WEBVTT - The Great Resignation 0:00:00.600 --> 0:00:06.600 From Hollywood. Thank you for listening to us with a 0:00:06.760 --> 0:00:11.480 Ryan Seacrest. Thanks for listening to us on the I 0:00:11.560 --> 0:00:15.880 Heart Radio apps, streaming on satellite nationwide, wherever you might be. 0:00:17.000 --> 0:00:19.439 You know, each morning, the alarm goes off, and I 0:00:19.440 --> 0:00:24.120 brushed my tongue, get in the shower, mm hm, put 0:00:24.160 --> 0:00:27.720 the stuff in my hair, throw something on. This time 0:00:27.720 --> 0:00:32.240 of year, it's very loose. Yeah, roll in, sit in 0:00:32.240 --> 0:00:34.920 front of the microphone, and I often wonder what will 0:00:34.960 --> 0:00:37.559 we do today, like what are we gonna talk about? Right? 0:00:37.600 --> 0:00:41.839 And it just usually comes together somehow, not always perfect, 0:00:41.920 --> 0:00:43.479 but somehow it comes together right, And all of a 0:00:43.520 --> 0:00:51.760 sudden it's ten o'clock. I didn't see this conversation happening today, ever, John, 0:00:51.760 --> 0:00:54.760 you just told me that her friend of hers about 0:00:54.800 --> 0:00:59.080 my age or younger than me. My friend not more 0:00:59.200 --> 0:01:03.720 my age, she's too. Okay, So are we that different 0:01:03.760 --> 0:01:06.000 in age? You and I? I mean we're like a 0:01:06.040 --> 0:01:12.840 decade apart. I think more your friends thirty two dating 0:01:12.840 --> 0:01:16.200 is seventy year old. Yes, okay. Now, I didn't see 0:01:16.200 --> 0:01:17.920 this as a conversation we would have today about one. 0:01:18.720 --> 0:01:21.600 So that's not the problem because whatever. He's actually also 0:01:21.760 --> 0:01:24.280 very active seventy. You wouldn't guess he was seventy. He 0:01:24.319 --> 0:01:27.080 looks great, he you know, and we're in the middle 0:01:27.080 --> 0:01:30.399 of a pandemic. Do what you gotta do. You know. 0:01:31.240 --> 0:01:35.880 The problem is now they're talking about she's talking about 0:01:36.000 --> 0:01:42.240 having a baby with him, and now I'm in a pickle. Well, 0:01:42.280 --> 0:01:48.840 what's your pick your issue? It's not my issue, but 0:01:48.960 --> 0:01:52.600 I feel as though I should say something, because no, 0:01:52.680 --> 0:01:57.960 I shouldn't owe the say something. What I mean, think 0:01:58.040 --> 0:02:03.040 this through. You're saying he's not going to be around 0:02:03.080 --> 0:02:05.640 for all the life of that child growing up. I 0:02:05.720 --> 0:02:08.160 just think if you look at statistics, if you look 0:02:08.200 --> 0:02:10.639 at statistics, and I also think too a little bit 0:02:10.639 --> 0:02:13.080 has to do with we're in this pandemic. And it 0:02:13.200 --> 0:02:15.000 was just it's kind of a fun thing. I didn't 0:02:15.000 --> 0:02:17.239 think it was anything serious, but now it's turned into 0:02:17.240 --> 0:02:19.400 something super serious. Who wants to have the baby? Is 0:02:19.400 --> 0:02:21.720 it mutual or is one pushing more than the other? 0:02:23.320 --> 0:02:25.280 She wants to have a baby, and she I mean, 0:02:25.400 --> 0:02:27.280 as she talked to you about the fact that she 0:02:27.360 --> 0:02:31.640 realizes that in fifty years, statistics say he's not gonna 0:02:31.639 --> 0:02:35.680 be around. No, I don't think there's anything for you 0:02:35.760 --> 0:02:38.720 to do here because I there's not I think about 0:02:38.720 --> 0:02:41.880 this all the time. What do you think about I 0:02:41.919 --> 0:02:44.280 think about this all the time. I'm forty seven. I 0:02:44.280 --> 0:02:49.000 haven't had a baby different than seven, but I think 0:02:49.040 --> 0:02:51.480 about it differently. I think about let's say I have 0:02:51.520 --> 0:02:55.600 a kid when I'm fifty five. All right, odds are 0:02:56.360 --> 0:03:04.320 at some point daddy's going nightnight right before at night night, 0:03:05.000 --> 0:03:07.359 and the kid may be a teenager, or a kid 0:03:07.440 --> 0:03:09.400 may be in college, or the kid may be just dirty. 0:03:09.520 --> 0:03:12.280 But I got go night night right. Don't think about 0:03:12.320 --> 0:03:15.080 that too. At some point I'm gonna be I'm gonna 0:03:15.080 --> 0:03:17.120 be so old to have my first child that I'm 0:03:17.120 --> 0:03:20.000 not gonna see their forties birthday. By then, you're gonna 0:03:20.040 --> 0:03:24.840 be sleeping in some chamber and you're going to live here. 0:03:25.160 --> 0:03:26.840 I don't know if I am. She's not a wrong. 0:03:27.240 --> 0:03:28.760 I don't want to be in a chamber. I don't 0:03:28.760 --> 0:03:30.280 even know if I want to lift around in twenty 0:03:32.760 --> 0:03:39.560 night needs to be one of our best calendar. It's 0:03:42.000 --> 0:03:44.800 what if someone told you not to have kids with 0:03:44.800 --> 0:03:47.800 your boyfriend. How would you like that? It's not her boyfriend. 0:03:49.040 --> 0:03:54.160 I thought it was. They're dating, But I mean nothing 0:03:54.160 --> 0:03:57.040 that matters tomato tomato or whatever. But yeah, he's with us. 0:03:59.120 --> 0:04:02.240 It's still conversation that is not for you know those 0:04:02.280 --> 0:04:04.200 things that are off limits. This is one of them. 0:04:04.280 --> 0:04:06.480 M Yeah, you just that's where I put my nose. 0:04:06.520 --> 0:04:09.720 I put my nose where it doesn't belong. You know, No, 0:04:09.840 --> 0:04:13.800 we do know that this is your many many with you, Caitlyn. 0:04:13.840 --> 0:04:18.200 Good morning. How you doing good? Hi, I'm doing good. Good. 0:04:18.279 --> 0:04:22.679 So tell me your fiance. What what's going with your fiance? Yeah, 0:04:22.960 --> 0:04:25.880 so you guys have heard about like the great resignation thing, right, 0:04:26.120 --> 0:04:28.400 so like everybody's quitting their job. It's like they're not 0:04:28.440 --> 0:04:33.360 being treated for really or if you're not getting paid enough. Well, 0:04:33.440 --> 0:04:36.240 my fiance is talking about quitting his job, and like, 0:04:36.240 --> 0:04:37.760 I know, he doesn't make a lot. I make more 0:04:37.800 --> 0:04:40.000 than him, and he says it's not a big deal, 0:04:40.080 --> 0:04:42.279 but I know it seems to like bug him sometimes. 0:04:43.000 --> 0:04:45.919 Um but and I also know like his boss is 0:04:45.960 --> 0:04:48.919 hard on him. But I just think him quitting is 0:04:49.080 --> 0:04:56.080 kind of dramatic. Like a lot of these moves are dramatic, 0:04:56.120 --> 0:04:59.800 and I think that's the power in them. Yeah, but 0:05:00.200 --> 0:05:02.359 my problem is like with with him quitting, like he 0:05:02.360 --> 0:05:04.320 doesn't have anything else lined up to even go to. 0:05:05.200 --> 0:05:07.599 And then the problem is is it like we're getting 0:05:07.600 --> 0:05:11.640 married soon, and I just I'm concerned because, like like 0:05:11.680 --> 0:05:14.159 I said, like I'm we're getting married, So what will 0:05:14.200 --> 0:05:18.240 he do if he does resign? I don't know. That's 0:05:18.279 --> 0:05:20.440 the thing, Like that's why I'm concerned. And he doesn't 0:05:20.440 --> 0:05:22.919 have to he doesn't He doesn't have a plan to 0:05:23.360 --> 0:05:27.760 pay the bills. Not really. Yeah, he's like, I'll just 0:05:27.880 --> 0:05:31.440 find something. You need to set some sort of I 0:05:31.480 --> 0:05:33.719 don't know, like a goal, you know, like okay, fine, 0:05:33.760 --> 0:05:35.400 like I want you to be happy if you're miserable 0:05:35.400 --> 0:05:38.200 at your job. I don't want you like hating life 0:05:38.240 --> 0:05:41.440 every day. So but we also have to be responsible, right, yes, 0:05:41.560 --> 0:05:43.440 but like give him three months, you know, like you 0:05:43.480 --> 0:05:45.919 have to really find a job within two months or 0:05:45.960 --> 0:05:49.080 three months because this is our life. I mean, I 0:05:49.400 --> 0:05:51.880 can't just go be an influencer. You know. It's like, hey, 0:05:52.279 --> 0:05:54.279 here I am. And if he wants to do that 0:05:54.320 --> 0:05:57.840 and succeed and more, Right, but it doesn't just happen 0:05:57.960 --> 0:06:01.400 like that. You need a plan, don't you. Yeah, you do, well, 0:06:01.440 --> 0:06:04.480 I think there's no Look, you're you're getting married, You're 0:06:04.480 --> 0:06:07.280 gonna be together. This is a partnership. Then you need 0:06:07.320 --> 0:06:10.000 to have an honest conversation about your concern of his 0:06:11.200 --> 0:06:16.200 next step and what that responsibility looks like. Right. Yeah, 0:06:16.360 --> 0:06:18.359 Like I said, we've just we've He's talked about this 0:06:18.360 --> 0:06:21.360 for the past month, but he's now bringing it up 0:06:21.360 --> 0:06:23.479 more often. I just keep trying to be like, hey, like, 0:06:23.600 --> 0:06:25.120 what are you gonna do though, and he just doesn't 0:06:25.120 --> 0:06:27.560 seem to respond to that. He needs He's like, oh, 0:06:27.600 --> 0:06:32.800 I'll just quit and figure it out. Mm hmm. He 0:06:32.839 --> 0:06:38.200 needs to line something up at least. Yeah. Yeah, I 0:06:38.240 --> 0:06:40.039 can talk to him. Sinning will tell him he needs 0:06:40.040 --> 0:06:43.839 a ligne something up before he quit. Yeah, they have 0:06:43.920 --> 0:06:47.919 like job recruiters. But if it makes you this uncomfortable, 0:06:47.960 --> 0:06:49.840 maybe you need to postpone getting married. You need to 0:06:50.000 --> 0:06:52.960 see this through. Can't relax. You don't have to go 0:06:53.040 --> 0:06:57.280 that far. Wow, all right, Well, I'll be over here 0:06:57.320 --> 0:07:03.200 in the corner with my cold call post on the wedding. Yeah, 0:07:03.240 --> 0:07:06.839 I feel like that might be more drastic. Well, I 0:07:06.839 --> 0:07:09.160 wouldn't take this lightly. I think you've got to continue 0:07:09.160 --> 0:07:11.200 to approach this and look it right in the eye. 0:07:11.480 --> 0:07:16.360 All right, good luck and congratulations. I think I don't 0:07:16.440 --> 0:07:19.520 understand how right if you if you're gonna quit, how 0:07:19.560 --> 0:07:24.240 are you gonna pay your bills? Yeah? You just but 0:07:24.320 --> 0:07:27.440 I mean some people can can do that because but 0:07:27.520 --> 0:07:30.360 we're also planners. Like I'm such a planner. I have 0:07:32.160 --> 0:07:38.440 maybe on air with Ryan Seacrest. Sometimes I will. You're 0:07:38.440 --> 0:07:40.720 gonna get to this story about Instagram and should we 0:07:40.720 --> 0:07:45.000 make it more casual again Secony, But sometimes I will. 0:07:45.040 --> 0:07:47.400 And I'm just thinking back to actually New York City. 0:07:47.440 --> 0:07:49.800 I was in Times Square for the New Year's Eve 0:07:49.880 --> 0:07:54.400 show and it was the day before New Year's Eve, 0:07:55.240 --> 0:08:00.560 and I saw an individual like with their legs crossed 0:08:00.960 --> 0:08:04.720 and these huge heeled boots and they were rolling their 0:08:04.760 --> 0:08:08.600 head around in the air and it looked bizarre. And 0:08:08.640 --> 0:08:10.760 then I realized they were doing a photo shoot for 0:08:10.800 --> 0:08:14.680 themselves for Instagram. Right. It looks like in the wild 0:08:14.720 --> 0:08:16.440 when you see it in isolation, you don't see the 0:08:16.480 --> 0:08:20.880 person significant other filming them or shooting them. You're like, 0:08:20.960 --> 0:08:23.800 what are they rolling their head about and why are 0:08:23.800 --> 0:08:28.320 they doing that with their legs? And it's for the Instagram. 0:08:28.320 --> 0:08:32.360 It's Instagramma Bowlt. So you're saying, there's this new concept, 0:08:32.400 --> 0:08:36.480 should we make it more casual only because it's kind 0:08:36.480 --> 0:08:39.880 of naturally already happening at the start of the pandemic. 0:08:39.920 --> 0:08:42.360 I think people were going out weigh less, and so 0:08:42.600 --> 0:08:46.400 it shifted a little bit from these extravagant type of 0:08:46.440 --> 0:08:50.720 photos to just more casual ones, just more in the moment. 0:08:51.280 --> 0:08:53.640 And it actually was a trend that started in TikTok 0:08:53.679 --> 0:08:56.200 because TikTok, when you think about it, people are not 0:08:57.000 --> 0:08:59.280 going above and beyond when they're making these videos. They're 0:08:59.280 --> 0:09:02.360 just kind of like in their normal clothes, making fun 0:09:02.400 --> 0:09:06.280 of themselves almost. It's not like they're a little bit 0:09:06.320 --> 0:09:09.360 you know. So it's kind of spilling into Instagram with 0:09:09.440 --> 0:09:12.079 people now doing like the photo dumps of a vacation 0:09:12.800 --> 0:09:14.840 whis don't get we started on the name photo dump 0:09:15.160 --> 0:09:17.040 bug me. I don't know why. I know I can't 0:09:17.040 --> 0:09:21.360 do it either. A photo dump is where like let's 0:09:21.360 --> 0:09:23.880 say I went to like arrowhead over, what's a name 0:09:23.920 --> 0:09:28.000 photo dump? A name photo dump? Then you say a name, Oh, 0:09:28.040 --> 0:09:30.080 I don't like the name. Yeah, I don't like the name. 0:09:30.160 --> 0:09:34.200 For the name photo dump basically is what people have 0:09:34.320 --> 0:09:37.400 dubbed it. And so I just don't like the word 0:09:37.480 --> 0:09:40.400 dump in your caption. Just um, and then people are 0:09:40.400 --> 0:09:42.720 posting blurry photos things like that. So I was kind 0:09:42.720 --> 0:09:44.200 of just thinking about this for a second. And you 0:09:44.200 --> 0:09:46.280 know who really does the perfect balance of this on 0:09:46.320 --> 0:09:51.960 their I G. Is you Ryan? Like No, I mean 0:09:52.040 --> 0:09:55.560 balance of of of nice pictures that are like, you 0:09:55.600 --> 0:09:57.640 know you look good and you know you're posting it 0:09:57.640 --> 0:09:59.240 because you feel good and you know you look up. 0:09:59.280 --> 0:10:01.120 But then you also put pictures of like you with 0:10:01.200 --> 0:10:03.320 a big old plate of French fries and like a 0:10:03.320 --> 0:10:05.959 burger and like fighting into it, and you don't really 0:10:06.320 --> 0:10:09.960 care what you look like per se. Well, at some 0:10:10.000 --> 0:10:12.839 point you realize you can't care. If you do care, 0:10:12.880 --> 0:10:15.240 you'll never post something. So you kind of just get 0:10:15.280 --> 0:10:17.280 to that, you get to that place in your life. 0:10:17.480 --> 0:10:20.000 I will just I'm gonna let you in behind a 0:10:20.080 --> 0:10:23.760 curtain here. I think I'm gonna redirect my Instagram a 0:10:23.800 --> 0:10:27.600 little bit more to do and I know that it's oversaturated, 0:10:27.640 --> 0:10:29.400 but I'm gonna do it because it's what I love. 0:10:29.840 --> 0:10:33.640 I'm gonna go more of the provisioning and food route. 0:10:33.960 --> 0:10:36.319 I'm gonna go more of when it gets to be spring, 0:10:36.320 --> 0:10:38.080 I'm going to show you the art of the perfect 0:10:38.080 --> 0:10:42.600 picnic basket. I started boarding. I don't know if you've 0:10:42.600 --> 0:10:45.160 seen any of my boards, but I got a big 0:10:45.200 --> 0:10:48.920 which could reboard cheese board for Christmas, and I'm starting 0:10:48.920 --> 0:10:51.439 to just serve meals off the board. And it can 0:10:51.480 --> 0:10:53.560 be cheese, it can be cold cuts, it could be 0:10:53.600 --> 0:10:57.800 a warm meal. So just a little preview here, you're 0:10:57.840 --> 0:10:59.800 probably gonna start seeing a lot more of these cal 0:11:00.040 --> 0:11:05.320 usual shots in the provision the food world tease, uh. 0:11:05.360 --> 0:11:07.840 And also my farming. I'm you know, I'm getting into farming, 0:11:07.920 --> 0:11:09.880 so you'll see a little bit of that. But Casual, 0:11:09.960 --> 0:11:11.560 I like it because it means you don't have to 0:11:11.600 --> 0:11:14.360 do anything to set it up and do it, which 0:11:14.400 --> 0:11:18.600 is really what I'm about. And it captures your pure joy. 0:11:18.720 --> 0:11:20.600 I think when you post these pictures of you eating, 0:11:21.040 --> 0:11:23.800 that is your true self and you're just so happy 0:11:23.800 --> 0:11:26.880 in them, and you see it through the pictures. Like 0:11:27.280 --> 0:11:29.480 burger You thought I ordered that burger. No, no, no, 0:11:29.520 --> 0:11:31.439 I just posed for the picture with the burger and 0:11:31.440 --> 0:11:35.640 then I had a chicken sandwich. All right, it's fat. 0:11:35.720 --> 0:11:38.920 Thank you, though, sister, Casual, I g I'm down. So 0:11:39.320 --> 0:11:43.439 there are apps now that will help you find a 0:11:43.440 --> 0:11:46.600 good friend, a new friend, Tony, what's the one bf 0:11:46.720 --> 0:11:50.160 BfN bumble BFF. But I feel like, if you need 0:11:50.240 --> 0:11:52.480 new friends, why don't you let I can set you 0:11:52.559 --> 0:11:54.920 up on some friends. No, I don't need new friends. 0:11:55.559 --> 0:12:01.840 I was reading something and curious to know what I 0:12:01.840 --> 0:12:03.400 thought I was asking about. Hint, did I ask you? 0:12:03.440 --> 0:12:07.560 Does Hine have a friend platform? You asked me? What 0:12:07.880 --> 0:12:11.280 is the app people can find friends on? Oh? Well, 0:12:11.400 --> 0:12:13.479 someone was talking about it and it got me curious. 0:12:13.760 --> 0:12:18.920 I am not on that. I'm not opposed to it. 0:12:19.160 --> 0:12:24.000 I actually feel more comfortable looking for friends then girlfriends, 0:12:24.040 --> 0:12:26.880 like a significant others on an app like friends is, 0:12:26.920 --> 0:12:29.800 and it's like a lower risk. Yeah. I feel like 0:12:29.800 --> 0:12:32.240 even bringing up this like friends search, and so I 0:12:32.320 --> 0:12:34.640 just I wanted to offer my services. I do, what 0:12:34.679 --> 0:12:37.280 are yours? I do think you and my boyfriend could 0:12:37.320 --> 0:12:42.200 be friends? Oh no, No, we had an immediate connection 0:12:43.520 --> 0:12:47.760 when I saw him, except you pull. It was backstage 0:12:47.800 --> 0:12:50.080 at jingle Ball and as I was just saying, I 0:12:50.120 --> 0:12:51.600 was trying to get to know the guy. You know, 0:12:51.640 --> 0:12:54.440 tiny want to capture the moment and ran us into 0:12:54.480 --> 0:12:57.080 the Entertainment Tonight set, and I thought, well, this is 0:12:57.080 --> 0:12:59.160 not what it's supposed to happen. That's not how it's 0:12:59.160 --> 0:13:05.120 supposed to be. So here are the top three. A 0:13:05.320 --> 0:13:11.440 letto Do you know a letto like Jared a Letto? No, 0:13:11.480 --> 0:13:12.920 I don't know what stands for, but it's if you 0:13:12.960 --> 0:13:17.600 want someone to work out with. These are workout buddies, friends, cute, 0:13:17.240 --> 0:13:20.120 a meek. If you're traveling solo, you can meet people 0:13:20.160 --> 0:13:23.840 wherever you go out in a in the world to 0:13:23.920 --> 0:13:27.520 me too, but it happens like when I was younger 0:13:27.559 --> 0:13:30.400 and I backpack to Europe. I met so many people 0:13:30.880 --> 0:13:35.920 by staying in hostiles. Kidding me what, you backpacked through 0:13:35.960 --> 0:13:39.640 Europe for a month. Yes, that's like a dream when 0:13:39.679 --> 0:13:43.760 you're a kid. Well, I was like twenty to find 0:13:43.800 --> 0:13:45.920 still a dream. You're out on your own, you're in Europe, 0:13:45.920 --> 0:13:48.280 you have nothing to do, and you don't know where 0:13:48.280 --> 0:13:51.400 you're gonna go in hostiles and backpacks and it's it 0:13:51.559 --> 0:13:53.440 loves a fantasy of mine and all you do is 0:13:53.520 --> 0:13:56.000 meet people like it's you had to write to like 0:13:56.200 --> 0:13:58.520 your friends and like the hostels and then they tell 0:13:58.559 --> 0:14:00.160 you where to go see and like it's just like 0:14:00.200 --> 0:14:02.959 you know, piggybacks. Did you ever think your life is 0:14:03.000 --> 0:14:07.679 in danger? Um? Funny you say that looking back. Now, Yes, 0:14:07.960 --> 0:14:10.520 many times I got into random cars with people like 0:14:10.720 --> 0:14:12.560 who know what I mean? Like I would never do that. 0:14:12.640 --> 0:14:14.680 Now it just goes to show funny. I say that 0:14:14.679 --> 0:14:17.520 it's the greatest hazard ever of backpacking by yourself through 0:14:17.720 --> 0:14:22.000 another continent. Yeah it was. It was me and a girlfriend. 0:14:22.000 --> 0:14:24.960 But yeah to twenty something year old from America. Hill 0:14:25.000 --> 0:14:27.360 then use to cautiously. We should make sure you know 0:14:27.400 --> 0:14:29.640 what you what you want. And then there's another one 0:14:29.640 --> 0:14:33.400 called meet my dog, Tanya meet other dog lovers who 0:14:33.400 --> 0:14:35.760 are down for play dates and walks together. I think 0:14:36.600 --> 0:14:40.000 and report. Wait, so that's like my new thing. I'm 0:14:40.040 --> 0:14:42.040 trying to find puppy play dates for Sonny because I 0:14:42.080 --> 0:14:46.320 really want to socialize her. You're welcome. My brother in 0:14:46.400 --> 0:14:49.600 Lawge just got a puppy they should meet. He got 0:14:49.600 --> 0:14:51.320 a French bulldog, though, so don't it might be too 0:14:51.320 --> 0:14:53.680 aggressive for Sunny, But no, no, no no, Sunny. She's such 0:14:53.720 --> 0:14:56.640 an independent woman. She will she plays with the biggest 0:14:56.640 --> 0:15:00.880 of them. All. Right, let's set it up. Yeah, today's 0:15:01.200 --> 0:15:05.360 quote opportunities are like sunrise. If you wait too long, 0:15:05.560 --> 0:15:11.320 you miss them. On air with Ryan Seacrest, Tany is 0:15:11.360 --> 0:15:14.000 in for Sisty with the headlines right now. The Biden 0:15:14.000 --> 0:15:18.080 administration is considering once again extending the freeze on federal 0:15:18.080 --> 0:15:21.920 student loan payments and interest for roughly forty million Americans 0:15:21.960 --> 0:15:25.240 before it expires at the beginning of May. Monthly payments 0:15:25.240 --> 0:15:28.440 and interests have been suspended on most student loans since 0:15:28.520 --> 0:15:33.400 March of Now that COVID numbers are spiraling downward, traffic 0:15:33.600 --> 0:15:36.960 is bad again, but experts say that congestion patterns are 0:15:37.040 --> 0:15:39.800 different than they used to be. Morning and evening rush 0:15:39.800 --> 0:15:42.080 hours are a little bit lower, but in the middle 0:15:42.120 --> 0:15:45.320 of the day the congestion levels are actually higher. Los 0:15:45.400 --> 0:15:48.920 Angeles commuters spent up to seventy five hours stuck in 0:15:49.040 --> 0:15:53.800 traffic per year. And Pete Davidson is going to space. 0:15:54.120 --> 0:15:57.160 The SNL Star will be among six other people traveling 0:15:57.200 --> 0:16:00.000 in the Blue Origin space capsule created by Jeff Baze 0:16:00.040 --> 0:16:03.360 Those The flight is scheduled to launch next week from 0:16:03.600 --> 0:16:11.560 Texas on air with Ryan Seacres. Hello, who's this? This 0:16:11.720 --> 0:16:15.560 is Tony, Tony, how can we help you? A Dolan Ryan. 0:16:16.440 --> 0:16:20.480 Weird situation happened. So my wife and I live in 0:16:20.560 --> 0:16:23.480 a little condo community where the condos are grouped together 0:16:23.480 --> 0:16:26.360 by two, so everyone shares a wall with another condo, 0:16:26.640 --> 0:16:30.880 as any other condo community would be. UM. The other day, 0:16:31.000 --> 0:16:33.400 my neighbor that shares the wall with us came over 0:16:33.640 --> 0:16:36.840 and started talking about how they had to install a 0:16:36.880 --> 0:16:40.440 wall treatment in their bedroom to make the walls soundproof 0:16:40.480 --> 0:16:44.640 because I apparently store too loud You're snoring cuts through 0:16:45.040 --> 0:16:50.920 the peet rock. This is what my neighbor is is saying. UM. 0:16:51.000 --> 0:16:54.359 And she's also saying that it was two thousand dollars 0:16:54.440 --> 0:16:57.600 to do that treatment and asked me not only to 0:16:57.680 --> 0:17:02.480 pay for her soundproofing, but also asking me to install 0:17:02.600 --> 0:17:05.879 the same treatment in my home, which I think is 0:17:05.920 --> 0:17:09.399 absolutely ridiculous. But what do you guys thinking, Do you 0:17:09.400 --> 0:17:12.600 think I should be responsible for this? No, this sounds absurd. 0:17:13.119 --> 0:17:16.040 Are you sure that she has to hear your snoring 0:17:16.160 --> 0:17:24.800 all night? Maybe? My wife? Is it truly? That is 0:17:24.800 --> 0:17:30.480 that legit? Is it that bombastic? I mean, my wife 0:17:30.520 --> 0:17:32.640 says it's a bit of a problem, But I don't 0:17:32.640 --> 0:17:34.639 think it's that bad that it would go through a wall. 0:17:36.080 --> 0:17:38.720 I believe it could. I mean too, I can hear. 0:17:38.840 --> 0:17:42.359 I can hear literally exactly what they're watching next door 0:17:42.400 --> 0:17:46.280 from this room. That's what right now? I can't because 0:17:46.280 --> 0:17:48.040 I have my headphones in and it's morning. It's usually 0:17:48.119 --> 0:17:50.200 nighttime when I hear their t give it away just started. 0:17:51.680 --> 0:17:53.399 You Look, how long are you gonna be there? You 0:17:53.600 --> 0:17:58.280 obviously owned the condo, so then think about that. I mean, yeah, 0:17:58.320 --> 0:18:02.000 it's for this first see noble future. And we're friendliesh 0:18:02.160 --> 0:18:05.760 with her, but you know we're not friends, like we've 0:18:05.800 --> 0:18:08.760 never hung out, so sort of out of line, you 0:18:08.800 --> 0:18:12.919 know what I mean? Bro? What about a nasal strip? 0:18:13.000 --> 0:18:15.240 Tony was just telling me about these earlier, that she 0:18:15.359 --> 0:18:20.920 puts one across her nose and they widen the holes 0:18:21.119 --> 0:18:23.919 of her nostrils so that she creates more air so 0:18:24.000 --> 0:18:27.040 it doesn't make the snoring sound. It's a great idea. 0:18:27.800 --> 0:18:29.919 I need to try that. I've been procrastinating. I mean, 0:18:29.920 --> 0:18:32.800 I would try that before you build a soundproof wall 0:18:32.920 --> 0:18:35.400 in your path. Good point. I think that's a good 0:18:36.119 --> 0:18:41.159 avenue to explore. I agree, I agree. Let's post it 0:18:41.200 --> 0:18:45.000 on that man. All right, there's something. There's always a worker, right, 0:18:45.600 --> 0:18:47.240 thank you, And look like you said, the good news 0:18:47.320 --> 0:18:51.119 is you own property. Ethan is on the line of this, Hey, Ethan, 0:18:51.160 --> 0:18:53.560 we are going to get into a second date update 0:18:53.600 --> 0:18:56.480 with you. How are you from? Hey, what's up? I'm 0:18:56.520 --> 0:18:59.320 pretty good? Thanks? How are you guys? Good man? Thank you. 0:18:59.800 --> 0:19:03.680 So I'm curious that you went out with this girl 0:19:03.720 --> 0:19:07.639 and her name is Laura and you guys, in your 0:19:07.640 --> 0:19:11.440 mind you hit it off and now she's not responding. Yeah, 0:19:11.560 --> 0:19:15.679 we went out last week. Um been a few days. Uh. 0:19:15.720 --> 0:19:18.359 I felt like the day went great. And are you 0:19:18.880 --> 0:19:20.880 worried about her or are you wanting to go out 0:19:20.880 --> 0:19:24.560 with her? Like what's in your mind? Yeah, a little bit, 0:19:24.600 --> 0:19:26.800 because like I felt like on the day, like I 0:19:26.800 --> 0:19:29.359 don't know, we had like a really good time and 0:19:29.720 --> 0:19:33.000 we had actually like planned on going back out. And 0:19:33.080 --> 0:19:34.879 that's like the part that I guess is kind of 0:19:34.880 --> 0:19:39.840 confusing to me. You know, it's interesting, you think, because 0:19:39.840 --> 0:19:45.000 I think we've all been in this situation where someone 0:19:45.119 --> 0:19:49.399 doesn't respond to a text, and then I follow up 0:19:49.400 --> 0:19:53.040 with another one, and then they don't respond to that one, 0:19:53.040 --> 0:19:55.199 and you do one more because you doubt what you 0:19:55.240 --> 0:19:58.720 said in the middle one. Yeah you're one away from 0:19:58.720 --> 0:20:03.600 looking nuts. Yeah, eats you up, And either they never 0:20:03.680 --> 0:20:06.000 respond or finally they do and you feel like an 0:20:06.000 --> 0:20:10.760 idiot for sending too many. So it's a slippery slow, 0:20:10.880 --> 0:20:13.960 but you really want us to call her and try 0:20:13.960 --> 0:20:15.960 and find you. Have you gotten to the point where 0:20:15.960 --> 0:20:20.639 you've sent two or three outgoings with no response? Yeah? 0:20:20.800 --> 0:20:24.240 The last text I sent was the upside down smiley 0:20:24.240 --> 0:20:26.399 faced emoji, which I don't know if you guys know 0:20:26.440 --> 0:20:28.040 what that one is. But I felt like that one 0:20:28.160 --> 0:20:30.200 was kind of like, hey, I'm still here, like what's 0:20:30.200 --> 0:20:33.600 going on? And yeah, I just I don't know what 0:20:33.720 --> 0:20:37.359 the difference between a little desperation and interest, right, It's 0:20:37.440 --> 0:20:42.840 kind of like sometimes they're very fine raiser thing. It's 0:20:42.840 --> 0:20:45.919 like she's going to react to this. It's like you 0:20:45.960 --> 0:20:49.360 want to show detail and thoughtfulness and thinking and listening 0:20:49.400 --> 0:20:54.480 and interest, but you don't want to look desperate, right, 0:20:56.000 --> 0:20:58.920 And we've we've screwed that up. We've screwed that up. 0:20:59.000 --> 0:21:05.479 I say we because I wanted to. All Right, Ethan, 0:21:06.720 --> 0:21:09.320 you went out with Laura, you all had a good day, 0:21:09.720 --> 0:21:13.399 and then she has stopped texting back. You want to 0:21:13.440 --> 0:21:16.359 go out again. You want to know if anything's okay 0:21:16.359 --> 0:21:19.320 with her. Well, fortunately she agreed to come on. She 0:21:19.359 --> 0:21:21.480 does not know you're with us, So hold on one second, 0:21:21.480 --> 0:21:24.400 be very quiet. I'm gonna talk to her now, Okay, Okay, 0:21:24.480 --> 0:21:31.479 hold on, Hi Laura, Hi, it's right in Seacrest. How 0:21:31.480 --> 0:21:36.000 are you. I'm doing well, doing well, great, Well, it's 0:21:36.040 --> 0:21:39.879 nice to meet you. I've got Sissony and Tan you 0:21:40.000 --> 0:21:44.960 with me here. Hi, good morning, Hi, good morning. We're 0:21:45.000 --> 0:21:47.080 calling about I think they told you this on hold. 0:21:47.119 --> 0:21:55.600 We're calling about a guy named Ethan. Did that sound familiar? Yeah? 0:21:55.920 --> 0:22:02.879 Uh yeah, yeah. What happened? And how is that? I 0:22:02.920 --> 0:22:05.159 don't I don't know. We had a happy hour and 0:22:05.200 --> 0:22:10.399 apps and talked and that was it. But um, all right, 0:22:10.440 --> 0:22:14.440 I'm just curious obviously we're trying to understand a little bit. 0:22:15.240 --> 0:22:20.080 Uh what why weren't there sparks or why no connection? 0:22:20.119 --> 0:22:29.320 You think she's not for me? I'm really I'm really good. Um. 0:22:29.440 --> 0:22:33.240 I just feel like, yeah, I'm done to it. And 0:22:33.280 --> 0:22:37.320 have you told him that? No? I mean, I don't 0:22:37.320 --> 0:22:40.840 think I can't figure it out. It's not my job. 0:22:40.880 --> 0:22:43.919 I think that's the thing to put myself in the 0:22:43.960 --> 0:22:46.760 situation for a second, Like that's the thing on either side, 0:22:46.760 --> 0:22:48.200 if it or you, or if it or a Tony, 0:22:48.240 --> 0:22:51.240 if or me or Tobb's not hearing and not knowing 0:22:51.440 --> 0:22:56.360 back gives you this anxiety, this anxious feeling of not 0:22:56.480 --> 0:22:59.360 knowing did I do something? Is she okay? All those things. 0:22:59.359 --> 0:23:01.919 It seems like it's just easier, maybe more considerate, I 0:23:01.920 --> 0:23:05.760 think too, to say, hey, man, grateful for the time. Um, 0:23:05.800 --> 0:23:08.240 but I think it's I don't like the words it's 0:23:08.240 --> 0:23:10.000 not gonna work out because I've heard that before and 0:23:10.000 --> 0:23:12.160 they hurt. So there's gotta be a better way to say, 0:23:12.200 --> 0:23:15.119 basically that, yeah, but you don't want a ghost. You know, 0:23:15.240 --> 0:23:17.280