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Speaker 1: First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys.

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Speaker 2: Online at Advocates law dot com.

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Speaker 1: Gerroto is on the phone today for a first day

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Speaker 1: follow up and he's getting ghosted by a woman named August.

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Speaker 1: So in a second we'll call her and see if

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Speaker 1: she'll tell us why she's ghosting him, but first we

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Speaker 1: have to hear about the date. Gerroto, Sorry, you're getting ghosted, man.

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Speaker 1: How long has it been since you talked to August?

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Speaker 3: Yeah? No, thank you. It's been three weeks now and

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Speaker 3: I haven't heard anything. I've text her four times.

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Speaker 1: Oh it's like a long time.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Sorry, that doesn't feel good.

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Speaker 4: I actually got along. I got one of them in

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Speaker 4: front of me. I wrote, Hey, I don't want to

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Speaker 4: bother you, but I'll be honest. I really liked you

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Speaker 4: and would love to see you again. And if you don't,

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Speaker 4: I accept that, but could you please just let me know.

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Speaker 4: Oh and I've still gotten nothing, And yeah.

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Speaker 3: I feel like that's a I feel like that's cool, right.

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Speaker 1: You know, you give her the opportunity to be like, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I don't want to see you again, no hard feelings. Well,

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Speaker 1: you're just here, straightforward you need we'll tell us about

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Speaker 1: the date.

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Speaker 3: The date was like the best date of my life.

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Speaker 5: I feel.

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Speaker 3: So Auguston told me that she has always wanted to

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Speaker 3: go horseback, right, She just kind of like brought it

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Speaker 3: up in conversation once, and so I booked a horse

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Speaker 3: ride for for us to go on, and it included

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Speaker 3: romantic wine tasting, and I like, guys, when I saw

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Speaker 3: her on the horse, she was like movie beautiful, you

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Speaker 3: know yeah, And I'm playing I'm bummed because I feel

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Speaker 3: like she's the type of girl that I could really

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Speaker 3: see being with, like long term. And I'm just confused

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Speaker 3: because after the date, like we spent the whole weekend together.

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Speaker 3: She stayed over the night. The next day, we hung

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Speaker 3: out at home all day, snuggling on the couch.

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Speaker 5: We watched the Netflix order dinner.

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Speaker 3: Together again, you know, like it was very romantic, and

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Speaker 3: in the morning she left and she still seemed into me.

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Speaker 3: So I don't know what's going on.

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Speaker 1: How did you How did you guys leave it? When

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Speaker 1: she left, was She's like, Okay, we'll do this again soon, or.

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Speaker 3: Just like I was getting all positive vibes, Like I

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Speaker 3: keep replaying that to be like did it same awkward

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Speaker 3: or something like that, like I don't, I don't know,

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Speaker 3: I don't think so. I mean, okay, my theory is

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Speaker 3: she she might be ghosting me because during the day

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Speaker 3: when she was staying over, one of my friends stopped

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Speaker 3: by and.

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Speaker 4: He came in for a while and he was like,

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Speaker 4: you know, talking to both of us school.

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Speaker 3: And he was telling her stories. And one of the

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Speaker 3: stories he told her was about this summer where I

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Speaker 3: documented every fart that I had and I put it

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Speaker 3: on YouTube as a partumentary and.

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Speaker 1: Put it on YouTube. I mean, I might go too,

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Speaker 1: not gonna lie. You documented every fart for a whole year?

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Speaker 3: Why for a year? For a whole year, I documented

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Speaker 3: every part and then yeah, I put it together a

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Speaker 3: document her.

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Speaker 1: I love it, man, I want to watch it. I

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Speaker 1: bet it's good.

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Speaker 5: It's like you think you like it.

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Speaker 4: It's better than it sounds.

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Speaker 3: And I did take it down a while ago, because.

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Speaker 5: All right it I didn't.

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Speaker 3: I didn't want to, like genuinely.

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Speaker 5: Like I feel like enough people told me I had

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Speaker 5: to take it down, but I was.

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Speaker 1: Like, yeah, wow, okay, no, well, I mean maybe that

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Speaker 1: is the reason she's gusting you.

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Speaker 5: Maybe grows out like that's the only thing I can

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Speaker 5: think of.

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Speaker 1: Gerardo is on the phone and he's getting ghosted by

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Speaker 1: a woman named August. So we're about to call her

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Speaker 1: and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him

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Speaker 1: and maybe get him a second date. But first, Gerardo,

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Speaker 1: why don't you break down your situation for us again

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Speaker 1: real quick?

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Speaker 3: Yeah? Yeah, Basically, I went on an amazing day with

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Speaker 3: over and it all seemed good and she left, but

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Speaker 3: she she's has been completely ghosting me. And the only

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Speaker 3: reason I can think is because my buddy came over

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Speaker 3: when she was spending the weekend with me, and he

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Speaker 3: told her about my part umentary in your documentary, because

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Speaker 3: the parts that I did for a year, and he

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Speaker 3: brought that up, and that's the only thing I can think.

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Speaker 4: Might be grossed out, but that documentary is very good.

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Speaker 1: How long was that documentary? Like, I feel like I

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Speaker 1: kind of need to know.

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Speaker 3: It's like it's it's forty four minutes.

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Speaker 1: That's sweet.

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Speaker 3: It looks like a breakdown in the part, like like

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Speaker 3: there's an intro.

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Speaker 5: I like document like it's like a legit documentary.

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Speaker 1: That's cool, man, I really do want to see this.

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Speaker 1: You guys can exchange numbers out after the show. I'm

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Speaker 1: imagining like David Attenbro Yeah reading, Yeah, impressive, man, I

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Speaker 1: mean so validated. If you were going on a day

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Speaker 1: be like, yeah, I would think it was very very

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Speaker 1: very extraordinary that you did that. Extraordinary.

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Speaker 3: All right, here we go.

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Speaker 1: I'm in the dollar punt of me right now. Okay,

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Speaker 1: all right, all right, here we go. Hello, Hi, man,

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Speaker 1: I speak to August. Please Hello, Hello, this is she.

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Speaker 1: Oh hey, how are you. This is a radio show

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Speaker 1: called The Jebel Show. Hi, August, I'm Nina.

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Speaker 2: Hi am Victoria.

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Speaker 1: Oh Mynam's jewel.

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Speaker 2: Oh hi, hi everybody? Hy hey?

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Speaker 1: You ever listened to the show before?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Actually I have.

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Speaker 1: Oh cool, okay, well, thank you very much. And we're

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Speaker 1: calling you today because I don't know if you've heard

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Speaker 1: the first date follow up segment before. That's where if

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Speaker 1: you get ghosted by somebody, they can email us to

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Speaker 1: call you and ask why you're ghosting them. And we

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Speaker 1: got an email from somebody about you. Oh oh, you

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Speaker 1: know who might email us to find out why you're

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Speaker 1: ghosting him?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I have I have an idea.

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Speaker 1: Who do you think it is?

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Speaker 2: I went on a date with this guy named Gerardo.

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Speaker 1: Yes it is Gerardo. Okay, he says, it's been three

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Speaker 1: weeks since you guys talked. He thought it was like

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Speaker 1: the best date of his life, and you guys spent

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Speaker 1: the whole weekend together, and he doesn't know why you're

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Speaker 1: ghosting and would you mind telling us?

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Speaker 2: I mean, yeah, I'll tell you. I So we spent

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Speaker 2: was great and everything was cool, and then he uh like,

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Speaker 2: wake up and he's hanging out watching TV in his

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Speaker 2: like this big T shirt and just his bundies. And

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Speaker 2: And then and then that was how he stayed the

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Speaker 1: T shirt and undies. Is it likendies or boxers?

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Speaker 2: Like undies? Like they smaller than mine, like oh tidy

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Speaker 2: whitey that they weren't I guess they weren't white. I

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Speaker 1: So big T shirt and nundies T.

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Speaker 2: Shirt like porky pig in it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, so.

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Speaker 3: He was.

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Speaker 2: And just it was just like I was hanging out

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Speaker 2: it was just like, uh, you know, I mean, I

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Speaker 2: want to hang out with my you know, my sexy

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Speaker 2: at all. It was just that we're going to braid

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Speaker 2: I felt like I was hanging out with a girlfriend

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Speaker 2: because like some some dude came over to visit him

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Speaker 1: He said his friend came over and he was just

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Speaker 2: Yeah, like that was how he I mean, like I

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Speaker 2: I don't know. I think he owns pants. He wore

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Speaker 2: pants on the date, but then no pants.

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Speaker 1: Well thank you, okay, thank you for telling us. Appreciate that. Also,

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Speaker 1: I need to let you know that Gerardo is on

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Speaker 1: the phone and wants to talk to you. I don't

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Speaker 1: know what he's wearing right now, though, Okay.

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Speaker 5: Okay, yeah, I have to say I'm just kind of

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Speaker 5: relieved that it's not about the fartumentary. But at the

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Speaker 5: same time, I'm like, yeah, this is crazy to me.

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Speaker 5: This is a non issue, Like are you serious? Like

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Speaker 5: I also thought that we were having a sexy weekend,

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Speaker 5: Like that's those are my that's my.

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Speaker 2: Company, the sexy weekends. Yeah, okay, got it.

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Speaker 5: You know that's just like my lazy Boys Saturdays. And

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Speaker 5: my previous girlfriends have thought that was super sexyday.

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Speaker 2: Did they?

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Speaker 1: Did they?

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Speaker 2: Did they? Okay? Yeah? No, Uh you're wearing you're like

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Speaker 2: you're graining ninety Like no, not sexy.

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Speaker 4: Like in romantic movies, you get in your in, your in,

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Speaker 4: your lazy.

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Speaker 5: Boy says your lazy boy Saturdays and you hang out

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Speaker 2: Like if your girlfriend is wearing your sexy T shirt,

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Speaker 2: that's sexy, not not you wearing your three XL I

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Speaker 3: It's not like I don't wear No, I wouldn't pants

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Speaker 3: all week Sometimes a guy just wants to let his

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Speaker 1: I mean I get that.

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Speaker 2: I mean your friend came over and it's still no pants,

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Speaker 2: just zero, like just porky picking it all weekend. That

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Speaker 2: was just totally cool with you, and I was just

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Speaker 2: I was so okay, it's.

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Speaker 3: My boy, like my boys know about my lazy boy saturdays.

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Speaker 3: Like that's not even.

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Speaker 5: It's never been.

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Speaker 3: An issue before.

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Speaker 5: He didn't even bring it up.

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Speaker 2: You notice that I didn't point of conversation. I thought

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Speaker 2: he thought it was weird too, But maybe not. Maybe

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Speaker 2: that's your lazy boy thing. I don't know, but.

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Speaker 1: No, Well, are you sure, August, would you like to

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Speaker 1: go on another date with Rod? Will pay for it?

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Speaker 2: I don't. I don't. I don't think so. I think

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Speaker 2: the lazy boy thing is just that's a deal breaker

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Speaker 2: for me.

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Speaker 5: What did you think of the documentary though?

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Speaker 2: Like when you heard that, no, de totally made sense

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Speaker 2: to me. I could just see you there and your

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Speaker 2: lazy boy t shirt and your lazy boy pianis having

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Speaker 2: a weekend of it. Document in parts totally sexy.

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Speaker 1: Ju Will's first date Fall