440 Speaker 5: You're gonna get your boy And man, I got one 1024 00:52:41,440 --> 00:52:42,560 Speaker 5: is talking to I'm. 1025 00:52:42,440 --> 00:52:44,600 Speaker 15: Talking to you, not trying to be nice and I 1026 00:52:44,680 --> 00:52:48,359 Speaker 15: trying to be perfectional. Question, don't you bring little after 1027 00:52:48,480 --> 00:52:51,319 Speaker 15: my office? I'm gonna kick up you ain't singing them 1028 00:52:51,480 --> 00:52:52,400 Speaker 15: and following all of them. 1029 00:52:53,200 --> 00:52:54,759 Speaker 5: Hey, man, I got one more thing I need to 1030 00:52:54,760 --> 00:52:56,920 Speaker 5: say to you. You listen, Yes, what you got. 1031 00:52:56,920 --> 00:53:01,200 Speaker 15: To sell me? What I do not? And sure prostitutes? Okay, 1032 00:53:01,360 --> 00:53:02,320 Speaker 15: what do you have to tell me? 1033 00:53:02,520 --> 00:53:06,080 Speaker 8: I got to tell you this best his nephew Tommy 1034 00:53:06,320 --> 00:53:09,480 Speaker 8: from the Steve Holvey Morning Show. You just got pranked 1035 00:53:09,480 --> 00:53:10,520 Speaker 8: by your boyfriend. 1036 00:53:11,960 --> 00:53:24,880 Speaker 5: Oh Mama, I'm gonna kill that boy. I can I believe? 1037 00:53:26,719 --> 00:53:32,399 Speaker 5: Oh hell, y'all got me? Boy? I adn't. 1038 00:53:32,920 --> 00:53:34,920 Speaker 8: Oh mor let me ask you this here, man, let 1039 00:53:34,960 --> 00:53:37,120 Speaker 8: me ask you this here. What is the baddest I'm 1040 00:53:37,160 --> 00:53:40,960 Speaker 8: talking about the baddest radio show in the land, The 1041 00:53:41,120 --> 00:53:42,480 Speaker 8: Steve Holvey Morning. 1042 00:53:46,600 --> 00:53:52,120 Speaker 1: Okay, sure, that is what we call Sure call girls. 1043 00:53:52,400 --> 00:53:53,000 Speaker 4: It's sure. 1044 00:53:53,480 --> 00:53:57,719 Speaker 16: He's called What Answer Dance? And it's nothing wrong with that. 1045 00:53:57,800 --> 00:54:01,640 Speaker 16: Everybody is surance. The news go minshut down. 1046 00:54:01,719 --> 00:54:12,160 Speaker 1: So yeah, but they're not working. They don't work for him. 1047 00:54:12,320 --> 00:54:17,280 Speaker 1: That's not a Is that a legal profession? Yeah, dancers 1048 00:54:17,719 --> 00:54:20,600 Speaker 1: no no leg to strip pleasure consultants. 1049 00:54:20,680 --> 00:54:27,880 Speaker 6: That's that's what they Okay, little Puffy Okay, gods, okay, 1050 00:54:28,160 --> 00:54:29,160 Speaker 6: keep running your mouth. 1051 00:54:32,960 --> 00:54:34,640 Speaker 4: Oh I got some news for you, Junior. 1052 00:54:35,160 --> 00:54:40,160 Speaker 16: Jo Toasy announced new performance states for twenty twenty sixth. 1053 00:54:40,280 --> 00:54:44,560 Speaker 1: Junior, what are we going? Okay, they're going to remember 1054 00:54:44,960 --> 00:54:47,920 Speaker 1: we uh huh hamm in Indiana and I said they 1055 00:54:48,360 --> 00:54:50,120 Speaker 1: been there going we went on to there. I've been 1056 00:54:50,160 --> 00:54:52,080 Speaker 1: there January sixteenth. 1057 00:54:52,480 --> 00:54:55,080 Speaker 2: I gotta pull my outfice out, I gotta get my house. 1058 00:54:55,200 --> 00:54:56,200 Speaker 7: I gotta get all of us. 1059 00:54:57,640 --> 00:54:59,840 Speaker 2: Of them just going first. That's why they're starting in. 1060 00:55:03,000 --> 00:55:05,040 Speaker 1: Casey Jojo, missus Delvin. 1061 00:55:07,680 --> 00:55:08,879 Speaker 2: That's who supposed to be there. 1062 00:55:11,680 --> 00:55:15,320 Speaker 1: Who's gonna be there Steve, I don't know. 1063 00:55:15,480 --> 00:55:17,480 Speaker 6: That's why they starting in Hammon. They got to start 1064 00:55:17,520 --> 00:55:19,640 Speaker 6: in a small market to see who's gonna show up. 1065 00:55:20,680 --> 00:55:21,560 Speaker 7: We all gonna be there. 1066 00:55:22,080 --> 00:55:23,800 Speaker 2: They didn't show up when they was together. 1067 00:55:26,440 --> 00:55:27,520 Speaker 1: They got a lot of dates. 1068 00:55:27,680 --> 00:55:31,839 Speaker 16: Valentine's Day in California and MoMA's Day in Atlantic City. 1069 00:55:33,200 --> 00:55:34,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, you busy? 1070 00:55:36,640 --> 00:55:36,960 Speaker 4: All right? 1071 00:55:37,080 --> 00:55:40,719 Speaker 11: Coming up next my Strawberry Letters subject How did I 1072 00:55:40,840 --> 00:55:43,200 Speaker 11: miss this over the years. We'll get into it right 1073 00:55:43,239 --> 00:55:47,399 Speaker 11: after this. Hey, everyone, quick health question. Even though you're 1074 00:55:47,440 --> 00:55:50,799 Speaker 11: still thriving, still loving, still connecting, did you know your 1075 00:55:50,840 --> 00:55:54,279 Speaker 11: immune system weakens with age. That's where vaccines come in. 1076 00:55:54,640 --> 00:55:57,520 Speaker 11: They helped train and strengthen your immune response to fight 1077 00:55:57,600 --> 00:56:02,200 Speaker 11: off certain respiratory illnesses like flu, newmacaccle, pneumonia, RSV, and 1078 00:56:02,400 --> 00:56:06,040 Speaker 11: COVID nineteen this fall, ask your doctor which vaccines you 1079 00:56:06,160 --> 00:56:10,399 Speaker 11: need and visit vaxsist dot com that's vaexsist dot com 1080 00:56:10,560 --> 00:56:14,280 Speaker 11: to schedule one or more of vaccines sponsored by Pfizer. 1081 00:56:14,960 --> 00:56:22,879 Speaker 11: You're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show. It is time 1082 00:56:22,960 --> 00:56:25,760 Speaker 11: now for today's Strawberry Letter. And if you need advice 1083 00:56:25,880 --> 00:56:29,560 Speaker 11: on relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting, and more, please submit 1084 00:56:29,640 --> 00:56:32,359 Speaker 11: your Strawberry letter to Steve HARVFM dot com and click 1085 00:56:32,440 --> 00:56:35,759 Speaker 11: submit strawberry letter. We could be reading your letter live 1086 00:56:35,920 --> 00:56:37,920 Speaker 11: on the air, just like we're going to read this 1087 00:56:38,040 --> 00:56:40,200 Speaker 11: one right here, right now, and you never know, it 1088 00:56:40,400 --> 00:56:41,960 Speaker 11: could be yours. 1089 00:56:43,120 --> 00:56:45,279 Speaker 9: All right, ladies and gentlemen, it's time for the strawberry litter. 1090 00:56:45,480 --> 00:56:48,040 Speaker 9: My good friend, Shirley Strawberry. 1091 00:56:47,920 --> 00:56:48,920 Speaker 1: Thank you, my good friend. 1092 00:56:49,040 --> 00:56:53,280 Speaker 11: Junior subject, How did I miss this over the years? 1093 00:56:53,360 --> 00:56:57,200 Speaker 11: How did I miss this over the years? Here's Stephen Shirley. 1094 00:56:57,680 --> 00:57:00,320 Speaker 11: I am forty nine years old. I'm a married and 1095 00:57:00,400 --> 00:57:03,879 Speaker 11: I've known my husband for many years. He's sixty two, 1096 00:57:04,280 --> 00:57:07,080 Speaker 11: and we met through a mutual friend who was a 1097 00:57:07,200 --> 00:57:09,120 Speaker 11: big recreational drug user. 1098 00:57:09,239 --> 00:57:09,920 Speaker 1: Back in the day. 1099 00:57:10,520 --> 00:57:14,480 Speaker 11: That friend was always the life of the party because 1100 00:57:14,520 --> 00:57:17,360 Speaker 11: he had his pills to keep him happy. My husband 1101 00:57:17,400 --> 00:57:20,280 Speaker 11: and I laughed about the friend back then because all 1102 00:57:20,360 --> 00:57:23,200 Speaker 11: we did was smoke marijuana. Now I think that my 1103 00:57:23,360 --> 00:57:26,440 Speaker 11: husband is doing a little more than that. Some days 1104 00:57:26,520 --> 00:57:29,000 Speaker 11: his eyes are red and some days his eyes are 1105 00:57:29,080 --> 00:57:33,600 Speaker 11: swollen looking. He said it's allergies, but he's never had allergies. 1106 00:57:33,960 --> 00:57:36,160 Speaker 11: Then I noticed that my cash would be short in 1107 00:57:36,240 --> 00:57:39,440 Speaker 11: my purse. I still prefer to use cash over my 1108 00:57:39,560 --> 00:57:42,080 Speaker 11: debit card, so I keep at least one hundred dollars 1109 00:57:42,160 --> 00:57:42,600 Speaker 11: in cash. 1110 00:57:43,160 --> 00:57:44,320 Speaker 1: I could not accuse my. 1111 00:57:44,400 --> 00:57:46,720 Speaker 11: Husband of stealing from me because I leave my perse 1112 00:57:46,800 --> 00:57:50,440 Speaker 11: in my cubicle at work unattended a lot. Anyone in 1113 00:57:50,560 --> 00:57:53,480 Speaker 11: my office could have taken my money. My sister in 1114 00:57:53,600 --> 00:57:56,920 Speaker 11: law said that my coworkers didn't steal my money. It 1115 00:57:57,280 --> 00:58:00,480 Speaker 11: was my husband, who is her brother. She said he 1116 00:58:00,560 --> 00:58:02,680 Speaker 11: used to borrow money from her, but he ruined that 1117 00:58:02,760 --> 00:58:05,720 Speaker 11: privilege by not paying her back a few times. She 1118 00:58:05,840 --> 00:58:08,120 Speaker 11: said that he's always been on some kind of pills, 1119 00:58:08,640 --> 00:58:11,280 Speaker 11: but he was able to keep it under control, but 1120 00:58:11,440 --> 00:58:13,800 Speaker 11: now it's getting bad because he has too much free 1121 00:58:13,920 --> 00:58:17,280 Speaker 11: time on his hands. He does sleep a lot during 1122 00:58:17,320 --> 00:58:20,160 Speaker 11: the day, and he's wired at night, and he likes 1123 00:58:20,240 --> 00:58:23,640 Speaker 11: to cook big meals at night. I wanted to see 1124 00:58:23,800 --> 00:58:26,520 Speaker 11: for myself if he'd steal from me, so I left 1125 00:58:26,600 --> 00:58:29,000 Speaker 11: some cash in the top of my purse. He took 1126 00:58:29,120 --> 00:58:32,360 Speaker 11: that money within two hours. When I asked him about it, 1127 00:58:32,440 --> 00:58:34,440 Speaker 11: he said he was going to use it for groceries. 1128 00:58:34,720 --> 00:58:36,960 Speaker 11: How could I be living with him and not know 1129 00:58:37,280 --> 00:58:42,200 Speaker 11: about the drugs. Should I confront him or leave? Well, honestly, 1130 00:58:42,760 --> 00:58:45,520 Speaker 11: it's not hard to miss what your husband has been 1131 00:58:45,600 --> 00:58:48,480 Speaker 11: doing because guess what I mean, you're not really looking 1132 00:58:48,760 --> 00:58:52,200 Speaker 11: for that. To you, it's simply inconceivable to think that 1133 00:58:52,320 --> 00:58:54,920 Speaker 11: your own husband would do such a thing. But it's 1134 00:58:54,960 --> 00:58:57,800 Speaker 11: staring right at you, and you didn't want to believe 1135 00:58:57,880 --> 00:59:00,720 Speaker 11: the truth. You want to think it's everyone else but him, 1136 00:59:00,920 --> 00:59:04,640 Speaker 11: your coworkers, the kids, friends, whoever, Just not this man 1137 00:59:04,720 --> 00:59:07,040 Speaker 11: that you sleep with every night and you trust with 1138 00:59:07,200 --> 00:59:10,000 Speaker 11: your life. But your sister in law told you it 1139 00:59:10,280 --> 00:59:13,400 Speaker 11: was him, and he's doing this right under your nose 1140 00:59:13,520 --> 00:59:16,720 Speaker 11: because he knows you trust him like that. But then 1141 00:59:16,800 --> 00:59:20,360 Speaker 11: it starts happening so much it becomes obvious that it 1142 00:59:20,480 --> 00:59:25,080 Speaker 11: can't be anyone else but him. Then reality sets in, Yes, 1143 00:59:25,400 --> 00:59:28,280 Speaker 11: it's him, it's my husband. He already did it to 1144 00:59:28,400 --> 00:59:30,960 Speaker 11: his sister. Then you set a trap in your purse 1145 00:59:31,080 --> 00:59:34,120 Speaker 11: for him, and that money was gone in two hours flat. 1146 00:59:34,640 --> 00:59:38,480 Speaker 11: So you see, that's how things can happen when you're 1147 00:59:38,520 --> 00:59:41,320 Speaker 11: living with the man and not know your husband needs 1148 00:59:41,360 --> 00:59:45,680 Speaker 11: some serious help. Should you confront him? You ask, Yes, 1149 00:59:45,760 --> 00:59:48,240 Speaker 11: of course you should confront him and ask him what's 1150 00:59:48,280 --> 00:59:49,520 Speaker 11: going on. He's your husband. 1151 00:59:49,560 --> 00:59:50,520 Speaker 1: You have a right to do that. 1152 00:59:51,000 --> 00:59:53,000 Speaker 11: But just keep in mind he's going to lie to 1153 00:59:53,080 --> 00:59:56,240 Speaker 11: you about everything. You'll never get the truth. 1154 00:59:56,600 --> 01:00:00,920 Speaker 6: Steve Well, I appreciate you you're writing a letter in 1155 01:00:02,000 --> 01:00:04,120 Speaker 6: but at the end of all of what Shirley read, 1156 01:00:04,200 --> 01:00:08,440 Speaker 6: your question is should I confront him or leave? I 1157 01:00:08,800 --> 01:00:14,160 Speaker 6: don't see how you don't breach the subject. I don't 1158 01:00:14,160 --> 01:00:16,680 Speaker 6: see how you how you haven't bought it up yet. 1159 01:00:18,320 --> 01:00:20,280 Speaker 6: You either love your husband, you want to help him, 1160 01:00:20,400 --> 01:00:23,400 Speaker 6: or you want to leave him. That's really up to you. 1161 01:00:23,880 --> 01:00:25,760 Speaker 6: You know, I didn't hear nothing about you all having 1162 01:00:25,800 --> 01:00:29,560 Speaker 6: a great relationship. He's a loving husband, he's a wonderful father, 1163 01:00:30,240 --> 01:00:32,760 Speaker 6: he takes care of you. All that said, all of them, 1164 01:00:32,840 --> 01:00:36,320 Speaker 6: and know is he still? That's all I know? And 1165 01:00:36,440 --> 01:00:40,000 Speaker 6: he's sixty two and you're living with a sixty two 1166 01:00:40,240 --> 01:00:43,800 Speaker 6: year old thief. You said you like to keep cash 1167 01:00:43,920 --> 01:00:46,560 Speaker 6: in your pocket, so you always got a hundred, Well 1168 01:00:46,760 --> 01:00:51,000 Speaker 6: that's gone too. You say you leave your person alone 1169 01:00:51,080 --> 01:00:53,280 Speaker 6: and your cubicle, let work, so it could be one 1170 01:00:53,360 --> 01:00:53,680 Speaker 6: of your. 1171 01:00:53,600 --> 01:00:54,959 Speaker 2: Coworkers where you live? 1172 01:00:55,880 --> 01:00:56,640 Speaker 10: Why you work? 1173 01:00:56,800 --> 01:00:59,400 Speaker 7: Who do that? Put your person? 1174 01:00:59,520 --> 01:00:59,920 Speaker 10: Your joy? 1175 01:01:00,000 --> 01:01:00,160 Speaker 5: Oh? 1176 01:01:00,280 --> 01:01:01,120 Speaker 10: What you doing? 1177 01:01:02,080 --> 01:01:05,840 Speaker 6: This is the United States of America. You don't live 1178 01:01:05,960 --> 01:01:09,680 Speaker 6: on fantasy island over in Fiji. Nowhere, ain't nobody stealing nothing. 1179 01:01:10,240 --> 01:01:12,440 Speaker 6: You live in a city where people can steal and 1180 01:01:12,600 --> 01:01:15,000 Speaker 6: drive off. See, if you live on an island. It's 1181 01:01:15,200 --> 01:01:18,240 Speaker 6: less theft on an island because you can't go nowhere. 1182 01:01:19,480 --> 01:01:21,240 Speaker 6: We can come over your house, or we can run 1183 01:01:21,280 --> 01:01:27,560 Speaker 6: around in a circle, but we gonna see you. You lady, 1184 01:01:27,840 --> 01:01:31,000 Speaker 6: and you're his best friend. Was the life of the party, 1185 01:01:31,320 --> 01:01:35,840 Speaker 6: a huge recreational drug user. Birds of a feather flock together. 1186 01:01:36,120 --> 01:01:39,800 Speaker 6: If you keep associating with bad people, you gonna become 1187 01:01:39,960 --> 01:01:42,320 Speaker 6: one of them. All you have to do is somebody 1188 01:01:42,400 --> 01:01:46,360 Speaker 6: describes this to me. One time, somebody said, Steve, right, 1189 01:01:46,520 --> 01:01:50,600 Speaker 6: your closest, five closest friends named on a piece of paper. 1190 01:01:52,920 --> 01:01:53,320 Speaker 2: I did it. 1191 01:01:53,440 --> 01:01:56,480 Speaker 6: He said, Now describe who they are, what type of 1192 01:01:56,520 --> 01:01:57,680 Speaker 6: person they are, and what they do. 1193 01:01:58,400 --> 01:01:58,840 Speaker 2: I did it. 1194 01:02:00,080 --> 01:02:06,200 Speaker 6: He said, cool. Now that's you right there. He said, 1195 01:02:06,320 --> 01:02:09,440 Speaker 6: that's who you are because see, your friends, you get 1196 01:02:09,520 --> 01:02:12,040 Speaker 6: to pick them. He didn't ask me who was my 1197 01:02:12,200 --> 01:02:16,320 Speaker 6: five closest family members. He said friends, because you picked them. 1198 01:02:17,480 --> 01:02:26,600 Speaker 6: Your husband picked the extreme recreational drug user. And y'all 1199 01:02:26,720 --> 01:02:30,800 Speaker 6: laughed at him because all y'all did was smoke weed. Well, 1200 01:02:30,840 --> 01:02:36,360 Speaker 6: they're doing more than that. Now his eyes are swollen. 1201 01:02:38,200 --> 01:02:39,320 Speaker 1: He's fitty at allergy. 1202 01:02:40,840 --> 01:02:41,400 Speaker 10: She said, he. 1203 01:02:41,360 --> 01:02:50,440 Speaker 6: Ain't never had no allergy. He fiending you need to 1204 01:02:50,480 --> 01:02:52,919 Speaker 6: find out what he's taking, because that ain't weed. People 1205 01:02:52,960 --> 01:02:56,920 Speaker 6: don't steal for weed. That's most weed smokers. Now, I 1206 01:02:57,000 --> 01:02:58,919 Speaker 6: ain't never seen nobody steal for weed. 1207 01:03:00,120 --> 01:03:03,160 Speaker 11: All right, we'll have part two of Steve's response coming 1208 01:03:03,240 --> 01:03:06,080 Speaker 11: up at twenty three minutes to after the hour. Today's 1209 01:03:06,080 --> 01:03:08,160 Speaker 11: strawberry letter subject how did I miss. 1210 01:03:08,040 --> 01:03:11,360 Speaker 1: This over the years. We'll get back on to it Stowe. 1211 01:03:12,640 --> 01:03:16,919 Speaker 11: Right after fIF you're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1212 01:03:21,400 --> 01:03:23,800 Speaker 9: If you're a homeowner, you know it took years of saving, 1213 01:03:24,000 --> 01:03:26,160 Speaker 9: planning and hard work to get in the door then 1214 01:03:26,240 --> 01:03:27,120 Speaker 9: make that house a home. 1215 01:03:27,440 --> 01:03:28,720 Speaker 1: Now, all that effort has. 1216 01:03:28,640 --> 01:03:31,960 Speaker 9: Built something hugely valuable, equity. It's the portion of your 1217 01:03:32,000 --> 01:03:33,880 Speaker 9: home you truly own that can be tapped to fun 1218 01:03:34,040 --> 01:03:36,200 Speaker 9: what's next, And Rocket Mortgage is here to help you 1219 01:03:36,320 --> 01:03:39,560 Speaker 9: turn your home's equity into cash. Fund your next dream 1220 01:03:39,640 --> 01:03:42,600 Speaker 9: with Rocket Mortgage. 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It's always missing. 1230 01:04:13,120 --> 01:04:16,080 Speaker 6: You even did a test. You put some money out 1231 01:04:17,520 --> 01:04:20,880 Speaker 6: somewhere and within two hours it was gone. When you 1232 01:04:20,960 --> 01:04:22,960 Speaker 6: confronted your husband, he said he was going to buy 1233 01:04:23,000 --> 01:04:23,560 Speaker 6: some groceries. 1234 01:04:23,840 --> 01:04:24,720 Speaker 2: Now let me. 1235 01:04:27,080 --> 01:04:29,920 Speaker 6: Let me give you an example of what's wrong, hire, 1236 01:04:30,000 --> 01:04:34,960 Speaker 6: because I think you needed listen to. His sister told 1237 01:04:35,120 --> 01:04:38,160 Speaker 6: you that the money that's missing from your purse is 1238 01:04:38,280 --> 01:04:41,720 Speaker 6: not from coworkers, it's from him. And this is her 1239 01:04:41,840 --> 01:04:45,320 Speaker 6: brother who can no longer borrow money from her because 1240 01:04:45,400 --> 01:04:51,880 Speaker 6: he didn't pay it back. Now that's your sister in 1241 01:04:51,960 --> 01:04:55,640 Speaker 6: law who said that, and he don't pay it back. 1242 01:04:55,880 --> 01:04:57,720 Speaker 2: She said that he's. 1243 01:04:57,680 --> 01:05:00,280 Speaker 6: Always been on some kind of pills, but he was 1244 01:05:00,320 --> 01:05:02,720 Speaker 6: able to keep it under control, and now he's getting 1245 01:05:03,200 --> 01:05:06,320 Speaker 6: bad because he got too much free time on his hands. 1246 01:05:06,680 --> 01:05:10,480 Speaker 6: So now let's start getting into this letter rack. She 1247 01:05:10,720 --> 01:05:13,240 Speaker 6: told you because your husband got too much free time 1248 01:05:13,320 --> 01:05:16,880 Speaker 6: on his hand. He does sleep a lot doing the day, 1249 01:05:17,080 --> 01:05:20,479 Speaker 6: and he's wide at night, and he likes to cook 1250 01:05:20,560 --> 01:05:21,480 Speaker 6: big meals at night. 1251 01:05:21,680 --> 01:05:22,760 Speaker 2: Where your way he worked. 1252 01:05:25,040 --> 01:05:26,200 Speaker 1: There's no mention of that. 1253 01:05:27,960 --> 01:05:28,920 Speaker 7: He sleeps a. 1254 01:05:29,000 --> 01:05:32,600 Speaker 6: Lot doing the day, and he cooked big meals at night. 1255 01:05:33,200 --> 01:05:39,400 Speaker 6: Where do he work? We got a bigger problem than 1256 01:05:39,480 --> 01:05:44,120 Speaker 6: this money missing from your purse because he ain't got 1257 01:05:44,200 --> 01:05:48,880 Speaker 6: no money. Then you said you wanted to see if 1258 01:05:48,920 --> 01:05:52,480 Speaker 6: he's still for yourself. I left some cash in the 1259 01:05:52,560 --> 01:05:54,880 Speaker 6: top of my purse. He took the money within two hours. 1260 01:05:55,480 --> 01:05:56,920 Speaker 6: When I asked him about it, he said he was 1261 01:05:56,960 --> 01:05:59,480 Speaker 6: going to use it for groceries. How could I be 1262 01:05:59,600 --> 01:06:02,480 Speaker 6: living with him and not know about the drugs? Should 1263 01:06:02,520 --> 01:06:09,040 Speaker 6: I confront him or leaves? I don't see how you 1264 01:06:09,160 --> 01:06:13,120 Speaker 6: have stayed. He sleep all day and he cooked big 1265 01:06:13,240 --> 01:06:14,040 Speaker 6: meals at night. 1266 01:06:16,080 --> 01:06:17,760 Speaker 10: Where do he work? 1267 01:06:19,920 --> 01:06:24,080 Speaker 1: And who's he cooking for? Putting on the food? 1268 01:06:25,400 --> 01:06:26,480 Speaker 2: Where is my money? 1269 01:06:29,000 --> 01:06:29,680 Speaker 10: He saw it? 1270 01:06:32,240 --> 01:06:33,120 Speaker 7: What is you buying? 1271 01:06:33,520 --> 01:06:35,480 Speaker 6: Why I ain't seen You ain't came in here with 1272 01:06:37,160 --> 01:06:39,520 Speaker 6: no dish washing liquid. You ain't came in here with 1273 01:06:39,640 --> 01:06:42,680 Speaker 6: no toilet tissue. You ain't brought no milk in here? 1274 01:06:44,400 --> 01:06:47,800 Speaker 6: Where are you taking this money? And what are you buying? 1275 01:06:49,520 --> 01:06:57,080 Speaker 10: And why don't you work? What is all this food 1276 01:06:57,200 --> 01:06:58,600 Speaker 10: you keep cooking and you ain't. 1277 01:06:58,400 --> 01:07:03,000 Speaker 1: Grocery shopping money from her to Where are you. 1278 01:07:03,080 --> 01:07:04,360 Speaker 10: Taking all this food too? 1279 01:07:04,720 --> 01:07:06,200 Speaker 1: What's cooking for? 1280 01:07:08,400 --> 01:07:11,000 Speaker 6: You cooked a pot of black eyed peas last night? 1281 01:07:11,440 --> 01:07:13,720 Speaker 6: You made a pot of pinto beans tonight? 1282 01:07:13,880 --> 01:07:16,440 Speaker 1: What what was your feet rice? 1283 01:07:18,120 --> 01:07:20,280 Speaker 6: You're taking this down to the trap house and all 1284 01:07:20,400 --> 01:07:27,400 Speaker 6: y'all sitting around getting high. You don't have a catering business. 1285 01:07:27,840 --> 01:07:29,320 Speaker 6: Why why aren't you working? 1286 01:07:29,920 --> 01:07:31,440 Speaker 1: But who cooks like that at night? 1287 01:07:33,680 --> 01:07:37,120 Speaker 2: He been he burned his energy? Shure? 1288 01:07:37,880 --> 01:07:44,720 Speaker 6: Yeah, he meal prepping. Lady, should you confront him a lead? 1289 01:07:45,040 --> 01:07:47,120 Speaker 6: I don't know how you stayed. I don't know how 1290 01:07:47,200 --> 01:07:49,600 Speaker 6: you missed it, But now you know there is a problem. 1291 01:07:51,160 --> 01:07:54,320 Speaker 6: You haven't mentioned one redeeming quality that this man has. 1292 01:07:54,600 --> 01:07:57,240 Speaker 6: He's a great husband, a great provider, great father. You 1293 01:07:57,360 --> 01:08:00,600 Speaker 6: never mentioned money of that. He just sleep all day, 1294 01:08:00,760 --> 01:08:04,200 Speaker 6: cook all night and steal your money. You can't keep 1295 01:08:04,240 --> 01:08:09,000 Speaker 6: a hunt. Now, let me take a shot at what 1296 01:08:09,240 --> 01:08:09,880 Speaker 6: peel is he? 1297 01:08:10,560 --> 01:08:10,920 Speaker 1: Okay? 1298 01:08:13,000 --> 01:08:15,880 Speaker 2: I think you living with a sixty two year old crackhead. 1299 01:08:16,200 --> 01:08:18,040 Speaker 2: What I I'll go with that. 1300 01:08:19,320 --> 01:08:23,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, wow, that's extreme. 1301 01:08:24,520 --> 01:08:28,280 Speaker 2: Crack ain't really when been up, lady, they really it's 1302 01:08:28,320 --> 01:08:35,799 Speaker 2: not a pill. It looked like it. If you mixed 1303 01:08:35,840 --> 01:08:38,360 Speaker 2: him to yo. You sixty two, you can't see like 1304 01:08:38,439 --> 01:08:39,560 Speaker 2: you see no how it looked like. 1305 01:08:40,240 --> 01:08:42,720 Speaker 1: But he went from smoking weed all the way to that. 1306 01:08:43,479 --> 01:08:43,719 Speaker 2: Wow. 1307 01:08:44,760 --> 01:08:50,880 Speaker 6: Most people that's junkie started with weed junkie because he's 1308 01:08:50,920 --> 01:08:52,120 Speaker 6: sixty two here a junkie? 1309 01:08:53,880 --> 01:08:55,040 Speaker 1: Are we in the seventies? 1310 01:08:56,840 --> 01:09:06,000 Speaker 6: That's what he started. He's sixty two here junk Yeah. Now, 1311 01:09:06,120 --> 01:09:11,160 Speaker 6: back in the seventies, Hu I went to White College. 1312 01:09:11,400 --> 01:09:13,880 Speaker 6: LSD was big. That's a who Listen, Jenny, you don't 1313 01:09:13,920 --> 01:09:15,080 Speaker 6: want to take that ubi. 1314 01:09:17,520 --> 01:09:22,439 Speaker 1: Holly Holly Knights. 1315 01:09:25,240 --> 01:09:28,400 Speaker 6: Okay, So that's the first time I fell sad for 1316 01:09:28,479 --> 01:09:30,799 Speaker 6: that pet. I didn't like the pair because it squapped all. 1317 01:09:30,720 --> 01:09:33,280 Speaker 2: Night long, you know, acause they stayed up all night. 1318 01:09:33,360 --> 01:09:34,360 Speaker 2: We're not gonna. 1319 01:09:34,600 --> 01:09:37,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, she definitely should confront him though about this. 1320 01:09:38,000 --> 01:09:41,160 Speaker 6: Yeah, I think you should confront him and then leave. Yeah, 1321 01:09:41,439 --> 01:09:43,320 Speaker 6: all right, you want to be married to the sixties 1322 01:09:43,360 --> 01:09:44,400 Speaker 6: two year old crackhead. 1323 01:09:44,400 --> 01:09:47,960 Speaker 11: But I can poster comments on today's Strawberry Letter at 1324 01:09:48,000 --> 01:09:51,280 Speaker 11: Steve Harbery FM on Instagram and Facebook, and check out 1325 01:09:51,320 --> 01:09:55,760 Speaker 11: the Strawberry Letter podcast on the free iHeartRadio app Free 1326 01:09:55,840 --> 01:09:59,400 Speaker 11: Never Sounded So good. You can download it today. Now 1327 01:09:59,560 --> 01:10:02,120 Speaker 11: coming up, But forty six minutes after the hour, we 1328 01:10:02,240 --> 01:10:06,200 Speaker 11: got Junior Juniors in for Junior with Sports Talk right 1329 01:10:06,240 --> 01:10:06,640 Speaker 11: after this. 1330 01:10:08,280 --> 01:10:09,840 Speaker 7: You have no idea what it is. 1331 01:10:10,000 --> 01:10:12,320 Speaker 1: This is Carlos Miller and this may or may not 1332 01:10:12,479 --> 01:10:14,080 Speaker 1: be the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1333 01:10:14,280 --> 01:10:21,160 Speaker 11: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Hey, everyone, 1334 01:10:21,439 --> 01:10:24,960 Speaker 11: quick health question. Even though you're still thriving, still loving, 1335 01:10:25,120 --> 01:10:28,719 Speaker 11: still connecting, did you know your immune system weakens with age. 1336 01:10:28,880 --> 01:10:31,920 Speaker 11: That's where vaccines come in. They help train and strengthen 1337 01:10:32,000 --> 01:10:35,720 Speaker 11: your immune response to fight off certain respiratory illnesses like flu, 1338 01:10:35,920 --> 01:10:40,439 Speaker 11: new macacle, pneumonia, RSV, and COVID nineteen this fall, ask 1339 01:10:40,479 --> 01:10:43,880 Speaker 11: your doctor which vaccines you need and visit vaxsist dot 1340 01:10:43,960 --> 01:10:47,800 Speaker 11: com that's vaexsist dot com to schedule one or more 1341 01:10:47,840 --> 01:10:51,880 Speaker 11: of vaccines sponsored by Pfizer. It is time now for 1342 01:10:52,080 --> 01:10:53,559 Speaker 11: Junior and Sports Talk. 1343 01:10:53,640 --> 01:10:54,519 Speaker 1: What you got Junior? 1344 01:10:54,600 --> 01:10:56,679 Speaker 9: All right, So first let me just tell Charles, South 1345 01:10:56,760 --> 01:11:00,120 Speaker 9: Carolina and Atlantic City. This weekend Friday and Charles North 1346 01:11:00,160 --> 01:11:02,880 Speaker 9: Carolina at the Sea Pack and then at Boardwalk Hall 1347 01:11:02,960 --> 01:11:03,880 Speaker 9: in Atlantic. 1348 01:11:03,600 --> 01:11:04,519 Speaker 1: City on Sunday. 1349 01:11:05,000 --> 01:11:08,840 Speaker 9: It's a legend laughter tour in Atlanta, Atlantic City Comedy Festival. 1350 01:11:08,880 --> 01:11:10,960 Speaker 9: That's what I'm be doing, Uncle, going to do comedy 1351 01:11:11,040 --> 01:11:15,880 Speaker 9: Festival's everybody on the show, some more Laville, Crawford, d C. 1352 01:11:16,080 --> 01:11:20,000 Speaker 1: Curry, Gary Owen, Quake, everybody. 1353 01:11:19,720 --> 01:11:21,599 Speaker 9: That's in Atlantic City. But then you know we're gonna 1354 01:11:21,600 --> 01:11:24,000 Speaker 9: be at Charles South Carolina. All right, let's get to it, man. 1355 01:11:24,000 --> 01:11:25,479 Speaker 9: You know you had your game of the week on 1356 01:11:25,560 --> 01:11:28,520 Speaker 9: Monday night football. You had the Chiefs and the Jaguars, 1357 01:11:28,760 --> 01:11:32,439 Speaker 9: and you said, and I quote, upset of the week 1358 01:11:33,000 --> 01:11:35,040 Speaker 9: jag Wars over the Chiefs. 1359 01:11:35,360 --> 01:11:38,400 Speaker 1: And I got to tell you, uncle, that Jaguars beat 1360 01:11:38,479 --> 01:11:39,360 Speaker 1: the Chiefs. 1361 01:11:40,040 --> 01:11:41,400 Speaker 4: Thirty one eight. 1362 01:11:45,920 --> 01:11:49,960 Speaker 1: Told you how did you get that upset? 1363 01:11:50,360 --> 01:11:50,519 Speaker 16: You know? 1364 01:11:50,600 --> 01:11:58,240 Speaker 2: I had gotten so many wrong, you know, it just 1365 01:11:58,520 --> 01:11:59,920 Speaker 2: I had to follow the trend. 1366 01:12:02,280 --> 01:12:02,479 Speaker 1: Yeah. 1367 01:12:03,040 --> 01:12:03,240 Speaker 4: Yeah. 1368 01:12:03,560 --> 01:12:06,400 Speaker 7: And it's a little weird, man, man, because you gotta. 1369 01:12:06,160 --> 01:12:08,759 Speaker 1: Think about the Jacks four and one and the Chiefs 1370 01:12:08,840 --> 01:12:13,400 Speaker 1: are two and three. That's crazy. That's crazy. Is crazy, 1371 01:12:13,640 --> 01:12:14,559 Speaker 1: that is crazy. 1372 01:12:15,560 --> 01:12:18,600 Speaker 6: That's crazy. I tell you what's crazy. The Browns is 1373 01:12:18,680 --> 01:12:22,840 Speaker 6: crazy and the textas is crazy crazy, and we're sitting 1374 01:12:22,920 --> 01:12:26,599 Speaker 6: up hoping they win every Sunday. Just open. 1375 01:12:27,320 --> 01:12:31,320 Speaker 2: What's the Texans record? Junior two and three? What's the 1376 01:12:31,400 --> 01:12:32,920 Speaker 2: Browns record? One in four? 1377 01:12:33,240 --> 01:12:33,400 Speaker 5: Oh? 1378 01:12:34,760 --> 01:12:35,680 Speaker 1: Is that an improvement? 1379 01:12:36,240 --> 01:12:39,320 Speaker 6: That's no, that ain't far off though, one in four, 1380 01:12:39,439 --> 01:12:42,080 Speaker 6: two and three, you ain't in one game away. It's 1381 01:12:42,120 --> 01:12:43,200 Speaker 6: still disappointing. 1382 01:12:44,280 --> 01:12:48,560 Speaker 1: Let's talk about this. Your boy, Lebron James has a decision. 1383 01:12:48,640 --> 01:12:52,439 Speaker 9: The big decision will be announced today at twelve o'clock Eastern. 1384 01:12:52,600 --> 01:12:55,360 Speaker 9: You remember he had the decision the first time, said 1385 01:12:55,360 --> 01:12:57,720 Speaker 9: he's taking his town to South Beach. Yeah, well he's 1386 01:12:57,720 --> 01:13:00,280 Speaker 9: finna do it now it's the second decision. Don't know 1387 01:13:00,320 --> 01:13:02,160 Speaker 9: what this is gonna be. He's finna do it again 1388 01:13:02,240 --> 01:13:03,920 Speaker 9: today at noon, he's. 1389 01:13:04,120 --> 01:13:06,479 Speaker 2: Gonna he's gonna make a decision on whether he's gonna 1390 01:13:06,520 --> 01:13:08,280 Speaker 2: play or not or go to another team. 1391 01:13:08,439 --> 01:13:10,200 Speaker 1: They didn't give it. He didn't give us no clues, 1392 01:13:10,280 --> 01:13:12,519 Speaker 1: no nothing. He just said, the second decision. 1393 01:13:12,680 --> 01:13:13,080 Speaker 4: We don't know. 1394 01:13:13,120 --> 01:13:14,920 Speaker 1: It could be it could be that could be. 1395 01:13:14,960 --> 01:13:17,280 Speaker 2: He he said, the second decision. 1396 01:13:17,120 --> 01:13:22,000 Speaker 1: The second decision, where could you golf? I don't know. 1397 01:13:25,000 --> 01:13:27,960 Speaker 2: Is how he's not helping me pay none of these bills. 1398 01:13:28,040 --> 01:13:28,439 Speaker 4: I got it. 1399 01:13:29,320 --> 01:13:30,760 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna trip by the time. 1400 01:13:31,120 --> 01:13:34,679 Speaker 2: I promise you. Whatever he do, I'm gonna be fine 1401 01:13:34,840 --> 01:13:35,160 Speaker 2: with it. 1402 01:13:36,680 --> 01:13:37,160 Speaker 4: That part. 1403 01:13:37,320 --> 01:13:39,840 Speaker 2: I'm still gonna be a Lebron James fan. 1404 01:13:40,200 --> 01:13:42,640 Speaker 6: Yeah, I's still gonna love him for finally bringing the 1405 01:13:42,720 --> 01:13:47,519 Speaker 6: title to Cleveland. He got my utmost highest respect. He's 1406 01:13:47,560 --> 01:13:50,480 Speaker 6: one of the greatest athletes ever involved in the community. 1407 01:13:51,680 --> 01:13:54,600 Speaker 6: To you, lebrown't care if you quit. Played trouble. 1408 01:13:56,320 --> 01:13:56,400 Speaker 8: Up. 1409 01:13:56,439 --> 01:13:58,639 Speaker 11: At the top of the hour, a woman on social 1410 01:13:58,680 --> 01:14:02,559 Speaker 11: media needs your advice, Steve. She says, breakup timing feels right. 1411 01:14:03,080 --> 01:14:04,680 Speaker 11: We'll talk about it right after this. 1412 01:14:05,360 --> 01:14:12,400 Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Steve. This 1413 01:14:12,600 --> 01:14:14,840 Speaker 1: is Victoria on Steve Harvey FM. 1414 01:14:15,040 --> 01:14:17,720 Speaker 11: She says, I'm in a relationship that feels like it's 1415 01:14:17,800 --> 01:14:21,160 Speaker 11: already run its course. I care about my boyfriend, and 1416 01:14:21,240 --> 01:14:24,759 Speaker 11: I think he knows deep down that this isn't forever. 1417 01:14:25,240 --> 01:14:28,320 Speaker 11: But every time I think about ending it, something happens. 1418 01:14:28,439 --> 01:14:31,840 Speaker 11: Family drama, work, stress, health scares, and I don't want 1419 01:14:31,880 --> 01:14:35,360 Speaker 11: to pile heartbreak on top of everything else. At this point, 1420 01:14:35,720 --> 01:14:39,360 Speaker 11: it feels like we're only together because breaking up hasn't 1421 01:14:39,400 --> 01:14:44,479 Speaker 11: been quote convenient. Do I rip off the bandage bandage now, 1422 01:14:45,280 --> 01:14:48,800 Speaker 11: bandage now, or wait for some mythical quote better time 1423 01:14:48,960 --> 01:14:49,840 Speaker 11: that may never come. 1424 01:14:51,160 --> 01:14:51,640 Speaker 2: Well, so it. 1425 01:14:51,680 --> 01:14:53,840 Speaker 6: Seems to me like there's a lot wrong with him. 1426 01:14:53,920 --> 01:14:56,840 Speaker 6: Sometimes you just be with the wrong person. You know, 1427 01:14:57,080 --> 01:14:59,040 Speaker 6: bad stuff happening to him all time. 1428 01:15:00,400 --> 01:15:03,880 Speaker 2: He's sick, he's got. 1429 01:15:03,880 --> 01:15:05,960 Speaker 1: Layoff, family drama. 1430 01:15:07,640 --> 01:15:09,920 Speaker 2: Mama and them got in the fight at the barbecue. 1431 01:15:10,000 --> 01:15:10,760 Speaker 10: Security came. 1432 01:15:10,840 --> 01:15:12,320 Speaker 2: He had to bail his daddy out. 1433 01:15:13,400 --> 01:15:16,160 Speaker 6: You know, you sometimes you could just be in the 1434 01:15:16,280 --> 01:15:20,439 Speaker 6: wrong family. And if you know that his run is 1435 01:15:20,560 --> 01:15:23,439 Speaker 6: course and it ain't gonna get no better, get out now. 1436 01:15:24,200 --> 01:15:26,639 Speaker 1: Yeah, women always stay longer than they should. 1437 01:15:26,800 --> 01:15:31,439 Speaker 2: They stop worrying about breaking his heart. He can handle it. 1438 01:15:32,160 --> 01:15:32,479 Speaker 15: He can. 1439 01:15:32,680 --> 01:15:34,200 Speaker 2: He ain't working nowhere. 1440 01:15:36,640 --> 01:15:38,440 Speaker 10: Mama and daddy got arrested. 1441 01:15:39,320 --> 01:15:41,879 Speaker 1: He doesn't want to add to his stress though. 1442 01:15:43,760 --> 01:15:46,000 Speaker 6: So what you can't go over his house? Then took 1443 01:15:46,040 --> 01:15:51,200 Speaker 6: the house from him. There's nothing going right, So you say. 1444 01:15:51,080 --> 01:15:55,360 Speaker 1: It out now yet now forget, forget anywhere. 1445 01:15:55,800 --> 01:15:58,519 Speaker 2: It's some more bad news coming up follows him. It's 1446 01:15:58,600 --> 01:16:03,760 Speaker 2: like a rain cloud on him. Listen to me. 1447 01:16:04,360 --> 01:16:07,759 Speaker 6: Some people have things happening for them because it's payback 1448 01:16:07,840 --> 01:16:09,160 Speaker 6: for a lot of stuff you ain't. 1449 01:16:09,000 --> 01:16:12,200 Speaker 2: Got to sit through day pay back. Let him pay 1450 01:16:12,280 --> 01:16:13,559 Speaker 2: his dues by hisself. 1451 01:16:14,200 --> 01:16:19,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, he's one of those people where you say, what's wrong. Yeah, 1452 01:16:20,560 --> 01:16:22,240 Speaker 1: my mom used to say what's wrong? 1453 01:16:22,400 --> 01:16:23,240 Speaker 2: Now, that's right. 1454 01:16:23,680 --> 01:16:27,880 Speaker 1: I think y'all should be more sensitive to that man. 1455 01:16:27,960 --> 01:16:30,120 Speaker 1: That man going through a lot. I've been there before, 1456 01:16:31,800 --> 01:16:36,439 Speaker 1: really family drama, going through it by the hospital. 1457 01:16:36,520 --> 01:16:38,439 Speaker 9: She just left my bed as soon as I went under, 1458 01:16:40,560 --> 01:16:43,160 Speaker 9: like what as soon as my soon as my medication 1459 01:16:43,280 --> 01:16:45,200 Speaker 9: kicked in in the crisis, she broke up with me 1460 01:16:45,320 --> 01:16:46,439 Speaker 9: right then while I was up. 1461 01:16:50,080 --> 01:16:51,000 Speaker 2: I wasn't even awake. 1462 01:16:51,560 --> 01:16:53,760 Speaker 6: That way, you could go on and fully healed under 1463 01:16:53,800 --> 01:16:57,799 Speaker 6: the right and then when you come out of your crisis, 1464 01:16:58,439 --> 01:17:01,240 Speaker 6: then you deal with the other prices. What she didn't 1465 01:17:01,240 --> 01:17:03,919 Speaker 6: want to do is have you handling two crisis. 1466 01:17:05,560 --> 01:17:07,760 Speaker 1: Okay, I know you think you are, but you're not. 1467 01:17:08,560 --> 01:17:11,960 Speaker 6: That that was a beautiful thing like that waited till 1468 01:17:12,000 --> 01:17:15,120 Speaker 6: the medicine took you out, and she got up and left. 1469 01:17:15,960 --> 01:17:18,120 Speaker 2: Why would she leave while you could see her leave? 1470 01:17:22,840 --> 01:17:29,479 Speaker 1: You are not helping this man. Yeah, man, I thought 1471 01:17:29,520 --> 01:17:29,960 Speaker 1: that was just. 1472 01:17:30,680 --> 01:17:31,600 Speaker 2: She gotta face it. 1473 01:17:34,720 --> 01:17:37,880 Speaker 1: There's never a good time. That that that's that's it's 1474 01:17:38,000 --> 01:17:39,160 Speaker 1: just never a good time. 1475 01:17:39,479 --> 01:17:39,679 Speaker 4: Yeah. 1476 01:17:41,800 --> 01:17:44,320 Speaker 2: When I was young, man, I was taking this girl change. 1477 01:17:44,360 --> 01:17:46,240 Speaker 7: I couldn't find the number. 1478 01:17:46,360 --> 01:17:46,679 Speaker 4: Change. 1479 01:17:46,760 --> 01:17:48,880 Speaker 1: She changed the number. She changed the number. 1480 01:17:50,479 --> 01:17:54,519 Speaker 2: But the house was nasty. She had a baby and 1481 01:17:54,680 --> 01:17:57,840 Speaker 2: a baby. The baby was dirty and. 1482 01:17:59,640 --> 01:17:59,920 Speaker 7: Baby. 1483 01:18:00,040 --> 01:18:01,839 Speaker 2: The house was nasty. 1484 01:18:02,040 --> 01:18:04,800 Speaker 10: And they had a dog. 1485 01:18:05,000 --> 01:18:06,840 Speaker 2: That dog was nasty. 1486 01:18:07,520 --> 01:18:07,920 Speaker 10: Smell. 1487 01:18:09,760 --> 01:18:12,599 Speaker 6: It was food that it were plates in the sink. 1488 01:18:13,640 --> 01:18:16,679 Speaker 6: I was looking around like you didn't know I was coming. 1489 01:18:17,320 --> 01:18:21,200 Speaker 6: You know, it's something in a draw, throw some stuff 1490 01:18:21,360 --> 01:18:25,400 Speaker 6: behind the sofa. It was closed all over the couch. 1491 01:18:26,360 --> 01:18:29,519 Speaker 6: And then she went in the bedroom. Man, the bedroom 1492 01:18:29,640 --> 01:18:30,280 Speaker 6: was nasty. 1493 01:18:30,880 --> 01:18:32,720 Speaker 10: Wasn't no clean towels and washing. 1494 01:18:34,640 --> 01:18:38,840 Speaker 2: Man, if you went in the bathroom to use the bathroom, 1495 01:18:38,920 --> 01:18:39,760 Speaker 2: I said, this is it. 1496 01:18:40,840 --> 01:18:41,240 Speaker 1: You're out. 1497 01:18:41,880 --> 01:18:45,639 Speaker 2: When and got in my seventy two Chevy with the dinner. 1498 01:18:45,439 --> 01:18:49,840 Speaker 11: In the back, we'll have more of the Steve Harvey 1499 01:18:49,920 --> 01:18:52,599 Speaker 11: Morning Show, This ignorant show right after. 1500 01:18:52,520 --> 01:18:55,679 Speaker 1: This you're listening, took the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1501 01:19:00,000 --> 01:19:03,479 Speaker 11: He lottery winner Adam Lopez spent his one point seven 1502 01:19:03,560 --> 01:19:08,040 Speaker 11: million dollars scratch off winnings really fast. Lopez had seventeen 1503 01:19:08,120 --> 01:19:12,320 Speaker 11: dollars in his account. Before winning, he bought new Range 1504 01:19:12,360 --> 01:19:14,920 Speaker 11: Rovers for him and his mom, as well as a 1505 01:19:14,960 --> 01:19:19,960 Speaker 11: family trip to Barbados. During the marathon of spend, spending 1506 01:19:20,080 --> 01:19:23,240 Speaker 11: and non stop partying for the last three months, then 1507 01:19:23,360 --> 01:19:29,080 Speaker 11: Lopez found himself hospitalized with the bi bilateral pulmonary embolism 1508 01:19:29,400 --> 01:19:32,479 Speaker 11: after getting a blood clot in his leg that moved 1509 01:19:32,520 --> 01:19:36,200 Speaker 11: to his lungs. Lopez admits now that quote, I left 1510 01:19:36,320 --> 01:19:40,360 Speaker 11: my job and never should have done that, adding I 1511 01:19:40,520 --> 01:19:43,719 Speaker 11: lost the structure to my life and day to day living. 1512 01:19:43,880 --> 01:19:46,519 Speaker 11: It was a complete disconnect from the life I was living. 1513 01:19:47,080 --> 01:19:50,280 Speaker 11: Luckily though, he is recovering, but he won the money 1514 01:19:50,280 --> 01:19:51,040 Speaker 11: to his job. 1515 01:19:53,800 --> 01:19:59,320 Speaker 6: When he's got that blood clock down in clot, that's STD. 1516 01:19:59,560 --> 01:20:04,920 Speaker 6: That blood cloud, you call it a blood cloud if you. 1517 01:20:05,000 --> 01:20:05,360 Speaker 10: Want to. 1518 01:20:06,840 --> 01:20:11,040 Speaker 6: How forward party? I know he party so hard. They 1519 01:20:11,160 --> 01:20:13,280 Speaker 6: told him Penicilla is not for. 1520 01:20:13,439 --> 01:20:13,880 Speaker 2: You, sir. 1521 01:20:16,400 --> 01:20:21,800 Speaker 1: Three months straight he was Yeah, one point seven meal 1522 01:20:22,080 --> 01:20:25,560 Speaker 1: ninety is gone, is gone. I think he was like 1523 01:20:25,640 --> 01:20:32,599 Speaker 1: a construction in the UK more. He was spending fast. Yeah, Wow, 1524 01:20:32,600 --> 01:20:36,040 Speaker 1: I want to get in that range rope. Yeah, get 1525 01:20:36,160 --> 01:20:37,040 Speaker 1: on the range. 1526 01:20:37,800 --> 01:20:40,880 Speaker 11: All right, guys coming up around it? Would you rather 1527 01:20:41,240 --> 01:20:44,679 Speaker 11: right after this? You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1528 01:20:49,479 --> 01:20:53,120 Speaker 11: Hey everyone, quick health question. Even though you're still thriving, 1529 01:20:53,280 --> 01:20:56,479 Speaker 11: still loving, still connecting, did you know your immune system 1530 01:20:56,600 --> 01:20:59,840 Speaker 11: weakens with age. That's where vaccines come in. They helped 1531 01:21:00,040 --> 01:21:02,920 Speaker 11: train and strengthen your immune response to fight off certain 1532 01:21:03,000 --> 01:21:07,599 Speaker 11: respiratory illnesses like flu new Macaco, pneumonia, RSV, and COVID 1533 01:21:07,760 --> 01:21:11,160 Speaker 11: nineteen this fall, ask your doctor which vaccines you need 1534 01:21:11,360 --> 01:21:15,439 Speaker 11: and visit vaccisis dot com that's vaexsist dot com to 1535 01:21:15,520 --> 01:21:20,000 Speaker 11: schedule one or more of vaccines sponsored by Pfizer. It's 1536 01:21:20,040 --> 01:21:22,720 Speaker 11: time now for a round of would you rather? Would 1537 01:21:22,760 --> 01:21:26,080 Speaker 11: you rather only be able to ride a scooter everywhere? 1538 01:21:26,400 --> 01:21:29,640 Speaker 11: Or would you rather only be able to roller skate everywhere? 1539 01:21:30,280 --> 01:21:30,400 Speaker 4: Oh? 1540 01:21:30,479 --> 01:21:31,280 Speaker 2: Give me that scooter? 1541 01:21:31,680 --> 01:21:32,880 Speaker 4: Scooter? Really? 1542 01:21:33,320 --> 01:21:33,559 Speaker 6: Yeah? 1543 01:21:33,960 --> 01:21:35,719 Speaker 2: Roll the skater? Crazy? 1544 01:21:37,160 --> 01:21:41,000 Speaker 1: I mean, well, the scooter you can get off and walk? 1545 01:21:41,080 --> 01:21:44,840 Speaker 1: I guess yeah, wear a helmet? Uh huh yeah, okay, 1546 01:21:45,040 --> 01:21:45,360 Speaker 1: all right? 1547 01:21:45,760 --> 01:21:48,439 Speaker 11: Would you rather never have met your best friend or 1548 01:21:48,560 --> 01:21:51,479 Speaker 11: never fall in love with your first love? B? 1549 01:21:52,360 --> 01:21:55,160 Speaker 1: You should never fall fallen in love with your first love? 1550 01:21:55,240 --> 01:21:55,400 Speaker 4: Why? 1551 01:21:58,280 --> 01:21:58,479 Speaker 2: Yeah? 1552 01:22:00,280 --> 01:22:05,080 Speaker 1: He said he was eighty six love thirty man. You 1553 01:22:05,160 --> 01:22:07,400 Speaker 1: were eight years old when you fell in loved. Yeah, 1554 01:22:07,479 --> 01:22:08,200 Speaker 1: I love Joy. 1555 01:22:08,320 --> 01:22:10,439 Speaker 9: But then Joyce started big dating my best friend ra 1556 01:22:10,479 --> 01:22:12,599 Speaker 9: Sean the same day I thought that one. 1557 01:22:13,640 --> 01:22:17,599 Speaker 1: You were eight boys. She love joy style. 1558 01:22:18,000 --> 01:22:18,760 Speaker 2: I love Joy. 1559 01:22:18,960 --> 01:22:21,760 Speaker 6: Yeah, so you had that long you had that little 1560 01:22:21,800 --> 01:22:25,800 Speaker 6: black curly hair bag here? Yeah yeah, yeah, Now she 1561 01:22:25,920 --> 01:22:28,080 Speaker 6: said you Now she'll know she made the right to see. 1562 01:22:36,560 --> 01:22:36,920 Speaker 4: All right? 1563 01:22:37,439 --> 01:22:41,240 Speaker 2: Would you rather I knew I was right? 1564 01:22:44,760 --> 01:22:48,920 Speaker 11: Would you rather eat only candy corn Steve's favorite or 1565 01:22:49,200 --> 01:22:52,320 Speaker 11: Reese's peanut butter cups for the whole month of October 1566 01:22:52,600 --> 01:22:53,839 Speaker 11: as we head into Halloween? 1567 01:22:54,760 --> 01:22:58,439 Speaker 1: Oh no, let me take the candy corn grease. Yeah, yeah, 1568 01:22:59,000 --> 01:23:00,320 Speaker 1: but you love candy, Lauren. 1569 01:23:00,920 --> 01:23:03,439 Speaker 2: If you ain't gonna be get that out your teeth though, yet, 1570 01:23:03,479 --> 01:23:04,439 Speaker 2: it's so much sugar. 1571 01:23:04,520 --> 01:23:08,000 Speaker 11: It's nothing but orange and white sugar the whole month 1572 01:23:08,040 --> 01:23:08,679 Speaker 11: of October. 1573 01:23:09,320 --> 01:23:12,120 Speaker 1: You couldn't be toothless. Yeah, and I'm. 1574 01:23:11,960 --> 01:23:14,360 Speaker 2: Pretty sure that corn candy don't taste like it. 1575 01:23:14,479 --> 01:23:18,519 Speaker 1: Used to, Just like my twinkies, just like my twin kys. 1576 01:23:18,880 --> 01:23:19,240 Speaker 2: All right? 1577 01:23:19,920 --> 01:23:23,120 Speaker 11: Would you rather host a Halloween party or would you 1578 01:23:23,240 --> 01:23:25,280 Speaker 11: rather host a Thanksgiving dinner? 1579 01:23:26,240 --> 01:23:26,400 Speaker 2: Oh? 1580 01:23:26,600 --> 01:23:32,120 Speaker 1: Be Thanksgiving dinner you're hosting? Yeah, okay, I don't do that. 1581 01:23:32,560 --> 01:23:37,599 Speaker 1: Colloween don't do what do you have grandkids get the Halloween? 1582 01:23:37,880 --> 01:23:40,639 Speaker 1: Come on, hey, I'm not the Paupaul for Halloween. That's 1583 01:23:40,680 --> 01:23:43,160 Speaker 1: not merely. 1584 01:23:43,560 --> 01:23:45,240 Speaker 2: Because you come around there corner like a vampire. 1585 01:23:45,240 --> 01:23:45,920 Speaker 1: I'm gonna kick one. 1586 01:23:45,840 --> 01:23:46,320 Speaker 2: Of them kids. 1587 01:23:51,080 --> 01:23:54,760 Speaker 11: They're gonna startle you, junior, Right, I know what like 1588 01:23:54,760 --> 01:23:56,280 Speaker 11: when you was working person, I know that. 1589 01:23:59,120 --> 01:23:59,400 Speaker 4: Steve. 1590 01:24:00,120 --> 01:24:02,519 Speaker 6: Yeah, well, I've told y'all, ain't no more parties at 1591 01:24:02,560 --> 01:24:06,559 Speaker 6: the Harvey. Ain't nobody coming on you really ain't putting 1592 01:24:06,560 --> 01:24:11,920 Speaker 6: no mask on coming up there? Hell, no id at 1593 01:24:11,960 --> 01:24:13,800 Speaker 6: the gate, and everybody. 1594 01:24:14,520 --> 01:24:17,000 Speaker 2: Ten feet apart. Don't nobody touch nobody. 1595 01:24:17,680 --> 01:24:21,879 Speaker 1: This is you and the kids for children. 1596 01:24:22,040 --> 01:24:25,720 Speaker 6: Like I said, id stay ten feet away from each other. 1597 01:24:26,439 --> 01:24:27,840 Speaker 6: Don't nobody touch nothing. 1598 01:24:28,200 --> 01:24:28,920 Speaker 1: That's crazy. 1599 01:24:29,320 --> 01:24:32,559 Speaker 17: We'll be bringing the punch bowl around to you. That's 1600 01:24:32,640 --> 01:24:34,960 Speaker 17: would you rather for today? Coming up at forty nine 1601 01:24:35,000 --> 01:24:37,360 Speaker 17: minutes after the hour, it's our list break of the 1602 01:24:37,439 --> 01:24:39,200 Speaker 17: day and we'll close out the show with the one 1603 01:24:39,280 --> 01:24:43,080 Speaker 17: and only Steve Harvey right after this. You're listening to 1604 01:24:43,240 --> 01:24:44,800 Speaker 17: the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1605 01:24:49,040 --> 01:24:51,479 Speaker 9: If you're a homeowner, you know it took years of saving, 1606 01:24:51,640 --> 01:24:53,920 Speaker 9: planning and hard work to get in the doors. Didn't 1607 01:24:53,920 --> 01:24:56,240 Speaker 9: make that house a home. Now, all that effort has 1608 01:24:56,280 --> 01:24:58,479 Speaker 9: built something hugely valuable equity. 1609 01:24:58,720 --> 01:25:00,640 Speaker 1: It's the portion of your home you truly on that 1610 01:25:00,720 --> 01:25:02,240 Speaker 1: can be tapped the fun. What's next? 1611 01:25:02,360 --> 01:25:04,439 Speaker 9: And Rocket Mortgage is here to help you turn your 1612 01:25:04,479 --> 01:25:08,200 Speaker 9: home equity into cash. 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Junior's 1622 01:25:36,160 --> 01:25:40,439 Speaker 6: question to me was unc how do you measure success? 1623 01:25:41,720 --> 01:25:44,080 Speaker 6: And I thought that was a great question because what 1624 01:25:44,240 --> 01:25:46,559 Speaker 6: a lot of people do is they make the mistake 1625 01:25:46,680 --> 01:25:51,240 Speaker 6: of measuring their success up against others. There's a saying 1626 01:25:51,320 --> 01:25:56,280 Speaker 6: that says comparison is the greatest thief of joy. If 1627 01:25:56,360 --> 01:26:01,280 Speaker 6: you want to feel badly, just start comparing you. It's 1628 01:26:01,479 --> 01:26:07,640 Speaker 6: somebody somewhere always doing better than you, or appearing to 1629 01:26:07,800 --> 01:26:13,680 Speaker 6: do better than you, or claiming to do better than you, 1630 01:26:14,760 --> 01:26:19,920 Speaker 6: or fronting to be doing better than you. You don't 1631 01:26:20,080 --> 01:26:23,080 Speaker 6: really know what's going on in people's lives because they 1632 01:26:23,080 --> 01:26:24,679 Speaker 6: don't let you see behind the curtain. 1633 01:26:25,479 --> 01:26:27,679 Speaker 2: They got an Instagram account where they post. 1634 01:26:27,520 --> 01:26:32,479 Speaker 6: The absolute best polls and they absolute best outfit, and 1635 01:26:32,600 --> 01:26:35,240 Speaker 6: you sitting up here going every time I see them, 1636 01:26:35,360 --> 01:26:38,559 Speaker 6: they this, and theate that. That's the part they want 1637 01:26:38,640 --> 01:26:42,520 Speaker 6: you to see. Stop comparing yourself to other people. Comparison 1638 01:26:42,640 --> 01:26:45,760 Speaker 6: is the greatest thief of joy. If you want to 1639 01:26:45,880 --> 01:26:51,559 Speaker 6: truly measure your success, I'll tell you something else. Don't 1640 01:26:51,680 --> 01:26:56,040 Speaker 6: look at your success and base it on how. 1641 01:26:55,240 --> 01:26:58,439 Speaker 2: Close you are to your goals. Don't use that as 1642 01:26:58,479 --> 01:26:59,519 Speaker 2: a measure of success. 1643 01:27:00,320 --> 01:27:04,800 Speaker 6: Don't use as a measure of success to look at 1644 01:27:05,000 --> 01:27:11,200 Speaker 6: all you've accomplished in hopes of accomplishing more. Here's the 1645 01:27:11,320 --> 01:27:15,000 Speaker 6: way to really measure your success. Take a look at 1646 01:27:15,080 --> 01:27:19,439 Speaker 6: where you are right now and compare it to where 1647 01:27:19,479 --> 01:27:24,800 Speaker 6: you came from. There's your measurement for success. And if 1648 01:27:24,880 --> 01:27:27,719 Speaker 6: that don't brighten up your date and make you feel better, 1649 01:27:28,360 --> 01:27:32,200 Speaker 6: something's wrong. Because as far away as you may be 1650 01:27:32,360 --> 01:27:35,839 Speaker 6: from your goal and your aspiration and your desired amount 1651 01:27:36,920 --> 01:27:41,600 Speaker 6: or achievement as far away as you are, have you 1652 01:27:41,760 --> 01:27:45,800 Speaker 6: ever really thought about how far you've come? Have you 1653 01:27:45,960 --> 01:27:49,240 Speaker 6: ever sat down and just said, man, I remember when 1654 01:27:50,720 --> 01:27:54,400 Speaker 6: I remember when I was complaining the other day and 1655 01:27:54,520 --> 01:27:58,880 Speaker 6: I had to remind myself of a quote because I 1656 01:27:59,000 --> 01:28:04,439 Speaker 6: was just I was just swamp. I was just I 1657 01:28:04,640 --> 01:28:08,360 Speaker 6: just felt the weight of the world. I was just 1658 01:28:08,520 --> 01:28:11,040 Speaker 6: felt like, man, it was really getting to be a lot. 1659 01:28:12,160 --> 01:28:15,479 Speaker 6: And for a brief moment I registered a complaint. And 1660 01:28:15,600 --> 01:28:18,240 Speaker 6: then I remember the quote that I've said a hundred times. 1661 01:28:19,200 --> 01:28:23,200 Speaker 6: You can't complain about what all is on your plate 1662 01:28:24,080 --> 01:28:28,200 Speaker 6: when your whole gold was to eat. Remember that, Steve, 1663 01:28:29,360 --> 01:28:31,680 Speaker 6: Remember man, when you just wanted to be able to 1664 01:28:31,760 --> 01:28:34,840 Speaker 6: pull your chair to the table with everybody else and 1665 01:28:35,000 --> 01:28:38,360 Speaker 6: just get down, just be able to feast. Well, now 1666 01:28:38,400 --> 01:28:41,880 Speaker 6: you at the table. You've earned your seat at the table, 1667 01:28:42,520 --> 01:28:44,960 Speaker 6: and now you're looking at all this on your complaint, 1668 01:28:45,280 --> 01:28:49,320 Speaker 6: on your table, and you complaining. Na, Man, you can't 1669 01:28:49,320 --> 01:28:51,400 Speaker 6: complain about what all is on your plate when your 1670 01:28:51,479 --> 01:28:53,760 Speaker 6: whole gold was to eat. You just wanted to eat. 1671 01:28:54,040 --> 01:28:57,000 Speaker 6: Now you have an abundance to eat. Now you complaining? Man, 1672 01:28:57,120 --> 01:29:02,960 Speaker 6: Stop Stop remember where you row, where you from. See 1673 01:29:03,000 --> 01:29:06,280 Speaker 6: you know what really keeps me grounded. I constantly remind 1674 01:29:06,360 --> 01:29:10,479 Speaker 6: myself that I was homeless. I constantly remind myself that 1675 01:29:10,640 --> 01:29:14,360 Speaker 6: I wasn't the one getting picked. I remind myself of 1676 01:29:14,520 --> 01:29:17,919 Speaker 6: all the people who wrote me off. I remind myself 1677 01:29:18,000 --> 01:29:21,200 Speaker 6: of flunking out of college. I remind myself of the 1678 01:29:21,320 --> 01:29:24,879 Speaker 6: lady telling me You'll never amount to anything. I remind 1679 01:29:25,080 --> 01:29:29,439 Speaker 6: myself and not to be hateful to them, but to 1680 01:29:29,600 --> 01:29:33,400 Speaker 6: remember how far I've come from. That's what it's for. 1681 01:29:34,439 --> 01:29:37,800 Speaker 6: I've learned so many valuable lessons in life, and the 1682 01:29:37,920 --> 01:29:41,200 Speaker 6: best one I learned recently. Here's the best thing I 1683 01:29:41,360 --> 01:29:47,240 Speaker 6: learned recently. I don't walk away to teach nobody a lesson. 1684 01:29:47,960 --> 01:29:51,919 Speaker 6: I walk away because I done learned mine. See that's 1685 01:29:51,960 --> 01:29:55,880 Speaker 6: a whole nother world. I'm walking away because I done 1686 01:29:56,000 --> 01:29:59,839 Speaker 6: learn my lesson. Man, I'm not I would rather adjust 1687 01:30:00,120 --> 01:30:05,240 Speaker 6: my life to live without you than to adjust the 1688 01:30:05,439 --> 01:30:08,280 Speaker 6: boundaries that you have set for me. That I confine 1689 01:30:08,360 --> 01:30:11,840 Speaker 6: in those boundaries or disrespect you have for me, Man, 1690 01:30:11,920 --> 01:30:14,759 Speaker 6: miss me, with all that I'm not fitting them, shrink 1691 01:30:14,920 --> 01:30:19,000 Speaker 6: myself down no more for nobody to fit in your 1692 01:30:19,240 --> 01:30:22,040 Speaker 6: he okay category or he a nice guy? 1693 01:30:22,840 --> 01:30:23,000 Speaker 7: Yo. 1694 01:30:23,200 --> 01:30:31,120 Speaker 6: Man, Hey look, I'm a good person. But because you're 1695 01:30:31,120 --> 01:30:33,800 Speaker 6: a good person, don't mean you have to be a 1696 01:30:33,920 --> 01:30:37,000 Speaker 6: nice guy all the time. That don't make no sense 1697 01:30:37,000 --> 01:30:39,880 Speaker 6: because people gonna take advantage of that. Just be a 1698 01:30:39,960 --> 01:30:42,000 Speaker 6: good person. But being a good person don't mean you 1699 01:30:42,080 --> 01:30:44,400 Speaker 6: have to be a nice guy. Nice guys comply with 1700 01:30:44,479 --> 01:30:47,280 Speaker 6: everything everybody want. That ain't how you live your life. 1701 01:30:47,760 --> 01:30:50,840 Speaker 6: You gotta tell people no. You gotta protect your peace. 1702 01:30:51,840 --> 01:30:54,160 Speaker 6: You gotta get yourself in a place and realize, hey man, 1703 01:30:54,200 --> 01:30:57,120 Speaker 6: I'm peaceful over here. You're not coming here interrupting my peace. 1704 01:30:58,439 --> 01:31:00,519 Speaker 6: I got a text from a guy to day, a 1705 01:31:00,720 --> 01:31:04,360 Speaker 6: text asked me for fifty thousand dollars in a text, 1706 01:31:06,960 --> 01:31:08,040 Speaker 6: just a text. 1707 01:31:09,320 --> 01:31:11,880 Speaker 2: And just say, hey man, I'm in a tight the 1708 01:31:12,040 --> 01:31:13,720 Speaker 2: other day, I'll tell you another one. 1709 01:31:14,080 --> 01:31:17,240 Speaker 6: This is not bragging. A guy who we had pitched 1710 01:31:17,280 --> 01:31:22,240 Speaker 6: this concept to and for him to join in for 1711 01:31:22,400 --> 01:31:26,280 Speaker 6: this concept we had created it. It was a lot 1712 01:31:26,400 --> 01:31:27,320 Speaker 6: of money to get in. 1713 01:31:28,520 --> 01:31:29,320 Speaker 7: We go to dinner. 1714 01:31:29,439 --> 01:31:32,519 Speaker 6: He's smoking a cigar. He blows cigar, smoking my face 1715 01:31:32,560 --> 01:31:34,960 Speaker 6: and say, Steve Harvey, I know all you want is 1716 01:31:35,040 --> 01:31:38,479 Speaker 6: my money, and I'm looking at him. I'm like, hold on, bro, 1717 01:31:39,800 --> 01:31:42,120 Speaker 6: we put a business proposition in for you. You're not 1718 01:31:42,200 --> 01:31:44,839 Speaker 6: handing this money to me. He's gonna blow some cigars 1719 01:31:44,920 --> 01:31:46,800 Speaker 6: smoking my face and then come talking about I know 1720 01:31:46,920 --> 01:31:50,120 Speaker 6: all you want is my money. You must think I'm crazy, 1721 01:31:50,320 --> 01:31:54,559 Speaker 6: you must think I'm a new kind of stupid man. Please, hey, y'all, 1722 01:31:54,640 --> 01:31:57,040 Speaker 6: have a great day today. Listen to me, talk to 1723 01:31:57,160 --> 01:32:00,000 Speaker 6: God today. He would absolutely love to hear from your. 1724 01:32:00,320 --> 01:32:02,160 Speaker 1: Contest and purchase necessary voidware. 1725 01:32:02,240 --> 01:32:05,719 Speaker 11: Prohibited Participants must be legal US residents at least eighteen 1726 01:32:05,800 --> 01:32:07,679 Speaker 11: years old, unless otherwise stated. 1727 01:32:07,760 --> 01:32:11,840 Speaker 1: For complete contest rules, visit Steve HARVEYFM dot com. You're 1728 01:32:11,880 --> 01:32:14,360 Speaker 1: listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.